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| 614 | This is why FDS says we shouldn’t act like wives until we’re married. Scrote asks for pre-nup after his live-in bangmaid mommy bankrolls his life and “builds” with him for nearly a decade.Guess she should join this 'dumpster fire' to learn how not to let a man waste 8 years and 4 months of her life, but that's just my opinion. /tea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 133 | It's Not Rocket Science.There was a study about fears between genders. Men's greatest fear was having a woman laugh at them or reject them. Women's greatest fear about men was getting raped/murdered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 51 | What would you like to say to the women who have been lurking here, but aren’t yet sure if FDS will in fact be conducive to a happy life?I never realized how trained I was to focus on the happiness of others at the expense of my own until I started lurking here. I realized that many of the behaviors we're taught as young girls and women are meant to make us more compliant to men's wishes. If you ever struggle and feel guilty for doing anything for yourself for the hell of it, know that it's not because you're inherently unworthy. It's because society has trained you to feel that way unless you are pleasing someone else. You can o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 50 | A short story about that time my LVM ex gave me a dating advice book to correct my behaviour... that he had not read himself.Girl he expected you to do the homework and fix the relationship. I'm surprised he didn't get you How to Win Friends and Influence People instead, most narcs seem to like pushing that one off on their girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:24 AM |
| 124 | Not sure if this was posted before, but I feel most of us can emphatize...I saw a post on another subreddit that was a 21F saying she was so happy she orgasmed for the first time. She was ecstatic. Then one of the LVM who hover that subreddit like flies on shit left this comment: I am a dude but I get a lot of satisfaction from satisfying my partner. Even if it's just helping her finish herself off. It's unfortunate that so many guys don't consider their partners satisfaction at all. Umm. Excuse me? Did you read what you wrote? She's finishing herself off, why does sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:14 AM |
| 303 | Seriously though, imagine a grown-ass adult not knowing how to cook and clean for himself, and floating through life secure in the idea that he'll find a bangmaid to save him.My 35 year-old ex-husband is grooming a 27-year-old to be his bangmaid. 🤢🤢🤢🤢 Hope she figures it out before I did, because I wasted my 20s with a fucking neckbeard who expected me to do everything. Then he got bitter that I didn't want to have sex with him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 128 | Are all divorced men = LVM?All I know is a man will never divorce unless a woman initiates because he's fine with the way things are, they'll let you waste your whole life with them because they don't care. I initiated the divorce with my husband because I was tired of begging for changes and seeing none. He acted flabbergasted when I approached him seriously about it. He bawled his eyes out and said he couldn't believe I would do this to him. Umm, I was fed up about three years before I actually asked. If you cared, you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 16 | Do Men Really Need This Level of Bro-ism to Wipe Their Asses Properly?I used to subscribe to Dollar Shave Club and they introduced a similar product, man wipes, or something else equally silly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Love a good roast.Yes, exactly. Those statements were meant to guilt me into feeling like a bad wife instead of him actually stepping up and helping around the house. He'd outsource his 'chores' to the neighborhood kids and think he was so smart. He once bragged to me that he paid the neighborhood kid $15 to mow the tiny-ass little lawn we had. Believe me, if I could have paid the neighbor kids $15 to wash his laundry, I would have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 121 | Love a good roast.This is my ex. He absolutely would not do anything to help around the house. He'd just get passive aggressive when things needed to be done. He would say things like, "I guess I'll have to wear dirty pants tomorrow to work." or "I hope I have clean shirts tomorrow for work." Like they're just things that intangibly happen with no input from him at all. That's because his grandma did everything for him and waited on him hand and foot. By the time we split after nine years, I was so repulsed by hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 10 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaHe can’t think ‘forget this. I’m resigning and joining an ashram’. He absolutely can and does in a Kindle book you can get for $2.99. Satan is a fuccboi and those monks are tasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:44 AM |
| 26 | Men be like:My ex needs therapy and refused while we were together. After our divorce, he started complaining about feeling anxious and having panic attacks on Facebook and decided he should go to see a therapist to resolve some of his issues. It's hard to have sympathy with him when I did everything to convince him he needed it. And not even just for our relationship, to resolve his fucked up feelings surrounding how he was raised. I hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I see him in this picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:39 AM |
| 124 | I wish more men would admit this to themselves.My former boss was obsessed with this show and I think it says a lot about him as a person. He eventually got married and while I don't work there anymore, I have to wonder if she is really happy. He was terrible to work for, absent, always angry, and blamed everything on his team even if things happened that were out of our control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 53 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!At least you learned before you got too invested girl, don't be too hard on yourself. We've all done the 🤡 thing once or twice. It's what extreme vetting is there for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 137 | This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same!It's a shame they removed something that helped women vet the men they encounter. What gets me is the men who pretend to have liberal views until you meet them and they dole out the "well I like guns so I vote Conservative even though I support gay people rights." Okay, bro. No Democrat is coming for your guns, but you'll happily vote against basic human rights for other Americans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 144 | Coming out of this relationship. It's been hellish. Listen to men who call their exes "crazy "If you read my ex husband's reddit account, it's full of stories about how crazy I am for wanting basic needs. Narcissists are so narced that they think someone else demanding basic respect is 'crazy.' My ex had the audacity to tell me I was trying to keep him from having hobbies when I expressed concern about his spending. Yet when we split after nine years of marriage, we had two cars and $1,500 in the bank. That's it. We weren't poor. He made more than me, but together our combined income was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:00 AM |
