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FDS RESCUE MISSIONlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:41 AM
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LEVEL UPlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:35 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFElalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:53 PM
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LEVEL UPlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:22 PM
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#JustLVMThingslalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:31 AM
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#JustLVMThingslalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:16 AM
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RANTlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:07 PM
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lalalalaika/r/askFDS02/10/20 01:32 AM
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SEEKING ADVICElalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:22 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:02 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:45 AM
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lalalalaika/r/askFDS18/02/21 11:42 PM
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DISCUSSIONlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:13 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:01 PM
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lalalalaika/r/askFDS13/09/20 12:11 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶lalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:32 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:06 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:44 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:44 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:34 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:04 AM
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RANTlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:17 AM
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RANTlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:35 PM
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RANTlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:16 PM
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LEVEL UPlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:45 AM
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RANTlalalalaika/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:05 PM
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Yeah, you're right. The truth is the bar is so low that just the fact that he planned dates and paid for them made him seem better than the majority of men I've encountered. I've never been on a series of dates where the guy is proactive in planning and paying for dates. Sad. There's a sea of scrotes out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:34 PM
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Yeah it really bothers me when guys speed walk and refuse to slow down. I also got the impression that maybe he was toying with me or making fun of me. Thanks, your observations are helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:31 PM
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Maybe I posted this because I need emotional support? I don't think I did anything wrong by seeking out emotional support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:12 PM
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Sooo he made a fire that was too big... she was like "I can't cook on this" and his response was to throw a temper tantrum and leave her stranded in the dark in a forest?? And he expected her to apologize when he came back? Wtf is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:09 PM
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Yeah I agree. He's a vegetarian and yet didn't give a shit about stray, hurt animals in our neighborhood. We had a wounded deer in the backyard and he joked about shooting and killing it with an arrow... I saved 2 stray kittens over the summer and he displayed zero care for them. I'm like, wtf? I'm a meat eater and I have more compassion for animals compared to him. He probably is a sociopath and hides it beneath a "nice, hippy vegetarian bro" facade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:43 PM
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He's a hippie... with long gross dreadlocks that I never saw wet, so I can only assume he never washes his hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:28 PM
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Yeah it was fucking horrible! He made me feel so uncomfortable and when I tried to talk to him about his behavior he'd stare at me without blinking or looking away... like a predator 😐 He is a degenerate criminal. I would have called the police about him drugging me but I was afraid I would get in trouble if they searched the place and found illegal drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:02 PM
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Wtf did I just read? What is this horrible sub?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:17 AM
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Not sure if this topic is addressed in the handbook, but I've definitely seen it talked about here. He should ideally earn more. Men always seem to resent their female partners who out earn them. They feel emasculated. Also, our global society is structured to give men privileges that women don't have. If he can't make it in a world literally made for men... perhaps he isn't the ideal partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:21 AM
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I was about 7 years old when I learned that my mother had to change her last name when she got married. I realized it was totally unfair and decided then that I would never change my last name to a man's if I got married. If I have kids, they will have my last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:29 AM
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That got me right in the feels. Jamie Fraser is pretty much my ideal man (aside from that weird episode when he spanked Claire). It hurts that a man like him doesn't exist 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:55 PM
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LOOOL omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:34 PM
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He said "we have a nanny." Who is "we"?! Does this mean he's married? Is the woman in the photo his wife? 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:33 PM
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Yeah he really outed himself with that comment. He revealed: He is porn sick He is a misogynist. To him, all female bodies = porn Men like him are disgusting. He doesn't see women as people. To him, women are sex objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:22 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭 I'm dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:44 AM
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Omg who made this meme 😭😭😭😭 Fuckin hysterical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:43 AM
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So in other words, he's fully aware that he's attempting to prey on a woman in a bad situation. He's looking for a woman in a completely vulnerable spot, just like shelter dogs. What the hell is wrong with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:31 AM
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Oh he's in finance and has a master's, so clearly his appearance doesn't matter /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:57 AM
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Are you fucking kidding me? He views getting a woman to be roughly equivalent to getting a dog Getting a DOG. Getting. A. DOOOGGGGGGGG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:46 AM
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Dingdingding we have a winner! That's exactly it. You articulated it perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:41 AM
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Yeah if he wasn't lying he would have been eager to talk about the projects he's worked on or wanting to start. Instead, he just changed the subject when I asked 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:15 PM
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Yes and he even said shit like "The universe is showing us a sign! This can't be a coincidence." 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:11 AM
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When he said that, I asked him what things has he knitted? He ignored the question and tried to change the topic. What a fucking clown. HOW DUMB DO MEN THINK WE AREEE?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:37 AM
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Fucking right on. 👌 You described it perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:08 AM
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This is a smart strategy but after experiencing the dumpster fire that is OLD I simply don't do it anymore. After the last time a narcissist burned me on there I deleted the apps and swore I'd rather die alone than ever subject myself to that dehumanization and abuse ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:43 AM
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I've been voluntarily celibate for about 8 months and let me tell you I am loving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:17 AM
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It's on AMC+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:29 PM
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I'd advise not seeing him outside of work again and definitely not revealing more information about yourself. He sounds like bad news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:17 AM
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He first said he doesn't drink or do drugs, then proceeds to drink like a fish? He's a liar. He has a drinking problem. He's married with a baby and he's getting drunk with you--a female coworker? He's a cheater. He was trying to see if he could get with you. I'd advise shutting everything down with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:06 AM
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"Blessed are you, Lord our God, Ruler of the Universe, who has not made me a woman." -- Morning Blessings, Artscroll Siddur, p. 12. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/should-i-thank-god-for-not-making-me-a-woman_b_3197422 This article does a good job explaining things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:27 PM
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They're often holier then thou types because they're the "strictest" of sect. You're 100% right. I once had a hasidic boy try to tell me that Anne Frank wasn't Jewish. Because she wasn't hasidic. Like wtf are you smoking, guy?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:51 PM
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Not a fan of the ultra-orthodox Jewish community's teachings. First of all, they mutilate their baby boys' penises. Secondly, they teach their group members that men are only supposed to ejaculate inside of a woman. So they're literally teaching them that women are cum dumpsters. I have met plenty of men from this community and most of them have tried to fuck me. They think nothing of lying and trying to manipulate me just to get in my pants. They don't give a shit if they're married. They don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:49 PM
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He thinks his wife giving him jewelry is a dominance move, and he clearly sees himself as dominant over her. Look at the language he uses. Fucking disgusting. This man is a pile of shit. He doesn't deserve to have a wife. Oh and by his own admission he isn't acting like a man, because he states that men give their wives jewelry but he hasn't given her a single piece of jewelry in 16 years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:33 PM
