| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down?She’s likely gain a good chunk of emotional abuse at a minimum! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:09 AM |
| 140 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockExactly. Once you’ve blocked the first, and experienced the peace it brings, there is no going back :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Common arguments used to defend the sex/porn industry debunkedWow. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:22 AM |
| 25 | Trigger warning!!Please protect your private information ladies! This scrote ordered a hit on a woman be met online!!!Monsters. I’m going to fling this article at every manbaby i see whining about having to pay for dates and feeling insulted when a woman doesn’t want to go “hiking” on a first/2nd/ever date! Monsters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:30 PM |
| 11 | No Josh/Jason/James, sex work is not comparable to "Manuel" labor. Watch out for men who have no empathy for women's exploitation.What in the actual fuck did I see?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 96 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayThis is such a perfect fucking example too. Can’t be more accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: Take Up Space! Use Your Voice!B. Bless you for calling it out so eloquently herein tho… I still couldn’t find words for it to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠This. The boyfriend bringing single dudes around me for any significant lengths of time (more than an hour, IMO) is a problem boyfriend too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | FDS is BACK!Same :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 26 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace them☠️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:09 AM |
| 29 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsTruth. If poked, I will always say I don’t agree, and that I consider all the above to be NONconsensual at the end of the day. That usually shuts everyone up for a second at least, most can’t begin to wrap little brains around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of needUnfucking forgivable to the end of time and back. The (entire)male species needs to get checked, period, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsThe post comments applauding Scrote are the definition of Male dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 44 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnI can’t with the 2nd one… 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 6 | Microaggressions and Red Flags in Kim K’s Relationship w Kris HumphriesI remember watching these back then irl and calling it out…. Finally figured out how to see it when done to me too now tho lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 64 | Just Maintained a Boundary!So proud of you. This shit is so hard to see in moment, you did good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:42 AM |
| 19 | Do you have any male friends?Not a single one. I’m older than many here, 40ish, but I’ve had hardly any ever, and cut any few male “acquaintance” friends out over last few years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:32 PM |
| 8 | Here are a few OLD phrases to look out for as a High Value Women:Love this list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 21 | Here are a few OLD phrases to look out for as a High Value Women:It’s something some of us had to learn the hard way (🙋♀️)… I used to try rationalize their man-dribble bullshit. (pre fds) For me, apparently I had to hear the bs spun enough diff ways to ensure now I can pretty much know within 2 words or glancing at text size what kind of bullshit he’s on m. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Dunning-Kruger.Fuck I liked The Saints too :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.No words. But my head , my eyes. My brain. That atrocity, delusions… of a this male… & with his overgrown, 99 yea-old man’s pubic hair looking unkept stuff coming from his face, has done me in. but no surprise over here sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Intuition vs Being TriggeredThis is a seriously important post, thanks OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Which one of you is this about💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 22 | Model Christy Giles Found Dead at 24 - three men dropped her dead body outside of a hospital after drugging her and her friends during a night out. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T TRUST MEN AT ALL.Fucking terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 29 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡I think you’re young & that’s good :) I’m so glad you posted this as it should be shared ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:13 AM |
| 51 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡I’m sorry, you what? You didn’t know? 😊 I’m so confused. Or old. Or both maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 5 | I updated my LinkedIn with a big promotion. The same week, I started getting LI ads for local divorce lawyers. Even the adbots know financial freedom *for* women means freedom *from* men.🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 97 | Safety issues with food delivery appsLadies: I’ve met exactly 2 men on OLD over time, that I IMMEDIATELY knew were dangerous and deeply troubled. Both coincidentally did food delivery app. (of course in addition to other things). These apps have always been a concern of mine simply l because of their access to people. I think everyone is right to be concerned about random people knowing your whereabouts and also access to you and maybe your home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 05:04 AM |
| 88 | Listen to your GUT not your Heart: guys will fake a nice first date and drop effort OR try a switch a roo as their masks slipAppreciate the detail - thanks for sharing OP 🤗. One guy surprised me after we had such a great first date & seemed to both like each other, when he mentioned booking an Hotel room in town over for 2nd date???? Boy bye. Blocked. I was sad that he fucked up so bad, as I liked him too. Was prob 5 years ago and he’s still blocked. And I guarantee you he still thinks women are sex dispensers you put one nice dinner into and sex falls out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:55 AM |
| 7 | Walk dates: I'm not a dogSeriously. If they are mistaken enough to ask me for such a date, I sometimes cant resist replying with a simple “Woof” before delete/block 🤷♀️. It’s such a reflection of their utter negative value, and was a turn off pre FDS as well. Even my boyfriend in 6th grade didn’t ask me for a walk date - and our dates were like events with our parents supervising lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:17 PM |
| 211 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endLunatic males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:56 PM |
| 9 | FDS Success - Thank you!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:15 PM |
| 34 | What would you consider going above and beyond?That’s so sweet 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?By never spending another cent on a male again. It’s the only way I know 🤷♀️… I mean, sure, wish I didn’t learn the hard way, but it just took one male. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 77 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Your last sentence 😂🤗🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 5 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Seriously, a grown male thought he could pull this stunt off??? Dying over here 😂. What an asshat, nice job dodging him!! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 16 | Straight from the horse's mouth and a reminder why you shouldn't date men you are not attracted to in some way shape or form. Because chances are he's just settling for you, if he could do better he would replace you in a heartbeatThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:17 PM |
| 71 | Men’s Childhood Never EndsThis is the closest someone has put into words what I’ve been experiencing dating males… the level of responsibility in life is just so LOW for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 28 | Men will try to make you look crazy for lashing out at them after they ignore your boundaries over and over.Thank you for sharing OP🤗. This actually does seem to be abuse tho….. He assaulted you. If he did it to a Male at work, over and over, would it fly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InAgree. Every single date ever that’s done it has turned to shit in 4 dates or less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 14 | POS is posting graphic cartoon p@rn on Reddit pages geared towards children. The users are begging their mods to remove the content. This is Reddit's response to my report on the user.I’ve been a reader for many years on this whole place…. Started reading FDS pretty much day one. And I report hard but fair (not fair by redt standards lol)… they have NEVER taken action. On anything despite its violent /etc content. Meanwhile, women are banned in droves from here from feminism subs…. simply for even commenting on a FDS post positivel ( within fds subreddit no less), or being known as a “member”. Same with all dating subs: I’m talking to you too. YOUR PRIORITIES AND VALUES ARE U… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:02 PM |
| 124 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realiseExactly. Do Seals stop to ask Killer Whales for directions when they are lost? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:53 AM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Check-InI shared this on response to another post, but thought I’d share more here for others. I really can’t believe I’m dealing with this right now. It’s embarrassing to say it here, as it shows me again what I already know about males ugh. Ive had to say BYE to the 2 most recent scrotes (we are in our late 40’s, attractive, professional people). Because BOTH scrotes demanded I shave my p*//$. totally bald. One basically threw a straight ultimatum at me - shave my entire__ bald or break up. For real. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:27 AM |
| 149 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This is some messed up shit…. But hey, had to say BYE to most recent scrote in my life (we are in our 40s professional people). He basically threw a straight ultimatum at me - shave my entire pussy bald or break up. For real. And I do shave, just leave landing and don’t shave around lips etc. I hardly even have hair on top of it. I told him he’s a pedophile, and I will gladly take my gorgeous, glorious and hairy pussy far the fuck away from him. Boy bye. Blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 15 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteThat’s the vibe I get straight off - desperate virtue signal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 4 | How to Get Over a Breakup. Are You Loving Yourself the Way You Loved Your Ex?Beautiful post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lensesYes he for sure did it with intention…. It’s manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-InLove it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:00 AM |
| 18 | I will stop “generalizing” men when THEY stop using, abusing, and killing women. When THEY stop treating us like disposable source of labor. I will stop when MEN start ruthlessly policing & holding OTHER men accountable for all the shit they do to women.This !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | My Friend Was In A Controversial Viral Video and the Violence She’s Receiving From Scrotes Online Is UnbearableTruth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Recording Phone Calls Can Help Prove AbuseGood for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Exactly what I thought as well. It’s plain dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Check-InI can so relate. But listen, your post already cleared it up for you. You said that: (you “feel”) he doesn’t understand you, he doesn’t make you laugh, doesn’t text you back the same day……… Ok that’s enough for me. Can’t do it, won’t. You know more than you think you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Fuck yes. This is infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.One of too many examples… just not one I’ve ever thought of… obviously lol. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 07:35 AM |