| 39 | ENOUGH SAID!My ex is bitter all over reddit because I divorced him last year. Says he doesn't understand what I wanted and how I could leave him after nine years of marriage. Um, nine years of coMmUnIcAtIoN being ignored will do that to a person. I have not felt better since I left him. I have never had more money in my bank account than when I left him. Yet I check his reddit account and see he is buying guns and spending $340 on a box of ammo and whining about how he can't afford to contribute to a retire… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 190 | boy BYEJust straight emotional manipulation. There's only remorse and regret when the jig is up, not when it's going down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 14 | Bea Miller's THAT BITCH is a true FDS anthem. Give it a listen.If you love this, check out Kesha's "Rich, White, Straight, Men." I'm not normally the biggest fan of Kesha, but she's on point with that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 150 | If only they all felt this level of shame... (also *accepting sorry I couldn't help it)Leave it to a man to think he can pay off mental anguish and trauma like it's a dry cleaning bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:08 PM |
| 150 | If he's not interested in your pleasure, don't stick around.I'm in this picture and I don't like it. My ex started out loving to give oral. He said it was his favorite thing to do before we got married. Then we got married and he lost his job and his libido. He didn't want sex because he felt emasculated. Eventually he found another job, but all he wanted to do was vanilla and anal. Like I'm some porn Pez dispenser you put coins into and sex comes out. I eventually told him I wasn't happy with our sex life and he told me he wasn't either, get this – beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 50 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.These pickme wives get pissed that their husbands refused to help around the household, but all the signs were there when you were dating, Karen. When he forgot to get you a birthday gift he wasn't too busy or stressed. When he played video games for 6+ hours after work and complained about having to stop and help with dinner, it was a sign from God that he's a scrote, Becky. "Why can't I get my husband to participate in the household like I want? Why do I have to do it all?" Because you put up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Healthy Male Crying Vs Manipulative Displays Of EmotionThis is such important information to share, because women are tuned to care about hurting others. Displays of emotion are taken seriously, which is what LVM who are emotional manipulators count on. My ex would consistently manipulate my emotions to get me to go along with his financial abuse. He once told me that he regretted having to sell a car he had when he was 16 to fund a remodel of the space we would be living in. He then found that exact car on Craigslist about 250 miles away and badger… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 87 | Let us remember to not only NOT be pick me’s but support other women!! Also any “friend” who does this ain’t a friend 💢 #cutthemoffLadies, anyone who puts you down in front of others regardless of whether men are present or not does not have your best interests at heart. It can be a hard life lesson to learn when you figure that out, because you will absolutely need to cut out people you genuinely enjoy. But the more successful you are, the more bitter this type of person becomes. The more they want to tear you down to make themselves feel better. This behavior can manifest in both women and men and it is LV behavior that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 67 | Say it louder for these predatory men! 👏🏼 👏🏼Y'all, the grossest thing I ever saw on YouTube was an interview Vanity Fair did with Billie Eilish when she turned 18. She talked about her hopes and dreams, her aspirations, what she looked forward to creating in the music industry with her next album. But none of the scrotes in the comment section gave a shit about any of that. All of the comments were some variation of "omg billie's legal now, can't wait" like these men are going to go on some Purge-style rape walkabout because she suddenly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 220 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮If this situation was reversed and she got him a cute necklace with a poem that read: "To my smoking hot buck I've chased a lot of tail..." He'd stop reading and accuse her of emasculating him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 54 | Pickmeisha auditions?This woman has fallen into the trap of thinking that voicing your complaints against the system that oppresses you is 'hate.' I think that's the natural human condition, to oppose wearing chains pressed upon us by others. When women have negative things to say about men, it's not some fantasy they made up in their heads. No, these women have dealt with abuse consistently at the hands of men and they've noticed the patterns. Others have climbed out of the pit of despair that happens when you trul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | This summer I picked up digital painting as a hobby. I've since been drawing portraits of inspirational women, here is my latest: queen Frida Kahlo! 👸🎨What an awesome way to find some calm to work on yourself and produce something that's amazing. Do you mind if I ask you about your process? I've considered getting an iPad for digital art, but I'm unsure of the palm rejection. I tried drawing on my exes Surface tablet and it was too laggy for my tastes, the lines appeared seconds after I drew them. Is that the case for the iPad too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 65 | PPD Post Question: Women Seem Capable of Admitting Negative Traits, Are Men? They KNOW Who They REALLY Are. MOST Women Are In Denial/ Wilfully Obtuse...Whoever hit her first is the best This is true male depravity and something I see all the time in the relationship subreddits. I posted a screenshot of a scrote whining about his dick size on reddit after his girlfriend told him she had had bigger dicks before. His literal internal monologue with himself was 'if she's had bigger before, why stick around for me?' These scrotes think attraction starts and ends with how big their dipstick is – it's fucking gross. There is so much more that goes int… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 