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QUEEN SH*Tnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:41 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:53 PM
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nutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:53 AM
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STRATEGYnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?nutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:04 PM
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NAH, SISnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:09 AM
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STRATEGYnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:57 AM
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 THE SCROTATIONnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:52 PM
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STRATEGYnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:58 PM
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LEVEL UPnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:30 AM
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DISCUSSIONnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:36 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 03:00 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 08:37 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?nutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:54 AM
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DISCUSSIONnutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:48 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?nutshit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:43 PM
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Exactly. Some women are entirely too concerned with male emotion & guilt. There’s nothing wrong with doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:44 PM
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I AM SCREAMING!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:11 AM
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No, I wish OP included the thread because it was beautifully explained. Masculine and feminine isn’t really gender based, it’s an energy. A masculine role essentially “does” so you can “be”. A woman in a relationship shouldn’t be in the masculine role of being the action oriented protector of the man, ex: financially supporting the man, providing the home, taking on all his problems to fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:07 PM
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Any money he gives you, start putting it away in a secret savings account to at least provide you a cushion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:55 PM
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Girl do you. Anyone can pursue you but there’s clearly a pattern with men who feel “beneath you” and tear you down because low self esteem and men who feel “superior to you” because they’re attractive enough to get female attention at the drop of a hat. Being with a guy who’s attractive to you and you’re attractive to him is a good factor regardless..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:00 PM
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YES!! I constantly try to explain this to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:51 PM
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Exactly. You can pour all your love and give as much as you want to those who deserve it: animals, family, friends, homeless/elderly/etc..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:51 PM
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Loved your post I’m happy for you ❤️ it makes me nervous when I see posts like this because for some strange reason, this sub doesn’t take well to looksmaxxing. There’s nothing wrong with upgrading your looks and expecting men you date to be on your level. Looks affect a lot of things in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:46 PM
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Wow. This is insanely bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:43 PM
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Thank you for this reminder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:12 PM
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YES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:35 PM
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ME TOO!!!! I’d look at them so strange for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:33 PM
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Oh yeah. A lot of men are gold diggers, especially today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:28 PM
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HELL YES!!!! Keep going sis❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:17 PM
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Well yeah. Everyone is gonna say “it wasn’t my intention” just to deflect any responsibility. Either tell him to take accountability or leave him :/ because you’re saying this happens frequently. Silence also works wonderfully..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:22 AM
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Ew I wouldn’t suggest pursuing a man but I can kind of see the point she’s getting at. Some women who are assertive and have huge careers see men as cute play things. Think sugar mommas. So essentially, taking on the male role. Idk.. I guess that’s fun to some women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:50 PM
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She’s being too available 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:37 AM
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Now it’s your turn to level up. Be inspired..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:35 AM
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If you must tell, you bring it up when it’s established that he’s worth actually telling personal things to. But me, I like to keep things to myself. You could fall out anyday and regret telling them secrets 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:31 AM
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Exactly. When a girl says she wants an older man they get excited but those girls are talking 2-4 years older... not 30. And most girls who become sugar babies literally cringe and ask “do I really have to kiss/sleep/hold him?” Even with money young women are disgusted by older men so I don’t know where the delusion comes from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:59 PM
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And if he’s depending on her apartment/income, she could fake an eviction notice. If all else fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:41 PM
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I put that anger into bettering myself appearance wise and mentally. That anger made me prettier 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:58 AM
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Idk what to choose because I don’t believe in marriage in terms of love lol I would only get married if the guy is upgrading my life in a substantial way. I do plan on marrying well off🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:50 PM
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Lovely news to hear 😌 I love seeing progress in you ladies. I love that you mentioned maintaining your independence and allure, it’s a point often forgotten. Stay winning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:18 AM
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Hell yeah. She’ll only hold you back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:26 AM
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You. Did. Amazing! If you had let it slide, he would have kept you as a pen pal forever. His cop out makes him the type to breadcrumb you as a forever girlfriend. Always have standards and boundaries ladies there’s never a downside to having them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:00 PM
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Congrats girl, it’s only up from here!! You get to the point where he isn’t your type anymore. Seriously. Eventually when you continue leveling up you look back and think “wait, I don’t even associate with men like that” and you see him in a different light. I was in your position and I can truly say I wouldn’t take him back because I’m on a whole different level than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:50 PM
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DING DING DING!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:55 PM
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Exactly. I thought it was strange men from my past didn’t consistently come back like other women. But I realized LVM only return when they realize they needed you for their own benefit. I don’t give these men anything.. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:54 PM
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Yeah I’ve definitely seen it. I thought maybe it was just a couple people but it’s an alarming amount that are putting up a facade.. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:29 AM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:17 AM
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Lovely to hear you recognized your worth and leaving him. Taking care of your appearance really goes far and makes you feel so good overall. Align yourself with what the dream you looks like, you’ll attract a man on your level. Find a muse, someone you can admire and look to for style inspiration. Specifically someone who looks similar and realistic to you. To start, a nice simple skincare routine (Dr. Dray on youtube), having a signature perfume, and body butter/lotion would make you feel and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:10 AM
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Until you practice saying no, just lie. Please for your safety. For example when you guys went in separate cars to get boba, you could block him and go to another place. Lie by “agreeing”. Plenty of times when I didn’t feel safe enough to say no, I would agree and at any sign of an exit, I’d just disappear. Never feel guilty, you shouldn’t. He did so many things wrong your safety comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:59 AM
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Ohhhh my bad girl 😂 I took it as in she should contribute. Yeah I totally see your point now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:01 AM
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Why not? The right man for you should be able to provide for his family. If something happens, the woman is most likely being hit the hardest. She deserves to have her own money in case anything happens. You can be aware of the finances without contributing 50/50. That’s a set up for disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:54 PM
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I had a friend who loved “crazy” women too. I didn’t get it, like is it the excitement or is it low self esteem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:33 PM
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It’s so beautiful to get to this point. Like it’s so freeing. It’s so funny when people shame single women when really they’re so unhappy with their partners and kids. We win! 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:09 AM
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Lol this is a copy pasted joke on twitter. Girls comment it ironically under a mans picture they find attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:35 PM
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Exactly my point. They benefit waaay more from being with us, while most times they drain us. Only be with a man that adds to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:24 PM
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They’re always seeking ours. All we can do is inspire them. Just be your cute self and stick to your standards. Think about it, if every woman woke up with new standards, men would rush to change to meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:23 PM
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Right. I’ve had guy friends try to egg me on to make first moves on guys I wanted and it made me sick to my stomach 😭 like why would I court him if he hasn’t even shown interest in me first? It feels very backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:48 AM
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No problem love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:46 AM
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Literally. Male friends are easy to get but they aren’t worth it when you want depth. Being in women’s business... is too much for me. I’ll Pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:37 AM
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People only do to you what you allow 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:08 PM
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Your intuition is probably right. Whatever you do, just remember that when you break up with a guy, you either get rid of someone who was holding you back or he proves himself to you. Either way... win win situation. I’m sorry this happened to you i wish you the best of luck and love! 🦋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:06 PM
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Eh. That’s not really the point. I know when I say naturally it doesn’t go for “weaker, emotional” I just know we’re not meant to chase men and their validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:33 PM
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When considering people in your life ask one thing: are they adding or subtracting from my life? Are they draining or inspiring? Make that mental/literal list and go from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:55 PM
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Your pH balance can tell you a lot about your partner 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:39 AM
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A guy I rejected turned “friend” is an example of this. I admired some of his ambitious qualities and we were in the same circle. He absolutely relished in being able to reject my invitations out anywhere. I think it was his way of payback. Also pointing out anything on my body which was weird. Now he’s cut off 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:37 AM
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Seriously insane. Doubting my intuition once was enough for me 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:12 PM
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Yeah I’m in control but I like to give the the illusion that they are lmao. It’s good you mentioned the difference between being taken advantage of and being in control. Personally I don’t worry about that though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:07 PM
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This right here 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:43 PM
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This is my favorite way to vet them actually. I always let them take control or I’ll get turned off. You see it by the way he walks into a room, talks, body language... An assertive guy usually knows how to plan and handle situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:40 PM
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They definitely exist. I’ve had one make us wait and it was amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:30 PM
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Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:39 PM
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😂 please don’t do that but I love that she said that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:38 PM
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I remember your post and I gave you the advice not to message him, because guys pursue what they want. Just because you peeked his interest enough to follow your Instagram doesn’t mean anything. There’s many interpretations for that. You let the focus shift, now you are stuck over a man you didn’t care about in the first place. Sitting pretty and not making the first move is advice given for this exact reason. Just let it go and learn the lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:39 PM
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I WAS GONNA COMMENT THIS LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:34 PM
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Rather be that than have sex for free with manbabies that don’t wipe lmfaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:33 PM
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God that sub was so depressing to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:29 PM
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I’ve been watching sex and the city to refresh my style. I forgot how much I loved looking super feminine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:35 PM
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It’s an absolute mussssst. Life gets better when you care about making yourself look nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:21 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:16 PM
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Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:10 PM
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HOW ARE THESE REAAAAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:10 PM
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This happened to me!! 😂😂 went out with a producer and he cried about his ex!! These men are weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:59 AM
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Exactly. Women who comment how depressing this reality is, don’t have goals. If your only requirement from men is love... you’ve lost. The reality of men doesn’t depress me In the slightest because I have goals and I can use them to enhance my life. I can get love elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:30 PM
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Your doing it the right way. That’s the only way they care and put effort in. Also makes it easy to reap the benefits out of them this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:27 PM
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It’s so beautiful to see women opening their eyes and saying things I’ve been preaching for years! NEVER GIVE YOUR ALL! SheraSeven1 literally stresses that men don’t care about love and only sex. Most are cheaters when given an opportunity. If you bring up money they will conveniently say “well what about love?” just to throw you off. Get what you need out of them and LEAVE ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:26 PM
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Period! That’s what I’m doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:30 PM
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Well yeah... there’s no danger in YOU asking. But you gotta take precautions with men. Never let them know youre alone, have no friends/family until it’s safe to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:38 PM
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No they didn’t neg. I left them on read instead of responding (I should of been mean to see what they’d do tbh) They did pander to my bio requirements so that was interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:20 AM
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Men were literally inviting “me” (the gorgeous catfish) to house dates and one even just flat out asked for sex. Like I was pussy for order. I entertained it to see how far he’s go it was so gross. Talked about how good he was at eating pussy and making women squirt... he was like 5”1’ and looked like a rat. I wonder how many women they do it to. They were so boring too. I’m so anti-OLD and it just further proved I’d rather be dead than do that. Fun experiment though, I got $20 out of it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:40 AM
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I DID THIS TOO LOL. Let me tell you, men have the audacityyyyyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:33 AM
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I CANT LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:40 PM
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You’re welcome ❤️ I love you ladies!! It was great to give advice and uplift you guys. It felt so safe here compared to any other sub where the men attack you for breathing. Hopefully in the future we have our own website forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:02 AM
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Right! Anyone in here really good at building a site? I’m sure there’s at least one 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:54 AM
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Extremely true. I’ve had several men say this to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:40 AM
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When you hear about women wasting their life on men, no, I don’t find it weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:25 AM
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This was my one and only cringe date. I met him at a party and he began talking to me when I was really just speaking to his friend. I wasn’t interested in him at all, but he peaked my interest when he said “I’d take you shopping (insert mall with high end stores) and to a lounge you really like” right before I left I said yes, stupidly. Keep in mind I vet men pretty well and only agreed because I could use this guy. He claimed to have money thru his profession. So I thought why not? My god. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:03 PM
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This was OMGGGG. Love the ending lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:53 PM
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SCREAMING!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:41 PM
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Exactly. Women can’t avoid accountability or play victim in situations they can change. If he’s not putting effort and you aren’t tied down... the door is wide open to ditch his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:40 PM
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This is why I’m such a huge advocate for men who pay for things. A mans relationship with money will tell you everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:33 PM
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Girl.... they are delusional. I have a family member who is out of shape, unkempt, unemployed, a drop out who still lives with his parents, never dated, doesn’t pay bills in the house or has decent money in his account. Yet his requirements are models......... yes, he is porn sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:28 PM
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Crazy I don’t think women even make these demands on dating sites. If anything their requirements are based on character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:25 PM
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Exactly. Men aren’t complicated as some think. Like literally 2+2=4. You can use the tools given here and apply it to any man in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:22 PM
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Aw man :( her family probably pressured her for marriage too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:20 PM
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EXCUUUSEEEE ME LOOOOL!!! Reading has tangible results. Supporting him? Are you supposed to be cheering him on from his bed?? At your big age? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:15 PM
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Sounds like she needs to date up ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:39 AM
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Yeah my culture is like this. My dad paid for everything, she kept her money and paid for bills that were hers (shopping, etc.) 50/50 doesn’t make sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:37 AM
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This whole thread was absolute gold on twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:06 AM
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My face is literally like 😐 when they talk about taking toxic men back over and over again, and being forever/foster girlfriends. Like girl... you don’t have to live this way. Just .. stop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:55 AM
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Lol you sound like me with my guy friends. They loooove pick mes because their so easy but will do anything for the ones they can’t have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:53 AM
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Exactly me too. Like why would I stay here? 😂 Ciao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:57 PM
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In psychology class, you learn that positive reinforcement works better than negative reinforcement or punishment. Which is used in the argument of whether you should beat your children or not. This is giving me the same feeling. I would leave immediately if I was being negatively reinforced.. so that’s definitely not working over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:56 PM
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They’re saying go to therapy 🤢 why would you stay with a guy like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:51 PM
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Thank you I’m glad it worked for you! And yes you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:47 PM
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Yes all my coworkers are extreme pick mes. It hurts to listen. You kinda just have to let them do their own thing. They may see how you carry yourself and take note or never understand you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:17 AM
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He should message you. Always. Let him pursue you if he’s interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:39 PM
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Yes!! This my mentality as well. Just make friends as I go and they stay for the season or whatever. Friends aren’t always permanent so it’s okay to have a good time and not for a long time. These women will ditch you 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:29 PM
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Listen. Doubting your intuition is so ridiculous I will forever trust mine after it proved me right before. You don’t get that feeling for no reason, he’s probably trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:26 PM
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These comments have me screaming laughing omg...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:01 PM
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Good on you for recognizing the signs and getting out early. Pickmes would think they could change him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:59 PM
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It’s because you usually can’t change a man with that mindset. And you can’t pull FDS principles out of thin air in a relationship that was built on 50/50 ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:41 PM
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Yes! I just commented above how I don’t even become friends with those who aren’t single or I leave once they’re in one. Like clockwork, they only talk about that and I’m instantly drained. If you won’t leave him then stop talking 🤷‍♀️ I’m outta here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:32 PM
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I actually leave most friendships behind once theyre in a relationship. Every single one makes their relationship their life and just drops everything else. I’d rather get out before I get super annoyed by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:17 PM
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No FDS doesn’t support sex work lol. Just a personal opinion and decision of mine. And yeah I like that it cuts to the chase and lays down clear expectations. I might as well get paid to deal with men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:57 PM
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Yup. I may fully transition to sugaring/transactional relationships because I truly can’t trust or expect love out of men. I don’t really wanna bother with emotions and it fits more with my life goals honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:22 PM
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This is very true. I like the advice sex workers/sugar babies Ive seen have because they know the reality of men and move accordingly. Their strategies work and we could use them in the vanilla world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:42 AM
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Yeah listen to his actions not his words. Serial monogamists exist so him being a relationship type isn’t always a green flag. Just remember to keep your emotional involvement in check until he has literally proved his worth to you. Good luck apartment hunting ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:38 AM
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LMAOO 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:22 PM
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Didn’t read it, don’t care. I’ve noticed they always think this sub is run by black women. It’s so strange... and it plays into that “bitter black woman” stereotype. Because women have standards and viciously vet men.. they have to be black? Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:20 PM
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Ew. I would immediately get dressed up to the nines, go out and have a great time. I’ll come back home in a week 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:07 PM
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You can either hit Join on DarkTriadWomen page or message the moderator u/AverageToHot I believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:55 PM
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1st off thank you!! And 2nd... how did you read my mind?! I’ve been watching that lately and wanted to incorporate it in here but there were some pick me factors in there 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:13 AM
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They’re the “cool girls” who don’t think their worthy of nice things 😩 I had a friend like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:58 PM
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Yeah it’s code for that. I could tell when he said traveling and partner in crime too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:57 PM
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Self love, respect and self esteem. I cannot stress enough how much loving yourself saves you from bad situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:55 PM
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Yes! That’s the word I was looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:28 PM
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Men are verrrry different. They spend the whole time trying to convince you to get in a relationship since you don’t wanna.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:39 PM
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COMMUNICATE AND RECHARGE SEXUALLY??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:11 PM
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I heard somewhere that French men let their wives have side pieces (Lol sounds kinda neat). So It really must be a thing over there to just cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:07 PM
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Um?? WOW??!! Thank you, that's such a compliment. I wish you the best on your journey girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:53 PM
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With one boyfriend in particular this worked well with, I didn’t allow opportunities where sex could happen. Like no sleepovers. I controlled the amount of affection basically. I’m not the type who likes being in a relationship so I’d tell them “I’m not trying to be in a relationship I’m just having fun for now” (fun girl effect) and you would think they would take it as “oh, a friends with benefits” but noooo. It’s hilarious that men try harder to get you in a commitment when you say you don’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:46 PM
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I’m glad it helped you girl. I agree with the first comment on this. Your life decisions shouldn’t revolve around a guy especially when it’s not concrete yet. You should move wherever you planned to. Since he’s going slow I’m assuming he wants commitment? Has it been brought up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:47 PM
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I’m so sorry to hear that :( This is why I put the warning twice to not try these with unstable men. Know exactly what type of man you are dealing with. I know SheraSeven1 had a really good reply to this type of thing. If the man is a narcissist or attempts emotional/mental abuse, be such a strong woman that it wouldn’t work on you. Knowing their tactics allows you to let their comments fly over your head. You always have the power to leave ladies. BE SAFE AND SPOT THOSE RED FLAGS LIKE YOUR LIFE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:57 PM
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I love that I’m here to see the day women are realizing marrying these LVM is prison for them, not the other way around. Vet, vet, vet or stay single ladies. You’ll be happier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:51 PM
13

