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29

My ex flat out told me he wanted to be a dictator. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:37 PM
17

In one year, a LVX easily cost me $30k. I want to yak just thinking about it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:37 PM
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We have love for you and we will be here holding a space for you. I’m so so sorry to hear this, and you are so strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:57 PM
16

Spot on. And I love your last point so much - therapy before major life decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:39 PM
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Thank you so much for this. Absolutely one of my favorite comments. I’ll be coming back to this one when that urge to talk to another like-minded woman hits; I too am “completely spoiled and can’t adapt to less” ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:04 AM
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Rollerskating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:54 AM
1

I couldn’t agree more based on my own experiences. You said it so beautifully. Thank you! Self love, trust, care for the win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:18 PM
10

So happy for your growth and thank you so much for sharing. These are fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:03 PM
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SO GLAD YOU SAID THIS. This was me too, and I’m also going to confirm that I received those EXACT fkn messages. Old me (pre-FDS) would feel uncomfortable but come back to them with something like, “Haha I would love to, but let’s see if you earn it ;)” I genuinely love cooking for people, but now my cooking is reserved for me, my family, and my girlfriends. Never again with this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:55 PM
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After I (28F) found FDS last year, I’ve talked with my mom (64F) about everything. She loves our discussions because I’ve finally broken free of my pick-me mindset and am calling out the BS for what it is, and actually aligning better to the advice she’s given me concerning men. I’ve helped her start to see the full picture of being a woman in modern society too, and avoiding men who want a nurse or a purse when she feels comfortable to date again will be the chief concern! She’s a catch, and sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:38 PM
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Awww thank you so much. This was such a warm and encouraging message and made my day. Roller skating feels like pure joy - the same joy I feel skiing, but easily accessible! I love it so much and the mental and physical benefits are just bonuses :) FDS helped me save my life, and I am def making the most of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:15 PM
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28 years old, transplant in NYC for ~4 years. Disclaimer: This is LONG and pre-FDS If you were in your 20’s or early 30’s, I’d say don’t go into NYC thinking you’re going to have a big long term friend group. But people that are in the city in their 40’s are probably staying, and they have pretty established and extensive networks by that time. So cheers to that, go for it! As for men, I’ll give you my experience. I dated HARD in the city for a few years, all different ages and all different car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:28 AM
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This is also a great answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:23 AM
7

This is such a great answer. Been living in NYC for 4 years now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:22 AM
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Omg I just had so many flashbacks reading this comment. Have we lived the same life?? Have we talked to the same scrotes??? Oh wait. It’s because they’re so unoriginal. We are literally having the same conversations over and over. This man is a million other men in every way, and that IS the gaslighting we get in run of the mill conversations on apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:55 PM
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I do hope I live to see a total switch. Get enough women in government and then usher in a massive societal shift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:29 PM
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Oh my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:51 PM
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I didn’t know it wasn’t like that in other countries. Thank you for your question - it illuminates other ways of living!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:43 PM
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Chronic sleep deprivation is a tactic of narcissistic abusers. I didn’t learn that until I got into therapy after my abusive ex - who kept me up so late, would wake me up multiple times a night for sex or to cuddle when I had made it clear I can’t sleep touching someone. Neon sign that he doesn’t give a shit about your health and well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:34 PM
48

Classic projection. MEN only travel to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:49 AM
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Oh my GAWD this. Add in emotional abuse, despite the fact that many men literally don’t even think of it as real abuse. Yet another way we’re denied dignity - being told the only abuse that really deserves attention from men is physical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:48 PM
21

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:54 PM
21

And I’ll add - it’s not til you get home that you find out about the underwear. Vom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:12 AM
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100% real. I had to literally fight with my ex to throw away underwear with tons of holes. So happy those days are behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:54 PM
8

