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“I don’t need this.”- regarding me saying “Boy my work day was long and stressful.” Of course, he had just spent the day watching TV so I guess I can understand how being emotionally supportive could be very taxing…lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:39 PM
31

Came here to say this. My ex used to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:10 PM
2

I have 13 bigger tattoos and they are visible when I wear shorts, skirts, tank tops etc. Every time a man comments on them my auto reply is “Look the other way” or “Do not look at me.” Embarrass them and feel your power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:46 AM
23

To be fair, it probably takes an ungodly amount of effort to stand up, walk to the kitchen, lift up a plate AND add food to it. Then, he would have had to walk all the way back to the table with that heavy plate of food AND sit down all without a break or assistance. I’m tired just thinking about all that work….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:25 PM
26

He looks like a 36 year old 11 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:08 PM
40

This is a good post and made me think of what a male friend of mine said about her recently. He said she was being weak for pulling out compared to all the other athletes that have pushed through pain, fatigue etc. His next sentence was “However, I think it’s great she knows her limits and was brave enough to make this choice for herself.” I asked if he truly thought she was a weak individual for doing this and he said no however, I can’t get over his choice of words with “weak.” Physically? Men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:18 PM
31

Former power lifter here: best thing ever was eating a dozen donuts while my now ex boyfriend looked in in horror. I just completed a massive weight cut to make weight for a competition but he still had to say, “How are you even in shape when you eat that much?!” I let him down easy the next day when I broke the state record for deadlift (398lbs!) His parting words were “don’t die trying to eat an entire pizza by yourself whale woman!” Whale woman weighed 148lbs at 5’9” lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:13 PM
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On the first pic: sexy bandage covering the entry point of the needle they used to drain fluid off his old ass knee. Because that’s what happens when you’re an old ass man. GROSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:38 PM
21

I’ve done the in person version of block and delete without warning: excuse myself to the restroom and just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:38 PM
8

Poop particles 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:35 AM
12

When I was around six years old, my mom had to leave for a few months to take care of my sick grandpa. While she was gone my dad asked our neighbor to come style my hair for a piano recital I had. I remember him apologizing for not knowing what to do or how to help me and the neighbor was like, “This isn’t a Dad thing so don’t worry about it.” Several years later, my Dad French braided my hair for me before a softball game, it was pretty messy but he did it. I asked him where he learned it and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:45 PM
42

I’m with you here. I’ve been going out for runs for my daily exercise and if it’s not some nasty old scrote in his car honking and waving at me, it’s some know-nothing Chad whistling at me. I’ve had it and have started intentionally screaming back at them “LEAVE ME ALONE” even if they are driving and can’t hear me. This past Friday I was running on a main busy street and a guy pulled out of the drive thru, wasn’t looking and was blocking my path while waiting to turn. He eventually saw me, ackno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:21 PM
27

Do I smell toast?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:13 PM
19

“I don’t like your attitude.” Mine used to say that to me when I stood up for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:17 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/askFDS29/04/21 04:22 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/askFDS29/04/21 04:22 AM
11

Big no for me. Based on experience, they sink a lot of money into these vans and as stupid as it sounds, the van will always be their top priority. Also, I am just not impressed by this at all and I’m an adventurous/outdoorsy girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:21 PM
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“Oh my goodness! You took out the garbage after it spilled onto the floor and dripped spaghetti sauce everywhere? I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH BABE!” makes status update about how amazing her man is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:18 PM
41

What whiny ass man! And she’s paying more than what is required of her (125%)?! This man is a joke at best. The sad part is that when he cons some woman into adopting this child with him, his caring will come to a screeching halt because “he’s exhausted.” Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:25 PM
3

Sub-zero man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:44 PM
5

He split his chores with two other roommates before I moved in (they are gone now) and said he ate take out almost every night. I agree that he can handle doing dishes here and there but he claims it’s just too tiring. Some he else advised about hiring a cleaning service which I hadn’t thought of. I’m going to bring it up to him for sure.
/r/askFDS05/04/21 08:46 PM
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No children and before I moved in, there were two other male roommates: one who was clean and tidy and the other was middle of the road (cleaned when things got borderline nasty). Per BF, he would clean in between in the really clean one so there was less work. He definitely makes good money so hiring a service is actually a great idea...one I hadn’t considered! He did admit that he barely cooked for himself and ate take out most nights. Thanks again for the suggestion!
/r/askFDS05/04/21 08:43 PM
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You’re exactly right and after these days have passed, my embarrassment turned to anger. I won’t be letting him get away with this again and plan to assertively tell him this. I also plan to very intricately describe my boundary on this along with the consequences of violating or even testing that boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:43 PM
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I am and wrote a comment on this thread that something like what OP talked about happened for the first time ever to me a few days ago. We will be discussing it together very soon. I’m grateful for this community and all the wisdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:40 PM
16

