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Porn: for the lames and sads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 02:57 PM
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I pay my way when I’m not interested in the guy at all. If I am interested, I’m happy to have him provide for me It’s a privilege to take me out to dinner 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 12:55 PM
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Lol my boyfriend started reading FDS unbeknownst to me. He brought it up in conversation that he told his coworker about it after she was strung along by a scrote, recommending she read the handbook. He and I never spoke about FDS before This guy who DM’d you is a sad sad boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 01:47 PM
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I love this. Before FDS I read that book and it changed the way I see all relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 07:40 PM
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Kevin Samuels has the personality of a sock crusty with rotting ejaculate lol nobody wants or needs him except people who keep around crusty socks to coom in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:49 PM
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Could it be gasp female socialization that presents male validation as the ultimate achievment in life? This would be a pickme. Blaming “female socialization” without unpacking all of the reasoning behind it is part of the reason why so many people throw blame at women for various things There’s a lot to break down here. I’ll make it short and mention how women are raised to be…you know the movie Coming to America, where Eddie Murphy is a prince who was arranged to be married to a woman who has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:45 PM
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How do I perceive “big dick energy” or how do I tell if a man has an actual big dick? Big dick energy: he has nothing to prove. He isn’t clingy. Doesn’t beg or neg. Comfortable relaxed energy. Does not get upset if he is challenged and can admit fault and correct himself while still being charming and kind. Has nothing to do with actual penis size. Has a big dick: his penis is above average in length and girth and honestly I have nothing of substance to advise on how to peg big dicked men other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:50 PM
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Either he won’t or he can’t and either way, exactly as you said, he isn’t doing it. He isn’t ready or refuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 02:44 PM
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I am always for supporting the author and Lundy Bancroft is amazing. This book is life saving and should be shared far and wide Here is a free link to the pdf version. https://ia800108.us.archive.org/30/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf#page355
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:09 PM
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Thank you for talking with me about this :) I know flashbacks aren't false with mushrooms because I had them. Any LSD taker who used recreationally has also told me the same with the LSD. I’ve never had one but that doesn’t mean they don’t ever occur. I’ve had moments seconds where I saw the world warble and then be clear, but I attributed it to a quick visual illusion. I’ll do more research. It’s possible I haven’t done enough LSD to warrant that but I’ve definitely done a lot of LSD over the l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:31 PM
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DMT burns holes in your brain. Please source? DMT is a chemical that your brain creates naturally LSD never leaves your spine This is verifiably untrue. (It stays in your fat cells if anything, but “flashbacks” are completely false) pot heads always seem slobby and unkempt to me As another poster mentioned, one can consume marijuana and have a regular job and life and you’d never know they smoke or consume regularly. The people you may be referring to have other serious problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 01:40 PM
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Regarding LSD and mushroom psychedelics, I’ve done both quite a number of times. (Weed is a psychedelic the same as kombucha is an alcoholic drink. barely) Psychedelics are not inherently bad. In fact I firmly believe they can be extremely beneficial and for many people they’ve been the solution to overcoming trauma and self-realizing. Psychedelics make your mind function in a way that makes the unconscious conscious. It reveals the thoughts and patterns you don’t ignore on purpose, but have nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 01:35 PM
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Right??? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:52 AM
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This makes me so happy to read. Congratulations lady!! I was mistreated terribly by men while dating until I found FDS ideology and took control of my dating life. In my dating life, same! I stayed single for that reason for a long time. Dating was just not worth it and no one had taught me how to vet or what to vet to find a good partner After discovering FDS, I was married in less than two years to a great man. Always vetting but he’s HV in every way that means something to me :) So beautiful …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:06 PM
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For the reasons you mentioned, I believe it is very rare that women are involuntarily celibate. They are voluntarily celibate (“volcel”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:35 PM
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Thank you for confirming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:45 PM
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Anyone pls correct me if this is wrong. SWERF stands for Sex Work Exclusionary Radical Feminist ETA: personally I believe all women are included under “feminism” by being women. Feminism does not exclude a woman because of her “job” even though there are legitimate reasons that “job” is detrimental to women as a whole. She should be educated and welcomed, we should not exclude her. The benefits of feminism are for all women, even the ones kicking and screaming with 1950s tradwife mindsets, and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:14 PM
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NEET, an acronym for "Not in Education, Employment, or Training", refers to a person who is unemployed and not receiving an education or vocational training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:47 PM
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Thank you for this take!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:48 PM
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I like the following responses to men like this: Ok Oh wow (monotone with this face:😐) That’s nice, dear (say this while distracted by anything else, like you’re grandma and a child just ran up to tell you they’re superman)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:22 PM
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The comments on the tiktok are exactly what you’d expect lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:08 PM
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They can orgasm literally ANYWHERE else but chose the vagina. It is 10000% their fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:42 PM
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They “trapped” themselves when they decided to orgasm inside of a vagina 💫 great work m’dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:41 PM
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Damn. That is so heartbreaking for that woman. I don’t agree with treating men as scum simply because they’re male, regardless of if I know them or not. It takes effort for me to be negative like that and it is easiest for me to be mindful of their existence, but ignore them and remain indifferent. No hate, no clap backs, just completely ignoring them. Of course there are situations where one is morally obligated or for your/others safety must interact. That being said I also witness the constan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:20 PM
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It’s not the entire way to vet. It’s a very telling way to vet. Just because he keeps his place clean doesn’t mean that he is instantly a good partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:49 PM
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My new rule for dating a man (after I've seen his house) is if I wouldn't live there, in that condition, dump him. This is a great vetting method. It is a real, tangible way to vet someone If they live alone in filth they clearly don’t clean (or hire someone to) If they live with others in filth it depends on the situation. Is their private space clean? Are their dirty dishes filling the sink? If they spill food or drink anywhere, do they immediately clean it up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 09:25 PM
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When I was in a shitty relationship with a man who basically acted like he was 23 despite being 36, I had almost zero emotional energy. I found myself being snappy at people or pets, feeling angry much of the time. Dating him took a toll on my life on so many ways. He needed to be taught how to cook, clean, and fought tooth and nail not to do either. He mooched off of me for months. He argued with me over absolute nothings because he just liked to fight. And I hated fighting, I tried talking but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:54 PM
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They really can’t think this deeply about the ethics and repercussions of CP. they’re too brainwashed by prn .. not a surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:16 PM
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And she finds out that all he loves about her is what she does for him and not about her as a person at all. What fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:07 PM
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There are so many women throughout history who have done amazing things. I’ll choose one who I think about often Her name was Nancy Wake, aka “The White Mouse” Nancy Grace Augusta Wake, AC, GM (30 August 1912 – 7 August 2011) (also known as Nancy Fiocca) was a nurse and journalist who joined the French Resistance and later the Special Operations Executive (SOE) during World War II, and briefly pursued a post-war career as an intelligence officer in the Air Ministry. The official historian of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:20 PM
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Ok I feel you and let’s extend this to any man who uses any person or character as their ideal and uses them as a personality crutch For example…I’ve known two men in their late twenties who told everyone to call them “Batman.” 😬 pretty cringe. They both wore Batman shirts and accessories every day. One had the logo taped on his beater car. Both were very misogynistic and rude in general, getting amped up when they got to be weird in public. Avoid these men, they’re children lol ETA: the example…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:24 PM
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The short answer is misogyny. 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:18 PM
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The lewd comment is definitely important to mention then, it wasn’t included in the original post and changes the scenario. Also it is great that you felt safe enough to do that but not all situations are the same and it’s generally a good idea to gray rock instead of antagonize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:01 PM
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We’d need more info from OP. What did he say or do? She only explains that he approached her and that he was unattractive it gets on your nerve to be bothered by random men when you just want to go about your day. I completely agree I'm not sure if there is really a polite and respectful way to hit on a random woman who has given you no signals at a gas station (a place not really intended for flirting or socialisation This made me lol, thinking about it from his perspective. “She’s grabbing twi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:44 PM
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I would go as far as to say we should say this is a clown take and downvote. I agree. It is not a dating strategy to feel great about making someone feel bad who did nothing to you but look like they’re going to approach? Like... since when is it good advice to put yourself at harm's way to be humiliating or confrontational with a man that might react violently. It is definitely unwise to make yourself a target like this. He could have followed her, got her license plate, just done all sorts of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:30 PM