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Are we not allowed to spell out what the c and the p stand for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:19 PM
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He's a narcissist and has never had a job while with her and never financially support them? She knew this even before finding cp on his computer. No, he is not a good father or a good husband. And they live in the jungle?! Wtf? Why are they so far from civilization? Could it be so he could make a pedo paradise for himself? Why are men such horrible beings? If I lived in an alternate universe where the concept of cp didn't exist, the thought would never enter my mind that such a thing could happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah, who will pay his bills and "emotionally support" him if he leaves her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:45 PM
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Yep! Men NEVER leave a woman until they have their next one lined up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:44 PM
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Did you ever hear about the woman who was gang raped in public, on a pool table in a bar? She went in to buy a pack of cigarettes and that happened to her. Eventually a movie was made about it starring Jodie Foster. Unfortunately, silence was probably the safest option for the woman who made the video. There's literally a room full of men making jokes about raping women and she's the only woman there. I could see that situation escalating pretty easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:17 PM
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Omg I thought the same 😭😭😭😭 He's probably fallen for a bot lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:05 PM
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He said he is financially and emotionally dependent on her. Sooo that means she pays his bills and is also his therapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:07 PM
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He seems delusional. He is financially and emotionally dependent on her, and yet thinks his life will improve if he leaves her? LOLLLLL I bet she's way more attractive than him, so naturally he thinks, "Wow if I can get a 7, that means I can also get a 10 🤩 Better leave her and find greener pastures." Never considering that she's the best he will ever do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:03 PM
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Lol wut? I'm not making an excuse for men. They are responsible for their actions. Of course they're capable of using their prefrontal cortex to make decisions, but the vast majority don't, because it takes the slightest bit of effort. Instead, they let their evolutionary drive to release semen dictate their lives. It's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:17 PM
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Are you male tho? Re-read what I posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:37 PM
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Humans aren't animals...? Humans are the only animals with brains? Men are absolutely driven by their evolutionary need to put their semen in another person, usually a woman. That's their #1 priority in life--their stupid penises. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:57 PM
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I've taken 3 years off dating and have no intention of looking for a man anytime soon. I don't think you attract shitheads... there's just a lot of asshole men out there, so statistically we're more likely to encounter an asshole than a HVM. Men just aren't worth the time and effort. You could be the most beautiful, intelligent, talented woman in the world and it wouldn't really matter to them. They'd still lie, abuse you, cheat on you. Relationships are all about power and control with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:37 AM
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WOW. He doesn't even see her as a human being--just a fucking object he can use to satisfy his kink of literally raping women. This poor, naive woman needs to get as far away from him as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:02 PM
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Yeah, the husband said that it's very important to her... And follows it up with: "Best I can do is once a year." Ok, so things that are important to her apparently don't matter to him. She should divorce him and travel like she wants to. Maybe she would meet a HVM while traveling, someone who shares her passion. At the least, she won't be held back by this dude who wants to keep her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:41 PM
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I meant, this current generation of girls and young women are growing up under different circumstances. The culture is shifting towards being better for women. For example, Friday night I was at a stand up show and the topic drifted towards women's bodies. He made a joke about women and yoga pants. The audience's reaction? Crickets. He quickly shifted gears. Christine Blasey Ford is very brave for speaking out and I'm sorry she's going through that, but I do see a change going on in our culture …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:42 PM
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Ummm the vice president of the United States is a woman. Things are changing. We don't have to put up with predatory, creepy men to get opportunities in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:13 PM
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Oh wow, I hadn't even thought of that but that makes sense. Yes I got out of it the second time. He was like, "Nobody sends actual cards anymore," so I just smiled and agreed with him: "Yes, nowadays nobody really does that. It's all done by text." awkward silence as I don't give him my number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:10 AM
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The camera is a really good idea. I can't afford to move, unfortunately. I've looked into it. There's just no way I would ever find something this affordable in this area, or possibly anywhere right now. Rent has gone up so much in the past year. There's a lot of people displaced by the pandemic where I am, so there's a ton of competition to get any rental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:31 AM
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Yeah exactly. And he tried to make it seem like it wasn't weird to invite me by saying he was going to invite another neighbor too... A neighbor whose name he said he didn't know. Also, the birthday isn't happening until September. So this guy invited a strange woman twice his daughter's age to her sweet sixteen party? Two months in advance? And he said there would be drinks there, started asking if I would drink at the party. Uhhh so he was trying to gauge if I'd be a drunk, easy target. Maybe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:13 AM
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This is all very good advice. I just wish I could go somewhere to be reprogrammed from female "niceness." Growing up female, my parents and other authority figures demolished my sense of boundaries and punished me for saying "no." It's so hard to be anything other than nice, even when people make me feel threatened or uncomfortable or insulted. It's like I was brainwashed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:21 AM
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I just ordered blackout curtains for the house and I'm going to buy deadbolt locks tomorrow. I hate this situation. I just thought I would take my dog for a nice little walk. My guard was down and I'm afraid I was too friendly with him. My default is to fawn/freeze when I feel in danger, rather than fight or flee. :/ I didn't give him my number but still... I wish I didn't go into fawn mode. I wish I'd go into fight mode instead. I just feel so defeated from the past year and unfortunately preda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:16 AM
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Love this movie. I saw it in theaters when I was a youngin. Just watched it in Netflix again recently. What an absolute gem of a movie <3 "You got into Harvard?" "What, like it's hard?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:56 AM
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He's the only reason I watched The Punisher. And I cried when his face got ripped up! Too pretty for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:14 AM
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Thanking my lucky stars I had an abortion. Fuck being tied to a scrote for the rest of my life. Which one of you queens left this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:49 AM
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Yah Paul Rudd is fucking fine as fuck. One of the rare exceptions where a man is more attractive to me older vs younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:47 PM
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Men are always roaming around like possums looking for trash Loooolll yes 👌 Great way to put it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:42 PM
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But my brother's last name is my father's name. Men simply don't have last names... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:03 PM
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I'm never changing my last name. If I ever have a kid, she'll have my last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:36 PM
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He's probably a hairy ogre
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:34 AM
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I hate that story. It doesn't make any fucking sense. Do those people ever stop to wonder why men have nipples?! The reality is that men have nipples because all fetuses start out female in their development. Female is the basic blueprint for having a human body. Male is a deviation from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:31 PM
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Why is he volunteering in a church nursery in that case? He's looking for his next victims there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:39 AM
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"He's not a monster" "He's a registered sex offender" The cognitive dissonance, my goddess "He kept volunteering at the church nursery" yeah so he could find more victims, you absolute fucking moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:47 PM
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Not sure I understand. She used a donor egg + her husband's sperm? Or she was doing an egg donation for someone else and accidentally got pregnant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:38 AM
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I've never heard anyone say "penis having people" or "penis owners."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:58 PM
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Ugh dont get me started on "vagina having people"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:37 AM
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Gaslighter's Paradise 😭😭😭😭😭 lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:31 AM
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Vital fluids? Is he dying after he wanks? Lmao What a fucking clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:37 PM
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Even before FDS I would never share a bank account with a boyfriend. That's literal insanity. I'd never share a bank account with a husband either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:24 PM
