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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:49 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:22 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:20 AM
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SCROTES MADmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:08 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:22 AM
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DISCUSSIONmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:45 AM
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FDS HUMORmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:45 AM
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FDS HUMORmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:14 AM
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LIES MEN TELLmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:27 AM
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SEX STRATEGYmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:20 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:26 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 05:10 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:44 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:35 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:56 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:59 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:05 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:09 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:05 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:43 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:55 AM
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FDS HUMORmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:41 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:07 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶mysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:18 AM
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FDS HUMORmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:15 AM
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PICKME CULTUREmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:21 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tmysecretdiary2/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:50 PM
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Current man I am dating, as soon as he sees I am dressing up (not necessarily special occasion, but just random days, I like to do that sometimes). He’s like: “I can’t let you go out like this alone” and jumps into his room to match my effort. Not sure how dressing nice shouldn’t be just a given…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:42 PM
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I wonder what he means with, she’s not enthusiastic for blowjobs. Oral sex is something gentle and loving, and it’s all about the partners pleasure. I bet he wants her to act like some porn star or he treats her as a flashlight. Both not very enjoyable things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:55 PM
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I know!! 👀 everyone got blinded by how much their wedding cost and all that crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:00 PM
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Ha yeah. Jay Chou is a disgusting pedo as well. His and his wife’s backstory is also 😒😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:16 AM
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Well, if she’s been manipulated since she was really young, it’s no wonder. Sometimes it’s hard to get out. But I’m glad she did. And she has prepared all the receipts she needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:16 AM
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Absolutely. Don’t marry young, figure out your life first, gain life experience, learn how to read people. I’m glad she woke up now and is fighting for her rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:42 PM
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More info: 1. Wang Leehom met her when she was 16, and started to be in touch with her and flirted etc. . (Ew disgusting grooming alert.) 2. Narcissist, sex addiction, serial cheating. 3. Used her innocence and youth to have her sign an unfair prenup. 4. Calls the marriage to her a big burden because she “forced” him to, after getting pregnant otherwise she would’ve denied him his children 🙄 (very common in these parts of the world to marry if the guy got her pregnant) Etc. just because he’s ric…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:47 PM
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I don’t think she’s trying to undermine you. She’s trying to have a conversation and empathize in the best way possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:06 AM
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I think a good mix of effort and money spent is good. I love experiences, or things that I wouldn’t usually buy myself. Thoughtful and with lots of care. I grew up in a household, where I was usually made quiet when I was upset or angry with something expensive to make me shut up, so just buying some generic pricey gift wouldn’t do it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 10:07 PM
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If you are not the only one the man looks at during a date you can seriously just “next” him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:43 AM
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I know! I never really had anything against Christine. She just seemed quite straightforward and nice. Sometimes a bit unhinged with her words but she always apologized afterwards. I really don’t get all the hate towards her. She seemed like the nicest of all of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:16 AM
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And she was making such a big deal about that man she dated and he wouldn’t lie and yadadada. Christine is the crazy one and he said she was crazy. If a man calls a woman crazy my red flag alarms are going off full time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:05 AM
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I was wondering if I was the only one who didn’t hate on Christine. Like, this woman nearly died in childbirth, days after looks like an absolut goddess, selling multimillion dollar houses. Emma seems like a pick me and the useless man they all dated was probably lying anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:17 AM
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She’s glowing! And that house she bought Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:15 AM
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Uhm, as a dog owner who has a dog who hates violence and interferes even when I just silly smack my friends arm or sth. My dog never felt the need to protect me from sex (No matter how loud and wild it got). So this is super concerning 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:45 AM
