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BOOK REPORTzombiessalad/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:02 PM
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If I get married one day my children will have my name, I want my family line to be carried on that way. I grew it I keep it LOL. If my husband in the situation wanted to keep my name he could, but he wants to keep his thats also fine. But if he has a cooler last name than mine I may reconsider the whole thing merely for aesthetics lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:40 PM
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Block him!!! He’s obviously an inconsiderate scrote that is most likely redpilled. People like him are posing an enormous threat to those vaccinated and not vaccinated for medical reasons. He is a walking ulcer of society…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:26 PM
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Growing up with a brother you learn not to put up with that shit (pun intended) real quick. You make the shit stain u fking clean it or im throwing hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:40 PM
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Not a fan of her music but she has and continues to be one of the few strong female role models out there for girls nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:15 PM
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At the end of the day your personal comfort is the most important but with that said… I had a moment about a year ago where I noticed that I would be shaving out of shame. I’ve never had a boyfriend, never even had my first kiss and I am in college with so many goals and aspirations. Yet whenever I undressed to get in the shower and saw that I had body hair on my pits, legs, privates, I imagine how gross I would appeal to a man without even realizing it. I had these reoccurring thoughts that wen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:01 PM
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Don’t want to read for spoiler but words cannot describe how excited I am for this movie!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:58 PM
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Whenever people talk about hookups its just like…If you want sex with no strings attached just get a dildo, at least that wont fuck ur life up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:11 PM
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Yiiiikes what the fuuuuck. I freak out when I am ever at haunts so I don’t exactly go very often as to save face lol. My one and only time going through a haunted house I was with my best guy friend, he walked ahead of us the whole time so all the scare actors would get him first, and he always checked to make sure my friends and I were alright. Mind you this guy was petrified of horror movies and ghost stories. Friendly reminder that men are 100% capable of being strong and kind, so you better …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:07 PM
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When I lived out of country I would always pretend I didn’t know the language of the country I was living in which 9/10 got men who were following me to fuck off. The funny thing is one day while I was at the beach a group of guys approached me mumbling to each other, one of them asked me if I spoke the language and at the time I just wanted to enjoy myself so I responded in their language and they got so embarrassed and walked away (probably cause they thought I heard what they were mumbling or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:50 PM
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I like to think times are changing, but I live on a modest college campus lol. Usually (before covid times) when I would crank out the bright lipsticks I would get a lot of “your makeup looks really nice today!” Or specific comments on how i applied my eyeliner or lip color. These comments I would get from guys and girls alike, and always restored my faith in men a little bit haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:21 AM
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I was unfortunately sexually harassed by a gay guys in middle school. He pinned me down on one of the chairs and pushed my leg up and quietly told me that when i get married one day he would bet my husband would fuck me in that way. I was so small then, and he did it as a joke because it was in front of all of our friends. I laughed it off and didn’t realize just how horrible that was until years and years later…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:14 AM
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Treats things that typically women enjoy (i.e. makeup, getting nails done, decorating nicely) as ridiculous and pointless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:10 AM
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They obviously don’t even think about what it’s like for girls growing up these days amongst boys groomed by porn to normalize the farther commodification of women. Boys need to be taught to treat girls as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:33 PM
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Shaaaave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:57 AM
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My dad always did just as much for me as my mom growing up despite being the bread winner of the family and working full time. A parent that loves spending time with their children want to come home to their babies and spend time with them. The thing is, my dad didn’t require the praising bullshit a lot of these lazy fathers require to do what is simply expected of a parent. My heart breaks for all the kids out there with essentially absent fathers. It was strange growing up seeing my friends fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:04 PM
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Bruh wtf😂😂 uber is so terrifying for women honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:42 PM
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Lol I was rejected by every guy i’ve asked out. They weren’t into me, that was completely fine and I moved on. I like getting answers early on, I won’t lie….but never again. If I think a guy is cute and he also does but doesn’t make a move, his loss lol. I refuse to live my life worrying about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:17 PM
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They literally JUST found a body that could be hers this past week, and then the stories of over 100 indigenous women make the news as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:53 PM
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Yes!! I love how it really drives home the importance of family. As someone close with my sibling and parents it was one if the only disney movies that really resonated with me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:40 PM
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Bruh why not focus on ur own damn self and bring yourself up. Since the dawn of times women have been expected to put themselves last, this is not new informatiom🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:09 AM