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I'm taking a class online and the entire group is made up of women, with the exception of one man. All the women post shit like "Hi!!! I really loved this! Great job! It was so great! Thanks for sharing! 🤩😀" We are taking a writing class. This toxic positivity is completely unnecessary and defeats the point of a writing class. One person submitted a piece that was very poorly written, but no one except me said anything about how to improve it... the whole point of the writing class is to improve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:10 AM
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There's interesting stuff here but I don't think everything is entirely realistic.... nature isn't misogynistic. Misogyny and patriarchy are human inventions. Nature isn't a person (like you said); it has no intentions or desires or feelings. It will cut down males of any species just as easily as it cuts down women. To take your viewpoint would be to feel that the earth is against you because you were born female. That's not realistic and it doesn't serve you to believe that. Regarding pets and…
/r/askFDS18/04/21 02:38 PM
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Yeah, that's like punishing yourself for "giving in" to one bite of a sweet craving. Totally not a healthy attitude towards food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:51 AM
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We should not settle for lawn gnomes!!! 🗣 Can I get this on a t-shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:38 AM
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I had the opposite reaction. This needs to be framed and on my wall. I feel soooo much better after reading this. Makes me feel validated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:24 AM
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I'm actually reading this book right now. After I read that part I wondered, should I approach men I'm interested in? But that goes against FDS... why do men have to be so fucked up? I wish I could date women but it's like they're all in hiding right now because of the pandemic. This deli I get take out from 1-2x per week... it's usually all dudes in there getting food. It's fucking weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:02 AM
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Lmao black humor at its finest 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:42 AM
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I don't know their names but let me guess... he killed her and their children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:36 AM
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This mouth breather should shut the fuck up. A HVM doesn't waste his time verbally abusing strangers over the internet. This guy is a negative value loser and his mother should be ashamed she gave birth to that instead of aborting it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:22 PM
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Why the fuck did she marry this guy. For real, what the hell are these women thinking???? Seconded. This poor woman is in for some hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:42 PM
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Block him
/r/askFDS05/04/21 01:19 PM
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telling a guy to just stfu about sex and that you have standards I didn't say that, but now that you mention it that's a good idea. What exactly is wrong with telling him you have standards? I need to find a middle ground here Why? as I want to respect and hold my boundaries but also communicate that sex might happen in the future if he continues to respect my standards and treats me right. So the thought process here is that you'll reward a guy with sex if he respects your boundaries. Bad idea …
/r/askFDS05/04/21 10:19 AM
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And if a guy makes the move to sleep with you too soon, how do I communicate my boundaries without hurting his feelings and letting him know that I am interested but need more time when it comes to sex? Prioritize your safety over his feelings. Telling someone your boundaries shouldn't upset them. If it does, that's a huge red flag and it's time to nope out of there. You do not owe men sex. You do not owe men sex. You do not owe men sex. No man is owed access to your body. If he acts entitled to…
/r/askFDS05/04/21 09:46 AM
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Yeah I saw this post too. So out of touch with reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:16 PM
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I just shoulder checked him into the doorframe and pushed his bitch ass out of my way. Love this 💜 My hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:02 PM
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I like the way you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:32 PM
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"We thought, oh, we would see a baby boom. But we just haven't seen it," said Dr. David Jaspan, chair of the Department of Gynecology and Obstetrics at Einstein Medical Center in Philadelphia. Well this man is a certified idiot. I never thought we would see a baby boom because of the pandemic. Wtf is wrong with men? What exactly is the thought process here? They think because women are stuck at home they'll desperately fuck anyone around and choose to give birth to accidental pregnancies, when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:10 PM
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Monotheistic religions are complete bullshit. Lol Eve came from Adam's rib? God is male? Get the fuck out of here. It doesn't make any sense. Women create people. If God exists, and conforms to human conceptions of gender or sex, God would be female. Men have nipples! Why? They can't give birth or nurse babies. Nipples are 100% a female trait. They exist on men because all babies start out in the womb as female. Female is the standard genetic blueprint for mammals. Males are a deviation from tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:26 PM
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Well, a few thoughts come to mind. Don't try to change another person's behavior. You can't change other people. You can only change yourself. Find a guy whose behavior you like. Don't pretend you're disgusted by sex. If you are disgusted by sex, that's something to talk about with a therapist. If you're not, why pretend that you are? He's into kink. Probably not a HV guy. If he's not HV, why pursue this?
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:48 PM
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If you zoom in on the photo, you can see her forehead wrinkles and the 11 between her eyebrows. NO NECK OR DECOLLETAGE SAG/TEXTURE She does? Zoom in I believe her. But she has had a privileged life. She probably looks this great because of living a wealthy lifestyle. Stress and poor nutrition ages people. Poverty tends to make one stressed out and not have the ability to have adequate nutrition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:05 PM
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It's a no from me, dawg. Guys with premature ejaculation issues are so unsatisfying. Seconded. Also the fact that he's highly religious makes me suspect he might have weird psychological hang ups about sex, which is causing his premature ejaculation. Speaking from experience. Got involved with a religious guy once. He has the same problem. Gave the same excuse: "It's been a while." Turns out he actually has gender dysphoria and prefers sex with men! I still don't know why he pursued anything wit…
/r/askFDS24/02/21 10:55 PM
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"I'll take your word for it"? How fucking obnoxious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:58 AM
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He looks like a skeleton covered by a wrinkly paper bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:17 PM
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Thank you, I appreciated your response
/r/askFDS19/02/21 01:54 AM
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Your desire to label someone as HVM long before you even know what he's like is going to bite you in the butt. I have zero desire to label him a HVM. I'm saying, that if I were Sherlock Holmes, all of the clues this guy left behind indicate that he is high value. Does this mean he is high value? I can't say for certain right now, because I just met him! Guys you've never interacted with are just M - neither HV nor LV. ????? I did interact with him face to face.
/r/askFDS19/02/21 01:52 AM
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This is correct. He doesn't have my number. He wrote down his number on paper and gave it to me. I assume he did it this way because in the off chance he was misreading my signals (he wasn't), it's a non-invasive way of seeing if I'm interested in him
/r/askFDS19/02/21 01:22 AM
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If he didn't seem like a HVM I would throw his number in the trash. I know it's too early to say for certain that he is, in fact, a HVM. I'm just saying that based on the information that I have so far, he seems like a HVM. He was very caring, empathetic, respectful, and considerate to me in the limited interaction we had. He also came across as smart and funny. We had a nice vibe. Of course I know he's basically a stranger at this point, but if I didn't think he was probably a HVM... like I sai…
/r/askFDS19/02/21 01:02 AM
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why are they using such shady tactics? They're not? It's just bad academics and poor reporting. Lmao ok I'm sure they have a huge evil agenda, which is SAVING LITERAL VICTIMS OF SEX TRAFFICKING Rofl are you sure you don't have a penis? Your responses are really weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:47 PM
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You seem to misunderstand. I'm not trying to debate you on this. I'm just pointing out the website isn't stating as a fact that 1 million people are sex trafficked. They're saying the number is likely higher than documented cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:43 PM
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From the website: There are hundreds of thousands, and potentially over a million ... Because of the hidden nature of the crime, it is essentially impossible to know how many for sure. And while statistics vary on the number of children in the U.S. who are trafficked, we firmly believe the number is by far in excess of 100,000. They said "potentially over a million." That's very different from saying "one million people are sex trafficked every year." The ICE website shows statistics for how man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:09 PM
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If it happens again, start recording him. Perhaps even narrate the video: "Hi everyone, this is a fucking creepy old man who's been perving on me. Wave to the camera, creepy old guy! Reddit is going to love this"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:26 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. If it happens again, get your phone and blatantly record him. Watch how fast he'll close his windows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:24 PM
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a lot of the big facts Which ones? Can you show us the false "big facts" and show us the correct versions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:15 PM
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Should I pay? Da fuck?! How is this even a question? Hell NO Block 👏 Delete 👏 Forget 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:55 AM
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Men are the real sluts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:27 PM
8

