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| 4 | Do you think you can actually sense misogyny?Creating “debate” in online forums created to trigger feminists isn’t going to get you a date in real life, bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Compilation of r/TwoXChromosomes complaining about the same things they accuse incels of doing:In today’s news that absolutely no one needed, incels now believe that when a woman asks you to shower & wash your dick so you don’t give her the fucking fish minge disease every time she lets you have sexy time, that’s the equivalent of her requesting that you perform a “sexual act.” 🤣 Shower thing still a sore spot huh? That’s a bottomless pit of irony. You can’t make this shit up. Bless your little degenerate heart. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 13 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.Yep. This isn’t an “arrangement” she “enjoys”. This is her knowing her husband fucks around (even though she doesn’t do the same with men, and that fact should raise some alarm bells!) and trying to justify that shitty reality to herself & readers by assuring she’s “well taken care of.” Like, if you want to be a stay-at-home trophy wife, if that’s even OK with you, then just marry a wealthy, successful man, maybe a little older, and let him take care of you? Without fucking other women?? And if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 16 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationYep this should also have the flair “lies men tell” bc a lot of these guys are just abusers who watch r4pe p0rn taking advantage of an internet trend so they can talk about it openly. The ones people complain act like pedophiles… well, they are pedophiles in real life. “Incels” are partly a massive scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 07:54 PM |
| 36 | Ali Wong Getting a DivorceBlock the reddit resource username immediately. You won’t get another one again, trust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Not Forget That A Certain Pedophilic Be-Diapered Furry Fetished Former Admin Was Very Instrumental in Getting All Feminist Subs Who Were Critical of The Porn On This Site Banned The Past Few MonthsThis is so disappointing. Is there a list anywhere of subs similar to GC or is this literally the only one left? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 09:57 PM |
| 18 | Eye opening vacationYeah he will say he’s going to “figure it out” which more often than not means he refuses to look at the instructions… he gets so combative you let him do it alone, but soon you start to hear a saw instead of a hammer. Like, wtf is happening? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 05:33 PM |
| 13 | Eye opening vacationThere was an episode of 30 Rock about this! A lot of incredibly spot-on observations from the central character on that show, I highly recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 22 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?“Have my way with her” yep. I think if he intended for that to not come off as rapey, he would have clarified. It takes a second to write, “btw by that I mean feel like the strong & confident one and allow her to relax while I show her how powerful my attraction to her actually is” etc. It took me less than 5 seconds to come up with that and I’m not even OOP 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 16 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?It was his choice to post this shit on reddit. What did he expect, immediate validation by a bunch of scrotes telling him how this counts as a “dead bedroom” and that he is entitled to get sex somewhere else / pickmes advising him to “introduce your wife to BDSM”?? Lmao he gets it posted here instead for women to laugh at his buffoonery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 07:20 PM |
| 11 | Beware of men who try to turn every discussion into an argumentCareful with the outcome of of these types of “arguments” if you try to concede by choosing to ignore a guy or just silently humor him like a toddler. He can use this as a way to manipulate you. They can turn it into gaslighting. I repeatedly endured long-winded complaining from my Republican ex about anything and everything related to politics. His hatred of the “liberal media,” and the fact that he paid the rent, somehow ended up meaning that I would have to endure revolting garbage like Fox N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 38 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHI was with a guy who wanted to put me in outfits, use props etc. I laughed really hard about something he was trying to do and he became ridiculously defensive. Later I suggested he just service me instead. What would you know, he cut off the relationship and accused me of being “dominant” as if it was a huge insult 🤡 That is when I learned that BDSM is actually just a myth for men to coerce and control women. If you do it for them they’ll act like you’re special. If you suggest something where … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 12 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.“Single ppl make babies too you know” I think I just bled from my eyes a little 😂 that secondhand embarrassment makes me cringe so hard! Fuck me gently with a chainsaw before I match with a man like this one. Do you ladies ever notice that the most audacious men tend to say the exact same things which they always complain that women are the ones doing? Like, a single mum decides to get on the dating apps, and for scrotes it’s all, how dare she live her life and make “excuses” for being more than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 02:08 AM |
| 66 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsOn men with female friends… You are not in a relationship with a HVM if you’ve ever had to question that a friendship of his is weird or if a woman he spends time with is creepy, because HVM in relationships don’t hang out alone with women who have hit on them in the past. Think about you with male friends— you wouldn’t do that if you were in the same situation with a male. You’d probably make sure your husband knows you would never spend time with a guy like that. I want to mention too that a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 25 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreIt’s wildly racist. She is profiling black males. Read her other posts if you can handle it. It blows my mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 52 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreIf she is, i am happy to help you fight her lol. I cannot tolerate the constant pretend-woke pandering and manipulative use of language to encourage a postmodern + fake view of the world. Not only does this woman not seem to have much experience as a human being, she likely doesn’t give a rat’s ass about what she’s actually saying. She just needs something to talk about to get attention from potential (male) clients on the porn part of Twitter. For someone to try and call this word salad “discou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:10 PM |
| 38 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️There are multiple “rate me” subs where ugly/short men give each other 7+ scores and then young gorgeous women show up and the men all rate them as a 4 or less. It’s preposterous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | “Girls have it easy” since fucking when??? • @cayleecresta on TikTok roasting a musty loser for minimizing the female struggle & also devaluing women for simply not cooking for his entitled ass. Although that app is full of groomers and weird men, I’m thankful there are HVW on that platform as well.DAMN this is amazing !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 05:39 PM |
| 155 | Women and IG vs Internet Porn“It’s always young women, never boys” Absolutely agreed on that 200%. Especially about it being always young women. It’s never women over 30 either which is a load of shit, like somehow either they think women stop getting eating disorders or having mental health issues when they turn 28. In reality these things can get way worse as you get older. I just hit my mid 30s and my eating disorder is back on in full swing and my mental health is worse than it ever has been before. In my mind especiall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 66 | Yes, you are. 💋🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 22 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatDidn’t they say the guy is a high school teacher? How is that even possible?? I’m horrified | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:23 AM |
| 23 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatWhen I watched this video earlier I missed the part about the incel guy being a HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER. Oh god. I can’t even begin to explain how messed up that is and why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:22 AM |
| 59 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatI knew this shit was getting bad when that incel came to my country (Canada) and got in a truck & mowed people down in the street. Can we take a minute to acknowledge though, that incels have existed literally forever & have perpetuated violence + destruction for the same misogynistic purpose for hundreds or possibly thousands of years? Think famous assholes who couldn’t get laid & tried to make up for it with violence ie Napoleon Bonaparte who decided to conquer multiple countries as a result o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 79 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯Uh, by the way, men who disclose being the victim of attempted “murder,” why don’t you ever include the part about it actually being self-defense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 29 | Have not cringed this hard in awhile; at the woman (kirra_kitty1215) who responded to the original TikTok made by dworkfem … it seems like a ‘cope’ to force your ideal of being okay with your boyfriend watching porn. You can’t force other women to be okay with exploitation just because you are.I was wondering how the hell they would let her in the kitchen with all that glitter on her face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 31 | The Manlet Propaganda of Tall GirlJust to help confirm your excellent theory, I’ve got some Slovenian in me and I am nearly always the tallest woman in the room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:28 AM |
| 285 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidThe photo in the first slide is proof that this is indeed a fleshlight situation. It’s a woman’s torso and the camera is focused on her midsection. That’s what “hot” means to him. That’s the definition to him or a woman who he would rate as a 10. No face, no limbs; just a photo of a torso which exemplifies “bangability” or fills his particular standards. It’s not even a woman, it’s a woman’s body and ffs I’m 100% sure she probably posted this because she’s proud of all the work she did at the gy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:42 PM |
| 9 | A "good wife" guide from the 1950's and men still expect it in modern time.“Be a little gay” Yes, exactly, men are the literal reason I only date women anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Pickmes in the media and the perpetuation of misogynyShe’s commenting on how stupid these women are?? Can I comment on how stupid she is to have such a limited worldview and so little life experience yet makes such a grand assumption about the experiences of women she’s never even met?! Like do pickmes like this just stay in the womb until they are 45yo? I hate that becoming enlightened & radicalized/understanding what patriarchal society is doing to women as a whole/knowing the truth about men almost always comes at the cost of emotional labor an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 41 | Women's Body SaviorSounds like a narcissist to me. He’s going around getting narc supply by being fake supportive to women with low self esteem. You inadvertently became his charity case but you totally ruined the game when you explained there was no problem to begin with! That’s a massive trigger to a narcissist. They’ll neg and neg until they get a crumb of insecurity, but you didn’t give him any! He lost. It probably reminded him that he is a fake, through & through. I love to hear a sis stand up for herself! W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 39 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?I don’t at all believe this show specifically is encouraging any young girls to make porn. I think that’s already been accomplished by our entire patriarchal society. I think the portrayal of Kat as a young woman growing up under a damaging libfem influence is extremely realistic. It started with porn being made of her— an underage woman losing her virginity— entirely without her consent. It went around the whole school and instead of being able to speak up for herself and get help as a victim o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 7 | New vetting strategy with all this third world war subjectOh trust me, for every other mr potato head-shaped couch creature who somehow strikes it big with one of these women and thinks they’ve won the bangmaid lottery there’s a savvy eastern european queen who has just accomplished the scam of her dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 19 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoThis is most definitely Simon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 67 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoSeriously this post cracked me the fuck up, I didn’t know I needed to laugh a bit this morning and I appreciate OP for finding this gem of advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 30 | is planning the same weekend trip with a different girl one year later an issue?It’s ridiculous. If I were OP I would actually prefer to go not knowing he went there before & later find out in hindsight, over going and knowing bc he told me beforehand. His choice to go to the same place as before shows that he’s a player with a plan of how to seduce women which he repeats time after time— a red flag that he’s not relationship material but at least is able to plan dates/trips and show a woman a good time 🤷🏼♀️ But his choice to do that and then tell all of that her shows tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 45 | Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.The irony is palpable. If men actually behaved like the fake guys in dating app advertisements then we wouldn’t have to employ vetting methods (ie, never accepting a coffee date) for a multitude of incredibly important reasons. Do they still not get that only accepting dinner dates is a way to protect ourselves and not because we are money hungry gold diggers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 7 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERIt’s absolutely rape, including physically: men can’t pee with a boner so he would’ve had to hold her in place in order to stay inside her while flaccid. She didn’t want him to do this so she was probably struggling while he held her down. I can’t imagine any other way he could accomplish this “during” sex”— the sex stopped and he used her vulnerable position to assault her. It’s absolutely nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 17 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERThe logistics alone are highly disturbing. It is almost impossible for a male to pee with an erection. So he literally lost his boner, managed to stay inside her while soft and urinated? This would take a lot of maneuvering & he would have absolutely had to hold her down for several seconds to even manage this… so I can only imagine how much she’s downplaying/minimizing what actually happened. He didn’t pull out when she said no, he held her in place to use her body as a fucking toilet. This is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 72 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂Not Simon apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 168 | Tale as old as timeThere’s never a good end to the story when it’s a guy a woman was introduced to a month ago/year ago/etc who at that point didn’t even ask for her number. “Reconnecting” romantically when you’ve met once in person but have never so much as been on a date with that person is pretty sus bc unless he had an SO at the time, he would have shown interest in you & y’all would have already had started talking. The vetting should start here. Example of a successful internal monologue: Huh, from what I ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 124 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItOf course it’s one of those Sausage Castle “juggalo” guys with troll bodies. really should be called the pickme castle bc that’s who they fill the place with every weekend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:17 AM |
| 11 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornIt’s fucking weird the number of people who mention that these are “pretty girls” young attractive etc as if your natural looks have literally anything to do with wanting to become a full service sex worker. Who on earth thinks this way? There are countless jobs women can get based on their appearance that do not involve being fucked on camera for the whole world to see. Even for the rare number of women who have loads of other choices but who believe they would do better at a job based on their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!I’ve actually talked to a few straight men who say they would prefer to eat ass than eat pussy any day and that truly disturbs me. Not bc ppl have different interests sexually but bc this is actually becoming the norm. The term gynophobia comes to mind but I also know that’s not at all with that term refers to. I just think that one of the biggest red flags is when during sex they avoid your vagina— whether avoiding touching it or eating it or putting things in it etc— and sex for these men is j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 12 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!Absolutely. and it’s not the same as just putting your hand on someone’s neck to kind of make them feel like they’re yours. this is holding a woman down with your hands around her neck pressing inwards to stop the air from going to her brain. Imagine doing this to someone. it’s sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Happy VD, FDS!!What a smart little kitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Valentine's Field ReportMy bff surprised me with flowers: a huge rainbow of roses. they’re big and gorgeous and I have them in a vase and I can’t stop looking at them… she picked them up early and got exactly the type she knew I’d love. We should normalize a man treating you the way your BFF does. you can high value yourself until you find someone and that’s fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 495 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.10/10 this never happened. A random male who sits down next to you in a public place and starts talking about his girlfriend and their “plans” is almost even creepier than a guy who sits down next to you to say yo you single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:49 PM |
| 11 | I thought they always said cat ladies were gonna die alone.Absolutely. It’s one of the greatest movies of all time. It takes you away to another time & another place like no other movie I have ever seen. it is astounding & im glad to hear my sisters is in this sub appreciate it too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 24 | He showed up at my door last nightDon’t ever think about giving anyone “closure”. 99% of the time, closure is just a very vain attempt where you try to get back what you lose. It has nothing to do with feeling better about a breakup and everything to do with either getting back together OR revenge. Do not attempt to get closure or to give closure bc it is not a real thing, just a simple word for something completely different, and is often a tactic tor manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:39 AM |
| 54 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.Wildly accurate, you just described my ex’s entire personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 11:19 PM |
| 349 | Why do so many men have bad breath?A few years back, I put something on my tinder profile about only wanting partners who floss their teeth. I got messages from multiple men straight up angry about it. Just the classic raging, taking shit personally, complaining about how I should lower my standards, how dare you have a preference blah blah heard it all before. You think flossing is too big of a job and I’m being discriminatory against ppl who don’t have perfect hygiene? Cry me a fucking river I don’t care. I have sensitive skin … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Juxtaposition, Screencapped by me, Digital, 2022Brilliant!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 11 | Juxtaposition, Screencapped by me, Digital, 2022That’s the only thing many of them have ever used a vacuum for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 15 | Juxtaposition, Screencapped by me, Digital, 2022He didn’t even break his back, it sounds like he herniated a disc. Typical scrote making a huge deal out of an injury and trying to sound like he is in way more pain than he actually is and acting like some kind of folk hero when he’s really just facing the first-world problem of being a porn-addicted degenerate feeling hurty after willing to put his own mouth on his own genitals to get off. I sincerely hope there aren’t any women (or men for that matter) who are stuck having to play mommy-maid … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:09 PM |
| 10 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!“No moral obligations” about a (very) underage child watching porn?! I’m sorry, what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 126 | al i can say is… jfcFWB has never been a relationship “title” and it will never be. It is delusional that there is even an acronym and men use it in a possessive form: “my FWB” I mean how completely ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 223 | al i can say is… jfc“She is doing this bc she’s jealous of the other women I’m banging, not bc she’s a human being with a life & interests & attraction to multiple men like any other single straight woman” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 40 | al i can say is… jfcLmao and only on the 4th word in this bullshit… the very audacity of referring to someone as “mY friend with benefits” as though this is some new term for a specific relationship… sorry dudes, be my bangmaid and i’ll fuck you over etc is not a type of relationship. No one who you openly refused to date but is still fucking you while knowing you’re fucking other people is yours to get possessive or jealous about. It’s fucking laughable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 65 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀100% accurate. And French women do not want a man like this anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 17 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.In the US the book she mentioned is actually a requirement in a lot of high school & early college history classes, so it is seriously likely that he’s already read it in school & even had a copy and he’s just full of shit pretending it’s a current thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.They’re just telling on themselves, there’s nothing remotely similar between a) women warning other women about bad men and giving each other tough-love advice and b) men threatening to rape & physically hurt women. “The former is worse in some ways” @$?& what?! Can you please list the ways bc it feels like we are in a fucking Black Mirror episode here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Also BBW is just the pornified word for fat. It’s a fetish. To this male, women are sex objects and should thus be designated by internet-porn search words & should be distinguished by hashtags related to porn genres. There is nothing easier to depend on than the flaccid penis of than a man who uses porn search words & terms in regular conversation. If you ever hear a man use a term like BBW you can fucking count on him wanting creepy shit in bed and his PIED dick not working. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 13 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬I’d prepare for something extremely disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬I feel like this would be possible, i am in no way qualified but what if someone wrote the code for a bot that does a basic text replacement, based on a series of very typical LVM traits? It wouldn’t be that interesting bc there’d be so much repetition but it would still be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 32 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!I seriously appreciate this information! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 17 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!What is the actual name of the reddit care sub? I didn’t realize you can just block them so you don’t get messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 55 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!I didn’t even notice the glove at first That makes it so, so much worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 10 | There would be so many cockroaches with J namesJust name them all jake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 45 | Can someone tell me when will women’s trauma stop being used as entertainment?The folks profiting are definitely the ones harming women the most. But even as a kid I remember being about 10 and hearing the kids on the playground would make fun of this poor, traumatized woman and her breasts, voice etc. it was never, “wow that guy was abusive, what a monster” instead it was “look at this cartoonish crazy woman running on the beach”. We were taught from a young age, by the patriarchy, to be complicit in harming pam & other high-profile women.Absolutely is not our fault, how… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:48 PM |