39 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)It all comes down to laziness. QFT. When a couple I had known for over ten years split, she moved out and got an apartment. He kept the house, which came with a yard that should have been mowed starting in the spring. Only dude was too lazy to do that. Then he started seeing a new woman who had kids and a yard... but no lawnmower. I watched this scrote ignore his grass that's knee-high, load up the lawnmower that used to be THEIRS in his truck, and drive to his new girlfriend's house to mow her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 45 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)they would rather waste your time then potentially engage in conflict which could result in losing their bang MAID Girl, you hit the nail on the head with this assessment. Scrotes will do everything they can not to communicate with you and then make you feel like shit for it. He could have resolved this with a simple conversation telling her exactly what he told her after a year and a half of wasting food. "Hey babe, the people at work are really cliquey and I wanna fit in for a promotion, so I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 32 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔Any man with r/smalldickproblems is a slut. /s For you male lurkers, this is what you sound like when you say a woman's sexual history affects her vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 14 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?"Hey babe, can you get DoorDash on your way over? I'll Cash you when I get paid on Friday." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:31 AM |
| 5 | What do you think?If he wanted to, he would. It's really that simple. Anything else and you're selling yourself short and making excuses for the inexcusable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 42 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?This image is from his character in Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia. In this scene, he says he needs a bangmaid because his apartment is filthy and he's lonely. LVM always want a bangmaid (like Frank). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Ya'll...I can't even...she cleaned some guys house...🤢Mommy bangmaid pickmeisha to the rescue! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 56 | OLD be like, here we are a pool of meat clowns wyd? 🤡There was a story on AITA yesterday about a woman being upset that her bf didn't get her anything for Christmas, but paid $1000 to some girl on OnlyFans. The guy she dates is in this picture 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 393 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Him: "Lifetime commitment to you is such a joke, I'm going to fake my seriousness about it!" #justscrotethings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 18 | A Boxing Day sermonMy ex-husband's family treated him so weirdly about gifts. His mom lavished gifts on him and his brother well into their 20s and 30s. But she told them not to worry about buying her anything because she already has everything she could need. And they took that to heart! I asked him one time if he was going to get anything for his mom this year and he just shrugged his shoulders, "She said she doesn't want anything, so I don't bother." You don't have to get people who 'don't want anything' materi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 29 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?Girl if you look real close there is a PS5 in that nest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 63 | Why is it that it’s always typically brides-to-be who care so much about their weddings and not grooms-to-be?The Ross/Rachel dynamic was pretty gross, too. He was insanely jealous of Rachel's work relationship with Mark to the point that she sabotaged her job. Come the fuck on, Rachel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:53 PM |
| 42 | In South Korea, secret cameras ('molka') are being installed in hotel rooms to film people during intimate moments. This is then sold online as an alternative to pornography, which has led to an increase in molka related suicides.It really irks me because when I was new to the platform back in 2015, I thought going with Superhosts was the way to stay safe. 'Surely Airbnb wouldn't give out this title to just anybody, right?' Wrong. The title is easy to achieve with any of these slumlords that are buying up properties to rent out at ridiculous prices. Airbnb was a solo traveler's dream in 2013-2016, but the quality has gone so downhill that I've just gone back to my Hilton rewards card for now. At least I know what I'm get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 11 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.Keep those standards high, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 25 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.Don't even mourn that scrote, because if he doesn't have PIED now from his excessive abuse of porn, he'll have it in the future. It's almost inevitable. The sharp increase in the amount of men with PIED coincides with the rise of 'porntube' sites where the porn is free without a download necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:35 PM |
| 54 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.It's what men call no effort masturbation and many of them are 100% satisfied with that instead of fulfilling intimate sex with their partners. There's a reason this guy is divorced and single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 55 | New Hospital Rules/Regulations have me Thinking that no matter how HV my Husband is, I’d rather have my Mom in the Delivery Room with me.too scared to be in the room What a cop-out. "My wife is doing something incredibly scary by bringing our children into the world, but it's too much for me to handle so I'll man up in the waiting room." Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 90 | Porn addiction can cause men to become desensitized to sex. Wonder why he doesn't want sex with you? The answer is porn. This is a scrotes' own admission.You instantly know why this one is divorced 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 190 | In South Korea, secret cameras ('molka') are being installed in hotel rooms to film people during intimate moments. This is then sold online as an alternative to pornography, which has led to an increase in molka related suicides.I travel for work and prefer Airbnb over hotel rooms, but I had an incident where I didn't feel safe and it made me question the practice. I found a pinhole camera inserted into a book spine that was pointed at the bed. I reported the issue to Airbnb with photos and they refunded me after a few days back and forth. But that person was a Superhost and they are still on the platform today, with lots of short-term rentals in Los Angeles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 16 | A Boxing Day sermonIt's just disrespect at that point and no one wants to be told that and be made uncomfortable. If you can't offer me the same respect I'm offering you, then I'm out. I'm not here to raise another manchild into the world, that is not the life I'm carving out for myself and no woman should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 91 | Why is it that it’s always typically brides-to-be who care so much about their weddings and not grooms-to-be?A lot of it is pop culture, yes. In the '90s, FRIENDS was probably a mega cultural influence on a lot of millennial men and women, whether they realize it or not. Chandler is painted as an inept husband who can't do anything right, while Monica is the organizer who has had her wedding planned out from age 5. And of course, those stereotypes that rose to such prominence in the '90s are influenced by the classic sitcoms before them. The Honeymooners, I Love Lucy, they all have inept men who are on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:06 PM |
