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27

This should be common sense, but I know it's not. I guess it's because the human brain takes so long to fully develop (until 25) so young women aren't yet equipped with the rational abilities to see red flags. This is why it's so important to look out for our young sisters and to spread FDS to as many women as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:38 AM
17

She sounds like a great teacher! The teachers I had as a kid sucked and didn't care whether kids were engaged or not. Teachers like this woman are rare and should be cherished! They are a treasure to kids in our failing public school systems! This guy is definitely the asshole. He sounds like an immature, superficial brat. She should definitely dump him and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:28 AM
61

Whoaa that's fucked up, but not surprising. What is surprising, however, is that this store allows men in the women's changing room. Is it a "woke" store trying to be inclusive with an "all gender" changing room?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:56 AM
2

Most of my friends are also unfortunately male but they are either gay, already married/partnered, too young for me, or too old for me so they know they have no chance. But aside from the gay ones, most of my male "friends" are more like acquaintances than true friends. They're not people I'm super close with. They're not people I can confide in about personal issues. They're not people I see often. I'm guessing your male friends from work are this way too? True friendships with men i.e. people …
/r/askFDS11/11/20 02:50 AM
2

Is this really real????? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:58 AM
2

Saaaame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:39 AM
115

That's fucked up they allow those other posts. I shouldn't be surprised though because there is rampant misogyny and racism on there. I don't even bother frequenting that sub anymore because the amount of LVMs there is infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:12 AM
70

I think I'd rather rub my clit on a cheese grater than give head to an LVM under the table while he's playing video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:53 AM
42

Park date....in 20 degree weather.....................🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:49 AM
6

Yeah, love from his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:05 AM
15

I've only been in one relationship and our sex life was shitty from the beginning so I don't have much experience on this topic, but what you're saying totally makes sense. Women have much more of an emotional connection to sex than men. It stands to reason that we'd lose interest in sex if our emotional needs weren't being fulfilled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:29 AM
18

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:15 AM
56

What does he even mean by "back themselves enough"? Your average woman is not nearly as strong as the average man. There's no way a woman can stop a rapist once he has her in his grasp. She can try to fight back by hitting, scratching, etc but that may make him upset and more violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:29 AM
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I know that men rape women in burqas (it happens all the time in muslim countries). Men who are depraved enough to rape will rape no matter what. I was more wondering if dressing a certain way is more likely to attract the wrong kind of attention from normal men, not psycho rapists. Like let's say, for example, that it's a hot summer day and a woman is wearing a very revealing outfit. Would it be safe to assume that all men who show interest in her have the regions in their brains associated wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:19 AM
6

Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:17 PM
11

Thanks for the response. You are right, I think men do have the ability to rewire their brains. But very few men out there are on a journey of self improvement (hence all the LVMs), so I was wondering if dressing modestly might help weed out a large chunk of LVMs whose brains do react like the men in that study?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:00 PM
9

Artsy hipster types can be HVM. There's nothing inherently wrong with being creative and artistic. The same rule applies to these men as any other men: VET RELENTLESSLY! Take your time getting to know a man. Don't get emotionally attached early on. Ask as many questions as possible. Closely pay attention to their behavior in all kinds of scenarios. Always keep your eyes open for red flags. Don't have sex with a man for at least 3 months. And even after 3 months have passed, don't just have sex w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:47 PM
7

At least he's honest 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:29 PM
28

So should women dress modestly if we want men to see us as humans and if we want to attract the right kind of attention? I think women should be able to dress however we want and that it's men's responsibility to behave themselves and treat us with respect, but, what if men don't have that ability? What's the best solution from an FDS perspective?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:24 PM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:57 PM
10

THANK YOU!!! I had a bunch of scrotes and pickmes get mad at me on a r/TwoXChromosomes thread last night saying I shouldn't make generalizations about men, and one of them even called me a "misandrist". I kept having to explain "just because I talk about issues that plague men as a whole doesn't mean I'm saying ALL men have those issues". ahhhhhhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:57 PM
39

Maybe he should take a look at the crime statistics. About 500,000 women are raped every year in the US (and this number doesn't even include all the rapes that are never reported). Also 2.5 women are killed every single day, on average, in the United States. I'd say we have a legitimate reason to fear men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:34 AM
29

I think every woman on the internet has experienced what Kaelyn is talking about 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:31 AM
23

Men really think they're so clever. Unfortunately for them women are waking up. Their "hangout" and "netflix and chill" dates won't be around for much longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:28 AM
34

I hope she's joking! If not, that's pathetic as hell. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 He could've at least gone to walmart and bought a $10 dollar ring. At least it would be a tiny step above this nonsense and his fiance wouldn't have to embarrass herself wearing that stupid string.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:12 AM
28

That's very true. Sisterhood is so so important. I wish it were easier to make friends, especially radfem friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:55 AM
56

Me too! 🥺 It's so hard to make friends as an adult though, especially genuine friends who share common values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:51 AM
26

I agree. But I think the age of consent should be raised to prevent old men from being able to prey on 18-20 year olds. Obviously people under 21 are still going to be able to date, but they'll only be able to date people their own age (or within 1-2 years if you implement "Romeo and Juliet" laws). For anyone who doesn't know what the Romeo and Juliet law is: "The Romeo and Juliet law allows consensual sex between two minors who are less than two years apart in age. It applies when these minors …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:02 AM
27

