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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsI will keep in mind for next time. Thank you for apologizing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | 10 Top Reasons why FDS is toxicThis is beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsI didn’t fail anything, I can’t even believe the direction this has taken , it’s so ridiculous. The background story is irrelevant, it was a play date with our daughters and toddlers who are best friends . I was vetting for fun with my new super powers. This is the least supportive this sub has ever been. I’m actually surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsThat was a typo. I WAS using FDS philosophy. I was simply trying to open up dialogue. That’s all. I’m proud of myself, past pickme would not have been so astute. And what ever situation I’m in whether friendship, boss, employee, it’s good to pay attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 5 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsNo it wasn’t a first date, we have been friends for several months, we both have young children. I wasn’t screening him as a potential partner, I was screening him with FDS in mind after following this sub for a while. Mostly for fun and experiment. This post wasn’t made for me to be judged, it was meant to open up dialogue in a positive way. Whoops I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 8 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumYou just convinced me that single for life with all my animals is the way to go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Where is the lie, tho?Dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 90 | His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flagsI’d like to start a conversation on how FDS has affected your screening process. This guy came across as HV for abut an hour, then little cracks started to show. His ex was only 21 when they got together, he was 11 years her senior. He was REALLY annoyed with being the breadwinner, although they had a daughter that she breastfed and stayed home with. He FREAKED out when my coffee was kicked over on his floor, this went against his whole laid back approach. This was the same day that he invited m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.Lovely, how long have you been together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:43 AM |
| 26 | He can make more money than you and still be a hobosexualAmen sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:44 AM |
| 36 | He can make more money than you and still be a hobosexualThis needs to be a thing, haven’t seen it before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:44 AM |
| 7 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Holy hell, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 17 | He asked to borrow moneyBesides the fact that dating a client is a HUGE, ginormous no-no in the industry. All of this is bad, I would ask for my money back or leave a bad review/ word of mouth. taking advantage of a woman just trying to take care of herself makes my blood boil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 27 | Leveling up this weekMe too sis, most of these subreddits are purely misogynistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 43 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.I don’t want to hate on this woman, something bad has obviously happened to her to make her this way. What an uncomfortable existence. John Mulaney tho, fuck that privileged bag of ducks. It’s on him for being a shit husband. His ex is free of that toxic waste | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 37 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Same girl, it’s different now and I understand why my mom remained single her whole life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 10 | He said he wanted a relationshipYou got some good experience, some more confirmation, a few good meals. He sucks and you did the right thing, you’re on the right path and don’t be hard on yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:35 AM |
| 18 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?To answer the question, yea, it makes me sad, angry, hopeless. I have a daughter and I absolutely dread the day she brings home some dude that's an absolute LVM I can smell from a mile away All I can do is live my best life, set an example, hold my standards high and hope that FDS philosophy or there like continues to spread, and I feel like it will. The younger generation seems promising | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 26 | Why are Jordan Peterson’s views problematic to FDS?crazy cat lady Can't wait.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 68 | 100%My ex Googled "ball and chain- buddha" when we were married with 2 kids. Then he spent 3 years single and completely miserable until he found his current girlfriend. She seems fine as a person, but I feel bad for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 12 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Barf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 17 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveThis is SO important | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:14 PM |
| 9 | The pink elephant in the room. No other animal in the world scares me more than man. When I open my front door, when I throw my garbage out at night, when I used to date, my ex husbands behaviors towards my kids. Crocodiles and snakes? Nah. Let's not sugarcoat the female experience anymoreThis!! My heart jumps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 33 | The pink elephant in the room. No other animal in the world scares me more than man. When I open my front door, when I throw my garbage out at night, when I used to date, my ex husbands behaviors towards my kids. Crocodiles and snakes? Nah. Let's not sugarcoat the female experience anymoreMy daughter dating one day, living alone, getting in an uber, getting into a nasty fight with a boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 17 | So close...Feminists! Sit this issue about feminism out! Sit down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Dropping truth bombs....I love this woman 👑This woman is fantastic, thank you for posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:06 AM |
| 15 | BruhWhAt Do I Do??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 36 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnI'm proud of you. You made the right decision. I married a p0rn addict. He couldn't have sex by the end of our marriage, that's not even the reason why we broke up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorHe...he took a PICTURE to SHOW off!! And could not move the cup!! Like he's great with how it is right now! Who applauded this man throughout his life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorLMFAOO that is hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:14 PM |
| 40 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI didnt even notice this at first, the more you look at the picture the absolutely more horrible it becomes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:15 AM |
| 17 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI laughed too hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:08 AM |