| 71 | A Boxing Day sermonThe saddest part is the women who turn to the relationship subreddits for advice from incels who have never had a relationship in their lives. "My boyfriend didn't get me a gift for Christmas and I spent $200 on him and feel bad, AITA?" Reddit: He probably just forgot. You should CoMmUnIcAtE how unhappy you are at being ignored on a day that no one could possibly forget, so he can rectify the mistake. Ugh, sis. If he wanted to, he would. Stop putting in 200% effort to get 20% back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 89 | Yesss and double yes!! Them ex-s that harass you when they see you doing well...There's no better revenge on your ex than living well and the way you want to after you've gone. I wrote about some of the little fights we've had on here previously, but one sticking point for me was his socks. He'd put ALL of his clothes in the hamper except his socks. He'd leave them balled up next to the hamper. Every. Night. "What's the big deal? Just pick up the socks," the male lurkers say. Let me tell you something, my scrotes. It is not about the socks. It's about the disrespect. If I'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 163 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡Reminder: Being wealthy is not an indication that you've landed a HVM. This right here proves it. If he cared about his child, he would have been there. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 29 | Bring your beautiful self to 2021 👸 Take out the trash within 2020 👋"If he don't love you anymore, walk your fine ass out the door~" #KickHimOut2020!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 62 | Even with LVM admiting their porn addiction scrotes still cant accept it and Pickmes play to their sideYou see it time and time again. Men will try to justify and explain how their porn addictions are perfectly normal. By the end of my relationship, my ex was in the grip of PIED but he had denial about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 89 | I have to be honest, I hate stuff like this. It romanticizes settling for the bare minimum by saying "only REAL women settle.." also referring to women as females is so obnoxious !?LVM tell themselves this lie so they don't have to level up. It is a statement that allows you to vet him immediately. If he expects your expectations to be on the floor, leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 88 | Where is the lie?These same men can't wait until they have sex robots to fuck that won't have opinions and feelings are the same ones who cry if a woman mentions her vibrator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 26 | KNOW YOUR WORTH!I need to start cross-stitching reminders for women and selling them on Etsy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 87 | KNOW YOUR WORTH!Remember, if he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 163 | Im not raising LVMs....my sons wrapped all the gifts this year.Preach, sis. We can't sit around and complain about the LVM in our lives without making sure we're doing our part to raise HVM from boyhood. Men should learn to appreciate all the effort that goes into planning holiday get togethers and gift exchanges. It's more than just rolling out the BBQ and slapping meat on the grill and drinking beer with his brothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 402 | No this isn’t fucking funny- it’s an example of how LVM behavior is perpetuated within familiesWe're all supposed to laugh at this and think it's 'funny.' I see a LVM who has been catered to his whole life and is continuing to receive that same treatment from his sister, who probably secretly despises it but doesn't say anything because it would upset mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 20 | Pick mes are like the crust on the outer edges of a sandwichHaving a pickmeisha mom is more damaging to young women than absent dads. Girls are never taught to stand up for themselves, to establish boundaries, to assert themselves, and to concern themselves with their own future rather than one that revolves around serving a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 36 | Pick mes are like the crust on the outer edges of a sandwichAlso ladies, if your mom is bitter and pressuring you into marriage before you're ready – she's a pickmeisha. I fell into that trap thinking my mom would have my best interests at heart, but that is not always the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 5 | This girl has been letting her porn addicted boyfriend spend thousands on OF girls and feels like she doesn’t even have a right to be upset about it? Then when she gets hit with the truth she tries to delete her post...This woman is a 🤡 in a circus and she doesn't even realize it. Ladies, never set the bar so low for yourselves, you are selling yourself short. She knows this is a problem though. "We talked about his $450 a month subscriptions because that's excessive." Honey, if you want a 🤡 that much get you a 🤡 that gambles because at least you might see a return on that $450 so you can buy yourself some clown makeup for the circus you're in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 53 | LVM rolling up to the table like...Speak, sis. There was a post on here yesterday about a man who admitted his girlfriend told him she was happier with his average size, but he was still in his mind going 'if she's had bigger, why should she stay with me?' They think penis size is the be-all, end-all in a relationship and they learn it from porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 59 | Where is the lie?I used to argue with my ex about throwing his socks against the hamper. Here's how that conversation always went. Me: "Can you please put your dirty socks in the hamper instead of throwing them against it? It's right there. It's lazy." Him: "I just got home from work and you're already riding my ass about socks?" Me: "I'm tired of picking them up every single day. Just put