| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | Should a man get hard from making out? What if he doesn't?Never experienced that before. Men get hard from making out regardless of if they know sex is on the table or not. Somethings suspicious with him | /r/askFDS | 24/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 56 | Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think.I love my bf and he has shown me unknown pleasures. knows my body significantly more than i know it. best orgasms of my life. Liking someone makes you cum more lol not “stop caring” about it. Loser behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"This is extreeeemely accurate and perfect advice. Alot of the men i dated got defensive for men they dont even know. My current bf just holds me and nods when i talk about a mans aggression. Sometimes he joins in on the shit talking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 12:28 PM |
| -18 | Found out boyfriend used a prostitute 13 years ago. Heartbroken.Forgive him | /r/askFDS | 10/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 47 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.how a grown ass man can say “i love your vibe” is beyond me. giving me flashbacks to one guy i was seeing who never stfu about “vibes”. one of the densest men i ever spoke with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:21 PM |
| 14 | We are on our ownYes same thing happened to me. it is a real wake up call to reality. The gradual ghosting is more painful than outright victim blaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:48 PM |
| 16 | We are on our ownI got help. Help for myself and that help included making these realizations. I am on my own, any people who support me are the cherry on top. Reality is, you have more to lose by speaking out and now its a matter of defending myself and surviving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 9 | How do you strategize outfits and fashion for dates?ur playing useless mind games. There r things worth caring about and things not worth caring about and this is one. i dress how i usually dress. colorful and lots of jewelry then i adjust for weather/event. he should know from the beginning what my style is cuz it will only get more experimental from there. my makeups basic but thats cuz im not skilled at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:22 PM |
| -12 | Downstairs neighbor having extremely loud sex….this post reeks. If shes loud, get some speakers or make small talk w her and mention how u have to be up early etc. Instead, u chose to look down on this stranger woman, made a dig at her choice of man (however unappealing he is) and r considering calling 911….u do realize u sound unwell right? This whole post sounds like ur just mad shes having sex. “loud, primal sex”… so like….good sex? Check your ego and projections. | /r/askFDS | 29/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 39 | How to attract men I actually likebeing shy is bot a bad thing but ‘shy’ men r usually antisocial weird losers who were bullied as kids and never got over it. i have the same problem i just stopped being friendly with the ‘shy’ ones. theyre incapable of understanding acquaintanceship vs romantic interest and are entitled to u so no u cannot be friends w them. theyre insecure and hate how ur not. its a man tactic to ‘tame’ you. there is nothing wrong with liking outgoing men who are not miserable losers. | /r/askFDS | 17/12/20 10:45 AM |
| 4 | What is wrong with me? Why can't I get over this damn guy?Its withdrawl it will take a while i was going through the same thing. now i think of him and its just lol hes really not shit i can do way better. give it time, feel what u r feeling just dont act on it | /r/askFDS | 29/11/20 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?Everyones acting up like online dating isnt this but much worse yet many fds members r on those and its never gotten this type of reaction before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:25 AM |
| 193 | ......grossreally bothersome how everyone is responding thinking this is funny. a quirky man if u will. he cant even respect her enough to just be on the phone and speak. men r so sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 33 | When women travelits called sex tourism and is extremely fucked up and based on the exploitation of women in the global south. thailand is the biggest hot spot. it encourages sex trafficking and its often times with very young girls. sometimes couples travel together and take part.....like even the wife. i am from a country where this is common, ugly usually white american or european men travel to fuck young girls who have been human trafficked. i hope those men rot in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:51 AM |
| 7 | Woman blacks out from FWB choking her with a pillow case. Realizes she could have died but wants to explore this scary situation with another FWB who with cOmMunIcAtIoN hopefully won't kill her.there is just so much here i dont even know what to comment on. its all just 😱😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 53 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesmy own biological brother molested me while i slept when i was like 12 years old. she NEEDS to get out. porn has corrupted even innocent sibling relationships. it ruined my life and i HATE that porn consumption is being said to be healthy and normal. the damage these companies cause to young girls is criminal. I still feel extreme shame all these years later so i feel for her. she NEEDS to tell her aunt immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Look at this beautiful 65 years old woman but these red pillers say women hit the wall at 30. It's not true. Women are very attractive older too and women need to embrace their unique beauty and love themselves from inside out. Don't listen to those idiots. Love yourself at any age.You are beautifulim subscribing to her. there is something so beautiful from the way she talks and her smile. seems lovely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:18 PM |
| 6 | How to Know You’re A REAL “High Value Man” 💎good message and good for him but i find these type of dudes corny tbh. id never date a man who record videos in his car about relationships or has a book called ‘dont forget ur crown’ and wears university tshirts that grown. i have to cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.sighhh just leave. if u had to ask...i mean just leave no need to waste braincells on this situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:02 AM |
| 22 | Sad but trueeven sadder is that there r girls who most definitely will attempt to deliver this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:50 PM |
