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51

Great response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:56 PM
82

That’s so true. It’s always about control with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:49 PM
4

For me it’s my own sense of dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:09 PM
12

No, they hated us before agriculture too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:07 PM
13

White male working class and middle class in America already feel disenfranchised. Hence Trump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:05 PM
12

Men completely depend on women. They just won’t admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:04 PM
18

There aren’t a lot of virgin men in their 30s and 40s, but we do need to ensure that a totes don’t get to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:02 PM
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It is. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:57 AM
14

Men now don’t want housewives. They want their wives to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:56 AM
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I’ll let the sperm donor to my child live in poverty. That’s what he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:52 AM
12

Me too. This has been going on for awhile now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:20 PM
30

My ex did this. Ruined all of my framed photos of me and friends and family, he spent old money I had hidden away when I was a child and was keeping for sentimental value, he broke all my favourite mugs, my nice crystal wine glasses and decanter, he even cut a hole in the screen of one of my windows so he could smoke out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:09 PM
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He should be charged with a hate crime for that. He’s also a total psycho and shouldn’t be allowed to wander the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:06 PM
8

I love hearing success stories! Congratulations 🥳!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 12:21 AM
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I worry you’re gaslighting yourself into accepting porn in your relationship. You say you accepted his porn use because you weren’t up front about it at the beginning of the relationship. You’re not required to tell a man up-front about all your standards and you are allowed to change your standards too. You’re also missing the point. The point is to find a man who does not use porn because he has made an independent choice not to use it because he recognizes how harmful it is to the women in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 12:01 AM
1

Fat women have tighter vaginas due to the external pressure of their fat. Men have BETTER sex with fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:27 PM
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Yes it’s optional. The law says it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:15 PM
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Why are you trying so hard to convince yourself that women want to be abused? Did you know our legal system is based on the premise that no one can consent to abuse? Why are you trying to incite violence against women by claiming some of us want to be abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:50 AM
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That’s as bad as saying you don’t believe anything Black people say, or Muslims, or Jews. It’s hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:47 AM
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The OP didn’t ask in good faith. He made this post because he’s looking for justification to abuse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:08 AM
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Do you really want to know why women stay with abusers or are you just trying to concoct a justification for why you think it’s okay for men to abuse women? I suggest you contact a local agency that helps victims of domestic violence for more info. There are also piles of websites and books about domestic violence that explain why women don’t leave. Why didn’t you consult those? Read Lundy Bancroft’s “Why does he do that?” and afterwards it will be perfectly clear to you. I also want to note tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:06 AM
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That’s true. Some people don’t respond to therapy or medication or changes in environment. Some people don’t recover. Some people don’t even try. However, these people are usually extraordinarily ill, can’t work, require intermittent hospitalization and are very often delusional or suffering from hallucinations. No one can function in a relationship in that state. What I have to wonder are the reasons you believe everyone is entitled to have a relationship no matter how dysfunctional their behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:29 AM
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They love being with their kids, they don’t love the housework, the loneliness, the lack of pay, lack of respect and lack of social status. Never met a SAHM, including my own mother, who didn’t want a career. My mother actually sat me down and told me NOT to become a SAHM after I had kids. Turns out I had no choice. In the country I live, the government is supposed to provide for disabled kids so parents can work but they don’t. I’m being forced to be a full time caregiver by the government beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:57 PM
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How am I a simple-minded simp? Only men can be simps. Women DO NOT have the power in the SMP. What is the SMP anyway? The whole concept of a SMP is antithetical to healthy relationships. Perhaps you’d have healthier, more satisfying relationships if you didn’t look at women as things to buy and acquire in order to obtain sexual intercourse and validate your masculinity. Not once in my life have I ever thought about myself as a product in the SMP and I have never met a man IRL who thinks that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:37 PM
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You’re not mentally ill if you’re stable. It means you’ve recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:01 PM
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Have you ever said thank you to women for engaging in childbearing? We create the workers who build the roads. We’re Gods and you’re not. Why should I thank men for getting paid big bucks to build roads? The men who build the roads directly benefit from the roads existence. Women, on the other hand, don’t benefit directly from providing sex, pregnancy, motherhood and social tasks for men. We don’t get paid for it and men exploit our ability to bear children. Definitely not doing any of that shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:32 PM
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I find it sad that you drone on about the importance of family but that you’re okay with men undermining their families in almost every way possible. You’re just a simple-minded misogynist. Women are not privileged in our society, men are. Men aren’t oppressed because women won’t have sex with you. Sex is NOT a human right. And you won’t even give up your precious porn even though a man’s porn use is a big factor in many divorces and broken relationships. You don’t need a real woman. You prefer …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:23 PM
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Men who watch porn, follow IG models, use cam girls, go to strip clubs, have casual sex, are undermining the family. That means 95% of men are rogues who are getting the benefit of society without contributing to it. I guess you must hate same-sex attracted people. Are gay men and lesbian women also rogue individuals who get the benefit of society without contributing? Who are you to dictate how anyone else *should be contributing? Men who won’t give their women partners orgasms are rogues too b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:36 PM
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What do women provide that men need? Men can earn their own money, do their own cleaning, shopping and cooking, they have porn to trick their minds into believing they’re having sex. I wonder how males would fare if women left them alone completely. No placenta, breast milk, no formula, no cuddles or protection from predators. just suctioned out of our bodies right after we learn the sex of the foetus is male or C-sectioned out and then left on the side of the road. Surely a man could just pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:26 PM
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That’s the first time I’ve heard that comparison and I think you’re on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:19 PM
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Intelligence, appearance, income and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:13 PM
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That’s NOT a shallow turn-off. It’s logical. People with active mental illness cannot usually give their best to a relationship and need to work out their issues and become stable, ie: recover or manage symptoms so well they’re unnoticeable to anyone but themselves and their doctor/therapist, before they get in relationships. Some mental illnesses can also be contagious. Spending a lot of time with a depressed person can make you depressed, spending a lot of time with an anxious person can make …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:08 PM
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Depends on why I had the glow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:15 PM
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I don’t know any who do. I am a stay at home mother myself, not by choice, my child is disabled and I HATE it because of the housework aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:16 PM
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He’s 42? Wow….that makes his comments even worse. He’s exceedingly immature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:13 PM
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He expects you to stay with him after he told you he’s not attracted to you? And no, you can’t be around for him if he changes his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:08 PM
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Attachment parenting is not something moms had been doing all along, not in my culture anyway. Sure women may have worn babies in slings or whatnot out of necessity but not due a deep belief in attachment theory and related things such as letting a baby cry it out for a bit causes brain damage. (I know some moms who really believe that so they didn’t try to sleep their child). Also, moms have never been isolated the way they are today and expected to have their baby strapped to them 24/7, EBF on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:59 PM
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Red pillers and trad men know women aren’t happy being housewives—they just don’t care about our happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:06 PM
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Spill the beans on the affair yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:03 PM
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I’d seriously rethink whether or not you want to go through with it because I agree, his choice of friends is questionable and this friend will always bring insecurity into your relationship. I’d ask your husband how he plans to handle it. The only correct answer is for him to exclude this man from being the groomsman and uninvite him to the wedding. I would personally call off the wedding otherwise as I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life being anxious about what my husband does when he’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:02 PM
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Attachment parenting was created by a Christian man to keep women at home. There is zero evidence it works to create healthier kids but tons of evidence that it works to keep moms out of the workforce and shackled to their babies. There’s absolutely no way that you spent more time with your kids when they were infants than I did with my son without doing any attachment parenting. I’m a single disabled child who couldn’t breastfeed and I didn’t want to pump. My not breastfeeding doesn’t mean you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:09 PM
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That’s odd because the vast majority of women I know and have known in my life don’t. I think women your age say that because they don’t want to seem like prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:02 PM
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Being interesting, able to carry on a good conversation, kind, compassionate but with good boundaries, emotionally healthy, social, willing to try new things, etc. Why? What do you consider to be a good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:00 PM
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Good. Now that that’s cleared up, people should stop calling other people phobic for excluding certain demographics from their dating pool. No trans people and no bisexual men for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:59 PM
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It’s 100% true. Feminists don’t want to be doing all the cooking, cleaning and child rearing. Any woman who says otherwise is NOT a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:39 AM
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Myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:20 AM
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Real life is not like porn. Most women do not want same-sex action and the ones who do don’t want to do it in front of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:19 AM
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Soooo….don’t you want to tell us what problem you think bi women have? Mine is internalized homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:18 AM
7

Weren’t they both poisoned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:54 AM
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Men who are good at math can’t handle the reality that there are women who are even better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:05 AM
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The worst part about shitty men not changing, it’s because they can still succeed while being shitty people. For women, being kind is one of our survival techniques. Men don’t need to be kind so many just aren’t and will never be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:03 AM
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I’m afraid to watch the show. I don’t think I’m ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:00 AM
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Relationships should be easy and your partner should be there to support you emotionally through everything. There’s no point otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:58 AM
5

Money isn’t enough. He’d have to have a great personality and a lot of confidence. Most people aren’t so ugly that a good personality can’t compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:44 AM
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No. Then I’d end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:43 AM
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Women past 30 are not invisible on dating apps but who wants to use a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:06 PM
1

Yep. Hair plugs and a pretty face aren’t enough to make up for that attitude. Men just don’t understand the importance women place on attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:56 PM
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Personality. Intelligence. Confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:51 PM
1

But what was the context of those women hitting the men? I’ve hit men before. I’ve even stabbed one. All in self-defence. If men don’t want to get hit by women, they shouldn’t start the cycle of abuse. If a man started screaming at me and calling me names, or gave me any reason to believe he would harm me, my family or my property, I would kick him in the balls, run away and call the cops or start kicking him in the head while he was down, then run away and call the cops. That wouldn’t make me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:50 PM
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Yep. Abusers are great at masking their behaviour in front of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:42 PM
4

Exactly. If a man loves his son and his son loves him, he WILL see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:38 PM
0

If that’s true, they’re in the closet because of male homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:37 PM
2

I’m bisexual so no, I’m not homophobic. I still have the right to keep bisexual men out of my dating pool, and I do. I have the human right to be homophobic against bisexual men when it comes to dating. I won’t go out with men who touch dick. You can shame me all you want but that doesn’t change the fact that I can reject ALL bisexual men BEFORE having met them and STILL BE OPERATING WITHIN THE CONFINES OF THE LAW. Sue me. I dare you. Call human rights lawyers, tell them you want to sue me for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:25 PM
3

Most parents nowadays get their kids tablets when they’re toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:06 AM
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Attachment parenting is oppressive to women and unnecessary. So is extended breastfeeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:48 AM
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Half of male suicides are among men with learning disabilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:13 AM
5

That would absolutely end my attraction to that guy right then and there. Men who dress up as dogs on the weekend are my favourite fetishists to mock. Can you imagine finding out your lawyer or doctor spends their weekends that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:23 AM
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Not giving someone else access to your time, body and life is not phobic. Women are not public services. We HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HOMOPHOBIC WHEN WE DATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:22 AM
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In Ancient Greece, the gay man on the bottom was called the kiridos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:17 AM
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Men who identify themselves as bisexual always end up with another man. What’s the point of dating someone if you aren’t looking for a long-term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:13 AM
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I’m not convinced bisexual men exist. They’ll just leave you for another man and come out as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:10 AM
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Sure. I will. I have a child under 10 who has special needs. $400 is nothing. Peanuts. Pocket change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:11 AM
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He CHOSE to stop seeing his kids. He’s a piece of shit. You can’t blame his choice on his ex-wife. How is the mother neglecting her parental duties? She is the one taking care of the kids. He won’t even see his son who loved him so much he wanted to live with him. Did he even try to get custody of his son? Probably not. Also, do you really believe this man is telling you the truth? Life tip: if a man blames the demise of his relationship on his ex and claims there’s nothing he could have done to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:04 AM
1

I’m thinking deepfakes of gay porn. Now I just have to choose my target.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:16 PM
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Men experience “women are wonderful” because men have better experiences with women relative to their experiences with men. Women are kinder, more compassionate, empathetic and we tend to be the ones who take care of men emotionally and otherwise. Men like us better because we do more for them than other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:11 PM
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No. Not unless they have good skills and are generous in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:08 PM
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Men who are secure in their masculinity ARE gentle towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:05 PM
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It exists because men will use a woman for sex knowing beforehand that he’s not interested in committing to her, that she would never be the one for him. Men are good at lying so women need FDS to avoid wasting time with a liar who wants to use them. Apparently our SMV and LTR value goes down with every man we have sex with. Women thus have a great reason to use FDS. Sex is a benefit men should only receive through marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:02 PM
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Yes, I know the side effect of steroids. Yet that’s the point of his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:04 PM
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The women in that photo isn’t fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:58 PM
1

But you give your dick away in abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:06 AM
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“Orientated” is NOT a word. It’s just “oriented.” Other than you’re right IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:04 AM
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What about all the women here who have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:01 AM
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I would never have sex with anyone who didn’t see it as an intimate act. What’s the point of having sex with a man if it isn’t going to be intimate? Having a human connection is part of the enjoyment. If I just want to mechanically fuck something I can suction a quality dildo to the wall or some sort of toy mount and fuck it for much longer than a man could ever last. Further, I can pair that with clitoral stimulation and get a better orgasm than I’d ever get from a man with whom I didn’t share …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:50 AM
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Yes, that’s usually how it goes but there are exceptions to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:31 AM
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It would improve our society markedly. It would make it easier to find quality people because there would be more quality people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:29 AM
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Yes, I’d expect him to get an Uber or call a cab. It’s also safe for men to walk in the dark so yep, walking works for me too. I’m not a fucking chauffeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:31 PM
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The data just doesn’t back up your assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:29 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:52 PM
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He’s only 19! He just started leveling up. He went from 0 girlfriends to 2, has improved social skills, a better body, higher self-esteem and an increased sense of self-efficacy. He’s not finished his journey, he’s just begun opening doors for himself. Yes, taking steroids is stupid but that doesn’t mean everything else he did was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:50 PM
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I am. I love pretty boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:12 PM
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This is good advice, which is rare for this sub. Practice, practice, practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:09 PM
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No it’s not. Everyone wants love and a relationship. Men especially have better lives when in a loving relationship. As such it is not stupid to put in an effort to improve yourself to get a woman because getting a woman WILL make you happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:06 PM
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Then learn how to give women the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:04 PM
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Unconditional love DOES NOT exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:04 PM
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So you expect instant gratification and instant success? Rome wasn’t built in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:00 PM
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So you’re going to let yourself be overweight just because you don’t see any point in taking care of your body if the average woman is overweight? That’s stupid. If you work on yourself you’ll be in better health, you’ll have better self-esteem and you’ll attract better-looking women. You’re just losing with your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:55 PM
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If all you got from that post was “do steroids” you’re missing the point. The point is, he leveled up. He worked on himself. He took an self-inventory, pinpointed areas for improvement and took action to improve himself along those lines and it paid off. He was also patient and didn’t expect overnight results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:53 PM
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Thanks for reminding me that some men are still sane, logical, work for long-term gain rather than immediate gratification and don’t fall back on manipulating women because they don’t have any other game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:49 PM
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Yep, you’re right. Women automatically project good qualities onto men with whom we have chemistry. It puts many a good woman into a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:45 PM
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No it’s not. You can’t expect women to sleep with men we’re not attracted to. It’s not all about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:43 PM
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Yep. It’s sexual arousal. My vagina only tingles when I feel sexually aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:42 PM
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You’re not autistic. People throw that word around without understanding what it is. Body language, saying the right things, smiling, being aware of women’s body language and seizing the opportunity when a woman demonstrates attraction to you. Sincerity above all is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:41 PM
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Wait, so you fuck every man you go on a date with? I have been on piles of first dates with different men that I’ve ended up having no interest in and I have not have sex with any of them. We just go our separate ways. Doesn’t matter if a man has expectations. Tell him to go fuck himself and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:37 PM
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Yep. It’s just luck, being in the right place at the right time. Of course, you can increase the chances of having chemistry with someone by mimicking their body language, looking and smelling good, being a good conversationalist and genuinely being physically attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:35 PM
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She shouldn’t have bothered. If you have to go to a man he’s not that interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:33 PM
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Arranged marriages are arranged rape. Women don’t like arranged marriages because we get forced to fuck men we don’t click with. If couples who were in arranged marriages become happy it is because they make the best of a bad situation. They both make an effort to get to know the other, they make an effort to make each other happy, they respect each other, they don’t cheat, they take their vows seriously and they work to build together. The man also does not expect sex or pressure her into it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:32 PM
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Definitely SOME truth to this. I don’t think men who are less attractive than their partner work harder to keep her. Many will mistreat her to try to lower her self-esteem so she won’t leave. Yet it’s true, when I’ve had boyfriends who I thought were more attractive than me I did do a lot more work on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:25 PM
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A man wanting a woman to cook is wanting her to be a subjugated woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:22 PM
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I have gotten out far more than you ever have
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:02 PM
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No. Your demand is a violation of our human rights. With your attitude and entitlement women are just going to tell you to eff off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:34 AM
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We really don’t. Men judge each other far more brutally for it than women ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:13 PM
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Amazon?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:22 PM
1

