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Medusa, I’ve messaged you before, we’ve had conversations on chat before. I think you’re cool and I know my worth as a person, so I’ll let that LV comment slide. I’ve messaged the mod team about an accidental self doxxing on one of the podcasts- no feedback. I tried to join the discord in order to alert the mods - no voice verification, and I felt uncomfortable with my picture just hanging around there. I have given it a good go in whichever way I can without over-compromising my own security. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:19 PM
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Whew, my post was deleted too. I’ve been on FDS for three years, under multiple accounts. What used to be a strategic subreddit has turned into a meme subreddit, and low effort posts allow men to easily slip through the net by gaining karma, and the attention of mods. The way we also talk about other women is also disgusting: there is a labelling and dismissal of women that post on relationships especially. These women are literally crying for help, their stuff gets screenshot, and then the pile…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:23 AM
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OMG I do this, but it’s genuinely from experience. I used to be a waitress when I was 16, and I always appreciated someone taking the effort to know my name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:18 AM
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lol this is what I learned from my mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:16 AM
3

So did I 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:03 AM
77

Define cancelling/ give me an example of people cancelling FDS. If it’s so rampant, it should be easy to prove.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:39 PM
32

12 inch?!?! Good grief
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:32 AM
104

Dude, they’re red pill guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:45 AM
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Hello OP I’m sorry you’re going through such a hard time. It is difficult to come up with the words to comfort you right now but I can promise that this will get a lot better. There are just two things I want to highlight: How you feel right now is how he wants you to feel. He knows how to push your buttons through experience. HE ruined his life by hurting you, not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:20 PM
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This is evidence of him committing harassment. What a vile excuses for a human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:59 AM
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You know, articles like this actually increase the traffic to the subreddit due to women’s curiosity: “so it’s a women’s version of the red pill, let me find out more!” The only difficult thing is that no one really reads Jezebel any more, so the amount of traffic would be lessened somewhat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:09 AM
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Well dang, can I be your friend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:38 PM
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I am the opposite and would highly recommend a girls school. Studies show that girls who attend all girls schools are more confident in areas like mathematics and sports because there aren’t boys around. They are less afraid of breaking stereotypes/ the mould. Sports is also tied to women’s political and corporate leadership, as it teaches body language, teamwork and perseverance. I loved being in a boarding house and living with my friends, and navigating the sometimes difficult social situatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:21 PM
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Today I learned that women, the social group responsible for the education and speech of ALL HUMANITY, is now not good at communicating. Make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:51 PM
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I think the OP deliberately didn't use "HVM" in order to avoid comments like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:07 AM
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Leave ewes out of this 🐑🐑🐑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:01 PM
109

I never understood the compulsion for people to tell perfect strangers how shitty they are, and to expect praise afterwards. The truth is, his gold star sticker dispenser is currently broken, so he needs verbal acknowledgment from outside. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:32 AM
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That was heartbreaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:53 PM
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They’re right, life is a gift. It cannot be taken by force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:38 PM
47

This is horrific. Why oh why would anyone do something like this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:16 PM
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A porn star and a Pickme magazine “journalist” quelle surprise… 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:18 PM
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The tweets are from 2 years ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:05 PM
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Right? I can’t stand how sanctimonious some of the comments are. Be grateful that you’ve never been. Abused and keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:30 PM
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I ❤️ this list x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:34 AM
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Her boyfriend is a rapist. He’s coercing her into sexual activity she doesn’t want and it’s frustrating that she doesn’t realise this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:33 AM
60

I think it was real, it’s not expensive to give false hope when you’re rich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:52 PM
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here's the paper https://www.biorxiv.org/content/10.1101/2020.04.22.055301v1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:30 AM
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I would argue that this is eugenics, but in favour of the rich and weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:48 AM
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The thing I never got was that if our presence is so essential to teach with, why are we the ones paying for the appointments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:46 AM
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100% true story. Yup this definitely happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:41 AM
4

Every time I used to see a woman write “at least I got a man” online, this is who I would imagine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:36 AM
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The irony is that he was invited to the Met Gala because of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:49 PM
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It’s fucking disgusting to project and broadcast your sexual fantasies on to women without consent. Even more disgusting when they’re associates of the woman you’re married to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:38 PM
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It's like Will... Halle only dates the creme de la creme, okay? If you've never been an underwear model, you need not apply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:16 PM
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Exactly. He;s been shagging a woman called Heidi de la rosa for years. UnwineWithTashaK has a video about it. Also this GQ interview was set up just to release this tidbit. The fact that he has to let everyone else know how virile he is by talking about harems and "oh I cheated too" is too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:15 PM
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I think once she gets the second vaccination, she’ll have a secret, a power that he doesn’t get to touch. This will act as a talisman to remind her that he doesn’t yet have complete control of her. Once she gets a vaccination without permission, she might start to have other ideas, like getting an education without permission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:23 PM
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Isn’t this the director who dumped his wife for Rita Ora (and Tessa Thompson) after he got famous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:30 AM
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If this is fboy Island this would make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:18 AM
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Hot, generous men are my favourite. Life is just A+ when you know you’re going to come every time you have sex, and the peace you get from knowing someone will have your back - no matter what - is unparalleled. Hot, generous men are my kink, and if my relationship with my current one were to end, I’d need someone else on that level. I’ve been spoiled now, and I’m never going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:59 AM
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Amen. I’m glad you didn’t bow to the pressure to be responsible for the emotions of people who need to self-regulate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:50 AM
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This is why I have a real hatred for cosmetic surgeons. The doctor is not following the Hippocratic oath. What a waste of medical knowledge this manipulator turned out to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:39 AM
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He’s not divorced, I bet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:32 AM
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This is interesting. It doesn’t occur to the “logical” guy to go to bed before 12. Or would that make him feel old? Not very stoic, is it? Does this mean he’s the one that puts the kids to bed? Somehow I doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:29 AM
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I read a post on tumblr about how male stoicism relies on the labour of women, and I just… Wow. EDIT Here’s the link: https://rachelladytietjens.tumblr.com/post/151463677329/male-stoicism-is-backed-up-by-an-incredible-amount Text: Male Stoicism is backed up by an incredible amount of emotional labor from women Like men are able to get away with never expressing of requesting help with their feelings because women are trained from a very young age to observe men, watch for signs of emotional need…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:00 AM
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I am incredibly grateful that I have always used an FDS filter for friendships. One thing about me: I make friends incredibly easily, so the women I’ve kept around are genuinely some of the most amazing women I’ve met. Ambitious, smart, kind, thoughtful and hilarious (or at least the same type of humour) My favourite memory from prom night wasn’t my two prom dates, but the night that we spent talking to each other about everything and everything while sat in our prom dresses. The saddest day of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:51 PM
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So we’re not like other spices?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:48 PM
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And I told you why you need to get your head out of your arse, but I suppose it’s too uncomfortable to acknowledge that you’re wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:02 PM
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But you just said that she should have taken public transport. Doesn’t that involve more walking at the start and end of the journey? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:55 PM
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Not every city in the UK has the tube, let alone the world. Listening to both their accents, they’re not even British, so your point is moot. Stop victim blaming and get your head out your arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:54 PM
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Oh dang you had to repost?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:22 AM
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Look at the subreddit for broken mothers. One of the top posts is about “physical touch” being used as a tool to guilt women into sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:14 AM
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Oh yes, obscure my vision and beauty with your semen, because that’s attractive for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:48 PM
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This reads like a sarcastic comment. The last line is what is sending me though. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:46 PM
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I think she meant a week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:27 AM
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This is how I feel about rock climbers tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:22 AM
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It’s not whining. I think it’s great that the three kids saw an example of an adult who was willing to stick up for them. Their fathers certainly didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:14 AM
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Omg the son and the father are both psychopaths. Driving dead bodies around???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:59 PM
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I’m glad you’re having a great time in Europe, what have you liked doing the most so far? another female Please rephrase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:42 PM
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I love a mom jean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:22 PM
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I mean the very fact that OPs brother wasn’t treated with “tough love” just goes to show that it was just a tool to facilitate the neglect of OP, and to stamp down any residual guilt they should have been feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:03 PM
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Rose is a real one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:39 AM
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I think I need some clarification on the one sidedness you’re referring to here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:37 AM
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Ah man. When people say “you sound like you’re from FDS” on my main account, I usually feign ignorance and do a subtle bit of advertising for the sub at the same time for the audience. Like “oh, I went there and the top post of all time is about someone finding a pedo sub and reporting it to the FBI. Is that what you’re upset about?” “It looks like they help women escape abuse?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:46 AM
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Nah, because see the therapist would never be this honest and would have dragged it out to about 20 sessions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:38 AM
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The last paragraph of your comment is why I think, despite all the whining and naysaying, green flag posts are the most important. If one is raised in an abusive situation, “what good looks like” is an unknown unknown. Being able to see examples of love out and about is the way most women in abusive relationships leave if they’ve never had a frame of reference. I also agreed with the guest that the constant hyperventilate of “ALWAYS BE VETTING” is not sustainable for a woman without a positive f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:32 AM
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Urgh, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:41 AM
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Lies. He doesn’t have friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:52 PM
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Urgh tell me about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:29 PM
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💯 Deborah Cooper on YouTube is fantastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:16 AM
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There was a fantastic thread of jobs for women who escaped abuse to support themselves. I’ll try and find the thread and post here, but bookkeeping was definitely one of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:24 PM
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Perhaps, but I have a soft spot for my grandma, May she RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:04 PM
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They’re not gonna like this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:51 PM
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I’m glad that he’s out of your life, OP, but I wish you’d had your grandma’s back here. It shouldn’t have been just up to her to say “no” to your ex. She might have thought you’d be okay with him asking for free treatment because you obviously hadn’t objected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:08 AM
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Facts on facts on facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:03 AM
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I mean I’m assuming you’re from the west? I think culture plays a huge role in how women will feel about this, so maybe stating your general culture (don’t doxx yourself) would make for a more meaningful discussion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:26 AM
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That’s how my cousin met her HVM husband. He was a studious man who barely left the house, his mother befriended my cousin’s mom and then they set it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:03 AM
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Aww thank you. Ask me how I know ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:37 AM
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I’ve got something similar in my post history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:21 AM
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I love this!!! An actually strategic post for once! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:12 AM
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I like this! I think dating should be fun, so being light and airy is essential. I also don’t frown on OLD because avoiding the biggest platforms to meet men during a lockdown is far from strategic. (Obvious note for the obtuse: of course this is contingent on vaccination status, quarantining, whether it’s legal to meet, etc etc 🙄) A lot of women here talk about how there is so much trash on OLD, and it’s like… okay but don’t we say that men in general aren’t motivated to be HVM in a patriarchal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:10 AM
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I wrote a post about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oaviom/transform_your_online_dating_profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:59 AM
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Wait, isn’t he the guy that was posted here from TikTok a few days ago? The uncanny valley seems familiar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:59 PM
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He looks terrifying, like a Madame Tussaud’s model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:58 PM
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Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:53 PM
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I mean I think at this point it’s kind of irrelevant. She thought he was a good person because he presented himself as such. She then identified some red flags that she spotted. I think that personal anecdotes reinforce the messages in the handbook. I see now that she’s deleted her post, which is a shame, it added more value to the sub than the endless memes/screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:48 PM
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I could see this happening given how men can categorise women into: friend/family/business contact - worthy of respect woman in whom I’m sexually interested- unworthy of respect Also most abusive men hide their true nature until they feel they’ve “had” you. Lundy Bancroft talks about this in his book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:34 PM
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When he told me I could lose weight (while I was naked) and my BMI was 19/20. I burst out laughing because it was the opposite of what I’d been told my whole life by friends and family. My body confidence is insanely high, because I value myself for what I can do, so it’s a shame for him that it was what he thought to “joke” about. He recently messaged me to “get back in touch” after 10 years of no contact. He’s miserable, had to move out of the city because he couldn’t afford it, got dumped by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:21 PM
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Whenever men used to ask me to show up for a hookup, I’d say yes, let me shave first, could you please order me the pepperoni and ice cream? ..and not show. I loved doing no-shows 🥰 If he called confused, I’d say I’m so sorry, I got held up. I’ll be there in 30 minutes, and then block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:11 PM
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See, I always laugh when I see critique of polyamory on FDS because: ✨Rotational dating is polyamory✨ A lot of the reasons that conventional polyamory is beneficial for men are the same reasons that rotational dating is beneficial for women. not put your eggs in one basket easier to compare and contrast encourage competition among the mates I practiced rotational dating and I considered myself a poly woman, because I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:41 AM
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Congratulations OP change all your passwords as soon as possible. You can use a password manager like 1Pass, Bitwarden or LastPass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:49 PM
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And I oop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:23 AM
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It was a Jewish story but yeah I love that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:19 AM
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It’s to scare all the other women watching into compliance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:18 AM
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I gagged when I imagined smelly hair grease obscuring my vision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:34 PM
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The ugly man’s lawsuit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:32 PM
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Are you talking about down low men? Not to put too fine a point in it, but a lot of bisexual men do porn because it pays more than straight porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:30 PM
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Where Priyanka is from is different to where you’re from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:20 PM
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Thank you! Priyanka Chopra isn’t Jonas brothers rich, but they both got funding for their wedding through People magazine for an exclusive. Some aspects of FDS just aren’t applicable to women of 1% level income. Some examples are: marriage (rich women are better off not being married if their HVM is of a significantly lower income) single motherhood. Rich women can afford this 50/50 on a wedding which is funded by a magazine for an exclusive (they paid Kim Kardashian $1.5m for photos of her wedd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:19 PM
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Just give her the handbook. I’ll DM you a link of the one I edited and compiled. It includes the posts that previously had broken links.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:40 PM
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I thought it was tradition that the bride’s family paid for the wedding. In that case 50/50 is a bargain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:38 PM
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Well yes, but this question belies the fact that the women want men of a similar age and of similar educational level. If they’re willing to date men of their age who didn’t go to college or educated, older men (which FDS frowns upon) then of course there’ll be more men to date. It’s a false choice. Settling shouldn’t be the answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:24 AM
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He’s not a bad guy… but he’s the one that does the cooking and ✨coincidentally✨ your sister in law seems to be the one who’s gaining weight. but he’s letting her do all the work while being the breadwinner. but she’s supposedly a bad cook (but was able to keep herself in healthier shape than before she met him) but he belittles her from grieving OP, I’m sorry to say but you’re a pickme for your brother. I have two brothers and they would be afraid of doing shit like this in front of me. My words…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:00 AM
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lol my vindictive ass would be like “he’s not the father”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:57 AM
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They’re right, it is biology. Natural selection, that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:28 AM
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The sexual harasser in the video admitted to a porn addiction on his own TikTok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:44 PM
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Why does “young scrote” sound like a rapper’s name to me?? 😂😂😂 What up ladies it’s me, Yung Scrote™ I’m really useless but I think that I’m the GOAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:35 AM
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Ask him what he did with the cash advance you gave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:20 AM
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They flip flop whenever it’s convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:54 AM
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I love happy stories like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:25 AM
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A man wrote the article. It’s obvious he’s going with sympathy for the guys instead of seeing this as the hilarious performance art it is. Aren’t journalists meant to be impartial? 😂 If it were a Sash Baron Cohen piece, this journalist would be giving it a five star rating for “deconstruction of the desperation of Tinder males” or some other such rubbish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:28 PM
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This is not entirely shocking given how he broke up with his ex wife. This man is just a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:09 PM
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I’m glad to hear it. Time will heal you, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:47 AM
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I would highly recommend “burnout” by the nagoski sisters. Even though this doesn’t describe a stressful work situation, our bodies are primed to release emotions physically. I think it would be good to have a relationship funeral with a friend to help to release the emotions that you have about this. Allow yourself time to mourn physically. Yoga would also be very good to take up at this time. I haven’t seen anyone else mention this, but I would also recommend a full panel STI test. Men who che…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:19 AM
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Do you know what? I used to feel bad for the parents, but they raised this garbage, and knew what he was when he was growing up. This is karma for not warning the poor woman who ended up marrying him in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:10 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:08 AM
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What were your tips and tricks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:40 AM
3

