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| 40 | "Reee why has this sub not taken down yet, reee how are we going to openly take advantage of women, then" 🤡They are so delusional, it's beyond belief. Logical sex, whaaattt? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:12 PM |
| 85 | "Reee why has this sub not taken down yet, reee how are we going to openly take advantage of women, then" 🤡Talking about benefitting women is considered a hate speech by misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 12:20 PM |
| 141 | "Reee why has this sub not taken down yet, reee how are we going to openly take advantage of women, then" 🤡Honestly, I thought this was added as a mandatory "I have a woman, yeah a girl woman who thinks women, including herself, are shit, men are supreme crybabies who needn't be held accountable" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 12:16 PM |
| 27 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youHer post history is a train wreck. She definitely likes the validation, considering how she talks about posting pics, just for her ex to see. Also, validating bald and ugly men, by lowering her standards. OP, if you see this, you're not too late. Some of us were in this phase too. There's hope to change your mindset. FDS can be harsh and point out exactly what you're doing, but it's for your own good. Stop validating LVM and stop seeking such LV validation, too. You're better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 15 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?Totally gonna do this, yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | This has got to be one of the worst cases of "I don't think my boyfriend is toxic, he's just _______", well in this case, a freaking demon. I thought I saw it all, guess not!Thank you for letting me know! I usually check by "new", so didn't find it. I'm going to re-upload. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 4 | This has got to be one of the worst cases of "I don't think my boyfriend is toxic, he's just _______", well in this case, a freaking demon. I thought I saw it all, guess not!We've the witch one here too. The man is cleary the lowest of the low value man, yet everyone blames the wife, 'cause she's a witch, who made him act that way, by feeding on his blood. So much misogyny is intertwined with superstition, it's unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:16 PM |
| 12 | This has got to be one of the worst cases of "I don't think my boyfriend is toxic, he's just _______", well in this case, a freaking demon. I thought I saw it all, guess not!My eyes were on the verge of popping out, while reading through this shitshow. There were a lot of "wtf, are you kidding me?" too. This is either some poor attempt at satire or she's heavily brainwashed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 09:05 AM |
| 31 | This has got to be one of the worst cases of "I don't think my boyfriend is toxic, he's just _______", well in this case, a freaking demon. I thought I saw it all, guess not!And she's justifying all his actions in the name of some Demonic crap, like why sis why. Poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:45 AM |
| 56 | Pick me! I’m cool! I don’t need a man to put in effort! Pick me!!It's sad that tons of women are like this and how they've made "coddling men" their entire personality! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 193 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.Ladies, food or man? Food, always! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 159 | Pursuing men never ends well from the women's perspectiveThey just think you're desperate and there must be something wrong with you I think I couldn't agree more. I've had a man tell me to stop being desperate and guess what, I wasn't even trying to date anyone, I just posted something along the lines of self-care and self-love. I can't begin to think what actually happens to women who chase, if this is literally what men think is desperation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:03 PM |
| 40 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness."Nerdy girl loses the specs, gets her hair and make-up done, boys start to line up and boom, now the ex/crush wants her". WHAT. A. FUCKING. NIGHTMARE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:18 AM |
| 373 | Seen this post on a fb group I’m in, and one of the comments under it 🤡 i can’t believe there is women who will excuse behaviour like this?Basically, "How is your boyfriend recovering from the surgery that YOU got done?" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:12 AM |
| 56 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?Sorry, I wouldn't trust a date with anyone who says stuff like "shoot" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Some red flags I wish I didn’t ignore in the beginning:Honestly, as I started reading, I thought it seemed too familiar, like no way this person can be in different places at the same time. But then again, narcissists do tend to have an instruction manual and all of them follow it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Some red flags I wish I didn’t ignore in the beginning:You're literally describing the kind of relationship I had with ex, the fake sobbing infront of the pickme bestfriend/ex, while they both try to malign my character, nonstop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 85 | Women are some sort of trophy wives to men and Reddit proves that, every single day.Yes, that's also true. Not to be religious, but they do believe in the "good, Christian wife" who's going to be submissive, cater to all their scroty needs and always look attractive for the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 190 | Women are some sort of trophy wives to men and Reddit proves that, every single day.Men like that, obsessively hunt out women who have some sort of power over them, in most cases usually the power of status. Think in the case of a woman who earns 3x more than a man. He's going to make her, his girlfriend. Why? So that he could reap the benefits of such a skewed relationship and boost his fragile ego by humiliating her behind her back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Certain pickmes become "feminists" for a while, just to go back to coddling men and dragging you down with them.I'd appreciate if you could refer to my reply to the first comment on my post. Clearly, I've nothing to explain. But since, you are reprimanding me for having certain standards, I'm going to let you know that, I don't have to cater to her LV needs when it gets too taxing for me. I try my best to always guide her and share everything related to FDS, but when she drops me constantly for the next guy, it seems quite disrespectful to our so-called friendship and my efforts. Being an unpaid therapist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 90 | Male friends are a myth part 2 ):What in the hell even is the first comment? Their opinion and feelings about us, lead to their disgusting fantasies. Another way of gaslighting, so that they can tell their naive girlfriends/wives "Babe, just because I thought about it, doesn't mean I actually like her or would do it with her". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 43 | Men calling women crazy, for a justified reaction, isn't new. The fact that so many women are gaslighted into believing it, is terrifying.Couldn't agree more. It's all projection and the entitled need to be of lack of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:27 AM |
| 37 | Men calling women crazy, for a justified reaction, isn't new. The fact that so many women are gaslighted into believing it, is terrifying.Mine would always use "nice doing business with you" after sex and finally, when he dumped me 🤢 I can't believe just how low my standards were! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 32 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?The fact that I know women who match this description to a T 🤢 I love football too but I'm also a student of Feminist Jurisprudence, so my account is mostly about writing on women and law, with a few quotes like "oh man, that was a terrible match". I have lost tons of male followers, it doesn't matter 'cause on the other hand, I get to associate with strong feminists and women advocates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:04 AM |
| 51 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombI want to do Tubectomy, because, I know I can never handle kids properly. I do like to play with kids but that doesn't necessarily mean, it's a green signal for me. Most importantly, don't want to pass shitty genes and disorders. I've talked to multiple doctors, most were male and all they said was "You're just 23. You haven't even thought about marriage yet". Yes, I did and I don't want that either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:50 AM |
| 146 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”Much needed snort laughter 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 397 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFYes, idk why exactly I got the vibe that this could be written by a man, who wants to make us normalise shit like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 11:23 AM |
| 7 | Found a page online where the author listed several red flags to look for, while dating and in a relationship. It would be beneficial to us, so I'm going to list them down. Once again, credit's not mine.You're most welcome. Hope, it helped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 91 | Found a page online where the author listed several red flags to look for, while dating and in a relationship. It would be beneficial to us, so I'm going to list them down. Once again, credit's not mine.Samesies. I ignored the "quick involvement" one, especially. Thought it was a romantic gesture to take interest in my life. Ugh, cringe a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:18 AM |
| 4 | Certain pickmes become "feminists" for a while, just to go back to coddling men and dragging you down with them.This is actually a great POV. Never really thought about it this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:09 AM |
| 24 | FDS Fan Art! (by me)Love this. Would love to use it as my pfp! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 19 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?Such an island would be a dream come true. Imagine the fun and productive stuff we could do every single day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:20 AM |
| 33 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?It's okay to have "rough sex" or perform risky kinks 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 77 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?This one, oh God. I was so delusional 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 12 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeI loved the update so much. Cheering you on, warrior princess! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:32 AM |
| 339 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?Oh my God, same! I've had a man legit say to me "You're ruining my life, being single" and it made me laugh so much. How entitled art thou! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 172 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.A commenter - "If men did this we would be accused of toxic masculinity and objectively categorizing women." Sir, are you even from planet Earth? Men do this, men did this and men will continue to do this, JFC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:59 PM |
| 18 | How long is too long for a guy to reply to a text?IKR? They use their breaks to ogle at or flirt with women co-workers, instead of texting their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 20 | Certain pickmes become "feminists" for a while, just to go back to coddling men and dragging you down with them.Thank you for taking some of your time out to explain. This is honestly, really helpful advice. She definitely has other good qualities, which I can't just ignore. I try my best to share FDS lessons whenever possible, some she agrees with, others, not so much. She isn't a lost cause, so I'm going to be there for her but also keep my distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 44 | He is simping on TwitterSecond this. WHY? There must be a good enough reason, right? RIGHT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:08 AM |
| 28 | How long is too long for a guy to reply to a text?I hope you have blocked him, with no explanation! 11 hours is too much, unless he or someone close to him is in an emergency situation and he had to attend it. Even then, it's his responsibility to let you know his whereabouts and the fact that he's not going to be able to reply anytime soon and why. To me, I set the deadline at max. 6 hours, when I've taken into account emergency situations or some place where there's hardly any network coverage (this usually happens at my workplace). But if he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 299 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?Yes, yes and yes. I have experienced it while advocating against men and certain pickmes who are all into 'false rape cases, men are in danger' etc. They usually end it with "what if the genders were reversed, would you say the same thing?" Umm, women do get raped, way too many women in an hour. Some don't report because they don't have the appropriate legal means, some don't report because it's someone from their family itself and some don't report because they have lost faith in the judicial s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:59 AM |
| 89 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Yes, you're so right. He did leave me after a couple of weeks, claiming I was "suffocating" him by being too clingy and insecure. He ended it via text with "it was nice doing business with you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 107 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Thank you for your kind words. According to some mutual acquaintances, he's supposedly dating or should I say, predating on a teen, 10 years younger to him. Ugh, what a disgusting worm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:17 AM |
| 28 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.Red means stop. End of story. Anything beyond that is an excuse Yes! The more you try to sub-categorise these behaviours, the more they're going to find a loophole to abuse you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 16 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.This! I can think of an example, abusive or not, men in general are never okay with your sexual past. They're going to straight up lie to your face that it's fine, everyone has a history, but are going to be passive-agressive with you for years, until one day they snap for worse. EDIT: This is often a dilemma. If you don't talk about it, you'll never know what sort of a guy he is, but it's also advised to keep your history, a history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 16 | FDS-approved TV, movies and books?I kind of liked "This is Us", quite not sure how much it aligns with FDS. The character of Beth was strong and she didn't take shit from anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:11 AM |
| 26 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships.A literal lie from one's partner can change one's life for the worst. It can make one feel like they're going crazy, which is precisely what gaslighting is. Also, there's no such thing as harmless lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:02 AM |
| 181 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!I still feel angry. After reading such posts, I regret it all. Not vetting properly, being okay with his "harmless jokes" and the likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:41 AM |
| 476 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Storytime - Trigger Warning This was way before FDS and when I was in an abusive relationship. One day, I got really sick, like "hospitalized sick", with nonstop puking. I practically couldn't get up from the bed. Also, the next day, ex and I were supposed to go on this trip. I told him that I won't be able to make it. Initially, he was acting good, taking interest in my health and stuff, then his demeanor changed. He was practically begging me to go on this trip, and after a lot of that, I said… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 21 | Have Low-Value "Couples" Ever Tried to Degrade You As a Single Woman?Yes, I can relate. Happened with an ex-friend and her boyfriend, and a few with literal strangers. Her boyfriend would constantly text me jokes, memes and sometimes about their relationship. We were all close friends back then, so I tried my best to reply whenever possible and keep my distance too. But ex-friend always thought I was trying to snatch her man, and instead of asking him to stay away, she'd tell me things like "Can you not text him that often?" Also, she made him block me and I felt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:53 AM |
| 70 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Women are emotionally strong and don't obsessively look for excuses, unlike men. Also, even when he says shit like "My ex did so and so, I lost a gem, blah blah blah", don't ever believe him. He wants to test your boundaries and emotionally manipulate you into coddling him. If things were really that great with his ex, like he overly proclaims, then they wouldn't have broken up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 21 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?I'm not exactly sure as to why you're on the fence about this. Being nice doesn't get you anywhere in life, if at all it does, it's probably somewhere worse that gets you assaulted, abused or murdered. When so many women are telling you to do something, you better listen. They're not wrong. We all have been down the same road and we know how it always ends. No, he's not different from the other guys. It's just that your perception about certain things hasn't changed for the better. We're not rep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 21 | IMO, there's no fixed way to determine whether a man you're dating is actually good.This is exactly what I am talking about! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:09 PM |
| 125 | Stories and examples of sensitive/emotional men being abusive or manipulative?They're going to start telling how much of a struggle their life is, even when you haven't started dating yet. The usual phrases are "No good friends, no loving parents, no nice exes, so me spend time alone always" with a hint of suicidal stuff. PSA: Here, I'd like to reiterate the fact, that one shouldn't date if they're not in a healthy headspace. This is coming from someone, who was diagnosed with cluster B and C and chose to stay away from dating for more than a year. Also, if you're dealing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 22 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!Yes. I used to ask her to block him for good. But, she thought it'd affect her business, since they were business partners. Now, I've no idea about either of them. It's been long and I eventually cut off contact with her, due to unrelated reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 102 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!This is on point. I've had this happen to a friend of mine and she told me. She had posted a beautiful picture of her on the beach. Immediately, her scrote of an ex, started DMing her. Initially, with all the flirty texts and suddenly his tone changed, then he started berating her for showing too much skin, being a w****, yada yada and went to the extent of even threatening her life. This was her ex, mind you and he still thought he had some sort of control over her. Men like these will dump you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:04 AM |
| 20 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!Much like 90 Day Fiancé...! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 206 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Probably because, this is the first time he has ever respected her. I can't quite understand how someone can wait that long for their partner to "respect" them, so that they can love them more. It's idiotic to me. Edit: A commenter even asked her to marry her partner. I swear I'm this close to losing my shit after seeing all the pickmeness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 106 | How big of an age gap in relationships is acceptable?For me, 3-4 years is acceptable, while 1-2 is just perfect. More than 4, seems somewhat like a bro-sis relationship to me. Edit: To add, I'm a zillenial too and I absolutely cannot accept more than 4, for the love of God. It's like wired in my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 21 | This is what we've been told sex is - and it's pretty dehumanizingI'm hearing so much about this book and now I'm really inclined to buy it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 111 | 🎵All of my LEAST favorite things...🎵You no longer have to deal with this nightmare of a man, so congratulations. Honestly, when I read stories of women leaving their pathetic bfs, I feel so proud? Like yes girl, kick him out and never look back. You deserve everything, above and beyond. Happy Holidays 🎄☃️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:45 PM |