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Ahh yes another man turning the blame on the woman in the situation, what’s new? Also rip if he even asked in the first place that’s already a HUGE red flag. He is literally taking years off her life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:06 AM
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I never even realized that my father will always take the bill whenever hes out with my mom, even though now they share everything he still does it. The fact that these men cant even do the bare minimum will never not be mind boggling to me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:04 AM
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What an insecure and ugly little man😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:03 PM
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A lot of these men who “support” aka jack off to sex workers probably won’t give an ounce of respect to them if they saw them in the street. If they were not making themselves a commodity they would find no reason to give them anything but judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:11 AM
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Awe what a pathetic little man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:00 AM
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Uhh pardon? So now women are accountable for men who hate us? How dare a woman have agency over her bodily autonomy like men have always had. Talk about a total empath this man is🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:54 AM
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Scrotes: dayum my 15 year olds best friend finna make me act up but not all men tho plus what about the minority statistic of victimized males???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:43 PM
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Ahh yes the whole “imagine if the roles were reversed” bullshit argument. As if men experience the same oppressions as women. That argument has no footing. Men will never know what it’s like being a woman, and women won’t know what it’s like being a man. If the roles were truly reversed, we’d live in a matriarchy. If men made a subreddit criticizing women’s behavior (which is what, every predominately male subreddit?) Then they would still be living in a patriarchal society where their rights ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:38 PM
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And this mans probably doesnt even WIPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:50 PM
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‘Meet at his house for coffee’ FUCKING PARDON? Girl we got folgers at home what is you doin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:48 PM
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Do these men have sisters? Mothers? Can we just drop them off on an island where they can shove their little dicks in the sand and leave us alone. Imagine associating with a person like any of the pics, I need to shower after seeing this 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:53 AM
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What the hell…. Usually when my friends ask me what I’m wearing or if I am wearing makeup it’s so they can coordinate with me LOL. That’s how you know you have queen friends when you can both coordinate the same aesthetic on a day out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:44 AM
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No one is entitled to sex, this sack of shit is a fucking rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:59 PM
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Ahhh yes because being a responsible mother is a given and being a responsible father MUST be transactional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:31 PM
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I’ve never been in a relationship and in my early twenties… I’ve always been focused on school and traveling so I never had any chance to even try dating to be honest. It seems like so much work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:31 AM
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When I see cute old couples out and about acting cute as hell I remember this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:23 AM
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I hope she got the police involved what a complete piece of shit man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:14 PM
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Everyday on earth as a woman is fucking Russian roulette and its so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:39 PM
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Yes king!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:53 AM
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Yes!! There is no score when you just want to see your partner healthy and happy and your partner does the same, that’s just how love works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:59 AM
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Dirty John type beat 😔🤟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:17 AM
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We need more men being brothers and allies to women, it’s so important to have people in our lives that will tell us the truth without any motives other than genuine respect and love for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:41 PM
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Half my family is essentially a matriarchy lol, my grandpa will literally do anything and everything for my grandma. She’s always been rough around the edges, but she doesn’t put up with any bs either. Our case is so rare, and she’s always complaining about how the other women in her game circles are being pushed around by their husbands. It’s easy to forget the world she was born in, what all of our folks grew up with was so insanely oppressive of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:51 AM
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The amount of creepy ass white dudes who I met when living in Japan was INSANE. I’m a tall non-asian girl so they didn’t want anything to do with me but when it came to my friends there who were Japanese or Korean they were absolutely relentless. It was so disgusting… There was one particular guy in my dorm who would bring in Tinder dates (mind you this dorm was old as fuck and we had a strict no outsider policy for safety) AND HE BROUGHT THEM IN AND DIDN’T FEED THEM OR SHIT. I felt so bad for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:40 AM
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Holy fuck she needs to file a report with the police…. This shit is literally terrifying. We need to shame anyone and everyone who wishes harm on an innocent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:20 PM
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Awe how pitiful🥺 anyways… everyone having a nice weekend? Hope everyone is staying hydrated and remembering their spf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:34 AM
