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MALE DEPRAVITYRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:38 PM
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REMINDER 👑Repulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:48 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:26 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:58 PM
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NAH, SISRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:07 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:23 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:19 PM
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DISCUSSIONRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:09 PM
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#KickHimOut2020Repulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:07 PM
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Repulsive-Ad1092/r/askFDS11/06/21 10:32 AM
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RANTRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:36 AM
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RANTRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:10 PM
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Repulsive-Ad1092/r/askFDS09/01/21 09:26 PM
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DISCUSSIONRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:48 PM
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STAY WOKERepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:52 PM
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REMINDER 👑Repulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:45 PM
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REMINDER 👑Repulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONRepulsive-Ad1092/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:55 PM
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54

Went from mediocre to hellish awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:00 AM
137

I saw that one only because I read that most men hate women who help them with stuff because their ego gets bruised (another reason to be against 50-50, btw)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:59 AM
31

It is a red pill shit test. Don’t even try to understand the logic behind it, there’s none. Just tell him you’re not interested and don’t mention why, otherwise he will prepare a better lie for the next women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:21 PM
14

This is what you get when you marry a 50-50 man. Learn from other women’s mistake and stay away from useless dusties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:51 PM
7

Usually independent women also have super shitty friends. Glow up in silence and have very strict boundaries! Vampires are everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:04 PM
12

He is a scrote and he doesn’t deserve your beautiful energy. You will feel better son. You are loved🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:49 AM
34

You are a Queen and I love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:07 PM
20

Does he really expect people to sympathize with him?😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:14 AM
23

Hope she is not loyal though 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:51 PM
23

NVM saying they won’t turn their backs to their male friends when they get harassment accusations. Meanwhile this teenager is smart and brave enough to call her own dad out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:09 PM
20

I don’t agree. She should have just left the table with no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:02 PM
16

I’m sorry that you had to go through this horrible experience. I am sending you hugs and love❤️❤️❤️ Don’t ever feel guilty about what happened, none of this is your fault By the way, it is very likely that his friends are wolves in disguise, so it would be better if you cut them off too, or at least slowly disappearing.
/r/askFDS20/11/21 03:56 PM
16

Exactly! I fail to believe that there was absolutely no sign of creepiness in those guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:46 PM
68

It is,sadly, quite normalized to talk about how hot you find other people. Back in my pickme days I would defend my bf saying “oh but he is talking about an actress, not someone he knows!! This is Ok”. I was suffering inside 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:31 AM
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I was about to write something like this. Also, I think that if you train your intuition there is no way you miss the hints. Come on, I’m sure that if you pay attention you can catch your husband lusting at other women who are underage, or even seeing that the minors don’t feel comfortable around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:39 AM
17

How long have you been talking before the date happened? Was he pushy from the beginning of the date? Were you touchy with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:17 AM
2

Thanks <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:04 PM
4

What was the name of the group for people who want to improve their public speaking skills?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:48 AM
24

Those are the same who say that they wax their kitties because they want to and not because of the male gaze
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:08 PM
11

OP, I don’t mean any harm with this but WTF. You really believe that he was genuinely nice just because of one action knowing that he was a dick to other women? It could also be that he was just not attracted to you in particular, and that doesn’t mean he respects you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:13 AM
40

“You are very picky and mean when you turn down a guy who watches porn very occasionally”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:39 PM
97

These jokes are negging (red pill tactic) and he seems controlling. Dump him
/r/askFDS19/10/21 06:03 AM
19

Shitty scrote reacts to a female coworker getting the promotion before him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:10 AM
1

Are you sad that the trash gets burn? Then why are you sad about a NVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:16 PM
11

I wish I never saw this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:22 AM
43

I mean, this is cute for an 8 year old doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:55 AM
158

This happened to me a couple of months ago and I blocked him. He no longer tried
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:33 PM
139

2 miles away, that seems like a threat 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:52 AM
6

Ask them to wax their assholes 🥵
/r/askFDS16/09/21 12:51 PM
2

Watch any SheraSeven video on Youtube
/r/askFDS14/09/21 04:32 PM
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Hey, we have all been scammed, brokenhearted and/or cheated by at least one LVM in our entire lives. Remember that this situation is shocking for you because you would never do that to somebody else. So hey, at least you are not a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:56 PM
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Or OF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:13 PM
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I set these goals for myself this week: - Learn 10 irregular verbs and 5 key phrases in german - not throwing any food - Walking 10k steps at least 5 days - Getting better at email writing and documenting at work - Taking care of my nails and hands - Trying one more challenging posture in pilates - at least 2 cold showers - at least 5 days when I don’t leave any dish in the sink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:57 PM
18

We should help this lady to divorce rape this piece of shit asap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:19 PM
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Ladies why do you even bother to spend more seconds discussing these things with scrotes and pickmes?? You are just giving them more ammo and information on how to manipulate better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:36 AM
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They know it is not empowering. They don’t feel guilt because they don’t think of us as humans, just as meat. Also, they say it is empowering because they don’t want others to shame them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:57 AM
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Also when he treated her like shit on the phone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:55 AM
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Who are these influencers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:06 PM
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What kind of relationship can you have with someone you started with as fwb? Quality>Quantity. PickMes have tons of offers because the only thing they ask for is attention.
/r/askFDS30/08/21 11:54 AM
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What a pain in the ass. What if you just don’t reply anymore?
/r/askFDS30/08/21 05:54 AM
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I want to cry after reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:47 PM
4