| 31 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonI'm receiving so many comments on how Pete has BPD, in a way to justify his actions. So what he has BPD? He's not the only one. Some people, other than him, have it too but they know how to take care of themselves, unlike this gutter worm. How can people forget about Britney? Why are people ok with shaming her and not Pete? And the fact that, women are defending him, yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | This man's a stalker. He constantly copies and pastes our comments to try to infiltrate the sub. What's most terrifying is that, he once got access too, if you notice the last post.Thank you so much. I'm going to keep it in mind, next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:36 PM |
| 3 | This man's a stalker. He constantly copies and pastes our comments to try to infiltrate the sub. What's most terrifying is that, he once got access too, if you notice the last post.I recognised one of the comments he wrote on my post and felt like "I read it somewhere before". So, when I went back to my post, lo and behold, the comment was previously made by one of us and he plagiarised it. I just wanted others to be cautious. Mods, if this post has served its purpose, you can remove it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:35 PM |
| 10 | This man's a stalker. He constantly copies and pastes our comments to try to infiltrate the sub. What's most terrifying is that, he once got access too, if you notice the last post.I obviously didn't notice it at first 'cause the account was autoremoved. But I still got the notification on my email. I decided to dig a little and found this disturbing pattern. These men are so dangerous, it's beyond my belief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 19 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonPerfect description lol. He def looks like he spent an eternity behind the bars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 63 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonWhenever I see his face, I feel so repulsed by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:59 AM |
| 49 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonThat's the thing. All of us have some sort of mental health issues to some extent, but most of us don't use them as justifications for apathetic actions. LVMs usually use such issues to guilt-trip us into a relationship or worse, casual sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:58 AM |
| 129 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonI'm gonna bet my last dollar on the fact that he's going to dump Kim soon, like maybe in 3-5 months?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:53 AM |
| 259 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonShe was shamed so bad, and probably those jerks are still doing it. But nobody talks about men like Pete Davidson, Leonardo DiCaprio, Chris Pratt, etc. Infact, Hollywood thinks that all of such men have "a best dating track record". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 9 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.We definitely need a post on Beauty Pageants | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 22 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Couldn't agree more. When he feels like it's his birthright to comment on how fat/thin you look, how you'd look better with straight hair, how you look good nAtUrAlLy with no makeup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 10 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I'm livid that almost all men, in their lifetime have asked women "how to be a good boyfriend". Idk wtf is up with this line of thought. Y'all are adults, if you still need a manuscript on dating women, you better not. Also, I think men like these are openly abusive but don't want you to hold them accountable, instead they'll say "idk how to be a boyfriend, sorry if I made a mistake", so that you feel guilty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 11 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.They see but are in denial 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 9 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Forgot about this, considering how once a man thought, me watching Bojack Horseman for a while, meant I was attracted to him. It was like his entire personality and he'd rave about how it was a depiction of his mental health. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I wish I could upvote this a million times 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 37 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳This is what usually happens. Men standing up for other men, even if it means a literal stranger who also appears to be pervy/criminal. But women are put on death-row for not doing so, for the same men. I've stopped expecting this scenario to change anytime soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 69 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Raving about "Rick and Morty" "Fight Club" and anything that has Leonardo DiCaprio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:22 PM |
| 83 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Best response to "what do you mean" is, "I mean you're blocked" and then block that jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:20 PM |
| 34 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Agreed! Both of these are so important, I can't stress enough. This is why, I like to know and meet his friends, in his presence, before diving in too deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:19 PM |
| 134 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.This is so important and isn't talked about enough. I absolutely hate the "My work/family/friends is priority", buddy, then why are you even dating! I understand, that for some people, career is everything but I despise the fact, that they would consider us as the last one on their priority list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 94 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I faced that once. He tried to convince me to get back with him and he thought telling me about all the proposals he received but turned down because of me, was going to make me leave everything and run to him. What a clown 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 48 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.The men who want you to meet their family too soon, sounds like a trap to me. Well, it's always one. It's a combo of future faking and "now that you have met them, it's gonna become hard for you to leave" controlling tactic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 59 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Oh, yes. I've had medical students or finance bros acting all "superior than thou" too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:09 PM |
| 54 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I know how it seems. I have experienced a few definitely, but all my girlfriends had it worse than me and I wrote it on their behalf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Just a bunch of memes💛Love these 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 124 | An ugly reason why some men start familiesSome men downright hate their kids, yet keep forcing their partners to birth more. More kids give them a sense of more power. Also, the common custom of "Head of the family being a male" doesn't help either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 54 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?Do continue to vet though. As others have mentioned, he could be trying to look emotionally intelligent. You can never know enough about men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 107 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?I wouldn't think of it as a red flag, unless he talked about his "issues" a lot. If it's the latter, it's def too early and he's looking for someone to pour all his baggage on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:54 PM |
| 37 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.There are misogynists and then there are these covert assholes, who pretend to be all about women's rights, in the hopes of getting into your pants. Fun fact, they later resort to slut-shaming or name-calling, after they're done with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:01 PM |
| 59 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.You're gonna feel so good when you finally kick him out. Sort of a burden lifted off from your shoulders. You might feel awfully alone for the time being, but it's better than feeling like that constantly, with him. I wish you more power and strength 💪🏻❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 173 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.This, so much this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 02:51 PM |
| 118 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.Thank you sis. So glad, he showed his true colours and so glad, I don't have to associate with that jackass. He's probably blowing up my spam folder lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 117 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.This is so true. I couldn't agree more. Either way, they test your boundaries. They really just don't like or respect the woman. Most of the time, it is this, and the other time, they think "If I can make this woman feel insecure, she might start taking suggestions from me and eventually like me." Idk which one's more fkd up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 223 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.Yes, I can relate. Last ex, absolutely bodyshamed me to hell with his subtle negs. For a while, I got into this phase of ED. Then, when I got better and confronted him, he started gaslighting me. Just like you, I was young and that's why I felt the need to let him know that I knew what he was doing. Stupidest move, ever. Men are so desperate. You block them from everywhere, and they're still going to find your e-mail, LinkedIn and all other formal sites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 74 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.Oof, I've got that one too. It's almost as if tattoo is a taboo for them. They act like I forcefully tattoed THEIR skin lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 131 | Idk a better case of mirroring than the one I'm about to describe.You can always figure that out with men who overtly claim to be all about women's rights. Their entire personality is writing or talking about women, more than women themselves, when there are other areas to focus on too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 66 | More negs which aren't always obvious and guys try to act like it's "normal conversation"I'm bookmarking this! When the ex used to constantly say "you're a tiny baby, we look like insert name of the Bollywood couple who has a huge height difference", I didn't realize those were negs. It all seemed too lovely dovey to me and at the same time, depreciating. Thankfully, I'm no longer in that phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:59 AM |
| 46 | What's with all these shows glorifying casual sex as "empowering"?Couldn't stand all the shows that you mentioned. The plot maybe something else, but the sexual content almost always overpowers it. Tbh, this is precisely why I stick to horror or thriller stuff. Atleast, there's not much of it in that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 104 | [deleted by user]I used to be critical of my looks and I thought I only deserved a mediocre looking guy, until I met someone who was a perfect blend of handsome, hot and humble. I couldn't bring myself to the fact that such a guy would ever approach me. Cherry on top, he was good with kids and pets. Even though, I was a pickme back then, I decided never to settle for any man who doesn't look like him. I was so stuck in this phase of self-loathing, that I was completely blind to the fact that not only I'm beautif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:08 AM |
| 82 | Spend your teenage and 20s, mindfully!💯 this. Most people in this age bracket, aren't developed much, emotionally and mentally. There's usually naivety involved. They can't figure out the right from the wrong. What seems like love to them, is actually abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:55 AM |
| 105 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentI was going to type out these points too. 1 month is too less to take someone seriously or even think they have HV traits. Dated way too many scumbags to know that, everything they say and do before getting a chance to have sex with you, is a big fat lie. They even lie about their sexual expectations with you. If you say you're not ready, they're going to readily nod in agreement. They mirror you, at every point. It's so manipulative but all you're going to think is, "he's such a nice guy, maybe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Finally a HVM took me on a nice, real date, but then I fucked up, is there still hope?So, let me get this straight 1) He is handsome and smart 2) He paid for everything 3) He's doing well for himself at 21 Nothing about this screams "HVM" to me. This is what men are supposed to do, be decent looking with a not so potato IQ, pay for stuffs and have a good education and career prospects. Most importantly, the fact that he chose to have sex with you, despite knowing you weren't in a position to consent to (cause you were drunk), is a huge ass red flag, which you shouldn't be in deni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 49 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantEspecially, this one "🥺". For the record, Steve, just because you sent a puppy face emoji, doesn't change the fact that you're a covert narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:53 AM |
| 200 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantLadies, it's never a mistake or a "Sorry, that wasn't meant for you". It's 100% meant for you, always. It's a common tactic to see how weak your boundaries are and how further you're willing to tolerate shit from men. The fact that she let him keep texting her and that too, make her feel bad for what he did, is appalling. This is precisely one of the traits of emotionally abusive men. They are going to hurt you, intentionally, then go on a parade of how apologetic they are and make themselves th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:18 AM |
| 77 | Love Hard 💕🎄🎬Tbh, I cringed throughout the whole thing. Such a blend of pickme and LV attributes. Flying across miles for a stranger is shown as something romantic and out of the world, just because the stranger said some "nice" words. But, in reality, it's inherently dangerous to take that risk. What if the person on the other side, ends up being a rapist or murderer or both? The character of Nina was a major pickme, with doing everything opposite to what she stands for, just to impress a LV guy. I mean, wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 96 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.You don't get over...you get out. Get out of that repulsive marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 97 | Love is never enough!I agree! Men can and will take advantage of our vulnerabilities. It's always better to test the waters before sharing any traumatic event or a history of sexual relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:59 AM |
| 25 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsYour action speaks volumes about your strength. I'm proud of you for standing up to his disgusting and pathetic ways! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 97 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsWow, definitely sounds like someone I used to know. Same language, same mannerisms. These people never change. They do come back with fake apologies, trying to get their hooks on you again. Their catchphrase after you're done with 'em is usually, "Please believe me, I'm not that person anymore, I have changed" but as soon as you accept it, they immediately get back to their old ways of misogyny, sexism and abuse. They're mostly controlling and try to guilt-trip you always, making it seem like ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 860 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.This is not only disgusting but downright, a criminal behaviour. Coercing and deceiving someone into sexual acts, is rape. Hope she gets the courage to get out and file a solid case against him. He deserves to rot in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 136 | Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility?I would go on some instant messaging apps and just type my name in the searchbar. So many messages with my name used to pop up and none of those belonged to me. All were with girls. He'd berate me to make himself look like the victim. But that's the thing, he wouldn't talk about this with other men, only women. He'd also behave so nicely and lovey dovey with me. That's when I understood I had fallen in the trap of a narcissist. This trick always works, when you have scores of contacts to go thro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:49 AM |
| 108 | Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility?That's one of the things I like to do and I'd continue to do, 'cause it saved my ass a lot of times. Used to find a woman constantly in the tagged pictures, more than me. He claimed they were "besties" but we all know what kind of "besties" they were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:38 AM |
| 7 | This is part of the reason I will never date a "car bro". He proposed by doing a dangerous stunt in his $500 car with a rockless ring that costs less than his scrap metal on wheels. I'd be embarrassed to even post about it.I had to squint to find the "ring" lol. This is peak clownery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 16 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖Yes, this was made already by me. A little bit of variations in the words but the same. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kcb2eq/an_appreciation_meme_for_all_the_relentless_work/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:46 AM |
| 22 | This is the energy!My dad does this too. I think this is the bare minimum we should expect of decent men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:58 AM |
| 10 | What was the last straw?Yep this and that I was immature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:56 AM |
| 6 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍I'd be so mortified and never show my face again. What is wrong with these women? Do they even think rationally for once? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | True friends keep you accountable and hold you to a higher standard than you do yourself!Definitely this. Was drinking beer on the beach with a guy and that's how I met my NVM ex 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 37 | A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).Why do people do this and not realize this is epic circus shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 17 | My colleague confessedHas to be a desi. They have a fair skin fetish or something. Had many tell me no one will marry me if I don't apply besan and I'm like thank God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:38 AM |
| 13 | She's strong on her boundaries, but asking reddit for advice is asking for pornsick losers to chastise her for having themYou shouldn't be dealing with a porn addict who's so much elder to you. Please trust yourself and get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:28 AM |
| 73 | Ouch, this stung. Being the needy one in a relationship really sucked and was always a direct result of me having low self-esteem. I'm still trying to grow into better relationships and value myself more.Had faced all of these and used to think I'm just needy and insecure. Fuck that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:18 AM |