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This sounds super cute!! Thank you for the recommendation!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:12 PM
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Oh my god yes!!! TV shows are so latent with the male gaze nowadays, finding a good one can be so frustrating!!! I’d love to have Mondays be about the good television out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:11 PM
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AHHH I understand not wanting to out but yessss I am so intrigued now I bet her books are killer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:09 PM
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Pride and Prejudice was one of my favs in high school!!! I loved it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:02 AM
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Oh my gosh hell yea sister! I wish you the best of luck with your book, I bet it’s going to be crazy amazing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:01 AM
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I will def need to give her a read!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:00 AM
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Im all here for bad bitches and angsty sexual tension🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:00 AM
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Yesss!!! FDS bookclub ftw!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:59 AM
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I remember so vividly the first sexual story I read was a harry styles fanfic called Dark and they wrote my mans harry like an actual psychopath and little old me thought that shit was cute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:58 AM
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Oooo I definitely will, thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:15 PM
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I loooove a good historical romance, definitely will check this out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:12 PM
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Oooo I love royalty stories! I’ll check this one out, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:10 PM
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Oh hell yea same girl! I grew up reading/writing yaoi and boys love bcs hetero fanfic just started to take a toll on me. There’s actually an interesting reason why boys love became so popular amongst young girls! part of it is because it is a way to allow young girls to read erotic content and enjoy it while excluding themselves from the fear of how sexual experiences typically play out for young women. There’s a lot more to it and yaoi is absolutely problematic as well as it usually deals with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:09 PM
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As someone who def thirst watches pirates of the carribean way too often than I should… I am intrigued hahaha, this is totally going on my list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:05 PM
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I love fantasy, slice of life, basically anything with good characters. As long as the characters are interesting I can be sold on pretty much anything tbh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:05 PM
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Yesss woman authors are a definite must. I never realized just how much men don’t know about women until I read a john green book lmaoo. I don’t know why its so hard for male writers to just idk, do the research? It’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:04 PM
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Yesss me too I’ve been writing fanfic for years and It’s so hard finding ones that aren’t super icky and problematic. It’s insane that I use to write about the same crazy ass shit as an actual child. Our generation was just soooo groomed by that shit rip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:02 PM
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Oh nice!!! I love webcomics and manga so I def need to check these out. I use to read sooo much boys love back in my high school days but now it’s hard when they are usually also very problematic. I will totally check these out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:01 PM
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My mom is obsessed with this one so it’s already on my shelf, I’ll need to add it to my stack of books to read! I never knew what it was about, idk why I’ve been sleeping on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:59 PM
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Brooo these sound awesome!! I will definitely need to check them out thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:58 PM
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Ewww I have noooot, porn is super triggering for me so I have never had the strength to dive down into the sewers of this website lmao. That sounds so awful, but yet I am not surprised! Im sorry u had to see that bullshit🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:39 PM
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The thing is, guys on reddit will be so goddamn picky about a woman’s breast size, nipple size, butt size, labia size, clit size, vaginal canal size, thigh size, waist size, hair length, amount of makeup, etc. Yet when a woman is picky about simply the length and/or shape of their schlong it’s blasphemy. The double standard is so fucking real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:42 PM
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Thanks for clearing this up! I’m new to Bo and first saw him in Promising Young Woman. I always stayed away from male comedians but the more I learn about him the more I want to see his work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:22 PM
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At this point i can only really listen to angry lesbian rock to channel all my feminine rage hahahaha, all jokes aside pop has always been so misogynistic and continues to pedal the status quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:18 PM
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An actual queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:16 AM
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Good luck with finding work and pursuing the things that will make u happy! Change is never easy, so I’m sending you love and light❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:56 AM
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Yes it’s so hard believing in myself sometimes🥲 especially when it feels like the firing squads against you for wanting respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:08 AM
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He only sees value in women’s looks and whether they put out while constantly complaining about ‘gold diggers’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:46 PM
