| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 398 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong. | NAH, SIS | ginnnnie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 118 | OLD funny | FDS SUCCESS! | ginnnnie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Shit I have dealt with in my last relationship and I live with him still. | RANT | ginnnnie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Other toxic men in my life | DISCUSSION | ginnnnie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Toxic men in my life | STAY WOKE | ginnnnie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.The worst part is how he does the awful shit and actually gets her to believe it is her fault ☹️ straight up EVIL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Just seeing this comment now. Yeah sounds like he def was an asshole. To go through the effort of doing that, as if she is going to care is so pathetic and grossss. Cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 33 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.This. Losing myself is the biggest fear I have. I’m so happy single it’s insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Haha wow he truly sounds like it based on how he described everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Yes and that is why I kinda did it, because to me if he noticed it and it bothered him he damn well knows he’s doing it on purpose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:31 PM |
| 14 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.I love this whole comment it is sooooooo true and informative. He def is average and I was already NOT sold on him! And he def was checking anything and everything out while trying to make me feel small, with my career ,lifestyle etc etc trying to make himself look better! It was so weird, Out of the two of us, i own my own home, work a day job and have a side gig, he lives at his dads lmao! Also I’ve been deep into health the last 10 years and run, do yoga am in good shape and do receive attent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 13 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.I did cut him off. I knew if I came to this sub I’d get the truth that I already knew but wanted the reassurance. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Exactly!! Like if I’m with a guy I like And am interested in I’m not checking out other guys because my mind is stimulated and preoccupied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.It’s okay. I am learning and am glad to move forward practicing this and watching out for it. So I can avoid men like this!! All the comments help. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 81 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Very true. As I keep reflecting I realize how many times I didn’t feel good inside while we hung out and how much he wants to manipulate. So many red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 32 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.I completely agree!! I don’t have time for this. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 40 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Agreed. I was already some mans mommy before. I don’t want to do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 17 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.I realize now it was a mistake. But yeah it ended up working out for me to learn that information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 24 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Thank you. I won’t doubt myself and I don’t want that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 55 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.I won’t going forward. I agree it will only get worse from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 30 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Yes I relate to this 1000%. And you’re right regardless I won’t like it. To me when you’re with someone who actually is into you, they have you on their mind and don’t need to scan or are actually invested in the conversation etc . And I also wondered about the porn sickness I got a vibe about that too. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 22 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.It seemed like a mixture of both. But I thought well if he is going to stare at girls then I’ll stare at guys to see the reaction lol! And he noticed of course and like made a comment about the guy. Idk if that means anything but in my Last relationship I never played his own game to him and I should have because I think these guys are actually suppppper insecure. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 160 | Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong.Yes! Thank you this is exactly how I was feeling- if he says that she’s so crazy I’m not allowed to call him out or I’m crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:46 PM |
| 62 | I saw his fiancéeGod! When I started dating my NVX he was 1 month out of a 4 year relationship. (I know, first glaring red flag) but I was a pickMe back then who had to go through the hard lessons. Anyway, his ex reached out to me to WARN me how awful he was, and of course I chalked it up to the jealous ex. But she wasn’t rude to me, or calling me names. She told me I deserved better and that he treated her like shit. Next time I’ll listen lol!! She had me blocked on all social media, which is how she reached ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:14 PM |
| 50 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlGod these posts make me sad/mad/relieved. My NVEX tried to get me to get on birth control, with the “it doesn’t feel as good with a condom on” argument. I fought him on it, because I do not like altering my body’s natural chemistry unless I am in danger/illness. It’s sad that he put his feelings ahead of my overall health and happiness. So glad I did not listen to him and got rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 03:25 AM |
| 6 | The audactiy knows no bounds.I can’t believe YOU have to pay to be a maid/sex doll/interior designer lol!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:18 PM |