Put a Corona/work excuse and let her forget
/r/askFDS29/08/21 09:40 PM
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🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:27 AM
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This makes me so sad because probably the woman has had a useless dad. For her, “building a man up” is her way to revive her trauma hoping that this time there is going to be a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:46 AM
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Male brains be like: Watching rape scenes on TV: OK. Watching period blood: NOT OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:21 AM
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In college
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:19 AM
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Many activist/“woke” guys hang out around liberal circles because they think left-wing women are easier preys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:02 PM
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No, don’t confront him. I did and it was a huge mistake. By talking to him one more time, you are giving him an(other) opportunity to manipulate you and make you feel like shit. What are you waiting for blocking his friends as well?
/r/askFDS23/08/21 03:50 PM
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Don’t answer. WTF, he had the audacity to put it public. That is childish, don’t even give attention to that
/r/askFDS17/08/21 10:46 PM
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She knows her friend is down to it because she has probably “joked” about this before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:45 PM
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Please stop sharing details about your life in front of her. She is definitely the sabotaging type
/r/askFDS08/08/21 09:07 PM
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This is how my ex texted with his “side chicks”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:46 PM
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🙌💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:46 PM
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Look at his face..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:38 PM
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You will have better connections in the future, but only if you are open to them. You need to first free your mind from that useless pos
/r/askFDS02/08/21 04:03 PM
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You need to find yourself first. This is not love, it is your ego talking. It could be that you're still thinking of him because you think he is doing better than you, but that's not true. A part of you wants him to come back say hi because of the validation.
/r/askFDS01/08/21 10:04 AM
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Libfem culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:52 PM
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Well, there is another one: throwing the plastics/carton to the trash and taking it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:03 AM
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Because then he would have to clean the dishes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:11 AM
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“You’d be more attractive if you didn’t have issues with porn” 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:37 PM
5

Not even one ex can be the crazy one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:14 AM
8

Finanscrote 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:48 AM
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These are the same guys who say “what about the false rape claims??” #notallmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:37 AM
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Girl you're so gorgeous and you seem so nice! Any man should feel lucky to have your number. Don't ever let them treat you badly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:15 PM
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They get RP points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:38 PM
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They will get ED so I’m fine with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:37 PM
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I can’t have them more than one week. I change them every 4-5 days in the summer. I even have a third set just in case. Meanwhile, scrotes can go 100 days with the same sheets and will not mind the cum stains 🤡 they later have the audacity to call a woman unattractive if she hasn’t shaved her legs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:36 PM
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I can’t, really. Good thing that scrote is not in your life anymore ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:25 PM
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Ladies, this is also why we should stop sending men paragraphs explaining why they hurt us. They are taking notes on how to hurt other women 😟 fucking psychos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:19 PM
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If they are older than 25 and game daily I see it as a red flag tbh, even if it is on their phones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:05 AM
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Many doormat men LOVE mean/NPD women. They would rather go through bad relationships than go to therapy because they want to be a victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:39 AM
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HVW is about thinking more in the long run. Sure, eating cake and pizza every day is delicious but putting ourselves first is also thinking about our future, like health. Congrats on you for standing up for your mental peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:09 PM
6

You are doing very well. I send you hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:07 PM
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Also, if they don’t attempt to get you into bed they are using you to capture other women. Or even just because talking to women boosts their ego and they gain “experience”🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:01 PM
2

Can we normalize spitting out our drinks to the scrote’s faces when they start negging us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:27 PM
7

This is disgusting. Her therapist and the redditors in there are fucking pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:24 PM
2

“Men are more intelligent and logic driven than women”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:21 PM
5

Open relationship AND drama-free life.. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:07 AM
5

It is so scary how they can fool anyone. They barely ogle women in public but once they have more than one drink they are all over us like creeps 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:30 PM
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Oh, and obviously, they think they are very handsome when most don’t even know how to dress nor wash their asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:46 PM
6

I’m Spanish, studied and working with mostly men and I can guarantee that Forocoches is quite popular, most people between 20 and 45 know about it. Spanish LVM are just another thing. No matter how old they are, they are all looking for a surrogate mom. It is a huge red flag for them if you don’t try to stop them when they are paying dinner 🤡 they say they hate women with makeup but then keep dozens of porn tabs on their favorites and follow tons of instagram models. Cheating and “bro code” are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:44 PM
5

Yes, same with Norwegians and Danes. Many LVM are taught how to properly behave in public because most of them have very good levels of education. But once they drink or get close to you? Oh well, they become fully open about their racism and misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:34 PM
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If you ever feel attracted to another LVM, just remember the mattress on the floor, the flirting/sexting with other women, passive-aggressive bs, etc. Whatever it is that makes you cringe, just write it down on your Notes App and keep reading it daily until you don’t feel attraction for bad guys. It could be that your guy is HVM but not your type. You don’t have to feel attracted to a guy just because he is HVM. Being nice is not something super attractive, is it basic human decency. My best gir…
/r/askFDS07/07/21 01:49 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/navigating-the-love-gap/201802/do-men-want-date-intelligent-women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:16 PM
1

You deserve friends who respect you and don’t make you feel bad for voicing your concerns 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
/r/askFDS06/07/21 02:12 PM
36

Honestly, I couldn’t care less. He is already in a black list because he didn’t pay some fees to his previous landlord and he was ruthlessly fired from his previous job. So yeah, I would not be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:34 PM
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I helped my ex scrote with his work emails because he didn’t know how to be polite 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:50 AM
111

Same with “very intelligent”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:26 AM
3

I would be ashamed to be related to this guy tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:20 PM
16

He doesn’t want to date the pornstars He just sees asses and breasts, not humans. Thanks for reminding me that my partner is a creep, girlboss💄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:17 PM
29