There's also an app called Burner. I've used that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:15 PM
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Ya know what? I'm sick and tired of thinking about what men think. FUCK MISOGYNISTIC MENNNNNN WHICH IS MOST MENNNN I don't give a fuck what they think anymore. They rape animals, small children, women, other men, and fuck inanimate objects. Why should I care what these perverts think about anything? They're profoundly disqualified for pretty much everything. I wanna know what women think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:51 PM
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I just logged into Facebook for the first time since November and found this little gem awaiting me. Lmfao "dating apps are cesspools" = hate speech 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:46 PM
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So... men are too emotional to be good leaders?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:58 PM
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He got mad, so I got drinks No, I'm not walking around in circles worried about what he thinks Out with my friend, drinking a drink Alexa knows the bartender so all the drinks are free He got mad, so I got drinks Yeah, some shit went down, so now I'm up for anything Out with my friend, drinking a drink I don't know what the problem is, I don't think it's me 💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:33 PM
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Fuck him, fuck his legacy. He's a disgusting scrote who murdered someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:12 PM
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90% of us have already been young, attractive, pleasant and perfect wifey material Yep! I suffered the worst abuse from men when I was younger and compliant. Men these days don't want a wife. They want to fuck as many women as possible. If you're pleasant and kind they see you as an easy victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:08 PM
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Men will have sex with literally anything. They'll rape animals. They have sick fetishes for everything imaginable. They can and do orgasm to pretty much anything at all. Male attention is not a compliment. Why waste your time and energy trying to get a male's attention? Focus on yourself and building an awesome life for yourself. Men have been throwing themselves at me for 2 decades now. I wish I hadn't wasted my time with them especially when I was your age. In the end it got me nothing.
/r/askFDS17/01/21 05:27 AM
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I don’t know if I’m delusional You're not and think they all want to have sex with me They did or if they actually want to be my friend. They don't. Straight men don't know how to be friends with women. They will always bang you when given the opportunity
/r/askFDS17/01/21 03:35 AM
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Whenever someone incorrectly says I'm being aggressive, I say, "No, I'm not being aggressive. I'm being assertive." Usually shuts them up 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:54 PM
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He plays videogames all day When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. He's taking advantage of you. Should i be more understanding? No. Dump him 👌
/r/askFDS09/01/21 08:43 PM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:21 AM
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I KNOW RIGHT?!?!?!? How dare you choose to live, you selfish bitch /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:11 AM
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No I didn't tell him that his tiny worm dick was the reason. There were a bunch of other reasons, but If you can't even give me orgasms why would I put up with your bullshit bro. If it happened today? I would absolutely 100% be blunt and say "your dick is too small. Bye." Turns out, men like being treated like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:34 AM
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Lol I dumped a guy for having a 3 inch dick. 2 months ago he tried to get back in my life, told me he got herpes after I dumped him. No regrets. Not a single fucking regret. His was the worst, most pathetic dick I've ever seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:00 AM
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We've been socially conditioned to always spare men's feelings. I say, be direct. Tell him straight up "this is not a dating app. I'm not interested in you." Even when I've bluntly rejected men, they still keep coming back. Don't be afraid to be honest when they're being creeps. It's a pretty great feeling to put a creep in his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:37 PM
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This looks amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:22 PM
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Is sex really the best thing that ever happens to them...? That would certainly explain all their ridiculous and abusive behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:50 AM
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Same! I just dealt with that same situation earlier this evening. How pathetic are these men? Is sex the best thing that ever happens to them? Lmfao The same sex that leaves the woman unsatisfied 99% of the time? Like how pathetic is their existence! All of their decisions are governed by "can I jizz on her? 🤔" Lmfaoooooo the male mind is a joke! Why do we let them have positions of power in society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:38 AM
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This needs to be taught in schools everywhere. The Y chromosome is a degraded X chromosome! Men are damaged on a genetic level! How come men have nipples--a female body part--but you don't see any male body parts on women? All fetuses start out female. It's only if they have a Y chromosome do they deviate from the female norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:16 AM
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I'm not trying to shoot the messenger, I'm frustrated at the situation 😣 I was raised in a especially horrible way. I've always struggled socially, which made me an easy target for LVM. I know, covid makes everything harder. It's just like, why is my life on hard mode? I've tried for 7 years to make friends and nothing seems to work. Women aren't interested in being friends, and the rare 1 that was interested... ended up being an alcoholic who used me for my car and empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:25 AM
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Yes, great, but then the question is what do I do for any sort of friendship/human interaction? My neighbor just had a baby and she and her boyfriend have been super friendly. I invited her over. Now it's crickets. If it was easy to find friends I would have already found friends. It's just like, wtf do I do? Cut out everyone from my life and spend all my time alone...???? It's fucking nearly impossible to make friends. And yes I tried meetup.com and Vina and going to the dog park. Net friend yi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:59 AM
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She shouldn't work long hours if she can't afford to buy his family gifts?!?!??! My goddess, men are delusional. Just living an an entirely different planet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:05 PM
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Where does one meet a HVM? Asking for a friend. I'm the friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:17 AM
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I don't think pandemic dating works tbh. I'm choosing to remain out of the dating scene until people are vaccinated and we can start getting back to normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:00 AM
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Get me off this planet. Omfg. 2 years for murder?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:06 PM
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They literally just want to destroy other people because they are already thoroughly fucked up inside. Actually, it seems they only want to destroy women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:43 AM
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it wasn't sexist enough. So true and I noticed this too. However, I was glad they left it out so I could enjoy a show without patriarchy and misogynistic bullshit shoved in my face. It shows us what the world could be like if women were treated more as equals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:03 PM
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Hmmmm gee, why do those poses look familiar? Where have I seen them before? 🤔 Definitely not in porn /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:45 PM
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I meant, I don't care about the exact number of sperm men have in their balls 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:42 PM
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I was exaggerating. I don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:56 PM
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And in the words of my 90 year old piano teacher, from when I was a wee lass: "Sorry doesn't cut it." If I ever showed up to my lesson without having practiced, she would say this. It's what you say when anyone knowingly does something shitty and thinks letting the word "sorry" out of his face excuses his actions. Reject his "sorry." Btw I signed my stalker up for mass spam emails and spam phone calls. He has no idea it was me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:38 AM
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Let them fail the Bechdel test but in reverse. You are a genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:43 PM
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"Should I have stood up for her?" WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK OH MY GODDESS YES, YOU ABSOLUTE NIMROD!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:38 PM
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Their balls. Their sperm take over their prefrontal cortex and they're all like, "Sure you could spray 100000000 of us at one woman, but what if you could spray 100000000 of us at ten different women?" The man doesn't want any children, but his sperm want to live on by joining up with as many eggs as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:42 PM
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Right?! That guy can gtfo. I am the main character in my life, dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:27 AM
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They only think they want to be chased. Before FDS, I chased men I was interested in. 100% of them ended up treating me like garbage. In one bad relationship that ended up damaging me the worst, the fact that I pursued him made him think he could do better than me. He ended the relationship so he could try to have sex with lots of different women. I still have the screenshots of him explicitly saying all of this. In one screenshot, he's talking to his male friend about me. The friend says, "Yeah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:59 AM
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Most women are naturally attractive without even trying 🤷‍♀️ We don't need plastic surgery or bleach or make up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:43 PM
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Now half my family says I should give him a chance. I had the same situation. My LV brother, his friend with a small dick wants to bone me (previous encounter, took place before the convo with my brother), my brother says "c'mon why can't you just give him a chance?" I respond, "Why should I give him a chance to disappoint me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:10 AM
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Please get off OLD. It's a cesspool that will compound your pain. I am in a very similar situation as you. I have my dog for companionship. She has saved me so many times. If I cry around her, she instantly comforts me. Can you get a puppy? I'm also rewatching old shows I used to watch as a kid. Watching familiar faces and hearing familiar voices, even though they're actors I've never met, is comforting. I formed an emotional connection to them as a kid. Can you watch shows like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:51 AM
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I suggest that when you are in a calm mental space you ask your mom about her childhood. Get to know her story more intimately. Nooooo, what? Her mother sounds like a full blown narcissist! Unfortunately the only way you can be truly happy is to go no contact. My ex-mother is a narcissist. I tried for years to "get to know her story," teach her empathy, help heal her trauma. All it did was make her a more sophisticated monster. She never changed. She never will change, just like OP's mother. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:46 AM
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I had to learn how to calm down a crying baby when I was 7 years old. I was expected to help care for my newborn brother. If I failed at calming him down, I'd get in trouble because my mother worked from home. If I can learn how to quiet a screaming baby when I was a child, this asshole can do it as an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:34 AM
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Impotency is grounds for annulment in many parts of the U.S. I'd rather wait for sex until marriage and roll the dice. I've tried the alternative--sex before marriage--and I got nothing but heartbreak, trauma, and wasted years out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:28 AM
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He claims sex isn't good because her vagina isn't as tight as his hand... he probably lost sensitivity in his dick from being circumcised and jerking off to porn multiple times each day. I don't think he's cheating. His dick is broken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:22 AM
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Not having ambition, having too much ambition Are you fucking kidding me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:41 PM
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I don't have sex with any of them. Not anymore. No man is up to my standards, which are that: -He's attractive -Takes care of his health -Has a career, supports himself -Isn't an asshole -Doesn't live with his parents -Is good at sex -Has a good personality Edit: Most men are just goddamn horrible in bed. I'll assume he's bad at sex and won't give him a chance to disappoint unless he checks all the other boxes and makes a commitment to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah I remember there were plenty of male victims from the first season. I'm wondering about the second season. Seems like Fata might have been motivated by a hatred of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:07 PM
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For those unfamiliar, Ex-Dr. Fata "treated" about 16,000 patients, claiming they had cancer when they didn't, killing and maiming thousands of patients. He was sentenced to 45 years in prison. It dawned on me... all the victims interviewed and mentioned in the podcast are women. The narrator remarks at some point that this guy was getting off on the power, of saying to patients "You have cancer. Only I can cure you." He got off on the power of making people think he could save them. Does anyone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:05 PM