| 17 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorReminds me of a comment from my lv ex. "I cant wait to move out so I can stop doing dishes!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 62 | Should I stay with him after he lied to me?Oh boy. I'm sorry, I could not finish this. Please save yourself | /r/askFDS | 20/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 53 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorThankfully it was received about the same way, albeit, a bit more PC. How embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 128 | I don’t even know where to start.So just…let him die. Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 22 | Can I just leave this here? 🤣And permanently crooked front chronic masturbation and porn addiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Can I just leave this here? 🤣20 minutes! Nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 45 | She's a 35 year old mom, he's 58 grandp..dadThey mean "marrying backwards " as in younger. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:05 AM |
| 23 | Reminder: Your time is precious and valuableThis is THE mood. Love this so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 7 | QueenCurious as to why you dont like her? So far I've seen consistent goodness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Had to unfollow a friend todayThank you for appreciating the post. I was torn between FDS humor or pickme culture. So you understand me completely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with my bfCongrats, you spared yourself lifetime of grief | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻♀️Holy hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 24 | ..did anybody see this?Sexist, LMFAOO. No such thing, just 99.9% women with BAD experiences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 04:36 AM |
| 20 | Bar set too damn low. Help you with something? No thanks, that turns into lifetime years of servitudeScrotes are MAD, downvotes prominent. Keep it coming! It tickles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 15 | oop 👀Yea!! Where else will we get the truth HIStory patriarchy 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 71 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.Perfect introduction to acceptance of abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 229 | oop 👀Men would also be doing it, infiltrating the highest level and making the whole thing “prestigious”. Underrated comment. Cant believe I never thought about how true this is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:14 PM |
| 8 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️I have kids. Holy shit. I cant begin to imagine relying on a dude I've dated for a year for childcare and car buying. The audacity of scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 3 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsThe issue is that innocent people are put to death because they couldn't afford good representation. Poor and/ or black people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 8 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsProblem with death penalty is the classism and racism in the justice system. In it of itself, in a fair world. I'm all for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:04 PM |
| 8 | A supportive motherQueen energy right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 20 | How to spot a man faking mental illness to use it as a pass?How to handle it?How do you deal? Block and delete and move on. Yea, and honestly, there are plenty of men out there without anxiety and you deserve that. So... | /r/askFDS | 08/08/21 09:25 PM |
| 23 | 🤡🤡🤡How SAFE does this mfer need to be? What in the world is happening? And how do you have HOURS to sit when y'all have kids?!! I have so many follow up questions!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:57 AM |
| 22 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Aaaaannnd block and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Quick safety tips following the banIf you leave your DM's on, turn it into a drinking game. With water ofc :D Queen shit right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 36 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.This stuck with me like woah! But it makes perfect sense. I lost it a few times in public as reactionary abuse has set in. I didn't care how embarrassing it was at the moment, onlynafter. He was in control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else not dating becauseI think given the deep seeded misogyny, generations of abuse, we should not be dating anyway. I realize that this is a sub that encourages getting out there. But self improvement and leveling up is so much more rewarding, not to mention safer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 27 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaYea, this. Low effort dates are easily canceled last minute. She wasted time she wont get back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 7 | I demand equality of experience in sex. Sex rule: I COME FIRST because of biological differencesYassin queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 30 | I demand equality of experience in sex. Sex rule: I COME FIRST because of biological differencesMy narcissist ex was shit, but even he followed this rule. He would usually give me a second one after he came too. If an unempathic dick can do this, most dudes can as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:30 PM |
| 21 | Uh oh even the country gals are going FDS. These scrotes are really in trouble now! I love it.I'm so happy right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 07:46 PM |
| 41 | Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂Goes to show you that his terrible personality is what got him to this bitter and angry state | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 12 | The answer to my question seems like it should be obvious, but truly I‘m struggling…Thank you for looking out for our fellow sisters. Just need to say it. The world needs more of you | /r/askFDS | 30/07/21 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningThank you so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 24 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningI was stuck because we had a baby. Then he decided he doesnt need to work or do anything else and became this dude in my kitchen that wont leave. Having a kid is the only reason leaving someone becomes complicated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 26 | How will men in a relationship try to seek other womens attention/validation without it qualifying as cheating?Watch out for that one person he conveniently is in touch with whenever you're arguing. Also that girl who is "family" | /r/askFDS | 28/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 11 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanWhen men call women narcissists..umm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | woman calmly dumps and kicks out cheating bf (as she should)Saving this comment, this is my life with this arse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"I fell for this dumb twin flame shit. It's cloaked narcissistic abuse. Don't fall for this nonsense. Love being in love, is an action. A verb. Not at first sight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:35 AM |
| 4 | I feel like a lot of outsiders say we do not care about Mental health.Shit, my ex caused my mental health issues. Slowly regaining my strength | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:17 AM |
| 14 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorI love all of this. Following | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:14 AM |