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Bruh the boxes at costco are so secure why tf does she gotta blame a decent corporation like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:36 PM
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My heart goes out to you, and I am so sorry to hear about your friend. We all need more voices like yours, so many stories of sex workers and trafficking victims get ignored or mocked. I’m so glad you were able to get out, your strength is inspiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:48 AM
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Its insane how they can’t get through their heads that they don’t see sex workers as human beings. The mental gymnastics men go through just to protect their fragility...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:43 AM
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It’s different because he still sees women as subhuman. It’s terrifying that so many men and women think this way and don’t even realize how damaging it is. Abuse is abuse, it doesn’t matter who is abused or the abuser, it’s all evil!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:06 PM
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The reality it when ur in a relationship with a narcissist as long as you are not validating the image that person has of themselves you will always be in the wrong in their eyes. One of the reasons therapy doesn’t work for narcissistic people usually is because the therapist is also competing with the image the narcissist has of themselves. Moral of the story: misogynistic individuals typically up hold narcissistic traits and u better stay the fuck away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:18 PM
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Ok while i disagree with how marketing has always made a point to push women to look younger and hotter I cannot stress enough the importance of taking care of your skin. Everyone should be wearing spf, cleansing at least once a day, and moisturizing. Skin cancer is so real and so scary. I’m glad to see more skincare brands coming out with non gender specific packaging intended for all genders and identities like paulas choice, cerave, the ordinary, etc.. because self care should be a priority f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:20 PM
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Love seeing boys and men stand up and speak out about these things, it’s so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:17 AM
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A lot of guys out there only care about what other guys think, and that’s that🙄 stay away from men who can’t stop comparing themselves to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:55 AM
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Fucking pedo scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:48 PM
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And that’s on organized religion💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:41 AM
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I never got why people counted the amount of others they have ‘sex’ with (whatever defines sex for them). There’s so much shame still surrounding sex for women and it’s a big yikes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:34 AM
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Thats superr ew.... this is not goals🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:23 PM
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Honestly is consent that fucking hard for people to grasp? No means no! And that goes for coercing and pressuring someone into saying yes. I swr im never getting married🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:07 PM
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Ugh I love some good old karma! Good on you for doing the right thing!! Gives me hope for when I hopefully join the workforce one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:00 PM
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Yep! Which means the majority of the sample were probably exposed to/groomed by pornography growing up with internet. Crazy how quick people are to make a population wide assumption based off of merely one demographic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:04 PM
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I love all children but damn I feel this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:03 AM
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Came here to say this!!! Best quote to sum it all up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:08 AM
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They do be havin that erectile disfunction doe...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:07 PM
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My dad always picked tampons up at the store for me when I needed them, picked me up from school when my stomach was hurting from my period, and never made it weird or taboo to talk about menstration. Learning that it made other men uncomfortable was such a strange thing for me to learn growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:18 AM
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It’s all about power to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:26 AM
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Right, at least biting a guys dick off could prevent him from doing the same thing to another woman. Cause we all know the cops wouldn’t do a rat’s ass about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:21 AM
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Yea the setting really does kind of set the stage for what to expect from characters sometimes lol. And yea Breaking Bad was good it’s just annoying how there are literally no impactful female characters in it. I enjoyed Ozark a lot more which is another mob themed series with an amazing female cast. You kinda have to search when it comes to finding a good show with whole characters😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:20 AM
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Exactly!!! Like women are always taught to aim for the balls if a guy is attacking you, biting his dick off would end the whole ordeal for sure if you were being forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:56 PM
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Yea I heard the show gets pretty out there. I’m always watching some new show or movie so I will probably try to watch it eventually. I just find it so hard getting into shows where all the female characters are just tools and not treated as actual characters like the male characters are. I kinda got that vibe from sopranos. It’s one of the reasons I didn’t like Breaking Bad that much either. It can be super exhausting watching older movies and action movies too. Luckily there are still a lot of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:54 PM
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Bruhhh i watched the first few episodes of Sopranos but couldn’t really get into it. That’s so infuriating though I,,,, the hypocrisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:40 PM