| 6 | My brain seriously needs rewired...if ur rich why didnt u go get an education and use those resources to climb up and secure a high paying job so u wouldnt have to be dependent on ur parents? am i missing something...did they get in the way of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | anyone else think men have been telling on themselves a lot more lately?tells us a lot about how little they think of us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?eh its just an opinion on a strangers room it doesnt mean you have to date them. i think its important to follow fds and want to date financially successful men but it does not meant we have to become classist. its ok to say you wouldnt date someone whos in this situation that is our right and necessary for survival but doesnt give us free reign to outright be classist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Remember!one time this dude was like ‘wow i never thought about this before.......anyways im drained youre talking too much’ all i asked was what brings you contentment and peace in this world...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Remember!number 9 is such an ill thats not talked about enough. its a direct consequence of materialism, consumerism and a disconnect from the mind and soul. they always fidget thru social media in moments of silence, they have to have some sort of a high, all topics r only surface level/superficial even if its perceivably ‘deeper’ topics because they never developed any sort of self awareness or connection with things that are not material. this is displayed in women too if we are being honest its just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | I want to have good sex at least once in my life.im grateful that even tho i lost my virginity to a total waste of time whom i had no deep feelings for, he had a very good dick and was good in bed. thats the only man i slept with. he was tall, built, pretty face, hygienic and gave good oral. too bad i hated everything else about him. sorry this has been ur experience but men good in bed exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:10 AM |
| 50 | Thoughts?i agree. people are aggressively hating on the tweeter but she is very right. BC ruins our bodies and it is not liberation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴All those products on the bathroom sink but he probably still struggles to groom. Truly ogres | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 8 | I feel bad for because HE'S the one who wants to leave instead of her realizing she needs to leave his nasty ass behindlol imagine being 22 and playing housewife. imagine optionally being w this man and optionally choosing to lower ur quality of life by arguing about a shitstreaked toilet. imagine ironing a boyfriends clothes. i cant believe we accepted this as normal 🤦🏻♀️ self hate is one hell of a drug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Men like to complain about women misrepresenting themselves on OLD. Check out this massive level of facetuning 😂real life Johnny Bravo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.loooolll imagine being on ur death bed and thinking ‘shouldve slept w more women’. Ppl really dont think bout their mortality enough for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | I would rather swallow a jean jacket than make a GROWN ASS MAN a schedule like this 🤢this is so embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:56 AM |
| 19 | Imagine a "major concern" as an adult is sex with model like womenMost scrotish thing ive seen all day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:55 AM |
| 29 | Imagine a "major concern" as an adult is sex with model like womenyea this is such a dangerous perception. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 12 | My parents have been married for over 30 years, and my dad still regularly surprises my mom with little gifts. (He does the same for me.) Small gestures actually mean so much.my dad travelled a lot for work and would get perfume and gold jewelry in that countrys style (necklaces and earrings) for my mom after every trip. on regular days hed just bring some fruits. The older i get the more i realize my dad is very hvm. my mom won. our culture we dont do wedding rings but he bought her rings pretty often and would swap them around. another thing hed do is whenever my mom made us all food hed be like ‘you have the best mom in the world’ and ‘shes amazing say thank you’.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:41 AM |
| 11 | This is why you do not send nudes, ever.shes a real one. women like her have suspicions, follow those suspicions, get it confirmed and leave. on top of that she did her part on holding him accountable. this is a mature and stable woman with respect. meanwhile pickmes would just cry and be like ‘choose me😭’ and indulge in his deviance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 11 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.18 w a 29 yo? and she has no dependance on him whatsoever and could simply leave? some women just hate themselves is my verdict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:45 PM |
| 97 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMive been DENNISed 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:33 PM |
| -16 | 🤭😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 48 | I’m sorry, he what?😂 i literally cant with this shits anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!im so angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:14 PM |
| 13 | The Audacitywhats fds stance on male friendships? i dont think its in the handbook. i think its a waste of time and mostly consider them acquaintances and not real friends. like if something happens im not calling a man.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Married to ‘some hoe’his dumb wife probably laughs and ‘he has such a good sense of humor huehue’ herself to sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:38 AM |
| 7 | I feel like I will never be in a fulfilling relationship because of my mental illnessthe first step should be being gentle to yourself about it, accepting your reality and not feeling shameful about what you have gone through. only date when u got rid of all feelings of internal guilt or shame. when dating only disclose this when you’ve been on a few dates and have identified him as HV; not everyone deserves to know your full life story. be alert for any behavior changes from him and how he treats you in your more vulnerable moments. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:18 AM |
| 266 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!‘she probably just had a bad experience or something’ men really reinforce this shit in their head and almost always blame the girl for past experiences of trauma when they dont get what they want from her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Best thing I never hadso she knew? im so curious to know what her perception of all this was, this is an absurd situation. thank God u hes out of the picture sheesh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 09:59 AM |
