| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2674 | This guy gets it 🙌🐍 | FDS HUMOR | tw231116 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:36 PM |
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| 1 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.She wasn't though, so that's a moot point. Nothing said or done about Meghan is worse than what any other woman in the royal family has endured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.Kate had topless photos taken without her consent published on the cover of a magazine. How is that not worse than anything published about Meghan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.On the contrary, you have fallen for her narcissist pity play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow."If she was white" Have you seen how other women in the royal family are treated? Diana was literally hounded to her death by journalists but that's okay I guess, because she's just a privileged white bitch? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 24 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.There are many reasons to dislike Meghan that have nothing to do with her colour (I didn't even realise she was "black" until I read about it. She looks like a white person with a bit of a tan). Rumours from multiple sources are that she's a bully and caused several staff to quit. She has direspected the royal family by splashing her dirty laundry all over the front pages, while claiming she wants privacy. Made false claims about why her son wasn't given a title and about being married before th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 13 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.Exactly this! This is how the royal family works. It's a family but also an institution with a hierarchy that is literally enshrined in law. It has nothing to do with anyone's skin colour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 12 | This guy gets it 🙌🐍Look what I got in my inbox for daring to post this: "Rather than just focussing on the minute percent of venomous snakes why not also look at the snakes that have uplifted billions of people with their inventions and achievements such as the greatest art, music, literature, the roads you use, the car you drive, electricity, the internet, life saving medicine, advanced technology, pretty much every single great thing that was crrated in the last 100 years. FDS has redefined LVF's (mens/society p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 30 | They accuse us of being female incels...If I'm an incel, why am I engaged? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:19 AM |
| 30 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanOh my god. Imagine moving in with a guy and you've never been to his place before. At the very least I would want to see how he lives and what I'm inviting into my home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:17 AM |
| 313 | Reminder to myself and others: Just focus on yourself honey.The only reason I'm glad for the relationships I had before I was 25 is that they taught me what I don't want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Just because a relationship failed, doesn't mean you did!Thank you! That's exactly why I shared this. I spent so much time questioning myself and doubting my character. If anyone is reading this, having been made to feel there is something wrong with them by a man: it's not you, it's him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 55 | Just because a relationship failed, doesn't mean you did!After leaving my abusive ex, I spent years thinking I was a failure and incapable of having a happy, healthy relationship. He made me feel that all the discord in the relationship was MY fault, and if only I could do better, we could be happy. Well that was a complete lie. I've been with my fiancé for two years now and we have never, ever argued. It turns out I'm not actually emotionally instable when I don't have someone in my life who is abusing, controlling and manipulating me at every opport… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesI mean when I think of hobbies, I think of something that someone invests time in over an extended period of time. I don't have time for more than two or three of those things, so maybe it was just disbelief? If someone told me they have that many hobbies I would be a bit confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | I have a chronic illness too, and I cant tell you how many times i heard that it is all in my head🤡thousands of women suffer from malpractice only because they are WOMENSame... I can get through a job interview, but I can't hold onto a job. I can socialise and mingle at a party, but I struggle to build long-term friendships. In fact, I am a magnet for abusive people because I can't read the signs. I feel overwhelmed by the world every day and it feels exhausting just keeping up the bare minimum. I saw countless mental health professionals in my youth, and not one of them spotted it. My parents told me they had considered getting me assessed for autism, but it "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:02 AM |
| 7 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousApparently the explanation for this is that every new medication that is trialed has to be weighed up against the risk of not taking it. So for men, a male BC pill is always going to be more risky that not taking a pill. But for women, the alternative is pregnancy, which comes with its own risks. And that's why it's much easier to pass new BC pills for women than it is for men, even if they cause potentially severe side effects. And the same reason why women are more likely to put themselves thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:24 AM |
