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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:11 PM
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Yesterday I was banned from r feminism! I have no idea why I never post and respond seldomly! I think I would have been upset. But, I remember reading here that a lot of these subredits were run by men. I'm not mad at all! I think I've also gotten more ok with like, disagreeing with other feminists or other people in groups I identify with. I don't need to make sure that what I think and say is going to be approved by everyone! (They definitely do not do that for me lol). This is a sign that my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:42 PM
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I'm called out. Guilty as charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:11 PM
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Weeeiirrrdddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:53 PM
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Ugh. I'm also like floored that he felt like he needed to clap-back. Like you didn't do anything you just... Stopped talking to him. At a party where you're supposed to talk to a lot of people.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:36 PM
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🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:08 PM
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Let's!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:48 PM
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Yeah... That was a heartbreaking lesson. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:48 PM
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I had a family member take the side of a friend over me. Ouch. Bros before fam?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:58 AM
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Any suggestions on who to watch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:09 AM
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I'm vegan too. Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:07 AM
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Now that you say it... I DO enjoy this process of leveling up! Thank you got sharing your story! I relate to it a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:25 AM
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Right?? Women's centers have clubs and things! Such an advantage! What should men do?? Uh... Also join clubs and things?!? They criticize affirmative action so hard, but now they are totally doing it for themselves. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:57 AM
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Thank you for posting the whole thing! Ugh it's worse than I thought it would be 🤮 I can't believe this publication published this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:54 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:42 AM
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I know it's not the context but I got this image while reading,: Someone: pointing at pregnant woman "You don't see men doing this!" Me: uuummm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:11 AM
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Great post! I need a clarification... Sandman... By Metallica?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:04 AM
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🥳 Go Queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:58 PM
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😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:28 PM
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Looool. But also: u Ugh 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:26 PM
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Off. I didn't get to that part. It's worse than I thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:26 PM
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Yeah, move out the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:25 PM
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I didn't know that! Thank you for talking about it. Huh. Gives me a whole different take!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:24 PM
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Of my gosh YES. I just started working got my self I and need everything I learned! I also need things I haven't learned yet, but, don't stop me now! All cylinders gooooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:23 PM
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I just had this conversation with a man actually. He was like "all the women do a really good job! Like... Better!" I said "THIS is why men want us out of the work force. They KNOW that are not doing a good job. And know we will do better and ruin the party." And maybe they do need more mental health services or something. Who built the world without that? Men. The increase in mental health services and women's advancement is like... Not a coincidence, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:19 PM
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OMG I realize that now. SORRY QUEEN! You are so right. 🤘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:29 PM
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Oh I'm not slamming the trades! I'm a tradesperson. But becoming a tradesperson will not be the magic wand for these men. Will it help many? Probably! But the ones who are lazy and entitled and don't self reflect will not be helped by this. I had PLENTY of people in my trades-training that have never even TOUCHED the industry. I heard them say a lot of what if said here. Lost, the school should be better, more should happen for them. Etc etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:53 AM
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I did not read the whole article. I'm just going from the beginning... I HATE this. And like, it starts with an implication that the only reason women are excelling is that men are dropping out? "So many men are lost that there are now more women in college! Even when men get more financial aid and preference still! WHY?!?!" I saw this in another sub. The comments are all about how college is a waste of time. And that they needed more help in college. They are the people in the article I think. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:44 AM
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This is how I feel too about a few hobbies. When I dated a gamer, it dominated our down time. Like, all tasks and events dragged along to get started. Everything was 'after this game/found/raid" did I have any idea how long this time was? Nope. Like I just felt like I was there held hostage waiting for him to finish playing before whatever we were planning to do. Like going out, chores, cooking dinner, that thing he told me 100x he would get fixed, taxes, shopping... Even things that were his th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:43 AM
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🏁🏁🏁 go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:43 AM
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😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:42 AM
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"and then they have no other moves" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:18 AM
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I'm all about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:11 PM
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Ew. 😟 Sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:09 PM
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😂 lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:06 PM
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It's 4 bucks on Kindle. Sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:05 PM
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Leave a review for us! 👍 Especially if you like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:03 PM
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"in their own way" "In their own time" 😭 Never??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:02 PM
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Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:31 PM
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OMG the first one. 5 years ago I was definitely like... I'm going to be dead in a few years either by taking my own life or the stress giving me a heart attack or stroke or something. I'm glad I got help and focused on my mental health. All the things you mentioned were factors. I had to break through a lot of my preconceived notions. "____ is stupid and a waste." To "___ makes me happy. Take my money."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:59 PM
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Eek. Racist and misogynistic. Stay away!