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Lack of clarity and communication?! Are you fucking kidding me guy!! She wants to have orgasms when she has sex. What is so hard for this scrote to understand about that? Omg this guy is too stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:12 PM
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I wasn't allowed to climb trees but I did it anyway. Whenever I got caught my parents would hit me. As soon as their attention went elsewhere, I went and climbed the tree again. 🙂 I had one tree I considered mine in the backyard, and I'd climb up onto the roof from my tree. I liked hanging out by myself up there. And I never fell, not once. As an adult, I enjoy rock climbing. Hitting children as "punishment" only teaches them not to get caught. It doesn't teach them not to do the thing. Don't hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:03 PM
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Unpopular opinion: I only seldomly jerk off to rape Reddit: 53828373727 upvotes 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:17 AM
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Please, someone get this guy a medal. He only very seldom enjoys watching dicks shoved into a woman's ass when she doesn't want it i.e. when she's being raped /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:24 PM
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This is fucked up. She is pregnant with his child. Having a woman carry and birth his offspring is such a privilege for a man... and he clearly has zero appreciation for this. As women, we can easily choose to reproduce or not. But a man can't just waltz into an egg bank and make a baby out of it. He needs women. This fucking scrote doesn't deserve his wife or his child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:11 AM
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I can't believe what a piece of shit this guy is. Wow. Wow. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:08 AM
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My go to in situations where men are crossing a line and asking questions they shouldn't be asking: "That's private." 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:43 PM
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😒 What... the... fuck... If anyone did something like that to my dog... I would honestly probably beat the shit out of them before cutting them out of my life. Then sign up their phone and email for spam bombs. I once yelled at a friend because he wouldn't let my dog sit next to me on the couch. I was like, "This is my house and my couch, and I want my dog to sit next to me." He moved over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:40 PM
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Yooooo 1 I would never live with a man I'm not married to 2 I'm DEFINITELY never having a baby for a man I'm not married to 3 the man in this story is a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:03 PM
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I’m a voluntary celibate Came here to say the same! Lol And yeah. I could fuck like 10 different dudes quite easily by sending out a few texts. I choose not to, cuz they ain't HVM and I have standards Dick is abundant and low value. Sex isn't the end all, be all of living your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:36 AM
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They hate us cuz they ain't us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:27 AM
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That's gonna be a no from me dawg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:25 AM
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Love her. Met her at a book signing. She's hilarious, witty, and so cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:55 AM
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She needs to get out of that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:38 PM
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Recently I've been considering dating guys 5-10 years younger than me. All the guys my age are fat, balding, wrinkled, limp dicked... and people think I'm in my early 20s anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:33 PM
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Before FDS, I thought FWB would be a good idea. However, no man I spoke to about it ever wanted to be my friend. They just wanted to fuck and discard me. One guy deleted my phone number, then later hit me up on Instagram trying for sex. He made it clear that he wouldn't be my friend and wouldn't be in a relationship with me--he would only fuck me, take it or leave it. I blocked and deleted his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:26 PM
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If he isn't willing to take the risk of unwanted pregnancy, he shouldn't have sex. The end!!! I'm abstaining from sex while single and let me tell you, masturbation is pretty amazing. Why tf can't men just masturbate if they don't want to risk knocking up any women? It baffles the mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:57 AM
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We should treat men like they're simply breeding stock 🤷‍♀️ That's how wild horses do. When they run, the horse leading the herd is female, followed by other mares in the group in order of social status and the foals. Stallions follow at the rear, cuz they're easily replaceable 👌 (dick is abundant and low value) Far from being subordinate, mares frequently initiate the band's activities. The stallions are quite often little more than hangers-on. Ransom was once watching a band of mares that stop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:24 AM
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I'm so glad I never got implants. I seriously considered them at one point, but the more I researched the more horrified I was. Cut my pectoral muscles?! Oh HELL no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:56 PM
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Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:41 PM
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"Didn't even get a card"???? Wtf? Is he a man? Cuz he sounds like a whiney ass 5 year old I wish women would stop reproducing with these shit bags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:30 PM
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This is the top comment on the video omfg I miss intelligence and grace in the White House. *sigh I would dump a man who proposed to me that way. And I guarantee if Michelle hadn't married him, he never would have become president
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:22 PM
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Uhhhh source???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:01 PM
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Yiiiikes to the maximum. Poor lady :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:49 AM
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Np! Forgot to mention, organic extra virgin olive oil is amazing for hair, skin, and nails. I go for Pons, imported from Spain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:46 AM
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I wouldn’t look twice at them now. Queen status 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:21 AM
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Yikes 🤦‍♀️ Does this mean he's not a HVM then? 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:57 PM
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I have pale skin, so I've kept out of the sun for most of my life. Moisturizer with sunscreen on my face pretty much every day, starting when I was 16. I wear long sleeve shirts even in the summer. Skin cancer runs in my family, so if anyone thinks it's weird I just explain that I don't want skin cancer. I basically stopped drinking alcohol when I was 22, except for random drinks like once a year. And I keep up with a skincare regimen--clay mask 1-2x per month, wash face with a good cleanser, mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:41 PM
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Honestly, it's men who hit the wall at 30 lol So many guys I know are balding, wrinkled, overweight... one guy who was very attractive at 22 is a hideous beast at 33--balding, missing teeth, horrible skin from smoking cigarettes. These are dudes I met when I was 17-22 and they have aged horribly. Meanwhile, I have a hard time convincing people that I'm not in my early 20's. I'll be 33 next month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:09 AM
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He owns the company. Yeah it's not a great work environment by any means, but I have to pay the bills. I am continuing the job search but unfortunately I'm stuck right now. Btw my boss also tried to have an affair with me when I first started there... and voted for trump... I suspect he's a psychopath and has no ability for real empathy for anyone. He uses people and discards them and he's highly manipulative and charismatic. I also suspect he's doing money laundering, cuz I've seen alooooottt o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:24 PM
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No HR department
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:51 AM
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It's a small business... there is no HR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:51 AM
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Yeahhh it is up to date and I have applied to dozens and dozens upon dozens of jobs... I need to add more skills/certifications or something to my resume. I've gotten zero interview requests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:21 AM
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Yeah I know. It's just one part of the problem--pickmeishas raising their sons to think their shit doesn't stink while the culture reinforces their assumptions about themselves and how the world is supposed to cater to them. Men are responsible for their behavior but why would they ever change when their own mothers condone and enable their shitty behavior? I have one older sister and 2 younger brothers. Guess which two siblings have college degrees and moved out of the house? Guess which two st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:46 PM
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I once dated a guy whose mother doted on him so much she would bring him breakfast in bed on a regular basis when he was a kid... As a grown up, he cleans his apartments like, once. Right before he moves out... just to get the security deposit back... and he always has his mom help him clean it... A big part of the problem is mothers coddling their sons too much and teaching them how to manipulate women by letting their sons manipulate them. Meanwhile, moms act like their daughters are free full…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:12 AM
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I wouldn't be involved with a guy who gifted me macaroni art because I'm pretty sure fucking mentally disabled people is a felony 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:17 AM
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The pandemic forced me to move out of a city I hated and go back to the place I grew up. It ultimately turned out to be a great thing, because nothing was going right for me in that city. While back in my hometown, I've gotten a fantastic place to live, starting playing guitar & taking lessons again, started knitting again, and started building my social network. I also landed a well paying job where I'm learning new skills. I'm also considering going back to university for my true passion--musi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:10 AM
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Reason #763 why I don't do dating apps. Poor gal :/ She didn't deserve this. What a piece of shit that guy is. Hope he rots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:02 AM
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he’s gotten mad several times because I said no Time to throw the whole boyfriend away
/r/askFDS15/11/20 05:06 PM
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I'm better now. Hopefully he's dead. Lmao most amazing comment right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:54 AM
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What job could he possibly be doing that would allow him to earn so much?????? Wtf????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:52 PM
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“He was married when he met Paulina and she was very young, but it was love at first sight. He couldn’t believe anyone that beautiful would want to be with him.” I can't believe it either! And those 2 kids unfortunately take after their father in the looks department
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:25 AM
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Off topic, but who is the gorgeous woman in this photo? Her face... so perfect... her hair... amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:08 AM
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Recently I interacted with a male specimen who constantly talked about himself. Approximately 90% of the time he was yammering about himself. He liked to say "I'm a fixer, I like to fix problems" and all this other shit. I allowed the interactions to continue as an experiment in following FDS guidelines. He definitely love bombed me as much as he could. He told me he wanted to give me some kind of guardianship of his dog, and would say to his dog, "Go to your mommy." With me being the "mommy." H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:10 PM
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He's fucking crazy. Going out with him after being rejected is the definition of wasting your time. I think all LVM are the same dude, because I've gotten like that exact same message lol "I don't want to waste your time and lead you on but also can you fuck me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:01 AM
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He doesn't want to waste your time but also wants to go out with you on Saturday...??? Is he literally insane?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:55 AM
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Girl, same. At least your therapist remembers your fucking name. The woman I tried got my name wrong twice in one session. I ended all therapy with her that day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:13 AM
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I feel the same way. The full weight of the pandemic finally sunk in during the past week. People are acting fucking crazy and it makes it so difficult for even a friendship to develop. I'm maintaining my sanity by spending all my free time under my 15 lb weighted blanket. It makes you feel safe and snuggly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:10 AM
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Only in fairy tales ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:01 AM
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I tried posting there and it was automatically removed 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:37 AM
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If I was the wife I'd seriously consider an abortion after that. No way I'd want my life connected to this piece of shit until one of us dies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:03 AM
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What a fucking loser!!!! He should just suck it up and DEAL WITH IT. He should put his wife's needs before his stupid dick. What a looooooser omfg He's attracted to her, therefore they should fire her?!?!? I can't with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:23 AM
7