He doesn't think you're special. Block and delete. No hesitation
/r/askFDS28/06/21 05:04 PM
12

He would rather her girlfriend eating one less meal and taking another job just to save, what is for his level, some pennies. Is this how he treats the future mother of his kids? A true HVM would never put his partner in any type of discomfort. She is literally getting sick (working more, eating less) because her bf is a cheap ass. Also, why is the whole family ok with the humiliation? No, no, no, no. Seriously. I hope he invests in crypto and loses all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:21 AM
18

I hope you recover soon from surgery, OP <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:04 PM
39

The guy you were seeing and your “friend” are both losers. Cut them off, be ruthless.
/r/askFDS24/06/21 11:16 AM
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They lack self awareness. By the way, I read such a beautiful quote the other day.. “Happiness doesn’t come by adding more things to your life but subtracting the unnecessary ones. No matter what purse, car or big house you buy, you will not be happy if you don’t push away what is crashing with your values”. So, good riddance :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:57 PM
9

They probably were not aware. Their conceptions of love and affection are different. They don’t want healthy relationships to begin with, they want chaotic attachments that make them more miserable and use as an excuse to not grow up. They are afraid of having the control of their own life and being a full adult, so they to justify their malfunctioning. It is their comfort zone. Why bothering going to french, programming, dance or art classes after work if they can spend the evening criticizing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:59 PM
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You are correct, they want drama. That’s why they keep being partners and friends with people they don’t really like. They just want reasons to complain because they have very low self esteem. Also, you are not too much, it is just that they can’t stand other people being happy with life. Flags to watch out for: You have the feeling that they resent you and you’re not sure why. Passive aggressive comments altogether They don’t celebrate your success They jokingly insult you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:09 AM
4

I was like “tf is this?” and then I saw the Humor flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:11 AM
10

Or he would have ended things with you when he found a more submissive woman. You need to be comfortable being "the bad person that ended things" from his perspective. Is this going to matter in five years? And you know what? You always have the right to end a relationship that doesn't make you feel alright. But this might be strange from you to hear, so that's why I am saying to go to therapy in order to build up your self esteem
/r/askFDS19/06/21 08:52 AM
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No matter what you said, this would have been inevitable and honestly, the best thing you could have ever possibly done was blocking him. Your mind goes through different scenarios because in some way any relationship failure feels like a duel, even if the relationship was bad. You say you doubt yourself and wonder if you had cut things off too quickly. Do you honestly think you would have been better if you stayed longer with him? I am almost thirty and I have seen many young women getting sick…
/r/askFDS19/06/21 08:17 AM
4

The only green flag is consistency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:02 PM
28

I get that the autor of the comic is basically a PickMe because of the shitty society we live in but this is also content available to teenagers and it is so dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:37 PM
3

Not only rapey, it is very pedophilic if you think about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:29 PM
4

My therapist agrees with you
/r/askFDS14/06/21 08:54 AM
4

​ Like this: https://www.etsy.com/es/listing/702853334/bloquearlo-pegatina-de-sis
/r/askFDS11/06/21 07:31 PM
3

Get this on a post note near your computer
/r/askFDS11/06/21 07:00 PM
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Yup, on my way to get rid of her. She even insisted last November on getting Christmas gifts for each other. I had a bad feeling about her so I didn’t buy it. Good for me, we haven’t seen each other since last October 🤡🤡🤡 So satisfying to know that my gut was right. By the way, you nailed it. She shared super traumatic stuff with me on the first few weeks. That put a lot of pressure on my past (and dead) codependent and people pleasing ass
/r/askFDS11/06/21 06:58 PM
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I talked about the porn issue because I told her how hurt I was when my ex did that to me. She is very very pickme and I can’t even. I don’t think the friendship is salvageable at this point. FDS teached me to love myself 💖
/r/askFDS11/06/21 05:10 PM
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Can you believe I met her one year and a half and she was lovebombing me (friendship way, but still) on the first three weeks? Like even posting pictures of us on Instagram saying “I love you princess you’re one of my best friends”. I was like “wtf, I saw you twice you don’t even know what I do for a living 🤡”
/r/askFDS11/06/21 05:08 PM
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I think I’m not going to even give her that amount of energies. I will just leave her ass on read at this point ✨
/r/askFDS11/06/21 05:06 PM
9

When they get that defensive is because you touched a nerve there :D I think they deep down know they have settled down for shit and hate that you prove it to them. My friend went nuts but I was just venting on how I was hurt about my ex watching pornography and saying it was OK. Oh well..
/r/askFDS11/06/21 02:09 PM
10

I'm so sorry that happened to you. It's her loss, you deserve better friends <3 At least now you don't have to deal with her nagging when he is an ass
/r/askFDS11/06/21 12:21 PM
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No, she doesn't want to talk about it. But that is not my major issue. What really hurt me was that she played dumb for one month and a half, barely seeing my messages and not talking to me at all. She could have told me that she felt bad about this topic right away, but she is telling me now saying that it feels like I'm trying to dictate her life (no?) And then she ends up with "I'm sorry if this hurts you. I wanted to at least give you closure and not abandoning you as your ex and your mutual…
/r/askFDS11/06/21 12:16 PM
9