They’re always saying “why are you bringing up race?” yet ignore it in important conversations and bring it up in dating apps making everything awkward. Just talk to these women normally wtf 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:42 PM
8

LMFAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:41 PM
7

I LAUGHED OUT LOUDDDD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:36 PM
16

See ladies? Congrats boo I’m so proud of you! Life should be easier for us, not harder. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:13 PM
6

Thank you lovely! Women deserve to be unapologetic, it’s time ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:11 PM
8

This is so sweet 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:11 PM
19

Oh absolutely. Not everyone is cut out for this. I’m only able to do this because it comes easy to me. Some women gain this mentality by having that one experience cause them to snap and stop caring. Thank you for warning others it takes a lot of strength!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:10 PM
8

Thank you for not hating and being open to it! It’s not fair men get to live like this and do anything while no one bats an eye. Women deserve the chance to get theirs as they please. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:08 PM
4

Are you serious? 🥺 I’m gonna repost it I hope It didn’t get taken down on purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:52 AM
4

It’s posted! Enjoy ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:57 AM
8

Honestly, the way pickme’s with boyfriends look down on single girls is the way I look down on those In relationships. Clearly unhappy and unfulfilled. I couldn’t imagine giving up my freedom and beauty bound to one man .. in my PRIME YEARS! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:31 PM
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Lol! Making it now. Darktriad is still active but I know they’re looking for new moderators to accept new members currently. I’ll touch lightly on the topic since the darker techniques should only stay in DarkTriad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:52 PM
85

Would you guys really want me to make a post? 👀 I’ve been holding off because I didn’t know if this sub would take it well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:34 PM
2

Aw thats lovely to hear. Self love + respect is the most important thing a woman can have. Never put up with anything you don’t tolerate. I have a recent post that could probably help you remind yourself to stay on track! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:25 PM
23

The less you do for a man the more you will succeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:42 PM
21

See his stance through other people’s trauma. Like a news story or something. See how he reacts and his opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:27 PM
95

