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This is so terrible, I have no words for it. at my city’s central train station there are huge signs warning Ukrainian women and children from men offering accommodation. Also there was a sex work positive organization advertising on Instagram Ukrainian refugees on how to start sex work in Germany since it’s legal here. I’m really at loss for words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:10 PM
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Been there, done that and I just can’t do it anymore. I support my friends as much as I can but I stopped supporting these situations, I just don’t have it in me anymore. Especially if it’s the only thing they hit you up for, I can’t handle emotional dumbing in my life anymore and I can’t and will not support this toxic relationship behavior. I started telling friends exactly this and if they can’t see this themselves then I’m glad if the friendship is over, I am not 14 anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:51 PM
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He got the other woman pregnant. She messaged me and told me everything, gave me proof and everything. They’re now living together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 09:46 PM
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I messaged her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:36 PM
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I’m sorry that you had to go through this but I’m so proud of you for turning your whole life around and realizing your self-worth and beauty 🤍 keep on shining ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:14 PM
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He has someone to cook and clean and care for him and the child while he cheats. It’s a win win situation for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:12 PM
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I stalked her profile… she commented on the female level up strategy sub and commented somewhere that she sometimes reads the FDS sub as well. So I am hoping she sees this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:53 PM
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The day I have to remind him to propose to me is the day I am leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:12 PM
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Seriously, I feel so sorry for this woman and I hope she will leave this pathetic loser. The main comments told her to divorce him and cut her parents off as well; that she is not to blame for his cheating and that he is manipulating her. I hope she will stumble upon FDS and realize her worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:08 PM
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Right? I love how we all take care of each other, support each other and watch out for each other. This sisterhood is something men will never get to expire and that’s why so many hate FDS. They don’t like seeing women taking care of each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:49 PM
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Thank you ♥️ this sub and whole community of sisterhood has helped me a lot and get the help (and break) I needed. I’m so thankful for this wonderful community. You girls are the best <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:20 PM
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Men always got the audacity 😭 It’s seriously so gross seeing those old creeps lying about their age to avoid age filters. There’s a reason why young women don’t want to date older men so stop trying to manipulate your way into it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:59 PM
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I found a wonderful friend on Bumble BF. She’s ambitious, intelligent and has a wonderful heart. We share the same interests and values. Im so happy to have found her but I also know how lucky I got. I matched with other girls on there but one tried to sell me MLM and the rest was weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:49 PM
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I’m Muslim myself and I wouldn’t even date them so I don’t blame German girls for not wanting them either 💀 I get a lot of shit from them too, I’m not “Muslim” enough for them because I don’t wear a hijab or that I live a more western lifestyle while they do drugs and alcohol, have plenty of ONS and live their best lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah. Many Muslim men use non-Muslim women for sex and relationships but won’t marry them. They usually marry someone from their own country, demanding a virgin who has never even looked at a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:28 PM
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I noticed that when I was still active on OLD apps: many Turkish or Arabic men used European names, especially if they looked racially ambiguous. Like you couldn’t tell whether they were Turkish/Arabic or Spanish/Italian. And then while chatting there were like “oh btw my name isn’t ABC, I’m not Italian. I’m Turkish and my name is XYZ”. It was an instant unmatch because of their lying. I think many do that to have a better chance at matching, especially with German girls because many of these gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:25 PM
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How fucking vile has someone to be to use a person of colour to “ piss ” off their racist family. He doesn’t see you as human but just as prop to do some pseudo-rebellion against his family. Sick fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:17 PM
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This comparison is mocking the arguments you often find on Reddit about FDS. You will find that FDS is often mentioned as being one of the worst subs on here, next to r*pe, gore and other pornographic subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:15 PM
