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Literally when is the last time a man has deemed a woman un****able? They will take advantage of women in comas. This man wants to pretend he has standards for gf material? Men date body pillows...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:05 AM
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You may be giving him too much credit! If you hired an interior designer would you feel sad looking at your beautifully furnished apartment once their job was done, or miss them? Nope! He doesn't want a girlfriend to decorate his space, he wants a decorator that works for the price of dinner. And this woman will make his apartment comfortable for her replacement. And if it's "gay" to have a nice place- will he just tear it all down when yall stop talking? A project is an effort, and people expec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:00 AM
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Firstly, why is it a male default to make "murder scene" jokes when a woman has sex on her period? I've heard "my dk looks like a murder weapon", "wow looks like I k*lled your p*y", etc from guys. That's a huge red flag, and why on Earth do they feel so comfortable saying that?? I wish I'd had the courage back then to say, "Do you know that a woman is killed by someone close to her every 11 minutes? And you didn't even last that long." Secondly a man making his mom clean sex-stained sheets seems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:45 AM
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It's the "just play dumb" mentality we've been given forever. OP it's great advice! But we should have the confidence to say, "I'm actually an amazing cook, but I'd like for you to show me what you know!" Or if we do decide to cook for a man watch and see if he tries to correct you- or better yet, if he does the dishes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:35 AM
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My boyfriend is incredibly clean. Not in an obnoxious way, but if I'm busy practicing piano or working or studying he will clean. (He also has a great career, so there's no excuse for other guys to be lazy.) He steam cleans the baseboards around the house. He does all the laundry (and does it well), all the dishes, makes the bed, scrubs the toilets, vacuums, wipes down the surfaces of the house, etc. When we go to my parents house he does the cleaning there too. He's just a clean person! He take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:54 AM
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He's considerate. Honestly it's just that. He considers his finances, and yours. He considers his needs, and your needs He can consider his environment and clean it. Consider his appetite and cook himself a meal. Consider his goals and work to achieve them. Is considerate enough to check up on you. To hug you. Not to pressure you. He considers social issues. He considers your future together. At the risk of sounding redundant- he's considerate. Just being considerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:36 PM
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Men know the second they meet you that you are the one they want to be with. My father, grandfather, great grandfather, and even my ex husband all said the same. They knew they were going to marry the woman they did from the first moment they saw her. It doesn't even take a year- they know. They don't debate which car, computer, games, clothes, food, etc. they're going to get for a year. They already know. Men are decisive creatures, regardless of what they've led us to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:27 PM
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Honest question: if that's true, what would be the perfect stance for a man to have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:19 PM
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"If you say so"- ask, "Do you understand how I got to that conclusion? Can you explain it back to me, and tell me your thoughts?" This forces them to acknowledge you, and gives them a chance to speak. 99% of men will shut down because they weren't listening and don't have anything to say anyway. "How do you know that/can you give statistics?"- say, "I'm not an expert in this field. I've only read a few articles. I'd love to hear what statistics you can find." He's not going to look up shit. He's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:48 PM
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Thank you for this. I didn't even think to report a doctor to my insurance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:36 PM
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Jackie Treehorn treats objects like women, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:33 PM
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Imagine a world where men are so committed to turning women on that they start going to therapy and learn how to do laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:16 PM
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I paid a lot of money to have my boobs cosmetically removed so I would stop feeling like a piece of meat. Unfortunately I still get catcalled, but at least the back pain and speciality bras are over. I see where you're coming from, though. The sad truth is that pay-to-play cosmetic doctors are the only medical professionals that perform surgeries and procedures women want- even if they don't adhere to the standards women set. It's the biggest joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:15 PM
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And they have a family... Or a girlfriend at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:09 PM
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Don't forget about the women who are dismissed by healthcare professionals. When they say we hate men I say, "Not ALL men..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:04 PM
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As degrading and sexist as it is, this shows that women have a lot more going on, and are a lot deeper than their male counterparts. The fact that they're asking women about their career goals, etc. shows just how backwards we've gone, and how we don't need men at all. Next season they'll ask what allowance the female contestants would be willing to give to their male partners in between giving birth and caring for the home. Why do men exist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:57 AM
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Can you imagine what he would do if his girlfriend cheated on him? Do you think he's put $15k in his girlfriend's bank account? This is why we should not live with men, or date them exclusively, unless we're married. And even then... You just can't let your guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:46 AM
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Men will "simp" so much harder for other men than for women. This hit home for me when I saw a video a guy made that was talking about how men would be so much happier if they dated the women they wanted to date instead of going after women that other men wanted to date. It's all a flex for them that makes them ultimately unhappy and then they blame us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:05 AM
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All Of This. Why should the emotion be pity? Instead of feeling sorry for anyone, why isn't he mad? It's so aggravating to see men acknowledge that women "need" protection but to totally miss the point that we need protection from them. It's like letting wild bears into a residential community, but bringing in trained bears to protect people. If men are attacking men, women, children, animals, property, etc. then maybe men shouldn't be allowed outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:46 AM
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One of my favorite things is when young women announce, loudly, "OMG you're OLD" when crusty guys try to hit on them at a bar. Can we start shaming old men into staying home? Sir I'm sorry but you ran off the wife and mother of your children with your abhorrent behavior and now no one will talk to you... Please have some level of self awareness and realize that you don't need to burden a 23 year old woman with your shit. If you're really "trying to give back" then vote with your money & lobby fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:49 PM
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Men are insecure. I saw a YouTube video called born sexy yesterday that really drove that home for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:32 AM
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Thanks. I'm sorry if I came across as intrusive. Being over or underweight is mostly a socioeconomical issue. We have literal food deserts in this country that cause people to be smaller or larger than their bodies would be otherwise, but all men can thing about is how those bodies will perform sexually. I've also struggled with disordered eating & have had vastly different experiences with men at both high and low weights. The one thing that remains constant is that they are 99% trash lol ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:31 AM
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Vasectomy cost: $1,200+ Tubal ligation cost: $6,000+ Vasectomy reversal cost: $8,400 Tubal ligation reversal cost: $8,685 Vasectomy reversal success rate: 95% Tubal ligation reversal success rate: 40-80% Vasectomy surgical downtime: 24 immediate hours, 1 week long term Tubal ligation surgical downtime: 2-7 days immediate, 4 weeks+ long term Vasectomy reversal downtime: 2-4 weeks Tubal ligation reversal downtime: several months Cost to freeze sperm: $1,000 initial, $300-$500 per year Cost to free…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:42 AM
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Or 3) they've met plenty of predators and don't count them because "hE's AcTuALLy a GrEaT gUy ThAt wAs A oNe (2/3/4/5/6/etc) TiMe tHiNg!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:31 AM
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It's taboo for a woman to even say she wants a tall man in her dating profile. Imagine if we all said, "I want someone 6'+ with 6"+ and $600,000+ or don't contact me." Yeah they'll settle for less... For the night. But they have no risk. No pregnancy risk, much lower STD risk, lower social risk, lower crime/physical risk... It's a joke at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:28 AM
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Even their labia preferences are discussed with no shame. Men want to criticize an Arby's sandwich but can't handle pigs in a blanket jokes. Studies show women are accurately able to select a 3D model of the ideal penis size time and again that measures around 6.4". The average penis size in the US? 5.71" Men literally don't measure up. Yet we invest far more in breast implants/reductions, labiaplasty, and hymenorrhaphy (which I just learned is the word for hymen reconstructive surgery) than men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:25 AM
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Sadly it's been like that before porn. I think that's why women had to be extra guarded before we had more freedom to select a husband. If you were too polite to a man and he got it in his head that you liked him & asked for your hand it was a reflection on you that you led him on rather than him not being able to read social cues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:18 AM
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Men also don't seem to realize we're polite out of fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:15 AM
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I agree that thinner women are approached more since they fit the typical standard of beauty, but I want to caution women against believing that men who will talk to a bigger woman see women as more human. The truth is men will fetishize a woman's body at any size, and more often than not they're looking for signs of low self esteem so they can exploit that. I'm not trying to discount your lived experience, I just want to say that I've seen many girls on both ends of the weight spectrum be objec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:13 AM
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I've never met an engineer that wasn't misogynistic and devoid of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:39 AM
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Yet if he had a daughter he'd teach her that men should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:44 PM
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I only disagree with this for the fact that fear and pain are desired by men. They want to hurt us, and they want us to be scared of them. It's about power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:34 AM
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My uncle went to jail for unpaid child support. It's literally one of the only times I've seen it happen, and I think it was only carried out bc he actually got a "real" job that he was subsequently fired from & collected unemployment on and the state couldn't get him for anything else (his actual job is selling felony products) This was in Texas btw. I've seen other men sign parental rights over so they don't have to pay support, and we ALL know countless women going it alone and probably a few…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:26 AM
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I LOVE this argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:20 AM
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Lmao can we reverse this and demand every guy have a p**n sized peepee and a luscious, lumberjack beard? Why aren't they getting ab implants and getting bone lengthening procedures to be taller? Get those jaw implants, hun! No. They won't even go to they gym to work out. But God forbid you meet a man that does go to the gym because he will talk about it 100% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:18 AM
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They don't expect to parent them, yet they have the audacity to whine about how women & judges "keep" their children from them, and "r**e" them with child support. They also like to blame everything that goes wrong with the child on women. I watched this PUA last night say that most prisoners were raised by a single moms (I couldn't find any specific stats to back this up) while completely ignoring the fact that 1. That's probably actually poverty, and 2. The dad decided to be absent. He kept go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:06 AM
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I'm sorry if I sounded like I was attacking you. Your words were valid, and I also thought the same things. I'm glad we can have a discussion and all learn from what she went through and hopefully be better at recognizing those things sooner next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:12 AM
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I see this most reflected in male pick up artists. They say that women are wh***s, women cheat, women can't control themselves, men need to watch out for bad women who are only out for male validation... ... Yet they will actively sleep with/flirt with women who are in a relationship. Their whole "camaraderie" about "warning" men for signs of female depravity absolves themselves of any wrongdoing when it comes to hurting the men she's with. Actually I need help with this part: a lot of male PUA …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:10 AM
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I just think it's funny how men criticize us for not being wet with 0 minutes of foreplay looking at their hairy, sweaty, gross bodies and that's our fault, but when they can't get hard immediately with a girl that stays in shape, does her hair and makeup, cute lingerie, etc that's... Also our fault?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:01 AM
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While you're right I really try to hesitate with saying things like that. Of course hindsight is 20/20 and when you're observing things from an outside perspective it's easy to say, "Look at X! That's a red flag!" However when you're caught up in the moment and just letting things flow organically it's a lot harder to recognize. OP I think you did the best you could. I'm so happy you were able to get more information and if anything I hope next time you'll trust your gut. You instinctively knew …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:57 AM
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They will never stop talking about how fit they used to be either, and they will mansplain how you should be eating and working out bc they were once fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:13 AM
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My mom never talked about it. She grew up with only a LVM dad & brother, so she has an inherent aversion to anything that is considered feminine. My dad bought me flowers when I started my period. That was embarrassing. I think my biggest sense of sense of shame regarding periods comes from how society viewed women's biological functions when I was young. (For reference, I'm 33.) My friend's mom told me that her mother beat her with a hairbrush after she got her period at a park and bled on a pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:42 AM
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That's so sad. Slide them an FDS card
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:44 AM