| 10 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Exactly. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.As seen on my feed. Thanks Reddit, like we need more lazy males. Just why?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 10 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???He literally writes like a toddler. Probably not much taller than one either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:00 PM |
| 29 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSThis about sums up male existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 9 | The Body Keeps the Score and how trauma influences the people you choose to dateGreat book & post. I want to throw this out there, this is not a book some will be comfortable getting thru on their own. And that’s ok. I slammed my book shut, It can come along to therapy with me. It’s not necessarily written for a trauma survivor to work thru their own trauma with all by themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 111 | 911 Call Released - Witness saw Gabby Petito being "hit" and "slapped" by Brian on August 12thFuck the police & everyone else too that essentially aided and fucking abetted the monster (her Fiancé!) that murdered Gabby Petito. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How Women as a Class Are Financially and Fiscally Gaslit in the OfficeSame experience, similar sector… it’s the same in all sectors/offices…. I temped as a young woman at 18 doing admin work, in any office environment you could find. This was many years ago ladies. It’s ALL the same. Left corporate entirely 5 years ago and sadly, it had changed very little from when I started in the early early 90’s.. More women in offices, but no real change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Saying she post on FDS isn't an insult to me, there is a reason this is my main account IDC.I know. Oh noez the males madz. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 50 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issuePoop predator 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsChefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Bare Minimum vs High ValueLove it. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:35 PM |
| 39 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleBoyfriend is bad enough but just “exclusive” reads: He can (and is) going to wine & dine other women, and then it’s super cool to swing by your place after for some “exclusive” sex (note: he’s likely having sex with his dates too, but just won’t tell you). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 16 | College student draws up 17-page CONTRACT with her boyfriendLol truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisExactly. Diggers specializing in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inTry a search here on FDS for maybe sex strategy tips. … I’ll look too cause I’ve saved one for sure :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about video games?They end marriages daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Shades of LVMs; They're not always black or whiteSo borrowing that… love it 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 8 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".Truth. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 10 | Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut.Rude as shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inGave me the icks just reading this… ugh what a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inThank you, especially helpful the last couple paragraphs 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:19 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-inThank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:14 AM |
| 60 | Weekly FDS Check-inLol wow the males have gone a little far on that with the “terrorist” bit, but anyway: Die Mad scrotes. . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 34 | Weekly FDS Check-inLove this update - it’s only up from here 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayThat he went straight to calling fam and friends like ASAP that evening confirmed to me what I saw already in his post - he’s a controlling abusive prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:10 AM |
| 32 | Alfred Molina dates younger woman while his wife wastes awayExactly. Of course they won’t! “When Alfred Molina is 83 and shitting in a diaper in a home somehwere and this lady starts dating her aerobics instructor, will his family call that a "fairytale ending" too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Tiktok "challenges" that could get you killedI’m glad you asked, it’s a good question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 24 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.Excellent post… I haven’t seen that movie, but hearing of it, I immediately suspected she was not what they had painted. Seen it too many times not to recognize it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | I…am speechlessMassively lazy piece of male weirdo example #842,789. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 33 | This has me in stitches. Can we agree that being a woman is just more expensive? Clothes, beauty products... $$$You ARE everything. 💕 Freaking love the pockets too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:28 AM |
| 376 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.Done. I’m also tempted to send my monthly used menstraul products to the capital since they are so fucking concerned about fetal cells. Let them pick thru some kotex every month on a desperate search. Freaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Tiktok "challenges" that could get you killedYou are correct, it’s rude. I’m guessing last one leans more towards “make questionable/male centric plans in front of bf”… but that would make sense, and none of this shit does…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 74 | Another reason why coffee dates are a waste of timeTotally agree op … I think about the same things when dating - it works. Shockingly, only 1 or 2 men I’ve dated (and briefly lol) could even match 50% of a friends’ efforts. Still shopping 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:26 PM |
| 40 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.Men have Never known how to act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 17 | The average New Zealand male... Unfortunately....I am way too old to be waking up like that lol. Sorry to report, but the males here in the US appear to share many of the same lv traits as the males in New Zealand…. Perhaps it really IS all men? ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:39 AM |
| 54 | Be careful before sharing your trauma with men.Vile creatures. Who is protecting these predators screens names? (obviously not us) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inThanks :-) I Need a break from dating, guess I’m kind of on one I guess, not by choice…. Just these lvm removing themselves, and usually before they even get in the running 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 16 | Is she high maintenance tho?Did she try communicating??? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Check-inDid a time machine make a stop near me recently?? Why are males from my past trying so hard to creep on me at the same time? Funny, the ones I am dating now clearly aren’t interested themselves… the other guys just smell it even via no contact lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:19 AM |
| 122 | The first page of this book: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Beckerbut… but…. NOt All MEn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:16 AM |
| 43 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Exactly. They continue to wonder. Let them. The ones that wonder will NOT change and are nvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 8 | my quickest vetting strategyBrilliant 💕. This is also what we learn when we really date ourselves, as well as when we begin to live our lives as if NOT waiting until “this or that” but starting living today . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 06:38 AM |
| 28 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanBless you, someone finally posted it. Fuck outa here with this shit males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 45 | Got downvoted for suggesting this woman may have been raped rather than cheated:Always. Sadly it’s seems the rule not exception on other places around here. And I agree with you in your point, haven’t read any of posts the but don’t need to, see them daily, lived too many pre FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:51 AM |
| 261 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.Of course, he’s also her “coach” 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 19 | Dumpster Man Returns to DumpsterTitle’s got me dead dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 36 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?This is the answer I needed this am 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 2 | On ditching online dating and improving social skills.Thank you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with ageLove to see a post on this 🤗, thanks for reply to poster above :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | A question?It’s back! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 15 | Opinion: surrogacy is on the same transactional spectrum as porn and prostitutionI am so glad to see this in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 14 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsOmg this is the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:31 PM |
| 17 | Well...it's true for some ladies but not us 😂👀💅🏽Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 28 | Well...it's true for some ladies but not us 😂👀💅🏽Why does it say “Grandma woke up & chose violence” tho? Sorry don’t understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 15 | OLD as a business strategyYou’re not wrong about how they work. On top of a capitalist corporation, you have said corporation operating from a society already drenched in Patriarchy. Recipe for disaster for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:36 PM |
