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Men aren't the expert emotional providers you think they are lmao! I would NEVER have sex more than once with a bad performer, what for? Not sucking at sex isn't that difficult, if they aren't good is because they don't care about making the women happy. Who wants to have sex with that type?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:23 AM
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the actual act of fucking About 80% of men are just not that good at it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:47 PM
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Are you male?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:35 PM
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It is the case. Men benefit from monogamy, not women. To remain interested, women need variety https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:46 PM
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And we are better off paying MEN in exchange of those services, my plumber and electrician deliver much better services than my FWB will even be able to. Which men do I value more? OF COURSE my plumber and my electrician!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:38 AM
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if she's attractive it's not hard for her to get dick let's face it, vibrators are so good nowadays that the typical man underperforms sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:36 AM
1

I agree with everything. Another upside of opting out of men for women like me who embraced working remotely: we don't need an anchor. Long gone are the days in which males will decide in which location the family should live based on their careers, as if other preferences wouldn't matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:35 AM
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Indeed. Nobody wants their time and energy to be wasted on unpaid shitty household labor or worse: unpaid nursing services.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:17 AM
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This is the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:25 AM
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YES!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:03 AM
1

As a woman you are expected to do all the housechores and childcare but you also need to work full-time because one income is not enough. Add a man child who doesnt lift a finger and you get burned out women who get divorced and feel like they have less work as a single mother than as a wife. Only LAT protects women from household chores, like cooking, cleaning and as men age the dreaded unpaid nursing activities, those are the WORSE IMHO. Let the dudes take care of each other when sick imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:02 AM
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Sexually women get bored with monogamy faster than men, that might play a role too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:00 AM
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It's about male behavior drastically deteriorating after kids show up because they know the woman has a much harder time leaving. The only way to avoid this is doing LAT, keep the man outside of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:47 AM
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Many men are only decent to women when they are NOT considering them as romantic or sexual options. wow! Funny that many times the polar opposite is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:48 AM
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Being a friend requires much less effort than being an actual partner to someone. This is part of it. I have two jobs, I'm remodeling a house I just bought... I need relationships that add a lot of value to my life and don't drain me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:02 AM
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they let stuff slip when it's a woman hanging in a bunch of dudes that lets you KNOW they aren't "boyfriend material" for ANYONE. I enjoy that honesty and helps me remind me why having anything romantic with them is such a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:47 PM
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she’s bypassing all the normal male dating fuckery. It does lead to a much more honest relationship from the get-go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:41 PM
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if they confide in us that such and such hookup wasn’t very good for x or y reason, we might feel superior to that woman In the cases in which men told me that sex with another woman was bad, I by default assume that the man wasn't good at it and tell them how to improve. I don't think I'm wrong, they seem wildly clueless and even not focused enough on how to make women happy during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:40 PM
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Making it easier for women to have kids, if they want to have them, at the ideal age say 28 (similar for men) helps a lot with this. Grandmas are still in good shape to help with childcare while connecting at a deeper level and passing wisdom to them. Right now, a TON of grandparents of young kids in HCOL are actually senile just because their parents delayed having them way too long, it's not good quality of sperm and eggs wise either. It also reduces the odds of kinder kids becoming orphans, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:37 PM
15

