shljock Archive

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11	Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse. Age gap? 2. She's the sole breadwinner but also "an exclusive caretaker" of their newborn?? 3. He does not work but terrorizes her over every penny she earns??? She words this so bizarrely- "her newborn" (if they are married he must be the bio father), the husband decided he's gonna stop working and stay at home yet apparently not touch the newborn at all), she bizarrely has to round up her money reports to him, he makes her sell things to pay back the money she spent that she earned, he complet…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 12:08 AM
24	Excuse me? I just want to say for children that little even small reduction of food/hydration supply, especially for days or weeks on end can have life threatning consequences. On top of the infection issues. That man is fucking dangerous and she needs to run.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 09:45 AM
362	I'm sppeechless First of all if you say NO once (and especially to something extremely sensitive like this) if they still try to talk/guilt/gaslight you into it YOU NEED TO RUN. He has zero respect for her trying to bulldoze over her boundaries and gaslights her like no other. Iit's only going to escalate into more vile territory. Did I say RUN	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 09:14 PM
7	Suicidal threats and threatening self harm, and staying because you are worried about your partner doing the unthinkable. I had this happen once. I said I was gonna call 911, they started backpaddling and I did something I regret to this day- I did not call 911 but stayed and tried to talk it through (aka got sucked into yet another cycle of manipulation). Absolutely do not do this. If someone openly says they are suicidal atm call the authorities and let them handle it. You are not a professional and are not supposed to have a suicidal crisis intervention on your own if it truly is one and if it's a manipulation d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 01:19 PM
67	The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised. I used to work as medical staff in one of the immigrant route corridors. The ratio of genders and ages I came across is something like literally hundreds of young military age men per 1 woman (almost all pregnant or with very young children, mostly toddlers- which keep in mind it takes weeks, months or even years to come from Afghanistan to central Europe so it means they were most likely raped/ coerced into pregnancy cause who in their right mind would get pregnant while walking thousands of mi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 01:00 PM
49	what would convince me to get with any man? Honestly the more I think about the potential risks and how I can make my life beautiful and delightful manfree the more I think I'm not even gonna bother. Risking inviting some squallor of a personality riddled with dysfunction, depravity and smell to bleed me dry emotionally and financially, increase my risks of all kinds of cancers and mess up my microbiome with their crusty bodyparts only to leave me (and potential children) after 7 yrs ain't appealling. But some bare minimum would be absolu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/21 02:10 AM
76	I just learned that one of the biggest catalysts for men leaving their wives is having a child with special needs (the divorce rate climbs to 80 percent). I had these discussions irl with people and inevitably someone acuses of eugenics... imho calling this eugenics is peak gaslighting and crazymaking. My life has not been rosy yet I am probably in top 1% privileged people being able bodied and with I guess at least average IQ. I cannot even imagine the difficulty (financially, emotionally, physically) that would have been my life if I had a painful costly illness with short life expectancy. So these fuckers preaching from their delusional high ho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 04:23 PM
9	🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a man True that, Britney Spears immediatelly comes to mind 😔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 03:50 PM
9	Pickme wife becomes a "life coach" to deal with the inequity in her marriage If the thing that changed her life around was dumping the dead weight husband then I support. If it's doubling down on white knuckling, giving her 150% while recieving nothing (being the "giver", boss bitch superwoman 🤢) then jfc... a note on life coaching- it's not regulated by any official body, there is no uniform education, curriculum, certification, continued learning and evaluation, evidence based practice- NADA. Just about anyone can call themselves a coach and it inevitably deals with ex…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 01:54 PM
414	Man baby and forever gf Wait... is this guy asking for sympathy for cheating, humiliating, destroying life, time and finances of his long time girlfriend with some rando? "She is so sexy... i think I might... love her..." AHAHHAHA poor bébé 😢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 01:38 PM
27	I just learned that one of the biggest catalysts for men leaving their wives is having a child with special needs (the divorce rate climbs to 80 percent). Jfc. This is heartbreaking but somehow not surprising. I wonder out of those who do stay how many are not abusive and god forbid are supportive and do their fair share.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/21 01:09 PM
28	Don't have your life revolve around men Are you me lol. I like to remind myself that yes, I would like a husband and kids but not at any price (ie lvm & my life reckt). Until then let's start and nurture new life and non romantic relationships in this new place 😌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 07:31 PM