Great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:54 AM
14

If I were her I'd have an abortion and leave him. If he thinks he can just take a vacation to escape supporting her during her pregnancy, she can do the same thing. She can take a permanent vacation away from the pregnancy (i.e. abortion) and him (i.e. divorce).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:19 AM
17

Do you by any chance live in an area with lots of conservatives? If so the people making the rules are probably Trumptards and think Corona virus is a hoax which is why they're lax with the mask enforcing. 😂 Can't expect much logic from conservatives though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:02 AM
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It's already been said but I just want to emphasize it: STAY AWAY FROM OLD MEN! THEY ARE PREDATORY! Up until age 25, do not date anyone more then 2 years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:20 AM
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This includes keeping creepy old men away from teenage girls, including legal teens. The age of consent should be raised to 21!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:18 AM
42

hahahaha Brilliant. She described LVMs accurately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:02 AM
18

It makes me laugh too. They say it as if its a bad thing. Most women would rather have pets as companions instead of low value men. Men need to understand that we don't want a man just for the sake of having a man. We want a high value man. And if we can't have a high value man, we'd rather be alone. This is SO difficult for men to understand because they don't feel the same way. They are DESPERATE for sex. They are DESPERATE for companionship. So they project their desperation and fear of endin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:57 AM
12

Time to put men like this down like the rabid animals they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:22 PM
33

Real feminism is unapologetically about women, not men. We can't fix men and it shouldn't be our responsibility to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:09 PM
22

Yes! It really is a power grab. I'm sure all the manosphere losers are secretly crying that their strategy is not working, and is actually turning us away from them. But they'll still keep trying, because in their eyes it's easier to do that then to actually work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:44 PM
25

Uhhhhh I think I'll stay single for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:41 PM
21

I don't know if it's because you are mixed race, but it could be. Beware of white men. Many of them fetishize women of other races and will use them for sex, but won't commit to them because they still have this primitive idea that their children need to look like them and thus be the same race as them. It comes from their caveman desire to pass on their genes and replicate themselves. These men will use nonwhite women as placeholders until they can find white women who want them. Not all white …
/r/askFDS08/11/20 09:24 PM
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Soooo true! Modern men are mad because they can't have us. The men in their grandfather's generation were basically guaranteed wives. It didn't matter how ugly, abusive, or boring they were, it was easy for them to get wives. And their wives would usually be loyal to them since they had no means to support themselves in case of a divorce. Nowadays men have no guarantee of ever getting married and having children. Many modern men will never pass on their genes. We can support ourselves now and ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:57 PM
9

YES YES YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:32 AM
12

Kamala is a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:07 AM
65

And men say women aren't funny. Uhh quite the opposite. Most of men's jokes revolve around their dicks, or being offensive just for the sake of being offensive. Low effort trash humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:07 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you, and I'm sorry about your shitty friends not taking it seriously. 😔 But I'm glad you blocked him and glad that you found FDS!! I'll keep my fingers crossed that he gets run over by a truck. 🤞🏻 And I hope you are able to recover from what happened and find inner peace soon. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:42 AM
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Being ignored? Emotionally neglected? Getting used like a sextoy while getting no pleasure in return? Abused? Cheated on? "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe WiTh HiM. He'S nOt A mInD rEaDeR."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:15 AM
23

I love Lana Del Rey's music, but I had to stop listening because the lyrics are so toxic. She's great at coming up with extremely beautiful and catchy melodies but ugh, I wish she'd work on her lyrical abilities and stop glamorizing domestic abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:11 AM
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I know, right? Sooooo scary and gross. Agreeing to be abused because you're mentally ill is NOT consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:07 AM
149

Completely degenerate. If a man gives a woman bruises he should be in prison, even if it was "consensual". Taking advantage of a mentally ill masochist should not be legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:55 AM
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Like many others already pointed out, the OP was not talking about shit testing. However, shit testing isn't inherently wrong. Men and women are different. You can't compare men's dating strategies to women's dating strategies. Women have a LOT more to lose than men. Our lives are literally at stake. It's not manipulative or evil to shit test a man during the vetting stages. It simply speeds up the vetting process and could save us a lot of headaches and emotional pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:39 AM
10

Whoa if only I had known about this when I was with my ex. We went on lots of road trips together and he would always complain about every little thing and get mad at me for no reason. We argued many times on our trips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:30 AM
21

It's always about control with men. They think they own us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:22 AM
39

EW my ex literally made me do some "spiritual" ritual with him where we wrote down both of our expectations and then crumbled them up and burned them in a fire 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:19 AM
14

100% true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:16 AM
5

How could a woman so beautiful say something so stupid? She could have any man she wants. No need to be a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:47 AM
42

Of course he did. 🙄 Typical old scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:33 AM
10

That's so wonderful. I've met older women like that too who have a new lease on life after leaving their husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:27 AM
106

Martha is a queen. I'm glad to see the divorce rate has gone up in recent years for older people. Older women are wising up and kicking their LVM husbands to the curb even after being married 30 or 40 years. It's better to spend your golden years on your own terms and keep your mental sanity while you're at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:26 AM
2