/r/askFDS07/09/21 10:00 AM
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I had one of these 😑 I can't believe I forgave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:05 PM
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Ok so I realized at some point that this was an issue for me. I've only dated one man where we lived together and stuff, but now I'm seeing the the signs are there before you move in. Anyway the responsible women and the impulsive guy trope is framed as "it's like yin and yang, thru balance each other" And I'm thinking about how my past relationships have or have not balanced. So after life and diagnosis and treatments I can finally recognize my challenges without freaking into depression. One o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:04 PM
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My ex hit all of these. Others have hit most 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:52 AM
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Ah yes, the good 'ol 'calling your own children mistakes and that you'd rather they would have never be born'. Oh dad, what a goof you are. Do you tell your kids that too? Ok to say "that was hard/unexpected/stressful." Not ok to say: Things that would break your children's hearts if they heard. Why do they think women (who according to them only want to make babies and be moms, but not when I have sex with them casually.) would be impressed by a father like this??? This indicated the man has ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:45 AM
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Aw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:20 PM
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Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:31 PM
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My jaw has dropped so hard it's dislocated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:46 PM
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Waaat? They did??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:31 PM
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Wat? Was she wanting a threesome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:21 PM
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Amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:21 AM
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Ah, THIS is why it's important to be able to find joy and peace in your own company. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:10 AM
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Good to know! 🤘🤘🤘 Thanks you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:53 PM
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Ewh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:52 PM
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What subreddit is it?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:48 PM
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Right? Does this mean I can pick my animal too? 🤣 🕷️🕸️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:44 PM
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I dunno. Every time I think I do I later find out I'm wrong and roll my eyes. 🙄 Like awhile ago I had a male roommate, super woke! Guess who did all the cleaning. 😟. "But my hobbies..." "I Don't/didn't have the energy." "but I do I clean when I have time and feel like it." Uuuh huh. No one ever feels like it, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:40 PM
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"uh, you flush and the toilet cleans itself."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:59 PM
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Good call
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:58 PM
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Lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:57 PM
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Yup. I was on this train for too long. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:00 PM
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Kinkmeisha!?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:38 PM
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I am autistic, it turned out bdsm was not for me. It took me awhile to figure out because as a nerdy medieval lovin' outcast gal... It really seemed like I should...? My non scientific option. Going to bdsm stuff I think the ratio is similar to other nerd collectives. But I also notice that everyone, even in 'normal' social groups, it's not uncommon that the group has at least one autistic person in their social circle or click... They are just totally not diagnosed. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:37 PM
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Mmmm true. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:23 PM
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😟 I'm sorry that happened to you. I think we need an additional letter for abusive men. ANVX?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:22 PM
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This is something my dad taught me. Like way before dating age. Any time we dropped off one of my friends we would wait until they got actually into the house. Sometimes we waited an awkward amount of time. Once or twice my friend were locked out/parents weren't home/it was super good we didn't leave. In high school my bf was dropping off a friend and sped away, I think I didn't realize it was a universal. I'm like "why don't you wait?!?" I started insisting especially if it was MY friend, he wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:19 PM
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😭 heartbreaking truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:12 PM
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Niiiice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:08 PM
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Lolololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:07 PM
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I like to keep in mind that most that people commenting on the relationship subs are on the sub because they aren't... Good... At relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:06 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:23 AM
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🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:22 AM
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😦 I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:17 PM
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Wooooah. Glad you moved on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:01 PM
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This. College does not count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:57 PM
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Ooo I have advice! So if you just can't do the big O, but, still enjoy... Go for your lover to give you the 'omg you can do that all day and I'll never get bored' feeling. Can be hands, oral, pene, whatever! I have found this zone more with hands than anything else so far. But I'm sure it's different for all. I didn't know that this place existed, for years, until it happened. I was definitely an under-serviced woman, and I was like "yeah I don't usually orgasm so don't worry about it and hands …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:41 PM
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🤗 sending you hugs! We are here for you!