| 37 | I must eat my words, he is not a HVM now that I see clearlyThis, I know it’s tempting to move on and get distracted but your ex sounds super shitty and could screw you over more. Don’t give him a reason to, for self preservation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:59 AM |
| 9 | I am so uninterested in relationships nowI feel this post so much. I’m so happy single. I do anything I want and am happy spending time with just myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 41 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.Yes!! Literally in health class the hair protects our privates, if I’m remembering correctly from bacteria and basically anything bad entering? It’s been awhile but I think that’s it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 11 | “I am not a monster”Yes I’m so glad you did it!!! This sub opened my eyes- I think it all started here. Like I knew something was off about me and my NVX but needed help describing it. Then I found that book, which just sealed the deal of me getting out of that! I think I mostly talked to one trusted friend in depth at first and it was eye opening how much she just looked at me with her jaw dropped. It really helped me stay strong though and going forward I have that support system in place. I’m so glad you got out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 28 | “I am not a monster”Yup. That book got me out of my last relationship and this sub! And the last thing you said about talking about it… it truly helps! When you say stuff you went through out-loud to good friends and family you realize how insane and unfair it all was to you! So much lying and gaslighting, I’m so proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 19 | I don’t even know where to start.He’s gaslighting the shit out of her 🥺☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 41 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.I thought it was ironic that his trash can was super full and he blames her for being not sanitary like it sounds like he isn’t THAT anal about being cleaning… but on a real note wtf! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:56 PM |
| 45 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?It just sucks to think that some women get this deep into it and don’t realize walking away could cure most of this…:( I realllly hope she somehow figured out to leave this awful man and realize none of it was her fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 102 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.Seriously I’m starting to realize it’s a lot of young kids on here too like 14-18 hahahah gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:13 PM |
| 33 | Men are jealous of women's successI have realized this with men who I use to “talk”/have a fling with. One guy was clearly uncomfortable I bought a house by myself and made it a touchy subject even though he just bought his own as well. I feel like he was so jealous/mad that he was colder to me overall as well. Like oh if you think you’re better than me then you’re so happy once you realize you aren’t you are rude to me? Like wow was he really trying to use me. Second guy also acted weird about me buying a house he is 28, still … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:00 PM |
| 9 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenFuck that both sides bull! That guy drugged someone because he’s too weak to take care of himself and get out of a relationship HES not happy in.(not blaming the female for this, I’m sure he wasn’t trust worthy prior to this incident/ do agree she should leave too if she’s so paranoid needs that but I digress) this situation is 100000% his fault. He can leave at anytime if he is not happy. However you do not drug someone. sooo not normal and so scary. You never know how people can react to certa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:20 PM |
| 7 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieYes!! It was so well written I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 24 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"this sounds amazing. I’m doing it next year! Travel 2022 for me! (Bought a house this year for me and my pup so I have to rekindle the finances before traveling) 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Team Edward or Team Jacob: How Love Triangles Primed a Generation of Women for LVM (intro)I was waiting for a discussion post about the twilight movies here. I love this sub lol!! I was trying to figure it out while I watched the movies what all the red flags were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 9 | I hope she got picked 🙄This !!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:43 AM |
| 7 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?My ex was addicted. He would tell me to “make moaning sounds” even though naturally I do not make any moaning sounds… and he would make the silliest moaning sounds himself like as if he felt that good 🤡🤡🤡🤡 During our relationship I told him I wanted him to not watch porn and he “quit” for a month and was really proud of himself so I’m assuming he watched a LOT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 55 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"This stuff is just sad. How do you marry someone that you can’t be honest with- if you are honest with them and they don’t change WALK. It truly sucks to read these stories. Also red flag- together 8 years only married for 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 120 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …Lmaoooo this!! I was like ya ok DUDE I feel like men lie to lie it’s like come on duuuuude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:00 PM |
| 57 | Man is upset that wife bought him jewelry. Come to find out, he’s never bought her jewelry besides her ring. 🧐This! The way he talks about her is fucking rude, and not how anyone should talk about their SO. She needs to leave him, also be the man if you’re insecure about it dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 12 | The new dating scam.She paid for him LOL no way!! Wow that guy sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Are You The “Clingy” Type?This!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:11 PM |