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It’s satire, it’s mocking the arguments you will find on Reddit about FDS. FDS is often mentioned as one of the worst subs on Reddit (among rpe, other pornographic subs and gore). It’s shows the insanity of comparing FDS to incels: FDS is all about empowering women, to watch out for signs of abuse and demanding high standards, while incels just want to brutally mrder and r*pe women. Women just get relentlessly bullied for having high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:13 PM
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It’s satire, it’s mocking the redditors arguments about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:03 PM
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Exactly. I found FDS on a post that asked what the worst / disturbing subreddits are on Reddit. FDS was among r*pe/gore and pornographic subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:02 PM
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Yes, it’s satire. I thought that it was clear that it’s mocking people who criticize FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:07 AM
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It has never been easier being a man. Women are shamed for expecting that a man pays for dinner or how much money he makes or that she simply wants a man who cares and loves her for her (like really basic demands…) like they want a fuck doll who splits 50/50 and does the chores and emotional labor as well while giving nothing in return. Women are bullied into having low standards and if you don’t comply you are an evil monster that hates men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:59 AM
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💀💀💀 you’re killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:51 AM
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My dad died 7 years ago. My mom has never dated any other man and doesn’t plan to. My dad was her first love and he will always be her number one. She says what does she need a man for? They only bring problems. She earns her own money, she’s always been very strong and vocal and very independent; she has a great relationship to all of her children and her grandkids. She said she will never meet a man like my father and she doesn’t trust a stranger around her children. If the roles were reversed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:53 PM
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The worst thing is how so many women see nothing wrong with porn and are OK with a partner who watches porn („we even watch porn together!“). If you criticize the porn industry they tell you that you hate sex workers and that doing porn is so empowering for them. Some girl told me once to “stick my anti-porn agenda in my a** and go back to church”. I’m not conservative for believing that porn harms not only women, but children and men. There is nothing normal about young boys and men wanting to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:15 PM
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Yup. My ex roommate (who is a very close friend to me) was dating someone like that. He was 38 years old and was living in his parents basement. He spent all of his money on drugs and fast food. He never took her out for dinner, in ten (!!) years of their relationship they never traveled together - she went with her girlfriends. They saw each other only on the weekends, when he picked her up to go clubbing together where she left the club alone while he stayed there and kept partying on drugs. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:22 PM
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My ex-roommates ex boyfriend did the same to her; he even worked in a psych ward. I told her constantly that he is gaslighting and manipulating her but she didn’t want to believe me. Even his parents asked her what she is seeing in him. In January she adopted her late step-fathers and when she saw how he treated the dog and how jealous he got of the dog, she was able to break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:46 PM
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I also plan to do this when I am financial secure and can offer the child a good life. Being a mother is my biggest dream and I don’t want it to be dependent on whether I am married or not. I grew up with a great father and of course I would love to have my children have the same HV father I had but sometimes life doesn’t work that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:39 PM
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One of my closest friend is coming over, we are doing summer rolls (my friend has never tried these soooo perfect reason for eating them), working on our vision boards and just have fun 🥰 I wish every one on here a blessed 2022! With lots of love, happiness, strength, health and money 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:52 AM
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I showed FDS to some of my girlfriends and they love it! They aren’t on Reddit but they share the same mindset and follow the handbooks! And I noticed the same on tiktok! I think it’s great that there’s a a mind shift happening among women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:37 PM
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I found FDS on posts like you have mentioned OP and I’m so thankful for that 😂 People on here can tolerate rpe subs, borderline pedo subs and zoophilia but draw the line at a subreddit that promotes women wanting better themselves. They only see women as fckholes that they can abuse and use. Redditors hate female people except when we’re being sufficiently abused, humiliated and exploited by men. And this is why men (and sadly many women) feel so threatened - because we talk about it. We motivat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:25 PM
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So true!!! The ugliest men go around and call women ugly or make comments about her weight. They don’t see women who they find unattractive as human. There are sooo many TikTok’s I saw recently where chubby women talk about how men ignore them when these girls are out with their skinnier girlfriends. I have never seen women acting the same way, treating a chubby man so disrespectful. We women are just conditioned that men -no matter how unattractive you may find them - deserve a chance and that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:11 AM