| 39 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDNah... a dating app would “never” recommend women risk their lives & safety even further by actively re-engaging with angry males... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | A question?Say it again. !!!! I wld of cld remember exactly lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Banned from a well love sub because I hurt a man’s feelings.Aww ... the fabled male fee feez! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 11 | A question?This is a terribly correct & underrated comment :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 5 | This makes sense. The guys on your “level” have more options and don’t want relationships. I’m done dating down, and it’s so much harder to find someone.Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 18 | Qualities of Queendom: not giving a fuck about other people being mad at you 👸I just fucking love the title of this post even... I think it’s the damn key to life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | We’re both mid-30s lawyers. This is first date offer lol.How embarrassing for him.... you would think. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 51 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.Truth can’t be unseen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 9 | I prefer taking myself out on dates✨Love it! Thanks for sharing , I need the inspiration :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 109 | They were together for 8 years and wants a ring worthy of wearing the rest of her life. Most comments are calling her a gold digger...surprise surprise 😒 How much do you want to bet he won’t find anyone else & comes back crying on her doorstep? 💅🏻laundry diggers 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How to detach from men you have crushes onLove this post - it really is that simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 3 | My fav 90s musical genius.. D'angelo 💖💕💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupThey are really still doing this? Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 15 | Men tell on themselves, a lot. Especially fuckboys.Dead. 💀 “If you look into a man's eyes while you're having sex with him and his eyes are flat, with no emotion but just pure stupid glee, with the notorious fuckboy grin, something akin to a dog salivating over meat or chewing on a bone, I would argue that for him, the act of having sex with you or pursuing you is the true thrill for him. If you feel like a man is looking at you like a piece of meat, you are more than likely right. “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 27 | What the actual fuck. 🤡It’s a fucking thing alright... I’ve been fat and thin. Never hated it so much as when thin. They are cruel, the Zvms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Always ask a guy when he got tested for STD's - AND always get testedYes - definitely ask (but can’t be trusted) AND get yourself tested no matter what - even if in a monogamous relationship I’d still do it annually at least. Don’t trust your body to any male ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Found him on tinder 😛I think this could go either way really, tho unlikely he’s really on Tinder, however..... I’ve seen these beautiful males be real too from same app, but they’ve all been up to trouble lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 12 | What are (seemingly) benign things that a LVM does that betray his character?The accuracy hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 10 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pageSeriously, excellent theory. . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:32 AM |
| 57 | Male coworker triggered by being in a room full of high value womenI’d be one pissed patient to find out that what I thought was my “all women surgical team” also included this unhinged sounding male in the OR.... I’d report him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 47 | I avoided being in a LTR with a manipulative LVM thanks to FDS for reminding me to know my worth👑I wanna see more of these from our members !!!! Thanks for sharing :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 24 | Can I kinkshame yet?Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 9 | This is how black men feel about black womenWhat a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 6 | I finally just quit makeup. It's awesome!Loved reading this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 35 | The Irritating Gentleman, by German artist Berthold Woltze (1874) https://i.imgur.com/HMa0cro.jpg (saw this on another subreddit)Males, Circa 1874. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 39 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Oh yes 🙌 SHE DID !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Appreciating Mom-isms: My mom's advice and how embarrassingly right she wasLove this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:29 PM |
| 11 | Husband pushed his pregnant wife off a cliff...Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InMy comments don’t show up much anywhere but here now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-InSaving this comment. I am sorry to hear this. And it’s too common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InIt really is a red flag every single time. The finer he is, the faster you should just save your vibe & block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:00 AM |
| 73 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.Women don’t say this shit. Women don’t perpetrate 95%+ of violence. Oh yeah, and fuck Redit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 7 | Men in womens health subredditsI hate seeing that shit. It also screams to me that the person posing said questions is lv as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:29 PM |
| 5 | LVM trying to keep you from raising your valueOmg your first one OP 😂. “Ask him questions”.... 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:30 PM |
| 20 | Is Bill Gates LVM?Totally agree on all ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 148 | Pretend you don't know any betterIf you come from a thought process of “I’m used to fab treatment “ and you keep at it, it’s an excellent tactic for losing lick me tendencies and remembering how lv males are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI should know, but can we see who follows us? I have like 3 followers I guess . I do follow 2 or 3 FDS posters’ as found their content/comments to be fab. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI don’t sweat it too much... but listen to your instincts- best to ignore vs not... so you did right girl. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI’ve seen this shit too.... words from men are nothing. Ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that this subreddit garners criticism for encouraging a different path, that of which is DIGNITY for women, while the depravity of males continues on, often times unchecked??Good fucking question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:48 PM |
| 7 | I love pick mes that are so ignorant to history and to why some things exist... 🙄Makes about as much sense as the other! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 62 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.This abuse is RAMPANT. And that shit is terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 51 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outThat about sums it up nicely! ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 19 | Beware of Hidden Forms of ControlGood riddance girl! 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 30 | Beware of Hidden Forms of ControlIt’s unfortunate you weren’t able to kick him to the curb instead right then lol, but I’m 😂 that you threw him out of bed & he slept on the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 52 | High Value Dates OnlyLol. Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Even a sub about medicine is full of misogynySure he’s “joining med school soon” too 😂. Damn that shit hurts to read. He sounds 9. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:26 AM |
| 8 | Strategy: 40+ FDS women - the long-game.Thanks OP, great discussion, can’t wait to read in full & respond as well later today after work ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Realizing my pickme behavior and apologizing to my friends.What a fab real life example - thanks for sharing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:53 AM |
| 8 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Kyle.... get out of the way next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Man hides camera in woman's bedroom disguised as clock, takes 140 videos—police - a other reason to not bring men you barely know to your home.Love to see this on cameras when you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 14 | I found this poem by Nayyirah Waheed recently...and then this criticism. How do u feel about it?Any woman that doesn’t get this shit needs help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Period 👏🏻Girl, could have written this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, your time is YOURS!I feel this post so very much. The entitlement and selfishness is wild in these males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, your time is YOURS!This is plain truth. Just dating shows how lazy and selfish so many are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Being the "dream girl" isn't specialFuck yes. It’s that painful. And I’m dating 30’s/very early 40’/s males. Broke and broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:09 AM |
| 78 | Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let onThis is so terrifyingly true... especially the part about his “list of bad deeds” being long with the guessing games... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 45 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?Oh......look, they hate women over there too! (just the Feminism sub, no biggie). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InLook out. These males keep preying like this forever...even well into my old ass age lol ugh. Keep with your standards (which should never include sex before 3 ish months/etc !). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThe males are downvoting the shit out of this, I can see it lol. Still love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:05 AM |
| 19 | Why Pickmes hate FDSBeautifully succinct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 73 | Black women and weaponsI’m so disgusted this girl was murdered. Males just don’t give a fuck. How many times has my 115# ass jumped out of the car while ALL (but one) of my 6’+ tall, 200# exes, did fuck- all of nothing but yell at me to mind my business? Males are utter wastes of space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InBrilliant - love to see it! If he wanted to marry you would you need to buy both your rings !!!! (I know it’s hard, but you are strong and will not regret) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 46 | Anyone else not bother arguing with men anymore?Lately I’ve found that using the literal very least amount of words as possible, to no words at all, the only way to deal with males at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 49 | All the emotional labor, organizing and managing being pushed on the woman, who would have known? This is why multiple partners are not beneficial for women, instead of one man baby, she now has two of them.“Come see my nest!”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Online dating programs you to settleIt’s shocking really. And just HOW? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Wow. Just... Wow 😑Can they ever come up with ANY new shit???? Just fucking maybe??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:59 AM |
| 29 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Send HiS email (that he sent you) to all 1) his employer 2) his family 3) his attorney 4) the police 5) your attorney | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 28 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Kobe’s death may have escalated the end of my relationship with a piece of garbage nvm... I told him I couldn’t listen to one more second of it, to shut up about a rapist already and I was tired of shutting my mouth about it. Didn’t go over well. Sorry not sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:26 AM |
| 4 | A man who wants you to orgasm is not always HVI don’t even have to draft my comment on this post.... all the above is accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | A man who wants you to orgasm is not always HVTHIS is what I was trying to write the last 10 minutes. Breaks my heart all over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 105 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.Report his selfish ass. I’m sorry you had to Listen to him after that 😞. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:10 AM |
| 26 | Trust. Your. Gut.And seeing that 5-yrs later is incredible... we place far too much faith and trust in these providers. They are not the end all be all - any professional “anyone” that kicks up shit over a change in providers should be fired too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 23 | Did this crusty just blame rapist on women??This guy sounds like he thinks rapists just jump out of fucking bushes at strangers. Look asshole, you already know the rapists are your buddies, your brother, your dad, your uncle - none of them have a sign on their forehead. The sign of the rapist is the dick between his legs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 22 | Trust. Your. Gut.Love it. Never doubt yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 380 | Not even surprisedBut did she CoMunICate enough to HIm how it makes her feel when she gets cancer and stuff????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:31 AM |