It's so counter intuitive that you really have to live it to believe it, because why would someone who loves you behave like that. I think older women should take on the task of preparing young women for male depravity as early as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:28 PM
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Also, the type of energy he was going to give you wasn't going to be all about how to make things easier and better for you. Only HVM do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:53 PM
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The man was beside himself with anger and called me every name in the book He wanted to turn his future child as a tool to control you, it only gets worse. He got angry because you taught him that he couldn't get away with it, like he thought. Well done seeing the red flags so clearly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:35 PM
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Also consider being man-free. There not enough HVM for every woman, and many of us can be sometimes even happier with the freedom and flexibility that come from being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:32 PM
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We are WAY TOO MANY humans anyway. Lower fertility rates is a Godsend. The US doesn't even have enough housing for it's current population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:10 AM
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Remarkable men indeed. This ex is my best friend as well :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:48 PM
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So yes wasn’t that hard to put together, the formula is always that simple “new tax bracket new wife” For the LVM, for sure! HVM are never show-offs to start with :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:46 PM
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OMG! My ex and his father always noticed how the LVM working for their company traded the car and the wife as soon as they got a raise. So freaking predictable. Also, such an HVM statement to notice and criticize this practice on their part. Love those two!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:54 PM
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How men treat women they don't want to have sex with is a test LVM cannot pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:29 AM
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That's how living apart together and keeping finances separate weeds out almost all L/NVM. PERFECT SYSTEM!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:27 AM
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Such a bad deal! Back in my home country people say that motherhood is the most thankless job there is. They are wrong! It's being a stepmother while everybody elevates the late wife to sainthood status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:08 PM
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Friendzoned him right after his "each Monday I shovel my kid to school, spending the weekend with him is more than enough" (elementary school motherless kid I really pity too). His fond memories of how great he had it when it came to not doing anything in the house came after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:23 PM
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they will marry the first person within 5 ft, who gives them attention. Attention, free and readily available sex, free childcare, cleaning, cooking, and nursing services. Most men just drain women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:17 PM
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Why are men like this ???? Because they benefit from it. Women would do better putting that time and energy into their careers imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:15 PM
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Some girlfriends also provide free cleaning and cooking services. What for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:14 PM
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A man who is making you a forever girlfriend for ANY reason is a LVM. Went on a date with a widower who married his forever girlfriend after 7 YEARS. She died of cancer and he bragged about NOT DOING ANYTHING IN THE HOUSE. All I feel is pity for his late wife, that's not a life worth living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:13 PM
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ABOUT TIME!!! Can the watchers face some type of accountability as well? Say... No internet access going forward :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:20 PM
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Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:41 PM
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Culture Reframed THANK YOU!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:40 PM
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unfairly demonized for being unattractive. Reminds me of Cass Elliot from The Mamas and the Papas, mega gifted yet people were incapable to see past her weight. American culture is insanely shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:00 PM
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Listening to Maya as we speak: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0mJZZ26vgJzWItENBe5d2i?si=MTjxfWyZRGmdv9VqwrvCfw&utm_source=copy-link&dl_branch=1 Savage minds invites males too but the interviewer is female. I want to support women-lead content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:04 PM
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Now I'm wondering whether there are great podcasts by women for women in Spanish and Italian. This is a great time for media! At least for us as listeners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:59 PM
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Thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:57 PM
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Thanks! I love how many options we finally have. Can you even imagine male executives greenlighting this type of content that doesn't serve males in traditional media? Podcasts allow us to get rid of these male intermediaries for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:53 PM
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Gail Dines At what age should we introduce our male sons to her work? I really want to help raise a new generation of men disgusted by porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:49 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:46 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:44 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:43 AM
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Why cannot they stay away from us? I see my single male friends go on several tinder dates per week even in their 50s, the desperation is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:12 AM
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Why cannot we make them do domestic chores for us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:54 PM
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Why bother with men at all? This is way too basic stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:37 PM
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Let's celebrate that as women, we don't actually need to marry them any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:24 AM
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She should!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:03 PM
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Julia gets it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:10 PM
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The assumption that high school girls are immature across the board is BS, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:11 PM
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Thank you! Most of my female friends were super mature in HS too. The myth that women aren't by default is BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:34 PM
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Nah, i was more mature than you in highschool for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:32 PM
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Texting a long message name calling is something literal high school girls do Why are even women putting down other women at this unconscious level?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:14 PM
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Keeping men at a healthy distance might be optimal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:44 PM
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So pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:21 PM
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Maybe it's too late, I don't get what causal accountability is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:44 AM
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had pretty severe mental issues That I cannot handle, just don't have the tools to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:56 PM
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So true! Why so whiny? Such a turn off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:10 PM
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What side did he kept secret from you? ED?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:08 PM
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He's wrong! You're a queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:03 PM
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The garbage is out and this future plan is preventative (feels similar to other things hmmm haha) CONGRATS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:52 AM
4

June at 87 looks full of energy and happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:47 AM
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I like the way June thinks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:46 AM
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But are we shocked by that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:22 PM
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My vibrator gives me better orgasms, protects me from STDs, doesn't engage in any power plays nor drama, doesn't add household chores, respects my timing, awesome logistics... Men keep on asking me why I'm still single. I think I should be more clear next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:00 PM
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So true!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:05 PM
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Well done! Any tips? This should be it's own thread IMHO. So much work ahead of us to raise decent men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:53 AM
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Thinking I'm failing as a mother, my 13 year old is like most 31 year olds when it comes to basic household chores. I have to do better on behalf of my future daughter in law!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:27 AM
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We have great instincts for a reason! Survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:26 AM
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Omg repulsive and histerical at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:18 AM
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You crack me up! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:17 PM
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Yes! We really need to be careful. IMHO living each in their own homes and keeping finances separate helps a lot. At the very least, filters out the ones who want to use you down the line for services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:28 PM
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I would love for your mom to secretly reconnect with her ex... At the very least, acknowledge to him the huge mistake she made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:26 PM
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The one party system can mandate that men have to take over elderly care is the answer for China. Doubt that a second party will be born as a consequence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:14 AM
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We could send them some boomers to fill up those empty homes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:10 AM
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Makes much more sense, physical strength is needed make times when they are bedridden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:06 AM
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The elderly should organize to take care of each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:05 AM
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He later explained that in 25 years, he only felt a connection with his late wife, myself, and the woman we were talking about. Honestly, he's a tortured good guy I feel, with no bad intentions. Possibly gay in the closet. I think it would be better for everybody if I decide to just stay single and openly declare it as the chosen status from now on. Seems safer that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:26 AM
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So true! Our own communities, like FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:53 AM
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There are critically few exceptions. It's best for your mental health not to let any man get to close. ​ You might be right. When platonic men friends talk to me about women they dated or tried to date they often say things like "she served a purpose". It's always this service-oriented mindset LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:28 AM
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Had the flip side happening to me. When I told a male friend that I haven't connected with anybody in years romantically he called me "incredibly offensive". Other men called me "super selfish" when I turned them down for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:25 AM
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Lately, I've been associating couple relationships with men with household chores and free nursing care services. Not romantic, but seems realistic. Seems that platonic friendships with men are a better deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:12 PM
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Females across the board help, ditto for lawyers and judges in family court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:50 PM
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It actually does. Same with rape cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:49 PM
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I come from super healthy females, we all for alone. Males rarely take as good care of themselves, hence die younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:24 PM
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Staying single in the only way to be safe if you are a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:06 PM
84

