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REMINDER 👑fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:44 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:29 PM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:51 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:48 PM
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REMINDER 👑fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:38 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:18 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:43 AM
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PICKME CULTUREfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:14 PM
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#JustLVMThingsfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:05 AM
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PICKME CULTUREfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:18 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:11 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:26 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:55 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:59 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:18 PM
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Muh PENISfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:33 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:33 PM
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DISCUSSIONfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:33 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:57 AM
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SCROTES MADfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:28 PM
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PICKME CULTUREfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:33 AM
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STRATEGYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:15 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:35 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:09 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:23 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:44 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:22 AM
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LVM LOGICfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:13 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:16 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:19 AM
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Story time ☕fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:45 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:25 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:02 AM
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DISCUSSIONfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:10 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:12 PM
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PICKME CULTUREfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:59 PM
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STRATEGYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:18 AM
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LIES MEN TELLfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:57 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:15 PM
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#JustLVMThingsfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:08 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:46 AM
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#KickHimOut2020fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:23 AM
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DISCUSSIONfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:55 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:12 AM
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DISCUSSIONfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:34 PM
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SCROTES MADfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:51 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:02 PM
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SCROTES MADfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:44 AM
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SCROTES MADfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:05 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:26 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:31 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:35 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:17 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?fairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:12 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYfairywakes/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:59 PM
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I will always stand by this in that there is nothing for fucking ghetto than asking for hair, nail, lashes money etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 05:40 AM
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I am sure she gets plenty of attention still. That filter on her photo might not be so flattering for her skin tone, but whatever he age is she seems above average in attractiveness. Regardless of what work she’s had done as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/22 04:44 AM
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No - she had always been single before her new husband! She just wanted to try to freeze in case a man never came along…but one did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:37 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:31 PM
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I’ve seen this exact story as well, with my friend who is now 42! She went through numerous attempts at egg freezing with no luck. Lots of money, tons of pain. She got pregnant during the pandemic at 41 with her new husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:28 PM
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Also to note: the average couple is not very healthy. Many people more often than not smoke, drink heavily, eat poorly, and do not exercise. If either mom or dad do this, or both, it’s likely to harm fertility!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:27 PM
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I have to say ladies, I couldn’t trust men with remembering to take a pill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:55 PM
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Preach sis. Your whole post isn’t meant to insult but will be a hard lesson to women who don’t believe you. It is far more sustainable and safe to have a career WITHOUT it relying on depreciable assets like: looks. You’re right. These young women simply do not have the mental capacity or mentors to truly understand investing. The bags and houses and cars they post and gloat about on social media are short lived unless they get ahold on really investing and securing a bag. I can’t think of anythi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:50 PM
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Once upon a time, circa 2013, I recall a scrote using my beach pictures I posted innocently (as a minor) completely unrelated to onlyfans as a catfish for an online Egirl to profit off me. There is no winning on this for us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:46 PM
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I don’t get it either…0 appeal for my taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:06 PM
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You’re doing amazing! I found this place when I was 21/22 just before the pandemic started. I spent all the pandemic studying this place and how to be a smarter, bitchier, successful woman who only spends her time around men who treat her right. I’ve also suffered through situationships with men 10-15 years older than me when I was very young. Like you, I had a mother who married (multiple times!) to shit men and didn’t have good examples of healthy relationships. Now I’m 24, I’ve leveled up in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:04 PM
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That last one crushed me. My heart 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:10 AM
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Right?? Shieldmaden Eowyn is a queen! Awesome you’ve read the books 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:06 AM
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Haha!! It would be oxygen poorly wasted 😘 he’d be like, “Sephora who?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:56 PM
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This is so beautiful. So real! I recently went on a date with a man who was exceptionally beautiful and educated himself. He told me on our next date that I should straighten my hair and wear contact lenses. (I wear glasses normally when I’m not in the mood to put in contacts, and curled my hair on purpose because I love how curls frame my face). He never heard from me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 10:55 PM
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Still adore Faramir to this day! What a great character - love the morals and responsibility to self and others. I adore men with this in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:58 AM
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BEHOLD ✨/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:30 PM
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Right - one bank account fella? One card? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:29 PM
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Ugh! I know what you mean. They marry an women who desires the SAH life, have children with her, and then cheat with women the complete opposite of her in lifestyle choices and looks. Um?! You cannot have your cake and eat it too - sickening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:51 PM
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Sickening. I have a feeling this guy isn’t actually reviewing his poor decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:49 PM
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I don’t know if this is my algorithm but I have quite literally seen nothing for this day on my feed or suggested! What gives? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:41 PM
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I will die before I propose to a man. 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:38 PM
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I get this too and I’m so shocked. I know so many beautiful, intelligent, successful women my age. What unicorn? Try harder fellas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:37 PM
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To my great surprise I learned recently there are even women who shame mothers who have a c-section. What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:32 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:20 PM
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I remember when I was 19 and felt sooooo cool when men 10+ years above my age ‘wanted’ me. What a foolish little girl I was - why don’t we normalize warning our daughters about men like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:15 AM
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I need this site! I’d like to look up a few old flames for shits and giggles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:03 AM
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I’m so tired of broken promises. Do, or don’t speak at all. Do or don’t even exist in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:27 AM
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She’s absolutely mad. Imagine sabotaging your adult daughter for realizing she’s with a total scrote. Shame on this mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:56 AM
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Absolute queen, never give up 💗 Also: what wall?! Where’s this wall men speak of? She’s absolutely gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:54 AM
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Definitely need to watch, what’s it streaming on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 02:29 AM
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This is just unfucking believable. So disrespectful of her conditions (pregnancy, IBS) and general discomfort. All men who pull something like this are LVM if not ZVM. I unfortunately have experienced men push push push me for intimacy when I’m exhausted, not feeling fresh enough, or just not in the mood. Never ever give in ladies. I wish this woman stopped immediately. Yet, she felt guilty and made herself so uncomfortable for his pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 02:09 AM
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YES queen shit 👸🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:33 PM
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Also a scientist here, omg this sets me on fire. They know it does, it’s the entire purpose they do it, so I cooly just ignore them when they say something idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:12 AM
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SO true. I heard of this sub through another person shit talking it. Here I am, 1.5 years later 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:30 AM
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I’ll never forget my stepfather chasing down a man who was trying to take a picture up my skirt in the grocery store. I was thirteen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:06 AM
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“Cannot overemphasize this. Be NiCe.” I cannot stress this enough: Go fuck yourselves. No amount of niceness will get you out of the casual sex zone when men don’t value you. Bitchyness and standards get you WHAT YOU WANT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:53 AM
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I think that being able to recognize men feigning a personality means you’re a good judge of character! You’re on high alert to watch for men who are faking. I’ve had similar experiences with these type of men - they crack in the first 2-3 months when the mask falls off. They’re insecure, paranoid, and annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah - men have sex for sport yet the distinction is they cum every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:57 AM
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Of course they are. I wouldn’t mind a Skynet Terminator type deal towards abusive men. Not at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:02 AM
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Handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:59 AM
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Isn’t that wild? To be compared as one of the WORST subreddits to exist but all we want is for women to succeed? Meanwhile…rape and pornography and attempts to plan to hurt women just go by unnoticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:33 PM
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I could definitely get on this. As a successful woman I need a man like so on my side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:20 AM
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I am sure that Twitter’s recoil on this is worth a look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:15 AM
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"I'll make you love me...soon, it'll just take some time." BIG ONE. ​ Introducing you to mommy way too early. "Mom says she sees us for the long haul..." but you've only met her 3 times. Talking about children on the first date, bragging about their salary on the first date. Talking anything about marriage/I love you's <2 months from commitment, anything about giving you their last name. Introducing you to their friends and warning that they're going to "grill you" about what you want with him, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:22 AM