Thanks for the reminder. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:54 AM
65

*trigger warning* He ex almost killed me by face fucking me. I way laying down in bed with my head propped up on the pillows and he sat down on my chest and put his dick in my mouth and started fucking the shit out of my face. Keep in mind that he was sitting down with all his weight on my chest that my lungs couldn't even inflate to breathe, and I felt my heart quivering in my chest like it was struggling to pump (because my sternum was pressing down on it from his weight). I kept gesturing him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:42 AM
40

If a woman has to ask her partner to please her, the relationship is a lost cause. A man should, by default, please his partner and guarantee she has an orgasm every time they have sex. I'm tired of people telling women to communicate their desires to their partners. We shouldn't have to. If a man isn't demonstrating the desire to please his partner, he is a waste of time. Even if a man is inexperienced and isn't sure how to please a woman, he should always ask her what she likes and tell her to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:31 AM
4

Dating sites and apps should be far stricter with the men they allow on their platforms. In my opinion, all men should have to undergo extensive background checks before being approved on the platform. Anyone with a criminal record should be instantly denied. They should also be forced to verify that their photos are actually their own to prevent catfishes. And perhaps every man should have at least two references. This won't get rid of all the psychos out there since some of them are very cover…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:52 AM
3

Yessss! I'd sign up in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:49 AM
3

Never ever compliment men unless they are related to you, or unless you have a longstanding platonic friendship. If you compliment a stranger or someone you barely know, they'll instantly think you're flirting with them and want to fuck them. And when they come onto you and you reject them, they'll get mad and accuse you of "leading them on".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:48 AM
2

Same, but even in the rare instance that I do receive compliments, I don't feel flattered by them. Male attention is cheap. They'll say anything to women if they think they have a chance to get into their pants. I only appreciate comments from women. At least female strangers are sincere when they compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:46 AM
3

It's never okay to point out other hot women. I remember my ex used to do that and it made me so pissed off but multiple women in my life told me it's normal behavior and that I can't stop my man from finding other women attractive. Well duh, but he can keep his thoughts to himself. Anyway, I started making similar comments about other men and my ex freaked the fuck out. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:03 AM
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That makes sense. Most only fans creators will never become rich or famous. The only big creators are ones who already had a following elsewhere (like on youtube or instagram). It's almost impossible for a random girl to earn a following out of no where.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:34 AM
9

Sad and pathetic. And men say women are the "meme gender". LOL 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:29 AM
3

Yes. But I'd say that any man of any race that fetishizes women of other races is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:24 AM
13

Imagine my shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:17 AM
58

Ehh no thank you. He'd probably end up like Negan (from the walking dead) with multiple wives/sex slaves. I'd rather form an all woman commune like Oceanside (also from TWD).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:15 AM
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Anyone who has a problem with FDS hasn't actually read the handbook or spent a considerable amount of time in the community. Either that, or they're a pickme or LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:11 AM
3

An important thing to note is that language evolves over time. Just because pedophilia originally meant attraction to prepubescent children, doesn't mean we can't use it to talk about ALL children in today's social climate. Back when the term pedophilia was coined, age of consent laws didn't even exist. Girls were considered adults the moment they got their periods, and they were considered prime age to marry off. Well in today's world people are legally considered to be children until age 18, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:45 AM
5

OMG I hate when men say they're just playing devil's advocate. Just why? To aggravate people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:34 AM
71

What do women even hope to achieve by posting shit like this? Ohhhhhh right, they want to be praised by all the low value men on the internet. How sad to be so desperate for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:44 PM
7

Yeah but I still think it's okay to use the term "pedophilia" in favor of ephebophilia or hebephilia because we're not using it in a scientific context. We're using it in a casual way to denote attraction to children which broadly encompasses all minors. Normal men don't have a problem with the word pedophilia being "misused". Only predators complain about the misusage because they don't want to feel guilty about their sexual proclivities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:39 PM
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Nice concern trolling on his behalf. He doesn't care about victims of pedophilia. LOL. While being sexually attracted to an 18 year as a 34 year old man isn't inherently pedophilic from a biological perspective, it is morally questionable to act on those desires due to a teenager's lack of maturity, brain development, and life experience. There's literally no difference between an 18 year old and a 16 year old. Science has proven that the human brain continues developing until age 25. The prefro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:02 PM
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It never surprises me when ultra religious people commit adultery. Faith in an imaginary God is not enough to turn an LVM into an HVM. A true HVM is faithful to his partner because he wants to be, not because he fears punishment from God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:05 AM
65

Wow he's stupid. Clearly you brought up "when she turns 16" since I'm guessing that's the legal age of consent in your area. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if a man talked to his daughter like that at 16 or 36. His comment about you going on 40 was unnecessary and just a way to put you down and make you feel old. BLOCK. DELETE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:38 AM
16

Little does she know Michael won't be in her life for much longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:41 AM
15

Let me guess-- he voted for Trump?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:12 AM
9

Yesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:32 PM
5

Great idea 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:31 PM
50

I'M TIRED OF ALL THE NASTY PREDATORS OUT THERE, UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:50 PM
64

If he loved you he wouldn't cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:46 PM
33