I jUsT lOvE pLaYiNg dEvIls AdvOcAtE🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:50 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 You always deserve to be appreciated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:53 AM
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I believe in you. I know you are going to do amazing. And you know what? This month should be all about you. Put your selfie as a background on your phone and computer so you remind yourself every hour what is the most important thing in the world for you. Put tons of affirmations and pictures of you in your room. Put on your nicest perfume all the time, even if you’re home. Treat yourself like the queen you are. Also, if you can’t stop thinking about your ex, just imagine him in VERY embarrassi…
/r/askFDS07/06/21 10:09 PM
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Try saying “no” to them and see how they react. Discuss politics, queer and feminist topics. His thoughts on Elon Musk, BDSM, “false allegations”, Bojack Horseman or Rick and Morty. Watch out for what he asks you. Does he say that he is a nice/soft/romantic guy often? Red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:00 PM
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I’m praying and manifesting that you are going to be happier and wiser after this experience. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
/r/askFDS07/06/21 09:56 PM
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Hey, In five years, the LVM scrote won’t be in your heart anymore. What you do this week will have an impact on your career and personal goals, which is what is truly important to you. Don’t betray yourself by switching your attention 💖💖💖💖💖💖
/r/askFDS07/06/21 09:55 PM
5

Normal, women rarely are that mean and we cannot even imagine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:29 PM
6

It is gaslighting. Many of them actually want you to check so that you suffer. Also, they already know that many times you will feel bad about suspecting about them cheating because “come on, he gave me his password, he can’t be that bad” Oh well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:18 PM
5

No, never settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:16 PM
11

I am manifesting that he will get ED soon 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:21 AM
15

Get tested for everything (herpes and HPV included) and RUN AS FAR AND FAST AS YOU CAN
/r/askFDS21/05/21 10:08 PM
8

I'm sorry for your loss, OP. I hope you are doing as well as you can for the time being. Try not to give more thought to that asshole, he is a shitty miserable human being. You're not alone, we got you <3
/r/askFDS21/05/21 08:59 PM
2

Congrats!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:02 PM
2

Me hizo ilusión tu comentario :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:34 PM
17

No thanks, I prefer sleeping with people I am actually attracted to. If I need to revive my trauma during sex to feel alive, then Im not really attracted to the other person. Plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:37 AM
39

5th step: make an OnlyFans to buy ✨him✨ a ps5 😍😍😍😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:24 AM
7

You weren’t talking to anyone else but him last night. You DID answer him. He is gaslighting you. He just wants an excuse to make you feel bad and control you. Good riddance sis
/r/askFDS14/05/21 08:37 AM
3

Dump her from your friendship circle. You will save yourself from many headaches.
/r/askFDS12/05/21 11:21 AM
1

Ladies, they got divorced I'm so happy for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:21 PM
41

Because if they break up directly with you they cannot play the victim so much. That’s also why they always say “my exes were crazy”
/r/askFDS05/05/21 08:22 AM
3

Really, they might seem nicer but they are her friends for a reason. Keep it casual and be patient, you are understood here❤️❤️❤️
/r/askFDS29/04/21 07:29 PM
2

It boils your blood but do not engage. I wouldn’t trust her monkeys either. Don’t tell them too many details about yourself and you’ll be out of their drama.
/r/askFDS29/04/21 05:52 PM
6

So, unfortunately people like her are like the plague. No matter where cite or job you’re at, you will always have to deal with them. You cannot escape this type of situations, only control your emotions. As ASeaOfQuotes wrote, go grey rock. It is normal to feel uncomfortable in situations where the main topic is sexual. You can limit your social interactions with them (“hey, can’t come on Friday because I have to babysit”) or hanging out with them when there are also more normal people involved
/r/askFDS29/04/21 03:31 PM
3

Keep your social media private and make sure that no one is giving him information about you
/r/askFDS28/04/21 02:56 PM
5

Show her the videos of Dr Ramani. She might have dodged a bullet there
/r/askFDS28/04/21 01:36 PM
6

I am sorry that you are getting these horrendous messages on Reddit. It is never your fault. About the Bob problem: apply grey rock method. Management babysits him and will very likely ignore the problem in order to avoid conflict. He probably has more PickMes around who pay him attention, so he will probably give up on asking for your attention. In last instance, if you stumble across him and there is no one around, try doing gross things like scratching your armpit, yawning, sneezing very hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:09 PM
2

LVM be like: My cards are ✨LAST MINUTE DATES✨ You should be HAPPY that I spend them with you 😚😚😚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:02 PM
12

Okay, I know that she tells this as if it was something funny but actually might be that she is afraid of him being abusive. This type of guys will yell at you “we already have food at home, what’s the matter with you? I have done so much for the relationship. Don’t you think that going to a restaurant is kind of silly? We could save that money to buy (me) a PS5”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:00 PM
22

You reminded me of: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/navigating-the-love-gap/201802/do-men-want-date-intelligent-women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:57 PM
3

I am 29 as well and don’t have the drivers license because of anxiety and attention problems, but I am currently working on them with a therapist so that I can do the exam next year. So, I can understand #1 being OK as long as he has a plan to work on it, which doesn’t seem like it based on the other points. You are a queen. You don’t deserve a man who has the emotional intelligence of a child. Why the f does he say that looking at other women is “eye candy”? What is he, 12? He needed you to tel…
/r/askFDS28/04/21 12:52 PM
2

Okay I forgot that he has been to jail, so this should be a factor for the police to take it more seriously. Did you call them again after he got released?
/r/askFDS28/04/21 04:52 AM
1

Okay, I see. Then if there is no traitor among your social circle, ask the women’s shelter or the administration related to public information on how to hide that information. Although, again, keep being cautious when sharing personal information. And please be very careful if you try to apply any method yourself. Many of us have successfully got rid of our stalkers because we knew what exactly made them lose interest. But if you don’t know what might be, a method that you think is good could ba…
/r/askFDS28/04/21 04:49 AM
3

