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If someone is crossing your line or even tries to push your boundaries it’s a sign that they don’t respect you. Walk away from them and don’t look back. Do your best to set your boundaries and remember that they are not even up for a debate. But please be kind be forgiving to yourself if you ever have any regrets. Society tries hard to groom us to be people pleasers, it can be difficult to do the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 12:48 AM
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Don’t mention it too early in the relationship. While it’s good to filter the crappy guys, you are also risking attracting perverts who fetishize virgins. I would be vague: if it comes up state it clearly that you take intimacy very serious and that will be taking as much time as you need until becoming intimate with him. If he presses you for more information you can respond “I am not comfortable talking about this in more detail because I don’t know you well enough”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 04:36 PM
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I am so sorry you went through so much abuse and betrayal. Cutting her off is the right choice, I am glad you chose not to reconnect with her. Do what is best for you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 03:12 PM
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Mid 40s male seeking a woman at least 10 years younger than me because I’m young at heart. I am a creative guy and a music expert because I played in a shitty band that covered popular songs at weddings and in local pubs in my late teens. I listen to 80s rock and have a collection of guitars I never use but like to look at. I used to treat women poorly because it was a part of my rockstar job but now I am a changed man and most of my friends on Facebook are female because I’m such a nice guy. My…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:13 AM
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I love the post and the comments. Another thing I want to highlight: At the beginning he mentions that he “fell for it” because he has only been with his ex and any attempts to open up a relationship were shot down (boohoo). Then at the end he mentions “I hope my daughters will grow and understand” lol. He doesn’t see what a pathetic clown he is. Imagine saying that to the daughters….What a terrible human being, lived off his partner his whole life and the minute she gave him a business he cheat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:01 AM
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I want to add that you don’t need to buy the newest, most expensive electric brush. Something that was released 1-2 years ago will get the job done. (As per my dentist) They clean much better than the regular ones and it helps to have a timer function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:57 PM
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This got me thinking. The guy who was largely considered to be the hottest/most popular in my high school gained a lot of weight and lost a lot of hair by mid 20s. Barely recognizable. Complete package with unkempt clothes and gross messy beard. He was an asshole which probably did not help. Genetics isn't enough. Maintaining health and good looks is a lot of work which not many of them are willing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:16 AM
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Every a man says “she suddenly left” or “it’s hard to explain why she filed for divorce”, they are being shady AF. The real answer is that he was making his wife miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:17 AM
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It's really painful. I experienced a lot of fake male friends and strongly advise focusing on friendships with women instead. I was into videogames for a while so experienced some extreme versions of men pretending. Had possessive male friends who got angry, stalked me and guilt tripped me into spending more time with just them them because of issues they invented. Has a "friend" who lied about having cancer. Had a "friend" kept sending me emails just to "catch up" for 7-8 years AFTER I told him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:37 PM
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I had the same thought, it’s awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:20 AM
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When I was a teen, I found it romantic when in a movie where during a fight between two partners a man violently grabs the woman and starts kissing her. Or when he is abusive towards her until he falls in love. I made a lot of progress since then, these plot moments disgust me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:28 AM
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I love that you mentioned Sofia Tolstoy. I recently watched some YouTube content about how abusive this “genius” was towards her. She had mastitis after each birth and he still forced her to breast feed, he constantly cheated and treated her like garbage. She married him as a very young girl (he was older) and he sucked all the life out of her. Also the character Natasha Rostova is based on her sister...🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:04 PM
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And despite all the noble portrayals in cinema, men do not help women and children in emergency situations. In studies of maritime disasters it was shown that the percentage of men who survived is always higher than women and children. I love this post. They do their best to gaslight the society into thinking men are heroes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:52 PM
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This whole movie was such garbage. Full of sexist tropes. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:07 AM
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Exactly. This is an excuse, not a reason. The real reason is that he wants to be able to walk away easily if he wants to. Do they have children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:39 PM
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He has “mental needs” and she needs to let him recharge properly by running as far away from him as she can. That way he can go back to “his parents” permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:54 PM
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Reminds me of Indian Matchmaking. Matching a successful lawyer lady with a series of LVM (for example “successful podcast host” who admits to being broke lol) and telling her she is too picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:44 PM
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I want him to demonstrate that he is an alpha with a lot of knowledge and life experience by cutting me off mid sentence during our conversation and giving me life advice at every opportunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:10 PM
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“You look like your only goal in life is to be an absentee father” ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:14 AM
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They gaslight themselves into thinking that women are enjoying it because it’s easier than working on developing empathy and dignity. They are in denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:14 PM
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For reference: this is a photography project by Bettina Flitner. She can be found on instagram. For 10 days she took photos of johns in the brothel « Paradise » in Stuttgart/ Germany. The men, between 21 and 73 answered – and posed for the photos on the beds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:31 PM
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I love this ModernGurlz channel, their content is just wonderfully written and produced. I like that they gave a shout to Khadija Mbowe as well, she has a great video about Janet Jackson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:03 PM
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There is a YouTube video from Lorry Hill where she describes some of the procedures celebrities do to “snap back” including having a child at 8 months on purpose and doing a tummy tuck immediately after giving birth. Of course they edit their videos as well but it’s more horrifying than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:18 PM
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Sons of Anarchy. Tara is so out of his league and we are expected to see their relationship as romantic and edgy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:27 AM
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Of course he said 0 things about what a great person she is or how happy he is that he met HER. She is just “someone from tinder” who is letting him stay at her place for days and easy sex. That’s what “dating” is to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:29 AM
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Barristan Selmy was also considered one of the most noble men in Westeros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:07 PM
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The one on the right looks more untrustworthy and smug, so I liked it less. Seems true but looks can be deceiving so not trusting anyone is the best strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:58 AM
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They try to be sneaky about it with the following but we all know it just means they are cheap: "I am looking for someone who likes outdoors and staying active" "My simple pleasures in life are a good cup of coffee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:20 PM
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It annoyed me that her former fiancée is now dating her best friend too. Idk why so many shows write love triangles between one scrote and 2 women who are either friends or sisters and now fight over him. It's a perverse fantasy based on hatred for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:14 AM
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Can relate. I work as a designer and sometimes get requests from men for home decor advice (I don’t even do home decor but they assume that). A couple of them even used it as their first message on OLD. In that case i tell them that I charge 150$ per hour for design ideation and their hope vanishes pretty quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:06 PM
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Save yourself some time and precious queen energy and just block and delete. If you respond they won’t see it anyway after block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:51 PM
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You are both sooo right. Same experience here. I stopped telling them I like video games a while ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:50 PM
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In the past she talked a lot more about "affluence" and where/how to find a rich man. Once she got enough viewers or possibly ran out of topics, she decided to tone it down, rebrand and started talking about "modern elegance" more. Her husband is not the man she met after leaving Sweden (that was a different man she ended up breaking up with). I find it so strange that the t-shirt comment became such a big deal too. I was more surprised when she said that Chanel flap bag is for plain janes becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:49 PM
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Niceness is truly not the same as kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:17 PM
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There is good and bad. On one hand she is one of the few women in the media who tells women to not settle for cheap men and losers (she is not the only one but one of the high profile ones). On the other hand she likely only does it because she found a marketable avenue in it. She is a lifestyle coach selling questionable courses to young women. I also don't like the obsession with class and equating high value with high income. She has a questionable past too (her past jetsetting journey is mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:08 PM
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He is just a nosy fuck who needs to mind his own business. Probably one of the people that classifies women into categories in terms of what they do for men (wife, lover, mother, etc) and is incapable of asking a more interesting question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:36 PM
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I remember seeing some of posts from back then. I am glad you are safe and secure now. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:11 PM
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I am so sorry you had to go through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:44 PM
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I know someone like that too. He is 45 and often talks about 2 years he was in a band when he was in his mid or late teens. Apparently he also had to do his final year of high school 3 times because of it lol. After they broke up he never worked in the music industry in any capacity but still refers to it as his “previous job” as if it was just a few years ago and not 25+.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:42 PM
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Good to know. I was wondering why there are so many messages "I'm actually 32 idk why Tinder thinks I'm 38". Seemed fishy because how can you miss your year of birth by so many years but it all makes sense now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:14 PM
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As someone who used to live in a communist country, I strongly agree. It's upsetting that many people assume genders were treated equally during communism when it wasn't true at all. Men and women did the same amount of labor at work during the day nd then women cooked, cleaned and watched the children while husbands watched TV. Sexual harassment at work was a huge problem, all women were pressured to put their family first and were prepared for the role of a caretaker from early age. Of course …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:54 PM
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Congrats, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:48 PM
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That pickme rant from Anna Kasparian was cringey af. The level of cringe just went up with every sentence. And the greasy faced LVM next to her with his "you are not worth it" comments, as if this beautiful lady would ever look at him twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:47 PM
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Gymnastics comes to mind. Men tend to wear pants and shorts but women are supposed to do triple flips in underwear. Overall a shady as hell industry too. And figure skating. Why do women need to wear underwear to skate on ice??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:57 PM
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I thought that guy was really shady too. "Successful podcast host"? Wtf. And from what I remember, he admitted he had financial issues in the past few years. I hated how they made Aparna to be the villain of the show because she stuck to her standards and rejected a lot of dusties. She is a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:12 PM
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It's a lot more difficult for men to gain extra weight. They carry less body fat genetically, they need more calories than women (most restaurant/takeout meals and "suggested serving" on every box are based on their typical dietary needs) and the diet culture does not target them as much, so they have a smaller chance of disorderly eating. The ones that gain a lot of weight while still being young usually just have horrible eating habits, don't exercise, don't do a lot around the house (housewor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:59 PM
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Accurate. I used the "let's hangout next Wednesday" excuse to end an uncomfortable date quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:31 PM
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Side note: your name is awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:09 AM
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Congrats on a wonderful start! Can't wait to listen to it after work today. Breath of fresh air in the world of dating podcasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:05 PM
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I understand the sentiment about Good Girls. Many shows start off well and end up disappointing you. Why is that shitty husband still a part of the show? Why are there so many scenes that try to get us to feel sorry for a rapist? Orange is the new black did that as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:58 PM
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Once a scrote told me “I like to read articles” and when asked to specify the publications he said “I just find them on Reddit”. Nope, you don’t search Reddit for that. Unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:24 AM
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Here is part 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:28 AM
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Good riddance of that LVM and fake friends. You tried to help his new gf, can't save everyone. Let him be her problem now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:14 PM
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Expressing feelings to LVM only wastes your precious energy and ads to their ego. He will feel important because he can cause someone to feel pain. He might claim otherwise but in reality he will tell all his friends and the next woman. Block and delete is the best way to deal with an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:16 PM