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I hate how giving oral as a woman is like a demeaning thing as opposed to the latter. I don’t think I’d ever wanna give someone a blowjob because of that... plus I don’t know how girls dont just bite their dick off when they are forceful... cause I would do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:00 PM
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Rule 34 only applies to men and porn is full of ugly guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:20 PM
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I always use to be so scared of being compared and rated by men but then I just opened my eyes and realized the ones who do that shit are ugly from the inside out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:41 PM
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Even while some of the most problematic erotic & romance novels are not exploiting real people stuck in an insanely dangerous industry, porn can't even begin to compare. It's comparing apples and oranges essentially. Plus last time I checked women degrading men in the bedroom was seen as niche and comical while men degrading women in the bed is seen as the dirty truth that all men fantasize about...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:09 PM
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Those poor kids. All that time they waste screwing other people when they could be building an amazing relationship with them together. So sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:39 PM
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Yes!! For real tho! It’s crazy how much easier life becomes when you realize you don’t need a romantic relationship to feel complete and productive! And the amount of time we can start spending nurturing friendships and our relationship with ourselves. It’s so empowering😭👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:50 PM
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It’s insane how people generally know nothing about consent and what defines a case of sexual assault and/or rape. It’s the same with how people justify porn stars and prostitution. “They obviously chose to do it” is their way of painting the grey problem black and white. We don’t live in a society where women are free to choose when we want and don’t want sex when the other choices may be less than palatable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:46 PM
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“Cougars to hang out” LOL I wasn’t even old enough to drink a couple months ago😂 definitely not the only youngin’ on this sub too. I am also here bcs I just love this community and not interested in dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:52 AM
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It’s nice to be reminded why I’m better off single and focused on my studies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:35 PM
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You know the bar for men is low when you’re surprised to read a post about a guy who has basic morale and have to tell yourself not to get excited because basic morale isn’t above the bar of being special or unique
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:33 PM
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Ew... god how relieved I am to be alone when I see shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:49 PM
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Oh wow I didn’t know that! He always struck me as the serious and down to earth type of personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:24 PM
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Orlando bloom is anti-porn tho so i support katy perry tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:16 PM
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Yes!!! Loving yourself is sooo important. How are you suppose to know the little things that make you happy if you don’t know what makes you happy?! Or maybe I just love spending time alone and taking care of my own needs😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:41 PM
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I prefer ‘visual’ men to not look at me😂🤢 what a poor excuse for someone who is not able to see another human as anything but a sex toy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:00 PM
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What funny timing considering a drunk guy came into my dorm room at the middle of the night and threatened my roommate the other day... we aren’t even safe in our own rooms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:45 AM
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Weak men HATE strong women😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:10 PM
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These kinds of people equate “men are causing the majority of these issues” to “Men cause these issues solely because of their gender” It’s not because of the dick between your legs. It’s because society has taught boys to act a fool because they got a dick between their legs. Like yea some parents are really great and raise their boys to be men but that’s a minority... and yes there are women who commit horrific acts of violence and sexual violence but guess what??? It’s a minority of women!!!!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:36 PM
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“I hate small talk” AKA “I can either mansplain, talk about myself, or u can let me use u as a fleshlight”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:41 AM
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Why is love seen as work??? I love my parents, I love my family. When I get the chance to surprise them with hugs or little gifts and even just cooking a meal for them I enjoy it. Why? Because I love seeing them happy. I love sharing moments with them. This applies to friends, & significant others. Working through fights and tough spots is hard as hell sometimes, but loving is so easy. If you aren’t prepared to love (put in work) for a woman or a man or fucking any other breathing soul...Don’t w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:32 AM
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Yes absolutely! It’s such a great way to practice self care. It’s so important we all appreciate our bodies for carrying us through every day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:43 AM
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Yes! Magical is the perfect way if describing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:05 AM
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That’s awesome! That reminds me of when I lived in Japan for a year and loved going to the public baths. They separate them by gender but no one would stare or look at you judgmentally. It felt so safe and sacred. One of the few times I felt completely separated from being sexualized in a public place. Given it was most likely because I was surrounded by other women lol. I wish our societies could do better at separating a woman’s skin from being entirely sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:30 PM
9