Yeah I'd like to be friends with women but it's been extremely difficult to find... that's why I'm stuck with male "friends."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:12 PM
42

Yep! Recently a dude said it was gross that I don't wear a bra most of the time. How tf is that gross for a heterosexual man?! Remember Al Bundy from Married With Children? Remember how he perved on Jennifer Aniston because she wasn't wearing a bra on Friends? It's a sad fucking day when the bar is below Al fucking Bundy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:10 PM
49

Yeah, I think I'm about done with men too. I'm bisexual sooooo I think it's time to give up the hunt for a mythical male unicorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:00 PM
39

Yep. There's an army of pornsick men out there, traumatizing women by trying out this porn shit on their unsuspecting sex partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:44 PM
160

I also have BJ rules: I don't do them. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:06 PM
6

And it's almost as light as the background. Easily missed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:01 PM
58

Lmaoooooooo this is amazing. Who is this genius?! She's fucking hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:21 AM
96

I abstained from sex for 8 months. The next dude I had sex with lasted 5 minutes and left me 100% unsatisfied. Now, I'm in a serious committed relationship with my Hitachi ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:46 PM
16

Like I commented elsewhere in this thread, calling it "sex work" instead of what it really is--prostitution-- is part of the false narrative that selling sex is a normal, legitimate job just like any other. And it's pretty common knowledge that the majority of prostitutes are women while the purchasers are men. By calling it "sex work" we are promoting the idea that women are sexual objects, each with a price tag attached. Reject the term "sex work" and call it what it really is... prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:42 PM
9

Calling it "sex work" instead of what it really is--prostitution-- is part of the false narrative that sex for money is just a job like any other job. No. It's called prostitution. Reject the notion of "sex work."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:53 PM
10

He messaged me as well. What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:49 PM
18

And he thinks women his own age are too old for him 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:39 AM
17

This is the writing style I expect from our clients with traumatic brain injuries, and 95% of them do better. 😭😭😭 I'm dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:10 AM
118

For some context, this is a 44 year old man who still lives at home with his parents and sleeps in a twin sized bed... in his childhood bedroom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:18 AM
33

I know right?!?!?! The fucking audacity! I still can't believe he thought I was like asking his permission or some shit?? Rofl And to say that shit to me while enjoying a nice restaurant meal I paid for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:50 AM
89

I ended a relationship largely in part due to this interaction: Me: "I've decided I want to be an egg donor." Him: "No. No girlfriend of mine is going to donate her eggs." Me: gives him the side eye Me: watches him finish the meal that I was paying for Like, who the fuck thinks they can tell me what I do with my own fucking genetic material? I'm so glad I dumped him. He's the most pathetic excuse for a man I ever dated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:44 AM
167

Where tf do you live where 15% of men are attractive lol It's like 2% for me everywhere I've lived
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:19 AM
41

He sounds like a fucking fragile pathetic loser who should retire from dating. He also sounds like a pathetic loser I briefly got involved with. All LVM are basically the same guy, aren't they? Lol I've learned from my experiences and reading experiences like yours--one strike and he's out. One red flag and I'm done. Because red flags always come in packs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:12 AM
14

I'm confused You have been warned. Source: 25 years of marriage. Wait so were you married 3 years or 25 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:05 AM
22

It's like they think women are pokemon? Rofl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:18 AM
38

I'm the demon, I guess 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:18 AM
1

It should be a crown of chicken nuggets to match her chicken nugget ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:07 AM
28

LOOOOOLLLLLL dark. But spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:37 AM
22

That's fucking ridiculous. I worked for a HV couple last year. They're worth probably 500 million. He cared for his HV wife 100%. She had a private chef cooking all of her meals every day... I'm sure she would laugh at the very idea of being grateful your husband provided a meal. Like, how low are your standards lmao That HVW is honestly an inspiration to me. She made sure she was treated like a queen from day one and has a beautiful life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:45 PM
26

Funny how nobody ever talks about how men have the right to choose. If we define feminism as giving women the right to choose, then people say "what if a woman chooses prostitution for herself? We have to respect her choice." Yeahhhhh no. Feminism means freeing women from the burden of misogyny and patriarchy. That means undoing the idea that women are sex objects. That means dismantling the commercial sex industry. Idk where this "choice" narrative came from, but it's b.s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:30 PM
44

I remember how utterly baffling it was when I first encountered this form of thinking. It was like 5 years ago on a feminist Facebook group. I thought it was a given that feminists would be against the commercial sex industry?! Then people started calling me a T E R F and I had to Google what it meant. Those women got nasty and called me a "pearl clutcher" as if I were shocked that sex exists. Um, nah sis... I'm against misogyny and anyone treating women like sex objects. If "sex work" aka prost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:34 PM
53

All straight male "friends" just want to fuck you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:08 AM
61

You know when I have the most success with men? When I'm genuinely not interested. When I say repeatedly "I'm not interested in a relationship or sex." THAT is when they pursue me. On the other hand, when I was very open to dating/sex/a relationship literally every guy rejected me. Especially when I was offering no strings attached sex, which is supposedly every man's fantasy. Nahhhh. What they like is feeling as though they "won" you. Like you're some kind of conquest. They like tricking women.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:59 AM
14

Also, with a narcissist nothing is ever their fault. According to them, everyone else is the problem. If they apologize for anything, it's so they can say "I said I was sorry! You're wrong for still being mad at me. What a horrible person you are." My ex-mother (I disowned her) is a narcissist and she successfully turned my brother into one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:43 AM
26

Any touting of what makes a male a male and a female a female. YUP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:40 AM
53

This one is very specific. If a man insults my dog he ALWAYS turns out to be a misogynistic asshole. My dog is a little overweight. Men who call her fat and make fun of her weight are the biggest fucking assholes. If anyone says anything negative about my dog, that's an automatic "gtfo my house and never come back"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:38 AM
28