| 38 | Every day the bar descends deeper into hell...That and their wounded little-dick ego’s. That’s the problem every time - it’s their piss -poor attitudes and lack of emotional intelligence of any kind that hurt them the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 12 | Men force you to speak in order to silence youThis is beyond accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InThis guy was indeed looking for control, you nailed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InIt’s never “Rough Sex gone wrong, MALE dead..”... unless his partner was also MALE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InProud of you for standing your ground though - it’s funny to see this as just happened to me for the first time, and I let it slide. * note we have met multiple dates tho over a month... Of course, he was blocked less than a week post pic r 🚩 I ignored, wish I had listened earlier. I knew then too, smh. They are just beyond all reason & sanity at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 18 | VOX recruiting on reddit for more libfem bullshit. Tell us how you split the bill 🤡🤡🤡 Also bonus for age gaps, poly, and throuples! 🤡🤡🤡For the love of cheap ass scrotes ....what did I just read????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 31 | So a “guy friend” tried it on with me tonightPeriod. It’s this simple. I’m so tired of the stranger danger monologue- NO! It’s nearly a fucking cover for rapists & pedophiles at this point. The huge majority of women and children and are victimized by MALES they KNOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 10 | I don't think I've come across a single HVM on dating websitesNope. Dated 3 that we’re definitely “in disguise hvm”..... so nvm in hvm clothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 323 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateThey are beyond reason and sanity. I have grown,over 40 year old, attractive, decent seeming males ask me on fucking walk dates. I block now, but at first I would actually reply “not my thing, tell me how those walk dates have worked out for you so far? “ lol. That seemed to hit them in the head. Fucking morons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 47 | FDS combing out the LVM (source unknown)😂 I think I love you u/lillylilacladybug 😂💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 57 | Why does being single feel good sometimes? ( rant i guess )I hope other young women see your post -especially this: ..... “I'm in a young and almost delicate part of my life, and I realized I should be working hard on myself instead of being a dumping ground for some kind of porn-addicted douchebag.”... Exactly!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 10 | He stalks the poor octopusLove your thoughts on this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 53 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornFilthy disgusting scum. Keep outing them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIM😂. Exactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 9 | If you are asking yourself whether you should block himAnd this is why I’m scrolling thru rn lol..... damn why’s it always the cute ones??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!The Nest . Found it ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 5 | Just CoMmUnIcAtE. I asked if someone was hitting you, wouldn't the solution be to leave and they said "you know that's not what I'm saying" but their word is to NEVER just leave. The delusion.For sure Jake- gonna do it now. Dear SO: Please stop abusing me and cheating on me. Jake on redit said I must communicate with you NO matter how bad your behavior, and tell you exactly what you are doing wrong, so I can potentially Mommy you to death. Just LEAVING abuse is WRONG, per all of redit. andJake. Please tho, now that I have COMMUNICATED this, can you stop???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 3 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!Lol “the nest” was a post from another sub that went down in infamy.... a male showed his gf his “nest” he slept in.... I’ll see if I can find :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 6 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!I’m seeing a Nest in her future.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 87 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!She sounds like she’s planning to chew it and spit it into his mouth for him at this point.... Next time we might see a post asking how to DIGEST the lazy piece of shit’s food for him too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHugs. You’re not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 11 | Some men have spent more time watching porn than interacting with actual women, and it showsDamn, does it ever show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 11 | The REAL reason men Catcall(A RANT)Males also Preen for OTHER Males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 11 | The front page just re-traumatizes me all over againThe videos on just my very “safe” subs list - somehow I get glimpses from Redit of Videos in my damn feed and they are all for the most part FUCKED. I’m done. Traumatized. My eyes burn and I don’t read the news or main page or other subs hardly. So what IS going on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 6 | That’s a lot of words for “on call booty”Lol & right there on the “The Relationship App” (Hinge) too! 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:06 PM |
| 360 | “Doesn’t like men”Right, “Not All Men”, my ass. What you saw is just plain truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Reality Bites was THE film of the 90s. Sadly, it groomed women into believing slacker types were cool and boyfriend worthy. It has taken me 20 years to realise Ethan Hawke's character was a SCROTE.One of my fav soundtracks in my younger years ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 96 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I feel this so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Relationships “built on friendship”Damn you took the course 🙂 lol. All straight truth. Don’t worry ladies, I even tested this. Twice. In a month. Both by accident (missed the “friend” bs in their bios, I was too taken in by these two guys’ pics 🤦♀️) ... Both exact same bs as each other too on friend bit and both blocked before 3rd date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 12 | Single Men Over 40 Are BrokenI can’t disagree and am going to move it to 35 soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateThey touched on NOT ONE BIT of the inequity..... asshats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 26 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateWhoever wrote this shit needs their head checked. ... 😂. ..”The moderators are also proudly kink-shamey, claiming that BDSM and polyamory are disrespectful and only ever explored for a MAN’S benefit, rather than because a woman might have a genuine interest herself. “. 😂😂😂😂 Hahah, right, I’m sure WOMEN specifically thought up BDSM & Poly BS for themselves, I know every little girl dreams of her future husband /bf making love to her then choke her till she passes out, and slap her face, then go h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Men aren't stupid, men think WE are stupidThank you 💕. Edit: What game is he up to? He just looks so... bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Men aren't stupid, men think WE are stupidI’m sorry, but which one is OP in texts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 7 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.Lunatics, every last one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 56 | I had a date tonight...It’s a Pandemic of PUA’s tho for sure!!! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 204 | I had a date tonight...Love how you handled. What a dipshit... males complain left & right “why won’t anyone date me”.... this is reason #916,942,654 why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 20 | How To Know When To Delete A TweetFucking thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:31 AM |
| 3 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMThis behavior is a billboard screaming BAD DAYS AHEAD for any woman hanging with a man that does this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:24 AM |
| 9 | Steve Harvey Claims ugly men will make all your dreams come true😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Interesting thought on "not all men."“Why are we more willing to defend ourselves from animals and inanimate objects than other humans?”.... Exactly! Similar to how heavy “stranger danger” is pushed - when 95% of the danger is in your home or life already... Men in your home or life? Look at them first as risk, forget the strangers and sharks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 5 | Sex questions, gaslighting, and more. Welcome to online dating.Glad you like it lol - I was in similar spot little bit ago - I really thought I could do it differently than all of my sisters before me LOL. Nope. The males are not alright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Sex questions, gaslighting, and more. Welcome to online dating.You have seen nothing yet. Trust me. Delete. These males are just not alright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 38 | And yet so many of them start out damaged! But oh, they’re not “psychos” or “crazy” everDon’t tell any of the dating advice forums tho !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 101 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.Sadly I have no doubt this is true. Too many males, in too many positions of power, colluding together on how to fuck up children’s and women’s lives on the daily.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 67 | Why are they so lazy??No he is -you’re correct. They often straightup admit this in these low level posts every time! Smh. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:12 AM |
| 18 | We need to talk about Non-consensual BDSMIt does. Badly. That’s all I’m comfy posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:59 AM |
| 48 | “I do that with all my friends”😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?I did the same in taking it to heart... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 16 | Comments full of women saying "just communicate" and "that's toxic"I fucking love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 23 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)Spoken like a true nvm that wouldn’t know his proper way around a pussy even with an instruction tutorial 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 19 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.Men speaking on women is rarely a good thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Wow dude, wow..! Don’t you think you gotta figure out how to make WOMEN say “wow” first..?Wow. Casey. Just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 18 | It makes me sad how delusional this woman is. This is such a bullshit excuse!Fuck me. Oh wait, your man already tried. What are we going to believe next? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:28 AM |
| 41 | DING! DONG! THE SCROTE IS DEAD! WHICH OLD SCROTE? THE RAPIST SCROTE! Larry Flynt, Hustler magazine founder, dies at 78He’s GONE where the Goblins go, Below Below below, Below..... oh.... ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:26 AM |
| 101 | This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the commentsSadly, I do believe it. They display their hate for women every minute 😞. No more excuses anyone. The males KNOW what they are doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:20 AM |
| 89 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.Really. They can’t turn women off fast enough with this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:15 AM |
| 73 | And there it isBeautifully stated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:01 PM |