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Not only do they not want to have kids, they want to actively stop women from being able to pick and choose when they have them. It's almost like it's about control more than childbirth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:20 AM
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No way a woman wrote the original post lmao! Imagine: "Hi I'm a successful researcher in my field, and I need to say that the other women I work with are way too snobby and their standards are much too high. I'd really like to see them settle down with a mediocre guy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:17 AM
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When I see women in dire situations dealing with stuff like drug addiction, eating disorders, poverty, psychological disorders, physical handicapa, etc. and men not only supporting them, but encouraging those things... I can't help but be disgusted. It's not that a woman can get any man (not throwing shade at you, but at incels that use arguments like this) it's that men will prey on any woman they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:15 AM
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"Marrying down" for a man is marrying someone hot that will impress other men. That's what makes me think this post was written by a woman. A man will never view marrying a dumb, hot girl as "marrying down" because their ultimate goal is to impress other men (which is a little sus tbh) and guys will be much more impressed by a hot young thing over a woman with a PhD. College costs just as much for a man as it does for a woman. Men are more likely to be published, have the benefit of the doubt, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:03 AM
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Not dating advice, but they wrote about someone having an intimate relationship with her father: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/news/amp33604/girl-describes-sex-with-dad/ But Teen Vogue had a guide to having anal sex... For teens! https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.teenvogue.com/story/anal-sex-what-you-need-to-know/amp I think both have published articles on bondage, etc. It's gross. Sorry I can't give a non amp link 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:56 AM
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Isn't that some shit that every other animal on earth got the idea right, but humans just... Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:44 AM
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I think this is a great point! Being happier after ending a toxic relationship is one of the best motivators there is to become a better you. Even if you're sad or angry about the breakup: use that energy to push yourself! Life is going to cycle anyway. There will always be something that causes a catalyst for change: a new car, new job, seasons progressing, a friend's wedding, etc. Breakups are amazing fuel as long as you understand it's a new period for growth and not a negative reflection on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:45 AM
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My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing. When I think about the "freedom" to have sex with anyone it reminds me a lot of leaving your front door unlocked. Is it exciting? Is it dangerous and risky? Yeah. If someone breaks in and steals your stuff they are 100% responsible for the wrong thing that they did, but a part of you will always blame yourself for being so vulnerable and trusting. A lot of women and girls get caught up in the idea that being free is living life "like a man", as if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:37 AM
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Erm... Thanks EmpJoseph lmao Go back to your cave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:49 AM
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I've said this time and again: WOMEN DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HAVING CHILDREN!!! We are made for it, we're strong enough for it, we rejoice in the fact that we can. Why don't women want to have children? There's the problem. Because we're giving up our careers, our schooling, our free time, our social status, our bodies (in a culture that grossly idealizes young, childfree bodies), our autonomy, etc. And for what???? A huge medical bill for the pregnancy, insurance/healthcare that may be less …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:36 AM
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Man= expressing anger Woman= omg she's destructive and abusive she's insane and crazy she must be unhinged... No, we're just mad. That's normal. It's awful and unacceptable, but it's normal. What freaks me out is why men are so angry. What are they mad about??? They have literally everything handed to them, and they're still doing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:04 AM
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Men: I used someone that displayed questionable traits for my pleasure. Other men: wow she's crazy you dodged a bullet great job! Women: a man stalked, harassed, and tried to assault me because I smiled at him while he rang up my groceries. Men: well what were you wearing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:17 PM
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OmG i HaVe aLL tHoSe!! Ladies, please. Look who you're trying to appeal to. This is the bar. It's buried 18 ft underground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:12 PM
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Controversial opinion: I feel sorry for her. She's spreading a toxic message to other women, but I think it's important that we empathize in order to counteract that message. She obviously feels so isolated from other women and so insecure that she's willing to sacrifice her comfort and boundaries in order to try and fix a problem she didn't create. Well, why? Because it's easier to blame yourself and try harder to control the Situation than it is to admit that the man you love is garbage. We've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:04 PM
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They do. My dad is the primary reason I'm wary of men. My father never let me go out of the house without a knife or screwdriver or something that could be used as a weapon. He taught me to be aware of people around me, not to smile at men or engage in conversation with them (he'd seen guys he knew mistake politeness for flirting), never to announce when I'm leaving, etc. I always thought he was paranoid growing up, but now I'm sad that he was so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:07 AM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeSXxVwW/ I think that's it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:30 AM
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This video has been posted before. In what circumstances is it okay to generalize a whole group of people? Is it okay for women to go up to men and say, "Hey you need to come change my flat tire. Why not? You're a man! Men have traditional values! Men are supposed to know how to do these things! Change my tire!" Um, no. Yet she's saying that MEN generalizing women is a WOMAN'S fault instead of men projecting. She's placing the blame on the wrong sex. Basically "it's her fault for dressing that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:53 PM
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Shane Dawson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:21 PM
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Am I stupid or dumb? What is he even trying to get at? I am surprised that he's literate, so he's not wrong there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:37 AM
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I love how he also mentions she won't be there for a few weeks -wink-wink-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:07 PM
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They can only put themselves in other men's shoes, because who can put themselves in the shoes of an object or an appliance? ew. A fellow intellectual, I see. I said the exact same thing, yesterday. There was a book mentioned on this sub, called The Macho Paradox, by Jackson Katz. (I'm reading it now, and lemme say- it's Good!) He points out that violence against women is actually a men's problem, not a woman's plight, since it is men who are the perpetrators of said violence. We've gone too lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:35 AM
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This is so spot on. I was just watching a YouTube video called "Born Sexy Yesterday" that talks about films that portray adult women in situations where they're new to the world, like Darryl Hannah in Splash, Milla Jovovich in The Fifth Element, etc. Men fetishize women who are inexperienced and naive because if she has never experienced another man then they win by default. These are average men who aren't appealing to women that are more experienced, and the idea of a woman having equal or gre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:55 AM
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First of all, Big Joel is amazing. He's a sweetheart. I love his takes on abortion and women's issues. Secondly, yeah Dr. Phil is a total asshat. He's a doctor of philosophy, and I get the sense that that wasn't even well-earned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:43 AM
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Omg that's a great idea 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:36 AM
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Lmao men pretending that they want their robot girlfriends to have a personality 😂😂 And I thought men weren't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:35 AM
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Bet that when they start marrying robots they will do the exact same thing. If they hate competing with actual, flawed human women just wait and see how pissy they get about their perfect robot wives. Hopefully they'll start marrying these androids and let us all retire to a remote corner of the world where we can be left alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:33 AM
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I used to like to listen to hiphop, but I cannot un-hear how misogynistic it is. Even the songs on the radio are shocking. What good does censoring bad language do when the whole song is about using women as objects? B**** is the second most used word in rap. It it's core rap & hip hop are good, but it seems like now you have to dig really deep to find music that isn't perpetuating the casual and deliberate objectification of women. Those hurtful messages are being normalized, and black women- w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:58 PM
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I'd like to see the one you watched. This one was on a website called BrainHeartWorld. It also had a weird vibe to it. The jokey narration didn't quite fit with the serious subject matter being discussed. It felt like it was either made by christians, or it was made for teens, or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:06 PM
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Try Girl in Red or Clairo. Peak lesbian tunes 🎵🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:40 PM
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mEn CaN cHaNgE. iT wAs jUsT a MiStAkE. I was watching a documentary yesterday about how p*rn is detrimental to people and society. One of the guys, at 13, interviewed m-----ed a girl that was younger than him and went to juvenile for it. He talked about how he was so scared, he was just a kid, he'd ruined his life (no mention of how the victim felt). Now he's 21 and working with teens. Less than 10 years after he was locked up he is around young, vulnerable people. Who made the decision to hire …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:23 PM
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It's inescapable. Movies, tv shows, the news, radio, magazines, ads... Every form of media is riddled with stories and depictions of violence against women. We will never go one day of our lives where we aren't exposed to a story about a girl that's been raped, beaten, and/or killed. Not just a person being assaulted, but a gender-motivated assault against a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:13 PM
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Your dad seems like a HVM ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:50 PM
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Why do 90% of men have such awful handwriting? Some guys I've known have been outspokenly embarrassed about their writing. They knew it was bad, but they'd never try to improve. Instead they'd ask me to fill out things like job applications for them. Me- being the naive lass I once was- would do it, and they would get an interview. When I was a manager I would have never considered an application for a male candidate that was clearly written by a woman. The fact that he was already outsourcing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:45 PM
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It's really sad that he outright said he doesn't want to date, but she will interpret him saying "I missed you" as a sign that he has feelings. I tell my instapot I missed it when I dig it out of the closet- that doesn't mean I want a relationship. For him to continue having sex with her knowing that she has feelings for him is absolutely vile, and not surprising. The fact that she can't see she's being used makes me really sad. Women are worth so much more than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:27 PM
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Omg it's worse than if he didn't have a bedframe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:29 PM
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He talks about how porn caused him to m***** a younger girl when he was 13. He says he was scared when he went to jail, how he was just a kid, how it ruined his life. He doesn't seem to show any remorse for the scared child he hurt and traumatized. It just goes to show how detrimental p*** is. How it really rots their brains. And that is the point of the whole docuseries, but can they do better than having a literal r***** interviewed? Maybe he's a better person now, maybe they were going for sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:01 PM
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Agree. The narrative is pushed on us from childhood with fairytale stories of a girl being swept away by an underwhelming, frankly creepy prince charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:51 PM
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I think the negative statistics about marriage come from the fact that most marriages are awful. Marriage can be beneficial to both parties. Maybe I'm sure you know at least one happy couple. Hopefully? Maybe? Lol! A woman that's not interested in marriage, or that's happier being single, should never compromise. There are some women that want a husband and kids. There are some good men out there. Being able to experience physical intimacy and the process of growing old with someone that lifts y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:22 PM
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Women are the biggest champions of equal rights, equal pay, helping the homeless, nursing the sick, etc. Is it really that we're built differently? As animals we should all be able recognize distress in another. Maybe men are just socialized from birth to ignore those emotional cues. A guy on some incel-esque sub the other day told me that "men and women don't communicate the same way," so it's "impossible for a husband to talk to his wife." I call bullshit. Men are just as capable as women at p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:16 PM
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I can relate. Men where I live love thin women- probably because it makes them more childlike. That doesn't mean they won't try to bed bigger girls, normal girls, any girl at all... But most men have pedophilic tendencies ime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:04 PM
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You're so right about the list. I can't even tell you how many times a male doctor has dismissed my valid concerns. We probably all have multiple, similar experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:00 PM
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More like Jackson Bollocks. His wife basically made him. He was just a violent drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:58 PM
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And when she has to take significant time off or quit her job to birth and raise his spawn where will they be? Why isn't a man that dates a woman who earns more than him referred to as a gold digger? If a man said this it would be, "Good for you King know your worth we're equal these days no p***y pass for women your money is yours 50/50!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:49 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psypost.org/2020/06/men-are-drawn-to-borderline-personality-traits-in-physically-attractive-women-study-finds-56961/amp Scientifically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:43 PM
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And here he is virtue signaling on social media, posting borderline creepy photographs of his sleeping wife and newborn. Privacy be damned, this man has a Message to spread. Hopefully the insta baddies he follows don't like this message. Women aren't walking wombs. We deserve to be appreciated whether we give birth or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:42 PM