12	Not sure why men can't have conversations without getting triggered into wannabe Sasuke Uchiha but wow The grandiosity and audacity is pathetically laughable reading this. Tho I deeply empathize with anyone irl forced to engage with this squalor of personality	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 08:44 AM
100	Most men are NOT capable of genuine love. In order to love a woman, they have to see her as human. That’s why most of them would rather keep the privilege of seeing you as an object — to feel less bad about the mistreatment they put you through. This. Whenever I had a discussion with a man about misoginy, sex trafficked violent pedophilic content (porn), their "biology" needs etc... it's completely futile as it all boils down to them seeing women as subhuman. And while the older generations were more overt about it, the younger men are even more dangerous posturing about "equality", 50/50, sex liberation and the mainstream media, therapy etc are running with it too. Literally crazymaking.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 09:01 PM
79	UPDATE: Newly Separated Scrote doubles down on his mantrum, hilarity ensues These men are intellectually challenged AND psychopathic with no empathy: " for people who cant find "good men" they sure get pregnant very often 😂 and end up in a shitty apartment with no car😂" dumb ass fuckers read what you have just written proving the fucking point. Please God if you exist don't let any traumatized no self worth woman near this shit of a person	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 09:14 AM
24	Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢 Therapists: your girlfriend has no right to demand you do not consume sex trafficked abusive violent misogynistic pedophilic content that fucks with your brain on chemical level and for you is obviously an addiction More than the intellectually and emotionally challenged boyfriend this therapist is a dangerous pos relaying this "rational calm" message of accepting addiction of participating in a fucking crime. ETA: just from purely medical pov even the notoriously slow and patriarchal medical sy…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 08:55 AM
11	Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this??? "Are you serious with show empathy bullshit?" The psychopath has revealed himself. We should publicly out and shame these people cause they have no shame themselves	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 11:26 PM
26	questions my entire childhood This is one of the many reasons I fear having kids, even if by some miracle I meet a hvm husband. I would talk about how these "warm childhood classics" are actually problematic (in age appropriate way ofc) and I can only imagine the reaction of the average teacher and kids raised in libfem (at best) homes. There is so much blatantly sistemically pervasively wrong with the world that it seems like I would have to raise a complicit and almost brainwashed kid in order for them not to be ostracized…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 09:08 AM
269	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? Don't even bother with men. Kidding only slightly, here's one- have or build up a financial strategy to be able to get away from him, no matter how things seem good at the moment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 05:21 PM
24	Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢 When i think abt my exes https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-RRA3OdaC98g/V_oSvQqtmII/AAAAAAAEZIY/ex8gox5s0lstYoz9w6gXjaVfERMsYMXzwCLcB/s1600/FB_IMG_1475609843684.jpg	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 03:56 PM
12	Thoughts? Sara if you can't afford the minimum safety of an official regulated sperm bank you can't afford to be a single mother.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 02:20 PM
13	When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head... Iirc it takes on average 9 years after the onset of symptoms to get diagnosed with endometriosis. The entire physiology we learn in med school is based on a 150 lbs 20 yr old male (minus female reproductive system- how generous). The most common conditions such as heart attack do not present the same in men and women yet we learn almost exclusively the male presentation. We have a long long long way to go. And that's medical professionals, imagine the squalor that is in the minds of uneducated s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 02:07 PM
6	Found this "pick me" on steroids in comments under the video about Gabby Petito. Apparently, she wasn't "feminine" enough and it's all her fault 🙄 Seems like by feminine they mean submissive, quiet, sacrificing, non demanding, dependent and doing free emotional and physical labor. Why not call it for what it is- a slave. Gtfo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 11:13 AM
100	“She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink” I don't buy it. This sounds like an attempt to virtue signal he's now a changed man but wrote a 10 page essay pontificating over women's irrational demands and why men should make a 4 second "sacrifice" and put the dish in the dishwasher. Also this: "Men invented heavy machines that can fly in the air reliably and safely. Men proved the heliocentric model of the solar system, establishing that the Earth orbits the Sun. Men design and build skyscrapers, and take hearts and other human organs from…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 07:28 AM
65	A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴 What breaks my heart is I bet there are deeply traumatized women who would actually go with this. Shaming these slave seekers needs to become more of a mainstream.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 07:15 AM