We need female cops to take over domestic violence cases!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:04 PM
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Thanks! I'll read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:11 AM
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Many of them do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:22 PM
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The happiest demographic in Italy is widows, men make you happy... after they die. In the US is single women, men make you happy, at a distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:06 PM
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Anything but focus on how to make us happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:53 PM
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LAT is the way for sure! Living under the same roof with a man means more household chores and less safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:30 PM
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LMAO!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:50 PM
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It's a compliment! Also means that men aren't as smart as they think they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:28 AM
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Depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:24 AM
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Exactly what Catholic nuns do except for religious component. They are true powerhouses of productivity thanks to not paying attention to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:59 PM
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This is actually what women who lived 100+ years call their secret to longevity: avoid men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:56 PM
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I'm raising my 13 year old son to respect women by default and effortlessly. So much easier to do when there's no peer group he's forced to belong to (say, public middle school and high school boys). One of the great things about online learning is that other kids shitty behavior isn't normalized in my son's daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:48 PM
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I friendzone men who compare me physically with another woman in a nanosecond. Nothing good comes from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:40 PM
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The serial killer had a type!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:33 PM
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Not everybody is functionally literate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:53 PM
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Indeed, it's a white BS standard as well. Minority women in the US in the 50s worked A LOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:31 PM
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Pull them up to his level, or be complementary to one another’s lifestyles? ​ The ideal setup is LAT: living apart together, meaning each partner keeps his and her own home. That way there are no issues with finances, house chores, everybody defines the optimal lifestyle for themselves. And when there's free time on both sides, they can opt to share an activity. All upsides, no downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:59 PM
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but they require a partner who already has all his shit together. ​ I cannot remember the last time a man made me a sandwich. Why on earth isn't this a thing they do for us at least occasionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:57 PM
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Porn is not teaching men healthy sexual behavior. It conditions them to get off to women's pain. Horrifyingly Pavlovian ​ Have to be honest, the most loving sexual experiences I've ever had were with myself for myself. I'm ok with it, maybe that's why it's my most frequent type of sexual experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:52 PM
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Making the predatory US capitalism system work better for women, starting with mothers, is what I live for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:50 PM
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I think it's only taken for granted when given to an unrelated adult male. Just my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:45 AM
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I need to know how long it took the husband to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:25 PM
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💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:01 PM
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Men see us as servants. So nice what you were able to do for her!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:01 PM
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True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:59 PM
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Exactly. They just want a free nurse and maid. Men can use their home equity to pay for that, reverse mortgages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:58 PM
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"A recipe from 1688 described the cosmetic as a mixture of water, vinegar, and lead. The cosmetic's use of white lead as a pigment caused lead poisoning, damaging the skin and causing hair loss. Usage over an extended period could cause death." Women had been told by men to be of service in part by beautifying themselves in toxic and wasteful ways for centuries. Then men predictably complain about the consequences. Lead reduces IQ, women had to use it in their faces. Men complain that women aren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:47 PM
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My father always noticed that March Simpson was way out of Homer's league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:05 PM
1

SAME! Bring them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:49 PM
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Isn't the ultimate feminist ideal to achieve the best vibrator possible that's best than 85% of the men and ready when we want it? Super safe and doesn't add household chores. Occupy minimum space, smells good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:08 AM
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Looks like an alcoholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:41 PM
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So rare! Would love to hear tips on how to raise men like him, ideally from his own mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:28 AM
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The best way IMHO to have a relationship with a man is by living in your own home, he lives in his, finances completely separate. That way women are safe because he doesn't financially benefit from killing you and your time doesn't go to waste doing his household chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:00 AM
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Lundy Bancroft is MY TYPE OF MAN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:56 AM
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So boring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:55 AM
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Exactly. It exists to extract free labor from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:48 PM
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What's the upside of men sticking around against their will or even having to put effort into it? Serious question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:25 AM
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Because the males commenting think that's what women can offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:01 PM
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You are so selfish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:25 AM
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Wow they aren't even a bit creative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:15 PM
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Lauren Sánchez showed Bezos mini penis around a lot, even to her brother. They are still together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:13 PM
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Got the deed today. Time to fix it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:20 PM
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Bet it's even worse when it comes to Latinas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:16 PM
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Or make you do house chores. The best vibrator in the market is the purchase with the highest ROI I've ever made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:12 PM
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Indeed, got inspired by youtuber Preper Princess and I just bought a small home that's ideal for a single adult. Small area to clean and maintain, big garden to be creative next to a beautiful public park. As a couple, that home would be too small. Men and their possessions occupy always more space than my stuff, and I work from home. Also it's not showy, which every male I've met so far wouldn't go for, but that humbleness provides me with extra security. It serves me. The real estate savings f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:45 PM
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I LOVE the way you think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:18 PM
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it's becoming more and more common to live life as a single woman because of all these LVMs I think it's mostly because of the higher household chores that fall on women's shoulders. Even single moms do fewer household chores than married mothers. The adult male is WORK whether he's an HVM or LVM. If you want to preserve more of your free time, you avoid living with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:16 PM
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It's simply because capitalism serves males and it's always been based on extracting as much free labor as possible whether from slaves or from women. Single mothers and single childless women who consume little, provide as little service to unrelated adult males are simply revolutionary and a threat to the status quo. I'm rooting for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:13 PM
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Marital rape was not fully outlawed in the US until the 1990s A white upper middle class man in his mid-50s recently told me that husbands cannot rape their wives, they belong to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:24 PM
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to an women only village Can I come!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:22 PM
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why I didn't try harder to make my marriage work I already have 2 jobs, not willing to take on more work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:57 PM
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Even in the US, not every area will be drastically affected. I already moved out of the West in anticipation of its water scarcity and annual mega fires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:55 PM
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money will set you free PREACH!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:27 AM
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I'm an ex dummy in recovery. Made the mistake of getting married, ex husband became a violent alcoholic... Now, I recommend being and staying single to every woman I know. I just LOVE the freedom, the safety, the time I have to invest in different friendships and relationships, the lack of stress keeps on shocking me to my core, the much higher quality of sleep keeps on improving my health...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:04 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:22 AM
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Thank you! Affordable housing will go a LONG way towards freeing mothers and their kids from abusive husbands. At least, that's what I've learned from abused mothers in NYC's family court. They were trapped by a lack of affordable housing and being forced to stay in NYC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:05 AM
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Sleeping 9-10 hours per day, no stress to speak off. Quality of life has never been better. My best ally and helper? My ex-mother in law, the first person who told me I had to divorce. The second? My own parents, the third? My own son at 8. It was that bad! Violent alcoholic, I never live with a man who is not my son ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:30 AM
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and are closing on our own man free home in a couple weeks! CONGRATS!!! Similar story in my case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:11 AM
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No, he avoided them because he was 110% focused on his lab. All the opposite, people claim he was asexual, he was instead putting all his energy into his 1 and only interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:03 PM
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Nicola Tesla, the best one, was always single. It's the ultimate goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:14 PM
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No wonder why the secret to longevity for women is avoiding men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:13 PM
4

Nuns are the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:08 PM
4

When did it started?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:45 PM
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It's also about men's complete lack of knowledge on the hormonal rollercoaster that periods and menopause impose on us. If you dare show just one symptom, they wonder WTF just happened? Plain ignorance on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:15 PM
22

I went through this! My son is a pleasure to have around. Cannot say the same about his father, unfortunately. Happily divorced, I've never had so much time for myself and slept so well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:59 PM
5

I even thought CF could mean commitment fobic. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:32 PM
11

Thanks! For a moment I thought it meant "career-focused" LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:05 AM
7

What's CF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:22 AM
7

Why are men so averse to cutting their monthly spending? It's so easy to do IMHO. Are they thinking that if they do they will become less sexually appealing to us? Are men caught in a competition to see who is the male who outspends the others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:39 PM
19

I even dated older men, hoping they had their shit together... only to find out they had gambling addictions and money problems. ​ Old American men had been turned into yield chasers, they keep on asking me for tips on how to specuinvest in the current market like gamblers would. I tell them to cut their spending if they need to speculate, they don't get it. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:37 PM
7

Some people accuse me of being way too rational, but still, here is my thinking: sexual attraction is aimed at reproduction I don't want to have more kids so it doesn't serve me focusing on what would make me sexually attractive to males deviates me from my optimal course. that's it, the whole story. I want my habits to be beneficial to my internal health, cardio vascular health, for ex. Not to my exterior look to please people who ultimately, don't even care about me. That would be a misallocat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:20 PM
5

I'm in the 4th cheapest city in the US for single women, the city planners had make it better us for 3 generations already. Notably by planting trees and donating land for parks. The idea: every kid and mom should have a park not more than 5 min from their home. Such a beauty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:31 PM
2

I was born with a noticeable round butt, people still tell me what to do about it. Maybe people enjoy bossing women around, and we just let them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:29 PM
9

Exactly. Big noses should be normalized the way KK normalized big butts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:26 PM
9