So true. People with kinks need to get psychiatric help or at least have the decency to keep their depraved fantasies to themselves. These freaks need to go back into the closet where they belong. I hate that this shit has become normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:43 PM
69

Good head? Lol. I NEED to see this loser's face. Tell me: do his looks match his shitty personality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:57 PM
44

Engaged for 11 years!!? This has got to be a troll post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:47 PM
17

If you want lots of kids, you do FDS the same way as someone who only wants one or none. 1) Become a high value woman yourself. Get educated and get a high paying job so you can afford to have a lot of kids to begin with. Yes, you want a man who makes a lot of money to support you and the kids, but you should always have your own money, or a way to make money in case the relationship doesn't work out. You don't want to get stuck in an unhappy marriage with no way to get out because you're financ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:22 PM
19

It's true that an age gap gets less significant the older you get, but large age gaps are still a bad idea. The divorce rate between couples with large age gaps is very high, and it is still very objectifying on the man's behalf to seek out younger women, even if they are over a certain age (e.g. 30+). Let's say there's a couple where the woman is 35 and the man is 50. Chances are the main thing that attracted him to her is her age. Would he date her if she was 50? Probably not. Besides, what do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:22 PM
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Barf. We need to shame men who date teenagers--legal or not. We need to change the culture so that it is social suicide for a man to even express desire in teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:34 AM
77

Just wait another year or two and we'll find that she left him after being tired of her time being wasted, and within 3 months he'll be engaged to a 19 year old model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:35 AM
21

Men have a pathological fear of gold diggers. It's amusing. Most men have no "gold" to dig. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being a gold digger. Until men stop valuing women for our youth and beauty above all else, they have no right to complain about "gold digging".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:33 AM
5

Ohh, ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:03 AM
7

Ew why would you match with someone so old to begin with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:34 AM
70

YES LOSER, ENJOY BEING IN THE SEWER WHERE YOU BELONG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:46 PM
4

Those girls look underage, especially the one on the right, which makes this even creepier. I hate that men always feel the need to comment on women's attractiveness. They can't just view women as human beings. We are just commodities to be rated on a scale of 1-10 based on how hard we make their peepee in their eyes I wish men learned to keep their mouths shut. Like dude, who asked you? No one cares who you find hot or ugly. STFU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:46 PM
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How nice of him to refer to women as "random sluts". I hope his wife sticks to her decision to divorce his ass. Good riddance, loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:00 PM
13

If only it were that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:43 AM
65

Cumbrains never cease to amaze...and disgust me. Why just why can they not go even one day without sexualizing women, especially when the context is so serious and tragic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:21 AM
25

He speaks truth. I've never seen his videos before so I can't comment too much about him as a person, but this video was good. However, he does seem to have a decent head on his shoulders to have come to this conclusion on his own. As we all know, it's rare for men to come to this conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:18 AM
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Yes. Sometimes mental abuse can be just as bad, or worse. I wouldn't wish a narcissist's manipulation and gaslighting on even my worst enemies. That shit takes forever to recover from. It makes the victim question their own sanity for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:46 AM
8

YESSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:33 AM
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The accuracy tho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:20 AM
1

That's great! If a man can't give a woman something as simple as attention and affection in a relationship, he doesn't belong in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:18 AM
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I'm sure he gets a lot of matches 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:04 AM
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Nooooooooo not the ground turkey and broccoli. I still have trauma from seeing that yesterday 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:03 AM
14

I hope he's now your EX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:30 PM
24

But it wasn't easily accessible. I remember when I was a kid I would go to 20/20 video (a movie rental store) with my mom to rent movies for our family and our store had the porn section in the back behind a curtain. I remember how ashamed all the men who came in were. They would pretend to look at normal movies and then, when they thought no one was looking, they'd bolt to the back of the store. LOL. And when they went to the cashier to pay, they never got into the line with the female cashier.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:07 PM
180

This is why "Nice guys" exist. They think they're good men who deserve partners just because they're not violent or overtly abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:11 PM
37

The amount of LVMs in that twitter thread defending old men dating young women is insane. They just can't wrap their heads around why it's wrong. Imagine women not wanting to be treated like pieces of meat with an expiration date. Imagine women not wanting to only be valued for their looks and youth. Imagine women not wanting other women to be taken advantage of in their formative adult years when their brains are still developing and they are still developing a sense of identity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:26 AM
39

EPIC. I'm saving this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:00 AM
79

He's probably lurking this post right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:54 AM
80

If only she would've found FDS before choosing to get pregnant with his child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:04 AM
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Why do men always have to compare us to shoes, cars, and other objects? We are not depreciating commodities. We are human beings. The sooner these losers start to accept this, the sooner they may be able to get near a living breathing woman without paying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:51 AM
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Yesssss. So many ways he could have gone with it and created a good meal. Like who eats just plain turkey. Maybe I'd eat that if I was broke and that's the last thing I had in my fridge, but I'd never ever serve it to a guest, especially someone I was trying to impress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:44 AM
24

There's nothing wrong with having skateboarding as a hobby though, even at 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:21 AM
29

You're right. I've debated about this topic with men many times. They always try to minimize sexual assault and bring up crimes against men (that they fail to mention are committed by other men).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:55 AM
36