22	Hmm... What a disgusting photo honestly. People confuse confidence and competence. I have seen it time and time again- deeply incompetent but confident and charming (🤢) extrovert guys rising to the top in no time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 07:02 AM
54	Be Wary of Male Therapists / Psychs I am so sorry you went through that. I had a similar experience and my heart breaks for every woman in need of mental health help dealing with this shit. I am also so grateful for platforms like these were we can exchange our experience and sometimes that sliver of validation and hope is invaluable. Eta: unfortunately women therapists are not guaranteed not to rationalize, invalidate, gaslight and give damaging advice either but there's probably a better chance of them not doing that. I think th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 06:12 PM
91	Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footage I know. I'm both angry and sad by the amount of apologists with their justifications and interpretations. It's vile. It makes me think how many men I know irl also think this way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 12:19 PM
22	Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids? I absolutely agree. When i try to talk about this with people in RL I inevitable get a response that I overthink and overanalyse things and "people work things through". But this is one thing where maybe people should "overthink" a lil damn more as we're talking about potential hell for helpless kids and you for many many years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 01:47 PM
54	Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids? I've been thinking about this a lot. Ideally I would stay at home with potential kids for at least until they are 3 yrs old. But if I were to have 2 kids that means potentially 5+ years career gap with giant opportunity cost of not earning + missing on growth and honestly losing my knowledge and skills while being financially dependent on a man. No matter how seemingly hvm, he could get ill, die or just show his true lv self. This scares so much and even tho I'd like to have kids I cannot see it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 10:52 AM
76	He means men ofc. He profits of high divorce rate. Real life devil's advocate. The statistics say that marriages at early thirties have the lowest rate of divorce, so he got this advice out of his ass. That said for some of us the best age to get married is never	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 12:48 AM
135	No hiking dates— ever I agree with you and the first thing I wanted to write is, looking back, just how vulnerable us ladies can be dating in our teens and early twenties. Especially if we come from less than ideal circumstances family wise and sadly the abuse seems normal. My heart hurts for young women who have not been thought boundaries and how to recognize and deal with dark personalities. Cause every single one of us will come in contact with one or many of those sooner or later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 12:28 AM
14	Defending yourself against men who want you to be a pickme It seems like he has a long way to go if he were to become an empathetic informed person. You are not obligated in any way to do that immense and intense intellectual and emotional labor for him, it was your parents responsibility. I know it's not easy cutting family off but I'd distance myself as much as possible cause having that kind of person close to you will bleed you dry. Do not justify, argue, defend, explain.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 07:53 PM
23	Coworker wanted to set me up with her son. Omg yes. The last place I worked at seemed to be appaled at me being in my late twenties, single and not looking. Multiple people tried to set me up with their dropout unemployed sons or our single male coworkers with anger issues. I hadn't seen the light yet back then but even in the depths of my insecurity that's insulting at best and fucking life endangering at worst. I am not a damn rehab for failed men	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 07:26 AM
19	Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄 Jfc they can't physically beat us anymore so they try to emotionally beat us with shaming. Fuck right off with equating "being all in the relationship" with "not being able to escape it should things turn ungealthy or dangerous". Fuck off fuck off FUCK OFF. You don't owe anyone saying everything about yourself, your security plan or your past. Not husband, not parents, not therapist, not priests. And especially not your bOyFriEnD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 10:05 AM
33	"70% of things couples argue about are unresolvable problems" - woman advises women to compromise "Some things just have no right answer" proceeds to put a list of problems that literally have the right answer	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 09:21 AM
22	The ole blast from the past “I’m in your town let’s get coffee” text Omg this. Or when they ask if I know somewhere affordable they could stay... lol not dudes trying to get an offer to stay at my place or my unpaid time and labor of looking for a place for them. There's this cool site called google.com	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 09:15 AM
259	Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣 Just from a logistics standpoint... building up and nurturing one intimate relationship takes work, energy and time at the best of scenarios. Who tf has time or energy to do double or triple that at the same time. Do these people have jobs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/21 07:54 PM