Right? This post is more funny than sad/angering, honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 05:37 AM
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My first response to this is… Who cares? The moment he walks away from the bar, it’s over. Yes it’s deceitful, but not for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:08 PM
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It’s the pity strategy. Any man worth his salt would be trying to impress you in the dating stages. This guy knows his best isn’t good enough so he wants you to feel sorry for him instead. That way he is dragging you down to his level emotionally and you’re easier to “nab” What I want you to do is ask yourself if you’re ready to pity f*ck him? If you don’t find a mopey man sexy (no one does), then stop talking to this guy. He sounds draining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:01 PM
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I’m coming in here to be the voice of dissent and say that for women with high net worths, single motherhood in the eyes of the law may be more beneficial than having children in a married coupling. Custody laws favour the primary caregiver, which the mom can afford to be if she’ a successful entrepreneur. It also means she has rights to her property in case of a breakup if she makes the father sign a lease/ cohabitation agreement in order to live with her in her property. She also gets to keep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:14 PM
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Emily & Amelia Nagoski
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:08 PM
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Write a public review immediately. Mention the brother by name. This is the only way the sister will have leverage to fire the brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:00 PM
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Envy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:39 AM
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You sound just like her troll, congratulations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:39 AM
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Imagine trying to have sex and not being sexy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:42 AM
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Shout out to all these new telemedicine companies that have a vested interest in men’s porn addictions. Roman, numan, for hims, manual, et al. Man gets addicted to porn > Peyronie’s disease > needs viagra to sustain an erection > Viagra dependence > company makes more money. Message to the lurkers: if you are under 30, and need medication to sustain an erection, there is something wrong with you. Stop death gripping your willy, go outside and touch some grass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:40 AM
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Tulum??? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:34 PM
26

I think this is just another way of saying “give ugly men a chance”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:58 AM
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Her brother is a BILLIONAIRE, she doesn’t need to do this ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:12 PM
12

Ugh, thank you. Something about this TikTok felt off. Women in biblical times had a raw deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:02 AM
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Wow you inadvertently did the “blood in the water” test and he failed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:58 AM
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Congratulations OP! I would change “seizing” to “ceasing” in your second to last paragraph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:15 PM
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The Grippo Girls aren’t ready for this one 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:19 AM
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This is a fake account with an AI profile photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:24 AM
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This comment belies the title of your post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:18 PM
1

Which show was this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:06 AM
1

So why are you sharing the clownery here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:59 AM
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/u/theOGJammies has been doing them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:04 AM
1

Haha 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:03 AM
14

I know of him through some mutual friends. He was a prolific shagger in London
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:10 PM
1

“So you agree, she’s using good judgement to determine this man is unsafe”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:59 AM
56

Hussey by name, hussey by nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:27 AM
74

Seriously why are you giving this loser views??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:33 PM
12

He hasn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:29 AM
8

OMG! I’m so sorry OP :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:13 AM
5

Oooh I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:22 AM
7

Can we collectively stop labelling this as choking? Choking is for food that goes down funny. What he did was strangle you. He harmed you for his sexual gratification by depriving you of life-giving air. I’m sorry he hurt you, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:58 PM
15

So in reverse this guy acts as a John, a son, and a mental health patient all in one?? Charming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:59 AM
11

HO HO HO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:33 AM
9

To help fool the different men of the tribe into thinking the baby is theirs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:21 AM
1

I would love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:14 PM
7

This false choice is a setup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:53 AM
7

He’s not smart, he’s a braggart with a gambling addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:24 PM
5

He looks like he’s got Kwashiorkor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:18 PM
10

Why can’t that someone be you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:46 AM
23

Please stop sharing this loser’s content. You’re advertising for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:30 AM
95

Omg!!!! I don’t know how familiar with IT your friend of friend is, but it is possible to remove the internet access away from any device that has internet connectivity. She could block access from the router, using the device’s MAC address DM me if you want instructions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:23 AM
10

I remember you from your last two posts here. I love your writing x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:49 AM
83

😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:24 AM
72

Nice one, Regina. I love your new name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:34 PM
45

Just about the podcast: I think that when guests mention some things that seem slightly off, hosts should be able to give a bit of pushback, so that the guest's position is clarified. I foudn that the childhood educator used very vague terms that came across as RPW type if you were listening out for it. To be fair the childhood educator podcast was very early into the podcast so you would have been finding your feet. Reux is witty and I appreciate her humour, but I don't appreciate her interrupt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:44 PM
9

The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Prey by Deborrah Cooper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:58 AM
25

Potatoes have had some great PR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:55 AM
23

Right? Meeting in a non-public place with a stranger is not my idea of fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:52 AM
21

Congratulations OP on getting out! Here’s to many more days and years of the good life with your future husband 🥂❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:50 AM
1

Haha no I guess not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:48 AM
6

I concur. I’m not old enough, but I’m wise enough to value the perspective of women who’ve experienced more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:20 PM
3

Thank you for understanding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:04 PM
4

I would agree that if a post helps a woman to vet/date better/ get out of an abusive relationship, then it’s helpful. Some posts help with a mindset shift that help women recognise patterns of abuse/how patriarchy functions to enable abuse. That can be helpful. What’s not helpful is people being called pickme’s when they could be an FDS Success story. This is first and foremost a strategy sub, and many persuasive text posts are drowned out by memes. The handbook is full of similar posts and it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:00 PM
8

Thank you for your perspective. Would you be able to let us know how you would have been better reached? If there’s anything I missed in my post I would like to add it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:50 PM
3

Sometimes, telling her in private that she can do better is the best thing you can do. When she has another fight with her bf, she’ll remember your words. She’ll tell you she’s okay because sometimes her pride is all she has left. It’s cathartic to post screenshots, but it doesn’t actually benefit the community as a whole. We know age gap relationships aren’t great for women already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:46 PM
29

Exactly. This shit can keep women trapped, because maybe the abuser is right, you are an idiot/ loser/ whatever other bullshit he says to keep you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:16 PM
9

Green flags are green flags. Most of the time the comments are “He could turn out to be a LVM”, even when the OP has already added a disclaimer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:34 PM
25

I mean it even starts to seep into the Green Flags posts. I can guarantee that every time a woman posts about a man being kind to her, there’s someone naysaying or trying to undermine the message that there are good men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:14 PM
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I think if it can be analysed in a way that is helpful, e.g. “here are the warning flags my ex demonstrated in the beginning of the relationship and this is how they developed.”, then it can be useful. Otherwise it’s as helpful as a filo pastry dildo. Examples of this are the screenshots where women keep responding to LVM on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:07 PM
8

Thanks hun ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:01 PM
15

Thank you sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:00 PM
125

When I see women like this in real life I feel sorry for them, because someone has repeatedly told her that she's "better than the others" in order to justify treating her like shit. People who feel the need to lash out like this are rarely happy, so there's not reason anyone should give their words power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:01 PM
10

You realise that the FDS response to low value behaviour is to block and delete? You should never have to deal with people like this more than once. Stop letting insecure women run your life. P.S. In the time of Youtube videos and ecommerce shopping for makeup, I don't really think that women are out here envying other's makeup skills. Probably a reaction to hearing bfs pit them against women who do wear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:59 PM
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The purpose of FDS isn't to put other women down like this. A woman being bad at makeup isn't a reason to put her down wtf. The reason this woman is horrible is because she's believed the hype that men have told her that she's "not like other girls" and she thinks she's special/better; the same way you think you're special for being able to put on makeup. I really hate posts like this OP because they bring nothing of value to this sub. They are low value posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:19 PM
22

This is not the hot take you think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:12 PM
26

Omg why are we giving these losers air?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:55 PM
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I mean I can see it from their point of view. Imagine how you would feel if the doormat that could be relied upon to clean your muddy shoes suddenly started having an opinion. Imagine if your washing machine decided it wouldn’t wash anymore clothes. Users see others as tools, so when the doormats and appliances of the world start to act human, they get upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:31 PM
16

Welcome Honey Badger! 🍯🦡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:02 PM
2

I was so sad! I wanted to see more of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:16 PM
16

Right? These redditors tell on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:51 AM
15

Omg, so she’s just auditioning to be picked?! Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:50 AM
1

Isn’t she married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:57 AM
8

I remember that handsome cop she had
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:39 AM
0

This is a repost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:29 AM
13

I hope she’s being a mastermind and just steeling herself up to hand him papers. To him, her sanity and sense of harmony < her $50 He loves his “setup” more than his wife. He also knew how to declutter all along, but didn’t out of spite. Actions speak louder than words and none of the actions are great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:29 AM
7

This is a good filter! I’ll try to see if there’s any documented link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:25 AM
125

The unpopular opinion sub isn’t actually about unpopular opinions. It’s about opinions that serve the type of man that is white, young, depends on his parents for money, middle class, racist, sexist and lazy. If you want to get a lot of karma, just appeal to Reddit’s core demographic and you’re sorted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:21 AM
19

When you don’t want to fuck your husband anymore, but you haven’t realised that you don’t want to fuck your husband anymore… The only kind of woman who would want this is lonely in her relationship, and has been isolated from her support group. It’s not a “good thing” to add another woman to the misery. She is convinced the only way to halve the problem is to share it with another woman. Bear in mind that in any household, chores should be shared by the man as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:17 AM
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This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:08 PM
81

Is it rude of me to say that this seems like a black-male-run social media account? It just sounds like the hotep “build together” repackaged with “entrepreneurship” and “hustle”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:03 PM
199

Rosie never said this. I hate mis-attributed quotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:22 PM
65

If they Venmo everything, couldn’t he have sent her the money before the dinner? Tldr; He’s full of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:52 PM
24

What a fucking tragedy. In my grandmother’s village, girls would get a celebration for the onset of menarche. Other members of the village would bring you gifts and you get a party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:46 PM
123

I think FDS needs to stop rewarding these losers with our attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:29 PM
24

Could you imagine being the child of a man who won’t pay for you to go out for lunch? This guy is as miserly in his affections as he is with his finances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:10 PM
2

Hi Wrice, would you be able to summarise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:07 PM
4

I mean posting from the Bre Mo subreddit is just cheating at this point. Please read the Handbook before posting. Memes / Screenshots like this are not queen energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:40 AM
2

🇬🇭?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:12 PM
6

Not scene 69! Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:08 PM
33

OMG! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:13 PM
29

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:12 PM
31

Is she an FDSer? Unless she’s your Fine Ass Friday pick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:11 AM
146

PUAs believe in the concept of social proof where, by having pictures with women who have pre-approved them, they are more likely to attract women. Unfortunately this has started to backfire as women don’t see this as genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:43 AM
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There are theories that the story was written to help prepare younger ladies(as in lords and ladies) for arranged marriage with older men (the beast). In treating him with kindness and ignoring her self-protective instincts, and by eschewing her old life, she reveals the prince within. https://medium.com/@radfemfatale/beauty-and-the-beast-a-tale-of-child-marriage-bbbf5102eeea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:31 AM
18

OP, please don’t engage with losers. The algorithm rewards them for engaging you on the app. He will now be shown to more women because your (long) responses mark him as “attractive”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:07 PM
43

This is a good strategy. Nice post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:04 PM
2

Right? Like how does wanting to strangle women differentiate him from a serial killer?! The BDSM “community” have thrown women under the bus, all for the sake of men’s orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:48 PM
60

I’m convinced the part about him not wanting to pay + his need to “invest in the stock market” = gambling addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:21 PM
50

They need to start charging this as attempted murder. Being turned on by murder is not a defence against an attempted murder charge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:11 PM
62

Who else reckons that this guy doesn’t have the money to buy half the house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:10 PM
3

The solution to this is the pre-screening date. Archived Link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:28 PM
8

I think this would be awesome as a post about how you deprogrammed yourself and leveled up x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:14 PM
11

Thank you sis, you truly are a gem ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:13 PM
43

I think those were two different men: the first one who was whining and the second one who had standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:56 PM
175

Lol see her twisting herself into a pretzel the moment a man called her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:55 PM
3

Please don't link to these people OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:49 PM
4

You were writing a novel at 16?! that's amazing OP! I swear this is not the only takeaway from your post, but I'm incredibly impressed wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:42 PM
7

I appreciate you being gracious about my critique. At the core of my comments a true wish for FDS to be a high quality space, which is how we can attract more press and curiousity from women. Having been on the receiving end of another's critique though, it's tough to see someone coming at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:40 PM
9

I think the most valuable content you could post is your own perspective. How has your mindset been shifted after engaging with FDS? Are there some red flags in past relationships that you’ve noticed that you’ve now been able to recognise? These are extremely valuable posts to women who are new here. They might not get as many upvotes (and upvotes are designed to feel rewarding, like a winning combo at a slot machine), but being a high value woman means bringing value in whatever you do. That’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:31 PM
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Exactly. This is the straw that broke the dead horse camel’s back. I’m sorry it had to be your post OP. I just get frustrated, because I have worked with women who were abused and this is not the way to reach them. We have to show them “what good looks like”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:09 PM
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I need to clarify. “FDS success” flaired posts denote how women have used FDS to better their lives. In looking at those posts, they start with “a woman DM’ed me” or “My friend introduced me to FDS” Hope that helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:06 PM
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I’m sorry OP, but strategy for someone in this situation is “how do I get out” not “oh sis you f*cked up” Abused women already know they’re not being treated kindly. What they need to see is that they don’t deserve it, and how to escape it. This post offers neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:53 PM
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The flair was created in a time where it was OK to publicly link the original posters of these posts. Then the OPs would come here to post their stories for advice. That’s strategic. By posting the screenshot instead of using the DM function to message the OP, she is opened up to people judging her situation. Yes it feels cathartic to comment about what a palaver someone has got themselves into, but it is the last thing a woman in an abusive relationship needs to see. This screenshot post, and o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:50 PM
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I’m sorry OP, but could you explain how this post is strategic for women who are looking to date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:59 PM
1

“You know what? I’m not sure about this, and I’m not sure about you either”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:28 PM
15

I really wanted to like this youtuber but she’s full of 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:04 PM
10

Thank you for your support. I don’t really blame the people calling OLD users pick-me’s, because confronting the idea that there was something they could do to succeed is hard. In short, if I’m a pick-me, the reason they’re not succeeding is because they haven’t “stooped to my level”. Meanwhile I get to be “wrong” but happy. Yes. OLD isn’t ideal compared to personal introductions because the algorithms prioritise addiction to the apps rather than happy couples, but a lot of men join because they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:42 AM
2

He peaked at 20%… what a flop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:17 PM
7

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:06 PM
26

Check out culture reframed by Gail Dines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:00 PM
5

Maybe this post isn’t for you and that’s okay. FDS mod team is split on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:45 PM
4

That’s fair enough. Could you try putting your photos through a service like photofeeler as well, just to make sure that the impression you’re giving off is the one you intend to? Obviously I can’t judge without seeing your profile (nor would I have want you to share your photos with a stranger on the internet) so that’s the best solution to get an objective opinion Eta: It’s odd that I’m being downvoted for giving actual advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:27 PM
23

Vetting is a tough process. It’s difficult to vet men everywhere, and in my experience I gave men from “real life” a benefit of the doubt they didn’t deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:00 PM
21

Exactly. HVM are rare on OLD dating because HVM are uncommon in all areas of life, and the reason for that is that being a LVM in a patriarchal society is easy. Why do more when you’re praised for putting on your trousers in the morning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:57 PM
4

Those pearl teeth are going to haunt my dreams, boi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:12 PM
25

I think this is a good tactic, but you can even take it further, like "I'm a generous person, so I like for the guy I'm with to meet me at my level. It's good to have the same values, don't you think?" Or being genuinely thankful when he does something generous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:07 PM
2

What was your profile like? And what kind of trash were messaging you on your profile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:04 PM
17