Nothing wrong with ground turkey, but you have to spice it up and add it to something. No one wants to eat it plain. He could've turned it into shepherd's pie, or made a meat sauce with pasta, or added some taco seasoning and salsa to it to use as taco filling. Ugh, so low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:01 PM
33

Oh, okay. Thanks for informing me. I used to watch all his movies when I was younger and thought he was funny. I never imagined he'd be such a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:55 PM
24

Automatic deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:49 PM
16

Why Seth Rogan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:48 PM
14

that's what I was thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:46 PM
81

Every man should approach a woman the same way he'd want to be approached by a gay man double his size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:44 PM
255

Older men suck too. Let's not perpetuate the idea that young men are bad because it'll make young women seek out older men thinking they'll have someone more mature but in reality they'll just end up getting taken advantage of by old low value scrotes. A true HVM is an HVM during all stages of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:27 PM
13

He wants to know whether or not you'll be easy to manipulate and control due to your fragile emotional state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:19 PM
72

bu bu but i gave her basic human respect, why doesn't she want to have sex with me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:16 PM
37

It's just more gaslighting from men. They don't want women to have boundaries so they'll try to make us believe we are crazy in hope of us removing our boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:55 PM
6

The accuracy tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:53 PM
54

Proud of you. Make sure you block him on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:25 PM
99

Lol is a great response. Followed by a block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:52 AM
164

Ugh LVMs love emotionally vulnerable women with trauma. They especially love girls with daddy issues. They don't care that a young woman is only with them because she was abused by her own father and is seeking love and acceptance from an older father figure. Instead of trying to encourage her to seek psychological help as a platonic older friend, they instead choose to sexually exploit her. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:38 AM
17

Duly noted. I won't use that word anymore. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:15 AM
403

So true. Even commenting that a woman is "aging well" is rude and unnecessary because it implies that there is something wrong with a woman looking her age. Women shouldn't have to invest so much time, money, and energy into preventing aging but unfortunately we live in a society that still values a woman's looks and youth above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:14 AM
32

Yeah whore is a strong word, but you know what I mean. Being sexually "liberated" is promoted so strongly nowadays even though it doesn't benefit women at all. Do they ever mention why they feel empowered by all the sex they have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:25 AM
59

Didn't you get the memo that being a whore is EmPoWeRiNg in 2020? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:07 AM
46

When men talk about female privilege, they're talking about us having an easier time getting laid. They're mad that we can make a tinder account and instantly get tons of matches. They're mad that we could walk into any bar and go home with someone that same night. They're mad that we get compliments and attention from strangers. They're basically mad that we are the gatekeepers of sex and we, for the most part, control the sexual market. They think that we are "privileged" because of this. They…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:30 AM
50

I stand in solidarity with my sisters in Poland and sisters all over the world being oppressed by patriarchal governments and cultures. ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:11 AM
2

He looks exactly how I imagined he would look. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:07 AM
13

This is so so so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:58 AM
13

Do you have a good relationship with your father? I find that most young women who like much older men tend to have daddy issues. Or were you perhaps exposed to pornography at a young age? Because, as I'm sure you already know, most porn depicts young women (usually barely legal) getting dominated and abused by men that are often significantly older. I imagine this would leave an imprint on a young girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:07 AM
17

Trust me, older men are just as immature. So many men in their 30s and even 40s play video games. Just look at all the relationship advice subreddits and you'll see women complaining about their grown ass partners playing video games all day. My ex-boyfriend was in his 30s and still obsessed with video games, and he was very immature. He didn't have his shit together at all. Keep in mind that HVMs are rare across all age groups. Older men are NOT more likely to be HVMs and have their shit togeth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:59 AM
51

It's 14 in Germany, Italy, Austria, Portugal, Hungary, Bulgaria, Estonia, Bosnia. The age of consent is low in all of Europe. In most countries it is 15-16. Ireland is the only country in Europe with an age of consent of 17, and it is the highest in all of Europe. But there are many countries around the world where the age of consent is even lower. it's 13 in Japan, 12 in the Philippines, and these are just a few examples. Nightmare fuel indeed!! Feminists should fight to raise the age of consen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:48 AM
38

I used to be attracted to much older men too but thankfully I never gave into my attraction. I now realize that my attraction came from my daddy issues. I wanted affection, love, and acceptance from an older man since I never got it from my father. Luckily I've gotten older, wiser, and have dealt with my emotional issues and as a result my attraction to much older men has gone away. I encourage you to explore your attraction and try to get to the root cause too so you can fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:36 AM
109

Men like this are pedophiles (spare me the "ePhEbOpHiLe" bullshit). If a man is 30+ and sees no moral issue with dating barely legal girls whose brains aren't yet fully developed, that means he has no problem dating underage girls either, the only thing standing in his way is the law. The age of consent is as low as 14 in some European countries and you better believe that men in those countries are just as obsessed with 14 year olds as men here are obsessed with 18 year olds. It's sick and disg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:23 AM
271

They actually have a 13 year age gap and he met her when she was 17, which makes it even creepier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:15 AM
51

He's probably a 3/10 thinking he deserves 10's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:45 PM
9

If he has it in him to do it once, he has it in him to do it again and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:35 PM
3