| 6 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.True!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 13 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Exactly!! I’m a single woman who has lived alone since 2016 (HAPPILY) and the men who think that’s an invite is wayyy too high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 5 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Ewww that would be so awful because he had literally no reason to come inside after the package hit The floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 141 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Yes do this! I had a similar experience with an AT&T rep who had to come into my HOME. He could not even set up the wifi and proceeded to just “hang” with me and talk about drugs.(I didn’t want to talk about drugs or talk to him by the way lmao) by the end of that he was like well the wifi isn’t going to work please don’t tell my boss then I got charged like $100 for “installation””” and they tried to hit my credit. I blew up and explained how their creepy technician told me not to tell his boss… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Get abucnh of cameras around your house if you don’t already !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:05 PM |
| 44 | If you have to make him sign a contract to ‘keep him’ - he was never yoursI saw that and the fact she said “I may have been the AH” I’m like nooooooooooo omg hopefully she realizes that soon.. to avoid future NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 35 | If you have to make him sign a contract to ‘keep him’ - he was never yoursTHIS! If someone is denied for a loan there is a reason and they need to fix whatever the issue is on their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | I am absolutely speechless. Tl;dr, if he can’t have sex with her after a surgery, she will not be allowed to use her cup/tampons. This is straight up abuse.This is just wrong on too many levels for me. It’s even worse she’s asking about it. What other crazy abuse has she been dealing with for how long? I hope she gets out of that ASAP. It’s wake up call time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.I’ll try this out for sure!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 4 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.Agreed. Yup now that I think of it there was not timea set. There was a place picked out and a day but no time. So weird to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:39 AM |
| 10 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.This is timely. I met a guy on hinge LAST September and he scheduled a date with me early in the week, once Friday came along he was dead silent.. this was months ago. We stopped talking after that a bit and then we talked again because he told me something came up, whatever. He pulls the same thing again! Just says nothing there day the date is suppose to be. I’m done with him! Lol it’s so weird. Stop making plans and then blowing me off just DONT make the plan?? Haha I don’t even understand th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 16 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeIt truly is upsetting. I just want to tell her get the fuck out you can turn it around still! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 25 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.It’s really a good point!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:24 AM |
| 12 | Just. What.“He became angry when I found out HE lied” girrrrrlllllllllllll THATS narcissist 101 Gtfo ugggh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenHHha the second paragraph (non-simp) is a great explanation of my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:08 PM |
| 20 | Reminder...Ugh needed to hear this today lol 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Hellll no I didn’t but I bet he wanted to text me 😎😌 thank you FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 6 | I really hope his gf leaves him over this. How is she not supposed to take that personally? Of course he won't answer the question.HAHA fuck that like haunts me of my ex... answer me “NO” because the truth is showing finally . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Gently reminder that there are no "valid" or "invalid" reasons to break up with someone.Lmaooo I love #4. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Yep that’s the book!!! It literally was a turning point for me to get independence. after reading it, I couldn’t go back with him. It felt wrong.. because everything was staring me in the face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:25 PM |
| 9 | Remember this next time you think you just need to CoMmUnICAtE your needs a little more clearly...YES!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 35 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Yeah so this happened to me with my ex. I was already having doubts, we had a lot of issues and fought. But this subreddit helped me realize I deserve better and I’m not “crazy” for not being satisfied in that relationship. Also I bought a book about abusive men. Anyways, if you’re having that feeling listen to it. Don’t waste time, and stand up for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 8 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Oh ok! I genuinely didn’t know. I do not know why I’m getting downvoted lol. I’ve never read that anywhere Edit: I understand that it seems obvious, especially to me now, but when I first looked at it for some reason I think it was an acronym like NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 9 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.What are Libfems? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:10 PM |
| 30 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendThis is me!!! I feel like I’ve outgrown a few currently who refuse to grow up. I still have fun with them and they’re here for me whenever I need them but I know I need to find more! It’s hard!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:48 AM |
| 12 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.I love this idea!!! Lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎Yup. If sucked to be gaslighted about it, but I’m glad when I read these to know I’m not fucking crazy. Hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 15 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎Yup. My ex tried to tell me it was normal, all guys do it, I’m just looking at people. To me being distractible that badly is disrespectful. Also I know better and he was checking out other girls it hurt so bad. Luckily I may have met a HVM who seems to have eyes only for me... we will see lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:59 AM |
