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Who would have guessed! The class with the most privilege and power is better able to raise a child without the trauma and marginalization that comes with -being a woman -being an unmarried woman -being an unmarried woman with a child. Single dads are told they are amazing no matter what they do, even if it’s the bare minimum. “Awwww you brushed your daughters hair how sweet 😍😍😍” Single mothers have their every move questioned to infinity. Women are always blamed. Doesn’t matter what the situati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:26 PM
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“It’s women’s fault men objectify them” Women wears full body lose scrubs “Lol my son is so funny looking at her ass”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:59 PM
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People need to call this what it is: coercive rape. Actually let’s just drop the qualifier, it’s rape. 99% of men do this and would never call themselves rapists, but that’s what they are. Look up Germaine Greer’s opinions on “marital rape” for a female-centric viewpoint that we’ve been gaslit into ignoring. COERCIVE RAPE IS RAPE. This story is both horrifying and common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:57 PM
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Honestly, it sounds like this dude hates women. Do you think he’d be okay with a male helping him out? It sounds like women helping him makes him feel like less of a man. What a red flag. Throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:53 PM
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Men are already redefining “women” so, why not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:49 PM
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Further example of handmaidens being just as dangerous as men. See how her sister was firm in her beliefs until her sister started gaslighting her too. You expect women to share your same reality, when they don’t, it’s fucking devestatinf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:10 PM
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Oh lord. I wasn't conservative, but I believed strongly in being egalitartian. Feminism to me simply meant a tool to use to help MEN because they were obviously the victims of patriarchy. I subscribed to a lot of subreddits for men. I spent time explaining to my boyfriend why his anger and attitudes were actually because he was a poor victim of the patriarchy. I encouraged him to get therapy. I exposed him to as many views as I could about toxic masculinity. When none of that worked, I went to r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:03 AM
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Yep, the age of cultural relativism is fucking over. Women, in all cultures, are oppressed. Some more than others, especially the cultures that white woke men love to excuse as “it’s just a different culture!” No bro, it isn’t a different culture, throughout history, throughout time, throughout culture men have oppressed women. Just because in some cultures the state actually EXCUSES and even SANCTIONS the abuse of women, does not mean this sexism and misogyny is anything different from the kind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:50 PM
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Wait, did you see the comment where the guy said “my roommate is successful at only fans and told me not to worry about rent. Then she took the offer back when I asked if I could get a free subscription. Teehee I’m so Pervy!!” Just go to the comments section to understand what men think of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:19 PM
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They’ve always been this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:23 PM
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You know what's funny? Women that are autistic are not diagnosed to a horrific degree because they are socialized to not show any signs of autistm. So women are out there masking so well and at so much harm to themselves that no one even picks up they are autistic. Meanwhile men are socialized to do the opposite, be given slack constantly and never think about others. So for them, it is a convenient excuse whereas for women it's a silent misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:22 PM
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Oh the reason he thought I was selfish is because he was the biggest predator I have ever met and knew how to play the game. He sniffed out my post history on mental health subreddits, said he wanted to be that person for me, actively tried to get me to move up and marry him while I was having an episode (I’m bipolar), and then when I would come to him with symptoms/fear/etc which he had groomed me to do (expose all my vulnerabilities) he would tell me I talked too much about myself. I am so fuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:22 PM
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For the positive: the woman in that picture looks regal and strong as fuck and fills me with amazing vibes. I’m glad these men can’t objectify her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:44 PM
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Lmao. A little over a year and a half ago I met a man on Reddit (was still a major pick me omg) who wanted to “tame me” and marry and impregnate me. He said pregnancy would likely cure my mental illness by making me less selfish. Fuck yes men get women pregnant on purpose. That’s without touching on it being a fucking FETISH for some men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:26 AM
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Empathy isn’t amazing stuff, it’s the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:40 AM
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I think that I would not admit to a man that I know what FDS is. Even him bringing it up makes me suspicious. If me not knowing makes him relieved that he can treat me like shit the way he normally would, I’d rather know that sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:37 AM
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Mental illness does not equal low value men. Low value men are men who use mental illness to abuse women. Low value men are men who abuse women regardless. But mental illness has zero to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:26 AM
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Sadly women will still side with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:19 AM
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LMAO imagine being proud of not being abusive. What women has gone around and said "men, reward me for I will not physically harm you!" yet men do this all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:00 PM
