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bear_sees_the_car/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:39 PM
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Well, It may be a lot of things, but just due to statistics & proximity theory (look up Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon), they are somewhere in your circle or in the circle of people you know. For example the stereotype of a p3do is often very wrong from a regular p3do compared to people in news. They can be meek, pleasant and genuinely nice and friendly etc, because their behavior is either naturally "non-threating" due to mental delays/trauma or on purpose to have easier access to kids. Not necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:57 AM
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Idk, possible Lucky you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:51 AM
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People do not know each other that well in general until they see each other in specific situations. I'm not saying you're a bad judge of character. I'm saying even bad people are 3-dimentional enough to behave very nicely outside their "active crime hours". And they can be genuinely good towards others, yet equally cruel. It isn't like if a person is a murderer/insert-any-crime, that they aren't capable of genuine companionship or kindness at a different time. You are being defensive simply bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:00 PM
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no way most men are friends with the rapist You literally say it tho More than that, most women are also friends with a rapist Look up date rape definition. A LOT of guys brag about their conquests among buddies while describing date rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:54 AM
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The question you posed is not the opposite of this logic. As much as assuming people are bad is paranoid, assuming people are mostly good is naive. Most people aren't good, they are passive and non-confrontational in both cases when they can help and when they can harm. Your opinion on your environment is based on your lucky upringing and being sheltered, same as people with negative views experienced too much trauma for one person. If you grew up being told the sky is green, you don't question …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:37 PM
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Maybe it's true, maybe you're bad at reading people. I cannot be sure about your environment just because you said so. Same as you cannot be sure on people not being creeps just because they never did/said anything bad in your vicinity. Everyone is nice and friendly until conditions are met for them to either prove their character or for the mask to slip. Anyway, zero surprise. Men tend to always question "it cannot be that bad" because they aren't living as women, so they aren't the target for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:29 PM
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It is partially because men talk differently to men than they do to women. Or also because of the age group/location. And one important note, if people know you are "goodie two shoes" they are less likely to include you into the "locker room talk". There are a lot of reasons why you may not encounter it, which is lucky i guess... But it is just a statistical probability you know someone who is a rapist, a pedo or something along the lines. It can be a family member, it can also be a woman btw. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:53 AM
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Ironically many of them talk on themselves unprompted. Rape jokes are too normalized and rape in general isn't so legally punished as it should be. Compared to a murder, people don't exactly lie about raping someone if topic arises, they just word it in a gaslighting way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:25 AM
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Look up the definition of "date rape". The amount of men that talked to me about fucking drunk limp girls or making fun of drunk women speaking out about being SAd is crazy. Idk why men think i as a woman is someone they are ok to confide about this, but they legit brag every time. It's bizarre, among other things. It all boils down to people not fully grasping what falls under sexually assault & rape, or just being in denial about their behavior because of own delusions of desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:23 AM
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Because relationship with 12 year difference in 20-30 versus 40-50 for example is heavily about power balance and manipulation. Men that primarily go for younger women are predators and require to manipulate their partner to stay in committed relationship. Otherwise he'd be married by now to someone his age. You will eventually meet the red flags you ignore now. Also, older men can be more immature than men your age because my generation(30s) and older have a lot of specific type of men that you…
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:20 PM
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Has there been a situation where you're not interested in a man who approached you, and you tried directly telling him no? It would be harder to find a woman that didn't have this experience. Do you think there's a way for a man to get the closure he needs while ensuring the woman stays safe when the approach happens? This article talks about the solutions, but maybe you have something different? The problem in that situation is aggression to rejection. The men that ask, do not seem to want a ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/25 12:49 PM
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Lesbians don't need guys Surprise surprise it's in the name.
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:03 PM
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Milfs or older gen (35+) They know their sexual appetites due to experience in sex with partners and their own bodies 1on1 Gym and manic women also true If u cannot fish for them, u got nothing to offer in terms of communication, looks or skill. Wanting to fuck doesn't mean you can turn even the horniest woman on. THERE'S NO SHAME IN BUYING GOOD SEX TOYS while you figure out how to be socially normal ok? Work on yourself. Don't run after a hook up just because you crave a touch. It can be more d…
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:03 PM
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If she says "well, I'm going to get back to my workout" she's saying she no longer wants to talk > If she continues working out while you are talking to her, she's indirectly saying she doesn't want you to talk to her > If she puts her earbuds in while talking to you This is not indirect rejection. It is very clear rejection men UNDERSTAND in any other setting unless they approach a person they want to fuck. The fact that you have to explain it is both funny and sad as fuck. Men that need THESE …
/r/seduction10/03/24 07:04 AM
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i have healthy BMI It is outdated system, and anyways. Ot significant here. i mostly dislike Proceeds to name half of the body parts :/ Workout in gym (for the hormonal rush first, body will get better too), try pole dancing or any other dancing for being more confortable in your body. It is not just nudity issue, it is self-esteem thing and tight muscles etc, when you have hrs time relaxing unless you are completely alone. If you also cannot publicly dance like nobody’s watching, it is not a nu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 05:57 AM
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i want him to be happy Does he want you to be happy, though? He is fully aware you are having it hard and is only offering options when you finally spoke out. Stories like this sound like a man having a checklist: he got a wife-incubator, now a baby. Yet both of them are existing on their own without his support, because all he wanted is to check the box, not to actually deal with it. Same way many women want weddings, not marriage. What’s the point of a man that is playing a role of a roommate …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 02:59 PM
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Apology is sometimes nice for people to hear. It is a good way to end things for good. If u will reach out ask him for advice as well, because he may point out things you will not think of, something to improve in yourself. But, sometimes apology is just self gratification and hurts victim (because they can tell). In any case, if u are going to think of it for next 5 years, better to be done with it now while you are sober lmao (i mean trying to call him in the middle of the night drunk after ye…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 03:59 PM
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Being dominant can go fully fine with being respectful. I do not understand how a loving husband can talk to his woman like that. It is simply not a way a man respecting/loving you would talk. You should reconsider the whole marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 08:49 AM
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Lol u think we have an option? Only option is bigger iud that has no hormones (commonly known as copper iud). Women put iud because other methods can fail higher times and their men usually don’t even care about protection, let alone themselves use condoms. Aside everything else, many have protection without active sex life, just in case. All of the tablets need to be used regularly and are costly. Plan b is huge hit with hormones, which is bad. Iud is relatively safest and cheapest option. Ever…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 02:52 AM
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*if
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:38 PM
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Lmao. I know a lot of IT guys. They have Massive issues what the socializing that even many children do not have, they barely do any grooming and lack self-awareness. They tend to have really low self-esteem because they themselves believe in the stereotype, even if they do not fit above description I gave. They have money, but many of them never been to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:25 AM
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Sheesh I'm trying to explain my point by extreme example. Nobody calls guys men-children because they are having best time of their lives. It is usually applied to mentally ill 30+ jobless gamers living in mother's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:15 PM
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Dude, not being a man child maximizes chances of having sex. U need a status to bang best chicks. Man child demands to be allowed to bang hot chicks just because he exists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:08 PM
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Guys are called manchildren for being immature, not for being alone. I don't think u know the difference. Short term gratification(sex) versus long term gratification(well being). Instinct to procreate shouldn't overpower instinct to stay alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:01 PM
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If you prioritize having sex over having your shit together, you are a manchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:50 PM
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I see, thanks. If i try to do all three, i end up burning out on my vacation. Recently i stopped working full time to see, if it will help me to manage it all better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:25 AM
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How do you know you had enough therapy to allow a romantic relationship? Because in some cases you need a life long therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:21 PM
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Mae Muller has a sing called Therapist, which is basically this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:19 PM
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"Having trust issues in relationships usually means that a person isn't comfortable being vulnerable with or counting on another person," said google to me. Story of my life, i am really avoiding relying on others. "You can TRUST YOURSELF" hahha. Good one. I have mood swings as a side symptom of my thyroid issues and i cannot trust even myself. After i started to take pills for thyroid, it was such a drastic shift, the old me was one step from legit crazy, and i didnt feel crazy back then. It is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:18 PM
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Ahh i see, thanks I do feel i need to stay single for many reasons, but i also feel i may never truly be able to tell the difference due to major trust issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:46 PM
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I need sauce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:14 PM
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Haha, creatives will also drag your name through their creations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:12 PM
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It took me a moment to understand you weren't referring to covid masks😅 Could you elaborate on the categories? What do you mean by toying, as a sex toy? What exactly different in behavior? I cannot tell if im cared for or toyed with... I lack good experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:50 PM
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If you learned from bad experience, the next man will be higher quality. And then the next one. Next one may seem like a while package, everything you wanted! But now you know, next one will be even better... there is endless supply, because single people exist at any age for different reasons. Do not settle. The funny thing, the more you evolve, the better quality men will get into your life. Partially because you will grown indifferent about men as species by that time lmao. Do not let a man b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:40 PM
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Took me a long time to understand i wasn't crazy, since he wasnt actually doing anything. Just twisting my words. Now i dont trust people amd do not care if im crazy, so it was s good lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:30 PM
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Once again, i read something about me that is written about men on FDS(i am a woman, idk ok). Its really disturbing to me, but at least I may shine some light to the logic. As a kid/teen i was told im smart, with an emphasis i do not have to look better than i already do. Being smart was my go-to tag, my main characteristic. Besides, it was also with"smarter than others" meaning. It was like a status, achievement, enough to be a free pass to anything or something. Like, vip status smth. ...had t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:55 AM
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Yeah, its all the example from the past and lack of a good one. I had to be treated nice once to realise when i was treated badly, not normally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:42 AM
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Imo, the relationships you observed as a kid and your mother's behavior towards her man/men. You pick it up and use as a default. Only once you realise your patterns and how bad your parents are as adults, you can see it for what it is. Sure, how your father behaved towards women mattered too, but the issue is: female role model. Did you have a good one? And after that surely comes your lack of spine and self-esteem, to be able to accept a subpar male specimen, simply to get experience you feel …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:37 AM
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I was tested like that few times, pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:21 AM
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What about mothers, that teach pickme behaviors or are the abusers to n mental, not physical way? Women hurt their own daughters too, and are supposed to be adult, who know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:08 AM
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I wasnt referring to your story, just a shower thought or smth. I meant that people are often not objective comparing their own successes and struggles to their crushes/dates. This is why keeping a diary or reflecting on your achievements over past years can be really helpful. We tend to forget how capable we sometimes become in a short time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:01 AM
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Its a trend in russian social media and russian speaking countries, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:58 AM
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Do not forget shame, when you allow yourself something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:54 AM
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Just a tiny advice... ...You need a bigger lunch box for dat burger 😛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:53 AM
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Or the exes. If every girl he dated or tried to date is crazy, he is the problem. "You are not like the other girls"👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:52 AM
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Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:50 AM
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True, biggest choosers are beggars, waiting job taught me that well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:50 AM
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"why does he has all this stuff and i rent?" Because women spend that money on hygiene products and make up and shaving etc. Count your expenses, look at your family background and his, and relax. If you come from a broken home and he has successful rich parents and no psychological traumas, sure he owns all the important stuff by 25, and you just paid for your parents' loan and barely afforded a therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:49 AM
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True, also, First Impression about a guy in my case proved to be correct each time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:43 AM