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BuT DiVoRcE iS FiNanCiAL r**E fOr mEn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:39 PM
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How much do you want to bet that his idea of an intellectual conversation is just mansplaining and talking over her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:35 PM
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I think this may be a joke about American culture. Filling out dating profiles and first date questions are like job applications more than getting to know one another organically. Then you have pre-marital counseling and then therapy after, etc. You're right to vet and observe, though. Most men won't go to therapy anyway... Unless you count an affair as such...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:31 PM
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Consider this perspective from opposite world: the man is a wonderful person, and you are a hysterical harpie that's toxic. Isn't it better that you blocked him so that he doesn't have to deal with you? Why are they mad? Now, back to reality: I read the post, and obviously I can't judge yall's whole relationship from one conversation, but you are absolutely within your rights to stop talking to people at any time, for any reason. The lengths strangers on the internet will go to trying to control…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:53 PM
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I think it's a really personal choice. On one hand yeah, get your bag if it's there for the taking. Zero damage to you, little to no damage to the man. The other side of the coin is that you'll start to view people as disposable- a means to an end. As tempting as it is to capitalize on your ability to "get" things from people it puts you in the possession of selling yourself. Essentially objectifying yourself. You are the product- your time, your energy, your attention. You'd need to be incredib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:45 PM
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If they don't want kids they shouldn't open their peeholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:25 AM
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Men are intently afraid of older women with experience. There's a reason wise old women were burned as witches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:24 AM
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I avoid eye contact with general men, but if I'm alone & there are like one or two guys around that I feel shifty about I'll make sure to meet eyes so they know I'm aware of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:16 AM
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I think it's better to let them know. Most predators use the element of surprise and anonymity. Looking them directly in the eyes lets them know you're aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:12 AM
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Unfathomable to think we still haven't grown out of "prude" being used as an insult against us. Or s**t. It's almost like we can't win when men control our value as humans based on their sexual desires...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:38 PM
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My father always taught me to be aware of my surroundings, be quiet when coming and going, take a screwdriver or similar tool when walking around the neighborhood, etc. I always thought he was crazy. Now I realize he was: women don't need a screwdriver- we need bear mace and a taser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:54 AM
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Thanks 😊 But it sounded like you had attitude when you said that lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:31 AM
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Okay so they don't want us to be direct, but they also say we talk too much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:46 PM
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I'm not going to continue to argue with you all night, though I appreciate what you have to say. I'll say my piece, and if you want to have the last word then be my guest. Female inmate-on-inmate assault is not viewed or punished as "true" rape, leading to a higher prevalence. Female inmates are also sexually abused by male prison guards, who make up 41% of the workforce and 98% of staff-on-inmate rape perpetrators. That's abhorrent and should be changed. It's absolutely disgusting to see female…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 03:48 AM
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The prison system embodies this, with sex offenders having to be segregated because they're not safe and will get beaten and murdered Or raped, by other men. When men struggle its dismissed because men can't possibly have issues because we're so privileged. Men also reinforce this idea. Seeking therapy and asking for help is considered "feminine". Women have been asking men to talk forever. We've been trying to communicate. Very few women will judge a man for expressing emotion, whereas other me…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 02:28 AM
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Yes, if you consistently chose awful men/women then you are the common denominator and need to reevaluate your standards. You talk about men absolving themselves of a need to act, but what exactly are men supposed to do in this situation? What are women supposed to do? Match with men they aren't attracted to and message them first? A man being unattractive and introverted does not mean that they're a good person... As we can clearly see. Yet here you are saying that women have it easier because …
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 01:53 AM
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Let me repeat this back to you: because men are the ones constantly accused of being shallow and focused on looks A better looking guy might be willing to fuck ya, but he ain't gonna wife you up. So that proves men are not shallow how, exactly? About sending the first message: it's not a fucking litmus test for character. A conversation should evolve organically, during the course of which both parties are able to gauge their compatibility. A man or woman that sends the first message is just the…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 01:18 AM
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If "having it easier" were a game of likes then yes, women have it "easier". That's been acknowledged. Yes, there are more men than women on dating apps. If it is a "buyer's market" then why wouldn't the women be able to be more selective? Men must be of very low intelligence and critical thinking skills to continue to use (and complain about) an app that's designed to exploit them. This isn't even relevant. This goes back to point #2. I'm not saying that women are ending up with fuckboys. I am …
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 12:51 AM
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How do women have it easier? If you're saying they have access to more casual sex then yes, you're right. But with that casual sex comes a higher risk of getting an STD, an unwanted pregnancy, sexual coercion, physical violence. And after the act the man gets to celebrate his sexual conquest while the woman is largely labeled a slut. Men still dictate the terms of engagement. You even said online dating is a shitshow- there may very well be some shallow girls on these apps, but what you've prove…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 12:25 AM
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He's married with children though...
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 12:02 AM
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"I'd like to go through your likes..." Imagine if he did and it was just video after video of hot, sexy, buff men pretending to pound someone, etc. He'd lose his shit. Her likes are probably recipes and DIYs and cute animals. Men are depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:52 AM
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They also like to say women have daddy issues and are looking for a father figure, as if half of the entire population hasn't grown up in a broken family. Okay, Brad, you didn't have a father either who tf are you to say anyone has daddy issues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:46 AM
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You may be right, but I've seen this sentiment too many times in women (my past self included).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:35 PM
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I used to "love sex". I would have sex with anyone I wanted to (and a lot of people I didn't want to ) because I thought that there's no harm in it. It feels good, I'm grown. A woman can have sex just like a man, right? Now I feel like a lot of that time was wasted. I wasn't really exploring things that made me happy- I was playing a role that the people I was with expected from me. Even though I had tons of sex, I wasn't sexually intelligent. I was never totally comfortable with my body and my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:41 PM
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You're right. Kids shouldn't be legally punished for expressing normal sexual interest. I think it's crazy that if a girl under 18 takes a nude photo of herself and sends it to her boyfriend she can be charged with possessing and distributing child porn. Or how sometimes sex slaves or women that have been coerced into sex work will be charged with prostitution. I've heard that sometimes it's done to try and protect the girls, and I don't know enough about the legal system to know if that's true …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:15 PM
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Insert burning room "this is fine" meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:13 PM
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And honestly do 16 year olds need to be having sex? A 16 year old girl is much more mature than a 16 year old boy (because we have to be) but neither of them are mature enough to deal with the effects of a pregnancy. Can we let children be children ffs??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:04 PM
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While he seems like a good enough guy, I have my doubts. Is he trying to take care of her so that she doesn't become too depressed & let herself and the housework go? Did he really have to go to work? A parent's death is pretty serious. And, of course, these are all basic things. When your partner's parent dies it's not being "one of the good ones" to comfort your spouse. I feel sorry for OP's loss. The pain of losing your parent must be insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:57 PM
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The fight against racism and sexism go hand in hand. It's vile that men of minority groups, who know what it's like to be oppressed, have no problem turning around and oppressing their own women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:31 PM
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She also has a video https://youtu.be/rFQ7mi7_rlk Where she walked out of a date after a guy lied to her about having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:58 PM
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Iggy was always cringe. There's a woman that has a history of making bad, uneducated, irrational decisions. I feel sorry for the poor kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:53 PM
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I applaud a culture that can get even one man to support a child, let alone multiple lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:26 PM
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They're not benefitting from it. They're at another person's beck and call. It's not a handout. It's a service rendered. Every time they look at their Chanel bag they need to imagine a tangible amount of their effort, time, youth, beauty, and whatever else they did to get it reflected there. Those are things they can't get back. Yeah it takes longer to work hard and buy those things for yourself (if you even want them...) but you're not having a psychic vampire suck the life out of you for it. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:19 PM
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I've started posting this on incel/redpill forums when they talk about how women need to be a virgin in order for them to have any worth/all women are w***es nowdays: "Women are made to have multiple sexual partners. That's why a male is capable of impregnating numerous women in a short amount of time. When the women in a society have sex with multiple men then all men in the group must treat every child and pregnant woman with kindness, and feed them equally, with the idea that he is guarding h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:11 PM
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This is a great fucking point. Imagine if the photos they saved on their phones were in an album as actual pictures on their coffee table. A girl comes over and starts perusing through his album and instead of seeing photos of him on trips, his cat, his family, etc. it's just page after page after page of girls he went to highschool with in bathing suits, women he's never met with their boobs out, and all of the pages are sticky... She'd nope the fuck out very fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:00 PM
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Porn consumption and promiscuity wears out their dopamine receptors and destroys their grey matter, making them unable to pair bond with their wife and children. No empathy, low-quality sperm and erections. Absolutely morally bankrupt. Avoid at all cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:52 PM
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"Lay some pipe." Oh my God absolutely no originality. Men are the least creative beings on the planet. Block, delete, get tested, vet harder next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:37 PM
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And refuses to sign the now 9 month old child's birth certificate, despite her saying it was a planned pregnancy. She should take him to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:49 PM
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This scrote is an idiot, but men actually do feel this way. Men absolutely will start writing/thinking shit like this as soon as they throw the tissue away. It's a vicious cycle: Our misogynistic culture teaches women that their biggest value is their looks, women seek validation from men by showing their body off, men continue to view women as objects and say that they're only good for their looks, ad infinitum. By the way the term "wifey material" makes me gag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:43 PM
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I'm sorry. I didn't mean to throw any shade on women that aren't able to have a home birth. I'm sorry you had a difficult pregnancy, and I hope that you and your baby are doing well now. If giving birth in the hospital is what a woman wants or needs to do that's totally fine! We should work to reform the hospital standards of birth, though, and make sure we're aware of the risks so that we can mitigate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:36 PM
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That's why we need to stop telling girls that if a boy is mean to you it means he likes you. Instead we should let them know that if a boy likes you he will be nice to you, you are under no obligation to like him/be nice back, and those mean little fucks are insecure assholes that should be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:33 PM
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if he's to be believed He's not. He's lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:19 PM
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He admits that he likes the double standards, so I'm sure he's not rushing to change them. He also speaks disparagingly of other men that seem to "value" women, implying that they only do so as a ruse to sleep with them. He's not wrong, and he's self aware, but he's definitely low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:18 PM
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Buy Air-fryer Lmao you got me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:14 PM
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I think she's trolling. She also said women should spend $3,000 on the first date. What's not funny is that there are women like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:12 PM
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Even if she knew he wasn't single, he also knew he wasn't single! She didn't cheat on you, he did. Blaming the other woman shows men that they don't have to be responsible for their actions. You can keep blaming the other woman, and then the other other woman, and then the other other other woman, but the truth is he's going to keep cheating because woman aren't the problem- he is. While it's scummy for a woman to cheat with a man she knows is in a relationship, ultimately that relationship has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:03 PM