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demi sexual just means a healthy relationship. I don't know why they've created entire identities and names for basic human things. Like, most of history demisexual meant normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:08 PM
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Okay so you were judgemental in your statement. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:37 AM
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Also mental illness is one of the most stigmatized things one can live with, so it is not really simplistic that when someone says “fucked in the head” others think that is ridicule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:46 PM
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Totally fucked up head or breakdowns from years of exploitation or abuse? Even if she has a mental illness, do you not think she can live a good life of independence? A persons mental breakdown isn’t their entire identity. I hope no one judges your entire personhood based off of an image of you at your very worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:14 PM
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I mean most Adam Sandler movies, and forest gump, have men that are likely mentally disabled end up with the hottest women possible. And the narrative is always that these unattractive, mentally disabled men are the only ones that are not abusive assholes compared to their peers. It’s ALMOST self aware that they think that the only way for a man to not be abusive is to be handicapped, except that even handicapped men are abusive lmao. I mean think about autism, women with autism are still social…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:37 PM
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Oh have you not heard? Being a woman has nothing to do with biology anymore. It's all about sexist stereotypes like sparkly dresses and red lipstick and heels. Most women aren't REALLY women, you see. In fact, there are plenty of men who are more women than a biological female because they actually TRY unlike us natural born females with gross vaginas. (sarcasm, but this is hardly hyperbole with the rhetoric going on right now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:17 PM
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Y’all. Is this a thing? I’m sorry to get really down here, but my first boyfriend was sexually abusive and coercive. This was in the mid 2000s before me too or anything of the nature. I had legit dissociation and such after sex and had no idea why. My boyfriends logic was to get me food every time. Talking to me like a child “do you want pizza? Yeah? Pizza?? Let’s go get you some pizza!!” Because I was unable to speak due to dissociation. This was a 5 year relationship so it became ingrained in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:39 PM
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I 100% thought abuse was romantic 🤦🏻‍♀️ My first boyfriend was outright abusive but also didn’t give a shit about me. When my next boyfriend came into my life and was jealous and controlling, I thought it meant he loved and cared about me. Wuthering Heights being my favorite book probably didn’t help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:12 PM
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Male feminist was in a literature class with me, always talked about his girlfriend that he loved. Always talked about feminism. I remember him read my writing once and said “awww it’s cute how hard you try.” Lmao. I got an A+ in the course and he got a C and hated our professor with a passion. He invited me to his house for a house party which was with him and his roommate. I remember they burped and I was like “I can do you one better” and let out a huge belch and he was like “sweetie, no.” We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:58 PM
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Radical feminism and FDS saves my life too. Women are truly collectively gaslit and it is fucking crazy when you realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:41 PM
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Yep, she has a very sad story for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:44 PM
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Yeah, as I was typing my comment I was thinking "wait I don't think my skin was this good even at 16" It's unattainable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:57 AM
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my mom was unfortunately one of these women (don't ask how I know). She was even taken to a "sex positive therapist"--this was like 20 years ago--a woman too, who told her that it's a way for her to feel empowerment. 20 years later and it's the same fucking argument!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:45 AM
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Supporting other women the way women should be supported. Beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:43 AM
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It's 2020 and men are still trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:42 AM
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Some women are forced to become femdoms by their partners too, and traumatized because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:21 PM
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I love seeing older women represented, but I genuinely hope the next trend for women and FDS women especially will to unashamedly show your face without these crazy filters. Just like men have unrealistic expectation because of porn, they also have unrealistic expectations due to filters and photoshop. Tbh, I don’t care about men as much as impressionable women who look at this while in their late 20s confused how this woman has the skinny of a 16 year old and feeling like they’ve done something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:15 PM
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Given the make-up of this site, I doubt it was pick-mes. Probably just men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:36 PM
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Men always find the most vulnerable women to prey upon. I'm sorry this happened and it is not your fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:35 PM
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Alright dude, what in the absolute fuck does this have to do with women? Upset about it? Create your own movement to clean up your own house. Repeat after me: Women are not responsible for men's violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:34 PM
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You can find someone who is both sexually and emotionally compatible for you. It's not too much to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:32 PM
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LMAO you are so right. My brother was talking about sleeping with a 20 year old woman and I was like Oh my god that is FUCKING GROSS! He kept going on about it got upset and I was like "awww did I hurt your poor little male feelings?" He was so upset he was silent for like 30 mintues and left, and I got a talking to from my parents to stop it (i'm 29 years old). The fucking audacity. All of men's bullshit is projection of their own insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:39 AM
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Ugh I know her look being a former pick-me. I'm really hurt and offended but don't want to be emotional so let me laugh and act fake-shocked. Poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:30 AM
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My mother tried to leave the relationship with my father. Unfortunately, her mental health deteriorated so badly (she has severe mental health issues) that she ended up coming back to him to get help. I've tried to talk to her about feminism and she says things like "Those kind of thoughts ruined my life" "there's nothing I can do" "Bringing things up will only hurt" She says these things because I call out my dad and brother for talking about womens breasts in front of me and my mom, and my alm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:21 AM
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“Not all men have to rape for all women to be afraid of rapists”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:20 AM
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SHIT I meant TrollX... NOT Troll GC lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:42 PM
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My ex HATED that I had cats. It wasn't even the cats, it was the attention that I gave the cats. He couldn't understand how I could show so much love and affection to these sweet babies but was cold and distant around him when he got drunk and screamed at me every night. If he saw me cuddling my cats or talking to them, his whole body would tense up and he'd walk out the room--which he considered very mature for not "blowing up on me." What a fucking JOKE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:52 PM
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I once described what radical feminism was, with links to Wikipedia pages to make sure I wasn’t misconstruing anything (as they said there is no such thing other than 4th wave feminism). I used WIKIPEDIA QUOTES to describe radical feminism. Shadow banned. Messages the mods and no explanation. So we aren’t even allowed to discuss different types of feminism on a feminist sub? I never claimed or made any arguments about being a radical feminist. I literally just defined what it meant when someone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:38 PM
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Yeah I’m literally pointing that out, that was the point of that comment. What are you trying to say?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 02:23 PM
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LOL you acted like it was a movement so I genuinely wanted to know, maybe you meant gender critical? “feminism is a religious extremist group” I mean, its toxic af, but dear god 😂😂😂 I’m not trying to make myself a victim, it’s very clear here. The PMs show this place is ACTUALLY misogynistic. I mean, that’s pretty clear from the thinly veiled attempts to discredit all of women’s history but... pretty clear. I’ll stop cosplaying if you stop your patronizing and toxic bullshit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 02:07 PM
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People conflate personal trauma for sexism. I saw this very clearly on gendercritical, where those women are so terrified of men that they can’t even accept trans women. I am able to understand women’s side more because to me it comes from actual fear of men. I have been in several abusive relationships and it is very easy for me to get sucked into the trauma narrative. It feels good and makes me have power. I’d love to hear your thoughts on how men do the same thing. I’m not a male so I can’t s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 02:02 PM
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Not sure what an anti feminist is? I know that I am not welcomed here as a woman and regret ever coming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:55 PM
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I agree with these arguments, I don’t agree with people who claim oppression for women did not exist throughout history.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:45 PM
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No, I’m sick of arguing. I don’t believe men are all perpetrators of violence and I do believe that women can commit violence. My sister in law constantly physically attacked my brother and then cried “mental health” so that she was let out in 72 hours. Lol you don’t get that if it weren’t for the fact that you feel the need for history to be rewritten, I would be on your side. It’s very obvious people here are bitter towards women. The best thing for these movements would be for everyone to dea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:40 PM
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Alright. Let’s talk about those issues instead, and not say that history is some giant conspiracy theory made up by feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:36 PM
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Yes, and the opposite is true, if I say most attempts are by women it is often brought up that more men commit suicide.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:33 PM
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Why do you care? I’m a woman and have been privileged and cannot accurately perceive reality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 01:31 PM
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Lol I am not mischaracterizing and I am not really worried about them. Like, oh well... another toxic sub I spent my time in that I initially had hope for. There are some reasonable and cool people here, but they are the minority. These subs just put whoever the opposite is on the defense and make them retreat to their safe space. So women stay with women and men stay with men and democrats stay with democrats etc etc. From what I gather, both genders are completely fucked in the head. Humanity …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 09:23 AM
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I appreciate the thoughtful response. I am mostly familiar with medieval history, which was not exactly kind to women, although there are women from that period that I adore and made their own way (Margery Kempe is an extraordinary woman for that time), but can appreciate I don’t know everything. However, basic research seemed to refute what most of these people were claiming. (Yes women worked, for half the price men did). I don’t think these issues give any baring to issues now, but I do think…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 09:15 AM
