notyourbish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	The Pink Tax and Makeup Culture Yeah I’ve just been scrolling through this thread like “Wow, must be really nice to not have any skin problems.” I’m surprised by all the weird misinformation that seems to be out there about makeup as well. As if you could give yourself wrinkles by touching your face, or that foundation will destroy your skin and make you look old. Wtf do these people think is in makeup. This whole thread is kind of a gross circlejerk that reeks of gatekeeping, tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 05:42 PM
76	Men hate us both for being “high maintenance” when we’re young and “not taking care of ourselves” when we’re old Men: I don’t want to marry a hyper-sexual woman! Also men: Why doesn’t my wife blow me daily and let me fuck her in the ass while she does a handstand with a flaming dildo in her mouth while the neighbor films us?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 01:04 AM
85	"Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre. Lol. This reminds me of one of my exes. He had practically no self esteem anyway but he especially hated his big nose and crooked teeth, but he refused to even consider changing them because “The guys at work would make fun of me.” Dude is seriously going to go his whole life disliking the way he looks and having low confidence because he’s more comfortable hating himself than taking the chance that other men might make fun of him for being vain. Men are ridiculous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 03:26 AM
16	How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you think Honestly I just figure if they’re keeping it to themselves, using incognito browsing, and being respectful as far as not actually engaging with anything (like following/subscribing to specific people etc.) and it’s not affecting their libido or your relationship in general, that’s probably the best you could realistically hope for anymore. There are some dudes out there who say they genuinely aren’t that interested in watching straight up hardcore porn, but they’re likely still looking at naked …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 06:14 AM
3	Scrotes' advice on how to get away with avoiding household chores The fuck is this, a how-to guide on how to never get your dick sucked again?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 03:51 AM
14	She didn't stutter! Because they bring along the cheap pillows they were using when they moved out of their parents house and then they never, ever replace them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 05:43 AM
5	I just get more and more flabbergasted with what women put themselves through to be in a relationship. I just think it's just so sad they don't have self-respect enough to drop a guy like this. I would fucking pay money to see a picture of this dude. I would really love to know how it’s even possible that any human man could ever be attractive enough for someone to even entertain the idea of tolerating this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 11:06 AM
16	While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄 Well there’s just so many of those damn subreddits, it’s not his fault he’s basically forced to look at them, I mean there are just so many! They infected his screen like a virus! Clearly he’s merely a victim here!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 10:46 AM
13	Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractive saggy ass peacock with no feathers I’m cry-laughing at this shit. Why is this the perfect description of 99% of men that I see?! ☠️☠️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 10:39 AM
37	Coming out as a former Cool Girl God, if I could go back in time and tell myself even just one thing about dating, it would be “Having completely normal feelings and desires in a relationship is not “uncool” of you. Stay the fuck away from any guy who ever tries to tell you otherwise.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 07:53 AM
13	Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan Torres Because there’s literally nothing a man can think, say, or do that people won’t find some way to blame a woman for? Whether we’re causing it or not stopping it, it’s always our fault either way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 11:24 PM
16	Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson" What in the actual fuck is wrong with men? I’ve never once heard of a group of female musicians behaving the way so many men have. Why does it seem like men are so much more likely than women to be narcissists, abusers, rapists, sociopaths/psychopaths, or pedophiles?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 11:22 AM
22	"Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo M My stupid ex once asked me if we could watch some porn together and told me to “just pull up whatever I usually like to watch” so I pulled up some solo male masturbation videos and all of a sudden watching porn together wasn’t so interesting to him anymore 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 03:32 AM
81	Nope ”Maybe he’s just feeling a little insecure because you earn more money than him. This can be a sore spot for men! Do you make him feel important enough in other ways?!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/21 02:48 AM
48	Male projection is pathetic. Gross. Reminds me of my husband’s dad. He always has to point it out when young women are wearing anything “skimpy” as if he’s so offended by it or something and I always just want to yell at him “All you’re doing is letting all of us know that you’re staring at her. Nobody else is paying attention to what she’s wearing or caring about it. You aren’t offended, you are a creep.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 09:49 AM
35	Male projection is pathetic. Huh. I wonder if there was something similar going on when a prematurely balding dude at a party “playfully” slapped me on the back really fucking hard seemingly out of nowhere. I’d hardly ever spoken to him before and could never figure out just what in the fuck he was even thinking or doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 09:42 AM