Wearing a single colour helps draw the eye and makes your clothes look better put together. You also look taller. I'm dark skinned, so I look great in jewel tones. Wearing something different from every other woman on Tinder gives you a conversation starter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:14 PM
6

I met my SO on Tinder of all places. I met plenty of decent guys on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:10 PM
25

For example when speaking with my SO, I mentioned the fact that I wanted to move to a patricular country in the next couple of years (I had a date). It would have been a good time for him to say "I don't want to move there". But then he told me he'd actually studied in that country so was familiar with the language and the culture. Then he would say stuff like "oh I got in touch with my old professor and she put me in touch with [famous company]." or "What do you think of [area] vs [area]?" He w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:07 PM
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Thank you. I think it's good to let people "show their ass" and waste their own time than to preemptively let your guard down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:57 PM
19

okay 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:56 PM
1

It's fantastic. There's also a movie based on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:33 PM
31

This is controversial, but I think Florence Pugh is overrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:15 PM
1

Press press press press pressed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:08 PM
57

Right?! Like you can’t just impulsively buy a house either. This guy is an asshat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:06 PM
21

Thanks for the update Jammies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:17 PM
51

I think women tend to understate their attractiveness, especially if we're comparing ourselves to Insta models who often don't look like their pictures. As long as you look well groomed, you're attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:11 PM
2

Is anyone verifying the discord applications right now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:15 AM
1

He’s looking for someone to do his meal prep for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:55 AM
17

She should be posting this to legal advice, not relationship advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:38 AM
19

Catherine Tate is hilarious. There’s a clip where she’s rejecting Daniel Craig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:34 AM
38

There is a post about this by TheOGJammies I think My mistake, it was by modernmedusa https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f8ou3s/how_to_sniff_if_hes_sexually_competent_the_quiet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:23 PM
9

Okay 👍🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:09 PM
48

I’m learning so much in this thread! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:10 PM
54

That’s mad. Bilingual capability was a plus on my list because it tended to favour men who were immigrants like me or had immersed themselves in different cultures. Seeing your reasoning it’s not surprising that it’s a negative for you though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:09 PM
25

Looolll!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:07 PM
193

“I have never cheated on her” “I’ve been having an emotional affair with my coworker”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:35 AM
361

“Smothered by my wife trying to prove she loves me” This man is a psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:34 AM
7

I think my photos were ones of me at Afternoon Tea at Claridges and the like. I didn’t do bikini pictures/ yoga pictures because those were the kind of pictures that are stolen for bot profiles. Guys who didn’t like high maintenance girls swiped left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:48 AM
6

They still believe they should “shoot their shot”. This is a misnomer: they have no shot in the first place 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:25 AM
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ooof, it really hammers the point home when you apply the economic filter to mainstream dating advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:27 PM
41

When I used to match with ugly guys on Tinder (accidental swipes happen), they would say the most racist things to me because they thought I was a bot/wasn't real. The fact that they also defaulted to racism/racist terms for my beauty was the cherry on top. Why would anyone listen to what a man has to say about how a woman should use a dating app? It's obvious that the OP from the screenshot is aesthetically challenged, and is coping with that by making up a narrative about hot guys only wanting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:24 PM
7

Bon appetit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:46 AM
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It was obvious to anyone watching that she did not appreciate his attention. Her body language was screaming that she was uncomfortable, and he still stayed. I’m grossed out for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:55 AM
8

Hello! 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:57 AM
18

The irony is he’s being classist about company money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:44 AM
10

It’s two men talking to each other so I wouldn’t worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:06 AM
70

OMG! That’s horrendous. This poor woman :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:29 PM
18

No! I’m so sorry that I’m laughing, but I take it as a blessing that you’re alive to write this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:52 PM
35

Looool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:40 PM
108

Oh wow I got a shout out?! Thank you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:42 AM
2

Like I did in my previous comment? ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:45 PM
4

No worries. I think I’ll repost some posts from the handbook that were deleted. Maybe make a pdf afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:43 AM
18

Would you be able to link the original blood in the water post in your edit? It might add to the reading experience of other women. Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ixvzzo/the_blood_in_the_water_test/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:56 AM
9

I found the text for the dead link in your post. Online dating strategy to find a HVM / May 15, 2020 / by eng2fly Inspired from the daily discussion I figured I would do an entire write up on it. It took me a lot of trial and tribulation to come to this list but it works based on my experience and experience of other women in my life who have employed this and seen success. REMEMBER BE RUTHLESS IN YOUR EVALUATION OF MEN. Here's what I used and I've met a (seemingly) HVM online: PICTURES: * no sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:20 PM
1

I think you're right in that the website states that, however the ultimate FDS goal is to find a relationship in which both you and your partner are happy with each other and improve through a mutually beneficial relationship. My advice would be you should break up with him for the very fact that you're not compatible with each other, however I would not call a man who sacrifices a high paying job in order to look after an elderly relative a LVM. I'd go as far as call him someone of unusually hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:29 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how long would you say it takes to vet a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:16 PM
6

Okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:15 PM
2

Yeah it’s mad. I think I misunderstood you earlier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:11 PM
4

I agree that the flairs should not affect the content in theory. In theory FDS should not exist, as women should be treated with respect in the dating field. However people tend to choose whatever is the lowest effort. Why write a text post detailing an insight that you’ve made and that could help other women in their dating future, when you (well not you personally) can repost a popular meme and gain karma and attention with a snappy flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:02 PM
3

Exactly. The scenario in your edit is the only one where I would believe that someone was compelled to post here, because then there would be a real conflict. The OP is just bsing and looking at their comment history, it’s not the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:49 PM
9

What do you mean? I can think of many scenarios where a woman deciding to take a job with fewer hours and less pay in order to look after an ageing relative. That wouldn’t make her low value. This post seems vague enough to be used as a screenshot for one of the FDS fan subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:36 PM
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Does anyone else feel like this is a troll post? OP could you describe what makes him LV as of late? You haven’t mentioned any character traits, only that he’s doing social work part time and also caring for his grandfather, which doesn’t sound bad to me specifically. It’s tough to give advice as you haven’t mentioned a change in your relationship per se. What happened first? The grandpa falling ill and him having to get a more accommodating job, or him unilaterally deciding to switch careers. o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:24 PM
3

This has been reposted many times in this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:37 AM
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I completely agree, however I would like to flag up something that runs contrary to the proactive goal of this subreddit: the flairs. Of the 60 flairs that are available to post with to this subreddit, I counted 28 as negative, 5 as neutral and 27 as positive. I’m doing a separate analysis on whether the fairs can be grouped as reactionary vs strategic, but this also tends to lean toward reactionary. By having these flairs like LVM Logic, Reddit hates women, etc, it can keep us limited in our wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:38 PM
1

I'm so grateful for this and the other post about focusing on *strategic* content. I would remind other ladies as well that when we focus on content by bad actors, this increases their popularity online. I did a post about how giving attention to trolls boosts their content here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mg17v7/linking\_to\_other\_bad\_actors\_content\_aka\_do\_not/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:29 AM
8

I’m shocked at how many people don’t recognise the sarcastic nature of the screenshot. They are obviously not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:25 AM
1

Rotational dating is the answer to this. Sure you’ll still have to filter out time wasters, but less of your time will be wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:21 AM
1

The director of this film also had a short clip a few years before. That could be what you’re remembering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:02 AM
8

OP, look up local laws regarding sexual harassment via imagery. Depending on the country/state you live in, you can press charges against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:59 AM
7

No she shouldn’t. Depending on where she lives this could be deemed sexual harassment, a punishable crime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:58 AM
7

Depending on where you live, this is a crime that can be prosecuted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:56 AM
18

Not me wanting to see your hair extension room 🤤 I now realise my imagination has been limited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:37 AM
35

Thank you for posting this. Though I’m not the intended audience (happily married) I find joy in dispensing advice to younger women who want to live happy lives with HVM. I really enjoy posts like the Weekly Strategy Spotlight and the Meme free Mondays have helped to reduce the karma farming clutter. I look forward to seeing FDS further clarify its intent and separate the separatists as it were. Their opinions are valid, they just don’t belong here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:58 AM
12

Right? Cops who are in wrongful death suits manage to get jobs with no effort. This guy is full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:48 PM
7

I’m so sad that you haven’t found your people. I’m going to DM you the networking tool I’ve been using to find HV friends and network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:48 PM
11

4 words: fuse box; dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:59 PM
8

There’s another thread full of advice like this. I’ll try and find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:52 PM
30

That was my tactic haha. What education style they preferred, what they thought of high investment parenting, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:42 PM
83

Right?! Edit: she sings too. Some ladies are just blessed. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:03 PM
46

I’m sorry, but we need to reject the notion that dinner is a high standard. For a man who is seriously dating for a long term relationship, dinner is the lowest bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:13 AM
3

Thank you for the reassurance :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:51 AM
8

Couldn’t she also be institutionalised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:14 AM
122

Not all is lost. There are a few things in your favour: He didn’t disclose a debt to you until after your marriage (annulment based on deception could be a route here) COVID travel restrictions from the U.S./ home country may have made you overstay your visa You are resourceful enough to have found the subreddit after the Spotify episode You have access to the internet Your husband is useless These are invaluable. Please make no indication to your husband that you are planning to leave until you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:05 AM
1

When your father is an anaesthetist called Matt… 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:33 AM
46

She doesn’t like gifts from him because he doesn’t put in effort into buying decent ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:31 AM
128

Hint: he’s still looking down on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:14 AM
38

Obese?! I’m glad you’re here because girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:01 PM
20

Right?! Imagine this guy telling his wife he’s fat, meanwhile he has to give himself a bind reacharound so he can masturbate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:00 PM
70

One of my exes told me I would look better thinner. I had a BMI of 19 at the time and had been approached by a modelling scout the day before. I think those two things might have been connected. I stayed with him until I realised that he wasn’t going anywhere with his career/art/whatever, and for all his talk he really wasn’t that smart. Give a middling guy a chance and he’ll treat you like you’re the ugly one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:58 PM
9

This looks like Flack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:43 PM
2

It does, but the Air Tags can be jail broken the way iPhones are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:08 PM
9

There is one solution to all this: Stop having “sex” with women who don’t enthusiastically consent. She’s just not that into you, bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:05 PM
5

FYI ladies, these are not the tracking tiles to worry about. A tile only works if the owner’s phone is within range. The one you need to worry about is the Apple AirTag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:01 AM
126

That shit is trending on YouTube especially because black women are graduating at higher and higher rates, and leaving black men behind. The more valuable a woman’s labour in a relationship market, the bigger the pressure to give it away for free. “Femininity” as defined by subordination/submission to men is a tool to pre-emptively lower women’s standards for a man’s labour in a relationship. There was a study that found that the more successful women were in the west, the thinner they were. Mea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:21 AM
173

I don’t like that the article calls him a boy when he’s an adult. He’s looking at proper jail time, the idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:07 AM
12

😱😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:03 AM
13

If the meeting was hosted on Zoom like he said, the admin gets a chatlog (even of the private messages) He’s going to get clocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:16 PM
12

This is true empowerment. Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:13 PM
42

Converse with him behind a fence in a secluded area what in the rapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:09 PM
36

Sis you know he would not have been happy with half a titty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:07 PM
8

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:44 PM
8

Good point OP, but could you change your flair please? A scrotation report is for documenting a dating roster/rotation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:24 PM
7

That’s really interesting! Do you have a link to the article?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:54 AM
30

Afem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:22 PM
3

It’s all good. Not everyone is as obsessed with it as I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:55 PM
10

From the Devil Wears Prada. He is Andie’s chef boyfriend that always happens to be at home in the evenings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:37 PM
7

Ooh I like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:36 PM
170

Right?! And her little friends were d*ckheaded as well. Taking all the fancy gadgets with one hand and pointing with the other. Nate can take his Jarlsberg and f*ck off 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:53 PM
56

You know it’s bad when the Jewish sis is calling for Jesus 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:00 PM
12

Where’s the post that mentions that men who have a high number of sexual partners do so because they coerce and rape women?? Further evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:43 PM
5

I don’t know if you’ve already considered this, so forgive me if you have, but an IUS is an option The hormones released from it are local to your uterus, so you don’t get the mental effects of the pill. It also lasts up to five years. Something to consider before a tubal ligation x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:59 PM
7

Even taking at face value, he’s not being very direct enough here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:42 PM
11

Oh phew! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:53 AM
9

Bruh 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:51 AM
10

thank you for sharing your story. Would you be able to share what an acquaintance could have told you, or what the moment was that you decided to leave? I have a lot of young cousins and I would like to know the signs to watch out for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:48 AM
11

What an angel indeed. Someone like That woman deserves the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:45 AM
27

You found this place at 18?! You are blessed and highly favoured. Also your best friend is awesome. I hope she has an account here. I’m so proud of you for not tolerating racist, sexist behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:40 AM
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Welcome! I think one of the biggest feelings that a lot of us tend to have is “oh, so it’s not just me!” I really empathise with your action to sacrifice yourself in order to protect your sisters. It’s what I would do in the same position. Please know that you were a child when the abuse happened and because it was for such a long time, it’s going to take some time and deliberation to examine what an effect it’s had on your life. You may feel guilty, for some moments or even shame, but remember …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:29 AM
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Depends. If the roommate thing is non-negotiable, would you consider short term Air BnB type guests? For places to live, look at studio apartments instead of one bedroom if you’re looking to never have a roommate. Depending on your city, there are usually discounts for plays/musicals that are cheaper during non-peak times. Try to travel at times when families cannot (ie avoid school holidays and child friendly destinations during the long summer break) Have about 6 months worth of expenses saved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:14 AM
3

The introduction to the post was hilarious, but this might be more beneficial as a weekly check-in comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:12 AM
4

$50 a week?! I shouldn’t be surprised that a neglectful father would also be a lowballer and yet here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:03 AM
22

OMG the clip where she’s got two sharks coming in for snuggles 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:00 AM
191

I like that women offered to help her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:38 AM
3

Ha! Glad you found it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:28 AM
21

The is a Book Report flair to my memory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:23 PM
29

This didn’t happen by accident. Most parents like this deliberately don’t raise their children to be independent. They deliberately hold back praise or dole it out inconsistently, so that you never know whether you’re going to please them or not. You’re afraid to take risks because you’re used to being punished for them. You will have to learn how to parent yourself. If you don’t have a daily routine, or a hobby that is skilful, now is the time to start. If you’re still at your parent’s, it mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:16 AM
5

The only reason she told you to shut up is that she couldn’t admit that you had a point. Just from your post, I can tell that you’re living in a household where you’re expected to “respect your elders” for no reason other than them being born first. In order to persuade most people, you just have to frame it as a question, or play dumb. Like “I didn’t know colleges got people pregnant, is it something in the books?” “I don’t get how she could get pregnant, could you explain it to me?” On a separ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:13 AM
4

Me too. I’m hooked and now I’m getting the book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:56 AM
9

Don’t worry, there are a few trolls doing this lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:08 AM
157

Silence is golden Silence and walking away is platinum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:45 AM
39

It’s low class behaviour designed to make you “jealous”. I take it as a warning not to accept drinks from men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:44 AM
1

I think one of the hosts mentioned a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:20 PM
8

I’d love this too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:26 PM
21

Eyyyy. Welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:32 AM
188

“Some of you are working to pay bills, I’m just working to enjoy the job and the journey. Whatever happens, happens“ vacant smile Besides the pickme tendencies, it’s bizarre to me that someone would elect to have such a passive role in their own life. You only get one, babe. Know where you want to go, at the very least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:26 AM
1

I love the word wastrel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:44 AM
16

Duck me he’s gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:37 PM
6

So did I!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:34 PM
9

All this tells me is that the Match group might be trying to pivot/ expand their business model. Just remember that when you share your contact details with Tinder, you are sharing them with: Match Meetic OkCupid Hinge Pairs PlentyOfFish OurTime and countless other apps They would only add this feature if they intend to create a network of the people who you are contacting. MAybe the iOS update has hit their advertising harder than we thought? Could this be a new era in direct advertising? I wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:40 PM
1