| 48 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.Damn. I knew this but I also didn’t know it..thank you ... this so so accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 8 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?Lol sounds like the same guy, and yes, all exact same details as you noted above :) The males have been spawning, I’m sure there’s more than one :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 4 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?Yes!!!! This my experience too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:09 AM |
| 12 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?It was a lot of somethings lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 99 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?I’m 99.9% sure a male from a former 3 year relationship (in his 40s) truly didn’t watch porn. He is the ONLY man I’ve dated (in my 40’s) that I’ve felt certain of this on AND he seemed truly not Into it. He was, and still is, a huge piece of shit, negative-value male tho for other reasons. Great in bed tho. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 21 | A man once 'jokingly' told me to sew up my vagina since I don't 'use' itThat is a despicable, terrible thing he said - he sounds like a massive pile of shit. . Anyone yelling for me in public is lv. If ANYONE were to holler for me ANYWHERE (other than maybe my mom!) - why would I even acknowledge such rude behavior???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 55 | YALL. I know this convo ain’t itThese males aren’t worth the effort period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 12 | So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughtersFor my life. As if those mf’s would take it to heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:48 AM |
| 48 | What do the ladies of FDS thing about this?That text indicates “cheap” and “lazy” on his end .... that’s my take on first glance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:23 PM |
| 7 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?I think I’m just too old to be surprised by hate anymore.... let them hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 13 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDI’ve caught so many wedding pics on walls and wedding rings on hands in OLD pics lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:28 AM |
| 8 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.I feel you. I got on Bumble BFF for a second, I did meet some ok women - however - I’m mot much of a tester, and found that part too much for me. I’m on early 40s, so may be different generation... Then holidays/life kinda of got crazy and it’s just so hard to keep up as adults without some tie in like work/hobby. The one person willing to meet irl, we did meet and are light friends (but need to catch up lol. !) Due to pandemic, many of us are kind of stuck too, as I would join any sport /hobby … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:19 AM |
| 8 | From a female politician in my country. My response: Oh, because we should praise men for doing the bare minimum required for being a father. Meanwhile, women never get praised for partaking in this kind of labor because it’s expected of us.Exactly. I just make note in my head to look for the divorce/breakup announcement sometime in the next month /year 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 72 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?Beyond entitled and immature - nothing dries me up faster. Even young males shouldn’t be dumb enough to post this shit to their social media - I guess at least it can clue women in to avoid them . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 14 | Don't be an empath QueensMaybe the empathy part (or “reading” people if you will), is from utilizing some natural form of survival skills, grown very early on, that we aren’t consciously aware of... ie: emotional neglect: By 12 Months old, baby has learned to read parents real fast & accommodate them so they will love them... etc . Don’t have much time right now but just some quick thoughts. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseSo proud of you . Sounds to me like he needed a good dumping anyway to shake his stupid ass up back to planet Earth.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 10 | Don't be an empath QueensI have always considered myself an empath, and have known I am also codependent as fuck since a teen.... Your comment is intriguing as it didn’t occur to me they could be related .. ugh. Can’t argue with this part quoted below, certainly could be me.... perhaps you’re are on to something here. ...”......empaths actually seem to be be people who have suffered abuse and trauma and as a result have very poor boundaries and feel they need to be a martyr for everyone.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with a new guy and I could tell immediately that he doesn't jerk off to porn regularly.All of this OP.... it’s so nice to be with a man that is “healthy” sexually - it seems a rare find these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:35 PM |
| 7 | Love a good roast.Can someone cc my 48 yo ex please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 24 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄I’ve been sending pm’s to some posters suggesting they swing by here... I’ve got to stop browsing the advice subs today, it’s too painful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?Lol you def described it well lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.Jfc is he even a damn human ???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:10 PM |
| 16 | **TRIGGER WARNING** Here is a sick piece of shit, 44-year-old male, going after a 13-year-old girl. Luckily, she sets him up and police bust his ass. Hopefully, he gets it in prison, low life SCUM.Your description is spot on and totally agree. Your last sentence sums it all up so succinctly tho. Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 46 | Are there even any HVM from my era40’s, not any different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 14 | When she has better optionsThis was cute 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:05 PM |
| 15 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄I just wanna know (well not really) WHY males like him feel the need to proclaim this insane shit in writing no less! Is it that much on your mind weirdo ??? Why??????? Let me guess..... unpopular opinion OP sounds like a predator himself. Sorry. Not sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 28 | Why women keep "losing".Ugh the accuracy here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:36 AM |
| 21 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosThe crack is strong today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itI love this post, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Realization❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Almost burnt out❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | I can't have ANY male friendsNone of us can... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 36 | Really?Males do this shit all the time in order to: Hide truth/lie/cheat. They don’t care how crazy they sound, their asses have the audacity to demand and expect we believe their crazy lies and try to gaslight us to thinking we are crazy. They really go all out with cheating cover ups.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 13 | Great article from Emma Hartley (author of 'Fed Up') about women shouldering and cracking under the weight of emotional laborI’ll admit I didn’t get to the very end of the article, but she sounds unhappy and is still doing it ALL. Why is she still making excuses for her completely capable husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 28 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?I’m so sorry for your loss. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:58 PM |
| 43 | Clearly putting men in leading positions is what is best. Men should be the leaders of societyI’m not surprised by this at all. Males have been preying on women and children and getting AWAY with it since Day One. I’m beyond fucking done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 35 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!Stop doing so much Yogi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 12 | The incel mods at r/AHS go “mask off” with the crazy - claim to have demanded we show them evidence of child porn, and that criticisms of porn make us akin to Misogynists, Anti-Semites, pedophiles, and NeoNazis & that we’re inciting “Masturbation Panic”. LMAO WUT IS THIS INSANE REACHMales typing or talking = Nothing. When and if they decide to actually give a shit and look, they will find. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 43 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕Omg a woman purchased a car 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 131 | What a lowlife smhToo bad she didn’t get him on vid, I wanna know is that my ex driving the car or what? Jk of course (kinda not, he would absolutely do this, and I’m sick I ever dated him, thankfully I’ve got no kids with him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:13 PM |
| 5 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Done and did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 77 | 'The lead in Promising Young Woman isn't hot enough to be raped'- a scrote reviewing the movie in VarietySo Variety picked up this review & printed it/rolled out online? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 28 | How men act towards disabled and "weak" womenThank you for sharing! This post was incredibly helpful insight into what males are really up to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 19 | Radical feminism on social mediaI follow her too, glad to know others here do as well :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 44 | NVM expects her to practically hand feed him every meal. I have no words.This is HUGELY abusive. She’s brainwashed. Taking her only means of leaving away and he’s got her fucking AGREEING to it nearly... I really hope she gets the help with this and he rots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 42 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"Just thinking of complimenting a male makes me shiver. Not in a good way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 15 | I knew I was going to get attacked for saying this, but I had to. I hope she takes my advice.To see THAT many downvotes on your response comment- the HATE towards Women is so disheartening especially right now..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 26 | This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a bakerDing ding ding this answer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Lol I thought about posting it... probably only accurate reply to OP on that sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:45 PM |
| 11 | I ... 🤢☠️Please report him to dating app (looks like Hinge?) if not already done!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:48 PM |
| 18 | One of the creepiest posts ever submitted on 2XC. My response in second. No, we don’t like it when a male stranger compliments our body in line at the grocery store. ffs.Not only do they allow it, the sub seems to actively encourage it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 20 | Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!”It’s almost like Males see women as living dolls for them to dress up or down, depending upon their dicks’ & egos’ whims... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 8 | Who knows more about the casual sex behaviors of women, men or women?OP, it’s you that doesn’t know what the fuck is going on. Not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 34 | Dump him if he has EDTruth. Younger ladies especially, pay attention here! You CANT fix him. Your vagina CANT fix his dick either, it’s usually his brain that’s broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 106 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingI’m so grossed out by this. What a fucking turn-off. Hate to say it, but it’s a good reminder for me... I’m good right here where I am at, single af. I was feeling a bit lonely and sad and was tempted feeling like I should “look” at dating again.... nope. I’m good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 66 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.That was beautifully written and accurate as fuck. 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Another man who wants to be babied 🙄This is seriously messed up.... talk about a turn off.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Candace Owens is so cringyWhat does that even fucking mean??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 16 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicThat’s exactly how I read it as well... how did she miss it??? Disturbing how these “columnists” are so clueless and give shit advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:03 AM |