| 52 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Yep, I re-download tinder from my cloud from time to time as more of an entertaining drinking game than anything else and i only ever get those emails if it’s currently on my phone/have used it in the past 10 days or so. By 3 weeks those email notifications stop completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 44 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"I read the rest of this comment in the tune of the song. A tale old as time / i don’t listen any mooore But seriously, it’s irritating to stumble on their bullshit public gaslighting. I wonder why they actually decided they’d just throw this little fun “fact” out into the ocean of internet, fishing for insecure women? Like hey, I hope some stranger grabs it 🤞🏼 and takes it as gospel, then at least some random man can cheat in peace, wouldn’t that be nice? Or was this person-specific gaslighting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 124 | When every situation has to be about himSame. Just wildly accurate in a way that anyone who’s watched it 3826 times could relate to. I always wondered about why Leia had to act so tough and strong and emotionless and say literally nothing about her planet just disappearing. Now I see it is because she’s surrounded by selfish scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 53 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!I think it’s even worse… Imo this is not so much an actual confession about actual feelings from these men and it’s more of a bullying tactic used to inflict pain. It’s the worst thing you could possibly say to a partner, that they aren’t good enough. Not just bc you would hurt them, but also bc you wouldn’t be able to cover your tracks. If it’s actually the truth that a guy is in love with someone else they will hide it however they can so they still have a chance to go and cheat with that pers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 32 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!You don’t have to even read all of this to know this dude is going to say the EXACT same thing (this time about OP) to the next woman unlucky enough to end up with him. Same if he is able to get with the ex he’s obsessed with: chances are he’ll end up “letting it slip” that he is still into OP. Because this is likely just a cruel negging tactic harsh enough that it came up when he was drunk… not an actual confession about his feelings. Some of these guys are unreliable narrators for their own en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 52 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢I had a man who literally ate too many of those flinstones gummies and get seriously ill. bc he couldn’t be bothered to go get some actual candy. Just ate 20 of them like candy (until the jar was empty) & pretty much OD’d. I asked why didn’t he just go to the corner store and buy some actual candy and his answer was that he was “too tired” so I asked him, then why didn’t you ask me to get you some candy? The answer was of course, “I dunno” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 10 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?Vetting is your number one resource here! If you find someone who seems like theyll be an exception to the rule, then please vet as thoroughly as possible. In this area of vetting you have to treat it as an actual job. I advise making friends with, getting in touch with or otherwise observing other members (both male and female) of his parish/temple/various religious activities/etc who he spends a lot of time with, getting to know them one-on-one and finding out how he and his peers feel about w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 10 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?Be aware of the impact religion has on the guy and how, if he is an abuser, there is a chance that he will weaponize his religion— and sex— to hurt you. These issues will, of course, apply also to deeply religious men in general, not just those who want to wait to have sex. Narcissistic & sociopathic men who base their value system on a religious philosophy largely open to interpretation because their own value system doesn’t actually exist are men with no actual morals or values, and that’s jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:32 AM |
| 9 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?The system of abuse these men use applies both for men who waited for their first marriage and men who are onto a second one and “waiting” again in the new relationship. This applies to a lot of fundamentalist couples as well as conservative converts/reverts. What I’m saying is that if he is deeply religious and he is the one who wants to wait, don’t simply see it as an altruistic act. Be incredibly careful. Be very wary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:29 AM |
| 12 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?I have friends whose new husbands began to beat on them as soon as their husbands had no new sexual experiences to wait for. I’ve seen men expect their wives to have the same body & dress size as they did as a bride and emotionally punish them for gaining weight, stretch marks or wrinkles. And I’ve seen couples break up after they ended up having relations before marriage because the man blamed their wife for “tempting” them and thus fucking up everything. Reference the DARVO system and you’ll s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:12 AM |
| 18 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?I’ve seen and witnessed in person a small percentage of these marriages actually work out, but more often than not I have seen these marriages fail. And worse. Ive seen men do a switcheroo on the Madonna/Whore complex and no longer regard the woman with kindness and respect and punish her according to the “advice” they get from an ancient religious text. I’ve seen men press their women to wait while they themselves cheat with other women before the wedding even happens. I’ve seen men expect sex … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 23 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?Sex should absolutely be something to wait on for a multitude of reasons but the problem here lies in the way conservatives & zealots are able to wear the narcissist’s “mask”: keep it on until the marriage is consummated and then discard it just as quickly — as well as their respect for their women. In the world and on the internet, I have heard of and read about so many religious men who follow the classic DARVO system of abuse once they’ve consummated that it is an a straight-up fucking cliche… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 17 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?This isn’t an answer to this question but a recommendation, for all women including even deeply religious women. Do not get involved with any (potentially LV or else un-vetted) men who are waiting for sex 100% for religious reasons. This applies not just to conservative xtians but to any zealots including those who are born-again/converts and have decided to “wait for marriage” for the first time after already having had dated/married & divorced/etc & not waited. I know full well I am going to g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 8 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"I interpreted him as simply being conservative and anti-birth control/anti-women. He’s probably a born-again MRA imagining a future with a SAHM who brings him a beer in the evening with the foam removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 20 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"The breadth of contraceptive treatment in the Western world including the number of women who take birth control and the number of different meds available are all absolutely enough to make it fall under the category of literally any kind of doctor. It’s one of the most simple types of treatment to understand and I’m sure that anyone with a medical license is able to prescribe the pill where he is located. There’s so little to actually be competent about here that any argument about incompetence… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:51 AM |
| 19 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.Classic projection, he’s trying to shame her by turning her into some kind of disney villain, taking $ away from children. What a load of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 88 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.Female bodies are often straight-up demonized for qualities which in male bodies are considered unappealing but otherwise harmless. They’re judged for shit on the outside as though those things make up their actual personality. There are assumptions attached to physical shit in our culture that really don’t make any sense when you think about them. Take an easy-to-recognize cliche from the good old black mirror. The parents in TV sitcom families from the past three decades: Fat guy who gained so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:23 AM |
| 109 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Agreed! I’m hoping she’s in a location where a 1st-trimester termination is available. If she’s not, I hope she has enough resources at her disposal at least be able to find a location nearby where she can travel and get one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 29 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityAgreed. Also If I had a child I wouldn’t bring them to a date, any date, period. There is no logic to this crap. You do not go bringing kids around to pseudo-strangers you know from chatting in line at the grocery store; how on earth can you bring them around to someone else you barely know, have never met, etc, just bc you plan to maybe have sex with that person at some point?! I cannot fathom the complete lack of logic that some men comport with when it comes to the safety of their own flesh-a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:29 AM |
| 10 | No second date, so he wants moneyImagine having absolutely NO shame. Scrotes? They don’t have to sit around imagining that. They’re already there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateAbsolutely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!Yeah and paying the price on a fucking hotel that which one might spend on a nice dinner or extended bar crawl. What flophouse hotel is he taking her to? Or is this a 50-50 scenario where he makes it sound to us like he’s treating her? Let’s not even get started on the main storage locker situation. This should be in the roast-a-scrote flair imo, there are just so many issues to unpack. If Freud was alive and starred in a reality show they could spend a whole season just on this specific dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Liberal feminism at its best👏 👏 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateThat’s just disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 52 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersYeah I can’t tell if he’s offering money to women or trying to take it from them. Did he actually say if you want a car then choose one of his? Could a woman get one of these mysterious cars on the first date and just drive away in it if the date (obviously) sucks? guess there’s that one pro in a deep sea of serious cons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 3 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersCan someone translate? I feel like I just read something in cockney english or something, it honestly makes almost no sense. If it’s to be taken literally, then good God I feel bad for the next person who ends up on his BO-scented, brown stained memory foam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:50 AM |
| 45 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.“Ideally transition to a friendship” Jesus christ we all know what that means 😭 This kind of scrote would never keep a female “friend” around unless he wanted to continue fucking her! Pay heed, you do NOT EVER engage in a “friendship” with this type of dude. He wanted her for one thing only and didn’t get it, so he got it somewhere else BUT he still thinks he might have a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:45 AM |
| 14 | Forgive yourself for past mistakes with men, but never forgetWhat a fantastic post. I appreciate this so much! I think it is so important for our growth to actually process these particular memories & the emotions that come with. Blocking out those memories does no good, it may seem logical when we try to stuff it all back into a dusty corner in the brain but still this usually just results in forgetting what we learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 17 | We don't do that no moreA good boyfriend is going to pay me like my dad, cook & clean like my butler, and promote me like a publicist introducing people to sunshine 😭 It’s crazy how they think this shit is OK for them to expect from us but suddenly mad and evil if we expect any of it from them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:19 AM |
| 24 | Men Can Now Respond Directly to The Female Dating Strategy Podcast!If it’s only for the hosts of the show to get paid better, then hell, give the males a chance to show their true colors, good or bad… or just to show that they’re not cheap, bc a lot of them seem overly concerned by the fact we would rather date a man with a stable career and want to prove themselves. On the other hand, I like the fact that the podcast is a women-only space because this sub is possibly the only place in the entire internet which is dedicated to allowing women to speak first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Protect your wombWow, am I having a deja vu moment rn… you’re definitely not the first woman here who got banned from that sub— and for quoting stats too, I believe. I can’t remember exactly what she posted or commented there but she received a hell of a lot of vitriol. Nothing will threaten a group of men like a woman standing up for herself and telling the real shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 23 | new to Reddit, and there needs to be more feminist subs, so what happens?Even the most insane gore subreddits— the ones where you can see tragedies like cartel beheadings, factory accidents, motorcycle crashes etc— are absolutely nothing in terms of misogyny compared to the content shared in the “BDSM” subreddits on this site. The porn which men on Reddit are into watching these days is nothing short of torture and it is beyond disturbing that it exists much less is condoned with the excuse that it is involves “sex”. I put that in quotations because most of this crap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 7 | new to Reddit, and there needs to be more feminist subs, so what happens?Yes can someone please point us to whatever Spinster is? I am beyond intrigued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 93 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandThis! The fact that they think we are too dumb to catch where their eyes land bothers me so much more than the fact that they’re looking at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:18 AM |
| 29 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Ok here’s one. This is about my pornsick ex who I’ve mentioned in quite a few comments. So, he was learning how to make 3D & CGI graphics on the computer and was doing a pretty decent job for someone who’d never even drawn a picture before. One day he showed me a character he said he designed based on me. I’d actually already seen him working on the head/face, he’d carefully rendered a hyper-realistic version of me, the detail was similar to that in a lot of video games you see these days. So I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 6 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerWhat word are you referring to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:11 PM |
| 9 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerThat’s horrifying. Who said this? What on earth is their rationale? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 51 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI am also concerned about her being shamed even more by those women. She just can’t catch a break in this society and it’s all because she attempts to stick to a set of morals not based in getting male approval. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 11 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?Men usually do this to their single female family members because they think women shouldn’t be single and that there is something deficient about a woman being alone. They don’t like to see their daughter/sister/etc single for a variety of reasons like they feel sorry for them, they are “concerned” (aka believe they’re incapable or unsafe alone), they think they’ll bring shame to the family (in non western cultures), they want you to be “taken care of” etc. Sometimes they don’t really have any … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 09:41 PM |
| 35 | Does anyone trust their pets when they don’t like a guy?Oh yes. This should be a main tenet. When my ex became abusive (it was verbal, very, very bad and while it eventually became physical the verbal was the worst by far) my (fur)daughter began to hiss whenever he tried to pet her or pick her up. This never stopped, up until the end of the relationship. This started when the abuse wasn’t that bad. The thing is, we were together for a decade before he became abusive and she always totally adored him. He used to be very caring and I think he really lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩It’s crazy how they think. The first thing I’d say if I changed my location like this and ended up talking to someone living there would be to mention exactly that: “I’ll be in Newark on the 15th through the 2nd on a business trip, but I actually live in Philly.” It’s especially weird that he obviously already happened to mention where he lived full time? Did he slip up and not realize the info during your convo was different from that on his profile? Was his original plan all along to just pret… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Dunning-Kruger.It’s a long story that I will tell at a different time and basically I wanted to say here that it wasn’t as bad as it sounds, but I guess it was. There’s something to be said about near-constant manipulation and the power it has over your mindset. I really appreciate that and yeah I am really, really glad to be out of that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I would only do it if I loved his last name. It’s going to be my goddamn name after all, I’m going to choose it for myself. If I love his last name, hell, I’m stealing it. My name combined with my ex’s surname had a nice ring to it, perfect number of syllables, so I knew that if I married him I’d take his name. Other men id prefer to marry over him have ugly last names which id absolutely never take. If I had a last name I actually liked, and he liked it too, I just might ask him to take my last… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 157 | Dunning-Kruger.My pornsick, forever-erectile dysfunctioned ex tried to convince me that I was having “squirting” orgasms when really he would just jab at me repeatedly so hard that it smushed my urethra and I peed a little involuntary. After about the 12th time I tried to argue with him that no, i didn’t climax nor orgasm nor feel much of anything at all— he had a terrible time reading any nonverbal cues— I realized fully what a horrifying impact porn has had on men and that it 100% destroyed the relationship … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 84 | Dunning-Kruger.I want to know what exactly prompts a male to write something like this and post it on the internet? What on earth does he have to gain? Why? Because he knows the truth. It sure follows the typical scrote line of thinking- she didn’t enjoy herself with me so she must have never enjoyed herself in her entire life. When they spout this kind of bullshit, they know it isn’t true. They are stupid, yes, but not that stupid. Is he trying to convince someone dumber than him? Is he pandering to incels? O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:35 PM |
| 115 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreIt is incredibly refreshing to see someone put into words what it means to have physical touch as a love language while acknowledging that physical touch is not the same as sexual intimacy. The millennial generation & onward has been sold the pornified idea that touching always = sex if it happens between two people who are already having sex/have had sex, & the vast majority of men this age aren’t really capable of separating the two actions or engaging in the former without attempting to engag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate StalkerYes!! This episode was hilarious, I loved it, this show always brings a smile to my face. So entertaining, and wildly informative!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 20 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate StalkerA correction for the lovely ladies of the podcast: 1st base = kissing, 2nd base = fondling under clothes, 3rd base = oral, Home run = intercourse This is how it’s always been in my region! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemYeah I’ve always thought the show is brilliant, especially in its brutal critique of horrible people who do terrible things, the problem lies in those millions of male viewers to whom the story and characters are actually aspirational. Many men (if not most?) who watch this show actually identify with the characters because they are far too stupid and self-absorbed to get that it’s a cynical satire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 11 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemI saw a post this morning literally describing being on a date with a guy who tried to use step 2 of the DENNIS system as illustrated on the show. You know, where you are on a date with a new guy, you get to the restaurant and something went wrong with the reservation or it closed or whatever, and the guy, hoping to “engage physically” (succinctly worded by the character of Dennis) says “hey, just come over to my house and we’ll eat there.” I cackled out loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 62 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.It’s not just that they think they deserve them. It’s that they think they are entitled to these early-20s women. They live and breathe with the understanding that these beautiful nubile young ladies already belong to them— they’re just out there, a bunch of them, and it’s up to these men to find them. Every time a successful but disgusting old creep hits on a 22yo, it’s because he’s checking to see if that woman is one of his future gfs, if she’s one of the pool of mystery young girls which he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:24 AM |