OMFG this just hit so hard. Wow. I’m crying at the accuracy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:53 PM
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10 months and you’ve never actually met his friends? GIANT red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:52 AM
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I feel like Kik is just a straight up red flag. Anyone feel differently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:35 PM
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I’ve always loved “I’ll know him when I find him” but I love this just as much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:02 PM
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Absolutely agree about texting. And nobody is talking about a relationship - you just met the guy after all, lol. Simply saying one phone call would have shown you that it would be a waste of your time, effort, makeup, outfit, etc to go meet this man. You would have inquired about his age, and let’s say he would have given a similar response. And his response was FOR SURE a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:14 AM
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If you met him the night before and went on a date with him the next day, that’s not vetting. FDS encourages some time talking and getting to know each other before accepting a date. His age would have absolutely come up in early conversation without having to give him your time and effort. Only go on dates with men who have shown they’re worth it! Highly encourage you to reread the handbook :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:53 PM
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This needed to be said!!! The handbook needs to be read in totality at least twice, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:04 AM
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Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Evaluate where you were in your life, what kind of woman you were. Understand how and why you got sucked in. Do the work when you’re confronted with your own issues. Heal. And forgive yourself 💛 I don’t hate myself ... I love myself now more than I ever have in my life. We don’t deserve to be abused. But we can take our experiences, learn from them, and grow into the HVW we always knew we could be. Sending you love, girlfriend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:33 AM
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Every. Single. Thing. In this article was my ex. It honestly creeps me out. I have so much empathy and understanding for how and why I got sucked in, but the woman I am now will never be a sociopath’s victim again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:21 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:38 PM
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Are there any organizations talking about this stuff to teenage girls? I would love to get involved and help educate and empower girls 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:15 AM
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Y’all better believe when I saw that on insta I was in the comments telling the truth on how disgusting it was. Thankfully the top comments were all the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:20 PM
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The damn truth 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:33 AM
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BRAVO. So well written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:31 PM
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Take them ALL down. Change is coming all around the world. This was so wonderful to read, thank you for sharing with us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:45 AM
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That’s how I feel too! Stress free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:36 AM
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Highly suggest rereading the handbook in its entirety. I think if you did, your situation would become clearer. Sending you love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:53 AM
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Straight up denying her reality and then deliberately inflicting cruelty. Vomit. And flat out enjoying the painful condition because it makes it better for him. I just feel for her, but it’s up to her whether or not she listens to sense in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:46 PM
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Which is when I let them know that is a wifey level request and they hold the guy in a rotation package 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:10 PM
6

Thank you for sharing! I’ve had so many of these experiences I literally cringe thinking of them. But thanks to FDS, I won’t be doing that anymore. In the handbook, it says we need to do a pre-date screening phone call. At least one. And I’ll upgrade that to a FaceTime instead - within 5 minutes on the FaceTime call you would have seen that he was too feminine for your tastes. You wouldn’t have even wasted your time by going to dinner with him. Remember that your time is SO valuable, and you don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:41 AM
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Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:30 AM
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My (28F) cousins are your daughter’s age and it would horrify you to hear what really goes on. It’s nothing like when I was in high school, and that was only 10 years ago. Now, we’ve got a toxic porn culture that people are proud to associate with - one that breeds misogyny, cruelty, and abuse. Combine that with the libfem culture that preaches that OnlyFans is empowering and you’ve got a serious problem. Add in all the technology. Now, the drama in high schools is along the lines of a girl send…
/r/askFDS29/08/20 05:49 AM
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Isn’t this the damn truth. I’ve gone through a massive awakening thanks to breaking up with an abusive ex and then finding this sub. Something I’ve mentioned when talking to my friends about my experience is that for years, I was one of the women crying “what’s wrong with me” after being hurt and treated like shit over and over by LVM for 2.5 years of dating. And I say you know what? There was something wrong with me. I wasn’t dating with my own self worth in mind. I was allowing people access t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:05 PM
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That was my experience too! In NYC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:27 PM
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It’s our duty to expose other high value women to the handbook and let them wake up for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:33 AM
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This. Because parents can often see when something is wrong even when you try to hide it. Mine did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:01 PM
27

Omg the wild exaggeration space just took me hell out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:42 PM
12

This was so helpful to read. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:17 AM
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THIS. She’ll also likely be willing to work with you to improve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:36 AM
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THIS WAS ME. FDS literally helped change my life. So happy for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:03 AM
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Omfg this is THE TRUTH. Emotionally abusive and controlling ex’s entire narrative was about how things were for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:26 PM
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There are so many things wrong in this post, my head is spinning. Get out of this relationship. Read the entire handbook twice. And get into therapy - therapy is a wonderful thing. When you’ve actually taken the time to heal and can quickly and easily recognize red flags for what they are, then think about dating again. Much love girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:56 AM
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Yes girl! You are welcome. Keep leveling up :) I tell myself that every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:57 PM
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Feel the anger. Read every word of the handbook. Read the helpful comments from queens here. And then eventually, you’ll start letting go of the anger and be ready to embrace a stress free dating experience. HVW don’t stress, because they’ve taken the time to heal and level up. You got this! I’m still letting go of my anger and in therapy to heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:40 PM
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He’s living at home and makes more than you. His student loans are not your concern - that’s purely his business to handle and doesn’t factor into the monetary aspects of your relationship. Absolutely fair to let him know that he committed a faux pas by assuming you’d be paying for his ticket when there was no such offer. It’s not you who committed the error, he did, so no need to worry about seeming accusatory or greedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:23 AM
15