#toxicbae #problematicfave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:05 PM
7

#toxicforlife #badgirlsforlife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:03 PM
5

Thank you so much! I'm glad it resonated with you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:49 PM
6

The 'toxicity' is the lack of fear of being seen as/ called "ugly" or "undesirable". As in: "no one will want you if you cut your hair that short!" "You should wear a dress instead of jeans, you want to look like a lady!" "no one is going to like you with that attitude" Your toxic trait ties in with Trait number 8. You stop filling in the gaps and reduce the halo effect that you have bestowed on people who don't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:05 PM
1

Let Debprrah Cooper be your wise Auntie. Her channel is fantastic. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ4gik6sJ7gBayDVVdCaRkQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:33 AM
31

The man who killed Sarah Everard earlier this year had been flashing women at a McDonalds restaurant three days prior. Men who masturbate or flash women in public get off on the fear of women. When the flashing fails to produce the high they expected, they escalate to physical assault and eventually murder. Getting off on women’s fear is a high indicator for a future killer (of women they don’t know)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:36 AM
28

OMG what an amazing woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:30 AM
6

Amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:57 AM
71

OMG you’re right I didn’t even think of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:48 AM
6

That warms my heart, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:44 AM
30

Deborrah Cooper, and yes, all her videos are this funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:48 PM
2

I learned so much from your comment. Thank you for writing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:34 PM
5

Oh gotcha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:20 PM
6

?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:14 PM
44

Not big salon!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:59 PM
477

I love that her mother wasn’t having it. The OP should have understood that she shouldn’t be taking it either. Also the only way to apologise is by separating from that no good husband. Also what does she expect. She has been letting her husband insult her sister to the point that he thought it was okay to act like that at a diner where he was the GUEST!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:53 PM
7

Don’t worry. He’ll realise he’s ugly soon enough. For men: if a woman isn’t enthusiastic in talking to you, leave her alone, she’s just not that into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:49 PM
10

“I don’t mine when I lose my dignity because at the end of the day I never had it” She’s got a tomcat for a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:47 PM
85

Ha, yeah, I wanted to trick the lurkers into reading 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:59 PM
28

Thanks so much - could you mention some toxic traits you've acquired as a result of FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:28 PM
61

I'm glad you've left that wastrel behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:27 PM
60

That’s not a man, that’s an anchor ⚓️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:25 PM
17

Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:22 PM
40

I'm not surprised at the country stats, but I am disappointed. Our reach will be limited by the fact that the material is in English. My french is not at bilingual profinciency otherwise I would have loved to translate the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:06 PM
3

His own values are leaking into his advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:07 AM
48

You know it’s okay to cut them off sis. You don’t need to be traumatised for the sake of appearances (to people who never cared about you enough to notice or step in)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:57 AM
19

I mean, don’t think these kinds of screenshots should be posted at all. It feels like karma farming at the expense of someone’s mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 AM
17

But I think that society encourages women to take care of themselves in s way it really doesn’t for men’ What a way to spin misogyny and the pressure for women to look good in a way that men come out as victims. Why didn’t this ‘journalist’ challenge this nonsense? Also, who the fuck is this “society” these slackers always seek to blame?! Isn’t just themselves??? And what does that have to do with buying a fucking bed frame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:40 AM
8

I think that was it. Otherwise he wouldn’t have called his mother for “backup”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:06 AM
3

😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:59 PM
22

Look, I wanted to lose my virginity in a forest, surrounded by nature It was terrible (not the sex, the ants) I’m not judging you, but I AM warning you 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:51 PM
6

I feel offended. I had to watch it in the afternoon because of my time zone 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:48 PM
13

I dunno this says the opposite of what I was trying to convey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:46 PM
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I’m not gonna lie, this podcast was a little hard to get through I’m not sure how qualified the guest was to speak on childhood development in an academic sense (which is what I would expect from an expert) I didn’t like the emphasis on femininity, if that hasn’t actually been defined. Are we talking about wearing the colour pink (benign) or ascribing a “better” label to women who stay at home and labour for their ungrateful families? Man as protector (from other men) is played out, and has been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:19 PM
12

It’s not uncommon for affluent West Africans to screen for sickle cell before having children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:55 PM
10

I like that she at least let the mother in law know it was inappropriate. Otherwise next time her husband isn’t hitting it right, she can call her MIL to complain too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:47 PM
8

I’m a little concerned that you haven’t spoken about how to leave/ are still talking about him in the present tense in some places. You also haven’t mentioned what’s keeping you there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:44 AM
8

OP. There are some posts here on how to make a plan to leave a relationship. Please read the handbook. It is linked in the Automod comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:43 AM
20

I’m crying!! 😹😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:03 PM
137

They’re not gonna like this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:47 PM
3

This was posted yesterday reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/npdnu1/i_sued_my_ex_for_giving_me_an_stdand_i_won_i_can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:06 PM
22

Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:22 PM
9

Create the subreddit with that name and then repost the troll material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:40 PM
1

Sis I hope you’re posting in /r/femalelevelupstrategy because I need some tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:12 PM
1

This is a repeat post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:30 PM
34

Oooh good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:45 AM
11

I feel like this says more about the men upvoting this than the women writing it. Every man wants to feel like doing the bare minimum is a bonus, so he can continue to blame women for having standards that are too high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:03 PM
3

Can't these "experts" be reported?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:05 PM
2

/#nonutclarity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:44 PM
14

It’s a drawing of a blowjob, I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:40 AM
9

Congratulations sis! I’ll pour one out for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:03 AM
7

I love a good 2 for 1 offer! Congratulations to you both!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:45 AM
61

This is poetry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:10 AM
21

Right?! I always say gifts when it comes up in conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:57 AM
29

“Loving those who hate you?” Jesus would not be au fait with this sham of a marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:56 AM
3

Not necessarily. Margaret Atwood works with Bruce on the larger plot points, like whether June gets out or not, who lives or dies. Even the Angel’s plot point wasn’t exactly what she wanted as it undermines a major plot point of The Testaments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:31 AM
54

And she still has to give OF a 20% cut. She could have built her own platform / hired a full time web and app dev, marketing team, etc for that money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:00 PM
22

How is she torn?! I would never pick anyone else above my sister so this is enraging omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:53 PM
83

As far as I know, packages of condoms sold in the US come in a plastic wrapped cardboard box. There should be multiple pin holes on the condom box for this to make sense. Also how would the condom bandit be able to guess the exact centre of each and every condom in the pack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:36 PM
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So we’re meant to believe that a complete stranger was able to use a magical pin that only affected the condoms in the pack, but left the packaging untouched?? God forbid anyone has this 🤡 for a mother. As for the reproductive coercive arsehole. I hope you fall into a manhole, suffer a concussion falling down and drown in the sewage therein.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:06 PM
113

“I like women who don’t wear makeup”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:03 PM
21

For me it took longer than 2 years to get engaged because we were pursuing higher education (don’t want to get into too much detail on Reddit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:00 PM
26

I LOVE THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:10 PM
63

You’re right, it’s not in the books and it’s also not congruent with her character. The writers flopped with this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:03 PM
8

😂 same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:46 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:38 PM
0

Have you got some more examples?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:24 AM
0

It depends on the time period. Pre-farming humans used to live very long, provided they made it past their first five years. Infant mortality is what brought down the average age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:00 AM
3

Right? And why is she still wearing heels in the gender swap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:46 AM
11

Wherever you go, there you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:44 PM
16

Point blank and period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:51 PM
11

I think this tiktok is ironic. The lyrics are about a woman who broke up with her ex for being a fuckboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:50 PM
7

Aren’t these weirdos meant to be all about consent?! They want her to be okay with a fetish that hinges on a lack of consent. The only thing consistent is their inconsistency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:32 PM
9

The best way to do this is start to verbally express the beauty you see in other women. Don’t be afraid to tell a woman she has a confident walk, or that you love the way she styled her hair, or how well she blended her eyeshadow. Eventually it starts to trickle to yourself. You start to notice that you too have great dance moves, that you really know how to make people smile, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:32 AM
3

Especially because they say that when they’ve been called out for doing something you weren’t comfortable with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:12 AM
5

Which grammatical mistake? The lack of “to”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:47 AM
23

I’m sorry did she say MORTGAGE?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:06 PM
24

Sounds like coercion to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:54 AM
6

Followed you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:53 AM
66

Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:31 AM
1

Oh understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:39 AM
3

Couldn’t you just write the names and therefore resist exposing yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:52 PM
32

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/4470128/ Embryos develop as female for the first five weeks. As do most mammal embryos. Explains why men have nipples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:34 PM
18

It’s borrowed from black American women, so not really ours to define.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:25 PM
9

I love this idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:38 PM
8

So what’s your solution sis? Believe it or not, I know only too well what can happen when women go to the police, however for any woman that feels helpless, reporting to the police can help them feel they are doing something about a traumatic event. Just because the police might not hear you out doesn’t mean it’s not beneficial for these two guys to have an official record of their misdeeds, whether it goes to court or not. I’m against discouraging women from going to the police, but I can also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:51 PM
2

Looool he looks like my brother (who takes after my dad) so I’ve never found him attractive. I look like R-J Page when I do a gender flip on faceapp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:00 AM
4

The guy has no Dick game. The only time she feels something in their sexual relationship is when she’s feeling him inflict pain There is no emotional connection in the relationship There is no friendship There are no orgasms She’s not even being paid for her participation (not justifiable to me, in any case) What’s the f*cking point??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:14 AM
42

You’re on the right track. You can start doing a slow fade, with no explanation and focus on the friendships that give you joy instead of pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:05 AM
39

So no-one should report a rape? I wonder which group this viewpoint serves...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:30 PM
9

what's her @
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:16 PM
255

why was this a condition on a loss of a bet in the first place?! She was raped. she needs to go to the police, end of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:11 PM
22

Nice work detective! 🕵🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:24 PM
22

Oh nice, thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:23 PM
25

LOOOOOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:31 PM
3

I mean someone doesn’t even have to ask with words. A quick raised eyebrows with a tilt of the head, or stopping just before a point of no return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:30 PM
2

I waited for him to go to the restroom then dipped! 😂😭 Muay Thai boxer with nothing going on in them. I was shook because I did not expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:24 PM
2

I have definitely left a guy because his willy wasn’t what I expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:22 PM
43

Hmmm which post was the screenshot referring to? I honestly don’t think I’ve seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:21 PM
15

I’m not upset haha. I’m mad that so many birds don’t have their own emoji. Looking into which one this might be and their mating rituals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:19 PM
66

I don’t know which bird this is, but it’s definitely not a peacock. Peacocks splay their tails not their wings, and it’s also not as circular. It must be some type of bird of paradise? Any orthinologists in the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:13 PM
31

It’s not a peacock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:09 PM
31

It’s a common saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:13 PM
19

SIDEMAN ALL DAY I love him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:49 AM
-5

OP, your autocorrect is really confusing me. Could you please edit the grammar and spelling of your post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:37 AM
27

I mean you could argue that yes she’s the gate keeper, but that still makes him a robber/invader. He’s still playing an active role in the sex they have. A horny woman by herself would likely masturbate, instead of conjuring a man out of thin air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:36 AM
32

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:16 AM
28

OMG!!! That’s not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:14 AM
51

Oh dear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:12 AM
17

I’m sorry. What a racist arsehole. *my phone autocorrected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:27 AM
2

Drug dealers now have MBAs so there’s no judgement here. There are parallels between the story of your ex boyfriend, and for example a really kind friend of mine who let his family walk all over him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:17 AM
5

ny times I told him to shut the fuck up about some stupid asshole supposedly talking shit about him. Lmao that’s so funny. I also would lose his ass at a party, walk into a room where he was making a deal and have to be like “where’s the cash”. Everyone hated me. If you aren't already watching Snowfall, you should (where the clip is from). It's a fantastic show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:26 PM
9

Looool - you would make a good sales manager if you aren't already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:06 PM
8

This you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:34 PM
5

The problem for me was I'm in the 7%, where it happens every first time 🙈 I only had hookups with men that most people would find attractive (6 foot+, gorgeous face, 6 pack, great ass: ie. models, personal trainers, hot young finance dudes, etc). I htink someone should study the orgasm gap between women who sleep with ugly/average men vs women who sleep with hot guys. Their looks got me halfway there, honestly. I don't think I'm particularly attractive, but I don't see the point of having sex wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:31 PM
4

gals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:24 PM
54

Omg I’m so sorry but this is hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:17 PM
51

Congratulations sis. There has been a wave of people quitting now the pandemic is over/dwindling due to behaviour like this. If they ask you back, look for the top end of what your role should be and add more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:00 PM
4

FINALLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:19 PM
142

I love that she’s doubling down after being on the front page of reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:40 PM
4

A little suspicious of OPs motives ngl. Why would this be your first post here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:23 PM
1

WHAT THE DUCK?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:21 PM
21

Call me baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:10 PM
23

I was confused for a moment because Clydesdale is also the name of a bank in the UK. Is he saying he is a horse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:43 PM
11

Omg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:38 PM
28

It’s probable. The “can I ask you a question” is a LVM move to avoid responsibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:53 PM
11

ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:32 PM
34

I didn’t miss it, I just found 3sum especially egregious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:13 PM
56

This guy should be in jail! What a piece of sh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:48 AM
82

Right? I hate that the onus is on the woman to "spice up" the relationship when he's the reason for the lack of libido in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:35 AM
76

woman who had apparently checked out a female stranger on the street, mentioned the woman's butt to her loving boyfriend and then they both had proceeded to circle around the block in their car perving on the poor lady. At least I saw people call her out on it though. Dear, women (pickmes), stop trying to please your porn-fcked boyfriend / husband by objectifying and even going so far as to try to procure other women as an offering to his crusty penis. He won't love you or respect you for it!! I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:33 AM
140

The spelling of '3sum' is nauseating. If you can't spell it you can't have it. Also the woman is meant to have sex with them on that very same day? Urgh I hate it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:56 AM
358

I hate this woman’s grammar. She asks if she can ask a question. The question she asks isn’t even a question. It’s a statement of desire. If you can’t spell it, you can’t have it. Gift him with a divorce sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:10 AM
48

Exactly. Also, I’m loathe to assign a “cool girl” label to a woman who very well may have been manipulated into a situation like this. There are so many stories, even on FDS, about coerced threesomes that I think the title of this post is a bad take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:58 AM
17

I don’t think the conclusion of “cool girl” is accurate here. We believe that too many women are coerced into sex by their partners, who they ostensibly love and are committed to. I think threesome situations are rife with even more coercion and abuse, given that it’s sex with a stranger, and there is the cultural expectation that one partner (usually male) has to “convince” the other (usually female) to go through with it, in order to save their relationship. The fact that the OPs in the screen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:55 AM
6

Honk honk 🔴🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:34 PM
10

This is a bad take OP. The line about the "hairy legged feminist" is not a mistake. If we lived in a world where women directly chose their partners, ugly men would be bred out. Josh Whedon would not have been asked out during the school Sadie Hawkins dance of his youth and it seems he was still pressed about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:50 PM
20

thank you! thought I was going mad for a second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:47 PM
10

That’s an MDPhD, including the A levels /SATs needed to qualify.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:48 AM
8

You don’t have to have sex to know whether someone is well endowed or not. Making out exists. You don’t have to have sex to find out if someone has an STI either. Tests exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:36 AM
8

Elate date does this. It’s new but looks interesting https://www.elatedate.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:18 AM
9

There’s an app that does this, but with three in the roster. I think it’s called elate date https://www.elatedate.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:17 AM
8

This is a good example of what I mean when I say loyalty. I couldn't ever be with a man that didn't have my back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:26 PM
13

This is why you usually have a screener call/ FaceTime before the date. Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:06 AM
16

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:03 AM
12

I’ve realised that when men make up stories about their girlfriends/ wives on FDS, they are never specific about what she specifically did. Was she a lurker? Was she a poster? What was the most egregious she did? Why not make up that part too? Low Effort Men in every imaginable way. My guess is this guy never had a girlfriend in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:00 AM
147

I like to think of bad smells as a sign that we’re not compatible on a biological level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:51 AM
8

Omg the incel prayer is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:20 PM
2

This is an atrocious take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:19 PM
17

It’s his voice for me, honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:21 AM
39

“Things actually improved for a while” = hysterical bonding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:02 AM
28

👴🍆💦🚽👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:59 PM
13

Great :) I feel sorry for the woman he doxxed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:55 AM
18

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:19 AM
17

Op this is not a Scrotation report
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:18 AM
17

Op, what are the takeaways from this video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:48 AM
27

I would repost this, OP. It looks like you were inly recently approved so this flew under the radar. I don’t have any experience with this but I have seen plenty of posts about women leaving toxic marriages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:21 AM
13

OP, just DM her and ask her to come here. There’s no point us giving advice on the off chance someone in the same situation will see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:47 AM
9

No problem :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:10 AM
184

It’s grooming. Call him out. He needs to be on notice that he can’t speak to kids this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:42 PM
46

When his necklace is his keyring…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:41 PM
79

It’s the law of nature. The health of a species depends on the selectiveness of its female members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:18 PM
417

Dr Jessica Taylor. My shero and the owner of Victim Focus, a site that has a self-guided course for working through sexual trauma. An absolute queen. www.victimfocus.org.uk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:06 PM
2

Because instead of a scarcity mindset, it fosters disrespect. They get used to bots (or russian men getting paid pennies by tinder) responding “teehee” and “wow you’re so handsome” to whatever they say, so when they encounter a real woman, especially an attractive one, they are still abusive. The real question is why they use abusive language as a fidelity test. See also: why men call Siri a “bitch”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:00 PM
242

He’s a piece of shit and he’s also a dumbass. If she really helped him like she says with her labour, then he owes her wages. If he presented her with the prenup two weeks before the wedding then it can get thrown out if she signed under duress. Her guy is evil, but he’s also a massive dumbass 😂 DM me sis, I will share all the tricks with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:17 PM
71

To the OP of this post: this is the definition of duress. This prenup will probably not hold up in court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:11 PM
75

The one where people ask for advice in their relationships, but it’s been deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:56 PM
34

makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:43 PM
170

THE REAL TEA IS IN THE COMMENTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:40 PM
4

I wish all the best for you too. For you to put this together in such a way is such a caring act. I’m sending you beams of love and appreciation. 💕✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:21 PM
30

I think this is why rotational dating is so important for single women. I went on about 200 (maybe more?) first dates before I met my guy. Thank God for spreadsheets because boy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:11 PM
19

The bar isn’t even on the floor tbh. Saving themselves from jail isn’t admirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:43 PM
136

Theresa May was on to something when she was banning porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:42 PM
142

The OG comment must have been posted here. Reddit would be melting otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:41 PM
3

😂 no worries, I’ve lived in one of those countries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:39 PM
9

Thank you. My SO displays none of these traits, and has been helping me work on my negative ones. He is a really good influence on me and has helped me reduce my bottling up (I grew up without having my needs met, so why bother) and blame shifting (I didn’t tell you because you didn’t ask). It’s been freeing being able to truly trust someone for the first time in my life and not have it be broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:35 PM
10

Wow wow wow this and your other posts are fantastic. They’ve also helped me identify some toxic thinking patterns and habits I have and can go through with my therapist. Thank you so much for taking the time to put these together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:09 PM
6

She sounds Irish to me. It’s the way she says “going out” and “ready”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:28 PM
4

I’m sorry but the sound mixing on this is horrific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:28 AM
7

That’s enough internet for today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:20 AM
1

You’ll find your people. I’ve found that I tend to be friends with what people might describe as glamazons and/ or self made women. I think women who put in effort and into their lives put in effort with their friendships. Not everyone is going to be fore you unfortunately but please don’t let them stop your shine. Your tribe is out there. I’ve been able to find some cool ambitious friends by joining services like Allbright and Lunchclub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:17 AM
3

Sorry sis ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:12 AM
6

It’s not feminazī. Even animals have the instincts to protect their young. A cat can turn on people it’s lived with for years once she gets a litter. Pickme socialisation is so strong that in some cases it erodes animal instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:10 AM
3

OMG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:07 AM
26

Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:03 AM
14

It is 100% a kink. Look at the police uniforms Omg the bank note said 5 DOMS 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:55 AM
12

That is literally condoning rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:52 AM
7

The irony is that as a proportion of the rest of their communities, blank women are the most upwardly mobile. They are the most college educated. The only final step for black women is to disavow themselves of the notion that they have to be “loyal” to anyone but themselves and their children. That’s it. The funny thing is I wasn’t shocked by the content of that clip because black men speak like this about women all the time. Find me a charting rap song that doesn’t speak about black women this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:50 AM
10

Amen 🙏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:47 AM
2

You. I like your style ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:02 AM
3

This sounds like a great podcast series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:28 AM
98

I’ve missed seeing your username on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:07 AM
34

TEN PARTNERS IN THE LAST MONTH?!?! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:16 AM
16

THIS GUY NEEDS TO BE FIRED!!! 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:55 AM
14

I love when the trash takes itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:46 AM
12

Scrotelation from the top - “I’m not as rich as you” = “I am dead broke. I have no hope in the world” I don’t have much to say about the others except that it would be a great list for any woman he was interested in to show her parents 😂😂😂 Like… look at this crazy fool y’all are trying to set me up with. Do not let this psycho near any woman. I like people like this to show their crazy upfront
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:44 AM
3

/u/davina33
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:40 PM
18

/u/Lilithwon Handbook Material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:40 AM
247

Text of article The split between Bill and Melinda Gates, announced last week, has been in the works for a long time. Ms. Gates consulted with divorce lawyers roughly two years before she filed for divorce from Mr. Gates, saying their marriage was “irretrievably broken,” according to people familiar with the matter and documents reviewed by The Wall Street Journal. The 56-year-old philanthropist has been working with lawyers at several firms since at least 2019 to unwind the marriage of more tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:32 AM
26

Damn! All this time I thought it was about Esther Perel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:25 AM
49

I had two dates for prom 😬 There’s a photo of me with my hands in the crooks of both their elbows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:05 AM
17

I mean… speaking is an act. To speak is a verb, a doing word. Inaction speaks louder than words (i.e. I don’t love you)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:35 PM
32

I mean how is it that a vagina can fit a tampon after giving birth but still not be enough for some men??? Y’all really out here with some needle dicks for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:14 PM
1

How did you find FDS, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:29 PM
3

They’re school friends and OP has a boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:17 AM
5

I tried too understand your comment and couldn’t. Could you clarify?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:03 AM
5

The sex industry is the only one to mind where experience and longevity are seen as a bad thing. In any other industry, being novel is not something to exalt, not a point of pride, and not something one seeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:53 AM
49

The irony is… I know this man doesn’t look like that. By his own measurement, even he’s not masculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:24 AM
5

spoiler alert, he sleeps with the sister wife before their marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:37 PM
10

Fight , Flight, Freeze, Flop, Friend These are the Five responses women's bodies have when experiencing sexual assault. 70% of women will experience the freeze response during a sexual assault Here is a Self Development Course for Women who have experienced sexual violence, written by Dr Jessica Taylor (same woman with groundbreaking research about half of women having experienced assault while asleep) https://www.victimfocus.org.uk/free-caring-for-yourself-after-sexual-violence *edited for spel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:53 PM
11

condomless sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:47 PM
28

Exactly. I mean she's a billionaire - there are plenty of sketches by black male comedians (who else) about marrying Oprah for her money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:44 PM
59

oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:26 PM
14

well put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:20 PM
13

Not scoliosis 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:09 AM
12

Congratulations, honestly. I get so exhausted by useless people and he sounds beneath that even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:08 AM
6

I was allergic to them 😭 and every time I see her ads I get fomo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:05 AM
33

I hate when people ask questions and then tell you your answer is wrong. Like.. you asked me fool! Stop trying to act like you know better because I just told you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:01 AM
12

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5XbuvYZ3wyecVzU29ksrVR Spotify link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:18 AM
17

We want some of that energy in our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:03 AM
23

Yes but the difference here is we don’t know his name. You can’t even see his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:46 AM
7

OP, please delete this post. I have a whole post about why we shouldn’t be linking to bad actors, but in summary, increasing the amount of views she gets means that she will be recommended to MORE WOMEN on the YouTube algorithm in the future. Do not engage. Do not share, Do not “Dislike”, these are all signs to YouTube that people like you, ie women of your age range on YouTube, find her content interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:46 AM
55

The way she said it was tongue in cheek, and the rest of us got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:37 AM
19

🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:34 AM
46

Fuego Friday/ Fire Friday Hump Day Hunks (wednesday) Thirsty Tuesdays Wet Wednesday (too graphic?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:55 PM
11

Shhh stop telling everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:53 PM
8

Now that is the type of high vibrational energy I’m looking for 🥳 I might do a post of a young Cillian Murphy with a separate one for his voice 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:52 PM
59

OMG this is great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:49 PM
5

Urgh that's annoying. All her older ones are good though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:06 AM
1

Because they can’t afford it. It’s that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:01 AM
28

This is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:22 AM
109

This is the worst survey. Why would they ask their questions in front of other participants?! Side note: I know it’s immature but that journalist’s surname… 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:18 AM
15

Thanks. I got downvoted really heavily the last time I said something like this on this sub. I even made a post about linking to bad actors, as even negative attention is beneficial to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:14 AM
15

This is Dr Wendy Walsh, host of the Mating Matters podcast. She discusses evolutionary biology and sexual attraction in a really cool digestible way. Search “Mating Matters” wherever you get your podcasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:08 AM
22

I think if it were the girl posting this instead of a screenshot, then it would make sense, but I don’t see how posts like this are useful because: We can’t offer her advice as that would be brigading this post offers little to no strategy benefit to women as it doesn’t mention the early red flags (besides the age gap, which has already been mentioned countless times on this sub) This post is neither useful to people in a relationship like this, who would be better served by a post about how to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:57 AM
12

I was in the gifted and talented program for mathematics because my (male) teacher saw my potential and put me forward for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:42 AM
6

A HVM Jared. I must admit that this is a first for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:41 AM
34

This is probably true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:32 AM
22

WOW! This is disgusting. He’s playing the character that he was on “The Good Wife”. A duplicitous creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:25 AM
63

Why do these genius tech bros never use some common f*cking sense when designing these features?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:14 AM
18

I’m praying for your DMs sis 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:13 AM
99

😂 “No but wait!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:04 AM
5

I’m wondering why the author of the article didn’t expose this guy (no pun intended) If men can’t be afraid of flashing journalists there’s no hope for the rest of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:03 AM
53

At this point I have empathy fatigue. I’m glad that you’re putting in the good fight OP and that you’re helping her but I’m finding it impossible to care about people who deliberately choose to live like this. The amount of LVM and LVW I read about on this sub is exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:59 AM
3

oh gotcha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:12 PM
3

/u/LilithWon /u/TheOGJammies Handbook material under “Sex Strategy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:10 PM
543

This is Dr Wendy Walsh, host of the Mating Matters podcast. She discusses evolutionary biology and sexual attraction in a really cool digestible way. Search “Mating Matters” wherever you get your podcasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:05 PM
13

Oh I loved her in Revenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:52 PM
9

Amazing that he was doing this at an airport!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:14 AM
3

I agree with the rest of your comment, but Ted Bundy wasn’t charming. He was a loser socially and financially (mooching off a single mother) and child molester who used the privilege of being a white dude to evade detection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:25 AM
2

Omg 😆 I guffawed at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:21 AM
17

I actually felt sick when I imagined this. I will never be okay with the degradation of women and children in pursuit of their “empowerment”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:10 PM
5

A real wonderful man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:08 PM
12

💀🧟‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:07 PM
91

I’ve know a couple who started looking at homes after a year. They already had a joint account and everything. I was aghast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:57 PM
22

Yesssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:58 AM
6

Why do I feel like Esther Perel has something to do with this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:09 AM
1

Thank you for the additional context. That gives me a lot of context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:52 AM
-1

hypocritical Do you mean undercritical here? Or insincere/hypocrisy? E: removed extraneous hyphen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:09 AM
8

Whyyyy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:47 PM
19

He has it online for free on purpose. Here is the archived version: https://ia800108.us.archive.org/30/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:56 PM
8

It's not FDS to take a victim blaming mindset. I've never sent nudes, but I also don't judge others for succumbing to social pressure against their best interests. If no woman had ever been manipulated by a man, FDS wouldn't exist. I don't like the tone of your comments as they seem a little too gleeful in someone else's misery for my taste. The handbook isn't a tool in which to beat up other women. It's a way for women to help each other level up. The amount of time that you used to comment to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:51 PM
2

LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:48 PM
6

Jesus take the wheel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:48 PM
4

This f*cker ain't slick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:47 PM
7

It was “dog”. Even said so on the closed caption they added
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:09 PM
3

I’ve thought about this entirely too much and I’ve realised that this guy wants her to have a job as a pretext so he doesn’t have to pay as much alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:03 AM
10

I don’t see what is FDS about letting an 18 year old woman stay ignorant in her relationship. Her nudes were shared without her knowledge. That’s a huge violation. It seems cowardly to be bold enough with the truth online, but not where it would actually make a difference. I’m put off by this anecdote. ETA text I responded to: I know someone who showed his new girlfriend’s nudes to his dad’s friend (they were both drunk). The idiot dad’s friend told his dad what he saw, and from then on the dad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:59 AM
2

So how do you shout these dudes? I think that would add strategy to your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:44 AM
3

😱 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:43 AM
9

This is my FDS energy. The Georgia peach (from Why Men Love B*tches)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:14 AM
4

OMG what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:02 AM
16

RIGHT?! Haha I just commented something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:31 AM
30

I want to know how she got a ring set from Amazon when they’ve been married 20 years... 🧐🕵🏾‍♀️ Doesn’t add up here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:31 AM
9

I love this. Next step: introducing the idea of rotational dating if dating for marriage. Video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgQPynABZAY Article: https://www.samiwunder.com/what-rotational-dating-is-and-what-its-not/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:29 PM
24

I didn't downvote you because your comment adds to the conversation. There might be someone else who didn't neccesarily see the issue and by having a comment that reflects their views, along with a different perspective, it can deepen understanding. Also from a vanity standpoint downvoting you would mean no-one would see my reply :( ETA: Sorry have to add some more context. The man in the OP is stuck between a rock and a hard place (poor dear!) He has to contend with these facts: his wife is con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:51 AM
1

u/Lilithwon could this go in the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:46 AM
35

OP said they haven't had a nanny or maid for several years in another comment on the original thread. He put it in the OP knowing that it would rile people up. Notice how he grudgingly acknowledges that she's a good mother, and that she's in shape? Only because his buddies said so. He also acknowledges that he knows she won't make much of a financial contribution to the family income if she had a job, and he would still disrespect her if she did a non-paying job like volunteering He's lost respe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:33 AM
135

I love the Tiger King litmus test. When I was in uni, my litmus test was how they felt about Skylar White from Breaking Bad. The amount of men that called her a b*tch without irony was staggering. Instant turnoff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:59 AM
6

They are called Tiles and they’re fantastic. If you’re in the UK, Amazon has them 33% off on the Treasure Truck today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:49 AM
5

Yes. That’s fair. I used to volunteer for a domestic violence helpline (I only lasted 3 months - it was too depressing) and some women in my family have been victims of domestic violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:47 AM
8

If you’ve read “Why does he do that” you’d know that abusive men deliberately pick fights at times where they know that their spouse is about to get some freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:32 AM
5

Look up thread, there is a woman explaining that her ex would hide her purse before she was going to make a purchase. I wouldn’t be surprised if the boyfriend did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:30 AM
8