| 8 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Ok I had to look for it, found it, and I gotta say this is the OG of all pickmes. I thought it was a joke at first, like it’s just too much. I can’t express how horrifying it is to see a woman literally encourage another person to take advantage of her that way. It feels like extreme codependency, and it’s so ridiculously irresponsible and gross for a TV show to take that situation and exploit it to encourage women to give in to personality factors which likely developed as a result of them bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...This is fantastic, thanks! I think someone should do a followup post to defense weapons— but with defensive/pro-safety clothing items which can be utilized as a backup for when we know we are gonna be in high risk places or in high risk situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...These men are the number one reason so many women who end up homeless stay homeless. They are abused so consistently and so badly by homeless males while on the street & in shelters that they spiral into severe mental illness and lose the chance to get back on their feet. I know this because it happened to me at one time in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 6 | No, a woman from a 3rd world country will not put up with your stink! (An anecdote)My father also (still) pees in a bottle. What the actual fuck is up with that shit?! It’s a red flag if there ever was one, but of course they never start out that way, they hide this behavior until the women get to know them better. His doesn’t even have to make an excuse for this BS because my mother will do it for him. (Note- he doesn’t have any health condition that would make him have to piss in a bottle instead of getting up and walking the 5 steps across the room to the washroom to piss i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:43 PM |
| 161 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Yeah, and a bum who literally shits on other bums by pretending he’s not one of them. “Oh I’m not homeless like those losers, I’m living the van life.” Even a guy who lives in a van down by the river is paying for the goddamn property he parks his van on. This guy parks at the beach during the day and in the Walmart lot at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 129 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Yeah considering the type of car and the luggage situation this dude is no hipster or van-lifer or even a forest Jesus. This is a Walmart parking lot Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 180 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Absolutely! Besides, he’s looking for someone to mooch off of and a place to live for free so it’s hardly logical for him to date a homeless person. Btw a guy’s only considered as “living in a van” if he’s somewhere warm where it doesn’t rain— everywhere else, he’s just homeless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 59 | PSA Holiday Gifts that both of you use does not count as a gift!Lol I have ulcerative colitis and my ex bought me one of those when I mentioned it randomly. It actually turned out to be a godsend and I still use one today. I wanted to add that if he gave me something like this at a party that would be an absolute dealbreaker if all my friends weren’t already aware of my health condition. They really want us to think their “jokes” are just the result of them making ridiculous and inept choices, but they know what they’re doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 27 | Communicating after a first date: am I being a pickme?No, tell him in person at the end of the date. If you already said thanks you do not and should not say it again in a text. Women often think we have to be human thank-you machines. We don’t and we shouldn’t! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Maid on Netflix - Breakdown and analyses of key ideas around women's experiences who flee DV - and how this related to FDSAbsolutely!!! You are spot on with that list, I agree, and for those who haven’t watched it (yet) there are clear examples of all of those manipulation tactics in the storyline and incredibly realistic examples of how a young woman faced and learned to deal with every one of them. After I watch the show over again I really want to make a post illustrating examples of all the manipulation tactics used by Alex’s ex. It’s so important we learn to recognize these tactics for what they are so we can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 4 | More negs which aren't always obvious and guys try to act like it's "normal conversation"Negging is not simply a way to put women down. It can also be a highly effective method to suss out your weaknesses and prey on them, though once you’re in that vulnerable state you won’t be great at picking up on what’s actually happening. Manipulators are really, really good at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?Being suspended without pay as a cop absolutely means you attacked/injured/killed someone. Is he proud of this?! Is she?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.I know. It gave me actual chills. That was just at the sink part. What the actual fuck is going on here? I thought I used to be a pickme but I would have never, EVER cleaned a bathroom for a man. Once they show their slob side that’s an absolute dealbreaker, I’m out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.I don’t use that term when telling a male about my sexuality for that VERY reason. I only use the term fluid or I just fucking say “yes I date women as well as men” it takes longer but the thought of the reaction I get from the term “bisexual” makes me cringe too much. I hate that every single part of female sexuality has been fetishized, I hate that some of the lesbians I’ve dated purposely don’t go after women who label themselves as bisexual because they know that many bisexual-identifying wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmThis is a fantastic article, thank you so much for the link! PLEASE READ THIS LADIES!! ⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:04 AM |
| 55 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Seriously!! Men are always thinking clearly. That’s why this whole situation happened. He thought clearly and made a decision. Actually, he’s been making a series of very particular decisions on a daily basis ever since the day they met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 53 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.hey guys, don’t forget the importance of sExUaL cOmPaTiBiLiTy 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Scrotes will be scrotes. NEVER move in with a boyfriend.The way she doesn’t refer to him as her ex or her “bf at the time” etc makes me think she thinks the two of them are still together. As experienced women we all know that “needing space” is literally shit-code for a breakup but she is obviously not experienced. It is extremely depressing to think of someone this vulnerable— emotionally, financially and probably even physically (she sounds stressed and overworked)— being strung along this way. Not only does she seem to have no clue that he’s done… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Today I actually realised that "if he wanted to, he would"It’s funny because the fact that flowers are both beautiful and inexpensive is the reason men have been giving them to women for centuries in lieu of something that would actually cost time, money and effort. It’s about the cheapest, most low-effort gift imaginable and yet men out there are not getting them for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:35 PM |
| 18 | Reject a man if you meet him in the wild and your gut screams NO but your people-pleaser wants to give him your numberI would avoid this excuse! It’s always blown up in my face. I date women as well as men so I used to think making the gay excuse would work really well, since it was partly the truth? NO. No it does not work. The answer is always the same, some variation of “no you aren’t,” or “date me, I’ll turn you straight.” Thanks to their pornsick minds they immediately see this as a situation where they can get their fetish on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Lies “body/sex positive” influencers tell 🧐 (Mega-post about self-objectification and posting sexy pics)Wow thank you so much for this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | We need to STOP platforming this “feminine” mentality — it grooms women into compliant relationships with abusive, dangerous LVM. You do NOT praise the bare minimum, you simply walk away if he cannot “do better”.Bad idea. I congratulated my ex for doing a good work vacuuming 🤡 and after that he never did a thorough job again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.Seriously, everything from the triad relationship to her comparing herself to Molly to the wardrobe “filled” with lingerie specifically purchased to please the husband, is her trying to get picked. Nothing in this story seems to have anything to do with the narrator’s enjoyment or desires. It’s all about this guy. Her world probably started revolving around him a long time ago. She was manipulated and now she’s manipulating herself. Who wants to bet that this poly thing was his idea and his alon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:20 PM |
| 12 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.Seriously, anyone know the source for this video? I do however sense that in our desperation to obtain more information that we are really all gaslighting ourselves bc the thing is, there probably isn’t some missing piece here. She likely has had this POS block her before, perhaps multiple times, maybe it’s just one of those cute scrote things™️ which she eventually gave up on dealing with or trying to understand bc he is so manipulative. She gets blocked when she literally goes to her bf’s work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I feel very sure it’s actually a male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:44 AM |
| 18 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.Trap her into supporting his daughter… Yes that is this man’s scam imo. Along with every ‘friend’ and family member. Malicious and shady and something that wouldn’t look nice in future divorce court proceedings— let’s hope she doesn’t stay with him, and this soap opera of a situation is cut short so that never has to happen. What a vile guy and it’s so sad she has allowed herself to be manipulated for so long. That’s one of the most fascinating/disturbing ‘scrote schemes’ I’ve read in a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:03 AM |
| 14 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!Absolutely agree. I kept wondering while watching Outlander how on earth Claire, a brunette, has no visible leg or pit hair even though the writers try to keep it realistic by having a different scrote sexually assault her and/or the other female characters (oh and also all of the men) in every single episode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 08:36 PM |
| 87 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.This is the most common type of troll message I receive on Reddit. Funny how so many men believe rape threats are the best way to get a woman’s attention and remind her that “not all men are like this” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 118 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)If this is real, then this isn’t just horrible for OP— I mean, what an insult to Emily! The way he used the word “love” makes me think that he promised Emily a relationship & the whole 9 yards as soon as he was free from the confines of his girlfriend. The typical LVM who cheats will do pretty much anything to get laid, and that includes future faking in order to convince each woman that she isn’t about to become a homewrecker. Somehow society frowns less on a male “finding love” outside of a re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Kevin can go F himselfThank you for recommending! This show is awesome!! I’ve just started but it’s already looking incredibly promising as something that looks specifically at the issues we are facing and discuss here. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a premise like this ever before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:34 PM |
| 12 | this is (yes really) a marketing strategy for a dating app.Yeah I feel like this is a rescue mission waiting to happen, if it was real I would just go sit down myself and try and beg her to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩Yes!! I feel the exact same way. Love horror myself but avoid any men who are into it like the absolute plague because I know they just identify with all the villains and secretly wish they could do all that themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 28 | Rapist redemption on TVTell that to the “couple” from Northern Europe who did that horrific Ted talk where one of them who apparently was raped by the other as a teenager learn how to love and forgive and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 34 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d…I want to add that Yolanda Hadid is a disgusting stage-mom narcissist POS who (literally on camera) used to neg her daughters about their personalities & bodies to keep their self-esteem at a permanent low. This was done in order to assert her dominant role as their mom (necessary because she has always been seriously jealous of both of them) and to ensure their success in the modeling world. She has always urged both Gigi and Bella to starve themselves and to marry for money. She kept up a bad … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 20 | Why do men/ LVM keep try to invite themselves into your life?Oh I absolutely think unattractive men can be wildly entitled. I’m just referring here to a very specific type of male we find in the wild. And you’re totally right. *Many of the LVM I’ve dated were actually the type who were both unattractive and entitled, so I agree wholeheartedly and that’s a very important point to make for women who haven’t encountered them! I edited it for clarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 28 | Why do men/ LVM keep try to invite themselves into your life?“They think their presence is a gift” You hit the nail on the head there. For a certain type of LVM who aren’t unattractive & have moderately good self esteem— it’s plain old entitlement. If mommy raised you to think you and your pipi are a gift to all women, then of course you’re gonna peak young and think you’re the life of the party 24/7 even when you don’t actually tell funny jokes or clean your balls thoroughly in the shower. The level of entitlement of these guys can be a double edged swor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 52 | California condors remind us not to settleIt’s amazing that this has happened and it gives me a lot of hope for this endangered species. By the way, to the dudes lurking, NO this does not mean we women want to asexually reproduce. We still want to have sex. Just… with HV men, or with each other, or with various appliances created to produce orgasms. Not, you know, guys who will fuck off, or prove to be terrible husbands or fathers, or anyone who wants to go 50-50 on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 70 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightThis. My ex pretended to be a Democrat for like, 3 months. Had “liberal” on his profile and everything and it took me pretending to agree with some conservative scrotes for him to finally trip up and admit he is a goddamn Republican. Later he claimed “everyone does that” when referencing why he had liberal on his profile. Uhhhh NO. No dude, you are a political catfisher. In the end, he proved to be the one who constantly brought up politics to neg me and get into arguments, which was his favorit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 10:12 PM |
| 30 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightI feel the same. I’m an inch shorter than you but have seriously considered saying I’m even taller just so they can take that into account when they lie about their height and avoid me so they don’t end up lying too much or end up feeling dwarfed. So sick of the constant emotional coddling. Of people I don’t even know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 61 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightRemember when “dad bod” actually meant a pre-silver-fox type of dude with kids who happens to still have a bangin body? Like, the juxtaposition of being an semi-older dad-looking dude who is still somehow ripped and super hot and takes really good care of himself? Basically a male MILF? Ie Chris Pratt in 2015? Who’s gonna tell them?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 40 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightFirst of all, a lot of guys these these days, especially the ones you’ll meet online, are a deadly combination of entitled and unpredictable. You never know what someone’s reaction is going to be if you end up not looking like whatever kind of snack they believe themselves to be entitled to. If you’re going to get into OLD, remember there are a lot of freaks out there, it’s a dangerous game, so protect yourself and test out whatever photos you’re using with a friend to make sure they match your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”No, you’re right. Coomer culture shapes all of our sexual identities and the normalization of porn has had men hooked from the time they’re old enough to use a computer. They are capable of stopping, but porn has such a horrible influence when combined with the traits that make up a LVM, that they no longer care about addressing it. You know, though, it’s actually gotten to the point where they don’t care even when porn does start affecting their penises. A lot of us have dealt with men’s porn-i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:33 PM |
| 259 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”They think that going a week without watching porn is some kind of superpower in itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 19 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”This made me spit out my tea, thanks for that. If the idiots can’t tell that this is satirical content matching the bullshit they spew every day about women, well, I’ll be damned. Like, you even mentioned it in the post. They’re still mad?! What?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question??Also— I just imagined a scenario where I beat them to it by choosing to drop the following line “I have an amazing pussy, just fyi” as a conversation starter on the very first date. It seems so ludicrous in my head but imagine how annoyed men would be if women just brought up sex, ALL the time. “It takes all the fun out of it, waaahh!” would be the typical complaint from pornsick scrotes. They don’t like to see their behavior reflected in a woman they don’t respect and whom they consider more of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:37 AM |
| 14 | Men who only pursue you romantically after your “glow up”It depends on what you’re looking for in a partner. If you value emotional depth and can’t stand shallow people, you should NEVER allow a man like this to stay in your life. If being shallow is not a turnoff for you and you spot other traits that far outweigh it, then go ahead. The reality— if this is a situation where you lost a bunch of weight, or your acne healed up, and this now is the sole reason he’s pursued you— is that he’s shallow. He’s into appearances. Don’t delude yourself into think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 12 | Don't settle for less 😆I think it’s his intelligence and empathy. As a psychopath he is able to compartmentalize his own behavior to a truly extreme degree. One of those compartments contains a fake character who displays extreme and seemingly endless empathy for women, possibly more empathy than any other character on the entire show. He studies each woman he meets and gives her his complete attention at all times. It has to be pretty damn flattering. They become hypnotized. At the same time, he is able to recognize … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:33 AM |
| 22 | Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question??Also if he’s really into porn and has little sexual experience IRL, he probably thinks 4-5 licks of the clitoris then jump into anal is how women get off. (And also that women cum from giving blowjobs.) Noooo thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:25 AM |
| 56 | Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question??Every male I met who started to brag right off the bat about his “skills” in eating women out… never even did it. Like, I’m saying, never even tried. The ones who are damn good at it don’t talk about it beforehand, and they‘ve always been hooked from day one on so I know it is nothing to do with me! So, unless you are into potentially selfish LVM who may actually not even know how to give oral pleasure to a woman, just cancel that shit. The moment they start to talking about it, trying to impres… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 13 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Considering the facts that the media has released so far, I personally believe that Laundrie’s parents (I also don’t think the responsibility lies on the sister) are responsible for hiding, abetting and protecting a murderer. If that ends up being proven to be true, I can’t say I have any sympathy for them even when they’ve lost a son. If that makes me sound cold and callous, imagine how angry people who actually knew Gabby will be if he ends up being exposed & confirmed as her murderer. Imagine… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Ummm. What?For the incest, for his father choosing to benefit from apartheid, or for something else entirely? I hate this situation with a passion but I am also so curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 153 | Ummm. What?Straight up incest. He became her dad when she was four and was married to her mom for EIGHTEEN YEARS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 17 | Ummm. What?See the flair- “male depravity”. It’s not about Elon Musk. The guy has, as you put it, his own issues, but I don’t even see people complaining about him in this sub. Obviously from the comments here most folks are similarly minded. With all due respect, why is it you feel that male depravity should not be the subject of conversation in this particular situation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 164 | Ummm. What?It was honestly like reading word salad at first. Even being severely jaded it felt so preposterous and insane it did not register in my brain. When it comes to scrotes, however, life is far stranger than fiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:32 PM |
| 96 | Hurt feelings on InstagramYeah doesn’t seem like much loss of a prize here!! I feel bad for wifey though, she must be genuinely embarrassed— not just because she has to use checks which forever picture her new husband’s most unflattering angles, but because she knows he made those checks specifically for his ex in a bout of scrotemad syndrome and they will forever be a reminder of money that is going straight to another woman and NOT the woman on the check. Just a smack of irony there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyDon’t tell the Pickmelias™️ tho bc you need to GENUINELY not want male attention 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyI adore Snoop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers only👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 11 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlySAme. I honestly don’t want one and they come running. The reason I’m here is how to learn how to weed out the negatives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Need resources to show 22 year old friend that making porn on OnlyFans for money and “empowerment” isn’t a good idea...This is a FANTASTIC article! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkSame, especially when it’s painfully obvious the person has never once been to a therapist or taken any responsibility for their own mental state | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 35 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkI agree wholeheartedly. All of the comments excusing this behavior as “mental illness” have something seriously WRONG with them and that’s exactly it! The mental issues they’re saying are happening now were actually already there to begin with. He just quit masking them. If anything he does have NPD and just ended the love bomb/honeymoon phase. She’s waking up because he’s not being nice anymore. He’s an abuser and was pretending to be a non-abuser. I know this because I lived it. I wanted so ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:23 PM |