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She is being sarcastic? This must be satire. ​ I want to know at what f*cking point did giving women the tools to stay away from dangerous men became an attack on men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:48 AM
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No matter - you are here with us now! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:42 AM
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I'm so lucky I found this sub in my early 20s - I have come leaps and bounds from the old pickme self. I will never care for how men value me ever again, after all, they hardly hold value themselves. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:16 AM
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I understand that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:34 PM
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My goodness! Sister, don’t waste your time with boring! You have the right to end what doesn’t serve you 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:23 PM
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All of us need support and should have it if we want it. I’m not shaming the lone wolf who’s done it all on her own (hello, me big time!) but I know that with a positive support system it increases our chances of success and positive self image. I wish FDS existed when I was 18. I wish I always had positive and strong women in my life. I believe it would have supported me into NOT making some of the poor decisions I made with men when I didn’t have support. I wish my friends and other female col…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:06 PM
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Really! Did it work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:42 PM
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I disagree almost entirely, although we might be situated in completely different parts of the world. What you’ve seen in tiktok is awesome. I’m not supporting the idea that gen z is completely lost. However - in real life situations I have seen many cases where this behavior is the norm across the youth. I have also seen older generations struggle similarly with tolerating piss poor behavior from men due to their socialization. The older generation and the younger generation are not lost. The q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:41 PM
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Great examination! Loved these points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:18 PM
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Straight to my Instagram 😍 how can I credit you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:45 PM
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The fact I have to ask….ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:41 PM
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OP, I watched people choke and drown to death on ventilators from sars-cov-2 as their organs failed all while medically sedated. Don’t kid yourself! At this point the anti vaxxers are dangerous people who don’t care about others…that’s putting it nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:33 AM
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You just described my (bless her) mother. 5 marriages, boyfriend after boyfriend with no period of singledom in between. Rushes relationships and tries to bring me into it. I’ve had to save her from toxic abusive relationships in my early 20s. Save as in get a new apartment and move her in with me. The second I speak up about not wanting to meet her latest catch and how bringing so many men into my life was traumatic she turns around and points her finger to me. I don’t bring boyfriends home to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:53 AM
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Please be nice? Girl, if I could smack you in the face I would. $100 she is also paying for rent and most utilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:47 AM
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Boozy ice cream and pretzels 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:44 PM
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This is handbook worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:44 PM
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Always blame the woman, never the man. This might be the first law of patriarchy actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:02 PM
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Women are going to have to fight everywhere. Period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:01 PM
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Of all the things in this world that disgust me the most, hypocrisy is up there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:01 PM
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Amongst the other highly political social and moral things that prove we are not the greatest, just the greatest at bloodshed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:58 PM
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Why are men like this. What is this cognitive dissonance amongst them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:57 PM
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That is INSANE to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:26 AM
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We need an amendment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:25 AM
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Indeed! There’s a strong possibility they might attempt to try this bullshit; but you are right. Women are as strong as ever. We’re going to have to be to keep our rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:24 AM
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Moon I’ve got to say I’m right there with you in my fears for this. Especially your last point about the rest of the world following. We will have to take to the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:23 AM
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Your last paragraph is key. Nonetheless: I choose to take to the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:22 AM
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Absolutely Phoenix, and the audacity they have to claim men are being taken advantage of for “false accusations of rape” like it happens regularly. Certainly not as regularly as actual rape and assault on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:20 AM
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Your last comment was so on point. Until we as women get an amendment prioritizing the state of choice and respect for our bodies I hardly feel this is going better. Great point you brought up about childcare costs not being compensated or considered a benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:18 AM
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You know, I was recently looking back at some old Political cartoons about the suffragists here. Men thought the epitome of femininity was to be completely absent minded about politics in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:52 PM
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This is meant to be comedy, but redpill strategy plans behavior not far off from this to manipulate women. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:50 AM
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"Let me know when you're man enough to ask me on a date." - Me, all 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:42 AM
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WORD. Men are no longer socialized to stay and support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:29 AM
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This may be hard core but I simply block and delete or do not respond. Low effort offers in the beginning usually have proven to be a bad sign for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:51 PM
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Split 50/50? Is she out of her mind? She barely makes half of what he does pre tax. HELLO? FDS rescue mission needed! 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:27 PM
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This was like reading my worst nightmare. My heart aches for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:27 AM
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Haha! I work at a well known cancer research facility affiliated with a med school. Most of my colleagues are women. The few men I do work with (not any phds or md/phds but young scientists or technicians) are quick to pass off their responsibilities, fail to keep up with or track of their work, and continuously make mistakes. They feign incompetency to do less work as it falls on the rest of us. Makes my blood boil. The women I work with are outstanding, far-achieving, truly brilliant. I’m begi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:59 AM
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Queen Shit ❤️‍🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:02 PM
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I had to stop the vid…engaged without even talking about children? I don’t watch this man, but the way he enunciates gets on my nerves - I don’t know if it’s an accent or a stage act but it makes him sound like a man child 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:47 AM
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I’m levitating at the Taco Bell one. Is this real life? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:44 AM
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Jack Nicholson 😂😂😂 #roastascrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:49 PM
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I’m SCREAMING this truth out loud lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:57 AM
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I am displeased to report a lot of the tradwives on the Internet are men in disguise. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:37 PM
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“Love”. God they brainwash us so well. We have to do us and our future daughters a favor by making decisions that are not so dependent on love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:34 PM
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This. Of course men would be frothing at the mouth - no ring or deep commitment but they are getting regular sex, split bills, food/cleaning from a partner. Why would they marry or commit financially when they can have it for free? The greatest change in my life thanks to the FDS handbook: there is no cohabitation with me until I at the very least am engaged and soon planned to marry. I am open about this. It has scared off a great deal of losers with no intention to be a supportive and financia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:56 PM
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I don’t doubt that this is exactly what male and female friendships are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:49 PM
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Of course they do. 😵‍💫 I theorize this behavior is in part to this generation largely growing up with single mothers. Seeing them do everything, be everything, had men placing women in a “she does everything for me” category lacking a strong male figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:50 PM
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Holy fuck. I swear on my life I’ll be dead before I let this happen to me. I recall my mother reminiscing about my ZVM father who left when I was less than a year old. She said: pay child support or never see her. Guess who has no relationship with her father. Additionally (he was a cop) she told me while he was in training she did all his homework for him. Un-fucking-believable. I wish my mom had FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:16 PM
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Weather she had Alzheimer’s, a stroke, or a horrible accident rendering her disabled, Molina is far from a fairy tale. Wtf happened to in sickness and in health? Shame on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:32 PM
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Screaming at your last paragraph. You absolutely cannot rely on a man to feed you. Men are no longer socialized as much to provide stability and material things like they were in the past. We must do it ourselves as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:21 PM
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“If he wanted to, he would.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:59 AM
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Blue stalling…the worst offense I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:49 PM
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Let’s 👏 fucking 👏 talk 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:30 AM
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This is it. Exactly it. I need a man who knows what he wants and a desire for legitimacy because I don’t have it in me anymore to give and love without definition. OPs opinion is not only pitiful, but trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:19 PM
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Yes!! I refuse to be pigeon-holed into this wishy washy non commitment bullshit. I’m so over it. The second a scrote starts giving me these vibes - blocked and deleted. I don’t have time to give up my body and my soul for a guy who can’t even decide what he wants for dinner let alone commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:01 PM
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Embarrassing 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:09 PM
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I love how her expressions are so on par with a Disney character hahahahahahahah! Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:12 AM
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She is one of the brightest things I have jn my life. I love her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:47 PM
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I so agree!! 🥰🥰🥰 great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:09 AM
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I am right here for you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:09 AM
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SpLiT biLLs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:54 AM
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So delusional. Never has FDS supported emotionally abusing and harming men. We are not the same you sick MGTOWs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:54 AM
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Love it when men think their height is a personality trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:40 AM
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I’ve got to add: I’m seeing a man for the first time who absolutely loves and is very good at vanilla. Slow stroke, massage, cuddling, the works. It’s so passionate and deep it almost doesn’t even seem vanilla. I was so used to men trying to fucking slap and choke and anally disturb me. FDS pulled me away from allowing that and I’ve got to say I’m so thankful. Finally finding a sex partner where I cum multiple times every time, and feel safe and cherished...this is how it should be. I don’t feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:35 AM
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LMFAOOOOOOO “be my free prostitute because I’m not over my ex?” 🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:29 AM
9