It’s baffling to me that no-one else seems to spot something wrong. It’s a bit like a libfem view of friendship: if it works for me, it’s good for all women. It’s not a coincidence that OP’s friend wasn’t available when OP was going to help her move some things? This has abuse written all over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:27 AM
21

I mean, speaking from experience, my friend and I were struck dumb by the sight of a beautiful man walking past us while talking on the phone, but I don’t think calling it a walk did him justice. This guy was 5’10”, muscled, white tee and jeans, and he just had it We noticed each other’s faces and burst out laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:33 AM
20

Yesss... I love the slim build metro look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:24 AM
10

Right? I don’t know there’s something about this post that seems off. I don’t know how long they’ve been friends, but unless there’s some bad history that OP has with this friend, it doesn’t really make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:20 AM
5

Okay OP, you obviously did the right thing in going back home when she didn’t respond. I just want to know why you didn’t just knock? Unless you didn’t know where her house was, I wouldn’t drive 45 minutes to sit outside. Maybe because I’m less afraid of conflict, but my first instinct after something like this would be that she had a medical emergency or something, but not that she didn’t want to see me. To my mind it’s unfathomable that a friend would blank me. Edit: I just saw that you psyche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:18 AM
32

IF HE CAN’T AFFORD A RING HE CAN’T F*CKING AFFORD A HOUSE, OR A WEDDING OR KIDS, DUMBASS!!!! “Hey, I feel to meet the lowest financial bar in order to get married” “It’s okay, I’ll lower it for you at my expense!” OMG at this point let’s just call it what it is: idiocy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:51 AM
13

He’s a boxer, but I don’t know about the others. Usually when there’s glory or status involved, they learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:42 AM
2

Well I’m happy to help. You could do a pre vs post informational behaviour colour coded bubble chart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:27 PM
2

You’re very welcome. It reads like literature. Which is so unlike how I think (hyper-analytical, best represented by a table or a graph instead of an essay) Brava x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:41 AM
4

Ma’am. This is a scrotation report. The best report I’ve ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:24 AM
9

I love how these guys tell on themselves. A hit dog will holler
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:07 AM
8

This is already happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:01 AM
34

“Is he frugal, or is he homeless” - Oprah voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:28 PM
4

You could set up Automod to reject posts with TikTok links. I’ve seen it on mod support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:21 PM
62

Why should you be thankful for something that all men already give so freely?? Men are out here thinking their dicks are precious. Bless their hearts 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:15 PM
17

Imagine using your wife’s name to get jobs, and then coming home and calling yourself the boss — I just 😬🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:59 PM
10

Rock climbing is amazing for this. Great workout and the boys can literally pull their own weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:43 PM
13

Isn’t that what “making up” means?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:35 PM
3

He’s ugly and he knows it. Or he was hoping to coerce her into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:29 PM
9

I would say “yes, great, see you there” “I’m five minutes away! Order me the mimosa 😘” Then ghost. All from the comfort of my sofa. No booty cometh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:27 PM
49

Lord. Imagine being the breadwinner and the housewife. What’s traditional about that? 😂 Clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:24 PM
56

This is a great, practical take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:22 PM
90

Because she’s being neglected in her marriage. If husbands treated wives with respect, FDS wouldn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:22 PM
10

Fair enough. I think you shouldn’t be afraid to show that you did a good deed though. It might inspire others to act in a similar fashion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:21 PM
22

I mean, I want to give the original OP some credit. The fact that she posted on Reddit is a sign that there is a still, small voice that is telling her enough is enough I wish that I could tell her that her husband complaining about dropping him off at daycare already means that he doesn’t care about the alone time he has with their son. That the Facebook posts he’s putting up is him planning the public reputation for when they have a custody disagreement. OP is in more danger than she thinks. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:15 PM
17

Yeah I’m starting to feel real uncomfortable with these “blast a pickme” posts. It’s just misery: no resolution, no solutions, just stress. She’s being neglected in her marriage. The practice used to be DMing the women so they could come here and post their stories for practical advice. Now it’s “look at how wrong she is”. It’s going to alienate a lot of women who could do with some self confidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:50 PM
10

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:06 PM
19

I love your username and icon btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:05 PM
3

Could you create a mirror link so we don’t build up this guy’s SEO?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:16 PM
221

Sometimes one gets complacent about the sex based differences in accommodations in the world... ...and then a post like this comes along. I never even thought about urinals vs toilets. I would love if more sinks were inside cubicles to wash menstrual cups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:37 PM
14

😹😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:09 AM
2

Hmmm let’s see... would the birth still happen if he weren’t there? Then he’s extraneous 🤓🎓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:44 PM
1

WE tReAt dads as the second class parents Forgets that his own dad could be his support person 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:40 PM
6

Go to Ghana 🇬🇭 Most people in the south there speak like this :) Or listen to recipe videos on YouTube. It’s what I do when I miss home 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:38 PM
6

Me on the keto diet 👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:36 PM
25

I would like to include vulnerable teen gay boys to this. Kicked out of home because of homophobia, and end up being groomed into prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:32 PM
100

lol I have done this and got a guy asking me on a date in front of my recent ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:05 PM
44

This is beautiful. What a heartfelt letter to a high value queen ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:39 PM
76

It was accumulated smegma. I’m sorry but I clicked the link so now we all must suffer 🧐😯🤢🤮🤦🏾‍♀️🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:46 AM
13

Look now... 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:39 AM
62

The “we gerrit” as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:43 AM
32

I think that’s what she meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:14 AM
56

Yes it’s true. Men of a higher status = more orgasms during sexual intercourse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:04 AM
191

“Is it by force?” Ghana 🇬🇭 Girl confirmed 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:47 AM
6

Oh yay, I'm so glad that you're going to be inviting FDSers to the podcast. I recommended it in the last thread, but didn't think it would end up going in that direction. I'll send you a DM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:42 PM
10

Also, your life is far from over. These men are now out of your life. Just remember that as you start to level up and build back your confidence, there will be more men that will approach you. I want to give you credit, because it takes a lot of guts to make yourself vulnerable by posting online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:04 AM
21

Seven don’t forget about the Skene’s and Bartholin’s ducts ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:46 AM
13

Get in contact with that relative, if you’re not already. Theres no reason you’d have to level up alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:42 AM
39

Pfffffff! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:04 PM
12

Oh ffs 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:26 PM
23

I hope Victor gets a jury trial. I would let him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:01 AM
29

Aww thanks. I love that all women (English speaking, granted) are celebrated here. I used to see more posts in different languages and I miss that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:34 AM
11

Tagging /u/davina33 and /u/fiery_woman into the conversation Posts I’m finding: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iixvxp/for_those_women_who_feel_they_cannot_leave_lvms/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:08 AM
4

Stoppp 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:19 AM
27

Happy cake day, sassy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:14 AM
179

Once again, 🔴💊 narrative about sleeping around with α and settling with β was another bullsh*t projection after all! Who would have thought??! FDS: 🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:58 AM
20

I mean, it’s odd for them to expose themselves like this. It’s also disgusting, but it’s odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:04 PM
48

Which post made all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:14 PM
8

I feel for her parents. This guy was literally paid to groom their daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:53 PM
10

I don’t know but it takes me out, as I have to reread the sentence again in case I’ve missed some context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:10 PM
22

“I guess you weren’t either! Bye!!” * sing-song voice * or * super sad like speaking to a toddler *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:06 AM
81

She’s acting like a toddler in the video, it’s odd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:59 AM
1

I think the point of the other commenters is that police reform ensures that this guy is put away before he has the chance to break in. You’re creating a false choice of “shoot or be killed” where there’s an option C of prevention of that kind of situation in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:44 AM
2

She didn’t forget about her career, she was abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:41 AM
2

I mean. Isn’t this odd that all your examples have women shooting strangers, when the woman in the post, plus most most murdered women, are murdered by their exes and current partners? Wouldn’t an ex know how to get into the house? Wouldn’t he know where the guns are? Wouldn’t he try to get her in a situation where he knew she was unarmed? The most dangerous time for an abused woman is right after she leaves her spouse. These are people with intimate knowledge of the way their victims work and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:34 AM
3

Well noone else will respond to you because your question isn’t even framed in good faith and you come off as narcissistic. “Why exactly don’t you support women being able to defend themselves as best as they possibly can?” is a horrible way to ask a question if you really are coming from a place of wanting to understand instead of misguided moral superiority. The facts are there are fewer gun deaths in places where guns are against the law. Australia, where the crime took place, has stricter gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:27 AM
3

OMG!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:13 AM
4

So they turn their frustration outward unto those that don’t have anything to do with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:15 PM
17

Imagine this woman were your attorney. She has no backbone and no teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:58 PM
32

This is where pick me comes from to be fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:01 AM
8

Check out her Instagram. @herspectivefeminist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:24 AM
60

YOUR CLITORAL HOOD?! 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:12 AM
41

Jokes on him I look like my pretty boy dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:37 AM
16

No judgment here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:36 AM
7

OMG! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:59 PM
2

I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:11 AM
44

I remember you speaking about your DV experience on this subreddit. Congratulations on getting a place, I'm so happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:08 AM
9

Where would you recommend then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:24 AM
18

Thanks I will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:05 AM
41

The OP said “it’s not the same [as parenting] but just enough [for her, presumably]” It really isn’t that deep. She craves the portion of motherhood where she gets to teach someone what she knows. Also I think guiding is a more appropriate word for college aged young adults. What she’s describing is known as allo-parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:00 AM
31

Some biblical scholars posit that Eve was actually made from Adam’s “penis bone” rather than a rib. Otherwise men would have one fewer rib than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:49 AM
25

I can recommend London over Berlin wholeheartedly. Berlin has cheaper public transportation, but London is more fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:43 AM
7

Basically!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:36 AM
25

Wow. I was called a femme fatale by my 63 year old colleague Forgot to add that he was over 40 years older than me at the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:36 PM
40

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:58 PM
17

Urgh true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:16 PM
160

Oof. The lube thing is so well put. Could you imagine if you could buy a condom that made flaccid men stiff, even if they were flaccid due to lack of interest in sex? And this condom would be available at pharmacies, supermarkets and corner shops. It’s mental how baked patriarchy is into everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:03 PM
6

That black ex wife he had was imaginary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:50 PM
6

When you see the article on amp, there’s an icon like two chains linking together on the top right. Tap it, and it gives you the non-AMP link If you want to link to an article indirectly, archive.is is what you’re looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:30 PM
5

I can think of a few cuisines that are meant to be eaten with your hands, but that’s because it’s almost impossible to wield with cutlery, let alone feed someone with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:28 PM
2

I REMEMBER THIS!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:23 PM
51

When guys used to tell me they wanted to be dads, I’d ask them what their preferred parenting style is, what they think about Montessori schools and how much they had set up in a trust fund for their children. If they’re really about that life they’ll have an answer. It is very telling when they haven’t considered anything beyond “I want to play baseball/football 🤡” For example, Cameron from Love is Blind knew he wanted a wife and family even before he went on the show, so he bought a FOUR BEDRO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:23 AM
113

Oooh girl you nasty 😜😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:48 PM
3

I love that song! Not sure it’s a workout song though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:29 PM
5

I just noticed the “No Scooters “ logo on the wall where the “man” is peeing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:25 PM
10

OMG this is hilarious!!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:09 PM
2

I absolutely get it. I’m the eldest of six (!) It’s been up to me to set the example, be the role model, and as a daughter, be the mule. I knew from the post that it could have been the case for you too. I have been in a similar situation to you, and it took me cutting off the family for them to begin to respect me as my own person. This weekend I went to a barbecue, and they usually stress me out because I’m expected to prepare, look after everyone and I never got to relax. Yesterday was a smal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:04 AM
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Don’t leave him your deposit!! Here’s my pep talk: Look you need to understand that even if you gave your life for these people, like Christ on the cross, they would still call you a selfish b*tch because you didn’t leave them enough money, or you didn’t die quietly enough. Let it sink in how your brother is treating you, after you: discovered something that could have meant he was wasting money, and took steps to fix it let him live in your house rent free tidy up after him He is still abusing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:26 AM
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Also /u/LilithWon, as an aside, a good way to expand on the topics for the podcast would be reading out the handbook posts, starting from the most controversial You could then have three other commentators read out their favourite comments that also add to the post Great way to capitalise on outrage marketing 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:14 AM
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She’s awesome too! I loved her book. If you like her, check out Deborrah Cooper on Youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:10 AM
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She’s amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:09 AM
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OMG she would be great for an episode of protecting your assets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:01 AM
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Meghan Murphy from Feminist Current Dr Wendy Walsh from dating matters Ideally you’d not only have someone to interview on your podcast, but also do an episode of theirs as well. Look up journalists that have done articles about dating/ the sexual landscape and you could get an interview in exchange for a story. There are also some incredibly knowledgeable subscribers in this sub already. /u/tallwomenneedlovetoo is always coming through with legal facts and the fact that she is already FDS minde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:00 AM
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That’s disgusting that he wanted to creep on her. I’m glad you were able to be there as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:50 AM
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Men have proportionally longer torsos, so even if they are the same height, a man will sit “taller” in a chair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:43 AM
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I listened to this yesterday! It was incredibly informative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:05 PM
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Made for Love is fantastic. Fun fact: the character Diane is made from a model of the author's face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:56 PM
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I liked the fact that the piece exists, becuase although the interpretation of the reason for higher number of male virgins is wrong, (for example no mention of the increasing rate of viagra usage in men under 30, or the surging of Peyronie's disease) the trend is still noticeable enough to get a piece in a national newspaper. I am sure the author spoke to women, but none of them must have fit into the narrative of "women are too picky, even though a woman from Norway moved for a gamer that has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:26 PM
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shoutout to u/tellcerseeitwasme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:12 PM
42

It was written by a woman hoping to get men to buy her book. Narrator: they don’t read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:16 PM
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Right? Basically don’t buy this woman’s book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:14 PM
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Now you can create ads on social media to target women who are similar to the listeners of the show. Let’s get it, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:14 AM
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Phrasing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:56 AM
11

OMG 😱 💀 ☠️ 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:52 PM
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They love to tell on themselves. What did you say when he relayed that story?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:51 PM
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She doesn’t look 40 in that photo, let’s not get ahead of ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:33 PM
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Well it still begs the question, why is it that they think it’s “hot” for a woman to be in a child’s bathing suit with her figure flattened out with Photoshop 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:28 PM
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I mean I thought that was obvious lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:15 PM
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🚨🚨🚨 Reminders for all British women that the local elections are on the 6th of May 2021. You should have received your postal ballot, and will be able to vote for more than one party, so remember which parties care about violence against women and which have not. We need to be more proactive and show our displeasure with our votes. Let the country know that not passing the domestic abuser register was a huge mistake. If you have enough time to go on FDS, you have enough time to know who you’re v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:15 PM
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FDS approves of maximum female benefit. For example it wouldn’t benefit you to be married to an idiot/ a bum / an abuser. It also might not benefit an extraordinarily wealthy woman to be married to someone who wanted to use her for her money. Marriage is advised with the caveat that it has to be a good marriage where there is mutual love and respect. The point is to use your judgement. If the answer to “what’s in it for me?” meet your standards for a happy and healthy relationship with yourself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:55 PM
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🚨🚨🚨 Reminders for all British women that the local elections are on the 6th of May 2021. You should have received your postal ballot, and will be able to vote for more than one party, so remember which parties care about violence against women and which have not. We need to be more proactive and show our displeasure with our votes. Let the country know that not passing the domestic abuser register was a huge mistake. We can make change happen together ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:47 PM
3