| 9 | Best thing I never hadDidnt try to marry me but my ‘ex’ (my dumber days so i me we werent even exclusive smh) was very bizarre looking back now. somethings still dont make sense. he asked me if i was ever molested when i came over to his house to netflix after a few weeks of knowing him (my pre FDS days). he wasnt dangerous at all i think he wanted to know all my vulnerabilities since he complained about me being hard to open up and secretive....despite him never opening up either 🤔 perhaps he wanted material to mani… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 09:58 AM |
| 15 | Best thing I never had.......at a loss for words. an easter egg? a crayon? did she ever find out about you? its crazy he basically made u into just his roommate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | This absolutely pathetic. If he wanted to marry you he would have done it. Please ladies stop your friends.whats the point of fighting for all these womens rights if they put themselves in self-imposed prisons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:21 AM |
| 14 | Humble men of Matchshould we tell him what u need to have to be in the top 1%? (Hint: not a 6 figure salary) i hate men that act like their jobs is their personality trait. coming from me an engineer, there are millions of engineers in R&D trust me you’re not that special. frankly youre just a machine in this capitalist society bro and you arent having any positive contributions to society from your comfy corporate job. lets not glamorize this lifestyle too much. respect it yes but youre not that special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:15 AM |
| 5 | I matched with this guy on Tinder back when Corona happened. Now that things are open I figured he would ask me out for dinner or something, nope, dude wants to chat on the phone all the time. I never have to go back and forth like this. Called me immature when the immature one was him 😂lollll this is his challenge 😂weirddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:09 AM |
| 41 | Update: confronting cheating fiancethe ghost and block thing is applicable to men you’ve been on a few dates and have been talking to not to your literal fiancé. your energy in this post is what i aspire to be like. all my respect to you sister!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 10 | Is most of this generation going to be unmarried?Honestly i just think there are and will be more forever girlfriends. level of pickmes is high and going strong. men win again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Kinkmesha claims she’s “nOt LikE oTheR GiRlz” and enjoys acting like a pornstar. Friends tell her this is strange. Kinkmesha comes on the internet for validation from porn addicted internet strangers. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️this post is so fucked up. i hate it. the replies are even worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:23 PM |
| 24 | i’m tired of the fetishization of latina women and men assuming all of us are “spicy” and crazy. being called “creatures” is so disgusting.men regardless of their background compartmentalize women and that includes along racial lines. basically they love to fetishize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:02 AM |
| 27 | Pickmeishas can ruin your lifegirls are programmed this way all they want is male approval. anyways slightly off topic but mixed gendered groups that dont have real interests that bond them always have weird sexual dynamics between them. idk i dont like most men and keep very very very few as ‘friends’. i always feel like mixed gendered groups are huge auditions for which girl the guy will like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 12 | Potential Love Bombing? Manipulation maybe?Id run. lame insecure men are the most dangerous. they know they’re bringing nothing to the table and want to make you the villain in their story. just delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 15 | Blocked him on whatsapp and then he texted me 😒sis drop off of muslim dating apps. aside from the fact that its marketing and not remotely islamic its a breeding ground of terrible muslim men who are performative with islam aka use islam for their misogyny but leave out any manners and good character required of them. The muslim community (like others) is filled with garbage men and minder/muzmatch is where the worst gather. stay off those apps sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:31 PM |
| 35 | Male manager trying to neg me?Just keep a straight face and never smile or laugh at his comments. keep eye contact straight and intense with no playfulness. Men are intimidated by women who can look them in the eye and be unfazed by what they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:26 PM |
| 9 | This was painful to watchthis is slavery. emotional and physical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Cohabiting before marriage?Absolutely not. its men getting the wife experience without the real legal commitment. usually turns into the mom experience actually.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:11 AM |
| 7 | Realizing he’s not that into yougotta make the vetting process as thorough as possible. Analyze every aspect of his life and take off the rose colored glasses. literally go through his life with a fine tooth comb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Realizing he’s not that into youIm proud of you sis. If we don’t put boundaries and respect ourselves no one will. put youself first. I am proud of you and I believe in you 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Realizing he’s not that into youyou’re absolutely right. i had a lapse in judgement cuz i was being dumb. im actually religious so i am now holding out for a good man of my faith and will be saving till marriage. But i 100% agree you need to wait 3 months and there has to be some commitment at the bare minimum or else youre playing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:39 PM |
| 15 | Realizing he’s not that into youI’d prefer to just never be in this situation again. no sex for me anymore nope. I dont trust men, they go to several extents to get in your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Realizing he’s not that into youits insane. hed just watch some stupid clips he thought was funny and would tell me to watch it with him. they were never funny. he even showed me stupid tweets. I wish i could go back and just leave without saying a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 8 | Realizing he’s not that into youIts worse if you actually like him :( good luck sis im praying for you. i was mainly ego bruised thank god i didnt like him either 😖regardless i was very offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:36 PM |
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