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| 9 | Please don't shrink yourself to make (men) comfortable.I got told I was too "extra"...go fuck yourself Brian, I like me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 6 | My cousins weddingIm not much for over the top declarations. Not gonna lie, my guy is pretty plain spoken, kinda a rough-neck. Doesn't talk much about his feelings, but when he says "I love the fuck out of you Princess" I know it's not something he thought or planned, hes actually saying it because he means it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Trigger warning: Men's behaviour during the pandemicThe opposite is true for child abuse though. Without kids in school and the community, we aren't being notified about concerns. Its very concerning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 280 | Men using women on Tinder for emotional therapy. Comments are from another man doing the same thing. Women are not service animals, go and seek help!On the third comment, no people don't understand mental illness, and neither do you if you think some random 18 year old girl can cure you by letting you get your dick wet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 77 | all of the comments were criticizing the bf and she STILL defends himAnd if she marries him, she IS the joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:08 PM |
| 4 | There is way too much wrong in this post. Why do young women allow themselves to be used like this???I work with Family Services. I have a couple families where I hug the kids, and are technically clients | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:10 PM |
| 4 | SINGLE MOMS: You do not have less value because you have children!Women. Should not be penalized for being the parent that stays | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | What pickmes and LVM don't get...I had a friend who was obese and she was on all kinds of meds. She was big on the "body positivity" thing, and got angry when I mentioned my concern for her health. She ended her marriage and then was able to at healthy and had time to exercise. She dropped so much weight and she was able to cease most of her meds, as they were no longer concerned about her heart or cholesterol and shes no longer a prime candidate for diabetes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 30 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.She dumps his ass and ends up with a cool supportive girlfriend, he ends up alone and regretful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice"There used to be this bouncer at a local club, and this group I hung out with, we all called him "eye candy", he was flattered by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:17 AM |
| 34 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.As a huge wrestling fan, I love backstage rumors. When Nikki joined WWE, she made a point of going for Dolph Ziggler who industry people were touting as the next big thing. He never really became that though. Cena was divorced at that time and was screwing his way thru the women's locker room. So they got together. Nikki rcvd a lot of career opportunities based on her relationship with him. She wanted to live her life on camera, he didnt. She wanted kids, he didnt. Also, to be fair to him, I cau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:54 AM |
| 61 | 56 y.o. Liam Cunningham refused to let GoT team make Davos crush on Missandei, played by 28 y.o. Nathalie EmmanuelI loved that he told them they werent going to ruin the character and relationships he had built by making him a perv. Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 13 | An interesting read! Haven’t read the whole book but it certainly sounds intriguing, and will be next on my audible wish list!My mom's name is Karen. She beat breast cancer 33 years ago, when that was rare. She is awesome and seriously if I can be half as great as she is, I'd consider it a win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:28 PM |
| -19 | Imagine using this many words to tell the entire world you’re shit in bed.To be fair, if you have abnormal amounts of discharge, that's not wrong... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | It all makes sense now...So I was with my Negative value ex, and I was putting on some hydrating moisturizer, and I had a little extra on my hand so I said " here" and went to put some on him. He acted like I had tried to put battery acid on him. He got legit pissed at me and said " I look fine, I dont need that crap". He is 43 and he looks like hes in his 50's. I'm 44 and people consistently think I'm about 32 or so. I constantly hear " you do not look old enough to have a 25 year old son" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Explaining your standards to men?Also, that private message, I'd say something like " the fact that you made a throwaway to harass me...I categorically refuse to ever go out with you and it has zero to do with your height. " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Explaining your standards to men?Around 5'9", lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Fun fact? Kellyanne Conway's daughter Claudia follows the FDS way.In what way are they abusive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 34 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Yes, Princess Sheikha Latifa, princess Shasma and Princess Haya can tell you all about the joy of living in that system | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.'But you wouldnt be dating him. You'd show up, have sex with him and then leave, that's all. Basically just literally be an unpaid prostitute or a walking fleshlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Why do Christian Dating Coaches ALWAYS Women have “Unrealistic Standards” for men and we need to lower our expectations. 