Yes please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:39 PM
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Does she realise that she’s fumbling her bag? Doesn’t she realise that if she’s telling women that she can’t be trusted, that she won’t get bookings and therefore money? What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:57 AM
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The director is Pratibha Parmar, a director with experience handling female-centred stories with respect. Ashley Judd is part of the project so I have high hopes for this. https://m.imdb.com/title/tt10369638/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:44 AM
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The director is Pratibha Parmar, a director with experience handling female-centred stories with respect. Ashley Judd is part of the project so I have high hopes for this. https://m.imdb.com/title/tt10369638/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:43 AM
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Could expand on what it is, that the themes are, and how it resonated with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:39 AM
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Does this not inspire you to be more audacious in your own life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:38 AM
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“I mean I didn’t like her, probably because she showed too much interest and that made me lose attraction to her, but other women should display too much unearned interest in me so that I’m more attracted to them?” 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:34 AM
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Good bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:31 AM
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FAX 📠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:49 PM
3

I think you should repost the text. This is a high quality post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:15 PM
7

Eyyy 🥳🎉🍾🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:15 PM
6

She needs to start charging daycare rates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:44 PM
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At this point she just needs to make him smell it and then put him on time out 😂🐶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:49 AM
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Wow. I really feel for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:03 AM
262

Right? He doesn’t love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:46 AM
12

This was succinct and beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:18 AM
37

A word. Happy Cake Day 🎂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:16 AM
1

Right? The Dirty John story is so messed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:34 PM
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#bars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:03 PM
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It’s worse than them living rent free in our minds. By spreading their message, one inflicts the same pain and frustration that they feel on to other women. Plus it boosts the scammers profiles, popularity, and income, like I mention in my post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:00 PM
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Looool early in our relationship, my SO was really proud of himself over something basic. So I said: “Awww, who’s mama’s best boy” as if he were 2. He’s never done it since 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:33 PM
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Please stop giving clicks to these trolls. One of these guys got banned from TikTok because his pickup tips strayed too close to r@pe. I’ll link my post on why you shouldn’t give them attention. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mg17v7/linking_to_other_bad_actors_content_aka_do_not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:29 PM
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Not at all, thanks for being respectful. It’s hard to tell tone over text. It’s not about fantasising about a lack of control, it’s fantasising about a suspension of responsibility for the social consequences of sex. If a woman fantasises about being taken (by a person she already finds attractive) then she doesn’t have to confront her sexual desire while living in a society that condemns her for it. This way she gets to have a passive/submissive role while not taking “responsibility” Psychologi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:25 PM
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Congratulations! I promise you that you will start to feel your creativity coming back into your body. Your skin will start to improve and you’ll really get into yourself again. But I’m afraid it’s going to feel like shit for a while, and he will try to weasel back in by making you think about the good times (ask yourself if it was good to be degraded in bed the first nights you had sex. So your next step is to block him. There’s no reason why he should be able to message you. Next, you seem to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:45 AM
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To OPs credit she didn’t link to his channel but instead copied the video and hosted it on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:08 AM
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He recommended Peaches?! As in “fuck the pain away” peaches?! Homeboy is definitely suspect Eta. Wrong peach I’m old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:07 AM
3

Vandy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:02 AM
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This is not even what courting means. It means dating for the purposes of marriage. I hate when the meanings of words are perverted to take advantage of women. I think women should change the word relationship to mean one where there is emotional, physical and financial support for the woman, with no slacking on the man’s side, otherwise she is declared “single”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:00 AM
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Whew, this is what you need to say next time they ask you why you’re single 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:57 AM
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“But you lowered your standards and you’re technically single, except you’re now heartbroken too” “I see it like this: if I’m in a relationship where my needs aren’t met, I’m practically single, because I see no need to be loyal to a loser like that” “Do you want me to be with a guy like your Joe? Hahaha! That’s funny! Oh it wasn’t a joke? Sorry 😣” I see no need to spare their feelings when they don’t give a crap about yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:49 AM
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Well it’s like the difference between volunteering your time to something you love that adds to your resumé, vs getting paid to do something you hate that: increases your chances of death 17x increases the chance of infections disease increases the chance of domestic abuse ruins other job prospects most women enter as a way to cope with sexual abuse increases chances of drug addiction Small potatoes to you, I’m sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:44 AM
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It would be a good thing to formalise. I see the Aunty network like the handmaids tale having the martha network: an underground network of women who can step in and help women out of abusive relationships, who are able to advocate for legislation that protects women’s rights locally and protects girls and women through volunteering at local shelters/women and children centred charities. It would be big. There was an expose a few years ago that the creator of the 🔴💊 was a local New Hampshire leg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:35 AM
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RP Women in a nutshell. Despite doing everything “right” in her marriage, still seeks validation from teenage boys on the internet. Cute hairstyle though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:15 AM
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Right? Adultery is in the big ten TWICE! And yet here goes the bullshit. American Christianity is weird. I can’t think of any other culture where a holy scripture would be used as a way to justify onanism. In my mother country the comments would be full of bible verses and comments telling her that her husband is going to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:12 AM
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How can a right be “God- given” and still be condemned twice in the 10 commandments? 🧐 This is actually disgusting. Is she even married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:06 AM
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Exactly. Even though they are called “r@pe” fantasies, they are better understood if called “submission fantasies”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:00 AM
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This is a repost. If you look at the top posts of all time on this subreddit, this post will come up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:52 AM
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That just sounds like banter. My siblings and I roast each other way more than that and it’s never serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:31 PM
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Wow this is just dripping with insecurity. I feel sorry for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:50 PM
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I loved this post. This one not so much. There are a great many non consensual ways a woman could end up pregnant so sometimes abstinence isn’t an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:48 PM
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More to the point... why share this? 🤨 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:45 PM
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This post was obviously sarcastic. ETA. She retweeted men saying they would dump a woman like this for being desperate/ a yamhead 😂😭 I think she’s trying to get LVM to out themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:40 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I think in warning women about abortion / adoption / plan b, we’re forgetting that most women contemplating these options have already had unprotected sex. As bad as these are, being pregnant takes a worse toll on the body than Plan B or abortion. Adoption is not something that I would roll my genetic dice with but I can understand how women could be pressured socially into carrying to term. Also *of course the greatest birth control is abstinence, but some women get r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:21 PM
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He made up the bit about his therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:32 PM
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How much do you want to bet that those sex toys were used?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:58 PM
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When things like performing in adult films, sugar baby lifestyles etc. are framed as empowering, the implication is that women who don’t perform in this way have less power, which is dumb when you think about it. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:53 PM
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Look at this genius. A diamond for your crown, sis. 💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:49 PM
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Divorce incoming when the wife realises that he was able to contribute to the household all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:29 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:10 PM
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I think because of the keyword “dating” in the podcast title
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:03 PM
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Right? For the vilification that Sharia law gets, when it comes to r@pe, western societies practice a form of it. There have to be two female witnesses in order for the crime to be have committed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:01 PM
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Right? Even their indignation doesn’t make sense. It’s also like... abstinence is an option Brandon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:00 PM
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This was the sketch I thought of straight away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:57 PM
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I swear there was an Aussie sketch about a magic table like this. There were detectives and everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:56 PM
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“I don’t get it, could you explain it to me?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:55 PM
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To anyone reading this comment (going to do a post) I think the guiding principle to live by is asking the question: cui bono? * ie who stands to gain from this? I can think of a few groups of people who stand to gain from this: - Ugly Men. Research has shown that there are a few male physical attributes that increases the chance of coital orgasm in women, which is a function that evolved for women to retain the sperm of desirable mates. These physical attributes include, but are not limited to:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:38 AM
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That book was my teenage bible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:00 AM
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When he said “what the prophet said”, I thought it was going in a completely different direction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:44 AM
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Oh same! I never understood why my friends were allowed sleepovers and I wasn’t. The only girl who’s house I was allowed to go to had a single mother. She’s been my best friend for over 20 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:08 AM
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You should watch the Amazon Prime Video series. He abused the mum and molested the daughter. It was the first interview they’ve done with her, the first interview with many of the survivors. *edited because autocorrect let me spell Amazon wrongly 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:03 AM
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Hold tight Prince William. God said I will huff and puff and blow your edges away 😂🌬💨🍃😚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:21 PM
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Just for anyone else reading this post, there are three other types of hormonal birth control not mentioned in the OP that I know of: 1) contraceptive ring 2) Intrauterine System (like a small IUD with low dose hormones. Reduces spotting between periods) 3) contraceptive patch Here is a full list https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:19 PM
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I love that she does it with humour too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:10 PM
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omg when she says "I'm very violent, in case you haven't noticed" Hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:09 PM
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I have only met average guys who seem entitled. The super hot guys tend to be nicer in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:37 AM
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Meanwhile, their first date was their chance and they blew it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:36 AM
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He was possessed by Voldemort’s soul when he was mean to Hermione. That needs context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:22 PM
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Thank you. It’s weird seeing this hate for Ron in the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:19 PM
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I think I actually love that guy because at the end it’s obvious he was being sarcastic. But he had me in the first half ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:53 AM
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I’m a savage so I would have asked for his friend’s number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:07 AM
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Yes. Unfortunately protocol for Bumble is to have reports from three separate users before investigating in order to prevent spam. Sometimes block and delete isn’t enough on OLD. I’ll write a guide on how women can better use the algorithm to their advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:57 AM
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Maybe she thinks she's New Girl? The clumsy ditsy, cool girl who's low maintenance but still needs validation from men outside her marriage. All the best to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:56 PM
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This was already posted 3 hours ago: r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mord56/abort_mission_if_a_man_sees_you_this_way/ ETA link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:44 PM
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You're welcome :) Yes, it's another reason to avoid anal sex altogether. HIV transmission rates are pretty low per sex act, but the chances of infection over the course of a relationship is pretty high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:23 PM
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it depends on the kind of unprotected sex that is being had from hivlawandpolicy.org female-to-male (.04% per act or, in theory, about 4 cases of HIV transmission per every 10,000 acts of vaginal sex with a woman who is HIV positive) and male-to-female (.08% per act or 8 cases of HIV transmission per every 10,000 acts of vaginal sex with a man who is HIV positive) transmission estimates in high-income countries show a low risk of infection even when the person with HIV is not on antiretroviral t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:00 PM
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I mean at this point, isn’t this a great reason to add a Facetime call to the vetting process? Like “hey how are you doing? Show me your bathtub”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:07 AM
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Some red pill men mod the page that’s why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:05 AM
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OP did you DM her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:20 AM
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You could find out who they are quite easily. “Aww that’s so sweet that you’re so close with your goddaughter (he didn’t say that, but he won’t correct you). Do you see them often?” “Oh so they’re only about 30 minutes from here?” How often does he have contact with her “What kind of stuff does she like? I’m looking for stuff for my niece/ cousin who’s around that age” what toys/ gifts is he buying her? Is he planning on taking her on any trips? “You must have some pictures” see social media The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:19 AM
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The irony is that their original “The rules” book is in the handbook for recommended reading. The book rubbed me the wrong way because it’s extremely passive. You’re not even meant to LOOK at a guy you fancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:55 AM
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Women who are partnered with down low bisexual men are the highest risk for HIV and AIDS. https://www.phmc.org/site/news-and-events/254-groundbreaking-hivaids-study-investigates-dangers-of-down-low-label Men who are lying to themselves about their sexuality are less likely to use condoms, and the existence of PrEP means that more MSM (gay and bisexual men who have sex with other men) are eschewing condom use altogether. In London, 1 in 12 gay men are infected with HIV. https://www.aidsmap.com/ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:32 AM
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Exactly. It’s good to be methodical about these things. OP’s reject is obviously not well versed in it, otherwise he wouldn’t have said anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:09 AM
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Maybe the bottom right because it’s a guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:55 AM
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Condoms are also one size fits all. Use one, homie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:51 AM
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The irony is that by sending you that message, he has really fucked himself professionally. He has sent you this message because this helps him feel a sense of power, but that power is false. The fact that he “played his hand” shows that he’s used to getting his own way with women. There were obviously some plans he had for you and your body (gross I know) that he’s used to seeing coming to fruition. Do not delete the message, but take a screen recording of you going through the messages as well…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:41 AM
8

Thank you. Your username always cracks me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:00 AM
21

This is perfection. Looks like tumblr? Which account was this from originally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:01 PM
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I think we can even reframe embarrassment as a sign that you’ve grown out of this people pleasing phase. It’s progress I promise. Without that shame, you might have gone along with it for longer. Without that shame you probably wouldn’t have found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:45 PM
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That doesn’t even make sense. The thing with finances is that they create a trail. She could easily sue him for the house as there is proof that she contributed to it. This story is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:34 PM
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The post title made me nervous for a second, but I’m so happy for you. He is officially #bae
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:31 PM
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I think before you continue dating, you might need to ask yourself why you went on two more dates with this guy, and then forgive yourself for it. Because of this incident, you have strengthened your belief in your own instinct. That’s one positive thing that came out from this interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:36 PM
2

I’m so sorry that no one was on your side. It only costs the NHS more when GPs drop the ball.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:41 PM
2

Latex AND nitrile? I’m so sorry sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:30 PM
2

I would recommend fruit teas if you don’t want to increase your sugar levels but still want the taste. The twinings cold brew infusions are also delicious (available in the UK) *edited for spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:29 PM
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I’m so glad. Fellow Cyster here. I’ve managed my symptoms to the point where My BMI is now 20 (woop) Dr Jason Fung is amazing for finding out the root cause (hyperinsulinemia) and Chef Monya Palmer (works with Heston Blumenthal) is fantastic with low-inflammatory keto recipes. It took me 4 years of self advocacy to get officially diagnosed because I had been managing it well already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:28 PM
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Two years to get diagnosed?!?! It took me four years to get diagnosed with an endocrine disorder and I’m still pissed about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:22 PM
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Happy Birthday! I think you’ll love the post on rotational dating. Search the handbook for “rotation” or youtube for a comedy/instructional sketch called “the four man plan”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:06 PM
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To be fair, leftist Reddit hate him too. They call him Thomas Edison 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:02 PM
21

They sure do. One thing you can say about misogyny is that it seems pretty consistent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:00 PM
29

Okay this is horribly hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:59 PM
16

Whew ☕️🫖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:54 AM
3

Unfortunately not true. If a HVM can be made, they can be unmade with enough positive reinforcement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:51 AM
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Rotational dating is your friend if you want to economise your time. No girlfriend/boyfriend status. You only believe in “single, engaged or married” the girlfriend stage is a trap to keep you on the hook while the man goes looking for “something better” and collects wife benefits from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:51 AM
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There are still some matriarchal tribes. They just mostly got killed off because of colonialism. When you’re raised to be non-violent, it’s harder to win battles. The men in other tribes seized their opportunities to subjugate women by shaming them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:42 AM
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I knew it! The type of postdoc research was too novel to have been done with a slacker husband at home. I love seeing signs of HVM in the wild. I’m glad that people finally know who she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:33 AM
21

Diary of a Dusty Kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:11 AM
31

Let me know you’re ugly without saying you’re ugly. “That everyone else got to experience”? Only hot guys get to experience women throwing themselves at them, when will these dudes learn??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:08 AM
24

“Unless the defendant attempted to contact every one night stand to determine if a child resulted from these unions, he has no parental claim over the child whatsoever”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:57 AM
13

https://www.popsci.com/everything-facebook-knows-about-you/ How to block it https://www.wired.co.uk/article/how-to-block-ad-tracking-facebook-instagram-twitter-google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:30 AM
16

It’s insidious given that her audience is going to be very young
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:02 AM
12

My goodness. My life at 21 was filled with fun, travelling on a shoestring budget with my friends and snogging male models. I’m sad when I see women getting their early twenties robbed. I keep thinking of that judge that was telling a 20 year old to dump her older boyfriend. She needs to hear that clip because wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:53 PM
188

She sounds a bit like some of the men who respond to women on relationship advice subs. They always try to put the woman down in some way or twist in the knife, even when they should be sympathetic. This woman could have kept it cute and said “leave him because you deserve better” but framed it as “he’s leaving you because he can do better”. Just like her filter, the advice she is giving is surface level and belies her true motivations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:48 PM
198

She’s an OG. She could have been a world leader with those brains, bravery and character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:41 PM
12

I’ll add Atomic Habits to this list because it also teaches you to undo bad habits through a simple framework. Very useful for women who might be tempted to message back a sassy response to a LVM, or unblock the ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:58 PM
1036