I have a high libido too and enjoy sex a lot... when it's done correctly. But I'm using willpower to override it. It gets easier to control your libido rather than letting it control you as you get older. Now that I'm 32, it's pretty easy to resist the urge to fuck. I had casual sex for years and all it yielded was abuse and pain--men using me for my body, not giving a shit about me as a person. I did have some very awesome sex, but it was with LVM who didnt respect me as a person. My decision t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:16 AM
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I plan to marry a HVM, so if the sex sucks... meh. I'll always have my vibrator. Most men are terrible in bed anyway! I'm definitely not going to allow any man the chance to ever use me again. Edit: and impotency is grounds for annulment 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:38 PM
10

Hitachi magic wand ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:49 PM
10

I mean, why not? My vibrator never gets tired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:41 PM
13

I need like 15 orgasms to be truly satisfied from sex. When I masturbate I usually get into the 20-30 range. Most dudes suuuuuuuuuck in bed, especially as they age. I had better sex in my early 20s when I was hooking up with guys also in their early 20s. Now that I'm 32, good sex with dudes my age doesn't seem to exist. One of the reasons why I'm done with casual sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:51 PM
20

Whenever a guy says "I love you" after knowing me for a few weeks, I just say, "ok" or "thank you." They seem to get the hint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:45 PM
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This is why I decided no man gets to have sex with me unless we're married. WHY ARE MEN SUCH PIGS. There are more important things in life than plopping out your gross smelling semen near a woman, you fucking assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:45 PM
11

"Common law" is short for "common law marriage," right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:01 AM
28

If you're living with baby daddy (not married), what box do you check on your tax returns?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:56 AM
86

"He's basically my husband" nah, no ring means you're single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:55 AM
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"Men are visual creatures" is right up there next to "my love language is physical 😏"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:49 AM
1

Which is the majority of men. If there were tons of HVM running around, this subreddit wouldn't exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:14 PM
97

MeN: tHe MoRe BrAvEr SeX 🥴🥴🥴 I would tear apart a pitbull with my bare hands if it attacked my child. I recently had to handle a pitbull attacking my dog. I heard my fur baby screaming and something in me flipped. I would have 100% taken that dog out if it didn't back off. I didn't know I had it in me until that moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:29 AM
34

OLD is a dumpster fire, I mean 🤷‍♀️ LVMs gonna do LV things. Don't overthink it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:24 AM
26

Most men can't even sexually satisfy one woman so I don't know why they think they deserve more than one to disappoint Lmaoooooooooo this is the fucking truth right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:21 AM
25

This is literally insane. Your child contains 50% of YOUR DNA. The father shares 0% DNA with you. Save the child, you fucking psychos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:12 AM
5

Annnnd this is reason #2617 why I don't do OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:32 PM
19

Personally, I practice emotional detachment. When you don't have feelings invested, men can't get enough of you, and I always have the upper hand because I can walk away feeling nothing. On the other hand, when I let myself get emotionally attached they perceive it as desperation and weakness. That's not a perfect balance between affection and detachment but it works for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:08 AM
39

Well... you said you aren't attracted to him, so... what's the dilemma? It sounds like he's fugly but nice and you feel like you owe him sex because he's been nice to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:42 AM
12

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:17 AM
57

Knives...? Is he insane?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:54 PM
35

This is wrong. I wear leggings because they're comfortable, not to get scrotes turned on. They fetishize everything women do/wear anyway, so why should I modify my outfits? Gtfo pervs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:59 PM
1

Thanks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:33 PM
1

I can't PM you either, what the heck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:29 PM
3

Ditto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:26 PM
16

The only other woman in my workplace has a bad attitude and frequently complains to my boss that she thinks I should be paid less. 😒 She's mad that I make the same amount of money that she makes... but has no issues with our male coworker receiving the same amount of money. Internalized misogyny, anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:25 PM
12

I only asked so it would remind you of everything that wasn't right about the relationship. Stay strong. Respect yourself. And remember, he isn't the last man alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:47 AM
7

stalker YES. The worst stalker I've had--he stalked me for 10 years--created many duplicate accounts to get around all the blocks I put on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:40 AM
9

Why did you break up? You said he is toxic. In what ways is he toxic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:37 AM
21

I wan’t to end on a good note :( Sweetie, it's already done. He refuses to accept it. He's clinging on like a leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:23 AM
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Yooooo you aren't thinking clearly. You're making a fantasy version of him in your mind. It's not real. This guy makes duplicate accounts to get around the multiple blocks you put on him. It's not "creative" or romantic or cute. He is disrespecting your boundaries and your wishes. Get back together with him at your own peril
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:20 AM
31

...he's making other accounts to get around the blocks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:05 AM
10

True. The guy I'm talking about is a complete coward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:58 PM
43

I had a LVM internet stalk me for 10 years. I tried ignoring him for years. He would make new accounts to get around the blocks. I'd try reasoning with him: "we're not a good match/not meant to be" etc. I tried a fake boyfriend telling him to back off. None of that worked. Finally, what seems to have worked is telling him every time he contacts me: "wtf is wrong with you? I don't want you. I will never want you. You're a fucking idiot. STOP CONTACTING ME." I've also thrown in a few "hope you die…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:30 PM
3

He has told me that he would listen if I spoke in a normal tone but my normal tone didn't get the message across the first few hundred times. Hell to the NO. Please don't marry someone who talks to you that way. It won't get better with time. It will get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:41 AM
24

They will ghost you even if they get sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:43 AM
30

Dating apps belong in the trash like the men who use them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:48 AM
41

It's so obvious that he only did more chores and reading & shit in hopes that he'd get sex out of it lol It's painfully stupid. He has the IQ of a raisin. I feel bad that he exists on this planet. I'm not even mad about this one. I'm ashamed that he and I are the same species
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:16 AM
70

Also, we'd be seeing words like "neurotic" and "hysterical" being thrown around if this were a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:32 AM
26

This is why I don't do OLD. Prob 90-99% of the men on there are trash. Most HVM aren't going to be on there. They will be doing things like running their own businesses, taking care of family, working with a non-profit to help a cause they believe in, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:28 AM
3

He is disgusting. My good goddess How can you get more meds so you don't become suicidal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:13 AM
101

... she posted this in AITA Are you kidding me?! Throw the whole husband away. He's worse than useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:10 AM
45

i in fact trying to impress u 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:23 PM
27

LOL WIDE PELVIS BONE, OK Is he digging up bones or trying to date a woman? Lmfaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:20 PM
13

He sounds just like my first boyfriend. He would insult me and other people and when I would balk, he would say "relax it's just a joke." 12 years after I dumped him, I got back in touch with him (a mistake that taught me important lessons) and discovered that he's turned into an incel. Get away from this man and never look back. He will only get worse over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:16 PM
11

Love this post! She is incredible 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:09 AM
58

And most importantly, as long as you don't associate with LVM. 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:07 AM
22

This is why I don't do OLD anymore. Why waste my time and energy sussing out LVM? I'd reckon 90-99% of men on dating apps are LV, so best to stay off it and spend my time on more valuable things. I'm currently reading a philosophy book. That's much better than looking for a needle in a haystack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:19 AM
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Edit: they examined her, said she was physically ok, and then AFTER this they gave her the injections. There was literally no reason to give her those meds My dog has a history of health problems and I could tell she was NOT ok with the drugs they gave her. She has problems metabolizing certain drugs due to severe health issues from when she was a puppy. The vet didn't bother to ask, and I didn't know what they were injecting her with until after. I called a second vet for her opinion and she to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:16 AM
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I've said the same thing. I literally wish I was involuntarily celibate. Seems like a dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:30 AM
13

I second this! Do you honestly think a LVM would take care of the pet? I took the dog in my break up and honestly I wouldn't have been able to live with myself if I left her with him. I'd constantly be wondering about her and if she was ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:39 AM
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DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Why would you reward bad behavior? If a dog bites you, you don't give it a treat. You owe him nothing and you are entitled to withdraw consent at any point. Even if you're in the middle of sex you're entitled to say "no, stop" and he goddamn better stop Edit: I see that he dumped you. This is honestly a good thing. My first boyfriend was selfish and pushy and everything was on his terms, always refusing to compromise. 12 years later he's turned into an incel. Your ex is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:08 AM
35