| 4 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousI was a big supporter of the pill, until I found out it was causing my chronic pain. I had four good years on it, so I had no reason to suspect it. Knowing what I know now, I would never have gone on it! It should be a medical scandal, that we are basically told there are very few risks and not given any information about what they do to our bodies long term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:00 AM |
| 8 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousThat is not true. Just because you already have a hormonal imbalance, does not mean the pill can't fuck it up even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:00 AM |
| 4 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousI had them with one particular ex. Accompanied by constant yeast infections because of the antibiotics I had to take for the UTIs. Honestly, if I had known it could be fixed by changing the man, I would have done so much earlier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:57 AM |
| 3 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.This happened to me, my ex put photos that he took on his phone online and was swapping them with other men. Never do it, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:49 AM |
| 5 | I have a chronic illness too, and I cant tell you how many times i heard that it is all in my head🤡thousands of women suffer from malpractice only because they are WOMENI didn't get diagnosed with autism until I was 28 because almost all the research is focused only on boys and men, and autistic women present differently. And then only because I had the money to go private. Severe difficulties with school and work, and multiple suicide attempts could have been avoided. I was told when I had glandular fever and developed severe post-viral fatigue that I was "just depressed" and put on antidepressants with severe side effects. This is despite having a POSITIVE bl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!Interesting! The very first thing I noticed when I first met my abusive ex was how "charming" he was. Later in the relationship, I saw him switch it on and off at will when meeting my friends and family, like a mask. Then when I left him, everyone said "Oh, but he was so nice!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 65 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"My ex said I was "selfish" because I told him he can drive to my house for a change. Oh and because I wanted him to attend my graduation ceremony. They literally think of us as slaves, don't they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:27 AM |
| 21 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"I'm so happy to hear this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:25 AM |
| 56 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Right! I met my fiancé well before I found FDS but I'm here for the positive vibes and reminders to keep my standards high. I had abusive relationships in the past, and it's very healing to understand what really happened and how to avoid it in the future. This sub does such important work, I wish I had found it much sooner. I believe so many more women would be empowered (and I usually hate that word) to leave abusive men if they found this place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:24 AM |
| 3 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?This is really similar to what happened with my ex. I became severely ill a few months after meeting him (I now think it might be related) and my illness really kept me stuck with him, because I was having such a hard time just looking after myself. Those were the worst years of my life. I'm doing better now and I'm glad to hear you're doing well too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Yes, it's a hard realisation. We can't get those years back, but we can move forward by not wasting a second more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:21 AM |
| 11 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?This is so true. My biggest regret in life is not ditching men at the first sign of trouble, instead of giving a second, third, fourth, and fifth chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:15 AM |
| 8 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Holy shit. Were there any signs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisI went on a date once with a guy who went on to explain to me "And of course I'm a feminist, in the true sense of the word, which is that I believe in equal rights for all people". 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:18 AM |
| 26 | Why on earth on are teenagers worried about this shit....oh wait I know. Breaks my heart : /"Shaving your vagina" I'm sorry, but this gets me every time. They don't even have anatomically correct vocabulary. I'm sorry for today's youth, I would have hoped things were better by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:14 AM |
| 5 | Saw this post in the dating subreddit and realized the importance of being happy alone. You can still feel intimacy and closeness with friends and family. Feeling this way leads to codependency.I'm just speaking from my own personal experience when I say that I was made to feel bad for wanting that. Presumably other women in this sub also want that, or is this sub not about finding a partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Saw this post in the dating subreddit and realized the importance of being happy alone. You can still feel intimacy and closeness with friends and family. Feeling this way leads to codependency.My number one goal was always to have a family and children. Can't do that without a partner. As much as I threw myself into my work and my hobbies and tried to make those my goals, they couldn't fulfil that deep longing I had. I have my own business and earn a small amount of money from my hobby as a musician. But I have never been as happy as I am now with my fiancé. Sometimes I think it should be okay to admit what you really want, even if it's not what society tells you should