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Reminds me of an anecdote, when woman constantly asked a guy if he loves her. The more she asked, the more he started to think about the question, if he does love her. Do not help people to see your insecurities, stop saying bad stuff about yourself, low self-esteem just like crying and being negative, isn't attractive. You can cry and be weak, but not on the first date lol, get a therapist instead of a dating app in that case. "Mae Muller -Therapist" song comes to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:40 AM
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Lmao i go to gym more times than guys with abs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:35 AM
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Communism smth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:33 AM
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I often read stuff on FDS men say and recognize the teenage me, when i was bitter, negative and generally stressed out, unsatisfied with my life. Sarcasm was always a way to release stress and show annoyance, and show off my sharp tongue(attention seeking). Brutal honesty was my inability to allow people enjoy their rose tinted glasses, i tend to put people to the ground, face reality. Sometimes it should be done to help people, but ive been doing it on a regular regardless of them asking for it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:31 AM
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Low esteemed folks label themselves ugly before society does, and therefore are desperate to get attention any way they can, just to start a convo with a female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:21 AM
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Imo, any psycho can find you, if he wants to. Having no social media will not stop it. Same as moving from a city each time you have a guy problem? Hell no, learn karate or something to feel strong inside de and do not let anything make you scared to be social irl or online. Reminds me of a song YOLO, and especially the music video, by Maroon 5 ft. Lonely Island.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:11 AM
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Reminds me of ten inch hero scene https://youtu.be/ggRR_O0ZT70 My favorite bit, they got married irl. Ahh, I need more posts like these, real bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:32 PM
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Season 2 topped it for me. Not surprised it got cancelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:48 PM
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People, who were shamed enough about being bad. On me it backfired, i ended up rebelling into a villain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:59 PM
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Well, men are the weakest sex, after all. I'm a bit sad how easily I can picture that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:50 AM
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Well, i do not believe in that the way it is sold. But just directing your thoughts from negative to positive can be of use. Its like dieting, instead of thinking "i cannot have chocolate" isnt it mentally easier to think "i will make myself a healthy dessert"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:49 AM
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Daamn, I want the suit in left down corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:09 AM
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Because it is gay to take care of yourself, boys would get suspicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:07 AM
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If he isn't outwordly handsome, then its the "nobody else will ever love me" bullshit, sprinkled with "time is ticking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:03 AM
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But the box is just my type🥺 so handsome, i can overlook the inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:01 AM
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Lock screen and wallpaper gives you two places. Also, phone cover. Given that phone is usually main tech tool nowadays, i don't care even about my PC wallpaper (but i used to pick it for hours back from n the day).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:59 AM
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I just remembered Bird man from Rick anf Morty. Maybe Bird man romanticized the nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:41 AM
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It is your body, it should be about you and what you enjoy. Symbols can mean nothing/bad stuff to us and people around, but something specific to you. Just google prison tattoos before making a commitment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:29 AM
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I used to be the sobber, now im the blocker. I recognize some in women i know irl, which is upsetting. I am not surprised Ms Sunshine is the only one without a negativve trait, because it is the cool girl men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:25 AM
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The nest meme will not be forgotten, will it😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:22 AM
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Given that crying can give you a bad skin day due to stress hormone release, this is correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:11 AM
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"wants you just a little bit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:09 AM
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"goddess vibes" =/= "nice girl" Its pretty much the opposite, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:06 AM
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I wouldnt put negative stuff like "no debt" into it You should only think of positive stuff, not reminded of debt etc Its basic stuff from law of universe and books like "secret" explain: the universe doesn't understand negative form, what you send to it, this will be attracted. Example: " i do not want debt" will be read like "i do want debt". Law of attraction, think only of things you want to have, because whatever you think of, you will become/attract. (Sorry, i was brainwashed as a kid with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:00 AM