Super thin noses though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:27 AM
9

Men want women's $$$ even though we earn less because they discriminate against us. Why aren't more women opting out of men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:27 AM
9

Walking is free, among trees, the best exercise IMHO with uplifting podcast I want to do it daily for my heart, not my butt. But... Society tells me my butt needs the exercise. Dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:22 AM
-9

???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:21 AM
28

Exactly, setting the agenda against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:18 AM
15

Men as the real gold diggers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:15 AM
3

I've cut them short to zero minutes. I maintain texting relationships instead, much safer, much more respectful of my time, 100% STD safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:47 PM
2

Nature, water going over a stream and her oneness with it all. Wild. wow! I love water though. That's as close as I get to this LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:42 PM
1

I HATE liver, they tricked me into trying it a couple of times. Cannot forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:44 PM
1

Exactly. I am not as gifted as them, so picked for the quality control role. No complains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:41 PM
1

Mine was separated due to the different starvation periods that Europe had gone through. Made us super resourceful and future-oriented people. Not everybody makes it though, but it's VERY clear why every branch in my family is full of foodies, Masterchef semi-finals included. That's how beyond clean water, food, safety, and cheap housing, I don't care about much else and why the US political class lost me. Their causes were never ever my top 4 priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:30 PM
1

I basically travel to see my family. In my case, my safety net is stronger in Italy than in the US, hence safer for me. I only deviate from them to safe places during long weekends. I've always felt safer around my big family in Italy than on my own while in the US. I feel I have to be more careful here in the US because of how society operates, more individualistic. I don't let that stop me, but I'm not putting myself at risk either. Online dating, for ex, feels risky to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:59 PM
2

I get it. Used to romanticize stuff more when I was younger. While in the US, I take myself out, travel by myself as well for the most part. When you are more independent and resourceful, maybe romance goes down a bit. It comes back on while I'm on vacation in Italy during summers though :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:07 PM
2

They do. What I've noticed is that men don't actually increase my quality of life, which is what matters to me. So getting noticed as somebody who can provide men with sexual services they would like doesn't actually translate into men making my life better. Not sure if that makes sense to you, it just had been my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:34 PM
2

I don't find the value of men's approval, maybe I'm just too pragmatic. It just works better for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:49 PM
2

Once I realized that what matters is what I like and what I prefer, I started liking my body more. Basically, not delegating key choices to men serves women better. Since then, I try to not let society get in the way of living my best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:27 PM
2

White Anglo-Saxon Protestants (WASPs) are upper-class white American Protestants, usually of British descent. WASP elites dominated American society... I'm 100% Latina, Mediterranean ascent, so nothing in common with WASPs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:12 PM
0

I'm the opposite of athletic and if I were athletic, I wouldn't be turned off to my muscles. What I love about my body is the polar opposite, it's uber-feminine, curves everywhere. And that's why it run against the WASP stereotype of a board-type body for so long. I'm just curvy everywhere and it took time for me to realize that's much more beautiful to me than the athletic ideal WASP men have. I delegated my valuation of what's desirable or not to WASP men who don't care about me. How smart is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:01 PM
1

Goals she set for herself, the life she's designing for herself clearly excites her. She's making her sexual energy work for her at a much deeper level than I do. I'm not talking about my body in a male way, I'm not saying I look in the mirror and I get horny. I'm extremely grateful for how my body has behaved during the years, super healthy, allows me tons of adventures. I love it in a much deeper level. It had never failed me, not even once. Super loyal. I'm super grateful to my body and regre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:38 PM
2

I'm beginning to focus on my goals more after a friend told me about a woman he admires who masturbates to her visual board. Lol I'll let you know how it works. I REALLY like my body btw, which helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:20 PM
48

These poor women should charge their pig clients much more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:03 AM
30

Nice people I want as platonic friends forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:27 AM
74

Yes!!!! No STDs for me is HUGE. I value my good health above anything else. My favorite vibrator cost $30 and NEVER smells bad, always pleases me. Charging my vibrator has become the equivalent of self-care. It's also a time saver, working full-time I need that feature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:23 AM
38

Very true. I wish the best vibrator on Earth - which I found after buying other 4 ones and never giving up - had been available 2 decades ago. I would had saved me from a lot of male related trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:21 AM
190

What's the upside of sex with men again? Serious question, my vibrator can do things no man ever could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:34 AM
39

What value are these men really adding to women's lives?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:18 AM
16

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:27 PM
19

What's life like for these 50-60 divorced women who haven't worked in 3 decades?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:11 AM
7

I want to date you! After covid, too wise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:09 AM
3

No doubt. This one was a bad hire by Microsoft. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:58 PM
3

I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:58 PM
9

There was something else with this particular type of loser from Microsoft. He definitely get off on controlling and humiliating women, no question about it. BTW I met him on Tinder and NEVER had anything sexual/romantic with him but he will tell me all about his sexual expertise. My entire body sent me signals that this was one to friendzone in a New York minute for my own good. It's impossible to tell really, but I wouldn't be surprised if he had been traumatized and abused at a very early age…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:14 PM
15

