sparklykittens234 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Overcoming the trauma of experiencing a porn addict husband	SEEKING ADVICE	sparklykittens234	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 05:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	More PPD DELUSIONS About FDS Lol, I Could Not Even Be Bothered To Embarrass The OP By Asking For Citations... Huh? This guy literally pulled the most random shit that no one here has ever talked about. Some women here are actually abuse survivors who are learning and talking about boundaries, having good standards, and putting ourselves first before a man who puts zero effort in. I’ve never seen anyone here discuss how to be manipulative.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 03:47 AM
2	Gigi Engle with her garbage takes again. I wonder if it’s occurred to her that porn is an accurate depiction of male sexuality and all the “education” in the world won’t change that 🤔 Me either!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 01:28 AM
8	Gigi Engle with her garbage takes again. I wonder if it’s occurred to her that porn is an accurate depiction of male sexuality and all the “education” in the world won’t change that 🤔 I don’t get why libfems act like they’re so for women’s rights and freedoms, yet promote porn that is literally catered for the male gaze and an industry that profits off of the abuse of women. I mean, it also promotes unhealthy and unreal body standards, does not teach / portray how sex really is, and is creating a bunch of addicts. It ruins lives and marriages and relationships yet no one can say this without getting called every name in the book, controlling, or crazy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 01:23 AM
3	Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversation Wtf? This dude is insane! Literally it is a normal question to ask what one does for work as an ice breaker. Very very insecure guy lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 11:26 PM
17	What these LVMs think we are Male incels, in my mind, don’t try to improve theirselves or have any self reflection. They enable each other’s unhealthy beliefs that they just deserve sex because they’re entitled to it. I mean, the incel web is pretty dark and uses abusive language towards women, not even understanding that MAYBE there is something wrong with them that they need to change or improve to find a lady. The gals over here at FDS, if they are not actively dating, they are voluntarily celibate to work on themselves,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 01:48 PM
27	Husband is a porn addict who ejaculates in the shower and doesn’t clean it, leaving the evidence for his pickme wife to clean. He lies and gaslights. They now have a child and he’s doing it in the child’s bathroom. He’s also not attracted to her post baby body. My husband did this. He was a 27 year old man child with a receding hairline meanwhile I was 19/20 in my prime. I left his ass and so should she!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 06:46 PM
15	Imagine Being 30+ And Thinking Like This This one made me laugh extra hard	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 04:29 AM
12	Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving. Lol this was triggering I used to be this friend. I think it’s okay to vent every once in a while, but if it’s excessive it’s time for a therapist. I do have sympathy for women in these situations, as it’s obvious that they are drowning and are holding on to anyone they can. I think it’s not abnormal or necessarily narcissistic to have a period of time where this happens. I think mental health services do need to be more accessible for young gals and ladies, or at least more affordable. My frien…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 03:34 PM
1	Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanisms This!! Absolutely. It’s a part of the facade.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 02:34 PM
2	Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanisms It’s okay! I learned from the whole relationship- I needed it. It really is a covert tactic. He’s quite narcissistic, and I was always left in confusion of well, he continued to act poorly, but he’s in therapy. He’s trying! A lot of people say narcs don’t go to therapy, but I actually think many covert ones love it because they just get to talk and talk about themselves in any light they want. Fooling the therapist, even highly trained ones. This is why I get all nervous when people tell others …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 02:25 PM
24	This is why you do not send nudes, ever. This just makes me want to cry. Unbelievable deceit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 04:03 AM
11	Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanisms Exactly. My husband is so “committed”. I thought it was great, until I learned he was triangulating me and others with what his therapist “says”. Honestly, I hope it helps him eventually but not with me in the picture!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 10:33 PM
202	Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanisms My husband (soon to be ex) just used therapy to become a better abuser, financially drain his parents, and paint himself as a victim over and over. Sometimes men entering therapy doesn’t mean an answered prayer- it can make things worse sometimes. This might sound controversial, but some men entering therapy don’t always want to be “better”. They want others around them to be.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 07:36 PM
2	Humble men of Match Total narc	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 08:52 PM
7	TIL that we should be okay with our boyfriends watching half-naked women all day because that’s how their brain is wired Thank you for this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/20 11:46 PM
3	This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment?? Lmfao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 02:32 AM
5	This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment?? QUEEN.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 02:31 AM
14	So glad someone said it Me too. Met him when I was 19. He was 26. He wanted me to move in within two weeks, fully depend on him, swept me off my feet by taking me on a trip to France. He wanted to marry me “while I was still a teen” because it was “unique” to him. Got married after like three months of dating, and the day before my 20th birthday. Abusers can truly make you feel like you’re their soul mate, until one day it all changes and they show who they really are. And so many woman go through this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 03:43 AM