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I think either would be a good choice as long as you picked a very HVM. The most important thing is that they need to advocate for you, put your needs first, and be a stable figure you can rely on. If either one is squeamish around blood/bodily messes then they should be outside the room. In reality hospital births are barbaric. Women are routinely abused and mistreated during delivery. We only give birth on our backs because men are perverts. Not to mention the fact that C-section rates are unn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:51 PM
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Ah okay I see now. She's absolutely right, though. He was trying to make it her fault, and he did treat her badly by allowing his family to disrespect her. How did he think that would turn out? Jfc he & his family are cruel and incredibly stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:44 AM
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Let's be honest- LVM won't even give that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:34 AM
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"I said I didn't realize they were going to do that..." You know who really didn't know they were going to do that? His girlfriend. Especially after she'd warned him she wouldn't tolerate any disrespect and gave him ample time to warn his family. Typical for him to make it seem like he was the one blindsided. "She said I let them treat her badly and was trying to make it her fault when it was my family who was acting badly." Is that a typo where he meant to say "make it my fault"? Excuse me, you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:26 AM
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They're also unwashed, lazy, loud, and useless lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:45 AM
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Pickmes are dangerous. They range from relatively harmless girls that have been brainwashed into equating their self worth with male attention to predatory women that will lure other girls into their homes so their disgusting male partner can use and sometimes abuse them. The harmless ones give men a false sense of value and make it possible for them to have a backup plan, and of course the predatory pickmes are bad all around. I love women. Absolutely love us. I don't think that there's much we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:24 AM
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This was my problem for the longest time. I would often have instances where, when my partner asked to go down on me, I'd think, "Oh it will be too much work, it will take too much time. He's going to be so bored down there when we could just have sex and get it over with..." But I had a very patient partner explain that he likes pleasuring me. Yes, actually likes it! That him going down on me wasn't a means to an end- it was the end. Another issue was learning to let go of the idea that every s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:38 PM
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How do men justify things like this? They say things like, "If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant she should keep her legs closed/take birth control/take plan B/etc," all while blatantly ignoring the fact that THEY are the ones pressuring us into having unprotected sex and that THEY are more than capable of being an active participant in their own birth control (a vasectomy). Think about the language aspect: Women get f-ed. Women get pregnant. Those statements imply that the woman is a passive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:04 PM
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Oh my God their manifesto is hilarious. Will someone please think of the men! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:50 AM
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Always reminds me of a quote from The Age of Innocence where Newland (the main character) is talking about his virginal fiance, "And he felt himself oppressed by this creation of factitious purity, so cunningly manufactured by a conspiracy of mothers and aunts and grandmothers and long-dead ancestresses, because it was supposed to be what he wanted, what he had a right to, in order that he might exercise his lordly pleasure in smashing it like an image made of snow." Aside from his whining what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:31 AM
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It's almost like these false equivalences are illogical. They're both working, and you use your body to work, so stocking shelves and having sex are the same! Both are selling their body. Presto logical fallacy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:18 PM
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No one is going to laud a prostitute for her "determination" and "dedication." No one will say, "She was a humble, hard-working, honest woman." The way they will with a warehouse worker. She won't be called, "a salt-of-the-earth type, a simple woman with an open heart." The way a warehouse worker will be. No inspiring story will be told about how she worked nights at a menial job to put herself through college, etc. Instead she'll be a w***e. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:14 PM
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If it's a picture of a miniature cake a girl made out of polymer clay, or a photo she took of a sunset, or a book about philosophy she recommends or a delicious looking meal advertising the restaurant- yeah those are things people can like. Those are gender-neutral photos. (Unless she's like posing nude with all those things lol...) But liking a photo of a woman in a Borat-esque speedo with her ass and titties on prominent display while she sticks her tongue out with the caption, "Would you take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:36 PM
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It's dangerous, too, that in order for polyamory to work in their specific instance she has to aid & abet her husband/boyfriend. It's predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:00 PM
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But the burden of birth control would still be on women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:46 PM
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Try focusing on the feelings instead of the act. It took me forever to get off from oral because I had such a hang-up about it in my mind (what if it smells bad, what if my dead grandmother is watching, etc.) Once I got with someone that was gentle and patient and I learned to relax and enjoy the feelings coming from my body instead of resisting them it was a whoooole new story. I've never got off from PIV or fingering, but when I play with my own clit with my fingers (in very specific positions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:33 AM
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In my experience working front-facing customer service men start being extra pervy when their wives are in the later stages of pregnancy, or after they've just given birth. Maybe they feel inadequate at how strong and powerful their wives/girlfriends are, or maybe they're just pornsick freaks that can't hold it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:20 AM
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Right?? Was he "so scared" of becoming a dad a second time? He should have been "so scared" of his wife having complications or losing his marriage. Jfc the auuudaaaaaacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:16 AM
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Recognize the past and move forward. If you aren't making those same mistakes now then you've grown. We can't hold ourselves accountable for everything we did when we were young. We used to soil ourselves in diapers until we were taught to do otherwise. With women it can take a long time to not tie your self worth to sex. We don't have mentors that teach us that we're in control. On one hand you have libfems screaming about how promiscuity = power. On the other hand you have religious zealots te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:07 AM
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I'll keep saying it: If women have to verify their name, age, ss#, etc. to star in porn men should have to verify the same to shoot/upload/download/watch it. If a woman can be shamed for making porn then men should be shamed for uploading/watching it. Instead of only calling out women (like the medic) who have an onlyfans account let's also call out the subscribers. I don't support porn in any way, but it exists, and it doesn't exist in a vacuum. This is a two-way street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:28 AM
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I'm going to quote Andrea Dworkin here from Intercourse, when she's talking about A Streetcar Named Desire: "Because Stanley has no interior life of feeling, he has no remorse; the rape is just another fuck for him. It takes a human consciousness, including a capacity for suffering, to distinguish between a rape and a fuck. With no interior life of human meaning and human remorse, any fuck is simply expressive and animalistic, whatever its consequences or circumstances. Blanche pays the price fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:23 AM
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Happy cake day! I'm addition to that, settling for a LVM won't bring any emotional support at all, but will add a burden that will ultimately hinder your goals. Multiply that burden by a thousand if you're unfortunate enough to have a kid with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:26 AM
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Women don't usually report sexual harassment because 1. It's so commonplace that it takes more time to report than to ignore, and 2. If we do report it then the cop will most likely not care/not do anything/question us as to what we were doing to cause the scene to happen, or all of the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:05 PM
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Teachers & professors are not fun to date. They take mansplaining to a whole new level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:00 PM
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Read it in one go. The only bad thing about the book is that it should be longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:54 PM
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It broke my heart that at the end she said she should lower her standards and be less picky. If a legendary Hollywood director is casting for a movie but having a hard time finding someone to fill a role- they don't settle for less than visionary, or change the standards of the role! They widen their search. And we've seen actors completely physically and mentally change to play parts they wanted. Your life is much more valuable than a movie, and you are the director. Don't settle for your secon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:09 PM
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Women are appalled and shocked by a society that normalizes men having a bare minimum standard of living touting that as a "free and easy" lifestyle while pressuring women to not only have their lives together but to step into a man's life and make his better as well. We're also disgusted at the other "simple" thing it takes for men to be happy (not pictured): our bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:35 PM
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Unless they're the type of LVM that lets their girlfriend exploit her body for money while they sit around playing video games, jobless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:15 PM
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Men get off on catcalling young girls because they know they won't retaliate and it will shake them deeply. Even adult women rarely get catcalled when they're with a man. It isn't about them shooting their shot, it's about control and instilling fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:51 PM
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This. Women usually only snoop if they have a suspicion that something is wrong. Call it feminine intuition, but if a girl is snooping then 9/10 he's given her a reason to, and she will find out what's happening. Always trust your instincts, and never be afraid to call someone out and hold them accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:47 PM
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He knows she's not going anywhere. If he were worried/cared about losing her he'd tie the knot yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:20 PM
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I can't remember where I read it, but there was something about men perpetually going to clubs and bars forever until the young adult women there started to shame them and say they were old. That's when they'll finally stop. If asked men may say they got tired of being hungover, or it just wasn't fun anymore, but the actual reason is that young girls were turned off by them and wouldn't give them the time of day. Your response was eloquently worded. "No thanks, grandpa!" followed by a block is a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:14 AM
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And blaming the problem on Russia decriminalizing DV instead of understanding that the root of the problem is the misogynist world we live in. He didn't put her out because DV is decriminalized, and the men watching his stream didn't donate because of that. The reason DV is decriminalized, the reason he did what he did, the reason the viewers donated to see that content is because men hate women and don't view them as human. I bet he'd get a lengthier sentence if they could prove the fetus was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:56 AM
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Just wait! I'm sure having all the benefits of a wife without any of the obligations or commitment will make him see what he's missing out on! /s Can someone please direct her to this sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:29 AM
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He wants to sleep with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:27 AM
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How many male friends did he send those messages to? Block and delete ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:16 AM
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Looks like he's not even ready to commit to spelling 3-letter words. Every day I see the member count of this sub go up, and I thank God women everywhere are getting wiser to how low effort most men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:14 AM
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He's right- it was a great way for them to get to know each other. She got to learn he was a clown, and he learned that she's not going to put up with bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:49 PM
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No woman has ever impressed a man or won his respect by being his mother and treating him like a princess. While pickmes are actively spoiling their man he will be fantasizing about the elusive woman elsewhere that lets him take her out and has standards which make him work to win her over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:41 PM
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"If women want to be equal then they should expect to get hit like a man and do physical labor like a man." Okay but can we start with not being sexually harassed for walking down the street and the ability to get a promotion?? Edit: also can you share the video? Ty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:23 PM
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Not sure how I feel about this one. At first I disagreed with the author, but as they referenced the actual book and how the character is literally ugly in it (I've never read it) I sort of agree that the star in the adaptation may not have needed to be beautiful. This is just another example of women needing to be drop-dead gorgeous in media in order for anyone to care about how smart they are. Maybe I wondered this wrong, but my intentions are good. I, for one, would like to see more "regular"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:55 PM
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They don't see us as people, plain and simple. We're sexual objects that exist to fulfill their perverse desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:46 PM
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Also know that if you date down (below your looks equivalent) with the mindset that he'll be nicer/more faithful because you're so much hotter than him you are wrong! Men do not have that level of self awareness. He will think that he's more attractive than he actually is and will still take you for granted. The sad thing is that other pretty girls will see that you're with him and assume he's better than he is, so that when you break up he may actually have a chance at getting another girl that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:42 PM
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This. And it's frustrating because when we say men are trash they come back with, "NoT aLL mEn!" but when we tell our boyfriend, etc. about a male friend at work they get worried because they know what he's after. If we want to run down to the mailbox in a bikini after swimming our dads will tell us to cover up because they know how men are. If you tell a male friend that you're just going to walk home, alone, he'll be worried for you because they know men are dangerous. But "not all men!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:36 PM
65