| 49 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkhE’s StReSsEd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 35 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkI think humanity is collectively losing its mind in favor of excusing abuse by males as “mental illness.” I shit you not, a comment on that post suggests that the guy’s actions could have been caused by him hallucinating as a result in infection where “antibodies were attacking [the] brain” and he could be fighting for his life and no one knows it 🤡 Goes on to say (sorry I don’t know how to properly do quotes in reddit comments): “This is out of character for him, maybe he really doesn’t see it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 68 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?Yes!! I want to add that it’s ironic how they’d neg OP by accusing her of being “nervous” or “scared” when the reality is that nervous women often act bubbly and talkative to mask their shyness. This behavior is really evident in women who have to exist in the public eye like famous actresses who appear loud and talkative on TV but are actually quiet introverts. The problem with a nervous smile is that, of course, males will interpret that as you being outgoing and friendly when the reality is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 19 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂Oh yes, we hold it in for 21 days out of every month until we just get too tired and let it all splash out, flooding every available surface for a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:42 AM |
| 10 | I am so glad I was banned from this sub-reddit so I don’t have to see clownery like this anymore!And boy, is this pick me a real pickme. I feel bad for her but I also feel the way she talks about other women is gross. She has this attitude of comparing herself with women she doesn’t even know in a way that is more or less insulting to them. “Im just average, not hot like those half naked girls.” Or “im not like that any more, i don’t post sexy pics because I’m not a sex object,” etc etc. Someone needs to explain to her that posing in a bikini on Instagram is not “sexually enticing.” Acting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 21 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsYes. She defended her brother, a convicted pedophile who claimed his reasons for savagely and repeatedly raping this 11 year old girl included health issues like anemia, hypothermia and gout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 4 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsDon’t even get me started on this woman and her family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 41 | i must’ve subbed to this ‘dating coach’ back in my pickmeisha days... No, he hasn’t responded yet 😆 *mods pls delete if not allowedI’m wholly embarrassed but when I was a very young pickme I bought one of those “dating advice” books written by men. The problem therein should be clear to all of us now, but back then it just didn’t register in my brain that following dating advice WRITTEN BY A MAN was both dangerous and stupid. The insidious “tips” the coach shared ranged from what to wear to attract certain types of men (I was slender at the time and the book said that if you are flat chested you should go without a bra to p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 48 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.I agree 100%. I mean, imagine being a predator and seeing a woman post one of these braindead memes. It sends a message that a someone is both vulnerable and stupid. “Over here! Easy prey!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 10 | This card at the store made me think of y’all…Hey, let’s not be cheap, you’re walking down the aisle at Target for this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:28 PM |
| 30 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Kate is even worse than he is. They are both trash, though. I remember when word finally got out that Jon was the one who tried to help the multiple children who were suffering from illness, mental health issues and/or didn’t want to be on the show, the headlines painted him as some kind of saint just because he was paying extra attention to some of his kids and wasn’t a malicious abuser who tried to hurt his family. A dad who cares, wow, what an amazing guy 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 27 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.He’s an animal. Just toss it in his face, he’s already shown he doesn’t give a shit about hygiene during literal COVID by going through his trash pulling apart wads of dirty toilet paper with his bare hands. This is a fetish thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 12 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.He is a fetishist who wants to know exactly when it’s happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 31 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.A fetishist. It is one of the most preposterous things I can imagine being subjected to, but that’s what fetishists do… subject women to their fetishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:43 AM |
| 35 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they areIn our sex positive coomer culture, we are being trained to believe that violent bdsm sex is vanilla. That’s what so many of these men watch in porn every day, so of course they’re going to (pretend to) see violence as consensual. In their minds they’re going to think that if you consent to intercourse that also means you also consent to rape, strangulation, having things shoved down your esophagus, being slapped and/or having your head smashed in. Even when we know the guy is a secret sociopath… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:22 AM |
| 181 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they arePickmes need to stop voicing their desire for BDSM sex. Yes, I get that some women think that’s what they need in order to get off, and maybe sometimes it is— if you’re calling me a kinkshamer you’re probably right but that’s beside the point— but what they don’t get is that that kind of sex is normal in the porn most men watch. That’s their vanilla! This means it’s more or less already a standard expectation that slapping around is going to happen unless women specifically say they’re not into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 45 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡Often a taco date is just code for a walk date, because if you live in a large city, the tacos exist at food trucks that are outside. Walking while eating as a date actually sounds even worse than just walking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 22 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡Yep and he doesn’t even specify where the walk is. Does “around” a mountain mean up the mountain to its peak? A hiking trail?? a long circle around the mountain? An area nearby? Maybe a dark alley of his choosing? Who knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 4 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”I am glad you mentioned this because I see now why the topic introduced by OP triggers me so much. I have a narcissist for a mother who has been abusive my entire life and who has what my psychiatrists have referred to as a jealousy complex which has always influenced her insidious, covert forms of abuse— especially mental and emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 3 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:31 PM |
| 36 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”I call people out when they’re disrespectful or when it’s obvious they’re gunning for negative attention, so my friends have learned not to introduce me or let him tag along when they know the guy doesn’t behave properly. I get that this makes me a difficult person but I’d rather have zero friends than have to spend even a second with some POS. Life is too short. Don’t waste your time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 8 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”With a “friend” like this, who needs enemies? Bye, lady. Not only am I wearing makeup today, I’m not hanging out with you, not today and not ever again. How ridiculously disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 11 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Nope, I actually wouldn’t speak to this person or even hang out with her ever again. Leave her on read because this “request” crosses boundaries in a way that is ridiculously creepy, disrespectful and disgusting. No one tells me how to look, dress, act etc especially my friends. I mean, what the absolute fuck? So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do men get so angry when women like tall men?That’s a horrific first date story if I ever heard one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do men get so angry when women like tall men?I am the same height and feel the same way. I wrote about this issue in a sub and was attacked for being “shallow” after saying I go for tall men because I don’t want the issues attached with dating a short guy who is insecure for being shorter than me. I’m sorry, how on earth is it shallow to have a preference based on personality and wanting to be with someone who is confident and doesn’t obsess about my own height every time we are out together in public? How am I shallow in my dating prefere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladiesAs if having a good Uber rating is something to brag about, much less on a dating app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSI second this. I don’t know much about it and would truly appreciate a post and/or links for more information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:00 AM |
| 36 | Ikea knows what's upThis sounds 100% like a Liz Lemon strategy and I am here for it! She is one of my fictional icons when it comes to dating strategies, despite being a comedic character. If you know, you know. One idea to add is to observe whether he will trash the furniture. If he leaves crumpled napkins or empty plastic cups or spills his soda in the “exhibit,” he will most certainly do 5x the damage in your own home when you move in together. You’ll be left cleaning it up and footing the entire bill for any da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:09 PM |
| 10 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”Why not experience repeated rejection, then, with a worthier cause than asking boys out? She could apply to lots of different jobs and do interviews for workplaces/positions she doesn’t yet qualify for and use it as a learning experience. She would learn so much and move forward in life all at the same time. I feel terrible saying anything bad about her because she is obviously so chipper and thinks she’s confident, but she’s absolutely fucking delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 13 | Glamour UK: The celebrity couples with big age differences (A whole lot of YIKES)Yep, it always grosses me out on a Leo DiCaprio kind of level when there’s a huge age gap and the younger partner is 25 or under. It doesn’t matter to me whether it’s a man or a woman who is the older one, I think it’s messed up either way, but I think it’s incredibly important for the sake of equity to point out that only a woman in these situations is going to have to deal with the consequences— ie pregnancy, financial domination etc. It’s not “evolved,” it’s taking advantage of the fact that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:04 PM |
| 33 | Ladies please be careful while dating! Men like this still exist!Yep. The only reason most of them actually ever want anal is that it’s typically painful for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 4 | '....well ..she has stars in her eyes...glows like a moon ...'I can’t read it either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:30 PM |
| 31 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.No porn for 40 days and he feels this is some kind of feat he’s accomplished and has to mention 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 28 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Seriously. Like cry me a river bitches. And there people are commenting on this and calling it wholesome. I want to rip my eyes out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:15 PM |
| 21 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒I get why these men are so angry at FDS for addressing issues like park dates. They refuse to make even the smallest amount of effort. But it doesn’t matter, because the closest they’ll ever get to a park date is walking through the park and bumping into a woman by accident. That is because these males hold an unwavering core belief that women are less than human and thus don’t actually warrant real effort. Incels and “mgtow” scrotes claim that their efforts get them nowhere because they are phy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:09 PM |
| 18 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒It’s bizarre how they’re always so angry about not getting to do something they’re too repulsive to even to have a chance at in the first place. Walking through a park and bumping into a woman by accident is the closest to a park date most of these males will ever even get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.I’m a month late but the PIED piper thing made me spit out my morning tea. that’s brilliant!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Broderick HunterDAAAMN someone please fetch me some ice water | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Why Do So Many Men Kill Their Pregnant Partners?I believe it’s based on how they think of women as sexual objects. Most of the time in these situations the pregnancy means they can’t have sex with that object or at least can’t do it as much as they want to. The visible reminder to them that this object is about to give birth to a baby and soon their life as they know it will be changed forever (muh freedom gone etc) makes them even more frustrated. I think the combination of these factors makes them angry so they end up wanting to destroy the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 8 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢The ages in the beginning of the relationship didn’t even register for me until I saw your comment. God, that’s horrifying, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:56 PM |
| 20 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢I believe that he’s made her think they’ve deserted her when in reality he’s manipulated her into thinking he’s more important than them, he’s convinced her that he’s the only one who REALLY understands her and he’s the only one she has left, and they probably just gave up on trying to save her from this situation because they just didn’t know what to do. They really could still be there for her if she ended up escaping. She just thinks they’re gone forever when they aren’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 8 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢This is absolute nightmare fuel. Just the way she writes, she seems even younger than 19 and even getting through just the second long ass sentence made my heart HURT for her. She gave up everything, and this guy probably manipulated her into thinking she lost everyone and that he was the “only one” to support her when in reality the folks she thinks she lost are all just worried sick and can’t through to her when she’s so deluded by this sick guy and they don’t know what to do. When a young wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 64 | Women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men.Yep. I got so tired of being gaslit by society that I was “self medicating” when I hung around certain people due to “social anxiety”. Nope, I was just putting myself in horrible situations and doing my best to ignore what was happening around me. Pay attention to what you’re doing when you drink. If it’s always the result of speaking to a male— this counts even if you’re alone and have a glass of wine to “calm down” when texting a dude— this is your mind forcing you to make the situation easier… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 89 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.Yep. When they’re well-off, they may as well be flat broke if they’re spending the majority of their income on alcohol or drugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 10 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.This is so important too! Also, choosing a male who is financially well-off and self-sufficient has no value at all if that male is insistent on not using “his” money to care for important stuff, ie his own family. This happens with plenty of selfish and narcissistic men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.This is the top reason I would be afraid of ending up having to carry a pregnancy with a male who is not self-sufficient. Children deserve mature parents who are able to provide. Another reason that the concepts of extreme vetting, high-end birth control, a back-up bank account, and flat-out celibacy all have so much value. Don’t risk it! Not even once! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 15 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.Truth! I’ve noticed this trend among my girlfriends who do better than their partners. Sometimes it’s cheating, sometimes it’s verbal abuse, and in several instances it’s escalated to sexual and/or physical harm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.Absolutely. It’s logical for some women because they aren’t going to be able to take care of another person anyway. I am disabled due to long-term illness. I can take care of myself financially, completely, but I can’t take care of another person as well. This is why I only date people who are financially stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 104 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Imagine being the insufferable dumbass who designed the stencil for this shirt for the niche-gym-beer-douche-scrote market, sold it to a distributor and made bank off the dumbasses who bought the shirt and assumed he was doing them all some kind of favor. Nope, poor “Gabe” here is going to be sleeping alone tonight, and the next 273 nights after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 48 | This was a post asking men what boundaries they have with women. Literally the first answer scrote says he wants her to show affection when she doesn’t want to. What the actual fuck. This doesn’t answer the question, also suggests you don’t want her to have her own boundaries. LoserIf they want “affection” and don’t go into specifics, it always means sex. He wants sex from her at times when she does not want sex. What’s new? Nothing 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 13 | I Am So Tired of Hearing About Their Damn Penises!!!Meat Sword Talk 🤡 This kills me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 10 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersHow about none of the above but just total lack of responsibility? The “one that got away” aka an off-again-on-again situation from pickmeville informed me at some point that his dogs had never received rabies shots or been dewormed. They were rescues who were fixed and that was about it. He didn’t remember that he’d lied to me before and said that he took them to the vet regularly 🤡 I was shocked and horrified bc they’d been around my own pet. Not to mention his young children (whom have appare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 8 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backI disagree. I think that most of them are perfectly aware that women don’t enjoy it and that’s what they get off on. They prefer them not to enjoy it. They may like to see women pretend to enjoy it, but that’s more of a niche interest at this point. Most of these degenerates are constantly searching for rape porn. Many lust after children too young to consent. These males don’t think of sex as a two-sided thing. They think sex work is just *for them and that’s why they created it. They want powe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 19 | The effort a scrote puts in before and afterYep. I remember too when he was at the height of his Vicodin addiction, he looked like absolute hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallI should have said he was one of the people responsible. I may be biased because I can’t stand him. He owned the club where River died and allowed it to turn into a veritable drug den. If I remember correctly River was in a band playing at the club with Depp and there was a lot of cocaine and River had already done heroin, so he essentially had taken a speedball which killed him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 22 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallI don’t think Johnny Depp was ever good looking. Not sure at all what people ever saw in that one! Part of my opinion is definitely based on the fact that he has always had a massive superiority complex and somehow feels excluded from following the law. Even as a teen he was the 90s version of those kids on Instagram who show off handfuls of Xanax tabs. He basically lived at the nightclubs buying rounds of cocaine for his lesser celebrity friends. He was responsible for the death of River Phoeni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 33 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️Yep. Cats always know best. My feline baby/service support/protector has proven it, time and time again. Animals never lie, and most of the time they know what is up better than we do. Cats have a level of intuition that is so accurate we can’t even begin to understand it. More importantly, the way a male treats your fur baby is 100% an indicator of what kind of human he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 47 | This conversation from Buffy that aired in 1998Cordelia was a HV Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 22 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesThis is a question I ask myself a hell of a lot and the sad answer I don’t want to admit was that as a pickme I just was a complete and utter doormat of a human woman and let males walk all over me. If they didn’t want to use a condom (or claimed it “gave” them ED) I was willing, with just a few people, to go without. Tbh sometimes I want to grab my past self by the shoulders and shake her and scream at her bc I am so horrified at her idiotic behavior. All we can do now is educate the kinds of w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:27 AM |
| 13 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesI personally thought it was perfect… I saw it tho as the combination of antivaxxer and condom-free: it looks to me like an example how the pickmes of today don’t take good enough care of themselves. A codependent who risks her own health and that of others around her in any way (via not using protection with multiple sketchy males and also subscribing to a form of highly irresponsible propaganda, thus risking the virus) specifically to get to cool points from males is definitely a pickme. I read… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:22 AM |
