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| 37 | Genuine question: how can a woman maintain the hope that there really are good men out there?Given the small number of HVM, it goes without saying that most HVW probably will never have a HVM. You have to accept being single because at this rate, that's what's going to happen unless you settle for a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:00 PM |
| 62 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Exactly. A man standing up for his wife should be acceptable and when it comes to cultural issues like this one, it’s not up to non-black women to police how a black man should stand up for his black wife being verbally assaulted by another black man over an issue that only we understand. How about be quiet and look to OUR reaction to the incident before deciding to make declarations of Will Smith being yet another “violent” man who needs to be investigated & locked up. I have to stop reading th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 151 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I scrolled to find a comment from a black woman because these other women are clueless & have no idea what it’s like to be continuously shamed about our hair. Jada was publicly made the butt of a joke over a disease that causes her to lose her hair by a man who made a whole ass documentary trying to understand the importance we place on our hair. Chris Rock is incredibly low value as he KNOWS exactly what he was doing. It was tasteless, but more importantly hateful and it’s not even the first ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 19 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.I hope she divorces this pos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:24 PM |
| 18 | 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Welp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 103 | A simple trick to combat negging...Exhausting. I’d rather grey rock and keep it moving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 19 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?Video call because we were long distance and saw an open condom wrapper on the nightstand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | "Let's see where things go..."Same :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:54 AM |
| 298 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.This shit makes me not want to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 134 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?My 28 yr old ex didn’t like something I said once and proceeded to burst into tears, fall to the floor, and thrash for 20 minutes. I had no idea what to do so I walked into another room. When he stopped his tantrum, he asked me to give him my breast to suck on. Dumped and sent on his way. He still tries to contact me and it’s been years. What in the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 56 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?LMAO. Jesus Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.You can do it and like OP said, maybe not in person? Please don't do it in person if you're unsure how he will react. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 12 | My Level Up Journey: You have to make space for blessings.This is wonderful and congratulations on the new job!! You deserve it! How have you been doing with gaining weight back? Your situation is very similar to mine and I’ve dropped to 100 pounds (from 130). I’m much better mentally now & eating better, but it’s been a struggle to gain any weight back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I have no wordsUgh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 98 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Yes, he’s a liar and prob a LVM that should be dumped. On another note, why do you “need” to be a stay at home mom? This is a desire, not a necessity. FDS stresses financial independence so it seems like you’re already setting yourself up to be in a bad situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 16 | See how he treats his family, especially the womenIt usually presents itself at some point. My ex was initially so loving and respectful to his mother and sister but after 2.5 years and me accepting his proposal, the real him surfaced. He snapped on his mom, calling her an idiot. He’d snap on his sister and he even screamed at his little niece. He was insane and I’m glad I left him. My therapist told me that many abusers can fake it for years until they feel they’ve secured the woman. Once they feel “safe” to be abusive, the façade immediately … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 11 | "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book)Wtf! There are so many LVM out there and it’s like they all fit into one of these terrible archetypes. I’m sorry you went through that. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:48 AM |
| 93 | Study finds that altruism is a determining factor in which men women choose for longterm relationships.And it needs to be genuine altruism. We need to stay far away from men with savior complexes. Sometimes a savior complex can be initially confused for him being giving and altruistic, but eventually his selfishness and resentment will rear its ugly head so vet vet vet. For example, my most recent ex has a savior complex. At first his volunteer work and community outreach attracted me. As I got to know him better though, his acts of kindness didn't seem genuine and only seemed like he's focused o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 275 | Be careful before sharing your trauma with men.I've made the mistake of sharing trauma and family shit with men. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 24 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…No, I totally feel you on that. It didn't bother me until I realized he had more than what would fit in one comic book box. He later told me he had to rent an entirely separate storage unit to store all his comics, and I got extremely anxious. I should've ended things then as that was a huge red flag. Like if he'd buy his absolute favorites that maybe fill one really small box and then rotate them on a little magazine display, I'd be ok with that. For all else he should be reading them online or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 157 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…So true. My ex is sitting on at least 60k in his bank account, has a stable & good paying job, and has zero debt anywhere. He thought it was silly and superficial to spend more than $1k on an engagement ring! But let’s not talk about the thousands he’s spent on his comic book collection over the years though. Dude literally has 2000 comic books and counting, tons of toys, and wants a man cave where he could put a $3500 custom 4-player arcade cabinet for when his boys come over to hang. Imagine b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 20 | LVM & HVM in Classic LiteratureI love me some Mr. Darcy but I wonder if he’s actually HVM or NV that grew to HV. The way he treats Lizzy when he first meets her is horrible. He doesn’t like her family very much, thinks she’s not that cute, and goes out of his way to tell her he’s smitten even though she’s not really worthy of his rank. He even tells his best friend to not marry her sister based on a bullshit assumption. I mean… that’s not HVM behavior. But then he seems to have an epiphany and do all he can to atone for the n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:25 PM |
| 131 | Husband openly telling OP he doesn’t like the way she looks and he preferred her when she was 17…There's something seriously wrong with these scrotes. My ex was the same way. I'm petite and look a lot younger than I actually am. He'd always talk about how he loves how thin I am and how youthful I look, but let me tell him I liked when he wore steam/ironed clothes and kept his head shaved (he was balding and would let the wisps grow out so that the baldness pattern was highly visible and just looked awful). He treated me like I was being so superficial to care about his appearance, but it wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 136 | Have you ever truly felt immediate "sparks", or was it just lovebombing/emotional vulnerability on your part?It’s ok to be cautious. Don’t ignore your gut instinct though. My ex ticked all my boxes and I still wasn’t really sure I wanted him. I dunno how to describe it. I just felt something that I ignored. I wound up dating him because my friends and therapist told me to give him a chance. Huge mistake on my part. Always, always listen to your instincts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 75 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....How many of us really prefer a 4 inch pencil dick? Let's be real. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 109 | Men are jealous of women's successMy ex is a professor and still found a way to be jealous of me and resent me. On paper he has more academic accomplishments than I do—I only have an MA. But my having a better paying career, “masculine” technical hobbies, and being strong willed really hurt his fragile ego. He would rather be with a woman he feels stays in “her lane.” He is an entitled, cowardly LVM with a savior complex. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:12 AM |
| 94 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.I feel like they’ll just lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 112 | For those who remember Derrick Jackson, he cheated on his girlfriend (now wife) when they were dating in college.I wish his wife would see the light but she will not. I don’t know if she’s been abused to the point where she is just a shell of herself or if she is the ultimate pick me, but she is never going to leave him. I followed her on Instagram and had to stop when she posted a video of herself slaying “demons” in her living room. It’s just too much. If we tried to rescue her she would just call us demons, satan worshippers, jezebels. It’s really sad and troubling, but I don’t think anything can be don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 55 | He really thought he did somethingIs he in a trailer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 11 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.Which app are you using? I like this idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:04 PM |
| 122 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…omg is that what that was? I recently got one of those after posting here and I was really confused why someone said they were concerned about me. HAHAHAHA that's sooo pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Markers of AbuseWhoa. Did we date the same man? Wtf is wrong with these men??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 33 | more examples of "subtle negging" and what's in a Neg Sandwich?My ex: “You’re so beautiful. And I really like that you have freckles because it reminds me you’re not perfect. That way I remember to not put you on a pedestal.” Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 15 | Don’t confuse “jealousy” for boundary pushing.say it louder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 66 | Don’t confuse “jealousy” for boundary pushing.I knew it was over when my BF casually told me the day before that he's going out to lunch with a "friend" and then when I asked him about it, he told me it was a woman he met off Hinge a while ago but decided he wasn't interested in her beyond friends. He then said they're just friends and only chat like once a month. WOW. So he went on the date, because that's what it was. I told him I was upset that he did that and that any one would be. He tried to act like he wouldn't care if I did it--yeah… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | “Lonely angry sad wanna-be masters of control” Starter PackI’m also INTJ. I hate clingy people though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 8 | Once comfortable with a vetted HVM, would you share some of your personal problems, traumas/health-related issues with him?I wish I could help. I was dating what I thought was a HVM. I had a medical emergency and wound up in the hospital for a day. He was there for me and even told me how much he cared about me and how scared he was for me to have been in the ER. I thought I really found a keeper! Well, a few days later he went cold and then exactly a week later he broke up with me. I later did some soul searching and realized he had an avoidant attachment style which was weird to me considering how tight knit his f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinionOr an undershirt. I had to ask my now ex to wear an undershirt because his nipples were showing through his shirts and he was soiling the armpit areas. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinionLol. They’ll just get mad and dump you for expecting them to take better care of themselves. Smfh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 9 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Yes. All of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 66 | Trust He SucksYes. When it comes to men and relationships, always assume they’re N/LVM until they prove otherwise. And they have to KEEP proving they’re worth it, FOREVER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:27 PM |
| 52 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.I’m fucking sick to my stomach after watching this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 8 | I think its hilarious old men think 30 plus women are bitter and jealous when they are with young womenWhen I was 25, I was groomed by at 62 yr old man shortly after he found out my dad died. It took me a year to realize he was a pedophile and several other disgusting things. At 25 I still looked like a teenager. I’m in my 30s now and I still look really young. Now I use it as a way to gauge whether a man is a sick fuck. If he’s turned on by how young I look, I never speak to him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:57 AM |
| 11 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.Jesus. This fucking horrible. I’m so sorry you went through that. I can only imagine how devastating that was and still is for you. I’m glad you dumped that filth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 8 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.Girl, what??!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 5 | What in fresh pickme hell is this?Code for “I have a tiny penis.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:05 AM |
| 12 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallOMG, I WASN’T READY FOR SLIDE 2. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 403 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!I only wear high quality jewelry, and it’s usually a gold necklace, gold bracelet, diamond or gold earrings. I have an Apple Watch & I purchased a quality separate band. My eye glass frames are always Burberry. I’ve had a scrote come up to me in the supermarket to hit on me in front of his kid, notice my jewelry and then tell his son to avoid women who wear “Tiffany” bracelets, diamonds, etc. as they are “high maintenance and will break your bank.” I laughed in his face. Mind you, I was 24 and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 34 | This is how black men feel about black womenSad but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you do vetting for attachment style and conflict style??Only 1-3 are healthy. 4 & 5 are the unhealthy conflicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 28 | What kind of dumbass neckbeard neggs Azealia Banks online?! LMAO!It’s not really a win. She’s extremely problematic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | So many women live and hide the abuse they have endured. No longer!She’s probably not. Abusers don’t change because it serves no purpose to them to be good people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 27 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.Anyone in an interracial relationship (POC woman with white male) have any additional tips? I’m dating a new guy who seems HV but I’m leery of how he’s described his dad’s stance on racism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 29 | Fuck. Him.Please tell me you have left him or you are planning your exit? Please don’t let this man murder you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | How did you build your own castle?I took out the trash and that freed up my time and energy. I felt happier and actually wanted to do the things I had been putting off. Maybe about a month after I dumped my LVM and stopped talking to toxic friends, I had some kind of epiphany that life is just better without that shit. Started exercising again, actually found a great job, started reading self-care books, and have been pouring myself into my hobbies/exploring new hobbies. In all of this, I’ve randomly met a HVM. Still new and we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 17 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoBragging about cleaning his bathroom???? Girl, bye. If everything else were good about him and his one flag were his sloppiness, absolutely do NOT sign up to clean after him. Tell him to hire a fucking cleaning service or watch a damn YouTube video so that he can figure out how to clean his shit up. If he can’t, walk TF away and never look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 67 | ✨ mood ✨A term some man probably came up with to dismiss and undermine healthy sex. Apparently not wanting to have anal or be degraded and abused during sex is “vanilla.” SMFH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 25 | So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?Lmao. So true. The hot dog ones are the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 63 | Terry Crews: Men Don’t See Women As ‘All the Way Human’. We already knew.Only Keanu Reeves. Terry Crews is an anti black pos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 6 | I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective.Girl, run. My ex fiancé is Macedonian and it was one of the most awful experiences I’ve had with a man. A terribly misogynistic and homophobic culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Saw this today and thought of all of you ladies!Right!?! Outside of work, any guy who comments on my looking better without glasses is immediately ghosted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on being married to a man who works seasonally and is away several months a year?No, don’t do this. I did this and it was a terrible experience. Thankfully I got out relatively unscathed, but it was a nightmare. He gets to lie to about who he is and I wonder if men who are comfortable with this setup are abusive or liars—whatever it is it doesn’t seem good for the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I’m sorry you went through that. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:50 PM |
| 18 | I don't even know what to say anymore at this pointWhew, look at those gorgeous gold undertones on both ladies. 🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:07 PM |
| 38 | I don't even know what to say anymore at this pointI guess the STI piece has been disputed but what remains undisputed is that men are still fucking animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 74 | BEWARE: Beard/ Hat FishingLOL. Who do they think they’re fooling? The hat is especially obvious when they’re wearing it indoors. I immediately assume they have only a few wisps of hair matted beneath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:26 PM |
| 28 | WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.Totally feel this. I play video games too, but yeah I don’t think I could be with a “gamer.” If he’s cool with playing something every once in a while, that’s dope. But hell no to the everyday gaming, laying on the couch, farting, eating chips and asking me WTF I’m making for dinner, only to never come to bed or when he does, tries to roll his unshowered self over on top of me to bump uglies for 2 seconds before prematurely ejaculating. If I were OP, I would’ve been done. I just imagine him belc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 13 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisThe doctor removed her Fallopian tubes while she was in an emergency C-section surgery. She did not consent to it and he did not report what he had done. She only found out when she later had to get a hysterectomy that her Fallopian tubes were gone. That doctor should be imprisoned for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 14 | So I just finished watching BRIDGERTON and I am SO FUCKING ANGRY. The two protagonists are a pickme and a fuckboy. Why are people shipping them? Their relationship is toxic AFI hated the relationship between the two. He lies to her, is a philanderer, an alcoholic, and has unaddressed childhood trauma. She is extremely immature, selfish, and gaslights him for being upset with her after she rapes him. If that’s not a match made in heaven I don’t know what is. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢Ohh. I thought the OP posted a screenshot of their google doc as their post instead of just typing it all out. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢I feel like it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 6 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️And if he has posted bail for his ex, leave him. I found out after I was already engaged to my now ex that while we were together his ex gf got a DUI, called him for bail, he posted it, and then she sent him several nudes. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 46 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!I saw a scrote post recently that a woman being fat isn’t OK at all because she has control over her weight. However, since he couldn’t change his 5’5” height, he shouldn’t be punished with constant rejection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 10 | Hypersexualization of women in anime and why I won't deal with men who watch itI’m just flabbergasted. I never even knew about the boob mousepads. What the fuck!?! How sick in the head are these assholes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.Looking for reasons to hang out with buddies for “a drink” and then when you call or they call you later you can tell by their voice that they had at least 4 beers. They go out during the week just to drink, or they’ll have two beers at home after work every week day and even more on the weekends. You go out together and notice that you’ve only had one drink and by the time you’ve finished he’s already had two and counting. He gets upset whenever you tell him to slow down or ask him to not drink… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 16 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifeOmg his penis is so small. I LOL’d when I saw the pic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:35 AM |
| 8 | Wow! I think we all know this deep down, but it really struck me seeing it written out so succinctly.My now ex-fiancé called his mother an idiot, yelled at her and said he should have just had his male friend do the task he asked her to do. He was always so sweet to her and his sister, and then once we were engaged I got the pleasant surprise of witnessing and being on the receiving end of his anger. TBH, I don’t know if I can date again because I’m worried I’ll just wind up with another Jekyll/Hyde. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 6 | How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?I initially thought this had to be fake, but I quickly remembered how stupid so many men are. I 100% believe her fiancé did that and soon she’ll be married to an unemployed creep if she doesn’t get out now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 51 | DONT TELL MEN ABOUT PAST PARTNERS, ESP WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY CANT HANDLE IT.Completely pathetic, and I guess it’s not surprising for a NVM. I feel really bad for his wife. She confided in him about an awful situation and he decided to make it all about himself. He needs help but he won’t get it. He will just double down on pressuring his wife into having a threesome. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 76 | DONT TELL MEN ABOUT PAST PARTNERS, ESP WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY CANT HANDLE IT.Yeah, the whole story is already bad. It’s even worse if she was pressured into it and in her effort to try to initiate a conversation about it, her husband decides he’s “shaken up” because a high school bully got to live his fantasy. What in the world!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 17 | THIS Is Why Black Women MUST DIVEST , Choose Character Over Colour and KNOW YOUR WORTH! Let Go Of The Stockholm Syndrome , LEVEL UP and Travel! We Have MANY Options And Owe NO One ANYTHING. STOP Letting These Monsters Guilt trip You Into ONE SIDED Race Loyalty! Options Equals POWER & Respect.Girl, I’m attracted to them too and that’s where it ends. LOL. I refuse to ever date another one again. They hate us. Why even bother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 13 | THIS Is Why Black Women MUST DIVEST , Choose Character Over Colour and KNOW YOUR WORTH! Let Go Of The Stockholm Syndrome , LEVEL UP and Travel! We Have MANY Options And Owe NO One ANYTHING. STOP Letting These Monsters Guilt trip You Into ONE SIDED Race Loyalty! Options Equals POWER & Respect.I just went to his YT channel and within the first 60 seconds of the video he is so disrespectful to her I am shocked she stayed on the call. What in the hell!? And the folks commenting that she got what she deserved, wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | 100% AGREED!! Older men dating 18 year olds SHOULD NOT be legal!I’m in my early 30s and still mistaken for being under 21. Any older man interested in a young looking woman should be met with immediate block or running for the hills. Creeps. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 5 | 100% AGREED!! Older men dating 18 year olds SHOULD NOT be legal!Such a disgusting website. My ex was so addicted that it completely ruined our sex life. Glad I got rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | You can look up the npr article. I read this and now want to pack up and move to another planet, bye 🤮They’re like 100% useless for childfree women, and mostly useless otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:57 PM |
| 10 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Girl, give up on them. They throw us under the bus the first chance they get. And there aren’t enough upstanding ones left for us all, so we really have no choice but to look elsewhere or be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:45 PM |
| 66 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I stopped fooling with black men a long time ago. They love breaking their necks trying to figure out why I’m with a white man though. Fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020It's empowering, isn't it? Last year I performed a small engine repair on my snowblower after watching several youtube videos and my (then LDR) fiance told me I shouldn't do things that I don't have expertise in. He told me to either wait for him or to call someone to have it fixed. He claimed it was too "dangerous" but really I think he was intimidated by my drive and ability to fix an engine by my damn self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I disagree that counseling before marriage means the relationship isn't worth it. I am a strong believer in pre-marital counseling because marriage is tough. You should definitely get a head start on ensuring you are increasing skills in communication and have compatible core values. Even if things are amazing, it's still worth it to get the pre-marital counseling for the aforementioned reasons. If, however, shit is already bad and you're trying to fix it before marriage, maybe it's not worth it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I’m not really sure what you meant to do here? To minimize my remark and expression of sensitivity to it due to my own experiences as a black woman? I don’t protect predators. I made a comment about word choice, not about a lack in argumentative merit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I totally get it. It just hit me differently, but I wasn’t attacking you. No harm, no foul, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I see what you’re saying. I think my perspective might just be a little different and maybe I’m a little sensitive to certain words and phrases as a Black woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:54 PM |
| -44 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.Big black cock?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 8 | I mean...isn’t it obvious?! Grandpa is gna show up.Why would she even consider it after realizing he used fake pictures??? I really do think some women care too much about the wrong things and are willing to put themselves in harms way for something like a $200 surf and turf meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:07 PM |
| 14 | Chadwick Boseman took a pay cut for 21 Bridges so Sienna Miller could be paid fairly. How a man treats people, especially women, who do nothing for him says a lot about his character.Rest In Peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Chadwick Boseman took a pay cut for 21 Bridges so Sienna Miller could be paid fairly. How a man treats people, especially women, who do nothing for him says a lot about his character.Never heard of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Watch this movie....Seriously Single on NetflixWatching it now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 10 | How has your life changed since discovering FDSI’m strongly considering leaving my fiancé. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 39 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.I read this at like 4am this morning on the relationship sub and couldn’t go back to sleep for like an hour because of how pissed I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowMy ex fuckboy hits me up every time he’s single or not screwing anyone. I have no idea why because I never respond to his messages and he is restricted, so it doesn’t even show him that I’ve read any of his messages. It’s pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.I like him in a few movies but overall 👎🏽. And learning that he is deflecting his cheating makes him even worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:50 PM |
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