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I have replied, and gotten no where. Omer live in different realities, where I believe women were oppressed and they believe women were privileged and/or the oppressors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 09:02 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️think what you want. My first comment here was saying that I am sick of feminist rhetoric and think men’s rights are disgustingly overlooked. But I’m not willing to accept a rewritten history to be on men’s side when they clearly are more concerned with discrediting women than working on their own shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 08:27 AM
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Threads in which men claim women had just as many rights or more than men since eternity. I asked someone to pin down when and they gave me a 900 year time span.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 08:25 AM
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If it is just from a western point of view, why am I having to explain the last 2000 years of history in all parts of the world?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 08:16 AM
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Huh?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 08:08 AM
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I gave you exactly what you asked for but instead of recognizing you were wrong you’ll say goodbye. Fine with me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 08:04 AM
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I did not claim to be on the side of feminists. I said men deny that this is happening, which you just did until I offered absolute proof, and now you are blaming it on women for not doing anything. Lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:57 AM
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No, did I say that? Is asking that history be acknowledged suggesting to you that I want you to throw your gender under the bus? If that’s how you think, I understand why the comments are the way they are. But perhaps rethink.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:50 AM
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I am only concerned with your second point. I’ve had someone equate men as slaves and women as masters in two different comments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:44 AM
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“According to traditions and cultural norms, women and girls who became victims of sexual assaults are considered the cause of shame and disgracefulness in the family and in the tribe. Their presence in the community can cause further continuation of shame and scandal. Therefore, the killing of the woman is considered as restoration of respect and removing of shamefulness and humiliation from the family and tribe.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:42 AM
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[in one year] 406 cases of honor killing and rape throughout the country have been registered with the Commission‟s offices. Out of which 243 cases are identified as cases of honor killing and 163 other cases are considered rape cases. Out of these 127 cases are documented in the National Inquiry Program, which is the basis of statistical data for this report. Out of these, 66% are rape cases and 34 % are cases of honor killing. It is clear that these figures do not cover all the cases of rape a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:40 AM
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I do not disagree that men should have more time off, but I do not think it is a privilege for women to have months off when her hips have been dislocated and her cervix torn apart after 9 months of hell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:37 AM
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“Vague assertions” “Women are stoned to death for being raped”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:31 AM
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Also, while I agree men should get more time off, women just carried a child for 9 months and likely had to get stitches and pees herself for a month. It makes sense that they would get more legal protection because they absolutely need it for health reasons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:26 AM
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I would not say women are more privileged in the West, but that is not a conversation for this subreddit. The conversation is the hundreds of arguments and comments that historically women did not suffer any oppression and still don’t. Let’s just look to our friends in the East.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:25 AM
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No, it’s just that I am unwilling to entertain the idea that women have had the same or more privilege than men for all of history. I didn’t come to this subreddit to defend decades of women’s oppression. Why not focus on men’s issues instead of how privileged women supposedly are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/20 07:23 AM
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Women may commit and fail as a way to communicate their pain and need for help when it is too unbearable to do so otherwise. Men are taught communication, especially about pain, is weak. So I assume they do it with the attempt to truly kill themself. However, let’s please not make it a competition. Mental illness is terrible for everyone involved.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/20 11:34 PM
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Yes, everyone has different privileges. I as a white female in the US have more rights than a third world country male. It’s better to log within the same social stratas. Just because elite women have more rights than poor men, does not mean that women as a whole have it better. (Most) poor women had less rights than (most) poor men and (most) elite women had less rights than (most) elite men. Btw, women didn’t ask for the privilege to stay home. They had no other choice. (Usually).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/20 10:55 PM
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Men can be dying in mines and trenches AND women can still have less rights and privileges.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/20 10:28 PM
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Alright. Well at least pay the woman so she gets something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:22 AM
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Sex doll it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:53 AM
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Point still stands. If men are so much better than women, fuck them instead. Otherwise, feel free to watch all the incest porn you want and buy yourself a nice sex doll that looks just like your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:54 AM