Exactly!!! Like I just want to be able to walk on the beach in a swimsuit and still be seen as a human ass being. Idc how many more or less dudes get a hard on for women’s body types...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:09 PM
3

Ew he’s ugly as fuck, personality and all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:58 AM
21

Something that always really fucking pissed me off about people who complain about girls who don’t eat ‘a lot’ is that they always assume it’s so they stay thin. Like do some people not realize that everyone’s body is different?? Everyone has different metabolisms?! I suffer from a lot of stomach issues and I also just get full really quick. So many times women and men have seriously shamed me and asked me if I had an eating disorder. The truth was if I overate then I would suffer from chronic s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:05 PM
14

Yea it really is true, that’s why I don’t use online dating sites (and try to protect my internet privacy as much as possible) i’m positive there are good guys out there, it just sucks that the rotten ones seem to be the majority... Thanks❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:22 PM
21

Smart!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:20 PM
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As a woman in her 20’s who has never been on a date/in a relationship I cam easily say I am scared to actually go on a date with a man because he will most likely expect sex. It’s all about casual hookups and shit these days. I’m just like not here for it, shit is scary with STD’s, guys not wanting to wear condoms, the risk of being raped, the risk of being secretly filmed, etc... It’s just like, not having sex isn’t enough but opening the car door for a woman is too much🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:54 PM
20

Ew I can’t imagine wanting to waste my time slaving away for another person like this😐 are people really this desperate for like what? Not being alone? Hopefully it’s fake af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:57 PM
15

I thought we left women asking men for permission to buy things in the past... fuck off with that ‘I love lucy’ bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:54 PM
2

She never went through with it but the fact that she continued to date him completely baffles me... when I knew her she would cry every day because of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:29 AM
15

She should have fun trying to find a job & being taken seriously later on in life :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:32 PM
8

Reminds me of a Japanese exchange student at my college who I met like only once. My best friend at the time happened to also be a Japanese guy. The creepy guy who wasn’t my friend tagged along with three mutual friends we invited to our dorm to watch a movie. The creepy guy refused to talk to anyone and when I left the room to grab something he asked my best friend if we were dating and if he could have me🤢. Ofc this totally pissed my best friend off, and we hated his guts since. But later I fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:54 PM
4

Honestly it took me a long ass time to realize this but a lot of people are afraid to be romantically/sexually alone. So afraid that they are constantly just taking what they can get until a better alternative comes along. When serious people like us come along it’s jarring for people who don’t want to be single. I feel like it’s the difference between seeing a potential romantic relationship as a necessity vs. a privilege. We don’t need romance, but when it is right and healthy it should be the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:02 AM
8

If someone says they will make u laugh just take that as a note that they will never make u laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:33 PM
2

Ugh this makes me miss trolling idiots like this on tinder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:04 AM
12

Yes! Embrace every expression of yourself! The cute the strong and the fierce! We are all complex humans, to limit our expression to one ‘type’ is oppressing urself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:43 AM
13

That wasn’t a gift for her it was a gift for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:04 AM
17

It’s the most searched and watched category too... it’s fuckin sick man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:26 PM
1

Yea!! It’s kept my head screwed on right so far😂😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:20 AM
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I hate dating apps. I am happy for the success stories from couples that met on them but they are def the minority LOL. Parents always told me growing up to surround myself with people I can learn from and look up to. If I meet someone along the way then great, if not I am still becoming a better version of myself along the way while still making meaningful connections with others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:55 AM
3

Love your work! Your lineart is goals!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:14 PM
9

So many girlfriends I befriended throughout life were like this too. Remember to surround yourself with people who compliment you and don’t compete with you❤️ even my past college roommate would always drop passive aggressive shit to put me down and seem less of value than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:49 AM
17

I’ve thought about what this entire monologue points out so many times growing up. This really hit me deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:21 AM
2

Could not agree more with you! Erika reminded me of the LVM always being portrayed on this sub. She had the dating app, hung out with friends she also slept with, accused Steph of being insecure, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:02 PM
1

Yea that’s fair. I think it was mostly the way Erika acted when she deleted it and told Stephanie it was for ‘business marketing’ which I don’t really know what that was suppose to mean. I have never heard of someone marketing their business on a dating app but I don’t even use dating apps so I don’t really know much about the atmosphere on the one she was using. Just seemed like an excuse to keep it to me, I know that if I was with a man who acted pissed when I told him I don’t feel comfortable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 08:59 PM
1