> They're doms BECAUSE they are losers. ​ I totally agree with this. BUT met one of this losers who was doing well professionally: working for Microsoft at a high level. Still a loser, because not everything is work and $.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:38 PM
28

I need Terrance in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:09 PM
2

What about men's "Oh no, you are too smart" when making the best joke on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:57 PM
-4

Your assumption that this is the case is insane imho. An excuse to criticize other women instead of focusing 100% on male fault, as you should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:53 PM
4

You don't even know how the 50 year old seduced the barely legal girl. You assume she went around celebrating her actions, that's in your head. You enjoy criticizing other women even when the only evidence you have shows you that the only one to criticize is the men. You are very common, unfortunately. > If she’s getting off to ruining another persons life, that’s trash behavior The man did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:51 PM
7

I never understand when a man treats a woman like shit but begs her not to dump him. Tends to be for financial reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:48 PM
59

Also men are constantly manipulating young girls to believe that this is normal and healthy. ​ Did you notice that even in FDS some women cannot help themselves and point fingers to the other woman (a super inexperienced and young one) instead of blaming 100% the man? We have such a long road to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:47 PM
4

Exactly. There was no real marriage, it just became evident to the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:46 PM
-3

WTF are you ganging up against girls when the only one to criticize is the 50 year old men who seduced these girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:45 PM
6

They think they’re so quirky and cool for destroying THEIR marriages and they brag about it This is true of the men, not the barely legal girls they cheat with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:44 PM
5

If you ask these males "what's the upside for me?"... what would they say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:20 AM
4

Nothing the first few years, divorce as soon as my son was old enough. NEVER regretted it for a single second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:29 PM
8

trapped In every way while enslaved. We need to help them imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:34 AM
13

What bothers me the most is not the spending less on stuff. The inequality that matters to me is the lack of free time we mothers have. TIME preservation is all that matters to me once the very basics are covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:33 AM
15

My ex used to demand 50% of rent from me, even though we agreed that I would be a SAHM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:32 AM
3

SAME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:32 AM
8

Wondering if it's hard for the divorced fathers to hear how useless many of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:31 AM
2

Why cannot women just answer: "all men are crazy and dangerous" to that one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:15 PM
2

Exactly!!! Big homes are status symbols that serve the males but burden their slave wives. I need more free time and the house to work for me. Not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:39 AM
44

So the solution is for them to continue to do too much work at home. The only solution is for men to be forced to do 50% of the work or do without them in the household. That at least unburdens the women from taking care of their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:45 AM
9

The whole "let's make them drunk, that way they are easier" really really... turns me off. > see them in the bright fluorescent light Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:55 PM
104

Same. I'm never agreeing on going to a bar again. I'm just not into that. The guy I've met after the widower who enjoyed going to bars every day of the week including Mondays took me to the museum for a Money exhibit I wanted to see, to the Botanical Garden, restaurants... much nicer than depressing bars!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:43 PM
24

> My tip? Plan a self-date after your date date. Go to your favorite store or restaurant while you’re already dolled up. Go to the movies. Went to the movies - the last one of Tarantino - instead of going to a bar with a widower just to get compared to this late wife... on a Monday night. No regrets! Bars bore me to death, with or without widowers. The Tarantino movie was pretty great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:41 PM
3

LOVE THIS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:25 PM
7

Thank you so much! Now I know why I like her so much!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:39 PM
5

You are likely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:49 PM
79

THIS!!! I even was saying as a child that I would NEVER get married, that it wasn't good for women. The women in my family responded with: "you are too young to know what you are talking about". I knew it then, I know it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:27 AM
72

Exactly. If he doesn't take responsibility for his failures and blames others - worse if he blames other women - RUN! It's a massive red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:24 AM
20

Sounds like dying young while still being alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:21 AM
34

situationship This is exactly what I had during my last 2 years. I'm loving being single now without any situationship, but every men is asking whether I found a new situationship. Why look for one!? Even if it finds me, it's not going to catch me this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:07 PM
46

"make you even more dependent on me (a freaking old man who will need nursing care for Alzheimer's soon)" Who wants that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:04 PM
35

What's the solution? Should we just focus on relationships with women who help each other, men when/if we want to get pregnant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:48 PM
23

Only thing he's offering is a bunch of STDs. Who wants that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:42 PM
15

What's the best FDS answer to "not looking for anything serious"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:39 PM
24

'Then I'll give him your number' Nicely played!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:41 AM
7

Doesn't this mean that sex should be between females unless we want to get pregnant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:43 AM
1

Blamed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:32 PM
-3

Didn't she end up divorced because Brad got too much into alcohol after getting too much into weed while with Jennifer Aniston?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:17 AM
7

What was the ideal male age when you started at 45? Asking for a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:53 AM
6