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Ignore, say "stop talking". No amount of polite sounds to them like "no". That guy probably was stand up comic wannabe, given how much he talked. Or worse, you never know if the guy isn't mentally sane. you do not owe anyone being polite, if he keeps wasting your time for an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:49 AM
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Well, I no longer will feel pressured into dating thanks to my happily coupled or lonely whining ladies. If Charlize Theron is on a 5 year hiatus, I am fiiine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:46 AM
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I think it's easier nowadays for young girls to upgrade their looks with make up tutorials and youtube gold content on being a woman, especially after nce all the media is still about female looks. Unless guys get into pick up/red pill culture, they rarely search for ways to upgrade their look, since it is "gay" to take care of yourself and be visibly stylish. Society pushes women to be flawlessly beautiful, but men are pushed into money making. Sure, if guy looks like a potato, any girls is a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:27 AM
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I tend to see a lot of obese people being truly in narcissistic love with themselves, compared to people with no extra weight or underweight ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:21 AM
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I still like the songs, but some lines make me wanna stop them. English isnt my native language, so i do not pay attention to lyrics from the start and can still listen them on the background. Notable example that pops to mind is a song "smoke" by bobi andonov. The lyrics that pisses me off, aside lack of logic at some places, goes like this: "i could be your first babe and you could be my last". Reminds me of a certain guy i had a convo with, how it is normal for him to be a player, but his cho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:17 AM
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I use my phone wallpapers for major end goal in visual form
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:10 AM
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I wanna reccomend Jessica Jones for two strong female characters, but it doesn't fit what you asked for. Insatiable is another example of determined young woman with literal leveling up, but it's one of these shows, you either love it or hate it. Well, my tastes are very ... singular ;d
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:08 AM
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Imo, office workers get used to suits etc, so working in companies with a dress code helps with getting more grown up/less casual style. Such companies (often, law, IT) naturally located in big cities. (Just little observation after moving from a shithole to bit bigger capital city). City center, especially business center, is filled with guys in suits going to office. I love my mornings, since I live close to that area b: The guys here, at least smart ones, know that looks and acting like one o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:48 AM
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i do not find it offensive either, but it's still difficult for me not to want to split the bill etc. maybe because i'm out of touch with my femininity, so i tend to play a more masculine role in all my relationships (not romantic, but all)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:27 PM
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Ahh, yeah, i see your point. Its more of an attitude to expect being cared for. I do not feel that lesbian relationships go the same way, though. Lesbians probably are on a more equal ground, even if one is a provider, simply due to being both women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:33 PM
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Yeah, naive and kind girl, that sees the potential. Whats the problem with being a lesbian???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:28 PM
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This sub helped me realize i had no HV around growing up. Thanks to that, I am irreversibly broken along with someone I scarred for life. I can rely only on myself and despise my family. My mother is really childish and needy AF, helps me to try my best to be an independent adult. My father is a leecher and an asshole, was compared to him as a kid a lot, which got me quite obsessed about money independence. Looked at mom's and sis' relationships, learned on their example, but also didnt date pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:23 PM
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Qveen Herby for bad bitch attitude, Two Feet for self love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:05 PM
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Qveen Herby, pretty much any song. I kind of feel she is a part of the community, a lot of wording dropped in lyrics Good thing - kehlani and zedd (a must!!) Made of gold - olivia noelle Fuck apologies - jojo Rappers like iggy azalea have good girl power songs (sings - Team and Started, for example).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:39 PM
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I am surprised he has a job and doesnt live with mom. How on earth girls like these end up with such guys??? Oh wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:15 PM
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The thing is, he didnt plan on showing it either. There are a lot of things people rarely do, that they do in a certain mood. They themselves not necessary like to do it ever again or even think its a good idea to do in the first place. Just curiosity, boredom, being unable to get pleasure with normal stuff due to underlying problems like depression etc It is not necessary about porn or addiction to sex etc. Sometimes it is desire to experience things, not about the end result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:07 AM
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Somewhere in wiki was written, that it was Adam, who offered to eat the apple. Not Christian religion, obviously. I think it was quran, but im not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:02 AM
