ENOUGH SAID!

fckinengaged19times · 2021-01-13T18:48:57+00:00

Girl, they know they’re abusing you. They just don’t care.

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-13T18:45:24+00:00

I feel like this shouldn’t even need to be said.

When was the last time you heard a man apologize for removing a toxic / emotionally abusive individual from his life?

Women over-explain, apologize and “feel bad” for absolutely everything! And I hate that we’ve been conditioned to think that’s normal!

Edit: I don’t mean to turn this into a rant (lol), but I want people to really think about what she’s saying:

”If you treat me like crap, and then disregard my incessant pleas for you to stop treating me like crap, I am going to leave and then not say sorry!”

Um....that’s great??? Way to be empowered??? I mean what the hell is the alternative???? Stick around until he destroys you?!

I’m so glad women are getting stronger, but this kind of language frightens me. Being halfway decent should be the bare minimum. Yet it seems to have become the gold standard!

MulticoloredCatMug · 2021-01-13T20:21:11+00:00

So true. I recently called out a male classmate I have to do a group project with. He told me that I’m the one being disrespectful because I made assumptions about him being a sexist after only two meetings. Then said that I don’t know what I’m talking about because I don’t know the other females in his life.

2021-01-14T03:19:20+00:00

You can talk as much as you want but they don’t care. Ladies learn this now and learn it well! Men KNOW they just don’t CARE! If he is treating you like shit, using you only for sex, leading you on emotionally.....I guarantee if someone does that to one of his female family members suddenly he will have a problem with it. Why? Because they are an extension of him. You’re not. You’re a thing, not even a whole person but a THING. And always remember no one is nicer than a man trying to get laid!! Words mean nothing, and as a result your words also will mean nothing to him.

As a side note I will start using ‘full offense’ more 📝

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-01-13T21:04:35+00:00

This is synonym of high self esteem 👏

idiopathictendencies · 2021-01-13T22:30:30+00:00

I just had to say this to my mom actually so...still thank you FDS for showing me that my feelings ARE valid!

2021-01-14T03:36:56+00:00

No, he know he hurt you but he just doesn't expect that you will even talk to him about it.

WHY? BECAUSE HE KNOW YOU PUT UP WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE!

You put up with his lies and deceit and even though you have a good support system he will stay with you and then continue that with you because he doesn't wanna look bad to your people while he snickering at you for not leaving and seeing your peers sad about you and they can't do anything about it, probably because they don't care much and that is why you are with this type of loser in the first place.

Leave his immature ass (LVM/NVM).

poison_snacc · 2021-01-13T23:20:46+00:00

Yeah it’s gotten to the point where they’re always removed. I have to put up with my narcissist father bc I don’t have a choice atm... and that’s literally it for me 🤷‍♀️I have no time or patience for even one more male’s bullshit.

breadandbunny · 2021-01-14T09:18:52+00:00

Yesssss. This reminds me of dudes of my past where I would legitimately say exactly how they hurt me. If a person refuses to comprehend that, they're not worth your energy.

Title	ENOUGH SAID!
Author	Twolipz_78
Upvotes	1128
Comments	19
Date	January 13, 2021 6:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kwmurh/enough_said/
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