Make it expensive for men to abuse or manipulate you! The LVM can’t stomach investing because they only want to use you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:10 AM
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Love this!!!! Yes ladies. Brainstorm away because I’ll be your biggest fan and share with other HVW in my life, as I’ve shared this sub. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:05 AM
2

I saw this one and still think about it to this day. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:49 AM
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Thank you!!! Downloaded. You’re amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:37 AM
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So well said. I completely agree, this sub has helped change my life and I’m on a journey to level up. Every post helps. But the handbook - that’s a masterpiece. Could we preserve that in some way so it’s not lost - no matter what happens?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:11 AM
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Oh my god. If there’s any possible way you could check in on what the authorities are doing with that info, a lot of women would be grateful. Soooo hope it gets shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:44 AM
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I highly suggest reading the handbook (in its entirety) again. It’s been really beneficial for me - it hardened my resolve to never be the way I was again & stuck with me in a better way. Read it again, and you’ll know the answer to this question 100% - sending you 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:37 AM
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Honestly, I’m not going out to restaurants yet because the COVID cases keep rising. I live in a hot spot. Have you asked if that’s his reason?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:09 AM
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Some people really just don’t have addictive personalities at all, and can be friends with others who also aren’t addicted. It’s rare, but possible. Are his friends addicted? Do they have to do it every weekend, every time they go out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:40 AM
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After getting out of an extremely emotionally abusive relationship, the one thing that tears me apart is that women can’t warn other women. I wished I could have talked to his exes but I didn’t turn into a detective to do it. I so wish there was a place we could expose the abusers because no other woman deserves to go through what I went through at his hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:09 AM
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My god. So much rage and so many outright incoherent, blame-game sentences in one message. Support all the other comments ahead of mine, and also ....We love men - if they are high value! The exact same way that high value men only want a total boss as their future wife. And this sub is an invaluable resource to help us weed out the low value men. It’s that simple. I hope you’re lurking, bud. Stop being so butthurt and open your mind, learn a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:21 AM
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Get the bigger bed! For your damn self. I have a king and I love not having to blow up an air mattress and move furniture when my sister comes to visit. Or spending nights laughing and watching movies with my girlfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:17 PM
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I just snorted 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:53 AM
7

Thank you for your thoughtful answer :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:18 AM
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Totally agree with you!!! Great response. You phrased everything so well. I do have a follow up question though. Let’s say they weren’t exclusive. Assuming she’s following the FDS guidance to keep dating until commitment is established, why would that be an instant blockable offense? Assuming that when anyone continues to date, their conversations would likely be a bit flirty with other people. So it stands to reason that either of them would be within their rights to keep dating, as commitment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:40 AM
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Keep telling yourself that this is how he acts in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. Gaslighting, belittling, not treating you like a priority. It will literally never get better, and it’s not even good now. It’s actually downright bad. Soon, you’ll find disgust replaces your romanticized, false opinion of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:32 AM
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IMO saving your first kiss for marriage is super extreme and would honestly weird a lot of people out, and for good reason. Length of time waiting to experience kissing isn’t more romantic and doesn’t earn you merit, nor is it a qualifier of a healthy, happy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:46 AM
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YESSSSS. This is the energy 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:42 AM
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This is SO helpful. Thank you. This tactic would have helped me avoid so much BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:33 AM
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Absolutely one of the best things I’ve ever read on this sub. Have already come back to it multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:27 AM
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Interesting article. But I found myself irritated the article ended on a note of classism. While classism definitely exists and it is an issue, the author didn’t give that point a balanced take. College is not for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. Great, even, as there are many highly skilled trades that let people make bank. There is absolutely a difference between a blue collar career in a highly skilled, specialized, in-demand trade and someone just making enough to take care of themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:16 AM
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This is absolutely true. Years of experience in NYC dating to confirm it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:50 AM
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