| 46 | The clearest display of “if he wanted to, he would” that I’ve ever experiencedYea, also not holding on to someone who is HV even when you're not compatible means you are a HVW. Thanks for the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 6 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Can I tell him? Please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 07:29 PM |
| 33 | His good qualities firstAccurate. Also the "feeling " of being fair. And not slamming the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:05 AM |
| 39 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”He's also significantly older | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Yeah, that's a hard passMy god. Those scams are older than me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:45 PM |
| 12 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.This should be in ever pamphlet of life as a human being. It's 1000% on point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 29 | Someone inviting you back to their place on first date = automatic LVM?It was. You did the right thing | /r/askFDS | 17/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 13 | The new dating scam.This is ape crazy town. We put ourselves in danger by meeting these men and they can't pay for a fking meal?! It's good to get used to being uncomfortable when LVM rely on it. I would have spoken up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 9 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himAw! If I could send you a badge or a prize I would. You are a queen! Argh. I adore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 24 | Can you imagine being a SPICE GIRL and still having to wait 21 years for him to make up his mind🤦🏻♀️Yeah, I would not, one failed marriage is plenty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 91 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Get cameras. Enroll in some self defense courses. Carry weapons. Small ones that are easily accessible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 21 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.Thanks for the reminder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:11 AM |
| 10 | What are some tell-tale/subtle signs of a LV/NV man “warming” you up to physical abuse?I would read or audible "why does he do that " I think it should be mandatory literature for all woman. He touches on some of the subtle ways in which they get their claws in you, then gaslight you until you can't see what's real and what's not. For me it was how quickly he fell in love and pushed for unprotected sex. Our entire relationship was him strong arming me into submission. I ended up in really bad shape financially and emotionally. It's going to take years for me to find my strength ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 84 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”They never ever are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingThe amount of support here is insane! You are heard and your feelings are valid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingThe humiliation is one I didnt mention but is definitely on the forefront of emotions for sure. BUT at least we're here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:42 AM |
| 54 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingFDS community is the most wholesome and amazing! Thank you for being here and being QUEENS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 18 | What would you do?You didnt make a mistake, LDR don't work | /r/askFDS | 06/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Eye-OpeneningAlso this is the only space where you will be seen and heard for a variety of different reasons. Whether traumatic break up, leveling up, respectful debates. FDS covers it all with real support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:58 AM |
| 15 | Eye-OpeneningHer boyfriend was like 200 years older than her..lol. I still love the show, but looking at it now, oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”I am DYING! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:32 AM |
| 5 | FDS to the rescue!Yes, I have FINALLY learned after all my pickme years that this was my mistake. Internalized, prove myself worthy by being amazing and going above and beyond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | FDS to the rescue!ego and control issues and expect to be “deferred to” by default Don't I know it...now, unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 7 | FDS to the rescue!I dated a man 15 years older than me and was still his mommy. Men will be boys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | FDS to the rescue!Good for you sis, hope he keeps it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 15 | FDS to the rescue!Yeah this! I AM NEVER taking care of a man the way I do my kiddos. Ever, ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meThis can't be serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.Fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guy🤢 bottles and leaving them around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:18 AM |
| 11 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyTruth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 16 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo man who lives dishes all day in the sink. Drops boxers in the middle of the floor, waits till the last minute with dead line tasks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 5 | The tenets of FDS don't function ONLY to keep parasitic LVM and LVW at a distance. The major reason to enforce boundaries, focus on self improvement, and appreciate one's worth is to become the person YOU want to be.Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 31 | if he wanted to he wouldThis was my FIRST thought. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 60 | Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰A HVM would think about these things, like women and moms have to. But I definitely agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 37 | Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰It's more than a women's mistake, it's society, an epidemic. It's expected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:08 PM |
| 24 | Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰As true today as it was 100 years ago. We make less, giving up years to take care of a household makes us vulnerable. Be smart. Put yourself FIRST always. Most marriages end in divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Ouch. Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Queen Spitting Facts Once Again😂🤩I don't trust anything that allows your pet to become obese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 11 | Pickmeisha mothers picked apart brilliantly by tiktoker on how mummys boys are created by patriarchy I. E husbands not fulfilling their duty of care to their partners. The cycle is vicious and ongoingYes. Without a doubt. Generations of shitty men raised by single mothers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short StorySaving...thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 16 | Why do other women get so angry at us? Because patriarchy is a religion, and we are heretics.They're mad because they are scared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:13 AM |
