This is why you do not send nudes, ever.

plembb · 2020-06-27T02:59:34+00:00

She sounds like a queen.

Also, this shit exists? I’ve made a lot of mistakes in my past. Now I’m terrified.

OrchidLion · 2020-06-27T03:15:41+00:00

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OrchidLion · 2020-06-27T03:46:30+00:00

This is why women should listen to their intuition from the start. I used to wait and wait for confirmation of my suspicions from his mouth. Some "REAL proof" showing me I'm right. Some admittance of the truth.

Now I will just leave when my intuition tells me to. No time wasted. No waiting for him to confirm his guilt. I AM THE JUDGE. Either I will snoop around and get evidence immediately like this queen did, or just leave right from the start.

Glad she reported him and the site.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-06-27T02:39:38+00:00

Glad she reported it!

tw231116 · 2020-06-27T06:57:03+00:00

My ex did this. Traded pictures of me (without my consent) for pictures of other men's wives (who knows if they consented). I didn't send him the nudes, he took them. Be careful out there ladies!

honeybeeroll · 2020-06-27T04:59:59+00:00

I hope he goes to prison. What a monster. Trading in child porn, lock him up for the rest of his life. You don't fucking get to live life again after doing something like that. Like he gave up any dignity or humanity he had participating in pedophilia

LU_7192 · 2020-06-27T04:44:00+00:00

Oh my god. If there’s any possible way you could check in on what the authorities are doing with that info, a lot of women would be grateful. Soooo hope it gets shut down.

Nikita_kitty93 · 2020-06-27T11:50:57+00:00

Finally someone that shares her story not to ask for advice about what to do after finding such horrible things..She knows in her soul that she had to leave instead of lamenting or agonizing wheter to stay because she loves him and I respect her for that..

sparklykittens234 · 2020-06-27T04:03:51+00:00

This just makes me want to cry. Unbelievable deceit.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-06-27T04:48:55+00:00

I’m so proud of her for breaking up with him and reporting the website!

Zambigulator · 2020-06-27T14:39:42+00:00

This is chilling. This also happened in my city... a dark web forum with a section called "The Hit Report". It was all men talking about women around town they picked up or were interested in, and I saw there were lots of women I knew, even my own sister. I can't get into it on Reddit, but I know some people who have dealt with this now, back up all data, doxxed the dudes and sent their families this lovely info (: One of the dudes tried to drug and rape me at my own workplace... luckily my coworker noticed. I got away and I just love throwing it into his face.

philo_therapist · 2020-06-27T02:46:10+00:00

This is horrific. I don’t know what’s worse though:

Him being a porn addict or him lying about it?

Suitcase33 · 2020-06-27T14:54:56+00:00

shes a real one. women like her have suspicions, follow those suspicions, get it confirmed and leave. on top of that she did her part on holding him accountable. this is a mature and stable woman with respect. meanwhile pickmes would just cry and be like ‘choose me😭’ and indulge in his deviance.

Queen_Anne_Boleyn · 2020-06-28T00:13:42+00:00

So, this one I was cleaning off the top of my now ex's entertainment center. I was sorting things and tossing things because he would sometimes et his junk mail up there and forget about it. I found this envelope and opened it and it was full of polaroid, nudes of some girl I didn't know. So I confronted him about it and it was like his ex from 4 years earlier. I told him that I had a problem with it, but i'm not sure if he ever threw them away, or just hid them.

Ordinary_Cattle · 2020-06-27T15:21:32+00:00

I know exactly which site she's talking about. I'm pretty sure it's been shut down now, but my sister and I were in there for years. Her, because of nudes she sent to her first boyfriend around age 15/16 (she's almost 28 so this was before smartphones). They're still all over the internet because of this site. For me, I was a cam girl for a few years and someone doxxed me. He was a pissed customer that I refused to meet in real life or give discounts/free shit to. He found my fb before I had it totally locked down (stupid of me, I know better now) and sent pics and a link to my ads to everyone on my friends list, which was around 1k people at the time. So people who knew me started posting them on there, using them and my sisters nudes to trade for others and such. My family is pretty well known in the area we live, we come from a well off, locally influential family, so just saying our last name on this site got a lot of interest because there's 5 of us sisters that have gotten some level of attention around here.

Anyway sorry for the rant. I just know how devastating this can be and how shitty this horrible horrible site is. I was more upset for my sister, I didn't hide what I did for work really and was a stripper for years before the porn at the local strip club so people knew. My heart just broke for her. It was the only time she ever sent nudes and since it was so long ago it shouldn't have happened. Anyway don't send nudes kids.

Title	This is why you do not send nudes, ever.
Author	Adawritesrules
Upvotes	282
Comments	30
Date	June 27, 2020 2:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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