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If a man approaches me politely and respectfully regardless of if I do or don’t find him attractive, if I’m not interested, he gets an equally polite rejection If a man approaches me and touches me, says something lewd, is disrespectful, yeah he gets the grossed out inspection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:30 PM
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Wooooah I like this take!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:00 PM
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FDS saves you from horror stories like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:15 PM
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A family member of mine sued their company in the early 90s for enforcing heels with her uniform. She had severe issues with tendons in her legs shrinking due to wearing required heels for a decade. She won and got a huge settlement Heels suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:43 PM
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FDS saves you from being a statistic in a scrote post. They don’t give a shit about you as a person. You’re a conquest to them and that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:43 PM
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My favorite comment. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:27 PM
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This is the project that my sister would use to teach special needs kids in elementary I’m not even kidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:15 PM
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Ya in San Fran 100k is like…..the bottom of the barrel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:45 PM
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I’ve dated three men who match this aside from the height. I’m 5’5 and prefer men 5’7+. One of those three was 6’1, but no amount of height can make up for douchbaggery, I’d rather date a lemon They’re out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:43 PM
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Thank you so much for this post. This is great content that made me think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:34 PM
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“bdays aren’t important to some people” or “he’s on the spectrum and doesn’t understand these things” bish pleease Either he is incapable or he doesn’t want to. Both are reasons for dismissal Good on you lady!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:13 PM
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I want a hookup But not a hookup I want a connection But not TOO connected Basically I want to try before I buy, with no intention of buying I’m just here for the free samples SIR THIS IS NOT A COSTCO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:34 PM
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Sounds like benevolent sexism to me In the same scenario but if you were a man the same age, you think he’d get “mixed signals” and offer him A ROOM?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:50 PM
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I posted my best story on another FDS post, so here’s another one: We met on OLD and decided to go to a bar and grill. During our first conversations he brought up porn, asked about sex stuff I’d done, and in one breath asked if I’d done anal and if so then I had no reason to refuse anal because I’d done it in the past. If I hadn’t done anal then I have no reason to refuse because I wouldn’t know if I didn’t want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:15 PM
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Exactly my thought!! Lol They went to Sbarro or got street noodles. Not both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:11 PM
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I cAn MaStUrBaTe FoR hOuRs BuT cAnT kEeP It Up FoR sEx 🤡 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:38 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:16 PM
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I’m sorry but I’m all about the 777 rule Aim for the stars ladies, his 7ft penis should at least come close ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:06 PM
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Yes this definitely sounds like mental illness and there’s more to it. I would hate to be in a relationship like that. I would hate to be that kind of person, seemingly just giving up on life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:08 PM
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As someone who has been in relationships with men who acted exactly as you described, yes. Leave them. They have a poor emotional IQ and are lashing out at you over their perceived slight of being challenged. “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft goes deep into this This goes for any man that has a tantrum about completely reasonable things like being challenged about what was used as a movie set. Any reasonable person would, at most, say “well I’d like to verify that” and then they…just verif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:42 PM
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What would you do if a five year old did EXACTLY this to you? You’d say “ok dear” and disregard them because they’re children. And then go live your life as an adult with other adults. You don’t argue with children. Arguing with angry men is the same. They’re just going to have a tantrum. Don’t be around for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:33 PM
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Penis envy is projection in itself. “Why is the lady so upset? Because she doesn’t have a penis of course! Har har!” 🙄 when here they are for all of time trying to control our uteruses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:31 PM
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I love your entire comment 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:26 AM
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Yes! It’s an easy tell. Obsessing over naked bodies is so strange and depraved. And that’s what it comes down to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:04 PM
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Exactly. And what would he think if we enjoyed to watch men be painfully sexually assaulted and got excited when they cry and suffer? It’s sick. Abuse is not sexy and so much porn is like that, conditioning men to enjoy women when they cry and suffer sexually. That’s the horrific end of the scale. Related to this, on the scale, is the habitual objectification of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:59 PM
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It’s truly sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:55 PM
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🙌 Hard agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:59 PM
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Thank you! I hope so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:42 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:40 PM
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Sperm can be deadly. Seriously. In many ways. Casual sex with men who aren’t committed to you is dangerous. They can dump their seed in you (on purpose or otherwise) and they can simply disappear and never be there for you, no matter the outcome. It’s a tale as old as time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:53 PM
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HIS MOM SAYS GO FOR IT She’s trying to get rid of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:17 PM
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Just another sad boi internet warrior, trying to spread his sad sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:37 PM
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That is beautiful!! And a proper gift. He got you the gift and placed it for you. Exactly how it should go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:04 PM
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It’s a lesson that has to be learned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:22 PM
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he ordered it either valentine's day or the day before. Yep!! Exactly. Even after he messed up v-day, the only thing he could imagine getting her was related to his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:56 PM
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Goes on and on about how he accurately f-ed up v-day “She’s a brat” 😂 yeah ok scrote-cha-cho, she CLEARLY did the right thing leaving your disrespectful bum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:55 PM
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YESSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:38 PM
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old sperm gives me the sads, doc I spat out my coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:36 PM
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women have been “lied to their whole lives about what matters” and that when we “reach 30,” we finally realize that family matters more than career. Me, with a number of childless single friends and childless couples all in our 30s, going on three vacations a year together for the last 4 years, funded by our own careers = 💰 🤷‍♀️ 💴 🍹 oops guess I did it wrong 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:34 PM
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Right? When actually these women were relieved they weren’t being targeted for sex and felt comfortable talking to him like a human. So dumb. These women didn’t give a shit about being “friend zoned” THEY PREFERRED IT, CLEARLY omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:34 PM
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Step 1) “therapy is helping” Step 2) lie to women to talk to them Step 3) internet points Amazing, so original, I’m floored, tell me more 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:39 PM
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Posts in teenager sub, all you need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:36 PM
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Same. All I see is sadness and a desire to be loved I hope she divorces him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:20 PM
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Most of Reddit hates the “just break up” advice, most of the time it is the right thing to do No, you shouldn’t stay with a man who talks down to you. No, couples counseling will not fix it. Your happiness matters. Your orgasms matter. Your comfort matters. FDS made everything click for me too, cleared all of the “fog” away regarding relationships and this cOnFuSiOn I had about why men did what they did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:12 PM
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I completely agree with you about reading other subs now It’s naive women being taken advantage of by creepy men, and giving them all of the benefits of every doubt ever. Endless retries. I really love this comment of yours: Benefit of the doubt is a repulsive concept in the face of clearly abusive or disrespectful behaviors. 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:44 PM
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I found FDS when an angry 13 year old boy posted about it on Reddit somewhere. I never made an account on Reddit until I read his post and then discovered this sub I thanked him and he imploded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:28 PM
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Added to my library! I got a kick out of these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:51 PM
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Thank you for this post. Beautifully said. I have observed that as women we must all search within ourselves to know what we want. Our vision of what our lives are to do not need to be dictated by cultural norms You hit many big points that were cornerstone developments for me. The above is one of them. This idea that marriage = ultimate was how I was brought up also. I always did very well in school, and thought “maybe I’ll go back after I have kids…” and it never dawned on me to educate myself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:17 PM
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Oh yeah!! I loved this song. Every time it comes on I make sure to heavily and clearly sing the really deranged part about “if her daddy’s rich—“ etc. I still love it because I take the opportunity to tell people the actual lyrics and how fucked up they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:04 PM