| 188 | The gospel truthThey sure do and think we'll somehow coddle them. If they think they need to use manipulative tactics like "you deserve better" with a sad face after abusing me, then heck yeah I deserve 1000 times better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:42 PM |
| 14 | ZeroV boyfriend unable to give quality time to his girlfriend of 2 years. He prefers isolating himself in videogames and detests his girlfriend pressence. The pick me typical advice is to ignore the red flags and lower her standards.Only thing I can think of "Why are men?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:56 AM |
| 12 | If only they all felt this level of shame... (also *accepting sorry I couldn't help it)Ikr? It's just too less for the extensive trauma caused over months and months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 48 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?"I'm kind of bored with you, I need another source of entertainment now, ciao" - sorry to be rude but this is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 8 | Yes, FDS ladies preserve warm and positive vibes for those who deserve them and say no to the restWell, I did do some therapy sessions during which my therapist said "Stop being an empath, start being a little narcissistic" and that stuck with me. I have practised saying NO. Whenever, I think a man is being rude to me or making me feel like I'm not good enough, I immediately block him. He does find other ways to apologize but I don't pay heed. That sort of makes him think "This girl has started taking no shit." About the smiling, I've realized most often, they say stuffs that aren't even wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:34 AM |
| 206 | Yes, FDS ladies preserve warm and positive vibes for those who deserve them and say no to the restI used to people please a lot by being polite and always smiling. As a result, men thought I was weak and vulnerable and took advantage of it. But after doing some spiritual cleansing, I improved my personality. I have become intimidating to many men to the point where they try to downplay my intelligence, worth and then try to tear down my self-esteem but they fail. I've become quite bold and angry with my opinions and I express it openly but then they hit me with the "you don't need to be rude… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 397 | Women are WAKING UP! 👑 found this on r/sex 👀I have a dream that one day we'll reach the stage where women will not tolerate the "communicate" trope anymore or even justify their partner's shitty actions because society conditions them to. That day will be the end of NVM/LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:01 PM |
| 102 | The bar is in hell.Man - Uh so I'm misogynistic as hell but I don't rape fEmAlEs Libfem - Wait, what did you say? You don't rape? Man - Uh yeah I only watch violent porn Libfem - Oh my God, guys we found a king 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:49 PM |
| 23 | Faithful men who flash their wedding rings to warn you off after you ask for helpShe asked for my help = She must be into me. Men, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:20 AM |
| 53 | I’m genuinely confused. This thread was about making female friends. Is this supposed to be funny?Men - I'm gonna punch you in your guts. Haha, now laugh. What? It's a joke. My God, I can't even joke with you anymore. You overreact so much, so emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:21 PM |
| 77 | 11:11 it must be a signOh yes, you have heard it right. Bros are telling each other to text women at these double golden digits time to keep them trapped in the disguise of "it's a sign from the universe". These poor women are naïve too. By believing this BS, they keep dragging the one sided relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | HVM suddenly displaying traits of LVMKindly sis, he was never a HVM to begin with. He was a whole package of LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:26 PM |
| 11 | Scrotes mad at us on Reddit when they see pictures of us buying our own cars/ rings etc. Mad at us if we require a man to provide. Mad at us anyway. I love this sub but maybe we should discuss less random NVM/incels opinions as they are literally nobodys.You just stole my words. Honestly, please make this sub private. Why even give them access at all? Some women are still quite vulnerable and seeing their pics getting circulated like this with nasty comments are gonna affect their mood for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:00 AM |
| 8 | Men hate the tag of FDSYes, expressing the opinions are definitely implied. But they shouldn't know that I follow the subreddit though IMO. Also, Reddit and Snapchat are a NO for me in a guy's social media life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.Totally the dick. Sounds painfully deserving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 128 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕Yes, that's the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 115 | The reason why lvm find FDS so threatening is being denied access to your womb, finances, emotional labor or mere presence is enough to make them go off — they’re projecting.Women wanting to be treated right for once Men - Is this male oppression? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:37 PM |
| 52 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️You're not alone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:35 PM |
| 48 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.Honestly, Google was the wake up call I needed. Every behaviour that I had searched for led to one conclusion - He is a textbook narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 111 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.Everything. All of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:37 AM |
| 18 | Y’all don’t fall for the happy new year texts from Old LV Flames. It doesn’t mean what you think it means.I'm so glad my ex didn't text me despite being a desperate loser. Seems like he got his hooks onto some other naïve girl this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 22 | Being absolutely ruthless in 2021Lol, true that. He'd send semi nude selfies. I just wish at that time instead of ignoring, I could have said "ew". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 18 | Being absolutely ruthless in 2021Exactly my point. He's someone who doesn't push people's boundaries, he literally steps on them. In a group, I was discussing my plans to move to a bigger city for job prospects or higher studies. He had the gall to text me later that he'd find a place for "both of us". Buddy, I am not even your girlfriend, why are you treating me like that? Also, yes wish you a happy 2021. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with that scumbag anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Jumping on the “bought myself a ring” bandwagon 😊 Happy New Year to me, and to all my FDS sistersYay, welcome to the club. That ring is stunning and suits you really well. Happy New Year 🎉❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 14 | Being absolutely ruthless in 2021He is smooth brained, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 30 | Being absolutely ruthless in 2021This should totally be a flair 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:10 AM |
| 41 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.This. Those emojis make them so mad because it shows we're not even bothered much. We'll just ignore and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Nah, sisI can and will never fake. The straightforward answer is "God, you're so awful" and remove myself from the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | All the best for 2021!Happy New Year lovelies. Hope we level up higher and be able to piss off more scrotes 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | What to say when men tell you you’re so pretty 😍😍😍"I know" 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 30 | As a young Indian woman it boggles my mind how distractive this culture is...here men abuse and exploit their women for decades and get praised for doing one normal thing once in lifetime (judging by all the warmfuzzies she's getting it seems to me that she's gonna birth one more monkey for her NVM)As another Indian woman, I fear this exact thing. Juggling both work and home while the husband spends most of his time at work or with friends drinking/roaming around the city. Then the mother-in-law coddling him like he's a baby. Too much of the big Indian marriage drama. So I'm opting out of marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 23 | We have a matrilineal/matriarchal society in one corner of our country even in this patriarchy. Read on to know more.Honestly, the situation in the rest of the country is worse, especially in the northwestern and western states. Patriarchy is obviously there but the internalised misogyny is so deeply rooted that women are stopping other women from becoming progressive. Like, stopping them from visiting the temples during menstruation whereas in the northeast especially in Assam, a whole ritual is dedicated to it, where temples all over the state are shut down for three days so that the Goddesses can rest while… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:37 AM |
| 32 | My ex tried to come back and this is the exact reason why I left him in the dumpster where he belongsI can literally show you messages from my ex, it's written almost in the same manner, just a bit of variations in conjunctions. I have seen posts of other FDSers too and once again, it's the same language. I just feel shocked that there are so many of them using a similar tactic on different women. Sometimes, I feel that I must've had shared my ex with a couple of the women here because of the eerily similar mannerisms which makes me feel all the more sick since I can't believe he could have che… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 150 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?Rape is going to skyrocket? Well, let me get my machete then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Talking of low bars, you might want to look in the mirror sisWhen you do find that place, let me know. I'm becoming tired of still being attracted to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 102 | My ex tried to come back and this is the exact reason why I left him in the dumpster where he belongsWhy do all exes talk like this? Do they graduate from some common narcissistic scrote university with accolades? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 62 | He just asked for nudes from another girl... but it's okay, he's VeRy LoYaL and he's a ReScUeR! Scrotes starting young these daysStay away from men who act like they wanna help you with your mental health issues. In most cases, the help will be just with the dick and he'll continuously make sure to blame your mental health for anything awful he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:00 PM |
| 16 | The body shamersI love you. I think this 👑 belongs to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 19 | As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬Did he body shame you too while looking and smelling like a caveman himself? Also, did he triangulate you? Every time someone says they dated my ex even as a joke, I honestly feel like communicating with them and go over our trauma. It's so hurtful imagining what narcissistic shit they put us through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:30 PM |
| 43 | As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬Lol, after my ex couldn't find someone, he started hoovering me. That pathetic excuse of a man. Also, this pandemic helped in ending a lot of relationships too which weren't too great to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 5 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Yes girl, please go do it. You're the one who's gonna stay by yourself forever. Go, put a ring on her ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉No one has ever complimented my hands, this is the first time. I'm in awe, thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Wow, that's so cool. I'd love to see it! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 4 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Anytime a virtual party can happen but would love to meet y'all after this whole situation gets over 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Thank you ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 5 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Aww, thank you. I got that shirt from Shein. It's really soft omg. And yes I agree the ring looked a bit traditional and royal and that's why I went for it 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:07 AM |
| 6 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉It's from a local jewelry store. They sell beautiful platinum plated rings of varying designs, you'll feel like you need more haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 30 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Thank you so much 🥺❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | well. i tried to save herI think it's better not to link the subreddits directly in the comments. It could get us banned and give more chances to brigade. If you want, you can DM the OP instead. That way, it will be anonymous and safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 18 | Pickmeisha auditions?Please cry on my shoulder - oops sorry, dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 25 | I tried to teach the redditor about harmful effects of casual sexism about mother getting herself gifts but labelled from her husband, so they can have empathy for their mother. See how I was downvoted for speaking against LVM behaviour. :/Scrotes love to see a woman balance a job and household and then plan all major festivities too, all by herself. It means no work for them and more time for their crippling porn, video game and alcohol addiction. Of course it's going to make them smile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:01 PM |
| 6 | He was a translator on a trip. I met him only once for a few hours and we spoke on the phone once. This is the 4th man I have met while travelling that has professed “feelings” in hopes of financial gain. It’s getting predictable and disgusting to see that men try to use women/me this way.Exactly. That's what got me. Who tf he thinks he is telling her to behave good? I would have bonked his head hard, don't teach me about behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 16 | The boys over at r/NoFap reveal that porn addiction can lead to pedophiliaYou reminded me of the filth my ex was. Even after scrubbing my clothes multiple times, the smell wouldn't go. Ewww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:37 PM |
| 49 | Not this pick me again 🙄Better woman in her dictionary - A slave to her husband. A non-existent partner in a threesome her husband suggests. Coddling a 1 yo child and also a 40 yo manchild simultaneously. I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Hot take: men with terrible handwriting are always shitI can vouch for the terrible grammar. Too bad they don't need English major in STEM otherwise all my LV exes would fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 125 | Inspired by u/letsberealforamoment, I set my preference to “casual” and matched with men who had “relationship” preferences. I’m in a city (which is why I’m still on OLD just to be safe) & the men with “relationship” preferences don’t seem to know how relationship is different from casual.Honestly, you're awesome for doing this. This really shows they'll lie on their family's grave, if needed, to get into the pants of a woman. I initially was disgusted about their depravity but now I'm horrified. They'll fake their way into a relationship and keep faking while their partner keeps being a forever gf/fiancé. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 66 | If he doesn't respect your time, you don't respect his.Oh yeah he's definitely living with someone. This thought crossed my mind immediately after he started giving excuses. But I'm so glad I shut that shit down within some hours of this whole fiasco. Pickme me would be making excuses for him by now and let him walk all over my dignity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:19 PM |
| 49 | If he doesn't respect your time, you don't respect his.Girl, go do it. You'll feel so much better and relieved. You don't want questions and doubts hovering over your mind, daily. You need peace. Go block the fuck out of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 3 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)Omg wow, this is huge. So many congratulations Queen 🥺🥺❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 34 | “giVE HiM a pRoMiSEee rInGggg” I’m smudging my house tonight. The internet is disgustingBe all that romantic only for him to be an unemotional piece of shit jerking off to violent porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 65 | Telling on themselves again. So many things wrong with all of this.That's everything that needs to be said. Whatever they spew about us being gold-diggers and their paranoia, it's mere projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:51 AM |
| 10 | Happy Pandemic! Please Follow Protocol!I let out a snort. This is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 24 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsThat's so awful. God. I don't think they know what friendship means. They think it's a gateway to easy sex with no feelings invested. My ex male bestfriend ( I know ) once asked for a threesome from me and another classmate while he was in a 6 years relationship with his gf. I just asked "Remind me why are you with her, again?" and he had the nerve to say "Because I love her". Blocked and deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 26 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsNot OP but from my experience with LVMs and HVMs, LVMs usually get attracted to more LVMs and pickmes to form a strong bond based on similar interests to harass and degrade other HVWs and HVMs. It's like birds of a feather flock together. On the other hand, HVMs if in a friendship with LVMs, try to tell them "you're doing so and so wrong, you shouldn't say that about her/him" and if the behaviour doesn't stop, HVMs eventually leave the group and are okay being on their own until they find anothe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 10 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsIdk if it's a coincidence but with FDS in sight, I am being able to drop more male friends and make more female friends simultaneously. My life has turned 180° definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 38 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsWow, they sure do love to stomp on our clearly stated boundaries, then blame us for somehow leading them on wtf? Delusional psychos. The most recent case was where I made it clear to an ex male friend that I'm not going to see or talk to him ever again and he texted me after "Lots of love "my name", see you" how manipulative! They know what they're doing, they literally take advantage and think we're going to submit to their persistence. Good for both of us to dodge that massive bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”Laffy taffy 😭😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 63 | Just NVM ThingsWait what? On made me smile? Why would this make anyone smile? This made me cringe so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Thank you FDS! It was my birthday yesterday, and owing to all that I’ve learnt from FDS, it was a special one. This one was about self value, no past toxicity, and positivity with family and friends. FDS taught me that seeking validation is undermining oneself, and that it’s about levelling up.That assortment looks so cute. Also, I can't wait to be in Mumbai soon ( love to spend winters there but rn it's probably raining haha) and I will definitely check out the cookie place. Sounds delish. I'm super glad you're no longer in that situation and are doing much better. Here's to many more strength filled birthdays Queen ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:39 PM |
| 10 | Put yourself in his shoesWhen I was marriage minded and dating my then ex, he clearly said that his brother needs to get married before he does. So basically, there was a major uncertainty. One, it would have taken a long time and I would have been a forever gf or two, his brother wouldn't even get married at all and therefore he wouldn't either and therefore dump me. So I made the job easier for him by dumping him lmfao. Go give the stupid excuse to some naïve pick-me not me. I was definitely being used for the validat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | 🤪 Come check out our sub for posting all of the trolls and dragging them! 😂I want to get approved please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 33 | The logic of men. Each one of these nine arguments can be countered so easily..I stopped reading after "no" 'cause I damn straight knew he's about to spew some illogical shit catering to his dysfunctional peen. Pornsick men will do anything and say anything to defend their precious sexual depravity while not thinking twice about the millions of CP and rape videos on porn sites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 24 | Sisters, reminder to be extremely careful about whomever you're exposing your vulnerabilities to. This leaves me speechless.Don't ever trust a man blindly. You can and will never know what he's capable of doing even if you think he's not like the others. Leave out a little trust behind for your own safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 26 | I never knew we had to start debunking the "not all women have been molested theory....pickmes really be putting hurdles in our ability to bring feminist issues out in the frontAs an Indian woman, I speak for other women too when I say yes we all have been molested atleast once in our lifetime. Those who claim otherwise are living a life of delusion. I hope they get the help and the open-mindedness they need. Facts are facts. Also, I wouldn't be ashamed to generalize that this country is a rape capital. Every single day, I hear several news of women from all age groups getting raped by unknown men and more by men they actually know like their dads, uncles, husbands and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:51 PM |
| 24 | Another meme summing up relationship subsLmfao this is gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:43 PM |
| 237 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they saySo, I've been love-bombed before and have been in narc relationships. I'm happily single now thanks to FDS but whenever a seemingly good guy starts wooing me, I just think "Whoa, he might possibly be doing this just to get laid and then leave. Once, I give in, the good behaviour and showering of gifts will stop and I'll have to drag the relationship all by myself" and that instantly turns me off. It's like my instincts have started guarding me more ever since I started respecting them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 11:55 AM |
| 7 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Yes I did. Thank you, I felt like thanking the mods for everything they do and their dedication ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Men aren't heroes for doing their parenting role.I also figured it out. My toxic ex and I really liked their content when we were together. But as soon as I left the relationship and started figuring out red flags, I didn't like how their relationship was too so I unfollowed them as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 34 | What a QUEEN 👑💕Oh yes, they have too much time on their hand to spend on conspiracy theories. These are the same people who will be hysteric about your relationship too, "oh you're doing this, that, wearing red? Let me hatch a conspiracy theory" just to create problems out of their insecurities. Speaking from experience, my ex was just like this. I was initially into it but then red flags started popping up. Why would a grown ass man not focus on his life improvements and career prospects but conspiracy theori… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:02 AM |
| 23 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectAfter all the outrage over PornHub recently, these pornsick scrotes need anything to get the crowd back to themselves. This is one of those petty tricks or so I feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:47 AM |
| 9 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectI just kept reading and reading and I really couldn't explain myself WHAT THE F THIS WAS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 20 | So many gems from unpopular opinions today. This person just sounds lazy, or they want someone who's easier to control. Notice how it's women in their past? 🤔 Red flags all over the place.Idk about others but my dad never directly said those words out loud to my exes. With actions he definitely showed that he wants them to take care of me and when they abused and discarded me, he once again with his actions showed hella disappointment. Never showed violence or anything like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 10 | Guy wants woman doxxed for not accepting neglect and she's the "psychopath" ooooookayyyyJenny sounds like one of us and if anyone is a psychopath, it's these guys tryna dox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 46 | Got a message from some scrote trying to argue that rape accusations are worse than rape. He sadly missed the irony in his message, that this is how so many women feel, every day of their lives. Blocked and didn’t reply.Won't anyone think of the poor men? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | One of my love languages is receiving gifts..Same. I need him to clear my debts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 53 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youI agree so much. Till now, almost all my male friends have overstepped my boundaries and acted like my bfs with "baby, babe" and kiss, heart emojis. Some even had girlfriends. While I never reciprocated any of those things or gave a hint that I want them to treat me like that. They would always turn everything into a sexual innuendo. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 58 | LVM can’t stand the idea of his wife being more successful than him 🙄As I've said in one of my posts, LVMs will always see women as their competition. They'll never support or encourage women or be happy about their women's success. They'll seethe with anger because they can't stand the fact that now they're not in control be it with finance, sex, career, etc. They want women to be submissive slaves catering to their crusty asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 23 | If an ex comes back and says he misses you, don’t be flattered. He should miss you. You're deeply missable.Exactly, they're ex for a reason. Even if I don't follow any other rules strictly, I do follow one and that is "never go back to your ex". It just doesn't come to me. Once a relationship is over, I close all the doors permanently. I don't even choose to stay friends with them. They were a stranger and they'll be back to being a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 31 | Do you judge a guy by the girls he dated in the past ?Another one I've noticed when he brags about how many women want him but he still chose me. I'm yet to figure out why they do it. I do know it's a form of manipulation though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 74 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sCavemen also provided for their women and protected them while this scrote probably lives in some dingy room full of tissues and roaches and typing "yeah no bruh, 50/50 always and I need sex on the first date" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 50 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sWhy is this so accurate 😫🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 120 | Engagement rings are a scam just get me a ring pop 🤪🤡Lmfao, scam? The real scam was when my ex proposed to me with my own ring which I bought for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:43 PM |
| 76 | Super aware of how shitty her ex is at the beginning, dissolves into defending his shit behavior at the end.Tell this woman to scooch over here. This is a terrible case of low self-esteem resulting in seeking validation from shitty people aka her ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 83 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...Anyone wanna bet this was written by a man who also complains about false rape accusations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 79 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.Here, women are legitimately dying from getting choked but has any woman ever tried performing this kink on a man? At best, he would be enraged or may even be able to enjoy/escape since we're physically weaker. How can't they see it's dangerous for women more than it is for men? Why do other women even defend this shit and normalize it? I'm so mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 4 | That’s what you get for dating someone your kid’s age.Suggesting a threesome - 😂😭😭😂😂 I'm sorry this is just too funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:51 AM |
| 11 | That’s what you get for dating someone your kid’s age.Ikr, I'm against cheating but this situation made me lol so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgYeah, ikr? I have had heard many men boast that they've been watching since they were like 8 and I was floored. Where is the innocence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgWhen I first started being sexually active i.e. when I was (18-19) I had no idea there was more than just vanilla stuffs and kinks were a thing. So that's why I always expressed my disinterest to my exes from then onwards. Hope this cleared your confusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 93 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgGirl, I am so sorry this happened to you. It is so painful to even imagine. Ugh, I hope something really bad happens to him, he deserves ten times the pain he put you through, idc even I've become bitter af. Also, about porn videos playing while having sex brings back terrible memories to me. A literal goddess is right with you and you still need to play porn just to get it up, why did I even let it happen, makes me so mad thinking back on it. It was so disrespectful and humiliating. No one shou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 122 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgI'm 21 now but when I was with my exes in teenage years, I still didn't conform to their anal or choking kink. I have dead ass dropped them faster than anything. I was a pick-me sure but even these libfems couldn't deter me from my sexual boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:47 PM |
| 31 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+438 subscribers today; 257% trend score)Ikr? I found it when people were dissing it in the nicegirls subreddit. So, I thought why not see it for myself. Lo and behold, there wasn't anything that awful but actually life and mindset changing. Everything was taken out of context and exaggerated. I think that's their part time job, to lurk here and pick out contents and regularly post on the subreddits for the sweet sweet karma without even taking the actual time to understand the concept of FDS. Idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:29 PM |
| 12 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?It was my sleep schedule, hundred percent. I'd sleep for maybe two hours because he was available only from 1am-4am (note the time, I should have noted). Because of that, I got dark circles, gastric and migraine problems flared up. I think if your body starts reacting, you should listen. It's giving you the red signal to stop the relationship altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:56 AM |
| 13 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlI was one of the women but I was a pick-me back then so I was basically rooting for this guy and all. I remember him suggesting other stuffs (hint: threesomes) including me and another female friend of his. So yeah, he'd pretty much sext most girls like these. Now, I know he's a shit guy. I've tried a lot of times to let his gf know but to no avail. Another edit : He was my ex bestfriend who I recently dropped so I know pretty much everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:24 AM |
| 122 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlHe's coward and selfish. That's the only thing I can think of. Men like these have no spine. I've dealt with many, one I especially remember because he's still stringing along his forever gf of 6 years with no sign of future while he goes around flirting and having sex with other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 4 | The only person who should be embarrassed is him for trying to publicly shame the mother of his children who is single handedly raising his children. If you work 12–16 hours a day how is she supposed to work out if she has two babies to look after ALL DAY? No wonder she’s tired!Ah, I love this thread sm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 16 | How many of you have been in sexually coercive situations/relationships? For me it's been pretty much 90% of men I've dated. And it's haunting me to this dayOmg, it's the same for me. Even my FWB had utmost respect for me and we are no longer FWBs but he still accompanies me to therapy/hospital whatever I need. None of my BFs were like that and they coerced me every single time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:36 AM |
| 10 | For the first time, I applied FDS principles in practicality and it saved me from an impending heartbreak.🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 17 | For the first time, I applied FDS principles in practicality and it saved me from an impending heartbreak.Thank you sis. Yeah, on the first glance, he'd seem your typical decent guy but yep those are the subtle giveaways that the guy is going to be lovebomber, narcissist, psychopath. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:14 AM |
| 21 | For the first time, I applied FDS principles in practicality and it saved me from an impending heartbreak.Oh man, I've also been on the other side of this situation too. Turns out, he made me cancel my tickets on his birthday just to sleep with his bestfriend who he swore was no one more than just a friend. Also, that bestfriend flew all the way from the north end of the country to the south for him. Talk about a LV-pickme combination 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:13 AM |
| 38 | For the first time, I applied FDS principles in practicality and it saved me from an impending heartbreak.Thank you girl. Feels so good to finally see the signs and nope out quickly of such situations. Such men are so abundant these days, faking decency and it makes me really mad that naïve women think they're HV unicorns. I hope she leaves, she doesn't deserve the mood swings he probably puts her through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Oh my God, I totally forgot about that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 19 | Tell him you want a relationship and then ghost HIMI can hear them scrotes from miles away saying we are gold-diggers. Boy, you don't even have bronze to begin with let alone gold. Still, you drain us mentally, financially, physically and emotionally. But sure, if we wanna be treated well, we are gold-diggers 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:35 PM |
| 73 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I don't even read those posts and skip through. I mean why bother, this may come off as rude but with a long history of LV exes I'm way too cautious now to give a HV tag to just about anyone so easily who offers only bare minimum as a decent human being. But I don't wanna be all negative on their happy posts so I skip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 213 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄These are the same people who behave like their lives have been so affected. Like a girl rejecting you didn't screw up your life, jackass. Stop relying on that 0.1% facts and focus on the huge number of women who get raped, should I say hourly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:23 AM |
| 15 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationLol what even? He's probably so devoid of attention, he thinks manipulating women like this is the way. He was thinking you'd say something like "no no you're totally fine" and then will immediately go "send nudes please" typical incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:09 PM |
| 26 | Has anyone else noticed that a lot of couples just aren't happy?My ex friend and his gf are basically in this forever gf relationship since 6 years with no signs of proposal or marriage. When we were still friends, I used to advise him that if he doesn't like her, he should be honest and leave her and not put the entire responsibility of breaking up on her because he's coward and she definitely won't breakup because she loves him way too much. Every single day, he would complain about her and I would be at a loss for words. If you hate someone this much, jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 23 | Has anyone else noticed that a lot of couples just aren't happy?This triggers me for this exact reason. Why did I still choose to be with them when all I ever was, was a backup option and they were still pining for the "one that got away"? Ugh makes me so mad at my past self! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 135 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetThey've always seen us as walking and living fleshlights so they can get away with no emotions. But they try to make it seem discreet under the name "post nut clarity". Boy, no matter how much you try to look sophisticated, we see right through your bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 151 | “its pretty cool cuz she doesnt care if i fuck up my life”If someone wrote that for me, I would die from shame, I am not even exaggerating! Why does he think blatantly telling that "you're not better than my ex but I settled for you" is going to work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 192 | Guess what most commenters said?I hope they didn't say "CoMmUnIcAtE" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:54 PM |
| 347 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?I'm proud of her for standing up for herself and not letting him disrespect her anymore. Otherwise most of the post on that sub are like "He shit on my face but I love him so much, what should I do?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 8 | OMG I couldn’t help myself. He shouldn’t have snooped and he should communicate. And stop being so insecure! All women do this.Yesss, your comment is everything 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:37 AM |
| 14 | This is the same type of scrote who says “are you okay? You look sick/tired” to women IRL who go bare-faced. Fuck outta here.Tell me he looks just like a paedophile 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 43 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳Yeah this, this is basically the answer to both the questions she asked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 227 | Law enforcement declines to charge women for killing a man that was attacking their daughter/sister.Ikr? Here, they'd be charged with manslaughter or even murder. But this news shows something definitely positive and powerful. Like finally people are opening up to believe the truth and not jumping on the "crazy women" ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Men like me more when I unexpectedly drop them like a hot potato. Whyyy??I second this so much, from my own experience! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Either he comes focused or he doesn't come at all.I also can't think of anything else except this. They are so selfish, they wouldn't think twice before wasting our time and when their time comes, they'll leave us and go settle with their dream girl. But the truth is, they're gonna treat her the same eventually. It's all a part of the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:27 PM |
| 5 | First inviting me to hangout with his roommate and play Mario cart for our first date and then this.... GodIkr? Wtf is even a walk next to the water! It's like they're not even trying at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:25 AM |
| 7 | Fake woke menYeah this reminds me of this guy who would always post derogatory memes about women and tell things like "I sleep with my little sister" as a joke and then all of a sudden started his rant about how porn is misogyny, degrades women and he'd never watch it except for the fact that he'd always watch it. How woke lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | If only sex crimes were treated like this! There would be less crimes against women. How a HVW and HVM character reacted in a movie(translation in the post).I absolutely loved the movie. They should make more movies like that instead of the shitshow that is Bollywood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 28 | Text conversation with my ex a few months after he dumped me. He would not introduce me to his parents because he said they didn't want him to have a girlfriend. 🤡This is so cringe on his part, ugh. We see and understand what you're trying to do here Pete! Time to block you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:35 AM |