I don’t fear violence if I say no but I do fear him just ending things with me on the spot because he would certainly feel rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:58 PM
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Thank you for bringing attention to this! I am in a committed four year relationship and three days ago my BF came up to me while I was working (from home) and began trying to take off my clothes. I put my call on hold and asked him to please wait until I was done with work...in 15 minutes. He wouldn’t stop even after I pushed his hands away and sternly said for him to stop several times. You guessed it, it was easier to just give up and let him fuck me. He left me alone afterward so I could fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:57 PM
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I went on a first date in my running leggings and a t-shirt, ponytail and just a splash of facial powder and lip gloss. “I like a woman who is totally comfortable with who she is.” Ok! Our first date of getting pancakes was awkward at best after he said “Wow, you really dressed for the occasion.” Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:55 PM
10

Oh of course! “You’re getting fat” as he proceeds to ask me to bake brownies, cookies etc for him. See ya sucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:02 PM
26

I really liked how when I was sick, my ex made me sleep on the couch. When he was sick...I still had to sleep on the couch 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:59 AM
6

Now I have Longview stuck in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:56 AM
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I just watched a news blip about this and the newscaster said “he had a really bad day yesterday” of the shooter. I have a really bad day and I eat a whole cake and get called fat by men. This guy has a really bad day, MURDERS 8 people and gets sympathy for his sex addiction. I am...sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:40 PM
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Why did she give it to him? I’m glad she told him what’s up though; too bad he’s too selfish and gross to just listen to her and get on with his nasty life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:17 PM
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Holy shit 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:40 AM
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I spend about 30 minutes stretching my whole body. Not really yoga, just general stretches. It allows me to breathe and appreciate my body and life. It also feels good 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:09 AM
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I used to be a competitive power lifter and had decent strength and a decent body. I dated a guy who was fully supportive and encouraging of this and we’d work out together, tease each other playfully about who was stronger etc. I felt happy and great in that relationship until... ...we went for a hike one day and he was behind me. It’s was a steeper section so I was having to do a lot of scrambling to get up to the flat part. Once we got to the top he gave me a hug and grabbed my butt but immed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:34 PM
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I’d block him based on his stressful work environment. Is that unfair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:25 PM
6

Forgot the brown streak down the center
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:16 PM
9

Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:52 AM
3

No worries, we had separate interests and for a while we thought it was healthy that we weren’t attached at the hip; hindsight right? We took separate flights for that trip because I refused to give up teaching my kickboxing class the morning of departure. He also refused to take a later flight. It just kind of like that the entire relationship. He went to Florida once for a family wedding and I opted to stay behind because I wasn’t comfortable with several of his family members. Never a big fig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:51 PM
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1) Six years, he left me stating that I was holding him up in life. Turns out he was cheating on me. I realized a few years ago that I was blind to the cheating because we basically lived a life of roommates. We shared a condo/mortgage and that was about it. No kids in the mix. We had separate friends and never did anything together in the 15 years we were together aside from one vacation to Seattle where we took separate flights. 2) life is not great. The divorce really showed me that I was nai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:08 AM
3

Perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:26 AM
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I just had to say this to my mom actually so...still thank you FDS for showing me that my feelings ARE valid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:30 PM
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I dated a guy once when I was doing competition weight lifting. He was all about how “good I looked with my muscle” but as soon as I dumped him I was a “gross she-male who probably took steroids...yuck, gross.” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:42 PM
1