Her Name is Dr Kati Kariko She works at the University of Pennsylvania and earned her PhD at the University of Szeged. Seemed like she married a HVM who supported her by doing the childcare while she was at work. Her daughter is a 2x Olympic gold medal winner in rowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:53 PM
1

She comes from money too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:06 PM
6

I think that’s his new, younger, girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:05 PM
12

Oh lord let’s not get started on the hoteps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:02 PM
4

“Go go go Who’s next” 🎶 https://youtu.be/1jws1x0NV_g From this show. (Hip Hop Harry)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:15 AM
15

I go with my kindle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:59 AM
94

Exactly. As long as women as social class remain the “more useful” in relationships, women will always be the ones to initiate breakups. (See who initiates divorce) There is no incentive for a person to leave someone who offers them sex, chores, emotional supply. Even when the parasite 🦠 hates in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:53 AM
9

I also saw a good example about asking for your bills to be paid as well. Or asking for a handbag, and then when they say no, getting indignant and saying “well then no” Or if they ask for your number, start with your account number and then your sort code. 😂😭 Or ask to see their bank balance before you agree to give them your number. Or ask to see their phone and see who their texting Or ask your friend to go and get a bouncer. I have no problems activating savage mode with pestering men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:45 AM
6

You could do it through a service like ssstik.io then upload through the reddit app. I just usually google “[platform] to mp4” and a list of services show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:39 AM
27

Tbh even if you didn’t like black men, it’s your prerogative! Your vagina isn’t a commune, not everyone who asks is welcome in, damn! The fact that she felt the need to stick up for a pushy dude is bizarre because we’ve all felt that way with some ugly weirdo. I have been known to speak up and say “she said no” or “she’s going out with my brother” when my friends get hit on and they’re fed up of it. The pestering reminds me of persistence hunting that hunter gatherers do in the wild. Pester and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:44 AM
2

Wait that’s not how to spell hysterectomy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:51 PM
1

I would say I was the dream girl, but with few exceptions, the men I dated treated everyone the way they treated me. The biggest sign for me with my current was their family members saying how much happier they seemed. My spouse’s dad told his sister (hubby’s aunt) he liked how much time we spend laughing, and she repeated that when we went to visit her. She lives on a messy farmhouse, but got a cleaner to visit before I came to stay over. She is known as formidable but she was so gracious as a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:43 PM
47

I have seen with my own eyes the kind of manipulation some black men give to whites women who aren’t interested in them. My friend got called racist /doesn’t like black guys for not giving one her number. She doesn’t have a micro aggressive bone in her body. I have also experienced racial abuse from black men when walking with my admittedly good-looking white male colleagues or friends. It’s a deranged form of pity play in the first instance. Does he think he can manipulate you into having sex w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:24 PM
8

I don’t think your problem is with me because you seem to be very angry generally, I wish you peace and happiness ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:48 PM
27

Chill out, being pleasantly surprised vs idolising is very different. I have a HVM and I also say thank you when he does nice things for me. Having manners and not making mountains of molehills is a HVW trait. 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:46 PM
12

Right? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:33 PM
19

OMG I’m screaming 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:33 PM
20

Look there will always be some women in this sub that like to focus on the negative instead of including the positive, it’s bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:31 PM
16

She said possible. In fact it’s the first word in the title of this post. Sometimes pointing out green flags instead of just red is a good thing. Relax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:30 PM
20

Omg! In another country, me and a few girls started an informal group called cunnilingus addicts anonymous 😇😅 We’d use it to speak in code about the boys at our school. Your sex ed sounds like porn, honestly. Thank God I knew what scarleteen was at that age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:27 PM
47

🤢 🤮 Why did I click this FML
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:23 PM
13

Choose better No, not like that 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:17 PM
84

My pussy is not a charity. It’s not given to those “in need”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:15 PM
90

An otherwise healthy man gaining that much weight fro 24-26 is honestly embarrassing. This is the physical and sexual prime of a man’s life and he’s wasting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:03 PM
14

Warning for the squeamish: avoid this thread at all costs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:00 PM
7

I would reframe is as diminishing and inflating. If he’d really underestimated how much she did, he would have only been too happy to switch. Underestimating is passive and could have been a mistake and diminishing is active and deliberate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:40 AM
2

I still can’t stand Adam Driver because of this role. He played a creep way too well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:33 AM
5

Takeshi Kovacs would be my ideal man in that world: principled, disciplined, hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:28 AM
11

She’s going to figure out that the moment she kicks him out she’ll have fewer mouths to feed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:01 AM
26

That’s my favourite tag in this sub. The problem is that people often post non - reports on them and I have to be the person that DMs OPs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:57 AM
6

Why did you clean it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:53 AM
28

Exactly. “He’s nice but he’s inconsiderate” like those things don’t go together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:50 AM
11

This young lady is a movie director in the making. The framing, the timing, the soundtrack. She’s ducking hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:49 AM
32

BLOCK! You can be rematched with someone you unmatched
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:46 AM
48

RIGHT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:34 AM
8

Your mom sounds awesome x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:44 PM
10

I don’t blame you, it’s pretty heavy being confronted with the facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:37 PM
55

Omg that is terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:14 AM
17

Her book Pornland is available on Amazon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:28 AM
5

lol right?! I married out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:09 AM
59

No!! 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🥲🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:19 AM
53

When he said “dating sites are awful” I knew he was ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:14 AM
34

What’s the strategic takeaway from this post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:48 PM
43

Womp there it is. You could ever have guessed?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:44 PM
10

Wasn’t this already in the subreddit? Like a week ago?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:18 PM
2

The most Ive seen about this topic is a video by one of my favourite channels, The Body Language Guy that analysed David’s apology. Before that I’d never heard of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:34 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:50 PM
91

Exactly. When you compare the addiction to other addictions, it’s very obvious that he’s lying. “Like I’m addicted, but I’m also not. It’s ruining my life but it’s not so bad. How did you introduce your addiction to your wife?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:38 AM
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“I am trying to figure out why. I’m a cocaine addict so maybe it’s that but I’m not sure. I don’t use it all the time and can go some weeks without it. It’s not like I compare my regular life to my highs, but I just don’t have that much joy in my life. It sucks. I have heard people use cocaine to make life interesting before so I wonder how.” This is just sad for all involved, honestly. To any women in a situation like this, sometimes love isn’t enough, and enabling someone’s addiction doesn’t m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:32 AM
1

Oh man, I’m not surprised that it’s a Deborrah Cooper video. She’s fantastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:57 AM
11

I think fellatio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:10 AM
22

It’s not just a red flag, do you see the way he invades women’s personal space almost immediately? She says she has to to work to be polite, he dismisses her, then asks for her name? The only reason she answers is because we as women know how quick men are to anger and turn abusive as soon as you don’t kowtow to their requests. This is another way in which allmen (TM) benefit from violent men. This guy is also a thief, and sticking his dirty fingers in hair gels, using deodorants, stealing food.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:58 PM
2

Would you be able to write a little mire about the cbt for girls/women vs cbt for boys/men I really love your comment and would like to learn more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:20 PM
52

I remember your post and enjoyed our chat we had about the weirdo dudes. I’m glad you got out of that situation, it sounded mental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:55 PM
10

It’s Greivous Bodily Harm to knowingly infect someone with HIV in my country. https://www.bmj.com/content/327/7421/950.3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:30 AM
18

lol right?! He later cheated on her, so I guess there’s your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:23 AM
3

Thank you for trying. I’ll have a google myself for this as I find this very interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:48 AM
4

Fair enough. I’ve always taken my pain seriously, ‘psychosomatic’ or otherwise, so that’s probably why I’m a bit more neutral about the parent comment. Would you be able to share the article(s)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:35 AM
12

This critique doesn’t seem fair to the parent commenter. The misogyny isn’t in the idea that a woman’s pain in sex may be psychosomatic, the misogyny is in the idea that being a woman’s psychosomatic pain makes it something to disregard or “work through” for the benefit of the male sex partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:17 AM
19

Omg 😱 I read four instead of fourteen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:05 PM
65

Her daughter tried to kill herself... how old is the daughter?? Children don’t get a sense of life/living until at least the age of five so it makes me wonder when he got her pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:27 PM
9

The OG strawberry legs remover is Skin Doctor’s Ingrow Go. I’ll link the guide below when I can get an archive link. By the way this routine is hardcore, but it’s the only one that works for mine. Here it is https://archive.is/KMnAE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:39 AM
49

I would say don’t create a social media account just to find out if he has a finsta. I don’t think it’s worth handing over your data to Facebook for free. The advice is the OP and how sometime is in real life it more than enough to vet with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:55 AM
1

What’s the podcast please sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:34 PM
68

He sources his info from the book “Countdown” by Dr. Shanna Swan If you google her name and select the videos tab, she has been doing some webinars to raise awareness of this phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:45 PM
13

Oh man that post killed me. It was basically “I punched above my weight and she was unimpressed with me. How do I reframe it as not my fault? 😣”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:08 PM
15

I mean the beautiful thing is this guy is so dumb that he dumped himself. Now she’s had a week to feel peace and harmony. She can work quietly. No rolled eyes when she takes the cat for a walk. Her skin will clear up and her credit score will improve. Ok, so some of that is made up, but I am so grateful for this psychopath’s IQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:06 PM
39

When you deserve it When I feel like it Why? What’s at your house? Send me your address, I’m on my way. Could you come out to meet me? I don’t know which apartment is which. (Do this all from your sofa, then block and delete)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:24 AM
107

Because it benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:07 AM
2

I’m reporting this post as it’s both useless and disgusting. Don’t you understand how many women have been abused in this subreddit? How this could be upsetting to a lot of us? How in any conceivable way is this post strategic?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:51 AM
32

This. This is the comment that made me regret core day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:52 PM
117

I love that this idiot’s idea of a punishment is giving her peace for a week. Now she gets to be in HER home by herself. How do I know it’s hers? He would have said if it were his, and given how territorial he is about his girlfriend, he’d be even more territorial about his actual territory. Also, can you imagine the conversation he had with his friend when he went to stay over?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:41 PM
162

They are mentally ill. What a load of drivel. Also note he can’t mention one privilege
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:34 PM
68

Wow. One swipe and it’s all over. It’s actually quite sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:49 PM
7

FACTS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:39 PM
6

Why did I laugh so hard at this?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:39 PM
9

If you're finding your youtube history sabotaging you, remember that you can delete your youtube history, remove the negative and leave in the positive, so that the algorithm gets to know which videos that you'd find more interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:30 PM
7

What are the takeaways?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:43 AM
11

Awww that’s my post! Thanks sis! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:56 AM
14

OMG you’re spoiling us! Will listen and edit this comment. X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:20 AM
88

I think you did the right thing if it was a dealbreaker for you. If he’s not able to make the logical link between his anorgasmia and his masturbation habits, then that’s on him to figure out later. It’s progressive so there will come a time when he will want to gain his sensitivity back. For now, he’s framed it as a good thing because that is what he’s seen in highly edited clips. As an aside this: I don’t think that’s a request I can comply with, and I don’t think it’s a request I should have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:15 AM
33

I’m constantly amazed by people who are able to articulate something we are acclimatised to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:00 PM
4

/r/femalelevelupstrategy It’s women only spaces for career and stuff. Money Diaries also skews more female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:52 PM
2

If you’re about to turn 18, get as informed as you can about what your credit score is. It will affect every major financial decision you make as an adult. Do not sign up for the first credit card you get offered in college!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:49 PM
18

Op you should post this in the level up sub as well x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:42 PM
65

I just turned down a job because they wanted me to accept a junior role despite years and years of experience. I found out they offered other candidates more money and better positions (with stock options!!!) despite them saying I had the best presentation and research. I refuse to be a token hire so they can just say they’re doing their part, and it motivated me to turn the presentation energy into myself for my own business pitch deck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:40 PM
59

I screamed!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:38 PM
3

I mean that logic falls apart when you realise someone wants to get over something that triggered them by... Triggering other women. I’m not into spiritual stuff, but I really do believe in how these things can affect people’s energy. I think Facebook were able to increase people’s suicidal thoughts by altering their news feeds. This stuff being repeated has an effect. I’m going to see if there’s an agreed upon term for it, but it’s like getting used to a room that smells musty gradually. You do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:34 PM
3

You’re welcome. She’s like the auntie I never had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:30 PM
3

Thank you for your response. I can tell that you’ve experienced something similar with your own friendships as well. I think part of my frustration was because I was the sole black woman in my friend groups, I’d be designated the “strong” friend who was there to help white women on their emotional journeys, with the supportive energy rarely being returned to me. My issue however, with seeing bad examples, is that it can also inadvertently lower the limit for what you accept if you already have h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:27 PM
47

I’m sorry but I’m finding it hard to feel sorry for her. She’s trying to get pity engagement metrics on her post and wants to be told she’s a “good wife” so she can still have some pride in that. These martyr types are the worst to be friends with so beware if you have a friend that constantly complains without asking for help with changing. I think if she were even asking for help/support/strength to leave him it would be different, but this is just a drain. ETA: I’ve been friends with people l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:30 AM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:33 AM
7

“Just lucky I guess” bright smile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:22 AM
10

Look OP, I’m sure you don’t even know it, but linking to these people’s videos from reddit helps them get more recommended by Youtube. The more people that link to the likes of Abe and Preach, the more they will be recommended to people within Youtube. In other words, attention, even bad attention, is considered by Youtube in a positive way because it implies that the contents within are of common interest. I urge you and the rest of this community to stop doing this. Try to consider also how ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:08 AM
2

I use ad block plus as my browser extension. My viewing experience is improved. Bonus: your computer will also load webpages faster when it doesn’t have to load ads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:00 AM
34

OP, would you be able to comment the links from the second to last screenshot? Those seem like they would be good. Edited to clarify
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:34 PM
2

“In his last lucid conversation...” Who’s gonna tell her? This man is running game on her. Not a peep after running off with a 22 year old 15/16 years ago and now he needs a nurse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:01 AM
2

?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:39 PM
59

Right? It was 17% of males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:24 PM
18

“A man without integrity is not a good person, dummy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:13 PM
38

When she thinks “oh so this is how it ends” in response to a taxi driver putting in the wrong address and going on a motorway. It’s fucking nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:40 PM
47

How do you think FDS got started?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:25 AM
31

Looolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:45 PM
16

Is this post a setup? Usually OP gives more context in the comments and I see none here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:05 PM
100

I’m black and female F*ck me right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:03 PM
35

I’ve been catcalled as an 11 year old in a school uniform, with a schoolbag that was so big it reached the back of my thighs. The only thing to wear that stops these guys is grey hair and wrinkles. Even then there are so many crimes against elder women that it’s still not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:59 PM
25

Right?! Every horror I could dream up has already been done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:54 PM
90

Right? Who is more likely to ask first? The shy boy, or the creep? My dad would move me quickly out of the school and throw a rival prom in protest. “Don’t listen to them baby, you don’t have to go with anyone” 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:49 PM
411

Exactly. This school rule is an incels dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:18 PM
227

Doesn’t even need to be left leaning. Think about all the purity dads that will get pressed over this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:17 PM
1221

Call the local news desk. This is one of those stories that goes viral. If there are local celebrities, contact them as well. Conservative, liberal, across the board, people don’t want their daughters going with the first loser that asks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:15 PM
22

When women are being raised to serve their communities and their families, and men are being raised by porn, then wtf can people expect? I refuse to read any of these think pieces if porn isn’t even addressed because it’s become a major source of male socialisation. If they’re not going to address the elephant in the room, how much research are they really doing for these pieces? Never mind that the standards women are setting are the same ones they hold themselves to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:08 PM
160

My husband was insecure about his height, so I cut off my feet to make him feel taller. It’s what any good woman would do. ‘#tradwife ‘#picked ‘#chosen /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:54 PM
4

How on earth is her husband “good at his job”???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:37 AM
6

OMG! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:06 AM
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