4	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. Yeah, that resonates with me too. Maybe scrotalinis were right after all, we do hit the wall of the prison of other people's whims and circumstance of our life we didn't have much control over. But once we gain experience, self awareness and independence we indeed do smash the wall and start actually our aunthentic and independent lives 🤭🙌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 12:34 PM
17	Raising Shitty Sons Imho trying to reconstruct scrote's childhood and primarily questioning the mother is not it. If the mother is a mature functional self aware feminist she probably wouldn't be raising their kid at scrote standards. Should the mothers of todays adult scrotes be held accountable? Honestly if I was raising my kid 30 yrs ago with just my lived experience and no resources like we have today (therapy, internet, social movements etc) I would probably be perpetuating a lot of dysfunction myself. Just li…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 09:35 PM
34	Why scrotes are mad at feminism Why do they hate feminism? Cause it's a zero sum game for them. It's not enough to be born a man to be entitled to a submissive wife-bangmaid and a nice career anymore. Now you gotta actually fulfill a minimal standard of decency towards women and that's not easy when your starting point is not percieving us as full humans.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 12:49 PM
52	What's your relationship status? Even bigger plotwist for scrotalinis... some of us are going against eVoLutiOnarY pSyChOlogY ... single and not looking for a relationship 😱	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 08:56 PM
16	Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terrible Preching about completely and forever relying on your "husbear" to provide is either disgenuine (as you have a safety net of income from your online preaching or a wealthy family) or you are in denial/unaware of the possible risks of him being abusive/ leaving you/ going broke/ prematurely dying. If you add up all of those it's highly probable you and the kids will end up screwed sooner or later. I see no universe in which I put all of my finances in the hands of one person, no matter how high v…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 10:45 PM
13	Other Women distancing Themselves from Single Women Omg this. Ever since one of my friends got in a relationship he's always there when we get together. He has now become an implanted part of who she is it is hard to get one on one time anymore. And even when we do have one on one I'm positive she tells him anything significant and personal I share. When he's around the conversations are of course quite superficial with a forced positivity to keep it light so that friendship has pretty much gone to shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 08:12 AM
67	When men withhold feelings/emotions: do they have them or do they just not care? 🚩 he's into stoicism and marcus aurelius (more accurately his sociopathic interpretation of it)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 11:12 PM
268	Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit big So he should obviously burn in hell but tf is with her family jfc. "WhAt ArE yOU goIng tO TeLL ThE gUeStS??" How about "the scrote cheated on me with at least 8 women, the wedding is cancelled af".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 11:04 PM
56	Bette Midler recommends all women refuse to have sex with men Tbh there should be an added fee of an opportunity cost of what the woman could have accomplished had she not ended delivering and in the need of time off and possible hired help, also the costs of repairing pregnancy sequelae such as abdominal hernias, incontinence etc. And of course college tuition for the kid cause tf are they going to do with just high school in the upcoming dumpsterfire of the world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 10:48 PM
24	Just wondering I agree. It's still nowhere near equal playfield for women and men yet we are outperforming them. In my profession- medicine- patients treated by female doctors have better outcomes. And to think had I been born two decades earlier I would have to ask for a formal permission from my husband just to go to work 🤢🤢 and women doctors are most likely doing significantly more housework and childcare than their male counterparts, have to take time off for pregnancy that comes with significant opportuni…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 02:11 PM
82	Why Jeffrey Epstein loved evolutionary psychology (aka astrology for men) Evolutionary psychology seems the perfect tool to justify and rationalise just about anything (namely abuse and bigotry) and of course predators will be attracted to using it like flies to shit. But even hardcore disciplines with high quality evidence behind them can be abused and interpreted in a very problematic way by problematic people. IT's Mah BiOLogY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/21 12:26 PM
51	Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapy I agree with you very much on the importance of boundaries. However I believe self doubt, insecurity and loneliness can be felt on a spectrum of intensity. Everyone feels them from time to time so many of us resonate with it, but folks who feel the most intense end of it majority of the time are like a magnet to a predator and that's when it becomes extremely problematic. Becoming aware of it might help but some of these feelings and behaviours are trauma responses. In a triggered moment it's ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 10:14 AM