| 5 | And we‘re the toxic people...😒They haven’t done that in literal years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 15 | And we‘re the toxic people...😒Yep, they respond to such specific, niche stuff, it’s always something buried in the comments that they are offended by and they have to literally message us bc “FDS WoN’t LeT mEn CoMmEnT.” Like,it’s a dating advice sub for women, what in the absolute fuck does this have to do with them and why is it so important that they stick their nose in it? These men are so starved for attention that they will do absolutely anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 42 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Because at this point they’re just slacking off. Free porn has given them a chance to see nood women 24/7 without having to get up off the couch, take a shower or try to impress a women in any way whatsoever. They’re sloppy and lazy, have forgotten completely how to take physical care of themselves, and are leaving the work to women to compete with whatever porn they are glued to atm. It’s a bleak world out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 27 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Our values have been so very much distorted by males projecting their own insecurities. Name any incel or manosphere sub and I bet you $20K that more than 80% of the posts are going to be males lamenting directly or indirectly their failure in the genetic lottery. Their confidence is completely crippled by their own dissatisfaction with the way they look and many of these males are completely obsessed with “looks maxxing” in discussions of stuff like lifting weights at the gym and dreaming of pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 20 | "My ex is crazy" is still a red flag, even if he's telling the truthIn my experience, the ex who acts “crazy” by doing what you described/confronting me etc is always getting a different story from the male in question. Often this happens when she literally has no idea what is going on bc the guy has convinced her they’re still together and that the new woman is the crazy stalker. Both women involved are being completely manipulated and often never get the full story as far as what’s really happening. Some men actually get off on women “fighting” over them so th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathYes please! That sounds amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡His complaint about her potentially screwing up breastfeeding bc her body changed makes me so angry. It just means he has a madonna/whore issue and the second she lost weight he was disgusted because he’s shallow and her new appearance doesn’t fit into his mental “mom” category. Not that it even matters but how long did he expect her to continue to feed this baby with her own body anyway? Formula is fantastic these days, and there isn’t any rule that a new mom has to continue to breastfeed even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 17 | To our lurkers: Just don’t read our sub.God, out of all things they could complain about, it’s the squeaky clean, little-more-than-shirtlessness, easy to find on google lady meat that grinds their gears? How fucking pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 77 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathI’m going to keep wearing a mask until I’m literally the last bitch on earth with one on. I mean except for y’all ladies. Do it! If it keeps us safe in more ways than one, what’s not to lose? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisI would want the same thing if I had children. I feel like the stigma against mothers who pay for childcare/help around the house is rooted primarily in misogyny. I’ve worked as a nanny and I had one myself growing up and see absolutely nothing wrong with it. As far as the cost goes, i wouldn’t actually have children unless could afford to have sufficient help around the house and to raise them. I support my own right to choose whether to have a child, so that hasn’t been— and won’t ever be— an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Old man neighbor asks my 12 year old daughter "Where are all your boyfriends?"Great job!! You stood your ground and that is so awesome!! I’m sorry that you had to go through that but that’s really the only way to get through to that type of men. I am shocked by his audacity however as far as threatening you, that is a massive red flag and while it sounds like he won’t walk the talk you should still be prepared to call the police if he ever does anything remotely threatening (walks onto your property, talks to your daughter again, etc). Do not let him get away with any fur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"From what I can see, a lot of us who are new here have actually voluntarily escaped a life of being all too fuckable (along with being prone to emotional/verbal abuse, physical attacks and sexual assault), have chosen to lead a life no longer based on our own fuckability, and are trying as hard as we possibly can to avoid males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"So as someone listening to this podcast I am deeply insulted by the Twitter women’s assumptions and judgement about the listeners. I don’t judge other women for what they do. I definitely never align my opinions with disgusting stereotypes but here is someone doing exactly that, and what’s more their judgment is in the area of physical appearance. Frumpy? What in the actual fuck does that even mean? I’m less frumpy than most imo and I think it has something to do with my refusal to engage in any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:32 AM |
| 12 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"Exactly my thoughts. Why would they assume she would do something for free that she doesn’t want to do in the first place? A secret I learned: you don’t have to pretend to like it if you don’t want to do it or have no reason to do it. You don’t have to want to do it to be be a good person. You don’t have to ever do anything you don’t like sexually, and you don’t have to be with someone who makes you do it. Sure, it can be a dealbreaker for some, but in the long run it’s worth it to not engage in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you.I’ve had a few scrotes just from comment sections— yep, wtf— hit the reddit care button after I called them out for saying sick shit or simply disagreed with them. I guess they were angry and that was their only option? I don’t like the reddit care thing because most of the time it’s just being abused and used to subjugate people. I mean, it’s creepy to think of how this would go down between a man and a woman if it were an IRL interaction, it sounds like the 1950’s— a woman doesn’t like what yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:10 AM |
| 41 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playI have taken to wearing sunglasses and headphones pretty much everywhere, including large grocery stores. I don’t give a rat’s ass what anyone thinks anymore. It’s important to wear both at once if you want to be outside of your home/work and not be bothered. The thing is, they will pick up on the fact that you’re wearing ear buds and make frantic movements to get your attention so they can say whatever meaningless shit they need to say, and the sunglasses help prevent them from seeing whether y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 17 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.I am so glad to discover this! The message in her videos is incredible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:49 AM |
| 38 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationThis is ridiculously accurate and describes 99% of “dates” I went on in sophomore year in college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Patterns Of Thinking And Behavior Often Displayed By AbusersSaved! This is fantastic, I appreciate it so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 8 | A Scrote is trying to turn his partner into a single father.I have a feeling this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to his issues with his kids. This is straight up neglect. He is an abusive parent. There’s got to be more to this story. The fact that it is so ridiculously vague is extremely upsetting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | A Scrote is trying to turn his partner into a single father.What?! They aren’t even his kids and he’s just going to leave them with him? He could literally report him to child welfare services. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 7 | Why some guys can't accept being platonic friends (and get mad when rejected)When it comes down to it, no woman— this includes women not interested in dating or not attracted to men altogether— should pursue being “friends” with a straight male, even when said male is already in a relationship or has stated that they aren’t interested. I’ve talked a lot on here about my pickmeisha days, and yes a lot of my friends back then were— surprise!— men. This is hugely embarrassing, but was mostly due to my shyness; you see, I couldn’t put myself out there to make friends and who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 11:28 AM |
| 11 | Let’s Discuss How Sex Workers Can Support Civilian WomenThey are absolutely rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Let’s Discuss How Sex Workers Can Support Civilian WomenI agree. I for one support all women, including those who unfortunately provide these services to the part of humanity that abuses them. It is possible to support women and to also not condone what they do for a living. By shunning and blaming these women and placing the responsibility on them instead of the patriarchy who created sex work, we only protect the male agenda. Men want women to hate other women. By strengthening the divide we are doing exactly what they want. We need to end sex work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 9 | Dear Scrotes: HVM does not mean a rich chad.🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:53 AM |
| 19 | Dear Scrotes: HVM does not mean a rich chad.What happened with Adam Sandler? I keep seeing this mentioned but I can’t find anything explaining it on any of the subs. His characters are certainly all LVM even when it seems like the writers are rooting for them and it’s just sad how they make it seem like each love interest considers him a real catch 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:03 AM |
| 78 | Dear Scrotes: HVM does not mean a rich chad.Exactly. I had more or less the same experience with my wealthy ex, except while he was addicted to porn he spent most of his money on cocaine. There was no amount of financial support he could give me that would make up for me losing my emotional connection to this person I loved for half my adult life. There was no amount of gifts, clothes, fine dining or concerts that could justify the verbal and physical abuse that began years into the relationship as a result of his drug and porn addiction.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:57 AM |
| 4 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEThey also know that most of the time, even if a woman does get physical, she won’t be able to accomplish much. Sometimes they actually want this to happen as an excuse to start beating her. They are sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEOh I know. But it is ultimately ineffective and a catalyst to make shit even worse.. They are usually physically stronger so they will fight back, and hurt you— badly— justifying it as self defense. They will then use it as a reason to begin physically abusing you regularly if they weren’t already. Finally they will also use the fact that you tried it against you for as long as you live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEBeing cool and collected may seem like a simple solution on the surface, but for most people who are actually in this situation staying calm is is literally impossible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:28 PM |
| 36 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEI dissociated. Could not watch it a second time. I feel like I forget sometimes how bad it was, then I remember it’s been a year and 2 months since I got away from him and that’s literally how I measure my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 21 | Beware The "Momma's Boy."I find the term sinister tbh. It is rife with red flags, the biggest one being that of a long-coddled male who has been told his whole life he’s too good for every woman besides mommy and who has subsequently developed a massive superiority complex along with narcissistic personality disorder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Filled with replies? How many damn comments did he make?? There’d be one mod notification for each comment removed, so it would not be that many. I wouldn’t be surprised if he, being a scrote, actually went on a brigade himself, felt like a dumbass and wrote this to save face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣Joke’s on them, plenty of us still have sex… just no longer with men. Of course, being scrotes they probably think that doesn’t count | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 4 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣Exactly. That’s a truly accurate definition. It’s odd though how the term celibacy has become equated with inceldom when, up until recently, one claiming to be “celibate” has always referred to engaging in voluntary celibacy. Of course, because of muh poor lonely peepee, men had to create a term to let women know they were not choosing to not get laid. I still don’t get why they want anyone to know… but yep count on scrotes to continue to destroy the English language because it still doesn’t foc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 3 | I said what I said.👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 9 | Men dumb or what 🤯🤯🤯🤯My take on this message is that he is not the slightest bit interested in your thoughts, nor does he want any advice about other women. He wants to either neg you by reminding you of how in his eyes you were the “needier” one in the relationship OR he is implying that you are “cooler” than his new relationship(s) and wishes he could bang you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Don’t feed the trolls.By “they should be able to” they really mean without consequence, because of course they are able to. And when someone says that, BEWARE. It’s almost always said by someone who has hit a woman or wants to hit a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 8 | Don’t tell your friends about him too soonUhg. The only time introducing a guy to anyone too early is actually advantageous is when your friends hate the guy and will tell you exactly why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 12 | Don’t tell your friends about him too soonThis is so true. I want to add something: don’t introduce him to ANYONE you know for at least 6 months. I don’t have a ton of friends these days and most live in neighboring cities or states so are so far away this isn’t ever much of an issue. I would rather he just assume I have no friends— who cares really— so he wouldn’t ask about them— something that would start to poison my own carefully protected life. It’s not that I don’t want someone to be a part of my reality, it’s that they are requir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 23 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exSaying their ex was too high maintenance is sadly also a sign of them saying the woman was more attractive than them and thus they never felt good enough and failed to bring her down to their level— at the same time this also means it’s a subtle neg at your own physical appearance or grooming and shows how ridiculously shallow they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:37 PM |
| 76 | Hard factsOne dimensional characters are my biggest issue. This is why I adore Hermione. I never really understood my problem with the girls on sitcoms and soap operas growing up but there was always this nagging feeling of anger towards their behavior. You are made to “like” one character and “dislike” another but you might really identify with the characteristics of a character when their choices end up being stupid and boring and then you just end up feeling sad and annoyed. The girl with amazing style… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 60 | Hard factsI feel the same. I disliked what they did with the women in the movies though. I love LOTR, both the books and movies, but I have always been aware that the books are sexist, completely male driven and are a perfect example of women and femininity being all-out ignored in literature. So when the movies delved way too far into the backstories of the only female characters (excluding the elf queen who read almost entirely masculine) and completely failed to provide an example of either of those wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 75 | Hard factsSharpay was my favorite and I never understood what she actually did that would make her deserve to be painted by the writers as a villain. As a character she was by far the most vibrant and talented when it came to singing and acting and what’s more was 100% dedicated to being in the musical as opposed to the female lead who was more into science class. Sharpay deserved to win everything because she tried the hardest, yet the female lead won instead because she was more “likeable” (toned down, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 15 | That explains all the "Nice Guys™" out thereIt’s like when someone claims to be an “empath”. Are they even able to hear themselves? They seem to have zero self awareness. How can they truly believe that people will actually buy their self-indulgent masturbatory bullshit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!As long as I have someone lined up to take care of the cats. I’m not going to make them come with me to the tomb so they can serve me in the afterlife. I can wait up there until it’s actually their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | What can I tell myself to steel myself against cat calling?I think people have a massive misconception of small town crime because the stuff that happens to women is rarely reported and mostly ignored by society. Horrible things are always kept quiet and no one is given any warning until it’s far too late. Myself and my female friends who grew up where I live, and in other small towns, have been subject to physical and sexual assaults, sometimes brutal ones, by males in these groups. Kids much younger than us go through this stuff at home and because ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:30 PM |
| 26 | What can I tell myself to steel myself against cat calling?EXACTLY. Criminal males in small towns can far more easily form highly organized groups. They have lifelong experience of the lay of the land and it is ridiculously easy for multiple males to stalk and assault someone even if the victim is completely aware of her surroundings and extremely careful. Public transportation in small towns becomes gangland and places like public libraries become pedophile central. College campuses become a rape hunting ground, and then suburb areas and outskirts like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.As though I would want to be someone’s free pornography. If he’s like most males he’s already watching and possibly addicted to porn, so why the absolute fuck would he need some of me? NO. 100% NO and I will NEVER do this. End of discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 33 | What can I tell myself to steel myself against cat calling?I’m in a small town without a car and while the catcalling is less, when it happens it’s 99% more frightening. Small towns are not necessarily safe. There is horrific shit that happens to women in small towns that can be just as bad or worse than what happens in big cities. I felt a million times safer when I lived in Los Angeles, mostly because even when someone did harass me there were always dozens of other people around so I knew if something bad did happen they would see and I wouldn’t be a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 20 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?A warning! They’re almost never doing it on purpose. I’ve run into this one several times, but an example for context: I live somewhere with a lot of trees and where “mini houses” are very common. I mostly get hit on/asked out by skeevy older males because I look much younger than my actual age. Wayyy older males. One of them is talking about his “current situation” and explains that he chose to live in a converted bus because he loves nature. He owns the property etc and claims many women love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 180 | I have questionsThis reminds me of one of my most LV male experiences in history. He was into “kink” and bought loads of female sex toys for the purpose of using each one on multiple people but didn’t tell that to any of the women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildLmao I asked a very pro-bdsm guy about his history with his mom, and instead of continuing to beg me to use a ball gag that he bought with the intention of using on multiple women, he turned our conversation into this weird situation where i became a psychologist and he told me all about how when he was growing up his mom was a drug dealer who exposed him to adult movies. I mean I feel bad— not surprise for sure, just pity— but seriously, that’s not what I exist for. Men like this see women as p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 51 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildNowhere, because having kinks like supporting your wife’s career or eating pussy for an hour at a time wouldn’t benefit them. Kinks are all about benefiting men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildI’ve noticed this on Tik-Tock where so-called kinky people have entire feeds dedicated to different components of their “lifestyle”. Strange how accusing influencers of sexual assault or simply using the word “suicide” is often banned on that platform but people showing how their lives literally revolve around their obsession with things like “how I talk to my dom” is not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 13 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildDid y’all know that these people now call having a kinky sex session a “scene”? Most embarrassing thing I’ve ever heard. And it’s true, the whole thing is always planned, never spontaneous, always mapped out to the last cringe-inducing detail and requires a literal script. Some of these pickme girls argue that without the script and “safe words” the sexual scene would risk being non consensual: my retort to this is why do anything that would put someone at risk of being literally raped/hurt/inju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:45 PM |