I'm glad to know it wasn't because you felt you missed out on a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:28 PM
49

Men ruin all female centered subs, and pretty much ALL subs in general. They always turn it into a men's locker room where they feel the need to comment on every woman's appearance, make creepy sexual comments, make offensives jokes, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:15 PM
7

That's what mothers are for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:47 PM
4

May I ask why you were miserable? Was it because your mother struggled as a single mother and wasn't able to give you the best childhood, or was it because you felt you missed out on having a father and ended up having identity issues because of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:31 PM
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I think they do realize it which is why arranged marriage exists to begin with. It's why most cultures around the world are patriarchal. It's why religion was invented so men could enforce monogamy and redistribute women like property to ensure all low value males get wives. It's the real reason conservatives are against abortion (and why they were against birth control in the past) because they don't want us to have options; they want us to get trapped into a marriage with the first loser who i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:04 AM
17

A few of Jordan B Peterson's comments after Alek Minassian's incel attack in Toronto: "Violent attacks are what happens when men do not have partners", Mr. Peterson says, "and society needs to work to make sure those men are married". “He was angry at God because women were rejecting him,” Mr. Peterson says of the Toronto killer. “The cure for that is enforced monogamy. That’s actually why monogamy emerges.” Mr. Peterson does not pause when he says this. Enforced monogamy is, to him, simply a ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:52 AM
14

Um, no. Just because he doesn't encourage debauchery doesn't mean he's a good person with anything worthwhile to say. He is a traditional conservative and a misogynist. You really need to look more into him because clearly you don't know what he's really about. There's a reason why incels idolize him. Check out this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/enoughpetersonspam/comments/8kuaze/petersons_misogyny_a_collection_updated/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:47 AM
20

Jordan Peterson is a misogynist conservative who preaches "enforced monogamy" and traditional values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:19 AM
7

Men like this are creepy and obsessive. If he lives to serve you, he won't be able to live without serving you. This is the kind of man who will kill a woman if she leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:42 AM
22

Yup. The only reason I want a man is because I want to have children. If I didn't want children, I'd have no need for a man and no desire for a man. But, like you, if I don't find an HVM by the time I'm a certain age (35 for me), I'll just go to a sperm donor. More women should do this! Let's show low value men how disposable they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:36 AM
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I'll probably end up going to a sperm bank and buying sperm from the best looking, highest IQ donor. I honestly don't even want to raise kids with a man. I have very particular values I want to instill in my child, and a very particular lifestyle I want them to live. I don't want to compromise with a man on how my kids are going to be raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:55 AM
146

Men are so fucking delusional. How are they so stupid to think they have a chance with a young girl who is NOT a sugar baby? Like dude--you're old, short, and ugly. What do you have to offer to a young girl? Some self awareness would be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:09 PM
5

The depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:02 PM
21

Women have a much larger chance of being raped by a man than a man being falsely accused of rape by a woman. But these same men will say women are crazy and misandrist for avoiding men for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:39 PM
13

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ​ And that's a FACT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:14 PM
3

That's insane, but I can't say I blame you for thinking it's romantic because something similar happened to me, except my ex never threatened to kill me but he threatened to stalk me and kill any future boyfriends I have. I thought it was a bit creepy but so romantic and sweet at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:12 PM
20

Isn't she such a cOoL gIrL? Someone please give her an award. I'm sure it'll make her forget about her boyfriend's limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:10 PM
18

Lol wtf? Cuckholds love to be cucked though. I once knew a guy who was such a depraved cuckhold that he tried to coerce his wife into fucking other men. She didn't want to because *SHOCK* she actually loved him and wanted to be monogamous, but he so badly wanted to watch her get gang banged by other men. He shamed her for being a prude. That's fucked up. The vast majority of kinks out there were invented by men and are perpetuated by men. Women just go along because they want to be the "cool" gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:06 PM
8

Queen energy! I love it. That's a great way to practice self love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:58 PM
10

Ha, that's genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:57 PM
4

That would be a great show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:51 PM
14

PREACH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:59 AM
34

Yup! Too many left-leaning people didn't vote for Hillary in 2016 because they just "didn't like" her--my mother included (she voted for Jill Stein, ugh). Well do they like the 3 supreme court justices, 54 court of appeals judges, and 162 district court judges Trump appointed???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:58 AM
45

Queen indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:52 AM
47

Dread game is when men try to make their partners jealous by flirting with other women, bragging about attention they get from other women, and by being emotionally distant and cold. The red pill's logic behind this behavior is that women get too comfortable in relationships and stop putting in effort, but dread game will keep women "on their toes" and doing everything in their power to please their men because they fear losing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:13 AM
19

You mean 10 years younger MINIMUM, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:47 AM
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It really is. I have a male friend who was in the army and he has told me some of the craziest stories of shit that happens in the military. And he confirmed that most of the men there are misogynists and openly make horrible comments and "jokes" about women all the time, including rape jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:24 AM
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I considered joining the military when I was younger because I was lost in life and didn't know what I wanted to do. Thank goodness my family talked me out of it. This is a cause feminists need to focus more on. It's insane that the military can get away with abusing women so much. Women should be able to join the military without fear of getting bullied, harassed, raped, assaulted. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:22 AM
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The Nice Guy He is extremely bland. He has no real hobbies, interests, passions in life, or anything to talk about. He thinks basic social expectations like treating strangers with general decency and respect is currency for sex or a relationship. When he gets rejected by a woman, his "nice guy" mask quickly slips off and he starts insulting her. If by some miracle he gets into a relationship with an insecure woman who desperately needs FDS, he won't stop talking about how "women only like jerks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:07 PM
10