/r/askFDS24/07/21 02:03 PM
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Ugh, I see a thing like this happen in men groups or if your talking with a man and another man pops in and like... No one bothers to talk to you or include you in the conversation. Like you're an appendage of one of the dudes in the conversation. Like they will literally talk over me (I'm short) or just body language totally just drops and people will just like face away from me it's soooo cringe and awkward. Like once I was with my brother and everyone was turned away from me. So I just was li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:59 PM
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😟😟😟😟😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:31 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:29 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:50 PM
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I'm putting this one in my book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:50 PM
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I just thought of this... Mike Rowe tried to save us 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:14 AM
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Ooo this! Me and my siblings were raised to hustle, we were not too good for ANY job, and we could make the best of, be the best, and look for growth in ANY situation. I had a bf and he dropped it of college with ONE more year left... Ok... I didn't have a bachelors so I guess he doesn't need it... If he can still find work that's cool... But uuuuuuhhhhh. Things progressed and I saw him to all that you mentioned above and more. I think part of the reason I stayed was like... Just shock? I didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:11 AM
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Wtf friends?!? Come here for advice instead 🤣
/r/askFDS18/07/21 03:00 PM
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I don't like it... This has 'women are baby machines vibe'... Like... "I don't want my baby machine to be tarnished, let's hire another one!" In addition to your friend I wonder if this man will have any empathy or respect for the surrogate mother.
/r/askFDS18/07/21 02:54 PM
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Vetting burnout? Your soul is asking for a break! Take one and center. 🧘‍♀️
/r/askFDS18/07/21 12:47 PM
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😟😟😟😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:17 PM
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Yes. You won't be surprised to know he said several things that really bothered me and were problematic. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:20 PM
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A man was talking about work and he was talking to a client and told me he got frustrated and yelled at her. Then he was like "I know I shouldn't have that was passive aggressive" I'm like "dude... That was straight up aggressive."😮 Is this gaslighting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:22 AM
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This is a great example that is really clear. Thank you for sharing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:20 AM
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Oooo looking this up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:22 PM
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Yeah. "I'd just go on Yelp and pick somewhere random." Is not a good way to plan a date. 😐
/r/askFDS19/06/21 02:24 PM
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I feel you on this. Fixed personality. I'm a bring that phrase to therapy. I'm just such a chameleon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:02 PM
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I feel like we need to make 'El Nino' a term for a type of man. Like... The winter equivalent of 'dumpster fire?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:33 PM
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'run by the government...' '... Discord server.' 😅 It might just be a socialization effort. If you don't already socialize on discord it might not behove you. I hate it and it's a huge distraction for me to try and figure out. But if you're already on there and want to see what's up yeah, many make an androgenous or male sounding profile as was suggested. All internet warnings apply to discord. It's not less toxic or risky than anywhere else. It is a platform originally made for gamers. But you …
/r/askFDS02/06/21 12:11 PM
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Yeah, being in a secret or low key relationship has been my situation far too many times. 10/10 do not recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:49 AM
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Question on this strategy: Man: lame date proposal You: no thanks/I'm not free/etc So do you 1) wait to see if he ups the Ante 2) say something like "that's too casual" /"I prefer dinner." /Etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:48 AM
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Like, this is super gaslighting to me. Like women have been begging men to be emotionally connected since the Jurassic period of history. It's a well known trope in media, comedy, art, music... Wtf my dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:39 AM
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I think I have read the best line. Then I read the next. 👑 Thank you for posting this. Articulating so much that is hard to talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:00 AM
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Yeah And also "willing to drop whatever you are doing or planning for my whims!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:47 AM
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Ew... Also he is confused about who Casanova is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:40 AM
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Additionally, don't go to an event if someone invites you for the sole purpose of you meeting a man/men. 😑 Look for the flags, some times they don't tell you ahead it's a set up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:01 PM
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I remember I first heard of the Game! I was at a party and a guy I just met started talking about it. I had no idea what it was. But I'm like "pick up art? Uuuuh" and he was like "it's a self help book" so I'm like just listening to him talk and my friend sitting next to me starts like looking at me and laughing. (He knows what it is I guess?) And I'm like "haha what's up" and he's kept being 'like no no keep talking' but then giggling again like a school girl. Finally in like "what" or he just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:46 PM
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Yeah, whole field of philosophy is a mine field. I've been making an effort to find and listen to female philosophers. First: "Why have we decided to rehash these same 7-10 guys over and over and over again?" And then... If you have the audacity to point out that these philosophies aren't universal (equally applicable to everyone) because... They weren't thinking about women. At all. They were considering the problems, relationships, and such of men dealing with other men. If you're like "this m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:32 PM
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Right. She could have reached out herself or gone to the Etsy... Weirdo vibe on that move.