| 33 | Truth bombTruth! They really think that having good hygiene is some kind of huge deal. I literally got hate messages from Tinder matches after adding “must floss your teeth” to the requirements list on my profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 46 | The sad truth.I want to add that in many cases, when men have a story about a “crazy” woman, they are lying. When most men call a woman “crazy” you’re only hearing the part of the story that comes after them lying to, hurting, manipulating and/or straight up abusing this particular woman. When they describe the “crazy” behavior they are describing it as a unique event rather than a reaction to something so of course it sounds crazy to everyone else. In some cases, they just make up these stories completely be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 39 | ✨ mood ✨I’ve also gotten into some stuff that was the result of trauma and all it ever did was just retraumatize me. Eventually I quit doing any of that shit and I was literally shamed for not being into anything deemed “interesting.” There was one time I recall where a guy called me “kinky” in a very complimentary manner, not because I did anything out of the ordinary but apparently because I was very turned on and passionate with him even though I hadn’t hung out with him much and I was very clear wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 46 | I said what I said. Stay mad.The funny thing is that incorporating what they would probably already be doing if they weren’t so lazy/worried about repercussions— cheating with multiple people, beating the shit out of random women— isn’t even kinky or original or radical in any way whatsoever. They’re just doing the terrible shit they already want to do in a controlled setting and with “rules” they made up themselves and telling on themselves before it happens so they won’t get into trouble. From my experience with this shit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”If you are single and alone without children, a pet you are close to is not only rewarding and important, it’s a great litmus test for potential partners, and not just bc you can allow your pet to let you know if someone you meet seems sus (ie if your dog growls at a guy, chances are they got a read on him that he could be a bad person). If someone is annoyed by your fur baby, it’s a good sign they are out of their mind crazy bc only a psycho would be jealous of a pet. OP’s LV scrote only calls … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexWhat kills me is that he is saying literally what everyone is already thinking and he presenting it as though it’s somehow profound. “I’m gonna RuFFLe some FeAtHers with tHiS ONe!” As though he’s going to change some random woman’s mind and get laid from this idiotic post lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionI’m sorry I couldn’t give you an award bc I love this post. It describes so perfectly what I find beautiful and aspire to project in my own image. I could never put it into words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 3 | The feeling when he asks for anal... 😂What is nb status? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 8 | Men can’t handle life changing eventsEveryone grieves differently for sure. I know i am a mess when I face any kind of loss, but then again I live with mental illness so it’s kind of expected. This brings me to the part that I have a problem with. Due to my mental illness, I see a doctor. I take medication and I do therapy. It is required for me and without those things I would not be doing well. I focus on that stuff and it comes first so I don’t bring down the people around me. I also hold off on getting romantically involved wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 18 | I really hate LVM's in fictional entertainment, and them ending up getting the girl. See Ron Weasley for example.I remember Jo Rowling talking about how she hated Ron and hated that she made him able to get Hermione in the end. She said it totally broke her heart. I never quite understood her decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 32 | Escort interview-Frenchie - That's the best that pickmeism can get you.The videos this guy makes are wildly informative and equally heartbreaking. The majority of sex workers in these interviews use humor 100% as a coping mechanism, don’t let it fool you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 8 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.African land snails are huge albeit adorable creatures. I shudder to think that someone could feed their partner their own beautiful sweet pet. I am going to have nightmares about this 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 6 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenAnd plenty of us don’t even like or watch romantic comedies. I for one am not interested in sitting in the same place for 90 minutes to watch some sack of garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenimo romantic comedies are literally the worst kind of movies that exist. Maybe 1 out of every 200 of them are even slightly decent and that’s it. They are absolute trash. I can’t stand these bizarre assumptions about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 5 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.I’ve been seeing so many libfems lately defending males against male circumcision and claiming that it is the “same” as FGM. It makes me so goddamn angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 28 | I've been seeing a lot of posts lately about scrotes calling vetting "eugenics". Here's my theory to counter this.When males throw around terms like “eugenics” when it comes to dating it’s not only ridiculous; it’s extremely disrespectful to people who have actually been subjected to research on this process, specifically the children who died as a result of medical experiments performed on Jews during the Holocaust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Polyamorous, Every bi woman on dating apps feel this video I am certain.This is so accurate it kills me. 100% my experience. Do you know the source?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 16 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁I like people who are able to use their dick if it’s attached to them. Unfortunately some are so entitled that they will put in zero effort and think that if they fuck until they finish that means the other person got off; therein lies the problem for me— if they are that bad in bed, which most of them are, then the only redeeming quality they would have is to possess a larger dick. A big dick makes up for shitty fucking. If you fuck badly and also have a small dick, it’s gonna be double the dis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁The term “toxic fandom” is what got me. I’m dying here 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 34 | Standing up for women has never been popular, which explains the backlash against FDS. It's worth it because I can already see our culture changing. More and more women are choosing to be bold, have non-negotiable boundaries, and speak up unapologetically.The risks that come with being a woman and speaking up for women at the same time are inherent and create a psychological block in our minds that makes us give ourselves countless excuses for not doing so. In my Pickmeisha days I honestly thought I believed that feminism was boring, stupid and pointless, but I forgive my past self because this was a protective strategy in my mind to prevent myself from getting further hurt and abused by men. Once I was finally willing to dip my toes into the ide… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 18 | Feminism = Critical ThinkingI agree completely regarding non-coed girls schools! My low self esteem as a teen had a lot to do with the boys at school and the fact that they didn’t find me attractive. Instead of working hard and making friends, my entire goal as a person became being as attractive as possible. I felt like I had nothing to offer besides my appearance, so I began an eating disorder which would end up lasting for 15 years. God, those dumb fucking boys. Good god, if I end up having a daughter I would never send… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:52 AM |
| 11 | There’s so much creepiness here.Why even lie and turn it into some “painting” job? It makes it so, so much worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 37 | All the sexual revolution has done is made it easier for men to pressure women into the same shitty sex we've already had to put up with. No, thanks.I get it. It’s sad because men are perfectly capable of getting her off with very little effort but they didn’t even manage to do the absolute bare minimum in bed. There are so many males out there blessed with so much entitlement— and so little self awareness— that when it comes to PIV, they assume fucking until they finish means the other person is getting off. When a woman can come easily from PIV from one partner but not any others, it doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with her body … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.It’s almost as though they just expect that this male must be such a slave to whatever “kink” this is (just the fact that a woman wrote in with this question means that the “kink” is probably nothing good) that he wouldn’t be able to survive without fulfilling the kink by “playing” (the most cringe term of this decade) outside the relationship. And then I remember. It’s a male. With the way we literally cater to men and what their pipi wants, it’s no surprise that media disguised as pro-female h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 15 | WHY are Males?I’ve managed at times where I felt slightly brave to say very loudly and firmly, “Can I help you?” if a scrote makes eye contact for too long, and it sometimes embarrasses them but I feel like it still gives them exactly what they wanted, because these vile shitbags almost seem to get off by being embarrassed... and of course by getting ANY attention at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 18 | WHY are Males?This is why I wear sunglasses at the gym. I tell people it’s because the neon lights hurt my eyes, but it’s actually to prevent males from trying to make eye contact. Apparently keeping headphones in 24/7 and always looking at my shoes is not enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.What I mean is that they are so pathetic that they don’t even try very hard with the game of pretend. The expectation of sex in exchange for, well, anything, is disgusting of them but when you add in the factor that they literally do almost nothing to try to impress a woman and still expect sex... that is kind of mind blowing. Men did this to me when I was very young and sometimes I can’t believe that it happened. They definitely spend way more time and effort on psychological manipulation than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Is Charlie an FDS follower (not quite there but he is getting close)!!It doesn’t seem like he’s personally looking for a date. I would hope anyway that if this is real he just made the profile to give unwanted advice. That’s still very condescending but it’s not quite as bad as if this is actually the way he expects to get matched with a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 11 | When an ex tries to ruin your reputationI can’t remember what it’s called but I’ve seen a sub where men rate women (mostly pickmeishas with low self-esteem)— along with themselves— and while all the women are incredibly attractive, the guys are very ugly with 90% busted-up faces. Of course, these men rate themselves with a 7-8 on average and most of the women as 3-4. Since the women are submitting their own photos, they read all of the comments and “advice” about how they can be more attractive. Most of the men are actually compliment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 7 | When an ex tries to ruin your reputationSome scrote made up the “visual” thing like 900 years ago as an excuse for bad behavior and like all scrote excuses it stuck and survived like an old chewed-up piece of gum. It isn’t true, it means literally nothing in a psychological context and we need to remember that when we see/hear that idiom it is always an excuse and a red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:45 PM |
| 3 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.It blows my mind that he could have expected sex after pulling the old 50/50, then feeding girl leftovers, and later leaving her hungry, what the absolute fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:25 PM |
| 30 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?Yep this is the reason I only ever comment in WLW subs, there’s no point in ever posting bc you know what you’re going to see in your inbox and it usually won’t be award notifications. I recommend refraining altogether from posting in most gender or sexuality-related subs (apart from FDS of course) bc that’s where the scrotes always hang out. Imagine them going onto reddit and just typing in lesbian or bisexual female shit in the search bar thinking, hmm where shall I creep today? It’s reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 20 | Searches for International Men's Day Peak on International Women's Day EVERY. YEARIt’s just a way for them to remind themselves that they have all the power and that they have the ability to degrade and control women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 7 | I'm gonna buy a house, and I need bffs with cats and dogsI want the mansion but I want it all for myself and about 16 cats, thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 65 | Already done with this hellsiteYes, Reddit does hate women. I have the same feeling whenever I open the app and read the comments on news stories about crime. Lately the biggest thing that grinds my gears has been reading people’s reactions to the Chris D’elia lawsuit— something I’ve been following closely for the past week— and seeing that 90% of the commenters are men (or pickmes) claiming the underage girl who D’elia stat-raped, manipulated, and solicited child pornography from was lying and made the whole story up. I’ve r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 18 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelThe lolita style in Japan (as far as I know anyway) is kind of the opposite of what the word means in the UK/US. It’s basically clothes that are childish and frilly worn by adults instead of kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 35 | Men CAN Level Up. They Don’t WANT To.I think many men are against the idea of physical self-improvement due to misogyny. Care about appearance and efforts to change one’s appearance is regarded by extremely sexist males as a female-only quality thus these males are against it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Love that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:22 AM |
| 14 | Can someone break down this guy's motivation for posting this?Oh put down the world’s tiniest violin and quit your scam, guy, we know what you’re up to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 16 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.This is the kind of guy who thinks that receiving a blowjob is a favor to his partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:54 AM |
| 11 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!Imagining wanting help with your homework but you have this dullard for a dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 78 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.This is sick but SO common especially among WOC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 46 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.For gods sake, males actually think that their 8hr/day video game habit makes them interesting and intelligent. Sorry scrotes, the intricate plots of the reality TV I multitask watching while I get work done takes more of my brainpower to process than you sitting there grunting and shooting stuff while you shovel down junk food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 86 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.Scrotes love to devalue by equating interests with intelligence. This kind of judgment is actually a sign of very low intelligence in itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).They want to get paid petty cash for not getting sex. Male entitlement is getting to the point where it’s so ridiculous you’d just assume it’s satire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....That’s a great point and a really good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....Block him. If you give a male your phone number to be polite there is no rule that you have to ever interact with him that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Jezebel continues to prove why LibFems are a joke. Here’s some more manosphere fuel brought to you by Tracy Clark Flory’s desperation to be validated. “FeMiniStS sEcReTLY lOvE tHe PaTriArCHy” 🤡🤡🤡I personally don’t believe women can actually become pornsick in the same manner that males do because the of the way in which porn caters specifically to men. The vast majority of pornography is geared towards males and that part of the SW industry has never in history been manufactured for sole female benefit. It does not affect women in the same way as men. However, I do agree that porn grooms women to accept abuse and that women can get addicted to porn when they are victims of sexual trauma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:13 PM |
| 12 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!With his fucking dog. for gods sake, what the actual fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 22 | Jezebel continues to prove why LibFems are a joke. Here’s some more manosphere fuel brought to you by Tracy Clark Flory’s desperation to be validated. “FeMiniStS sEcReTLY lOvE tHe PaTriArCHy” 🤡🤡🤡Libfems use the term patriarchy so much, too much, to describe so many different things that it really buries the meaning and almost becomes a way to excuse & not explain in detail all of the specific but different depraved acts and decisions of males and male-dominated society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 9 | Jezebel continues to prove why LibFems are a joke. Here’s some more manosphere fuel brought to you by Tracy Clark Flory’s desperation to be validated. “FeMiniStS sEcReTLY lOvE tHe PaTriArCHy” 🤡🤡🤡It’s always embarrassing when trash gossip blogs become their very own drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 36 | Jezebel continues to prove why LibFems are a joke. Here’s some more manosphere fuel brought to you by Tracy Clark Flory’s desperation to be validated. “FeMiniStS sEcReTLY lOvE tHe PaTriArCHy” 🤡🤡🤡In the last sentence on the third page she implies, heavily, that she is turned on by these videos of men being “serviced” and that is really the most disturbing part for me. I mean she’s basically proving, case in point, that she has been manipulated and brainwashed by “patriarchy” to become aroused by the sight of a sex act that is demeaning to women and does not provide women any benefit or sexual pleasure whatsoever, and via that manipulation and brainwashing she is presenting a visual of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 6 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"I love their family. He is a HVM as far as I can tell and really good to his wife. I hope I am right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 12 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"The two of them are both so funny, sweet and refreshing. They are my favorite people on tiktok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:40 PM |
| 6 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.Times have not changed. Except now they call feminists fat instead of ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 2 | "I had literally the best time with you"Burger King is not a date. This scrote may have acted like it was a date or even straight up described it as a date/asked you out on a “date” verbatim but this, unfortunately, was not an actual date. Don’t act like it was a date, don’t think like it was a date, and (I’m hoping you will not hang out out with him again) absolutely remember if he asks you “out” again that this, even it is any better than a fast food joint, is not a “second date” because the first outing was not a date in the first … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 5 | One time a man I was dating sent me this “joke” so I blocked him. Did I save my own life? Potentially.God almighty! I’ve seen this meme in one of the “cringe” subs; it’s so bad that even the couch creatures hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 16 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄I had to hunt down the original post and while it’s been deleted the comments are, as expected, a goldmine of audacity. They expected him to sit down and have a talk with her about honesty and shit. Others were complaining about how dare people call porn use “addiction” and that she must have done this because she was “jealous” etc. Not a single comment tho... suggesting that she was doing this out of sexual frustration as a result of the scrote touching pp so much that he could only get it up f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:35 PM |
| 172 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄“I was scrolling through hundreds of women as I do every day all day, ready to deathgrip wank until I can’t get it up for my wife, and then I saw GOD FORBID a picture of my WIFE!” Jesus Christ, the actual state of today’s scrotes! We are literally living in an episode of Black Mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:52 AM |
| 318 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsThey enjoy degrading women. They absolutely know when they are disgusting and unclean and in their minds the grosser they are and the longer they’ve gone without a shower the more empowering the experience is for their repulsive egos. Going unwashed and seeing what a woman is willing to put up with is a win for them. It is sick and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:38 AM |
| 54 | Don't trust porn when wanting to learn about "the sex" 😂I honestly feel like “explaining” this stuff (it makes me cringe so bad to even think about the mere fact that it must be explained) to porn-addicted males really is pointless and does no service to ourselves. Porn-educated scrotes have chosen a path wherein women are not biological creatures with internal organs and cells that can be affected by bacteria— they are instead a series of videos and pictures of strangers that exist entirely for the service of these men to touch their own junk. Remin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.Rebecca Solnit is fantastic. I highly recommend the essay mentioned as well as her other work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:03 AM |
| 5 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.Not OP, I meant this guy, Russel Wilson. Never heard of him in my life. Not an expert on pop culture here but I just find it’s ridiculous that someone is comparing a mega-star goddess like Ciara to some unidentifiable scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Just stumbled across this monstrosity. Why do BDSM people need to advertise their toxic relationships to the world? Also, why do all "dom's" look like this crusty LVM?I’m late here but I’m so glad someone else found this! I was laughing so hard. People talking about BDSM goes into a playlist I made on YouTube entitled “Cringe.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 22 | I think I just lost some brain cells... this is possibly one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on the internet in a whileNumber of likes = good boy points | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 54 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.100% !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 51 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.That, and I’ve literally never heard of this guy. I’m sorry, that means one is a celebrity and the other one isn’t, right? Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 3 | OK Groomer: M(37) Wants to Marry Girl (19F) He Used to Take to School.“Blown up his friend’s phone” no dad. You should not be friends with this creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮Oxytocin, according to men: the chemical released when a creep with a boner gropes you on the subway and makes you call the police | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 5 | More dating coaches rubbishEverything is about sex for scrotes. Everything. Women: “Friend zone” = friends. Men: “Friend zone” = anyone I talk to who will not fuck me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.It’s absolute cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 5 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.As though condoms are not sold in stores. “Didn’t have any”?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | First, it was anal; Second, this scrote kept a hidden condom from 8 years ago and didn't know condoms expire. But it's so funny to have a grown ass man not knowing basics.“Humor”? What the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | It amazes me how men have been creating the demand for sex work while simultaneously reproving women who supply it throughout history. Make it make sense!!It seriously took me a minute to even get the “joke” that him finding out it was going to be a girl = instant clown dream about daughter doing porn. I can’t believe people think that way. Men are sick. It is so revolting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 3 | It amazes me how men have been creating the demand for sex work while simultaneously reproving women who supply it throughout history. Make it make sense!!What was it that triggered his clown panic? Never mind, it took me a second, probably because scrote logic is so unfathomably depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 22 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!Oh I’m sure he got caught and blames it on FB. But it can go both ways. A) scrote has outed his own cheating/disrespect/etc via social media multiple times so finally he has to stop using it altogether to prevent from being caught/save face/etc. And B) scrote uses social media daily in order to cheat/disrespect/compulsively masturbate/etc but keeps his profile private with a different name in order to not get caught so when asked about it by a woman he claims he has no FB/IG. Now, not necessaril… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | NOBODY can stop herCan someone explain “hello world”? What is that referring to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers.This is brilliant, if it’s a way to deal with kids/teens. When it’s a male partner over the age of 18, no one should have to enforce consequences, unless the consequence is kicking their ass to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers.Unconditional love should be reserved for children (both human and pets) but NO ONE ELSE. It’s straight up horrifying to remember that this is what male partners expect, even if it’s subconsciously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Which red flag shall we pick first?No one goes to jail for “fighting” lmfao he thinks people are so stupid they won’t for a second consider that this actually means he went to jail for violent assault which caused substantial physical injury. Yeah it’s like blaming someone for being hit by your own car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Which red flag shall we pick first?