1	I don't like women with stretchmarks! Omg one time i was studying for finals in library virtually the whole day and my then boyfriend came by on my luch break. He had the audacity to mock my armpits I forgot to shave for 1 day, meanwhile his butt looked like that pic ☣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 09:37 PM
15	guys quizzing you on dates Omg I had been subjected to that many times. I now see it as super lv behaviour, trying to assert their superiority over some info that for me personally is fucking irrelevant. I had this one guy obsessed with history and tried to start grilling me on dates something happened. I told him if I can find out that on google in 5 seconds idgaf about it 👋 i said it nicer but his face still turned sour and his ego and plan to put me down by a peg or two crumbled 😥	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 11:10 AM
80	He knows his worth y’all. I can’t even with this 😩 Poor bébé! Kinda funny how he has not already attracted so many women if his intention was to treat his lady like a queen. Or was this an attempt at virtue signalling and getting a reddit date 🤩 also my dudalino if by all the love women get you mean unsolicited dick pics 2 seconds in and zero effort date ideas then yes. Much love. Also also if putting a decent photo and a non-sociopathic bio means fighting tooth and nail to you... 😂👋	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/21 10:33 PM
23	Be careful before sharing your trauma with men. Omg this. Includes partners, friends, coworkers, even therapists if you don't feel comfortable with them for whatever reason. On to the next	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 10:41 PM
31	Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor? You have every right to be as open or closed to people as you wish. In fact, I'd say someone who's extremely bubbly, smiley and complementing a complete stranger left and right either is extremely privileged and has never experienced abuse (unlikely) or is in a fawning trauma response or is manipulative themself. None of which is what a functional adult would want. "You are not giving me your full smile cause you're shy." Imagine the audacity and patronizing. What are you supposed to say to that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 02:18 PM
12	Dating men who are better at academics than you Finishing a PhD is a function of lot of things (privilege, timing, support etc) but says little to none about hv qualities. Maybe shows a degree of persistence, maybe. But that's about it. There are quite a lot of persistent psychopaths out there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 08:43 PM
209	God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friends I guess I suppressed this memory but years ago while I was a traumatised pickmeisha with no self awareness this "friend" asked me why I wouldn't go out with this mutual "friend" of ours. He had a slight cocaine problem but he's a nice guy, why not. Gtfo and let the door hit you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/21 04:06 PM
22	Good hygiene is the sexiest trait in a man Was about to say it as well ... talk clean to me 🤤	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 08:14 PM
50	Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂 He is objectively good looking, but if he has no success even in the sea of brainwashed pickmes his personality must be a squalor	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 07:54 AM
61	Pick me's are dangerous. The comment section is filled with mras. This is the type of stuff that grooms young women into believing that abuse is love and okay. I reported it too and suggest anyone who has a spare second to do it too. trigger warning An excerpt of comments this person liked: "Women love when you are empowering them in bed. Not forcing yourself on them, but them knowing they couldn't physically stop you if they wanted to. " "Consentual non-consent? I'll have to remember this one at my trial" This should be not only removed but prosecuted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/21 05:23 PM
49	Accountability & How It Gets Weaponized Against You. Oof I agree. Accountability can easily slip into codependency where suddenly what is actually their bullshit becomes your problem to solve. One such thing is the "you need to cOmMuniCate better". Well, when the person on the other side is entitled low empathy arrested development case you can get PhD in communication and it still won't make them a decent human being, nor should you in a million years do that. And these things usually don't happen over night, only where you have been firmly traum…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 10:58 PM
6	What are your standards for Facebook friends? I used to look at keeping up with old friends, coworkers and acquantances warmly. But honestly as the time goes by keeping up with hundreds of people who I see very rarely if ever in real life feels like a chore, a comparison game of accomplishments and gossip sessions I am not interested in. I just don't have time or energy to give to hundreds of Johns and Janes I once took a class together 15 years ago. Thus I deleted my facebook lol, I have my close inner circle and family on whatsapp and hav…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 07:28 PM
22	LVM wanting to be coddled when doing simple housework is so widespread they even pitched it on Shark Tank as a business Hehhehe hi investors let's all laugh at this fugly bumbling scrote and all the women who have been mothers to their spouses for millenia to the detriment of their own health, safety and lives. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 06:39 PM
