TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

millenniumY2K Archive

View 0 posts and 41 comments by millenniumY2K on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
31

I was dating a narc and one time his friend was over and we actually were getting along well. The friend left the room briefly and this asshole says to me “shut up. You’re being annoying.” I almost started crying. When I brought it up later he acted confused and like he never said it at all. Ugh narcs are so infuriating!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:03 PM
20

This somewhat reminded me of this asshole narc I “dated” who looked me up and down once and told me he hated when girls wore baggy clothes. I was wearing leggings and a cropped hoodie in winter. He also once said it looked like I never brushed my hair sooo uh get your ED checked out bud lol idgaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:16 AM
2

The next date was bad mostly on my part because I got a little tipsy since I didn’t get to eat during the earlier date! This guy was cute but it wouldn’t have worked anyways because he brought up his ex and his disdain for his dad a few times randomly. He also had moved three times in the few weeks we were talking which was odd because he said he owned his home, then all of the sudden he was leasing it out. Anyways yeah, both dates were wastes of time lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:50 AM
38

I had a guy bait and switch me, we planned the whole date at a nice hip restaurant right by his parents house so he could walk if he wanted. Then he hit me with “why don’t you just come over? I’m sure I can cook something way better than a restaurant could make.” Even before FDS I knew to say no. He begged me to still go to the original restaurant. He proceeds to walk there in the most raggedy sweater/outfit. Orders the cheapest beer at a very hip restaurant which I was super excited to try. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:25 PM
16

The two that stand out/I can even remember from several years of dating: A pair of completely not my style designer sunglasses I found out he took from his mom and a dusty automatic car starter with a vhs installation tape he got from his parents’ garage. This same guy begged me to buy him $300+ designer accessories every holiday and birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:10 PM
22

Why do men have to suck the fun out of literally any tiny thing their SOs enjoy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:21 PM
35

I bought a ticket to see a guy I was talking to initially on Instagram. We had talked for about a year before I decided to do it. I had never been to his city before and was really nervous to get around and find a place to stay etc, but surprise: he couldn’t care less. He never even brought it up again until a few days before I was supposed to leave. Luckily I had cancelled it a couple weeks before I was supposed to go and it cost me a few hundred $. He acted super butthurt I cancelled but I’m s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:35 AM
24

I had a dumb dude ask me multiple times (he had a big dick but it always went soft lol 🤡) and I finally lied and told him 4 (including him and my long term ex) and he called me a hoe. The answer is always wrong, it’s just a way for them to judge you one way or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:05 PM
18

I just saw a tiktok where this guy recounted a “funny” story where after he hooked up with a girl he left a big brown streak so he had to grab the stained sheet and hop out her window. Like how tf do you know you’re going to have sex with someone and not shower or wash your privates first? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:54 AM
10

Thanks sis, it certainly made me grow so there’s that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:31 PM
84

This gives me such anxiety, it sounds completely like my ex. He pressured me daily for anal, would touch my butthole during sex knowing I hated it. Said the same thing when I asked if he’d like it, that he’s straight and that’s different, etc. Eventually he anally raped me and I began figuring out how to leave. It was exhausting. Unfortunately I think about it fairly often, just anger at him and myself. Can someone message her about this sub? I feel bad for her and her child :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:33 PM
131

Ever since finding FDS I can’t help noticing that about every single social media post from a man about his gf/wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:19 PM
10

“Are you sure he’s not on antidepressants???” Well that would require him to actually go to a doctor so I’m gonna say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:54 AM
48

I hired a man to trim a tree in my yard this past year. His wife came with him when I got the quote and although he was eccentric I didn’t judge, I just wanted the work done right and cheap. I hired him and as I was leaving to let him know I was heading to work and would have a family member coming by to check up, he randomly starts to blabber on about how he loves bees and I should come to his bee farm and see them. Literally out of nowhere! He later on texted me asking to come see his bee farm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:57 PM
6

My last roommate was stalked by a man she had hired once for something at her old place. He found an old ad she had on LetGo and found our new neighborhood with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:20 PM
77

Years ago my ex and I had come across lsd randomly, so we took it along with his brother and friend. It hit me first bc I’m the lightest. I couldn’t stop laughing and sobbing for some reason. I put my head in his lap and he decides to reach into my shirt and rub my nipple in front of his brother/friend. I push his hand away, he does it again, I push it away, he does it again and I gave up. Still gets me so furious thinking of it. Our entire relationship was about his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:59 PM
14

Everyone’s posts are resonating so much with me. My ex would always say “you’re such a bitch, everyone knows it. Even your parents think you’re a bitch.” It’s sad we all can relate, none of us deserved that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:10 PM
39

I kept getting BV from this guy’s dirty dick, (never had that before him) yet kept sleeping with him. Ugh I cringe thinking about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:46 AM
68

Every single time I’ve ever not ghosted a guy and politely said “no thanks” to them, they freak out. Ghost always lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:27 PM
25