A man being a picky eater is a huge red flag. It's one thing to have a preference and to dislike certain tastes/textures, but someone that stops short of saying (or actively does say), "Ew/yuck/gross!" is a child. I've noticed that most men who are extremely picky eaters also have weird relationships with their moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:01 PM
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I honestly wonder about the hatred men have towards women. I've read that they're scared of "castration", they're scared of the sexual power we have over them, they're afraid and confused by childbirth, etc. None of it really makes sense as to why the other gender of our human species would hold us in such contempt. We're all essentially working towards the same goals. What sense does it make for them to continually sabotage us and try to hold us back, essentially holding back all of humanity? A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:37 AM
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Just a friendly reminder that Reddit is not our friend! The moderator of r/feminism & a few of his- yes, HIS!- underlings are members of MRA subs. You can Google it. Or see more info here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ShitRedditSays/comments/wksar/meta_an_éxpósé_rfeminism_is_run_by_mras/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share (Sorry if linking isn't allowed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:21 AM
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These men need to be charged with a crime. You can't just say anything you want to someone and justify it by the fact that it's not "real life". If virtual porn is real enough for them to get off to then virtual threats are real enough for them to be jailed/fined for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:22 PM
43

Pay attention to the people that criticize them and what their lives look like vs how content and unbothered your aunts are. Education will never leave you or disappoint you. Your education won't pressure you into decisions you're unsure of. Education will give the same (if not more) back to you that you put into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:12 PM
159