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HAHAHA savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:53 AM
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This is beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:50 AM
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If i were a man, I would try this too. At the very least, out of curiosity, "how would it feel". When i explored my sexuality as a teen, I did weird shit, so what. Also, it is my own body, and I like myself the most. Sounds like masturbation to me, or fondling own boobs. Whats the issue? Am I too depraved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:48 AM
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Based on my experience, if you are not romantically attracted to him, no amount of good qualities and similar interests and all the "fit together perfectly" aspects will make it work. If there is no attraction, it may never come. Thinking otherwise is settling for less too. This is "falling for potential" and plain delusion. If he is a catch, but you do not feel like catching and even have to force yourself, maybe it's not a catch for you. Also, as the first impressions go, time proved them to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:37 AM
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I just accepted the fact that you cannot win with guys and what they cannot stop staring at. Never cared what they do not like, though. Usually makes me want to rebel and do the exact thing, wgen I hear stuff like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:41 AM
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Thats good🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:41 PM
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Strictly professional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:45 PM
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I felt similar lately, and then my friend told about her mom getting first time married after 50 y o to someone she genuinely likes. So do not be anxious, it is a road to settling for less out of fear. Freeze your eggs, enjoy your life. There is no rush (especially if you freeze your eggs lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:43 PM
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Why does it reads like he is on drugs Good you walked out, eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:41 PM
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It was worth the time, if you did learn the lesson. All the time in the world, if the rest of your life will be free from such treatment ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:39 PM
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That's how you know, he doesnt really care you exist and you can be replaced with anyone else. He doesnt remember your birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:37 PM
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Haha, hope it works out :) Imo, changing a number is allowing guys like that to win. He can see you reacted, and reaction is all they are after. I doubt i would feel safe, if i pretty much tried to escape country each time I dealt with a stalking behavior. Their ill choices shouldn't have this much effect, do not give them so much power that you have to adjust your life to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:26 PM
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I saw some guy trying to get on with pretty much any girl in our study group. One person he quickly lost interest to just flat out screamed at him "fuck off", the first time he tried to approach her. I believe, when men do not listen, ignore, be rude and if necessary, hit balls. Because they DO NOT LISTEN, they just need you to reply, so they can proceed with the convo. What kind of convo can be there, if you do anything of the above? In modern world, it is easy to stalk anyone. As long as they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:23 PM
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Welcome, I hope you will figure it out. I feel like the desire to get back to old times is only there, when your present doesn't satisfy you in some ways. In my good days I scoff thinking about old flames, in my bad days I become emotional and needy. It is natural to think of people, who already once accepted you or made you feel good, when you maybe just need a hug from a friend and a day off. You should also consider that the good you felt was due to not knowing any better. If you knew better,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:11 PM
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This belongs on a t shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:03 AM
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Reminds me of lyrics from Nicki Minaj' Barbie Dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:02 AM
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They do not see faults in themselves, its always other people, who are wrong or who ruined something in their lives. Such guys usually have a suspicious amount of crazy exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:54 AM
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Some guys are so good at twisting the truth, you end up apologizing. good call on your part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:53 AM
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Is it a joke? It looks like a really thick sarcasm reply to the proposal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:43 AM
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I have a friend in similar situation, who managed to figure it out. Use him to learn to fake it, basically play sugarly nice until you can leave. Be the perfect girl, just like he wants to, to just get what you want. My friend plays a role, because she has 2 small kids and no job, so she tolerates a lot of shit in order to figure it slowly out, gain education for a good job and afford to move out. Its a good lesson for her, she basically deals with herself, karma lol. People like this are sent t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:40 AM