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Beautiful tulips! The best spring flowers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:12 PM
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This will probably be optional but still better than nothing. I imagine a lot of scrotes will write "not linked to bkg check platform because I don't want the government spying on me!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:36 PM
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We need this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:02 PM
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Exactly this. Before that he could pretend that he just stumbled upon some gore and porn, and since it was on front page "everybody is looking at it". Plus those few extra clicks must be hard when his other hand is on his crotch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:28 PM
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I want to add definitely wear sunscreen on your face, if you are not blessed with melanin, even when you are indoors. :) I am not 70 but heard it from dermatologists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:22 PM
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I like how if she falls for this manipulation tactic, she is a "significant other" 🤡 but if she sees through the manipulation she is a real nagging "bitch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:00 PM
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And instead of Main St we should have Queen St! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:55 PM
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100% he practiced that move in the mirror. Also keeps purposefully gesturing with a hand covered in rings like a total douche he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:13 PM
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Vice has a long history of sexual harassment and settlements. They are literally protecting rapists, it's no wonder they hate women and hired a pickmeisha to spread false statements about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:09 AM
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We should get an influx of legit FDS members as well, since most reddit/media outrage, no matter how false, tends to spread awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:02 AM
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This makes sense. I doubt she would have gone on a real date with him because he looks repulsive, much older than her and was married (omg). She was not living in UK at the moment, I doubt she would have stayed to be his mistress lol. A meeting makes a lot more sense; he probably invited her under the pretense of talking about work and promoting the show on TV, and then instead of doing any actual work did couple of hours of small talk and tried to make a move on her after some drinks. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:04 PM
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Idk why they think a boner in the back is sexy, like a woman is instantly going to lose all her tiredness after a long day of work and chores and hop on it. Most of them watched so much porn, that they think their dick is an axis that the world revolves around and a mere poke in the back will turn their girlfriend into a pornstar like a magic wand. I had a boyfriend who literally woke me up once in the middle of the night asking "babe is it normal that I feel horny right now". I was so pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:22 PM
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I hope they don't live together, since she apparently was dolling herself up while he was around. He does not deserve her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:08 PM
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How do you do, fellow females?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:47 PM
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I have said it before and will say again: to scrotes independence means strictly paying for dates and low maintenance, that is all. Same thing for "strong" woman. They never mean they want a woman with her own career, standards, goals and a good social network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:01 PM
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Instagram took it on another level. Because it is still a social media website, it is harder for them to see how facetuned and carefully constructed those images are. Add a scrote or two in their life who lusts after Instagram models and thinks Kim K's ass is real and their self-esteem is positively ruined, no matter how beautiful and unique they are. Women are dying under knives of plastic surgeons every day and patriarchy just calls them vain instead of working on fixing the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:32 PM
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There was a video on youtube of a woman talking about how they wanted to cast her in one of the more recent seasons of ANTM but were heavily implying that she will need to change her personality to be "the bitch" on the show and coaching her about how to respond to certain questions. This show was never pro women and empowerment. They used and abused young women for views and money. The challenges had nothing to do with modeling, it was all about entertainment and shock value. Remember how they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:11 PM
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It is not even safe. We don't know if these men take their dental hygiene seriously and can pass any diseases to us. If I am not ready to kiss him, I am not ready to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:45 PM
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Reminds me of Anna Rudolf, Hungarian pro chess player accused of cheating after doing very well in a championship. Some scrotes claimed she was hiding a supercomputer inside a lipbalm. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:19 AM
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70s is the worst decade for female representation in film in my opinion. Hysterical insecure men couldn't stand the fact that women fought for their rights (before 1974 women couldn't even get a credit card on their own!) and responded by adding rape and torture to every action and horror film. I detest almost every film I watched from that decade but I might give Stepford Wives a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:25 PM
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That would be a wonderful pursuit. So many people have children as an ego boost/an extension of themselves, neglect them their whole life and then preach that every woman needs to reproduce. Not many realize how much care, love and support a child needs. If I ever have kids I will be adopting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:00 PM
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Men like that are predators and a waste of oxygen. I am so sorry you went through this. Any decent feminist will never blame a woman for a horrible situation like this. It's what misogynists' do. Their first rule is "women are at fault always".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:07 PM
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It is sadistic and he gets a huge confidence boost from having a woman who 1) gives him what he wants 2) no maintenance 3) wants more from him but will settle for anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:05 PM
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“My domineering wife is too opinionated and complains about me following Instagram models. I don’t want to end the marriage but how can I make her understand that men are visual creatures and BiOLoGy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:20 PM
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Seems more serious just underestimating abilities. He might have been a pathological liar. Glad he is an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:15 PM
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Porn addicts tend to hate women in general so what I find helpful is brining up news about sex trafficking, violence against women and porn without mentioning my strong negative feelings about it. Observing their reaction and giving them a chance to demonstrate their views helps. However there is a ton of pigs who hide their addiction well and will lie to your face. So trust your instincts, always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:07 AM
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Georgia O'Keeffe has entered the chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:43 AM
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They are only against it because it causes ED = less women for them. I think their brain is already rotten, not much of a value will be lost there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:40 PM
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I messaged her but would not hurt if someone else sends a message as well, please. 5 years is a big difference at that age; she is just starting college and her adult life while he already graduated, likely works and has a circle of similar friends. He is grooming and negging her, comparing to barely legal porn starts, it is disgusting. I hope she gets away from this predator asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:45 AM
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Happy to help. ❤ Forgot to mention this: I also wash the area with soap after shaving (using a delicate non-foaming and mildly scented cleansing bar from Cerave but there is a lot of good products out there), helps as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:04 PM
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I had a lot of breakouts due to most shaving creams, even the "sensitive" stuff and switched to using hair conditioner, I get less bumps now. (Of course you don't have to shave at all but this is just what helped me). I find that most shaving products for women are no good for delicate skin on the armpits and down there, they are made for male facial skin which is much thicker and then they just add some floral perfume and pink tax to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:34 PM
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left me stranded in a lease while demanding bond money back out of my savings I am so sorry you had to go through such a difficult time. I hope this scrote is rotting in some basement jerking off to underage porn with no savings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:30 PM
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Are screwdrivers allowed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:08 AM
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It's not vain to dress up and take pride in your appearance. ❤ The word "vanity" is used manipulatively by people who want women to lower their self esteem and settle for Dumpster Dave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:52 PM
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His Valentine's date probably figured out that he shot the same proposal to 100 other women and ghosted him to spend the day treating herself instead of a romantic coffee date with this gentleman lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:47 PM
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This! And of course men will not be taking care of that land, it is the women who do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:25 PM
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I realized that many male celebrities are actually crappy LVM including some of my favorite artists. 🤡 Also men who want to have kids soon: might be looking for a convenient baby incubator and nurse asap, not love or serious relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:51 PM
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It's just his kink you see. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:32 PM
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If you want to share rent with someone please find a female roommate or roommates instead. It can be a challenge but worth it. Too many women stay in abusive relationships with LVM because of the lease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:15 PM
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Since men are physically stronger that's not even a fair competition and he is proud he did better? Dump him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:01 PM
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Yes, especially since they are the ones who created that problem. In this case demand drives supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:56 PM
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Those videogames are not going to play themselves! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:49 PM
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Lounge lizard is a great way to describe a LVM who schedules all his dates at the same lounge one block from his cave. Dandified cake eater is just lol 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:34 PM
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Simp as a term has 2 purposes: 1) They use to bully other men who have more success with women. Ciara would never even breathe in his direction and he knows it. 2) They feel better about not having a woman by their side: "I am not a simp, I don't need bitches".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:19 PM
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Scrotes whine about sex bots on OLD and we are at risk of getting raped and killed every time we go on a date. "More than 80 percent of people convicted of stranger rape have a previous conviction, typically for a serious crime, while this drops to 49 percent with those suspected of stranger rape with someone they met online — and those convictions are typically for less serious crimes. " They will allow anyone on these apps as long as they get more revenue. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:13 PM
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She is clearly an opinionated harpy who doesn't see what a paragon of virtue he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:39 PM
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This is a great post. Whenever a woman is expressing her thoughts these are the indeed the most common responses from LVM or pickmes. All of them point to women not being desirable to men enough as if that should be the meaning of our life. Women shouldn’t have thoughts and fight for their rights, they need to be convenient and happy to have any scrote’s attention. 1 doesn’t sound like such a bad deal after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:15 PM
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I would love a bidet but hesitant to get the attachment because I heard most of them spray from back to front which may cause a vaginal infection. If you have any recommendations would be great though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:45 PM
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Why are men so proud of hair on their chest? I never understood that. Like ok Lucas, it is normal but do you need to always open 5 buttons at the top of your shirt? It's falling into your pasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:11 PM
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I am so sorry you went through this terrible trauma. I agree that people don't talk enough dangers to health during/after pregnancy and death. We are expected to see pregnancy as a gift, be happy and glowing, meanwhile many women die in labor and many babies are stillborn. 50k is so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:06 PM
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Men who even use the word "misandry" are often massive misogynists. Their worst fear is being considered creepy when they try to chat with random women or children in public. They cry "not all men" and "but men too" to discredit and silence us. Silencing women is all part of mysogyny. They don't care about equality at all, because it means loss of privileges for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:34 PM
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She definitely abused him but it is possible he is not innocent either. He lost the UK trial, we will see how the one in USA goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:13 AM
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Diagonal is the best when watching Netflix in bed! Decent screen viewing angle and a comfy sleeping position for side sleepers. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:26 PM
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Diagonal is the best when watching Netflix in bed! Decent screen viewing angle and a comfy sleeping position for side sleepers. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:23 PM
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Diagonal is the best when watching Netflix in bed! Decent screen viewing angle and a comfy sleeping position for side sleepers. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:23 PM
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Diagonal is the best when watching Netflix in bed! Decent screen viewing angle and a comfy sleeping position for side sleepers. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:23 PM
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BA degree minimum and good career. But no lawyers and no snobby academics. I have high standards when it comes to their cultural taste as well. I can't date men who don't read anything and haven't looked at art since their trip to a museum in middle school. They tend to be very boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:33 PM
7