Rather than getting the manipulation based answer he wanted...he got the whole truth and nothing but the truth. What is he doing waiting 11 months for her to change her mind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:28 AM
46

Best Sunday school lesson EVER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:13 AM
53

I just love how she, a queen, made this clown flail around and do pushups. DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:11 AM
5

Such an awesome article. She gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:45 PM
1

Eating salt behind my back I’m rolling lmfao...funny thing is this NVM would probably put that in the list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:56 PM
26

Oh god yes, she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:18 PM
54

As loving as Hitler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:19 AM
189

100%. I think this is the biggest difference between men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:16 AM
34

Hard to make sense out of stupid ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:11 AM
22

Now...a real movie to go along with it 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:12 AM
31

Such men exist AND there are more of them than we think. Fuck this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:10 AM
30

Exactly. Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:10 AM
24

No kidding. I’m curious to hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:09 AM
82

Facebook! Posted in a “men AINT shit” group, essentially. Had to share it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:08 AM
84

Should I exist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:08 AM
24

Facebook! Not mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:07 AM
94

Holy fuck. I saw the report card years ago. I didn’t know he killed his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:07 AM
59

So sorry to hear that happened to you. Scrotes have nothing but the audacity and refuse to take responsibility. Sickening! May you never be in the position where a man is telling you things like that again ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:07 AM
237

A professional legal document and he writes Beef - end it. I fucking can’t lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:05 AM
211

All or nothing for her - and how lucky is she to get a chance to suggest changes in his behaviors! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:58 AM
217

That she has taken FULL ADVANTAGE of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:57 AM
398

That alone was enough for a divorce in my opinion! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:24 PM
697

My favorite part: Once you have shown a strong desire and commitment to act accordingly you will hAvE a ChAnCe to SuggESt changes in MY behaviors. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:20 PM
1

I take small bites of my food. I’ll never forget a covert LVM commenting that I eat like a rat on our first and last date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:28 AM
8

You will never catch me doing that bullshit on GOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:04 AM
6

Wild! Same for me about this ex - never again have I struggled with it. The kitty knows sis 🐈 thanks for sharing. I’m glad I’m not alone in this experience!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:24 PM
3

I wish I could print this out and put it on my wall. Honestly a hilarious and conversation striking piece although dated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:28 PM
41

Back in my worst pickme days pre-FDS, I had a partner with foreskin who was terrible about hygiene. I can’t even begin to describe how aggravated I was every time I would get a yeast infection from him....to which HE would act disgusted about once he found out. I’ll never forget this. Picture it: he had a dirty used prescribed topical ointment, unscrewed and cap lost somewhere into the abyss, sitting on the sink next to his toothbrush and toothpaste. Why did I ever 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:25 PM
3

The jealously is just so blantantly obvious. She seems like an awesome gal and I hope she can sense his jealous evil eye, because I can sense men like this a mile away. They stink like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:29 PM
18

And by banning them we mean wiping their genes out of existence by not giving LVM children 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:53 PM
6

Might I add: Any man with a DUI at all period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:02 AM
38

I can’t even read this. Poor woman allowed herself to get pregnant without even a ring, and let this conniving fuck convince her to split finances this unevenly. Lurkers: How can you call yourself a man and do this shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:14 AM
46

Username checks out Can’t relate but so glad you experience this sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:42 AM
25

Gotta love the intensity of the Old Testament. Is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:59 PM
49

I recall while at 18 years old (in a bar for an underage night special) a 31 year old resident surgeon hit it off with me. He manipulated me into a casual relationship while I thought it was awesome such a “mature man” was impressed by me and wanted to be with me. Now I’m 23. Upon reflection of this since being in this sub for over a year: No. This is sickening. What is wrong with a 31 year old man he cannot find an eligible woman his age?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:47 PM
52

YES. We do hate and won’t tolerate your bullshit THAT BAD. We’re wising up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:12 PM
21

My favorite retort is “I have standards. I don’t just fuck every swinging dick that comes my way.” The latter is usually met with very wide eyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:07 AM
18

We should tell her. I wish someone told my past pickmeisha self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:03 AM
58

WHAT A CONCEPT. Amazing sis 😉❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:01 PM
28

“muh penis”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:01 PM
107

Instagram Island is chock full of pickmeisha garbage culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:30 PM
77

Seriously I don’t understand it. Respect and giving time are the bare minimum and...UNLESS you don’t have standards and don’t value yourself. These are just a FEW bare minimum things you need to demand to even consider being with a man. A HVM should want to support you and make your life easier, not just give you aTtEnTiOn!! For fucks sake. Enjoy that forever girlfriend title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:29 PM
7

and REFUSE to get regular STI checkups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:38 AM
11

They already know, we already know. We must keep our condoms close and our legs even closer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:54 PM
1

“I’m dating to get used. Men love to hear when I have no expectations about their behavior towards me, as a pickmeisha. I don’t know what I want in life.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:50 AM
5

What a queen, wish I had such an upstanding women in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:06 AM
3

I’ve got to say Lilith, the yeeyee truck in the background while reading really made me piss my pants. Extra points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:48 AM
46

I’m willing to die on that hill with you, sister. HoW wILL I MeEt MeN???! By going outside. By putting yourself (carefully) in neew places with covid restrictions lifting. By joining a new club, finding a new hobby, etc. Certainly NOT by advertising yourself to brain washed porn sick Instagram and onlyfans pickmeisha loving losers. But I fucking digress lmao But do you really need to MEET men all the time at the end of it? How would you level up when you’re constantly fighting or being annoyed w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:23 PM
15

Sadly agree. She is sweeping over the vast negatives of OLD which don’t make the possible 1% chance even worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:36 PM
95

I don’t care how many feelings this hurts. You know what hurt me more? The men I met through OLD who lied, cheated, and betrayed me. Future faked. Manipulative and sociopathic/narcissistic to a diagnosable threshold. Lied about STDs. Ghosted me after pretending to be genuine. Acted like Prince Charming, gave me all of their attention only to rip it away after finally getting sex. Men using me unknowingly as the ‘other woman’ while their WIFE still sleeping in his bed was unaware of his cheating.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:21 PM
4

Thanks for all the love! 💖 Now to make these cases more and more popular...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:32 PM
27

OKAY this!! You are not alone in feeling this way. I have definitely noticed this pattern too! God I hate biology sometimes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:42 AM
7

This is HILARIOUS 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:33 AM
10

Every time I read about a guy pushing a hair color on a girl I physically cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:31 AM
79

That LEEP procedure is no joke. It’s almost barbaric, but necessary. I have had a few friends who have had it and it’s not fun! No walk in the park at all. Look at what men continue to do to us without any repercussion...until recently!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:42 PM
195

So “empowering” for women. If you like being ghosted after having sex, lied to about him wanting a ‘relationship’, being ‘the other woman’ because he’s definitely NOT single, bombarded with low effort dates, sent dick pics, and feel a general lowering of your self esteem after dealing with these scrotes. GET. OFF. THE. APPS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:30 AM
22

I’m not crying, my eyes are sweating. I wish I knew what this was like. I owe it to my future daughters, if any, to know this I’ve and support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:42 AM
31

“Looking for a woman to THROW her life away and live MY dream. I will absolutely never cook one dish for you in your entire life. Also I am broke.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:33 AM
89

Love this, so much truth. I fucking cannot with dating apps. Never in my life have I experienced so much ghosting, rejection, liars, and married men. So much heartbreak. I have sworn them off for good. I will meet someone organically or bust. I don’t even consider it a bust - I’ll probably have so much more peace of mind and happiness single anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:28 AM
13

I cannot find the weakness in me to risk having kids with a man. I don’t think any man my age would want to put a baby in me with my standards. Good! If I’m raw about it past fertile age, I would gladly adopt and give another life a chance. My father signed me over before I was a year old, completely absolving himself of all responsibility. I don’t want for that to happen to me someday. It’s not about having a “mini-me”, it’s about creating and nurturing a beautiful life. I digress...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:15 AM
7