want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Stop Sexualizing yourselfMy fiancé said he was attracted to me because I could hold an intelligent conversation, and because I didn't throw myself at him or flirt with him right away. The sex with him is the best ever. Patience pays off, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 4 | My Wife's autistic friend wont make eye contact me or laugh at my jokes, how can I get my Wife to stop having friends? I want my house back.I'm autistic and I absolutely do not do fake laughs, white lies or any of those things that people do to be "nice". I do not find it "nice" to fake my reactions or be inauthentic with people. Haters gonna hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 43 | Is it just me, or is most couples' advice from therapists/psychologists/counselors just goddamn AWFUL for women??When I was in an abusive relationship, I turned to the internet and relationship advice books for help. I ended up believing that I was doing something wrong, and that if I could just improve my communication/be more caring/win his respect, we would be okay and he would stop treating me that way. I am now engaged to an HVM and I don't do anything differently than I did with any of my shady exes. If anything, I do less. He never treats me badly and always goes out of his way to take care of me. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:32 AM |
| 29 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Her post history says she's 69 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:54 AM |
| 12 | That Pickmeisha lifestyle....saw on IGI would rather die than do this. Even in the absolute worst of my pickme days I knew this was beneath me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:40 AM |
| 28 | It’s so mean when Lesbians dunk on straight women 😭. Like damn we know it sucks sis but our sexuality is not a choice.I literally never want to hear about how we have "straight privilege". Women who have relationships with or sleep with men run the risk of violence, abuse, rape, unwanted pregnancy or even murder. And even in the best of straight relationships, we still do the bulk of the domestic and reproductive labour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020My fiancé decided to boycott Reddit with me in protest at the misogynistic ban wave. HVM alert! I'm only chilling here until I get verified on Discord... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:32 PM |
| 5 | For the men that love to ask “What was she wearing” when a woman says she has been raped. Explain this!😴😴Don't worry, I'm doing fine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:11 PM |
| 24 | For the men that love to ask “What was she wearing” when a woman says she has been raped. Explain this!😴😴After I was raped, my rapist said "I knew you wanted it or you wouldn't have worn that skirt." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:34 AM |
| 4 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.I mean... I currently don't have any but I fully expect to develop them if I get pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:00 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE on our WEBSITE TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com! SIGN UP TODAY in case WE'RE BANNED! PLUS Tips and Tricks for SUCCESSFUL SIGN UP and FAQs!Hi, I'm trying to get verified on Discord but no one is ever available during my waking times? I'm on Eastern European Time. I've been selfie-verified already but have been waiting about a week now for the voice verification. Can someone help me with this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:24 AM |
| 23 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.Yeah... how many times have I been to a guy's place and turns out he only has one shitty 14-year-old pillow that is all flat and lumpy, and hasn't washed his sheets in god knows how long. There was even one who slept on the floor. This is not that much of a stretch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:12 AM |
| 19 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.Yep, I got here the same way! My fiance knows I'm here and sometimes we even laugh at the memes together. It's almost as if HVMs are not threatened by women knowing their own worth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Thought about creating an app for us and all the radical feminist subs. Would you guys use it if I did? Also if anyone could help that would be amazing!Do you have a link for the Discord? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Thought about creating an app for us and all the radical feminist subs. Would you guys use it if I did? Also if anyone could help that would be amazing!I'm in. I just hope we have a way to communicate each other after this gets banned so we know where to go. Sorry I don't have any coding knowledge! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 10 | Princess Diana’s iconic ‘revenge’ dress, worn the night Prince Charles publicly admitted to being unfaithful to her [1994]Not quite accurate, he was 32. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 7 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏I never got paid for chores, so in my first job I was just happy to be getting something, even though I now realise I was being severely underpaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:15 PM |
| 15 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Same... I was blamed for absolutely everything that went wrong in the house, while my little sister was a perfect angel who could do no wrong. Now I am highly self-critical and feel constantly burned out from trying to meet my own high standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:11 PM |