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I had a really lucky talk, all the right questions were asked to give me the huge ass shock, finding out HVM example irl (or at least close enough to think he is). I saw a serious difference between a regular guy and a grown up man, to the point that I momentally lost my feelings and to a big part, respect, for some guy I was kind of chasing for years. That's it. I just saw a person, who didnt feel like a compromise, but had all the qualities I was looking for in a man. I saw a guy I would gladl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:26 AM
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There was a reason, why it was over in the first place. If you let him in, you will eventually remember it and feel stupid you wasted your time again. On the other hand, meeting him irl may help you with closure, if you will be able to see that he didn't change whatsoever. Ignoring is the best way, imo, they have nothing to work with and convo cannot continue, but you need to commit to ignoring. This person cannot add value to your life and can only steal attention from some better people, if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:59 AM
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Husband material😌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:29 AM
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If you pay attention, you know. If you think, you know. If you pretend to not notice, then, surely, nothing was wrong before and things surprise you. But there are always ignored symptoms. A lot of people like to wear rose tinted glasses, and pick them up after someone takes them off, shows them reality and the are forced to see. It is a choice. I personally was told off, basically to not say hurtful things and lie instead, because by their own words they preferred not to see reality. After this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:45 PM
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That's why i never look down on those, who buy sex dolls. They can afford a 4k doll and take care of her better than an actual woman. They are full aware of their shortcomings in dating scene and are okay with a substitute for a human being. Surely maybe different reasons, but they are honest about their desires and do not lie to get sex. Sorry if it's left field, just popped in my head, when he talked about girls like numbers, not persons. The issue is, this guy did have sex enough times to fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:06 PM
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Honestly, when a grown up man cannot cook himself, it raises many questions for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:00 PM
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You are happy, she isn't. Jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:58 PM
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I remember the tv show about some American soldier, whose photo was used for scams so greatly, the whole studio was filled with women, who believed to have a relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:56 PM
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Its exactly what parent feels about their children. You have to let them go, not be overprotective. They have to learn themselves. Her mother is an adult, you cannot control an adult, especially the one, who doesn't consider you as someone, who may know better. "You are a kid, what do you know. Who are you to teach me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:54 PM
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Fully agree, i realised my family dynamic was wrong only when I outgrew my mom's mental level of development. A childish adult cannot be a proper parent, and an actual child isnt supposed to be a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:52 PM
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Cough cough, i sense a case of Parentifying. You cannot teach a blind man see, they have to do it themselves. My mom had to have few examples of trash guys(each worse than before) to get some logical conclusions about her ability to pick men. Nobody taught her and she herself never questioned how she treated relationships, never wanted to learn. She believed she knew it all. You cannot help, sadly. You can provide info to learn from, but because you are the child, she will not listen, she doesnt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:49 PM
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Imo, those women chose those men, and they deserve such outcome, the abandonment once it got hard. It's their lesson most of them will not learn and will repeat over on over, if they will be lucky to survive their illness. I am sure the women had all possible red flags before this. I am also sure many of them have sons, who didn't lift a finger as well, because they raised them this way. Yes, those men are trash, but those women picked it. Lets not forget that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:44 PM
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I believe this is related to family members showing their example of a relationship, normalizing things you ended up repeating. Or again, family not teaching you a lot of necessary things and skills when you grew up. I personally started to resent my family the older i get, because thanks to them I had to learn all the things on my own. I feel betrayed and let down by my family. Both genders made me early on have hate for marriage etc with their amazing examples of how not to. Surely, i have som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:31 PM
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Love the title. Deserves a separate convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:58 PM
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I hate food waste, the very least irl id make a huge scandal out of such behavior, doing my very best to shame this guy. Though im pretty sure i wouldn't even end up in a relationship wh someone, who'd have audacity to think something like this up. I hope i wouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:09 AM
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r/JillSandwich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:50 AM
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Lmao, this piece of shit would have to eat it out of trash afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:49 AM
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Recently i googled if women can still get orgasms at 80, wasnt disappointed. Also i happen to not be entirely straight, plan b is forming, if male population will prove itself hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:47 AM