🙄 I’m tired of these Pick-Me grifters exploiting women in God’s Name.My guy is definitely a man, and he likes to take care of me, but I make more than him. So he takes care if me by making a cheesecake, or spaghetti sauce from scratch. I don't really like to drive, so he drives us. He hates sushi but goes with me to sushi restaurants without any complaints, and when I'm stressing he calms me down and listens without trying to solve it for me. Things like that that play to his strengths without requiring me to downplay mine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:54 PM |
| 24 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisRose is queen and is killing it on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:11 AM |
| 17 | LVM encouraging LVMI was a home health supervisor and had to tell more than one client he couldn't watch porn while his home health worker was there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?But they aren't, not really. My ex is bragging about taking his new g, who he has referred to as his "soulmate"...to her face, on what he knows is my dream vacation. He is also messaging at least 3 other women on facebook and telling them that he is single. Which is what he did to me as well, it's just at this point he is not comfortable letting his contempt for women show to her at this time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 13 | Pickme helps scrote husband have a career, he ends up raping 16-year-old girl bc "he can't help it"I worked at a casino and everyone was cheating on their partner with someone else at work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Sailor Moon FDS momentsI honestly consider Usagi to be a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 14 | BlowjobsMy ex wanted to choke me until I passed out using a noose! I noped out on that experience with a swiftness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 63 | My sister taught me that every woman cannot be saved, and I have to accept it we all should.I had a friend like this. She was scared of uncertainty and being alone. She was comfortable with a certain level of misery and unhappiness because she knew what to expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 13 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏I'm bisexual, can confirm, no homophobia in your comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 21 | This is just so sad... I don't feel like i want to date men anymore after being exposed to what they really think... and dealing with horrible men. I just can't take it mentally lolThe phrase "DSL" exists because guys are stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 19 | FEMINIST PORN DOESN’T EXIST and RULE 34 is a LIE. FIGHT ME LibFems and Scrotes!!Ron Jeremy is not pleasing to look at... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:03 PM |
| 21 | Women in the BibleThe first people Jesus appeared to after the Resurrection was the group of women. Also, they were the ones going to make sure he was buried correctly. The men were hiding in a room terrified of being arrested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 46 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔I thank my old school romance novels for my refusal to settle for sub-par sexual experiences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 10 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣Yeah, that's my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 26 | Who they are sexually is just an extension of their personality. Has anyone *really* surprised you by being bad in bed? (Ps ignore Carrie what woman is ever really bad in bed lol)I'm not a fan, Carrie is the biggest pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?The most porn-sick guy I ever knew was a Virgo. My HVM is a Scorpio. I'm a Cancer and we mesh very well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Something about an article mentioning a 16 year old’s bra just doesn’t sit right with me. Notice there’s also another piece about a 14 year old’s wardrobe.According to what I've seen, (Not gonna lie, I keep an eye on people who leave Scientology), she and her mom were declared to be "suppressive" he doesn't really have any contact with her, and doesn't really care too much about it. Her mom seems to be really cool, and low-key, so I'm thinking she will be less of a trainwreck, than like the Kardashians | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Something about an article mentioning a 16 year old’s bra just doesn’t sit right with me. Notice there’s also another piece about a 14 year old’s wardrobe.TBF, Suri Cruise's wardrobe has been the subject of headlines since she was like 3 years old | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 12 | I guess I’m not a real woman then 🤷♀️Yeah, I am not sucking the hooves of any man. That pic made me throw up in my mouth a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Are PAs destined to cheat?Yes! I dated a guy who was totally addicted to lesbian barely legal porn. I was trying so hard to be the "cool girl" I was like, well, at least hes not having sex with other people...lol I was such a sweet summer child, because of course he was. Then he would start trying to get me to arrange a threesome with him and whatever random acquaintance we knew that he thought was hot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:32 PM |