“I have kids but don’t live with me.” Thank you, Josh. We’re on the same page! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 32 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.Absolutely a fantasy. When a make professes hatred towards a certain type of woman it’s almost always because he wants them sexually. 100% manospheres shit on feminists in particular because they actually want to fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.I think it’s staged but IRL this situation is not only a way for males to spout their clown logic. It’s also a method of negging to make a woman feel bad and to bring her down to his level! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 208 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!“I’m never on (insert name of social media platform)” This is one of the most classic red flags of all time and it can be a warning of so many different issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | The urethra and clitoris are very different body parts. If she says it doesn't feel good dont double down act like you know better.I’m serious late on this post but this comment is wonderful and I think someone should do a post of this list! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedYes, these stories deserve a flair all of their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedSeriously that’s what she’s doing. She’s fucking a barn animal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedAgreed wholeheartedly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 10 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedIt’s absolutely shocking that she uses the term “crumbs” when she’s talking about literal pieces of shit. It almost seems like she’s trying to downplay the situation with her language but instead it becomes a million times more gross to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedI would literally burn everything in the house, then burn everything I own, and then move out, to another city in another state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedSalvageable? This fucking BLOWS MY MIND. I simply cannot comprehend the level of tolerance any human being could have for this behavior. The bar is not in hell. The bar has gone right through the center of the Earth and has emerged on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 23 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedLmao, as women God forbid we even forget to flush the toilet after we pee, leave a tampon wrapper in plain sight, or have a vagina that smells like... anything at all. The irony is that the repulsive, worthless males like this have trained themselves to believe, wholeheartedly, that women do not shit. Women? Poop? Never. I have ulcerative colitis which causes severe GI issues so I am in the bathroom a lot, and I keep Clorox wipes and bowl cleaner in a basket next to the toilet and literally clea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:55 AM |
| 11 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedI always wonder with the extreme stuff like this whether this is someone with a sensory processing issue and/or an intellectual disability. In this particular story what the male is doing is actually called “fecal smearing”. If that’s what is going on, i would tell OP to consider occupational therapy. Oh... but she’s not his caregiver, she’s his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | TIL: FRANCE HAS NO MINIMUM AGE OF CONSENT and REFUSES to pass bill to set it at 15!!! Outrage after 20 FireFighters Rape and exploit 13YO Girl with seizures for TWO YEARS and get a slap on the wrist!!I definitely didn’t intend to make a blanket statement. I believe it was mentioned in a college class a decade ago, I don’t know much else about the subject! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 9 | TIL: FRANCE HAS NO MINIMUM AGE OF CONSENT and REFUSES to pass bill to set it at 15!!! Outrage after 20 FireFighters Rape and exploit 13YO Girl with seizures for TWO YEARS and get a slap on the wrist!!Yes!! I think that was the Moors!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 15 | We don’t owe them anything! Stay in your lanes peasantsSaving this to reply to IG creeps. There’s a reason my profile is private and I still seem to have to enforce it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 51 | You can't make this stuff up.And it would make the dryer take forever. I doubt he even noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:28 AM |
| 42 | One of the truest things I’ve ever heard is that men who say they’re “brutally honest” are more interested in the brutality than the honesty.Yes! I also believe a declaration of “brutal” honesty is not about being truthful, it’s performative; it is thrown around, the term can have little to do with honesty at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:50 PM |
| 17 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"Yes!! I still love him so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 28 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢They’re not even sexually attracted to women any more. They want a fur suit with a hole to fuck. That’s it. The porn has taken over their entire psyche and there’s nothing left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 32 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Absolutely. Their “argument” is nothing but a further explanation of how and why they are sexually attracted to animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 33 | Imagine being with someone whom human porn does not do it for him anymore. Imagine that his dick only gets hard if he thinks you are a cat or a raccoon 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Of course it is sexual attraction to animals, that argument serves little to contradict that idea. Hearing the same shit all the time from the DDLG community about how they’re totally not into pedophilia/Incest. It is all unnatural, it’s all exactly what it looks like, and it all comes from porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 100 | Pickmesha on TikTok comments. 😔 Video was a lock on video game console 😌Oh god that is absolutely VILE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 13 | No questions. Blocked 🙅🏻♀️🚫Doing anything other than blocking actually benefits the male who is manipulating you emotionally. It allows him to a) justify his behavior and b) learn something from what you tell him. WHY would anyone want to provide any benefits to a male who hurts them? Ridiculous to do anything other than block. It is NOT our job to help or counsel the males who do this, and they do not deserve our input or our time; don’t accuse them of breadcrumbing you, don’t dissect their behavior, leave them the fuck … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.Not everything is black and white and that is a big problem with the thought process of my fellow “libfems.” You shouldn’t have to justify having an opinion about something that hurts women by stating, “I’m a huge feminist but...” nope you can be a feminist and support social change that benefits women and only women, like speaking out about the dangers of sex work. Being a feminist and having an agenda that is specifically pro-women are not mutually exclusive concepts! Wtf happened to the entir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 20 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.The real red flag here is that people are so ready and willing to excuse or justify inappropriate, negative behavior. No doubt this is a controlling guy, but even if he wasn’t, they don’t actually know from reading this. Yet the default response is “aww he likes you” meaning we are straight up conditioned to minimize abuse from males and assume that what could be abuse is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 20 | Men only want one thing and that is disgusting.💯The fact that this was probably presented as a joke makes it a million times more disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 48 | Seriously though, imagine a grown-ass adult not knowing how to cook and clean for himself, and floating through life secure in the idea that he'll find a bangmaid to save him.My NV (abusive, pornsick & musician) ex would not only refuse to do his own laundry, he couldn’t even bring himself to move the dirty laundry to the washing machine. I discovered he’d been hiding his skid-mark briefs under the pillows on the couch (his island) instead of giving them to me to wash. Why, you ask? He said he was “embarrassed” by them. How about be embarrassed that at 36 you don’t clean your own crusty, hairy asscrack. Suffice to say I avoided that couch. It started out beautiful. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.The term “aftercare” makes me cringe even more than descriptions of BDSM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | LVM prey on young/ "barely legal" naive girls.. here are my catastrophically pathetic experiencesYou are not stupid, nor are you a doormat. I know this sounds cliche and useless but these are learning experiences and without women going through this shit we would not have a leg to stand on when it comes to vetting and catching red flags. Men in today’s society are liars, leeches and losers and we at FDS are lucky to be able to share each other’s stories because we can help the younger ones avoid this shit and make a difference for women everywhere and maybe put some kind of a dent in the tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 25 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:59 PM |
| 24 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.It’s very telling that only on the first date they “discovered” that he was dominant and she was submissive. No, she did not “discover” this, he just gaslighted her into believing that she was. It’s always the same thing, the male who is “super into kink” is dominant, the woman who has never done it before is submissive, and that’s because this isn’t a “kink” situation in the first place, it’s just an asshole guy who poses as a cringey stereotype so that he can have an excuse to sexually and phy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:58 PM |
| 11 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MIf this habit bestows the gift of erectile dysfunction, then yes, most women fucking care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 59 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?This “ex FDS” sub is so cringe. If anything I’m grateful for the laugh, but holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 9 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 14 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.Lmao this is so accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:01 PM |
| 17 | Sexism in MedicineExactly!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 26 | Don't be an empath QueensAnd don’t listen to males who constantly claim “I’m an empath.” They aren’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 127 | Sexism in MedicineWomen don’t have to do any of that, though. We don’t have to, it’s just that we live in a society that forces us to and that’s one of the reasons we are here on this sub. To save ourselves and other women from that fate. Humanity can continue as a species without the constant subjugation of women! The idea that this is necessary is a myth and the more women we help to understand this concept the more women we can save! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 352 | Sexism in MedicineWomen are also basically forced to just endure and put up with pain and work through it because we are the ones who have to take care of the children and make sure they are safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 9 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...Lorelai was a total pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 54 | FDS has been saying it all along and women are catching up. Men do not love women like women love men and that's why we need to start demanding more and holding back the energies we give out for freeThis was my first thought. Idk even if they are actually sexually attracted to women as much as being attracted to the idea of repeating what they see in porn. Once faced with an actual woman they are disgusted by everything about women’s bodies, especially vaginas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | He wanted her to stay fat so that she wouldn’t leave him 🤢🤢🤢They do start so young | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | He wanted her to stay fat so that she wouldn’t leave him 🤢🤢🤢Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 4 | He wanted her to stay fat so that she wouldn’t leave him 🤢🤢🤢Was the woman from Portland? I absolutely believe that particular scrote was a feeder. So many red flags with that asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | He wanted her to stay fat so that she wouldn’t leave him 🤢🤢🤢I still don’t know how to do quotes in the app, but your quote resonated with me a lot: A LOT... . “An abandoned dog may need your love and all, but it doesn’t mean that he’s not going to bite you first.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Anorexia Fetishists/Pedophiles Deep-dive by Former AnorexicShe mentioned a bit about how she almost got roped into modeling for these sick pieces of shit. Main takeaway from the video and also something my sisters in recovery will know... the worst part about an anorexia “fetish” even existing is that it encourages the disease. When we are very sick, plenty of us actually think that the skinnier we are, the more sexually appealing we get. At my lowest weight from anorexia I was still a lonely teen who had never been kissed, and was so vulnerable and had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | My truthful response to op. Now let’s watch it get downvoted by the rapists and pedophiles on Reddit giving him advice...I hate how they make this her problem and debase her confidence and just assume she has none. In my experience, having to deal with feeling insecure in my own body is nothing... I mean, NOTHING compared to having to deal with a male with erectile dysfunction. I mean, the frustration. The disappointment. The fucking drama. Having to literally try to “cure” a scrote of a serious medical & psychological problem as though I am some kind of dick doctor. I don’t ever, EVER want to deal with that shit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 8 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 21 | Co-worker Propositioned Me For Sex, Hand Me a Barf BagJust imagine being this guy and thinking that you have ANY kind of value to women, much less to society and even the universe. It blows my mind how narcissistic and shallow even the ugliest, dumbest and loneliest males can be. This guy thinks he is hot stuff... just imagine that. Like oh my fucking God how does this happen? We know he doesn’t just project his insecurities into OP, he projects them out into the world onto everyone in order to stay completely delusional. The audacity. I can’t, I j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 378 | "A Medieval Device for a Medieval Act" [Truly sad it got to the point of a Queen inventing this though] OldieButGoodieI’ve read that not only would it prevent rape, it also is a perfect way for authorities to catch the criminal because it requires surgery to be removed one it’s stuck on them. Perfect way to mark a pervert and ensure he gets the punishment he deserves— getting his rotten pecker impaled is only the beginning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:12 AM |
| 30 | Don't reward the bare minimum.Yes! This is something I’ve actually been thinking about a lot more lately. Us newbies are getting there, but we still have a lot to learn and even more so a lot to fix in ourselves after being brainwashed by society. I for one appreciate being here and learning from y’all so much, I can’t even express how grateful I feel for all of the wisdom that has been bestowed on me here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 6 | ENOUGH SAID!Yeah it’s gotten to the point where they’re always removed. I have to put up with my narcissist father bc I don’t have a choice atm... and that’s literally it for me 🤷♀️I have no time or patience for even one more male’s bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 48 | I’m new to FDS but I have already been made aware of the men who absolutely despise this sub. I think this tweet sums that matter up nicely.Yep. Privilege in their mind is all about sex. Actually, everything for them is about sex. At this point, they’re basically living in porn world 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 14 | The #bussitchallange: A Scrotes DreamThere so are many men out there with housing, jobs and money who really could use that same makeover, but even if they did, we all know that once it’s over it’s back to the couch and video games/porn, junk food, copious amounts of alcohol, “dad bod,” stank, ingrown beard hair, no moisturizer, underwear filled with holes, and a crusty mass of hair between the buttocks because washing your own ass as a male is “gay.” Self-control is the main factor in male attractiveness, not money or professional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 7 | She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about?Yes! She is so smart, courageous and beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Excuse me, ma’am... MA’AM WITH THE PICKME ATTITUDE... Being flattered by objectification is not only harmful to you but all the other women out there.Wow, so I didn’t realize until just now that Pickmeishas use the term “females” when disparaging women, just like scrotes do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 6 | This is why we don't respond - block and delete!THANK YOU QUEEN 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.This is such a brilliant idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipSame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 24 | A lot of words for "I can't pleasure women"I want to throw up every time these scrotes claim “I wANt a wAaHmaN’s peRsPeCtive” in these kinds of posts. NO. You do not. You want to bleat your own bullshit and project it onto women, that’s it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 17 | There is no such thing as female privilege.IMO a lot of this is the porn talking. Scrote’s minds are so imbued with porn that they think that the women they see around them must live like the women in their porn videos, meaning that they think that a) all women are good for is sex and b) all women are very good at getting sex. Because all that porn-addicted males care about is sex, and they see women as being good at getting sex, they subsequently start to believe that women must have it easier in life since they can get anyone to have s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 3 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.Don’t “hang out” with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.This kills me. Even my LV ex put together an ikea bookshelf so my books had a place in our apt that was 98% dedicated to his wildly flashy and expensive electronic music recording equipment. There wasn’t space for me left, but god if anyone ever asked me to get rid of ANY of my books I would turn and run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Someone here recommended drawing your ex and the reasons you left....I ran out of space.So many NVM/LVM hate cats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Circle the Lie👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:04 PM |
| 64 | If you want a good laugh 😂 cheers!He knows she’s too pretty and out of his league, so he tried to bring her down a notch by calling her fat. In his mind every single woman would be so insulted by being called fat that it would significantly lower their self esteem. So he tried to lower her self esteem so she would think that she was not as attractive and more on his level. Finally, his plan is to use that lost confidence to somehow get her to fuck him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 27 | If you want a good laugh 😂 cheers!I’ve had similar shit pulled on me so many times. If they know they won’t be able to fuck you, they will call you fat/ugly/skinny/etc to bring down your confidence and then act like they changed their mind and wanted to pursue you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 8 | NGL she’s pretty much a gen z fds icon.Yes! I love her voice so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 52 | That’s what I thought👌🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 32 | Idk if this has already been uploaded here BUT THE ACCURACYThey are not doing it to help women. They are just trying to get attention from women. So not only is it kind of useless, it could cause LVM to jump on the trend and feign the ideology to prey on more women by pretending to be woke in online spaces | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 7 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!I was def far happier the last time I left a NVM than the last time I had to be treated for a stomach parasite. The mental stress had far worse an effect on me physically than the C-Diff. Way more payoff and no strong antibiotics required! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 5 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!It’s so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 15 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentIt is so insane that constant porn use is so accepted and encouraged. Literally every one of these guys spending day after day rushing to the bathroom/bedroom to sit on their crusty, unwashed naked asses with their sweatpants around their ankles clutching their rubbed-raw dicks for dear life like an infant sucking on a pacifier while they watch hour after hour of shit so depraved they’d rather die than have their mom glimpse their browser history, should be SO fucking embarrassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 13 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentYep! A scrote gave his two cents on my comment, bless the mods who caught it in seconds— something about being “forced” to watch porn because a “spark” was lost— and did well to remind us that not only to males blindly worship porn, they are also deluded into believing that pornography is a central part of male sexuality and a logical fuel for male existence. A fuel like food and water. They must masturbate and they must consume the porn every waking second that they do not have their penis in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:08 PM |
| 25 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentNot consuming porn consistently. CONSUMING PORN CONSTANTLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.Omg the parents 😂 “choosing between them and me”... this should NEVER be a thing. It shouldn’t even exist. There is this reality show on Netflix called “Baewatch: Parental Guidance” where young couples are spied on by their parents while they go on a fake vacation. There was one truly obsessive and controlling mother who was dead set on getting her son to break up with his girlfriend, that was until she saw his “other” personality on the hidden cameras. Got to see to see what her angelic son was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 4 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕It is in a kitty’s nature to treat us well ❤️ that’s why kitty is #1! Screw everything/everyone else. Here’s to a 2021 filled to the brim with the love and companionship of beautiful, sweet purr babies 🥂🐈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | A quick anatomy lesson👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 9 | What a lowlife smh100% accurate! Scrotes will defend scrotes, no matter what a scrote has done other scrotes will justify it. They’ll justify it when it’s abuse, they’ll defend it when it’s murder. Their audacity has no bounds, the bar is lower than hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:40 AM |