| 92 | Never give men who were cruel to you a second chance.Yes, eventually they'll get tired of pretending and will have to drop their nice facade and go back to their ugly personalities. Experienced it first hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:03 AM |
| 14 | Why did I have to fall in love with a horrible, selfish liar?It's okay hun, it's okay. We've all been through it and understand your pain. But for now what you need to do is, block and delete him from everywhere, absolute no contact for life because when I tell you he's going to come back, he will with a not so good intention but just to fuck with your mind again. You're not going to let that happen. You're going to take control of your life and shut that shit down even before it happens. In the meanwhile, for dealing with this pain, read the handbook, on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Why waste an award to say this?Saint Patron of Receding Hairlines - I can't even, lmafooo 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:46 AM |
| 17 | Pickmeisha on r/offmychestSometimes I wonder what they do with all that fake attention for their obviously low self-esteem. Don't they get tired of pleasing NVMs and getting absolutely nothing in return except "aww babe you're better than all the other girls I fucked"? Like woman, read some self-help books, get a hobby or something, quit this man pleasing shit. This is not going to get you anywhere in life, something I wish I knew in my teenage years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 65 | Spent 3 weeks on this creature. He randomly decided to ghost me for no apparent reason 🤷🏻♀️ and now he is blockedOMG lol, wish I read this before I met my ex. Now he grew a ponytail but yeah most of his haircut looks like this yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 10 | The fact that this mentality is still prevalent and even encouraged in India is sickening.Honestly this. He'd follow tons of "Indian babes" but couldn't fathom that I could be a non virgin lol. He gave me silent treatment for over a week after knowing about my history with one other ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 47 | SOS - Rescue Mission NeededNot to sound mean but you'd definitely be an asshole to yourself if you waste another day of your life on this scumbag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:16 PM |
| 57 | In which universe are flowers and dinner equivalent to blowjobs??I swear they make it all about themselves any chance they get. They see everything related to women as competition. They can never see us as equal or superior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 10 | No he's not depressed, yes he has emotions but he still chooses to hurt you because that's what evil people do. Don't make excuses for a man ever!Thank you for writing all of this. Idk if my ex was really depressed or not but he'd threaten me with suicide if I tried to leave, call me all sorts of abusive names and then immediately apologize, cry and say "I'm such a bad person. No one should love me", then belittle me and repeat the same thing again. He'd make "jokes" which weren't really jokes but a dig at my self-esteem. But if I tried to say "umm maybe you should stop treating me like this and blame everything on your depression and sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:37 PM |
| 27 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madIkr? If they only see my inbox full of DMs from thirsty men lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:04 AM |
| 13 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?All of these 💯🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 49 | A dude commenting about how women that shave their head are disgusting, later said he’d live his gf if she gets cancer...He'll be doing a great job leaving her. Cancer patients need a lot of positivity to recover and he ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:05 PM |
| 46 | Pulling the old switcheroo when you’re vulnerable 😐Aka their so called "sympathy boner". Way to tell the whole world that you're a pornsick psychopath who finds someone's sadness arousing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:03 PM |
| 41 | Ex-boyfriend calls to “catch up”. Why?Fourthed. He's treating you as a backup sis. His all other "better" options failed so now he's tryna see if he can hook you back in his trap. Classic breadcrumbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘Omg lol, this is funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:10 PM |
| 49 | what are you proud of?I finally found my passion and working towards it. Yay to career. Also, got engaged to myself. It's a gorgeous ring 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | While women are busy talking about real problems, men discuss why we shouldn't have women's day..."Men can have breast cancer too"Men are absolute crybabies yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Lmaooo he's soo boring and effortless. Nah sis, you can do better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:11 AM |
| 30 | Came across just one guy speaking about the negative issues on International men's day. So refreshing to see after all the "but what about men?" posts ugh!This! And those men's rights activists? I'm like you guys already have so many rights and privileges, what more do you want? Then pickmes come in their defence "I'm a woman but...." Ugh stfu, can scrotes and pickmes not make everything about men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:21 AM |
| 39 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.Absolutely, your worth is in your own hands. You can choose to leave and choose yourself right this effing moment. Do it sis! We're all rooting for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 61 | I can't even, at this point. Scrotes are letting their children sexualize women. LVM dads will raise LVM sons. Let's stop blaming the moms.Yes, you're absolutely right. Also, in some cases, peers have an effect on the child but if the father doesn't see anything wrong with such a behaviour, then as you said, he definitely does it too and won't ever rebuke his son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 200 | I politely declined a mans advances and ended up getting followed.Omg, I am so sorry this happened to you. It's so scary to even imagine. I want to hug you tight and give you comfort food and wanna let you know you're gonna be fine soon, hun. I hope you report the crap out of that scrote. Also, to male lurkers, this is what happens when we say no. So no, it's not easy for us women to reject a man. You can't just go on and say "You could've told him no?" We don't have it easy. It's you who have everything handed to you on a silver platter. Fucking dumbheads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:33 PM |
| 4 | India will have its own 4B movementHave you seen how they treat their own mothers? Hell no, I'm not gonna deal with that shit! If there's a sister, the mother still gets respite because she knows if no one else, her daughter will understand but in households where there are two sons or more, I am not gonna even step in there. I can smell the toxic masculinity and internalised misogyny from a mile away! Dated and experienced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:20 PM |
| 51 | #YesAllWomenThis hashtag needs to be popularized so much, I tell you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:53 AM |
| 52 | Why LVM Exs come backThank you for sharing these. It feels great to know that it's just his wounded ego that makes him come back time and around. Whenever he failed at his task, the nice mask used to fall off and he'd end each "please get back with me again" sorta conversations with "fuck off bitch, you used me" lol. Really, makes you thank God that you're no longer together because eventually this was gonna happen. He'd also told me about how many girls asked him out after we broke up but he denied for me, I was li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:52 AM |
| 6 | No?Exactly, I actually did that because of this very reason. I don't want to waste my day's mood looking at some scrote's obliviously butthurt message. I have a terrible habit of engaging back and forth and this is me just handling myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:44 AM |
| 152 | My worst date...Y'all this exact thing happened to me and I looked at him like "🤨" and he just smiled and said let's go. There wasn't a second date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:50 AM |
| 8 | No?Thank God, I've my messages turned off 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 40 | India will have its own 4B movementI'm an Indian and I definitely want this to happen. Go to hell Indian entitled manchildren. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.Omg lol 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 22 | 50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments.I'd say a guy's upbringing depends on the mindset of his family and his surroundings. If he's raised in the west but his family still carries the toxic misogynistic mindset of our desi culture, it's gonna affect his character unless he's aware and does something about it. About being wary, you should be wary of all men, no matter whatever race they belong to. It's not racism at all, you are being cautious and your safety should always be your first priority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:05 PM |
| 16 | the image speaks for itselfEww the underwear 🤣🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:27 PM |
| 23 | 50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments.Idk if it's my bad luck or something but none of my Indian exes could get rid of the entitlement. They legit drained me emotionally and still had the audacity to ask for more free emotional labour. I only once dated an American, Hispanic to be precise and he treated me like a queen, didn't make me feel like I was his free slave. We had to breakup because I still wasn't sure when I'd be able to move to the US/Canada for my job. But this was the only guy who made sure I met his parents, sister, gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 11 | 50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments.Here's the link https://fiftyshadesofindianpatriarchy.com/2019/11/11/spectrum-of-the-indian-man-child/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:12 PM |
| 15 | This is why we don't send long paragraphs to men who've wronged usSame sis and I wanna undo all of that, God. I feel so enraged to even think about their lack of basic empathy to understand a partner's frustration or problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:45 AM |
| 17 | Exactly this! (To be clear- I’m not a man hater, I just hate the misogynistic mentality of most mud suckers...)Amen to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:23 AM |
| 6 | Emotions are messengers trying to tell us something about a situation, others and ourself.This this this. I'm angry that I even let that shit happen for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:44 AM |
| 10 | The child actor in the pictures is 12 year old now, she was around 7-8 when the movie was released. But look at the thousands of men "excited" At her being a beautiful pre-teen because she's a female..... There are a lot more pedophiles than we can guess. Gross gross gross.Most of Bollywood is pedophilic and sexually abusive. But all of it gets dismissed. I no longer watch any Bollywood movie except for Ayushmann Khurrana's and some historical remakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 59 | Sad but true, gotta just laugh at this point 🤣I'm sorry but this hit way too hard in the morning. I've literally just woken up and sipping tea and this came up in my feed. I honestly have learnt so many psychological terms that I feel like I'm some NPD diagnosis expert, no offence 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Men need to learn a lot, like a LOT!I just happened to come across this on the internet. I don't have the rest of it. I wish I had, would have loved to share it. But if anyone finds it, please upload it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 63 | HVM vs LVM: period editionI want a penguin shaped hot water bottle now! But I am so happy for you and your current partner ❤️🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Love LanguagesThank you for this post. This really does put things into perspective. But something I've noticed, one of my exes had all the love languages and did show them effectively but withheld it once I didn't do anything for him that was uncomfortable for me to do. Makes me think if showing all love languages makes a man a real HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Is it bad of me to really want Karma to strike my ex hard multiple times?It's just so difficult but I'll definitely try to forgive him. It'll take a lot of time though, I've been literally traumatized. Thank you for sharing your mum's words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:49 PM |
| 20 | Don't Listen to Society. You Don't Need "That Special Someone" To Be Happy!!!That last sentence hit me hard. I had to leave a wonderful opportunity to move to a great city for my career only because my male friend was working in that city too and my ex was jealous of him. He thought something would happen between that friend and I if I went so I stayed behind. But if I said something "Umm maybe don't talk about your bestfriend's boobs with her?" he'd call me insecure and controlling. Projection at its finest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 27 | No more free labour for menYes, same sis. So glad it happened! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Is it bad of me to really want Karma to strike my ex hard multiple times?Ikr? He does have a stalker mentality and knows my address. After I get my degree, I want to move to Canada but that's like 4-5 years away. But if my relatives there in BC managed something, I would totally pack my bags now and leave. I am safe as of now, thank you for asking. But you see, he is disturbed af and can really become violent sometimes and it would take just a 2 hours flight from his place to mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:42 PM |
| 43 | Men need to learn a lot, like a LOT!Lmfao, you nailed it 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 12 | Is it bad of me to really want Karma to strike my ex hard multiple times?Honestly, I don't know any equivalent of a restraining order here in my country. If that was a thing here, I would have totally got one against him. About the proposals if it really happened, lol I told him that glad he rejected them because they definitely wouldn't have found someone better if he didn't. No one needs a bodyshamer, emotional abuser, pornsick limp dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:21 PM |
| 16 | Is it bad of me to really want Karma to strike my ex hard multiple times?I've blocked him on all possible numbers and social media, plus I've deleted my own social media too so that I can't stalk him. He still finds a way to text me. What a pathetic loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:17 PM |
| 34 | The “”friend zone””Can I just say they always seem to get so passive aggressive? I think most of the relationships can be boiled down to these men being passive aggressive and the women feeling guilty due to societal pressure and finally giving them a pity chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 22 | Weather reportI love this show 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:57 AM |
| 10 | Years later and it still bothers me.So much this. I was trauma bonded for so long but something finally struck me when narc ex broke up with me for the umpteenth time. I said "Thank you for doing this, I am finally free." He didn't expect that and came right back begging to take his ass back lmfao. It still bothers me but yep I'm so glad the trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:23 AM |
| 69 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVMI got so many proposals but I chose you and denied them. Yikes. Hint: Emotional manipulation, love bombing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:03 AM |
| 2 | I had a field day with my narc ex who texted from another number. He thinks it's not bodyshaming rather my mindset. Uh okay. Also, he tried to rope me in with the "4 proposals" BS, when I still didn't budge, he dropped his nice facade and started cussing me. He really treats women like objects.Blocked and deleted 'cause emotionally abusive assholes gonna remain assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!Yes yes! Our respective states. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 150 | Imagine if all the women collectively rejected such NVM/LVM. What's gonna happen to the patriarchal society? 💀So true. When any scrote/pickme says to me "you'll never find a man" I'm like thank God, I've had my fair share, no more, ciao. They need to know, it's never an insult, it's a BLESSING IN DISGUISE. Also, the universal truth is men need women more, always. Men can never do without a woman's help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 81 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!Y'all, what's with Indian men and them not introducing their gf to their parents soon but talking about marriage like they're gonna do it tomorrow itself?? OP, I am Indian and living here for 21 years and I've noticed this shit for way too long. My ex and I were LDR (Guj-WB) never again, I swear, he was legit talking about moving in and marriage within a week and when I asked, so when I'm gonna meet his parents, he said when his elder brother gets married, I'm like so that's an uncertainty, basi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 76 | As if all women exist to look pretty for him, this guy asks his gf's sister to shave her legs! The audacity!Lmfao 💀 can we have more posts where FDS women translate? 'cause it's lit af! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:34 AM |
| 38 | You don't really miss him. Trust me.This came in my feed right when I started missing him. Wow, thanks a lot. I think I'm just bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 08:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm having some flashbacks...Where did you find this picture of my ex and I? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 6 | My little queenYes mama bear, so proud of you both. I've a little 3yo and twin 3 month old nieces, I want to raise them just like one of the FDS Queens 🥰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:56 AM |
| 11 | Truly a wonderful combination of a NVM and a pick-me.Yeah I saw that and ugh I'm so mad, why are they so fucking depraved, why omg???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 53 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!I was going for "brainwashed" but nope, scrotes don't have a brain at all. To comprehend something, one needs to have high EQ and IQ. Therefore, mostly they dedicate their time to their tiny peen and throw around tantrums like a baby. Even babies are calmer than a manchild like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:54 PM |
| 61 | This was a few years ago my LVM ex contacting me months after we broke up (after a 7 year relationship)...he starting dating someone immediately and I subbed here and found you girls. Thank you to all of you who've helped me realize my worth ❤Makes me wonder if he's a narcissist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:47 PM |
| 120 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itIfkr?! I'd rather be alone with my lovely stretch marks and self-confidence than with that ugly face and shit personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 37 | Wanting a man to open doors for you makes you a selfish whore: link to video belowIt's all that frustration from not being able to get laid. I mean why would anyone even wanna be friends with someone like that, let alone date? Got a headache reading his stupid rants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 35 | We got the top two trending threads on r/AgainstHateSubreddits this week! We did it ladies! 🥳🥳 Apparently no closeted gay man has ever been misogynist and also we’re the reason feminism isn’t working and not men!Me 💞💜💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 44 | I got the most lukewarm apology via email from my sad excuse of an ex after he blocked me 6 months ago 🥴True that. They always end it with "hope you're ok". If you don't reply, all's good, the moment you do reply, they start with their shit again, be it ghosting, mood swings, whatever they did before. Experienced it. So I don't reply at all now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:37 AM |
| 31 | ShOcKiNg!!!Same, girl, same. Like what was he even expecting? Now, the pickmes can have him, not my problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:24 PM |
| 29 | A man telling you "I want to be the right/best boyfriend for you" is not endearing. It means he know he doesn't measure up now. Don't sleepwalk into dating a project. Either he comes correct or he doesn't come at all.Reading the post and this comment made me reflect on my last relationship in a way I never thought it would. He used exactly the same words "I wanna be the best person for you" but his actions were way off from that sentence. He wouldn't call me for months, I had to schedule an appointment like it was a doctor-patient relationship. He wouldn't text me in a day, wouldn't give me even 5 minutes. But if it was sexual, it meant he has all the time in the world to listen to me. My emotions are an int… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:18 PM |
| 9 | I have no idea why this is a revolutionary statement. The whole, "what if it was your daughter, mother,sister etc" narrative really rubs me the wrong way. You should care about women period, no just when it impacts you personally.Your caption is everything. Hell yeah, I want to post it somewhere! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:07 AM |
| 5 | They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words.Yes, it is kind of. The book deals with poems and proses related to depression, infidelity, abusive relationships and power of women. It's for women, basically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:43 AM |
| 107 | They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words.Good for you. These guys need to be kicked out ASAP. Had a guy tell me "People often push me away when I open up". Something about that sentence didn't sit well with me. I thought "Are you really opening up or emotionally abusing the said people?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:36 PM |
| 111 | They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words.Wow, this seems so familiar because his priority would always be work. He would text me every alternate day because he'd be so busy with two jobs as a software engineer while I could still manage to talk to him being a COVID frontline worker. I asked him if he would choose me during labor or work, he said if it's work, it's gonna be work. Bye workaholic!! I don't need a deadbeat dad. He still sends breadcrumbs "Hope you're ok" of course I am fucking awesome now that you're out of my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:32 PM |
| 73 | They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words.You'll Come Back to Yourself by Michaela Angemeer. I've read some of the quotes from this book. Touched my unhealed wounds, I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 199 | They really tell on themselves! We've to be vigilant and not make excuses for their words.Sis, I get you. Mine dead ass said "idc if you die" after not being there by my side during a panic attack. Like you were my boyfriend, you were supposed to be there during my bad moments but he noped tf out with "If you need someone then you're weak" wow. I can't believe I cried so much for that asshole after I left him. Before the relationship, he clearly said he doesn't have emotions, I should have listened to it but I made excuses that maybe he had a bad childhood or was a victim to toxic ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 10 | When you miss them, read this.I cried last night listening to Everglow but not because I missed them but that they didn't turn out to be who they showed they were in the first month. I was disappointed and upset about that as hell. So, I was actually missing the lost time. I was legit screaming "Why did you have to turn out to be a narcissist and sociopath?" "Why couldn't you love me normally?" "Was the emotional abuse really necessary?" Oof. That was one hell of a ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:16 AM |
| 74 | No more playing their mommy, therapist or bangmaid. Drop that manchild!Most women stay around with the hope that their men may change if they keep putting more efforts and their needs on the back burner but little do they know, their men don't even respect them to undergo improvements. He knows if she doesn't even respect herself enough to leave him, then why should he respect her desires? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 2 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️Yes, we were together and I was trauma bonded. But I knew I had to leave. I just needed the strength and I got that by destroying him. EDIT - Forgot to add the answer to your question. There's an option on my phone to auto record calls. You just have to switch it on. Whenever someone calls and you receive, the recording starts immediately. So whenever he argued with me, he'd used such statements, so those were present in the recordings. We were LDR so basically we never had many arguments in per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️Thank you so much. Feels good. Still a couple of his best buddies are just LVMs like him who didn't believe me and called me a whore lol. I had to know if he has close LVM friends, he must be one too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 01:19 AM |
| 9 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️I secretly recorded every time he used words like "wished you die" or anything demeaning. Kept every screenshots with such details that made it known that it was him only. Then one fine day when I felt like I had enough evidence, I forwarded it to a bunch of his friends. They were shocked. They took my side, defended me. That's when he got scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 19 | OP is in the comments talking about how her boyfriend will say ‘looks like she gives good head ‘ to her about other girls. Continues to defend him and refuse to see that how he perceives women is DISGUSTING. She also told me good luck finding a dude 😂😂😂Y'all, we dated the same guy. Mine pulled that stunt too. He never complimented me and when I asked, he just looked me dead in the face and said, "it just doesn't come to me to compliment you". Then, when I rightfully got pissed, he said "Do you really want validation? Are you in this relationship for compliments?" Okay, victim blamer. He'd also point out stuffs like, "your belly is so fat" "you got a moustache" and here I'm a PCOD survivor with 110lbs weight, slowly inching towards the underwei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 68 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️I usually do it in my comments and other posts while he stalks my Reddit account. IT'S SO CATHARTIC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 47 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)India :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:47 PM |
| 109 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)I carry pepper spray and a Swiss knife, that's all really. In fact, I am so scared, I don't go out in the dark alone. I just sit inside in a café with lots of people around and wait for my dad to come get me even at 21. Because, here every day someone gets raped or assaulted, doesn't matter if it's a 2 month old baby or 80 yo woman. In fact, even my dad knows and says that it's all men that I need to be scared of. But of course there are people coughs who say "NoT aLl MeN". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 478 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)I had a LVM said to me that false rape cases are more than actual rape cases despite knowing about my past assaults. I shut down that shit instantly and blocked him everywhere. He called me a feminist bitch in a public forum. I don't care at all. Thanks to FDS. What I do want to let him and male lurkers know is, most rape cases go unreported especially in cases of marital or incestuous. Not many countries still recognize those as rapes. They get dismissed because "come on it was your husband, he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 5 | No more red flags for me.We're so glad to have you here. Let's learn together and level up ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:09 AM |
| 66 | Pick me attitude spotted in Buzzfeed comments. A shame too since their audience is mostly teen girlsWalk date with a stranger isn't romantic at all. Especially when you're going somewhere isolated. Sir, I do not want to get raped and murdered and my body being thrown in a ditch somewhere. Why this simple alarm bell doesn't ring in their heads? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:00 AM |
| 32 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!Lol, yes I can see their comment notifications and laughing a lot! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 27 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!I'm guessing you're an Indian just like me. Since IPL is going on and my favourite team KKR got knocked out of the playoffs because of yesterday's game, I got sad, yes. But my male counterparts started throwing tantrums, went to MI's official social handles and posted harassing messages. Like what? It was our bad luck. Maybe the match was fixed, maybe not. But let's all learn to control our emotions. I swear they were shouting in person, I am hundred percent sure about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 509 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!Most men stonewall their partners and family too. Go completely silent when they are being said to do basic things for the welfare of the relationship or the family. It's a form of withholding of emotions so that they don't have to communicate and keep acting like an infant who can't speak and ultimately the work has to be done by the partner or the respective family member. That's an emotional response too. If they were really the logical sex, they would not give the silent treatment and do thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:03 PM |
| 158 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!Yes, I have seen this. They get so aggressive. It's like I'm seeing someone else instead of their usual self. They'll flip over the table, throw the bowl of popcorn, punch their own thighs, scream profanities. When they're on the field, they'll push, slap the teammates etc. While playing video games also, they do the same thing. You can hear them screaming so loudly. Then we're called emotional for crying because of menstrual pain. Huh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:53 AM |
| 7 | REMINDER: BLOCK AND DELETE THAT MANSame sis. I am hollering. I am going to absolutely use this from now on. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:37 AM |
| 66 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)OMG, what a shitbag! You're carrying his child and how dare your body accommodates to the change. I suffered from PCOD for a long time because of which I have visible upper lip hair but not too visible, you can notice only when you're inches from my face. Ex had to "make a joke" always "wow you got a moustache, guess I'm dating a man". Soon after he became an ex. They really do have the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:33 AM |
| 158 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.Absolutely this. Helped ex male friends emotionally during their breakup and career crisis. Didn't get anything positive in return, only statements like "wow, you nag a lot, you're so dramatic". So when I stopped all contact and blocked them, they spilled all my secrets that I shared with them, as a sort of revenge. Men are selfish. They're the real gold-diggers. Sidenote, they flirted with me and wanted to sleep with me while they were in relationships with other beautiful and strong women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:01 AM |
| 31 | It’s sad this is normalized but it has to be said. Many women don’t realize their partners hate them because they’re so used to CoMmUniCaTing and negotiating their standards.Yeah right? I've noticed this too. Mine had really long and dirty nails and when I told him that he should clip it, he got defensive. What's there to get defensive about? It falls under basic hygiene 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 16 | I - uh I don't know what to say. Of course some comments are saying "it's normal, just a sympathy boner" God.When she said that he gets aroused while looking at her face after crying, it made me think that's the exact crying faces those pornstars make when they are forcefully choked by a dick. Maybe, he thinks of those porn videos while she cries? Now, I feel all the more disgusted and angry!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:03 PM |
| 19 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?Is this shitty story written by a depraved man? I don't know, I can't believe some women anymore, what has happened to self-respect?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:03 AM |
| 157 | I’m SO tired of this food trope being used by men to excuse their shitty and shady behaviorI hope these are fake text exchanges. Please. PLEASE? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 15 | Did this the other day to a boy I was ‘friends’ with after he crossed my boundaries, and then tried to act as if nothing happened and I was being over dramatic. Before FDS I would have written an essay and spent hours cOmMuNiCaTiNg with himDid this with a toxic misogynist ex friend on WhatsApp lol. He got so mad, immediately started blowing up the other platforms I hadn't blocked him on. So I quickly blocked him there too without even opening those messages. You can call me a feminist bitch or a Karen but actions really show who's the insecure and angry manchild here 😌💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Did this the other day to a boy I was ‘friends’ with after he crossed my boundaries, and then tried to act as if nothing happened and I was being over dramatic. Before FDS I would have written an essay and spent hours cOmMuNiCaTiNg with himMy Scorpio moon be feeling this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 4 | ‘Please forgive me it was a one-time thing’Guess we dated the same person. It was so exhausting, my God. Good for both of us to drop that shitbag 👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 149 | I Feel so sorry for oglers’s partners .Once a married man was ogling at me, he was with his wife too. I gave him a stern look. He whispered something in his wife's ears and then his wife said "Would you please stop staring at my husband? He's taken. Can't you see he's with his wife?" I was shocked. I was like wtf woman your husband was mentally scanning me, visibly getting hard and here you're accusing me of staring at a wrinkled pervert whom you call your husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 41 | Breaking away after truama bonding done easy for the new queensI did this with my Instagram account. Helped me to stop checking my ex's account ugh. I don't have any social media now except Reddit for using FDS. I'm living such a peaceful life with minimal connection. I just want to focus on solo travelling again when this COVID situation eases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 177 | This is grossI saw this exact post somewhere 1 year ago, when I was a pick-me and was all like "aww how cute". Now, after FDS, it's "NAH, SIS!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:48 AM |
| 10 | .. old sm “friend” I never really knew, and now deleted.. grossThey're the consolation prize lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:09 AM |
| 63 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂Out of curiosity, I checked her profile and she actually posted a picture of the smelly gunk that came out of her bf's belly button. Ewwww. She was so proud of doing the deed and later I also found that same asshole cheated on her 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 39 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂If they're HVMs, they'll probably be furious and disown those sons. If they're LVMs/NVMs just like their sons, those guys will share a couple beers and talk about how radical feminism is ruining their chances of getting laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 75 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂Lord, why did I have to read this just before dinner 😭🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 58 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂Exactly this. This was the message of the post. Most mothers would be disappointed and horrified to see that after so much sacrificing for their sons, their sons grew up to be like this, harassing women online and IRL. Tell me, which mother won't be disheartened after knowing that? Some will definitely defend their sons, they're sadly brainwashed. We can't help them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 332 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂Yes, they do always say "My baby son can never do this. He's so innocent, he still doesn't know how to eat or wipe his ass. You're framing him." 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 9 | The age difference made me cringe, maybe I’m over thinking it ladies. Correct me please. In 10 yrs the age won’t matter.Please don't ever get married so young. As someone coming from a country with a legal age of marriage for women being 18 and child marriages still happening, such marriages are bound to end in disaster. Of course there are exceptions which are few but will you really bet on your entire life to fit in one of those exceptions? She's still a teen who's yet to mature so much and learn about life and men especially. God, this whole situation feels scary. More like he wants to trap her while she's sti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 66 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!)The ex was just like this and when I discussed it with my ex male friend, he said "Oh, it's biology, he just has a high sex drive 'cause of testosterone". You can check my post. Fuck your biology man, every sane man can control himself with meditation and stuff. This is just BS and a lame excuse for high amount of porn consumption and porn addiction. It'll get to rape if she doesn't do anything about it now. There's no advice for this, no talking, just leaving. I wish I was told the same back th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 234 | I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlightLmao, they really are stupid to think there'll even be a next time. BEGONE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:07 AM |
| 4 | Not sure if this belongs here, but I can't take a man with bad spelling and grammarHonestly, these guys have the highest paid jobs yet talk like cavemen. Yes, I am talking about you ex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:37 AM |
| 28 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.That's so appalling, tbh. I feel for you. Hurting us makes them feel dominant, I guess. But in reality, if they feel the need to feel dominant, they're actually really weak. So, they're just pathetic, weak and insecure people. Though, I kinda wish for Karma to do its work. Thank you and hugs to you too 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:03 PM |
| 116 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.Girl, my ex coerced me into having sex the same day I cried in his arms talking about how I was sexually assaulted at 9 and 11 years of age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:47 PM |
| 279 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.Red flag? Hun, it ain't a red flag at this point. It's a crime. It's RAPE. You should be filing a case, not wasting your time writing this on Reddit. I am actually disheartened that innocent women are so gaslighted by the patriarchal pornsick society into thinking this is normal, oh my God. About the second post. Even if he said he didn't want to hurt you, he considered it. No person who really loved you would ever consider hurting you intentionally after knowing that you've been through some tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:57 PM |