They are. When they call someone a gold digger it's always a projection + insecurity because they are broke af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:14 PM
78

Their idea of a smart strong woman is someone who does all the chores at home while having a great career (making a lot of money) but worships them for being male with a penis. When they can't be on the same level as that woman she becomes domineering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:18 PM
118

And the whole daddy's issues is being sexualized so much that it's almost a porn category by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:34 PM
59

Die mad with your pornruined dried up and shredded-from-deathgripping-it-for-hours limp noodle in your hand Haha this is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:25 PM
141

I agree. At least get a consultation. The fact that you were the one to leave might be used against you in court later on but laws vary in different countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:10 PM
10

Elizabeth Bennet is my favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:24 AM
5

Same. I love wearing soft panties with more coverage during the night. It's the best. And then it's seamless thongs during the day and such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:14 PM
56

I have a brother like that too in his 40s too. We have a huge age gap (my parents had me very late) but I was always treated like trash and a maid while he got financial help through every big life step and still barely makes ends meet. Once when I just started college I gave some money to my mother and she ended up giving a part of it to him, a “responsible adult”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:53 PM
18

They need to rename it to "But what about my Y chromosome?:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:06 PM
14

This subreddit turned to worse after they made it one of the default ones years ago. All the attention thirsty males went there to talk about "but what about THE MEHN".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:05 PM
25

I think that whenever a man says he loves independent women what he really means is that she pays her own bills. They don't love anything else about independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:24 PM
6

You have to pull it by the stem just a bit, then squeeze the bottom of the cup with your fingers to break the suction and then take it out. I had quite a learning curve with the diva cup. Using it right now but would love to find something a bit softer for lighter days towards the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:52 AM
35

Just because she works with the homeless does not mean she should be ok with a "less fortunate" unemployed husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:46 PM
119

One of the biggest lies of patriarchy is that it is an honour just to be picked by a man and that “keeping him” is your job. Being picked by a rich man is a step up but not the same as putting yourself snd your happiness and needs first. I can relate to having difficult female relatives and family friends, who didn’t set me on the right path. Good to have this community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:51 PM
132

The promise ring should be the ring you buy for yourself to promise to never give up your standards. Nothing to do with men. Love this title by the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:37 PM
31

I remember a different one where they were married and had a child. He wanted to put a stop to his idea because he got 0 action while she was constantly going out with different men, also got roasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:35 PM
53

I agree. If him having 1 partner was a big deal to her she would have left a long time ago. So the issue was the insecurity. That’s why weak men want virgins. No pressure of being compared to other sexual partners the woman had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:28 PM
76

He looked for casual sex in the beginning, found no success and decided to start going out with women who want something serious and pretending he wants the same. Good for you for not breaking his streak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:21 PM
214

So tired of this! Every time there is strong female character in a tv show it is almost guaranteed that the male writers wrote a sexual assault scene with her in it. It ads absolutely nothing to the plot and her coping with the trauma never becomes part of the story. It is simply shown for the cheap shock value and the male gaze and that’s it. GoT, Vikings, Sons of Anarchy come to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:31 AM
18

Yes, I bet 100% he never referred to her as "being the paycheck" when she was making twice as him and funding a nice lifestyle for him. An "independent woman" at most lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:27 PM
6

She is wearing that cover like a queen indeed. All that is missing is a crown. Not to mention equal rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:21 PM
31

And it's like a nail salon that seems promising, you are excited about all the different colors they have and friendly service. Then they start ripping off your old gels that come off with a layer of your natural nail, file your nails with a file they already used on 30 people that day, cut your finger at some point and you end up feeling ripped off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:54 AM
119

