| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.What are you doing that makes them see you as intimidating? I’d like to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:14 AM |
| 77 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d…Yeah I think at that point when you have that much money, especially when you make a ton more than your SO I’d be hesitant to marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 13 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!Was confused at the first half . I was thinking “how is this pro male”? Sounds like she’s about to rant how guys can be incompetent or lazy. Can you post some of the comments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 52 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSAre there any shows or movies where the woman ends up with a HVM that you recommend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:19 AM |
| 3 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?When a guy says it IMO he’s saying he’s worthless and needs to be needed to give him some form of worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Pick-mes Who Try to Act Powerful or Like BossesNever forget that men can Influence/manipulate women Into thinking that way. I remember when I was leaving my ex for cheating he brought up how “emotionally strong “ I was and that me staying with him would mean that I’m “strong”. And that I needed to stop thinking women who stay are stupid and weak. To change my mentality and view them as “strong women.” (Fortunately I saw thru that and left anyways. The wheels started turning in my head and I saw how truly f’ed up he was. ) Unfortunately if mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:41 AM |
| 40 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsThe teachers/professors surprised me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:43 AM |
| 12 | Why you should NEVER pay or split the bill on your first dateWhat happens if you only pay what you ordered? Is it the restaurants prob to call the police to try to find him or what? Can they hold you accountable for his portion of the bull? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:51 AM |
| 11 | Suicidal threats and threatening self harm, and staying because you are worried about your partner doing the unthinkable.My ex threatened suicide after I dumped him(found out he was cheating). He Said he should just grab that Firearm (under our bed) and unalive himself. After I gave him no reaction he said it again, thinking I didn’t hear him. I told him whatever he doesn’t isn’t my fault and to get out. The next day he sent a text out to some friends it alarmed one of them and the friend came over asking where he was. He (ex) wasn’t answering anyone back. So I called and he answered(big surprise he was trying to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:38 AM |
| 93 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!I remember when my ex “proposed” while we were sitting on the sofa watching a movie. No ring or anything. I said no, ask later. Was waiting for him to turn back into the hard working , effort putting guy he used to be. Good thing I said no Bc it turns out he was narcissistic cheating P.O.S. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:13 AM |
| 65 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!Im not buying this whole “will smith is in ruins thing”. He prob sleeps around with other people. They are actors. Whose to say he wasn’t acting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:08 AM |
| 90 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Wow that was too much. It looks like she just smeared some cake on his mouth from a piece she cut, then he goes and throws the entire cake. Ruined the cake for everyone and the wedding experience of passing out the cake. He prob has anger issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 42 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"Do you have a link to the video? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 9 | Hahaha what. #hobosexualHas traveling Job but doesn’t have a car. Ain’t that something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:47 AM |
| 151 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSThere was nothing wrong with what you said wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 40 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..That he loves to manipulate people to get what he wants. He said it in a real proud voice too while he was pacing around in front of me. I might have made a face of Disbelief or something I forget, he prob tried to downplay it. I don’t remember exactly. What I do remember is that not 2 weeks later we were arguing and I brought up what he had said. He said “ I’ve changed , I don’t do that anymore.” Like sure, he’s just saying that bc he could tell i didn’t like it. He couldn’t have changed that q… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | HVM turned to LVM rather quickly..3 months of dating should be enough for him to know if he wants to make you a gf or not. He doesn’t want to. You didn’t do to much. That shouldn’t be an overwhelming question after 3 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | People in relationships are fair gameNah I don’t think I’d ever cheat. I’m too old for that, lol. And I’m only hitting my mid 20s. It lacks maturity, empathy etc. I’m more sympathetic if someone did that to escape and abusive relationship tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | People in relationships are fair gameIm a woman. Never cheated. I’ve been cheated on. And I’ve had opportunities to cheat but I never did anything or fed into it. It’s Bc I’m not a cheater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | People in relationships are fair gameThey’re either Cheaters or they’re not. It’s already in them. Just a matter of opportunity for it to physically show. It’s their own morals/who they are. You can’t make someone a cheater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | People in relationships are fair gameI think everyone is responsible for their own relationship. If a person cheats that was their own doing and no one gets “stolen”. They simply no longer cared enough for their partner. It would be a good test to see if a person’s partner is loyal. And to prove that both ppl in the relationship truly want to be together. It’s low class behavior to try to take someone’s partner away but eh. Just know that if you grab them there is that higher chance of them not being loyal to you either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Porn is not only useful but necessary for a happy relationshipThe way you described your use of porn doesn’t seem healthy. At one point you described it pretty much as a replacement for Infidelity. Meaning if porn wasn’t there they would go out and cheat on their partner? Seems like that person has bigger probs they should actually deal with than try to put a band aid on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Porn is not only useful but necessary for a happy relationshipI think porn is for the most part is awful for a relationship. Ppl can become addicted to it. Only be able to finish from it instead of sex with their partner. Become dissatisfied with their partner Bc of it. I mean you really mentioned “who doesn’t have flaws? The people paid to be onscreen”. What the actual fuk. Tolerate a partners flaws? So you turn to the fantasy? That doesn’t sound healthy at all. No people aren’t going to learn to appreciate their partners imperfections they’re just going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?All the chemicals in food, drinks, stuff we touch, air etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 34 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?I don’t think you hate video games you just don’t like the men that play them. The ones that just game all day and do nothing else. Pee in bottles to try to win raids (or whatever) , ignore their gfs, don’t help around the house etc. Don’t do anything productive really. The ones who think forcing their gf to come watch them game is “spending time together.” I play video games on occasion but I’d be bothered when my ex would do it Bc he would ignore me. I remember i cried about it one time and to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 36 | Best Sports for Self-DefenseThe average man is still stronger than a woman who workouts/lift/trains. Let’s not delude ourselves. This would be more for if he already got a hold of you, for you to be trained to hurt him so you can get away. Don’t try to actually take one on in a fight. Like the other font said it’s a last resort. I’d say go for things like the eyes/throat/ pressure points/groin etc. And learn how to maneuver yourself out of his grip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 168 | Men flip shiet when you say 'No'.They don’t even know you and they call you that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:53 PM |