| 106 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️Nope, Nee, Non, Nein, Nahin, Na. Idk how many languages I need to use but absolutely NO. In my pick-me days, I approached always, my self-respect went out of the window and they treated me like their slaves. Rated 0 stars. Wouldn't recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | FDS got me likeYou're welcome! All the best to you on your sponsorship journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:16 AM |
| 6 | FDS got me likeActually, I am from India. Here, you can contact any NGO and they give out options for sponsorship of any kid be it girl, boy, orphan or with parents. You can choose to sponsor their food, clothing or education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:11 AM |
| 3 | FDS got me likeI am genuinely overwhelmed by all your supportive comments. Strong women like you all inspire me to do so much in life. I hope I could inspire you too. Thank you again for all the lovely comments, it made my day so much. Lots of love and power ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:09 AM |
| 16 | HVM may still end up screwing you over the minute they see you as “defiled” or impureIf he's willing to screw you over any minute, that guy was never a HVM from the beginning. Nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | I have no words. "He farts constantly on me, in my face or on my body, low testosterone, so literally no sex (2x/mo), picks his nose anywhere and wipes it on the bed, jeans, etc. He doesn't brush his teeth, so it looks all brown and gunky."Usually so nice and charismatic but makes you feel ugly/fat? Girl, he's a textbook narcissist. If you know you should leave, why aren't you leaving? I know leaving an abusive relationship is sometimes difficult because of trauma bonding but please have the strength somehow. About finding love? You can find literally anyone who takes care of themselves and doesn't fart on your face or body. No amount of therapy or communication is gonna help her at this point and I'll lose my goddamn mind if anyo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:03 AM |
| 10 | Back in those days, I got therapyzoned. WATCH THIS ROLLERCOASTER!Yes, he says he still wants to keep the friendship. Fuck no! Go get fucked. He's even stringing that girl along too. He has no desire to marry her. He'll marry whoever his parents chose. Typical Indian male. I am sorry for her as well. His heart will not be with either of these women. So basically, he played 3 women at the same time. EDIT - I got to know all this from him and I realized it all on my own that he just acts innocent but he ain't. He's 25 and never had a single relationship till now… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 8 | Back in those days, I got therapyzoned. WATCH THIS ROLLERCOASTER!I agree with you. I didn't discover FDS back then, if I did, that would have been a straight block from that first message. No long paragraphs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 15 | Back in those days, I got therapyzoned. WATCH THIS ROLLERCOASTER!He started feeling pity for himself and sent me so many messages after this but I kept them on read and finally blocked him soon after. I got no time for your crocodile tears, you played me, you sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 5 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.You're right. He did fart in his sleep and played with his used condom. Idk why I am saying this, it's so disgusting even to say this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Also, WoMeN aRe BaD aT ScIeNcE. Science is for the logical sex.My ex rides bikes. He knows I have panic attacks so severe, I have to go to the ICU. He would intentionally swerve his bike so fast and brake it suddenly, that it would start inclining as if we were about to fall. His reason? "So that, you choose to come closer and hold me tight" That was the last time, I ever sat on his bike. All the injuries I got on my foot was because of how he rode, either we fell or he would just try to ride past some vehicle even though there was so little space and my fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 11 | I think I succeeded in making a girlfriend realize that porn is misogyny with my regular anti-porn posts. All because of FDS. I also sent her the handbook way before. I regularly send her posts from here too since she's yet to make a Reddit act.All I'd like to say is keep sharing knowledge with other women, women who actually want to learn, not the ones who have zero hope and always defend their manchild. Your energy and time will be simply wasted in the latter. Instead, with the former, when you can see them realize how they're being treated, where they should've been instead, start supporting them. It'll create a strong bond of sisterhood. Edit :- Her message was a great start to my day. Good morning/night, wherever you're in the wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:49 AM |
| 16 | FDS got me likeYou're so kind. Thank you so much. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 5 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.IKR, it's insane. I am from India, where the average height of males is 5'4. So yeah because of this, men here do get insecure about their short height and project it on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | Recognize the red flags. This will also serve as a reminder for myself 🙌I feel like I'm reading a résumé of the narc exes I dated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 7 | What would a young HVM look like?Thank you for sharing these. Absolutely needed it as a 21 yo still figuring out things with a history of abusive relationships. I have no interest in dating anymore but if I change my mind someday, I'll make sure to take these points into account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:40 PM |
| 139 | FDS got me likeHonestly this. I don't even wanna date anymore. I am so satisfied with the life I'm living rn. I sponsor a girl child monthly and she's 3 years old. Once, I get her into a good school, I will start the process of legally adopting her. I am so ready to be a single mom. I don't see myself getting married. But I do see myself as a badass lawyer winning cases after cases and raising a woman just like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 10 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.Thank you for saying such kind words. Sometimes, I do doubt if I'm heading in the right direction but when I realize that more and more LVMs are either getting out of my life on their own or I'm kicking them out, the more I understand that yes I am definitely doing something right. They'll literally have sex with anything that moves. Warm or cold, doesn't matter. Even if it's worse looking, they just want to dump. I recently heard that there are even communities dedicated to Necrophilia which di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:19 PM |
| 25 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.Oh, he still is a disgusting piece of shit but his friends literally worship him. Narcissists do have a way with charming other people and making themselves look like the victim while calling you the abuser. On the day of our breakup, he verbally abused me for an entire hour, screaming at the top of his lungs and calling me all sorts of names and I just kinda froze, couldn't even bother saying anything to defend myself. What if he physically did something? That same night, he was with his girl b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 46 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.He regularly stalks my Reddit account. Hope he sees this, lmao. BEGONE DEMON. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Talking to your ex is like a watching a gore video. Yes you might be curious, and think it's going to be ok. But it will just lower your frequency and you'll regret it.Yes. I'm glad you did. Always block and delete. If need be, change your number and only share with few close people and work colleagues. Recently, I had my phone blown up by this same asshole 32 times in a row, literally with a minute interval between each call. What a stalkerish move! He keeps breadcrumbing from different numbers. I'm soon going to change my number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 92 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.I got a notification of a comment saying that I was probably sexually coerced but I don't seem to find the comment anymore on my post so I'd like to share a story. I told ex about my sexual assault that happened twice. All consoling was done by him. Then at night, when we were finishing up dinner and cleaning the table, he started acting sexually, rubbing up against me while picking up something. Great but I wasn't in the mood, I was very tired. After that, we sat to watch TV and again he starte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:05 AM |
| 24 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.Yes, we weren't sexually compatible. But what I didn't like was him not respecting my boundaries and forcing his kinks on me. Like I wasn't and will never be into anal but he said "when we'll do it, you'll forget all boundaries" which was more than just a red flag and sounded quite rapey to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 24 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I'm 5'4, the average height being 5 in my country so I'm taller than most women in my family and friends with few exceptions. They're 5'5 or 5'6. It's quite rare to see 5'9 or 6'0 here haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:05 AM |
| 98 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.Another perspective. My other ex was also so porn addicted, he couldn't even get it up. He would make all these "I am disgusted" faces while going near my vagina which made me feel so insecure and I felt like dying inside while he never showered once, maybe showered once in a week and felt entitled to a BJ. Yep, literally begged me to give him one. Never gave one, cheers! He had the nerve to watch porn on his laptop right beside me and jerk off. That's when I realized, only porn would get his te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 45 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I've mostly dated tall men. 6 and above. Will never compromise. The times I did date shorter men like 5'7 or 5'6, they treated me like absolute shit due to their insecurities and thought they could do better since they got someone out of their league already. Never again. Tall men, always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 46 | Talking to your ex is like a watching a gore video. Yes you might be curious, and think it's going to be ok. But it will just lower your frequency and you'll regret it.I had completely moved on and was living my best life, then made the mistake of talking to my ex once and he made me go back to square one. I was mostly angry and stressed for days after that and he wouldn't leave my mind, I'm saying in a negative way. I guess that's what he wanted, to get under my skin, that SOB. I'm slightly better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 127 | We don’t chase, we replace 💅If you need to ask your man to act right, your man is hella wrong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 10 | ... Huh?Are these dumbasses literally admitting the only time they ever got hard was because of porn and not with a woman IRL? That's why they're frustrated that they won't be able to compete with a woman who actually has real life experiences and will immediately dump his ass the moment he can't satisfy her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 93 | This is why you don't give second chances to LVMs and have kids with them. Nope.The 22-year-old WBC Silver lightweight title holder is currently expecting a baby with Drea Celina, but that didn't stop him from dining out with Malú, who turned 18 this month. ''He tells me he’s training hard for this fight. But IG shows me this. 7 weeks left till I give birth and this piece of s**t stay being disgusting,'' Drea wrote. ''While he barely even sees Rylie his daughter with @catherinegamez. @Kingryang is a HORRIBLE PERSON.'' Rylie is the boxer's daughter with Catherine Gamez. Mal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:10 PM |
| 9 | The highest value man I've ever met didn't meet any of my standards, the significance of a beautiful heartI absolutely agree. He did basic stuffs literally. I wouldn't call someone who gets into fights a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 87 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterSis, when I tell you, he pushed me towards ED and having body dysmorphia. He didn't even defend me when his friend also said "wow you got another chubby girl" and he replied "I have a really bad luck", then he sent me the screenshot of the chat. He knew what he was doing. Pickme back then just laughed it off. I feel so humiliated now. You know what they say, birds of a feather flock together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 131 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterMy ex used to tell me "I don't care if you're fat, I still love you". How's that supposed to make me feel better? It's like saying "I settled for you but I can easily do so much better and if I can get better, I am leaving you right that moment. I don't love you lol." About him calling me fat, I was and am 110 lbs with a 5'4 height lol, basically quite thin. He really warped my mind with all the negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 14 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.I empathize with you. Please take care of yourself. If you aren't seeing a therapist, I'd suggest you do. Anxiety is a terrible disorder. I think my anxiety started from then and soon after I got diagnosed with severe anxiety disorder which often causes ulcers in my stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 78 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.Once, I got rape threats from a guy I rejected. I had to file a FIR and he was arrested immediately. I think he was in custody only for some days. I wish he got more severe punishment. I still look behind while walking, what if he's just there stalking me. It was a whole nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 48 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.I always carry pepper spray and a Swiss knife with me, always, even if I'm going to a place with lots of people and no possible instances of such crimes. I just don't trust anyone. It's my life and my safety, I have to be responsible about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 24 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.Yeah, I saw that news too. Another one, if you saw, a woman was kidnapped in broad daylight by a man who was either her ex or his proposal was turned down by her. He literally just grabbed her and pulled her inside a minivan with the help of his friends while she was walking on the sidewalk with her friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 31 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.I prayed for her too. There are so many Malvis out here suffering the same fate and even worse like painfully lengthy death, all because they rejected someone or stood up for themselves or just being a woman. Be it acid attack, gangrape, no one is safe, not even a child of 2 months or an elderly woman of 80 years. These are true stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:17 PM |
| 100 | WoMeN DoN't CaRe AbOuT DiCk SiZe: a statistical visual representation.Apart from the dick size statistics, something that really caught my eye was the top searches in the last image. Women searching so much about "men eating out a p**sy" clearly shows that IRL, most men are disgusted at the thought of eating a woman out but somehow feel entitled to a BJ. So, these poor women, in order to satisfy their needs, resort to online sources. Most men are selfish scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:08 PM |
| 65 | Remember ladies! It's okay for males to body shame women but never the other way around 🤡Same. There are specific subs dedicated only for things that look like vaginas and men comment so much about "pussy" and how they want to fap to even a chicken breast or a tub filled with ice-cream if it looks like a vagina. It's so disgusting. They're so obsessed with our reproductive organs, it's scary. But if we say "I only prefer big dicks", we are suddenly being biased and dick size shouldn't matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 42 | Pickmeisha says: "My boyfriend still hasn’t told me he loves me. Should I say it first?"He's just observing till what extent he can test her boundaries. Once, she puts her guard down and says it first, he'll know he has her trapped for a long time and he can do the bare minimum in the relationship till it lasts while expecting her to put maximum efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 351 | Remember ladies! It's okay for males to body shame women but never the other way around 🤡"How would you feel if someone made fun of your tits or vagina?"- They literally do that ALWAYS. They call us flat or too huge, rate our vaginas, call it too tight or too loose, they don't even leave out the labia majora while complaining. Then have the audacity to whine about their small peen, OOF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 188 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.Incels/MGTOW are scared that they will be "robbed" of money on the first date with no sex in return. Women are scared because there's always a chance to get assaulted and murdered. This is the difference between your fear and our fear. Every stranger man on the street is capable of committing a heinous crime hence we fear to walk in dark alleys at night or even in broad daylight. But can you say the same thing about a stranger woman though? Do you see her taking out a knife and raping you in som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:36 AM |
| 72 | This is why Reddit’s favourite adage of “just communicate” is so inappropriate. Communication means nothing if you’re with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you.Yup true, cOmMuNiCaTiNg with a dweeb who has seriously low EQ is useless and exhausting. I'd much rather spend that time figuring out how to leave his dusty ass behind and the new life ahead of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:18 AM |
| 25 | I've always hated this template since it made all women seem like crazy, insecure bitches so I made this meme. Pardon me, if this meme or a meme on this similar topic has been made previously.Haha, I like your imagination. I could totally visualize the scene and it made me chuckle 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:22 AM |
| 18 | Some of y'all...PREACH SIS 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 70 | It do be like thatI started suffering from body dysmorphia in my last relationship and I could literally skip eating the entire day just to maintain the skinny appearance. Everyone around me thought I was just sick because I looked malnourished but my ex had the audacity to call me fat. Wonder why I became so insecure about my body, hmm. I still haven't recovered from it :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 16 | "All my exes were crazy" - A common tactic used by abusers when their victims get subjected to reactive abuse. Please don't ever think that you're crazy and have mood swings in the relationship. It's your body literally giving you signs to leave the relationship.I'd seem curious and ask him to explain. Then, I'd focus on his answer. If all he has to say is "my ex was this and that", it'd be a deal-breaker for me. But if the reasons seem balanced and genuine like they didn't seem compatible long term wise and so on, I'd maybe give him a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 20 | "All my exes were crazy" - A common tactic used by abusers when their victims get subjected to reactive abuse. Please don't ever think that you're crazy and have mood swings in the relationship. It's your body literally giving you signs to leave the relationship.Yes, do look into reactive abuse. I also had no idea it existed until today. I finally felt relieved to know that all my reactions to his abuse were valid and I wasn't crazy, he made me crazy. That asshole, I am also so angry ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 38 | "All my exes were crazy" - A common tactic used by abusers when their victims get subjected to reactive abuse. Please don't ever think that you're crazy and have mood swings in the relationship. It's your body literally giving you signs to leave the relationship.Completely agree with both the points. The key takeaway is, either way, the man's gonna be dangerously unstable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:08 PM |