All nice guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:45 PM
10

He is awful. And by the way, you are right. Missing white woman syndrome is the term used to describe it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missing_white_woman_syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:13 PM
8

As a side note I love your name. Vikings would not be a watchable show without her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:57 PM
35

He is the worst concierge in our building to be honest a very gross. There was a time when he was very flirty with me (he is twice my age, married and a concierge in my building lol), asking for hugs under the excuse that he hasn't seen me in a while etc. Then he realized I was going to have none of it and left me alone but I regret never reporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:45 PM
72

I brought back home flowers from a date and when I was walking towards my mail box, a concierge passed me and said "Happy Birthday" in a weird sarcastic tone. I just gave him a puzzled look and kept walking. Men who think flowers are only for special occasions once or twice a year don't deserve women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:19 PM
25

I regret so much helping one of my male friends with homework when he had very bad grades. He definitely girlfriend zoned me and was just waiting for us to get together while I thought he had a strong friendship. Then as soon as he found some new friends and a woman that might actually date him he completely cut me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:32 PM
50

You can even tell by the box design; it's aimed at male audience. Sex toys for women have different type and color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:20 PM
21

You nailed it. I always found the argument "but if he pays 100% how can he take out all the women on OLD" hilarious. Men who go for quantity are just garbage, and when we are in a pandemic it is beyond disgusting. They have no regard for your health, their own health and the health of their closed ones and still want to try to get sex for the price of a stale coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:02 PM
37

I would like to exchange my nice guy reward points for 1 sex please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:49 PM
68

Good for you! Imagine every time you split a bill with him, part of the money you gave pretty much went towards supporting her. I hope she drains his porn sick bank account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:59 PM
6

I like "Unfuck your brain". It's more educational than entertaining but the delivery of points is great, very concise and made me rethink some of the aspects of my personal and professional life. It's run by Cara Loewentein who is a former lawyer and a life coach now. P.S. Also Brown Ambition if you are into financial talk. These women are great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:55 PM
35

She is definitely not happy. Is she is too mentally ill to drive a car, vote, decide who she marries etc, how come she always worked an extreme amount of hours and released a ton of albums? It's abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:13 PM
65

I hate how the phrase "becoming a woman" is associated with losing virginity. They think their penis is a magic wand lol. There is literally no difference unless you get STDs afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:08 PM
20

OMG yes, people forget so fast! Also remember ~5 years ago (before the third child) when there were rumors of a divorce he tried to file for alimony from her because he had vertigo or whatever and couldn't work. He literally barely worked since she became a big star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:01 PM
25

Feels like reading a fake review on amazon. Why is he calling her the flat tire girl and not something more respectful? Why is he mentioning that he was rejected by other girls? What woman would cry about her exes to her car mechanic lol? If she is gorgeous why is she agreeing to add another rando on FB so fast? Why is he only mentioning her physical attributes? This is a feel good fiction tale written by some sad karma farming nerd in the basement. Keep trying! You will find a 10/10 princess wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:37 PM
8

Isn't it interesting how people twisted it to be about his ex girlfriend who dumped him instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:02 AM
17

The story of modern Romeo and Juliet /s If this was happening today he wouldn't even marry her, he would just string her along for decades after kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:03 PM
6

I quite enjoyed Queen’s Gambit. Not exactly Halloween related and I wish some characters got more development but very enjoyable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:41 AM
6

Congrats on your push! Looks so yummy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:39 AM
12

“Use him for attention” lol He really thinks it’s that valuable. Give men sex because they give you attention. Catcaller’s dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:36 AM
3

I find Hinge makes the experience a bit easier for women compared to other apps. Still OLD wastes a lot of time sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:26 AM
17

Don't use Hinge like Tinder. Do not like them first. Just sort through your likes, match a few at a time and be very picky. Once they disappoint you with their "Hi. How are you?" opening lines unmatch and match with some more. There is a lot of trash on all apps but this at least eliminates some of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:47 AM
48

They will grow up with a lot of anxiety related to women and possibly mental health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:31 PM
7

I was hoping to see this too. A guy playing videogames behind a pile of laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:34 PM
35

Damn there are some great comments there. Thanks. the only problem here is that you want to shirk your responsibility as a single parent and dump the work on someone else because of one or all of these things: You're too cheap to hire a nanny, and want the court to order her to be your free slave instead. You are abusive and want power over her because she escaped you, and you have an abusive mentality and can't stand that your plan to control her failed. You're too selfish to accept that you ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:36 PM
127

They only want equality when it comes to paying for dates and getting hit in the face. And now being courted and asked to go out. Pay equity, safe environment, house chores, child care? Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:26 PM
42

I love the zoom photo with the resistance band. Multitasking on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:28 AM
14

I have seen photos of men trying on a suit in a department store mirror. And they think that's supposed to be attractive to us 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:00 PM
55

I have a few more specific to LVM: Hidden age Hidden # of children Blurry skin due to maxed out filters "CEO at self employed" Photo in an ill fitting suit at a friend's wedding Awkward shirtless selfie Something mentioning pineapple on pizza "I am the type of texter who would rather ask you out instead" "I know the best spot in town for coffee" Stock photo of a beach view
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:27 PM
31

It's so interesting how men were threatened by Backstreet Boys for having dance moves and looking "gay" but at the same time they were into hard rock because despite having massive female following as well, they promoted looking sloppy and treating women like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:40 PM
41

She deserved better treatment, always. Comparing the subpar film director that was filming her wearing bikinis since she was 15 to Hitler on set is not a great statement but she was young, unhappy and impulsive. So many people did worse and had flourishing careers. And don't get me started on that predator LVM husband of hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:44 PM
37

That's a great conclusion. They pretend to have a long list of requirements because it makes them feel high status, not because they are picky. They love their fantasy rate-a-celebrity games. It becomes a dick measuring contest of who has the highest standards therefore is alpha. Meanwhile all of them would be mistaken for a brick wall by attractive women. Funny how if a woman mentions that <insert actor> is handsome they get so irritated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:37 PM
11

I think it's because many of them watched so much porn that they are desensitized to "vanilla" abuse of women seen in most porn and want some extra depravity. Also lol at the videogame trends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:43 AM
2

Bedroom with a "mancave" sign on the door, to the right, on the ugly cluttered shelf with a bunch of other perfumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:11 AM
8

It's funny how he has cologne named "Success" inside that room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:42 AM
4

I was so sad when I saw the kitty in the master bedroom. Poor kitty deserves a much better home. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:40 AM
16

Thank you for free advertising to all the LVM on reddit. This is how many of us found FDS 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:23 AM
3

I compliment your block and delete game, pun intended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:20 AM
24

I thought it was satire when I saw #11, it's just a bit much. Many of these points do describe the LVM requirements well though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:24 PM
55

Yep he doesn't see anyone unless he owns a bar and has regulars and just sees them from afar lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:18 PM
64

That's pathetic of him. He is not over you but good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:15 PM
228

Height could be a good equivalent. They often claim that it's biology to like big breasts, so why not height. Imagine the rage. Doesn't even have to get sexual. He strolled through the park, a disappointing yet perky 5 feet and 5 inches but attempted to compensate for it with a 5 inch beard. A hat covered his hairline in an tasteful yet understated way. His small fingers with cheetos powder under nails waved to me from afar. He was insignificant but elegant and full of audacity confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:14 PM
36

I hope his wife finishes her studies and gets the career she wants so she can be financially stable enough to leave if she chooses to. It seems like a strong possibility in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:48 PM
92

His goal was to try and screw any woman with a pulse. The qualities he listed were just a bad attempt at trying to make you think he was looking for a CoNnEcTiOn instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:44 PM
4

This kind of manipulation is a form of abuse as well. Intentional deception and hearing atrocious things being said about their mother will have an impact on their mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:20 PM
20

Mom is the parent who is raising them. Being raised and told to do homework, chores, etc is less fun than when a dad shows up once in a while, throws a bunch of gifts and money at them and lets them do whatever they want. if they are not dumb they will grow up and understand who was the better parent but not before causing a lot of pain and suffering to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:18 PM
29

