This is gross

arwenagon24999 · 2020-11-01T11:47:11+00:00

Saw this in Instagram on one of those popular meme pages but thankfully no one in the comments thought it was cute.

medusabutwscorpions · 2020-11-01T12:54:20+00:00

False Advertising. Men don't suddenly realize they should be better to you as long as you're "always there" to clean up their messes, they realize that you'll always be there to clean up their messes. That's it.

2020-11-01T14:22:18+00:00

Translation: “I couldn’t find/get the girl of my dreams, so I settled for my faithful lap dog.”

nyclaurco · 2020-11-01T14:08:09+00:00

“she let me cheat, not take her out on dates, scream at her in an attempt for her to break up with me because i was too cowardly, and cleaned up my messes until i got too old and dumpy to attract any better options, so i settled.”

FleetingDaisy · 2020-11-01T12:07:34+00:00

I agree, we should stop romanticizing this. This "girl who is always there" trope is all over popular media, and I think it's a variant of the "chill girl". A woman who accepts abuse and rewards it with unconditional love. Not good.

eveninghope · 2020-11-01T13:05:35+00:00

“I’m a grown man who wants a mommy.”

localgirlcult · 2020-11-01T17:28:39+00:00

"I gave her nothing while she gave me everything. And I decided I liked that for me"

Did this woman share this thinking it sounds romantic? Because...

thrway01010 · 2020-11-01T11:27:23+00:00

Not cute or romantic at all. Mom setting a poor example and dad being an idiot.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-11-01T13:00:26+00:00

It's all about him🤢

SpaceC4se · 2020-11-01T14:50:58+00:00

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akashyaboa · 2020-11-01T14:31:20+00:00

I got so much hate on Instagram for telling that her dad was basically telling her to accept abuse to get, at best, an average life.

I wasn't saying I am absolutely right, I said I feel like this is what he's saying and people got angry

_xyoungbellax_ · 2020-11-01T11:48:21+00:00

I saw this exact post somewhere 1 year ago, when I was a pick-me and was all like "aww how cute". Now, after FDS, it's "NAH, SIS!"

2020-11-01T13:54:58+00:00

Let’s normalise having love that doesn’t require suffering first!

balladwilds · 2020-11-01T11:24:10+00:00

embarassing..

creamtart_ · 2020-11-01T13:04:14+00:00

Fucking yikes.

4BigData · 2020-11-01T17:31:07+00:00

The role of the loving servant who is low maintenance...

Thanks, but no thanks.

JeCaTa77 · 2020-11-01T17:31:48+00:00

My guy best friend pointed out that I was a hazard to myself because I was the ultimate ride or die chick. Don't be like that.

lucretiamott1 · 2020-11-01T13:01:09+00:00

Reading this, I literally said "ew" out loud.

howdoilogoutt · 2020-11-01T14:34:35+00:00

Ew come on that's just reinforcing the idea that we can change them. Nah, I guy should treat you right from the start, that's how you know he's the one.

-badmadAM · 2020-11-01T12:35:53+00:00

This is just sad. Her poor mum.

marilynmonw0e · 2020-11-01T14:44:48+00:00

His bangmommy was by his side all along....😢 what a romantic story for the ages.

veruscka · 2020-11-01T14:46:28+00:00

This is so toxic. I’m guessing when he realized no one else would put up with him is coincidentally also when he realized “she’s what I need for the rest of my life”

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-11-01T15:47:59+00:00

Insider tip from someone who dated a NVM who said the same thing: it’s a lie. He didn’t wise up and start treating her better. He just got more subtle and covert in his abuse.

Separate_Finnish · 2020-11-01T17:36:31+00:00

Id rather eat my hiking boot than have a husband who describes me this way to ANYBODY

randomgirlimok · 2020-11-01T15:48:31+00:00

“I couldn’t find any better so I settled for your mom”

Fishtoots · 2020-11-01T15:52:41+00:00

She’s a doormat, just my type.