| 6 | CMV:location theory is true especially for men from other locations in the westYeah like wtf is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 09:59 PM |
| 9 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?His idea of masculine seems all kinds of wrong. Just toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:03 PM |
| 15 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Whats your idea of an emasculated man? And what’s your idea of masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 10 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalized*throws dirty nasty sock on the small area rug instead of the hamper or at least an area that’s not rug (literally the entire rest of the room) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:15 AM |
| 12 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.So was he planning on living there rent free? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:43 AM |
| 20 | “Age Catfish” who wants to swipe right 200 times to avoid paying tinder for their grand thirst seeks young codependent pussy for abominable living conditions copePut him in his place 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:52 AM |
| 29 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentWhat type of man is okay with moving into a woman’s home/family’s home? Especially the family home . Like how are you a grown man and move into your gfs parents house? Sad. I empathize with you tho. I moved my nv ex into my home. So I understand you and your situation. I’m embarrassed for myself. Def learned from the situation. Unfortunately had to learn the hard way. I hope your parents do end up kicking him out. It’s best for your mental health. And how come he doesn’t have money saved? Couldn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Need some adviceAww geez... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 6 | How bout you eat the sh*t covered ground dog and if you need assistance I'll help you choke on it while I get a better weiner you f-ing scrot.That was a joke.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:46 PM |
| 12 | Do you think men who are into petite women are creepy lvm?I remember being an inexperienced younger looking , skinny 19 yr old sleeping with a guy in his mid 20s, full beard, tats, baby daddy status and all (Def a mistake). The porn he looked up once had the word “teen” in it. All the women he’s been with are short/small. Def a pattern there.. And I got followed around Walmart by a guy at least in his 50s, he asked me what school I went to. He was over six feet and prob 200 lbs no reason for him to be following around someone who looks like a teenager.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 14 | Planning to end things with LVM tomorrowPls do it. He seems self absorbed and controlling. And like another user said a bit of a narc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:42 AM |
| 31 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesMy ex once stopped in the middle of the intersection while the light was on red. I think he was testing me. He claimed I made him nervous or something, I wasn’t even doing anything. Thankfully there were no other cars around. He’d also get mad at me if I ended up missing telling him what exit to take. Even tho he’s the one driving and should be paying attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:38 AM |
| 16 | Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his motherWelp that’ll make you dry up. Seriously what type of woman is turned on by being their SO’s mommy? Do they not think things thru before saying things? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 11 | “Build with him”Wtf hope somebody found their wives and sent them a link/screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:57 PM |
| 158 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a house4 bedrooms sounds great. One bedroom, guest room, hobby room, storage room or a gaming room, little theatre. Possibilities are endless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 116 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.I was stalked, harassed , threatened daily for 3 months. Went to the police station after 3 months, Nothing happened. And the police officer who first showed up at the beginning of the stalking when I first called turned out to be a buddy of his so he took his side. He actually threatened to arrest me. I hate that someone who is suppose to protect us doesn’t do anything for us. This P.O.S. actually has the audacity to say hi to me if he happens to see me. The only thing that stopped his stalking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 42 | Ask a man why he loves youEx would constantly say how he loved me more (he didn’t/was cheating). And he’d list all the things he loved about me to prove it. It was actually a list of things that I did for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 51 | Men who constantly accuse you of cheating are probably cheaters.Ex accused me of cheating since the beginning of the relationship. Almost 3 years later found out he was cheating (online is what he admitted to) with everyone and anyone. Coworkers ,former classmates ,random girls on insta. He’d go on Omegle and touch himself ,pay for OF.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How Come Women Like Feminine Men But Men Don't Like Masculine Women?Bc femininity is thought to come with actual feelings and emotions, caring etc things you’d want in a partner as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Ever notice after a lifetime of loyal pampering, Pickmes are still abandoned by their sons in old age?A family friend is a pick me. The only son who has somewhat accepted her in wants her there to...be his mommy. Cook ,clean for him do his laundry. Bc his gf doesn’t do it. His gf doesn’t want kids and pick me family friend said that “there’s something wrong with women who don’t want kids. “ And when she moved Into the house it looked like “no woman lived there.” Thinks all her sons are amazing guys who treat women well. Only one seems okay. But his wife didn’t want her at their home so she had t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.My ex wouldn’t wash his face or brush his teeth for me in the mornings. As soon as I got up I would go do that. Then he’d be offended that I didn’t want to kiss his stanky mouth and crusty/oily face. And he wouldn’t rinse his mouth out with water before doing oral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 6 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.Or wash their hands after peeing. The excuses they make. If I ever find out a guy doesn’t wash his hands after peeing, immediately dumped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 17 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneTell anyone who asks why you’re leaving. . That way you’ll feel even more shame if you ever even try going back. Leave with your head held high. Don’t try to keep it under wrap unless advised by a lawyer, take your husband for all he has. You deserve it for dealing