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Sorry, that you have to go through this. I get weekly r*pe and death threats from men and then they have the audacity to say that FDS is female version of incels that spew hate… just block them and turn off the function that someone can send you messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:27 PM
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And don’t forget the most important relationship: the one you have with yourself. Cherish and protect yourself ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:42 PM
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I made the mistake once to send pictures of me wearing shoes because I didn’t know better; just a young and naive girl trying to sell her shoes 🥲 took me a bit to realise that it’s a man with a shoe fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:35 PM
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When Covid started I stopped dating altogether (and also because of other various reasons). I didn’t feel safe meeting up with other people and we had a lockdown, so everything was closed. I had my first date last week and met up in a restaurant. In Germany we have the 2G rule, which means you either have to be vaccinated (in german: geimpft) or recovered (in German: genesen) from covid otherwise you aren’t allowed to go to restaurants/bars and many other social activities. To be honest, I would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:07 AM
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Im so sorry you had to experience that! It’s really crazy how many men are pedophiles and the way other men cover up for other men…. Just look at Reddit or 4chan… like no it’s not normal that you are into “jailbaits” or lusting after pre-teen girls… sick individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:18 AM
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Shoes are the worst!!! Like come on just let me sell some things without you having to come and harass me with your fetish. One time someone messaged me telling me he would buy something off me but told me not to wash it so he can c*m on it. I was so grossed out and traumatized by that. No matter what you do as a women you’re constantly harassed and sexualized by men. So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:02 AM
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I tried selling clothes/things I didn’t need on a website, it’s part of eBay but more like a German Craigslist. Anyways, i got several offers of men wanting to meet up for coffee or messages asking if I want to exchange numbers so we can get to know each other better because I was “intriguing”. There were no pictures of me, just pictures of the stuff I tried to sell…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:47 AM
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Yes, several times. It’s always fragile guys in my dms whining about the comments. Plus I had to block that RedditCare account because I got reported as suicidal. It’s quite sad that a feature like that gets abused because their feelings got hurt. I don’t want to block the message system because some girls on here have reached out to me to ask for advice, so I just block and delete the nasty messages I receive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:04 AM
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And it’s always about our looks as well: that we all must be too ugly or fat to ever get a man. they don’t even have constructive criticism, it’s just attacking looks which is pretty sad and says more about them than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:43 PM
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A few days ago there was a post asking what standards we are looking for in a man / when dating (just look up my post history) I didn’t even stated anything unrealistic or evil. I simply stated that I want a man with a calm aura, a man that has a big heart and is kind to others; someone who doesn’t speak down to people and can make me laugh and treats me well. A man that takes care of himself and exercises regularly just like I do. And today I received a message asking if I can offer the same. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:40 PM
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no kids but wants children someday, single in my age range educated / high income emotionally / mentally stable takes care of himself, exercises, good sense of fashion knows how to cook and clean ambitious, has goals in life intelligent has a big heart and is kind, respectful to others, loves animals, is considerate of other people feelings has a calm aura knows how to make me laugh no drug use, no porn use no liars, cheaters and abusers, doesn’t talk down to others not too religious, no man tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:41 PM
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What is so feminist and empowering about humiliating, degrading, abusing and hitting women? When will they realize that for men women aren’t humans; they’re just objects to be used. I’m sick and tired of liberal feminism promoting disgusting shit like this; promoting hook-up culture and brainwashing young girls into thinking that porn and being overly sexual means empowerment when it only benefits men. Feminism is nothing more than a watered-down movement to cater to men’s feeling. It’s overrun …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:03 PM
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Oh man, I can totally understand your point of view! Why do Kindergarten children need an iPad? Shouldn’t they be playing with toys and with other children? Drawing? Just being a child? My biggest wish is to have children on my own someday but the state of society really worries me as well. You are a great mom and you sound very protective of your children. I wish you all the best and that your children never have to go through something traumatizing; that they stay protected and innocent. 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:40 PM