Did he ever give you any hope of relationship? Did he flirt with you? Did he take advantage of you having a crush on him? If he did, then I would say that he is a LVM for sure. If not, well, we cannot guess with the very little information. He is not into you, because he is still thinking of his ex in some way. No, it is not because you’re not good enough, in general. You are not his great match, in the same way that many people are not yours or mine, and that doesn’t always mean they are worse …
/r/askFDS27/04/21 08:22 AM
4

This is a very delicate subject. I guess that the police didn’t do much the first time he called you all night from different numbers because many people behave this way after fights, but they should take it seriously now because it has been consistent. Also, he has already been to jail, this adds more fuel to the fire. He might already have more reports against him from other people too. Many of people in this sub have dealt with stalkers and abusers before. I got rid of mines (many bad friends…
/r/askFDS27/04/21 07:01 AM
2

It is challenging right now with the covid situation. Have you talked to people on your yoga classes? What are other hobbies of yours? You could join a club or even start a new one! Also, I know that being alone sucks at times but beware of the bad companionships. Good friendships take a while to develop. Lovebombing also happens in friendships.. In the meantime, get books that make you grow mentally
/r/askFDS26/04/21 06:50 PM
6

No, it is not your fault, he is negging you. He is testing how submissive you are. He is abusive. RUN THE F OUT
/r/askFDS23/04/21 08:26 PM
307

For the male lurkers, Most of the times, we call a guy ugly when he doesn’t give an f about his hygiene, wears clothes with holes, has a bad attitude and puts 0 effort and enthusiasm into his family, coworkers, partner or friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:52 PM
2

Those who put us down due to rejection are LVM. Also, attractive men also face rejection, like all of us. It doesn’t matter that they are on the top 1% most desirable on Tinder, if they are LVM they will get VERY pissed off if they face rejection from just one girl. You don’t always know they have been rejected because they won’t “brag” about it, they will just be bitter. Also, a LVM man can also feel insecure when a woman shows she is better at X than him.
/r/askFDS15/04/21 01:16 AM
11

Well, they are insecure. They put us down because they have been rejected at some point and are not mature enough to cope with it. LVM don’t really love themselves in a healthy way. It is just a copying mechanism to not having to deal with the reality
/r/askFDS15/04/21 12:08 AM
6

Suspicious only? I would order a restraining order without even knowing their names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:05 AM
1

Hey, most times they don't follow up their threats, he just wants some "control" back because he feels miserable. Honestly, if your manager and/or coworkers receive a message from him they will probably already think that he is frustrated because you rejected him. If he is in the same company or similar, he might also have a reputation as creepy/psycho guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:03 PM
5

This is so nice. We need to counter the hookup/Onlyfans culture that is only getting us backwards. I am so happy to have found forums that are anti-porn. My ex group of friends was pro-pornography and it was tearing me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:35 AM
11

It’s abuse. They knew that if you love yourself you end up seeing that they are crap and dump them.
/r/askFDS08/04/21 09:22 PM
6

Seek therapy. Stop following models and influencers on social media. Stay away from people who only talk about body image or criticize others. Don’t rush into dating apps until you feel better. You need to work on your own validation first. You got this
/r/askFDS06/04/21 01:23 PM
22

It is so sad that she has to justify her choice. Meanwhile, NVM be like “I lIkE biG b00bZ” or “I wOnT dAtE a TaLl gRill” and almost no one will question them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:20 PM
5

It’s the only thing NVM are good at
/r/askFDS05/04/21 09:02 PM
9

He wants to go back with you so that he can hurt you even more and feed his ego. Don’t fall for his bull crap. Men sense when you are doing better. They can’t stand it. Be strong!!❤️❤️❤️
/r/askFDS05/04/21 08:42 PM
8

Ladies, that’s it, this post was my signal. I’m going to the clinic to get information about IVF. I am also subscribed to SMBC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:32 PM
157

Society pushes women to give opportunities to guys we’re not very attracted to, because we might be “missing out” the love of our life. First of all, that sends a horrible message to your subconscious. It is literally saying “your preferences don’t matter”, “you deserve less than you’re asking for” And honestly, once we lower the bar for looks we end up lowering the bar for everything else. Of course, what is attractive to me is not for everyone, and viceversa. But never ever force your hooha to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:24 PM
21

No sis, you need to work on your confidence, for real. With more self love, you will realize that you don’t need to beg ANYONE for attention. Hope she finds this sub and ghosts this pos 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:55 PM
3

If he is sooo sweet, then why no other lady of his age wants to cuddle, go grocery shopping, out to eat or watch movies with him? Hmm..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:53 PM
28

I am happy that you don't have to put up with it anymore. You survived, let's celebrate that <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:40 PM
14

Ladies, what if make a collab list of red flags? 🖋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:26 PM
131

Meanwhile the wife, postpartum, lying in the hospital bed thinking that she needs to trust the father of her son, even if her gut tells her no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:23 PM
2

Hated when I visited my ex. We were LDR and due to the covid situation we would only see each other during 2 weeks between months. He was trying to get fit so we planned to go for a walk before breakfast. Well, apparently he couldn’t wait until I had left. The second day, he just said “you know what? Your pace is just too slow and I would rather go by myself” Abusive asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:03 PM
5

Before being a FDS follower, I had close guy friends who would flirt, oozing, watch porn and say that they would sleep with any girl that would accept. Now I am 100% sure of not falling into the same again. I not only vet potential partners but also close guy friends, which I barely did before. And you know what? I was afraid of being alone. But honestly, having no people to hang out with during some time could be beneficial for you. Have more time for you. You don’t need large amounts of money …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:56 PM
16

“Not every husband can provide the way I do” You provide insecurities that make her self esteem fall under the ground, you piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:52 PM
38