with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 19 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneIt’s not your prob if he is addicted. Don’t let him convince you that y’all need to go to therapy together or that he’ll change after therapy. Get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 15 | Scrote is jealous of his girlfriend’s dogs…Yeah taking them to every date and making him pay for dog steak is too much. And if she is living pay check to paycheck she should get that figured out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 19 | I'm so LuCkY ! My bf didn't leave me after I had his child ! The bar is in hell ! I feel sry for these young women .. ! Father leaving kids and mother is so common that she feels lucky ! ✋🙂Is it that Ha Ha HA trend? Idk if this is suppose to be a vid. But it’s frozen for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 52 | Wanting a man who is financially stable is not asking for too much. There is no honour in dating a man who is broke.I’ve learned that my libido ceases to exist (well at least when it comes to him) when a man is financially unstable. Maybe it’s a biological thing. Like why would I want to get pregnant by a guy who can’t provide for me or our potential child? I was STRESSED when I learned how unstable he was. Constantly thinking he’d go in and out of employment. He didn’t finish college and get a good stable job like I thought he was going to. Stopped being the hard worker I thought he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?Yeah he’d say “I own you.” And “this 🐱 belongs to me.” It was all very cringy. As I had lost my sex drive for him when he became an unemployed floor mattress creature playing video games all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 13 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?He was def porn sick. One of the reasons why I left him is bc he was touching himself on Omegle. And turns out he was paying for OF. Along a whole list of other reasons. Cheating (sexting) with anyone and everyone, triple texting girls on IG that wouldn’t even reply back etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:50 AM |
| 27 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?Yeah I def felt uncomfortable changing clothes in front of him. He’d just stop what he was doing to stare and ogle at me, made me feel really uncomfortable. And I would tell him it made me uncomfortable. He didn’t get why. I’d go in the closet or go to the bathroom to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | We have to help young women expect more.Sounds nice tbh. Especially if she likes going to parks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Sounds exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 107 | Is there anything about being picked like this to be proud of?Yeah I don’t get this like why would you admit you’re not your bfs preference? This one guy Ik will not shut up about how he loves white girls and his poor gf is a brown skinned Mexican/Hispanic. It’s not a good thing to break their pattern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 45 | About Bennifer and Latina Pickme CultureAs a Latina I def relate to you. I don’t think my mom would think of me as being successful in life unless I marry. Even if I reach my goal of retiring at an early age and having financial independence. And I’ve had an aunt say that women that don’t want children are defected and there’s something wrong with them. As if popping out some kids for a scrote is the purpose of a woman. Same aunt said that “we have to learn to forgive” (suggesting to get back together) when I dumped my cheating ex. Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:41 PM |
| 5 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??So he pays money to girls on OF but won’t throw a couple bucks her way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 12 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021It all depends on how you use it. If you have malicious, deceitful intent then yeah it can look bad to have them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseOne room is the bedroom the other a hobby room and the other a “focus” room/office. Duh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 83 | What the actual fuck. 🤡That’s so sad. I hope she divorces him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | A Scrote is trying to turn his partner into a single father.Wow..so he’s gonna leave the kids with their stepdad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 11 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’My (cheating) ex told me that I shouldn’t think women that stay are “weak and stupid” and tried to convince if I stay it’ll mean I’m “strong.” Really tried to convince me of it. He said “you were always the stronger one of us” etc. The wheels started turning in my head as I looked at him realizing how evil and manipulative he really was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 14 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’That’s exactly what happened to me. Idk how I even came across this place. But it was after I found out he cheated and I left. Learned so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | WarningNo. I was embarrassed about the whole situation (caught him cheating) so my family didn’t know about it til the next day or day after. They just thought he went somewhere. I was mostly thinking just having my brothers presence helped. If things went wrong. It’s not the first time he said “ no “to me telling him to get out. He’d say “no” , end up staying and I’d “get over it.” That time he finally ended up doing something I couldn’t get over (cheat). So I actually stuck with it and kicked him out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 52 | WarningI moved my ex into my house. Thank goodness my brother had moved in. Idk if he would have left if it was just me and my mom. Even so I still had to call my ex’s brother to come pick him up for him to leave. He literally said “no” when I told him to get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 69 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Even more if he knows she is sexually attracted to him and wants sex with him but still doesn’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:17 AM |
| 18 | My wallet doubles as a scrote detectorCan you give us some stories about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 13 | How far would your ex have gotten with you if you'd been following FDS principles then?No even the first date. I wouldn’t have gone out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 48 | Beware of Hidden Forms of ControlMy ex would make me feel like I couldn’t get off the phone when we first started dating. Even tho I would tell him I need to go to sleep bc i have work the next day. It’s like he didn’t care if I would wake up sleep deprived. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 26 | Girl proposes to her boyfriend and gets humiliated...Yes exactly my thoughts it caters to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:07 AM |
| 13 | Girl proposes to her boyfriend and gets humiliated...I was thinking of posting about this show. I’m glad he and Vanessa didn’t get back together and she got with someone successful who knew what he wanted. So he didn’t like Vanessa bc she was “too much”? But then he got with a girl who can provide him an even bigger lifestyle that Vanessa was working for? Ugh. He’d be just a baker if this other girl didn’t swoop in and help him build himself up. I thought this show was definitely made for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:04 AM |
| 13 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVMMy anxiety disappeared, skin got better, stopped waking up feeling cloudy, hair grew back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:54 AM |