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This would look nice as a sticky, really good points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:04 AM
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Rick is like dream dad, from the start. That what I adored about tv series, until it went downhill. He was so good trying his best for his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:16 PM
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Raises a question, is loyalty to wife and family should be higher than loyalty to the job? Piper was definitely HVW, though. I personally liked Cole to the end of it, but i do like damaged bad boys hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:10 PM
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Same. I like being nice to everyone, but people with hidden agendas can be both men and women, so it really took a toll on my desire to show my nice side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:06 PM
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*you are under no obligation to be nice. To anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:43 PM
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Some people are so good at ignoring that sentence, as if you said nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:38 PM
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If um not paid to be nice, idgaf if people think I'm rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah, the potential thing is huge. At the same time i realised that i expected others to fall in love with my potential, so i am taking my time off dating to turn potential into results.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:36 PM
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"if someone seems to be too good to be true, they probably are" - ishould print it out and hang on a eall. Or tattoo on my forehead. Or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:04 PM
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While i was reading it, it was partially narrated by Rick Sanchez in my head. I mean, one of Beths could totally be in a parody episode saying that. ..Ok now i want to see it If u haven't read Gone Girl, i highly suggest the book itself, even right after movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:38 AM
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I had my first period in a public place. when I asked for razor to finally shave my armpits and legs, born my mom and older sister had a hysteria over how long it has grown. I started to wear bras after guy poked me in the nipple when I was wearing a tight blouse. As an adult I helped both of them to figure out correct bra size and give advice on make up, and shrink them about their love life. Now I'm almost 30, and only now I am thinking about dating (I had sex, but never dated). I wonder why I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:43 AM
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I know, I mentioned. I wonder, what Red Pill equivalent would be in that society. Also, cats raising an elephant is a fascinating idea for a discussion. If the question cannot be answered, that's fine, I totally get why. I posted here, because TRP has definitive roles for sexes, and AskReddit, for example, could dismiss these roles with too vague answers, given how society is pushing freedom and equality in everything for everyone right now.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 12:04 AM
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I think it is a stereotype, what is normal behavior and what is not. Also, I do not know my female friends from a point of view of their SO. I can only assume based on what IO hear from them and our mutual friends, and chances of seeing it in action. People act differently, if they talk to a friend, family member or a lover. Also, I think it is more prominent on earlier stages, when there is no fixed status to the relationship. I personally dealt with men, who played stereotypically games women …
/r/seduction18/05/18 02:46 AM
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I think you should give your full attention to studying, this way you will feel you deserve the result it produces. Also, gym. Endorphins make wonders. Before getting a relationship with a woman, you should sort out your relationship with yourself. Maybe, try therapy? What helped me, is realizing doing 110% gave me worse incomes, than doing 50%, because my attachment to getting a good result was so strong, I always felt miserable, when I didn't get it. When you almost do not care, you tend to pl…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:56 AM
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lol, it goes both ways. at least one everyone experienced this in their life. it boils down to how you carry yourself, imo.
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:46 AM
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As a woman, I find this a childish behavior. I know many women, who play this game, and to my surprise, men played these types of games on me. I would nope out of the relationship, because I hate, when people try to manipulate me. I do not give a shit what excuse a person has. I will warn few times about my boundaries and what I will not let a person pass, if my words do not reach, I cannot deal with it. But I am a woman, I have no idea, how often men have to deal with this. To some, it is norma…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:42 AM
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Think about places, that everyone goes to, like a library. "Oh, I've read this book you are holding, it is nice, but by that author I would prefer this one". Asking women for help, like "my sister asked to buy tampons". Something that is embarrassing for you to do makes you look cute. Use a given situation with a person you are interested in. Also, about gym. If you like someone there, try to approach before/after the gym. I think it would be okay this way? If you come off as strong(I think you …
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:33 AM
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also, exactly what delusioned people think. or schizophrenics.
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:23 AM
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