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Lol the fact that you care at all says enough. If you are so afraid of women, do us all a favor and buy a sex doll. I promise, she won’t hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:49 AM
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But do you have to wear a suit? Why are you so conceited that you care so much about what people think about you that you wear a suit? And why do men have beards that hide the lack of jaws they have? Women are deluded into thinking your hot only for you to shave your beard and realize you don’t have a neck. Why not show who you really are instead of lying to everyone! Get some therapy, you narcissistic liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:24 AM
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I hope you don’t wear a suit and tie for important business meetings. According to you, that requires therapy. Why do you wear a suit? To convince people that you are more successful than you are? Why can’t you accept who you REALLY are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:18 AM
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How can you say that women had no problems working yet men were solely responsible for providing for them? That doesn’t make sense. It’s clear women didn’t have rights when we couldn’t even vote 100 years ago. Sorry. No.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 11:55 PM
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Yes I agree. I can admit that women have systematically been repressed in the past, but also admit that there are bad women, and ALSO admit there are good men. I don’t know what’s so hard about that. Humans are humans. If women happened to have the biological advantage, we would have repressed men. Now that we have any sort of advantage, we are trying to repress men. Meanwhile, some men are still misogynists. Women are awful to other women. Men are awful to other men. Human beings are not the mo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 09:54 PM
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Well—I think you are right. I think most men who have been in long term relationships appreciate makeup and how it can accentuate a woman’s beauty, and are usually quite proud of being seen with a well put together woman. But these men have never known a women well enough to see that, and are disgusted when she takes off her makeup. They feel it’s a slight to them and that they have been deceived. They take it as another “tool” women have to gain power over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:41 PM
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Because I haven’t figured out yet if it is capitalism. I need to research more before I can make these conclusions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 09:38 PM
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Well I disagree there. I think women certainly were at a disadvantage for most of human history in most societies. We still are in some ways, but some of the ways we’ve tried to combat it is by making men “pay.” I don’t believe in an eye for an eye. I understand where men get the short end of the stick. My father lost custody to me to my alcoholic and schizophrenic mother, just because she was the mother. That decision has left me with trauma I’ll never get over. Generalizing is good for theorie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 09:37 PM
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I always thought patriarchy theory meant that men and women are victims of a system, not that men were oppressors. I mean, academically, isn’t that the case? And then feminists run with it and use it as an excuse to hate men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 08:42 PM
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No, it’s just like men thinking women’s vaginas are supposed to be hairless and cute and pink after watching too much porn. Women wore makeup because men liked it, now men think beauty is considered a woman with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:29 PM
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Men: I want a woman that is confident and secure with herself Also men: I want a woman who is feminine and understands traditional gender roles Also men: fucking gross feminist. Put on some makeup, wear a bra, and shave your fucking legs! Also men: women are so insecure! Hiding behind makeup and a bra! Why can’t you be confident in yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:40 PM
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I just got into feminism (being a woman myself). I was banned from several feminist subs. One for saying that men are too afraid to talk about rape (after the commenter said that they had never heard of a man discuss rape, meanwhile I know two men who were abused as little boys. By women.) I was downvoted for questioning someone saying that a child should never be left alone with a man, even their father, because we don’t know which men are violent. Downvoted again for saying their logic had lef…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 04:54 PM
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I agree 100%. I think it is a toxic place and avoid it. I also think, regardless of trauma, it’s an individuals responsibility to get therapy and be a good human being. I think the reasoning behind that toxicity is quite different though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:06 PM
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So the privilege that men enforced that women fought against is still women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:34 PM
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Vast majority of those are because of patriarchy. For instance, men get mad women can’t get drafted—yet women had to beg to be let into the military at all. Female parasitism? Lol. Just no bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:58 PM
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I agree both are extremely toxic. However, FDS comes from a place where women have been in abusive relationships and are now setting boundaries. Incels have had little if any interaction with women and are like children crying because they want something they can’t have. I think both places suck, but FDS comes from a reality of women being repeatedly traumatized by abusive men. In fact, theyve simply decided to have higher standards which incels and TRP claim women never do. I suppose most here …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:50 PM
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What legal privileges? In a sense, men and women will never be independent of one another. However, women no longer have to rely on a man or on her nuclear family to house, feed, and care for herself. That is the independence I am talking about. Most of the labor needed by men’s brute strength is being automated anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:38 PM