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Yeah, that’s what I thought as well. Chrishelle blossomed up after getting rid of that awful ex husband. I don’t know anything about him, however someone who texts his wife that they are divorcing can’t be a good human anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:52 AM
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The only type of doms I like 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:17 AM
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He never touches any women at the waist. It’s always that hover 😱🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:33 AM
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Gilgamesh from Eternals 😍 That man cooks, cleans, provides & protects without wanting anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:05 PM
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I remember spending some time in China for an internship and I met this young woman, who was banned from dating men. But when she hit 25 it changed and she was forced to go on dates by her parents and brother ALL the time. Suddenly she had to be married NOW! Sometimes, she would see the dude and straight up just turn around and leave, cause the guy was just so ugly, or she just didn’t feel like going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:32 AM
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Me too!! Now I know better. It’s usually because something is massively wrong in the relationship. Turns out with a loving, caring partner there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. I’ve spoken to friends about it and they felt the same way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:55 PM
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Absolutely. The first time I became intimate with my new partner I cried. I cried because I realized how fucked up sex was for me before that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:50 AM
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Sounds familiar. I went to therapy and read self help books about my sexuality to figure out what’s wrong with me. Always had to use lube, cause I was dry, thought it came from birth control. Well, turns out I was just not aroused because the man was incompetent. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with me 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:28 PM
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What I have realized though, it’s really unfortunate. But I have seen many women around me they had to go through shitty experiences with shitty guys or through a “hoe phase” before they actually understand what I’ve been trying to tell them all along. Like so many women are so brainwashed by libfem culture, that whatever I try to tell them eg. let a guy treat you, don’t sleep with somebody right away, etc. etc. it doesn’t go through their brains. And then after getting burnt at some point they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:13 AM
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Yeah, it’s something I never really wanted to dwell on. But it’s important to think about it and process I think, for growth as well and understanding where my own issues lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:11 PM
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I always wondered if my father had some sort of effect on me. He certainly did with other abusive behavior but I was wondering if any of it was of sexual nature. You guys comments are basically confirming it. Which is blowing my mind right now… 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:30 PM
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I love Moissanite. The way they look, the ethical and environmental part of it. I don’t want a diamond because of its ambiguous background and it’s impact on nature. However, the way he talks is disgusting. I have a friend who took me in when I had nothing and helped me find a job. I am forever, ever grateful and wouldn’t spare a dime helping her or making her happy (regularly send her flowers and gifts because I know she loves it). If he can afford it and he doesn’t even though that’s sth she r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:32 AM
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Oh he destroyed him with a whole song dedicated I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:12 AM
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Through work :) (not coworkers, he was a client) We knew of each other’s existence for a while before he asked me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 08:02 AM
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My first date with my current (to still be vetted but so far lots of green flags) Partner: - we went to this really cute, high end chocolatier for hot chocolate - then went to have dinner at this famous (not fancy, but), super yummy local little restaurant - went for a walk to walk off all the food and ended up at this cultural art center where you can shop around and look at things. On later dates we would do more activity based things, like going bow shooting, or exploring little local markets…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:12 AM
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Also, notice the way he uses his fingers. How does he use them. Does he know how to handle and touch things delicately and softly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:29 PM
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Also baby Formular tastes god awful 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:00 AM
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I know right. That’s why! I’ve just seen so much crap these days. Needed some serotonin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:58 AM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:58 AM
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Yeah, that’s why! I think there are many good men out there. These past few days I’ve just seen crack head news everywhere. I need some positives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:57 AM
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Hey babe! I think you did well! You didn’t actually message him. And truth to be told. There’s no such thing as closure. People never react the way we want them to anyway… Being lonely and sad is so normal. It’s okay to feel this way. Because at the end of the day you are grieving. Break ups are like grief. You need to let yourself go through those stages. Before it gets better :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:06 AM
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Guys with big dicks suck at sex though (often…) 😅 They think having a big pp is all there’s needed to satisfy a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:17 PM
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Yeah.. that’s what I figured as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:04 AM