| 84 | A former colleague posted this. He’s old, disgusting, extremely over weight, bald, short. This is over an insta movement that’s for women supporting other women.Yeah, well, that character in "Cry Baby" was besties with the coolest guy, played guitar in his band, was a total bad ass with a knife, could beat the hell out of most guys, and had a boyfriend who adored her. And as she said "there ain't nothing the matter with my face. I got character". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 12 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”In the 1950's, if a man tried to bully me into a sexual relationship, he'd wake up being fed to pigs by my dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 13 | LVM dress low valueFirst date with a guy and he wore a t-shirt that said "I f*cked the Olsen twins before they were famous". I was so gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Loving yourself isn't vanity, it's sanity Queens!I always identified with Sailor Pluto. My group at the time would joke that we had Sailor Pluto, Jupiter, Mercury and Saturn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 30 | What these LVMs think we areIncels: all holes should be enslaved immediately, the government should provide me with a 12 yr old virgin! FDS:Oh honey, you deserve someone who wont pee in your good tupperware! Yeah, totally the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Where the house though? 🔨My guy makes phenomenal spaghetti sauce from scratch. His mom taught him. She used to day "any man who can cook, will have no trouble finding a woman who will want to." Also, hes currently making me a vanity table because he heard me saying I've always wanted one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 5 | A 16 year old queenIf I can still walk, they haven't earned that damn sandwich | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.One of the things that I like about my guy is that with the exception of one ex girlfriend, when the subject comes up, he doesn't talk trash about the women hes been with in the past. And the ex he really doesn't like, its totally justified, and he just would rather not discuss her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidIf she wants to continue putting herself out there, how is other people charging money for it effecting her at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Our internet footprintLove this,thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.I feel like he was hoping his wife would be down for a three way with him and the instructor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 56 | "What's your love language?" ALL OF THEM.But in OLD, when they say physical touch is their love language, it means sex on the first meeting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 38 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.I could see him and Leah Remini in Old School...you just know she divorced him later and took all his money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 3 | YouTube - Found through r/cringe - Gross old dude "rapping" about his need for young women... right now!That's Lucas Werner, he is very mentally ill, made headlines for harassing 16 yr old barista a while ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 15 | 30 year age difference. Remember to take NO shit from these men.He was low-key telling you he was a "Dominant" and was going to try to pressure you into BDSM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:22 AM |
| 60 | 💯 truthI was wearing a puffer coat. Looked like the stay puffed marshmallow man and still had a guy yell "nice tits" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:54 AM |
| 109 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsMy mom ended up having a full masectomy in 1985. My dad (HVM) knew my mom liked Sunflowers and they didn't have any in the gift shop. He was not familiar with St Louis where the surgery was done as we live 3 hours away, and he wanted to be there when she got out of surgery, so he ended up picking dandelions in the park across the street for her. They took care of and loved each other until he passed away in 1999 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | This is why you do not send nudes, ever.So, this one I was cleaning off the top of my now ex's entertainment center. I was sorting things and tossing things because he would sometimes et his junk mail up there and forget about it. I found this envelope and opened it and it was full of polaroid, nudes of some girl I didn't know. So I confronted him about it and it was like his ex from 4 years earlier. I told him that I had a problem with it, but i'm not sure if he ever threw them away, or just hid them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:13 AM |
| 24 | The males are falling apart because COVID19 is forcing them to actually parent their kids nowTHey made a movie about it and even called it "Bad Moms" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | This.They have been, we are now trying to make sure that the perps have jail time, trying to get "mom" on some pretty serious charges | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 48 | Triggered Pickmeisha mad on behalf of little dick menActually too many times I've seen a guy thinking size is all that matters, so he jackhammers away for like a minute and then is all "yeah, I'm a total sex god" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:33 PM |