They also have a weird obsession with size of things. It's always a massive tv, massive ugly couch that are way too big for the living room space. Huge speakers, big desk for their gaming space. As a bonus sometimes a collection of guitars that doesn't get touched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:49 PM
43

So true. I used to think that breaking up with a text message is rude but it is the safest option. Phonecall is good too in case if you want to observe the immediate reaction; if he gets super angry, then I would know to watch out for him. But of course there are many sick men out there, they can play it nice at first but still murder us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:42 PM
32

“All my other exes came as soon as I inserted MaH DiCk!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:49 AM
40

She is going to contest to try to get a controlling share of the estate and likely to win unless the opposing legal team can prove that she abandoned him. And since she was taking care of him when he got sick (surprise surprise) I’m amazed that he would claim that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:47 AM
45

He also disinherited his sons from second marriage (not hers, she is the 3rd wife). Holding a grudge against the 2nd wife? Truly a bitter old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:44 AM
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It’s a term used in human trafficking. “To break a woman” is when a kidnapper/pimp rapes her for the first time to break her spirit and prepare her for multiple rapes per day by johns. The fact that some men are trying to have a similar impact on the women they are dating is beyond disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:13 AM
10

12) Compares himself and all men to a mass murderer of indigenous people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:54 AM
48

Classic gaslighting on his part. He got ED from porn, likely never saw a doctor about it and is blaming you to feel less responsible for his uselessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:50 AM
19

Aww ❤ Sadly many women grow up with little to none strong female influence. Good to have each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:43 AM
1

The last two lol. "I am sleeping on the couch tonight but it's like camping". I have a feeling that he might be sleeping ON THE GROUND OUTSIDE soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:41 AM
74

Omg thanks for sharing this, it's hilarious. 🤣 The reveal at the end is a cherry on top. I also love this one. Height requirements ≠ weight requirements. Dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:36 AM
4

Textbook negging and fishing for a low self esteem pickmeisha. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:30 AM
8

She released very little music in the 20+ years since the first record. The second one is the MTV unplugged album with very different music which was not well received and possibly contributed to her practically abandoning the music industry. She does have a new song I love: "Guarding the Gates" which sounds a lot like Miseducation. I am not a huge connoisseur of the genre but I also quite love Jean Grae. She is a great lyricist and super talented as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:12 PM
39

That's why if I never have sex with a man again I'll be just fine amazing. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:32 PM
56

That's why I will forever adore Lauryn Hill. Most female rap artists of her time were going either full on bro or pickmeisha a la Lil Kim, but she is such a breath of fresh air, aside from her musical genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:19 PM
27

Most songs for pop artists are produced by men so it's not a big surprise that songs are not empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:16 PM
25

Gaming is another industry that promotes a ton of unhealthy stereotypes. Games are mostly written my men for men and female character design is awful, both the way they look and how they are written. In general men who spend a ton of their time playing games are more mysogynistic, less refined and educated (because they don't have any other hobbies and haven't seen a piece of art since that one time they had to go to a museum during middle school) and convinced that their attention alone is a pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:38 PM
19

Lool most "creative directors" on OLD are just self-employed freelancers who use that job title to seem more successful despite being in debt and living in a studio apartment at the age of 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:36 PM
5

OMG this is amazing! Having 2 or more bedrooms is good so that I can go sleep in my own if he is snoring or if I just want my space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:30 PM
109

I wonder what he would say if someone referred to his mom as "Clearance"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:09 PM
36

"New arrivals" 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:07 PM
28

So true and I love your name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:18 PM
13

Looks like a good plan. I wish you the best of luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:36 PM
14

What was your previous industry? All creative professions suffer from that mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:23 PM
2

Thanks for explaining. I stopped participating in Russian SM and internet communities many years ago and had no idea how much things have changed (I also live in another country now).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:06 PM
125

”Your head game must be crazy if he’s taking you there” I got these comments from both men and women The jealousy is through the roof from both genders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:05 PM
51

I hope she isn't getting death threats. Scrotes do that to most feminist women that have a following.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:34 PM
3

He won't just show you the field. HE IS THE FIELD 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:54 PM
34

Taking yourself on dates is always awesome and you should do it regardless of your other dating activity. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:06 AM
166

Let's stargaze and chill at my place, I'll show you the ground I sleep on and the squirrels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:51 AM
14

This is a terrible crime and not your fault. BDSM is for sick people who want an excuse to assault women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:45 AM
8

I am so sorry about your experience. The fact that some claim it's part of the womanhood is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:42 AM
4

I had no idea we have Zazhopinsk here on reddit, didn't even know about pikabu. I thought all those idiots still gathered on Russian imageboards, 2ch or whatever is the next flavor of the month cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:38 AM
57

Society constantly encourages women to forgive their shitty LVM boyfriends after unspeakable things and to question their own logic. Think about how many sad posts on RA subreddit where the woman is being abused but people suggest rethinking the situation from his perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:09 AM
3

I wonder if you are interested in landscape photography or other kinds as well? If you are interested in abstract or miksang photography it can be a fun thing to do indoors. You just take random objects you have and photograph them up close, try different focus, exposure etc and the end result can be very unpredictable. In the end it can be hard to tell what it is and so much fun. But if you are more into nature I completely understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:10 PM
6

He is clearly deranged. This is awful. I'm sorry this happened to you. Please follow up with the manager to see if they have done anything about. ​ we are both shy Go I thought it fair Smile and laughed at his jokes = "she is so flirty" Stay away from him = "she is just shy so let's make her uncomfortable in her home with my sexual advances"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:03 PM
12

The advisor your friend got was horrible at her job. And I'm so happy your friend has you in her life. Get proof that he is watching daughter abuse porn for the lawyers later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:14 PM
4

It's both really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:41 AM
19

And if you liked Maleficent and would like to watch more films that are rewritten from female perspective I think you will probably also enjoy Sofia Coppola's The Beguiled (2017). Both are great films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:09 AM
4

In a world where so many people thrive on women's insecurities, want to use and abuse our bodies and our kindness, shame us and make money of any natural imperfections we might have (think advertising, pink marketing etc) the best way to rebel is to be confident and full of self respect and love. And of course they will hate it. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:24 PM
63

She said: “The place needed to be overhauled, new central heating and windows, bathroom. It needed extensive landscaping too as it was a real mess. “When my own flat sold, there was a profit of around £40,000. And when my parents died, I had an inheritance of around £70,000, which was all taken up over the years with stuff for the house. “I was working so Willie always dealt with the finances. I never questioned things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:41 PM
102

The options should be 1) Condoms 2) Vasectomy and condoms because we don't want STD's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:21 PM
117

Don't go on convenience dates to home depot please. Don't do open house dates; if he insists just say that this is a personal choice and you don't know his life that well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:19 PM
70

I definitely experienced a growing attraction with someone I didn't see as my type at first, however it only happened once. The most important thing here is don't feel stressed and don't try to force the attraction. You are just starting to date again and he is a very different man than what you experienced in the past. Keep seeing him if you are genuinely excited about the dates. If they start feeling like a chore and you just want to stay at home by yourself, it's best to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:13 PM
41

Men tend to confuse porn with sex a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:50 PM
15

Men's rights well summarized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:48 PM
12

I heard it feels like the matchmaker is just trying to sell their inventory to you and doesn't have your best interests in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:03 PM
52

Not only does he not want to get married, he is emotionally abusive to her and humiliated her in front of her friends. I wonder how that "complaint" from him was worded, since his friends are apologizing to him for getting engaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:08 PM
75

Some people like bullying single women, especially single mothers into dating any available scrotes just to feel more normal. It baffles them than women standards and don't care for any moldy crumbs of MaLe AtTeNtIoN. I would just say your child is your world and you will not settle for anything less than a great partner for you. Dating for the sake of just being with any man would be a waste of time and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:24 AM
20

I have a lot of toilet paper! I also have a great sense of humor and know the best abandoned fields in town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:09 AM
17

Yes. Here is a youtube video with a short documentary on leftover men: https://youtu.be/SboNzluN6Nc Some of them look for wives abroad or kidnap women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:33 AM
11