This is why I just have my goals and use men’s lust for me to elevate my life 🤷‍♀️ understanding the reality of them makes it easy to just get what you need out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:16 PM
12

CONGRATS GIRL! It’s only up from here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:45 AM
56

Exactly. Stop pushing the “marriage will still f*ck you over” trope. No it will not if you’re smart. At least it’s a financial security blanket. Telling women to hold off pregnancy until marriage is a great idea because you need to be 100% secure before you do something so drastic with someone as fickle as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:49 AM
2

Honestly. I wish we could kinda ban OLD here, it’s literally a sex app. They don’t see women on the internet as human and women are wasting time on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:17 PM
43

Literally. Being single is so underrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:58 PM
4

This is so lovely of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:59 PM
15

I will always believe and protect women. It should be that simple. It scares me when women easily take the side of a man..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:43 PM
11

BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:41 PM
5

Giiiirrllll 😩😩😭😭😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:02 AM
14

I can smell him thru the screen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:01 AM
33

You guys are really forcing the disappearing act here and while I am alllll for a ghost and block, OP needs to confront him before she does. This is someone she has a strong commitment too. She said she’s leaving him, let her handle it. Good on you girl for taking the steps to leave, you can confront him with proof over phone but make sure you say everything and don’t backslide. Stay true to yourself and leave & block after it’s all said and done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:19 PM
7

It’s code for lazy 😩 lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:14 PM
14

Amazing! A man that makes your life easier is the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:56 PM
2

Breakups are a good thing really, because you can level up and create such a better life for yourself. Congrats on the courage to end things, it’s the first step! You’ll look back on it and be so glad you left it behind. Work on yourself — now is the time to get your mentality stronger, try new things, find what makes you beautiful... rebrand essentially. High value men are attracted to high value women. Don’t chase/look for them, let them come to you. If anything place yourself in areas where y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:03 AM
15

I always tell women to care about themselves first. You’ll exhaust yourself being selfless and letting people suck your energy. This goes out to nice girls too. Practice by saying no, ask yourself “do I truly want to do this?” and “would this person do the same for me? Have they done the same?” You’ll be so much happier living life for you and not others. You come first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:50 AM
2

LMFAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:02 PM
9

PERIOD!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:48 AM
5

Right I need a picture. Because there’s no way hes this cocky for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:44 AM
54

This. I was so into FWBs for 1 year and then it hit me... why am I even doing this?? I’m not benefitting AT ALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:47 AM
16

Woah this makes SOOO much since. I’ve been saying for a while ALL men weren’t intended to have women but not in this since. Nice job OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:44 PM
29

The less you do the better ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:41 PM
20

How do you even get fleas I ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:06 AM
7

LMAO SERIOUSLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:45 AM
11

I’ve noticed this. I consider one “genuine” but only because I’m not his type (he likes 1 type of girl and only that) so he’s able to be platonic. Unfortunately I feel like he would pursue me if I was his type. Another guy friend makes subtle hints and compliments me but I shut those down. It sucks that we have to worry about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:41 PM
57

I admire Russian women for their mindset on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:34 PM
9

Exactly this. Make sure your life is still going on. Go out with friends, have fun with hobbies, just like you have no man in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:24 PM
13

Right. I immediately got the feeling he’s emotionally abusive (true I met his ex gf a while after). This is why I save vulnerability for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:49 PM
38

As for the sniffing out vulnerabilities, abusive men will do that DO NOT feed that. Give them the opposite answer, one that makes you look strong or whatever. I had a guy ask me “you cry a lot?” Out of thin air. So weird and I answered with a not really 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:03 PM
6

DUDE THE SECOND ONE?!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:14 AM
3

I wonder if he gets matches? Like I genuinely wanna see his dms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:47 PM
16

It’s not okay. I am constantly afraid of men on Reddit to the point where I don’t comment unless it’s a sub that’s 100% safe (skincare & here). Every other sub is so racist and scary I’ve had to get out of there. They really fester here with no repercussions. Just a bunch of incels taking their anger out in here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:43 PM
8

I made a post on this in this sub! It’s not smart to tell men all your trauma, what your exes did to you, etc. If you feel like he’ll understand and you really want to for some reason, that’s on you. But I highly go against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:55 PM
2

It’s a joke lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:01 AM
5

If he asks you to cook, serve him burnt ramen and koolaid. He’ll just take you out on dates. If he asks you to do his laundry, mix the reds and whites. He’ll do it himself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:08 PM
4

Why do I always hear about Australia being hard to date? Is it that terrible? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:48 PM
6

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 10:16 PM
10

That is insane. I had a fling with a guy years ago and he would hint at dating unstable women (he said he had Bipolar disorder himself) I’m really chill and I honestly didn’t care for him outside of sex and good company. He would always try to rile me up or get me to feed into his actions and it bothered him when I didn’t. These dudes are insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:57 PM
6

No if a man wasted 4 years already who’s to say he won’t slip into those patterns again (they do) and then you’re married and stuck. Find someone better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:52 PM
15

Right? I lose interest when a guy simply hurts my feelings but to actually physically hurt me? I’m calling the psych ward on you and running
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:50 PM
5

When I tell you I can literally smell this picture..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:43 PM
15

Fun on the side? My thing with these screenshots is that they always think they’re the woman/prize and we’re excited to have sex with them.. a total stranger who probably isn’t attractive. Like what does that do for me? 😐 buy the clothes or skidaddle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:32 PM
5

I love saying things like this when they get caught up in women’s business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:48 PM
3

If youre smart about it, marriage can benefit women contrary to what comments are saying. If he’s financially well off you can always stack his or your money in a savings/investment so that if anything happens you’re secure for many years. Always have a side hustle. But yeah I do believe it’s a social construct and a lot of people have woken up to this scam. Some girls still want it because of the “fantasy”.. it’s a beautiful idea in their head but they ignore the reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:55 PM
13

God this is such a train wreck omg!! I feel like my biggest encounter with pickmeishas are coworkers. Sigh, I just let people learn the lesson themselves 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:29 AM
6

THANK YOU!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:08 PM
4

😭😭 “I cant have you infecting my mind with your foolishness” they really will drain your energy with the pick me talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:17 AM
3

I totally get you!! The benefits that come with leveling up is nice but when your around negative people it feels horribly uncomfortable. People project their insecurities on you HARD just by existing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:15 AM
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LMFAO! I LOVE TO SEE IT!!❤️❤️🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:23 AM
3

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:09 AM
5

Yeah I’ve noticed. As much as I want children I don’t think it’s smart for me. I can’t risk my mental health being tied down to neither .. I’ve seen people soooo unhappy with husbands and children. I really enjoy the freedom of traveling, having fun, and doing whatever I want without needing to consult anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:58 AM
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He looks like a raw chicken OMFGG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:41 AM
3

Seriously don’t get discouraged. You can literally manifest the life of your dreams!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:29 AM
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And that’s ok. There are people who are like you, genuine and sincere. You can find them. I wouldn’t say it’s a game but maintaining power you know? However there are some people out there who don’t see that so don’t be discouraged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:42 PM
7

I believe if you message AverageToHot she will grant you access. They have a discoed they use I believe. But now that I think about it I don’t think it’s smart to put our tactics in a toxic environment like this, YouTube and tumblr are safe places with communities like ours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:04 PM
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I’m in that sub! I wish it was more active but it’s hard to vet members before allowing them in. I want to create a sub for women like us SO bad (there’s currently none on Reddit) but I have some worries: the male lurkers will be 100000x more violent because this will really hit a nerve in LVM, so we’d need strong moderation. I want to keep it protected yet public, do you think it’s possible? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:19 PM
25

You are almost so close to discovering men like to chase. You will always lose when you begin to care more/become emotionally invested. Your dating life will do a 180 when you do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:16 PM
49

Here from your other comment. I agree wholeheartedly. When you have immense self love, hobbies, a social life, family and pets you don’t care to be emotionally fulfilled by a man. It makes dating extremely fun as well. Also you become waaaay more attractive when you carry yourself like you could do with or without anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:12 PM
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I see you sis! I wish FDS would accept hypergamy (REAL strategy) practices or allow space for women who like a life of comfort and luxury. I do not care for male emotions; it doesn’t do much for me. Only purpose for a man in my life is if he brings value; I spoil myself why would I date a man who couldn’t match the energy I have for myself? 😴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:09 PM
10

You are such a great mother for teaching them this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:05 PM
5

It wasn’t meant that way. I’m saying men literally think that it shows something is wrong with you. I have literally listened to men around me talk about single well off women but just go straight to what’s wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:50 AM
6

I used to think that. A lot of people aren’t ugly they just lack effort. Why not get inspired to improve yourself? ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:41 PM
4

Very understandable. I’d say really identify the type of man you want and go exactly where he would be. Especially when applying to jobs. Put yourself in their line of view/area and it will be bound to have you approached by your exact type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:47 PM
6

❤️❤️❤️ I know you feel great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:41 PM
4

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:41 PM
5

Before quarantine I used to party a lot (college student here) so I’d go out with my friends to events we were invited to. We were pretty fun and had no issues talking to strangers. Met friends of friends. If you sit in the right place on campus you will get approached by friends who bring friends. You hit it off with some, get invited to their house, etc. I also used to work in the really popular location in my city so we’d constantly run into interesting strangers. The guys I meet typically ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:39 PM
9

I love your comment LMFAAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:29 PM
11

Good on you!!! ❤️ bad bitch energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:51 PM
19

THANK YOU!!!!! I tried to sneak in there just to see if anyone agrees but I wholeheartedly think it should be AGAINST FDS rules to use OLD. You are performing for men and nothing more by using them. They’re dangerous and super awkward— nothing natural about it. Using it for male validation is going to lead you down the wrong path when the whole point is to teach women to seek validation from THEMSELVES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:50 PM
9

It just feels so humiliating doesn’t it? Me and my friend used to go on them for shits and giggles in high school. It just feels like a lost cause.. and yes! We’re helping society all right 😂 I’m definitely here to make men work harder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:47 PM
22