Honestly feeling nauseous at these comments. I have always been skeptical of the way this sub pushes plastic surgery, makeup, and spending your hard earned cash on making yourself look fuckable to men. Men will have sex with goats, sex dolls, basically anything they can stick their dicks in. It's 100% not worth it to suffer via dieting, plastic surgery, or uncomfortable clothing to attract a man. Beauty is health, beauty is being well groomed. If you are healthy and well groomed, people will con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:40 PM
13

This is a terrific decision! I quit OLD in November and saved myself a lot of tears, not to mention I feel safer and more secure not putting myself at risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:55 PM
6

Yeah agreed. Btw where is the handbook? When I click the link it doesn't work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:53 PM
25

You don't want to go out on a date with him? Then don't go. Pushing yourself outside your comfort zone doesn't mean doing things you don't want to do in order to please a man. Pushing yourself outside your comfort zone looks like this: -Taking a yoga class you've always wanted but didn't because you have social anxiety (during non-covid times obv) -Dumping a toxic boyfriend, moving out, and getting your own apartment -Applying to a Masters program even though the thought of rejection is scary Se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:48 PM
21

Because they don't respect us and think all women exist in order to be their conquests. When you say "no" you're just being a challenging conquest in their minds. No doesn't mean no when it comes from a woman, it means "try harder." I've learned from experience never be alone with a man on his turf. This is where he feels most empowered to grind you down after you said "no." If you're at your place you can kick him out if he disrespects it when you say no. If you bring a dog into new territory s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:27 PM
26

He's demented. Like all dick sick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:17 PM
10

That's a good point. There were probably red flags that she downplayed or ignored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:41 PM
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Views her son as a male rival, like he's a goddamn ape or something. That's literally ape behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:43 PM
217

What in the actual fuck She says he was nice up until this point. This is why I have severe trust issues with men. They act "nice" when they harbor evil in their minds. I once dated a guy who let the air out of my tires and told people I was a heroin addict because I refused to let him in at 2am. All the while manipulating people into thinking he was a "nice guy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:42 PM
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💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 this is the message I didn't know I needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:53 AM
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And here, folks, you will observe the LVM in his natural habitat--OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:43 AM
10

This. You can find guys to practice on in real life. The benefit of this is that he meets you in the context of your actual life. Meeting someone from a screen is guaranteed to end painfully 99% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:25 AM
58

This pathetic excuse for a man is pure evil. My good goddess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:19 AM
6

Education. The Great Courses series on audible is a tremendous resource. Podcasts are educational and entertaining. Move towards a higher degree. If you have a bachelor's, start towards a masters Therapy 💜💜💜 Remove all toxic people from your life and never second guess yourself. Block, ignore, delete When faced with negativity, just ignore it. Don't engage with negativity from any source Forgive yourself, because you did the best you could at the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:15 AM
61

Sweetie, throw the whole boyfriend out. He ain't worth this Sylvia Plath pining away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:25 PM
15

So the men would be the coaches, annnnd they're trying to put together a team of women to win... ??? ... so for that reason 35 year old women wouldn't be picked for the team Does he even know what an analogy is? Cuz this doesn't make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:12 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed this too. Guys like it when they do 99% of the talking. I don't think they really want to get to know us as people. They want a human version of a golden retriever. They want you to listen and you to say pretty much nothing except "yeah," "oh that's interesting," etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:52 AM
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Who said anything about 2 men? It's all men. I'm done with their shit. That's not pickmeisha behavior. It's not resentful to respect myself by shutting the door on all opportunities to be used by men. Like I said. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results. I'm not having sex unless I'm married. The end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:37 AM
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That's what sex is for men, sis... it doesn't matter that I have good intentions if the guy doesn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:31 AM
26

Yeah I used to think the same way. The problem is that men don't view it like that at all. Men value you less after you fuck them. All they care about is plopping out globs of semen. They'll lie up and down to fuck you and jizz on your face. A man will never treat you as well as when he wants sex but you withhold it. I didn't make the rules. I just learned them. The hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:13 AM
18

I'm sorry, how is it pleasurable to be fucked and discarded by men? It doesn't matter if I have a few orgasms because the man will eventually discard you unless he's made a serious commitment i.e. marriage. Most men are horrible at sexually pleasing a woman. How is it pleasurable to sift through dozens of duds who can't get me off, hoping to find one who's good? Why would I subject myself to that when I have a vibrator...? Don't forget every time you have penetrative sex with a man there is the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:07 AM
25

Honestly, ditch OLD entirely. 99.9999% of men on there are just trying to get easy pussy and will lie to get it. Secondly, don't have sex without a commitment. Some ladies are cool waiting 3 months before having sex. My new motto is no sex until marriage, because I'm 100% done fucking around and I am taking zero chances now. This guy is trash and I'm sorry he sucks so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:58 AM
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I used to think the no sex until marriage thing was to control a woman's sexuality, but what it really is is a social construct that forces men to step up and be responsible. It's the control mechanism for a dick sick brain whose only priority is releasing semen and couldn't give a fuck about anyone else in society. This is why we have so many 40 fucking year old man babies. It's a side effect of the sexual revolution of the 1960s. There's no societal pressure on men to behave anymore, with wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:05 AM
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I honestly just don't care anymore. I've had sex with plenty of men in my life, so it's not a matter of finding a "good" one. A man will just never be as good as a vibrator. Why should I subject myself to a devaluing experience when I'm getting nothing out of it? Who does this benefit? Men. It benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:52 AM
19

It's like this. I can continue having unmarried sex and get nothing out of it/get used/treated like shit, or I can withhold sex until marriage and get a husband/commitment/financial support out of it. Most men suck in bed anyway, so if he's going to disappoint me sexually I better be getting something out of it. At this point I have no expectation of any man sexually pleasing me. My vibrator is better than all of them. Literally every man I've ever slept with valued me less after we slept togeth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:48 AM
40

Sleep soundly with the knowledge that he will look like a pumpkin in 10 years while you will still be dewy and radiant 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:58 AM
14

I agree that most men are ugly as sin, but you lost me on the harem bit. In the absence of patriarchy/capitalism I'm sure women, being free to choose, would only select the best men to have kids with. Patriarchy/capitalism makes women be like "well yeah he's balding and pudgy and his face looks like a potato but he earns a good living and doesn't beat me so I guess he'll do 🤷‍♀️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:56 AM
17

Yeah honestly it seems that good looking humans acquire their good looks from their attractive mothers. Just anecdotal observation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:25 AM
39

Ugh don't I know it. So many fugly dudes running around, almost zero good looking men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:08 AM
17

Alpha males are meant to have harems of women ..?????? I'm sorry, what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:07 AM
63

Boyfriends 👏 don’t 👏 get 👏 husband 👏 benefits. This is my new mantra
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:36 AM
12

THISSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:43 AM
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Yassss queen 👏👏👏 Lately I've reaped the benefits of denying all sexual contact with certain men. It's crazy. The more you deny them sex, the more you get out of them. But once you have sex they treat you like garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:32 PM
5

Yikes. This is a great reminder that pretty much all men have a warped mindset about women. I've had similar arguments with my brother too. It's like men are incapable of true empathy. Their dicks poison their minds. He told me once that I should have let his friend fuck me even though he has a small dick. I said, "Why should I have given him the opportunity to disappoint me?" He had no response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:07 PM
26

I like good/amazing sex. Unfortunately, that is extremely rare. Most men suck in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:56 PM
30

I don't want to have sex unless I'm married. I'm 32 and I've been sexually active since 17. Looking at the action vs the result there really is zero incentive for me to have sex outside of marriage. Most men are absolutely dreadful in bed. Why should I give them sex when I get nothing out of it, not even sexual satisfaction? I've tried enough men to realize that having sex outside of marriage doesn't benefit me at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:55 PM
10

I love the passive voice in the first paragraph 👌 Like dude just fucking say what you're trying to say: "We don't have men here that meet your standards, so if you want matches you should lower your standards" Boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:32 PM
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