| 61 | LMAOOOO piss off, scumbagMGTOW- women should not be allowed basic human rights FDS: honey, you deserve someone who doesnt pee in your hood Tupperware Yeah, totally the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:25 PM |
| 25 | Look at this prize! Neck beard and a Pornhub sweatshirt. This was his whole profile. No description. Just his mug and a Pornhub sweatshirt.Or flipping off the camera, WTF is up with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:14 PM |
| 59 | This.I work in child welfare. In one of my current cases, an 11 year old has made disclosures that she and her sister were expected to "keep the men happy". This included mom's boyfriends (plural), unke and 2 cousins. Trust and believe that I'm doing all I can to get justice for these kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Groundbreaking research. Your partner wants to have sex with you when you show them you appreciate them. What's next florals in spring?Yeah, because screw being appreciated! Every women's dream is to have a guy who thinks of her as nothing more than a convenient temporary parking place for his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:13 PM |
| 10 | M*le wondering if he's an asshole for subscribing to an OnlyFans account behind his wife's back (the woman in the account also looks 15 years old at a push)Been there, experienced that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 30 | My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is!One of the best lovers I've ever had, was roughly the size of my thumb while fully erect. The things he could do with his tongue though, OMG! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 26 | What’s with the trend of old men wanting to collect a harem of young girls to get pregnant but never commit to? And why do they think they’re good enough to ask for it?My ex was like this, he wanted to be "poly-amorous" because he "had so much love to give", but he was adamant about there being a "one penis policy". Like he could screw any girl he wanted, but I was not allowed to like, even talk with other guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 18 | What’s with the trend of old men wanting to collect a harem of young girls to get pregnant but never commit to? And why do they think they’re good enough to ask for it?It's been my experience that the people I know who are, usually refer to the tribe that they are a member of. Like my guy has Native ancestry and he refers to himself as "Comanche". I have a couple friends who grew up on a res in Michigan and they call themselves Chippewa. I may be wrong but it's been my experience that the majority of people claiming Native American ancestry are kinda full of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The goal of BDSM is to get into "subpace" which is described as a kind of transcendce/euphoria. It's dissociation and a coping mechanism. These women are being abused to the point of losing reality. They begin to associate that "high" with the abuse.Well, so many people in "the lifestyle" (which oh God, I full body cringe at that term) act like it's the end all be all to aspire to. So when you've got all this reinforcement that it's THE goal to strive for, I literally at one point was like "Ok, there has to be something wrong with me that I'm feeling like this when the last time I felt like this was when my dad died". It took me getting out of that relationship, and getting some distance from it for me to finally "get it". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 33 | The goal of BDSM is to get into "subpace" which is described as a kind of transcendce/euphoria. It's dissociation and a coping mechanism. These women are being abused to the point of losing reality. They begin to associate that "high" with the abuse.So I've had traumatic experiences in my life that caused me to disassociate. And I've been in "subspace", its the exact fucking thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | PickMeisha Shames Women for Not Fixing Their Man a Plate. The comments erupt.My guy's friend Cookie always fixes his plate. She is the cook at his local diner (that's why she is called Cookie). Shes known him for like 15 years, and I have no problem with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 14 | Be careful of who you’re meeting IRL ladies!!! Carry ANY self defense weapons you can in your purse like pepper spray, knives, etc and also share your location with a few trusted family members and friends before meeting strangers from OLD.Because most women try to use them as a warning/threat. If I pull my gun, I've already decided what made me pull it needs to die, and I will empty my gun into it. That way to only way you're killing me with my gun is to beat me to death with it. That's how my dad taught me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 136 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.I'm a social worker. A client of mine recently had a baby and the father, a 13 year old was there. Their situation is a tragedy, but get this, this barely a teenager was more of a man than this human shaped shitshow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:09 PM |
| 20 | Significant age gap relationships. Why I dont like them.If a guy is 43 and he is obsessed with wanting to date women who are 23 or younger exclusively, there's a reason. Either women their own age wont have them, or they have fetishized your youth and once you "age out" they split. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:56 AM |