19	The 'evolution' of a LVM in a relationship Lmao. I love this subreddit. It’s so nice to see a space where women can just be fucking open about what they think and feel without being attacked or constantly policing themselves and each other. Even if I don’t always agree with everything that gets said, I love that it’s “allowed” to be said regardless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 05:30 AM
8	Abusive men are attracted vulnerability 😨 After many years I finally got the nerve to ask my ex/abuser exactly what he was thinking when he was using a teenage girl for sex when he was in his 20’s, and he literally lied and tried to tell me he didn’t remember our age difference. The whole time we were involved he was having me over in the middle of the night to fuck and telling me that we couldn’t have any other kind of relationship because of my age and what people would think about it. But I ask him about it later and magically it’s “…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 11:12 AM
3	So I’m sharing this as I feel there may be some women here just like me, who need to be reminded of this. Wow. This just made something click that I’ve been wondering about for a long time. I used to know this annoying asshole who always claimed that every girl who ever broke up with him “never really loved him” and I was always just sitting there thinking like “Sure dude, women love wasting their own time pretending to love you just so they can hurt you later. We totally get free cookies every time we hurt a man!” 🙄 Now I see, his ego was just so pathetic he couldn’t handle the idea of someone simp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 05:57 AM
349	I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a myth I don’t give a shit if you work 0 hours a week, if you want and can afford to hire a housekeeper then fucking go for it. We aren’t cursed to be free domestic laborers just because we were born female.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 12:56 AM
11	As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. But with no condom they can cum in 10 seconds instead of struggling to last for 30 or 40, don’t you want to make it even easier for them?! You’re so selfish! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/20 06:06 AM
59	This is gross Lmao. And if he’s a narcissist, he’ll blame the fucking grass for dying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 07:05 PM
91	Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷‍♀️ Some of the most abusive men I've ever known were ugly nerds who seem harmless at first glance. God, why is this so true. I lowered my standards significantly for a nerdy, awkward looking guy just because he was nice to me and I felt obligated to see past his flaws and he turned out to be an abusive psychopath and a pedophile. I’m still working through the resulting trauma over a decade later. Fuck “hE’s a niCe GuY, giVe hiM a chAnCe!” Seriously fuck it to the depths of hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 01:40 AM
22	Say it louder for those LVMs in the back Oh god this just gave me flashbacks to the time I lived with a guy who wouldn’t call me his girlfriend because he “didn’t like labels” yet I was not only still expected to be doing girlfriend shit but fucking straight up wife shit. I wish I could go back in time and yell at myself so hard.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 03:10 AM
11	Don’t think you can ‘make’ a man love and appreciate you- it’s all down to him I’ve given so many amazing blowjobs that almost no one deserved.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 09:20 AM
13	Don’t think you can ‘make’ a man love and appreciate you- it’s all down to him you’ll hear echoes of their voice long after they’re gone. God that is so true, and it’s horrible. It’s been years and years since I got away from a sociopath and I still find myself sometimes viewing things through his shitty lens. Like “Oh he wouldn’t approve of this, he would have something shitty/judgy to say about that.” It’s so fucking traumatizing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 09:17 AM
83	It’s not worth it in the long run I tried panty selling once because it was supposedly going to be “such easy money!” and the conversations I had to endure with pathetic assholes made me want to kill myself. Many of them never even ended up buying, and were only out to completely waste my time because they had nobody else to talk to, which was equal parts annoying and depressing as fuck. When I sat down and did the math on how much of my time all of it was taking, it came out to be less than minimum wage. And I never even showed…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 04:19 AM
52	Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less. When the constant message from society is “girls suck” you can’t really blame us for going through a phase where we think we are “not like other girls.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 04:02 AM
137	Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less. Men* make fun of literally everything that’s primarily enjoyed by women. Just another way to reinforce the idea that we are lesser creatures. *(And of course women who suffer from internalized misogyny are usually happy to join in as well.)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 02:25 AM
20	And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women. I’ve never seen a naked man without stretch marks somewhere either. Even the skinniest ones. They usually have some on their butts or their lower backs. Some have them on their arms or legs from the muscles getting big too fast. It can be harder to notice them because of body hair, but they definitely have them too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 02:19 AM
12	They hated her because she spoke the truth. Imagination, man. The same way we can get all wrapped up with a character in a book or a film. (It’s not real, actual love obviously- but it’s definitely something, and it can feel very strong.) I made the mistake when I was younger (multiple times, sadly) of falling for people based on the version of themselves that they presented to me online. Seems to be a common tactic of narcissistic predators to carry out relationships in the fake/online realm as much as possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 06:55 PM