| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Does it annoy anyone else that people confuse and conflate standards and preferences endlessly? | DISCUSSION | wyethwye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.I feel like the only other thing is he managed to slip a classic ole neg in there with the chewing bit. God he's a douche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 112 | Women being more likely to be killed by a romantic partner or a family member than anyone else was one the worst facts I found out. Nothing is more heartbreaking than knowing you’re more at danger in your home than outsideIt's because they don't want the collective standards to rise, they don't want to put in the work for women they don't even see as human. So they try to pick off the easy targets, impressionable young men actually trying to treat their girlfriends right. They try to isolate and shame them to get them to act just as bad as they do so women see it's never going to get better and break us even more. Men care more about what their bois think of them than what their female friends, partners, and rela… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 31 | Psychologist ScroteI had to skim, it was just so whiny 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 19 | Be careful before sharing your trauma with men.This is just insane. I'm speechless reading this. They literally say if they faced any consequences at all, they would stop. The bar is truly in hell. Thank you so much for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 14 | 99.9% of OLD profiles are like this.That last shirt just filled me with rage. So much going on that I can't look away but just blek. Mostly though what a fucking rude thing to say. Like I'm adhd, so yes I'm gonna do some things in a way that may not make sense to YOU but it make sense to me, ya know, someone who has a literal different brain than you. If you can't be respectful of that I'm glad you told on yourself dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:52 PM |
| 33 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.If you don't mind, what books would you recommend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 27 | The new dating scam.Idk why but I'm actually seeing red, this is so fucking ridiculous. I wish some scrote would try this on me, I would absolutely be speaking over his fraud ass and getting my bill of the things I ate. Fuck these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 50 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentIt bears repeating by multiple people, you do not owe him anything. And if you haven't healed enough to see that yet, think about all of the taking this man has done. The taking without gradittude, without respect, with nothing more than selfish contempt. He's taken enough already, don't let him take one more second of your time, work, everything. He'll be fucking fine, he can deal with his poor decisions like every other adult. What you are doing by kicking him out is making him receive consequ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 40 | Filter questionsOkay I know this is nosey but if you can share what the medical procedure was 👀 I am nosey and I apologize in advance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:04 AM |
| 7 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Yeah, they ripped him a new one. Unfortunately, his dumb ass came out of this thinking HE was to good for HER. He's severely delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 40 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Men are just delusional and think we only do these things for them. All of us are just constantly seeking male approval and have no visual preferences or hobbies that don't stem from a need to impress and appeal to men 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:18 AM |
| 30 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.That made my blood boil, jeez what a scumbag. Here's to never again with these losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 402 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleThis! Op please do this. Generally, things like this only change if they get local or national attention and shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenJust lazy, biased "journalism." They didn't quote any of their sources and also didn't quote the main source. Just men continually giving other men permission to continue to profit off of the patriarchy, the demonization of women, and misinformation. Not surprised one bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.Same! It's insane how easy it is to see what this sub is actually about and they're just blinded by hate, stupidity, and the fact that women are actually humans with agency outside of their wants 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Holy fucking shit the fucking audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️Yeah, hard agree. That is a terrible situation to be in, on her part especially later knowing he did not see marriage as a possibility. But it is just tragic and I'm so sorry that that happened. It's not acceptable for her to have taken it out on you and your sister, I understand, but the best thing she could have done was just be honest and recognize the position she put herself in for love. I'm sure y'all would have responded better to honesty over abuse and deception. It's just so important t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️Yo, this! Their story is absolutely beautiful, inspiring, and just exhibits the strength and smarts of both of them. But for real, the last part hit me. I will never be a forever fiance. I will be wholly independent even in a relationship and would never combine my finances with a SO before marriage but it is just insane that women would do so without the law on their side. My uncle had a forever fiance and thankfully they were able to quickly get married before he passed of cancer that they spo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 15 | Thank you FDS for not letting me realize that sooo many men will waste my time if I don’t put up the right boundariesRight! It was fairly common to write poetry and beautiful letters to woo your lady love. Poets were often hired if you weren't a wordsmith and you could afford their services. I honestly want my next man to woo me with poetry or music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Why do guys run when you expect them to get to know you?Ooof, thanks for calling out my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Whenever a man says something inappropriate and tries to pass it off as a “joke,” I like to ask him to explain the joke to me :)Also this is a horrible mindset, old can be changed, rasing our standards collectively does help old and dating in general. That's like saying to a women not to go into tech because it's a sexist industry, no we can change the way the industry works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:45 PM |
| 27 | Seriously. Stfu.These are the dusty men who set up the job market, you have to be experienced to get experience. Its great to see the twisted logic ruin another part of society for women and the younger generation/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:29 PM |
| 18 | anddd... blocked!!!I completely agree, since I started reading a couple of months ago I've seen such tangible improvements in my life regarding men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 35 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI love this and it's a much more clear and concise arrangement of options than what I was doing before lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:31 PM |