Women kill abusive men. I stabbed an abusive man in self-defence. It is absolutely 100% okay for women to use violence because we are never the ones who start the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:17 PM
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I don’t know any single women who suffer being alone. They all prefer it to being with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:14 AM
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I wouldn’t peg him knowing he hates it and I wouldn’t think twice about the ex-girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:01 AM
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Women almost ALWAYS listen to other women when they give warning about a man. Only Pick Me’s don’t care….then they come back to you later and say “you were right!” And if his boss doesn’t care, you dig up dirt on the boss, tell his wife about the kind of people he employs. She’d care. Then he’d care. The women he works with would care too. He may keep his job but everyone would look at him sideways. There’s always the long game too. Keep tabs on him until you see he has something really big to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:29 PM
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Women HAVE been the change we want in the world snd it makes no difference because we have no power. If men would change based on what women do we wouldn’t need FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:56 PM
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They have the right to comment on those posts. They don’t have to just scroll by and ignore it. However, demanding content be tailored to your personal preferences undermines everyone else’s freedom of speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:55 PM
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“Attitude and language.” Men do enough tone and language policing of women. Why are you doing it too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:54 PM
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I love the depraved men posts. I find them really really healing. No one I know IRL has been with anyone as toxic as my ex and no one believes me that it was as bad as I say it was. Now I know my ex wasn’t an outlier or one of the bad apples, that other women have experienced the same thing. Yes, it’s depressing to see the true state of manhood, but shielding women from the truth isn’t going to make dating any easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:48 PM
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Why do women have to act with “grace”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:44 PM
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I know a lawyer like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:41 PM
2

It was a sobering experience for her, that’s for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:16 PM
1

No need. Everyone knows a man’s fist is lethal. I couldn’t even kill a baby with a punch, whereas you could kill another man bigger than you with a well-placed punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:15 PM
1

Nope. I have only been violent towards men in self-defence. Men on the other hand have been violent to me to try to dominate or control me. That’s why I stabbed a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:13 PM
-1

If you don’t see the point of doing things for yourself I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:11 PM
-13

Having to hear someone else’s free speech in response to your free speech is not the kind of consequence I was referring to. When people say there are “consequences” they usually mean it’s okay to beat, harass, stalk or threaten someone for their speech. It’s also not okay for people to lose their jobs, educational opportunities, be cancelled or deplatformed for their speech unless said speech violates a law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:50 AM
7

Can any man be trusted to have unmonitored social media?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:42 AM
1

Intimacy =/= sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:28 AM
1

Women lock down social media profiles because we’re concerned about stalkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:24 AM
1

What kind of hats do you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:19 AM
1

That’s the most insightful comment I’ve read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:12 AM
0

Women leave men because men are emotionally abusive, selfish and watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:09 AM
1

That’s because a man who hits a woman has a different motive than a woman who hits a man. A man’s fist is a lethal weapon, a woman’s is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:07 AM
1

You have the Madonna-whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:00 AM
0

They DO have a problem to solve, their loser lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:55 AM
2

It’s only men who judge men for their ability to get laid by hot women. Women would LOVE it if men cut that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:51 AM
2

So you’re saying men are all lying sacks of shit like you and we should assume all men are lying to us all the time and are seeing other women. There’s a third option other than playing or not playing. It’s outing him to all his plates and his employer. Maybe spread a rumour he has herpes. It’s just how the game is played. You see, it’s my rules or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:48 AM
-42

Freedom of speech means you are free to speak your mind without consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:29 AM
1

As far as leaving…..I DID do everything I could to leave and he did everything he could to stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:51 PM
3

No. It’s porn’s fault. Porn has proven to be addictive and decrease a man’s attraction to his partner, it also makes men less empathetic towards rape victims, more sexist, less concerned about their partner’s enjoyment. It teaches them to see women as objects and that sex is something done to women rather than something done with us. It’s all men. Porn has this effect on ALL men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:49 PM
68

I second you on the entitlement. We need to all start navigating the world with the same level of entitlement as rich, attractive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:07 PM
19

I have to say it’s still something I struggle with. I try to stop myself when I get into negative thinking patterns about my last relationship and remind myself that it was him, not me. Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That has helped me enormously and so has hearing all the similar stories from ladies on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:05 PM
5

You could then reanimate the corpse and turn him into a zombie slave, let him loose on your property like an attack dog to protect you from any wayward men who might show up unexpectedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:02 PM
56

There’s nothing you can do to keep a man. A man will stay for one of two reasons: - You’re useful to him (mommy mcbangmaid) And/Or - You’re what he’s looking for and he thinks he can fall in love with you Men can’t and don’t clearly articulate what they’re looking for in a woman partner but they know it when they see it, and if a man wants to leave, he will leave and you shouldn’t offer any resistance because nothing you do will make him want to stay. A man who stays just because you’re useful t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:59 PM
64

I don’t think matchmakers are worth it based on the experiences of one my friends. This woman is high-value, never married, six figures, tall, slim, attractive, homeowner, in good shape, eats well, confident, intelligent, hard working, etc. She was 30 when she tried it out and was only matched with men who were significantly older than her who were well to do but emotionally stunted. She paid something like C$10,000 and didn’t meet anyone she wanted to go on a second date with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:44 PM
44

I’ve been there. A man did the same thing to me. He accused me of assault and harassment and he was the one actually harassing and assaulting me. Do not drop the charges against him, you are only hurting yourself if you do. You’re increasing the chances that you’ll get convicted and be considered not credible as a witness. Do you have a good lawyer for yourself? Your lawyer should be prepping you for the trial and coaching you on how to respond to questions if you take the stand. I’m assuming yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:01 PM
3

My ex tried to baby trap me too so I didn’t tell him I was pregnant so I would have complete control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:28 PM
3

He preferred watching porn over having sex with me. He’d turn down sex with me, wait until I fell asleep and then spend hours masturbating to porn in MY living room on MY computer. I found out when my computer crashed and my friend’s husband fixed it. This was 10 years ago. Then he racked up huge bills buying porn through the on-demand cable service I had at the time. After he was cut off that, he started accumulating porn DVDs, which I destroyed when I found them. He wouldn’t let me break up wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:26 PM
5

I have never fallen in love with a man and I don’t plan to start now! As for cooking for him, I don’t think so. I already cook two meals at each meal because I have an autistic son who is a picky eater. Any man I’m involved with will have to be the one to cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:00 PM
1

Yeah, I know some men think it’s hilarious and get off on the power of it. I’d just go home and masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:57 PM
5

That’s just not remotely okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:55 PM
3

And they actually believe they’ll be met with enthusiasm too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:54 PM
9

I know. 😢 I grew up watching my mother serve and I vowed I would never end up like that. My last relationship tried to force me into that role via abuse and trying to sabotage my job but I got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:52 PM
21

I agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:48 PM
17

Newsrooms are very libfem. Journalists will always take the angle their editor tells them to take. If the editor isn’t on board the article isn’t going to run, the problem isn’t the lack of women journalists, it’s lack of women editors and publishers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:07 AM
80

That’s what I want too. I haven’t dated in eight years, I was thinking of giving it a shot only to discover men our age want the kind of commitment we wanted in our mid-to-late 20s. Hell no. I want a fun companion and a sex partner but I don’t want someone living with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:36 AM
1

That’s not my responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:59 PM
6

Please make that post. Please do it. I might if you don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:34 PM
6

Me neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:23 PM
42

A history of being aroused by animals???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:19 PM
43

The delusion! I used to excel in a sport and scrotes hated it. They’d even try to injure me on purpose but they couldn’t catch me on skates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:59 PM
6

Men will say “this is why we don’t open up to you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:52 PM
1

A man did that to me so I complained to his best friend who ended up going down on me for hours as well as giving me good dick, and I also had sex with a woman I knew who straight up asked if she could go down on me. Then I told him it was over and his best friend and I had great sex for about six months. He was so upset, didn’t see it coming. He trusted me not to cheat on him when he was purposely depriving me of sex just to be controlling. What an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:36 PM
1

Why go to a sperm bank when men give it away for free? There isn’t a sperm shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:23 PM
4

Makes no difference. I’m pretty too with really nice breasts and my last boyfriend still chose porn over me even at my slimmest and fittest. He enjoyed my dismay at being rejected over and over by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:20 PM
2

No such thing as ethically sourced porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:15 PM
3

This is literally the only time I will ever agree with one of your comments, GimpGirl. Twenty or so years of unfettered access to porn has proven the majority of men prefer masturbating to pornstars over engaging in sexual activity with their wives and girlfriends. Their preference for porn is so profound that I don’t think women should even bother having relationships anymore. What’s the point of a relationship if you aren’t getting all his sexual attention and he’ll never be happy with your bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:11 PM
2

I’m a single mom and I say this. I’m also more masculine than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:24 PM
1

I know a man who had a hair transplant and he looks fantastic. He’s the only man I’ve met who is better looking at 50 than at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:18 PM
9

Women actually are entitled to kindness and respect from men via human rights legislation. Men, on the other hand, are not entitled to kindness and respect from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:57 PM
5

We know how much importance men place on sex it’s just that our bodily autonomy matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:50 PM
-1

So you’re saying women don’t care that men want us to treat them all exactly the same when it comes to sex? Why should we care when our bodily autonomy and OUR wants matter more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:48 PM
12

This is proof men are the ones who baby trap women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:37 PM
1

They’re both attractive. It would depend on their personality if I went out with either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:36 PM
7

Ooh! I love that way of thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:29 PM
12

I absolutely see the value in having a solid man at my side. Unfortunately, I have yet to meet a man who is content standing at my side like an equal. Rather they have tried to tower over me, look down on me, subjugate me, have expected me to serve them and have no needs of my own. Where are these so-called men who like to stand by a woman? Men claim they exist yet never on Reddit do you ever see a man say “my goal in life is to be an excellent husband,” it’s all “I want to fuck as many women as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:26 PM
17

Muslims are free to get rid of those laws whenever they want. Islam is also a colonizing culture. How do you think it spread beyond Saudi Arabia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:12 PM
123

She’s been gaslit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:52 PM
10

A few reasons. First, he wouldn’t break up with you if he were sincere. A man would never risk losing his dream girl like that. Second, his statement implies “you’re great but even your best is not good enough for me,” so it’s a self-esteem killer. Third, he’s also leading her on to believe he may come back “when he’s ready” for her, and when faced with this line many women have become emotionally stuck and unable to move on because they’re waiting for him to “come to his senses” and return. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:08 PM
1

The fat puts external pressure on the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:00 PM
2

It’s nice to find common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:59 PM
1

How? I feel like I’m dying right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:58 PM
1

I know. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:57 PM
1

Spanish was my second guess! You just look like the Scottish side of my family though. However I suppose my father, his brother and those of us who inherited the darker features could pass for Spanish. My mother looks German. There are actually quite a lot of Brits who could pass for Spanish…maybe it’s because our ancestors who populated the isles came from the Basque Region but there were also other migrants to Britain from the Iberian peninsula. I just guessed you were one of us! You have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:52 PM
3

That was really funny. I don’t know Ukrainian culture but I wish I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:17 PM
75

They are. I retained a lawyer recently who turned out to have a history of both alcohol and cocaine use. (We turned out to have a mutual acquaintance.) I was also hit on by another lawyer I retained and watched him stare at his colleague’s breasts. Then I saw him on OLD. Turns out he was married too. I told all his partners and I’m in the process of telling every prosecutor and judge in my city about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:45 PM
1

Blue pill. I’d cut off contact with any son who became red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:21 AM
1

Men also aren’t entitled to a women’s time, money and resources thus since sex takes time, a man is not entitled to sex from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:20 AM
1

No one is forcing you to be monogamous. You can choose not to have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:17 AM
2

I’m guessing you’re Scottish or English. If not one of those you have to be some other type of Brit or a Brixture. I suspect you’re 22ish. Your resemblance to some of my own family members and Russell Brand is striking. Can’t guess your account, don’t really know the users of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:55 AM
1

Huge improvements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:23 AM
5

Islam should be eradicated for its views on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:33 AM
1

The ones with famines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:29 AM
0

Fat women have tighter vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:11 AM
3

That’s a succinct analysis. Really resonates with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:51 PM
13

I’m saving this to read again when I find myself falling back into old thinking habits. I still struggle with all of them to some degree. It’s been years since I left my abuser, I’ve done quite a lot of therapy but it’s hard not to blame myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:50 PM
18

I love your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:14 PM
92

Refrain from expressing anger to men who are disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:58 AM
50

Of course he’s also a backseat driver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:53 AM
90

The line about garlic and ball sweat…I’m dying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:45 AM
5

She’s also behaving very childishly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:42 AM
5

That’s disgusting. He has to be 50 years old, look at how wrinkly his neck is, she looks barely out of her teenaged years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:41 AM
793

“You’re too right for me.” That’s literally the nastiest way a man can break up with a woman. It’s just so sleazy and insincere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:38 AM
120

Why do you think this is a troll? There ARE men who are THIS controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:37 PM
190

I agree. The worst thing any woman can do after a breakup is compare themselves to their ex’s new partner. It’s completely pointless. Men don’t just leave women for more beautiful and younger companions, sometimes their new companion is less attractive, or older, or older and less attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:33 PM
65

Tell me more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:26 PM
8

But their conversation is the special part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:42 PM
18

And he’s doing this during an outbreak too. There are so many layers to this depravity, like an onion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:06 AM
24

A man did that to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:00 AM
3

I cheated on a man too and he didn’t notice, he was so self-absorbed. He didn’t care when he found out later either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:33 PM
2

Yikes. So what they’re saying is that a woman’s looks really don’t matter for good sex. Further proof men only care about a woman’s looks because it increases his status, not because he needs her to be physically attractive to get it up. Why are women wasting so much time and money on beauty products again when our vaginas feel nice regardless of our exterior? I heard somewhere that fat women have tighter vaginas because the fat puts external pressure on the vagina. If men really liked tight vag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:18 PM
51

It’s a sad thing. Trauma re-enactment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:12 PM
8

I’d lose interest after that. Men who do this sort of thing are narcissists who like to feel power by controlling their partner’s access to sex. Notice how red pill men and incels view withholding sex as being controlling and manipulative? It’s because they’re the ones who play these sorts of games. But yeah, if I didn’t get narc vibes from him, I’d just assume he wasn’t attracted to me, didn’t want to lead me on but was too afraid to be direct about it because he didn’t want to upset me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:41 AM
21