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Just the way she went on and on about how terrible she is and her OCD and it’s her fault he needs to put up with her etc. Very typical behavior of someone who gets abused and gaslighted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:04 AM
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Working on the nightlife industry taught me one thing. Don’t be nice to men. Resting bitch face only. The meaner you look the better it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:43 AM
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Porn back then also had lots of natural hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:56 PM
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Fred and George were pretty good men tbh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:31 AM
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What really disturbs me about posts like this is: You would never do that to a random friend. How much does he hate her??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:25 PM
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There’s nothing more unsexy than a dumb guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:08 AM
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I think the same goes for having big boobs, or nice hair, or nice legs. Men will always find a way to harass you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:24 PM
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Ohh yes. Gentle men are the best. Confident, gentle and kind men, so sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:39 AM
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Previous club PR here. Women are treated like pieces of meats, literally, it’s disgusting. (One of the reasons I quit tbh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:33 AM
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I’m so sorry that this type of stuff happens. I live in a very, very safe country and most people are polite enough not to ask weird questions at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:18 AM
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What sub is that? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:04 AM
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My father was terrible. When I was younger before my teens he was ok. Seemed very sweet, nice, provided for my mum and me. But the older I got the more he showed that he was a controlling, misogynistic, narcissistic asshole. So what can you do. I lived with it and I went to therapy as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:37 AM
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It goes for everything though. Paperwork, visa applications etc etc. DON’T DO ANYTHING FOR THEM. I see it soo much always the wives, gfs, girls they sleep with who are their babysitters basically for ANYTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:37 PM
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Yeah, same. Had an ex with a big one. Was not nice at all. I like a good average size 😆 The likelihood to cum is also a lot higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:17 PM
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Because we literally live in a society build on the belief that “Penis” is god. We moved from believing that women and their power to give birth was magical to dick as the symbol of power. When that wasn’t enough to get rid of religious believes of “the goddess and her magical vagina” they had to move on to the one true god. If you want to know more read: “Who cooked the last supper: The Women’s History of the World”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:16 PM
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I think it was a joke with either friend or bf or sth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:24 AM
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😂😂you have put my feelings into words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:14 AM
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😂LOL what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:49 PM
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Lots of German men are super cheap and stingy though. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:09 PM
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Also, if this incident really happened accidentally any halfway decent man would be horrified for BREAKING someone’s rip??? Accompanying you to the ER should be the least someone can do??! Like what in the hell is this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:43 AM
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Oh and no ones making cookies and organizing team activities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:55 AM
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I believe that meeting men in the wild is one of the best things you can do. You can immediately scan people right away. Their mannerisms, their clothing, the way they speak, what they say, how they say it etc. It’s easy and it allows you to not waste time. Online dating is terrible, because you never know what you get … The so far HVM man I am dating I’ve met in the wild. I don’t think we’ve ever would’ve dated if we’d matched online. His texting is terrible. I think being able to chat up peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:17 AM
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Omg. Did we date the same man 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:48 AM
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I didn’t. But my ex..😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:53 AM
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I know someone who is very into games (online, video, board games). But he loves to share his hobbies with everyone around him. And limits the time he plays single player games to when he is alone. But if there’s other people he would want to involve everyone with eg. board games. I’ve dated a man before who would play shooting games all day and it’s completely different. As soon as his gaming affects his daily life I think it’s a deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:10 AM
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Ha. Or they don’t finish until dinner is cold and you just sat there eating your dinner alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:07 AM
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I’ve put the word simp in “” on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:57 AM
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There is enough videos as well of him where he teaches his son how to take care of his mother and sister. It’s beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:57 AM
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Which is why I put it into “” :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:55 AM
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Seriously, never again. “If I am not coming, no one is coming!” New motto 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:00 AM