YTA for not dumping him entirely. Tell me again how women are always nagging and highly emotional and can't control ourselves. It's sad that she had to be evicted along with him. Hopefully she takes note about what happens when you hitch yourself to a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:08 PM
77

You're so right. As if they aren't responsible for their own insecurities as well as ours. We live in a culture where men having a high number of sexual partners is good, and women having multiple partners is bad? Gee, I wonder who is responsible for that!! Your girlfriend was coerced into having sex? Who could have initiated that? You're upset bc you think a man is owed sex from their partner? What gender could have possibly set those expectations up?? Men go out of their way to make society a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:15 PM
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The audacity of this scumbag! Whether she's a virgin, has had one partner, or has had 500 partners sex is never guaranteed! I don't think he understands that women have the right to chose who they are sexually active with. I really wonder if he understands consent as well. Hopefully she breaks up with him, because his mentality is not healthy at all. If sex means that much to him then he should go fuck himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:37 AM
18

They should have surprised him with a gym membership. Unless his kid's college fund is complete he should feel ashamed for letting his family spend that much money on gaming consoles. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:01 AM
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It's probably due to the fact that there are such limited spaces for women. Women have to fight one another to be promoted in a male-run workplace. We're taught that men choose the women they will marry (not that it's a mutual decision) so when one girl is picked it means another girl failed. We see beauty pageants like Miss America, etc. where women are judged on how they look, so every misstep, every stutter, every hair out of place is something to celebrate because that means you could make i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:37 AM
6

A HVM will respect your decision. You should look for someone that is okay with either option and can see the benefits of both that will leave the choice up to you, since it's your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:31 AM
51