Yesssss! Glad you showed him what’s what!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:16 PM
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My brother is four years younger than me and was treated like gold. This isn’t just a jealous sibling writing this either. I got in trouble for getting B’s on report cards while he was given a car for BARELY graduating high school. My parents paid for his entire wedding when he had to get married after getting someone pregnant, they also paid for his divorce a few years after that. Not a dime was offered to me for my wedding, not even as a gift. He gave them grandchildren, I didn’t. He’s been ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:48 AM
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How sad! And now that he thinks he’s in the clear, he’ll do it again baby. Just wait and see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:19 PM
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This sub has been so helpful, I can’t begin to thank you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:58 PM
51

I am, thank you all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:12 PM
9

SAVAGE! And I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:44 PM
10

I couldn’t agree more! Very well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:38 PM
8

Oh my god, I absolutely LOATHE this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:10 PM
1

Didn’t see it, I’ll remove now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:07 PM
6

Wtf? Probably threw them in there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:42 PM
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The undies made me throw up a little...too accurate 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:52 PM
26

What a gloating asshat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:48 PM
37

My 5’9” 145lb ass would love to make this scrote some ground glass pancakes then give him some water to flush it out...oh shit, wait, water is vegan. I guess he could just suffer and bleed out while looking disapprovingly at my 13 tattoos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:05 PM
25

Accurate AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:50 PM
4

That “s” on the end of “anyway” was it for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:46 PM
31

This hits so hard this morning. I started making my own changes just a few days ago and am seeing the truth in this in real time. Stay as strong as you can ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:47 PM
6

We could always ask them who they upvote the most on r/gonewild ...you know, as we stand up and get our keys out to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:04 AM
18

Accurate AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:02 PM
17

Yassss Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:17 PM
51

Ugh yes! “Oh, why am I crying and being so emotional? It certainly has nothing to do with you ignoring me without explanation the last three days.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:02 PM
2

For my office, we have optional satisfaction surveys for patients to fill out. They’re in our waiting room and hardly anyone ever turns them in. There is Yelp and Google reviews though and when people review us, they mainly complain about wait times for appointments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:40 AM
6

Totally agree! I’ve been told to smile by men at work (I work in medicine) and I just refuse. I carry a professional tone in my voice, am pleasant but will not smile on command, like a dog, as you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:04 PM
49

If only his left hand was down his pants 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:54 PM
9

Spot on friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:24 PM
27

I’m thinking his tears were a selfish attempt to suck sympathy out of this poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:58 PM
43

“Suck the fun out of everything” You mean live a respectable life and take no shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:52 PM
8

Or, the ever-hated “reaction” Tapback on iPhone “!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:30 PM
12

This made me feel called out lol. I cook because I want to eat, clean because living in filth isn’t appealing, and I keep up my appearance as best I can because if I don’t, I feel depressed. Caretaking? Naw dawg..no thanks. I did this stuff when I was married and continue to do it while I’m unmarried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:47 PM
5

Right?! And, I’ve climbed my fair share of those mountains so part of me wishes I had gone and smoked him on the climb, ran down the descent and drove off without explanation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:30 PM
9

“When she is quiet and letting things slide she is giving up.” Ain’t that the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:43 PM
25

For a first date, this man asked me to climb a 14er with him (basically a mountain that is over 14,000 feet in elevation). This entails a long hike and then the actual climb itself. “Sure sir, I DEFINITELY cannot wait to go on an isolated trail in the middle of nowhere with someone I’m meeting for the first time in my life!” “Do you think , if you have time, you could assault me and leave me for dead?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:31 PM
16

God this hits hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:39 PM
9

Ded 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:42 PM
1

Yep, all unbeknownst to me. SMDH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:34 PM
3

If I saw something like that, I’d surprise him the next day by packing up my stuff leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:18 PM
1

Take it away friend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:37 PM
3

I wasn’t clear on that either but during my divorce, the mediator had me list it as an asset (you are correct, it’s a retirement fund) and due to a certain circumstance (my ex had hundreds of thousands of dollars owed in debt) he tried to take what he could. Our mediator was able to talk him out of it simply by reminding him that he did not work for my money and his debt was his own problem to handle, not my mess to clean up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:21 PM
10

Mine lasted three years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:09 PM
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It was in CA and our mediator managed to talk him out of it. He was self employed and when the mediator told him he “hadn’t worked for it” that embarrassed him and he dropped it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:04 PM
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When my ex-husband tried to go after my 401K...then found out I took him off as beneficiary. Salt in the wound as I cackled off into my new life with MY 401K still intact and untouched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:24 PM
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buT mY cuTe SmilE wilL WiN HEr oVer....blech!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:04 AM
21