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I’ve been hugged twice by men who had erections whom I was not romantically involved with 1 - I was 16 and a guy from my church hugged me for a long 10 seconds. I felt it from the start. I was so confused and I looked at him with that expression after he let me go, and I know he knew. Gross. 2 - a teachers assistant in high school hugged me on the last day of class senior year. We all went to Six Flags and at the end parted ways. We hugged for the first and last time, he definitely had an erecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:01 PM
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Lol who saw that coming? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:57 PM
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This is so huge! How a man treats you when you’re sick is showing you how he’ll treat you when you’re pregnant, any future needs of care, etc. My current bf goes above and beyond to make sure I’m happy and comfortable, and especially so when I’m sick. He learned how to make my favorite soups, how I like my pillows, spends time with me. Having a partner and being in love, I could not imagine not treating my SO like that, and thanks to FDS I cannot imagine not being treated like that by my SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:42 PM
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I know a woman who has 3 kids from 2 different deadbeat men. They all have the fathers last name She was never married to any of them I find it embarrassing. WHAT ARE YOU DOING?! Just providing free surrogacy for scrotes who abuse and freeload I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:12 PM
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Dad died? Masturbate. Dog hit by car? 45 min jack-off session. Shamrock shake not on menu? Hit that dick like it owes you money. Lady didn’t laugh at your joke? Watch a rape porn and imagine it was her, jerk it twice in a row. IMAGINE having zero emotional skills like that, just your only go-to soothe is your dick dick dick dick dick dick dick. What’s therapy? Dick therapy? Oh it’s talking about feelings? Lol that’s gay let me go touch my dick about it It’s hilarious and I hope SNL does a skit o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:12 PM
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I have been very selective about my romantic partners. When I was around 18/20 I did have a fling with a guy, that turned me off of flings ENTIRELY. This guy seemed smart, articulate, attractive, etc. He was around 25 at the time, and I knew his ex gf from some of my classes (she never talked about him) We had kissed a few times and it was fine. But as soon as we were alone in his house, it was like he attacked me with his face. Open mouth fish face 🐟 om om om 👁 👄 👁 with his eyes open, immediate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:06 PM
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And told me to have a nice life That’s the end for me! Goodbye sir, you said it first. So long, safe travels, be well, BYEEEEEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:42 PM
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Ahh I know what that is, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:19 PM
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Truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:18 PM
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It’s the childhood equivalent of that sure yes It’s hilarious they see our standards of wanting to be treated well, with respect, and they come up with this list as a “gotcha” 🤡 how dumb lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:41 PM
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This whole list is dumb and disgusting What is OHP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:35 PM
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Thank you for clarifying!! I agree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:33 PM
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if they do so, they would be KILLED, FORCED back into SERVITUDE, or Become Free. Or become free? By saying no, as a slave that cannot say no? Please elaborate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:59 PM
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I was just thinking about this today. There’s another post on the front page posted (apparently) by a karma farming bot that regularly posts about us. It’s not even from anything in our sub, just picture of a link and some other text. There are thousands of comments on that post. I didn’t stick around to read any. I imagine there is a big influx of downvotes, new accounts, and comments whenever these are posted Thank you mods and keepers of FDS for keeping this knowledge available and as clean …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:48 AM
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This, and also like to add, women who say they “just think like men” and can’t imagine that other women have internal monologue like they do. Somehow they’re the only women in the entire world with a brain, morals, etc. exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:06 PM
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Circular arguments like you explained are 100% the sign of a scrotey scrote 🎯 congrats on casting him away! You deserve a peaceful and happy life and he would have taken from that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:39 PM
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Always monologuing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:33 AM
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I love your whole post, especially: Vagina is not an emotional support animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:55 PM
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I think about this too. It would be easier to be alone and diagnosed than with a “partner” who ditches you as soon as you’re diagnosed It really shows what kind of “relationship” scrotes like these have with women. It’s only take, and when women have nothing left to give, they’re gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:41 PM
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Yes ma’am! 🙌 this is glorious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 02:10 PM
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Aw jeeze I’ve done the same, sat through dates I knew would result in nothing but crafting a way to let him down easy or something It was easier in that situation because the comment was such a turn off. I’ve done the same to men at bars who say weird things. Just removing myself immediately with no other response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:38 PM
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Yes ma’am! I like to be very early for that reason. I can get comfortable with my surroundings and focus on the date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:29 PM
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Yes! It took years for me to break down exactly why his comment made me feel this way. This is a major part of why at the time I had been only a few weeks out of a relationship with a man who said similar things to me/other women. So it was still very fresh and I immediately recognized that I did not want more of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:27 PM
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I did not stop to check and now I wish I had 😂 at the time I just thought “NOPE! G’bye” I felt ashamed walking out so quickly (“I wonder what the wait staff are thinking?!”) and at the same time completely relieved I did not have to sit through a dinner with him. It was an immediate turn off, no going back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:25 PM
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Men will marry you and not love you. Men will seek a host just for a hole, they are parasites. 🔥 🔥 🔥 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:29 PM
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Nah I’m good, I don’t want to associate with a sad horny animal that only thinks with its genitals Sounds like a huge defect imho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:14 PM
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An ex “playfully” wound up to punch me. I immediately told him it was unacceptable and to leave. Daily I am so happy to never be there again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:57 PM
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I had plastic surgery at 16 to “correct” something that was never an issue, because everywhere I looked (movies, music, pretty much all media) I saw women whose features were different than mine. Think of that “pornified” fashion culture of the 90s mentioned in the FDS podcast. My mom helped me get the surgery because she saw how unhappy I was. She just wanted to make me happy. I don’t fault her whatsoever, she did her absolute best for me. It was a different time. All that shit said yeah I wish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:21 PM
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Agree with you entirely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:27 PM
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I just want to point out how long this host let this man criticize him. If this were a woman saying these things, he would have been flipping out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:58 PM
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She got played but wised up. Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:09 PM
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I would rather die alone than be with a man like that. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:06 PM
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Gosh I am so happy FDS saved me from a sad frustrating life like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:21 PM
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Awesome 👏 YES!!! This is pure FDS content and I can see why it got stickied Useless, deer in the headlights - Silence, blank stare, shrug, "I don't know what you want me to say" This ☝️ is why I broke up with more than one guy. The last one responded to something I cared about and he failed at with this, and I knew in that moment we were done. I said “ok,” and prepped for departure ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:26 AM
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FDS for the win!! You made the right choice Every day I am so thankful that I am in a healthy and happy relationship. FDS helped me get here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:19 PM
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“She is so fat now!! OMG SHE SO REGRETS BREAKING UP WITH ME HAHAHAHA” such an incel fantasy Spoiler: the girlfriend didn’t exist, the situation didn’t exist, greentext Incels are stroking their e-peens against a story as fabricated as their will to bathe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:03 PM
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“How do I force my husband to take care of himself while I’ll make up for his laziness if he chooses not to?” 🤡 You leave him in the dust babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:46 PM
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Smoking + no dental hygiene makes for a bad situation 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:09 AM
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There’s a guy I know like this at age 28. A mutual friend set us up on a date (1 date, no 2nd). He was very lean and had a beautiful body (he did tree service for the town and climbed trees every day for a living). He had a Harley motorcycle and nice truck. Spoke few words, but the ones he did were meaningful and/or to the point. In all our calls the week before meeting there were no red flags. He picked me up, paid for my drinks and meal, was very considerate and it WAS a really nice date!! But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:08 PM
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“You look like the kinda guy who when he sleeps goes, ”-snort- mememememe” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:57 PM
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Lol Pete Davidson being in there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:18 PM
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Wow this is a lot to think about 🤯 thank you for this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:41 PM
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Same and thank you for your post. I try and be conscious of how I treat women and how they’re treated around me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:33 PM