Me personally...I don’t waste time with guys who offer dates like this. The handbook has a a few good lines, “Sorry, I’m not accustomed to that type of date.” Or “If it’s too much trouble for you to plan a proper date, perhaps we’re not a good match anyways.” The latter is my favorite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:12 AM
14

Such an important topic. I think women around the world are so socialized to value a relationship with a man ABOVE ALL in their life. Yet, they (men) are hardly told the same. They do not prioritize the way we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:16 PM
3

Panini 🥖 pressed 😂🤣 love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:50 AM
2

I make this known early on. There will be no living together until marriage. I am not fucking sorry - read the statistics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:45 AM
2

He is mad nasty. I cut out of a few parts to protect you ladies’ eyes...but...he insulted my feet and my private parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:56 AM
11

I never understood why men call this place so toxic. This sub has been full of the most kind, supporting, and compassionately honest women I’ve ever had the pleasure to meet online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:25 PM
2

This whole thing was basically paragraphs of him insulting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:17 PM
3

He got a STD checkup after we started dating and was very vocal about it and the results. Also had a few other tests taken I won’t reveal for anonymity but he didn’t understand what they are, so asked me about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:57 AM
6

Hahaha thanks a million sis! Scrote: I-I dumbed myself down for you to make you feel smart 🥺❤️ ...yeah you dumbed yourself alright lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:55 AM
4

God I hope not. If he finds another number to contact me again I will promptly start a no contact order with the courthouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:07 PM
3

He’s Syrian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:49 PM
3

Hahahaha this cracked me up!! I could sense his fuckboy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:02 PM
19

The roundabout logic. I could smell the fuckboy from a mile away...bye bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:56 PM
7

Thank you fellow queen 🥺🥰❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:48 PM
4

He’s from Syria!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:46 PM
38

Which...I’m serious...he has no idea what anything was. I’m happy to at least explain results because I know the gap between medicine and the average public’s understanding of it. But no - here he is weaponizing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:46 PM
5

HAHA I didn’t even see this lmfaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:38 PM
54

Means the world to me to hear this, I have chills. Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:37 PM
55

Thanks queen 👸🏼 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:32 PM
14

If I get another paragraph from another number, I’m going straight for a no contact order. I don’t play these games and I’ve had to do that before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:29 PM
30

Haha, he’s actually Arab (Syrian).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:28 PM
70

Isnt this novel such a wild ride? He’s PSYCHO ❤️ I ended it after I heard the phrase “my exes are crazy” come out of his mouth. He then proceeded to tell me how his ex called the cops on him (but wouldn’t tell me the story) and how he changed three jobs in one year because of his temper. After that little slip up I had to block and delete. He’s 27. I’m 23 with a degree and work at Harvard. We are not the same. 🤡 if another thing comes from him I’ll be straight off to the courthouse for a no-cont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:26 PM
16

😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:21 PM
31

Look like a hero? To who dude? To myself. That’s all that matters. He knows I’m too smart to be manipulated by him lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:20 PM
26

Men tell on themselves so bad 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:20 PM
14

It is SO BAD and I was so forgiving of it as not to be racist. Oh - which he is also totally a racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:19 PM
22

I’ll say it again: imagine being this upset over seeing a woman once a week for three weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:17 PM
59

Such a manipulator! The one time I expose myself just a bit (and I mostly held my composure to great lengths with this guy because of the FDS manual) he uses it like a knife straight the gut. Cruel. Imagine what else he would have done if I had stayed with him longer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:16 PM
13

Yes I definitely did! He is so butthurt! Oh you bought me little bouquet of $5 flowers once ... get the fuck out of here dude lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:14 PM
10

The entire book he wrote for me is basically just paragraphs of him insulting me. However I do want to say English is his second language, he’s been in the US since he was 18...he’s 27 now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:12 PM
5

It’s okay sis! I blocked the other number he’s crazy enough to use to contact me with too LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:11 PM
32

Perfect match my ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:11 PM
20

Imagine being this upset after seeing a girl once a week for three weeks. This guy needs to chill so badly. Yet they call women overdramatic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:10 PM
14

Exactly! Yet I’m the immature one 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:08 PM
119

Showing control freak red flags was a reason I cut things with him. Just also want to add he’s 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:53 PM
138

He’s so upset! In the initial conversation where I ended things: fine. But after I blocked him on everything, he freaked the fuck out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:48 PM
63

This is what I get for being kind enough to be open to men who aren’t as least as educated as me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:47 PM
103

WORD SALÁD lmao I spit my drink! English is his second language. The split personality accusation is wild. Split personality because I decided I didn’t want to be with you? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:42 PM
283

I did tell him plainly! I wished him the best of luck, and promptly blocked him on everything. Also, not that this matters, but I do research at Harvard and still apparently “don’t have anything more than looks to offer”. Hilarious. Yeah, I’m real shallow and empty 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:41 PM
5

Oh sis!!! This happened to me similarly last year. There is a certain type of scrote that plays this game. While I was moving from VA to MA I met a man online who I really “clicked” with. Texting and face time (biggest mistake) for weeks and him agreeing he wanted to pursue things while I moved up during the next month. Ghosted me three times over the span of three months. Ghosted once after two weeks, twice after a month, and six months later came back. I wanted to see what he would do. I found…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:38 PM
6

Men who obsessively play league...PHEW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:31 PM
3

Premature ejaculation? PORN SICK 🤒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:29 PM
2

This has to be satire. I’m unwilling to accept anything else...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:21 PM
21

Hes soooooooo different 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:46 AM
17

I love this idea! Although it’s the complete opposite of my “what the fuck are you looking at, prick?” game, I’m intrigued. This will probably make them even more mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:54 PM
3

It’s like, no pickmeisha, you’re a dumpster fire in DENIAL that you’re burning. Girl stop lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:28 PM
4

My heart is aching for this woman. Somebody recruit her, fast! All of her early 20s gone to this fucking scrote who used her and has the audacity to ask for a pre nup. On another note, I’ll be damned if I let this happen to me. I am so glad I found FDS. I am not build-a-man ™️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:18 PM
5