| 10 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"How many women here have had an ex tell them that they’re going to off themselves when she finally leaves him? I had an ex do that. Ik he only said it to try to manipulate me into staying. Then later he sent me a text saying “I’m fine btw.” As if I asked. Trying to make me feel guilty for not reaching out to an emotionally/psychologically abusive/cheating ex partner. Guys love to try to blame you for their own f ups. Don’t ever think it’s your fault if they go through with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 42 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?Im 25. I’ve never sent a nude and don’t think I ever will. Not even for a husband. The thought of multiple guys (you’ll never know if it’ll last forever) having my pics and trading them around like Pokémon cards ain’t it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 10 | Another control freak father trying to control his ex with their child... And the law.“Lost a day”? If he drives out there to get him right after work they’ll be home before 10. So only lost an evening with him. He really felt the need to write this thing out looking for legal advice? He has the option of going to get him that day or getting him the next day. And he never mentioned in the actual post (besides title) how she’s “threatening him.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 29 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???Wtf is “casual carefree dating” ? Just be fwb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.My ex would ask me to hand him my credit card bc me paying would make him embarrassed. Going thru a drive thru I would keep it and make sure I handed it to the worker. Or picking up and order id tell him If I have to pay he has to come in there with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 33 | Tell me how you know your bf won't cheat on youMy ex likes superheroes movies, comics, watched Star Wars, and collected action figures. I’d sometimes walk in on him posing/playing with them. He cheated. With anyone and everyone. From work colleagues, to former classmates , past neighbor, OF, and even found the time to touch himself on OMEGLE. All that with us living together and working at the same place. He’d go to the gym too. They always find some way to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanAll guys that don’t like women their age are NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 11 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Felt same as her aunt with my ex. So much anxiety. Losing hair and on the verge of walking out of a job Bc of the anxiety build up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanIt’s always sad for me when I see a story of a woman taking in some homeless man and becoming his gf. Like you know he’s just using you right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 15 | Chronic illness, CPTSDI developed seb derm (skin thing) after I was being stalked and harassed daily by a man. As well as hair loss. I still deal with it over 4 yrs later. It’s gotten better but I don’t think it’ll go away. Hair gotten better but will lose when stressed which didn’t happen before. Seb derm got better but still have some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 11 | Came across this today I have no wordsEating tho? Like we can’t even eat without him being disgusted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 18 | Seriously?The “benefits” have to be necessary? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulLazy had to yell at him to get a job at one point Never wanted to take me anywhere. If out he’d complain about wanting to go home. Was cheap. Would complain about having to pay for a $10 meal. Ignored me/played too much video games or he’d be on his phone Cheater Addicted to porn/ Ik he paid for OF at least. Dirty/ wouldn’t want to brush his teeth/wash his face before kissing me in the morning/or wash his mouth out before going down on me. Mamas boy/man child. Made me feel like he wanted a mommy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 64 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumCopy and paste of my response in the other forum. As well as added more to it. If you get to the point were you pay for porn you gotta re-evaluate your life. That’s addiction. The free porn isn’t good enough or what? They scrolled thru all of it and said “nah.” I need more “better porn.” Guarantee he watches a lot more than what he told you. And if he made you pay for anything. And I mean anything at all throughout the relationship, while he was throwing money away at porn..wow. I’m glad you stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Low value man - cause of anxiety?Yes! My ex gave me so much anxiety. I remember we were driving home from work (we worked at the same place) and my anxiety was getting worse the closer we were getting to home. I didn’t understand, it should have gotten better (I thought anxiety was from work). And one week into a 2 week quarantine (stay at home) I was getting anxiety just laying in bed. I didn’t understand why as I’d been home for a week at that point and was just laying in bed trying to relax. Awhile after the breakup my anxie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Everything she said costs more than what the guy is doing. Dinner cost more than lunch,hell the movie snacks cost more than the tickets depending what you get , the suit can cost more than the shows. Unless they’re really nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Do we look young for our age or is it the patriarchy?I don’t think it’s a bad thing they’re asking your age. They want to know if you’re around the same age they are. I’d ask a guys age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:29 PM |
| 2 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.😂 Im responding like this from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 21 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021Kink shame the one who insists on being degraded or the one who does it to make their partner happy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 47 | Pushing buttons on purposeHe’s a coworker. Small area. Can’t do much about that. Besides moving areas in my job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Advice from my grandmaSounds like bad advice tbh. You gotta love her the same she loves you. | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, This is why we don't carry the entire weight of the conversation.Texting her is overwhelming but if she had sex with him the sex wouldn’t have been too much? Ok.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 14 | Another thing to vet for?I wouldn’t purposely pass gas in front of an SO and would want him to think the same way. Same thing with going to the bathroom in front of each other. Never gonna happen. Some things are private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 7 | "I'm an alpha male"I stay away from from any guy who thinks about that whole alpha/beta thing. What a sad toxic bunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 20 | It's a wonder I still date..I could feel a vein in my neck about to pop. Literally felt like someone was taking it and snapping it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:27 AM |
| 63 | Women are objectifying him as “potential boyfriend”, how dare they (and exxtra comment about FWB)Always want a woman too good for them? But they can’t handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:22 AM |
| 12 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.I remember when I went to the adult store with my ex (I bought a toy I thought would help our db) and he wanted me to buy him a fleshlight . And he wanted to go to the back area. And buy some DVDS. Even then I was irked by that. I told him no to all those things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 36 | Sigh... and people wonder why I won’t date a guy without a car, income and houseShe needs to stop paying for his (her) phone. Lock him out of the WiFi. Sell his gaming stuff (if she bought it). Change her car back over. Change her debit/credit cards. And if she can maybe just eat out (not buy groceries) That’ll hopefully make him leave. Or she can put a lock on the fridge and put dry goods in a locked pantry if she needs to). Starve him out. Or she can get some guys she knows to kick him out/change locks. As lazy as he is do y’all think he’s capable of going though the proc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 9 | How To Stop Hoping (For A Change Of Mind)These girls are just your friends. Stop calling it “friendzoned.” Either you’re really their friend or only keep them around in the hope of a romantic relationship. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 08:23 AM |