| 11 | NSFW Girl being followed home at night and stalker tries to break inTf she didn’t call 911?? (Not that they are always helpful but damn!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 58 | We don't get to participate because of our views.I continue to see this shit on feminist subs. Assume all are moderated by males (and a few self-hating females) that give zero fucks about women’s lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 36 | NEVER tell scrotes that you’re a virginYES! So glad to see this posted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Gorgeous wife, directly asks for and offers sex, scrote upset and turns it down because it's not performative and titillating enough.This is most posters in r/deadbedroomHe sounds just like a nvm I once knew.... they either just don’t know wtf they want& are babies and/or like to make women just plain miserable... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 15 | Someone posted on NextDoor about a guy masturbating at a trail in broad daylight near where I live... this scrote comments to say women shouldn’t wear tight leggings and tops outside“Our Women”... tf??? He’s crazy. Surprised he didn’t start with “our FemAlEs”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:24 AM |
| 12 | The pickmeisha in the comment sec being like "OR you could both love each other and it doesn't have to be a one sided street" Nah sis that's how you get played. Learnt my lesson the hard way , a man should always ALWAYS love you more than YOU love HIM.So true, and I wish I could have taken this to heart much earlier ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 14 | Do men even feel love?Lol great last question!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Response to "flirt like a straight white man":And.... you know we’re not really “friends“ right? Like... don’t call me for anything right...?, I’ll let you know when I want my Uber Pussy delivered.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 11 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchyLol 😂 let them freak at the truth being called out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 15 | Stay Woke, Ladies. Beware the “Long Game”.Nailed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to see other men on the side?Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 15 | Basically lying on the internet to get gullible guys to sexually harass women. How can people be so disgusting?They are disgraceful and shit human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 15 | “Not looking for anything serious”It’s gonna feel like total shit for you if you agree to do “nothing serious “. But go ahead, purposely sign up to be used by him, while he actively pursues, wines, dines, and chases other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | First Birthday since finding FDS...Happy Happy Birthday 🎁 🎂 What an inspiring post!. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | I am a woman and I have valueI love reading posts like this - helps keep me moving without any guilt or regret about leaving assholes of ALL kinds in the dust..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 30 | OLD is so effin grimYes please be careful! The males and gaming addictions are epidemic- I’m not seeing women addicted like males are. It will ruin your life if you get stuck with one of these addicted males. Ask me how I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 25 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itBhhahahaha!!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Caring for me after experiencing pet lossI’m so sorry for your loss. So great to see him standing by you 💗! On flip side, received opposite from nvm I knew for too long. Wish i hadn’t ignored his lack of care then too along with everything else... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 15 | I mean so relatable! Right ladies?? 🤢Lol me too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Saw "Target Challenge" on tiktok and thought it's a good excuse for some self-care. Instead of exchanging gifts with someone, I bought it all for myself (hope it's not sad lol idk anyone in my city yet)I love that you did this - brilliant 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 22 | He does not respect you or your time. And is so happy about your pickme reaction to his disrespect that he brags about itLook at my free bang-maid wife you guys - aren’t I great??? I didn’t even have to hit her or emotionally strangle her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 64 | Share your ridiculous OLD storiesMost of these males on apps just can’t keep their mouths shut long enough to get a date, all of them outed themselves pre date for me so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:10 PM |
| 40 | Share your ridiculous OLD stories😂 this is one reason to stay away from dating 😂 I just can’t, smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 39 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespectTHIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:06 AM |
| 14 | Are expensive restaurants red flags?Hopefully my gut would have already led to my ass into NOT being there lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 274 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.Tf does he think he doesn’t age too???? The way he speaks of his wife is beyond disturbing, I hope she leaves his ugly ass and he can spend his remaining years in Tinder purgatory, crying about not being able to get any coffee dates 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 17 | Are expensive restaurants red flags?I dare one to try it on me.... Don’t know the answer, but listen to your gut ladies and dip if you hear alarms of any kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:10 PM |
| 10 | Women supporting other women <3Hutchinson is the definition of a predator .. I don’t follow much of any entertainment info & news, so had to look up who they are, but if I recall correctly, Hutchinson’s character in the Green Mile, was a real dirtbag, of course. Hutchinson also has dead eyes. It seems the very little news I do hear of Entertainment /Hollywood tho is pretty shitty. Edited to add: I also really appreciate the women that shared these Hollywood articles today and participated in discussion. I’ve seen that ( in re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?Lol Thank you 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 36 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?He’s white. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:12 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Thinking of you u/bethiebabes. You’re not alone, I promise. I know it feels like it. You’re going to get thru this and rise up stronger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:01 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I’m so sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Y’all..........Can you imagine having to listen to his snide ass every single day? Ick. I’m as repulsed by males as ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 4 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.That makes more sense then 🙂Frankly, I was kinda confused when I realized you were OP lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 26 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.If we wanted to explain or “prove” to other women that males are the predators 95%+ of the time, we would go over to the RA or DOT subs. This is FDS. We are tired of pandering to males & male defenders when males are out here raping women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Most Likely Not.Avoiding males for the win - BUT Probiotics are a miracle & I still take, and highly recommend for PH health! Life changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 17 | 🤣This is hysterical 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:50 PM |
| 13 | Eh... I truly feel bad for her and I just cant stop being amazed at what some men r like.... they really don't give a shit, do they...Pretty wild right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 10:43 PM |
| 169 | Eh... I truly feel bad for her and I just cant stop being amazed at what some men r like.... they really don't give a shit, do they...My BF of 3 years ghosted me. He still lives 5 minute drive away, we were 35+ years old, serious. I’m convinced males are nearly just sub human at this point. However, I’m eternally fucking glad he did it now.... for real. Best gift ever, I immediately blocked everywhere and he’s gone forever to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Sometimes the trash takes itself out 🗑 He promptly unmatched meWhat a creep and disrespectful asshat - good riddance to him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Girl (16) gets free from creep boyfriend(20) in a close call situation.He’s not a boyfriend he’s a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Covid is getting to me. Are there any resources I should look into that you'd recommend?I’m going to come back in a few weeks and update my FDS sisters on my Bumble BFF experience ! (i’m single, not dating, and not super experienced on the apps FYI). I am approaching BFF a bit like dating tho and I’ll be keeping in mind what I’ve learned from this sub with me every step, as I need it. Im happy to report my experience back in a few weeks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:42 AM |
| 12 | Just delete him, girl.Damn that’s some good shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 45 | Covid is getting to me. Are there any resources I should look into that you'd recommend?Bumble BFF. I swore I’d never do an app of any kind again but already meeting some cool women 🙂 I’m in a mid size city. I’ve been way beyond down last few years. I’m just barely, and I mean barely, starting to crawl out - it’s not pretty, but one foot in front of the other. It took me a long long time to sign up and wish I had earlier. If your not ready, start getting ready. Search our and sister subs for self help posts/etc - lots of good past posts & comments on this - read and Save. You are N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 11 | Dating men in the process of buying a homeLove this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Lol thank you 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Thanks you too 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:28 PM |
| 23 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Bumble bff is a good idea after things around here open up more, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:22 AM |
| 59 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.I agree with OP 💯. Just wish I had friends.... cherish your friendships ladies. I’ve had too much loss last 6 years. I’ve tried till my heart broke, no friends to be had, coming to terms with being alone alone & with no community is painful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 17 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Really thought I had it all figured out, seeing this shook me 😅. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:05 AM |
| 28 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!I’ve been where you are before. Had male “friends” ... Men that “had my back” and “looked out for me”...they really did. Just like abusers can be nice and thoughtful to their victims- it’s not all bad all the time usually. But it doesn’t mean it’s all ok. At end of day, all of them (male friends) let me down. Some more than others, some really badly. LVM can want to protect you and sometimes will, but they are still low value and do shitty stuff. If not yet, give em a minute. They have always pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:03 AM |