It just feels so humiliating doesn’t it? Me and my friend used to go on them for shits and giggles in high school. It just feels like a lost cause
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:47 PM
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Yup! Two people showing up hoping they like each other is strange and sets a weird tone. It’s uncomfortable. In real life you can literally just talk and see the chemistry build or not. LOL @ “In between call of duty matches”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:22 PM
40

Well this may be your sign to delete lmao! It’s just hard to believe a high value man who has hobbies, a career, a social life, and a decent look would be on OLD. These men have no problem courting women in real life the right way so they wouldn’t be on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:21 PM
2

The only right answer in this comment section. Always stay busy even if it’s just with yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:18 PM
1

Definitely! My friend has a friend I think Is cute and he thinks the same but unfortunately he’s quiet and doesn’t make first moves. My friend pressures me to initiate but I don’t like it. If I have to pursue him it’s not worth it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:44 PM
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I agree with all of this and congrats to improving your life! #7 stuck out to me because it’s what I do. “Let men peacock” SPOT ON!!!! Literally let men entertain and impress you and dating will not be so hard. I have such a good tome doing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:33 AM
5

I love that this have always been my mindset ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:55 AM
9

Living proof this has worked my whole life. I slipped up and started caring for one and that’s the moment everything flipped. Broke up with him IMMEDIATELY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:45 PM
4

I’ve noticed the worst dudes call u buddy lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:44 PM
1

WOOOOOOOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:40 PM
24

Absolutely not. I’m very anti women pursuing men. It’s not natural. You set the tone for the relationship that you are the pursuer after that. If he wanted you he would get you. All women need to do is put yourself in the position for him to ask you. Don’t approach him because even if you aren’t his type, he’ll keep you around for free sex until his ideal girl comes around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:54 PM
3

Me either. I’m quick to leave a friendship if the relationship starts to really seep in our conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:40 PM
3

Watch really funny videos when you feel in a mood. It’s helps more than you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:27 PM
3

Oh baby I feel for you. It’s going to feel so much better once you’re free. Please remember it’s not your fault, his behavior towards you DOES NOT reflect you as a person. Don’t ever think you could have done better or more. You are enough and he’s treating you horribly because of his own issues with himself. I was in a position like this and did not think I’d get better but guess what? I DID! You will too!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ YOU MATTER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:15 PM
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Mm. This is what this sub lacks. It’s a less empathetic approach though. “Cognizant of how male nature works and exploits it” she knows the game of using patriarchy to her advantage rather than taking it down. Sometimes you just have to play along 🤷‍♀️ you’ll be surprised how successful you are when you do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:30 AM
1

IM CRYING!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:56 AM
2

I CANT LMFAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:17 AM
4

Good job babe!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:13 AM
6

It’s alwayssss the pick mes who will look down on you and say things like “you need a man” I had a roommate say this to me when the guy she was dating literally made her have mental breakdowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:38 PM
1

YES!!! Good on you for not folding. I’m always in your position — picky and unwilling to settle. All the girls who settled look TERRIBLE and regret their decision. I’m still here fresh, beautiful, living life and ambitious. It’s soooo much worth it to live life for your self and only allowing a man who ADDS VALUE in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:35 PM
4

Congrats babe 💞 we’re happy for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:30 PM
3

Khloe has such horrible self esteem 😭 she’s a “love hard” pick me. She’s going to be the chaser in the relationship. Nothing is about her, just outside validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:58 AM
1

When I tell you I died laughing 😭 these screenshots you guys post of profiles never fail to kill me! Why are they so sad?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:50 AM
6

LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:31 AM
14

EXCUSE ME!!!!!!!!!!!! A FIVE YEAR OLD? AND ITS A HARD DECISION? I mean this with everything in me some b*tches do not deserve to procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:24 AM
6

It’s crazy how much law of attraction, positivity & mental diets can transform your self esteem. Like it’s a huge change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:40 AM
19

You’re gonna get a lotta hate for this lol but I agree wholeheartedly. I’d just stick with friends and roommates if I had to go 50/50. Our parents and the generations before this have always had this mindset. Only the financially secure can have a wife and family. People will live however they want to live though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:35 AM
64

23!!!!!!!!? She’s throwing away her youth with this bozo?! I pray she left him because this is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:49 PM
67

This show is so addicting but the low value is sooooooo gross. Like on both ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:41 AM
11

Ewwwww who puts that on their profile? You know when they do all these theatrics on a site they’ve been rejected a LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:55 AM
15

Yes it’s very tough. I had to walk away from someone I thought I was gonna spend the rest of my life with. I love me more, I have to walk away with pride and dignity. You act like they died— mourn them, delete pics/messages, get rid of their things, block them everywhere until there’s 0 reminder. Stay busy and always remember if they wanted to do right by you— they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:48 AM
1

Thank you that’s so sweet ❤️❤️ I bet you are too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:44 PM
17

Yeah. They tell you who they are. It’s up to you to use discernment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:42 PM
62

THIS. say it again girl they aren’t hearing you.. 🚨 BEING TREATED POORLY IS A WORSE OUTCOME THAN BEING ALONE. 🚨Repeat that as many times till it’s drilled in your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:32 PM
19

Always love yourself more than anyone else babe. Build up your self love so that you’re so assured with yourself. You need grow to be confident in yourself that you know you have value and can leave when ever your needs are not met. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:30 PM
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That’s the whole point. Some women truly don’t understand they have the upper hand in the relationship. Ignore them when they displease you. Always have options. Never be afraid to leave because you have value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:28 PM
2

Yes 😫 the negative connotation of that word is so annoying. Personally I don’t care because I’m living my life anyway, not bothered by what people on Reddit think. Being a provider is literally what they’re supposed to do and it’s a dwindling art lmao. Look at how nature operates, the man does the impressing and supporting. We all know women offer a lot, the least a man can do is support. Not a hypergamy group per say but they discuss more .. “unethical” tactics that wouldn’t fly in FDS. I’ve me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:19 AM
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Literally how I did it! 😌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:00 AM
11

This... is actually something I can agree with. I believe in hypergamy and I know how to play the game of patriarchy rather than fight against it (the key element FDS is missing) I know how to make myself desirable and finally had success after doing MY work. I like that sub because it’s been my mentality since forever & I want to help others— I hate seeing women suffer for men who are horrible for them. I have tried sprinkling a little hypergamy in there but it’s not received as well. (There’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:50 AM
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IM CRYING! I’m definitely including this to weed them out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:37 AM
1

He’s young and his reason sounds plausible. If he was older? I would side eye him. I knew a guy who was 26 and never been in a long term relationship ... I ran immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:15 AM
111

It’s freaking hilarious 😂 we’re not entertaining bs BYEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:02 AM
19

I went thru the same thing last year. It has to be THE most rewarding thing I’ve ever done for myself. I thought I was the most hideous, annoying, most loser girl ever. I finally said fuck playing victim I’m changing it. I always speak to myself kindly and highly. I went from hating me to never wanting to be anyone else. Like a full on 180 and socially, it’s paid off BIG time. I’m proud of your accomplishments and want others to join this journey as well!!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:08 PM
9

I just seen a hate post about this sub. They’re so delusional they refuse to see this sub for what it is and just call it something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:09 PM
24

I say this all the time. Men who don’t treat me right literally make my pussy dry up. I’m so grateful to have only been attracted to nice men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:03 PM
14

I don’t like them. Like they physically hurt to read and hurts me even more they don’t want to leave. Just let people learn I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:27 PM
22

Right 😭 it’s the reputation death for me. I don’t understand why so many young women are joining only fans because the internet is forever. Everyone knows and sees what you do. People don’t want to be associated and your unconsciously shunned from everyone. Real risky stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:08 AM
49

You know, past me wouldn’t believe this post before but I’ve seen it with my own eyes. At my job there was this stripper that would come in (she told us she was) and when she came to pay her card declined about 3 times. While dripped in designer. I was like whaaaaa 😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:06 AM
220

Amen. I really hate when women run to prove themselves to lames. I don’t even acknowledge them.. especially when male lurkers come send horrible messages on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:54 PM
3

Why is this making me laugh so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:02 PM
11

LMFAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:58 PM
18

LMFAOOOO LIKE SIR???? This is gold in between my legs... surely you can put more effort than THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:54 PM
19

If you watch SheraSeven1 it would answer this question. What I’m going to say is shallow but the truth. Also in the case of “hvm” wealthy men only. A woman’s looks = a mans net worth. Your looks are what gets you the high caliber man. I’ve noticed this to be very true in my own personal experience with my glow up. When I was very average looking and basic in my style I didn’t gain much higher caliber male attention. Now that I look the part, I actually have opened up a pool of hvm. I had men who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:44 PM
17

I am actually CRYING LAUGHINGGGG! This is exactly what they act like 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:37 PM
60

It’s so offensive they look like this and ask for sex. Almost makes me wanna call the police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:35 PM
16

So gross. There’s a guy who messages me every couple weeks to come out. He’s been talking to himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:35 AM
5

Leave SheRaSeven1 playing on the tv lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:52 PM
8

This happened to me exactly. Said horrible things about her then dated her after I suspected it. Your intuition is ALWAYS right ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:17 AM
3

No... there’s this boy at work who is insufferably moody quiet and angry. He’s only nice when he asked literally each of us on a date. Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:25 PM
4

Soooo boring. I hate that I’m funnier.... entertain ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:52 PM
6

OH HELL NO!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:15 PM
14

A supperrrrr cute guy approached me at the grocery store, had to ask why he didn’t care about the 6ft rule and he said “you believe that stuff” byeeeee 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:53 PM
14

You should’ve went cold. That’s they respond to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:27 AM
15

Mm idk if it’s about asking per say. But if you hold yourself to a standard they will provide. Sometimes you do have to straight up ask or tell them what you expect. I knew a girl who’s parents drilled into her head she shouldn’t ask friends/people in general for things and it transferred into her dating life. She only attracts low value men because she doesn’t want dates paid for, gifts, or anything reciprocated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:05 PM
7

He was not shy AT ALL! Loud athlete. So it was weird...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:29 PM
104

The fact that he burned off his warts.... Marty I’m scared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:47 AM
61

Can we PLEASE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:46 AM
2

The fact that you’re gonna boss up and become the best version of yourself after this!! ❤️ I’m excited for you. I wish you the best in your career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:58 AM
60

This is common???.... omfg I thought I was the only one!!!!! I couldn’t bring that man around my friends or anything bc he’d just go mute it was so awkward? Bc he was totally fine with me and his friends. Wow. Amazing to know this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:42 PM
45

We tore his ass up on twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:26 PM
5

This is what’s keeping me going. I refuse to settle and add to the problem lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:04 AM
9

Soo sad. I know they’re going to immediately run to her after they realize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:58 AM
10

Ohhhh you wouldn’t believe how common smoke “dates” are. If a man asks you immediately if you smoke weed, leave. They will try to lowball you with smoking in the car 😭 I smoke but it’s to hangout with friends/associates or with myself. Not with a guy I’m gonna date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:28 AM
44

I keep saying this. Allowing casual sex? Allowing Netflix and chill? Smoke in the car dates? Yeah biggest mistake ever. There’s no real work to put in anymore. Now every man on this earth feels entitled to sex because we’ve put the OK on it. In some way, pickmeishas have created the LVM we see today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:09 PM
5

Pick me works lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:21 AM
20

LMAO! I hope you make it Jesus Christ they can finally stop. I can’t come up with a name that isn’t mean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:57 AM
5

No babygirl, social media is a trip and I learned that quickly. He’s treating her the same way or eventually will. I’ve seen it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:38 PM
2

I like to escape to youtube. Really funny videos get so far with my healing. I would watch Rhea Ellen (sooo funny) and SheRaSeven1 eventually. I tried new things with my looks and bettering myself did a real number. Unfortunately we’re quarantined rn so you can’t party, go to brunches, stores. And lastly, it’s okay to just have hard cries every once in a while to process the emotions— journaling helped so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:08 PM
9

Wow ... comment section ripped him a new one. It’s deleted tho anybody have the full post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:50 PM
2

I just say “Ew.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:20 PM
11

I went on there for the first time since I joined reddit. Lord it was a MESS. The comment section looks a little improved but there was this OP trying to rationalize how she can still get married while the relationship was suffering; he’s lazy, rich, his parents don’t like her and he’s unclean. She comes from a poor family and said if they get married SHE is willing to take care of herself or both. Are you shitting me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:51 PM
2

What is wrong with them 😭😭 “losers and weirdos” BUT YOU ASKED FOR HEAD???? Make it make sense love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:36 PM
1

😬 true.. I’m one to not get too invested in what people do on the internet do it takes a lot for me to “cancel” someone. I’m just there to get what I need and go. She did make a comments about bts in a video and it made me do a double take. The Selena/Justin/hailey thing is embarrassing unfortunately and I wish she would know what not to say. It’s a shame people keep playing with their money 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:31 PM
11

I had this revelation last year. I looked around and noticed the girls I admired were in shitty relationships and nearly everyone I look at is settling. It’s not me, it’s them 😳 Low self love is also a big thing. I was high when I had the aha moment of why people accept terrible behavior. They don’t love themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:48 AM
11

A girl literally messaged me WHY I unfollowed her when she did all this 😭😭😭😭 Do you know how exhausting and embarrassing it is to see?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:31 PM
17

You know... I’ve been wondering that exact thing this past week. The decent ones/guys I actually enjoyed but left in the past... don’t bother me. It’s the ones I wouldn’t even breathe on 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:06 AM
15

Right but this dude was so irrelevant I didn’t expect him to slip thru the cracks lmfaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:03 AM
54

😭😭😭 LITERALLY PROVING OUR POINT! I’ve been enjoying myself so much without men but they’re having breakdowns on social media just to feel a woman’s touch and company I’m crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:59 AM
23

YES!! Before I deleted my Instagram I checked and got a huge increase in likes and friend requests. They’re really going down the line huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:57 AM
14

LMFAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:52 PM
4

I don’t understand the hate. She’s literally one of the few people who preach real advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:42 PM
2

That’s good to hear! Yea anybody of any age can be awful you just need good discernment when it comes to anyone anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:00 PM
17

I struggle with the age gap thing too. Because on one hand, men aren’t successful and mature until their 30s (unfortunate...) and on the other, older men can be even more dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:59 AM
22

Right!! I was very lowkey when I went thru that phase. I’ll be damned if I got rumors spread about me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:58 PM
46

Yup. Had my hoe phase after my first relationship. It was necessary tbh and I enjoyed it, it’s aided me in my level up. Taught me things. But like you said the real dangers started making it self known. After a situation that showed me stds are very real, I dropped it cold turkey. Luckily I was clean but just the fact that it was that easy made me realize this was so stupid. Celibacy is definitely the smarter option! I don’t want to give something important to me up without being invested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:57 PM
15

This shouldn’t be as funny as it is 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:35 PM
12

Wait how’d you get ur mobile to be this color? And isn’t it funny they never learn 🤣🤣🤣 an open relationship ship is a good idea till ya girl gets a whole roster within two weeks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:31 PM
2

It’s insane right?! And unfortunately she’s still the same. Still promiscuous with terrible men and okay with mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:46 PM
10

So horrible. I had a friend like this. Obsessed with being friends with men and sex. She threw me and another friend under the bus for her now ex. We met him and his friends only a few weeks prior, while I knew her for 3 years. He also hit on our other friend before he liked her. Nobody liked him and I warned her their relationship would be terrible, now he’s in jail 🤷‍♀️ She thought holding yourself to high standards was strange..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:11 PM
174

They literally turn me off. I became celibate because it’s like, what’s the point? You aren’t providing for me, making me cum, offering emotional support and basic decency.. might as well keep my legs closed. Dating is even worse. Our standards aren’t too high at all lmaooo and they can barely have 3 of them. I tell god every night to send a new batch of men on earth cuz this ain’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:03 PM
5

Out of context but how do you take a long screenshot like this on the iPhone 😭 I can’t figure it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:32 PM
1

Beautifully said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:42 AM
4

RIGHT!!! No type of discernment is horny as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:14 AM
4

My mind has never wrapped around OLD... like it’s so humiliating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:12 AM
1

I already wasn’t gonna reply to his message ending with how he wants to see me but now I’m DEFINITELY not thank you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:05 AM
5

Ugh your living my dream rn 😩 would do anything for a seafood boil!! But right! Life is crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:51 AM
22

This was the exact realization I had with my past dude 😂 wasn’t my typical type but I fell for his personality after months of wooing me. Once we broke up he started dating what he COULD get and it cracked me up! His next girl was a severe downgrade and rude: it made since that he was always trying to convince me makeup was useless and talked about how much he loved making men jealous by having me. I walk with knowing I’m a bad bitch and I get treated as such. Some things don’t need to be explai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:58 AM
8

It’s the piece of shit attitude for me 🤣🤣🤣 why have they skipped lying and dove straight into being a douche?! Is he warning us!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:38 PM
4

She’s playing life smart lol I support getting the bag 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:54 AM
5

Mm no you have a right to feel this and ignore that friend— this is definitely not too high of standards. He should have a car and proper home. And it’s enough he’s staying with you but not paying for groceries?? That would be the least I’d offer someone! I would probably suggest you tell him you can’t see yourself dating someone without proper ___. It should either motivate him to do better (since you said he has other nice qualities) and/or breakup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:59 AM
30

Oh this is definitely a man who will put hands on her after an argument in a few months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:45 PM
12

This is my requirement too. A man TOO into twitter, in my experience, has an obsession with having multiple women, putting your business on display/in group chats with his online buddies, and is attention seeking. Men TOO into Instagram are more porn-sick and tend to cheat. I just can’t bother with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:27 PM
3

His current wife is FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:04 PM
5

THE EMOJIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:31 AM
15

This broke my heart omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:24 AM
13

The fact that it’s FDS women and not just women is bothering me.. u know ur mothers used to date like this back in the day right? Like this is natural dating behavior. It’s just been normalized to settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:07 AM
5

I spit my drink at “5 years”...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:03 AM
21

Literally.... my ex cheated on me and got with the girl he cheated with. She rubbed it in my face and a while later I found out he cheated on her. You lose them how you get them🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:59 AM
7

Lol she’s an internet comedian, that phrase is from one of her funniest videos. Basically every guy is having a child and she’s telling women to chill so she can have her own baby father in the future too 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:09 PM
1

I said this and a girl on here tore me to shreds for it....... Anyways, you’re speaking facts!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:03 PM
5

Like oh bet now I’m gonna prove it to u :) #youresodifferent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:07 AM
4

LMAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:05 AM
16

I’m a party girl and the fact that I can drink, dance, and smoke weed anytime without a child or man holding me down with responsibilities in my future sounds like the lifeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:04 AM
27

Right I always got my pleasure first and my friends would say getting oral is like pulling teeth... excuse me? Why are you staying??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:02 AM
2

Yeah I’d like this to be more women based as it was intended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:07 PM
10

Confidence, active social life, detachment. I am confident within myself and the standards I have for a man. I know i have men that want to date me — he’s not the only one. I’m a bit of a party girl so I was out a lot and when a man would call, I have an excuse to decline. Most men like a busy girl b/c she’s not always available. I’m not shifting my schedule around for a dude last minute, esp over my friends. Lastly, I’m aware of how attached I am with people. I give some distance and only go by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:10 AM
28

Yup, we are definitely a benefit to people’s lives. We need to start acting like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:05 PM
5

• I love that I can get on with anyone — my personality is so fun, open, and different than many people. I get compliments on how different I am. Also I’m very hilarious lmao. I have great music taste and often put everyone on. • I love how self sufficient I am — I can do anything alone and because of this I pick up on things easily. I don’t need people and I can leave people alone if need be. I am the editor of my life. • Lol I love how much I resemble a cat! I act and have the eyes of a feline…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:29 PM
63

Lol this is how I act. Can confirm it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:15 PM
4

She’s so entertaining and her advice is actually smart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:31 PM
8

It all comes down to nature truly lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:25 PM
17

“Thank you for that $10 I know you barely had that” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:18 PM
4

Women do it differently though. If you want someone place yourself around them so that they have many chances to speak to you. But hey, what ever works for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:17 PM
29

This should have 500 likes... this is probably most women’s greatest downfall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:11 AM
3

🤢 I’ve had a guy in highschool say he had a huge secret, I was like ok.... and he said it was that he masturbated a lot. Are they actually ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:20 PM
2

No because I’m not being mean, the actual conversation is pleasant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:51 AM
4

Yup this is one of my rules. I never text first, very rarely EVEN in a relationship he’s still chasing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:38 AM
3

I don’t even save a mans number and I have terrible memory so it works out when an unknown number calls me lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:37 AM
12

OHHHHH MY GOD IM SCREAMING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:07 AM
25

Unfortunately I know a loooot of women dating men like this just cuz they’re comfortable yet they’d never marry them. Why waste time when you can date others you actually like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:06 AM
6

Right I made a post here actually about that! I never told my ex about my mental issues and trauma because....why? Like what is the positive of telling men your business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:17 PM
2

Reading this twitter account every wednesday is so.. jaw dropping. I can’t believe people think the way they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:19 PM
24

WHOM IS DOING THIS???? You never tell men how you know things that is like giving them the keys to ruin your life omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:00 PM
11

I was at a bar with friends. A girl with us I only know thru a friend went out to the balcony and I followed her out to make sure she’s good (we’re all tipsy). Some guy starts talking to her while I’m standing there just chillin. He looks at me and tell her “she’s prettier than you” that comment absolutely sent me into rage because who says that? I checked him and we left. Insecure girls would take that as a compliment and let their friend feel terrible but I was not taken by that bullshit— it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:54 PM
4

I had a seemingly HVM and the one red flag that made me leave the first time I seen them was like your bf’s: the moodiness and sudden disrespect. You should have enough pride to pull back and stop giving access to you. Idk about you but I haaaate giving people the satisfaction idc I’ll be alone before I ever. This is not something he’ll ever change, is this what you want to deal with for years to come? Do you want to continue wasting time? Enjoy your life as much as you can there’s nothing worse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:05 AM
6

It’s actually embarrassing...... like revolting truly. They think this is sexy? Who’s reading this like “oh my dream😍”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:57 AM
2

LMFAOOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:56 AM
39

You go cold. He’s done you wrong this should be enough to leave. He put your health at risk. He doesn’t care. So you leave like a ghost. No words, no emotion. It makes you look stronger and sure of yourself when you can place importance in yourself and just up and leave so easily. Is there any way to transfer away from him? If not just be cordial if you HAVE to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:53 AM
24

They really horny enough to die that is crazy..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:48 AM
-1

Ugh my dream 😍 so happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:46 PM
9

I thought I was into it too but it felt so wrong and terrible 😭 I’m proudly vanilla
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:48 PM
3

Yes, especially since your in a small town I would highly suggest moving. Those places don’t offer anything than people settling for a small life. Do a little research and find your dream location!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:18 PM
9

It’s the only reason I’m tryna get married. Marrying for love isn’t that smart, it’ll be gone sooner than later. Plus it doesn’t pay the bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:11 PM
50

First of all, ew. Second of all, why do men send unsolicited pictures?! I just got a text the other day of a selfie from a guy I occasionally go out with shirtless, working out and asked “I did a little trimming on the beard, you like?” Like ....ew. It was such a turn off like what do you expect me to say? I don’t think they realize they’re not pretty like women so they’ll never get “omg 😍😍😍” comments from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:42 PM
22

LMAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:38 AM
88

Bro ... yes. They always ask for my number just to do nothing with it. Just text a few times before I get bored. Why aren’t they planning a meeting? I don’t want pen pals. Blocked. I’ve had one say he’s taking me out and that was it. Just watched my stories and randomly at 5am hit me up to plan one... months later. I am so bored with them I don’t even respond to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:06 PM
20

I was just gonna say.... with all these requirements I better be receiving the world wtf. “Not a millionaire” and we stay in your house?! No traveling no gifts no nothing??? just looking at a scrote all day?! Goodbye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:55 PM
28

It just.......blows my mind how much women succeed when single. Have you guys heard about the post breakup glow up?! WE ALL GLOW UP AFTER WE LEAVE LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:43 PM
38

THE SWEAT ON HIS HAIR LMAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:36 PM
12

Agreed. I’m more well off than boys my age and I still want a provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:19 PM
13

That’s me lol. It’s pretty isolating to talk about on here (only can on YouTube, tumblr, and twitter) bc it has suuuuuch a negative connotation. There’s nothing wrong with women who like money and want to marry a man of means. I have a lifestyle I fantasize about and that includes having a provider to fulfill it. I agree, I’m 21 and I don’t date unless I’m invested in 🤷🏽‍♀️ I turn down a loooot of suitors that would be cool with simple women but I just ....can’t. I need to live lavishly or it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:14 PM
41

Even in a seemingly healthy relationship I was depressed, suicidal, couldn’t get hired, had bad friendships, wasn’t that pretty, and once I left, my life did a 180!!!! I think relationships hold us back so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:19 PM
40

I can almost cry tears of joy when women wake up and come to this side!!! :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:51 PM
17

The way I’m gonna throw up...... I don’t even do this in a RELATIONSHIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:21 PM
-4

.....nobody is devaluing older women. Why is that your key take away? I’m telling young women not to waste years while they are here, reading this information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:01 AM
3

What the actual hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:56 AM
11

Wait that’s actually true 😳 they always talk about how bad they did previous women and decided to start treating them like people all of a sudden!! The one rare time I defend scrotes and I realize they’re still trash!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:45 AM
20

I’m going to throw up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:02 AM
7

Yeah but that doesn’t really bother me if they learned to become truly HV. Think like this— there are former pickmeishas who are HV now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:59 AM
82

I AM CRYINGGGG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:47 AM
20

LMFAOO what are they doing?! I deleted Instagram and heard of all these challenges going on. How are the men coping? Sending mass dms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:43 AM
12

My friends (girls and guys) have been HELL BENT on me approaching men I think are attractive. I tell them “hell no” every single time. They don’t get its so unladylike to do so and for me to chase him, he’ll lose respect and try to sleep with me and nothing else. If we go further, I would have set the tone for the relationship that I am the pursuer.... fuck that. I’d rather sit here nice and pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:30 AM
4

Love this post because you really get it :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:25 AM
12

Yessss they are so emasculated these days. The actual high value men that cross the room and approach me respectfully are so few compared to the bridge trolls who easily approach me, loudly, and ask for my snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:12 AM
12

LMAO! Same, everyone thinks I have 6 boyfriends and are so shocked when I say I don’t. It’s all about being picky too. Yeah it’s easy to get 6 boyfriends but QUALITY? BYEEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:06 AM
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Aaaaaaand this is why at the young age of 21, I’m using this to my advantage. Ladies PLEASE do not waste your beauty and time sticking with 1 loser for 6 years. You will regret missing out and not enjoying your life as is. Honestly I get what I need from men and keep it pushing, I love my solitude and I have friends so a man doesn’t really do it for me. I only like men with money and to have fun with. Being provided for is my priority not emotional fulfillment from them. When I go on dates I go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:38 AM
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I thought I was already happy before but now that I’ve deleted Instagram? I feel AMAZING. I never knew how much anxiety it gave me having to maintain fake low effort friendships, low value men trying to gain my attention, seeking validation thru posting stories of my life etc... I feel so happy randoms don’t have access to me anymore. Not many live like this and I feel like it’s admirable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:40 AM
2

Lmao!! That’d be embarrassing 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:23 AM
9

I had a coworker say this omfg. She wanted to let him have a threesome to get it “out of his system” like sis??? I told her there’s no reason you have to do that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:35 PM
12

This also applies to dms they send you on social media. I deleted Instagram bc I was tired of it and didn’t want people to be able to see my life on the internet. I get tons of dms and I’m finally free from low value men trying to get my attention and ones I dated from keeping up with me with minimal effort 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:30 PM
2

God I wish more in this sub knew how powerful this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:51 PM
14

Broke men are violent and abuse most times because they have shit to lose. Remember that. They will KILL u over $10.. this is why I only stick with men that invest in me and are financially stable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:28 AM
16

Wait you guys respond? Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:22 PM
12

Love this analogy!! Lol people tell me I remind them of a cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:06 PM
45

When I was with my ex and he was in the pursuing stage, I rarely texted back and he’s double text me lol. Even in the relationship I did the same. They really love it for some reason and it goes to show he should be actively pursuing you rather than you doing the opposite!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:09 AM
18

You’re doing the right thing actually. Hold out when he’s not treating you right. Men see sex as a reward believe or not. Care about yourself first, if you’re not in the mood... you’re not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:39 AM
3

Mkay so it’s a lot going on here. You said he’s short, unattractive and not rich so he’s definitely not it. There’s no way he’s getting women. He was toying with you bc he liked the attention and you were vulnerable. You live and you learn. Congrats on your new job babe. Level up, seriously— get to your goal, have fun making yourself pretty, and continue to have self love and standards for yourself. Do not give your attention out to anyone, don’t be vulnerable with just anyone. Most things are b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:36 AM
22

Yes. There’s a guy who actively pursues me on my Instagram saying sweet promising things but he rubs me the wrong way. I would have fell for it if I didn’t trust me more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:49 PM
11

I leveled up to my best self after a breakup too! One thing that helped was to direct my anger for him towards my glow up. I wanted to be so hot that everyone would regret it. Hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:41 PM
1

I’m gonna vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:34 PM
2

Wow.... you sound like me. After my 1st relationship I lost faith in them, had my casual sex phase, now I’m abstinent and I don’t care about it. Having fun with men is the most I do now since I’m young and still do enjoy clubs and such lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:02 AM
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Do NOT say anything to him. Ghost him im serious. Men do not care about your feelings or paragraphs and you’re only embarrassing yourself showing that you care. The best thing you can do is pretend he died
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:57 AM
9

Extremely true. If I didn’t have access to a laundry machine right then and there best believe I’m washing in the sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:21 AM
61

I had this same exact experience with a fwb last year!!!!! I explicitly told him it’s just sex I could never catch feelings for him and I don’t see him as a boyfriend yet he took that as a challenge to try and make me fall for him. He kept playing games to do this cause he was upset I didn’t want him that way... they’re crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:34 AM
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Wow I am so happy for you. Like so so so happy. It’s YOUR house and now you get to kick him out. You and your kids deserve this 💜💜💜 don’t take him back he needs to learn his lesson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:27 PM
2