| 19 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!I did it back in May. Don’t have a cheating, lazy,narcissistic, emotionally and psychologically abusive man child in my home anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 55 | Transactional dates = I buy food, you give sexIf this is the way they feel they should get a prostitute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 45 | And it was so incredibly normalized. Still is, honestly.My moms friend was telling me about a woman she knows who got taken by a man in his 40s-50s when she was like 12 or something. The parents were ok with it. Married him, had his children and she “ loved”him..misses him now that he’s dead. Like.. she was saying it like nothing. That’s Mexico for you tf. I was like that’s pedophilia why is she saying it so casually? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 56 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.“Release his load” if a guy talks to me like that 🤮. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️If I made 400k I’d hire a maid ,shoot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 21 | 5 years of having her in his life and he has no scruples lying and withholding the state of his sexual health from her, possibly twice. what the fuck.Yeah I was thinking doesnt that mean he cheated? I’m not that educated on ways you can get it tho. But that was my first thought. Like why didn’t she leave when she was first diagnosed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 16 | LVMen treat their children like discardable practice rounds.I’d find out who she is and send the screenshot. Might as well burn that bridge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 22 | Is it just me or a lot of men aren't capable of shutting up. I see so many instances where these people, must say everything that comes to their mind. Creepy thoughts that should stay in their minds.A female coworker was telling me I had a hole in my work jacket. And a male coworker said “she’s got holes , she’s got 3 of them.” Like.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:00 PM |
| 87 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!Happened to me. He moved in coincidentally at the time he didn’t have a job. No job for 4 months. Played video games all day. Complained about having to make dinner. Even after he got a job he’d complain about having to pay for my cheap meal and didn’t want to make an effort in taking me out. Would talk to me in a baby voice and be lazy. Wouldn’t help around the house unless I asked. I thought there was something wrong with me. And was thinking of getting on hormones or something. There’s nothin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | My heart sank when I read this, poor woman 🙅🏼♀️She’s too young to deal with this, desperation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 10 | I'm sorry, what the fuck?What wipes are they talking about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 21 | No surprise that most of the men say that she should appreciate his sexual assault and most of the women disregard it as him just having a high sex drive...Sounds like me in my last relationship. Couldn’t change clothes without feeling like I’m getting leered at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 3 | She really predicted the future ...This reminds me of a tik tok I saw. A reaction vid. Supposedly in the vid an instagram model that showcases her butt was being harassed.And was yelling at some guys to stop looking at her butt. The guy reacting to the vid did a whole “this you?” Type clip with photos from her instagram. Pretty much saying Bc she chooses to make money off her butt she shouldn’t say anything to creeps irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 27 | Imagine being this Pornsick 🤢🤢I can’t believe they actually save/download it. I have zero porn saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else find men who are into and proud of violent things (such as street fighting) and then claiming it to be ‘alpha’ as a huge red flag?I would stay away from any guy who believes in the whole “Alpha” and “Beta” thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 23 | Age gap and forcing his religion on her 🤢 of course nobody in the comments asks why she’s dating a man ELEVEN years older 🤮Im surprised he’s gone 2 yrs w/o doing anything sexual with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 17 | Why do men expect conventionally unattractive women to be less confident?Yeah let us know OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 26 | PUA LVs Prove That Women Need FDS to Defend Ourselves Against ThisShe has a bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 9 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectUgh f that. He’s porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men fetishize and love the idea of "dad jokes" so much because it's proof of their social power/status- forcing other people to sit through uncomfortably unfunny jokes and fake laugh just to appease/not enrage the male head of householdI think dad jokes are just cheesy/funny jokes. Dad jokes aren’t meant to be sexual/gross. Unless you want to label everything that comes out of a guy with children a “dad joke.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 12 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfDid you do anything at all before the year was up? Oral or use hands etc? Makeout? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 15 | Guy continually pees in bathtub or shower instead of toilet, tries to blame adhd, gets angry at his girlfriend for calling him out, and doesn't even say sorry for it. Just things scrotes do.Prob addicted to video gaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 22 | Being a good husband is now called "simping"My male coworkers use that word like it’s a bad thing. Why give a negative connotation to being a good partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 127 | You hate to see it. Black men degrading their own kind.If he was an option he wouldn’t get picked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:08 PM |
| 50 | As a woman whose never given birthAnd some guys want to argue they were meant to spread their seed. No not you 😂 but Chad is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 13 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsBut wouldn’t you want them to know so you can see their reaction? If they get all creepy about it there’s your chance to ditch them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 29 | My good guy friend of many years confessed feelings for me, then I learned he is still chasing after his ex. When I asked why he would compromise our friendship if he still is obsessed with his ex and commented he has been acting unhappy lately...this was his response. Blocked/deleted.“And it’s winter” wtf if that suppose to mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 14 | Things a predator & future wife-beater would say...Wow he sounds absolute awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 5 | 🤢🤢🤢At least be a sugar baby and get some money out of it if you’re going to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 39 | I used to think gamer boyfriends are superior too... thanks to FDS I’m aware of how pathetic men that call themselves „gamer“ areMy ex was a bit of a gamer. He’d rather game than make an effort and take me out. Every time we went out , only once every 2 weeks bc i wanted to..he’d say “why do we have to go? Why can’t we stay home?.” He’d rather game than spend actual time with me and make some sort of effort. He wanted a mommy more than a gf and he still found time to cheat btw work, games,and gym. Was addicted to porn , one time he was playing video games and looking at a porn gif he saved at the same time. Kept a messy r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationWtf you didn’t even say anything that would make him give you that response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 162 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Yeah they just say “sorry” “I was mad.” I was stalked and harassed daily for 3 months. After he was finally done (after i got the police involved 3 times) he said “sorry I was mad.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 20 | This comic changed my lifeThis was me. I thought my hormones were f’in me up. And I was gonna go to a gyno and do all sorts of tests. There’s nothing wrong with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:04 AM |