I have a special needs child. It’s not always easy to predict which man will stick around and which won’t. I have to say though, the married special needs moms I know are all still just as stressed out as me. The worst part of having a special needs child is having to learn how to provide a bunch of different types of therapy and to do it at home. It’s always mom who ends up doing the therapy too usually on top of the housework and cooking. But yep, moms provide almost all the therapy and we don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:12 PM
5

$15,000? I feel sick. Why do men do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:25 PM
13

I have known two prostitutes. Both of them had clients they enjoyed and liked but it certainly was not all of them. One of them told me she enjoyed 60% of her clients, which was much higher than I’d expected, and still a bleak existence. The other only enjoyed one of her clients and he’d been a regular for four years. She told me how hard it was to feign enthusiasm for the men who grossed her out and that married men especially disgusted her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:24 PM
5

Exactly. We’re not obligated to be understanding of their “slip ups” and I don’t think anyone should be telling women we have to put up with them. I quit smoking because I really wanted to. Eight years and not a single slip up because I don’t want to smoke. I would never take on the stress of having to monitor a man for slip-ups. Not acceptable to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:17 PM
5

Have you read the FDS handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:10 PM
7

I hate to say this but I suspect he’s still watching porn. If he were truly anti-porn he wouldn’t watch it even when single. It’s just like alcohol or drugs. You can’t make someone else quit, it has to be their decision. Personally, I would never take a man at his word on porn and given the prevalence of porn use, a HVM would understand that and let you search his phone, his computer, see his credit card statements, anything to prove he’s actually porn-free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:08 PM
25

The whole “you’re responsible for your own orgasm” crowd has definitely lost perspective on what relationships are all about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:56 AM
15

Gosh why didn’t he cOmMuNiCaTe prior to them breaking up? If he were a woman, Reddit would be bashing him for not bringing up his grievances during the relationship. It takes a really special kind of douche to dump a woman and then try to force her to read the critique he wrote of her and their relationship. It seems to me like her found her self-esteem was higher than he thought it should be so he’s trying to knock her down a peg or two. I’m not even convinced he really wanted to break up with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:50 PM
14

Boys playing iPad instead of reading?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:24 PM
68

That reminds me of “better a nobody than a dead body.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:43 PM
18

“The university of hard knocks.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:39 PM
17

I’m sorry you experienced it too. That phrase is perfect, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:46 PM
34

Hostage situation based on emotional abuse describes my last relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:36 PM
9

Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:31 AM
1

But so could any guy she asks to be a sperm donor. I’m assuming too that she’d ask him a lot of questions about his history but I don’t know if he’d be screened as any other sperm donor would because he wasn’t selected from a sperm donor catalogue. I think they would be treated similarly to a couple that was having fertility treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:46 PM
0

That’s not necessarily true. A woman could scrape by going pay check to pay check without having the extra thousands to pay for IUI. Done it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:34 PM
60

The cost. Why pay for sperm when men are giving it away for free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:13 AM
60

I had one man ask if he could move into my spare room and he offered to pay me with daily oral sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:34 PM
65

That’s the late 90s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:06 PM
7

One of my exes impregnated a 13 year old when he was 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:44 PM
7

One of my exes would do that too, “your cats don’t love you, they love food.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:39 PM
6

I’ve had two boyfriends pretend to fuck my cats from behind. They were both jealous ox the attention I gave them, and they didn’t like that I called them my “babies.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:39 PM
2

I don’t talk to two of my brothers for the same reason. Just had had enough. I won’t ever let them back in my life without giving me substantial financial compensation for the pain and suffering they have caused me as well proving they’ve changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:33 PM
8

That was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:44 PM
43

My NVX was a gold digger. Money was literally the only thing he liked about me. Those were the most awful years of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:40 PM
4

Me too. They still do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:03 PM
3

Try to find common ground. Something you both like that you can discuss. Of course, it shouldn’t be all on you to carry the conversation, he should be trying to find common ground with you too. Ask open-ended questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:00 PM
31

You are too right. I’m from an UMC white background and of my entire friend group from childhood—10 well-educated women all working full-time at highly paid positions—none of them will identify themselves as feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:54 PM
49

Hasn’t it though? The way men organize themselves into sub-groups is often disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:29 PM
49

Semen smells disgusting. One of my exes said it reminded him of smell of the cleaner “Old Dutch” and by God, he’s right. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:27 PM
68

I’m disappointed by NoFap for sure. I want to be with someone who is authentically and ethically porn-free, not someone who quit because they broke their dick. The root cause of their addiction is entitlement to women’s bodies and they won’t ever fully recover until they see women as people, the same way they see men as people just like a dry drunk may be alcohol-free but they haven’t truly addressed the issues that put them on that path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:26 PM
51

Block anyone if you’re the only person they have too and they tell you that. Healthy people don’t engage in that kind of emotional blackmail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:22 PM
80

They think we’re pining over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:20 PM
2

Also, hold on Paco. Women’s financial security independent of a partner is not a relatively new issue. What’s with all these boyfriends of women acting entitled to her money? They’re not even married. Even then, why do men want to begrudge women true security in life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:54 AM
5

Men DO NOT find it hard to talk about their sexual desires. What a load of BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:41 AM
8

I would have benefited from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:35 PM
13

Most of your life experiences with men will continue to be negative whether you want that or not. You can only control so much about your interactions with men and FDS is great because it teaches you what’s within your control versus what’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:35 PM
5

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:32 PM
18

This! There’s been studies of homeless men that show they are more misogynistic and try to control (homeless) women because it’s the only thing they have in life. They’re misogynistic to compensate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:55 PM
11

Just reading that article exhausted me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:14 PM
37

All is not lost. I’ve been in your position before and the charges were dropped. I DMed you some advice. Do you have a lawyer yet? How about a place to stay? Do you have any emotional support?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:21 PM
4

As if parenting ends at 18 too. Parenting is for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:23 PM
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I don’t want men to have a birth control method because they would use it as a weapon to control women’s fertility. They’d use it to control which women get to have children and when. They’d probably try to outlaw all female birth control methods forcing women to solely rely on the goodwill of men not to have unwanted pregnancies, and they’d start formally sorting women into the two groups in which they already sort women, women for breeding and women for fucking. It’s actually great that men do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:22 PM
5

It’s not you. This is male behaviour pattern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:32 PM
4

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:29 PM
13

I hate to say it but he’s not interested anymore. It was the chase that excited him, not you. He probably sees you as a challenge and wanted the validation of winning you over. Some men love that, especially if you’re lukewarm to them at first. They feel bored after they win you over and it’s on to the next challenge. This type of man usually has low self-esteem too and uses female validation to build himself up. Since he doesn’t think highly of himself, his opinion of you will also drop after y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:24 PM
68

And sex trafficking teenaged girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:21 PM
23

IMO, they are pick-me tournaments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:49 PM
59

“I’m looking into getting into therapy” goes right up there with “I’m looking into quitting drinking.” What you said about men projecting their issues and putting women into therapy is a great observation. It’s so true. I was told I was mentally ill too but nope, it was just my reaction to being emotionally abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:48 PM
2

Oh my God….I was a writer for a magazine and we were treated like trash. The salespeople got all the glory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:34 PM
2

I’m sorry to hear that. My boss was the same way. Just turned on me. I hope you find something new soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:33 PM
70

Everyone looks the same to me too. Well, men do. Women are easy for me to tell apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:20 PM
30

Wait so he’s not attracted to his wife, he wants an open relationship so he can do porn but it’s “unfair” if she sleeps with women while all this is going on? What a dirtbag. Men like this should just get a divorce. This man literally has no logical reason to stay married, his marriage is already over. This is also why you don’t go out with or marry a man who hasn’t already looksmaxxed. Most men who looksmaxx during a relationship will leave. Same if they suddenly become successful and move up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:33 AM
55

I knew a guy who specifically targeted women who couldn’t speak English well. They’d usually stay with him a couple of years until their English improved and then they’d leave him once they realized he was an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:42 PM
226

God no. He’s turned her and the baby into his personal saviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:25 PM
26

Terrific idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:23 PM
56

I’m not a fan of video games so long as he isn’t addicted to them, and they don’t interfere with his responsibilities or take away from our time together. My NVX believed “quality time” for us was me watching him play video games because he believed his presence was all that he had to contribute. It was a terrible life. So glad I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:22 PM
109

This is great advice and should be in the handbook. I want to add that you need to be very very careful about taking time away from work for mental health issues. I know we supposedly live in an era where employers are supposed to be understanding, but that simply isn’t the case. Do not discuss your mental health at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:26 PM
3

Oh my God, really….I called the police so many times….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:24 PM
39

One of my exes claimed the parking machine stole his credit card on Valentine’s Day. He asked me what I wanted to do, so I selected a nice steakhouse and then ended up paying for both of us at the time. He was shocked when I actually expected him to pay me back and took the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:51 PM
6

Hmmm….I’d move on. I think the family differences with his mother expecting to move in with you, are too great and will cause you a lot of hardship. Sounds like he’s not willing to put his foot down and say no to her on that. If you stay with him, and he does say no to her moving in, you’ll probably at least have to be willing for you as a couple to help financially support his mother. I think it’s commendable that he takes care of his mother but that doesn’t mean I would want to be in a relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:19 PM
32

Ha! I have done that before too. I have super strong kegels and you can practically see their eyes pop out of their head when you squeeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:08 PM
35

I have dildos of multiple sizes and the 10-inch is unusable. It’s horse-sized. I don’t know how a man with ten inches could stay conscious during an erection with all that blood rushing to his dick. I probably wouldn’t have ordered one that big if I wasn’t used to men telling me their five inches was seven!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:04 PM
98

One of my friends described a guy’s penis as so small that “he was all huffing and puffing and I didn’t know what the fuss was all about!” The guy then married on the periphery of our friend group and unbeknownst to him he’s still known for his small penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:57 PM
38

I’ve not seen one that big IRL. I have an eight-inch dildo and I was blown away by its size when it arrived. Realizing I’ve had only average-to-small peen in my life makes me feel kind of sad. I should have had higher standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:55 PM
16

Not crazy at all. Sounds reasonable! It’s your stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:50 PM
13

This. You have to take drastic action to get rid of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:49 PM
7

Yucky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:32 PM
28

Oh my God. I once gave a working class man a chance after being berated by some male co-workers for saying I’d never go out with a man who wasn’t university-educated. It was supposed to be a fun fling but then he wouldn’t leave me alone. His eyes practically lit up with dollar signs when he learned my family is well-off and he wouldn’t leave me alone. As for the police? They weren’t much help. He was exactly as you described here. Masked it for a time before he really let the curtain drop. Never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:23 PM
1

Canada is definitely shit for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:55 PM
1

Canada is no better. I have horror stories to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:53 PM
1

That’s absolutely horrendous behaviour. I’m sorry you had that experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:49 PM
2

You would probably get a lot out of reading “why does he do that: inside the minds of abusive and controlling men” by Lundy Bancroft. Even in this era, men still have the tendency to want to control and possess women. Many believe they have the right to ownership of a woman and they’ll try to make you feel inadequate, abuse you and then blame you for their behaviour so you don’t leave them. He’ll try the same thing with any women he’s involved with in the future, no doubt about it. Don’t ever ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:48 PM
19

Also in Canada, also arrested twice for defending myself. DV is not taken seriously at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:35 PM
52

Canada does not treat victims of domestic violence well. I know from experience. I am also a white, middle-class woman. If police are treating me like trash, they have to be treating WOC and Indigenous women much much worse. Canada is faux progressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:34 PM
21

My ex was exactly like that but hot dogs instead of chicken nuggets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:16 PM
15

I once had to use a knife as a weapon against a man. He had trapped me in my kitchen, was drunk, screaming at me, threatening me. I couldn’t get out of the room to call the police because he was blocking my way and wouldn’t move so I grabbed a knife from my dishrack and cut him with it twice. It worked, he left. Then the police showed up—my neighbour called them after hearing him threatening me—and I got arrested. There were no self-defence laws in my country at the time. The charges were droppe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:34 PM
8

I’d tell myself not to worry about being single, tell her how to vet men, FDS-style, and tell her to go to grad school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:12 PM
201

I find these women also exclude their single friends once they have a boyfriend. They’ll make plans with other couples and have couples’ nights out, but single? Sorry you can’t join them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:10 PM
36

It’s definitely emotional abuse, I’ve been on the receiving end of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:58 PM
9

What a pathetic man! Of course I like tall men—who doesn’t?—but shorter men can still be attractive provided they have confidence and don’t have an inferiority complex due to their height. (For short lurkers, when it comes to confidence, the best thing to do is “fake it until you make it.”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:13 PM
189

So does “the wife”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:49 PM
14

I hadn’t heard of men dying playing video games so I looked it up and good lord, this just scratches the surface. One of these is a 12-year-old boy… https://www.cnet.com/tech/computing/man-dies-after-50-hours-of-computer-games/ https://www.cnn.com/2015/01/19/world/taiwan-gamer-death/index.html https://www.cnn.com/2015/01/19/world/taiwan-gamer-death/index.html https://www.cbsnews.com/news/ohio-teen-hospitalized-after-playing-video-games-for-at-least-4-straight-days/ https://www.washingtonpost.com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:57 PM
26

Yikes. I’m so sorry those are your only options. Have you considered that a single life with a vibrator would be more rewarding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:32 PM
1

Congratulations! You are going to be so much happier! Good on you for snooping his phone. He deserved it with his shady behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:48 PM
22

I told an ex he needed therapy. His response: “why should I have to see a therapist when I have you?” I was 27, he was eight years older than me, he had been in the midst of a divorce for three years due to argument over his ex’s credit card debt, which was THEIR debt, which could have been paid off using the money he had both put towards a lawyer, and he wanted to use ME as a therapist to complain about her. I didn’t even respond to him about the validity of my being his therapist after he said…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:46 PM
22

One of my former pick-me friends became a prostitute and she told me she enjoyed approximately 60 % of her clientele. Yikes. She was only doing it for drug money too. Sad, sad story. She ended up being trafficked by a man 20 years her junior and when I tried reporting what I thought was going on to the police, the officer accused me of harassing her and her “boyfriend” for being in an age gap relationship. She eventually got hold of her phone as he had taken control of it, her apartment and her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:33 PM
13

My ex used that as an excuse. Of course, he went crazy when I’d try to break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:25 PM
41

Refuses to answer questions directly, lies about inconsequential things, can’t tell when he’s lying and when he’s telling the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:33 PM
2

He threatened me. He’s is a position of power over me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:20 PM
3

I have screenshots but it will be unable for me to keep it anonymous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:20 PM
292

I needed to be reminded of this right now. I’m tossing and turning in bed, haunted by the past and “why did he do that to?” when I already know the answer “because he could and figured he’d get away with it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:48 AM
147

I need to tell on a man. I’m afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:02 AM
4

I AM shocked to see this. I can’t imagine anyone wearing a threat like that on their shirt. I’d call the police, seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:49 PM
40

Transcribing interviews is sooo boring. What a nice thing for him to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:09 PM
14

I wouldn’t help either. Said I’d help when my dad and brothers helped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:51 PM
35

That piece of dead weight next to her is smiling so hard it’s like he can’t believe his good fortune. I’m afraid he’s going to try to leech everything good from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:48 PM
48

Older women say we don’t want to be “a nurse and a purse.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:47 PM
77

That is the WORST pick up line I have ever heard! Oh my God….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:43 PM
72

They mate-guard porn, not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:40 PM
465

She’d be happier divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:44 AM
28

Yeah right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:49 AM
70

It’s so low-class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:31 PM
2

What does this post have to do with FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:20 PM
17

He is EXACTLY the kind of man I have avoided all my life. I like calm men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:53 PM
25

What was that all about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:45 PM
146

No joke. To LVM it’s exactly a game to see how far they can go, to see how much they can extract from a woman before she figures out their deal and says no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:44 AM
99