You did great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:46 AM
8

LMAO this is in the next level of complete desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:46 PM
6

Why are women even bothering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:45 PM
9

Yeah we need to form an union. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:29 PM
5

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:39 AM
23

It is a better deal, even more so if you value your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:37 PM
10

Oh no! I have married guys asking me to show them my naked body with their secret accounts ALL THE FREAKING TIME. And my body is nothing spectacular. You were about to get serious with one of those entitled horny guys. The STDs you saved yourself from! Congrats for that!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:39 AM
19

> I've had a feeling something was off for the longest time, but I just didn't listen to it. I guess it's always worth listening to your gut / instinct ladies. ​ Do you remember the first time you got that gut feeling? What triggered it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:53 PM
29

The role of the loving servant who is low maintenance... Thanks, but no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:31 PM
2

Interesting! Might be safer for women to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:16 PM
10

Can male behavior turn me into a lesbian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:15 AM
6

After my divorce I started sleeping SO MUCH BETTER!!! From his business trips I've always knew my life was simpler and happier without him in the house, it was super clear to me that the stressor was never my son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:21 PM
6

Did we saw the same woman? Teacher from Oklahoma who owns several rentals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:54 PM
2

YES!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:53 PM
2

Exactly! Studies show that the adult male is the stressor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:44 PM
4

I will become a social outcast and die in the streets before I become a slave. ​ SAME! Free at last, Free at last...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:14 PM
7

The reality is that they feel entitled to the WHOLE house and treat their wives like maids who's job is to clean it. ​ Why do these men find it so easy to secure women in the unpaid position of their servants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:59 PM
6

He'll only get worse. They always do. ​ YEP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:58 PM
4

THIS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:57 PM
1

if she comes by his place and it's a pigsty, she might want to clean to at least not step on something nasty ​ Why not tell the guy to come to her place instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:56 PM
10

I've been teaching my 12-year-old son how to keep his own bathroom clean. He's learning!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:25 PM
10

Women should wise up. They don't profit from boosting men's careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:23 PM
70

Exactly. Stay at home moms are glorified slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:32 PM
2

In China, the gender gap is smaller than in the USA and shrinking faster. A positive from the global powershift that's happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:53 PM
3

Masterpiece!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:20 PM
2

So clear!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:01 PM
3

Horrible take. He regards women as objects to collect clearly. A woman would wait for the right man, clearly not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:42 PM
4

You simply divorce. No time for such BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:33 PM
10

They do ot because they can get away with it knowing that due to having more $ than women, they will always be able to get sex, even if it's by paying for it. The whole male being depressed when the economy tanks is due to that loss of power over the women they would rather control economically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:26 PM
15

The threat of inconvenience ​ I need to be pragmatic like they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:37 PM
14

> men are not motivated by their partner’s wellbeing (or lack thereof) ​ What motivates men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:10 PM
1

My job is to tell Democrats what they need to do in order to win my vote as an Independent. When I see they don't even try to get it done, the obvious conclusion is that they don't want my vote. Fine with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:32 PM
1

I'll wait until Democrats fix housing for the homeless and renters in their own cities. They need to build a massive amount of multi-family housing, they should have done it for the environment as well. They should just ban single residential zoning. Until Democrats get housing, I'll vote against them. I'm not into homelessness nor squeezing renters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:24 PM
13

Exactly. As an Independent voter, I vote for the side that's least likely to hurt me. I don't expect a single positive thing from either party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:39 AM
49

Want one like this, white beard and all. For sure he's taken though. Oh well... being single is pretty awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:12 PM
3

My dads family has been in the same area for 150 years and most people haven’t gone too far. This is perfection! Hopefully, we can return to this once remote work becomes the new normal, no need to move away from our families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:39 AM
6

Unable to be servants to the benefit of males? Force males to serve us, problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:54 PM
6

Didnt she confidently told him NO SEX FOR YOU? The dude is just confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:16 AM
15

at least he got self improvement out of the whole thing, but I still felt bad about it You inspired him to quit giving himself cancer. He is grateful to you if he's a smart man. My ex FWB is pretty bright and is super grateful. I've always been 110% honest with him though, something that he never had before. Hey, it got so fun for him that making me squirt was the high light of his month. He tried all sorts of positions thanks to me, put me on all sorts of costumes, he still tells me "I need my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:06 PM
30

I found that in that case, the man will often try to get a relationship....even when it is not what the woman is after 🙄. Why is this? I convinced a friend to be my FWB because we are very incompatible (aside from sex where we have the best chemistry we've ever had) and both were coming out of long/serious relationships. He was massively jealous of any other men for at least a year. It was supposed to be just a few weeks until he found somebody else and not return to his psycho ex. I didn't have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:36 PM
39

I know there are men who are great in bed and actually tend to their partner’s needs but I still wouldn’t be interested. I have a vibrator for a reason. ​ Indeed, vibrators are at least as good and more efficient. No need to schedule anything. At this point, my idea of self-care starts with making sure my vibrator is fully charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:31 PM
34