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Omg is this me. Pick-me past me accepted no orgasms because “I was fine without it” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:56 AM
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It looks very sweet! (However I wouldn’t want sth like this, the flower pedals on the bed would make me anxious…😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:50 AM
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This is so crazy like any normal family would just pay for her food most of the time if they’d knew she can’t afford it like..?? And if he actually liked her he would pay for most of it?? I don’t know but like what the hell? My family is not rich but my parents would never let my friend pay for dinner or food in general if we would go on vacation together. I don’t know is this some weird white people thing I don’t get?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:55 AM
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I have purple silver hair, wear dark blue lipstick and have have tattoos. I’m the cool woman I’ve always wanted to be as a little girl hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:14 AM
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I did forget one thing! He inspires me to be a better person in my personal life and career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:43 PM
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Aww you’re so sweet, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:47 AM
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I think part of it is that I’ve had mayor life changes in the past year and that made me realize what is really important in life. Most importantly what helped me is that I grew as a person and I really stepped up and cut out people, or stopped hanging out with people that weren’t good for me. That made me realize that only when you’re living a good life, growing, learning, being a better person that’s when you’ll easily see through BS men and people in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:46 AM
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He is quite lovely indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:58 PM
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Early 30’s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:57 PM
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I don’t want to get into details. However, I’ll try :) We had our fair share of he thought she thought. I thought he didn’t care and he thought I was constantly annoyed. We both assumed that we knew what the other was thinking but turns out we didn’t. I’m terrible at voicing things because of my past. And he’s terrible at voicing things as well because he doesn’t want to make me stress, cry or upset. Over time and many, many sit downs and talks he communicated what his thought process was like a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:55 PM
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Yeah I didn’t have the best experiences with OLD either. But I also didn’t really spend much time on it! I know people who have met great partners on there… so I don’t know 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:37 AM
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I never openly asked him about his porn use. I think over time we’ve become quite comfortable speaking about our wants and needs when it comes to sex. And we talk about masturbation and all types of topics. Usually, when you talk about things like these you’ll figure it out overtime. If a dude is unwilling or embarrassed etc. to talk maturely about sex he’s not the one. We don’t live together but spend some time at each other’s places. Private circumstances do sort of not allow us to live togeth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:03 AM
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Yes that’s my mindset. I don’t think anyone is perfect but being able to resolve all types of issues in a healthy matter I think is the most important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:56 AM
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I met him in person through a work setting. We weren’t coworkers though. We’ve had a lot of polite conversations and he decided to pursue me after getting to know me better and making sure I wasn’t taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:55 AM
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Who doesn't have doubts? Marriage is a big, big step and shouldn't be decided lightly and on a whim. Writing these posts and sharing my thoughts and feelings is a way for me to reflect as well. This sub has helped me see a lot of things from a very different perspective and just over 2 years ago I thought I would marry a very different man. And thank god I didn't I would've been miserable. At the end of the day, this is a dating sub and I think it's important for everyone to share their stories.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:15 AM
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I’m fascinated by my body being able to create life. It must be an interesting experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:01 AM
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That’s disgusting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:33 PM
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That’s amazing! And I’m glad you can spend your time fulfilled and happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:47 PM
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The thing is, she doesn’t even enjoy her life!! She’s just nervous all the time and doesn’t want to do anything because she’s scared. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:58 AM
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My mother had a friend who married very, very young. Her husband was older but he never let her work a day in his life. After he passed he made sure that she had enough financial means to never have to work until she dies. The only unfortunate thing is because he took care of her like this she’s so insecure and has no idea what to do with her life. Like she’s a life idiot literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:29 AM
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The thing is, how does he not think to offer to help? Like, if that would be my room mate I’d be like: Yo, need some help? And this is his girlfriend??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:16 AM
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I do think that in those type of dynamics the wife can and is supposed to invest some of the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:16 AM
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No, no! I didn’t mean to say you were judgmental!! You might be completely right. I was saying that I might judge them wrongly. I just wanted to point out that that type of body language is commonly found with Asian couples. But I can’t judge because I don’t know them very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:14 AM