| 5 | I can’t unsee this now…Whaaa?! Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 14 | Trust He SucksRight time and right place. THANK you for FINALLY validating my feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?Finish my education, work towards becoming a veterinarian. Stay at home and save money. WAIT to have kids and probably never get married. Spend more time with my dad who passed away too early. Read more, work out more. Never start drinking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.I HONESTLY thought she was queer, this is disappointing af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.PLENTY of those in Hollywood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 23 | Her exboyfriend recorded them having sex and showed his friends. The police didn't do anything about it so she patiently waited for him to finish his masters thesis then she deleted it off of her laptopThis could have ended violent. I glad she's ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Knock it tf off, pickmeisha 🤡Sit down lady! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 106 | Don't give a single fuck about men attempting to fuck up your mind so they can fuck you. Konmari the cheap Scrotties. Make them pay up and work hard for the priviledge of being with you 💅high value men do not give a fuckkkkkk because they don’t need to lower women’s standards to have relationships with us. Underrated comment!!!! They do NOT and they UNDERSTAND!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 44 | Don't give a single fuck about men attempting to fuck up your mind so they can fuck you. Konmari the cheap Scrotties. Make them pay up and work hard for the priviledge of being with you 💅This is the MOOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 42 | So true. 😍 👑I'm glad you recognize what shit behavior this is. STOP doing nice things that aren't reciprocated. You are better, deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 5 | NEVER AGAIN will I...Gamers, nope, alongside gamblers, Facebook addicts, general on their phones all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 11 | NEVER AGAIN will I...You set the tone for the entire relationship by taking the initial initiatives. Men step down and allow you to do all the work from then on. No joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:07 PM |
| 46 | NEVER AGAIN will I...WALKING AHEAD! Whenever I see it, I already know what it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 10 | NEVER AGAIN will I...ALL those!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 35 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻Not to mention that it can take time to figure out a routine, for me it was eyebrows, hair, how to dress for my figure. I'm 36 and have zero concerns about aging. My kids are no longer babies and I have more time to focus on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Leaving the narcissistI have actually, thank you for sharing anyway. The main issue really is just doing it. I need strength | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Leaving the narcissistI love my fish too. Thank you so so much for your response and for sharing your experience. I am so tired and skin and bones at this point. I am depressed and depleted. I cant imagine the packing and driving | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 94 | That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that.I would never trust this arrangement, unless I had guaranteed alimony and savings, and a side gig. But I'm happy they're happy and I hope it stays happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 130 | That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that.It is a luxury! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 13 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menHe didnt dump you sis, and you already ended it. | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 8 | My Pickme past thoughts 🤦♀️ The shaaaammmmmme.Check, check. Check. It didn't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 16 | To tell or not to tell: waiting until marriageDefinitely, it's more important to protect yourself from men who thrive on taking virginities. They probably would wait 3 months then flip on you. | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 74 | “You seem expensive”I've been the cheap fuck for YEARS, ended up being the sole financial provider, even then I spent $30 on my hair, suddenly I was high maintenance. Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Don't over-complicate your relationships: if a relationship is not making you feel good majority of the time, it's time to leave.But, but, but. Have you tried CoMmUnIcAtInG? 🤢 nah son, that's over with now, I am NEVER ignoring my gut again. No second chances on respect or pushing boundaries. I don't care if he is stressed, sick or his grandma is dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Should I cut this friend off? Is she a secret hater/jealous/envious?Yes, you should cut her off. I have friends who are various sizes and body types. They're all beautiful to me and I've never felt the need to comment on their bodies | /r/askFDS | 31/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 12 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalTrue story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:31 AM |
| 17 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?So if a man says his love language is touch, he probably means he gets an addictive, anxious obsessive high from chasing an increasingly creeped out woman who never gets reassured that she's enough. And you won't get your love language in return, his mind is filled with getting his next fix. No, he just means getting laid....that is it. If it were physical touch, like a cuddle, a back rub etc. I'd be different. You will NEVER hear a man on reddit complaining about lack of hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:33 AM |
| 25 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?Physical touch = sex. Not foot rubs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 29 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?Yup. Pizza delivery = sex. No? Something not right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 61 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?He gets prime vagina, he does the dishes once a day. FAIR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:29 PM |
| 40 | What do you do when you remember your ex?Cringe and thank heaven I leveled up | /r/askFDS | 29/05/21 10:25 PM |
| 89 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?It's nonsense. Basically how much do I have to do in order to get laid. That's the communication aspect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 208 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?As woman we're programmed, brainwashed to become little servants for men. It should not come as a surprise that most women would fall into this "love language " category, read trap. Men being thirsty constantly in need of validation. Women on the other hand typically being the primary caregiver, get touched out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 6 | How early is too early?Personally I think you're too young for marriage. I got married at 22, divorced by 32. I am fundamentally a different person at 36. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 7 | If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you.You and me both, we didn't know any different, but we do now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:33 AM |