| 8 | Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄SERIOUSLY!! I can’f even handle how he talks about his “fiance” LIKE WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 7 | OLD funnyRight, it’s like they talk like they’re above us? It’s not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 9 | OLD funnyGlad he showed one of his many red flags early on😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:08 PM |
| 17 | OLD funnyLol I’m sure that’s what he meant..... 🤣🤣 good on you for blocking. I’m not wasting my time anymore!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansGood way to look at it. We don’t deserve to feel that shit! So let’s use it our advantage!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:15 AM |
| 132 | This is grossYa they don’t change for the better in my personal experience. I’ve only seen men become worse in the relationship. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:50 PM |
| 57 | This is grossYup fuck this! How about the man actually being there and trying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:49 PM |
| 6 | I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlightI love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:48 PM |
| 18 | Where being a pick me will get you.This is sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Me this weekend breaking my bad habit pursuing menYES thank you FDS. Lololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:30 AM |
| 43 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈My ex basically sent this to a girl when we broke up for like a week and she had the same response. Sooo glad she could see through the bullshit. He tried to convince me he was just trying to talk to her as a friend and I was like she wouldn’t have replied with that if you were friends. He was a compulsive liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 49 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!YES YES!!!!!!! My ex had “mostly female friends” like ok bro you’re just trying to fuck them when it’s convenient for you. This was so perfectly written. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all dated a JakeI’m dead . Jake is my ex ex and this is him to a T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 3 | OCAMAZING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Agreed, they couldn’t really change for you, they won’t really change for the next pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 12 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Omfg I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 39 | The audacity these men have. Haven’t even gone out with him and already pulling the attitude card. Fair to say I will be cancelingGross lol.....I can clearly picture these types of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣This happened to me and my ex. I started realizing I deserve so much more and got educated on Abusive relationships as well. We broke up. I’m so thankful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 8 | Just another manipulation tactic!This has happened in my life!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!So this very thing has been on my mind. I’m always a block and move on kind of girl but I’m in a sticky situation. I live with my ex until next June. I have two pets at home so I left his phone # unblocked in case of an emergency(one is a puppy) but I hate that fact tbh. I blocked him on social media though so I wasn’t reminded, but I think I’m doing all I can right now. I can’t fucking wait to move out and block his phone # and pretend he never existed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!THIS IS A GOOD IDEA!! Hahaha 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:34 AM |
| 10 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisGirl I hope this is me, I live with my ex and I kinda wanna be like, look here I upgraded :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 7 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedDude it’s making my skin crawl hearing this guy try to push YOUR boundary’s. Especially with his OBVIOUS LIES!!! I hate men who do this!! They talk the talk but NEVER walk the walk. It’s gotta be action first for me. THEN he had the audacity to try to make you feel “bad” for having boundaries and THAT HE was dating someone at the same time!!! WTF. You dodged a bullet. I’m so sorry he almost got you but I am so PROUD of you for saying HELL NAW . This is inspiring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 7 | The hoops we have to jump through. Stay safe!This right here!!!!! It is bullshit and it DOES HAPPEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 10 | Stay wokedude if only I could have put into words this exact information in my last relationship!!!!! #neverhonest #surprisediCouldnttrustHim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️Yuppppppppppppoooooopppppp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 8 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️So true. It should not be that hard.. if it is something isn’t right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:40 AM |
| 24 | can't buy me loveMy ex who I am stuck living with is always so nice to me and start saying stuff like, we need to talk, maybe we can be together, etc then gets laid then is back to, no we can’t be together . LMAO! I’m learning the lessons the hard way but at least I’m learning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”LMAOOOOOOO None of that makes sense ESPECIALLY the last part!!!! You were very clear with what you wanted and he was just expecting someone to go along with his BS. Good for you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 8 | 'Ouch my ego'BIGGEST ISSUE IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 61 | Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward.After reading these comments, will I ever date again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 51 | This kind of thinking does need to stop.Literally people slap this on a relationship to justify the shittyness . Not OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:47 PM |