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Yeah, Tiktok is really a scary place and I am saying that as someone who is in their mid 20s. People normalize huge age gap relationships, they normalize BDSM and pedophilia. There are so many girls suffering from trauma, posting their “ddgl” relationships, dressing up as toddlers and young girls… 😢 Also the normalization of huge age gap relationships is scary!! No, a forty year old man taking a 18 year olds virginity isn’t “goals” or “normal”. He isn’t a “daddy”, he’s a pervert. I really fear f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:44 PM
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TW She’s really brave for speaking out in a world where porn and the sex industry is so normalized. I was 10-12 years old when I got exposed to porn from classmates. The boys were showing us bdsm, torture porn and even besti*ality!! I’m 26 years old now and I still have these images in my head. Going porn-free was one of the best decision in my life. I don’t want to be a part of why sex trafficking, rape torture and the increase of child porn and bestiality exist. How can people be anti-capitali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:40 AM
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I have my first date in years on Thursday. I wasn’t even looking for someone since I am taking a break from dating but I met him through mutual friends and so far he has made a good impression on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:39 PM
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Keine Sorge, hab’s verstanden. Klingt für mich alles nach faule Ausreden. Er könnte immer noch an einem anderen Tag das Dinner Date planen und ganz ehrlich… Testen ist ne Sache von paar Minuten. Wenn er sich das nicht mal geben will, wieso dann das Date mit ihm? Er könnte immer noch einen alternativ Termin vorschlagen, aber das macht er ja auch nicht. Spaziergänge sind halt low effort, kosten nichts und und und… sorry aber wie kann man so viel Angst haben wenn man dreifach geimpft ist und noch d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:27 PM
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Was hat die Booster-Impfung mit der 2G Regelung zu tun? Versteh seine Logik nicht. Ich glaube, er wollte die nur ein Date schmackhaft machen und war doch dann zu geizig. Ihr hättet euch beide ja vor dem Dinner Date testen lassen können, oder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:47 PM
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Of course they would!! I got some friends who passed on top tier colleges because of their boyfriends. It’s sad. And thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:53 AM
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Choosing the single life means choosing me, myself and I. Im so happy being single and choosing sexual abstinence. I’m working a great job, treating myself well, working on my fitness, I’m traveling in a few months to the caribbeans and next year I’m moving to my dream city. I’m so much happier not having to worry about a man or doubting myself because of him. I am too beautiful and too complex for any man. Thanks to FDS for showing me my worth and how I deserve to be treated 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:58 PM
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What’s going on lately? There was a post earlier about this woman’s man told her “she’s a 4.5/10” “sometimes a 5” depending on the way she dresses and that he won’t pretend she is the most beautiful/ sexiest woman on earth for him; that he is t”tired of seeing her naked”…. I feel so bad for all these women having to deal with men like this. You will never see or hear stories like that with roles reversed. This is why vetting and FDS principles are so important, to never fall for men like that. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:36 AM
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„Camila made her grand entrance to the world during Gemini season in 1997, but before you fully panic, her love story with Leo did not start there. Actually, their story started around 10 years ago, when Camila was about 12 years old and her former stepdad Al Pacino (Leo’s longtime bud) introduced the two. According to W, they’re all “old family friends.” (…) In 2016, he met Sports Illustrated model Nina Agdal there. They dated until he broke up with her a couple of days before Cannes 2017. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:34 PM
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That thought is so horrifying. I’m just waiting for the day where women are brave enough to speak out against him. He just creeps me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:46 PM
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He’s so gross!! Didn’t he know her when she was only 11 and started dating her when she was like 20??? What a pervert and groomer 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:23 PM
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It got worse after every sentence. And then she proudly posts this like she did something there. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:23 AM
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I thought that men who came back to me several times just showed how much I mean to them and that they can’t live without me. LOL. Trauma bonds and love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:43 PM
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Oh wow, just checked it as well. And she still defends him and doesn’t see the problem in his behavior. There is even a video about a text from Him where he is like “maybe next time I’ll shave your eyebrows too with a razor”. This is so horrifying. Poor women that encounter these monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:55 PM
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It’s just trauma bonding and abuse. Liberal feminism is teaching young girls and women that this means empowerment. That “kinky” sex is the way to go and if you don’t enjoy getting degraded and abused like that you are a prude. Many women commented that this is abusive and I hope she realizes it before it’s too late. I wish her the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 07:10 PM