| 62 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.My ex was almost "I love how strong you are", then cheated with a girl who faked an eating disorder for attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 94 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.Incels: all foids should be enslaved and given to incels at birth FDS: Hun, you deserve someone who doesn't pee in your good Tupperware Yeah, totally the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:50 PM |
| -1 | The number 2 movie on Netflix in Canada today is literally glorifying Stockholm SyndromeShe leaves him at the end I believe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 12 | He didn’t call me for our first “online date” so I blocked& unmatched him. He messaged me on whatsapp- should I give him a chance?I'd wonder if he would respect your "no" if you refuse to have sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsI'm currently working on a case where a mother was selling her daughters to men for drugs and had been doing it for years. The girls are ages 14 and 11.its heartbreaking to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Unexpectedly popular: Women who “dated” older men as teenagers that now realize they were predators, what’s your story?Oh I know, when I tell that story, I roll my eyes and use an exaggerated tone, which I forgot doesnt really translate well online. He was completely a scummy perv. I used to watch "To Catch a Predator" and I remember thinking that I wouldnt be at all surprised to see him on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 4 | ah yes, the oppression of men in AmericaI had to deal with a MRA judge in my custody hearing fir my son. Please enlighten me, I dare you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 83 | Unexpectedly popular: Women who “dated” older men as teenagers that now realize they were predators, what’s your story?When I was 14 I went on a date with a 24 year old. He liked me because i was "so mature". Translation: i developed early and at 14 was a DD cup. I had to sneak out of the house, I mean, my parents wouldn't let me date him, but i was so mature. He tried to have sex with me. He didnt try to force me, but he was very manipulative and tried to guilt trip me. My dad was waiting for us when I got home, with the local Sheriff. I dont know what was said but I never saw that guy again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | "This isn't the girlfriend I ordered, should I send it back?" Don't forget THIS is the kind of low value character we want to avoid.Also he started dating her when she was a minor and he was 22. Ewww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellSame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 36 | What’s the consensus here on prenuptials???Well, back in the day, Nick Lachey wanted Jessica Simpson to sign a pre-nup, and she refused. She was worth 35 million when they split, and she ended up having to give him over 10 million of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 10 | Toxic, red pill type invading my friend's Facebook page for SingleSo women like good looking men. I'd be interested in knowing what his preferences are. I'm thinking probably barely legal, petite and extremely thin, bordering on anorexic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 41 | DON'T BE THAT PICKME WHO DROPS EVERYTHING AND FOLLOWS A GUY HALFWAY AROUND THE WORLD (It Probably Won't Last and You'll Suffer in the End)This high school senior I knew years ago was dating this fuckboy. He was lazy and stupid, she was so smart, that she was offered a full ride scholarship to Rockhurst in Kansas City, which had been her first choice dream school. Her boyfriend was only able to get accepted at University of Central Missouri, because you only needed an 18 on the ACT. She followed him and of course he cheated, they broke up and she wasnt able to transfer because the scholarship she had wasnt offered to transfers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 19 | This is a good comeback for all the creeps that say age is just a numberAge is just a number...yeah, but it's a pretty important number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else weeding out prospects (and friends too) during this time?Yeah, I've crossed out 2 LVM and 2 pickmeisha "friends" since quarantine started | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 01:28 AM |
| 9 | Never Let Them Guilt-Trip You, Sis! (A HVM Will Understand You Are Entitled to Safety)I was on a dating site and this guy I'd never had any contact with wrote this long message, all about him and what he wanted. I got a weird vibe, so didnt respond. I got another message 3 hours later, cussing me out for not responding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | This is why you need to have a secret saving account. What a messHis behavior is the biggest argument in favor of her having her own account that I've seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 13 | I thought I was saying a HVM until he got drunk and "dumped" me (minutes after telling me he loved me and saying goodnight), then immediately regretted it. Dumped, blocked, and deleted. As hard as it can be, I deserve better. Damn, it feels good not settling.Honestly, my first thought was hes drunk, and accidentally sent you a text he meant to send to another girl he has been seeing. Either way, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 3 | 🚨 Sometimes it’s easy to spot the HVMs 🤷♀️ and the NVMs 🤡 just spotted this comparison and it just clicked..!Don't drone me bro! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:31 AM |