| 15 | And they aren’t treated well either!As you can see in the comments, not everyone is fully aware of the woven in misogyny. I think obvious things are important to talk about too. God knows they beat us in the head on the other end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 116 | And they aren’t treated well either!Predators, normalizing predatory behaviors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 25 | And they aren’t treated well either!The misogyny has been woven in from biblical times and made it's way into our social norms. King of Queens, everybody loves raymond, According to Jim was the worst offender. Remember Shallow Hal?! Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Is having a male therapist a no?You do what works best for your mental health. That's it. Some people are really good at what they do but may not be awesome people irl. | /r/askFDS | 23/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 10 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."What in the world is this magic and where do I find more of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘Cut to. People encouraging "communicating " because he's probably "depressed " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantSaving for future pick me talks. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 5 | I hate this argument exactly for this reason...My greatest fucking fear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 9 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."Saving... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:53 AM |
| 14 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringAin't that the damn truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Banned from other subs just for being a member of FDS?Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 53 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.Funny thing is most women agree but will still act like they dont irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Oh YeAh tOtS rElAtECool. Easy to deal with, laid back and let's not forget the cheap dates! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 10 | Introduced FDS principles to friend. Resulted in a fight - need some insight!Yeah Probably because she feels like what she's doing now is working for her, Unfortunately when she ends up in a marriage with kids and has to beg for anything more than bare minimum, she may think about this and have to start from scratch | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | ⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Me! Me! Pick me! Keep picking me hubby!! I’ll treat us both 🙋🏻♀️and you’ll never have to feel bad!I can't even read this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 17 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Just found out my manipulative, abusive ex still follows me on Spotify and apparently there is no way to block him or make him unfollow me.Yeah this | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | One of the few men I like (from a distance anyway)I'm sure he's banking at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:42 AM |
| 66 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂Yes queens, we're 50% of the population. Take NO shit. We got your backs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 26 | How long do you wait for a guy to get tested for STDs until it's a red flag?All this!!!!! | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can’t trust men anymore and I won’t trust one that says he loves meI love your sentiment. But theres more to life than waiting for the guy thats waiting for you. This is not a good mentality. There might not be a person for you. Creating a community of people who love you, being happy on your own, working on yourself. Building a skillset, developing natural talent. You cant loose what you've worked for | /r/askFDS | 07/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Can attest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 30 | This is why you shouldn’t take other peoples opinions about your body seriously.Truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:08 PM |
| 27 | 🎶If he touches me (without consent) then I will taze his ass⚡I couldn't get one in my former major city, isn't that something?! I ordered and paid for a mace and taser for my safety. And got refunded. Now I have 2 tasers and a adorable mace I ordered on Amazon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 3 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to women"Studies "...ehm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingEspecially because you will depend on LV relationships in order to not be alone. It's really a terrible way to live. Kudos for leveling up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 5 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingI exhaled in relief reading your reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 8 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingI'm afraid you're not really understand what's happening here and are in the wrong sub culture in reddit. I wish you luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 12 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingI'm sorry you feel this way. I don't feel a void without my partner or my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 19 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingAlready received red pill scrotes messaging me, trying to convince themselves that women cant be happy single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Males pretending to be women so they can get an FDS Newbie flair trying not to mansplain so they don’t get caughtThat's so pathetic. Like, why? Are they masochistic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 46 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!I hope this gets pinned and stays on the first page | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 41 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!This is everything and makes me super happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 7 | If he wanted to, he would.I'm so happy for her. I hope he performs just as well on a regular basis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:45 AM |
| 42 | I'm leaving my unfulfilling relationship and couldn't be more excited. Thank you all.You're life is about to explode with happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Oh my freaking god, this gives me nightmares | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 29 | Where’s the ring, sis?I would never get married or live with another man again, but that's just me. I don't trust any man to put myself in such a vulnerable position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 42 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Yup! My body hated him. Oh wow, my ex messed up my vagina so bad the one and only time I let him near my butt. He kept pressing for it in the future, by then I was on this sub and I started calling out his shit behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 72 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Anxiety, depression and panic attacks. Never had before. Oh! Constant yeast infections which led to a kidney infection that I honestly thought would kill me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Why so many women dont have orgasms or sexual satisfaction in relationshipsYup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Preach!Abuse, manipulation, and gaslighting..ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:42 AM |
| 8 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckOut there, doing the good work 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 9 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herHoly fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to myself and others: Just focus on yourself honey.I say avoid male relationship, period. I made mistakes at 34 that I made at 21. As long as the patriarchy stands it will not be an even battlefield | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:37 AM |