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Thank you for this post. FDS works. The people it protects us from are at the least time wasters, and at the worst predatory, dangerous, fatal. It’s a big span, imagine like a solid color fading into a different solid color on the other end. If being treated with respect and a loving, healthy relationship is one end/color, and at the other end/color are men who don’t consider your humanity whatsoever and take joy in your suffering, somewhere in the mixed colors is a man who wants a submissive an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:18 PM
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Right?! I like my free time. I like taking walks to the bar to play pool. I like going to my 24 hour gym at 11pm sometimes. With kids, none of this would be possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:09 PM
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I love your entire post. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:06 PM
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I LOVE the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (where she sings this song). Marilyn and Jane are 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:04 PM
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My ex helped raise his ex’s child from 2-7. He was very attached to her and thought of her as his own child. He went to a lot of therapy after their breakup because he was grieving the loss of what had been his “child”. I agree with you. It’s a yellow flag for me, especially because of the ex gf being in the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:22 PM
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Ugh yes. I don’t have children, on purpose. A childhood friend of mine reconnected with me a few years ago. She had 2 kids in her early twenties with a deadbeat who stole her money, abused the children, and cheated on her. They’re divorced. She is with a slightly “better” but equally shitty man she has known for 2 years and just birthed a child with. (He now ignores her daily and comes home 3+ hours after work is over). She is constantly telling me “you’re gonna want a baby after you’ve seen thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:09 PM
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SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:03 PM
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This was amazing and succinct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:02 PM
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Is this guy into animals? Does he seriously not know the difference between human and animal romance?? What the ever loving bell 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:20 PM
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Just get him swiffer refills next year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:19 PM
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Starfish = she was uncomfortable and not into it. Wonder why that was….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:54 AM
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What’s funny is they get FDS entirely wrong They think FDS is akin to TradWife bull crap and that women are gold diggers, so of course their made up version of FDS is all of their misogyny wrapped up with a nice bow They’re dumb AF and yeah we don’t want them 🏃‍♀️ bye scrotes, stay mad 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:18 PM
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Fuckbois for never 👎 Give this to me on a shirt pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:44 PM
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On the topic of having very little to offer I dated a millionaire who was the cheapest cheapskate with a very under-average penis. He seemed very kind and we had some good conversations We had sex 5 times. I came 1 of those times. It was a chore. (“But he’s “nice” 🤡) He would take me out to lunch (nice!!) and always expected a blow job afterward 🤡 (nope) The end of it was the expectant blowjobs + he asked if he could “put me on his payroll” for TWO HUNDRED DOLLARS A MONTH to be MONOGAMOUS with h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:39 PM
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I love Garfunkel and Oates. Great episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:59 PM
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Love this post I shared a few of my standards with a friend of mine. The one she found the most offensive was that I wanted to date a man who had experience with children, but who had none of his own. She thought this was absolutely ridiculous and cited all sorts of “reasons” I’d never find a man. “Men don’t take care of children that aren’t theirs. What if he has kids???” Her baby daddy has 2 kids that his ex refuses to let him see She didn’t say much when I found my now bf who has 5 years expe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:06 PM
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I love and agree with all of this Needless to say, my vagina made the Windows shutdown noise Especially this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:20 PM
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I agree with your reasons for not wanting a partner with children. I too choose not to date men with children and just how much more I stick to those wants, needs, standards and preferences Yes .. as a way to exert my will over his. Kindly and respectfully, what exactly is your will you’re trying to exert? Him not talking to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:40 PM
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I always loved Wizard of Oz for Christmas even though it’s not a Christmas movie. It was on TV a lot during Christmas as a kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 03:33 PM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:48 PM
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Wow that last paragraph. Are you my ex???? After his mask slipped (6 months in) he was kinder to strangers than he was to me. And I brought it up multiple times 🤡 instead of just leaving. “Why are you nicer to strangers than to me??” And he’d say something like “because I don’t know them” So happy to be free of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:44 PM
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And you just can’t go your whole life being told the worst thing you could do is be like a woman and expect to actually like women after that 🎯 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:07 PM
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My boyfriend was excited to go dress shopping with me a few days ago He followed me as I crawled through each dress rack at Lord & Taylor. He held my selections as I shopped. He commented on things he liked and asked questions about dresses. When I felt nervous about spending more time looking for a dress in a specific size, he just said not to worry and he didn’t mind. He drove me there and back You can tell if someone enjoys being with you by enjoying being with you when doing anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:04 PM
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This is the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:04 PM
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Great idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:30 PM
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Buying this book now!! Thank you for the recommendation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:36 PM
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This is a great post. So many awful experiences would have been avoided if the young me was taught this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:16 PM
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Yes!! An ex coworker of mine would joke how he lived paycheck to paycheck because he’d spend all of his money on guns and games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:53 PM
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I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:52 PM
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Why is she proud of this!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:47 PM
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Yes! If we start off by going out of our way to “help” a man get to know us, learn our name, etc we are forcing an interaction he may not really want or may not know how to handle. Either way, it’s a no-go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:31 PM
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Women Looking for Women I think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:02 PM
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Agree!! At a church group years ago this guy seemed interested in me. He was cute and I was interested back but didn’t make any moves. He followed me a bit doing tasks prepping for a youth group. I told everyone I had to leave at 4 sharp to drive across town. The guy who seemed interested, he did this nod toward the parking lot and said “so can I join?” We had introduced ourselves early in the day and been working together CLOSELY (moving furniture, baking, cleaning etc) for about 5 hours at thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:59 PM
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I was at a church party and met a really nice woman around my age. We eventually talked about a man I knew from church as Jack. But she was SURE his name was Jake. We both said to each other that we were certain of the name we knew him as. But we didn’t fight and just shrugged it off and kept talking normally Eventually we found Jack/Jake and asked him what his name was. His name was legally Jake, but he went by Jack 🤷‍♀️ so we were both right and since we didn’t make a giant ego stink of it, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:27 PM
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Thank you for linking this. I had no idea it existed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:47 AM
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-3 orgasms 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:52 PM
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This post help me better recognize why coffee and walk dates suck I am constantly doing fun stuff. Going to conventions for my hobby, seeing theatre, acting classes, arcades, church drive events, oyster tasting I don’t want to go sit and drink coffee. Sounds LAME 😒 So if some dude asked me out and all he could muster is… Starbucks? Oh my lanta, no sir, I’d rather do the 10000 other exciting things I’m usually doing 🤷‍♀️ TL;DR: life is exciting and coffee/walk dates are lame AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:33 PM
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Someone argued this to me once. That shaming poorly behaved men and calling them scrotes made them more angry and made misogyny worse. He finally understood after having experiences with anti-VAX people. I argued that he shouldn’t call them any names because it’s going to make it worse for them and they’ll hate people who vaccinate even more. And he said they should be shamed to help them get their head out of their ass. And I asked him why is that any different than women calling shitty men scr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:14 PM
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Ahh they’re not even married?! AND SHE ADOPTED THE CHILDREN OF A MAN SHE IS NOT MARRIED TO???? IF MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER, ISNT ADOPTION????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:19 PM
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Omg I feel for this poor woman. She should divorce him, somehow undo the adoption (I’m not familiar with adoption laws/rules) and get out with her baby and never speak with him again. Be done. This guy clearly just wanted a new maid mommy replacement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:11 PM
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This is definitely a massive red flag. I hope she leaves him for good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:53 PM
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My boyfriend thanks me for the opportunity to take me out on dates. I am never going back to cheap scrotes. NOPE. I love that my boyfriend wants to care for me, and that’s how he shows me. Paying and planning for dates, opening doors, being thoughtful <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:44 PM
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This is so heavy. I’m so sorry about how he affected your life like that. Processing trauma can take years. Just an internet stranger sending virtual hugs and wishing the best for you and your family <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:40 PM
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Oh my god I thought you were being harsh about the book…… you’re not :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:03 PM
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Good for her. I googled the title and found the post. L O L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:47 PM
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Ew ew ew ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:42 PM
