Let’s talk about sex.

Dorkamus_Rex · 2020-12-25T05:25:49+00:00

Many women don't realize that the reason their bfs and husbands are terrible at sex is because porn is their teacher. Porn that is not tailored to be sex-positive for women is objectifying of both the women and the men.

It teaches men to view women as objects with holes to fuck. It teaches men to be concerned exclusively about their dick size and little else, because the man jackhammers the woman in porn with a massive dick. Or she chokes and gags on his dick while he's saying creepy shit to her.

Men who are raised to believe these are normal sex acts cannot give you orgasms because that it not anywhere on their radar. Their biggest and chief concern is how often their dick is getting wet and there are zero problems until the sex dries up.

Dump men like this to the curb, they are porn sick limp dicks.

2020-12-25T12:34:24+00:00

It’s not just sex. When you have a HVM who treats you right you naturally want to reciprocate and do little favors for him too. You think about him and want to see him happy because he wants to see you happy. Unfortunately men like this are rare. That is why we women need to be careful with who we date because often, like you and me, we fall in love with potential and do things for a guy who is not deserving of them.

TheSuspiciousChard · 2020-12-25T14:10:11+00:00

Everyone’s body is different but in case it helps anybody here one way I can get stimulation enough to maybe orgasm during sex is if he is on top and my legs are flat on the bed, and maybe even slightly closed. This position provides an angle where it stimulates the clit (at least for me) during intercourse! Try it or comment if you also noticed this too! Curious to know.

ThatNeo-AikidoSpirit · 2020-12-25T13:07:23+00:00

Just wanted to note: A woman should care about the guy's dick size/width. Learn with dildos/vibrators the best size for yourself and keep that standard even with a "hvm". Women deserve mindblowing sex and it starts with compatible sizes. We have personality standards but also sex standards. After dating for years, if a guy isn't hung with a heavy girthy head/shaft, it isn't working out with me. My body is gorgeous, and my vagina is out of this world, and I know how to pleasure well. I want the same or better from a partner. My pleasure is just as important as my happiness outside of it. Why settle for anything less than what my awesome vibrator can do that also wont risk my mental, physical wellbeing like a man does? Dick size matters. Know your compatibility. Also, I've had this idea. After 3 months of vetting, have the guy send a dick pick. I don't wanna waste anytime with a guy so I feel this could be good for vetting. Also see if he has ED/physical red flags.

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-25T08:16:11+00:00

I tend to struggle a little with my headspace because I think I take too long or I should service him, but he is slowly making me realize no, that’s not it.

This has totally been my problem in the past, so it's nice to know that if I'm ever interested in dating again, it is something I can get over with the help of the right guy

Glad you have someone who makes you happy ❤️!

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sikulet · 2020-12-26T06:32:21+00:00

Question, this sounds stupid but I don’t know who to ask. Haven’t slept with this person -

Is it also sexual compatibility when you’re with someone and just kissing them already makes you wet?

Whereas there are guys who are even eating you out but does nothing for you?

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Title	Let’s talk about sex.
Author	mysecretdiary2
Upvotes	235
Comments	22
Date	December 25, 2020 3:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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