I hate this question on hinge. No matter the response it always means two things. 1) He wants to split the bill 2) He wants to take me to a bar, most likely a cheap one where you pay for each round immediately. Not a nice cocktail bar with lovely decor. Always decline the match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:23 PM
143

Many men truly have a great talent for gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:11 PM
1

Thank you! We were fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:47 PM
15

Female sex writers are a special case if pickmeisha indeed. They are almost the same as pornstars, catering to men's ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:52 PM
38

Classic gaslighting on his part: "well all my GF's came without me doing any work so something must be wrong with you". Most of them likely faked it, the amount of women not orgasming without clitoral stimulation is staggering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:49 PM
105

Kink is a flimsy shield for abuse and perversion. They even use it as an excuse for racism now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:14 AM
8

The fact that this is supposed to be an endearing romantic comedy makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:53 AM
11

I recommend Herp Derp for YouTube (I used the Chrome version)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:52 AM
27

She would look even better after she blocks the scrote. He is literally not even worth 1 hair on her head but wants to neg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:47 AM
12

I had a Womanizer Deluxe W500 for 3 years now and it's great, battery life is still amazing. I also add a small vaginal dilator with a curve for added sensation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:53 AM
3

I almost closed it during the first couple of minutes but glad I didn't. It's a wonderful speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:15 AM
85

Whenever men brag about a quality or skill they have ("I am loyal", "I am reliable", "I can cook cereal" etc"), they are trying to overcompensate for their shortcomings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:07 AM
6

That guy doesn't shop at grocery stores, his mom does it for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:00 AM
91

I think Prince Alarming should be a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:33 AM
61

Sometimes I wonder if it is even possible to truly know someone before a serious illness or tragedy strikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:48 AM
13

One of my most unpleasant childhood memories has to do with male "bravery". When I was 5 years old, me and my mother were physically attacked by a neighbour woman (who thought her husband was cheating on her with my mother). She pushed me out of the way and was punching my mother until she fell on the floor, then still kept beating her. I was terrified and bawling my eyes out. Saw that a man was walking past us in the hall and felt relieved, thinking he will restrain the sick bitch. But to my sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:33 PM
17

I started pitying my mother more. I cut all ties with her over 10 years ago because I couldn't handle her emotional abuse and narcissism any more, it was too much pain for me. But FDS helped me see how brainwashed by patriarchy she really is. She was misled by men her whole life to fit the mold and became an awful woman full of self-hatred and mental issues. And I also have an older brother I cut ties with a long time ago as well, but no changes there, just able to put a concise LVM label on him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:28 PM
7

blue heeler/catahoula leopard dog mix I googled it. It's a beautiful dog too ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:19 AM
34

I was almost raped by a scrote who took me home after we had dinner with his mother. I didn't want to go to his place but he insisted and said his mom was super tired and wants to go home and just sit on the couch and have tea and talk to me. She was a very frail 80-something lady with hearing and severe walking difficulties and I was just getting to know her so I agreed. When we got to his house he walked her to her bedroom then came back to me and got very forceful and handy. His mother was no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:25 PM
47

Fapping in his mom's basement is most likely Brad's idea of "being creative with the money he has".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:37 PM
63

Being no filter and a clown is a part of her brand. She said it because she expected to make people laugh. It's sad since she has a lot of young fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:57 PM
14

I saw it, clicked but then after reading the OP post decided not to read the comments and closed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:28 PM
15

"I just find people insincere and not worth my time and I enjoy my alone time and my time with my friends and my kids more". Sharon nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:27 PM
24

I wouldn't be surprised if he is single. Men often add that they have a wife/fiancee to their misogynistic posts because in their mind it ads value to their statement. "My woman is DifFeReNt" from these other women. HoW DaRe ThEy?". Strange post indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:39 PM
53

Their issue is psychological: for the first time they realize the world does not revolve around them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:30 PM
35

This is so true! I had a friend like that. He kept bragging about being able to understand women better ALL THE TIME. He was 28 at the time and a virgin which made him seem more harmless. He lived far away; kept telling me that he wants to visit to see my city and stay at my place and just sleep in my bed because he did with other girls and it was fine (I never invited him). Then I realized that he actually talks trash about some of his female friends. He slut shamed one woman, claimed another o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:56 AM
3

Of course he doesn't want to break up and wants to "work though it". It means she is to do all the work and pay for it too, he just reaps the benefits. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:33 AM
9

And they probably want her to pay for that too 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:30 AM
33

To me occasional loneliness is a small price to pay for peace. I am happy to have a place of my own that I don't have to share with toxic people and enjoy spending time on my hobbies. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:24 AM
9

Had a Dutch friend who was a severe video gaming addict, constantly claimed he treats women well and has a lot of female friends. One day he asked me for nudes and when I refused to get naked said "you are probably not confident enough".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:16 PM
26

"I've even gotten education requirements" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:30 PM
68

He threw that on her balcony while the dogs were there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:25 PM
28

TwoXChromosomes was ruined because of sealioning pretty much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:36 AM
24

It also greatly increases the risk of a yeast infection. Fingers especially fingernails contain a ton of bacteria even after washing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:51 PM
63

I had the same. I saw the messy relationships my relatives and friends had, so when I was younger I didn't want to date until the right man came along. For a while I thought I was just scared/ had trust issues but now I know it was pure logic. I knew from a young age that people can be deceiving and knew I didn't have a good support system to deal with more drama in my life so I stayed single to protect myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:50 PM
42

Men who think that the issue of being perceived as creepy is more important than a woman feeling safe are part of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:56 PM
72

This is very disrespectful to both his date and his friends. She is a pickme but he is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:05 PM
4

Scrotes don’t understand that actions and refusal to be generous speak louder than verbal CoMmUniCaTiOn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:48 AM
9

I see this phrase on hinge sometimes and cringe so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:47 AM
191

If the numbers truly were in his favour he would be drowning in women instead of typing all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:04 AM
99

Buy him 50$ worth of tissues and lotion and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:30 PM
7

The first thing listed was camping. Going to ask you on a hiking date 100% lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:25 PM
2

She needs to dump him ASAP since she has a baby sister. It’s too dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:23 PM
28

Absolutely gross. And punctuation is too much effort for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:39 PM
135

Probably wrote an extremely offensive fb post as well, but thinks he is still a catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:33 PM
27

Came here to say this. Turtleneck bodycon dresses are amazing. Cozy, warm and a great outfit for almost any occasion during FW season.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:08 PM
6

And this will result in many happier women. 🎉 LVM will cry more but that's secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:05 PM
26

They will try to get better at manipulating women and pretending to be HVM. I doubt they will truly work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:42 PM
4

They love to reply to those questions with low effort "just ask" or "pizza". :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:37 PM
11

I had this with some family members as well. Constant abuse but every time I broke down or lashed out at them I was the "rude"/"crazy"/"stubborn" one. I wish I saw this years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:22 PM
4

Feeling pumped after work out is the result of endorphins. It’s not even testosterone lol. From web md for reference: “When you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. These endorphins interact with the receptors in your brain that reduce your perception of pain. Endorphins also trigger a positive feeling in the body, similar to that of morphine”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:25 AM
130

Lol I love the subtle change in her facial expression when she says "dispose of his body" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:22 AM
5

This thread opened my eyes. Thank you. For a while I thought my body is overly complicated (not for my vibrator though lol) but I can see 0 or close is extremely common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:18 AM
4

I am sorry about your experience. That's rough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:39 PM
7

No problem. It's one of the few professions that almost always guarantees that if you are willing to work very hard you get paid well and will be respected and always in demand. Of course wealth is achievable with less work but that would require a lot of luck as well and not guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:38 PM
21

Since so many doctors pursue this profession because of money and status (don't get me wrong, there are great doctors out there), not desire to help people maintain health, I don't doubt that there are some shady as hell male gynos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:17 PM
157

She found an easy target market to make money as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:06 PM
70

Meanwhile he has a hat on in every pic on OLD and a 10 year old shirtless photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:36 PM
21