| 4 | I want it, I get it!Gorgeous!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.So gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:53 PM |
| 7 | Say it louder for these predatory men! 👏🏼 👏🏼He also MARRIED that daughter. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Say it louder for these predatory men! 👏🏼 👏🏼Agreed 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!Good God, ladies, this is like a bad sitcom 🤡 Note how manchild apologized to dad, not his wife. I appreciate the dad’s no-bullshit intervention but I am troubled by so many folks commenting on the original video that dad is a “savage” etc for correcting his son, it shouldn’t be out of the ordinary for him to do so? Standing up for women, especially a woman whose child is your own blood, isn’t even a HV trait, it’s just common logic and courtesy, but not in clown world apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Seen this wayyy too many times!🙄 Women are held solely responsible for breaking relationships by other women because of internalised misogyny. The poor cheating bf is a "good guy otherwise".We NEVER blame a woman ladies! Even these girls. I think this is a great example of the type of women FDS aims to help. Their internalized misogyny is at fault for their logic process here, and we must remember that they’ve been conditioned to think this way due to constant gaslighting by men. I was that girl once. I was so over my head in scrote and pickme logic I didn’t even think for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 9 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationI adore this 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | This Level of Possessiveness? RED FLAGWhat the absolute FUCK?! I know I shouldn’t be surprised but it’s like scrote bullshit knows no bounds. It just gets worse, and worse, and worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 40 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!Preach! We don’t talk about this enough. This shit will drag you down and ruin your life. We need to recognize that this is our body and our brains pleading with us to GTFO!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 40 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!My pornsick ex criticized my “low libido” when I decided I would no longer sleep with him. He gaslighted me into thinking there was something wrong with me as opposed to his lack of aesthetic upkeep and irreversible impotence caused by drug addiction and porn. This term in SO many cases is just a cope word men throw around bc they’d rather pretend a woman’s lack of desire to fuck them is her own issue rather than bring themselves to admit that she is no longer sexually attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Never tell a man about your mental or physical disability until after he’s vetted for a loooong ass time. You should see the texts that caused me to block him and ended up in him emailing this.Preach! This is exactly why I avoid dating entirely. I am on disability bc I have ulcerative colitis among other chronic immune conditions, as well as mental illness. I just consider myself a little bit too high maintenance to date people other than myself. I have too much to maintain in terms of taking care of me and staying healthy and staying sane. I do feel like I’m watching from the sidelines but there is joy in my life just like everyone else’s and my body and mind are too precious for me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:36 AM |
| 2 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 8 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.“When we’re older it won’t even matter.” Once you realize what’s happening, it’ll be too late “My workplace does not have HR that we can disclose the relationship to, so that’s not a problem” There is no one to prevent your workplace superior from taking advantage of you, an underage girl This is classic grooming and the situation just sends chills up my spine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 6 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Don’t apologize. I loved reading this. It speaks to me. Seriously, do we have the same fucking friend? She is trying to sabotage you and is projecting onto you exactly what she thinks about herself. Stand on the grey rock, do not falter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 4 | A LVM grades her stressed wife.So he’s grading her level of Stockholm syndrome and her ability to accept abuse. Got it 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢SAME GIRL. SAME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢Preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢Do they even watch it?! Why do they keep it saved? What is the point, it’s bizarre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢HOW is this shit considered normal?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Reminder to not ease your standards at all for a guy younger than you. In a world of pedos, it may seem like a guy aiming older is a green flag but he might just be like this POS. Doesn't matter if he's a broke college student, no exemptions. Be hard to get.The fuck?! He’s 30. He thinks that someone a couple years older is an “older woman”?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 26 | Can we spot all the red flags?Broke college student, can’t afford to buy much stuff? Girl are you actually married?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:11 AM |
| 5 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereYeah like I’d even bother to reschedule with this trollface | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 19 | Two kids, I’m guessing around almost 20 years together, and he’s *still* like this.And he’s enabled two teenagers to act like Santa still exists and ignore the fact that their mom has to go through an idiotic charade every December. They all need to grow the fuck up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 25 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏They can’t wrap their heads around the idea that women who stand up for themselves, have high standards and reject patriarchal notions don’t hate men bc in their brain there exists only women depending on/simping for males or hating them. A neutral zone does not compute in their scrote brains, thus it must be muh MiSaNdry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Just a Lil tipMy LV ex thought he was better than my friends, so in group pics he stood off to the side looking visibly awkward. Jokes on him, easier to crop out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you work around COVID?Thank you!! Agreed 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:08 AM |
| 3 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.A “scene” omg a male once tried to bring that concept up with me and I died laughing. A SCENE why do they call it that?! So damn awkward | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.Lmfao!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:46 AM |
| 3 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.THIS ☝🏼 so accurate it hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Pickme’s when they are sExPOsitIveAbsolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Pickme’s when they are sExPOsitIveSO accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...A scrote wrote this. Don’t read it, don’t think about it, move on, it is not worth our attention except as a warning of what they are capable of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 37 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.This is hands down the most well-modded subreddit I’m a member of. You guys have created such a positive and helpful community. I don’t think I can even put into words how much I appreciate being here. It truly means so much to us all how hard you guys work to keep us all safe and happy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 14 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectIt’s so ironic because she practically admitted it was causing him ED. So she’s finally enjoying him getting his dick hard and it’s not from her. Sure, that totally makes sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Why are fat and ugly men the most shallow?Absofuckinglutely. 💯% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Pretty much the exact response I expected. That’s a no from me, dawg.My eyes rolled up into my head and have not yet returned, pray for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.Oh my goodness!!! That is just fucking GORGEOUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 10 | On why the overly sexualized portrayal of teens in a drama geared towards adults is something we should question. EuphoriaI think the show is valuable to young women in that it shows the direct consequences of getting sexually involved with males in a graphic and disturbing way. I don’t see it as being about making teens sexual, I see it as more of a highly cinematized after-school special geared towards modern women dealing with modern issues (especially drug addiction, sexuality, and abusive relationships) which most shows geared towards teens shy away from. Imo Euphoria by no means exhibits a sexual interest tow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 21 | My ex told me he couldn’t commit to take care of me for a month after my car accident...This shit is why I will never commit to any male until I have maximum experience. Until you have literal YEARS experience vetting, understanding how to see lies and catching red flags, you won’t know until it hits you. I mean imagine wasting your time, energy, heart & even finances on someone who will ditch you at the most dangerous time in your life. They will do it when you get pregnant. They will do it after you have a kid together. They will do it when you get cancer. And they’ll do it when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 7 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.If there’s no “right or wrong way to do sex,” why is it none of the women I’ve had sex with have acted out trying to murder me without me asking first? Because it’s only been men who’ve done that to me? Are they sure they don’t mean men just DON’T KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.r/agegaprelationship features a lot of couples that are young, beautiful women with very old men and the comments are full of old scrotes spoon-feeding “maturity” justifications, it’s disturbing as hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | How my dogs made me realise some guys suck.A lot of animals do. My cat began attacking my ex after he became physically abusive. I adore my fur baby, I just wish I’d already had the Doberman I plan on getting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 5 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.If he respected her decision, he wouldn’t be writing about it to strangers on the Internet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 48 | The subreddit r/deadbedroomsSome men think “low libido” is someone who doesn’t watch porn and masturbate 5 times a day (including at work) like themselves. They can’t get it up so they really only want blowjobs. Their partners justifiably dislike this arrangement. Scrote logic says the women must have a low libido if they aren’t interested in blowing a guy who can’t get it up and never goes down on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 10 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩I’ve seen this post before and want to add that most men I’ve met don’t even know what A Clockwork Orange was actually about. They don’t know it was based on a book condemning communism and the prison-industrial complex. They don’t understand the fact that the author himself never wanted Alex to be seen as a hero. They don’t even know that the music playing was Beethoven. They literally think it’s about some misunderstood badass and they identify with the main character. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 54 | “My boyfriend has already gotten me evicted due to his loud tantrums about video games, AITA if I maybe don’t let him get me evicted again?” 🙄Mine wanted sexual favors for reinforcement. I’d rather fuck a chainsaw honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Fragile masculinity 101How dare we imagine a man who acts like a man, anyway. No! “yOu WaNt EqALiTy So LeT’s MaKe iT eQuAL” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 8 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"The fact that he actually mentioned that she is out of his league is very, very telling. Who wants to bet he’s just such a useless idiot that he actually believed she’d take the creepy rape jokes as a compliment? Source: was with one LVM who always went on about how I was “out of his league” and went out of his way to tell me every gross thing his friends said about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 10 | So.... she bought her own ring and is supposed to be grateful about it? Lollll. No.Let me get this straight. Are they actually complimenting this man? And this a ring ring? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 24 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋Just a thoughtless, sweet-smelling mistake. I mean, unless you want her to break out in acne or get a nasty UTI. In that case, buy the Winter Pear Blossom lotion and bubble bath set you found on the clearance rack, by all means. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:10 AM |
| 54 | Sorry that a part of my body that’s designed to feed my babies is unattractive to you /sYeah also funny how society metaphorically equates the size of a male’s testicles with their bravery while the size of a woman’s breasts is only used as a scale of perceived physical attractiveness. I mean you don’t ever hear a guy exclaim, “Just look at the size of Karen’s knockers! She must have such strength of character! And an amazing personality!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | A bit of positive thinking for you Queens 💖Try as I might, i cannot relate, and I’m sure that’s the case for plenty of us. I mean, it was a literal triumph to just get past denial and arrive at realization and anger. Having escaped literal Stockholm syndrome I think that if I were ever able to sit comfortably with my emotions regarding someone who brought me to that point, it would be a negative— not positive— influence on my own mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:57 AM |
| 29 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.That sub is straight up a treasure trove of horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 8 | Weather reportShe is truly incredible!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 5 | This is how a narc ex will email you after you block them, and try to pull you back in. Obviously I’m not going to reply. In the past I would have. Thanks to fds it’s getting deleted and I’ll finish nuking this email. Notice the “poor me, woe is me” 🤮I didn’t see the title/first paragraph the first time I read it Last and final contract What the hell does that mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Start your marriage off right by settling 🙂It wasn’t her dream scenario. Proposing is not part of his love language. It stings. There’s nothing that can really be done at that point. But it might get better. I feel like she’s reaching for a point here but didn’t manage to make it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them?🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 18 | Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them?I wish my mom was like y’alls moms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 16 | Dating in 2020 when you live in a red state...That’s terrible. You’d think it would be a really good filter but it just encourages them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 41 | Dating in 2020 when you live in a red state...I’m hoping you caught him very early on! This is why we must vet them, ladies! Imagine finding this out after it’s too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:17 PM |
| 23 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyJust utter fucking nonsense. Im convinced most scotes who spout this shit don’t actually believe it, or at least don’t have enough experience to actually know it’s impossible. they just use it as part of an ongoing polemic debate maintained for the sole purpose of undermining the “females” who they believe would never have sex with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:55 PM |
| 64 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyIt’s funny bc their dicks actually stop working if they watch porn 30 times a week, no matter how many people they actually sleep with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Multiple green flags! Notice how he gets up to clean immediately, involves the kid in his happiness, puts off the playing till later when the kids are in bed. Etc. It’s the small things.Same reaction. I felt a bit like it was her two kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Man thinks because you matched with him on tinder, you should have sex with him 😒 gets pissed when a girl doesn’tThis really sums up Tinder perfectly. I honestly can’t understand how my girlfriends are ready and willing to use dating apps to hook up with, date or even engage in mild courtship with men. Even if you barely exchange a few words there is always a catch... the catch being that if you met this male in person, you would be expected, eventually, to engage sexually with a strange man who, when you first met, was probably switching his phone screen to rape porn mid-convo with the app in the backgrou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespectIt’s bizarre how they project. He says she’s “irrationally angry” yet here he is on the internet jumping to completely irrational conclusions about becoming a “paycheck dispenser” and working himself to death. Who wants to bet she NEVER once used the term “stay at home mom” and just said she wants to quit her job for a while and/or start over in a different field when the baby gets a little older? She is already HV than him in so many ways. Watch scrotes scramble when what they truly wanted out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Never laugh about a joke on your own expense, they'll mistake your laughter fro compliance. Make them explain themselves.Keep trying ❤️if you can do it then I can. And sometimes it’s easier, sometimes it is more difficult. It’s always the strangers/authority figures/males older than I who elicit the giggle response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t even know what to say.“Prostate” what?! Was there a typo regarding the gender of the coworker? If this is an actual straight guy he must be the most sexually entitled male to ever exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!Honestly if they shush me at any time at all it’s over. I’m smart and polite and if I talk loudly or raise my voice it’s always for a good reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 44 | Never laugh about a joke on your own expense, they'll mistake your laughter fro compliance. Make them explain themselves.I want the confidence to not laugh, to never show a hint of compliance. I hope I can muster the strength to stop cowering in fear of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:07 PM |
| 19 | Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVM👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:48 AM |
| 17 | No 50/50 birthdayShe sounds amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:47 AM |
| 7 | Reason no. 6394573 not to date LVM’s. Your hair will FALL OUT!I totally feel what you mean about living a double life. The abuse alone is horrific to experience but having to hide it has to make it a million times worse. I am glad everything is better for you now 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).“Once the hunger sets in” What is the hunger he is referring to? His daughter’s crying? It’s kind of strange to put it that way, it’s almost as though he sees himself as disconnected from his own child because he’s the father and not the mother, what a surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Reason no. 6394573 not to date LVM’s. Your hair will FALL OUT!I don’t know you but can I just say I am so fucking proud of you for being strong enough to get through something this awful and come out on the other side when your emotional pain was so bad that your body betrayed you physically. Proud that you you can sit here now and write about it, not just for you but for the well-being of other women. I feel like if every single woman shared their story, no matter what it was, at least one other woman out of thousands could identify with at least one sing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:03 AM |
| 9 | So sad :( the future is not brightWatching them pretend to justify their own bullshit is hilarious. “Am I only thinking this way because I am a guy?” No, you’re thinking this way because you created this post to attack a sub that you’ve probably been lurking on forever. You became triggered because you identify with LVM and decided to conduct a casual survey to gauge how many women— whether they are “teens” or over 30— might be willing to put up with your crap in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:44 AM |
| 6 | So, people thought he should leave because her appearance was changed? Says a lot about patriarchal society doesn’t it?Aww you are too kind 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 46 | So, people thought he should leave because her appearance was changed? Says a lot about patriarchal society doesn’t it?Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 64 | So, people thought he should leave because her appearance was changed? Says a lot about patriarchal society doesn’t it?I’d believe this so much more if he explained why the question is wrong and how the very fact that folks assumed he’d leave her shows exactly what is wrong with men in our society. I’d see him as an HVM if at least if he actually said something about what a great person she is. How strong she is. How her confidence hasn’t waned. How her beauty has still shone in SPITE of her physical changes. Because let’s be honest, he didn’t marry her for her “soul”— he likely never realized that until after s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 37 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.I agree in some ways but honestly think the entire sex work industry, having been created originally for men, and being 99% catered towards men, could never and will never truly be empowering for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 5 | THIS!! I see women on here sometimes arguing with men and posting their “sassy” or “savage” clapbacks, he doesn’t care he just enjoys getting a rise out of you. Bad attention for men is still attention. Block them and pay them no mind.👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 20 | BrilliantI don’t, either. Her jokes about preferring anal sex after being “stretched out from childbirth” didn’t sit well with me. I mean, to each their own, but, for me, a lot of her humor has a very Pickmeisha vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | BrilliantTHIS. 🙏🏻 the goddess speaks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.Why do so many scrotes write like literal children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 5 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeThese ridiculous stereotypes about males (another dumb one for example being that “men are visual creatures”) are harmful to the women they date and society as a whole. They give males an excuse for bad behavior. You’d expect a negative stereotype to be something that someone would try to defy, but scrotes just embrace it. Even worse, the women around them are brainwashed into spreading this BS among themselves. A dude is pointing out his fiancé’s physical flaws and constantly checking out other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Your body, mind and spirit deserve better.This is one of the main reasons I feel let down by the libfem community. I really respect this sub for not ascribing to any particular theory or group but rather to what facts and evidence have proven is right for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:16 PM |
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