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I wasn’t even aware until you pointed it out. However, i don’t know their content very well so I can’t judge. It might be that they are not very comfortable with public affection. They are Asian after all and I see similar awkward body languages in a lot of Asian couples. Especially older ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:48 AM
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I didn’t even realize the way he phrased it! But yes that should be the norm!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:03 AM
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Yes! Having passions that they are following, goals in life, so sexy! And like you said when you can actually ask for advice in something they might be more knowledgeable about and they are happy to help because they want to help you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:45 AM
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Kindness and patience, especially with children and pets If they’re gentle If they work on their minds, and try to learn new things all the time can hold an intelligent discussion without getting mad or sulky intelligence in general is just sexy thoughtfulness problem solving skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:41 AM
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I do think that is a thing though. I remember an old friend of my dad, he is a power lifter, his wife as well, and he had a little belly but it was rock hard, all muscle. But it wasn’t flat. So it really depends. Back where I grew up a lot of the men have really muscular bodies, just a bit of a belly (not necessarily all flubby though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:29 AM
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I always thought dad bods where big bulky men with a little belly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:36 PM
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Na, definitely not culture. Japanese men are toxic yes, but they do take pride in being the providers. Meaning they buy houses, pay for everything etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:24 PM
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Last time this happened to me was when some idiot wanted to discuss with me that male circumcision in the states was as bad as female genital mutilation in Africa. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:42 AM
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Yeah that’s why I have a throwaway account that I delete regularly. You just collect too much information over time. But I do have to say though, I’m fucking gorgeous, it’s a treat to just lay eyes on me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:39 AM
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Man I have full respect for people who are very open for communication. Life fucks us all all the time but if you’re able to properly communicate and talk about what you feel and why things are the way they are. Women are able to handle it. What we don’t like is half truths, lies and gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:15 AM
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Ohh! Yes. It’s the same with my partner now. We rarely want to fuck just exploring each other’s bodies and enjoying the sensations is so beautiful and intimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:07 AM
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It’s hilarious 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:10 PM
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Yeah, she said: my stupid ex So ..😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:09 PM
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It’s ok. It’s not the first time I’ve heard this, also not really creative either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:08 PM
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I’m guessing cause I did upload some few videos where I was playing around with some Tik tok trend. And you can see that I’m Asian? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:47 AM
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Challenge him mentally. I do that a lot with men, it helps me gauge their reactions. If they take it with grace it’s usually a good sign. If they get all pouty well you have your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:09 AM
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Typical story. We started dating very young I had a savior complex, build him up as a person but I myself grew a lot faster and matured a lot faster. In the end he felt insecure by my ideas and achievements and he felt insecure by the people I surrounded myself with. He ended up cheating with his new “girl best friend” who was a lot younger and from why I know she was probably super impressed by him. While I lost respect for him because he didn’t really have any ambition and was basically a man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:17 AM
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Omg yes. Me too. I managed to make him look halfway decent with well fitted pants and shirts, told him to start using deodorant and to shave clean because his attempt at growing a beard was just sad. Once he looked halfway decent he cheated because he was insecure. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:12 AM
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Possibly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:11 AM
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Dated an athletic dude so you don’t have to: - Massive alpha male Syndrom - Extremely self-righteous - Narcissist with victim complex - Everything is a competition, needs to win over you in ANYTHING, and beware doing the same sport as him - Thinks he can eat trash cause he is working out all the time - Smelly - Has lots of endurance in bed however it’s useless cause he’s not delicate enough to figure out how to make a woman cum - Shitty sense of style - No professional ambition, gets sense of pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:09 AM
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Argh. I had an ex who would always walk faster than me and complain about how slow I am, even on holidays. Like where the fuck are you running off to, we’re on holidays?? Oh and we did both Muay Thai (I should’ve known better but my dumb ass didn’t.) and training with him was a nightmare. He would berate me for not picking up things fast enough and he’d be really bad when sparring as well. Being much too rough for no reason. The man I’m dating now would never. He always holds my hand and makes s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:44 AM
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Yeah, I think that was actually true. It’s been a while since this scandal. Because media was critiquing not having a male flight attendant on board for security reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:38 AM