The fact that people on reddit are trying to make HER feel bad about her ZVM’s anime sex doll! ABSURD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:37 AM
9

I’ve been around FDS so long now that I forgot it was even an option to take back a cheater. I’ve almost completely brainwashed out of consideration. Pray for/support/teach/coach our sisters who clown themselves like this. They deserve so much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:22 AM
2

Not to be rude, but what a freak. That is terrible timing...not that saying something like that your partner would ever be acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:01 PM
2

Coming from someone with a deadbeat father who had 7 children with 4 different women. THIS is more accurate than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:19 PM
31

I was kicked out into the -10 weather and snow at 3 am because I wouldn’t continue to have sex with a guy who forced it. He was a seemingly steady boyfriend who I was growing to be comfortable with sexually so I started oral with each other...he thought it was a signal to slam himself into me. I screamed in pain, punched him, and he literally threw me outside. As I cried walking around the corner and tried to fumble with my phone to find an Uber, a man pulled up to me. Confused and scared at 19 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:19 PM
11

Hey OP. A couple points I want to stress for you alongside of all the good advice you’ve been given. I’m so sorry this happened to you. OLD in general is a cess pool of shitheads who have no intention but to sleep with you. I recommend not using them. To highlight: If a man ever even begins to offer a first date so ridiculous as meeting up with his friends, block him. He is eliminating any romantic intention off the bat and wants to put you in buddy/nonromantic side chick zone. Letting him use y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:21 PM
3

The wave has already hit New England (USA). Boston is profoundly affected...so is Providence, RI. I am not willing to deal with this BS or even immerse myself in it. I have deleted all my OLD apps for the foreseeable future. My exes are blocked. I am going to the gym, hanging with my amazing female friends, my mother, and excelling in my career. That is all ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:50 AM
3

She’s totally mean spirited, and very toxic, but she was honest from the beginning. When her expectations were not met by George she was even more of a bitch (rightly so). Look at her now - hot, heavily into fitness, and probably snatching tons of coins through her Instagram following. She came out on top after all. I think George...went to jail in the meantime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:24 AM
3

I just think it’s so funny because it’s literally a cat. A cat being a typical cat, and a human humanizing them while creating purse art. And somehow....men are upset. Somehow they project female strength onto the cat as negative and something offensive to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:22 AM
7

HahHa! God I wish men stopped using lines from porn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:17 AM
5

Jesus Christ, I feel this vibe so hard. I LOVE you for putting this feeling into words. You are a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:58 AM
6

What a beautiful story. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:54 AM
2

I’ll be a physician, and if I’m ever married I can sure as hell say I will not practice with my husband’s name. I earned that medical degree. Me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:49 AM
3

Somebody recruit her, God, please. We are never bad for having standards and requirements. She deserves to know that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:32 AM
2

Yes, we simply cannot stand a man who doesn’t read the rules. This 👏 is 👏 a 👏 protected 👏 space 👏 for 👏 fucking 👏 women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:12 AM
12

It’s never occurred to most men to empathize with women. For the most part we are solely used up by men like capital, they view us as property. What you mentioned about orgasming: never again will I fake moan for a males ego. If you’re not doing the job, silence and a “😐” are what they will be rewarded with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:11 AM
29

You’ve done a miraculous body-changing thing and brought a life into this world. All of your body parts are Perfect ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:06 AM
18

Exactly! I totally see your point and reasoning. My personal preference is that I dislike being compared To exes period, at least out loud. It’s challenging, because of course we always compare our past experiences just by nature. Bad or good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:15 PM
26

Trust me, we all agree. ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:11 PM
40

I think there is this “lose vs tight” argument they have made up in their heads. Pelvic floor/kegel strength may vary from woman to woman but probably not an alarming amount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:49 PM
79

That is weird. No one wants to be compared to an ex or told that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:48 PM
3

I love this. I have aggressively implemented this with my coworkers and I’ve found out I have some model FDS females amongst me. I’m so very lucky to have very few pickmeishas around at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:57 PM
5

Well stated, OP. I wish I accepted myself at 20 the way you did. Took me a few years (I’m 23) to get there. I have a feeling her PR or whatever media managers that control her life are certainly up to this. The illusion they display of this behavior being liberating for young women is deeply concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:44 PM
12

Just a fucking smidge. The bar is on the goddamn floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:34 AM
160

Imagine, for a moment, being a man. Imagine realizing your entire collective sex are so worthless, useless, and regularly fail to meet our needs that us women would now PREFER to be a single mom than tie ourselves alongside you. Embarrassing honestly. On behalf of all women, get your sh*t together, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:41 PM
122

My favorite plot twist honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:39 PM
14

I’ll never forget at 13-14 years old when a man stuck his flip phone up my skirt at the grocery store to take pics. When men would lick their lips at me at the gas station. Always accompanied by my mother or stepfather flipping shit thank goodness - but the memory still sticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:36 PM
10

I have totally experienced this. What is the deal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:41 PM
8

Oh my god, all of the fuckery summed into one picture. Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:21 AM
14

The slide where she is drawing late at night hit me so hard ❤️ that was me. “How will you know how relationships work?” As if men are the only indicator of how a relationship works - not to mention the beauty of relationships with female friends. This post is the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:12 AM
2

I know this really good card game! It’s called Blocc’d. My favorite 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:08 PM
5

I am amazing at this sub achieving 150k. I joined a little over a year ago and this place has changed my life. I am certain it has positively affected so many others ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:02 PM
7

Girl..I just..I am sad for her. She is worth it and it is not too much to ask. Rule 273.) no broke dusties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:41 PM
2

What a terrible day to have eyes. I am so disgusted to read this and also so saddened...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:27 PM
1

Eating holidays with strange families and new faces - this is something I can relate to. Mom was a serial monogamist and we had no extended family, so, whatever flavor of boyfriend she was feeling at the time was also the flavor of the turkey at whatever holiday you can name. So strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:22 PM
17

Proceed with caution. Be very very very aware. Watch how he acts when you begin to say “no” and also draw your boundaries. Time will tell. I would advise not to have sex yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:03 PM
5