I’m really disappointed about this announcement. I thought the tides were changing. Guess I was just naively hopeful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:50 PM
43

I’ve searched my family tree back through the 18th century and there was only one chick marriage. She was 15 and the boy was 15 too. It was evident they were married because she became pregnant. Of course, I am descended from commoners. It’s really only the rich who had child marriages to secure family funds, the average age of marriage I’ve read otherwise was 22 for women. I also have one ancestor who had her first illegitimate child at 16. Women only became property if they married. Unmarried …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:35 AM
1

Your mom must have noticed a big difference with your siblings! You should ask her if she has any videos of you all so you can watch and compare. You could learn a lot from watching yourself as a child exploring the world. My son is the only baby I’ve spent substantial amounts of time with so I’m absolutely amazed when I see neurotypical babies play. My son it was all cars, cars, cars. Rolling things down ramps. He likes to play next to other kids and when kids in his daycare gradually started p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:30 AM
73

It’s normal for neurotypical to want silence and physical space for themselves too. I suspect this boyfriend you were talking to was purposely being a jackass and trying to lower your self-esteem by making you feel that a reasonable request was abnormal. Let me give you an example from my life. I asked a boyfriend to give me an hour of quiet time in the morning so I could play sudoku and relax, clear my head before I went to work. He refused. He repeatedly asked my why I needed the silence and r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:03 PM
12

Men who act like assholes and throw in the autism card don’t usually have a diagnosis and for those who do, it’s their male socialization. Men can make up any excuse and get believed. Ask your parents about your development as a baby. For example, how old were you when you started to point to show them things? Autistic babies will start pointing at 22 to 24 months or not at all. Did you engage in imaginary play? Autistic kids don’t engage in imaginary play like with dolls. How did your speech de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:47 PM
-18

I don’t notice autistic males getting pandered to. They are mostly neglected, at least in Canada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:40 PM
5

Exactly. They shouldn’t be angry at Level 2 and Level 3 autistic boys getting resources. The resource that is given as early intervention though, is ABA and IBI, and lots of level 1 autistics, ie: the neurodivergent, actually lobby against it calling it abuse when it isn’t even suitable therapy for them. I’ve been attacked by level 1 autistic adults, called a child abuser for supporting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:02 PM
3

Queer means aberrant and unusual, abnormal as in homosexuals are aberrant, unusual and abnormal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:04 AM
9

We shouldn’t have to give men a reason at all. They should just know not to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:53 PM
-9

Think of it this way. Citing cultural reasons sends a message to men that hair pulling is okay to do to women from cultures other than yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:38 PM
7

Your work is greatly appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:37 PM
13

This is great handbook material. I was heavily financially abused in my last relationship, forced to make purchases, he refused to work full time, he purposely gave up his apartment and then “couldn’t find another one” and manipulated and threatened and blackmailed me to let him live with me for awhile. Then he tried to pull “we’re common law now and if you leave me you’ll have to pay me alimony.” I guess in man speak you could say he made a lame attempt at “divorce rape.” He spent all his own m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:22 PM
14

You don’t need to cite cultural reasons for why you don’t want your hair pulled. I don’t have any cultural reasons or religious reasons to cite for why I don’t want my hair pulled and I don’t think I should have to. Hair pulling is abuse. You shouldn’t have to make it about your culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:45 PM
31

This should go in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:16 PM
14

Definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:13 PM
47

I love you for making this post. I’ve always believed prostitution being the oldest profession was total bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:13 PM
88

She’s laughing but she’s in pain. I was shocked to see a whole grown ass man when she opened that closet door, though. That made me laugh quite a bit. Little boys play in the cupboard under the stairs, not grown men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:00 PM
46

Me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:38 PM
18

My NVX was like this. He used to always “accidentally” break things when doing household tasks he didn’t like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:02 AM
344

My stomach is in knots after reading that. I have chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:46 AM
5

You’re ridiculous. I don’t believe for a second that you only date women in their 20s and that you find women in their 30s to be repulsive. You’re posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:36 PM
1

Women aren’t sexually disenfranchising men. Men have sexually disenfranchised themselves by convincing each other that porn is a depiction of real life and creating unrealistic expectations for boys about what adult life is like. Older men, who are the porn creators, have told boys via porn that a life of constant sexual fulfillment awaits them in adulthood and that if they’re worth anything women will be throwing themselves at them. Men have also taught boys that sex with a woman is meaningless…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:41 PM
7

Men’s dissatisfaction stems from their beliefs that: - they’re entitled to have sexual intercourse with women, especially attractive women, - that women have no value other than as sexual playthings for men - that women are a natural resource who existed to be exploited by men - that women don’t deserve human rights or bodily autonomy, that we are property - that having sex is a male right - that a man experiences greater harm by being denied sex than a woman does for being raped - that women’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:22 PM
3

I’m serious. I find this to be a very rational comment for this sub. This sub tends to be polarized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:13 PM
9

FDS has its own website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:07 PM
2

This attitude was even less prevalent in 2008.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:08 PM
3

They’re the ones who invented marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:04 PM
2

Then they claim that porn doesn’t change how men see women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:59 PM
5

I read one dead bedroom story from a guy who was excited that his wife let him watch her use a vibrator. She’d use it, have an orgasm, hand it to him with the expectation he’d clean it, and she’d get up and walk away. He thought that was progress. Talk about not reading the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:54 PM
2

I know, I can’t believe it was even published.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:51 PM
1

Oh waaaaaa! If men were better in bed their wives would want more sex. Sex also isn’t a human right and neither is marriage. Men who want to sleep around can’t have their cake and eat it too. One woman at a time. Men think they can have it all at the expense of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:48 PM
23

Wow. My autistic son is less picky and he has both chewing and swallowing problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:33 PM
13

That was written by a man or by a woman with a gun to her head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:21 PM
19

Ovarit allows men to comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:20 PM
1

What the fuck is AWALT? What am I supposed to be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:35 AM
1

I rate your naïveté a 97.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:34 AM
6

Oh no. A male gave me things to think about. Are you really this normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:32 AM
1

I remember back when the Taliban first came to power and everyone was decrying them. Most of you were embryos back then and I remember Muslim leaders in Canada and my Muslim classmates saying “this is not Islam!” and how unfortunate it was to see such literalists gain such power. “This is why we left!” “Who would have thought it would get so bad?” Canadian leftists (NDP) and Liberals and Conservatives alike decried the treatment of women an implementation of Sharia law. I was sure that by 2021, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:01 AM
4

It’s definitely hypocritical when men who watch porn believe they are better, purer, more moral and more deserving human beings than men and women who make porn but no one should have to marry anyone they don’t want to. However, if the woman checks all a man’s boxes and being a pornstar was the only reason he didn’t want her, then he’d definitely be an amoral hypocrite who doesn’t believe in equality for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:48 PM
3

You just said that in sex all is allowed, so why are you complaining about what you think women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:42 PM
11

She can’t take the ultimatum back. The only way she can win this situation is by leaving him for good. He’s future faking. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:36 PM
23

Banks are now dictating our morals and social policies, are they? I’m going to start calling my bank’s regional manager when I need political change. We need a Women’s Bank. One that won’t deal with misogynistic companies or entities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:33 PM
12

Imagine how awful it would be to have a child you put everything into, only to have him start hating women and turn on you. Too many women have to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:54 PM
69

Yep. Men expect the impossible from inexperienced women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:50 PM
5

You shouldn’t have to redirect him to a therapist, he should be redirecting himself to a therapist and of his own volition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:46 PM
168

Tears shouldn’t make men horny. Studies have shown that tears make men less attracted to women not more attracted, so this is some really aberrant behaviour right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:43 PM
1

I would not retain a guy like that. This video needs to follow him for his whole career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:31 AM
4

When a man withholds attention from me or is dismissive with me, I see it as a sign of lack of interest and I disengage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:18 AM
5

That would be so funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:35 AM
92

More like 3 to 6 minutes of jackhammering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:32 AM
20

I’ve been in that situation. It was a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:28 AM
17

No. Just no. Deal with your grief, then date. Even if it takes 15 years, life isn’t fair that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:25 AM
51

My son and I lived with my parents for awhile and when I’d ask her what she wanted for dinner she said “anything, so long as I don’t have to cook it.” My dad now, finally, in their 70s, does half the cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:10 AM
30

Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:07 AM
15

Where?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:05 AM
12

That’s how the Ferengi eat too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:04 AM
97

I don’t want to be rude but where are you from? This is not common in my culture. I’m UMC British Canadian. An immigrant. My mother is submissive and stayed at home but fix him a plate at a buffet-style meal cooked by someone else? No way in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:02 AM
101

So much for their supposed superior hand eye coordination and bigger appetites. They haven’t even evolved well enough to place food on their plates. Next they’ll be expecting to be breastfed on demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:59 PM
136

I’d actually make fun of them men whose wives were fixing them plates. I would never socialize with couples like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:57 PM
29

You have to be kidding me! This is from like 1910 or something right? Meanwhile I bet he makes her go 50-50 because EqUaLiTy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:56 PM
25

I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:49 PM
60

LVM want deference more than they want to be loved. They want you to make you bleed because it’s more important they get validation for their dick size than protect your health or well-being. Your pain is evidence of their huge dick. A huge dick means being the manliest of men. That is what men want the most out of life. To be the manliest no matter how many women and men they hurt. They want other men to defer to them. They want to be in charge, to fuck women to the point of bleeding with impun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:30 PM
67

If a man tells you he doesn’t do holidays or birthdays it’s either because he’s broke or cheap. Either way is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:59 PM
3

Block and delete. He said he sees you two becoming good friends, he yelled at you…block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:58 PM
30

What kind of woman would say yes to this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:02 PM
131

Crotchless panties for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:00 PM
62

Haha! The look on that blonde guy’s face was priceless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:04 PM
10

I really don’t know anyone like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:06 PM
128

This story seems fake to me. I’m sorry but most women don’t have a threesome partner they can call at the drop of a hat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:51 PM
50

https://www.theonion.com/i-think-that-stripper-really-liked-me-1819583467
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:33 PM
6

I hadn’t heard that. That’s a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:31 PM
14

Oh my goodness. This has only happened to me once and now I can put it into context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:05 PM
109

I’m glad you’re leaving. I had a scrote treat me the same way right down to the suicide threats. In the future, don’t tell men about your mental health struggles. So many of them will use it against your rather than show any compassion or empathy. Don’t answer his calls anymore. Let him scream into your voicemail then take the voicemails to the police and file a police report for him harassing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:02 PM
11

I also think it’s good to keep separate finances but that doesn’t have to mean going 50-50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:20 PM
13

I don’t think it’s a fake post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:17 PM
22

They’ll go back to Afghanistan, I’m guessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:02 PM
30

A man should have stepped up and given him a job and mentored him not to be an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:36 AM
34

Not all activity dates are created equal and I think age is also a factor. Bowling would be fine as a date for a middle school, high school or even a university date but not for working professionals, definitely not as a first date, not when there are so many other things for adults to do. Exercising together? Yeah…no….not unless you’re both avid athletes who live life for sport. I used to be an athlete, I played a skating sport and I had exercising dates with other athletes but definitely not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:34 AM
43

“Fearplay”? That’s a new word for me and it scares me that it’s a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:25 PM
47

That book helped me understand the abuse I was subjected to and has helped me stop blaming myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:23 PM
185

He should have just taken her out for dinner. I bet he would have paid too considering she was his best match ever. I wouldn’t do a virtual Netflix viewing party as a date either. What a terrible idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:17 PM
37

Same. I felt like I couldn’t leave unless I could prove my NVX’s drug use, infidelity, etc. I’d try to break up with him and he’d be like “sorry you have no proof.” I don’t know why I accepted that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:28 PM
56

This man just hates women being successful period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:22 PM
396

I’m not one bit surprised to learn the Plymouth shooter complained about FDS. When are our leaders actually going to take steps to try to deradicalise the male population? We really need public health campaigns telling men they aren’t entitled to women or sex, and men need to teach other men coping strategies for dealing with feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:18 PM
25

I interpret comments about vaginas not being tight as negging. I believe men do it specifically to make women feel self-conscious to try to get us to agree to other sex acts, like anal, and to make us insecure so we won’t leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:01 PM
36

Of course it wouldn’t. Then he’d blame the prostitutes for not really liking him and not giving it to him for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:52 PM
26

Mentally ill people are more likely to be victims of crimes rather than perpetrators. It’s also not easy to get declared not criminally responsible for a crime. Most times, mentally ill people who commit crimes serve their sentence in jail and get zero help for their mental illness. Those declared NCR, at least in Canada, end up residing in secure psychiatric wards and often spend longer in there than they would in jail, and then face years of supervision before they can live freely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:49 PM
192

Canada is now treating incel violence as terrorism. I’m surprised Britain hasn’t moved in that direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:43 PM
29

Wow. This guy was really quite deranged. FDS isn’t remotely like incel theory for many reasons, not just because FDSers don’t kill, but because FDS is about building positive relationships while incel theories are about breaking a woman’s spirit and using her for sex. I hate that autism is linked to all these crimes. If autism were the cause you’d see female autistics raging in the same way at society. You’d also see autistic people with intellectual delay, who make up 80% or so of the autism co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:41 PM
94

I’d end that relationship. That’s a good reason to divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:14 PM
2

You’re absolutely entitled to your opinion and if you say you’ve had the same experiences with men without dads, I believe you. It’s just that I don’t believe single moms who didn’t introduce their son to his father coddle their sons and produce 50-50 sons any more than married women or divorced women do. I can’t see how it happens. I’ve given it a lot of thought, considered a lot of variables. I’ve met a lot of men who have never met their dads at all, and some are well-adjusted, some aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:05 PM
1

The “white feminist” slur doesn’t work on me. Shaming doesn’t work on me in general. My NVX was not white and he used my whiteness against me all the time, extracting money and kindness from me while playing the racial guilt card. Like a good leftist I felt I owed him because I’m white and an immigrant from Britain so time and again I caved. I took verbal and psychological abuse from him, his friends and his family for being white. No one will ever succeed in doing that to me again. Not IRL and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:44 PM
5

I believe you’re being truthful about your experiences and I’m not trying to get you to change your standards or modify your boundaries yet I will continue to disagree with you that single mothers are more likely to coddle their sons than married women. Married women often coddle both their husbands and their sons and that sends an even worse message. I will also continue to disagree with you that boys who never met their fathers will be worse fathers and husbands, and be more likely to want to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:22 PM
9

The pressure to exclusively breastfeed is a part of this. I know there are men who won’t get out of bed to feed the baby in the night even if the mother has chosen to formula feed or pump but when there’s so much pressure to EBF many new moms have no choice but to live this way. As long as women EBF there is no option for the father to feed the baby at night, you have to pump or use formula for that and woman are often discouraged from doing both those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:27 PM
3

Great post! I’d gladly trade my womanly ability to easily find sexual partners for the kind of power men have. If a man really could give me his male privilege in exchange for my feminine wiles, I’d have no issue with paying for his dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:20 PM
47

“If she wasn’t my sister, she’d be my girlfriend.” - My NVX on his sister after I said she was very pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:12 PM
10

Do it! Go get your Masters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:09 PM
45

I think men know this is a stupid argument and just say it to annoy women and be obnoxious. I have a hard time believing a man would actually really believe women are trying to use them for free meals because it’s just such a stupid notion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:07 PM
82

Likewise. I think this generation of young women is poised to make a huge difference and I see radical feminism making a comeback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:05 PM
36

I can believe it. I’ve noticed a lot of women on this sub doubting the stories told by other women. Why? That’s something men do and telling a woman not to throw her pad in the garbage IS something a man would do. I told a story on this sub about meeting a woman at the emergency room whose rib was broken by a man during sex and who said a simp drove her to the hospital and I was doubted. Why? I noticed later my post was removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:01 PM
151