18	Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄 Even for tiktok this kind of behaviour seems unhinged. I have no problem with short men with untreated syphilis who don't own a bedframe and don't go to therapy, I simply don't want them as partners. Not her trying to shame someone for their preferences. I do have a problem with mocking therapy tho. She seems like she could benefit from it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/21 09:03 PM
12	Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames" This 🙌🙌🙌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/21 10:41 AM
127	A majority of the time, sex is NOT a mutual benefit. If paying for one dinner for two is posing a risk for you financially you better not be dating at all and focus on your financial health. Lol look at me being silly with assuming they are self aware mature men and not entitled manipulative scrotallinis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 07:40 PM
132	The usual culprits at it with the fear-mongering again. If we all just popped out some babies for the terrorism plotting incels, deranged red pilled dweebs and paedophilic cheating porn fried scrotes, society would be magically better! 🙄 Yes there were harsher times in history and people would still "fuck and pop kids here and there" (creating a new human sounds as quick and easy as throwing a potato at the wall). However only recently in human history have women been slightly less exploited, could open their own bank accounts, vote, get educated, have a career. As soon as we undo the brainwashing part no wonder us ladies won't be sprinting to be someone's free caretaker, therapist, cleaning lady and fleshlight when we can make …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 04:44 PM
20	Ever since I’ve encountered FDS, all men look like big babies too me. Same. Even the seemingly highly functional men at high positions in the first world countries... still more often than not an emotional dumpsterfire stank with mysoginy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 01:37 AM
14	I don’t need to have children to be a real woman and I’m tired of my conservative family telling me im not a real woman and most men telling me I’m not a real woman I am so sorry for what you've been through 💕 Anyone who reduces a woman to a uterus can go to hell. Seriously pls, just burn in hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/21 07:02 PM
76	On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰 Yes and family too. I've recieved emotionally charged texts at all hours of night more than once. They act like they didn't want to disturb me with a phone call that late but not them thinking I'd sleep like a zen monk after recieving a dumpsterfire text in the middle of the night (and it's never a true emergency that can't wait until the morning, but just enough drama to ruin your entire night. Or at least attempt to.). A good red flag to vet anyone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 11:37 PM
53	Kink community showing their true face. This is why kinkshaming is important Trigger warning His "research" focuses on victims having an orgasm during sexual assualt. The fucking fuck? I cannot bring myself to see this man as a benevolent therapist, is there some regulatory body to look up into this and these "workshops"?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 07:54 PM
84	How does he talk to the one who loves him unconditionally? You know, his dog? I don't know if God exists but I hope there is a special place in hell for people who abuse animals.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 08:43 PM
8	Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet? I grew up thinking I was for sure going to have kids some day. But if I'm totally honest now that I'm older, the circumstances are as ideal as they'll get and for me I cannot think of a single reason to have a kid that can't be dismantled. If I'm 100% honest I would have a child to silence some of the peer expectations, to try to fill some void I might be feeling, to have some kind of decieving guarantee that I will not die alone and lonely, to prevent potential future regret. With none of those…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 04:09 AM
10	What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with age I do think Peterson's surgeon did a good job on the hair transplant 💅😂 too bad it's attached to an unhinged mysoginist	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/21 08:53 PM
6	Today I was told to be less professional at work... "You don't have to be so professional!" "Oh ok. Piss off and toodles."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 09:21 PM
25	How do you respond to the "men have it bad too" argument? This reminds me of every narcissist deflecting even slight criticism and insisiting that you should be grateful cause people have it way worse. If it's a conversation with a person committed to "winning over you" there is no point. If they are open to a true dialogue as an academic environment should be (even tho I know it's not from my own experience) you can say that you did not say men have it perfectly good. But that that is another conversation that can be held at another time. Finally what…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 04:45 PM
3	Mastering the Ice Queen stare to keep loser pests away So many great answers already. There have been instances where I truly felt my safety was in danger. I walk around unarmed and I'm petite. But even if a psychotic gymbro tried something I keep in mind that unless I die a sudden death I am not harmless. A good way to put it is harnessing the strength of a mother lifting a car off of a trapped child (happened in real life many a times) and using it on a sensitive body part such as eyes, nose, neck, 🍤 with for example your teeth, nails, heels etc. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 09:02 PM