| 121 | "All my exes were crazy" - A common tactic used by abusers when their victims get subjected to reactive abuse. Please don't ever think that you're crazy and have mood swings in the relationship. It's your body literally giving you signs to leave the relationship.If you hear this statement, "all my exes were crazy" from a guy's mouth, your first and only thought should be that he has abused every single one of his exes, either physically, emotionally or sexually and they finally stood up for themselves and broke free from his cage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Abuse isn't romanticIt's indeed scary. I've experienced trauma bonding countless times and a healthy relationship doesn't excite me anymore because it's so normal, it doesn't have the rollercoaster highs and lows like that of a trauma bond. Trauma bond is so romanticized in society due to which every second relationship is abusive. Men are constantly getting all the more reasons to abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Abuse isn't romanticI think it all boils down to aggressive men being dominant and treating us as submissive sexual slaves to fulfill all their unrealistic expectations. It turns them on to see us all weak and gentle. Most of them hate dominant and confident women, I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Abuse isn't romanticSame girl, I was conditioned to think he was just being concerned and loving. But when I became a little jealous, I was called controlling and insecure, that's when it hit me that, this is not normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Abuse isn't romanticWhen a man gets terminally ill, the wife is supposed to do all the caring and all chores for him and if she decides not to and leaves, she's a selfish witch. But have you noticed when the wife happens to be terminally ill? Not only does she have to do everything at home and cater to her scrote man but also the man is advised to get a new wife. How fucked up can the society be. It favours these LVMs so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Abuse isn't romanticUsually, when people do get turned on by it, it's because of a reaction to a previous trauma (most likely, sexual) in their lives. They cope with the aftereffects in this manner. It's fucked up, I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Abuse isn't romanticAlso, when they grab your hair while having sexual activities, that shit hurts so much. Idk what they learn from porn but I don't want strands of hair forcefully plucked off from my scalp like that. It's like they know it's painful and that gets them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 209 | Me this weekend breaking my bad habit pursuing menThis is so me. Whenever I'm about to do something like this, I utter "Girl, remember you're now a FDS lady, you don't need a crush" and poof it goes 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Kind of scared but I hope my story helps someone. Also looking for some advice too!I have countless evidences too against two LVMs and I want to show them to their GFs but I don't have the courage only because I know, those LVMs are master manipulators and their GFs are absolute Pickmeishas who do whatever they say and even if I show or say anything, it won't be worth it. They'll rope them back in somehow and all my efforts will go wasted and I'll be the villain in the story. I'm so glad you could do it. I want to be able to do it someday too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Kind of scared but I hope my story helps someone. Also looking for some advice too!I am so proud of you for not only saving yourself but also another woman. Women need other women. You're so amazing and strong ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Have you noticed this distinct hypocrisy in men?Yes, I am going to find a way to send her a link. Thank you for saying those words, they mean a lot to me. I've come a long way battling self-esteem issues and depression so I've been a prey to most narcissistic assholes and I would let them break me down to the last bit. It took me a lot of efforts and self-love to be this amazing woman right now who's working hard to be a justice just like RBG. I wouldn't let me get treated like that ever again. Thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 48 | Have you noticed this distinct hypocrisy in men?About my misogynistic bro, it's the same situation with bestfriends. He forced his ex gf, not even a current one, to block all her male bestfriends while he is still in contact with his female bestfriend with whom he flirts openly and to whom he proposed to soon after he split with said ex. Even after all this, he wants his ex to sleep with him and she is willing to. I want her to find FDS so bad, that poor girl, God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:14 AM |
| 33 | Can't even be free in the fitbit app...smdh. All the comments were women agreeing and thanking her for saying what needs to be said.This is a legit problem with all non dating apps. I remember rejecting a guy politely and he had the audacity to tell me "I can turn this into a dating app if I want to" Yes, making me uncomfortable is the way to get to my heart, nice try scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 143 | Man Sexualizes Other Women And “Gifts” It To WifeYikes! How did she find this worthy of compliment? I don't get it. This picture is so derogatory and mortifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 92 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereOkay, first of all, these huge age gap relationships make my stomach turn. Secondly, why is she pestering him so much? He's not even worth it. She's an accountant, she probably earns a lot more to live independently and of course she wants a baby, there are sperm banks for that, she can choose absolute best genes rather than this aged and balding nutsack. He won't even take care of the baby properly and the whole responsibility will fall on her anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 7 | 🤔Is the bar really this low? (click photo for full thread)I didn't know, only talking about work sometimes with your partner constitutes a healthy relationship. Pardon my ignorance /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 107 | Even if he says he wants a relationship, plans trips with you, puts in a ton of effort. He will still change his mind in a heartbeat.Wait... This happened to me too. For 5 months, I didn't sleep with ex and I was the most wonderful and understanding and best gf in the world, the moment I did sleep with him which let me tell you was not consensual but coercion, from the next day onwards, I was suddenly controlling, manipulative and insecure and he wanted a break from me??? Uh, fuck that, I was too nice and I allowed him to walk all over me. It makes me so fucking angry rn to even think about it. I hate such men. He basically a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Gut feeling or overthinking or idk? Help me figure out what I'm dealing with.He's not a person I'm dating. Just an acquaintance/family friend. Infact, I am far from dating anyone right now, taking a year break. We never talked previously that much but exchanged numbers only recently. Also, yep totally agree with you on the pussy part. I just don't know how to cut off communications so abruptly since our families often meet up for all these get-togethers and we cross paths sometimes. I need to find a secure way to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:13 AM |
| 29 | There are many men out there, so sadistic, so sick that if you consider leaving them they will plan revenge porn in advance. Beware of men video taping youThis makes me scared for life. Imagine so many beings, worse than monsters, are walking amongst us. God, I hope we never cross paths with one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, what do we consider to be the bare minimum from a guy?Ah, thanks for giving me hope. I belong from a country where males in general are so sexually deprived and they start watching it from such a young age, like from 8-9 years of age. I genuinely hope to come across someone who is not like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 32 | Ladies, what do we consider to be the bare minimum from a guy?Honestly, I haven't met one single guy who doesn't watch porn. I'd have guys tell me "I have to watch" meaning they have an addiction which they can't say outright, they can't even use their own imagination, that's how much stunted they're. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:08 AM |
| 31 | I'm posting it here because i want women to see anf be aware of what porn really is, This came up in google while i wasn't even looking for pornExactly this. It's so normal and accepted to shit on us, harass us, exploit us and degrade us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | I just came across a Twitter thread from 2018 #TweetLikeAPickMe and some of these are so pathetically funny 😂Sis, when I tell you I nearly choked on my tea while reading these oof 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | I just came across a Twitter thread from 2018 #TweetLikeAPickMe and some of these are so pathetically funny 😂"He lets me eat his leftover food, that's how much he cares for me. Y'all ungrateful bitches be having high standards!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | I just came across a Twitter thread from 2018 #TweetLikeAPickMe and some of these are so pathetically funny 😂Yep, you're right, these are indeed satire. A trend was going on where women were asked to tweet like a pick-me and this was the outcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:40 PM |
| 38 | When you stop tolerating their bs and start enforcing boundaries, the dead weight from your shoulders suddenly drops. That release is refreshing.Instead of doing any change, they shift responsibility and blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Never meet a guy at his home.Saw the original post on my feed just now and I was like this - 😡 Because him - I'm not that guy Also him - Wish you got murdered I wouldn't even engage in any explanation, the moment his pestering crosses my boundaries, that's when he's blocked and reported. Why should I waste my energy and time only to knowingly receive such hateful messages that'll play on loop in my mind for a couple of days? I mean something like this, getting a murder wish isn't gonna leave my mind so easily atleast. I'd b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlAww hell naw sis, do you want me to hex him or something? Jk unless... But seriously though, it's good that you found out what a lump of dogshit he is early on than spending way too much of your precious time and Queen energy on him. I understand you're hurting. Maybe binge watch some stand-up comedies with a girlfriend with lots of comfort food. Do some online shopping or you can even use Pinterest and pin some travel stuffs, your dream destinations or artsy stuffs. Engage your mind with positi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:09 AM |
| 4 | A quick reminder to block and delete such people and level up 🙏🏻💖The last sentence is gold 💖 Thank you for writing. I want to put it as a reminder somewhere on a sticky note. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:20 AM |
| 9 | A quick reminder to block and delete such people and level up 🙏🏻💖Important verse and a true one at that. I experienced it personally. Back in school, I was involved in a terrible friend circle of low value people who would drink and smoke so much and gossip a lot about other successful women. Also, those same people encouraged chasing boys and focusing on boys instead of studies so you can understand the level of pickmeism I was tied to. Thankfully, I am no longer in connection with any single person from my school life and it's been 6 years like this. I have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 11 | LVM/NVM - Do you want attention? Woman - No. LVM/NVM - So that's a yes.Oh yes, I absolutely remember about that entire Twitter thread. That was a whole another level of thirst basically. Well you see, with the men, the hypocrisy is an added bonus. They expect indecency from you after all that creepy and thirsty pestering but when you show indecency willingly, you're a disgusting whore, hmm. Also, let's not forget M.S. Dhoni's 5 yo was sent rape threats as if she's responsible for the loss of a game. How criminal minded can one be to think of raping a kid over a gam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 8 | LVM/NVM - Do you want attention? Woman - No. LVM/NVM - So that's a yes.I am absolutely enraged. I can't believe how we're treated everywhere. Every damn day one of us is sure to get harassed for literally anything we do, just as you said even for mere breathing. I have read about injustices against black women in America and it horrifies me to even think about it so I can't even imagine what it must be to actually experience those first hand. My heart goes out for each and every one of you. All I can say is, be brave and do your best to fight back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 9 | MhmHoly crap, the sheer accuracy 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:26 AM |
| 39 | FDS turned me gayOMG same literally. I was hetero till I found FDS, but now the thought of being in a relationship with a man bores me. I came out bisexual some weeks ago and I'm absolutely loving the other part of me. I was thinking about this particular woman and the mere thought of her just made my cheeks ache with all that blushing, God while with the case of my narc exes, everyday was a struggle with my body to talk to them or be with them even, like my body was giving me signs not to push the relationship … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:43 AM |
| 16 | So... This got me thinking lolInclude this $20 mil too and I'm set for life haha 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:58 AM |
| 8 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youGod, imagining a killing spree gives me goosebumps. He has almost all the signs like weird obsession, unjustified cause of anger, most importantly, social anxiety, combined with it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:19 AM |
| 19 | It’s a trapMy old self feels attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 9 | Do something for yourself before the weekend is overWas going to have classes for 7 days straight, so I was like fuck it, I'm not gonna go one day. So I've the whole Sunday to myself, I've planned to buy a television for my living room, will purchase it in the evening. Apart from that, I will order takeaways and binge watch crime series. Sometimes, you gotta say fuck it and skip that class or work and take a holiday for yourself just for your mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:10 AM |
| 16 | WTF is a SIGMA male? A guy I blocked had his friend telling me that he was a “sigma male”... I looked it up out of boredom. Sounds like a Beta with some undiagnosed clinical self delusion 🥴You're absolutely correct on this one, I've noticed this too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 21 | A man can never do anything by himself, a woman has got to manipulate him. (Context in the comments, please read)As much as I have followed, she was using CBD which most of the people around the country and the world use. As you know CBD doesn't give a high or intoxicating effect. It is not psychoactive unlike other drugs that gets you all stoned like LSD. About the financial fraud, ED has released a statement that no such thing has been found according to her and SSR's financial statements. So that angle has been proved. If you're talking about the Maha Govt. or other Bollywood goons being involved, it mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 293 | A man can never do anything by himself, a woman has got to manipulate him. (Context in the comments, please read)The Actress Rhea Chakraborty was the girlfriend of the late actor Sushant Singh Rajput who unfortunately passed away by suicide. Initially there were uproars everywhere about how she murdered him by giving him drugs and doing witchcraft because according to them "a man cannot commit suicide, a woman has got to manipulate him". The actor's family registered a case against her. She was later detained by the police and CBI. Forensics team from the best medical institute in the country performed aut… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 80 | r/GayBrosGoneMild is a reminder that straight men could be doing better physically but they choose not to. I mean look at all these guys who look like they drink water and moisturize.They do indeed. I also feel some positive and wholesome vibes from their looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:07 AM |
| 56 | “Equal rights, equal fights.” Like, why is that the first thought in these guys’ minds when girls say they want equal rights?Also by saying such things, they're not even hiding the fact that they can be and are violent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:53 AM |
| 25 | Scrote Mad After Opening MarriageLmao, these losers want to have their cake and eat it too. I hope she realizes what a selfish jerk he is and leaves his pathetic ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | How to Vet STEM MenOmg, are you talking about my ex? Covert narcissist? Check. No emotional intelligence? Check. Made good money but absolutely cheap? Check. I remember for our anniversary, he gifted me a $2 pendant and in return asked for some sports stuffs worth over $500. Like whaaaat. I was a pick-me so I had accepted the gift but I didn't give him what he wanted lol and he still kept pestering me for it for months like a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:58 AM |
| 7 | How to Vet STEM MenThis is so true. Have to agree on all the points. Dated two software engineers and had some friends from that field too. Every single one of them turned out to be huge narcissists and MGTOW type. I'm so glad I got out and they're no longer in my life. I swore on my goddamn life I'd never date a software engineer again, ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Don't fall for a Fauxpology or a Self-made Victim: "I'm Sorry it Came Off That Way," "I guess I'm the Bad Guy Once Again"Lmao, the ex was just the same. It's like they all graduate from the same uni with a degree in manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 8 | On Disclosure: Your Past is None of His BusinessSo much this. I absolutely regret telling ex male friends or ex boyfriends everything about my past, every trauma and they've used it against me the moment I stopped feeding their egos and being their little pick-me. Legit ganged up against me. They can never be trustworthy, never. It's so much better to be a mysterious woman I guess in this day and age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Pickmeshas be likeJust gotta say umm wtf girl??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:14 AM |
| 2 | I love how she remains unbotheredOmg, that was so pathetic, what a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | My favorite self-care is ✨✨indulgent nail polish✨✨I love blue and purple shades. This is such a pretty colour. Looking stellar 💅🌟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?More empowering and inspiring content for levelling up, some psychology posts too like how to know if you're being emotionally abused or how to figure out red flags, anything along the lines of making ourselves more self aware. Then, some HVW and HVM content regularly would be good too. But less of anything related to LVMs, they're really not worth our time and energy but sure if it's about sharing personal experiences, that can happen so that others can take some lessons from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?I agree. We need more quality posts regarding HVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | My bestie used to pass me notes like this at work, and I wanted to pass along her message to anyone who might need it too. 😊Thanks for this 🙏🏻💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?It's of no use tbh since her bf is hella manipulative and charming, typical textbook narcissistic traits, so she's gonna fall right into his trap again and I'm going to be called the "homewrecker". Even though I have dozens of screenshots to prove what a scumbag he's been to her, chances are she'll berate me instead. She had options to leave so many times but if she hasn't left even after 6 years, she won't leave. So why waste my energy and time on either of them? Let them have each other and se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | When an LVM tells you to bring him some food you just cooked.Haha, this is awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:18 AM |
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