Ayxmiii · 2020-11-01T14:01:42+00:00

Disgusting

gridironbuffalo · 2020-11-01T15:16:14+00:00

I didn’t see what subreddit this was posted in when I read it, and I was just like, what the fuck is this? Trash.

WestAtmosphere · 2020-11-01T17:54:46+00:00

Yikes. It’s true when they say always date a man who loves you more than you love him.

A woman will more than likely always be thoughtful men won’t be unless they are enamoured with you.

Missybanana · 2020-11-01T15:47:21+00:00

I think this is Dad-speak for, "I married your mother BECAUSE she was pregnant."

Edit: Or, "There was a shotgun in our wedding."

x3meteor · 2020-11-01T17:56:39+00:00

no thank u, gotta leave a man first red flag!!

LU_7192 · 2020-11-01T16:20:45+00:00

Y’all better believe when I saw that on insta I was in the comments telling the truth on how disgusting it was. Thankfully the top comments were all the same!

zombiessalad · 2020-11-01T18:23:23+00:00

Thats superr ew.... this is not goals🤨

alwyzkrzy · 2020-11-01T14:00:59+00:00

cringe.

BellaMob · 2020-11-01T17:03:22+00:00

The story of modern Romeo and Juliet /s

If this was happening today he wouldn't even marry her, he would just string her along for decades after kids.

Kay-Jay137 · 2020-11-01T11:59:45+00:00

Is he describing a wife or a hunting hound?

missliberia · 2020-11-01T15:45:25+00:00

I hate shit like that

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-11-01T13:44:42+00:00

At least he admitted he took it for granted for a while

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-01T14:39:52+00:00

Mom is a doormat

Bitemebitch00 · 2020-11-01T17:11:13+00:00

So she was an option.

CarmelPeach · 2020-11-01T19:17:35+00:00

🤢🤢🤢🤢

wayward_woman · 2020-11-01T20:47:58+00:00

That's what mothers are for.

2020-11-01T16:28:56+00:00

Oh Tara no

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2020-11-01T17:25:29+00:00

hOw RoMaNtIc!

miwamus · 2020-11-01T17:09:48+00:00

Hell nah.

imbyath · 2020-11-01T11:27:07+00:00

wtf mom

esotsm- · 2020-11-01T23:27:24+00:00

“I tried to find someone better, but they all had standards and a high self-esteem. So I went back to your mom.”

peachpy54 · 2020-11-02T01:58:40+00:00

Men want the most convenient companionship they can find. They also have crazy inertia. They will stay in a relationship, totally mentality checked out, for years. As long as the woman lets the guy put his peepee in her peepee once in a while, he'll stay.

He might not like her, truly doesnt even matter. As long as the legs open once in a while, and it's no incremental effort or cash spent, he'll stay.

2020-11-02T23:04:49+00:00

Notice that he only talks about what she does for him and nothing else. Reminds me of my dumbass ex who in his last Valentines Day letter he wrote how I make him feel more comfortable at uni and his grades are better because I help him and said like nothing about what I am as a person. That's why he's single now 😂

Also I don't buy men who say "I needed her" like this man does because it implies she's there for something that he can fix himself. It's better when someone says they "want you" in their lives instead of "needing". It just feels off to me.

JiltedGroupie · 2020-11-02T05:03:12+00:00

“She has a pulse and puts up with me” basically

breadandbunny · 2020-11-02T14:08:05+00:00

Those last two sentences ignite rage in me. It should NOT be like that! You either KNOW what you have and value it the entire time, or you don't deserve it. I have a lot of emotional trauma from that sort of behaviour. I'm telling you: if that's how you're being treated, that guy is not the one.

ms-anthrope · 2020-11-02T00:33:27+00:00

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-02T17:06:17+00:00

"She put up with my BS and I had no other options"

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-02T17:11:29+00:00

Apparently the anti feminist sub thinks this guy is high value.
What examples make this man high value? Zero your welcome

Title	This is gross
Author	RainyBobbins
Upvotes	2256
Comments	134
Date	November 1, 2020 11:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jm0ih8/this_is_gross/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-is-gross.325250 https://theredarchive.com/post/325250

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