No judging but you need to read the FDS handbook again..cause you cannot determine that a man is HV just after 3 dates, for all he could be playing a character just to impress you so Be smart out there ladies.
Finally someone that shares her story not to ask for advice about what to do after finding such horrible things..She knows in her soul that she had to leave instead of lamenting or agonizing wheter to stay because she loves him and I respect her for that..
Most women are always concerned about how their partners are feeling cause they don't want to hurt them..and they never prioritize their feelings so what about your own pain👀
From what I have been reading,it seems that you are in denial about your situation and always making up excuses for him..and stop saying your low-vlaue because of one mistake, u are grown and u recognize your mistake so learn from it..and how much longer are u willing to stay till u see an improvement,it's been 4 years already.. love and prioritize yourself more girl
Woww how could he say something like this to his future wife that he loves..she should take a break from this relationship and ask herself if she really wants to be with this asshole.
Omgshhh..it's getting annoying that women keep putting men on a pedestal for doing small stuff. They are together so what he did was expected cause if he was in the same situation,I think she would have done the same. How come women don't get praise like that for doing this kind of gesture every single day or more but the minute a man do it "hell broke" he is HVM..please let's just concentrate on us Women.
Can we stop with all this HVM stuff when we don't really know for sure if they are...that was a nice gesture but that does not mean that he is HV for that.
Damn..the last guy I was with,I made so many of these mistakes that when I am thinking about it now..it baffled me. So ladies don't ever be a fan cause they will not respect you and will be seen as annoying and replaceable. Hold your crown queens.
I always say this..do not believe a man is HVM just because of his actions after just two months, u have to wait for way more than that because there are men who are sneaky and they will do anything a supposed HVM will do just to get into ur pants..smart up ladies and do not let love blind you and ur ability to discern.
This shit too long so I stop halfway and also the person writing this,I wonder if she is sane,how could she in a relationship with a man who keeps abusing her verbally and emotionally
That's the problem ladies..just because someone appeared to be HVM doesn't mean he is,u only know talk with this person once so now he is just trying to impress you. Wait till 6 months and then repost again. Do not fall for this,be smart
I had a crush on this guy and two years later I met him.so we started dating but things escalated quickly but everything was ok..he was the one arranging the dates,texting,giving me attention when were out so I thought that things were going well.. Three months have passed and I see that we were going nowhere..so I asked him what we were cause I don't want to be in a casual relationship and he replied that it's not the right moment for him to be in a committed relationship and he would understan…