Men kept women out of the workforce because they didn’t want to have to do housework or childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:57 PM
6

Same. I’m also a single mother to a boy who has never met his father. I left him when I found out I was pregnant. He was abusive and sadly it took me becoming pregnant to finally decide to take my chances and escape. My son will never grow up to have a relationship as he’s severely disabled by autism and sensory issues, but I have never coddled him. Grandma does, I don’t. This post also made the wrongful assumption that all single mothers come from poor families that don’t include good male role…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:45 PM
29

To each their own but I’m not going to pretend this post isn’t offensive to me. Thanks for continuing to demonize single mothers. I especially resent the statement that it’s better to have a LVM as a dad than no dad at all and the assumption that single moms coddle their sons. This is straight up misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:00 PM
8

Red flag for sure. He’s entitled to his opinion about the Kardashians and Kim’s sex tape but to just bring it up out of nowhere and to start ranting about it is off. It also bothers me because Kim Kardashian is a victim re: the sex tape, and I find that men who rant about it are just upset that an exceedingly beautiful and rich woman became famous after a sex tape leak. I don’t know why he was complaining to you about it either, it was men who made that tape famous by watching it, he should be c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:12 PM
94

So true. My child’s bio-dad was 35 when I conceived and my child has two copy number variants and is severely disabled. Autism is his most noticeable symptom. I know know piles of other families with autistic kids and the vast majority of their parents were also 35+ when they were conceived. I know some families with two or three autistic kids, level 2 or level 3 and they’re massively overwhelmed. Some parents in my province have committed suicide and others have been forced to abandon their chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:50 PM
18

Keep an eye on the clingy guy. He’s the stalker type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:13 PM
46

Yeah, when men act angry it’s all for show to intimidate you, to shut you up. You’re supposed to be smiling 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:10 PM
21

I’m a journalist myself and I would only go out with another one if he: - had a salaried position at a media organization or - made a good wage freelancing, but let’s face it, freelance rates are so low these days that it’s impossible - freelanced but had another salaried position say in communications or public relations or govt, another good career trajectory anyway Yes, I would definitely go out with a journalism student if I were a student. Although journalism is generally a poorly paid indu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:12 PM
36

Congratulations! It’s a beautiful ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:59 PM
40

It doesn’t border on cheating, it IS cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:34 AM
38

Throw all those men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:34 AM
24

Call the police and a lawyer immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:29 AM
29

This is an excellent post. Will save and send to my SILs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:21 AM
152

She just sent him a nude just because? Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:16 AM
171

Men aren’t protectors. That’s always been a myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:44 AM
19

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:24 PM
36

That’s worse than a dick in a box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:40 PM
399

I hate how women today are taught to accept these empty gestures in the name of I-love-him-as-a-person-not-for-his-money. Men pretend it’s about that, but in his mind though, he’s thinking “I already have her, she’s had a baby with my sperm, what’s she going to do? Say no? Look world! I have this woman so much under my thumb that she’ll accept a ring pop to be with me. That means I’m the shit. Look at this self-described feminist debasing herself, I am THE man. Now I have more money for MEEEEEEE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:39 PM
143

He’s an Uber-Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:26 PM
230

After they snare that first partner they come to believe they’re hot shit. However, they want their security fuck so they convince the first woman who chose them to be ethically non-monogamous so he can get validation. These men are usually late bloomers puberty-wise too and don’t usually have sex until after university.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:59 PM
25

If Heard hit Depp, it was most likely in self-defence. Reactive violence is not abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:54 PM
9

There’s no way Amber Heard is equally abusive to Johnny Depp. No way in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:54 PM
10

“I don’t dance with women I haven’t made out with yet.” What kind of a woman do they expect will fall for this stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:24 PM
17

He seems like a real prize. Too bad he’s untameable, ladies! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:06 AM
62

Abusive men get off on the pain they inflict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:24 PM
1133

She’s not a girlfriend to him, she’s a roommate and a sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:21 PM
121

This is insulting. Having a crush doesn’t mean you have attachment issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:01 PM
46

Why marriage is not worth it. My mother was this kind of wife and was miserable. It was thankless. That’s what I think of wifedom—it’s thankless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:09 AM
88

That’s a very positive take!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:48 AM
3

If he’d just wanted design tips he’d have pretended to be female. Rather, he knows pick mes will flock to respond so he announces his existence as a male. Why don’t men do what women do? We look at photos of homes and learn about interior design. The whole point, in my opinion, is that the decor of your home reflects your style and tastes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:28 PM
10

Wow….that is terrifying! I’m so glad this man doesn’t know where you live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:24 PM
40

If he’d really wanted the t-shirt he’d have asked for it when they broke up initially or within a few days of them breaking up if the break up convo had been upsetting and heated, he wouldn’t have waited months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:15 PM
43

That’s how I ended up as a pick me, I was tired of being mocked for being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:10 PM
11

SAFE. Safe from whom? What does she think he’d be doing if he weren’t at home playing video games?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:58 AM
32

Two men a day? Fourteen men a week? Who has time for that? Sounds like projection to me. Ladies, 672 is his many women men like this talk to in a year in an attempt to get sex, not how many men women speak to per year. The average scrote who calculated this obviously talks to this many women a week, and spends all his time chasing pussy and getting none. As such, these scrotes also definitely masturbate to three different women in porn per day to compensate because they can’t get a real woman. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:17 PM
7

That’s honestly the best way. Most people know what kind of info can be found about them online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:15 PM
14

I tried Spokeo but it doesn’t give any info on Canadians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:14 PM
57

One of my exes said the same thing….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:09 PM
1

Absolute dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:35 AM
1

So women need to be willing to fuck a lot of men. You’re part of the reason I hate Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:34 AM
0

But you make disparaging remarks against FDS so I don’t really believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:47 AM
0

You’re confusing a woman aging with her lacking value. You’re a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:46 AM
1

Give women guns and we won’t need men. We could just shoot the bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:45 AM
0

I was just living my life when I saw the most amazing thing. Tons of men pulling out their dicks and beating off to digital images online until they bent their penises and gave themselves erectile dysfunction. That’s a much more stupid thing to do than hug a bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:44 AM
1

You must be a big fan of FDS because that’s the cornerstone of FDS strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:31 AM
1

Why do you shit on FDS then when that is EXACTLY what FDS teaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:31 AM
0

I think it’s criminal slander to call someone a prostitute when they aren’t….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:29 AM
-1

Women don’t even like Chads. You’re delusional. Chad is a figment of the male imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:28 AM
1

It’s rude and disrespectful. Men claim to love sex but they disrespect women who give them sex. Such a logical, moral gender!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:25 AM
0

No. It’s the man’s fault for behaving badly. You are a misogynist and your comment blames women for what men do and thus incites violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:23 AM
1

Although the dicks were rather small she got to count them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:22 AM
-1

She’s already blocked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:21 AM
-2

Women don’t owe men “the life of Chad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:21 AM
0

That’s right. Any man who would try to make a woman feel cheap and used for having sex with him is a misogynist and a rapist who doesn’t deserve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:17 AM
1

I don’t see men like you as worthy of respect. I’m going to start insulting the dick size of every man I don’t respect because I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:16 AM
-1

That would put her in physical danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:14 AM
0

And red pillers and incels are called men but that doesn’t make them actual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:09 AM
1

The only reason he gets away with it is because there are no means for women he has duped into sex to warn other women about him. We need a “Chad” database to warn women who the Chads are so we can stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:08 AM
0

The unwritten code for hook-ups is that you work for mutual sexual satisfaction and treat the other person with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:07 AM
-2

What kind of a man chooses to fuck a woman based on a photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:05 AM
0

Women get a say in the rules too. Men don’t get to make the rules anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:03 AM
1

The woman is not “ranting”. She gives a description of an experience she had. That is not ranting. This post should be removed as its deeply misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:02 AM
-4

And you sound like a complete jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:56 AM
2

Yuck. So Chad passes germs from one woman to another? He doesn’t even shower in between?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:55 AM
3

Men are misogynistic, that’s why they don’t engage in traditionally feminine activities. If men respected women as intellectual and moral equals there would be zero stigma when men knit, sew, twirl in skirts, exhibit lordosis in the bedroom during heterosexual sex, wear make-up, cook, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:53 AM
2

It really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:47 AM
2

I take issue with the notion that I have to keep my body count low to still have value as a person. That’s called sex discrimination and misogyny and it’s illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:42 AM
1

I insist on mutual sexual and romantic interest simultaneously, as well as mutual respect. Not interested in a man who doesn’t feel both for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:39 AM
1

Who is the ultimate Chad, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:37 AM
0

So why do you have a problem with a woman having sex quickly with one man she’s seeing but not another?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:34 AM
2

“Kinks”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:32 AM
9

Romantic and sexual interest are the same for me. I can’t imagine being romantic with someone I didn’t want to have sex with eventually and I can’t imagine being sexual with someone with whom I wouldn’t be romantic. I suspect you have a Madonna-Whore complex and that your feelings of “romantic” attraction are simply feelings of friendship. You’re probably not used to seeing women as people so this new feeling you get when you genuinely like a woman’s personality and respect her might come as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:30 AM
2

I’m equally concerned with both types of infidelity. Sex and emotions are linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:24 AM
20

I haven’t been able to watch the Bachelorette for years. The season with Chad five or six years ago. He was legitimately frightening and they invited him onto the Bachelor in Paradise too. One of the women said she had gone their just for him. I couldn’t believe it. The way he raged was EXACTLY how my abusive ex raged and it gradually got worse from there. I have avoided it since then, I can’t believe they aren’t even screening for domestic abusers. He was given sooooo many chances, he should ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:41 AM
19

Fiyyyyyah!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:52 AM
314

Abusive men always magically calm down by the time police arrive too. Then he plays the “look at how upset and crazy she is,” card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:14 PM
-9

Not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:05 PM
12

So true. Losing weight is super easy for men in comparison to women. They can lose weight by cutting out one beer a day or switching fries to salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:05 PM
12

Men never devoted their time to breadwinning and raising kids. Many men still drank their wages leaving their wife and kids to go hungry. You act like men had been characters back in the 19th century. Newsflash: they didn’t. Men WERE becoming better in the 20th century but the widespread accessibility to Internet porn changed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:01 PM
6

Money has provides men with the opportunity to debase women. Right now, men are the ones with the most money so it’s not men who have to worry about being debased.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:59 PM
6

“Girl-next-door” is still an unrealistic stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:58 PM
3

Nope. It’s just that AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:56 PM
8

We’d also need compensation for the pain and suffering of pregnancy too as well as lifetime compensation for the chronic pain and illnesses pregnancy causes in most women. Pregnancy exacts a toll on a woman’s body that she has to pay for her entire life. For most women, it’s some sort of chronic pain/and or incontinence. For that we deserve the same yearly gross income as the wealthiest man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:51 PM
9

Think of how much better your life would be without that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:46 PM
9

I know they do and I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:34 PM
89

He radiates it like the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:23 PM
19

This man triggers me. His smarty-pants smile is the most infuriating part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:19 PM
957

Someone needs to make a sticker board for her. She gets a sticker when she throws the man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:14 PM
29

So true. Women police other women too much, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:58 PM
36

There is definitely such thing as the male office gossip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:57 PM
36

Intellectual stimulation is a must for me in any relationship. I can’t get sexually aroused unless I’m intellectually aroused. I am gifted and I would only have an LTR out with a men who is more intelligent than me or of equal intelligence. I find men otherwise become intimidated, try to compete with me, inevitably lose and become abusive. I also find that the only men interested in me beyond a physical relationship are intelligent men so the trash sort of takes itself out. This has been my life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:52 PM
1

Your ex-wife would disagree, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:16 PM
5

I had three natural pregnancies after 34 and I’m still fertile now in my 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:09 PM
1

That’s what abusive men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:08 PM
1

It’s abusive to deprive her of sex as a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:18 PM
1

Married women are more likely to suffer from depression and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:16 PM
1

It’s not a privilege. What makes you think it’s a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:00 PM
1

Assumptions. Where’s the proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:55 PM
1

You’re just making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:52 PM
43

That’s a really comprehensive list! I love how FDS users are constantly generating content to better equip women to spot the signs of abuse. I’m currently doing a block of trauma therapy to move on from domestic abuse and FDS posts, the handbook and some items on the reading list have been excellent complements.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:54 PM
1

At least you have the bux. Some betas don’t even have that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:48 AM
1

She’s divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:51 AM
2

You shouldn’t live in the West if you don’t support women’s emancipation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:36 AM
1

Women have always worked and “male spaces” were never organically male spaces or needed to keep men safe from women, they were more accurately “women-exclusion zones” so men could monopolize careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:06 AM
2

Josh is Indian TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:53 AM
1

If a man couldn’t provide he’d travel, get work somewhere else, change profession or become a labourer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:51 AM
2

I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have “friends” like this, man or woman. We all have people we stay friends with to keep harmony in our friend groups, communities and workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:43 AM
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That’s the only logical interpretation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:20 AM
5

I want a cheerleader.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:00 AM
2

What similarities does it share with the red pill? I haven’t noticed any.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:47 AM
0

I suspect you are larping as a female. You said “I am a married female…” And “I have yet to be surprised by a crazy or opportunistic ex-girlfriend.” So are you a lesbian? Because that’s the only way those two statements make sense together. More like you are larping as a woman as part of your contribution to the male collective effort to socially groom women into accepting less in marriage. Men who larp as women online should be jailed for fraud. It’s a hate crime as it’s always done in ill inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:37 AM
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Men use people all the time in this manner so I’m confused as to why you wouldn’t think women would do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:25 AM
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Housework is not easy. It’s boring as hell and isolating. It’s spending every day of your life bored as hell at home by yourself forced to clean up after other people. It’s sheer hell. Snoveling show is not difficult for men. You have, on average, 65% greater upper body strength than women. Stop pretending it’s some intense workout. I live in a snowy climate, I know better. Plus, there’s always snowblowers and snow removal services are not expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:09 PM
1

Women can create human life. Men can’t. It’s not sexist, it’s a biological fact. It’s hate speech for you to call it hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:05 PM
7

Are you larping?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:15 PM
28

“I don’t think she understands the impact of her actions.” So he thinks his wife is stupid too? Hard pass on this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:07 PM
1

The advice on FDS is designed to help you find an equitable relationship and takes into consideration the reproductive labour women provide that men aren’t capable of providing as well as the fact that men make more money in their lifetimes and have more freedom. Manosphere advice, on the other hand, is designed to leverage the power discrepancy between men and women to further disadvantage women at the expense of male sexual desire. FDS is about consensual relationships based on honesty, while …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:42 PM
1

Asymmetry occurs because of genetic problems. Read about human congenital defects and genetic disorders where some type of asymmetry is a symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:20 PM
1

Women don’t “fuck” their 20s away. They use their 20s to become financially stable so they can be good moms in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:18 PM
1

Hating women for following FDS is close-minded and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:13 PM
1

Men care about teeth too. Everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:12 PM
1

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:11 PM
2

Studies show that isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:08 PM
1

Women get punished for trailblazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:08 PM
1

Hate speech is constant in this sub. This whole sub should be axed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:07 PM
2

And how many women do you think have their good business ideas ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:06 PM
0

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:06 PM
0

Why are you devaluing Human Resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:05 PM
2

How are men from us soccer being underpaid? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:02 PM
4

Men earn more money because other men wrongfully believe men are smarter than women. Women achieve more in education because women ARE more intelligent than men, on average and because we have to. Uneducated men can still get paid a lot for labour jobs or one of their bros gets them a job. That doesn’t happen for women. Men face fewer consequences for being less educated so education just isn’t as important to men. The average degree holder earns more money because they have completed more train…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:56 PM
17

Women still do the majority of housework and cooking. What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:52 PM
0