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This is why I would never date a man who doesn’t do anything. You become a maid. A life manager to this man. You’re his servant. Of course he’d leave his servant when they’re sick. He doesn’t love his servant. He loves what his servant does for him If he won’t cook, clean, or take care of me first then it is goodbye. I’d do the same for him, but you can’t do that first for men because they’ll get the wrong idea. He needs to demonstrate that he wants the relationship and that he’s capable of main…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:17 PM
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My boyfriend doesn’t orgasm most times we have sex out of his own choosing. And he says it improves his performance 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:08 PM
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I’ve forgotten most times I’ve been negged, as soon as they say it I don’t respond and just walk away, do something else entirely different and forget about them 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:05 PM
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True And true And true and true and true and true 😁 My boyfriend and I started being intimate a few months ago. He doesn’t masturbate or watch porn. When we have sex, there is zero sign of ED. He is never pushy. He enjoys at the same pace as me. Most of the time, I orgasm twice and he does not orgasm. (when he does, it is very hot 🥵) He is super attentive and just so…connected. It’s incredible. Personally for me, no other sexual experience is better than between two people who care for each othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:13 AM
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THIS is the man who would leave you when you’re sick and need him. THIS is the type of man who USES you, and is supremely narcissistic THESE are the men FDS teaches us to drop and never look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:24 PM
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I’ve never joked about hurting my boyfriend if he denied me something. It’s disgusting, disrespectful, and wrong for so many reasons No need for it 😊 reject any man who jokes about hurting you for any reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:16 PM
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If he ends up making you miss school or work because of crying fights, or argues with you until you’re in distress, 🌟 DUMP HIM ⭐️ Some insecure men will say they’re secure with themselves and you, only to turn around and argue/gaslight with you about some dumb shit just to see you cry. Begone scrote scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:47 PM
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So pathetic 🙄 Scum of the earth, So completely gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:40 PM
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In high school I told a boy I was self conscious about a freckle. For the next week he pointed it out often and teased me. One day he did it and I deadpan just stood up and left the cafeteria. He stopped after that. A decade later he ended up giving me an ultimatum that we either date or stop talking 🙄 guess who I don’t talk to anymore 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:20 AM
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Great outlook. Completely agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:41 PM
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I worked with a guy who would only eat meat, candy, potato, and bread products. Not even sautéed onion. He would correct people incorrectly, especially women. Like him being louder and talking more meant he won 😑 He was getting married to this wonderful woman and I had the least amount of faith in their relationship lasting. It didn’t. She divorced him after 1.5 years which is 1.5 years longer than I thought it would take Guy was a man child nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:08 PM
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This is incredible. I was this person too. And then I witnessed someone who did this even MORE than I did…and it made me reflect on myself hard. Once I was camping with a bunch of friends. Our male friend had put an unopened can of potato on the camping stove, got high and forgot about it. It EXPLODED potato 🥔 everywhere! We all shot up and panicked, many splattered with tiny specs of Idaho mash. And he didn’t say “sorry” once to anyone. Not once. and here I was panicking thinking “I should say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:28 PM
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Power doesn't corrupt, power reveals Oooo I like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:23 PM
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This is an amazing post. Really. It should be in the handbook somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:17 PM
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I’ve done this. If they respond by repeating I just give them an expression that’s disappointed, cringe, and say “oh.” Nothing else. Walk away Make them feel lame. Because they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:44 PM
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In my case, yes. My boyfriend works with three women whom I’ve met. Their workplace has work outings weekly at a brewery and I am always invited. Just last weekend one of his lady coworkers invited us to her birthday get together, which was incredibly fun One coworker “M” (not the birthday woman but another of the 3 women he works with) was being followed by one of their young coworkers. Not in a nice way. My boyfriend noted that M said she was uncomfortable because of this guy, and I told my bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:48 PM
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This is the message I got “Your man is spending time, money on these women and not you. And you still won’t dump him.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:21 PM
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This is why I subscribe to the FDS patreon FDS is a home and place to learn for women who never had anyone give them advice like this. I know I never had someone open my eyes to the bullshit mind games men played. This place saved me. Saved my mental health. Made me HAPPIER and more comfortable with myself and life and choices. Thank you, mods. Sincerely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:15 PM
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I am loving Maid on Netflix!! It’s amazing so far. And really striking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:47 PM
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This is my favorite post of the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:58 PM
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Tiny peen problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:33 PM
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Right?? I don’t need his cash, I have my own I don’t need his car, I have my own I don’t need his bad sex, I have a vibrator What can men provide me??? Love, honesty, comfort, service, care. Surprises! Massages. Cooking my favorite food. Cooking with me. Cleaning. If he doesn’t make my life better & easier, I don’t need him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:26 PM
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I will do my best!! I like the author and have a few of his other books, definitely looking forward to this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:58 PM
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Just bought the book based on your post. Can’t wait to read and share. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:41 PM
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I was born into a Christian family and the church was a big part of my growing up. Also I’ve grown up on the internet, so to speak. So much of my upbringing was paired with internet culture It has actually been FDS which affected me far more regarding really finding problems with the community and not being as involved I see men telling women what to do at events, and the women doing it. As if they’re maids and used to it Which is shitty. I still have love for this but it is slowly being replace…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:22 PM
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Yes ma’am!! I did the same, set the bar REALLY high and so many men disqualified themselves almost immediately 💅🏻 Then the man I’m dating came along. He thanks me for the opportunity to do nice things for me. And then he does the nice things!! It’s amazing how life can be when you ignore and delete scrotes and pickmes who want to see you work for nothing and frustrated over man children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:25 PM
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These are the real questions. Is this person making my life better? More enriched? Am I at my best with them? Do they love to see me succeed, glow, and grow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:58 AM
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I chortled 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:01 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:58 PM
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This is how I feel. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:58 PM
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Thank you for articulating something difficult for me to put together. Sure conservatism is one thing, but anti-abortion and the people who support it I cannot get behind That being said I did not finish this episode of the podcast. Was Elle anti-abortion? Did she speak against that hot topic of modern conservatism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:43 PM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for months now without seeing or directly touching his genitals A couple nights ago during a hot moment I touched him over the pants Holy lort in Hevang 😳 this boy has a big secret 🤫 at first I felt guilty for being excited that he was large and thick. Then FDS kicked in and I let myself be giddy and excited!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:59 PM
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Not gonna lie my boyfriend is like this lol I take whatever he is holding when he walks in (usually groceries or a coffee for me) and he asks what he should do first: laundry, food prep, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:14 PM
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She is completely right You cannot teach those people. Just leave them be Block and delete <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:07 PM
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I love this My boyfriend runs head of me to open doors. He also poured my wine at the fancy new restaurant in the casino we visited over the weekend. I know it doesn’t seem like much but he did NOT want me to reach 1ft to my left, grab the bottle from the ice bucket, and pour. He got up from his seat and got the bottle and refilled (he paid for the room and arranged everything)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:22 PM
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😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:58 AM
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Plenty of choices, yet they choose to be reckless. This is key. They CHOOSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:58 AM
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“I don’t want children but I don’t want to get snipped and I also don’t want to wear condoms AND I need to ejaculate inside of you. It’s your responsibility to not get pregnant.” 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:10 PM
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Yep!! They scream DECEPTION!! SHE LIED AND BABY TRAPPED ME when they willingly (maybe even begged to) give up their sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:57 PM
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Seriously!! “I want to orgasm in a vagina BUT IF YOU GET PREGNANT IT IS YOOOOUR FAULT” Like dude. If you don’t want to risk pregnancy, don’t orgasm in a vagina. It’s so simple but they’re too entitled and thick to get it 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:31 PM
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“The EXpanding Abortion Services Act" (TEXAS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:25 PM
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When a man says “girl” I act shocked and exclaim along the lines of “you did WHAT with a CHILD????? You’re a pedo wtf” They quickly backtrack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:04 PM
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Gotcha, I understand what you’re saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:50 PM