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Right!! How on earth could anyone enjoy this? He doesn’t love or care about you, he just loves abusing women without consequences :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 07:08 PM
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She’s defending him and making tons of videos about her new hair cut. Many people called her „Dom“ out and how abusive this is! And told her to self reflect on why men enjoy abusing and degrading women they “love” acting like it’s a kink. but she just shrugs it off. I hope she realizes what an abusive scrote he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 07:06 PM
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There were comments about how people don’t understand these power dynamics and she should have just said the safe word to prevent him from doing it. I am so shocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:58 PM
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Right?? It’s always the ugliest men talking about women. She’s gorgeous, while he looks like a troll. Reminds me of that one post on here where the most ugliest men commented on gorgeous women faces and bodies. Hope she left his ugly bald-headed ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:51 PM
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Right?! I think they just do it because they want to keep women in check, to simply embarrass them…. I’m always like who in the world are YOU that I have to prove myself to some scrote? these men are so insecure that they have to project their insecurities onto women who just want to have fun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:01 PM
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Omg same!! I dress really really girly but I love listening to SOAD, Rammstein, pop-punk/alternative rock - I was a really angry and confused teenager and I always found comfort in that music. I just don’t look like „that“ - always got weird stares when I went to concerts of my favourite bands. I don’t need piercings or tattoos or dress a certain style to enjoy that music. Men are always so shook when I tell them what my favourite music is! Or how much knowledge I have about politics, philosophy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:37 PM
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Sending you lots of love, hugs and strength 💕💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:12 PM
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This made me laugh and cringe so hard at the same time 🤣🤣 Seriously, what’s up with those Scrotes on online dating platforms requesting women to apply to show them they’re worth it? They’re really out here acting as if they were gods gift to women 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:08 PM
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The age gap weirds me out 🤣 but I have once read that quote that was like „Men are afraid of women laughing at them. Women are afraid of men k**ng them“. This quote has stuck with me ever since. Men have this really weird perception that women never face rejection - we have to fear for our lives if we reject a guy. How is he going to react if I say no? Will he harass me? Insult me? K*ll me? If the worst thing men have to face not talking about their feelings (as if this oppression doesn’t stem f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:05 PM
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There is this really horrifying thread on sex-buyers and their views on sex-workers: https://mobile.twitter.com/ellyarrow/status/1328661070911823872 (sorry, only mobile version since I’m on my phone). Seriously, I wish libfems would stop glamourising sex-work and put it in the same pedestal as working for McDonald’s or in retail. I’m at loss for words when I see young women, just turning 18 doing SW because it’s “empowering” and that she “loves” sex and being in control. They get brainwashed so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:52 PM
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I saw the post and comments too and I couldn’t believe how many thought it was a good thing? I go to therapy too, I suffer from PTSD and I am in no place to think about dating or being in a relationship. Men can smell vulnerable women and use it to trauma bond. Furthermore, I think it’s just weird to tell someone so soon something so private?! He’s just trying to seem woke; to test the waters how much the woman can take and then hit her with „you knew I was mentally ill“ when he’s manipulating/g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:45 PM
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I wish FDS had existed when I was much younger to protect me from grown ass men. Would have saved me years of trauma and pain. All these men that hate on FDS are just mad that we see through their manipulative BS and won’t play along. Many thanks to u/sweetheartsorrow for the award <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:29 PM
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Lmaoooo now autocorrect got me! I meant riddance of course 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:34 PM
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Yeah, I am Muslim and I’m thankful that my parents were never really strict about it usually is. In Germany Muslim immigrants are even stricter about Islam than in their own countries. But those rules only account for women. You will see many Muslim men drinking/smoking, are engaging in criminal activities having pre-marital sex and date non-Muslim women but as soon as they want to marry they want a pure, virgin and god-fearing woman. I have never dated a Muslim man or Arabic (I’m moroccan) man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:36 PM
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I wish I could show you my old roommates room… it was the most disgusting room I have ever seen. Then he constantly complained about not having a chance with girls and how he is still a virgin at 20 years old. I constantly shamed him for his messiness and honestly it worked. He told me how intimidating I am and how scared he is to use the kitchen and bathroom without me coming up on his ass 🤣 he even stopped to use the kitchen for a few weeks and tried to guilt trip me and I was like good riverd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:02 PM