Men are vastly less likely to be victims of DV. Studies show that men who claim to be DV victims are actually most often the abuser who is trying to take the heat off themselves by blaming the woman. If treating men’s mental health is so far behind then why do male combat veterans have access to all the PTSD programs when women suffer from higher rates of PTSD due to male violence? Men get much better healthcare than women do in general and that’s a fact. You just have a victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:46 PM
6

Women shirk traditional gender roles because we have too many menial tasks dumped on us. They don’t allow us to reach our intellectual potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:43 PM
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Nope. It’s freeing men from the male-imposed belief that they are worthless if they don’t have a high n-count and can’t attract models.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:40 PM
1

Men aren’t giving themselves the leeway because they’re misogynistic. Men who aren’t misogynistic do indeed stretch themselves beyond traditional roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:39 PM
3

You realize this guy is threatening you, right? He’s threatening to expose you so you’d get arrested. Don’t engage with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:38 PM
5

It sounds like you’re making threats. Where is the mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:37 PM
2

No reversing the roles. There are things women can do that men aren’t capable of so it’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:34 PM
6

So the role of a wife is to be a cheerleader for her husband ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:33 PM
50

He belongs in jail for what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:50 PM
4

Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:14 PM
7

The Planetary Placenta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:10 PM
19

🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:14 PM
25

I blame The Simpsons and Family Guy for this. They created this generation of LVM. They were meant to satirize bad relationships but somehow Gen X and Millennial men took Homer Simpson and Peter Griffin as role models, as the norm for how men behaved. There certainly WERE men like that in real life but I didn’t know any. My family is a mixture of upper middle class and working class people and NONE of the men were like that. No boy I knew in school would have dare made a “bitch get me a sandwich…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:36 PM
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He was testing her to see if she placed politeness above her own dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:19 PM
10

“We can’t stick our dick in your degrees.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:11 PM
32

We need chapters or locals across the country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:02 AM
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That’s a very thorough summary of the pressures and expectations placed on women. I feel the pressure to be all this. I’d like to add the expectation that we also exclusively breastfeed and/or pump and have natural births. Women have committed suicide over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:54 AM
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That’s true. He’s attractive enough to be able to get an attractive girlfriend. He’s obviously turning women off with his attitude, beliefs and behaviour because who would want to hitch their wagon to that? Can you imagine being married to an insufferable guy like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:48 PM
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Blocking him is your only choice. If he continues to contact you, make a police report against him for harassment, ask the police to contact him and tell him to leave you alone. After that, call the police if he contacts you again either directly or indirectly (through a friend) and say you are frightened and ask how to get a restraining order. If that doesn’t work, you’ll have to change your number, move and cut off all mutual acquaintances, lock down your social media. Keep the console. The co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:00 PM
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Nah. Red pill is a strategy men have developed to try to increase their social standing among other men. It leverages male sexual entitlement and exploits female socialization. Men don’t use red pill because they’re desperate and sexually deprived. They only focus on obtaining sex from women because men are impressed by promiscuity in other males and look up to promiscuous men. That’s why they are so invested in the concept of alpha fucks beta buxx, they see red pill as the fastest way to climb …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:05 PM
2

Stripping and prostitution shouldn’t be considered viable ways for women to get out of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:41 PM
6

“Closeted homosexuals”????? No. I mean straight men who deprive their wives of intimacy. My comment has nothing to do with gay men. By “intimacy” I don’t mean “sexual intercourse.” Certainly, having loving sexual intercourse during which you’re invested in giving each other an orgasm while experiencing emotional closeness is part of intimacy, but intimacy is really the emotional bubble in which couples exist and healthy couples constantly express and bolster intimacy in their relationships by be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:02 PM
13

I don’t know if that would work. Some men are so unsophisticated that they imagine they’d be sex-crazed bimbos if they were women. “I’d just play with my boobs all day.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:56 PM
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That’s the worst part about being British. Being passive aggressive is seen as a skill to hone—we’re taught it in childhood—and the “winner” in any conflict is the one who can deliver the most scathing but politely-phrased barb without showing any expression other than a self-satisfied smirk. The loser is expected to cede gracefully, unless he’s a man, in which case he can choose between ceding or starting some sort of physical fight or polite feud, in which case he starts pre-planning his passi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:54 PM
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The never-married men who say that have no respect for women and don’t like women’s personalities. They like to go down MRA rabbit holes and fill their minds with stories of “divorce Rape” and being denied access to their kids by CPS who are usually acting on behalf of their ex-wives and court orders. Divorced men who make this claim are divorced because they’re abusive jerks or they married a woman they didn’t really love—married her because she made him look good socially, or because he reache…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:29 PM
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Thank you for this post. I am excessively bogged down by the notion of “accountability” and it’s one of the many reasons I stayed in abusive relationship even after I realized I was being abused and had the means to get away. I was locked into this “it takes two” mentality of self-blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:29 PM
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It’s easy for men to feel aroused at static images of women because they know they’d cum in a sexual interaction with her 99.9% of the time. Women, on the other hand, can’t tell from a man’s photo that we suspect he’s going to give us an orgasm because men refuse to consistently ensure we orgasm. If men collectively ensured we orgasmed each time we had sex, treated women with respect and dignity, made us feel safe I bet more of us would become aroused by images of men because we’d associate men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:42 PM
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It’s not a “nicer” diagnosis, it’s a more accurate diagnosis and an acknowledgment of how being abused can affect you. Would you say PTSD is a “nicer” diagnosis for men with ASPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:13 AM
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You CAN’T. You CAN’T expect sex anywhere from anyone EVER. Acting entitled to sex is a HUGE turn-off for women too. It’s very frightening and that’s how you get called “creepy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:05 AM
1

Most women diagnosed with BPD actually have PTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:52 AM
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It was bound to happen. Everyone saw it coming. Did you see the video she did about how he would leave wet laundry in the washer for days? With LVM, it’s never just one thing, never just one problem, it’s death by a thousand cuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:54 AM
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I had short hair for all of my 20s and 30s. It really helped weed out assholes from my dating pool. But you get the neg “I usually hate short hair on women but I find you attractive.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:17 AM
38

I agree with you. They buy all the things they wanted as a child and young adult but couldn’t afford.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:57 PM
50

Best thing is not to give the father any parental rights to begin with—leave his name off the birth certificate and say you don’t know who the father is. You don’t get child support but you don’t have to deal with a scrote trying to use your child against you for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:29 PM
241

Strong mutual attraction and strong mutual respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:19 PM
0

Double standard. You expect women portray themselves realistically when men don’t portray women realistically? The use of photoshop and filters to distort women’s bodies is something men started, not women. If you want women to portray ourselves realistically you first need to get men to start portraying us realistically. This is again, a problem created by men. Why are you blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:27 PM
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Assuming I’m talking about obese women—the classic male diversion tactic when discussing how porn gives men unrealistic ideas about what women look like and makes them unattracted to the women they choose as girlfriends and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:17 PM
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I absolutely believe in putting limits on what men are allowed to do to women. Doesn’t make me an authoritarian. Polygamous relationships have been proven to be harmful to the women in them. Why do you want to harm women? Also stop trying to shame me. It won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:48 PM
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Nope. Studies show men who watch porn lose attraction for their partners no matter how hot they are and by real women, I mean the women men have chosen to be their girlfriends and wives. I mean women who who have normal bodies who are of a normal weight but just don’t have porn star proportions. I don’t expect men or women to be attracted to obesity or bad breath. I also respect men choosing not to date single mothers, as well as women choosing not to date single dads. Also, should a man choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:38 PM
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Women don’t want to cook and clean either! We hate it! We especially resent and despise cleaning up after a man. Men manipulate us into doing all the work by giving us a choice between cooking and cleaning or not eating or eating junk and living in squalor. That’s a not a choice even, it’s blackmail and domestic abuse. If men want to avoid being nagged to cook and clean they should only have relationships with women who are as slovenly as they are. I personally don’t think nagging is effective, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:37 PM
2

Double standard alert! How is my comment any more bitter and jaded than a man saying pussy is all women have to offer? Men say it here ALL the time. There are whole posts about it and I haven’t seen you jump in to tell these men they’re bitter and jaded and wrong. If I’m so wrong, why don’t you tell me what men bring to the table other than their dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:17 PM
2

I was childfree into my mid-30s for the same reason. I notice you’re Canadian, so am I, I live in Ontario. Are you familiar with what the Ontario Conservatives did with the Ontario Autism Program back in 2019? If not, look it up. It’s been pretty bad. The Wynne government removed the caps on funding and caps on age for autism treatment but the Ford government, despite promising not to make any cuts, slashed funding to a max of $20,000/year for kids under 5 and a max of $5,000/year for kids over …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:59 PM
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Pussy is more than men have to offer women. At least women make men cum. Men don’t even have that offer that women these days in the era of 50-50. They certainly aren’t offering women respect and support to help us to fulfill our potential, and they’re certainly not doing their share of cooking, cleaning and housework. As a result, men in fact have nothing to offer women nowadays since they’ve all broken their dicks, and cheat with porn. At least our pussies are still fully functional, men’s dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:28 AM
1

Everyone—both women and men—comply well with mask law where I live. I’ve only seen a handful of people with no masks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:16 AM
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This is definitely larping but it’s true, she doesn’t have to be submissive to him just because he’s a heart surgeon, though. Ladies, remember that. My father is a doctor and my mother was a SAHM you better believe he NEVER woke up anyone up on his way out—it’s called courtesy—he made his own breakfast too (I know, OP must think my mother was a real gold digger) and left for work earlier than 8 am. More like 6:30 am. He would have never left my mother at a restaurant by herself when he was on-ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:40 AM
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I disagree. Chemistry is just sexual attraction and that’s a prerequisite for me to become involved with anyone. His character doesn’t matter, if we don’t have chemistry there won’t be a romantic relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:09 AM
136

He thought his presence was the birthday present. Where are men getting these egos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:10 AM
2

Women have been telling men to make this change to male culture for eons but men don’t because good-looking men who do well finding sexual partners only thrive by keeping other men down. If men really cared about other men, they’d stop judging each other on how much pussy they can get and on who they choose to have LTRs with. It seems lots of men forgo LTRs with women they genuinely like and are attracted to because she won’t impress their friends or increase their social standing. Men should st…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:15 PM
1

All women have a high SMV because men would choose sex with an ugly woman over no sex at all. Women, however, when faced with the choice of man she finds unattractive or no sex at all, would choose no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:02 PM
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Taking care of children and doing housework is tedious. The only challenge is overcoming the boredom. I stay at home with my child and I fucking HATE it because it’s not intellectually challenging. I have a higher IQ than the vast majority of people and I function at a higher cognitive level than the majority of people my age including the small percentage of other people with the same IQ as me—at least according to an evaluation I had last year—so why should I be relegated to demeaning housewor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:48 PM
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No they’re not delusional. There are 5/10 men who have good jobs and salaries, who have good personalities, who want children, who are tidy and functional adults. Most people—except the exceedingly wealthy or famous—partner with someone who is equally good looking to them. You also show your misogyny by saying you expect average women 5/10 to put up with bad treatment versus an attractive 10/10 woman in exchange for a LTR. Unattractive women do not deserve poor treatment by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:25 PM
2

I suspect you don’t see women as fully human and have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:06 PM
50

Not Canada. That’s all I can say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:10 PM
16

My ex said that to me but he was trying to hide that he’d used porn and couldn’t cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:02 PM
24

Her thumb? I’m going to have to look this up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:46 PM
1

Nope. Polygamous relationships exist because men are greedy and controlling. I would rather be single than share a wealthy good looking man with other women. Polygamy should be illegal and any MAN found practicing should be jailed for 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:31 PM
5

I don’t think it’s a joke either. I think they wanted to see if she’d be up for joining them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:23 AM
11

That was my last ex. He was just a nightmare. He actually stomped his feet like a toddler when I said no to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:38 PM
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So his girlfriend was gang raped and it affected his sense of masculinity? What? What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:15 PM
2

No we don’t. Men become less attractive with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:19 AM
2

Sounds like you’re saying women should have sex with cheap men rather than men who make an effort to be charming, likeable and generous. Really, women should just refuse to have sex with all men who are just looking for sex. Frankly, a man would have zero chance with me if he didn’t pay for our dates because I’d just assume he didn’t pick up the bill as a way of demonstrating he wasn’t attracted to me and if he asked for a second date I’d say no just assume he was only asking me out because he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:54 AM
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Texting for chit chat does kill attraction because you don’t get to experience the other person during text communication. You don’t get to hear their voice, hear their tone, it’s completely devoid of intimacy. Red pill is wrong about making plans via text. It’s much more efficient to make plans via a phone call. It takes a fraction of the time and it’s more personal. It seems like red pill tactics are designed specifically to turn women off. I’d assume a man wasn’t that romantically interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:44 AM
13

Absolutely not. Vasectomy is reversible while tubal ligation is not. They are NOT comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:29 AM
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He believes he can kick her out and “reset” the relationship? Wow. The entitlement and the delusion is strong with this one. I bet in a week he’ll be crying that his girlfriend left him unexpectedly and now he’s saddled paying rent on his own. He’ll probably claim to be blindsided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:18 AM
1

You’re just discounting my analysis because I’m a woman. Your take makes no sense at all and it’s based on a number incorrect assumptions. You are assumptions are: That “people” are currently irresponsible with birth control. Untrue. Majority of women are highly responsible when it comes to birth control. If women and teen girls don’t use birth control, it’s generally because they can’t access it. As a society, we already know this because sociologists have already studied birth control usage am…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:14 PM
11

My ex used to give my number as his contact number too. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:03 PM
3

He’s just using her while he finishes school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:17 PM
20

If history repeats itself, there will be more young women and teen girls becoming single moms before they can get an education and career thus there will be an increase in poverty among women and girls. It’s possible many of these unmarried women and girls will have their babies taken from the More men will be on the hook for child support than ever before. After the assault on Roe vs. Wade, Christians will try to remove access to birth control, including condoms, with the end goal of encouragin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:34 PM
115

It’s so easy for men to lose weight in comparison to women too. Rarely do men have health problems that slow their metabolism to a crawl like hypothyroidism. Even when they do, it’s still easier for them to lose weight, They also don’t experience pregnancy and they’re naturally more athletic, greater lung capacity, greater strength, bigger hearts, better oxygenation of muscles. Working out is just easier for them. It’s easier for them to burn calories and fight the genetic forces that cause obes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:00 PM
35

We need to start putting these men in jail. Long sentences too as a deterrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:27 PM
82

His first wife doesn’t have nice things to say about him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:34 PM
21

Following advice like this has never done me any favours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:00 PM
19

Oh my God, the ex-wife is never going to leave. He’s trying to build a live-in harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:16 AM
59

Men don’t have sex to fight psychological demons, they consider sex recreational. This Dreka woman is really gaslighting herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:57 AM
6

I define “childfree” as a woman who has the ability to get pregnant but doesn’t plan to regardless of whether she marries or stay single. Of course, it is possible for childfree women to have unplanned pregnancies and decide to keep the baby. I would describe these women as “formerly childfree.” I also believe a woman with step children can qualify has “childfree” if she doesn’t have a significant relationship with her stepkids or spend a significant time doing childcare. If she is highly active…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:07 AM
0

Wow. Either you’re a total jerk or you took what I wrote out of context. Either way, you just gave the worst dating advice EVER. So you think that a woman shouldn’t be the centre of a man’s attention when he takes her on a date? Exactly how much of his attention should he give her? Do you have a percentage in mind? Who else should he be giving attention to during that date? How would you like not being the centre of a woman’s attention when you’re on a date with her. You know….this is good to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:35 AM
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Never believe you deserve less because of your weight. If a man is treating you like crap, it isn’t because of how much you weigh, it’s because he’s a garbage human. Never let yourself believe you deserve bad treatment because of your weight. You deserve to be treated with respect and love by your partner ALL THE TIME, no matter if you’re 120lbs or 600 lbs. I once let a man treat me like terribly for a couple of years all because I had gained 40 lbs due to a medication. I gained the weight quick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:58 PM
24