| 76 | They start young...God I was just reading that. That kid is addicted to porn at 14 and lord how are his parents just turning a blind eye. I literally can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 8 | GF gets tattoo despite her bf "forbidding" it, all NTA votes downvoted heavilyRight! This is not a standard, this is a preference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 09:51 PM |
| 5 | LVM with 200k salary wants his gf to pay to sleepover; I hope she dumps his assJeeze, this really hit me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:24 AM |
| 7 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Same, my girlfriends used to call it glisten™️. They would say that I was glistening at the boys/people I talked to and that's what "made them fall in love with me" and then be creeps or just awkward. I am always just trying to be nice, thoughtful, and interested! Like it was how my grandma talked to people! Idk what to say. My friends eventually taught me the resting bitch face, it helped a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Wives are finding out that their ENTIRE stimulus checks were snatched to pay for their husbands' back child support, even if they are now divorced.Oh my god! That reminds me of the "The Power of Women's Anger" Ted talk by Soraya Chemaly. It's like people get mad at you for expressing your anger at a system, but they take it personally. Like no! I'm not angry at you personally, I'm angry at the injustice of the system, but now I am actually angry at you for stifling my very real anger which I am right to express. It's awful that you had to deal with that garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 14 | Starfish Sex = She Doesn’t Want to Fuck You. If this is a habitual occurrence, you’re definitely a creep and probably a rapist.I feel you with this. For me this is just one type of sex inside of an enthusiastic sex life with a partner. Sometimes it's fun to hold the reins, sometimes it's just to just let the guy ravish you. Though, I do think normally the situation where man is complaining that a woman is terrible at sex, it's evident of the man actually being terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Does it annoy anyone else that people confuse and conflate standards and preferences endlessly?Same! My rule is that if I can't practice what I preach, I don't preach it! My standards are directly related to who I am and my goals. I keep my space tidy so I want someone who does the same, I keep up with personal hygiene so I want someone who also does of their own volition, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 12 | I don't want a man in my house. Quarantine version.Lol the spoons! I can't. I just can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 7 | “Actually leg hair on a woman is disgusting and shows that they aren’t making any effort”Lol I was literally looking for his foot for like 3 minutes before I was like, girl you use Photoshop every day why did it take you that long. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Just wanted to share some porn statistics. Majority of males watch porn, and girls never feel enough sexually for the boys. Also 88% of porn has violence. Relationships are fucked up...I grew up going to Catholic school all of my life and I never learned anything about my body sans the one day we had to watch the birth video. The summer after I got my first period I was on a special beach trip with a friend, I had to try tampons for the first time and I used them wrong for days. It was awful and I was in horrible pain the entire time. I can't believe I was never taught anything about my body by that point. After a couple days I just had to opt out of swimming cause I was to em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:47 AM |
| 9 | HVM Education for LVMs. Read #4I feel like I'm going to read this article every single day to motivate me to keep working on my quarantine projects! This just made more sure that staying single to work on myself is the best option for me. Hell yeah, thanks so much for linking this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 84 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSHi friend! I also found this sub by a LV lurker who was linking and bashing the sub. That could have been the best thing he ever did for a lady lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:11 PM |
| 22 | Do men really like smart and intelligent women?Yep, perfect translation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Found this on wholesomememes and I think it fits here tooHell yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:15 AM |
| 23 | Found this on wholesomememes and I think it fits here tooWhy are people still down voting this? I seriously don't understand these lurkers. People are weird and don't like self exploration and self love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who do not self-identify as a HVW, what are some things you are doing for self-improvement?I am working on my self worth and identity! Mostly that means holding myself accountable with my friends and family, my goals (keeping up with career and side skills) and standards, and making sure I'm enriching my life through hobbies and art that I'm passionate about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child RapeReading through that thread I just about screamed. I can not believe the OP literally said he doesn't believe we live in a patriarchal society. Smh. They don't want to take any responsibility for what they benefit from and what their fathers made on the backs of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 29 | I don’t see any liesI feel like with this in mind we have to keep focusing on the next generation. Getting girls out of abusive relationships, helping mothers teach their daughters to not take any shit. We have to be the example for these girls growing up. I have a couple of amazing nieces and I fully intend to be the cool, put together, single aunt that they can talk to about dating, following your dreams, and being selfish and gracious at the same time. I'm learning to be single and to heal from past relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Please please please keep posting and telling us about your experiences. I'm newish to the entertainment industry, moved to LA two years ago, and I've had very mixed experiences. I'd love to hear more truths from more experienced women in the field. Again thank you for speaking up and I'm grateful to know there are strong badass women out here working their asses off and being amazing at what they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:32 AM |
| 4 | First time being actually singleAhhhh! Congratulations on the levels! Thank you for sharing. You have reminded me to keep at it. I'm about to be 4 months single and I need to remember to keep strong and focus on myself. This is the first time since junior high that I was completely single also, no boy/girlfriends, no flings, no it's complicated garbage and I'm finally figuring out who I am and learning to love myself. Keep at it and thank you for encouraging others! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Liberal Feminists really convinced an entire generation of women that BDSM and Sex work are “feminist & empowering” but demanding men pay for dates and carry more financial load is “setting us back”. 🤡This was hard to read but I feel like more people need to be aware just how many of these cases there are. I was astonished when it just kept scrolling and scrolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 7 | What are your dating dealbreakers?One guy I was talking to used to send me those voice memos that would disappear after like 10 mins. I always hated it! It made our conversations feel super one sided and if he said something a bit off color I wouldn't have any record of it. If we're texting, we're texting. If we're talking on the phone, we're talking on the phone. I hate this in between shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 07:08 PM |
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