Great attitude! What matters is what YOU want. If what you want aligns with a FWB situation that adjusts to your schedule and preferences, then great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:27 PM
1

Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:52 PM
12

Not so fast. A ton of men demand 50% of the time to avoid paying child support, but then never show up to pick up their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:29 PM
4

How old are these men? I notice a massive improvement in men under 35. While for the most part, men above 45 are stuck in Patriarchy mode (white ones).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:28 PM
9

A widower told me he couldn't wait until Monday mornings to "shovel my son to school after spending THE WHOLE WEEKEND with him (his own 8-year-old son)". Then he doubled down on Patriarchy telling me that before his late wife died of cancer, he used to do NOTHING in the house. Poor kid and poor wife. Friendzoned in a New York minute. We still talk about finance stuff, our background. I don't need to serve white men to feel useful anymore. Just a decade or so ago my mindset was different, I would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:26 PM
1

What value do they really add?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:02 PM
23

The highschool music teacher is the one I will never forget. What a power house!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:00 PM
7

Tell them that you will marry as soon as they give you a home free and clear in a good school district and to pay for college for all your kids. There, problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:30 AM
69

Love it! Too bad they cannot take the pain though, so we dont have to. Wondering what would they say/do if we start asking them to wax. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:46 PM
2

Question is what does Chinky have to offer anyway? Looks and sounds like a better lost than found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:27 PM
37

EXACTLY!!! "What is the upside for women in marriage?" is the key question nobody seems comfortable asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:09 PM
1

Men suck very often and we are not their priority, they are their priority. My father didn't even show up for his third and last son's birth. No cheating, just regular screwed up priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:09 PM
25

Men are economic entities. Driving 50% of the competition away inflates their wages. That simple. It's about money, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:29 PM
1

Who is the genius?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:27 AM
31

people saying mean things actually drives you to be better. There's no need for this in order to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:58 PM
10

He gave her herpes? How do we know this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:56 PM
60

I want young women to be warned about the institution of marriage being set up to extract free labor from women, but we also have to alert them about how common domestic violence really is. We are letting young girls buy into a fairy tale that puts them in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:44 AM
2

Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:55 AM
4

After 45 what do they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:52 AM
8

"I'm out of town this week traveling".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:51 AM
1

What's the upside for them in doing that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:43 AM
3

First and last! I keep on texting them, but will never meet them again, never sex. If they give a vibe that theg are having sex with many, all they will give me is STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:36 AM
3

So dumb. They just show they are unavailable for you when you want them to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:34 AM
2

"We need... we need..." losers! Focus on what she needs and you will get it back. You only get what you put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:27 PM
1

Why not start advicing women NOT TO MARRY men altogether? Isnt this safer for us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:18 PM
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Need more Michael Stahlkes in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:43 PM
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Very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:40 PM
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Aren't the Jewish in Europe the ones who complain the most about the inevitable Muslim exodus to Europe that each invation generates? Israel might just want them to move from Europe to Israel if they make too much sense and too loudly.
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 02:11 PM
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Lybia... another disaster. Each time USA messes up in the Middle East, % of pop in Europe that's Muslim inevitably goes up, changing policies there. With locals not reproducing at replacement rates, the demographic changes in Europe will be quite dramatic in a short time. Interesting times!
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 02:08 PM
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The poor have better education, food and health there than in the US. The key question is always who are the winners and losers.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 06:49 PM
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The only countries the US is capable of invading now are ones with the shit military you don’t see us invading China or Russia or any other nation that opposes us on some level because we would get the shit kicked out of us I hope you are right! I think it was shown to the US in pretty clear terms that there's nothing possitive coming from messing out with Iran (or Syria and Russia, for that matter). People in that region had more than enough with US boots on the ground. Do you agree with this? …
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 05:06 PM
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No one mentioned Iraq. "Muslims terrorists" was what every brainwashed American was using as an excuse to invade Iraq.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 04:59 PM
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The military is a glorified jobs program. Having a free college option without having to put their bodies in danger would be so much better for the lower middle class and also cheaper for all of us. But at least the investment funds excellent research, development, and tech innovations. The internet, for one. TRUE! Some of the best math research centers and universities originated from war efforts as well, France's École Polytechnique, for example.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 04:58 PM
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Each time the US invades yet another country, it make US citizens embarrassed if they arent brainwashed. Do we really need to keep 200+ around the world wasting bilions? Meanwhile AT HOME infant mortality rate is higher than Cuba's, another country they US would have loved to turn into a colony. Screwed up priorities.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 04:15 PM
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Heads were from Saudi Arabia, hiding in Afghanistan close to Pakistan. Iraq had NOTHING to do with it.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 03:36 PM
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The invader very rarely is the good guy. The one who is invaded has the right and obigation to defend themselves.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 02:57 PM
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My biggest problem is with the "noble" cause: destroy poor countries and kill/abuse even civilians.
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 02:55 PM
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