Any male who would say that is low-value for sure. Even my NVX who abused me in every way didn’t trivialize menstruation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:03 PM
6

Definitely. One abusive NVM my friend was going out with threatened me, and prior to that, two other ones became aggressive with me, blamed me for her breaking it off with them. Each situation was terribly frightening, she doesn’t learn from her mistakes and after finding FDS I decided I need to learn from my mistakes and not be part of her life any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:32 PM
111

I don’t understand why men on this planet act like there are only two types of swimsuits —a bikini or a burkini. It’s either take it all off or cover it all up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:04 PM
95

I feel furious about this fine. How degrading for the athletes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:00 PM
109

Twenty-five per cent of exhibitionists like Louis C.K. go on to commit a hands-on sexual assault, not that that should matter. Why do men believe they’re entitled to show us their dicks or masturbate in front of us? What do they get out of it anyway? https://www.parentsformeganslaw.org/statisticsaso/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:50 PM
1

You missed vasectomy. Your post is also transphobic. Why not just have sex with trans women? They need dating equity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:38 AM
7

Nope. You can’t address equity issues in sex by making it legal for men to buy use of a woman’s vagina. That’s dehumanizing. Come up with a solution that doesn’t dehumanize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:36 AM
1

This is so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:34 AM
3

This isn’t breaking news. Women know this already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:32 AM
2

Make sure you read this again when you’re 40. You’ll laugh at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:26 AM
0

I have an idea for you: Don’t have romantic or sexual entanglements with women. Voila! You will never have to worry about being coerced into marriage. Keep it in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:24 AM
-1

A woman should be the centre of attention when she’s with her man. What’s the point of being with a man otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:22 AM
52

That’s been my criteria too and it’s worked well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:08 AM
14

The push-ups were too much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:02 AM
62

Even the successful ones, the doctors and the lawyers and the tech guys….the bigger the ego, the worse they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:00 AM
1

Don’t thank him, he’s being a douche to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:07 AM
0

A guy without a job is not in the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:59 AM
1

They didn’t “tell” you, you were shown by their actions and by our culture. You’re obviously arguing in bad faith here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:58 AM
5

Because they have the reputation of being the biggest misogynists on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:57 PM
1

They are usually though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:53 PM
2

Most likely, in my country, in Canada, your car will get towed by an engineer from Pakistan who couldn’t get certified in Canada for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:53 PM
1

What do you mean by “refinement”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:50 PM
1

Can she do the job of an early childhood educator?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:49 PM
1

What is Schrodingers Immigrant? As an immigrant, I am curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:48 PM
2

It’s because those women have low self-esteem and feel that’s the kind of man they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:34 PM
0

She’s a great writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:31 PM
3

Men can’t expect women to operate on the same timeline with each man. Every situation, every man, is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:19 PM
0

That doesn’t make sense to me. The inverse Madonna whore complex, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:12 PM
2

Can’t he anticipate feeling that way prior to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:09 PM
10

End the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:47 PM
31

Do you always tell. I’m in a position where I caught a man cheating. My whole family is pressuring me to stay quiet but I have screenshots of his OLD profile where he uses photos his wife took of him and his pets. He also lies about his age. He also hit on me and put his arm around me in a professional setting and told me I’m good at seeing what’s in people’s hearts. Will I look like I’m the crazy one if I tell her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:27 AM
2

I diagnose hobosexuality. He’s looking for a new wife & mommy appliance and a new home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:05 AM
12

Did you study my ex-juvenile boyfriend for this post. Wow does it ever hit close to home. He told me he still felt mentally like a teenager. We were both 30. He acted like a teenager too. He acted like was the evil parent cruelly withholding his right to party and he wanted to fight for his right to party, damnit. What a nightmare this guy was. I kept clipping the apron strings and he’d still come back. “Just give me two weeks to find my own place Next thing you know, five months have gone by an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:18 PM
5

Yes. A crush is like a drug. I hated it. I started to force myself to think about gross things when I’d think of him, like a dirty swim pool change room. No contact worked best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:01 PM
9

If a man calls you clingy it’s because he’s not into you or he’s trying to lower your self-esteem. The best thing is just to not bother with them. Walk away. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:36 PM
29

Would your family member mind if I borrowed some of these lines?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:25 PM
52

This is a date only if the food is brought to you by people on roller skates, the tray is attached to the window of your T-bird, rock-a-billy is playing in the background, it’s the 1950s and you’re wearing a poodle skirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:20 PM
60

This professor should be fired and the teachers expelled. I wish I knew what school this took place at, and the name of the teacher. If my son had been part of that, I would have withdrawn all funding support for his education and put him out on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:13 PM
13

Bad experience. They often don’t want to be fathers themselves because they claim not to know how a dad should behave. I was raised with married parents and I attract men without fathers too. Not sure why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:48 PM
395

And he’s living off her now too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:56 PM
26

The whole class should be expelled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:06 AM
18

According to him : “My wife is a crazy bitch because she complains about all the home renovations i’m doing to improve our living situation . We’ll have a whole extra room and another level of living space.” The reality : he’s building a murder dungeon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:24 PM
47

Like when they take pics with puppies or kittens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:33 AM
60

Many lawyers hit on their clients too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:00 AM
1

Did he succeed in getting it all from her or did she get it back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:31 PM
2

I have an ex who used paper plates too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:13 PM
1

I once tried moving in to split rent. I had four months left on my lease and he and I agreed we’d both get four months of savings and then move to our respective own places. Worst decision ever. I didn’t end up saving a dime. At least it was over after four months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:12 PM
4

I thought this what a joke the first time I heard of it. I can’t believe it’s serious. Who would attend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:24 PM
2

They also don’t want you to get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:20 PM
29

Maybe this slip-up wasn’t accidental. Maybe he was jealous of his wife’s business and wanted to sabotage her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:42 PM
26

Embarrassing it is. I feel nothing but humiliation over all those years I spent being a Pick-Me. Now I’m just trying to muster up the courage to date again, and will start trying after I’m fully vaccinated. I do think it’s important though for many women to confess their Pick-Me behaviour as part of a self-confrontation. Saying it out loud can be helpful. I personally know I overlooked a billion red flags and I know why I did it but it still helps sometimes to talk about it, to hear other women’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:28 PM
77

He’s looking for a mommy/bangmaid/dietician/therapist. He’s offering the build-a-man experience. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:01 AM
18

I think I hate this Brian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:52 AM
5

A scathing truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:49 AM
7

I absolutely don’t for a second believe that happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:46 AM
29

I can’t imagine how horrible it is losing your virginity to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:40 AM
73

It had a huge effect. You can even get 50 Shades of Grey brand bondage equipment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:38 AM
113

I am a domestic violence victim and yes, you learn to detect a battle coming and you just want to get it over with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:36 AM
5

I have to be honest, I think you need to walk away from this man. He’ll do it again. He knew what he was doing and he knew you weren’t into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:25 AM
14

I like your username! It’s my favourite word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:06 PM
5

Mine too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:59 PM
61

Put on some socks and cover your arms. Who dresses like that to ride a motorcycle? He’s just asking for injuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:54 PM
119

There should be a Gold Digger flair for stories like this. I felt/feel so humiliated from the financial abuse I experienced in my last relationship and hearing these stories of other women being put in the same situation helps me see how I was manipulated, to work on those vulnerabilities and to spot men who will take advantage of me and my family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:47 PM
34

They have to ask other men to get things off high shelves for them and it feels emasculating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:42 PM
85

Tall men don’t get mad that women like tall men. They soak up that attention like a pancake soaks up maple syrup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:41 PM
64

I can’t believe men these days believe they don’t have to show any positive qualities. They literally believe all they have to do is show up, stand there mouth agape saying “ugh”, and that we should swoon. They’re like: “Women are so picky. I mean they actually expect me to know the language they speak and use words from that language to communicate with them BEFORE we have sex!” “And they expect me to know their name and ask about their interests and stuff. BUT THAT DOESN’T GET MY DICK HARD!” “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:40 PM
20

Watch out for divorced office-working LVM with kids. “I’m having movie night with my kids,” is their “I’m taking a nap.” That way you think he’s such a good father and that it’s not that you’re not important but THINK OF THE CHILDREN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:21 AM
24

The tone is very creepy, very predatory and condescending. No way in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:04 AM
99

Solid advice. Worrying about what other women do and gossiping about their “bad” behaviour or punishing them socially is a complete waste of time. We’re all on our own level-up journeys and most of us have been led astray at one point by falsehoods perpetuated by the patriarchy and the standard emotional abuse that society heaps on us for being female. Sadly, some women take pleasure in being good handmaidens, they place praise they get from the patriarchy above solidarity with our fellow women.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:18 PM
3

Have you considered Canada? Toronto or Ottawa?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:47 PM
11

One of my friend’s mothers accused her of having sex with her stepfather back when we were in high school. She kicked her daughter out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:41 PM
77

A woman doing the same thing! Can you imagine? She’s confidently striding down the street in a pretty but professional dress, perfectly coiffed, heels clacking on the pavement, then a man and a younger man come into view. (I’m picturing her walking down a pier to a large boat for some reason) She sees the father with his dad bod, socks and sandals, then this smooth-faced, pre-wall strapping young man with gleaming teeth and chiseled jaw line. He’s silhouetted in the sun. Suddenly she stops turns…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:35 PM
7

Oh my God, is he a registered sex offender?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:26 PM
10

Then they whine “but you’re considered a creep if you cold approach.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:25 PM
57

Maybe he’s trying to impress you with his connections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:08 PM
55

He obviously wants her not to attend college. No doubt he’d give her problems too about attending college online, and online school is not a substitute for a real classroom experience. It seems like by her edit that she’s getting a lot of support for ditching him. Beware of men—and women—who always come up with reasons for you not to follow your dreams. Someone who truly cares about you will have a can-do attitude. They won’t try to create doubts out of thin air. She’s most likely going to have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:00 PM
161

Proof men are raised to feel entitled to sexually exploiting others. Men need to be sent to reform school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:53 PM
49

Reddit males like to inflate the scope of plausible deniability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:11 AM
11

This guy is going to have a rude awakening when he learns about butt crumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:13 PM
121

“Do you whistle on a regular basis?” The man has been in jail for sure. Whistling is a huge faux pas in jail, a big breach of social etiquette. Any man who is weird about whistling definitely served some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:12 PM
4

Oh my God! “Loyalty!” Yes, that’s right! I prided myself on my loyalty as a cope. I find forgiving myself to be a real challenge. I’ve been trying for years. How did you do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:56 PM
7

He successfully guilted me about his race too. I felt really trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:49 PM
102

I’m having flashbacks to the six years of financial abuse I experienced. I’m white and he wasn’t so he made it about race too. Men are opportunistic gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:52 PM
21

Dick size is private, it’s not obvious to everyone else. Not the same with fatness. You can’t hide it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:44 AM
37

Been in that situation where ex’s family and friends expected money from me. I have never felt like such a 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:35 AM
18

They might claim it is, but it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:33 AM
101

I was with a NVM who was unemployed for a long stretch of time. He called me a gold digger for wanting him to get a job. He kept telling me to wait for when he inherited some money, and due to the sunk cost fallacy and being unable to admit to being abused and having low self-esteem. He did inherited a tidy little sum of money—enough to pay me back, put a down payment on a house and take a nice vacation. Nope, he didn’t do those things. He did a lot of screaming accusing me of trying to take all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:17 PM
35

This is really a trend? No….I can’t handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:10 PM
353

I once did that to a man when we were 20 and he got mad at me for teasing him. Was like “are you going to suck my dick or not?” At that point I choose not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:07 PM
10

Wow he’s using her to subsidize his retirement and then trying to squeeze more out of her for bills? What a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:43 PM
26

There’s no point in answering the question “what do you bring to the table” because it’s a trick question. A man may read all you’ve written about what HVW bring to the table but the type of man who asks that question isn’t going to care about your response. Rather, he’s trying to make you run in circles to prove your worth to him, which is just what you’ve done by writing out this extremely long answer citing feminine essence, ability to receive with gratitude and ability to make him feel like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:03 PM
2

Bahaha! Men don’t have to make much effort at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:55 PM
6

Men complain about women being hypergamous yet these same men don’t earn a wage even close to what these women’s male relatives earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:55 PM
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Why do you think it’s okay to generalize women with AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:50 PM
2

Sikhism has elements of both Hinduism and Islam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:47 PM
1

Nope. Women do not have unrealistic or unfair expectations of men. It’s men who believe they’re entitled to use and buy women for their own gain irrespective of the harm it causes us. You’re the ones who believe choking and murder during sex is normal and healthy. You’re the ones committing violence crimes and enslaving women. You don’t even see us as human and YES THAT’S UNREALISTIC BECAUSE WE ARE HUMANS. We create humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:33 AM
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This post is pure hate speech. It violates Reddit’s TOS. It’s not correct that a woman’s value decreases with age, it’s a lie so it’s hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:01 PM
0

Nope. There are TONS of great women catches out there. Not so much men, but there are hordes of attractive, single, dateable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:59 PM
3

Nope. I hate power imbalances. We are either equal in power or there is no possibility of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:57 PM
1

No. The vast majority of psycho killers are males who grew up in poverty. Children of single mothers grow up just fine when they don’t grow up in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:48 PM
1

Mommy government not Daddy government
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:40 PM
19

Men advocated for casual sex. Women merely wanted control over whether we had sexual relations or not and with whom. Men exploited that to make casual sex a thing and here we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:39 PM
1

Men shouldn’t ejaculate into vaginas. Are you saying you’ve been forced to ejaculate into vaginas before?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:36 PM
1

Also in favour of a man opting out. That means, though, he NEVER gets to see that child, even once that child becomes an adult and he can’t contact the child or the woman he impregnated EVER without going to jail for violating the restraining order. First violation is a year in jail. The man who opts out of paying child support should also be chemically castrated and not allowed to procreate in the future. And if he already has kids, the child he opts out of supporting still gets equal claim to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:35 PM
7

I was with one man multiple times who managed to bust the condom each time. After three times I clued in he was doing it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:32 PM
2

Women are more likely to get pregnant when we have orgasms and are also more likely to prefer partners who give us orgasms. I won’t go out with men who won’t give me an orgasm. Ergo, evolution DOES select for female orgasms. And even if there were indisputable facts proving your theory, women are NOT going to respond by resigning themselves to orgasmless sex. Women today insist men provide us with orgasms and you will not be selected for procreation today if you can’t provide. Also, what kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:30 PM
2

This is just how the dating world goes and so many men just can’t tolerate that it’s unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:24 PM
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Men’s unrealistic views of women are why men have dating problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:23 PM
1

Good point. Everyone has a cousin marriage in their lineage, no matter where you come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:23 PM
1

Why would you expect anyone to want you when you aren’t at your best? Entitled much, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:21 PM
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THEY’RE WITCHES! Jesus, you sound medieval.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:58 PM
0

FDS is for educated women with higher incomes to find similar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:57 PM
2

You’re not a woman. Stop pretending to be one and stop trying to encourage women to make bad decisions and be used by men. You’re vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:52 PM
1

I don’t see you as an overachiever but rather as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:50 PM
1

That’s absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:48 PM
0

No, lots of non-Boomers say video games are for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:46 PM
0

Best strategy for all women is to lie about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:37 PM
5

Agree. Men who obsess over n-count are controlling, insecure and see women as property.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:36 PM
1

Men partner with thousands of porn stars in their minds and you have the gall to say women can’t pair bond after a high n-count? It’s the men who can’t bond. You’re all bonded to porn ergo my n-count can be as high as I want and I, like all women, have no obligation to tell you the truth about how many people we’ve slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:35 PM
4

So it’s all about your insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:33 PM
1