Is his big project at his dead end job cleaning the grease trap from the french fry station? As if words belong to him. How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:40 PM
6

Actually it was HELL NO BOYEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:34 PM
14

That moment when you get to be the first to tell them and they...just....can’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:07 AM
7

Exactly! This was my exact thought when I saw this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:03 PM
5

Basic kindness. My BF did the same for me one night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:37 PM
1

Every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:20 AM
8

I can smell it from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:38 PM
3

I would have snapped that wrist at the second attempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:34 PM
11

He ain’t got no Red American Express either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:50 PM
2

I’m just over here violating privacy laws, NBD. What an awful human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:49 PM
3

One of those “compliments” where they assume we’re stupid enough to buy it. Boy, bye. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:23 PM
8

The “heard” instead of “herd” is painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:22 PM
3

My ex-husband used to comment on my “smell” directly after I’d return from a run or intense workout. Yeah no shit I stink...come at me with that shit on a normal day when I’m not all sweaty etc. Fucking moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:32 PM
18

...but I’m going to do everything I can to hurt you and then try to blame you for it and turn myself into the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:07 PM
39

I commented on that post! As a runner, I REFUSE to take shit from men catcalling me etc. I ended my comment stating that I was prepared to fight a man even if it meant my death. Women should not have to modify what we do simply to stay out of harm’s way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:26 PM
42

“I can show you the world...” proceeds to future fake. No thanks sir. NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:59 AM
34

Sometimes they still don’t get it when you stop trying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:36 AM
6

I needed to see this today. THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:52 PM
12

Boy...get yourself a parrot to talk to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:00 PM
6

Sorry, I’m busy dude 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:03 PM
3

Leave me alone BRYAN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:51 AM
25

Time to pull out the blood capsules from Halloween, bite dem bitches and flash a quick smile at that pathetic MF. RUN FUCK BOI RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:27 PM
11

My ex-husband had a rule: if I was sick, I had no choice but to sleep on the couch and if he was the sick one, I also had no choice but to sleep on the couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:41 PM
32

Same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:49 PM
21

Years ago I went on a first date in my running shorts and an old ratty t-shirt. The guy said he wanted somebody real and authentic so I gave him real and authentic. We had coffee and pancakes and called it a day. Never heard from him again...thank goodness lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:33 PM
23

First of all, risotto could be made by a trained monkey...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:41 AM
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Smart girl! I had one that saved me in my divorce and I have one again in my LTR. I like how he gets all hurt and says “confronted” her instead asking her about it. Entitled asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:33 PM
3

Time for some brownies with ground glass mixed in. What a dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:38 PM
8

Good on you girl! I’m proud of you for making your feelings and boundaries known! If he can’t even give you enough respect to respect your wishes and feelings than good riddance to that POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:43 PM
7

I see what you did there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:39 PM
25

Awww, she found her a good one. She didn’t have to tell him to cut off contact with the second one. Grrrrl, marry that one like yesterday 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:42 PM
79

Dear Ed, Just to clarify, the world doesn’t like you per se, we just enjoy the entertainment value you provide us. Please realize how low value you truly are and get your shit together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:40 PM
2

That first line is incredibly powerful. What an amazing woman; thank you for sharing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:35 AM
26

“Do you want your hair to fall out, your skin to break out, to gain 12lbs seemingly overnight or do you want a baby?” NO PLEASE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:03 PM
15

If you look that rough at 38 then, yes. Life is bad. VERY BAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:32 PM
1

Anna Bey is bae. I love her so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:39 AM
10

So gross! If you’re touching anything down there...especially in the bathroom...WASH YOUR HANDS. Pretty sure we all learned this when we were little kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:00 PM
2

My boobs my property! What a fucking idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:28 PM
2

WOW. Had it been me it would have been met with “I can buy my own phone.” What a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:25 PM
6

I’ve had this happen and quite honestly it makes me chuckle. I’m being me and if being authentic is “too much” for you then there’s the door. No hard feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:45 PM
3

Hmmm, my whole life I’ve never felt this way. In fact, I always feel like I can and will beat the crap out of ANY attacker. I won’t know until that day (or night) comes of course but I refuse to cower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:17 PM
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