| 44 | Thought of you immediatelyHeck yaas Queen. Together we stand as a whole. The patriarchy needs to divide us in order to conquer. They don't know who they're messing with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationshipsThis is freaking groundbreaking liberation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Came across this today I have no wordsHa ha ha, that's why you got your flesh light dude. No body wants you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:19 AM |
| 8 | I love it when men recognise LVM!LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 43 | HOW IS SHE NOT EMBARRASSED?!?OMGGGGGNope nope nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 9 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.Me too, and I've seen a ton of women of all sizes without. I fking love it. I wear sports bra when working out, and sometimes brallete, but then day of uncomfortable wire bras?? Nope, ever ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | I’m waiting until someone tells her that if a man is willing to rape a woman he wouldn’t care what her underwear says....and that rapists know exactly what they’re doing. Also yes that is a woman victim blaming in the comments.This makes me WAY angrier than I thought it would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Seriously?Who made this man child think he can be...this?? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.This woman is my hero | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:55 AM |
| 14 | Don't let men play stupid.Also, telling the scrote that he's lazy and entitled will get you nowhere. Get out when you can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 48 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.I always had interests. But it was really fucking hard to do much of anything when I was raising a baby, going to school full time, working and walking the dog. My ex has tons of time for his hobbies. I didnt have "passion " like he did. Bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | I'm relapsing into pickmedom.Love all of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 15 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.Also ugh, he sounds a toddler throwing a tantrum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | ItS A jOkE!I dunno, I'm 36 and can't rationalize it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | China orders man to pay wife for houseworkIt ended up being like $128 a month. Completely pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | If this isn't Queen Energy I don't know what is! Makes me happy to see a woman on tiktok showing what it means to be a HVW 👑Loved it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!The reality of this if it was dark and she was alone. Omg, I can't.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 54 | To my younger selfAre we shitting on our sisters now?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 19 | This needs to be an actual song I can blast in my car. 👑Daymmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:12 AM |
| 22 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.This! ^ men love to downplay our sexuality, but horniness will lead us a stray. Flick it before you go out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 54 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮Dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Flush that scrote down the toilet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:46 AM |
| 12 | Why being single is preferable over dating for many women- especially when unlearning pickme behaviours.My god. Ladies! What are these scrotes gonna do with this emergence of women realizing their power! This has me cracking up!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 15 | One time a man I was dating sent me this “joke” so I blocked him. Did I save my own life? Potentially.MEN WILL TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE! Listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 6 | “Traditional” relationshipsAnd usually women are doing both, so ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 92 | Choose you every time - until it’s not even a question in your mindI'm *slightly * less LVM, choose me, otherwise you'll be alone..lol oh, hard choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 5 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerThis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:26 AM |
| 22 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!6 inches in girth. I'm dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 13 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮Ugh!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 28 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Vaginas differ as much as penises. Taste is personal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 7 | 🍆💦🛡🙅♀️Oh my ex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 9 | Just bought myself this 800$ designer necklace, because I wanted to treat myself. Women don't need men to buy them nice things, we can do that for ourselves. Just another lie by the patriarchy that women are gold diggers. I am perfectly capable of making my own money.This is genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 4 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.Bugged me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 54 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?I've been watching criminal minds and seriously nine out of ten sick twisted criminals are men. Why? Because it reflects the reality that most assaults and murders are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 6 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.For real, inspiring af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 12:51 AM |
| 7 | I broke up with my boyfriend todayProud of you. You did the right thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 6 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.Plus buddy, you ain't worth messing up my ph balance. I work hard on that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Another reminderDaym, love the energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 60 | This is nice.I think she's a high value woman though. Most women aren't aware that men should act like basic adults | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesTHIS ^ no sex, rejection = abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 5 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesWe're harmful to all men who defend the patriarchy. Who benefit from keeping women beneath them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 9 | NopeI kNoW He StReEsEd oUt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 8 | There is no Dream GirlNuff said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I haven't had a single healthy/ beneficial male relationship in my life...ever❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | I haven't had a single healthy/ beneficial male relationship in my life...everGah, I appreciate you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | I haven't had a single healthy/ beneficial male relationship in my life...everSending love. I'm sorry too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | I haven't had a single healthy/ beneficial male relationship in my life...everThank you so much for your reply. I wasn't trying to come across as feeling sorry for myself. Just a honest review of the pathetic standard of life for women versus pathetically low performance for men. My life is good, it's good because I carved it out and built it up. And I have doubt I will thrive. No to meet someone who can hangout on my level. Unfortunately I'm not gay so maybe just my queen friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.Oh, where can I find this episode? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 11 | Reminder: If you see LVM acting right after they've acted wrong with you, THOSE MEN ARE STILL LVM.This is fucking phenomenal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:06 AM |