Your girlfriend supported you through law school while you never took her out & she made you home cooked meals and drew up study charts for you and let you use her car to go to class and ironed your clothes and brought you lunch when you were on break, but now that you're making $100K a year she wants to go on dates? 🚩🚩 She's a gold digger. Red flags!!🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:24 AM
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One of my ex male friends is an engineer in the oil industry. He's very frugal to the point of being cheap. He's been with his girlfriend for 5 years and has no intention of marrying her. He makes her pay half the bills for the home he bought. He constantly texts other girls, but would never actually follow through and physically cheat. He decorated his entire home himself and once made his girlfriend cry when she (with his mom!) picked out a table runner to go on the dining room table as a gift…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:36 PM
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That or he's cheating. Sometimes men will stop/dramatically decrease sex with their partner when they find someone new. He may have met up with someone while she was out of town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:34 AM
151

He's attempting to sleep while his son screams, and then later he says his son will scream over nothing. Idk maybe if he was an active father his son wouldn't feel the need to scream for attention. What did he think having a kid would be like? And this NVM is teaching his son some bad habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:23 AM
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Agree. It's not often that a man will leave a marriage. We hear the trope of a man divorcing for his secretary, etc. but in reality he would fuck his secretary and then fire her once his wife found out. Men are awful, and they're lazy. They don't want to give up domestic comfort unless they're sure the woman they're leaving for will take care of them the same way. Plus they don't want to pay child support/alimony. I think that's why some men kill their wives instead of divorcing. They want to ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:14 PM
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Maybe a necrophiliac, too. A sex doll is as close as you can get to a dead woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:07 PM
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The comments are awful. I only saw 1 in 20 people say that's wrong. Most people were joking or saying nonsense, and of course a few guys said she liked being handled that way. This is absolutely sick. Reported for graphic content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:53 PM
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Less talking over people, less interruptions. More women stepping into roles they were denied previously, exploring more trades that weren't welcoming before. Women wearing more comfortable clothes because we aren't dressing for men. The shaving industry taking a Hard hit, vibrator sales skyrocket lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:00 PM
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He'll also be exposed to so much porn and IG shares/screenshots from "model" accounts that his friends will post in the chat. Inevitably a girl will join and they will turn into animals falling over themselves to be the one that "wins" her. Since your boyfriend has a partner he may be socialized enough for the girl to like, and you will find texts between them that he's never told you about where they have deep conversations far removed from the two-word sentences he gives you. Casual gaming is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:16 PM
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It's not fair to herself to have that much invested from the beginning. He's going to disappoint her, even if he is a great guy (slim chance) because people aren't perfect. When that happens she's going to be devastated. Even for that initial new-crush chemistry this seems a little excessive. She's probably had so many negative experiences with men that someone treating her decently has sent her into this manic state of excitement, which is dangerous for her because any red flags will just slip …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:57 PM
16

Let them try saying, "I have the potential to pay for this hamburger!" to an employee at McDonald's and see how far that gets them. They know it's ridiculous. Are we worth less consideration and thought than a hamburger to LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:08 AM
32

Seems like she's wasted about three years now. Can you imagine not seeing your partner for a week and then throwing away the visit you're having by playing video games? Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:02 AM
36

I think it's because they want the answer to be no. They want to use us, and they see sex as a power move rather than something to enjoy together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:46 AM
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I love the feminine aspects of women, and I don't think there's anything wrong with embracing your femininity- in a vacuum. Unfortunately we live in a world where femininity is dangerous. The more you look the part of a woman, the more vulnerable you seem to male predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:56 PM
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A book just came out Thursday called I Hate Men, by Pauline Harmange. In it she says that you can't equate misandry and misogyny because while misandrist will ignore men, misogynists will actively try to kill and disenfranchise women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:13 AM
18

Just block. You could say something snarky, but it's not worth it. You're just giving credence to his low value intro and wasting you time. Block and maybe he'll say hi in person and you can tell him you're busy and really do some damage. This is his way of protecting himself- all projection and nothing lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:28 AM
24

Retin A changes your cells in a good way. There's nothing wrong with botox, though. We've normalized Viagra to the point where men that are 21 are taking it to jerk off. Botox is like a 3-month primer. If you want it, cool. If not? Cool! I personally love botox and some lip filler every 6 months. It's conflicting because on one hand I'm pumping money into the cosmetic industry, but on the other I wear a mask every time I leave the house- I just like the way I look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:57 AM
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Honestly Retin A & sunscreen is the best thing you can do for your skin. I have no doubt that she's had some botox and fillers, but that's fine! No one that's almost 70 should look 40, 50, naturally (unless you have AMAZING genetics). She's beautiful and natural. And fuck beauty anyway. Just because the standard is set so low for men they get to "age gracefully". They look the same at 35 as they do at 50- just fatter and with limper dicks. They use 30 as the wall because it's when most of us bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:33 AM
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I wish men that made comments like this had them printed on a shirt that they were forced to wear around so that their mothers, sisters, and potential romantic interests could see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:20 PM
18

I may have phrased that in a weird way, but I meant basically what you said- if he isn't ready to sign a document saying that he is legally responsible for taking care of you and any kids yall have then you shouldn't be with him & you definitely shouldn't procreate with him. Not that marriage is some magical establishment that protects you from all ills of the world, and not that people can't change after the wedding is over- it just says a lot about how committed a man really is to you. And if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:31 PM
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It's almost like you shouldn't commit to and have kids with someone before they make you feel valued and seal their obligations to you and any offspring with a legally binding document. I feel sorry for the kids. The best thing she can do now is leave him and start collecting child support. Whatever she wanted he ain't it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:37 PM
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It's sad that men have influenced us so heavily. They've thoroughly convinced themselves and most women that they are a prize to be won, putting us at competition with each other. As women continue to have access to the world at large and make bigger career and life moves I feel like we'll start to get along better. Men mentor other men because they have this exclusive, boys-only idea of a workplace hierarchy. Once women start gaining more positions of power we'll start to see the same behavior.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:31 PM
20

Omg you didn't even imply that she couldn't pay. Girls like this give the rest of us a bad name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:42 AM
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Those poor babies. Their only worth comes from having a job? It's not like women's worth comes from our bodies being used for sex. Never mind the fact that these societal standards are pushed on both genders by men! I hope he does stay away from the dating scene. He sounds like a creep and a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:23 PM
39

Who is dropping the ball here? Is it women not knowing about/not wanting to deal with their son's genital hygiene? Or are the dads lazy? Or do men revert to gross status by default? They're so fucking gross, and trying to change them is like pulling teeth. Urinals don't even have toilet paper near them, which shows how common this nastiness is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:05 AM
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Don't be alarmed, but most men don't wipe after they pee. They think two shakes is sufficient and don't understand why it's bad to have piss stains on their clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:51 AM
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People get paid to write novels and advice columns. Don't waste your energy on someone that's already checked out. Besides, most LVM have the reading comprehension of a 3rd grader. He probably wanted to know what she said but was too afraid to admit he couldn't comprehend 5-letter words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:29 AM
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Reminds me so much of this article https://medium.com/matter/the-dickonomics-of-tinder-b14956c0c2c7 Where she says, "They used the precious real estate of their bio to complain about women rather than entice them." Dick is abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:16 AM
10

Right? Make her a fucking meal, don't give her a pasta painting to do what with?? Hang on her fridge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:09 AM
27

The problem isn't his ambition. I 100% support men and women working hard for a goal. The problem is that he's blowing off plans that he shouldn't have made in the first place, or that he shouldn't have a girlfriend because he doesn't have time. It seems like he expects her to be available or cater to his schedule while she's getting none of the benefits of what he's working towards. If she were his wife, okay. As a girlfriend? Leave him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:05 AM
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Go out and be a woman with a voice and see how quickly men try to tear you down. You can try it from the comfort of your own home, online! You'll be called a bitch, ugly, old, fat, etc. just for daring do to something other than look pretty. Misogyny is real, and it's dangerous. If these men knew there would be no consequences they would hurt, rape, and murder women. Some do, despite the legal system. They hate us so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:06 PM
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My ex didn't have enough integrity to not smoke weed on his lunch break (#kickhimout2020) If you wouldn't trust him to hold $100,000 of your money don't trust him with nudes. What do they need them for? If yall break up he shouldn't have them, and if yall stay together then he can see you with consent. Much better to send a frext to a girlfriend. She'll appreciate the lighting and angles more and keep it safer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:43 PM
15