If we did do that they'd be upset that we're only approaching like 5% of guys since most men are ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:57 PM
13

Meeee except I'm one year away from 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:55 PM
42

Lucky you! I wish FDS was around when I was your age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:54 PM
3

Isn't that just a form of gaslighting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:53 PM
12

I bet she's ghosting him after that 50/50 drink "date". At least I hope she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:52 PM
9

It's hard to make genuine when so many women are either a) pickmes or b) nauseating libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:46 AM
22

And I guess we're supposed to be psychic mind readers to know the guy is "genuine"? Besides, a high value woman puts walls up for every man during the vetting process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:42 AM
14

Clown world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:32 AM
359

SO TRUE! You just can't win. If you're cautious and wary of men, you're a "stuck up bitch" and "too picky". If you get abused by a man it's your fault and you deserve it for dating a "bad boy" and ignoring all the "NiCe GuYs". I gave a shot to a "NiCe GuY" and ended up being abused. Not all "bad boys" are hot Chads with neck tattoos and motorcycles like men want to believe. Some of the most abusive men I've ever known were ugly nerds who seem harmless at first glance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:04 PM
6

The lack of self awareness with this dude is strong. This is what women have to deal with on a regular basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:44 PM
42

Yup. You're right. I forgot to mention that. These things harm women that don't "consent" to it too since they're so greatly ingrained in our culture. It's rare to find a man who won't try to act out his sick porn fantasies thereby harming his partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:41 PM
31

Thanks for the reminder. Every once in a while I still look up my ex on social media, and it's been 4 years. It's not because I miss him or want him back, but it's because I wish misery on him and it makes me feel good to see that 4 years later he is still a loser who isn't doing anything with his life while I'm leveling up. I know it's childish and I should stop though. He shouldn't live rent free in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:38 PM
13

Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:36 PM
137

People shouldn't be able to do anything they please if it harms others. I know liberals will say "but if someone consented to something then it's not harming them". Consent should mean more than just saying "yes". If someone is "consenting" to being harmed, they clearly have some kind of mental illness and it's wrong to take advantage of them. I'm tired of libfems making excuses for porn, sex work, kinks, age gap relationships, and other things that harm women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:31 PM
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A good relationship doesn't require counseling. If a relationship needs external forces to be kept together, it was doomed from the start. A man who really cares for his partner won't do any of the things you used as examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:12 AM
3

I like the idea of your sub. I just joined it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:23 AM
36

The amount of men out there that like teens is disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:08 AM
11

Great example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:02 AM
35

They really are. Most of them are just cumbrains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:59 AM
91

I'm tired of men complaining about this. Most men also have height requirements. Back when I used to browse dating profiles on Match just out of curiosity, I noticed that most men had their height limit set to about 5'7" on average. Some of the taller guys (over 6 feet) had their height limits set to 5'10". But no one, not even the super tall guys, had their profiles set to accept women over 6 feet tall. If men don't want tall women, then we shouldn't have to want short men. Besides, women date …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:49 AM
5

QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:26 PM
17

My ex did that too but he also had the audacity to make comments about other women. He would regularly check women out and say things like "she's so fucking hot". He even said that about his younger brother's 17 year old girlfriend and my ex was 30 at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:42 AM
136

All "redpilled" males hit the wall at conception. It never began for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:30 AM
5

FDS rescue mission needed. Someone please DM her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:16 AM
8

It's true. Extreme stress can cause hair loss. The medical term for this is Telogen Efluvium.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:15 AM
4

Good on you for sticking to your principles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:00 AM
10

I'm not surprised. Most men are depraved ePhEbOpHiLeS and would stop at nothing to get close to teen girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:54 AM
19

Uhh does he think he's in a 90s boyband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:07 AM
9

Yup! I also don't think it's a double standard for women to date younger men while criticizing men who date younger women. Women only resort to dating younger men when high value men their own age are not available. I'm sure Kate Beckinsale would've loved to still be married to her ex-husband Len Wiseman, but he had to go and cheat on her with someone half his age and divorce her. Since most middle aged scrotes are LVMs who chase after younger women, it doesn't make sense for a middle aged woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:55 AM
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If men can date women half their age, so can women. Fair is fair. Besides, she looks amazing. She can easily pass for 15 years younger than her age. Meanwhile, men her age look like grandfathers. What's in it for her to date a nasty old scrote who will probably cheat on her with someone younger anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:58 AM
31

I do that too. I've exposed men on facebook to their mothers, wives, sisters, female friends, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:33 AM
171

When will men and pickmes get it through their heads that we don't need a man? A man is a luxury, not a necessity. And most men are not luxuries. They're discarded thrift store items you'd find in the Goodwill dumpster after inventory clearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:23 AM
6

I'm glad you dumped him! I hope you blocked him on everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:21 AM
13

Are you talking about any man, or only HVM? I'm not sure about HVM but your average male (i.e. LVM) will want a woman who is attractive, has sex with him often and lets him degrade her any way he pleases, and is traditionally "feminine" i.e. soft spoken/not too opinionated/meek/submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:50 PM
74

They come back when they don't have any other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:27 PM
2

LOW VALUE MALE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:21 PM
205

So true. Women should never be stay at home wives unless they have an exit plan, lots of money saved up, and a career they can go back to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:18 PM
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Wow I'm sooo sorry that happened to you. My heart rate literally went up reading your post. Ugh. That man is evil. And he literally raped you. It's not too late to MeToo his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:37 PM
48

Men are the number one danger to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:14 PM
3

God I wish someone would've told me this when I was younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:41 AM
84

Yes. It's because they want to show up to younger women whose age limits don't extend past 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:43 AM
10

If I have to masturbate to have an orgasm during sex, I may as well just masturbate minus the sex. I feel sorry for any woman who has to get herself off during sex. That's the man's job. I'm glad your ex is an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:56 AM
10

I've tried online dating before just to browse and get an idea of what kind of men are out there (since I wasn't yet ready to date at the time). I talked to lots of men and they were all trash. I even swiped right on ugly guys hoping they'd be better. But nope. Even the ugly guys were wannabe fuckboys. I'm still leveling up and not ready to put myself on the dating market yet, but I sure as hell will NOT use OLD when the time comes. Any suggestions where to meet quality men in the wild?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:14 AM
8

I always wondered why someone as beautiful as her would go for someone so hideous and old enough to be her father. I watched an interview with her and she said she was abandoned by her parents and raised by her grandparents. No surprise there. She had daddy issues so she was vulnerable to manipulation from a much older man. Not only that, but in the interview she said she has always been insecure. Even when she was younger and called the "most beautiful woman in the world", she felt ugly. These …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:10 AM
6

Do her parents know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:41 AM
5

Yeah I'll probably stay single forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:12 AM
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I'm glad that you tell younger women that, but so many older women don't! I have friends who have been in age gap relationships and their mothers encouraged their relationships. They had the "love is love" mentality. They think people who are against age gap relationships are just as bigoted as people who are against interracial relationships. But yes, I do know that many older women are like you and they do try to warn young women and they are told that they're bitter and jealous. I've been tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:46 PM
22

I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't mean to victim blame, but what were you thinking dating someone so damn old?! It would save young women a lot of pain and heartache if they knew from the start that old men who go after young women are not normal. They are all narcissists and predators. A relationship with an age gap that big can NEVER be healthy. I wish society taught young women to stay away from old men. I wish older women taught their daughters and grand daughters to stay away from old…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:10 AM
10

I'd love to hear your story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:47 AM
48

Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:29 AM
12

It's not irrational at all. I feel the same way. Every woman should feel that way. 2.5 women, on average, are killed every single day in the US by an intimate partner. That number is even higher in less developed countries. Men are fucking scary. All of them. Even a high value man is scary because he has the physical strength to overpower a woman and you can never be 100% sure that he won't. Putting your faith into a man is like putting your faith into a wild animal. You may be able to raise a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:24 AM
114

This is literally every platform whether its a professional site like Linkedin or a selling app like LetGo or OfferUp or any other non dating app you can imagine. Men are desperate as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:27 AM
345

I agree. I couldn't believe the other day when a woman on here said she's dating a "high value male" who doesn't go down on her. And that's not the first time I've seen a post like that. Like whaaaaaaat? Do these women even know what subreddit they're on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:59 AM
2

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:55 AM
4

Men only care about looks, youth, fertility. They don't care about personality, education, someone's career, etc. High value men care about those things things, but HVM are incredibly rare. Your average dude on OLD, however, is just there to find the youngest, hottest, easiest woman to sexually exploit. Your friend is hot and and is probably a pickme who lets men degrade her sexually which is why they keep coming back. Stop comparing yourself to her. The kind of attention she gets isn't the kind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:01 AM
4

Any man who doesn't enthusiastically go down on a woman is low value by default. Don't let his other supposed good qualities cloud your judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:38 PM
20

Why don't you support it? Most women need oral sex (or other kinds of clitoral stimulation) to orgasm. It's not unfair to expect oral while denying blowjobs because a man doesn't need a blowjob to climax. Intercourse is the prize for the man. For him to unlock the prize, he must go down on a woman first. Otherwise, what incentive does a woman even have to let a man inside her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:37 AM
4

Men can't compete with dogs. They are loving, loyal, and live to make us happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:20 AM
22

So get a vibrator and a dildo. There's no reason to make LVMs happy by giving them sex. A casual fuck buddy isn't going to care about your pleasure anyway so you're going to be left disappointed. Stick to the FDS core principle of making a man wait at least 3 months before sex, and only if he's proven to be an HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:14 AM
16

I woke up last year at 28 unfortunately. Better late than never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:11 PM
1

I'm not black, but I understand what you're saying. Women of all races need to stop being pickme's for real. Men will never evolve if they have access to women who enable their bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:34 AM
39

What is it with moids and their obsession with teenage girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:21 AM
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