| 13 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsYeah, staying with him for as long as I did is my life's biggest regret, but I'm smashing it now 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:12 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsOh okay, if your friend says it, it must be true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:52 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsThis actually makes me feel lucky that I already have disabilities. My fiancé knows what he's getting into. My heart breaks for any woman who has to go through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:47 AM |
| 34 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsMy ex rubbished my academic achievements too. When I was writing my undergraduate dissertation, my ex read it and told me it's "shit". When I graduated with an excellent grade, he told me "anyone can do that, you're nothing special". And on my graduation day, he went out of his way to ruin it for me by complaining about having to meet my family and driving recklessly on the way home. When I told him to stop, he threatened to leave me a the side of the road. Finally, when I decided to go back to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:37 AM |
| 13 | This is why you do not send nudes, ever.It wasn't illegal at the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 50 | This is why you do not send nudes, ever.My ex did this. Traded pictures of me (without my consent) for pictures of other men's wives (who knows if they consented). I didn't send him the nudes, he took them. Be careful out there ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:57 AM |
| 11 | We’ve done it, we’ve reached the top of male audacity.Pretty hard to teach someone who doesn't want to learn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:16 AM |
| 138 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!Imagine thinking being rejected is your "worst experience ever" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:57 AM |
| 21 | 21 years - My mind is blown. Why is this story so common? My heart hurts for her and for all other women who've had to experience heartbreak, because some LVM didn't understand what the word loyalty meant.My aunt's husband did this and then blamed her for "always being busy with the kids". The kids that he helped make, and should be being a dad to! Now she found out he's been squirrelling money that he always said he didn't have. He's in a relationship with his 20-years-younger business partner now. Absolute scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:05 AM |
| 24 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.This is why I don't even argue with these people anymore. Why should I waste my time on energy arguing with someone who has already made up their mind not to listen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:54 AM |
| 98 | This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment??Holy shit, it gets worse! Behold, another of the comments: I understand that it hits too close to home to see the man you’ve planned the rest of your life with masturbating to other women, but try to get past your initial reaction and think logically. How else do you expect him to alleviate his desire? Should he just wake you up at random hours or expect you to always service him whether you’re in the mood or not? They're so pornsick they can't conceive of getting off without exploiting a woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 19 | So glad someone said it🤢🤢🤢 Poor lass. Is it just me or does she look over the moon while he seems indifferent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 20 | So I tried fds as hashtag on insta - what I found made me throw up in my mouth. How is this not considered dangerous and/or hate speech? LVMs think ladies owe them sex just because they exist. What a piece of trash.Yeah, imagine... casual sex for women is usually not rewarded with an orgasm, but still comes with all the risks of STDs, male violence and pregnancy. And they want us to do it for less than the price of a big of chips! They can fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:06 AM |
| 5 | If you don't think HVM exist at all, why are you even here?I agree that unkind comments shouldn't belong here. This should be a positive and supportive community. I also think that wallowing in bitterness is not the right mindset to be in if you are truly serious about dating. And at this point, I don't know if I would recommend this sub to anyone who is serious about dating, because it's full of people who are just here to complain. It's enough to make anyone completely lose hope and give up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 10 | If you don't think HVM exist at all, why are you even here?I have noticed that many of the users claiming there are no HVMs or that all men are trash have high-level flairs. I'm sorry, what?! Have I completely misunderstood what this sub is about?! It's like the blind leading the blind in here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | NVM calls rich, 24 year old gf a spoiled brat and undermines her success. Asks if he's TA.It should always be a red flag if a guy is impolite about your family. My ex did it – oh and blamed for that the fact that he had zero money saved because he wanted me to open a savings account for him. I own a successful business now and last I heard he was still living with his parents at 32. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 07:32 AM |
| 4 | I Said This Before and I'll Keep Saying It, No One is Entitled to You Giving a Clear "No." YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STAY SAFE!When I was 19, a man in a nightclub told me I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever seen and asked me to dance. He kept following me even after I said no, multiple times, so my friends and I snuck out the back exit. He spotted us outside and threw glass bottles at us as we got into a taxi. Luckily he was pissed and had pretty bad aim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 07:20 AM |