Disgusting. How did she poop? The depravity of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:35 PM
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Greg is so feisty! It's so cute when he gets dramatic about legal theory. Guess it's that fiery Latin temper he has!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:31 PM
30

That's a great way to live. Thank God for covid and cold weather. A mask, coat, and a hat and you're practically invisible. It's a dream come true to just exist without being an object of desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:28 PM
14

Just chalk it up to your self worth, gorgeous. He's trying to hit you where it hurts and he's just showing what a loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:20 PM
37

I swear to God people should be sterilized at birth and have to take some sort of IQ test before having kids. I'll bet she's in a racial/socioeconomic bracket where her little prices are already going to have an easy life. Don't worry, Karen. Your sons are going to date rape in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:18 PM
23

You don't have to wish for karma to strike him- he'll make his own bed. Block, delete, move on. Don't give him the chance to gas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:14 PM
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That's a great question and a hell of an idea to explore. I'd say this: no one likes people that look sloppy. Now just how much effort you have to put into your appearance depends on genetics and your societal disposition. I've heard that in France it's a faux pas to go out in sweatpants because it's seen as disrespectful to those around you. We should all try our best to look decent when we go out because that shows that we have respect for ourselves. Then comes the other side: men thinking tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:11 PM
50

We should have a gift giving section to opt into so we can send thoughtful things to one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:58 PM
44

Men and women both have an equal education about sex. When we put the onus on women because "we should know better" we're saying it's not a man's responsibility. How is it fair to say that women are responsible for pregnancy because we're the bearers of life, but then to tell us to be demure and pure and that it's a man's job to "spread his seed"? No, we're both equally exposed to sex education with today's technology and divorced dads that tell their kids about how their "bitch of a mom" stole …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:52 PM
21

Great job! If he wants to do single man shit and act like he doesn't care about your feelings then he can go ahead and be a single man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:46 AM
132

IF👏🏻THEY👏🏻WANTED👏🏻TO👏🏻DO👏🏻 IT👏🏻THEY👏🏻WOULD If they had their dream job and the one condition to keep it was they don't spend all Saturday smoking weed with their friends they wouldn't do that. Ladies listen to their actions. They are exposed to the same movies, songs, books, tv shows we are. They know what sappy romance entails. We tell them what we expect, what we like, what we wish. If they wanted to do those things for you they would. Don't give your time and energy to someone who won't becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:42 AM
173

[Whatever race/hair color/weight/height you are] is so exotic! I've never been with someone like you before! Let the fetishizing begin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:35 AM
94

Or "You're so easy to talk to!" Meaning they'll use you as a free therapist while they browse tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:34 AM
21

Right? Lmao I know most people would be like, "Are you asking me or her? Why are you staring at the ground?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:03 AM
69

We S-P-E-L-L it out for them because we're taught from a young age to communicate effectively, and they pretend like we're speaking a different language. It only becomes "clingy" or "needy" when they don't want to do it. If we were asking to give them regular blowjobs and anal it wouldn't be "clingy" or "needy". They know exactly what we want, they just don't want to put in any effort and then they manipulate the situation to make us look insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:22 AM
131

Doctor: So you can see the fracture line here in the x-ray... Patient: It's a broken arm then? Doctor: Fair. Patient: W-what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:19 AM
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"You will have party experiences to remember for years if not a lifetime because you went out without being on the hunt. ... A whole new world of parties in exotic spots, exclusive house parties..." Are they serious? Grown men and middle school boys have the same ambitions. No consideration for lifetime memories that consist of quality time with your partner, the birth of your children, your family's first Christmas. Those can't compare to exclusive house parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:03 PM
8

Great advice. Refusing to forgive keeps you trapped. Much better to forgive- not excuse- their bad behavior and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:08 AM
27

You're amazing and worth so much more than that. The fact that you recognize your value speaks to your growth. leave him in the past and level up. Dick is abundant and low value lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:07 AM
37

I hate that shit. Just be gay, dude. They want the benefits of pussy without putting in the work. And that "work"? Treating women like human beings. They want anal so bad from us- my dude cut out the middle man and save us all a lot of time and just go full gay. No one will miss you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:07 AM
72

Beautiful truths! Queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:42 AM
6

What do you think they want when they catcall you? Attention? Then give them the opposite. Ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:45 AM
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They're saying that a large majority of male doctors that come into direct contact with women's genitals as a job are able to go 40-50 years without sexual assault allegations, but Todd that works in Billing is worried he can't finish the quarter without having a "false rape allegation" lobbied at him. I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:21 PM
16

I think we're one step closer by just being on this sub. Once we stop pandering to men and start loving ourselves the rest will fall into place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:29 PM
10

Being "brainwashed" by statistics and lived experience. Fuck this guy. I wish the women he cares about could see the nastiness he's full of. How dare he be able to interact with women when he holds views like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:26 PM
45

And actual men who have had their "lives ruined" because they can't hang around playgrounds or live near a school due to the fact that they were banging a 15 year old at 21 and got caught with a statutory charge play the victim all the time. You see them whine about how life isn't fair and all these pickmes feel sorry for them and villainize the girl in the situation. He's SUCH a good guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:23 PM
20

I was on xanax for 8 years- eight years!!- through multiple female doctors. I never abused it, never had any negative experiences with it. I was doing fine. My (female) doctor sold the practice and I got a new, male doctor. First thing he does is say he's not going to rx me my medication anymore. He "doesn't believe" in prescribing xanax. He gave me a list of book to read on CBT. I told him he is definitely going to write me a prescription until I can find another doctor, as cutting off the medi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:31 PM
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She's blaming men wanting to have sex with American women on "feminist women" and the views they promote instead of placing the rightful blame on men just being horny and degenerate. Rape, catcalling, sexual harassment and assault all happen in countries where women are forced to dress modestly. Who is she trying to impress? None of the men who look for a submissive woman will be thrilled that she's screaming about how Godly and conservative she is ok Tiktok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:23 PM
5

Beautiful article. Thank you for sharing. "They used the precious real estate of their bio to complain about women rather than entice them." Loved that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:47 AM
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Be careful. The moment you make a man go through a fraction of what a woman endures they assume they have had the worst and know everything about our pain and plight. 20 min of simulated labor and he'll swear up and down that he knows what it's like to give birth and he handled it so well so why can't you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:53 AM
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He'll give it to his mom to raise and post pictures that he takes with him once a month on insta and snapchat about how his son is his lil buddy and he loves him so much while disparaging his ex for being selfish and running off on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:30 AM
54

Divorce from a LVM is the most liberating thing that can happen to a woman. Unfortunately it's so dangerous. Men will stop at nothing to hurt women emotionally, physically, and financially. Poor Brittney went from one toxic relationship into legal slavery. It's criminal what they've done to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:38 AM
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Good job, sisters!! We're all cheering for you! I'd advise every woman here to find a doctor that will give you a years-long implant. Or a tubal ligation! If a man wants us to have his child so badly he can pay for IVF or a tubal reversal. In the meantime we don't need to take any chances with our reproductive autonomy. It sucks that we've been reduced to sterilization to avoid pregnancy from rape or entrapment, or being forced to have a baby we don't want because abortion is illegal. We have th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:28 AM
19

Since you can't drink your only two options were a Walk or a movie and snuggle?? Thank God he was too cheap to take you out to dinner- he inadvertently saved you a whole lot of trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:37 PM
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Excessive neediness and compliments aren't anything new, and they're almost even less sincere than a LVM putting on an act just to sleep with you. At least the later is running game. The insecure males that have convinced themselves that you're the one for them are objectifying you just as much. It's all narcissism at it's finest and two personalities on opposite ends of the pole thinking the world revolves around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:54 PM
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Porn made Me view women as sexual objects for the longest time, so I can't imagine the ideas it gives to a young boy. It's absolutely disgusting. Men will keep watching and pushing boundaries, though, because they're so "levelheaded" and "logical" that even though they're destroying their minds at least they get to tug on their lil peepees
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:40 PM
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