When my ex finallllllly moved out he would sleep over sometimes and I’d wake up with 15-20 bites up my arms. I looked it up and they were bedbug bites. I had just bought a brand new mattress that I didn’t want to get ruined! So I told him I think they were coming from his new place. He denied it, said he never had any bites so didn’t understand why it was a big deal. I went to his place one day and there was bed bug powder sprinkled all around and behind the couches. Fucking dumbass 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:52 PM
39

I feel ya sis, this was my entire five year/only relationship I’ve really had. Years later I feel like I’m still trying to recover from being so worn down ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:37 PM
28

I had a guy “like” me on Hinge, I sent a like back to match and he says “wow really putting the pressure on me, huh?” Um. Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:44 PM
15

I had a guy I was texting with before a first date randomly tell me how he had embarrassed himself in yoga class by farting in downward dog. I ghosted him. He asked me after I said nothing “still down to get some drinks?” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:44 PM
10

My abusive ex got me a pair of designer sunglasses. I was surprised, it seemed unlike him. They weren’t my style but I appreciated the gesture...until he revealed they were his mom’s that he bribed her to give to me. Another runner up from him: a dusty auto starter for my car that had been sitting in his garage for a good decade (there was a vhs installation tape included). It would’ve been nice for winter, but he never installed it. I will never settle for a cheap man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:32 PM
12

Dump him girl! He is actively making your life WORSE. You are better than that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:27 PM
1

Reminds me of my abusive ex who texted my mom multiple times after I broke up with him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:27 AM
13

I had a lame guy come up to me in the store, go through all my items in my cart telling me that I’m attractive, and then exclaim “cat food? You have a cat? Ew, I don’t like cats.” He legit was disappointed after going through my stuff! A total stranger. Also once had a man two lanes over in the self checkout comment that in college he used to eat a lot of ramen. Apparently he had some eagle eye type sight to see what I was purchasing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:32 AM
34

It’s like they do anything to avoid the clit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:43 PM
115

My ex was similar, didn’t want me to use a vibrator without him because if I was going to orgasm, he should be fucking me. I have one friend who’s boyfriend told her a vibrator “was gay.” I have another friend who’s bf initially agreed to use one in bed which of course she loved. Then he probably talked to some guy friends because all of the sudden he was insulted she’d ask to use it, and he wanted her to stop masturbating all together so she’d just magically orgasm while he was fucking her. Men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:38 PM
140

I agree. Literally just commented to read the handbook on a post where the girl slept with the guy immediately and was wondering why he ignored her. The post was deleted and the username had “Stacy” in it. Highly suspect 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:39 AM
0

Read the handbook...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:23 AM
4

Yes, I’ve worked essentially as a server since I was 14 (small business). The older men are the worst on average. Just the other day I had an old man with his wife say that he’s never seen me do any work, I must know someone or I’d be fired, going on and on. I wasn’t even serving him, so I blatantly ignored him so he felt dumb. Or they’ll ask me about college (graduated years ago and don’t need unsolicited advice, but gee thanks) and tell me all about what I should do for work, or how their frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:01 PM
14

I would have preferred she had the strength within herself to divorce him, like I said. I wish she would’ve vented to a friend or therapist instead of me, her child. Your comment insinuates I wasn’t there to support her, when you said yourself you were raised by HV parents, so you don’t know what it’s like.. Try to remember your crazy up and down emotions during puberty and then add your mom complaining about very adult problems to her child, which I then internalized. I had no words of wisdom t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:46 AM
21

I can relate. My mom held off on talking bad about my dad until I was about 12? It still impacts me to this day. I had to mentally go through these feelings about my dad alone, and they were negative and depressing. At some point I knew she was just venting to me, but I retained all those negative feelings and it was/is emotionally exhausting. I wish she had divorced him instead of laying all this heavy stuff on me, but at the same time I felt such empathy for my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:48 PM
50

This makes me want to cry, that’s really admirable of you. I’m so glad you filed the report and also showed up to the hearing, you really might have saved that woman’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:23 PM
5

I had a first date ask me if I was sick when he called to check where I was because my voice was lower than he thought? Then he said “oh I thought your hair would be more wavy :/“ and “hmm, I thought you had more freckles.” (My pics are pretty damn accurate of how I look btw) I show up and the guy is at most 5’6”, not cute at all, and has a giant ripped hole in the ass of his shorts which he thought was hilarious. I was wayyy out of his league. These guys are clowns with literally zero self awar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:02 PM
10

Lol I love weed but don’t talk about it. It’s highly beneficial for mental health too, whereas alcohol is a depressant. I drink too but rarely, maybe once every couple weeks. I’ll take a guy who I can smoke with after work over one who drinks beers every single night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:56 PM
20

I told a guy it was 4 once (I’m late 20s) meaning one was him, and one was my ex of FIVE years. I had been single for over a year at the point. He “jokingly” called me a hoe. Definitely doing this next time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:46 PM
13

YoU’rE gOnNa MiSs It WhEN YoU’rE oLd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:06 PM
20

She definitely has a lazy man in her life and is taking her anger out on you. Also, I hate that insult. I curse pretty often, but that word is just 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:40 AM
2

The only thing he’s more obsessed with besides hating women, is his dick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:35 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter