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35

This is such good advice. I had one person quickly become a "best friend' and just as quickly cut me off...the first time i wanted something different from them and established a boundary. It turns out all her behavior before was based on getting what she wanted and our wants had aligned that while time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 06:22 AM
10

Ugh. A very small % of people I've driven on long rides have offered gas money. I never would've said you were taking that for granted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 06:19 AM
10

Are you a cat-bird-person?! I also aspire to have both parrots and cats as my children but am worried i have to pick one 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 07:38 AM
1

I love this - hear ya on the not feeling seen part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:44 PM
3

Oh my family gets on these "YOU can be as happy as YOU want to, it's all up to you!" kicks and i just need to stay far away until they shut up. They'd love that workshop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 09:02 PM
9

"the world's nicest, most expensive garbage man" 🤣 AGH, been in so many workplaces like this, still kinda in one, unfortunately the Bros that do little work are all commended for their attitude and the women doing n # of jobs are a "bummer".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:26 AM
5

YESSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:23 AM
7

This is exactly the advice i needed, i am in the same boat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:13 AM
112

I am completely in this camp too. Too many negative associations, including getting on your knees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 06:02 AM
22

So important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 09:07 PM
2

Incredible explanation. I didn't realize why the last time 2 guys were doing a version of this (where they talked about me right next to me AS IF I WAS AN INANIMATE OBJECT) I got so shaken up... I was taller than both these guys and felt powerless, like i couldnt even speak. That is 100% what being bullied feels like. Being complimented doesn't feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:01 PM
24

"this is not bad because personally, some days I don't mind it" is always a strong argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:08 PM
55

UGGGHHH. It's so old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:01 PM
123

It gives me the sense she does not often listen to or care about what woc experience...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:00 PM
38

Totally. The assumption underlying this word salad is that catcalling is an inherent part of every non-white culture. GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:57 PM
74

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:28 PM
6

Embarrassed to admit a female friend of mine was telling me she was visiting a danish colony and I did believe her but with a lingering doubt in my mind- "Danes? Didn't know they were into colonizing, really doesn't sound like them". It was a Dutch colony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:36 PM
39

"When men fixate on a woman’s ethnicity, they’re most likely fetishizing her." This. They're revealing they don't see you as a whole person, more like a brand of object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:59 AM
40

Get you a German who can build you a VW 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:55 AM
27

No, no, those are Danish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:54 AM
115

Right? There was already a red hot chili peppers song about this 30 yrs ago, yawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:37 AM
26

And overcome with emotion. It's the hormones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:00 AM
59

Me with my last car problem... Minus the apology 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:58 AM
3

😆 brilliant, get all the text into your photos, it just might work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:45 PM
3

Sorry dear. Every kiss begins with Kay and every date begins with coffee. 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:43 PM
2

I don't think there's only "how was your weekend?" And deep conversations. There's a huuuuuge world of other things you could say in between that are either somewhat personalized ("hey is that X in your photo, tell me about it") or just show a little creativity/individuality ("what was the last band you saw live?") that don't make me want to throw my phone. If I could come up with a rubric, I'd say "is this something you might hear from a cashier you've never seen before as you buy groceries?". …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:42 PM
56

If it makes you feel better, I tried eliminating bullshit messages by putting "allergic to smalltalk" in my profile and I'm still getting a range between "hi there" and "how was your weekend?". It may have filtered SOME out tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:37 AM
108

To your point about them maybe forgetting how to read: They never read profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:34 AM
5

OH GOD 😩😭 STOP IT'S TOO REAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:55 AM
45

Wow are those two hanging out? What an incredible duo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:25 PM
49

Right!!! Translated title: "longest running streak of banging someone without exclusivity is now bothering me because no exclusivity"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:17 AM
23

BAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:15 AM
150

Lost it at the French tips 😂 he trollin'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:24 PM
16

Every toxic workplace I've been at at least left me with something on my resume when I left. And that entry on your resume gets you OPPORTUNITIES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:07 AM
12

"sympathy fisherman" is such a good term and I've met quite a few
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:28 PM
17

YES!!! Definite decline in quality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:15 AM
20

YESSSSSSSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:11 AM
22

💯. Guess they're rebranding as Cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:25 PM
3

This is so important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:56 PM
26

"my body, your boner"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:00 AM
102

The crucial thing here that made it onto the poster is "dat ass"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:58 AM
232

1 STAR!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:54 AM
46

I like this explanation!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:06 AM
13

It's incredible. Even in subs where people ask for a female opinion/perspective they cannot restrain themselves from arguing with them and calling them wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:58 AM
35

His skin was just born a few decades earlier, he inherited it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:16 PM
1

Awwww! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:04 PM
7

Probably the fact they’re trying to juggle 20 different women across 3 different apps at a time This. They think they deserve/need to see a harem of different women each week and therefore can only justify a coffee for each 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:30 AM
15

I am absolutely adopting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:31 AM
30

Yeaaaaah this clip seems like a more lucid version of him and I was wondering, medically speaking, which JBP this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:24 AM
8

Welllllll I never thought I'd enjoy hearing him talk this much! The "you'd be surprised sir" cracked me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:10 AM
21

😬 wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:01 AM
37

🤯 this is truth bomb stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:41 AM
6

low self-esteem, low effort and low self-confidence The holy trinity of men where I live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:35 AM
2

I want to respond that way to so many people 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:31 AM
6

Hanging out' LOL. What are we, 14? Wishing they could still hit us up on AIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:29 AM
7

let's exist next to each other for a while 😤 I knew someone that wanted the stupidest briefest version of this. I used to see him at some events and he seemed enthralled by me. Had asked for my number right away and never used it to invite me to anything. So he ran into me one day... Well not even that, he drove by me and texted me to ask if that was me... we talked a little back and forth because of this, he was complementing me, and I said I was going to an event, did he like that band? He sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:50 PM
10

Lmao, the number of times I have to tell them "that's not [color]"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:29 PM
5

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:29 PM
15

Wow that's like 2 Tom cruises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:27 PM
16

Omg, been there 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:25 PM
19

I wish I could reply with the laughing mask and crying mask side by side oh wait JK it exists 🎭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:50 PM
10

😔 very unfortunate he had to get a new mommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:16 PM
46

Bill needs a one-way commute back to his mommy's house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:38 AM
23

Aaaaagh anyone who uses the word vibes makes me worry about #5...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:32 AM
9

Same. After a while it's very predictable which foods will be a problem and I avoid them as much as possible. And if I didn't know, my doctor would be able to give me ideas! I bet this man is doing nothing to improve the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:26 AM
5

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:28 AM
3

"oh, so that's why I'm single". And not in a bad way, more like in a validating way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:27 AM
1

GAH I was finally ready to read it and I'm at my "monthly article limit"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:25 AM
8

Yep like a fruit with a touch of mold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:50 AM
8

If they want to do small talk fine, but if all their questions for me revolve around how [day of week] is going or if my weekend was fun 👋 I'M OUT. Give me the weird ketamine conversations any day!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:59 PM
13

The realtor literally introduced it as a "Harry Potter closet". She also said they'd put a working light in it, which was revealed to be a lie, but I don't think it's necessary for this purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:54 PM
64

Just want to say first that I hate small talk and hate this question equally. Ok, onto my answer. Well I have a very deep dark closet under the stairs that I could padlock shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:59 PM
2

I'm gonna need to be in the right headspace to click on this link, as much as I wanna click on it now, because I'm assuming there are pictures of him. I am still recovering from a trip to Colorado where he is the unofficial state animal or something? I heard 5 of his songs in 12 hours. 2 were back to back. I'M NOT OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:55 AM
55

In one of the photos he's an actual guy fawkes mask come to life... With the rachel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:47 AM
63

I was gonna say "gosh he must be holding out to see if he can do better what with his incredible looks"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:45 AM
11

😫🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:08 PM
15

GROSS. (PS I'm 5'9" and still use a step stool for some things, they're perfect and never annoy me lol). I was disappointed in a guy I knew (ok, wanted to date) in college when I realized he was always with women half his height. Literally craning his neck down to drool over them. Of course I don't know for sure what drew him to them and it might have NOT been a fetish/infantilization but at the very least seemed like he was on a power trip. And if you're an extra tall white man...why do you nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:08 PM
11

I’ve dated men shorter than me (because of societal pressure to gIvE tHeM a ChAnCe) It got to me too! But every time they are SO BITTER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:25 PM
46

Hundreds of profiles of ONLY height mentioned. I can't. Dude I can already reach every cabinet in my kitchen so you're gonna have to provide a little something extra 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:24 PM
20

Omg the last very tall dude I met thought the way of setting up a date was hinting at wanting to see me again and... And... Just continuing to do that or letting me know when he was in my neighborhood in the hopes I would take over the process from there. I guess he's used to women providing literally all the effort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:23 PM
54

Good. Also shame on your for having a tall brother, women are so shallow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:20 PM
14

Man this is making me grateful I WFH 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:20 PM
55

For sure. I get mad at my neighbors for yelling sometimes and it's NEVER clear enough to make out in a recording!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:18 AM
31

💯 You've heard of "that designer that's only anti-Semitic when he's drunk"... now get ready for "That guy that's only a white supremacist when he's horny"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:17 AM
3

Totally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:12 AM
25

"only my boner is racist and he's not on ALL day!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:11 AM
17

Yep. The kind getting photos from marches in their special t shirts to put in their dating profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:11 AM
7

"I wOuLd NeVeR tHiNk Of SaYiNg" yeah dude your brain just spontaneously generates these things with no connection to anything else in your brain the rest of the day and then wipes the slate clean when you're done fucking. So you're the Racism Dr Jekyll, congrats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:08 AM
5

Yes yes yes. I am completely in this situation and the last relationship I had (around the same time as yours) was the start down a long path of lowballing behavior that I will not accept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:52 AM
68

They probably barely know him and have adapted to life without him ETA: and it will be weird when he suddenly decides to become part of their life Source: my dad worked so much I talked to him like a stranger until prob age 6,7 but at least I got used to him after that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:36 PM
23

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:34 PM
80

Oh, do they wanna talk about who gets scratches? Murderers and rapists get scratches. Removing material from under a victim's fingernails is a part of autopsies because when people are ATTACKED, they often scratch their attacker, and best case scenario that scrapes up some DNA evidence from the perpetrator. I'd tell anyone who doesn't immediately think of defensive wounds they need to watch more crime shows, but that's just a craaaazy woman thing yaknow 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:09 AM
3

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:42 AM
3

"I smell sex and... moooney" 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:41 AM
5

a very expensive cup of tea 🤣 Not the very expensive tea!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:39 AM
2

Same same same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:18 PM
2

If he can’t meet people in person, there’s a reason. THIS!!! This is the conclusion! In-person meeting benefits the men who have nothing major to hide and come across well in person...OLD benefits men who need to market themselves carefully, hide and distort the truth, and hope you'll just get so swept up in their dad jokes that by the time you see them in person you won't notice the problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:18 PM
44

If he asks for space, give him all of it! Let him orbit the earth with the other space trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:31 AM
39

"you calling it vagoo tells me you're not ready for it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:17 PM
39

It's the dirty bathroom for me 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:17 PM
16

👵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:15 PM
35

THIS COMMENT. IT SLAYED ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:14 PM
38

Rub the Cheeto dust off his moobs... erotically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:10 PM
16

AGREED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:56 AM
8

I love that as soon as I saw the post I hoped someone would screenshot here and heeeeere we go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:11 AM
4

Yep they're the quiet, sinister, long-game mysoginists. They won't reveal themselves upfront and I hate it... It takes longer to notice the bizarre contradictions in their behavior. Love to live in silicon valley!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:44 PM
3

And the hair cuts... He chooses those and the reason is extremely cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:39 PM
3

I don't want to talk down on the asocial, introverted or awkward but damn what a homely creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:38 PM
23

Thanks for critiquing my past self, it's really helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:24 AM
21

You had me at "18 year age difference"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:13 AM
81

Mhmmmm look back at the whole reason zuccy invented it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:43 AM
16

Ooooo there was one that "let's just be friends"-ed me after royally fucking with my head and I went along with it for a little while. I once mentioned something while we were out with other friends and he said "I saw that on your Instagram" (which was public). Uhhhhh he didn't follow me. I looked through ALL my followers to confirm there was no one that could've been him. So was he orbiting by searching for my account every time? Did he keep a bookmark? WHAT THE FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:26 AM
14

AGH they doooo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:21 AM
16

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:26 PM
22

"How To Pick Up Women By Pretending To Be Human" Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:12 PM
17

Hashtag girlboss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:06 AM
4

Hmmm putting this in my mental toolkit for someone I work with who's making my life hell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:19 AM
1

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:15 AM
6

Lmaaaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:52 AM
6

...THEIR HAND
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:50 AM
5

Cheers! 🍸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:47 AM
14

hard level minesweeper red flag zone You made my day, I'm stealing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:52 PM
7

Fuck this could've saved me so much aggravation and wasted time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:08 PM
7

Healthy people want to impress you and be seen as competent. Losers and predators have nothing worthwhile to show you and they know it, so they try to hook you with pity. Things I wish my mom taught me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:06 PM
20

YEP they always say something about how well it went afterwards while you're dying of boredom on the inside, and wondering if they know a single thing about you. Oddly specific rule because of these guys: anyone with a picture of him lecturing in his profile ❌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:04 PM
13

"I thought we agreed you'd talk to me before getting a haircut". -tony soprano
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:59 PM
56

LOL. Buying a house in particular is so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:57 PM
31

Ohhhhhh shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:56 PM
7

Sir, a lot of things dropped in value during the pandemic - are you mad that your girlfriend bought something at the right time????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:55 PM
18

Ding ding ding. It's the "surely the wife and family and massive age difference mean this is platonic" false sense of security. It hurts to think about this for her 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:28 AM
1

I recommend watching She Devil in the meantime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:14 AM
2

It took me years to process how sexist and messed up it was but I work with great people now 💃 thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:01 PM
2

💯. And the Ralph wiggum in this post was CLOSE to figuring it out but instead a second person wanting to leech off his money popped up to sell him masculinity courses. When the truth is, you gotta put yourself out there to find out how much that person likes you, THEN READ CUES AND BACK OFF when necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:55 PM
3

Sometimes I'm shocked by their lack of understanding of supply and demand... then I remember the brilliant company I worked for that was worried about declining sales. The salespeople decided to raise prices. You can probably imagine how well it worked and why I was laid off shortly thereafter... (Despite my manager telling me I was "being dramatic" and that no such thing would happen after I said it would). P.S. all parties mentioned in this story were male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:53 PM
2

FACTS THAT RHYME!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:28 AM
6

stoic rational pillars of strength, justice and worth" LOL this one really got me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:53 AM
4

OLD is RIFE with this! It was even happening to me in peak pandemic when no one was vaccinated 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:51 AM
4

Same. They're being dressed up and advertised as pretty to the entire internet... Hey buddy do you actually have a plan to locate pedos on the internet to use your gun on and annihilate or is that just a prop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:16 PM
4

Dangit, look at this sexy children. JUST LOOK AT EM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:36 PM
15

Hmmmm either his Baby Vending Machine is broken or he hasn't found the button for "male baby" or "daughter you wouldn't label 'pretty' for the entire internet". Somehow leaning towards him not finding the right button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:24 PM
24

Thank you for helping me find the humor in that phrase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:19 PM
13

I'm sorry, the phrase "wife only gives you pretty daughters" was enough to give me a stroke and I cannot continue reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:17 PM
3

I never knew!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:55 AM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:47 PM
3

he will froth testerically from around your armpit’s level that that’s not possible because HE is 5’8” Thank you, this is incredible. You have made me laugh after a 13 hour work day combined with soul-sucking 8 am meeting. The last one I met was smart enough to not touch on the height subject at all but spent the entire date talking down OTHER people (always a sign of a confident, secure human being), that is, when not talking about himself. Maybe I preempted any height conversations when I told…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:46 PM
88

Tell that to the men that are shorter than me IRL but 2" taller than me on their profile and then get nervous when they first see me in person. WHAT WAS THE PLAN? (Oh lol right plan is not in their vocabulary.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:42 AM
46

EveryAnswerIsLeaveHim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:34 AM
17

The French always scramble my radar somehow, don't feel guilty. What an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:00 AM
10

The tallest trash heap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:27 AM
7

It Is So HaRd FoR mEn!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:25 AM
2

Back when the pick up artist was on VH1 i watched it all and took mental notes. Definitely saved me from a few situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:24 AM
4

This is the worst subscription 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:22 AM
8

SAME. Is the need to occupy real estate in our minds from the minute we wake up that strong? If so could they do something memorable and worthwhile in the remaining hours of the day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:20 AM
8

Why? So you can watch my everyday life and never speak to me again? But still leave the door open so you can occasionally (every 6 months) compliment me when I post a nice picture of myself? Seriously what do we get in exchange for providing free entertainment to them? NOTHIN OF VALUE. I told the last guy that asked for my Instagram handle before ever planning a date "this has never led to anything good" and he said he would break that pattern. (He did not).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:17 AM
11

Always Sunny covered this YEARS AGO with a malignant narcissist character!! I hope enough women have watched it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:14 AM
8

It also presumes that the conversation happening pre-snap-chat stage is enjoyable enough that women will want to continue to the next. Wonder what percent of the readers can pull that off 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:11 AM
11

Jesus was that written by Dennis Reynolds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:09 AM
26

I wish there was a "Dear Abby" that all these women would write to and respond to every single one with "leave him". And it needs to be in a paper. I want to see an entire newspaper page of "leave him".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:33 PM
12

Some think that repeating the joke you made earlier, to you, possibly with an unnecessary addition, shows a sense of humor 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:47 AM
13

SAME. I'm going to be processing that one for a while...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:44 AM
15

Reminder to look up Manila Luzon's period costume (like a giant glamorous bloody pad) that she was not allowed to wear on Drag Race. A show that initially got my attention because of the sheer quantity of innuendo/lewd jokes. Because it would be in bad taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:22 AM
27

THIS MAKES ME HAPPY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:16 AM
44

"oh goodness this Fleshlight is defective!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:15 AM
35

See this is why I get a kick out of every "being listened to is my kink"-style joke. And I will continue to say them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:25 PM
6

Maybe they're trying to surround themselves by so many that ultimately they are able to find one completely by chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:27 AM
2

🏆THANK YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:25 AM
9

It's a bargain bin, really. Not even a service because you're supposed to sort through the piles of trash yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:52 AM
6

If you have to state that its ethical, it never was THISSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:51 AM
4

Yep, 100%, sounds much more fair and equitable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:22 AM
1

Your hand can't get pregante!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:22 AM
2

Tbh yeah there are actually diff sizes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:31 AM
6

Oh it def needs to be implanted in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:29 AM
1

And some of em are even Prince Andrew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:14 AM
3

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:13 AM
11

(With you on academia, the thought of getting a PhD terrifies me. The amount of writing. The presenting and getting critiques. AGH.) His two pillars of devaluing her work: 1) it's not physical, and mine is 2) uh she didn't really need it? Cuz she had a good job already? Why does she want to be even MORE educated than me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:05 AM
8

the math gets a lot harder! Calculus is easy. You're damn right (about his quote too). I could do calculus at 17, no problemo... everything above calculus broke me. That quote of his ABSOLUTELY reveals he is an insecure little shit that doesn't support her goals, probably because she's already too far above him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:58 AM
3

This is chopping off your nose...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:49 PM
5

HE BET WRONNNNNG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:48 PM
4

But vultures contribute something to nature/society by cleaning up 😆 how bout mosquitoes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:48 PM
4

This. Normalize stretch marks! (The older I get the easier it gets not to care about them but I used to be horrified by my own body)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:47 PM
10

Seriously, I couldn't put up with 9 months of creating something I didn't want...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:44 PM
1

Of course they're right, people should be free to do the stupidest, most short-sighted, degrading shit they want! Especially if it benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:24 AM
2

This is something I often worry about!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:47 AM
29

"he has gone up 3 shirt sizes but refuses to buy bigger ones" omfg it's comic book man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:48 AM
13

the ear of the entire world 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:48 AM
19

But he's a real gentleman to his wife!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:42 PM
14

And by great lengths we're talking a Safeway bouquet with SORRY scrawled in childlike writing on the preselected mini card that comes with it. (...or whatever the Hollywood equivalent is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:22 PM
50

Yeah Hollywood would prefer to have a woman travel this distance, on foot, for an avoidant douchebag she had sex with one time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:58 PM
8

I'm so glad oily skin can pay off eventually 😚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:15 AM
2

Ok but did they control for the number of options available to the people doing the desiring in that age range?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:13 AM
3

Does it matter? Pretty sure all that matters is who she's fucking 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:44 PM
22

Now THIS is a writer. Holy shit is this good. I woke my whole building up. That last sentence is TRUE AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:40 PM
13

Her own arguments fail the Bechtel test 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:30 PM
9

Loorrrrrrd ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:29 PM
10

Don't worry, impressing high schoolers is a different ballgame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:28 PM
57

L m a o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:05 AM
9

Oh yeah. Or ask at a bar on your 3rd date "so do you watch porn?" Because they're just dying to talk about it and THEY MADE IT SO FAR BUT NOW THEY'RE GONNA HAVE TO CUE YOU TO MENTION IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:24 AM
8

I needed this or I wouldn't be able to move on and focus on the message 😆 thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:36 PM
3

Love the background music too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:59 AM
5

LOL. I'm now thinking back on times I was asked if I was Russian and wonder if it's the RBF. I used to consciously try to smile more and my face would hurt at the end of the day so nah, fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:20 AM
12

His shirt itself is a scam. He thinks all that blinding white space where the shirt gets stupidly low will fool our eyes into seeing a chin and a longer neck (as if he was tall). BUT WE SEE THE TRUTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:22 PM
10

I watched a full reality show on Netflix where he is giving women advice and none of it rubbed me the wrong way! That I can remember. (Maybe Netflix wrote it. Or his brother. Or he stole it all from people with sound advice.) Then I read about his personal life and thought, wait, why is this dude an authority? Ever since my friend and I have called him a hussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:19 PM
5

Oh by the time they did that I was already fully repulsed and irritated by their personalities, which they apparently had no way of reading!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:11 PM
4

Ok this sounds uncomfortably like several dates of mine and but no dinner was ever paid for. It's the "with no lead up" that always throws me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:02 AM
6

Ok but dudes from France do this to me too 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:59 AM
1

⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:55 AM
7

Looooooooooool I'm gonna start talking about running this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:24 AM
4

This almost happened to me. It's a little less bad, more confusing. He called me after 2 very long pseudo-dates to say he didn't feel a spark. He didn't plan any portion of them, just showed up (and paid, so I'm not complaining that much, also I made sure they were near ME in places I always have fun). I felt like asking him, is there normally a spark when you do this? If you want it to be as casual as possible and call it "hanging out", your emotional investment is essentially 0. Can you really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:19 AM
7

Maaaaan what a cliché!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:17 PM
23

Sigh, I go to the country a lot and tried dating some of the ones that moved over here. It all sounds accurate. Even the ones that seem successful and independent have completely not grown up in certain glaring ways. ...This is not to say they're overall any worse than the Americans I tried to date 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:16 PM
2

I got the same first impression from it 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:02 PM
3

If I ever fuck up badly enough to have a kid with a man that does this, I will ask the doctor if they could do some extra stitches over his mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:45 PM
13

The kind of freedom to exist in the world that men have sounds almost fantastical Yes. I think about that when complete strangers from dating apps talk about me going to their place for the first time we meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:28 PM
2

This was such a good question! It might be happening constantly without me noticing it because I don't have a word that ties all the instances together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:23 PM
2

Hopefully they know from chess the king is literally fragile 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:16 PM
2

Oh JESUS that's an inside thought. It should stay inside of his disadvantaged little brain (save it for another member of this disadvantaged group that has the whole world against them!! 😰🎻)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:34 PM
13

It's almost like you can see 2 problems at once and think they both need to be talked about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:03 AM
18

About 5 years ago a drunk man I had a conversation with in public seemed like he was about to start glorifying him, saying "is there anything he can't do?" And then he went "have a healthy loving relationship with his wife". He said, exasperatedly, what is the point of being that smart or wealthy if you can't keep your marriage intact (or no one wants to stay married to you?) Kudos to a total mess for pointing that out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:50 AM
3

I remembered thinking that too way back. Because of physics, and not knowing anything about his personal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:49 AM
7

A cucumber in tin foil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:09 AM
10

👏 thank you, society needs more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:34 AM
3

I wish the ones I talked to were that honest 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:28 AM
24

My fav quote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:03 AM
1

Uggghhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:01 AM
1

And what was the term?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:30 AM
2

Lord help my vestigial pickme tail You are hilarious. Yeah post-pandemic is going to be a real test. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:27 AM
3

Every time I thought someone would be nicer to compensate for being less attractive I was shocked to learn 😮 THEY AREN'T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:55 AM
1

This was an A+ read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:35 AM
2

...does he 401(k) match? Does he support your professional development? Does he offer sick days and vacation days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:28 PM
6

Are straight men more squeamish? Is it misogyny driving them? Or did they skip biology lessons? Tough call, probably all 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:34 PM
10

Good for you. You know how many men are whining on reddit about women not putting effort into writing them messages? Tried that on bumble. 100% waste of time, 0% response rate. Other women who I know write funny, interesting shit never got responses and deleted it. Bumble made me miss the apps/times in which men were willing to expend effort getting their dick wet (yes this is pretty sad).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:28 PM
9

My friends and I started referring to them as torsos (not this special variety, but the ones with the head cropped off, who are probably all butthisfaces). Maybe one day I will ask a torso your question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:38 AM
10

"me talk to girls too hard why they not talk to me first :'("
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:35 AM
24

"Tinder but we think women should work harder for us but under the guise of equality"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:32 AM
16

Wait 😯🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:31 AM
9

When I dated one of these the only "too high" was him. Apparently he coped with every plane flight home by self medicating and was completely worthless or a no show for plans after. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:33 AM
18

They like writing that don't they? Goes into kitchen to brutally roast and cut up some sausages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:31 AM
8

..........................................OH GOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:29 AM
21

Yes. Yes I feel like this all the time. One more facet of this scam: skin color. For many countries the ideal went from "white white white like you've never had to go out in the sun to work" to "still white of course, but like you have a house in a sunny tropical place, and go on vacation constantly" aka "white but really pushing the limits of your skin and good thing you can afford expensive treatments to remove your age spots down the line".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:29 AM
11

you have to be rich AND white to have precisely the features that are considered the most attractive nowadays. This. The features were cherry-picked from people that aren't "conventionally" /"the most" attractive and surgically gifted to the rich white ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:19 AM
18

I've been thinking about this ever since since Peloton commercials took over the TV. The only people I know who are still working out bought extremely expensive equipment in the past year to replace the gym, or have a living room/some unused space in their house. Early last year when it was still fresh and novel I'd push aside all the furniture in my studio to do an indoor workout but those days are over. I'm fed up and I'm not participating in "can you maintain your exercise regime while trappe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:10 AM
22

But also skinny... right in the middle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:50 AM
2

I hate that I know exactly what you mean by the glossy-eyed porn smirk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:35 AM
2

Aaaaagh. That second paragraph. Do you have any tips for telling the difference? Cuz I have to admit, I'm usually just relieved if I'm being asked questions at all instead of being monologued at, and now I'm questioning many past dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:05 AM
77

This is so freakin common that I'm filled with dread every time someone starts asking me when I'm free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:33 AM
9

And they don't get any better when they move to America 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:26 AM
70

My eyes opened wider and wider as I read this. Y I K E S And then I remembered I saw a tweet recently about how dating is the process of figuring out why someone's single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:17 AM
59

UUGGFGFHHHHHHH WE WERE NOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:42 PM
33

Funny you should mention... I am similar! Being treated like a human being and not an object is my kink 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:41 PM
1

Finally putting some of their time to good use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:49 AM
1

Has he never talked as one does in a locker room?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:49 AM
2

Ohhhh shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:43 AM
35

Imagine advertising that you need women gullible enough to fall for your shit and believe it's all they deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:58 AM
24

It is, promise!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:56 AM
43

Patti Stanger would like a word with him (she would actually destroy him for this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:33 AM
3

Rofl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:30 AM
2

...And he's watched all those videos BECAUSSSSE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:27 AM
7

Not mine either?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:38 AM
10

Mmmm yeah when I think of materials to use in the wettest part of my apartment wood and glue are definitely top of mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:37 AM
4

🤦‍♀️I believe that translates roughly to "because girlfriend is video game console!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:42 AM
1

If the motivation to do something isn't coming from their OWN values and ideas of how to treat people, they're either 1) gonna do it for a little while resenting you, until they realize they aren't getting a prize, then call you a nag, 2) or not at all. In theory they could say "oh thank you I didn't realize how my actions affected you!" but it is a rare, rare case when I've seen that. Never with anyone I've dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:40 AM
3

SAME I am obsessed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:00 AM
12

So accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:59 AM
81

Men who say that are basically pointing at a dumpster near your building and saying "you have SO much free food it's not fair"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:28 PM
2

I think this is the most sinister part of all of it 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:11 PM
31

So we're left with with. And I don't want to be involved so it's wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:24 PM
150

THIS is the problem! You don't get to use that phrase and treat someone with 0 respect. Take out the "friends".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:48 AM
89

Apparently it's something that lasts through decades of marriage, because he says you have to be attractive to stay together long term? But uhhhh he's definitely talking about it like it means surface appearance at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:47 AM
9

"depends...know of any nice fields?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:55 AM
9

THIS. Specifically as portrayed in a movie that glossed over the abuse, aged up the girl, and made it sound like the pedo's telling of the story was the truth. Like, as always, that girl was asking for it and the adult man was the victim 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:14 PM
9

Are you... Mostly referring to him ghosting Isabella? (I read about that in his book and was LIVID.) Or just drifting from one woman to another whenever he met someone shiny and new through his work? I feel similarly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:07 AM
5

I learned early long ago that no outfit will save you from catcalling. I mean I haven't tried a hazmat suit but I'm assuming it makes no difference. There's a delivery man in my city that will zoom by on his scooter and yell BEEYUTIFUL and I'm like what did you really see???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:21 PM
4

Lmfao. They can't. Also I just bought myself an amazing bouquet for the second week in a row and... I think it's now a thing. It makes me so happy and no man has ever given me one. (Only a $10 thing, so I can keep this up a long time. Oh yeah women are eXpEnSiVe!!!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:54 PM
7

YESSSS especially the way she says idiot 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:04 PM
5

O wow SORRY NECKBEARD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:51 PM
4

The exception being subsets of gay men. Some of them have so much pressure to look perfect and woooooow it sounds rough. (I think anyone who was bullied in school is more vulnerable to this). Of course they still get more spending power to pay for all that shit. I work in marketing too and you are spot on about insecurity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:47 PM
3

"women hit the wall, men just get mOrE rUgGeD" squints cowboyly (At least in America)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:29 PM
9

This popped up on my Instagram and the comments just about made me lose my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:42 AM
9

The only thing he's good for is eliminating guys that mention him in their dating profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:59 AM
22

OH HELL NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:09 AM
12

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:42 PM
4

Never heard this before and LOVE it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:40 AM
3

If you refuse to watch Woody Allen films it's her most famous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:55 PM
6

It's so confusing that part of your brain will always be trying to solve the puzzle and it makes it that much harder to get over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:02 AM
12

Totally. it's been years and I haven't recovered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:52 AM
8

Yes... I HAVE met french men. "the subtler the type of gaslighting, the more damaging" Oh yes oh yes. I've been so hurt emotionally, mentally by this. The fact that they aren't pushing to have sex with you just ends up helping their gaslighting. Suddenly they fully withdraw and leave you wondering "did we have something? Did I misinterpret everything? Did they just want a friend?" My god it hurts worse than anything else shitty men have done to me. I've been invited on a weekend getaway and then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:47 AM
6

😂 ok Lucy when not crossfaded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:42 AM
1

Oh wow! Older than I expected, kudos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:28 AM
3

NNNOOOooooooooo 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:22 AM
4

I haven't read anything this fucked up since I tried to read American psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:21 AM
3

"I did this OuT oF rEsPeCt to you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:21 AM
3

Really?! (Interesting to me because her most famous role is the wife of a pretty terrible emotionally stunted fuckboi who might've ghosted her forever if his new wife wasn't blown up)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:20 AM
27

STRONG WOODY ALLEN VIBES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:16 AM
10

No one wants to admit they ate 9 cans of ravioli
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:11 AM
6

Is it just me or is literally everyone in the show an idiot except for the women? Ok mayyyybe Julian and Bubbles, but they have their limitations or flaws that blind them at times. But the women are so savvy and have business sense and seem to keep everything from imploding constantly. My point being, the show is realistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:10 AM
10

60 bucks and a handful of piss jugs 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:05 AM
5

Omg this might be the worst name backstory...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:23 AM
19

Wise- you're not missing anything, it's a bunch of douchebags that think a lockdown is a brilliant and appropriate excuse to invite women they've never met straight to their house. I wish they gave refunds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:19 AM
62

In the same way that rebranding a product to have cutesy packaging and charging 25% more for it makes it pro-female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:16 AM
49

I mean, it's not just them. Unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:15 AM
1

Wow...did he... only want to mindfuck you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:48 AM
1

Sadly some people who do the bare minimum seem to think they deserve a medal for doing so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:46 PM
3

Jesus... I need to start telling men that won't pay for dates that women make less AND have men saying this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:45 PM
2

I do not like this definition of a little sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:54 PM
1

Poor Humbert Humbert!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:35 AM
5

Poor Humbert Humbert!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:33 AM
18

This. If hair can be a personality then surely they'll want to hear about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:24 AM
7

That is deffffff their makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:23 AM
61

One eyebrow takes the selfie one says "hah I am being ironic...lol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:22 AM
21

You're damn right. There's a beer for sale that was brewed with beard yeast. YES EVERYONE, BEARD YEAST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:20 AM
46

⚰️ ...wait for real though what is this phenomenon and why is no one getting roasted for it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:18 AM
9

Lol what an image... Would their outfits ever work for it? If they were even athletic enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:24 AM
2

Oh yes. Just keep it at 1 murder per continent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:17 PM
3

The ones whose parents can afford the REAL good lawyers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:19 PM
3

LOL using this from now on! "Yes, women want to be proposed to with printed out financials that show you have spent your life savings preparing for the proposal and are now broke."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:49 PM
44

So lazy and entitled that women asking for anything nice is INFURIATING. Today on Instagram there was some "creative proposal goals" bullshit circulating and I didn't care to watch, but a woman commented "I don't want to be proposed to in my apartment". Someone flew off the rails in an angry rant of a comment about how men don't need to spend their entire life savings on a proposal to impress a woman!!!!!1!1!1! Bradley, dear sir, it costs $0 to go walk somewhere pretty. What is that enormous log…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:47 AM
20

LOOOOoooollllllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:38 AM
18

I can smell them through the photo 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:13 AM
12

LLLLIZ. Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:29 PM
11

"buying food in your presence" is exactly what it is, great phrasing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:27 PM
12

If you cheat on someone, multiple times no less, and are irritated to deal with gut feelings and scrutiny and caution afterwards... Well shit man maybe you shouldn't have cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:54 PM
5

Last night I was watching a 90df episode in which a man matter of factly states that things are not going well with [new girlfriend] who he has been lying to (about another woman) and who learned that he was sending pictures of his tiny dick all over town. Uhhhh. What kind of reaction would be appropriate for her to have? He's getting off on her "jealousy" when anyone would rightfully be upset at that level of disrespect. Or it's all made up drama. I wish it would be made up but I know too many …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:48 PM
11

Ed + Coltee are perfect lessons on how offering less in the looks department doesn't mean they'll offer more anywhere else... Kindness, sense of humor, self reliance, generosity? Nahh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:29 AM
12

I'm so glad you did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:27 AM
8

Any 90 day fiancee watchers here have some seared into their memory (the titties of a man who thinks he's a real catch)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:27 AM
19

Neg-blocking! I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:23 AM
1

That's...so horrible I almost can't believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:45 PM
1

I just saw a King of the Hill episode from '97 or '98 that touched on this. The guys are all grumbling (about something halfway decent happening for women's sports) and Bobby goes "and it's even worse when our favors are taken away, because we're used to having them!" That shit has not changed in over 2 decades!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:42 PM
1

Anything less than admiration...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:30 PM
2

Preferences are hate!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:28 PM
3

So hateful it makes me sick! 🥺😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:25 PM
2

🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:24 PM
11

My past self is laughing uncomfortably: "hahahahah... I never googled anything... I just asked all my friends and questioned myself excessively for months...hah"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:15 AM
9

And he'd be able to answer his goddamn phone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:24 PM
9

I keep reading great articles that remind me how bad things are...scientifically. The latest was in the past 2 weeks, about how prolonged stress weakens your prefrontal cortex. And the evidence keeps growing. If some people seem to be handling it better, good for them, but it's probably only on the surface. This is objectively not good for our minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:40 PM
10

That is exactly how I felt when I paid for a premium version of one, so I could save some time and see everyone who already liked me, in Nov. I was so stunned at the lack of quality I wondered if I could ask for a refund.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:29 PM
1

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:29 AM
15

This is one of the dudes that calls Lolita "a love story" and thinks it's about a nice sad man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:26 AM
7

Well hey, that's a silver lining... Long-term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:56 AM
25

Oooooooo I can feel the heat coming off this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:18 AM
2

Once you're stood up by a guy on vacation you know to never, ever put money down yourself ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:38 AM
7

Yeah you just summed up maybe 5 years of really painfully learned lessons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:33 AM
3

SMFH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:24 AM
15

TIL professional football players are betas 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:22 AM
45

It's so so draining! I had a date with a monologuer where I didn't even realize what had happened until the next day because my brain shut something off to protect me I think 😬 I just dissociated or went to a happy place temporarily. The next day it hit me like a ton of bricks. That dude only wanted to talk about himself and so of course later he'd express that he had so much fun on the date and wanted to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:02 PM
10

I wouldn't worry about this. If someone wants to make it more personal they always have the option of asking specific questions. It's a 2 way street, as long as no one is holding the conversation hostage with a monologue! 🙃 Also, same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:55 PM
43

I play this game too! ☺️ Recently made it through an entire date where the guy didn't ask about me and my curiosity was begging me to see if he'd keep the clock running given more time (also I wondered if he was just super nervous and would get over it). Since we had talked about going to another restaurant I brought it up again over text and... I kid you not... He updated me on the furniture in his apartment. NEVERMIND. There was no limit!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:50 PM
105

🤣 I'm so sorry/glad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:42 PM
6

L M A O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:52 AM
15

Uggghhhh valid question! 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:25 PM
25

This is because you see people working hard. They don't see the work, they see people with things they don't have and IT'S NOT FAAAAAIR. If they see a guy who goes to the gym every day and grooms himself and dresses nice their takeaway is "This dude has everything come easy to him because he's good looking!!! UNFAIR". If they see immigrants with better jobs than them "THEY'RE TAKING OUR JOBSSSS".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:24 PM
17

So true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:29 PM
23

Honestly what you see growing up (e.g. your dad's behavior, or other male relatives) can really mess this up from the start. Maybe they've seen perilously low standards their whole lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:22 PM
36

👏🤗 My mantra about affection is "want, not need". And yes that came from a Twin Peaks quote from the absolute worst villain of a man but it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:19 PM
2

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:05 PM
13

Potential with no due date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:27 AM
3

Right?! I want her to use hinge FOR me because I have never extracted any quality from it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:23 AM
2

Holy shit now that you put it that way...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:00 AM
1

Thank you for this, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:57 AM
12

100%. I've seen "unemployable" men suddenly be able to hold down a job and purchase things for themselves after getting kicked to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:44 PM
5

My friend gave someone a 3 month ultimatum. By the end he was bitching about how it wasn't enough time. ABSOLUTELY INSANE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:42 PM
10

Congrats for leaving a perpetual sad sausage 🤣 they tend to leave a smell and trail of grease behind that can be hard to remove!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:38 PM
14

But what if it's actually a bucket of spaghetti prepared by his truly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:16 AM
43

YESSSSSSSSSSSS. "Huh, this printer left on the sidewalk has an emotional letter in it. Weird."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:17 AM
28

My ex thought it would be cute to ask me to send a link to my favorite song...While I was at work... a week after we had talked about it IN OUR TEXTS. I told him that was not worth ignoring my work over and he was irritated because he was trying to demonstrate value...by asking me to remind him of things he should've remembered (or could've just let go!).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:29 AM
1

Oh the cheating is rampant and well known.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:52 PM
1

This guy...oops I mean woman... writes exactly how Ben Shapiro writes fiction. Don't ask me how I know this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:59 AM
5

I have to agree. They have always done the MOST to fuck with my head, as if they weren't even interested in my body... Each one of them made me long for the not-slick-at-all men typical of my homeland (lol). It's like gaslighting is their second language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:54 AM
5

The spaghetti bucket will forever haunt my dreams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:06 PM
6

Return the items before their window is up, return the man immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:18 PM
9

This is INCRED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:16 PM
2

And I'm giving you a third opinion in the hopes that you will still consider watching it to form your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:08 PM
1

This is the best phrase for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:06 PM
7

The movie is grotesque and horrifying. I don't know how it could be seen as tacitly condoning. I haven't heard a single guy walk away from it like "cool, I want to be like that out of control alcoholic that fought a bird and jacked off to a mermaid figurine and fucked up everything to the point he couldn't leave the island!" There's no wins for either of the guys in the movie, only increasingly bad losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:04 PM
15

I really didn't see any "celebration" in there. I thought it was horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:54 AM
2

If I had a dollar for every profile that asked for someone to laugh at his jokes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:50 AM
2

👏👏👏 Then, after they realize this, watch them try not to react to the funny shit you say. Watch them try to bulldoze the joke you just made with a lamer version of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:50 AM
2

Yep, it turned out this guy wasn't decent either and he was just too quiet for me to figure it out sooner. His love language was "not showing up at things he said he'd go to" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:37 PM
11

Yep. He didn't piss me off initially with irritating traits, but I came to realize he didn't HAVE any traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:59 AM
40

Yeah what was that poor baby doing in there? 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:14 AM
7

See...that's why I liked my ex's place. It was just empty inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:13 AM
19

I'm not sure if I know more in the stunted emotions or out-of-control emotions camp... I think they really need to be told to calm down more often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:42 AM
7

"JUST DIE ALREADY!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:31 PM
10

LOL I couldn't be satisfied by that point because I'd been irritated by him for, what, 2+ hours? It felt like 20 honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:08 PM
51

The only part of that movie I appreciated was her telling him he's the worst man she's ever met (or most annoying/worthless/something).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:06 AM
20

He had to match the buttons to the buttonholes! IT'S HARD OK?!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:05 AM
9

EFFFFFFFFFF it's true but at least this makes me smile about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:54 AM
108

YES. Apparently my parents only hear stories of men being wrongly accused by women. I wonder if I could get them to understand that the false accusations are easier to tell (over and over again, to law enforcement and others) than the real, traumatic stories? And that they are probably surrounded by people whose stories are too upsetting to tell them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:38 AM
7

He is the first douchebag I thought of when I saw this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:40 PM
8

Yeah he does not make for an attractive adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:39 PM
20

Who's praising John Mayer? LEMME AT EM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:07 AM
35

SAAAME it causes me physical pain to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:05 AM
9

GAH if I ever heard that... I can't even imagine...😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:05 PM
3

That is soooooooooooo upsetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:51 AM
3

Someone did a DRIVE BY WANK that my friend saw when I showed up at her door - so grateful my back was to the fucker. As if it isn't bad enough without endangering people through distracted driving??? (P.S... same)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:49 AM
3

an all women island somewhere. Siiiiigh, California was supposed to be that. Just Amazons and their pet griffins. What a nice legend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:47 AM
2

Perfect description- SHE WAS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:19 AM
6

I am screaming, please apologize to my neighbors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:14 AM
2

They sure dont. I told my amazingly deadpan gyno about it and she just went "no." Ahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:13 AM
1

Every man I talk to turns out to be worse than the last. I can't stomach it. Fully on board with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:09 AM
3

I saw "dick rehab" and "discharge" and my mind went to a guy with hygiene issues I once knew... Who thought period sex gave him an infection 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:08 AM
2

EVERY TIME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:01 AM
53

I howled. Love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:08 PM
2

...sup?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:48 AM
5

Good ol Phineas! Next book I read is about that case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:47 AM
4

👏 reading between the lines here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:45 AM
5

⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:34 AM
4

Or asked anything meaningful about you instead of sticking to "hey, u wanna hang?" "How is your week going?" "How was your weekend?" even after plenty of talking 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:33 AM
3

Lol $20 is high for the men I've encountered🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:35 PM
15

I love all of this - especially because "take you to a field" has so quickly become canon 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:34 PM
10

God I would LOVE to get my hands on that since-covid data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:31 PM
6

Ok this made me actually want to watch polo...with mares only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:39 PM
14

OH SNAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:38 AM
16

Not at all!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:37 AM
53

Well? What did you say when you saw it? Did you put a ring on it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:37 AM
25

SAAAAAME, I am so tired of being disappointed I don't know if I can withstand any more disappointment. My year has to get better for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:36 AM
15

Imagine thinking this is an unsolved mystery 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:34 AM
11

The 2 pillars of how to trap a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:12 AM
53

YEP. But they want to know the girl is always there for them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:11 AM
3

Some angry man was in here leaving a comment before about how it wasn't a fair comparison and I'm happy to see it replaced 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:20 AM
10

What a dangerous concept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:00 PM
100

Dang...but now that you bring it up that would be one hell of a movie. Woman kidnaps man, forces him to ride a horse shirtless and be gentlemanly? (Obv satire because it's impossible).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:58 PM
18

Holy mother of vivid descriptions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:51 PM
35

Oh PS... I'd love to see the Venn diagram of men with facial hair that obscures half their face, and men that complain about women being dEcEiTfUl with makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:50 PM
14

OH LORD. I come from 2 families with weak chins so if there's any chance of me having kids I have to look out for them. The chin cards are already stacked against them 😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:44 PM
15

Self maintenance is HUGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:06 PM
9

Oh God, memories of my middle school crush. The 2 pieces of gossip I heard about him years later were 1) he was a model 2) he came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:06 PM
14

Went on a date with someone whose housemate compelled him to shave the beard (for improved mask safety). He complained that he looked like a baby without it, and was not wrong. I think I deserved to know that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:55 PM
28

It hides their chins. How can you know what their actual jawline looks like if they obscure it with hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:53 PM
19

Aww Ferdinand 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:28 AM
65

If the field had rogue cows breaking in that's the only way I'd agree to such a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:23 AM
36

AAAAAAAGH MY EGGS ARE RAPIDLY SPOILING, THEY'RE GETTING DISCOUNTED MORE EACH WEEK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:39 AM
36

Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:17 AM
3

Sorry that you will never be that CUTE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:15 PM
1

Yep. Why would it be my business what animal someone has in their house? As long as they take care of it and it's not attacking me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:12 PM
1

Aww my friends had one. She was def like this and I wanted to prove my worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:02 PM
11

Loooooove this show!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:42 AM
7

Yeah, where is any of that??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:14 AM
8

Here's a picture of me at a protest in my "The Future Is Female" shirt so you know I am good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:57 AM
5

Such a joke. I want to write "ethically selfish" / "ethically depraved" / "ethically disrespectful" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:55 AM
7

as a woman I get my dose if humiliation just by walking down the streets or working in a men environment Daaaaaamn this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:43 AM
6

I def worry about this. The label weirds me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:41 AM
20

Lmao about it being evolved. I watched an old 90 Day Fiancee where Russian girl was getting married to a Mormon and her family was like "so...we googled Mormons... And heard the men have lots of wives?" The boys' family tried to reassure them, saying "we don't do that anymore" and that it was a reaction to there being a shortage of men in the community at one time. Oh the irony of hearing a strict religious group calling something a relic from the past while others call it EVOLVED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:40 AM
11

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 WHAT A SCAM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:24 AM
11

This is my question too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:22 AM
9

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:34 PM
1

<3 <3 <3 aaaaang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:19 AM
1

A guy I had been on a very nice first date with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:17 AM
6

Word. I doubt humans actually write those headlines at this point and imagine it's AI figuring out which body part from the article to highlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:03 PM
6

I hope she's the Wednesday Addams of the family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:51 AM
1

OoOooOoO I love her! She posts great stuff on her Instagram, as a first step for anyone thinking about her book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:07 AM
11

Yeah, an apology for something one person did should not contain "we"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:58 AM
23

My stats from it this year are horrific... The past 3 dates planned led to 1) eQuAlItY 2) unsolicited ass pics 3) being stood up via ghosting. Believe me if I could still go to public gatherings I would quit in a second!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:40 AM
5

AAAAAGH. Is he Big Ed from 90 day fiancee? (If you haven't watched that you may want to...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:37 AM
49

THIS. I just got eQuAlItIeD by someone after a date and I'm still livid. Someone who showed up to the date looking like a self described "giant baby". Told him I could try to explain further why he's wrong if he'd pay my consulting fee. He said MeN hAvEnT pAiD fOr DaTeS sInCe ThE 70S. And fuck Bumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:34 AM
53

More and more I meet dudes that seem to want to subscribe to my life instead of be in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:27 AM
7

👏 to the idea of candlelit bath a la corndog and I hope you've since had that... I keep a bar cart next to my tub for chocolate and wine usually but I gotta reach this level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:24 AM
11

She had to have met him at Petco. This is not a man. This is a rodent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:20 AM
2

Oh my God. Can you get her to watch She Devil somehow in case it inspires her? She needs to watch She Devil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:18 AM
2

Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:15 AM
20

I think what draws some women to bankers is they can AFFORD to be generous to you. Being able to afford that and choosing not to makes him less eligible than a broke guy IMHO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:13 AM
2

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:10 AM
11

Tbh idgaf fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:13 AM
36

Hell yes. That "first impression" territory is when they're most invested in making you think a certain way about them. If they DGAF that early what would cause them to try later? Lately they all seem to care this little this fast...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:10 AM
6

UGGGHHH truth 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:03 AM
9

meet someone decent who won't be interested only in whatever I can give to them at that moment, whether it is help, sex, attention or an ego boost SIGH a girl can dream!!! It seems like everything has become purely transactional of late and it hurts my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:01 AM
8

I've honestly thought about that. Like we all sensed a big change or period of being trapped at home was coming...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:12 PM
16

Love! Also is it just my social group or did a great number of worthless men get the boot/taken out with the trash last year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:51 PM
7

...I hope 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:24 PM
12

Omg that is GREAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:48 AM
11

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:06 AM
1

He already got much quieter after my comment (and gave me his venmo handle) so it's working 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:58 PM
2

I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:09 PM
1

Lol maybe after interviews 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:17 PM
1

😭 that is so wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:17 PM
5

"TV focused on women doing more than finding love" needs to be a goddamn category in my Netflix right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:15 PM
3

Some people hate small talk. I'm one of them, especially when busy, and also afraid of using up a busy person's time (especially if I value them). I WISH more men would make a plan then stop demanding attention! Kick him my way :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:13 PM
14

There's a guy from OLD that has wanted to talk to me INCESSANTLY and I made it clear we needed to talk in person, so we went on what he explicitly called a "date" last week. Well after the check came he wanted to split it, and I pointed out that he ordered more than me. He said he'd venmo me the difference and hasn't, which is great insight into his character. I've been ignoring him to focus on bigger and better things so he asked if everything was ok. "I'm interviewing, because I need a job. To…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:08 PM
1

L m a o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:51 PM
2

Oh, if he knows you're busy he might be trying not to impose on your time and making it clear that you don't HAVE to talk before Friday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:50 PM
6

I think that would make sense to say IF he had already sent you a viable plan and you'd agreed on the time. Some people really want to make sure they click in person before any more of either side's time is potentially wasted. This is just my perspective, coming from the side of men wanting to chat FAR too much before I find out I don't like how they smell in person. If the plan isn't set yet then I retract all hope/understanding for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:48 PM
7

DIS GUST ING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:42 PM
21

AAAAAAAGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:51 AM
3

I loved realizing which sub this was in. Worlds collide!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:59 AM
21

Aw, his eyes are so far back he probably can't see and appreciate what he already has :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:59 PM
5

Pretty similar with one of my grandpa's :(. Plus I got to see my one "aspiring military wife" former friend get harangued and nagged by her boyfriend WHILE I WAS VISITING. She'd make him a sandwich and he'd not eat it as if making a point and fight with her nonstop. And that's how he acted with company around...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:46 PM
7

And maybe the Rona, along the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:40 PM
8

Lol from experience, she should pack something that keeps her comfortable while she's third wheeling with the guy and his girlfriend that he "just got back together with"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:36 PM
10

LoooOoOOOOOOOOOOlllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:29 PM
1

It wasn't on my mind for a while, till I saw Bill's cameo in the Epstein doc. Now it sure is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:02 AM
5

I have a Rorschach test too! It only works at a certain time of day when the shadows are hitting a building in my neighborhood a certain way, and so far the most they'll say is "oh. Neat." But I really hope one day I find a "pause and examine" person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:32 PM
39

I learned about their existence from 90 day fiancee 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:34 AM
23

The "no children yet" ones in their 40s or older make me wonder if they recently had an epiphany they would have to get "serious" in order to have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:01 AM
60

Wait really? Last time I went out a guy 10 years younger than me called me a MILF despite my insistence that I don't have children. Made me realize, the future is bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:59 AM
20

The difference in how it's expressed in men and women has been one of the most interesting topics for me in the past year. How serious the expectations/pressure to conform, act nice, etc are for either side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:56 PM
19

I'd run away from that grammar alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:38 AM
7

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:38 AM
77

Yeah lately I swoon over someone showing that they remembered something I said a month ago. It might be problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:13 AM
17

And the nursing home staff will be telling him the same in a few decades
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:15 PM
1

"you know, there are so many intangibles that can make a job better or worse that it really depends on the full package of benefits, quality of life, location, growth potential, responsibilities"...keep rambling as long as you like with factors that matter to you. They may try to cross some of your list off by saying "oh the benefits are top of the line!" and you can say I'd love to see information on those. No matter what they say there's always some variables left you don't have complete infor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:10 PM
29

Ok this is the same way I evade salary range questions in interviews, and I KNOW that works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:55 AM
1

Good God, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:49 PM
7

It's very funny/bewildering that they think we won't be so annoyed that we lose interest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:28 AM
19

Perfect and I can vouch for it. I said that, essentially, to a man that thought we had plans later that night - because 3 days earlier he asked if we could do something on Saturday. The outcome of my response was him throwing a tantrum and never texting me again so I didn't even have to break up with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:27 AM
2

FFS it grinds my gears and keeps happening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:22 AM
5

(Holy script idea, is this the start of Jurassic Poop?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 06:20 AM
42

This. They're doing age-arbitrage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:06 AM
7

What if we start responding with absolutely insane answers that help end the conversation, like "not great- I am in the hospital awaiting amputation of my fingers"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:34 PM
16

It's so ironic that I used to be nervous about going on dates (as in, will I do a good job?) when my greatest fear now is being bored to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:17 PM
73

And sometimes they ask if you have any fun plans this weekend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:21 AM
3

"it wasn't even me...this isn't even my phone... I'm not even in the country...I've been hacked lol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:48 AM
5

"if we have dicks why'd we need pics?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:29 AM
22

HATFISHED! lol I'm looking out for this now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:27 AM
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