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https://www.fda.gov/consumers/consumer-updates/why-you-should-not-use-ivermectin-treat-or-prevent-covid-19 It is an anti parasite, but not useful for treating COVID
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:18 PM
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Yes! Financial independence is KEY Get a good education, a good job, and YOUR OWN MONEY💰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:07 PM
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LOL he takes the cattle medicine!!! Omg Roosh V is even a bigger dumbass than I thought, and I seriously am impressed that could happen 😂 HAHAHHAHAHAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:42 PM
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This is why FDS exists Many men are disgusting slobs controlled by their sad penises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:39 PM
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How hard is it not to orgasm in a vagina?? These men are stupid af. They want to orgasm in a vagina and will whine and beg and plead and punch walls, and then force feed you abortion pills when it doesn’t turn out their way Stupid asshats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:03 PM
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What to do???? Leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:53 AM
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I think like 38 at the oldest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:56 PM
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Yep!! There is no excuse in this day and age to not talk to your children. We have phones, we have video chat. He could have driven there. Gotten to know them. Got them thoughtful gifts. Supported them through good times and bad. None of that happened. And now his children are done with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:48 PM
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I’m sorry you had to go through that. These are the men we want to avoid and I feel so sorry for his current wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:47 PM
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He doubled down and said that she was making up stuff and that she wanted a man “to control her” and that he couldn’t do that. Talk about insanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:46 PM
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The kids never initiating contact. Children love their fucking parents and it's the hardest thing to cut contact with your parental figure. If someone says their child/ren don't talk to them, that's a major red flag. This x10000. These poor children wanted their father in their life, and he couldn't be bothered to spend time with them other than visiting with his new girlfriends each time. Sickening. His priorities were obvious, and it's clear none of them were HIS CHILDREN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:12 PM
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I am so sorry you had to experience that. His behavior is so gross yet not surprising at all. One of my very good friends is Jewish. She is smart and wise and kind and generous and very beautiful. And I’ve seen her put gross men in their place who make those awful jokes at her to “test” her very similar to how you did (good on you!!). Shuts them down and ignores them from there on out. The only way to deal with sick men like that is to put them down, and never pay them mind again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:36 PM
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I dated a guy once who was my height. He was ok, not a good match for me I really like thick men. Like, broad. Not fat and chubby but like obviously bigger boned and rugged. Those men just so happen to be significantly taller than I am 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:34 PM
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I am so grateful for FDS. Male bullshit is EVERYWHERE and I no longer feel confused or small. I feel liberated and happy every day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:38 PM
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LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:20 AM
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I want part 5!!! Their website doesn’t have a record / replay and it’s not on YouTube yet Edit: they’re on her tiktok and they are amazing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:09 PM
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Thank you for this. Sincerely. I just bought the book you mentioned. It’s arriving in a few days Edit to add: I feel so strongly that posts like these are top tier what FDS is about. Healing and self discovery and improvement. Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:02 PM
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Wow this changed my mind. At first I thought “too harsh” but… Double standard of expecting women to not be bald vs men doing nothing but complain women don’t like them bald Having MANY options including realistic toupees This is what did it for me really. I am still learning and unlearning internalized misogynistic ways. Thanks lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:35 PM
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Nailed it, yes! I’d rather be alone than supporting a nasty scrote who uses me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:25 PM
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Moments of clarity, yes!! I had a few of these. One was when a boyfriend would not touch his tongue to mine. He would French kiss but refused to touch my tongue to his alone without lips. Weird but that was a tipping point Another told me that he’d rather play board games with his friends than support me on the anniversary of a family members death. That was it for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:13 AM
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HEY MEN! 👨 🍆 Are you CRAVING 💖 EMPOWERMENT 💪 ?? Are you TOTALLY JEALOUS 😡 that WOMEN get to be EMPOWERED ⚡️ while YOU sit on the sidelines?? 😭 Well do I have NEWS 📰 FOR YOU!! Spread your 🍑 and show us your 💥!! Post your 🍆 on ONLYFANS so HUNGRY 😋 HORNBALLS can FUND YOUR INDEPENDENCE 💪 MAKE YOUR OWN HOURS ⏰ Now YOU are a BOY 👦 BOSS in charge of your own destiny!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:44 PM
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YEP!! The hateful FDS post that lead to me finding this place was POSTED BY AN ANGRY 13 YEAR OLD BOY 😂 Hey little boy if you’re still reading this Men of quality don’t think FDS is extreme at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:20 PM
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No thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:03 PM
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They’re all so sad and pathetic I am so glad I’m not a man and don’t direct my life and romance around what my penis wants. They are all sad horny monkeys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:02 PM
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Can confirm!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:18 PM
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Agree. OPs post is not FDS at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:46 AM
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I love tattoos! I never had any until in my mid twenties and now I have quite a few ❤️ I have absolutely been approached about them!! Some people are nice and cool. Some creepy men 🤢 One of my defenses for creepy men is to whip out my pocket bible, usually while quoting a verse, and start asking him when his last day at church was, his relationship with Jesus, if he’s ready to donate a portion of his paycheck to Jesus, so on. 100% of the time it works every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:41 PM
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This!! I found FDS through a 13-year-old’s post about bad FDS was! I lurked on Reddit until I found that post, found FDS, and then made an account Thanks little boy! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:03 PM
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But I WANT to financially support a man who hates me, doesn’t give me orgasms, tells me my only worth is as an incubator, and that he’s biologically inclined to lie and cheat 🤡/s Lolololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:20 PM
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My first real date with my now boyfriend was at a very expensive restaurant in the city When I proposed it, he was happy to oblige. He asked if I were going because of the oysters and I said yes So he suggested the even more expensive, even better, restaurant not far from my original one, because they had a larger selection of oysters 🦪 👑 Don’t settle for men who want you to settle for less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:50 PM
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Oooo!! I did not connect this! I don’t recall him ever calling it a “break up” 🤔 He still asks if we can go to dinner sometime, and I said no until the 5th time and I said “maybe in the far future” which is when he got super cocky. NEVER going to dinner with him 👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:42 PM
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My ex was moving things he left in my house. He said some things that I WOULD have felt bad or tried to console him about, but it didn’t affect me at all. I thought to myself, “He’s still doing this. And he will be leaving here in 20 minutes and I won’t have to deal with him anymore.” He’d say things like, all mopey, “I guess I’ll go remove more things from your house, so we can do whatever this is.” Then go into the basement and pack said things while sniffling and crying He would do this and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:15 PM
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I don’t recall the exact quote: “You can’t give someone more of what they don’t appreciate and expect them to appreciate it or you providing it for them.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:58 PM
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More proof that some men are the trashiest trash to ever trash 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:56 PM
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This post illustrates why some men are absolute trash 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:56 PM
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Just today at the airport I was propositioned by a young (and attractive although douchy) man to go “have a good time” with him I’m definitely NOT hard up for company lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:54 PM
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This is the best, most solid advice. 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:52 PM
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One of my first ever dates was a breakfast date. You make great points in your post!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:26 PM
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Pedo males standing up for other pedo males!! In other news, water is wet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:58 AM
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When I told a date my income tax bracket instead of the dollar amount per year, he looked it up and immediately, sheepishly said, ”That’s too much for a girl” I laughed in his face and left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:15 PM
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I completely agree!! So wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:16 PM
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I was never able to watch stuff like this growing up or even when I was 18 living at home. Leaving my home was a big culture shock despite living in middle America my whole life 😂 When I saw the first Suicide Squad I was disappointed in the portrayal of Harley. Just another woman scripted by men to be pretty on screen. SPOILERS!! The NEW Suicide Squad, I loved her!! I loved how she just seemed to find joy. It was no longer a mystery why she was doing what she did. Clearly she enjoyed it! The joy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:15 PM
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Yes! Sperm (resulting in pregnancy) can literally be deadly to women All men have to do to not cause pregnancy is not orgasm inside of a vagina. It’s not rocket science. But they can’t control themselves (this is the “main defense” that men have when they argue against this. That “she made it so he couldn’t control himself” and just HAD to orgasm inside of her 🤡 gimme a break!) So if y’all males can’t control your genitals, you need to get fixed. Just like cats and dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:11 PM
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Oooh I like this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:49 PM
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Yes!! How can this person be able to DRIVE if they can’t navigate a grocery store? 😂 it’s laughable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:42 PM
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This was an amazing episode. Thank you so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:32 PM
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I've seen things I disagree with in FDS because that's normal, but I've never seen anything so disgusting as rape apologising, saying men having the right to vote was a mistake, calling men intellectually inferior, saying men are only good for their [penises], talking about MOC in a racist and sexually degrading way, saying men don't belong in the workplace. ALL things I’ve seen said of women in the MGTOW sub in the past. 💥 they are truly horrific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:21 PM
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Ding ding 🛎 it’s a MAN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:51 AM
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But if he poos himself it’s obviously because of all the STRESS he’s under! He can’t clean his poop! Just do his laundry and let him veg out on porn for a while 🤡 he’ll be right back to his normal angry self in no time /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:50 AM
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🎶 chime chime 🎶 man moments For when you’re so darn riled up from knowing women exist and call out your shit, that you start spewing more shit MaN mOmEnTs 🐒 🎶 chime chime 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:09 AM
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We don't hate men, we're trying to avoid the low-value ones by learning the games that they play and informing each other. 🔑!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:37 AM
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it almost seems like they’re bots or actors. It’s so many preprogrammed insults and misconceptions and generalizations It feels pretty gratifying to see the backlash to reasonable asks They are opposed to treating women with kindness, respect. It’s a laughably villainous position to have 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:21 AM
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We teach them warning signs of abusive/neglectful men and how not to become a statistic! We help women become confident and self-assured. <3 this is everything! It is incredibly freeing to have experienced this place. I am forever grateful for how my life, outlook, overall happiness has improved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:05 AM
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So they admit there is nothing ban worthy here as is. They would need to intervene and manufacture toxicity to get us banned. :) my thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:14 AM
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It is the same old dribble we’ve all heard before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:25 AM
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“COME HERE YOU WHOOOR AND TOUCH. YOU HOR U TOUCH NAO.” I imagine them lumbering like a giant goon with their genitals in hand SCREAMING like how male cats just MEOW endlessly when they’re horny 🍌 🐒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:23 PM
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Radical in...wanting men to pay for dates? To be respected? To have mutually pleasurable, loving sex? Sorry ma’am this is simply TOO MUCH to ask for!! RaDiCaL mIsAnDrY 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:19 PM
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Will PM you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:18 PM
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10-4 the bagel is ready for cream cheese I repeat, the bagel is ready for cream cheese 🥯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:00 PM
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I am once again asking what is stopping them from using this energy to focus on bettering themselves so that maybe they would actually be desirable.... but of course, men. I sincerely pray they will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:42 PM
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You probably know of the particularly vile, toxic sub that got banned. Proponents of violence and hatred toward women. Good riddance And now they plan on infiltrating FDS and acting like idiots because that’s what they are good at, and what we are not 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:41 PM
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I can think of about ten ACTUAL dehumanizing terms for women, in song and popular culture just off the top of my head. People have called me “it” to my face I 💯 believe this post where some dude “overheard” women calling him an LVM is as fake as the job he claimed to hear it at. Not because I think he’s unemployed but because the whole story is suspect Is he even a man?!! He could be a goat??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:20 PM
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Ma’am I am stealing this! This is GOLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:00 PM
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If they are not able to have basic life skills they don't deserve a partner. There’s a man who leads a class in the youth group at church. He was explaining, laughingly, that he was so terrible at shopping for his wife! He couldn’t find the right cereals, right mills, coffee, ANYTHING and joked that the supermarket was “just made for women” He got ROYALLY PISSED when I asked him if had some type of mental deficiency. Something like face blindness but for objects? Could he not read properly? Was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:11 PM
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Nice guys may finish last, but nice girls don’t finish at all lol 💀 hahahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:05 PM
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Seconded! I don’t care what his hobbies are as long as they’re a good partner And honestly a lot of the stuff listed seems pretty fun to partake in. I love comic cons! I have a good friend who makes amazing cosplays. He is married and his wife makes them too. They love their shared hobby. It’s not about a mans hobbies although a hobby can absolutely show you more about a person. It’s about their ability to manage their life and the hobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:41 PM
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This is what I was reminded of too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:08 PM
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This. It’s truly sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:25 AM
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There’s a lot about this post that doesn’t sit right with me. It almost reads like lightweight LARPing by a man. The waking up for no reason and church I get. But without more context I remain heavily suspicious that this is a man scrote larper alert 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:22 AM
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Ladies, what are some clear signs a guy watches porn? Something he said, something he did, something he made you do… He refers to women like porn categories. 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:41 PM
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I ordered this book today. I love Lundy Bancroft. Thank you for the suggestion! Can’t wait to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:37 PM
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When women hate men, we avoid them. When men hate women, they slaughter us. 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:00 PM
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I felt this when I was younger My turning point, I remember clearly, was having thoughts like these followed by a stream of countless memories where men were rude, bad tempered, violent, abusive, unmannered, misogynistic— and I realized HOW WAS I LOOKING UP TO OR WANTING THESE PEOPLES ATTENTION? THEYRE HORRIBLE AND I AM JUST LIKE THE “SCREAMAPILLAR” FROM THE SIMPSONS, SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO WHAT DESTROYS ME In that same moment I also decided not to take other people’s opinions so seriously and ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:32 PM
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Same, although I don’t see it as cold is all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:27 PM
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This isn’t even cold to me He used her repeatedly. He didn’t call her to profess his love and apologize. He called her to ask her to take care of him He clearly only sees her as a maid/bangmommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:19 PM
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This last Sunday a man much older than me who I hadn’t seen at my church approached me before the service. He asked normal enough questions and seemed nice He mentioned his wife couldn’t make it that day. I said my boyfriend was teaching a summer class. Then he made a weird, invasive joke about my boyfriend and I having sex before marriage. I made this face 😳 and backed away slowly while staring at him. He called after me “come on! What?!” Laughing and rubbing his head, his face turned red. Like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:04 PM
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Right? It was clear he was lying 🤥 trying to cover for something and I completely stopped caring at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:26 PM
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I love this movie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:24 PM
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We met at a friends birthday party. He invited me to his church for a service and raves about how awesome the people are and how cool it would be. How his whole family goes there I decline his offer to pick me up and I drove there myself with my sister My sister and I sat through the entire service at this little church which was actually REALLY nice! But he wasn’t there and didn’t show up until we were driving away. He called me frantically saying he went to the wrong church and throught I mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:25 PM
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Yep!!! Hahaha My mom and I were playing poker with some church friends when on vacation and this young man at our table put down 1100$ in 100$-200$ batches when he lost the last batch of chips. He would just go all in on terrible cards, oblivious to what other people were doing! 9 & 3 unsuited??? Just why? 😂 he was a whale for everyone at the table who just let him bet into us. We knew quickly that he would bet heavy on terrible hands💰 I felt bad but, he was doing it willingly. He said he was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:48 PM
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There’s a story I’m going to loosely summarize here Person A asks for job, agrees on wage Person B asks for job, negotiates on a HIGHER wage, same job Person A is bitter they’re doing the same job for less money Don’t be Person A and get bitter that you agreed to less & didn’t ask for more!! Either learn and ask for more now, then don’t sell yourself short in the future, OR stop complaining lol 😂 If a woman is happy with a man and becomes unhappy when she sees her friend with a man who does more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:27 PM
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Yep! This. Barf barf barf. Textbook NVManchild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:45 PM
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I honestly can't imagine talking to anyone that way. I can't even put myself in a similar state of mind to understand how a person could be OK coercing sex. How do you live with yourself? How do you even find pleasure from a sexual act knowing your partner is not in the mood/not enjoying/engaging out of fear etc etc. These men are totally broken people. They ARE totally broken people! I am so glad FDS teaches to block and delete! They’re not worth our time. They make themselves worthless and lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:42 PM
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This makes me so happy hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:39 PM
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I take misogynistic jokes/comments as being like seeing one cockroach, as in it means there are at least a hundred more in the walls. This! The jokes/comments are the tip of the iceberg. They are deeply misogynistic and those are the ugly things rising to the surface! I simply remove men like this from my life ✌️ there’s no trusting a man who secretly despises you and hears you through their filter of misogynistic idiocy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:36 PM
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Same story!! They’ll be jealous of you and cannot be happy for it with you because they’re misogynistic and think they should be “more” than whatever you are! I make really good money and when I got my manager position my ex had basically the same reaction. Just jealous and didn’t even congratulate me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:36 PM
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This is great advice!! Delve into women’s art, movies, music, etc. so worth it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:06 PM
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I have a good friend and we have a tradition of going to the drive in together and eating in the car Yeah it’s not a date. Lol it’s eating in the car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:27 PM
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Firstly I love your post. You are 💯explaining all of the concerns I had with poly I was in a poly relationship before my current one. I am from a highly religious community where it’s not uncommon for men to have multiple wives. So I went the same route albeit discreetly and only my mom knew. And at first she freaked but then…she seemed ok. At least she didn’t scold me but she did seem disapproving but fine with that I was happy for a bit And it was REALLY AWESOME for a while. For a while. Like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:56 PM
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Shots fired!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:47 PM
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STRATEGY is what you do when you have a goal and no opponent TACTICS are what you perform when you have an opponent or challenge interfering with your goals FemaleDatingSTRATEGY, to me personally, is organizing my life and goals 💕 WITHOUT CONSIDERING MEN ✨ I didn’t buy my house for a man 😂 I don’t workout for men 💩 I don’t wake up thinking men men men men men Because that is desperation and NOT strategy lol I love this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:20 PM
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My ex, after I broke up with him and while helping him move out of my house, did the fake-punch-wind-up at me. I told him what he did was unacceptable and to leave immediately He argued but I persisted and put the rest of his stuff on the lawn for him to get. It’s not funny and I don’t interact with men who use (even pretend) violence and ugly words at me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:57 PM
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Yes ma’am!! These are the distinctions that are so vital to share and understand Just as appearance doesn’t make a man high value, it doesn’t make a woman high value. This this this 10000000%!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:05 PM
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I love talking to women. I love hearing about Women’s lives. I talked with a coworker the other day about her cats, her house, her gardens, wildlife, her hobbies….it was so refreshing!! I love sharing my life with women who want nothing in return but good conversation and companionship <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:17 PM
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I love this! I focus on my life <3 I don’t obsess over men on the internet, stalk them and PM them with weirdness!! I have a few fans who like to peruse my work here and they are doing exactly this haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:29 AM
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This is honestly why I don’t feel bad rejecting men..and why I don’t feel like I’m missing out! If they haven’t shown themselves to be trustworthy and good and\or display abusive thoughts IMMEDIATELY, then it’s a big no They’re scary. They joke about rape together. They laugh about women’s pain. They bring sin upon themselves and deserve what’s coming to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:27 AM
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Yep! He sure was a charmer 😑 My mom could have used FDS This guy lived in an RV that his ex fiancé bought. He skipped place to place hauling a garage sale worth of junk. He “wasn’t an alcoholic” and drank 30+ non alcoholic beers (less than 0.5%) every day. He hadn’t held a job since 2001. Before my mom kicked him out I changed the internet passwords and his argument for us to give it back was “how much is it costing you to give me?” This guy was asked to pay 100$ A MONTH in rent and didn’t make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:13 PM
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Beautiful!!! Inspiring and thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:19 PM
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I’m just laughing thinking of this poor guy trying to microwave noodles 😂 He could have just learned to cook Instead he spent the time eating out and getting fat. THEN ASKED INTERNET STRANGERS WHAT TO DO LOLOLOL go buy a cookbook at a garage sale lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:14 PM
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I love your standards! None are unreasonable. Here are mine. And I have found 3 men in the last two years who seemed to have met them. I chose one and we are still dating! Career/money. Why money? Because it shows he knows how to be responsible and keep it without spending it Physically fit. I am fit and regularly workout. I expect the same No children. Dealbreaker for me! No matter how good he seems if he has kids, I’m just not interested. I want kids of my own and I don’t want step kids. I wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:13 PM
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Yep. Men are dangerous. They don’t want us to talk to each other about how dangerous they are. If they aren’t dangerous they have nothing to worry about, but the ones who get angry that we have any sense of self awareness, protection, standards, etc are the same ones saying women make everything up AND ALSO the same ones who tell us it’s our fault when bad things happen to us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:04 PM
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No wonder his ex gave up on him. He was catered to his whole life and she undoubtedly got tired of him being a mooch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:59 PM
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Oh they do! But that doesn’t stop anyone. Perhaps in an orthodox community but mine is more….. talk Jesus, and walk Jesus (if you’re able and it’s convenient for you), if that makes sense. Our pastor seems to adhere to the church rules but many patrons keep enough to themselves and don’t advertise that they drink, swear, gamble, have extramarital sex, have children outside of their marriage (while married to someone else), etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:49 PM
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House diggers!! 😂 I have met many of these Why do so many men jump on the “if we dated we could move in together and split rent 😘” House digger is SO spot on. So many men, and maybe it’s my community, are DESPERATE to find a house to move into! They don’t want to find their own home. They want yours! It’s maddening! And sad. So very sad. They don’t work for themselves and then want to jump in with a woman and rule her life. Happened to my mom last year. Beginning of the pandemic she “fell in lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:56 AM
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I am going to end every statement with this now!! Hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:27 PM
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That’s right!! Not all men are porn addicted losers :P Not all men yell at you for stupid things Not all men lie and cheat and steal Not all men are insecure and lash out And FDS helps us find the men who ARE all the good things, while avoiding the ones who are NOT ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:38 PM
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😱 I never thought of that this way!! I am learning a lot here and I am so appreciative. I’ve been what someone may call…living under a rock! I have only watched porn once, at the age of 9/10 when my childhood friend and I found a box of VHS tapes in her uncles room. He would leave things like that around the house for us to find….including adult toys and creams and again those tapes….sometimes they would be in the VCR and we’d have to switch them to put our Disney tapes in….. This post is making…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:00 PM
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My mom wanted me to date men from our church 100% of them violated my boundaries by touching me inappropriately and more than half refused to stop at my first “no.” I was a virgin and stopped telling men that I was because it would get them all weird and riled up…..gross. When I did officially date someone from the church with my moms approval, he was extremely nice and kind. He paid for dates, was charming, clean, seemed well rounded. We dated for a month or so. Then the first time I went to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:07 PM
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I loved this!! So true!! Before my current bf and I were official I was dating 3 guys regularly. They were all very nice except for one who ended up being a jerk because we went on 3 dates where he paid for fries and 1 drink each time, and was mad I didn’t kiss him during the pandemic lol. He called me fake for not sleeping with him 😂 The guy I chose is around my age and overall seems great guy. Only time will tell if he’s truly an HVM! We dated for 4 months before making it official and during …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:53 PM
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Great question! My mom really wanted me to buy a condo when I was 21. She was adamant. I didn’t really want it…. I had a technical degree, associates, just started my first job. Condo seemed like a lot She had a realtor friend who found a very nice spot but it was kind of expensive, but at 21 anything over 2k seemed expensive to me haha. It’s more like a family condo than a single person condo. Two full baths, one half, three bedrooms, attached garage, patio, three floors, finished basement, fan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:18 PM
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My thoughts exactly!! Beautiful kitchen haha years ago I renovated my condo and put in a big bay window in the kitchen. It was amazing 😭 I had a slew of plants in the windows and everything. I cry because I moved to a cheap apartment in order to rent the condo I actually asked for 150$ MORE rent than any other unit in the complex because of how confident I was in my renovations lol. And it worked out! But gosh I miss that natural night and big window
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:37 PM
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This is so beautiful! I felt very similar finding FDS I am so grateful for this place Congratulations to you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:02 PM
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This post was helpful. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:16 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:31 PM
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Thank you for posting this. My ex cheated on me, I caught him in the act, and I immediately kicked him out. I was so enraged. So many “friends” said I should take him back because he was drunk, he didn’t understand, he thought it was ok, etc etc etc 🤡 lunacy!! Until I found this sub I felt GUILTY for dumping him!! Seriously this sub gave me the words to articulate how I feel and felt and actual clarity. Thank you!! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:13 PM
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Completely. And they don’t even realize it. It’s like that Steve Buscemi meme “hello fellow kids” “HELLO FELLOW FEMALES. PERIOD CERVIX LVM HAHA 👑 LIKE TOTALLY CHAD AMIRITE LOL 😂 I LOVE COOKING FEMALE TRADWIFE FEMINISM 🎨 SO COOL STAY QUEEN”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:02 PM
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Loved your post and I feel for you. Good on you for getting out! You really highlight the manipulation factor here. At every turn he tried to make you doubt, wether it was about something that happened, something he said, what you thought, why you thought His looming over you is a total red flag for violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:02 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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