Yes its literally embarrassing. If you don’t ignore clear low value dms you’re a sucker....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:13 AM
20

Yesss I’ve seen the synchronicities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:11 AM
9

I knew a guy who was holding out from my friend for months while talking and he finally admitted to her it’s cause he has chlamydia ...... she left asap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:10 PM
1

I love her account actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:58 PM
24

Definitely dating around and not focusing on one man, being selfish with ME, and always remaining detached
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:20 AM
8

Bingo. This is exactly how I do it. Looking for a relationship will drive you insane. I just go out and have fun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:27 AM
1

Yes I’m really into self improvement and I wanted to see if this brings real results!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:18 AM
4

SheRaSeven1 in youtube is the person for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:56 PM
13

Men know not to play with me, they’ve told me this. Maybe it’s my vibe, my face or whatever but I’m a really goofy person. Once you do something I don’t like I’m letting the man know. The easiest way to do this is Go Silent. A man I was strictly hanging out with at lounges (he was good company and everything was free when I hung out with him) did something to piss me off. I said one word and left him alone. He’s been calling texting me now. Another one did it and he’s begging for my forgiveness.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:44 PM
5

I’m interested in this book, how do you like it? Is it helping you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:34 PM
54

Also please ladies... stop arguing with them, in real life or even on here. They will wear you out and debate you on why you’re wrong and it’s extremely draining. I’ve had a male coworker argue with me about FDS values then ask me on a date a week later... as if he just said he does 50/50 dates... ew. There’s no need to convince a man who isn’t your problem, he can be as low value as he wants with some pick-me 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:34 PM
17

Idk how you guys do it. My mindset is, if they’re desperate enough to look for relationships in an app, something is wrong with them in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:49 AM
9

Yes!! Parading you like a doll like move!! It’s embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:24 AM
47

The friends of a man is my biggest indicator. If they’re pieces of sh*t I REFUSE! Also have had men in the past try showing me off in front of their friends all the time and it’s a huge red flag for me. If you have to show me off THAT hard it shows you don’t get female attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:35 AM
20

I still can’t believe even BEYONCÉ has been cheated on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:33 AM
0

Lol hell yea!! As long as ur satisfied with the revenge I’m happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:30 AM
7

Also look REALLY good on social media after. Seriously. Always look happy— no shade or sad posts directed at him. Get soooo pretty that you make him mad he lost that. Live your life babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:19 AM
3

I highly suggest u do subtle revenge. Those over the top displays like throwing out his clothes show you care. Do some petty stuff like throw out his toothpaste, hair removal cream in shampoo, put a boiled egg in his closet or creasing his shoes 😂😂😂 something that he doesn’t notice immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:15 AM
30

Men like being emotionally manipulated 🤷🏽‍♀️. I’ll make a post about it in the future but this is a tactic I love to use. Be hot and cold they absolutely love a girl who messes with their mind. It works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:07 AM
10

Oh definitely this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:06 AM
2

True only a few are dateable my ex was military but I dated him when he just started. He was a provider and all so there’s some hope with them 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:02 AM
1

Accentuating cheekbones and eyes. Lashes, liner on my water line, well done brows and a nice bronzer to contour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:30 AM
8

LOOOOOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:00 AM
3

Apparently they’re already hooking up 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:44 AM
4

A BIG WHAT? LMFAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:12 PM
1

Only shop in areas wealthy people live. I take myself to rich areas when I run my errands so I can really only bump into high value people. Even a Walmart/target in a better neighborhood works wonders. Look beautiful when you do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:19 AM
2

Wow. Me rn. Every SINGLE bully of mine is hitting on me. They follow my ig, comment and dm to which I don’t respond to any. They’re dead to me. It’s insane they think I’d forget and give them a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:40 AM
5

Holy shit what is wrong with men like I’m literally sitting here astonished at how horrible they are..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:12 AM
7

PLEASE!!!! Somebody needed to say it. Ladies are being wayyyy to loud about FDS and it’s insanely cringey!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:40 AM
5

Randomly 🤷🏽‍♀️ I meet the kindest men when I least expect it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:13 PM
13

This. I lost it to a guy who worshipped me and absolutely valued me. I wouldn’t do it with anyone else for the first time who didn’t make me feel that comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:16 AM
3

LMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:39 PM
4

This is my favorite tumblr account! All her posts are amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:46 PM
8

I’ve never had this issue. Every man I’ve been with wanted a relationship with me, no matter how much of a player he is. Wanna know why? Lol I’m actually not sure the reason but it’s probably either these two, 1. I’m either lucky or 2. I’m emotionally unavailable first. Might need to make a post for this but I never really want a relationship and that makes them go crazy. If you act unavailable, then the more they want you. A girl who has feelings for them immediately scare them, they wanna work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:30 PM
3

There’s a lot I wanna say..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:08 AM
3

Literally force yourself. Have extroverted friends/be around outgoing people that put you in situations that allow you to practice your social skills. Observe how people talk - what works and what doesn’t. I used to have bad social anxiety now I’m fine being in a group of strangers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:08 AM
7

LMFAOOO IM CRYING TOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:05 AM
19

I’m a HV Black woman and I don’t think it’s hard for me. I’m pretty and really only date other black men (city is has large pop.) it’s how I carry myself that lets them know off the bat I’m high value and I attract my equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:39 AM
11

I’ve noticed this too. It’s really hard for me to meet broke women like... and it’s soo easy to find broke men. I know a lot of women with jobs, housing, and a good overall life. It’s rare to meet men like that and it’s just the BASICS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:30 PM
37

Yup. The biggest mistake you can make is to blatantly state your high value or ask a man for money. They’ll take you as a joke. You have to show you’re high value... if people can’t tell and you have to say it, you’re not. Also, Getting men to pay for you requires suggestion or big favors not “can I have a new car?” But “my car is doing so awful right now I’m so stressed with the expensive maintenance this week” with a sad tone :( and distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:14 AM
3

THIS is what I love to see !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:03 AM
7

Lmfaoo. Literally. Didn’t even address anything and turned it all on you, it’s a valid fucking question that youre asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:19 PM
37

YES. Sex positivity was nice or whatever but it’s a losing game. Teaching women to hold out till a man invests and shows he values her is where it’s at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:05 AM
7

LMAO THE LAST MESSAGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:54 AM
35

There’s a lot of FDS popping up on twitter lately it’s amazing to see actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:53 PM
1

Omg I just checked and her videos are gone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:23 AM
10

This 100% works. I’m naturally this way towards men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:51 AM
8

Yeah. I left my ex the first time he showed he didn’t care about me. Admirable right? A girl doesn’t stay and remain dumb for a man who shows he doesn’t care for years? I felt like I was dumped and just as stupid as if I stayed.. it took a lot of healing but I still feel like somethings wrong with me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:28 PM
15

I’m still trying to find the female friends with my mindset part but I feel like that can be done by following locals on twitter/IG. I stay motivated by my level up.. honestly.... to make people mad. LMAO. I know you’re not supposed to care about ppl who aren’t in your life but it feels good to look amazing and do better than those who prayed on your downfall. Also I love to see my progress monthly. I truly have gotten more beautiful and intelligent since January and when people notice? It just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:37 PM
5

Wow I absolutely love your answer thank you baby!!! You’re so right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 12:36 AM
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Lmaoooo I mean that I feel like I’m wasting time when I’m not spending every second living it up, that’s why I do. It’s crazy too me many can stay in situations that don’t benefit them when there’s so much to experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:02 PM
23

Idk how women can waste their pretty years in a man... I’m only 21 and feel like time is running out for me LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:37 PM
32

Same lmao a guy said “you know you fine”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:29 AM
8

Michaela Pink & SheraSeven1 if u want a cut throat one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:12 PM
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I’m attractive and don’t attract nerds like that so it must be how you look. You attract a certain type by how you look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:14 PM
3

I told my ex once “everybody doesn’t deserve to know me” and he said that turned him on LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 11:24 PM
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LMFAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 11:18 PM
92

THIS. They only notice your look that’s why after my breakup I put in such hard work into looking good and I look the absolute best I’ve ever looked. THE BEST REVENGE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:06 PM
4

I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 05:17 PM
6

SheraSeven1, Michaela Pink, Shallon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 05:16 PM
-2

Ohhh I definitely get you. First, consider the risks. Is it worth losing a provider if you don’t have back ups? another option is to teach him to better satisfy you or satisfy yourself. Last option is getting another one on the side but you must be skilled sneaking about and whatnot. Honestly if you can get away with it... why not. But try with him first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:14 AM
13

LMFAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:11 AM
63

I’m finna throw up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:31 PM
17

Delivered. It really depends but I feel like delivered looks the most unbothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:50 PM
5

Men don’t bring up love til you bring up money 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:39 PM
12

We told you! Glad it worked out sweet pea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:34 PM
4

YESSSS! I HIGHLY suggest SheraSeven1 and Michaela Pink!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:13 AM
1

All you can do is lead by example. Let her see how your man treats you and drop comments here and there about what he’s done for you recently. It’s hard to get our friends to change the only thing that could motivate her is watching you have something beautiful and healthy. It’ll click for her soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:13 AM
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Yes!! My mother raised me with high standards and I’ve always been subconsciously living exactly by the FDS code book. I can’t wait to have a daughter and teach her the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:08 AM
3

No problem sweet pea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:00 AM
4

Sleep with your fwb and don’t give any sex to the guy your trying to date seriously yet until your exclusive. Believe or not men do this Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:00 PM
9

THE POOP EDITS LMFAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:55 PM
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Lol I had a friend like you, I was the Ali. Her guy friends all thought I was crazy bc I had standards and didn’t play wit men. She was the chill type who gives men money and an easy time. She was flattered by it but none of these men treated her well meanwhile I was in a relationship being provided for. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:54 PM
1

Thank you, you get it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 09:00 PM
3

A lot of the times I’m finding stuff about myself I can improve. Just when you think you’re pretty, there’s more leveling up to do! 🤣 are your makeup skills up to par? I find that I can always improve here and I’ve gotten so good. Are your clothes up to par? It’s easy to build a fashionable closet with simple colors/basics that you can pair together to look more put together. Watch styling videos on YouTube!! Is your hair great? Do you smell and look clean all the time? Do you paint your nails? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:50 PM
2