Being disgusted about our bodily functions is unbelievably immature. The “ew gross” reaction is beyond insulting. To be perfectly clear, men afraid of this are usually LVM. When it comes to being afraid of bodily fluid transmittable diseases - this is something I can understand completely. As someone in healthcare/science research I get it. However this is never the excuse or the fear they use! They never come at it at this angle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:55 PM
5

Men hate us so much we cannot even have a protected space to reveal their fuckery. It’s unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:30 PM
11

Please don’t pursue anything with this man! His fears are about being “old” more than the financial readiness and responsibility? What a joke. You know what you want and I’m actually your age and on the same boat as you when it comes to needing: financial safety and marriage before kids. This guy will never propose or offer you a secure high value life I can almost promise you that. Run sis! 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:26 PM
10

Especially in medicine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:46 AM
3

Handbook material, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:39 AM
9

I just wanted to share that Love Death & Robots (Netflix) released a trailer for the second season and it loOks SO good, highly recommend to watch the 1st season. I love some of the feminist undertones in the episodes from the first season. Especially “Good Hunting”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:34 AM
8

‼️‼️‼️ so have i! I am still so angry I let that happen to me - why didn’t I slow him down and tell him to pay the fuck attention to me? We know why. He had no intention to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:30 AM
4

You are so right to realize the giant step you have made in the way of Queendom. I’m so proud of you, and, thank you so much for sharing. The right man may not yet to come into our lives, but FDS works for WOMEN: our boundaries, our self worth, our success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:20 AM
7

Welcome sis! It’s so hilarious - I also found this sub on a post bashing women and this sub little (well, huge) internet gem has changed my life. I am a 180 of the woman I was a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:39 PM
11

THIS IS NOT A DRILL 🚨🚨🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:28 AM
54

Men’s opinion and interpretation has literally been the most common and the only valued opinion for centuries. Until recently...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:18 PM
1

If any of these apply to you I promise you AINT a KiNg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:41 AM
14

LMAO a newbie makes this mistake enough times and she finally starts leveling up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:50 AM
8

Thank you so much for taking the time and to comment. ❤️ You know - the reason I’m so annoyed with myself is because I do have a very fulfilling life. I have close friends, parties, a great job, I work out, I’m investing, and I am blessed to have some family. I take care of my hair, buy my own flowers, get my nails done. I’m leveling up especially since I started using this sub over a year ago! You are right - you and I know that I deserve to be loved wholly. It’s especially frustrating that I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:03 PM
8

I think I need some help to get over the fuckboy who showed up three separate times & different ways months later even after I blocked him on everything. I just need tips on how to get him out of my head. I’m consumed with imagining hurting him after I found his girlfriend on social media and exposed him. I’m just so very angry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:07 AM
16

Thank you for sharing this, OP. I commend your strength in realizing the abuse and making a plan for a better life. Many women cannot summon that strength and courage quite yet and I think this is a tremendously important post - for them, for you, for all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:15 AM
10

Living together? With her son? In six months? Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:53 PM
3

You 👏 Are 👏 THE 👏 biggest 👏 asshole 👏!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:19 AM
2

I cannot believe this post is considered the top cOnTrOvErSiAl posts. You men need to get a therapist and society needs to allow men to be emotional and support each other. I am sure every woman has or will experience this. I’m not kidding, I will stop a man mid speech about his childhood issues on our first date. “I’m sorry, but this issue you’re unloading on me is quite private/personal and really making me uncomfortable. Perhaps you should talk to a trusted person about this.” Draw your godda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:13 AM
8

I am right there with you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:28 PM
3

She’s potentially very sick because of this fucking scrote - and it seems like she also might have other health problems already on top of this. I cannot imagine having a partner who is ill and sabotaging you like this, putting them at risk for worse. I’m shaken. I wish she was strong enough not ONLY just to fucking drop him but sue him to the fullest extent she could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:11 PM
71

Men like him are likely in The Bad Place ™️ after death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:48 PM
1

The type of 50/50 we were looking for. (It’s still not, I still have to push the fucker out of me apparently.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:41 PM
32

This is so spot on. I almost never find men that are my looksmatch on OLD. Almost all the ones I am initially physically attracted to never reply or they ghost after standards are set and it’s so frustrating. Yet, even though I filter out people above ~35, bald father’s of four married 3x can somehow still find me. I’m fucking over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:39 PM
10

We’ve all been there sis, do not beat yourself up. After the many long dry nights of trekking through consistent LVM/NVM, sometimes even minor positive attention gets to our head or we read into it too much. That’s why it’s so important to be apart of an active community of women like this. ❤️ remind yourself you deserve more extreme consistent love before you give yourself away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:37 AM
21

I just want to say - the greatest strategy/lesson I recently learned was to absolutely not write clapbacks for funsies and post them here. I recently wrote a post about a “status report” of NVM from OLD but I would say that’s different - I just blocked them all. After hearing that writing paragraphs and clapbacks literally teaches men how to be more manipulative with the next woman, I have to fucking pass for my poor sisters that will come into contact with him next. Blocking and removing LVM is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:31 AM
39

Handbook material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:10 AM
3

The Handbook is the Key 🔑❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:48 AM
36

From the handbook: I like to say “if it’s too much trouble for you the plan a proper date I suppose I’m done talking with you.” Or “Sorry, I’m not really accustomed to that kind of date!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:55 PM
334

Shit makes me sick to my stomach. You want me to cook for you? That would require an upgrade to the standard Wifey ™️ package which requires at least a $5k ring. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:00 AM
41

Happy cake day sweets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:04 AM
108

And they say we’re demanding...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:03 AM
3

Can’t believe this is listed as a controversial post. It’s so true 🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:15 AM
2

I’m so sorry. You deserve to be loved, cherished, and desired by one man truly. All the best xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:45 AM
3

I’m so in need of one now! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:44 AM
3

This is a code I live and die by ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:44 AM
20

Exactly why I’m on this sub ❤️ we’ve got to look out for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:21 PM
15

That is the worst. Since joining this sub I promised myself I will never be “friends” with a man I’m sexually involved with. I sincerely hope she realizes her worth and value. I would never wish being the “other” woman on anyone, or being the main woman cheated on. There should be only one woman. Why be with her if you need to seek out a woman like me? Some scrotes need to have their cake and eat it to - and this NVM isn’t even as educated as us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:19 PM
35