What’s wrong with women who are accomplished recognizing their competency?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:28 PM
1

By 40 and 50, women have already brought more to the table than the man in the relationship due to reproductive labour, childcare and housework PLUS working a full time job. Men don’t even have a full head of hair to contribute at 40 or 50 and half of you will have erectile dysfunction and long refractory period. And if they’re not happy with their wives at 40 and 50, they have the freedom to walk away. Not possible for women to prey sexually on men in the context you mentioned. Your whole comme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:38 PM
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No, it’s not that easy. It’s far easier for men because you have one less layer of fat than we do but a lot of weight is genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:29 PM
1

This sub heavily censors true FDS opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:17 PM
-1

FDS does not talk about men as if they’re objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:15 PM
1

Suit yourself. I’m still right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:38 PM
1

As a passably attractive woman, I know that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:37 PM
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What he’s saying isn’t truthful thus it’s hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:09 PM
1

What are you talking about? Buddy literally said not being fat was his only criterion for women and that he believes other men operate the same way. There is no strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:08 PM
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How is this not against Reddit’s TOS? It’s vile and results in reasonable women not wanting to use this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:27 AM
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It’s not as easy to control weight as you think. You should do some research on the topic. I’d also never go out with a man whose only standard is that I’m not fat. That would mean he has no respect for me. My standards require a man to like talking to me and enjoy my personality. Christ…if someone was only with me because “she ain’t fat,” chances are he’ll leave as soon as another normal weighted woman enters his sphere. I literally don’t know any men whose only criterion for a significant othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:17 AM
0

Men’s looks deteriorate with age. Men reach peak attractiveness in their 20s. Also, there are plenty of men in their 20s who have status, ambition and success under their belt. Granted, wealth is more challenging to acquire today even for people who are successful in their endeavours and ambitious. These men who believe their 40s and 50s will be an orgy of 20-year-old pussy are dreaming. Only a fraction of you. Having been a young woman, I found older men creepy and cringe. I especially hated ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:07 AM
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That’s a little snide, don’t you think? Why can’t you be kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:12 AM
1

I’d agree with social awkwardness but not height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:04 AM
2

That’s exactly the only reason I used Tinder and Bumble, to see how many men were available to me. I couldn’t actually bring myself to chat with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:57 PM
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Men create FDS women by being entitled, pornsick, unambiguous slugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:05 PM
1

Feet ARE disgusting. Based on your sexual proclivities, you seem Iike a normal healthy guy. So rare these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:03 PM
2

What kind of emotional abuse are female teachers perpetrating against boys at school? If 50% of female teachers need to be fired then do do 50% of men in male-dominated professions and those teachers need to have their living expenses and education paid for so they can move on to careers in STEM. Maybe if men stopped sexually abusing little boys and girls they’d be more welcome in environments with children. We need to ban ALL porn so men don’t exposed to pedophilia as normal and all male teache…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:02 PM
1

How is this guy having relationships then if he feels no sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:56 PM
2

Demands? You’re the demanding one who is demanding access to a woman’s vagina without foreplay or giving her pleasure. You’re entitled and I wouldn’t sleep with you. Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:56 PM
-1

Do you watch porn? You’re also only asexual if you can sexually reproduce by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:50 PM
1

Blame dads. Dads should be more involved. Men aren’t interested in becoming elementary school teachers. Why don’t you become on if raising young men is sooo important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:31 PM
2

One man I dated cared about my feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:30 PM
1

Good point. To them, a vagina is a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:26 PM
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Interesting theory. I’m not being sarcastic, I’m serious. I think I may have had a Mother Theresa complex in one of my relationships. It wasn’t just that though. Focusing on his problems “freed” me from tackling my own. Of course he turned out to be abusive. He lapped up my help but turned out to be a serial victim just looking for pity rather than real help. Learned a lot from that mistake. You know what else? She probably believes he’ll never leave her because she believes he can’t do better. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:58 PM
1

That’s about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:51 PM
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Yep. A man bragging about his past modelling wouldn’t attract me. I go for intelligence first, then looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:50 PM
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Men find 80% of women attractive. Your assertions that hideous women think they are more attractive than they think are wrong. Women do not overestimate their attractiveness; men do. Women are inclined to believe we’re hideous due to being compared to women in media including porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:48 PM
38

I love when they excuse themselves with “I’m not perfect.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:12 PM
11

She needs to take drastic action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:51 AM
2

A WOMAN OBVIOUSLY. What a misogynistic question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:23 AM
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Men aren’t being exploited. They are the ones exploiting the women. Have you called your local govt representative and demanded strip clubs be shut down or written a letter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:51 PM
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It’s exploiting women. Men are the exploiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:50 PM
2

It’s because prostitution is exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:52 PM
2

Why don’t you get your balls removed? Seriously. Say you’re trans and get an orchiectomy. No sex drive, there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:59 PM
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Your claim is also irrelevant to my original comment. Why don’t older men value older women for their paycheck? Why still our looks? Young women—who aren’t looking for marriage yet—value SAFETY first, then fun, then looks. Looks might be the first thing she notices but he has to prove he’s safe and sociable before she’ll go out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:10 PM
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It doesn’t promote an imbalanced relationship. Men can’t provide reproductive labour. FDS is about finding a HVM for marriage with whom to procreate, men must bring enough to the table to compensate for women’s reproductive labour and the discrimination we face in society. What are YOU willing to do to compensate your wife, aka show appreciation, in return for her risking her life and sacrificing her health to have babies? What if I could tell you you could take a drug called domperidone to lact…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:03 PM
8

How do you chat with these men when you match with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:54 PM
1

Why do you think all low earning men are submissive? High-earning men are more submissive, kinder. They can afford to be, they have more power so they don’t try to exert as much control over their wives and girlfriends. That’s my experience and the experience of many women. Low earning men are also much less intelligent than low-earning women because yes, you are right, FDS is mostly career women. Why would you expect a woman to go out with a man who is not intellectually compatible with her? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:38 PM
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Jesus Christ. Most of the time men on this say all they care about is looks but now they’re complaining about women leveraging their looks to get a better man? That’s a ridiculous criticism. A woman’s looks is not the female equivalent of a man’s monetary wealth. Almost all the posts on this sub are based around this as if it’s factual when really it’s the view of only some men, meaning a minority of the human species. It’a called the “Purple Pill Debate” but this is actually a sub for male supr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:29 PM
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I’m sorry but that’s so awful I can’t stop laughing yet I feel so much compassion for you. I hope your parents and siblings didn’t see him. I don’t think I’d ever get over the humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:04 PM
10

In my 40s and can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:59 PM
1

FDS benefits the men who want FDS-type women and they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:51 PM
13

I haven’t hooked up or had casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:16 PM
2

Men only like virgins because they don’t want to compete with other men for women who have options. You just want a sex slave who will tell you how great your dick is because she has no point of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:03 PM
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Demanding virginity from a woman is demanding control over her bodily autonomy and is a violation of her human rights. You also don’t expect a 0 N count from men, do you? But you still expect a woman to earn a good wage to pay 50-50 and expect her to be shorter than you and physically weaker than you so don’t say men don’t have an obsession with women’s income, height or strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:01 PM
0

What does farting have to do with it? Are you 12 or something? Men have much more toxic farts than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:00 PM
4

Men need to stop their obsession with female virginity. It’s oppressive and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:14 AM
1

Why this obsession with virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:12 AM
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That’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:45 AM
2

I read your first post and I absolutely agree with you about taking responsibility for pick-me behaviour. Taking responsibility was the only way I was able to leave my NVX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:20 AM
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The most important things to me are a strong mutual physical attraction, strong mutual respect, kindness and similar life goals. He needs to be tidy, have good personal hygiene and not be a porn user. I also need to feel safe with him. Stable career that he enjoys or makes the best of, preferably amicably divorced with kids. He also needs to be confident and decisive, good communicator, likes receiving affection and is appreciative. No video games. Very ideally he’d also be a non-douchey, non-ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:45 PM
2

Yes indeed. It’s hard to get rid of these parasites too, once they get their hooks into you. I was naive. I hated/hate cleaning and cooking, it seemed like a good deal at first but the next thing I knew I was doing it all and he was just sitting back enjoying the fruits of my labour. He became so abusive when I tried to kick him out. It took years of careful planning and biding my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:54 PM
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Yes it is. When in a relationship, both parties shouldn’t be seeking sexual gratification outside the other person and the goal of sex should be intimacy and mutual orgasm. Neither party should be seeking out sexual attention from other members of the opposite sex or giving sexual attention to the opposite sex. That definitely includes posting pictures online simply to get sexual attention and looking at sexual photos or videos of other people having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:47 PM
2

No one “needs” sex. It’s a want, not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:22 PM
2

You come across as psychopathic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:21 PM
1

Yes I do. I have kids. It’s the woman who ends up giving and the man always leeches like a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:04 PM
1

Sure, if he wore a chastity belt and gave me an orgasm when I wanted one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:02 PM
3

I hope you cut his meat for him and partially chewed it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:54 PM
1

Tell her. I actually look for evidence of my brothers cheating so I can tell their wives if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:47 PM
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You don’t understand. FDS women are a specific type of woman and they’re looking for males with similar values, beliefs and achievements. If that’s not you, then fine, but “to each their own.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:09 PM
0

How is screwing around women emotionally and sexually a positive thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:07 PM
1

FDS definitely says to look your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:06 PM
1

Too eager?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:05 PM
2

Women don’t usually follow hot men on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:58 PM
1

So a woman asking a man not to follow Internet whores would give him permission to tell her how to dress? Not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:58 PM
2

The whole point of being in a relationship is that you only share your sexuality with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:56 PM
1

The point was already proven. All I did was state the obvious!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:46 AM
1

So it applies to your penis too? If most women say it’s trash would you then call your penis “trash”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:45 AM
1

It’s the first time men and women have fully leeway to choose all their own partners and sex before marriage is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:08 PM
2

You want someone younger who is easier to control and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:24 AM
3

You speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:20 AM
3

I have bad news for you: Your man is NOT a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:19 AM
2

Yes. This pushing old and young relationships is fairly new in the past 15 years. Girls and young women are taught to avoid older men and further, older men seem awkward and creepy no matter how much money they have:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:18 AM
1

That’s why I don’t give anything to men. Not even a shred of kindness. 🤏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:03 AM
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Pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:01 AM
5

Who wants to pay to talk to a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:59 AM
4

I don’t understand your lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:57 AM
3

A relationship is an agreement not to look at other people naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:55 AM
3

I choose to be alone rather than with a porn user. It’s a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:54 AM
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Fantasy sexual behaviour does influence actual sexual behaviour. You’re in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:00 PM
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We’re not “products” we’re people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:24 PM
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Imagine what you could accomplish with the time and money spent on BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:23 PM
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It has never been so easy in the history of Western civilization for men to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:21 PM
1

Do I detect logic on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:46 PM
0

I’m afraid I’m going to have to intervene and ask you if you’re okay. A durag with an American flag combined with crocs is self-harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:45 PM
4

Sounds like you’re saying that women only like men in suits because suits convey an aura of power and women like power because women are hypergamous and hypergamy=bad. You’ll never be pleased with any woman who likes the look of you. You’re always going to be suspicious that she doesn’t love the real you because you’re so caught up notions of “female nature” and AWALT. I bet there are no good reasons, as far as you’re considered, for women finding men in suits attractive. No matter what, you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:43 PM
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A great suit can turn a 5 into an 8. Caring about fashion also shows you keep up with the times and that you take care of yourself. I know there will be insecure virgin men reading the answers to this post and yes, it’s true, you can distinguish yourself with your fashion, grooming and hygiene. Fashion is a huge deal to me and I have actually approached men, for conversation, or asked to be introduced to them, because I liked their style and wondered if that meant I’d also like other aspects of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:23 PM
1

OnlyFans is NOT a life perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:30 PM
2

Are you saying contributing to OnlyFans is charity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:28 PM
1

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:27 PM
-1

Men’s shelters get more snd there are more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:26 PM
14

Yes, I tell some friends and the Penis size of my conquests.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:04 PM
1

I have a different opinion. I think approaching women is fine if she shows interest in being approached. Do you know how to tell if a woman is checking you out or is sending you signals of attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:36 PM
1

Why approach women when you can beat your dick to twerk videos? Here’s a list: To practice your social skills. Approaching women isn’t creepy, you just have to learn to read the room and approach the women who are looking at you, making eye contact with you, and the ones who make eye contact then look away and then look back and smile. Don’t approach women whose body language says they aren’t looking such as women reading or with headphones. That’s the mistake men make, they approach women who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:34 PM
1

It’s obviously not just men who are affected by the media. Also, men are responsible for all media as men still control the media. There are tons of peer-reviewed studies that show porn causes problems and they’re all available for you to find online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:34 AM
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When exactly did women decide to conceal what we’re attracted to? I have never concealed it. Is this a global conspiracy, by the way? Who are the women leading this mass movement to conceal the truth from men? Men can’t handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:07 AM
1

Guys have never believed women choose them based on their personalities. Ask your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:05 AM
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I don’t watch porn. But yes, I’d enact a law that prevents men from using screens and the Internet—because you don’t have the intelligence, maturity and decency to be responsible. If you can watch women get raped, why can’t white people watch porn of black men being lynched? Or Chinese men working on the railroad while I yell “build that railroad you yellow slut!” as I peg his ass until he bleeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:05 AM
1

When I was pregnant, I went around killing dinner and protecting myself. I don’t need a male to continue existing, it’s the other way around. My son only exists because his body leeched nutrients off me. The only reason you’re alive is because a woman grew you in her body and then took care of you through childhood. Your mom could have raised you without your father. Also, meat is only a minor part of the human diet. Fruits, vegetables and complex carbohydrates are a more important part of the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:02 AM
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I think it’s happening for multiple reasons. Helicopter parenting. Many young men in North America today were raised by hovering parents. It’s not the fault of the parents, it’s the fault of society and the community failing to allow kids to live free range lives. Now you let a child go to the park by themselves or stat in the car when mom pays for gas, and the police and child protective services turn up. As a result, men who are young men today haven’t had the opportunities to form the same ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:54 PM
1

So I guess you also believe porn is unhealthy for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:39 PM
1

If that’s the case then what’s the point of trying to rein in female hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:35 PM
1

Women are autonomous human beings. We don’t exist to be prizes for successful men, we exist to realize our own destinies. You know how you have a sense that you’re your own person? Women have that too. You speak of black men. At one point in our history it was believed that black men had a natural disposition that made them suitable slaves so your evolutionary reward theory could apply to them too. Why won’t you theorize that black male slaves are prizes for successful white people? It’s no diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:35 PM
1

Women in their 30s DO NOT look worse than men in their 30s. You just posted this to make women upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:52 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:48 PM
2

I don’t know what would be a dealbreaker for me because I don’t have a physical type. Obesity probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:44 PM
26

Sex toys, exercise and actively reminding yourself how the sex could go badly. Think about all the times you’ve been really turned on only to have the man perform selfishly. Remember the disappointment, the “why did I bother?”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:24 PM
0

You implied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:51 AM
1

Why can’t we regulate men according to the needs of women? You talk of women as if we aren’t people. Would you talk about black man that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:50 AM
41

That’s a lot of emotional abuse from one man. Him inviting the man who sexually assaulted you to your wedding…and pretending like he didn’t remember you telling him of the assault. That’s really low. He wanted you to spend your wedding day remembering being violated by his creep of a teammate, and moreover, he obviously got off on the degradation. He obviously felt emasculated by your intelligence and achievement, and wanted to knock down your self-esteem. He also obviously hates women and hates…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:07 PM
12

I love her little microphone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:58 PM
1

The biggest turn on for women is feeling safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:15 PM
25

That’s what my ex-boyfriend’s family lawyer told him when he was fighting for more days with his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:55 PM
6

Being in a relationship is not a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:48 PM
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