Yea I definitley agree with stephanie’s friends being crazy on the tell all. I was disappointed with them. Also whaaaat? I had no idea she had an only fans, I do remember her mentioning that she didn’t have sex anymore or something like that?? But I kinda also had an issue with Erika when she refused to delete the dating app off her phone on one of their first dates. That was a red flag for me to be honest. I feel like there was also just a lot of problems between the two off camera as well, it’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:18 AM
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Lol u know what’s therapeutic? Going to therapy! How is someone cutting themselves any different than someone cutting themselves to ‘get off’. It’s self-harm plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:11 PM
14

I personally felt like both erika and stephanie were both good and strong women just felt like they had very different boundaries and morals. Definitley don’t thibk stephanie was controlling and felt she had a lot trauma she was dealing with from her past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:09 PM
5

Bruh when can we just start repopulating by budding sponge bob was really onto something there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:17 PM
6

Absolutely! And this should go with every situation in life as well. You are never obligated to explain yourself to anyone. Save your breath!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:16 AM
9

Poor listening skills & obvious narcissism. So annoying!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:23 AM
8

It’s like, even if you don’t know how to do chores and real life responsibilities it shouldn’t be shameful on it’s own, as long as you are willing to learn how to become responsible, and learn how to live amongst others. When you refuse to change like this, refuse to find some common ground where you are learning how to be a responsible adult. Then you should be so ashamed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:21 AM
10

This reminds me of when I was studying in Japan. My female tutor who was assigned to me to help practice Japanese suddenly started bringing her boyfriend to our sessions at the library. She started asking me if I thought her boyfriend was handsome, then asking if I wanted to kiss her boyfriend, and that evolved into her shoving porn in my face that her and her boyfriend had been watching together during one of our sessions. I wasn’t anti-porn then because I didn’t know much about it at all, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:07 PM
8

Lol for all the guys I have approached and been turned down I walked away with my head up and getting over it very quickly because if they don’t like you, they don’t like you. No means no. While so many guys who have approached me in the past won’t take a hint and think they can change my mind... not to generalize my experience as every other women and man’s out there but it’s definitley made me realize how much easier it is to just be rejected head on if I find myself having a crush instead of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:32 PM
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Men like this is why women are so untrusting and assume the worst. Of course it’s ‘not all men’ but jesus, when the odds of cheating these days are this high, the normalization of porn, and the fact that people will discredit your feelings and what makes you uncomfortable because of the normalization of porn makes it not even worth trying most of the time. The dude is not only cheating, but paying for prostitution. He is stealing money from their account to cheat on his wife, let that sink in...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:54 PM
11

My roommate was like this, she lacked so much empathy. I think it boils down to a lack of empathy and narcissism. Going off on first thoughts and judgements in a situation instead of thinking of other perspectives and using your brain just a little bit more to realize hey maybe I might sometimes be in the wrong, or maybe my lack of experience in this one subject or issue makes it more difficult for me the understand... just a guess though. I am no psychologist by any means lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:17 PM
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I have always been very interested and involved with video games as a woman myself, but have seen that men tend to become addicted to them easier than my girl friends who play games. I don’t know how accurate that statement is since I am only speaking from my experience which seems to reflect your post. I’d be interested to see research on the topic as well. I think this could be applied with men who obsessively watch porn, obsessively workout, or do any other activity that takes away from the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:11 PM
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True feminist right here🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:03 PM
6

You know what drives this ‘toxic femininity’ that has created women who only care about their appearance and other peoples appearance? What creates discourse and competition amongst female relationships? Toxic masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:08 AM
4

Unrelated but she’s so pretty!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:43 PM
45

Wow if any of my brother’s friends were creepy towards me or vise versa, we would end that friendship immediately... I hate that the brother doesn’t stick up for his sister, it’s disgusting... I can’t relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:49 PM
7

I’ll never really understand why people who sell themselves to people like that guy expect for them to have an open mind and be able to treat everyone with respect. You’re the product, and they are gross enough to consider another human being a product... how can you expect anything intellectual and respectful to come from that? Also, not blaming sex workers here, just expressing my confusion with the situation I have seen more than once. No one deserves mistreatment like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:09 PM
3

Revenge porn regardless, even if the guy doesn’t do anything with the pics.... someone could steal his phone, he could lose his phone, he could get hacked, the list goes on. There are too many risks for the pictures to get out. There’s no gain from sending nude pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:56 AM
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