| 5 | If he's not treating you like you're "the one", then let that man go.My thoughts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Girl please no 🤦♀️Jesus this is NOT something to be proud about. Does this girl have no feelings? I wouldn’t want to put myself in this situations... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:00 AM |
| 6 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’YUP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 27 | I love all the newbiesThis sub makes my heart happy, I feel like people think like me and it’s amazing. High standards FTW!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.I thought the same thing!! Because my ex did the same shit. They are master manipulators and if it were that easy to kick them out obviously we would! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:11 AM |
| 18 | FactsssHe has friends but who cares everything else is true lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Intuition never liesYES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.That’s me!!! I think it’s soo confusing and I think they prob both are aware and I don’t want to leave myself open to manipulation. They are shit! I feel like if they were good men they also would want to leave to actually be happy... but that’s just it they suck. So they’re fine living like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 6 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”He sounds like a winner! Also super intelligent lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.I do not get that at all. It’s like they want to be a dark cloud around you because they know they suck. My ex was like “I don’t want to have to move” and I’m like.. so I have to see u because you’re too lazy and selfish to move lmao. Not ok with me. I’m prob still gonna get our lease cut short if possible and his selfish ass will have to deal with it lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Literally. I’m trying to figure out how to! If you have any ideas Send them my way. Lmao! I figured just being done w him was a good start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.That’s fucked up! Like you’re his maid or something. The real kicker is he just started working last week and he had the nerve to tell me he works harder than me and I should pick up more slack. And I was like seriously, I work the same amount of hours as you and have been consistently working for the entire year.... he’s worked 2 months a time at random bottom tier jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Literally. My ex judges everything I do and how I do it. Living with him for 1 year has been exhausting for me. It was only nice when he wasn’t there and of course because he’s a LVM he couldn’t keep a consistent job. So I dealt with him home 24/7. (he doesn’t do anything but play video games) The thing that makes me laugh is he is no better than me. I strive for things, I have goals. He plays video games and can’t keep a job year round and makes no effort to. Such a joke! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Got tired of waiting for him to plan a vacation for us, so I booked an all-inclusive vacation by myselfI dated the fake future planner. Just saying what they think you want to hear. It’s obvious and fucked up. Dump this loser- you’re already showing him what’s good, I love it!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Yessss I get that judgement shit. It gets old real fast. And I hope he leaves ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:44 PM |
| 8 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.That’s amazing!!! I want that life!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Old picture I found before I started leveling up. Definitely the start of my journey to discovering fds and self worth.Thank you so much! Very true I will use this comment as a reference. Thanks for taking the time to write it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Old picture I found before I started leveling up. Definitely the start of my journey to discovering fds and self worth.This is good. Please tell me more. Like I always feel like I need to do more but just by reading what you wrote I realize I am giving just enough and would love to have a focus on give what I get. Because I have sorts of anxiety with most relationships and it’s exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes we need a reminder!Missing self esteem and a friend. I still need to fill the gap on a close friend, but I have worked on myself so much through the shit relationship that my self esteem is much stronger now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 124 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Needed to hear this. I might need to come vent here because I am currently using all of my strength to avoid my LVM ex that I live with and fuck me it’s so hard. Edit: this page gives me hope that I am going to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 19 | Online dating strategy to find a HVMAgreed. Sending a message takes less than 5 minutes. Even when emergencies occur. I want that commitment in a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insaneLiterally... the time this red flag will save you if you pay attention is wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Ladies: You all deserve to be treated like gold.THIS. The coldness is soooo exhausting and not worth anyone’s time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl, noFuck THATS awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 2 | An ex contacted me out of the blue today... I’m almost insulted that he thinks I’m this stupid.He’s literally trying to make you feel like shit. Do not reply.. he will have to sit and wonder.. and hopefully feel like an idiot. I’m not sure if his brain can wrap around how stupid he is tho lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 11:34 AM |
| 20 | I'm not your mother I'm your partnerYes!! When a boy is like this it means they don’t care enough like if you’re too lazy to use your own brain to figure out simple things... I’m out. I don’t have time to teach you how to be in a relationship. It’s not fair to me. Had to tell this to my ex soooo many times!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:15 AM |
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