That applies to higher caliber men sorry I forgot to include that. You can get a man looking however you want it just depends on your type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 03:47 AM
1

You completely missed what I said.. I’m not saying ditch her education. I’m saying leveling up is whats gonna get you the life partner way faster than neglecting your looks and only focusing on school. Beauty gets you noticed and taken seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:02 AM
1

Become REALLY pretty, go out more, stop having sex with him, and/or just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:55 AM
7

Thank you, someone who gets it. This is exactly how you play the game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:37 AM
15

I said be strategic about it. Idk how to explain it but I’m naturally this way to where I know my limits. You can be as vulnerable all you want but some secrets are for YOURSELF. You are not supposed to give people your all, you are for yourself. Do whatever you wish and what ever works for you but this has kept me from being screwed over BIG TIME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:36 AM
21

EXACTLY MY POINT! They will use it as a measure to see what you tolerate and do you THE SAME WAY just because “she’s used to it/ she can handle it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 10:18 PM
1

Right she has to work on her looks it’s the only thing that’ll work— not your education. She should watch SheraSeven1 on YouTube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:54 PM
61

Oh wow DRAG MEEEE LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:28 PM
3

Exactly, the process is taking forever but I can’t risk looking ridiculous for a dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 04:14 AM
17

I posted something similar to this relating to my crush 😭 I’m so stuck on not approaching men bc it disgusts me but when men you find attractive stare and don’t make a move it makes you wanna march up to them and put your number in their phone LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 07:13 PM
5

I asked this question before LMAO but I check they’re hands to see if they’re large, how they carry themselves, and the feet of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:14 PM
11

YES to how they carry themselves. I’ve lucked out with men that carry themselves with quiet confidence and big dick energy lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:12 PM
1

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 03:25 PM
6

Ew wtf he’s horrid, and he expects women to fall in love with him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 03:18 PM
2

You’ll want to have your first time in a committed relationship I promise you. It was best when I did that instead of having a one night stand it makes things less awkward lol. Plus this guy absolutely DOES NOT deserve your coochie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 06:45 PM
12

As soon as you said “he treats me like a platonic friend in public but in private it’s different” you know you have to leave him. Period. You are always the prize and what you’re doing is kinda setting yourself up for hurt. Hang out with his friends without him, don’t be available, and definitely stop giving him girlfriend benefits without the title. You want to be his girl but he doesn’t want commitment? Fine, no perks for you boy. He’ll either want to get exclusive or show you that he was usin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 06:34 PM
9

Should of blocked him. Speaking only shows you care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 06:29 PM
2

I agree I’d do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 12:08 AM
7

I know I’ve romanticized it but I’m sure it’s off boredom in my love life. I always make sure men love me more than I do and I’ve NEVER pursued. I just want him to notice me it’s all you guys don’t have to worry about me making a mistake 😭 this guys a challenge to me and
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 06:30 PM
14

You learn very quickly you have to lie to men. Treat him like he’s the only one (you won’t risk having him treat you different) and just go on your other dates till you find your favorite and become exclusive 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 05:12 PM
1

That’s very true omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 04:24 PM
3

That’s what I’m relying on. For some reason I keep feeling like an opportunity will be missed since he’s so quiet but I’ll wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 04:24 PM
3

I love leveling up, I started in January and I’m the prettiest I’ve ever been. Even then I STILL think I have more leveling up to do. You never stop being your best self. I did my makeup almost everyday & and dressed up every where I went and I def felt better and got better treatment n compliments. It feels so good I encourage other women to level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 03:49 AM
2

I’m so weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 04:15 AM
2

Oh it feels amazing doesn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 04:09 AM
5

Honestly, she cracks me up when she talks down on dusty situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:57 AM
7

Ugh I can’t wait to experience this, everyone in my life is consumed by a relationship and I’ve had to disappear slowly bc we have no alone time together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:35 AM
15

You have to level up to the point where these guys couldn’t even think they had a chance with you. Laugh at them and leave them on read like there’s no way they could ever get with a girl like you with such little effort like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:33 AM
6

I might get downvoted for this but .. get prettier. I’m not kidding but working on your looks does sooooo much good for you — you look & feel better for yourself and others will treat you very different. As soon as I got better looking people who didn’t want anything to do with me suddenly swarmed me with offers 🤷🏽‍♀️ but I turned them down. Point is, leveling up might be what you need . You are the prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 03:25 AM
1

I didn’t mean it like that, I can be vulnerable and open but I don’t dive too deep. I have a thing where my secrets are MY secrets. I don’t believe in giving ur complete all to a man, you need to save yourself for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 06:41 PM
3

It’s too hard for a lot of women idk it’s easily for me bc I don’t like being vulnerable or open anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 02:50 AM
4

This is 10/10 and a lot of people aren’t gonna agree 🤷🏽‍♀️ the mystery really keeps them. My favorite youtuber is happily married and still remains a mystery to her husband and doesnt give him her all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 02:08 AM
5

I had my fill and fun with casual flings after my breakup but I had to enter celibacy after. It gets old and I’m ready for a relationship and something of meaning. So I get you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:14 PM
3

Went thru the same thing. Didn’t treat me bad but he stopped caring. That’s exactly when you leave and find better. You will heal don’t worry 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:05 PM
4

A guy has to like u to give oral I’ve learned, every guy I’ve been with has liked me more so I believe that’s the secret
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 04:20 AM
9

That’s the thing, I don’t issues with men giving me head— they always do and I have only returned the favor once (out of 4) it’s just that some don’t last long enough or midway I realize “yikes I rlly didn’t want sex I just wanted intimacy”. I’m celibate rn it’s keeping my head clear and weeding out men who make me regret sex ya know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 04:19 AM
8

I’m only 21 and I don’t have a libido anymore lol, I’m seriously not interested in being disappointed 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 04:05 AM
38

PAYS FOR EVERYTHING???????? I’m gonna faint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 11:57 PM
1

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 07:24 PM
13

This subreddit damn near brings me to TEARS. I LOVE when women know their worth and set boundaries!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 07:19 PM
17

He’s weird. Like so weird. Also might be crazy. I dealt with a guy I had a friends with benefits thing going on with and it always seemed like he WANTED me to catch feelings so I get hurt??? He’s always ask super deep questions like do I miss him, how much he loves how fragile I am? Do I cry a lot?! Stuff like that and it was so weird so I ditched him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:41 PM
17

Ewwww wtf is his problem?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:36 PM
5

My ex did this while we weren’t exclusive lmaooo I saw a hickey, didn’t say a word, and started dating around. He made it exclusive after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 11:38 PM
3

I have close guy friends too and the things I hear ..lord 😭. They’re such babies. And The worst part is none of these guys are like...perfect. If I find a great guy he’s usually lacking in other areas to the point where I can’t even be attracted! There’s so many great women out there, so mature and lovely and I couldn’t even point out a great guy if you paid me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:38 AM
3

LMAO it’s okay really, I definitely needed to experience the single life it taught me a lot (esp that good guys are sooo hard to catch smh, that’s why you have multiples with different amazing traits haha) either way, I like to believe you can always attract great men so don’t worry even though this shit is lameeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:28 AM
2

Yeah but when a woman goes after a man it’s done differently. When I’m “going after a man” I’m simply putting myself in the position for him to come after me (bumping into him, locking eyes at a party and constantly walking past him to get a drink, making a joke and disappearing, etc) you never wanna actually be the hunter is what I’m saying. One time a guy hit on me and I stopped him before he left to exchange numbers, so I hit on him, but then I let him do allllll the chasing after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:25 AM
3

I just say ew or leave them on read LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:22 AM
3

I knew a guy, who gave me nothing to work with, that would pop up and message me “you miss me? 👀” and I’d say no every time and he would get upset every time 🤣 it’s so hilarious to see them get mad at you not falling for their low efforts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:17 AM
4

Dated my ex for like a year everything’s PERFECT, and all of a sudden one month he just...detaches. He went from loving me more than I loved him to just completely going cold (I suspected cheating, intuition is no joke). Anyways, I’m very realistic with my feelings and relationships so I don’t stay in bad situations or anything with red flags so I broke up with him (very cold breakup he didn’t fight for me or anything) It was hard to get over but I’ve healed and you’re very lucky yours is short …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 03:05 AM
2

Right like when I saw she messaged him to apologize I got second hand embarrassment and then I saw her say she messaged AGAIN after that I was like oh no sweetie 😔 that’s not how this works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 02:51 AM
18

LMFAOOOOOOO the absolute nerve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 06:32 PM
9

girl SAMEEEE. I already knew the game when I was younger but after a breakup and having casual sex... I don’t find as much quality men as before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 08:44 PM
3

This is facts. I had a crush on my guy friend in the beginning and I realized why he wasn’t choosing me even tho I know I’m attractive.... I’m not his type. He likes women completely opposite from me and that’s ok.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 07:14 PM
14

THIS!!!! I was going thru a hoe phase after a break up and it’s mind blowing how many don’t know how to please, ive only encountered 2!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 05:13 PM
10

There’s so much to dislike...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 05:09 PM
7

Yup this is my experience to the T! They love women they can’t get to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 02:31 AM
1

Please listen to this guy, im a female lurker and this is solid advice.
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:55 PM
3

personally when i’m getting to know someone i’ll ask a questions but include my own input too so that it’s a back an forth conversation. i try to put jokes in there too.
/r/seduction14/11/18 03:06 PM
6

i know plenty girls who are with guys with no job or car i think you’ll be good if youre clean and give good sex & attention (the reasons they usually stay)
/r/seduction14/11/18 01:15 PM
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bad hygiene.. we are really attracted to clean men who smell of nice cologne when we hug you.. clipped nails, clean cut hair, ears, teeth etc same goes for a clean car always talking about sex REALLY early in the conversation, i say it’s best to either wait for her or make subtle jokes about the topic flirting with others or staring etc; turn off when your staring down other girls (we notice). a girl ur talking to wants to feel important so if you maintain eye contact and give her attention, the…
/r/seduction14/11/18 01:46 AM
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