| 13 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Wow. So only having a gf for easy access sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:54 AM |
| 9 | I was scrolling through a post discussing school stress management and happened along this little number. Absolutely appalling. I wouldn’t be surprised if this is how most men view their wives and children.They’re so disconnected from everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:48 AM |
| 12 | She seems so happy in this post but still I gotta say nah sis... have some higher standards for yourself please! Just sitting down watching someone play games for hours is lame.I think the only type of game id enjoy watching someone play would have to be a horror genre. Like outlast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 51 | She seems so happy in this post but still I gotta say nah sis... have some higher standards for yourself please! Just sitting down watching someone play games for hours is lame.This situation (to me) is so boring. Like why am I even there? He’s enjoying the game, I’m not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Please gods tell me this is fake #justboisontinderthingsMaybe he did it on purpose. For a fetish of his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.He mentioned his mom would always go along with what his dad said instead of speaking her mind. His had wasn’t affectionate, wants things very much his way. And he wanted her to have her own opinion and do things diff than the dad. Also she worked a lot so he calls 2 women mommy. His aunt is who took care of him while the mom was working. So yeah I think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:14 PM |
| 13 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.My ex would put on a baby voice sometimes. He’d say stuff like “take care of me mommy.” I hated being called mommy and he knew that. And he’d pout like a child and make these childlike grunting noises. I hated all of it. It was such a turn off. Like pls talk like a man. Omfg and I forgot he collected ( action) figures. He’d literally whine like a child and say “buy meeee a figureeeee” over and over sometimes. Which I’d say no to bc the ones I did buy ended up thrown into a bin and put in the clo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:30 AM |
| 14 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.If you’re exclusive with him wouldn’t you want to see how he reacts to it? Isn’t it better to know rather than the whole “ignorance is bliss.” If he Would switch up after learning you’re bi then why want him? If he’s HVM he won’t treat you any diff right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:25 AM |
| 12 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Looking for a hookup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:21 AM |
| 17 | Aww poor baby is insecureA sex doll?! She’s gotta throw him away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 7 | Men KNOW they aren’t treating you well and are bottom of the barrel LV but will PRAISE you for sticking with them through their BS — a LVM will calculate your worth over how much shit he can put you through and still have you stick by him 🤮Wtf how strong she is mentally and emotionally? When I found out my ex was cheating and was kicking him out he tried to make me change my mind. He said that me staying with him would mean I’m “strong” , “you were always the stronger one emotionally” 🤮. He knows I think it’s weak and stupid to stay. He’d say “why do you think like that?” “It’ll mean you’re strong”. The wheels were turning in my head .I couldn’t believe he was trying to pull that on me. I saw thru it. And stood firm in what I thou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 14 | Sad but true, gotta just laugh at this point 🤣Yup, this is me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 90 | A lot of men treat dating as transactional, if he’s looking for a transaction then maybe he should consider hiring a sexworker.I heard my ex’s brother say he’d rather pay for sex Bc it’s not guaranteed sex if he takes a girl out on a date. He felt entitled to sex Bc of a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 117 | Women hit a wall..??!All that money to take care of himself and he doesn’t. Shows extreme laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | There are creepy accounts following me and messaging me and I wonder if this happened to anyone else hereI had one guy pm me, no follows. Forgot what he said. I blocked him after I read the first message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 7 | What in the ever loving pickmeisha hell is this?Omfg this reminds me of a post out on Facebook by an old classmate. He put a pic up of some random girl laying in his bed in her panties to show it off i guess. He’s a pothead. No doubt some post sex pic or she’s just hanging out and smoking with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 26 | No 50/50 birthdayGirl your bf is almost 40 and he’s acting like that? He ain’t gonna change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:17 AM |
| 8 | No 50/50 birthday50/50 on your bday? I don’t even think pick mes would be okay with that. That’s so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:14 AM |
| 84 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeI heard a guy say he’d rather pay for sex than take a girl out on a date bc the sex isn’t guaranteed. That guy was my ex’s brother. I guess they both weren’t 💩. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:10 AM |
| 74 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansCongrats. My ex would complain about having to pay on dates (which I would always plan) but he also subscribed to only fans ( I found out). Good riddance to them both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 92 | This is grossI see so many “did you get picked?” Comments on tik tok. I was surprised to see them there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Y’all..........Honestly I don’t see what the prob is. Unless i missed something. He said he just doesn’t like that tattoo in particular. Which I get bc it’s pretty tacky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 132 | HVM may still end up screwing you over the minute they see you as “defiled” or impureThat was definitely not a HVM. He’d constantly accuse her of cheating and would pressure her into sex. Him viewing her getting raped as her having sex with guys is extremely twisted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed this distinct hypocrisy in men?Yes, my ex would accuse me of cheating on him throughout the entire relationship, turns out he was the one cheating. He’d call out Pervy, cheating men at work and pretend to be disgusted. When he was the one touching himself on Omegle, paying for only fans, sending pick of his D on Snapchat, Instagram, double or triple texting women that weren’t even interested in him. Full on pervert. He’d yell at me and say that I don’t love him and “men love harder” , he loves me more than I do etc. When he d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 04:20 PM |