your socks in the hamper, everything else makes it in there." Him: "You act like I do it on purpose. I took my socks off and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 100 | LVM rolling up to the table like...If men spent half the effort they expended worrying about their dick size on the actual relationship, they might actually level up into a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 43 | How can Pornhub take exploiting desperate women for sex to the next level? Make them pregnant! This is up there with the 'exploited homeless teen virgin' plotline from 'Pure Taboo' for vileness. Pornhub normalizes the fantasy of exploting vulnerable women for sex. Everyday.They absolutely are. PornHub is finally seeing some consequences to the years of sexual exploitation of women and minors. But PornHub is just one of many companies owned by MindGeek, a shadow company. PornHub, RedTube, YouPorn, all these sites you'll find in scrote browser history are owned by a shell company that has a very shady history. It's up to women like us to help others learn the truth about just how dangerous regular porn consumption is for men. It's not just sexual health, it's mental… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 85 | How can Pornhub take exploiting desperate women for sex to the next level? Make them pregnant! This is up there with the 'exploited homeless teen virgin' plotline from 'Pure Taboo' for vileness. Pornhub normalizes the fantasy of exploting vulnerable women for sex. Everyday.A lot of men are attracted to the power fantasy of controlling the women in the situation. The sex is secondary to the control. It's sick and gross and when you approach porn from this mindset, you realize it really is exploitation that has brainwashed a generation of men. There are even studies on how the rise of PIED has coincided with the general availability of porn on 'internet tube' sites. This snippet below is taken from a study on PIED and how it is endemic in younger men who consume lot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes.That's fair and a perfectly valid perspective for your situation and other ace people. But this woman is devastated by his lack of attention, I don't think she's ace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 180 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.he sees nothing wrong with it because these women help him with his anxiety. Why are you his girlfriend, then? Like seriously, what value is she getting out of this relationship? Just let the little scrote give his money to women on the internet and focus on yourself, girl. Stop being a 🤡 in his circus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 127 | Andrew Schulz’ incel fans taunt his ex-gf relentlessly over his “success” with a new Netflix show, trying to make her feel bad and ungrateful for leaving him. She reveals she left because of his insane abuse.Something these men don't seem to understand is that no amount of abuse is worth sticking around for somebody, whether they are successful or not. They can't resist torturing a woman who they felt did one of their own wrong because she stood up for herself and said 'enough.' She's still dealing with the repercussions of his abuse six years later. It's sickening and I can't imagine how I would feel if I opened Netflix to watch something after a stressful day at work and saw my exes face. Luckily,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 26 | Logged into this gem in my reddit dm's. Promptly turned those off and blocked him. Thanks FDS, past me would have been the nice girl and politely declined his offer. Dude you aren't worth my time and I did not ask for your attention!I woke up to a PM this morning from a scrote complaining about my post highlighting a pornsick man whining about his dick size on reddit. It's kind of funny how many men browse this subreddit with hate boners for women who clearly don't want them. Kudos to the mods for such a welcoming community for women to vent their frustrations, too. It's one of the only places on reddit where you can actually have a female space. TwoX got taken over by neo-nazis and redpillers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 42 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.Love your username, I'm a history major. And you're absolutely right. It took me getting into my 30s and talking to other divorced women about the reasons why they left their husbands to realize that me being unhappy with my situation was not me being broken, but him being unwilling to adapt to his partner's needs. He was always passive-aggressively trying to keep me in my place so I would never complain about anything. You lament all the years you've lost, but I look forward to leveling up and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 55 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes.These same men claim they can't form an intimate bond with a woman without sex. Bullshit, my scrote. intimacy comes before sex, not the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 116 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.A lot of women also train their daughters to be pickmeishas who put any man's needs ahead of her own – her dad, her brothers, her husband, her son. Generations of women are raised with this attitude and think we're the ones going against the grain for standing up and saying, "Hey, I want to be first in my life the same way a man is first in his." Suddenly that's wrong and not the way 'real women' behave. Nah, sis. I'm done living like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 22 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes.What is an 'extended period of time' to this scrote? Seriously? She has to re-assess his attraction level for him because he can't stop watching the exploitation of women and minors long enough for his dick to stop having PIED? Honestly if a man tries to JADE his porn addiction, just leave. It's not worth being second in his life to exploited women because he will just become resentful if you don't allow yourself to be exploited in the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 77 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEThese are problems you expect to have with toddlers. "Oh no, I'm potty-training my son and he smells sometimes afterwards. How do I teach him to wipe?" But snuggling up to a grown man in bed and you smell shit? 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 96 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes.Isn't it funny how these same low effort men wind up in relationship subreddits doling out advice to poor women who are asking how to fix their broken relationships. Honey, your relationship isn't broken because you're unattractive, it's broken because he'd rather jack off to porn than have sex with a real human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 57 | Family is playing a game called "Weird Things Humans Search For" and these are the top searches for "Why are men so..."Men tell women they worry about sex too much, yet it's the first thing on their minds when they meet a new woman. OLD is the worst too, because you know the scrote that hits you up with "wyd" or "hru" is just looking to get his dick wet. BLOCK AND DELETE, SIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 9 | I'm literally allergic to cheap datesI get liking it, but it's the Applebee's of Asian food. You wouldn't settle for being taken to Applebee's, so why P.F. Chang's is okay? There are tons of Asian restaurants in cities across the world with authentic, tasty food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 144 | Let’s talk about sex.Many women don't realize that the reason their bfs and husbands are terrible at sex is because porn is their teacher. Porn that is not tailored to be sex-positive for women is objectifying of both the women and the men. It teaches men to view women as objects with holes to fuck. It teaches men to be concerned exclusively about their dick size and little else, because the man jackhammers the woman in porn with a massive dick. Or she chokes and gags on his dick while he's saying creepy shit to her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 148 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.Let me share some of the 🤡🤡🤡 behavior from my ex because it matches your experience. I also left him after the election because of his views. We live in a highly conservative area and he is a massive Trump supporter (didn't know until 2016, been married 5 years at that point, me = 🤡) and general misogynist. He constantly gaslit me about what a 'feminist' he is. "Sure babe, I believe in women's liberation so go get your own job." But my paycheck went into a joint account that he mostly had contro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 61 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!Yes, I dropped him this year and it's been such a refreshing breath of air. Someone on r/AskWomenOver30 mentioned this subreddit and I'm so glad I found my way over here. It's exactly the kind of thing I needed to help me overcome my mom's pickmeisha training. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 7 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)This was posted in a r/tifu thread and I couldn't help but share it. He's worked himself into anxiety and mental illness over his girlfriend having experienced a bigger dick than him before. This is obviously one of those gross redpillers who thinks women are ruined by too many dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 9 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)Sis, you know a bunch of men aren't standing around in a circle whipping their dicks out to compare them. (Men: tHaT's GaY!!) Any man obsessed with size to an unreasonable degree (causing mental anxiety like this guy) is pornsick for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 11 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)I really don't get it. Exercising and losing weight is well proven to improve your mental health alongside it. Yet this guy would rather wallow in self-misery and what-ifs about his dick size. By his own admission, his gf says she 'enjoys' his average size. That's not good enough though, she's gotta worship that dick or he might as well leave? Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 10 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)He brings it up because if she dresses in heels she might suddenly be as tall or taller than him and that's just one more thing she's done to emasculate this scrote, according to his thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:44 AM |
| 13 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)he needs to go off from the internet and work on his self-esteem instead of creating incel stories in his head. This is what happens when porn is normalized for men. They can't help but compare themselves to what they see in porn and find themselves lacking. "Society strikes again," says the scrote who thinks porn is perfectly fine to consume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 25 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)they assume we think like this because they do. it's all projection. Preach, sis. They value a woman solely on her looks and then get mad when she has the audacity to do the same. This guy is especially hilarious. He admits she's tall, slim, and bi – probably out of his league already. Meanwhile, he's a 70lbs overweight pornsicko whining about his dick size causing him anxiety on reddit. #justscrotethings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Why not return to the Greek root words we used to use? A person who loves books is called a bibliophile. Pedophile has ruined that, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Same, sis. One day we will have it, just focus on growing your bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 15 | TBH, I think I found wokefishing worse than sexual assault.Sis if I had a time machine I would go back in time and tell my younger self to snap at him like he deserved. I can't tell you how many times I get angry just thinking about all the passive-aggressive behavior to control me into keeping him happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 30 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)My best friend left her husband for a HVW and he is so resentful of it. He's been shitty to our friend group because he doesn't think we should have anything to do with his ex's new girlfriend when we go out, even if it's an activity he dislikes. She's an amazing violinist and got us all tickets to her Christmas orchestral event last year and he gave my ex-bf (another story) shit for going and enjoying the show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 37 | TBH, I think I found wokefishing worse than sexual assault.OMG, now I have a name for what I feel like happened with me and my ex. He describes himself as a feminist and says he thinks women should have just as many rights as men. But he does not espouse that idea in practice. Watch what they do, not what they say. In our home, I was responsible for doing all the laundry. If his laundry was all dirty on Sunday he'd casually say, "I hope I have enough clean pants to wear to work tomorrow." He expected me to do all the cooking and cleaning and emotional l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 10 | When men end up sneaking into my life. Always.And they're always as bewildered as that puppy when you bolt. "Omg, all I did was vomit hateful abuse, gaslighting, neggings, and resentful compliance and she left!