LVM have the emotional intelligence of a toddler
/r/askFDS15/03/21 08:39 AM
1

I partly agree with you. Sadly, there are psychopaths, introverts and cover narcissists who, unfortunately, have learned how to go unnoticed. Unless they have their guard down and that you pay attention to detail, months can pass by without suspicion. A friend of mine who has many HVM traits never thought that a guy of his fraternity would be a predator. The scrote was in his middle twenties and would assault girls who were 16-17 years old. My friend never suspected because this sociopath made h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:56 PM
4

Today I received a very warm message from a man who saw a comment I posted about many men covering abusers. He had a friend who is a rapist and wanted to know my input on how to spot them better next time. He was very polite and seemed to genuily care. To the Incel lurkers: take example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:26 PM
163

Not all men are abusers, but many of them ignore it when their friends are acting like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:50 PM
27

I am single and, for the first time, not afraid of the thought of never marrying. Well, I haven’t been happier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:26 PM
18

When I learnt my closest guy (now ex) friends were like this I wanted to throw for days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:34 PM
4

It looks like a royalty ring. Mesmerizing🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:19 AM
25

Oh my God, this one, the TikToks of husbands messiness and the woman who is traumatized after her husband manipulated her into having kids when she was CF... I still see myself being married and with children but honestly if I end up single for all my life I will consider it a blessing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:27 PM
8

I want to have kids and I know that I will have them on my own because I would rather raise them alone than with people like that guy and his abusive mom. Ffs, he was living out of her job. I am sure he is using all this as an excuse to cheat on her. I hope she finds this sub.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:10 AM
7

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:44 PM
34

She said "I don't like him, I don't find him cute" so I assumed she just meant that she did not find him attractive and nothing much more? If not, I totally agree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:42 PM
1

wait what? Can you link that post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:43 AM
16

hellolanemoore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:10 PM
69

Sis, you have described most of the guys we are talking about. I think you forgot to say that they use a 7x1 shampoo but that's about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:24 PM
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And here we are, forcing ourselves to find them attractive in the first place. And then they will go and cheat anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:23 PM
18

✨I gEt AlOng wItH U sO wEll bEcAusE uR nOt lIkE thE oThEr GiRlS ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:26 PM
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“Noooo my male bestie is not abusive nor rapey for pushing another girl to have sex with him when she just broke up with her bf and is feeling like shit. Neither is my pal who tells women he wants to fuck her ass after 10 minutes talking to them. Neither is my bro who forces deep throats and asphyxiates women without their previous consent, he is right when he says that they are all asking for it. Oh wait, but my female friend who yelled at my friend for cheating on her, insulting and giving her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:47 AM
5

He is into petite asians because they are more “tight” 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:02 PM
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I was doing foreplay with my then partner and when he asked if there was going to be anal sex I said that I didn’t feel like it, but that I still wanted PIV. Well, he responded “nah, I was too excited about anal but you said no so I am no longer in the mood” I “forgave” him because he was super depressed because his dad died a few years ago but f that s. He is a misogynist and abusive piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:49 AM
29

Sis, check love-bombing and RUN. He is playing the victim and makes you feel bad for sticking to your boundaries. If he knows where you live/work, be careful. These guys are really creepy. Also, put your insta/fb on private. Never mind what your friends say. Society gaslights women when we want to take things at our own peace. Don’t be afraid of being “bitchy” by their standards. You are not alone🤍
/r/askFDS02/02/21 07:41 PM
48

Sometimes it is their boyfriends who do that without their consent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:37 PM
72

I feel very bad for the girls in gonewild. Their nudes are there forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:49 AM
30

Because ✨tHEy cAn ChANgE thEm✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:35 AM
1

Ladies, imagine being in bed with one of these guys and they have to imagine that you are a fox or a raccoon for their dick to get hard. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:34 AM
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Exactly, this is what ANY grown man should do. This is not even HVM, it is BASIC HUMAN DECENCY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:49 PM
9

I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:43 PM
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This reminds me of the scrotes who sexually harass waitresses. My exNVM and his NVM friends thought it was funny to make a sexual joke to a waitress when they were visiting Japan. Of course, she only laugh because she can’t “cause conflict” in the restaurant. What a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:00 AM
8

My ex also said the “at the end of the day” when explaining to me why faping to gonewild was not cheating. Truth is, even at the end of the day when they are sleeping next to you they will still think about other women. Gross Oh my God. I have never been to the beach with any of my exes but I always feared going there because of the looking. I thought that I was so insecure I could not handle my partner staring at other women, specially if they were topless or with a tongue. Now I see that I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:19 AM
3

Deeply they know it is not OK, but they keep gaslighting. Glad to know you didn’t have to go through that with your LVM. It is funny, it seems that we are super duper lucky if we find guys who don’t consume pornography nor look at other women, when it is really JUST BEING RESPECTFUL TOWARDS WOMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:13 AM
44

Have you tried polyamory???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:30 PM
2

Okay, actually my ex did that.. He knew from the beginning that I am against prostitution so he didn’t tell me because he knew I would not date him. However, he slipped many times the topic of prostitution when talking about coworkers, friends of his dad or even friends of his who worked as prostitutes. I think he did this to check what was my opinion each time and then tell me about his lifestyle when I was more “receptive”. My approach was actually quite bad because he knew from the beginning …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:04 PM
2

It is helping now. I see the changes. Thanks Queen💖
/r/askFDS22/01/21 10:52 PM
9

Same lady: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/klpmob/so_much_respect_for_her_father_inlaw_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I just want to hug her and tell her that even if being alone is scary, it is worth leaving that piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:24 PM
4

He is “dAmAgED, mIsUndErStOood bUt aLwaYs sExy af 🔥”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:39 PM
4

Because you are a queen 👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:18 PM
2

This hurts my heart..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:21 PM
20

It is like “dont move if you dont want this” and then him moving says that he loves it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:08 PM
13

Thank you 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:36 PM
19

I think that it is also that many people have “high empathy” but still lower one towards women issues, since society says that we are shit. I mean, society portraits us like objects, so I think it is not unusual that even people with high empathy levels dont see any problem with the act of sexually degrading women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:33 PM
29

I wish it was like that. Sadly, many of these NVM are viewed as “sexy” because they like kinky sex and feel no shame about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:30 PM
63

Exactly! They want women with mental issues because they are more vulnerable and easier to manipulate. They already start testing you when asking about your kinks 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:50 PM
127

This is why they are like “we like crazy women because of the sex” but then they get tired of them when these women show other sides of the trauma. Those guys behave like sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:37 PM
79

I am so happy that I found this subreddit. Really. Most people around me try to gaslight me when I tell them that pornography and prostitution are disgusting. One of the reasons why my ex dumped me was because of my views towards those industries 😂 Also, the friends we had in common believed his side because of how controlling I am with porn. Excuse me Chad, I just wanted to advocate for basic human rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:36 PM
26

Yes please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:08 PM
20

I feel that the “attractive” bar for men is sooooo low. Come on ladies, most of them use the 7x1 soap, have hairdresser-phobia, wear 8 colors at once, havent cleaned up their stove nor the back of the couch since 2015 (or since the house was bought/rented) and their dicks are smelly. But as long as they show “confidence” in a cocky way, know politically incorrect jokes, neg women and are kinky in bed, they are “sexy”. Men who take care of themselves, are funny, have clear goals in life and bring…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:55 AM
14

It is also nice to block the guy friends who are LVM 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:09 AM
7

And I mean, the guy posting this is still not being too harsh on his friend. What do you think it would have happened if he was writing about a girl who used to cheat on his bf and then wanted to come back when he was engaged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:37 AM
9

I wish I left him. I suffered because he discarded me, but now I realize he did me a favor. I accepted most of his behavior back then because every time that I stated what bugged me, he would remind me that he was abused in his relationships and that his dad died. I struggled against it and always ended up forgiving him. Arg..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:27 PM
19

My ex always threatened to break up with me every time I told him that men can’t always talk about feminism since they haven’t been in our shoes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:07 PM
9

The audacity lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:07 PM
21

Because a 27 yo woman is more difficult to manipulate than one who is 18-21. Easy. They actually start to freak out when we reach 22 or 23
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:06 PM
21

This is not a trait of a HVM, this just common human decency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:16 AM
10

The kinkers also lack basic emotional connections. They are not interested in detailed foreplay like SOFTLY kissing your neck, shoulders, waist, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:07 AM
26

“In what universe someone would want to cuddle a stranger?” Because of hookup culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:49 AM
4

Tell him that you dont want to catch covid
/r/askFDS16/01/21 08:47 AM
1

Yup, I knew you referred to the girl who said that his bf had also been with prostitutes and that she didnt care. They are a danger to humankind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:35 AM
2

It is abuse and rape. He is a rapist because he knew that if she was aware of his depravity she wouldn’t have slept with him. Now she is believing this “accept him for who he is” bullshit because she already has a strong bond with him. She is emotional dependent on him and it is difficult to leave, so she is trying to convince herself that “this is not that bad” because processing this fcking shit is very traumatic. I dont think this woman is a PickMe, just that her response is a defense mechani…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:05 AM
28

I was called abusive by my ex bff because I told my ex to not let sleep his exfwb at his place. Oh, that exfwb told him to cheat on me and my ex still hanged out with him. I told him that still talking to him was super disrespectful towards me. Well, him and his bff told me that was emotional blackmail. Demanding fcking respect was emotional blackmail according to those NVMs. Please throw people like that to the trash. I have better health, lost 2kg and performed way better at my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:44 AM
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I am saying goodbye to men who say “I would really just f* anyone” Toxic as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:28 AM
3

Im so sorry you had to go through that. You are not alone❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:32 AM
3

Yeah but in those two months he has probably love bombed her like hell. She might have been emotionally dependent on him by then, and this is why she was considering not leaving him. Of course, if she knew from day 1 she would have ran
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:31 AM
1

He told her because he is testing her. Like, “if she can live with this, then I can manipulate her even harder, do horrible things to her and have fun with it” This is why narcissist/sociopaths/psychopats will, from time to time, confess to their partners some of the horrible things they have done. It is not because they have remorse or that they “trust” their partner/want to be better. It is to set a bar for the next manipulations. We all need to be aware of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:30 AM
3

And she will feel really anxious when she wants to discuss her needs/other issues, because she thinks “if he gets mad at me, he will go with another prostitute” It is manipulation since day 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:26 AM
3

The gaslighting is real and so dangerous. Imagine having friends like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:24 AM
13

Oh my God, I didn’t even think of it but you are so right. What else is he hiding from her? I would not be surprised if he has beaten one of his partners or attempted to murder someone. Im deadly serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:21 PM
70

Or: My boyfriend sent nudes to all my female friends, hit my dog, talks shit about my parents and has pedophile porn. AITA for telling him to please not being so mean? He got me a cheeto ring yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:28 PM
40

Also, told her AFTER THEY SLEPT TOGETHER. What if she caught an STD? Fucking human garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:09 PM
63

And spreading STDs without shame nor guilt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:08 PM
25

His mommy issues still haunt him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:07 PM
1

I mean, there are PickMes in the gaming community but I know that it is because they believe they are not worth of real love nor HVM. The scrotes know this and take advantage of them. Some are almost 30 and talk to girls who are 19-20 and very naive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:02 PM
41

The audacity of the scrotes :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:57 PM
38

Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:57 PM
50

Ladies, after commenting here I got this DM: “just wanted to that guy is based he is treating women with the respect they deserve. He should spit on her” Male depravity again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:42 PM
60

Really, why is this even normal? Porn sick society that risks women’s health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:30 PM
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Okay, I knew that relationship_advice was a dumpster but I just need to rant about this one. It is from one year ago, but I stumbled across it since I recently went through something similar. This woman is concerned because, AFTER SLEEPING WITH HIM, he tells her that he has been with prostitutes before. At first he says 5, and then she asks again and number goes up to 11. Well, the answers are disgusting 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 People gaslighting her with phrases like “he is honest because he loves you”, “he was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:19 PM
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Wait WHAT But well, I dont even know I am surprised at this point. Male depravity has no limits. Thank God she is his ex-wife now. If she stayed with him longer she would end up 6 feet under.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:06 PM
169

No one in this forum believes this piece of shit loves his wife. This is just to tell the world that “she is the one who turned a bad boy into a good man” I can’t even imagine the gaslighting and sexual abuse she must be suffering 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:18 PM
3

https://s2.thcdn.com///productimg/960/960/11324335-4784818372325074.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:00 PM
7

Go No Contact as soon as possible. Get rid of the gifts and anything that reminds you of him. Block family members/friends in common/flying monkeys who could reach out to you. This might be uncomfortable but I think you also struggle(d) to leave him because you think about the good times he will have with another woman, specially in the first few weeks, also called love bombing. Girl, he already made sure you would turn insecure and afraid to leave him/stand up for yourself, because you would be…
/r/askFDS14/01/21 12:38 PM
17

And then they tell the story to their next girlfriend/fwb. “This is why I am afraid of commitment. Im just too afraid to hurt the feelings of someone who I really love, again. I am a piece of shit and I dont deserve love” And so many women fall for this. They believe that if they give those guys “enough love” they wont be jerks to them. And then acting surprised when they do the same to them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:19 PM
2

Worst thing is when they take advantage of new gamer girls through Discord. You know, they type “Im not like the other girls hehehe oops my boobs are all over the place and Im horny 24/7” But then the guys say “hey, she is just a friend that I spend 5 hours gaming/coaching with every now and then. I dont get why you are jealous, we are not even flirting. Common, sexual jokes, telling each other what we like in bed and asking for her cosplay pictures does not give you the right to get mad at me. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:16 PM
4

Congrats Queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:11 PM
177

PickMe women like her are a danger for young girls. They normalize rape, degradation, male depravation and of course putting their physical and mental health at risk. No wonder why many people dont believe abused women. The scrotes, both NVM and PickMes, keep defending violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:05 PM
69

My NVM ex promised me before the lockdown in March that he would cut and fix his messy hair. Well, his hair is now past his shoulders and he still uses the 7x1 soaps lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:07 PM
11

This is synonym of high self esteem 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:04 PM
11

Why does he sound like a 8 year old after learning how to multiply?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:34 PM
3

It is sick that we have to explain people why porn is harmful to relationships. They even try to shame us: prude, stupid, childish standards.. Glad to told that guy to fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:31 PM
30

“Ever considered that he is supporting his friend?” I can’t even xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:05 PM
7

In the rare cases that they change: NVM/LVM to feminist/ally: they just want sex and attention. They pretend to care so that women lower their guards and open up to them. Bad men dont change their values, they learn how to build better masks. Seriously, the cases where a guy with a dirty room and 0 hygiene changes to a clean and decent man is because they marry a woman who becomes their second mom and is always taking care of him. Thanks to FDS we learn to not lower standards and not acting like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:02 PM
5

Yes, no longer with that human crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:03 AM
11

I want to clarify, since many of you ladies say the best is to not say a thing about sleeping with prostitutes in the past: he confessed that he would have never told me because I am a prude and barely talk about sex in public, that I dont tolerate the sex jokes, etc. It is not just because of the STDs, it is that I dont want anything to do with a man who pays to get sex. Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:49 AM
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This is the same type of guy who would mock FDS for being anti-porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:15 AM
53

I hate when men act as if they have no clue of what’s going on. They force us to explain stuff to them as if they were toddlers, just so that they complain about us being too pushy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:53 PM
3

Oh, I remember that my ex told me that 3-4 women sexually harassed him at work. He also said that those women did the same to other guys, so my old PickMe personality wanted to believe he was not trying to make me emotional. Then he said that more than 5 women, throughout his life had sexually harassed him, that he had 3 stalkers, that at least 5 hooked up with him while he was drunk and he couldn’t consent, and more than 5 sent him unsolicited nudes. They just want us to feel pity for them. Tru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:16 PM
29

When after one day they say they’re in love with you. 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:04 PM
122

LVM is gaslighting his wife in one of the most stressful times of her life. This is beyond cruelty. It is fucking abusive. He is doing all this shit because it is difficult for her to leave and she is almost forced to put up with it. She even thinks she is the crazy one. This is the time the nightmare happens. I hope she is having a scape and zero contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:58 PM
26

Careful, she is pro-sexwork
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:39 AM
10

What scares me the most is that she says “I can’t figure out.. if either of us is wrong”. Listen ladies, a part of her believes that he might be entitled to his behavior. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:27 PM
87

The wife is laughing as a defense mechanism. She is dying inside and I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:28 PM
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