| 14 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madExactly! That describes my ex perfectly. He then got pissed, told me I was only allowed to look for a girlfriend we could both "share" and said I was "cheating" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Unuseful=she is interested in more than being my bangmaid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 3 | I was talking to men about how they don’t do enough skincare and they started saying sunscreen isn’t necessary, and this guy said if it’s cloudy then you can’t get sunburnt 😂😂The worst sunburn I ever got was on an overcast day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 10 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.Since it was a video of a minor, can this guy be charged for soliciting child porn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:26 AM |
| 6 | A key reason why FDS is not comparable to incels/TRPI have yet to see any FDS woman say that a guy who is 18 has already "hit the wall", or start advocating to lower the age of consent to 14, or use the term "hot prime jailbait" while referring to middle schoolers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Pure GOLD StrategyI had some incel DM me asking how old I was when I started having sex and how many people have I has sex with. I responded with "why would you ask me that"? Rhe response was "I dont know". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Searching a man in the court dockets comes through again.I would do this with morbidly obese men. If you dint have the sense to put down a fork, how can I trust your decision making ability on anything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:38 AM |
| 10 | This is why I’ll never marry a man who doesn’t cook or clean. Not only do they need to be taken care of like a child, they will actively undermine your efforts to raise your sons to be better.My guy is 44 and his spaghetti sauce is to die for. His mom taught him to cook. He said "mom, why are you teaching me to cook? Dont you think I can find a woman to do it for me? " she said to him "Son, a man who can cook will have no trouble finding a woman willing to do it for him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Imagine being a pickme dating a guy for 10 years and he doesn’t propose lol based off this video alone you can already tell what kind of person he is.I doubt it would really help. I had a friend like this and I tried to get her to see that a guy who isolates her from all her family and friends was not a "great guy" and I got yelled at "Why dont you want me to be happy!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Queen BurnYou are aware that it was an all Male court that decided Roe vs Wade, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | She IS Black HistoryHave you watched wrestling since the end of the "attitude era"? Bayley is the champ and she wears full tights. Nikki Cross, Shayna Baszler, Bianca Belair, Natalya, Noa Jax, Tamina, Rhea Ripley, Ruby Riott, Sarah Logan, Trish Stratus, Lita and Beth Phoenix all wear long tights, and that's just the ones I can think of off the top of my head. And that's just the main roster of WWE, not including NXT or AEW. Also, they get to choose their own ring gear, I'm betting they wrestle in what they feel com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | She IS Black HistoryCurrently the most "over" person in the WWE is Becky Lynch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Might offend some ppl w this one 💁♀️But there are plenty of places in the Bible where it basically says " dont mess with LVM", but I believe the phrase used is "unequally yoked". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 135 | Leonardo DiCaprio is creepy tbh.When my ex and I broke up he thought he'd have all these hot 20 year old girls hitting on him...he's still waiting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 95 | Leonardo DiCaprio is creepy tbh.Just one more reason to appreciate men like Keanu Reeves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:44 PM |
| 50 | What to do if your ex threatens to kill himselfCall 911. If anyone threatens suicide, call 911. They will send out people trained to deal with that. Odds are it's a manipulation tactic, but just in case it's not, you are most likely not trained to deal with it, and are definitely to closely related to the situation to see it clearly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:17 AM |
| 3 | So, he instantly assumes that every single mother was abandoned by a man due to her own faults. What a catch.My guy was eaisexby a single mom after her husband died in a car wreck. I cant believe this guy said "not trying to be funny" considering he's a damn joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about guys that say that women are more beautiful without makeup and that they prefer "natural" women?Guys are clueless about make-up. To most guys, they only recognize make-up when you've decided to do a full-on Jeffree Star or Alyssa Edward's type of look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:06 AM |
| 11 | Men who say they dated "models" and "strippers"So my guy was a driver, and he made good money driving strippers home from the club each night. He said it was incredibly rare to see a stripper that did not have a serious addiction, a few kids with different fathers, and most had to turn tricks on the side because the money they made stripping got smoked or injected each night. I think guys who brag about dating strippers have watched way too much tv and porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:39 PM |