I really hate it when they are too inquisitive about work, also living situation. I am a graphic and UX designer and they love asking to see my portfolio website (no thanks, you don't get to see my full name) or if I am full-time or freelancing. I even got asked if I charge by the hour or project. Like why do you care about how I count my money Luke? If I ask for more details about your "consultant" job you will probably shit your pants and call me as a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:18 PM
30

The only thing he went cave man on is a bag of Doritos while ha fantasized about assaulting a woman. "Invite her to hooters where I am already eating" "Lots of touching from first minute" "Go cave man on her". He does not have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:46 PM
39

From wiki: " Stefan Basil Molyneux is a Canadian far-right, white nationalist, white supremacist, banned YouTuber and podcaster, who is best known for his promotion of conspiracy theories, scientific racism, eugenics, and racist views. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:12 PM
51

Don't be an open book to anyone. They can win your trust over time if they work hard enough. It's a privilege, not something to be given away easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:57 PM
21

Men tend to end things when it is no longer convenient (too much work etc) or there is something better, even more convenient. Women tend to end things when they can't stand it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:50 PM
15

To me the saddest part was when he tried to convince people that his wife was the one who strangled the kids and he just killed her due to rage. The groups of people trying to blame the dead wife and picking apart her parenting skills demonstrate how messed up today's gender inequality is. And of course the stats at the end: In America 3 women are killed by their (current or ex) partner every day. Partners who murder their children are most often men. This crime is virtually always premeditated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:40 PM
8

But clearly all of that can be fixed by CoMmUnICaTiNg /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:47 AM
6

Face: My skin is very delicate and thinner than most people’s so I use skincare that is gentle and doesn’t dry my skin. I use philosophy purity cleanser, dermalogica microfoliant and CeraVe night cream as moisturizer. On occasion I use Paula’s choice BHA and vitamin serums. Everything has to be unscented for me. Makeup: At the moment I put on a small amount of foundation and concealer, fill in my brows and put a light eyeshadow. If I want to wear more I apply more eyeshadow, mascara and eyeliner…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:42 PM
49

Interesting. The lifelong single women with no kids stood out from the other women in several impressive ways. For example, they were more optimistic less stressed more highly educated more likely to say that they could manage easily on their income (contrary to what happens in the U.S.) more likely to be active members of formal social groups more likely to provide volunteer services
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:24 AM
28

Hm he only wrote that her friends were teasing her about her college escapades. She hasn't confirmed or told them any stories. It could have all been a joke. I can totally see how people could jokingly tease someone shy about having a secret life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:50 AM
30

He probably didn't even get the sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:14 PM
90

A lady I know got bullied by some crazy pickmeisha aunties when her boyfriend got sick (don't know if it's covid) and she refused to go to his place to "treat him" (by making soup, cleaning and rubbing snake oil on him). They called her selfish and spoiled lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:27 PM
29

On a moonlit night, once again Through the alley, we wandered, holding hands. My wallet, an empty void without you. Now, I became the mad lover, anew! (Modified a poem by Fereydoon Moshiri)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:19 PM
157

And then after dinner I retreat to play video games with a few beers while my partner washes dishes, makes sure the kids did their homework and puts them to bed. Today was an average boring day, I am so tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:58 PM
3

I hope this table picks me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:16 PM
23

That line was the icing on the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:41 PM
6

If she lived in another country and couldn't afford the procedure or didn't have insurance he would have just left her. 😟 I am so glad that his family called him a moron. She can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:39 PM
14

I also love the fact that this table is at the park where you can join it for a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:35 PM
8

This would be fitting as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:34 PM
21

I am amazed at how LVM just expect women to fit their mold and never try to do better. I would say if he doesn't make an effort to change after the first time you bring up the issue, it should be a deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:46 PM
12

Video games and weed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:41 PM
34

The field would be an upgrade to him because it would be for a date lol. 😀 The dumpster alley is for "something casual".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:38 PM
52

I hope this is some kind of a scheme because otherwise it's too sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:12 AM
34

If his mom saw this she would probably wish she swallowed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:09 AM
21

I wonder what goes through their mind when they just message you a question mark. Like I am just going to magically respond after I ignored 5 previous messages because of "?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:04 AM
31

Your ex is an abusive scrote. I am sorry you had to go though that. A quick peck or a little bit of hand holding is ok. But I find it very inappropriate to make out in public. If a man wants to do that he is showing off in front of people and is not being respectful to his woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:00 AM
12

What a tough situation. I hope you are managing to keep focusing on your studies. One day you will have a place of your own without a shitty LVM that belittles you. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:54 AM
109

You are absolutely worth treating with kindness, respect and adoration. He is clearly a piece of shit and I am sorry you had to go through this. I would advise not to look at his ig, he is not worth a second of your time. Focus on what makes you happy. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:49 AM
29

Lol I can imagine that post: "My husband looked so adorable as he was rummaging through cabinets looking for a spoon. He is so cute when he is out of his comfort zone. Then he asked me if he needs to put the cereal in the bowl first and poor the milk later or is it the other way around. This is such a fond memory of my hubby trying to make me breakfast. His hand was shaking as he kept stirring the bowl trying not to spill any milk. I am so blessed to be picked by this man."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:11 AM
16

Deal breaker unless there are unique circumstances and he is letting someone stay at his place temporarily because they are struggling financially. For example dated someone whose sister moved in with him while she was going through a divorce (he covered all her expenses). If he is living with roommates in his 30s simply because he can't afford a place of his own then he can't take care of myself the way I can. Why date down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:09 AM
42

If he makes a bowl of cereal she probably calls him Gordon Ramsay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:32 AM
42

May I take your beautiful self to a beautiful field I know? mlady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:35 PM
9

Going to subscribe. I love what he says about protecting women from stress and anxiety too, not just financial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:17 PM
2

He basically wants a FWB for 1-2 years until he is out of debt. BTW good friends always help out when he is need amirite? $$$☮ Split that coffee bill. /s Also every time they respond to that question with long paragraphs it means they are full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:27 PM
43

Yes, that's the only part of his monologue I don't agree with. If a man is in deep financial trouble, he should not be dating at all. Age is not an excuse either. But everything else is like music to my ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:22 PM
8

Condoms can also come off if they wear a size that's too big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:10 PM
14

I will look after you by protecting you from squirrels at this park I will take you to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:49 PM
67

He will probably have more success dating on the moon anyway with that pickup line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:47 PM
5

IT savvy looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:43 PM
9

Makes every shower more luxurious and you will use it every day so why not. Nice bath towels are a great splurge too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:15 PM
42

Great high quality plush bathrobe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:12 PM
3

This image should be great as a banner, a bit higher res: https://i.redd.it/p1r2n37nmnn41.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:08 PM
13

You deserve all the best things in the world, much much more than basic human decency. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:05 PM
70

Seems like a sitcom version of the manic pixie dream girl trope except the show goes long enough to show that LVM remains an LVM no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:54 PM
19

LVM think we are a threat to their ego and position in society. Easier to oppress women than to work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:49 PM
239

"The most disrespected person in America is the black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the black woman. The most neglected person in America is the black woman." - Malcolm X. So powerful and still completely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:23 PM
11

They are beautiful. I absolutely adore lilies, when the buds open it will be even more majestic. 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:12 PM
6

I was 19, him 24. At that time 5 years of difference felt significant because I was still figuring out life and just started college while he had a degree, a job and seemed like he has seen a lot of the world. We became friends (never wanted a relationship with him). He whined a lot about how disappointing adult life was and my pickmeisha self agreed. Then he became increasingly obsessive and at times flirty (every time I claimed I'm not interested he would say he was joking and deny his interes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:42 PM
10

I like this video from D'Angelo Wallace deconstructing Alpha M videos. Calls him a snake oil salesman and it gets better. https://youtu.be/LASxvdSqNrE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:09 PM
63

"every advantage in the book" Lol which advantages is he talking about? Sorting through rotten LVM on dating apps, wasting time, getting dolled up and risking safety to go meet a stranger, listening to their bs, having to tell your friends where you are going so they can go to the police in case you are missing? Oh wait, you are willing to pay for our coffee, how chivalrous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:49 PM
49