| 12 | How I’m feeling getting out of a six year relationship, relieved I didn’t marry him before he showed his true self (captioned video)Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:04 AM |
| 43 | A HVM is gentle towards women. Not just someone who “can be” gentle every now and then, but someone who is gentle towards you and all women ALL THE TIME.This make makes me so sad. Cant believe I allowed myself to be in such a shitty relationship for so long | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:11 AM |
| 35 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅At least we're all in this together ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 47 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅I'm dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 11 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅Aw shoot. That hit HARD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsYES! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 47 | I want girls and young women everywhere to experience this epiphany!Underrated comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 8 | I want girls and young women everywhere to experience this epiphany!Yes!!! Women supporting women! Girls supporting girls! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsYour username is fantastic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationships🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsCONGRATULATIONS! Me too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsFantastic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 22 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsHeck yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueOmg! Hit a fucking nerve | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 116 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.OUR SISTER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:17 AM |
| 13 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Awwwww! Yaaaaas!! Nearly screamed at the top of my lungs. Mothers and wifes next scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 64 | Damn straightOk but calling women "female" makes me cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:03 PM |
| 13 | boy BYEThis right here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Coming out of this relationship. It's been hellish. Listen to men who call their exes "crazy "You're a queen mama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 14 | Coming out of this relationship. It's been hellish. Listen to men who call their exes "crazy "Are you me?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 41 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!I've NEVER and I mean NEVER had a man contribute towards anything good in my life. It's been 18 years or so since I started dating. I've been in 2 long term relationships. Scrotes, porn addicts, complacent, lazy, broke, underperforming, selfish, self serving, insecure and controlling. I am happy alone, anything else is a lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 18 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”I know plenty of women who don't judge based on scrotes parental role. Thank you for calling him out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 18 | Equip yourself with facts so men can’t bully you at work/dating/etc.This is EVERYTHING, this woman is a genuine queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 43 | And this is why men and woman CANNOT be friends. Ever. They're just in the cut waitingWithout a doubt, and even if his head game is decent he's without a doubt expecting intercourse. That's besides the grossness of faking friendship for sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 3 | You decide who contributes value to your life 🙌Me too!!!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 12 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterHe's a fucking narcissist. That's the problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterOh, without a doubt. No way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterOh, no abuse! Hes a charmer, haha! Imagine being friends with this woman? Omg I would hate her husband with a passion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 18 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterI belong to both as well. And I'm aware that there are ton of women here who mock breakingmoms but I was a breakingmom once and finding this sub changed everything for me. I love all my sisters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 11 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterI am not subscribed and was if fact banned for joining FDS sub. Which was really upsetting. That sub needs this sub. They should cross reference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 48 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much better"What a charmer" that's the worst she can say about this selfish egotistic piece of crap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Saw this in one of my local groups. Most of the comments were telling her to get a divorce lawyer for Christmas.Surprise him with divorce papers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 3 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!Fucking yes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 11 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.Hell yea, raising a FDS children over here. Detecting red flags could save your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 0 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!Give them time... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 5 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!I went through the same process in my brain, like. Phew, no argument ensued. But sis, he's a fucking adult. The comments were equally depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | 😂😂LMFAOO tell that to my insanely active libido | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!I mean I'm upvoting cause it's funny, but in reality this is abusive behavior and you don't owe anyone anything, not even an explanation, a smile, nothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Lol!!! Peak at 24!!! Hahaha!!! Oh boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:36 AM |
| 11 | This made me chuckleYup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 8 | i felt this one deep within my soulUgh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:23 AM |