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Also, Eva Air is a terribly sexist airline. They love hiring young inexperienced flight attendants cause they are easier to bully (by the company). And they’re turnover rate is super high. I’ve spoken to other flight attendants and they would’ve flat out refused to do this, with no repercussions. But at Eva air they know you’ll get fired. That flight as I remember didn’t even have a male flight attendant that could’ve helped. And he had two more flights lined up and Eva air didn’t bother cancell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:38 PM
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I have healed wonderfully from it thank you :) I hope you take some time to take care of yourself as well ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:21 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my LVM of a father to cancer as well and unfortunately till the end his initial reaction to anything was always aggression. Always attacking me and everyone around. I have found a lot of excuses for his behavior but I feel like it could’ve been different. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:43 PM
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Omg what did I just read??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:25 AM
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Yes women always make the first move. They usually do it so subtlety that men think they did the first move. Lol. But honey nooo things just happened the way she wanted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:05 AM
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I can also recommend doing BJJ or Muay Thai classes. Especially BJJ for smaller women is a must. You’ll learn all the small tips and tricks that can help you escape out of an impossible situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:38 AM
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Well I did go to therapy because I had anger issues and my emotions went rampant. Turns out that rage manifested because I realized he raped me through coercion. I have to say though therapy was the best thing that happened to me. Worked through a lot of shit (also stuff with my narcissistic parents) and when the relationship ended I only felt lightness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:18 AM
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I think it’s a cliche you don’t have to explain! It works in short videos where you’re trying to make a point. But yes, beauty lies in the eye of the beholder and fortunately we know that :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:47 AM
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The only thing that’s good about this is you can weed them out easily. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:26 AM
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I dated someone for 5 years who was struggling with anger issues. He would blow up at the littlest of things! I would forget something and he’d be angry etc. Growing up in an abusive household it was difficult to swallow because it made me scared and I automatically think the anger is directed towards me even though it wasn’t. In hindsight I should’ve seen this as a big fat red flag. If he has anger issues he needs to go to therapy and not expect everyone around him to cater towards him. I ended…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:19 AM
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Omg that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:55 AM
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I think I have realized over the years that a man who is successful usually doesn’t boast about it. You just know by the way he behaves. Never take whatever they say for serious, but look at how he behaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:52 AM
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I‘ve been doing martial arts for nearly 10 years now. Most men would not be able to beat me in a fight. They might be physically stronger but that doesn’t make you win a fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:59 AM
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I’ve been repeating the same thing over and over with girlfriends If he doesn’t put effort in he’s not the one. No feelings till he has proven he is worthy of your feelings. I think I’m slowly getting through their heads 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:36 AM
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This is why I used to believe feminism is stupid. Libfems were the ones most prominent and my first encounter with so called “feminism”. Years later I understand that I can believe in men having to provide for me, if I choose to be with one and be a feminist as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:00 AM
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I had a really great conversation about feminism with my boyfriend after watching this show. I was so mad that all these things that happen in the show to women are still happening. So in a sense it triggered, at least for me a lot of conversations with girlfriends as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:12 AM
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I was wondering that too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:08 AM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:52 PM
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Can confirm if they want a relationship they’ll make it clear very soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:13 AM
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RIGHT?! Omg! That was also the point where I was like: Urgh of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah it’s the typical ultimate pick me goal. Turning the “bad boy” in her magical prince. puke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:55 AM
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It definitely was very entertaining and I enjoyed watching it and I agree with the other points as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:54 AM
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Also, posture. Men have terrible posture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:23 AM
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Argh. Reminds me how my ex’s dad would take me out for dinner when I stayed over sometimes and was alone at home in the evening because my ex was in the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:35 AM
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I’d rather cry with a Chanel bag than without😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:27 AM
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I mean I guess? If someone makes you wild just be kissing you there must be something about it? 😄 Also, some dudes have no clue how to eat you out, so it does absolutely nothing for you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:36 AM