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Lol! I’m new here so I’m finding it fascinating. I think it’ll depress me soon and I’ll be on my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:34 PM
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Are we talking about men as a whole or poor men? Men, in positions of power, created civilization and its rules with limited exceptions. I agree it’s sad that they used slavery to do so. But that is an argument for economics, not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:32 PM
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I would agree that women or men who have not been to therapy are more likely to be retraumatized because they have characteristics that abusers seek out. However, women and men who have been to therapy understand red flags and warning signs, and have been able to process exactly what those have looked like in the past with clear examples, so can tell almost immediately. Things like love bombing, gas lighting, emotional withdrawal, clear anger issues—those are all pretty easy to pick out. Abusers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:27 PM
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It depends on what is meant by female privilege. I assume what many people assume is privilege is actual equality. In terms of sheer strength, yes women are below men. I don’t think that can be argued against. Most men would be able to subdue/attack most women and win, and historically that has been used to men’s advantage. This may be why there is more focus on protection for women from men, which could be what your referring to as female privilege? Unless you are talking about the “privilege” …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:14 PM
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There are not enough arguments and theories you can make to make yourself feel better for not having sex. Biological differences were never discussed. Biological differences does not make one sex better than the other. Women were never given the chance to create their own civilization so...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:35 PM
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Thanks for the response, I think you do make some good points. The problem with sex when it comes to women is that we are reduced to our ability to provide it. There are so many women who have been abused. First we are told our worth is based purely on how sexually attractive we are to men. Then, when we have sex, we are told that we are worth less. At one point, sex is not that fun. It comes with a ton of emotional baggage. I think you are not giving men enough credit if you are saying that wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:07 PM
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Let's look at men's version which exists in the middle east and existed everywhere before women's liberation--that looks like LITERAL SLAVERY and rape. what do you mean the problem of sex? The problem of sex for who? Maybe stop basing your entire life around WOMEN and there wouldn't be a problem of sex. Are you saying that men need sex so desperately that women should be enslaved so that they can get it. Are you saying men's consent in manufactured because their hormones don't allow them to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:23 PM
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There absolutely are some feminist groups who use feminism as a narrative for their trauma, just like incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:58 PM
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Thanks for the info. Women are less likely than who?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:13 PM
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I guess it would depend on WHAT feelings men are voicing. Feminists also police female voices I’d those voices do not propose equality. Do you guys think feminism = radical feminism? Because that’s like saying men’s rights = the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:57 AM
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There WAS a society where women feared children and men hunted and provided, Those social structures have sustained until even now but they are vastly outdated. Just because something made sense at one point in human history does not mean it makes sense now. Humans enslaving each other was also apart of history but we have collectively agreed that is morally wrong and don’t do it. In the same way, I’d hope we can collectively agree a woman completely relying on a man for shelter and food is wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:35 AM
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Can you please link to said interview? We’re the Rockefeller’s actually interviewed or is some conspiracy theorist doing what he does best?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:29 AM
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Feminism absolutely invites men to have a voice in the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:27 AM
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Most women live in a reality where men have fucked with them far beyond internet trolls. Seeing this is just icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:25 AM
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I think everyone experiences levels of trauma. Some worse than others. I dont think abuse can be excused by trauma btw, just excuses. Yes, the man who serially raped me definitely came from a fucked up family that traumatized him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:50 AM
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Lol “madam”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:41 AM
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Alright. Well I wish you the best in however you find peace. I just hope we can all do so without bitterness and hatred towards the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:48 PM
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Do you believe this is what feminism is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:58 PM
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What exactly do you mean by hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:46 PM
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What do you define as the feminine imperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:37 PM
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I have been in 5 abusive relationships. Yes FIVE. If I look back, each of them had very obvious red flags early on, but I stayed in them. I didn’t even call these relationships abusive until recently, because I didn’t know they were abusive (besides the obvious one that involved sexual assault and physical abuse). I am not saying it was my fault or any woman’s fault for these fucked up men coming into their lives. I’m saying that I wish I had been taught what abuse meant, I wish I had been taugh…
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