| 27 | The older man conMy ex is 50. They dont get "better with age" LVM are just that, and they've been that way since the day 1. I dont think it's a lost cause, being 35 and never married is not a red flag in it of itself. Look at the whole picture always. I was divorced after several years of marriage when aged 21 to 33. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 24 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresMy former friend Japanese housewife, who served rice and stood by waiting for instruction, making lunches, homeschooling 3 kids. Made cute Instagram sandwiches. Well now, shes ended up cheating on her husband twice. Got pregnant twice, kept one. With a pimp baby daddy who tortured her physically and emotionally for years, only to end up in a shelter. And continue getting tortured in court. HORRIBLE. Dont be a pickme. Please know your worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | men knowWe know too, not just waiting for them to choose us. Most men are not worthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Mic drop.Me as well. I was mom #2 and became a mom the rest of my life, well into having my own kids and realizing I've never had a childhood, fun, carefree life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 9 | PertinentStory of my life. Moved out at 17. Convinced I was in love. Had to work, GED program and then college, pay rent, bills, tuition. Hard way to live. Learned a lot but I honestly could have done so much better for myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Sad reality checkIntimated af by the power and the need to dehumanize us is real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 100 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Every damn day!! I am peaking sexually! And no one deserves me! Argh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Happy Holidays! 😜Why the trees have to suffer, just dump the chump | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Please, share your HVM stories/ relationshipsAnd porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:43 AM |
| 10 | TriggeredOmg hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 11 | Please, share your HVM stories/ relationshipsThank you so much for taking the time to respond with such indepthness. Made me very happy to read. The STD screening is a big one. I have the same rule but had to drag him with me to planned parenthood and was pressured HARD to have unprotected sex before I felt ready. I had a horrible reaction to the condom, and freaked out. Latex allergy. Which I knew I had but forgot. He used that as an excuse to why I should not have pushed the condom issue. Horrible relationship ensued. I am elated for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:47 AM |
| 41 | Please, share your HVM stories/ relationshipsInspirational af. Well done queen. We got one here! Anymore?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themHappened, how embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:10 AM |
| 76 | Sad but true, gotta just laugh at this point 🤣Ugh, I know all those terms now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:14 AM |
| 36 | DID SHE LIE?!Been there. Still owes me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 13 | DID SHE LIE?!This Is painfully accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 19 | Had a laugh. Thank god my lululemon date days are over!!Ahmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:36 AM |
| 7 | Apex Redditor... 😂 #goldYes, murder and rape would be nonnegotiable. Also you sound like you've overcome a lot. And I think you're incredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 11:34 PM |
| 46 | Apex Redditor... 😂 #goldHow exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 90 | Apex Redditor... 😂 #goldSo are fleshlights | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 39 | Apex Redditor... 😂 #goldMmm. To a certain degree. Your DNA and upbringing. Opportunities, race, class, mental health issues has ton of say in someone's life. Having said that, there are certain issues that are non negotiable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:45 PM |
| 11 | Save yourselves "men"Hopefully he'll never find out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 9 | Save yourselves "men"Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Instagram scam?Me too!! Said he was good at sex! LMFAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 12 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyIt's the small dick energy, they're scared of bigger men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:57 AM |
| 18 | BasicallyChuckle chuckle chuckle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 4 | The “Arrangement” 🤣Damnit...I don't fit the bill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Please never compromise your education and career for a guyThank you sister. I am fortunate in many ways, and will never give up. But days are hard and painful. I am really mad at myself for not following my instincts to run. But life goes on, thankful for my kids and my awareness to change things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:02 PM |
| 26 | Has anyone thought they were an obsessive overthinker and extremely anxious (not to undermine those with anxiety) but it was just because you were in a relationship with a LVMCurrently, yes, he is trying to convince me that I have borderline personality disorder. It's a miserable head fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:21 PM |
| 29 | Please never compromise your education and career for a guyThis is the importance of having a father in your life. I grew up without one and have made all the mistakes because of my daddy issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:10 PM |
| 9 | Please never compromise your education and career for a guyTruth!! I stopped going to high school at 17 because this guy kept me up at night, 2 am, he was 21. I got my GED and proceeded to go to college and work while he smoked cigarettes, "made music ", and got drunk. I had a baby too young and wasted away my potential to be a doctor, or a veterinarian which was my dream. I'm working my ass off and have leveled up A LOT but I'm a single mom and no where near where I should be in life. All for a bottom level creeper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 11 | He deleted his video afterwards.Ha ha hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Let us treat our wives as our motherWe can have exceptions for hospital and general emergencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:08 AM |
| 8 | WHAT THE ACTUAL F**K IS WRONG WITH MENYaaaas kweeeen! You rock | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Let us treat our wives as our motherExactly, read minds and be of service, even when not explicitly straightforward about what he wants. So now we're not only doing all the childcare, bringing home a check, faking orgasms, and organizing life in general, but have to ducking read minds and be spontaneously generous. Ugh. Just ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Let us treat our wives as our motherThis exactly. Also the apple juice in particular, just reminds me too much of my 6 year old, except she'd ask and be straightforward | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Let us treat our wives as our motherI LoVe My Mo...I MeAn mY WiFe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Let us treat our wives as our motherI'm sorry, that sucks. Glad he's your ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 20 | Never ever, ever, ever.Stockholm syndrome. Tons of fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Take my word for it, because I couldn't take your's...This is absolutely everything I needed to hear right now. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:44 AM |
| 3 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityGod damn that's accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 6 | This is grosshOw RoMaNtIc! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upLol then he'll post this in nicegirls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:06 AM |
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