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 7 | ManchildrenSis, my ex would not have gone to the doctor/dentist in the nine years we were together if I didn't arrange it for him. My NV mother brought me up to think this is how women are supposed to be for men. I can't believe how many years of my life I wasted planning things for a man who did not appreciate it one iota until I said I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 10 | The "Aspergers" talk. TWI would also argue that they're covert narcissists when they do this. They know there is something wrong with the behavior, so they hide behind the guise of a valid medical condition. That's putting the blame on something out of their control, therefore – not their fault. Covert narcissists can never accept blame or fault for anything. It is 🚩🚩 city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 11 | Merry Christmas, QueensI am so thankful I found FDS when I did, it was the push I needed to end my terrible LVM relationship this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 336 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!Y'all ever notice that women are supposed to settle for whatever bridge troll opens a door for her first, but men should be free to sow their wild oats until they're ready to settle down? I was pressured into my early pickmeisha 20s by my mom who told me I would be an old hag if I was unmarried when I hit 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 188 | I'm literally allergic to cheap dates#justlvmdates: "Hey, wanna grab a cup of coffee at Starbucks?" "Do you want to go to P.F. Changs after the movie?" "Let's get an ice cream from McDonald's before we walk." "Get me a popcorn and a large soda, I'm going to the bathroom." "Let's go dutch tonight; I'm saving money for [popular video game.]" "I'm bringing by a bottle of [cheap bourbon], will you cook [favorite meal]?" "Hey babe, my mom's coming to dinner tonight, hope you don't mind. I told her about it and she said it sounded fun." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 28 | Merry Christmas, QueensAnd if you have a man attached to you in any way, remember that if he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:24 AM |
| 21 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)Honestly it kind of sounds like a power play on her part. She's 27 and she's telling him she's been with bigger men. Now he's all limpdick pornsick about the size of his dick, making it easier for her to vet him. I hope she figures it out soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 41 | David Bowie's ex-wife has spoken out about their marriageHe was at the height of his career in the '90s, when men were immune to this kind of thing. If he tried it now, he would get cancelled faster than Harvey Weinstein. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 36 | The audacity 🤨Sis, I am ashamed to admit I was one of those 🤡♀️ trying to get one for my ex. He whined and complained about the pandemic and the lockdown so I put on my 🤡 makeup not once but twice trying to get one for Christmas for this douche. He spent $1500 on one from a scalper and talked about how it was a great deal he didn't spend $2500 on eBay. These things only cost $500 when you buy them new from the store. So not only did he pay three times what it would have cost my clown ass if I had gotten one, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 68 | Jokes about spitting on wife's face after watching porn. Tell us again how it's "not real" and just " fantasies".Ladies, you know how children see things in cartoons and want to emulate them? (Kids doing wrestling moves, kids doing Fortnite dances) Men are the same way. If the man in your life right now admits to watching porn, leave him. Porn is exploitation and watching it makes him complicit, whether he likes it or not. This degenerate behavior will only become more foul as it continues. It will never stop at spitting. It will escalate until it becomes outright physical abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 32 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)I bet this is that poor woman's clit. This man is 35 and probably never gave a woman an orgasm in his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Video games are very much a red flagHe's in IT, too. So you'd think a man who spends 8 hours staring at a computer screen and complaining would do anything but come home and sit in front of another computer screen for eight hours. But nope. It got even worse during the pandemic because then he started doing DnD (his one social activity) online with all the rest of his scrote friends, so it was just a 24/7 keyboard jockey mommy bangmaid expectation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 9 | Video games are very much a red flagYeah 'raid night' is five nights a week. The other two he's too tired from being on the computer for 8 hours after work to do anything but sleep. Girls, do not marry a gamer, you will regret it for the rest of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 43 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)I'm crying 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 29 | Forever gf offers to move in, pay half his bills and do all the chores. Instead of thanking his lucky stars, this scrote throws a mantrum, trying to force her into a ‘real job’, because he wants to make her life even more miserable and is jealous of her succes.Women: "I don't want to be too much trouble," and "Hey, I noticed you do X and I don't like that. Can we do Y instead?" Men: "I'm the man of the house and I shouldn't have to do that, it's not my job." and "I can do X if I want because I'm the man and Y is gay." Also men: "I don't know why my wife left me, we had everything together, a big house, two kids, a dog, and everything was perfect when she did everything to take care of it all. Now she's bailing and I have to worry about it?!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 22 | Video games are very much a red flagMy ex was a gamer who was obsessed with being in one of the top raiding guilds on the server. His raiding nights superceded everything we ever did. "Babe it's raid night, you know I can't..." preceded so many things that I just gave up and accepted because 'vIdyA iS mY hObBy.' Video games are not a hobby. They are an addiction. When I left him, he was looking to set up a meeting with a PS5 scalper so he could get the new console to play Bloodborne. This among many things that went wrong this yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:37 PM |
| 89 | David Bowie's ex-wife has spoken out about their marriageMost famous men are like this. Jerry Seinfeld dated a 17-year-old when he was 39. They see nothing wrong with an age gap that large because all they care about is sex. And women fall into the trap of thinking they're something special because the famous man is showing her attention she thinks no one else is getting/deserving. That's a misconception on her part, though. These relationships are always a power/control play in favor of the man over the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:32 PM |
