His ex is 11 years younger, and other red flags

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-11T03:23:46+00:00

None of them get past the first conversation anymore. Honestly, LV and NV makes up the majority of the male population.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-09-11T02:55:14+00:00

I’d like to start a conversation on how FDS has affected your screening process.

This guy came across as HV for abut an hour, then little cracks started to show. His ex was only 21 when they got together, he was 11 years her senior. He was REALLY annoyed with being the breadwinner, although they had a daughter that she breastfed and stayed home with.

He FREAKED out when my coffee was kicked over on his floor, this went against his whole laid back approach. This was the same day that he invited me over and then RUSHED me out because of work. Later apologized but felt weird nonetheless

He was offended by online dating because he spent time sending “tailored messages” to women what wouldn’t write back, felt entitled.

He negged me with some stupid comment about food in my teeth.

He kept talking about bringing some great food he REALLY wanted to share, but literally never did. His home was a MESS. His toilet bowl had shit in it. He did the whole “I gotta go” after an hour to create the distant, game thing that’s SO annoying, but “ missed me” when I was busy. He talked about how ridiculous it is that women expect to be hit on by men, when some might just want to be friends, to let my guard down, then went in calling me beautiful amongst other compliments the same day via text

Told me he isn’t “sex driven “ and doesn’t care about his looks at all HOWEVER spent decent amount of time taking about MY looks and how fit I am

I hold it against none of my sisters that don’t know any better, but become fluent in screening and you won’t need more than one date to know the future

FDS you have ruined me for the dating world, thank goodness.

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