| 4 | I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident)I hope she leaves him and tells him why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Inexperienced girl gets repeatedly raped by her boyfriend, wants to find a polite way to tell him to stop hurting herGood for you staying off the bc, it's nasty shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Lundy is a HVMI honestly think "transphobic" has just become a synonym for "pro-women" now. Don't like something? Get people to avoid it by calling it transphobic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:17 AM |
| 16 | I found out about this subreddit through a hate post, and I'm so fucking glad I didYay! I found this sub through a hate post too (people complaining about the female-only policy). I thought that sounds like where I need to be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:10 AM |
| 5 | A simple yet powerful comment on a post where people were sympathizing with my ex and calling me crazy for showing up at his place unannounced and catching him red-handed with another womanI believed this about myself for years! With my current fiancé? I have never felt anxious or distrusting even once, because he hasn't given me reason to. Listen to that gut feeling, it's not you, it's him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 12 | Inexperienced girl gets repeatedly raped by her boyfriend, wants to find a polite way to tell him to stop hurting herYou should not be in pain from tampon use, you should get that checked out! Healthy PIV sex should not be painful either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high valueI came from a good home. I've never seen my parents fight or even speak a harsh word to each other. They are happy together after 30 years of marriage. But I ended up in several abusive relationships and staying with more than one cheater (at least for a while). I always felt very confused about how to tell the good ones from the bad ones. To me, they all seemed nice (in the beginning anyway). The confusion and the pain from the abuse led me to the brink of suicide. It got really bad. Then I lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:04 AM |
| 19 | Lundy is a HVMOmg. I read that entire book thinking Lundy is a woman's name 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 08:19 AM |
| 36 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .He literally thinks his wife should be grateful that he decided to be with her... after cheating on her for five months. Asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:40 AM |
| 17 | “For years, I pursued men and got nowhere.” Older Woman and former pickmeisha follows “Getting to I Do”, a FDS book, and marries a HVM after 1 yearCan you post the article text? I'm being blocked from reading it because it thinks I have an adblocker (I don't). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Shit like this is such a slap in the face for those of us who dated a toxic man for YEARS, gave him the world, got attached, and never changed a thing.The men who make you responsible for their self-improvement are the same men who can never admit to a mistake, never apologise and blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. Just don't do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:07 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if you’re too picky?There is no such thing as being too picky! Being picky means you have a good life on your own and it's going to take someone really special to match that standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Tinder is a way for men to drive by harrass us nowWtf... why would you even reply to something like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:02 AM |
| 11 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveYeah what is with that?! Do they think we won't know they lied when it's pretty frickin obvious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | This is why you need to have a secret saving account. What a messI asked my fiancé if we were going to have a joint bank account and he was just like "What? Why would we do that?" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How did she not know he was like that BEFORE the baby?How fast are we talking here? How long do you think is long enough? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:19 AM |
| 6 | How did she not know he was like that BEFORE the baby?Was literally having this conversation with my American friend the other day – specifically about American men because we live in a country with national service, so virtually all men here have been in the military. In his opinion, some men come out of the military as really decent and sensitive people, but some go the other way and get super messed up by it. Probably the above poster's point was not that all military men are bad, but that it can be a red flag for mental health issues and abusiv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:16 AM |
| 11 | How did she not know he was like that BEFORE the baby?This is absolutely terrifying... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 76 | Girls, HVM behaviour?Yeah I do like hair on my men actually, because we're all grown-ass adults and hair is natural. I find the lack of it quite disturbing and unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Ain't that the truth.I found out about my ex's new girlfriend when I learned he was cheating on me with her... I laid out all the evidence and she stayed, probably because he painted me as the "crazy ex". Wonder how long that shiny new feeling lasted? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 10:45 AM |
| 59 | One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.An ex of mine once told me he had 20k sitting in an account in case of divorce. This was the same guy who had decided without consulting me that I was going to be a SAHM for our future babies.... Thank fuck I didn't marry that guy. They don't have any problem with it when it benefits them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:20 AM |