| 18 | On an askreddit about 1st time sex workers... I wish women would stop playing into pedo fantasiesPeople sometimes advocate for child size sex dolls as a "safe outlet" but studies have shown that it acts as more of a positive reinforcement. Porn works the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:49 AM |
| 124 | LVM complain that can’t find a girl with “domestic capabilities.” Well Chad, can you distress my armoire?My guy's mom taught him how to cook. When he asked why, she said "a man who knows how to cook will have no problem finding a woman who wants to cook for him." His homemade spaghetti sauce I'd better than mine, and he is currently working on making me a cabinet based on a piece of furniture we saw on a tour of a historical stagecoach stop...so I got a man who can do both ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | This explains a whole fucking lot, actuallySteer clear of Laurell K Hamilton! Shes a total Pickmeisha and her sex scenes are best described as IKEA porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:04 AM |
| 15 | Always.His ex is the epitome of a pickneisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Continued.... uhhhhh no it’s not because I’m liberal (which I am) but more so being a member of the bulk of people you hate (women)...?!? 🙄I'm not liberal, and I would have responded exactly the same as you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:08 AM |
| 3 | I hate it when LVM compare romance novels to pronAnd those I returned to the library, and did not finish. Julie Garwood and Jude Deveraux was my main jam. I really got into Bertrice Small later on, and some of her stuff was a bit too much...and steer clear of old school Catherine Coulter and Johanna Lindsey, yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:00 PM |
| 13 | I hate it when LVM compare romance novels to pronI LOVE trashy romances. Now, some of the late80's/early 90's are kinda rapey in some places, but the good ones, are awesome. The heroine e is always strong and plucky, sometimes a bit too naive in some books, but is also very much in charge of her sexuality. And the heroes ALWAYS make sure to satisfy the heroine, even if he doesnt get off himself. And once the hero falls for the heroine, he doesnt like other guys even looking at the heroine, and is repulsed with other women touching him.. which … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship?I'm happier. I smile more. My relationship with my mom improved tons. When I was with him, my mom and I fought a lot, because I couldn't express any discontent with him because he would then turn it into an hours long bitch session of him on everything that I was doing that wasn't how he wanted it., so when I was with my mom, I was losing it with her over little things. I'm healthier, I drink a lot less too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Don't even know where to startMy ex gave me this whole long speech about him having so much love to give, and how I was ok to date other people. But only if they were women and only if he was involved as well, no guys other than him allowed. Theres a reason he is an ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 58 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouDue to circumstances, .my guy lives 10 hours away from me. Every couple months he drives to see me and we spend a few days together. If he wanted to see you, he'd find a way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 44 | At No Point In Recorded Human History Has it Been Normal for Girls Younger than 15 to Marry.Yeah, the grandmother of Henry VIII ga e birth at age 12 or 13 and was so damaged she never conceived again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 14 | What Kind of Young Women (20s) Date Much Older Men (40s and up)?My ex tried to bring in this girl into our relationship. He did this more than once before I bounced. They were always under age 23, and ALWAYS some type of emotional/mental trainwreck with tons of daddy issues. Like one faked self-harm for attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:43 PM |
| 27 | FACTS. Every Seth Rogan Movie is A FairyTale For Men.The tv show Supernatural was trying to do a spin off. Basically it was going to be called Wayward Sisters. The premise was 2 female cops who were friends and 4 teenage girls living in the same house, fighting various nasties. It was really empowering and about being strong. One of the girls was kinda a pickmeisha in the past and neay got killed because of it. The actresses on the show were great, but it didnt get picked up. Because according the the middle aged men in charge of the CW, women wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Wtf is this? What is with the insane shilling of polygamy and letting partners have multiple “lovers”? I’m disgusted I’ve been seeing more and more of these everywhereMy ex wanted to bring another woman into our relationship. Basically, he wanted two women focused on him and providing him a live girl on girl sex show on demand. And yes, he was OBSESSED with girl on girl porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I need help!!!! I feel like my boyfriend is obsessed with keeping a female friend in his life that I feel insecure about and dislike.So, I'd been with my guy about 6 mo ths and I was really insecure about his ex, the succubus (she gave herself that name). She would get lonely and contact him looking for validation out of the blue. I told him it made me uncomfortable. He was friends with her family, they had mutual friends, and he cut her off totally to make me feel more at ease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:43 AM |
