| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 81 | Potential strategy: answering the question "what's the worst that could happen?" | STRATEGY | dragonmonarch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | An example of FDS values cropping up outside the sub! TikTok is usually so inadequate, this was a pleasant surprise. | FDS SUCCESS! | dragonmonarch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:34 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Can you be a HVW and date (reasonably) older men?A bit off topic but I think a man who has a set idea of how many children he wants, especially if that number is more than two, feels like a red flag to me. It's up to the woman how many times she is willing to put her body through that, thanks. To me it signifies that he's more likely to have other shitty traits around pregnancy, like that guy who told his pregnant wife "nothing will change" during her pregnancy with what housework he expected her to do still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 29 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.I think I saw a TikTok from the woman in the last screenshot. She travels around by herself in the middle of the night to serve groups of men drinks. In the nude. I do NOT understand why anyone would do this by choice. That is a red flag the size of the USSR. Alone? At night? GROUPS of men??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 5 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveIt's all the same "put kindness coins in the vending machine to get sex out" in the end with these "men". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 17 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersMy LVM father has been shaming my mother in front of me about the shape of her (very normal and regular and average, but even if it wasn't, treating the mother of your child like this?!?!) stomach since I was born, and then me for the shape of mine (which was the same, that is too say, a normal female abdomen). I've been having a lot of intrusive thoughts about surgery (I have changed shape) and your post as well as the comments have helped me. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 91 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersMy best friend in highschool (I'm from a country that this is grades 7-12 so longer than USA) developed her large chest quickly and early and the amount of grief it gave her is phenomenal. Another friend's mother called her a whore, with the justification that she had a large chest. A large chest that she kept meticulously covered, had been SA'd about, and thus strictly avoided men and boys. 😒 When women hurt women, my heart breaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:29 PM |
| 128 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.And can you imagine what kind of cave troll he is if he calls himself average in his egotism? 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.Women aren't visual creatures?! It's not men who compliment my holo glitter coffin shaped nails scrotes. Men don't know shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 126 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Very my mommy thinks I'm handsome energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 18 | Relationships with men as a reflection of relationship with parentsThis is absolutely true. I was desperate for attention and affection, which meant I rushed into my first relationship. my parents' love was/is very conditional and they were neglectful: I accepted him placing conditions on affection manipulation is a favourite language in my family: I accepted him being manipulative and coercive, including sexually needs, wants and emotions are verboten in my family: I struggled to even think about what was wrong, that I was unhappy and being abused, did not kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Another stage of the vetting process- are they there for you in times of grief?👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:49 AM |
| 62 | Spend your teenage and 20s, mindfully!An addition from my personal experience: I regret every man I gave the time of day in my teens and early twenties and how I acted the fool around them. I do not regret the hard work I did, the studies I completed or my other personal achievements. There is no wall. The biological clock isn't a serious problem until much later. You do not need a man for any goddamn thing until you're done building YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:38 PM |
| 145 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.Maybe especially in uniform... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:34 PM |
| 16 | Potential strategy: answering the question "what's the worst that could happen?"This is absolutely what I was thinking. I was trying to figure out why FDS gets so much backlash. It's compared to red pill bullshit etc. The worst cases following those ideologies are already known - women getting assaulted or murdered. The worst that happens applying FDS is some loneliness while you wait to find friends and partners who meet your standards. I know the backlash is actually LVM and pick-mes trying to keep their status quo but it frustrates me immensely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 11:18 PM |
| 56 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itHow can one vet for this kind of behaviour? My blood runs cold at the idea of being anywhere near someone in any capacity who believes that rape is okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.AND if she's living with a guy and HIS life is a mess they "what's wrong with her". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:24 PM |
| 20 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?I'm Ukrainian by birth and was around only eastern Europeans as a child...I avoid them stringently in my life now. It's only been a red flag parade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:28 AM |
| 9 | If someone does not meet your standards, it is better to just not date them at all, rather than date them and try to change them into the person you actually want to date."what if you met your dream man and-" ...he wouldn't be your dream man because he wouldn't be meeting your standards? What a stupid argument. The LoGiCaL sEx my arse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:32 PM |
| 52 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.😭🤮😭🤮😭🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 71 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemThey're telling on themselves, too: they apparently wouldn't engage in basic politeness and kindness unless they were obsessed with you. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 78 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Right?! I'm childfree but my heart absolutely breaks for this woman because I'm oh, I don't know, a normal empathetic human? He knew all along she wanted to be a mother. My god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltOr in a slightly different light - look at what /kinds/ of men do support it. Repellant bunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 104 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveI was recently "but why isn't love enough?"-d and their shock was intense when I was firm on the fact that if my needs and desires don't get met on my terms, I walk. I'm not here for a wishful thought or a fairy tale, I'm here for tangible results. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 15 | To those completely new to FDS. You cannot "communicate" your way out of this patriarchal system. Level up and never settle.Tangentially related, but this post made me realise another reason I feel so welcome here: everyone communicates well. It's a major pet peeve of mine when people don't bother to put in enough punctuation and grammar to make themselves intelligible in text based communication. I visit this subreddit a couple times a day, something I don't do with any other media, because it's just. Such a pleasant environment no matter the topic at hand. Like a female only cafe I can come to spend a little time i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 13 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.This makes me want a Yelp for men. Honest reviews from women in his life (mother, sister, daughter if age appropriate, exes). He's gonna say every woman is a crazy bitch? Well I want their detailed opinions of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 8 | After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards!I feel like this is another signal of HVM: he knows how to surprise you but also has the foresight to know you'll have preferences for an engagement ring and checks with your best friend, still not ruining the surprise. Plus I'm sure the guidance was just "she said she liked the look of salt and pepper diamonds" not a specific ring, so he again showed his understanding and love of you by picking a ring that really speaks to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:01 PM |
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