I do wish there was a matchmaking agency that did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:49 PM
51

And of course the best effort he can make is "hey what's up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:47 PM
20

YoU NeEd To TaKe ReSPoNsiBiLiTy FoR MaH BiOLoGy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:03 AM
59

It's always the most insecure and ugly men that say that so you will also do him a favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:00 AM
23

The smell of lavender will never be the same to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:57 AM
64

For a time I dated someone who would take pride in being "a guy who cooks". He would constantly brag about it but had the knife skills of a 10 year old and a simple meal of steak + rice (and some greens thrown in there from the box) would take him 1.5 hours to make and taste really bland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:49 AM
15

I literally didn't post anything for more than 5 years until I discovered FDS a couple of months ago. FDS taught me to take better care of myself. I feel wiser, stronger and more protected in my life and dating choices. It's the most supportive community I have ever seen full of badass queens. 💖 I have a fresh bouquet of flowers on my desk as I am writing this and going to put a vision board on my wall in a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:01 PM
10

Congrats! You are on the right path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:12 AM
5

In the first paragraph it already becomes obvious that he is going to complain about the fact that he is living with women and not going to take any responsibility for his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:29 AM
20

I like the homeless ranters analogy. Applies to both dating and the habit of talking for the sake of talking (often over you) so many of them have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:09 PM
6

Thank you for this. I had to deal with a soul crashing amount of gaslighting in my life. From my parents, brother, male friends (never had it with a female friend) and men I dated. I am on a healing path and doing very well but it's good to get this off my chest. Too rude and too stubborn for standing up to my abusers. Too crazy for wanting to go to therapy to talk about my childhood abuse. Too mean for cutting them off. Too shallow for not giving the "nice" guy a change. Too shallow for having …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:32 PM
15

They want to text as many women as possible all day long but opening a dating app in public or while with friends or at work to respond can look weird. But if they use regular texts/ what's app it looks more normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:40 AM
26

Even proper spelling is a struggle for him. "til" "u" "tho" at 30 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:08 AM
16

When I was a super high rank player in 3rd player shooter was when I received the most hate. And the format of the game allowed people of different skill and level to play during the same matches. Explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:19 AM
73

Good way to weed them out for sure. After I changed my Hinge answer to “I’m looking for” to “High quality” I noticed that I’m getting less matches now (used to have a list of qualities there before I came here) which saves time for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:18 PM
86

Love it. Going to use this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:40 PM
25

And put a bunch of rocks inside so it would feel heavy enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:18 AM
17

When the rejection is consistent, it just becomes viewed as the cultural norm. Women are constantly put down, degraded, rejected, used and abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:35 PM
3

Buying flowers for yourself should totally be normalized but we live in a stranger society. I feel you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:24 PM
4

Older men. I used to think I was so mature because I preferred them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:14 PM
4

It's beautiful. They look so happy. Everyone needs a close knit community of women in their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:42 PM
12

He wrote that he wants "respect and recognition" for cooking meals and paying bills lol. It's your responsibility especially as a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:19 PM
75

I love this. Never settle for mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:56 AM
36

Rejection is always better than when they try to waste your time because you might be useful (sex, service, caring).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:53 AM
35

OMG. Reminds me of the movie American beauty when the middle aged protagonist guy (fuck Kevin Spacey btw) falls for his daughter's friend and starts lifting weights and leveling up overall to look good naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:44 AM
7

Cool girl trope wannabe in the wild. Why is she called a queen for accepting low value? When has a queen ever done that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:38 AM
13

If the genders were reversed they would complain about how picky women are and how snobby she (insert derogatory term) is for breaking up with him because of some a piece of paper. And this literally reminds of a post on RA by a woman who wrote she doesn't love her boyfriend anymore because he is less intelligent than her. There was a ton of answers claiming she was too picky and that he seems like a well adjusted individual based on her description. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:31 AM
20

He is just cheap. In a rare case that the dinner will be awkward there is absolutely nothing stopping you from walking away from a restaurant (you can even box your meal and go). Nobody is going to be tied to a chair. He just wants to make a low value investment and enjoy your time, your beauty, your queen energy for absolutely 0 effort in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:12 AM
4

Best walk in the park of my life!!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:09 PM
2

I would add more likely to be hurt physically during intercourse and the social stigma of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:23 PM
18

She is absolutely magnificent. And great acting by Jodhi May. Stole every scene she was in. Love her as much as Olenna Tyrell from GOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:18 PM
45

And many of them invite all the women to the same bar one block away from their home/office.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:14 PM
5

I had the same thought the other day. Using the term "ghosting" makes sense when it's done to someone you are dating exclusively. If I don't reply to someone's walk in the park date offer on OLD it's not ghosting because they are not entitled to any kind of response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:22 PM
8

Toxic masculinity. Feeling dis-empowered due to not being alpha enough and a general disregard for feelings and well being of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:52 AM
17

You will need those backpacks to carry the conversations during dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:22 AM
81

Like how do you watch so much porn yet don't know where the clit is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:16 AM
14

My anxiety and stress decreased when I cut ties with some of my unpleasant (ok more like unbearable) family members. In general I realized that in situations like that I can feel bad for defending myself as well as for not doing it. The first option is better. But moving yourself away from the situation is the best solution IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:12 AM
25

Yes. It never occurs to them to actually listen to Islamic women's opinion. Malala described the situation in the west as disappointing and needing a lot of work in the area of equal pay, representation of women in politics and media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:43 AM
29

Yes it is either about sex or they are looking for a convenient broodmare & maid asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:46 AM
21

Token torture is such a good term to describe it. Abusers often try to pass their horrible behavior as a norm because they had a somewhat similar experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:41 AM
25

I am sorry he made your first experience awful. I hope a car (new or used) runs over his fucking balls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:28 AM
2

It is true that therapy can be painful before it gets better but it’s worth it in my opinion. I like the trend of personal goal boards too. We dedicate so much time to working on ourselves and should celebrate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:17 AM
3

This pic is awesome. There is a massive pressure on women to accept mediocrity. Never ever settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:11 AM
7

I think they are a good way to look back and reflect on how much we leveled up and mistakes we will never repeat. To me they are more about us rather than LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:45 AM
30

Underperformance and an insult to my time. Once a scrote even offered me to join him in the park while he is walking his dog. And then they complain about women ghosting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:39 AM
5

Don’t forget the “I’m a feminist”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:32 AM
86

He is full of crap. He didn’t want you to google him and find his social media accounts with photos of his wife and probably kids as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:28 AM
31

I also remember when the girl from Paramore accidentally tweeted a nude pic years back. She got so much bullying for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:13 AM
64

It’s their only chance to be a memorable sexual partner to someone because “you never forget your first”. Makes them feel like a stud and she won’t know any better. Otherwise it takes skill to please a woman which is too much work for a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:11 AM
6

I am so disgusted when they don’t even blur the children’s faces! A hard left swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:54 AM
49

When MaH LeGaCy gets in the way of video gaming and watching porn during the weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:37 AM
6

I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:30 AM
30

Never understood why society praises men with the most typical hobbies (videogames, sports, cheap beer, porn) and sloppy fashion + grooming choices and considers that MEHNLY. Meanwhile women are accused of being basic for wearing scrunchies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:27 AM
4

Not his photo either! It’s the actor Peter Gallagher from OC. Did a google search and found this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:16 AM
2

I'm Russian (spent half of my life there) and tend to avoid Eastern European men. Can confirm that we have generations of pickmeishas and way more patriarchy there. They tend to spoil their baby boys who then become LVM. My stories are endless. Recently my Russian friend got bullied by her crazy aunties for not wanting to go to her sick boyfriend's place to "treat him" (with herbal teas and snake oils of course). They called her selfish and spoiled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:37 AM
2

I also get a similar response if I mention I play video games. Almost every man immediately thinks it's his duty to recommend games for me without even knowing the genres I like. Like thank you, I am not interested in being told how to do my hobby properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:33 PM
3

It is my pet peeve when they can't even make an effort to text properly. I also get people asking for a phone call very soon after matching because it is "easier" which I just ignore. If texting me is too hard for him, he is not high quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:57 PM
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