| 10 | The Onion nails it again: "Man Feels Like Girlfriend Hasn't Been Putting Effort into His Appearance Lately."Reminds me of my ex he told me “I feel like I don’t put any effort Bc you don’t push me hard enough” while literally using a baby voice. Some men really do think like that article. It’s exhausting having to keep yourself and another person “up.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.Audience? Tf. I don’t go to a gym to put on a show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:47 AM |
| 39 | I will never prepare a man for his forever home that isn't with me.Definitely. If I’m going to train another guy let it be NOT a bf. Maybe an acquaintance or something where I can point them In the right direction. Like I’m not gonna have you treat me like 💩 and give someone else the best version of you after I trained you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 37 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?If it was completely anonymous, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 11 | Great article on the problem with men today... emotionally distant fathers who are not teaching their sons how to be menIm pretty sure my ex’s dad messed him up real good. Telling him to stop crying and calling him a homophobic slur if he was crying and overall being emotionally distant with him. Among other things. My ex told me even his dad apologized to him later and admitted he did a better job raising his other siblings. His mom always stays silent in things and just goes along with what his dad says. Which I found myself doing at the end of the relationship bc it wasn’t worth the argument that would follow.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 18 | LVM be likeMy LVM ex was against abortion, yet he said he wouldn’t date a girl with a kid. Make it make sense. You’re gonna force a girl to have a kid but then not want to date her bc of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Fun fact? Kellyanne Conway's daughter Claudia follows the FDS way.Idk who any of these people are. I thought the second pic was the same girl so I was confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 11 | My boyfriend seems like he's into bdsm, would this be a redflag?If he wants you to call him master he is not anti porn. Where else would he get this idea? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:28 PM |
| 15 | he could’ve asked for her number if he liked her....nah, sisA few times is okay. But every day. I’d feel irked like get your own gum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:02 PM |
| 38 | STDs, pregnancy, stealthing, the joys of hookupsThey think it’s just some little pill you take and don’t think of what it actually does to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 23 | Fun fact? Kellyanne Conway's daughter Claudia follows the FDS way.The second pic seems like something a pick me would say. Bc it’s something that she deems makes her better. Or no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you?No, he didn’t actually. Guess he couldn’t say anything to retort it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 5 | They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you?I’ve told my ex a couple of times (when frustrated with him) that he just wants a mom he can f*** (as his gf). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 54 | Oops....Do you know if there was a follow up to this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:06 AM |
| 15 | What is with this special breed of fuckboys?“Caressed them like a dog” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 19 | Why do men treat the woman they cheated on you with and left you for better?That doesn’t mean anything. Women who have been cheated on are getting pregnant by LVM and are getting married to them. Know the entire family etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:42 AM |
| 82 | Thoughts on not using Boyfriend/Girlfriend status - aka, no titles till Marriage (fiance status)?Idk if it’s a good idea. Bc the man might also think of himself as single until married which isn’t a good thing. He should be dedicated to you. And with no title there is no expectations from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 10 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡The images should be opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Went on my first date and got groped.Don’t ever be alone with him OP. He sounds like he’s capable of rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 8 | Continuously cautious of men who look for "young girls"Nah it’s disgusting. A 22 year old Ik said he’d date. 16 yr old if it was legal. I’m around his age and I wouldn’t even thinking about doing anything with a teen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 15 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.My anxiety plummeted after I broke up with my ex, felt absolute relief. It’s so peaceful and quiet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 36 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Im thinking maybe just bring some cash so you can drop it and leave instead of waiting for your card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 161 | Something doesn’t add upHe said he wasn’t turned on by what I wear around the house (I can’t be comfy in my own house?), while wearing a stained white t shirt and tattered pj bottoms. Add a gut to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:37 AM |
| 49 | Men know when men doThat’s disgusting. He should “accidentally” hit him with the umbrella causing him to fall down the escalator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 11 | Can a woman change a LVM into a HVM?People post the pretty side on social media. I see wedding pics in a joined Facebook profile knowing the man is cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 38 | She gets itAndddd..What does that say about guys? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha talking about the "normalization of abuse towards men" like men don't do worse things like rape, beat, torture, and murder women.You have to wonder what those men did to make these girls do these things. If it was amicable then they wouldn’t act vengeful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Another FDS queen by the sounds of itWhat was his reaction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 42 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Instead of sitting down with her and eating together he’s gonna eat it while playing games? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 78 | Life will test you the minute you decide to be a HVW.I resisted temptation from the workplace pretty boy/player he gets every girls number and sleeps with them. As much as I can feed his ego I opted not to. And girllllll did I want to , now that I’m single. He’s asked for a date and joked around with asking me to marry him, saying he can give me pretty babies everything 😂. He’s just looking for attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Went through my ex’s phone for the first time (and found out he was cheating) and he tried to shame me. He said “wow you went thru my phone? I can’t believe you violated my privacy like that.” Like yeah that’s the prob, and not him cheating 🙄. He got dumped right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 7 | Don't fall for it ladies!I think I kind of have this mentality but unfortunately I didn’t pull the trigger fast enough. I thought “I let him do what he wants so he can show me what type of guy he is.