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I get vaginal orgasms every blue moon if it’s just hits the right ankle. And that’s fine with me. And there’s many more things you can play with then just penis. But that’s my opinion though only. I feel sexuality varies so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:35 AM
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It’s something I still struggle with to be very honest. I spent so much time in a relationship where it’s all about him getting off that I don’t know what it means to enjoy. But having the right person is a big help especially when he takes his time to pleasure you and you feel like you have all the time of the world. No pressure to perform or service and that is worth a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:53 AM
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The thing I would immediately break up for: disrespect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:55 AM
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Rich and handsome men usually tend to be quite shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:40 AM
1

I do like some face sitting though 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:44 AM
1

And as soon as men stop focusing on the wrong things they might find out why they are not popular with women. 6+ ft and salary is not the actual point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:07 AM
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I agree. Most men are so obsessed with 6+ feet Chads that they forget that’s not the point. Being someone who grows as a person all the time. Puts effort into their life and relationships that’s the actual point. But it’s easier to say that all women are to be blamed for their “high standards” lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:04 AM
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oh it gets funnier: “That’s way beyond being a functional member of society. The fact that you think that a majority of men can reach those unrealistic goals is one of the big problems with women today. The man I listed above pretty much doesn’t exist but you think he’s average” I’m very entertained today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:00 AM
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Yup. Being a functional member of society is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:25 AM
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The bar for men is underground. Has nothing to do with being Chad or not. And if the underground is B1 or B2, you know it doesn’t make too much difference lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:02 AM
1

Average looking men are no better than Chad. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:13 AM
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A lot of people are worried about the covid vaccine. And they’re worried what the chemicals are etc. Online there is a running joke about if you do certain things you don’t need to worry about what in the vaccine is. Eg.: “when you inhale a random vape at a club you don’t get to worry about what’s in the vaccine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:28 AM
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My ex cheated with his “girl best friend”. She knew about me and went for him anyway. He was trash enough to allow it. Trash goes with trash so they can have each other lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:12 AM
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I am currently dating a man without social media. He has an Instagram account but he never uses it. So basically Just messenger apps for work. And I’m really okay with that. Actually I prefer it this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:19 AM
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😂I don’t even know what to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:11 AM
2

Still vetting, I still feel like it could all just be a facade and I’m overlooking something important. But so far I find it enjoyable and so I’m just going to enjoy the time for now, but keep observing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:44 AM
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It’s also funny though because I still keep thinking that it’s all a facade and it will slip. I’ve seen too many people who are not like this that I don’t really trust it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:42 AM
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I’m going to keep it a little vague, due to privacy reasons. But generally speaking at work. My work is somewhat semi public and you can get a membership and use the facilities. He’s seen me there and met me briefly couple of years ago and over time he would sometimes show up. And sometime last year he ended up buying a membership just for the purpose of getting to know me better. At some point beginning this year he just ended up asking me out. He told me that after the first time he met me he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:41 AM
2

I’m going to keep it a little vague, due to privacy reasons. But generally speaking at work. My work is somewhat semi public and you can get a membership and use the facilities. He’s seen me there and met me briefly couple of years ago and over time he would sometimes show up. And sometime last year he ended up buying a membership just for the purpose of getting to know me better. At some point beginning this year he just ended up asking me out. He told me that after the first time he met me he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:40 AM
2

One month into knowing him I was barely acknowledging the fact that I am dating him 😂 Only recently I’ve been starting to really feel more secure with who he is due to the time we’ve so far spent with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:35 AM
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Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:49 AM
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This reminds me of when I was 13 and on holidays in Italy with my parents. There were those black men in the beach selling jewelry and bags to tourists and this one dude straight up walks up to my mum and me pointing to me saying: “let’s make cappuccino babies!” Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:20 PM
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At least kids can give you joy and they are lovely to be with. Childish men? Not so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:38 AM
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The second I read: she crossed the bridge every day to see him, I knew this is gonna go sideways. Why is she crossing the bridge and not the young man? Moral of the story, don’t chase men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:04 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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