| 50 | What are your dealbreakers?Something other than comic books, please. Don't get me wrong, I love good graphic novels (Brandon Sanderson's White Sand) but please be more well-read than knowing what's going on in the latest Archie and Jughead vs. Batman, please. It's not hard. Goodreads.com and choose one of the top five, yet men act like books are a chore. Books are a chore yet they play games 'for the story.' 🤦🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 112 | Only 5% of bachelors over 40 ever marryI would also argue that divorced men under 40 aren't worth it. Some woman somewhere has already vetted him and he came up short. Why should you bother with somebody else's trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:07 PM |
| 56 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)I bet he smells like the bottom of a bag of assholes and she waxes every surface of her body for him. I'm over 30 and I just want to run to this girl and shake her and tell her what a scrote she's dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:46 PM |
| 41 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)He is also so much older than her, it's just gross. 🤮🤮 I bet if she knew how pornsick he is, she'd leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 31 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)I didn't even notice it until after I posted it, but he calls his pornsickness a product of society, not his own obsession with watching porn. He never even admits to it, but you know this scrote isn't down at the gym lockroom comparing his dick size to every man who walks in the shower. Plus the age gap.. I wish I could help her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 141 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesGirl that's like being a gazelle and tuning in to the Lion Channel to learn how to get eaten. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 106 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)But that takes work to resolve when worrying about your unfixable dick size (that you're comparing to porn dicks) gives you permission to sabotage the relationship further down the road. #justscrotethings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 28 | What are your dealbreakers?Filthy home, filthy hygiene I read the post earlier about a girl asking advice on how to tell her bf that his ass stinks when she cuddles him. I can't even imagine having that problem because I would never have touched him in the first place! After my ex and his gross toenails and butter teeth, hygiene is my #1 dealbreaker. I don't want a fucking bridge troll for a partner, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 97 | Don’t disrespect yourself ✨🌺Advice to younger FDS members from a 30+ former pickmeisha. When these ladies tell you to get you a bag and build a fuck-off fund, listen to them. It's the only way to ensure your independence if you are ever dissatisfied with your situation. A Fuck Off Fund that he doesn't know you have is even better, because he show his true-self sooner rather than later. You give all those things to yourself, before you get yourself a man. Give yourself the love, attention, affection, support, and reciprocat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 62 | David Bowie's ex-wife has spoken out about their marriage“I was falling hopelessly in love,” she wrote, “though I could see my main potential to him was as a nurse, housekeeper, creative ally and business adviser. I thought, ‘Well it’s going to have to be business for me too because it’s not going to work any other way.’ But my heart… he was so, so attractive.” Certified pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 192 | Not “somehow.....” It’s because they know EXACTLY what they’re doing.I saw a post on Instagram about some girl trying to get her husband to help clean the house, so she tried to make it more like a video game. "Oh honey there's a quest to sweep the floor,"now there's a snickers candy bar if you fold the laundry." Can someone please explain to me why the fuck men think they need to have everything gamified to make it a valid thing worth doing? All of these things need to be done regardless of whether they're fun or not, and she's expending the mental energy to thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 43 | Unique struggles of dating and vetting as a plus-sized FDSerWhen I was heavy I was only treated like shit by the ugliest and fattest men lol 😂 I experienced this with an extreme weight fluctuation, too. My ex even admitted after seeing photos of fat me that he would have never gotten with me if he knew I used to look like that. It crushes your self-esteem and they do it on purpose because looking at you – they see everything they hate about themselves and try to make you a convenient vessel in which to pour their self-hatred. Don't ever absorb a man's se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else have this view on having children?I was closer to my father who adopted me than my mother who had me. He was a HVM who stepped in and raised a child that wasn't his because he loved me. We went fishing, we went everywhere together. He stood by me when I said I wanted to go to college instead of becoming a housewife (very common in conservative areas). He passed this year and it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with. The lack of support for that was one of the many reasons why my LV relationship fell apart – it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 111 | Anyone else have this view on having children?As a child who was adopted, please consider it. These children are destined for failure if they stay a part of the system. You can raise them up and teach them things that I wish were taught to me at that age. Instead, I had pickmeisha syndrome and settled down with a LVM. When I found FDS, it was like a lightning rod in my brain that explained so much about my dissatisfaction with life. Luckily I never had children with my LVM, but if I do decide I want to help raise humanity to treat women bet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 109 | FDS is changing how I view the beginning of my relationship with my husbandJust make sure he sticks with it and it's not the typical 'things scrotes say' to make the heat go away. I was in your position this year and got fed up when the pandemic hit and my ex expected me to figure out how we were supposed to get groceries with the shutdowns and toilet paper shortages. After coming home at 7PM to a sink full of dirty dishes, no dinner, and him asking 'what's for dinner?' I had enough. Don't sell yourself short like I have. I hope your man has realized his LVM behavior a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 20 | This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a bakerFucking preach, queen. I worked as a line cook in a country club in my youth and I did 110% of what my male colleagues did, just to get less respect for my expediting skills. I juggle plates better than any of them and yet I get talked down to because I'm focused on the whole kitchen's strategy rather than just cooking. Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:06 PM |
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