| 28 | Old men thinking young women genuinely want to be with them instead of a man their own ageMy ex is this. He thought when we broke up he'd have a continuous stream of hot bisexual girls (under the age of 22) all over him. He's 43, overweight, with a serious medical condition. He's not got alot of money and he's not high status, and doesnt own his own home. He's shocked that acpuoke girls have called him creepy, and somehow he got banned on tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Caution when dating single dadsSo my guy had 4 kids, one has passed away (RIP Christian). Two of them are adults, the other 2 are 17-ish. And their mothers scattered all other the country after the break-ups. One moved to Florida the other to California. I've met the 2 oldest, and I've met his 2 granddaughters, so precious. My son is the same age as his oldest son and we both agree, kids come first. That said though, for bother him and I, if it came down to me or the mother of one of his kids, he'd pick me in a heartbeat, bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Giving you his number instead of asking for yoursI dealt cards in a casino, and some guys made me so uncomfortable and I literally had to stand there and take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Saw this in another sub and had to share! Sex should become more about a woman’s pleasure and less about a mans fantasies and perversions and objectification of women."Reverse harem" is actually a pretty hot romance genre right now... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | It has been one month since I broke up with my LVM ex bf!!! Couldn't be happier.You look terrific! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Look at the LVM and pickmes in the comments bragging about how cheap their engagement rings are. What an amazing sign of commitment and devotion when he’d rather spend more on himself than on you!Diamonds are common, and I'm not a common type of girl. I prefer sapphires, bit its gotta be set in a platinum band. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 8 | What the meanest thing you’ve said to a guy who deserved it?A guy asked me for pictures of my "tiddys and vagene" I said "I'd rather go lick doorknobs in Wutan China. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:36 PM |
| 7 | The men of asktrp won’t let “moral responsibility” stop them from spreading disease. Yet another reminder that men dgaf, and will knowingly harm you just to get off. 🙄🤮I found out my ex was trying to bring another girl into our relationship and she had the strain of HPV that causes cancer, and he told her to not tell me that because he knew that I would not risk getting cancer just so he could get his dick wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Is it not near impossible to find men who dont watch porn?My ex was obsessed with porn. My current guy does not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:37 AM |
| 4 | He can ALWAYS make time for you. Excuses are excuses.My guy is currently living 10 hours away. He's working 60 hours a week. He calls me at least once a day, usually more than that. And nearly every morning I wake up and see "Good morning baby" in a text message, because he knows that is something that I need with him so far away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | FDS and "Twilight" ? (Bella and Edward)And too many people dont bring up the couple Jacob introduces Bella to. The girlfriend's face is scarred and I think she also had a really messed up arm. She tells Bella that she was going to dump her boyfriend but when she did, he lost his temper and he ended up scarring her and ruining her arm, but that its because he wouldn't have gotten so upset if he didnt love her so much, and that was all she ever wanted. And this relationship is pointed to as what Bella should be like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | FDS and "Twilight" ? (Bella and Edward)Um, he says at one point that he considered killing Bella, but decided against it because his mother liked where they lived and if they had to move too soon it would make her sad. Seriously, when a guy is contemplating killing you, he cant get much lower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 55 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS.So me and my ex were in a BDSM relationship and after awhile he started to get really into asphyxiation. He had this mental picture in his head that he wanted to do, involving me with arms tied, gagged with a noose around my neck that was short enough that I would be forced on my tiptoes. I noped out real quick. I have a knee that randomly dislocates. When this happens, I fall hard. He knew this. I knew we were over when he literally was ok with me risking possible permanent injury or even death… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 8 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!My ex did that too. Since I'm bisexual, he wanted "us" to have a shared girlfriend. Of course, it had to be someone he was into, my attraction to them was not considered at all. He was 41, overweight and makes about $30,000 a year and he was going after 19 and 20 year olds. We broke up and he is shocked that barely legal girls aren't throwing themselves at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:21 PM |
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