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | I love it when the trash takes itself outThey love the “Im human” excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 20 | In contrast to RBG’s husband, Justice Sotomayor ended up divorcing her husband because he feared he wouldn’t be as successful as her and that she didn’t need him.My LVM ex was extremely insecure that I didn’t need him and I could just kick him out whenever I wanted to. This guy would suggest marriage right away, putting our finances together and even putting his name on the title of my house(less than a year in). Things to try to level the playing field and to take control of me. Men want a person to need them Bc it means they could do whatever they want and their SO will stay. And their fragile masculinity just can’t take it if they’re not “needed.” Men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Are we all the same people experiencing the same thing?I introduced the ex to a washcloth for his privates. He was using the same loofah he’d use to clean his body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 150 | I love that I see more and more people finally exposing LVM’s. AND I LOVE IT when it’s other men. Yes tell THEMI can’t believe there are actually some guys that don’t wipe themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 31 | Pick-me defending her "HVM" 💀Her response sounded real personal. I thought you had personally insulted her , not just commented on a post (that wasn’t hers.) Was that all the interaction btw y’all? Did you say something to her before she wrote what she did? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:29 AM |
| 5 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Im doing good. Been 4 months. Not ready to date yet. Wanting to take some time for myself. Gonna work on myself and my financial goals. It’s given me freedom. I now feel like I wanna push the whole get married, buy a house have kids things a lot further down the line. Or maybe not even do that. As I never felt a strong urge to anyways. And instead achieve my dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 12 | Can We Please Not Normalize This...My ex would put his nasty sweat drenched socks right next to the laundry bin. ON THE CARPET. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 4 | Drop him girlI did that for 4 or so months with my ex. He was busy playing video games. I was so frustrated. I don’t know how she’s done it for 1.5 yrs. He was living with me tho. And with her i think he just moved in. So maybe the whole out of sight out of mind thing. Easier for her to deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:43 PM |
| 99 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenDamn 😂. I’m going to definitely use that. Enjoy your anal sex 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | One crazy good trick for avoiding the desire to text back a man who is being crappy or giving mixed signals/an LVM...I had my ex set to Narc/Ex, I finally blocked him a month after the breakup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!Have never taken a nude and will never. Not even to my future husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 38 | When you look back at your past self and remember how much you cried for a LVMEmbarrassment, shame and anger at the time wasted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 5 | On pickmes who shame other women who are against pornHmm true. I guess we just gotta wait and see if what they say is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 5 | You can’t save every pickme out thereI told a woman how her fiancé was cheating on her with everybody. (This man would also hit her , cuss at her, treat her like absolute trash.) I told her I’m just letting you know. I’m not telling you what to do, it’s your life and you do with it what you want. You deserve better. ( At the time she was pregnant with his kid.) She broke up with him for a little while. In a classic narc way he turned it around and told her if she wants him back to throw him a party. Idk if she did or not but later … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 12 | On pickmes who shame other women who are against pornWhat about pretending that you’re all into porn so they can let their guard down and tell you everything they’re into? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 99 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Men will take a woman out on a date and be disappointed if she doesn’t give them sex. I’ve heard a man say that he’d rather pay for a prostitute than take a woman out Bc she might not give him sex. So that and this post tells us what they think of women. The user who posted this has issues anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 16 | From Legend of Korra. I thought it fit. Lol.That manipulation they pull. With the whole threatening to commit suicide is f’ed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 50 | This is how a queen ends it with a cheating LVMWhy do they call us cold when we kick them out? Ex said the same thing to me. How unself aware of their own behavior can they be? Good on her that she was able to not give him the satisfaction of seeing her lose it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 35 | No.. just noYou’re welcome realizing how much you traumatized me made you a “ better” person . 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 156 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetThis post made me think about The whole “I pay dinner this time and you pay it next” why say thank you? It’ll be like you’re splitting the bill every time. Him paying it all for one dinner (You the next) just gives the illusion that he paid for your dinner. But really y’all are just always splitting the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 29 | Never be financially dependent on a manThis is the best thing to do. I’ve seen so many women stay bc they’re dependent on men. They put themselves through so much. My ex once told me how it made him insecure that I could leave him (kick him out) whenever I wanted bc i didnt “need” him (financially). Well his azzz got kicked to the curb. And the fact that I could do that is beautiful y’all. #kickhimout2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Smh....What sub is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:40 PM |
| 29 | Love this!IKR I would have taken it. And maybe put his breakfast gently on him so when he wakes up it falls on the floor. If I hadn’t ate already that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 4 | What are the chances?I never saw porn until I was 19-20. Bc we didn’t have Internet at home until I started paying for it. Glad I didn’t watch it growing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 60 | Men’s Porn AddictionsYeah and some of them have been watching it since they were 12–14. Like there’s nothing normal about a kid watching people having sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 6 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 88 | Men that try to argue your sexual preferencesEx kept bothering me about anal even when I gave him alllll the reasons why i didn’t want it. And I would even feel him trying to put it in or his thumbs in when he was behind me. I would have to keep telling him to stop. And he’d say “what If I accidentally put it in.” Like you mean what if you raped me and claimed it wasn’t rape, it was just an accident? I finally blew up on him and told him off one day. He said “sorry I didn’t know you felt that way, geez.” Like HOW COULD YOU NOT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 64 | How to stop being insecure about introducing guys to my pretty friend?Let him see her. Then you’ll know what he’s about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 44 | An infographic for anyone who asks what FDS is!Cute graphic. And yess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 39 | 30sDid you see that post on Aita saying he was thinking of lying about his age Bc he wanted women in their 20s? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What are some commonly held FDS talking points do you disagree with?Completely agree with you. It’s a good trial period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:27 PM |
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