| 9 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comI got engaged with a placeholder because the actual ring got delayed due to coronavirus... we are having something custom-made. I actually got sentimentally attached to the placeholder already because it's so pretty, even though it's not the real thing! I'm thinking of altering the custom ring to match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 20 | expecting basic chivalry disqualifies you from a second dateYeah... for every guy who won't pay for a date, there is another better guy who will. Who do they think is going to be higher in my standing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:49 AM |
| 7 | Girls as young as nine are seeking surgery on their genitals because they are distressed by its appearance. Biggest Influencer? PORN!Wtf. What about all the women who are suffering with conditions such as vulvodynia who are basically told to just deal with it, because the research hasn't been done to offer them actual effective treatments. This is one of the most important areas of research in my opinion, and would improve quality of life for so many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:08 AM |
| 8 | Rip singlesWhy is not wearing makeup compared with being naked? People see me without makeup all the time, not just the man I'm in a relationship with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 09:45 AM |
| -8 | Looks are everything until it’s an inconvenience 🙄"Effortless beauty" has always been a lie What do you even mean by that? Women are naturally beautiful, that's not a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:26 AM |
| 59 | Husband demands sexual favors in exchange for cleaning up after himself and raising his own childWow, the audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:08 AM |
| 27 | Husband demands sexual favors in exchange for cleaning up after himself and raising his own childThe way she says "finally" makes me think there were signs before this happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.I appreciate you for saying it! 🙏💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 29 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.Thank you! I was so close to unsubbing from this sub because of this... like I thought this was female dating strategy! If you just want to post about how men are trash, what are you even doing here?! To a certain extent, it's useful to know the red flags to look out for, but not to the point where this isn't a positive or uplifting place to be anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Are HVM even worth it tho?My understanding is that you're still putting up with a lot of the same bullshit from them I'm not getting any bullshit from mine. I would suggest that if you are getting bullshit, he's not HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:18 AM |
| 6 | I'm not even sure I wanna associate myself with men anymoreThat's why the goal is to find a partner that adds value (literally why we call them HVMs). The right partner will increase your health and happiness (I know mine has)... but if a man has nothing to add, you are better off single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayhow menstruating does that naturally Pretty sure nothing bad happens to your vagina if you don't menstruate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the day"Second favourite fruit" 😂 I love that you have a fruit ranking, that's awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Ahhh shit. Thanks though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Did you know there is a "Follow" feature for reddit accounts now? Some creepy incel has followed me. Is it enough to block or do I need to take extra precautions? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:51 PM |
| 158 | I’m crying y’allI have a master's degree, speak five languages, run my own business, have lived in four countries and I'm beautiful, and I got my heart broken by more than one broke-ass loser who still lives at home, smokes weed and works in a convenience store. Why? Because I didn't know there was anything better for me. I look back on those years as if I was living in a haze or under the control of a dark force or cult, because in a way, I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | “Relationships are hard” is a myth spread by pickmes who find validation in struggle love.This myth is what made me stay in abusive relationships far longer than I should have. It needs to die. I'm in a healthy relationship now, and the difference is like night and day. Literally nothing about my relationship is hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storyJust last week, I posted a comment in a language-related thread and some random user demanded to know where I'm from and where I live, etc. I said no, so he stalked my entire post history and then posted my personal information under my comment. For no reason. As if I owe him my life story! I put it out there in dribs and drabs but you have to dig to put all the pieces together. That was a wakeup call and I took the advice of this sub to purge my post history. I also reported the guy for targete… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:51 AM |
| 2 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.This is so me. I felt this way. I had a childhood filled with bullying and emotional neglect, and then I got chronically ill at 21 and spent almost my entire 20s recovering physically and mentally. I was pretty much primed to accept substandard treatment, and kept ending up in abusive relationships. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me, why men kept treating me as if I'm less than human. But the problem was with them, not me. My health is still not 100%, but it's better than it was. I al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:33 AM |
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