| 24 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Shit, this is beyond real. Seen it first hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 9 | And this, my good people, is why you should never lend a boyfriend moneyI hope he rots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:21 PM |
| 8 | The cognitive dissonance is staggering sometimes. Ask reddit has a thread asking about a time gut feelings saved their lives. Yet, on a sub for listening to intuition, they are telling this women she was wrong in trusting hers.Once you see this shit, it’s over, the gig’s up... you can never unsee what males really are and the system/brainwashing that encourages it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 119 | I really hope every female on this planet discover this community soon. I wish my aunt found this community ..Make sure her husband didn’t do something to her as well... I’m so sorry, thinking about you and your family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:23 AM |
| 13 | Has this been posted yet? Holy projection...”..even a woman in her 60’s!” Oh the Horrors! What a nitwit the writer is. Weak males (read:most) are particularly threatened of women as we age because they know as we get older we give less and less shits about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:41 PM |
| 56 | Needing support: I was sexual harassed on at a Ayahuasca spiritual event by a narcissistic sociopath and I fought back!I’m so sorry you had to deal with this, and proud of you for speaking out in the moment. We need more women ONLY spaces so we can heal from these predators - kinda hard to heal when they are given full access to you in recovery!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 17 | Jeannie Mai says she’s Taking a 'Submissive' Role in her marriage to Young Jeezy. Sis has been really guzzling that Hotep Koolaid.Your title tho OP 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:13 AM |
| 52 | Woman who doesn't realize that she's in a potentially emotionally abusive situation receives the advice that it's not okay to ghost. Why do we always have to be courteous to men, even when they blatantly violate clearly set boundaries? GHOST HIM.Men: You should be nice, suck his dick before you let him down gently, and coddle his gentle soul, he only understands physical touch tho. And what’s wrong with you that you don’t do what he says? ComMuniCAtE! Bitch. Pickmes: Be gentle with him, and make sure you are actively sucking his dick when you let him down gently ok? 👌 you know, be nice. Jeez. Bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Feds charge six men accused in plot to kidnap Michigan governorMen have overstayed their welcome on Earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:29 AM |
| 6 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:Batshit crazy. “...show me something.... that makes your heart content ...” ...So she wants him to show her his dick while in a field? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020This. This man could have access to your home that you don’t know about (master keys etc). I work in development/real estate management. Please take this serious. Any professional contractor would KNOW not to creep out women when alone in their home as a contractor. I would start with the Property Manager & Owner and notify them in writing (in addition to any verbal you did). Require (don’t request) that this contractor no longer have access of any kind to your unit, will not return to your unit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 17 | I’ve often wondered why our detractors care about what we think so much, but this tweet sums it up nicely.But can they find a woman that will love their Nest???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 129 | Washed up LVM/ZVM logic as to why they prefer to marry women in their 20’s when they are pushing 40. It is truly mind boggling. As a woman in my early 20’s who has been approached by these type of old men, I find this vomit inducing. 🤮Hahahaha ... he’s probably never gotten a woman off in all of his 67 years on this planet wasting our air. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:19 AM |
| 97 | Explaining your standards to men?No exceptions, like you said in your last sentence, and why lower your standards? Males don’t get a “benefit of doubt”, especially unknowns from OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Okay ladies, I need to talk. Incoming LVM ex rant...You just said yourself above OP, that he puts your SOBRIETY (your life!) at risk. Stop. Protect yourself now. You know this. You can’t change him and he won’t. Even his mere presence is a threat to you. And you “letting him down easy”... I am afraid what you’re really doing in thinking this is you’re looking for reasons to maybe kinda keep him around.... I’m just trying to help, I’ve even there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 17 | I've always been scared of "sweet talkers" or "overly-romantic" guysYes to all this, my whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:46 PM |
| 42 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunLol “I’m not raising my girls by myself...” ummm, the fuck, yes you actually are. He sounds more like their Toddler Brother than a Parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:36 PM |
| -5 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡This is a female only space - get outta here with the Joe Rogan endorsements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Third date adviceClassic third date move from men... you did good OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Are my expectations actually too highI love this entire post and have saved it ! Nailed it on the travel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 16 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.If this was over the App convo, I would report him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 28 | LVM Actuary in Health Insurance IndustryYou are brilliant in your ability to see all this and describe it so well here. Fuck having no experience , with this sub, you don’t have to have it... I think your plan is smart and you will do fab- stay the fuck single. With regard to “actuarys ”, I can’t speak to “careers” being HV or not, but at the end of the day, nOT ALL MeN. So you know, keep vetting the shit out of them until it becomes sport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 14 | "Let them slide once, and they'll start figure skating"Yes 👏🏻 Never let yourself be the rink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 8 | How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?Great response, the last paragraph spoke to me, thanks 🙂 ! And yes, always, first step should be to block /disengage completely for your own growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Freeing myself, and the aftermathGood advice - OP please do this! This is exactly what I did when my 2+ years ex ghosted me - boxed his shit up immediately & put on curb, sent him a message to retrieve and then immediately deleted & blocked him everywhere. It’s hard at first, but gets better & better and you will feel a huge weight lifted off of you when you block him - this is the only way to do it. I’m sorry he’s such a piece of shit, and I’m sorry for the loss of your Grandmother 💗. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 17 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.Aww, this makes sense :) cheap lvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:04 AM |
| 13 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:04 AM |
| 27 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.What is “no horse girls” lol? Like a woman that likes horses? What’s wrong with that?? What an asshat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 59 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteThey are absolutely out of their damn minds....I really don’t understand how they are even employed/have partners/etc. Would be nice to put them on public blast all over the Internet (minus here of course). Remove the name blocks as they are dumb enough to use real names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 32 | Goodbye loser 🥰Jfc, they never stop do they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 7 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*lol I’m dying...😂 here I thought it was just that ONE guy on the r subs lately spewing this shit word for word ! (of course it’s not just one lol, I know) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Pick me advertising - I don’t understand the point of defining yourself by these things?? “Look at me I’m the best gf material out there pick me pick me!” Why are so many women still acting like being a gf/wife is the only thing they have to offer??Gotcha I knew that :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this is trying too hard? Would you guys consider this pickme behavior?Spineless is a great description for him. Very lonely is another 😄. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 20 | I feel like this is trying too hard? Would you guys consider this pickme behavior?These aren’t things we advertise- that’s the problem here. They are also “wife/serious life partner” only privileges in general. So a boyfriend shouldn’t even really know about said skills!! Edited to add: Our acceptance of this kind is shit has to stop. That we are expected to give sooo much of ourselves to a boyfriend’s family even is nuts 🥜!! You wanna know about my last Boyfriend? He ghosted me after 3 years.. we love 10 minutes from each other and are over 35. Fuck boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Pick me advertising - I don’t understand the point of defining yourself by these things?? “Look at me I’m the best gf material out there pick me pick me!” Why are so many women still acting like being a gf/wife is the only thing they have to offer??What am I even reading or looking at lol 🙂?? I don’t have Snapchat etc, but I wouldn’t be posting the message in the original - it’s definitely the wrong message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 9 | MANS GOT ME DECEASED🤣🤣🤣Having messages enabled on here is a recipe for these asshats to get access to you. I would shut it down for your own sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:12 PM |
| 105 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Of course HE is 35 yo to her 26 years, nine years difference ... and how young was she when he started working her over? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:48 AM |
