Right now, you might get infatuated with the idea of how many men are trying to pursue you. Happened with me too. But those are just men, who lust after many women simultaneously and have no set goals for life or they do have goals that mirror yours, in an attempt to make you feel like "he's your soulmate, your twin flame". Trust me, there's no such things like that. Once, you start saying those about someone, you're already putting them on a pedestal and so be expected to get 100% disappointed by them. At this young age, no one should be concerned about a man texting them or not or going on Google to find out the questions to "Why does he do that?".

This is a ripe time to invest in your education, career and a solid women-only friendship network. Remember, you gotta build yourself first and not become "Barb, the builder". If your base is weak and stumbling, any man is going to come and break that whole thing down, within hours and days. Your self-confidence is no longer going to be there. You will try to seek validation from outside, especially from low value strangers and your "male friends". You're going to get intimidated by other women, who haven't chosen the same path as yours and that's going to make you hate them. This is how pickmism happens.

But, once you choose yourself and your bright future, you're going to become this strong and confident woman. You'll know your worth and won't settle for anything less. Most importantly, men fear a woman who's intellectually and financially strong. They know that they can never be on your level. This is a plus point for you, since you don't have to sort through the trash, the trash is going to take itself out.

If you're a teen or in your 20s, remember these are some of the important years of your life. Don't waste them getting fucked over by some scrote, who isn't worthy of your time. These years aren't going to come back, EVER.