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Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:23 AM
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Thank you for your beautiful and kind words, they mean a lot to me 🤍 I believe it’s really hard to find men / fathers with these attributes… and that’s why vetting and knowing our self-worth is sooo important!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:37 PM
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Thank you 🤍 He passed away a few years ago, and I’m still grieving over him. But he always taught me how to unapologetically be myself, be outspoken and take no shit from any man and focus on my career/education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:11 PM
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Yes he did. One time I was walking home and there was this group of guys coming towards me and were kind of surrounding me, making disgusting sounds and my dad saw it from the window, he was yelling and came out with a baseball bat, wanting to fight everyone 🤣 he was always very protective of me (not in a creepy way) and was the best dad ever 🤍 he adored my mom, me and my siblings. Thankfully my brothers are like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:17 PM
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Great post. Before I found this sub and the handbook i was the same. Got mentally abused by two older men I thought I loved (and who loved me lol) during my pre-FDS times. I was in a very fragile and vulnerable state during that time and made my self-worth dependent on men‘s attention. This sub has helped me to better myself, this whole community full of wonderful and supportive women who watch each other’s back has helped me to get back on track. To only care about me, to love me and to become …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:39 PM
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A few days ago, I saw a tiktok where a woman stated exactly this: modern/liberal feminism is just a „woke“ way for men to take advantage of women. Nowadays we hear that onlyfans or revealing your body on social media is female empowerment; female sexuality is all about male pleasure and how women love to be choked and degraded, love anal and suck dck because it gives her pleasure. Modern feminism and its message of empowerment is a big scam and too many girls are deluded. Sadly, they need the ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:17 PM
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Oh god, I used to work for a very big super market chain in a city with lots of Moroccans (I am moroccan as well). So yeah, many moroccan men tried to flirt with me or get to know me. One time I was helping this guy - and suddenly he was like „I would like to get to know you, halal and everything, so we can marry“ in a span of 5 mins and I was like „I am not interested“ and then he was like „so which shampoo is better?“ and I nearly died inside 💀 it was embarrassing. He came by so often just to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:25 PM
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Yeees girl!! Enjoy it 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:26 PM
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Absolutely agree with you and thank you for this great post. I’m really sick and tired of women posting naked pictures of themselves with a 10k word essay about how showing your body is feminist and empowering. It’s not. It’s just about getting approval and to show men how hot! and sexy! feminism is, and that it’s not a threat for men. Liberal feminism is fucking with all these girls heads to be sex-positive (I.e. casual hookups, bdsm, other „kinky“ stuff) and to show off your body in order to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:50 PM
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Crazy!! Why are these men even allowed to go outside? I will never get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:53 PM
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The way he quickly tried to put his foot between the door!! He has done it several times, I am sure… really disgusting and frightening!!! 🤢 Watch out ladies and be aware of your surroundings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:00 PM
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Joan Holloway from Mad Men. She def had some fuck ups but that’s human. She still managed to come back stronger, be successful and give zero shit about men. She worked hard and kept on going despite men doubting her and for the women in this era. She worked hard for herself and for her child to give both of them a better life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:03 AM
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Yes. Yes. Yes. Muslim girl here, born and raised in Germany. A majority of Arab men are like this. Have non-Muslim gfs, relationships just for fun and having lots of sex which is all accepted from families/parents but as a girl you will get disowned or a „wh*re“. They do not take responsibility for their life, expect cooking/cleaning and want a stay-at-home-wife while he’s out there living life. Miss me with that BS. That’s why I cannot Date men from my culture and many try to tear me down for s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:28 PM
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Finally!!! I missed this sub so much. Glad it’s back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:09 AM
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Gross!! He’s coercing her, making her feel bad about her weight knowing she has low self-esteem so he can manipulate her into doing that. I’m sure in a few years, he’ll trade her for Someone younger/skinny. Hope she dumbs his ass and is able to work on herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:13 PM
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