| 6 | FDS is definitely in support of women getting free or discounted things from men. Let him serve you while you accept graciously.I totally agree... as if we all don’t know the enormous costs us women pay in our lives due to Men.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 24 | The gaslighting this woman experienced is unreal. Let this serve as a reminder of why not to get involved with a LVM.Love this comment lol! For real, if this was taught in 3rd grade and up (I’m serious- if you’re not in school system then you may not realize how early children begin acting out this shit, they don’t know any better). Sadly, we can’t even get real biology allowed to be taught in schools due to right wing populations protest in some areas... so this wouldn’t happen. Other programs outside of school could be utilized, as well as new ones to be created. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 46 | "hE iS hUmAn": pickme vs. random guy's perspective on these kind of liesTed Bundy was human too. Dumbest comment/response, smh, those advice subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 17 | The “Blood in the Water” TestHoly shit, these LVM are up to some crafty dirty-assed trickery. Bless you, you just put into words what I have been unable to ever accurately describe, thank you. Brilliant of you on the test ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 12 | Guy tries experiment on getting women to initiate the first move. Fails. PREACH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Life will test you the minute you decide to be a HVW.Thank you ! Great post - need to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, I found another gem on the dating sub. I don’t care how they explain their need for coffee dates. It’s a no for me, but all the other pickmes can have these men. 🥴Reading this again is triggering .... this guy is such a manslaining piece of shit ....HE feels used and worthless ???? He’s equating paying for coffee to being used for sex- I hope he rots a virgin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, I found another gem on the dating sub. I don’t care how they explain their need for coffee dates. It’s a no for me, but all the other pickmes can have these men. 🥴“struggle bus for coffee...”... I’m dying. 😂 Sometimes I just can’t comprehend that virtually no one, even women, seem to understand even after reading here??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | A Reminder For Myself - and You QueensHe’s clearly unhinged to do such - no one except me could really believe it. But most are sadly are trash, and I’m forever and ever grateful he left. So happy this guy showed you even earlier! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 15 | Who hurt me?Iam angry for you. You did nothing wrong - you were a CHILD. ❤️ And you are 💯 correct- the men just need to look in mirror -Males are a such a risk to women nearly all of us are done with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 16 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 5 | A Reminder For Myself - and You QueensI was ghosted by a NVM after exactly TWO (2!) years together... we were both in our late 30’s /early 40s... I still live 3 min car ride from him.... never saw him again. Don’t ignore shit like me and get humiliated and your heart broken. Thankfully I moved on beautifully but it still hurts and is mind blowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 30 | Please, just PiCk HeR already! The drive for male brownie points is high in this one at 5’11.... brave soul. I couldn’t sis.Didn’t even occur to me, could be 💯! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020Sounds like this guy knows exactly how to push your buttons and make you feel like shit - good riddance, straighten your crown- you’ve got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 52 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Love how they ALL say this... and cry about “dinner is too intimate” when all they really intend to do is try to get their dick wet ASAP...... avoid these broke dicks like Covid . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | I know they are expensive, but this shouldn’t be a thing 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 10 | Op accused of tattoo/body shaming in the comments for saying this dude looks susI’m just done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:54 AM |
| 18 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisYou listened to your gut and it was correct as fuck - nice work!! My first weapon is my gut too, but I’m going to buy some pepper spray too 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 12 | Check out the comment section of this youtube video. The guy invited her out for drinks but after she said no to a second date, he got mad and demanded that she pay half🙄🙄😡I couldn’t even watch as I was sure I was going to see the host/program & all those people in restaurant agree with the LVM demanding payment .... Sounds like it was supportive of her tho, so that’s good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 59 | Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?Fabulous question .... I’m gonna use my crystal ball and peek at who is making these memes .... and I see a sweaty, unwashed, audacity having, limp porn noodle dicked NVM behind a screen furiously typing these bullshit memes..... I’m going to imagine him when I see these memes so they don’t trigger me as much 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookI did OLD for a couple months few years back and did similar (minus the HVM relationship 😇) - I am always shocked by the screenshots and examples I see from friends /etc. - the level of ick is terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Did He Just Call Himself a Hotdog on the Ground? 😂Really did just spill a little wine reading Rhine.... 🍷cheers 😂 In the minds’ of the creatures rests... hotdogs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 14 | I read the handbook, I didn't listen, and got the same results.Damn, did you meet my recent NVM ex??? 😂 The “hit you up....” actually triggers me.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Going on a first date during his birthday?Yes. Something’s not adding up - NEXT him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 11 | Men rate women’s physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. Women rate using 0s and 1s (f*ck yes or f*ck no). Thoughts?I’m just like you. It’s NOT all about looks- we are reading people/so much goes into our visceral responses....... This shit is good to have! Listen to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂All this right here..... u/Adawriterules, your comment is on point, plain truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:19 AM |
| 23 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menFucking EVERYTHING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 2 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Lol love ❤️ that you sold the futons! Yup, I should have tossed his shit, I seem to sometimes need to learn the hard way, thankfully, when that occurs, I only need to learn ONCE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 3 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Thank you r/CoffeebeforeAdulty - yes, exactly! It’s just unreal. Who does this ?? And a man over 35 at that. My girlfriends said throw it away too - he certainly deserved that but something held me back on throwing away - at least this way I showed zero emotion in returning. Shit, he couldn’t do anything, what a Toddler. And yes, since I had to pack his shit, got first dibbs 😇! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: It is Okay to not be Okayr/Enough-Introduction - love your strength and , that’s a lot to deal with. I love your attitude of “training ground “ of life etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 8 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?I’m fabulous 🙂 Dumped his box-o-shit on his porch, drove 2 more blocks pulled over & texted him where it was then immediately blocked him on every platform. After 3 years together, he couldn’t even be bothered to 1) tell me we were breaking up after 3 years together or discuss it - tried to ghost me 2) pick up his belongings. For real tho, I go back and forth on sad/happy/etc. No matter what, I’m sticking to no contact (& have 100%), working out & getting strong af 🏋️♀️ and working a lot of hou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 20 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!You said this so perfectly too - it’s such common sense any adult should have. These LVM/NVM.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 44 | Madagascar had it right😊I love that movie and knew I loved Melman the most for a reason!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Thank you. I’m so sorry for what you experienced 💗. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Men’s favorite body type: Insecure💯! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 7 | FDS is anti polyamoryThank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 51 | Men’s favorite body type: InsecureSo glad you shared this! 20 years ago, a LVM (friends Bf) made a comment to me once about me having a mustache (20 years ago - I was 20!). I didn’t. For years, I was insecure & hyper aware of any facial hair of my own... Thankfully over time I realized he was just a prick. Many more examples - OP is spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Thank you! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Thank you, this helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Your behavior is unnecessary. I feel good about my post history of support for other women. How do you feel about yours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...R/Purasangria, your first paragraph didn’t even address me personally in your response and made me feel badly. Not disagreeing with your overall statement - I agree - hence the postFDS issue. As OP, my post was clear that I was seeking advice - see flair - I could have flagged as “learning experience etx” but I didn’t because I needed some support and thoughts on action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Thanks 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 8 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Yes, that’s also something to be concerned with, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:08 PM |
| 10 | My former Pickme Self Nudes .. a question? I can’t be alone in this...Clearly it’s a great example, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:15 AM |
| 9 | What do men have to offer other than dick, catching bugs indoors and audacity?I actually thought you meant STI’s with the ..”..catching bugs indoors..” lol 😅😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Block and move on!Hope to see more of these posts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:27 AM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020I’m just hurting and can’t sleep. My 3 yr relationship with lvm ended 2 months ago- I’m doing well on my goals and day to day work on myself and feeling better... but damn I just miss him sometimes and still have love for him. 💯 no contact of course. On West coast in wildfire areas it’s so scary and want so bad to check on him /see him but know I can’t, and I won’t. I’ve made it too far to fuck my progress up and I WILL keep pushing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:03 AM |
| 50 | When the bar is so low you think someone being kind to you is something out of this worldI can so relate to this, especially when I was in a relationship with a nvm and was starved of kindness.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:54 AM |
| 17 | I saw this in another sub and 🤨🤢He sounds crazy af, ranting and raving, yikes. This shit is terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 10 | In the breakup process...I’m so damn happy to see a young woman NOT settling. You will never regret leaving him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:48 AM |
| 39 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolThe woman in the pic looks incredibly young as well - fucking scrotes are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Hating on your own gender to make men like you...Oh, dear Kait.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Don’t wash a mans shoes on the first date. Why would he wear those? Her page is about cleaning which would make her a target for men who want to use herWhat did I just watch? 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 9 | The story and my reply... Why are people so oblivious. A man having a middle life crisis is ready to abondon everything and let his gf do everything and people don't see this as an issue?Oh, they aren’t oblivious.....the males aren’t anyway - they are just enormously entitled NVM’s responding.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 20 | All the indicators...He was just bumbling all over the place with his word vomit “walking” “cheap” “mah dick”.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I spent the last few days trying to go on a date, and it was awful.You can do better on your own 💗 and be available to find love again when you meet a HVM .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Just got a new Reddit username for myself to endure more privacy going forward- my old one I had for years and I’m ready for a fresh start . It also had a male sounding tone to it, to repel males from approaching me and my DM’s (it worked!) - it also got me booted from FDS once on accident on audit lol. Have my DMs blocked so not worried. Wanted to say hello with my new username - I replied and upvoted lots here from day one but have never posted my own post so not worried about losing any recog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:26 AM |
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