17	He had audacity to say, it's not cheating if it's not physical. So porn, only fans, sexting aren't cheating 🚩Patronizing (aS i SaiD BeFoRe.... no one cares) 🚩Again the ridiculous patronizing (everyone should be familiar and stick to boundaries I approve) 🚩Nice try hiding being a scrote (aPPliEs tO bOtH sexEs) 🚩Gaslighting (if they are sexting but not being physical you are insecure) Gtfo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 07:52 PM
11	Dating & Socioeconomic Status It's an important point to consider as it carries with it a whole other set of potential clashes of financial habits, lifestyles, mindsets etc. If the difference is so drastic that there is some permanent dependency I don't see how it can be a healthy relationship. Just like you're not a free therapist to your partner, you are not their financial advisor, sponsor, rehab centre etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/21 05:50 PM
30	There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance. Ikr. Honestly even though I'm a healthcare worker too for a moment I questioned if maybe I am truly being high maintenant. The level of malice in some people is at times hard to comprehend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 11:12 PM
104	There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance. It's such an arbitrary term and is a good screaming red flag to look for. If someone is trying to shame me for my standards or how I spend my money or my time... do let the door hit ya 👋 Eta: the last time i was told i was high maintenance was for reapplying spf multiple times during the day. It's a universal recommendation by ever dermatology society + i already had highly suspicious moles removed. So it's, you know, pretty important for my life. The awful person in question is a healthcare wor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 08:17 PM
45	So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply. Normally I'd just block and delete. If I were extra petty I'd write: An hour of my time is worth 400 EUR. Since I graced you with 3 hours of my direct time plus 2 hours of commute and getting ready seems like you owe me 1920 EUR. And then block and delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 03:41 PM
33	BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist. I am so sorry for what you have been going through. In my experience psychiatry and psychotherapy is unfortunately more often than not brimming with misoginy, racism, bigotry. It makes me so angry as in 2021 medicine should be doing damn better. If the mental health professional is not trauma informed (with provided accreditation, not just slapping it on a website), hasn't done their own therapy, isn't openly feminist and antiracist unfortunately it makes me question how in the hell would they b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 07:51 PM
68	The caption 😂 Spot on. You can add men complaining about dating costs, job market, missed promotion, salary, lack of time, kids, family, housework, etc etc. It's interchangable with men complaining about anything really	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 10:05 PM
3	How much is your time worth? I calculated cost per date. Next time I expect 10/10 effort or I'm not going damn anywhere	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 07:43 PM
16	EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS) Many great comments already. I'd like to add if you as a couple decide to have a child it would be him contributing with 1 cell and you 100% creating that life /lives to viability, taking major if not life threatening toll on your health, career, other realtionships. How could a guy ever match that so that you are 50/50 unless treating you like a freaking apple of his eye and more?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 04:20 PM
50	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. I unfortunately have to disagree with counting on gaining respect by trying to establish boundaries. Exploitative personalities might superficially give you that feeling and you having an illusion of having a respectful relationship but behind the scenes they are just as scheming, malicious and not respecting you. I'd go further by saying that even more than setting boundaries, the more insightful but infinitely more dangerous way of vetting is presenting as having NO boundaries. Psychopaths and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 08:28 AM
9	Level up for your daughter's sake! An interesting article about father LVM's influence on women's expectations of men and in turn their sexual behaviour I got 13 years more with my father than my younger sister. I never wanted to invalidate her struggles growing up without a father or add to her trauma so I never talked about it but I always knew in our case it might have been for the better. To someone coming from a loving family that might sound horrible but it is what it is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 12:36 PM
10	Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰 Working for free and being powerless is slavery. We like to say we are against something and then not even recognize it in the real life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 08:48 PM
36	Block and Delete: People Know Because Their Texts Turn Green First time poster, hi. I just wanted to say I feel you. Due to the nature of my professional and personal life I met several hundreds of people in a couple of years. Some of them are obviously toxic, some of them are benevolent but I don't care for superficial gossip convos about a vague mutal acquantance from 8 years ago. For some of them I put a lot of intention into slowly fading out the relationship and some of them I straight up blocked/ghosted. Both chipped away from my emotional capacity …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 08:31 AM