/r/askFDS20/05/21 02:13 PM
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I'm also like 🤯 rn about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:23 PM
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And, now that I'm thinking about it. I also get this about the number of hobbies I have! Only from men. "Another thing?" I'm like "uuuuuuh... Don't you like golf, and guitar, and cooking, and football, and going to conventions, aaaaand" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:36 AM
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I also feel like there's a similar vibe in organizing/cleaning advice. "You have too much stuff!" At some point I was like... Do I have too much stuff? No one tells a rich person they have too much stuff! I can have a sewing machine and fabric I only use once and awhile. Why is that wrong?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:47 AM
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The latter 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:11 PM
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😨😨😨 I'm so sorry that happened to you! Both things. Meeeen 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:54 PM
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👑👑👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:04 PM
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⚔️ love this attitude! ⚔️
/r/askFDS06/05/21 11:56 AM
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Yeah. 😬
/r/askFDS05/05/21 10:28 PM
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😂 "scam"
/r/askFDS05/05/21 10:27 PM
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I'm realizing that bit about the finances. "I'm the only one who's going to make sure I'm not poor and starving later in life." And I'm trying to level up my financial understanding and gains. I've dated funny irresponsible men. Like. I don't want to think about the amount of money they drained from me. Enough to finish my degree? Down payment on a house? 3 cars? 😅
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:16 PM
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Wolfpack! Yas. I've got one. Dog over dudes.
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:13 PM
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My dog has a good bark! But at the break up my ex left and the dog went to the door and stared at it and baked like once a minute. "He leave so soon he come back?!" Meanwhile I'm crying like traaaiitooor. But I guess we had the same feels actually. 😂 Can't be mad. But yes he looks and sounds really intimidating so he definitely protects me on walks and the house from robbers and fiends! It's funny when I first got him I was trying to train him not to bark at the things outside//people coming to …
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:13 PM
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Thank you! Yeah I need to be that for myself. Going to take all your suggestions, some I've taken for granted like having cash and having numbers memorized.
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:08 PM
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This is a good practice. I'm journaling through it the next few days. 1) when have I really been in trouble or been afraid? 2) who helped me out? 3) today I'm adding... Who got me into this trouble or situation. 😳 Some of my heros have just had the scooby mask taken off.
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:07 PM
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Mmm I feel you. Not military men, but a few of the men I've dated have projected this like toughness... Buuuuut they proved to be actually ineffective or toooootal jerks. Like I realize now they were trying to sell "I'm like this but inside I'm a big teddy bear you just need to get passed my shell... Uuuuugh, well eventually I did, and on the inside they were even more of a jerk than they looked like on the outside. So my last bf was not like this at all (trying something new?) But ultimately co…
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:05 PM
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... eeeeew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:59 PM
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Ooo interesting link! I hadn't considered that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:36 PM
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Projection oof you're right. You hobbies are raaaad! Keep having a fun epic life 😎.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:23 PM
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Never again! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:21 PM
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You have articulated something I've been trying to! Discussion: you can't change who someone is everything comes down to incompatibility. Me: I think there's a difference between 'just who someone is' and 'they are being a butt' And I think what you're saying is the difference. There is a personality and tendencies one can not control, but, there's also demonstration of (or not demonstration of) respect and responsibly to the relationship. Like someone being chronically late because of ADHD, can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:34 PM
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