You did the right thing too. It take a lot of bravery to blow up a scrote’s spot and hurt another woman with truth. It’s for the better every time. She deserves better and these NVM are making beautiful and talented women look STUPID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:55 PM
22

I will never fear it. Truth above all. ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:52 PM
80

Thank you! ❤️ women supporting women. Unfortunately, as she was reading it she blocked me before I could give her everything (all the photos). Then, 20 minutes later, he finally blocked me. Obviously I was right. He recently ghosted me a week ago (as I expected) and didn’t remove me from social media. So, after finding his girlfriend, I had a week to respectfully snoop and compile a report for her. Some women (especially blindsided pickmeishas) don’t take that shit well. She might not even belie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:49 PM
3

So proud of you sis. Boston is so expensive, I recently just got my first dream job there. Can’t wait to move up in career and life so I can be in a beautiful home closer to the city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:46 AM
6

I’ve never had this much second hand embarrassment in a while...girl, what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:03 PM
7

Loved this so much. I especially hold “protect your womb like it’s the last thing you do” to heart. Thanks for your time ladies can’t wait to listen to more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:46 PM
4

That was certainly no apology at all! Be creepy, get fucked dude! Leave us women alone, we want medical treatment not a professional to stalk us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:11 PM
43

This makes me so happy to hear, queen. Keep leveling up my heart is so full hearing this! Wow!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:59 PM
3

This is exactly how it’s meant to be. Serial monogamy especially for a woman is just heartbreak after heartbreak. At 22 years old it took me some time to realize this but after implementing it for a year, now at 23, I feel so much better. Men do not automatically deserve to be called my boyfriend just because I’m seeing them. They especially do not automatically deserve to be cooked, cleaned, or looked after for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:27 PM
1

No doubt it absolutely is, I should have reported them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:19 PM
31

Trust me sis, done and done but I had to share the hilarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:55 AM
82

The way he just half-ass faked being legitimate to barely cover his true intentions...it’s sending me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:55 AM
74

The way they go from 0-100 is horrifying. They’re so bad at covering up what they actually want. Also the WTF at the end is sending me, like I’m the weird and awkward one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:54 AM
16

My pleasure to serve them up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:52 AM
35

I get asked a lot of “give us a review”! bs and I’m almost tempted to write about how nasty the men are. But you know what, a high value woman has much better things to do 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:51 AM
30

Two different guys! The one who insulted me asked me for casual sex over text, which I just blocked immediately after. He then angrily texted me over POF, which I forgot to block him on before he could, because I could literally care less about him. Seriously. Social skills, anyone???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:50 AM
65

Me too!! I’m screaming laughing about how he tried to make me look like the awkward one. No one wants to be talked to like that you sick fuck, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:48 AM
34

Asks me out on a date then decided to talk to me like his prostitute. I’m lost, but not that lost. Blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:47 AM
44

Precisely! I thought it was hilarious how he was so adamant about letting me know I’m too good for a one night stand yet letting me know exactly how he would treat me. Also, I’m fairly certain this guy has no idea how to make a woman cum...those who do well absolutely do not brag like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:46 AM
198

LMAO. Do YoU hAvE a ViRgIn BoOtY??? you pornsick fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:25 AM
62

Wow...! How...meaningless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:24 AM
21

See, I didn’t know that about POF. I might give it a try...after I mentally recover from pressing the block button 100 times. Edit: I take that back. I will never get tired of blocking scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:18 AM
91

This is so accurate. I would say 9/10 this is exactly it. And what is up with wanting my snapchat or WhatsApp or Instagram?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:14 AM
3

Don't worry sis, DUMPED. Thank you for getting back to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:35 AM
3

I think society inflicts a lot of self-loathing tendencies with women - our body, our sex life, our career decisions. Unfortunately, it makes sense that it would cross that barrier and spread to other things, like hating the idea of having female child when you hate being a woman yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:06 PM
40

That is absolutely so sickening. I am in horror at the ways women of color are assumed to act sexually because of a stereotype. A terrible time was definitely avoided on your end!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:04 PM
156

I am screaming laughing at this!!! Not only are they so depraved, but they can't even keep it to themselves for TWO DAYS about how little they actually give a fuck about you as a person and just want to use you as a sex toy. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:18 AM
12

Can’t wait to listen to this queen shit on my way to work. CANNOT WAIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:59 AM
7

Sad to say I'm not surprised about Vice. Now, we definitely have to be on a higher alert more than ever with infiltrators looking to undermine/ban us. Never forget what The Wall Street Journal wrote about us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:31 AM
6

I love when men talk about us as a commodity, or like some sort of car upgrade. What the actual fuck, shame on him for using her and wasting her time like this. May the woman he want in life ignore him forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:03 AM
16

This just...it just makes me not want to have kids at all. This is the potential reality if I do. I’m horrified, sickened, and sad that this woman lost her entire life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:44 AM
32

Wish I had this at 19. I wish all women had this post before they became sexually active.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:18 PM
2

Personally one of my favorite movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:37 AM
5

I am sent to heaven with the amount of roast this comment has in it, LMFAO nothing but the truth sis!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:33 AM
9

I tried to cut it out best I could, but I had to give some reference about how disgusting this guy is 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:31 PM
3

Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:31 PM
10

No ™️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:23 PM
16

All the way to his balls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:36 PM
133

THAT is hilarious. Wasting their time and additionally adding insecurity? It’s almost as if they finally might understand what women go through!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:29 AM
144

The “are you serious” fucking sent me. Knew we had him hooked, ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:52 AM
5

God (actually, FDS) please save her. The fact she thinks that she is lazy? Actually having a discussion about being lazy to a literal potato? What precisely does she love about him? I am sad, and wonder who conditioned and socialized her to surround herself around men with such low value. Was one child not enough to show you the pain and struggle of creating a life with a deadbeat? I don’t understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:37 PM
1

Deleted - forgot to blur the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:32 PM
14

That role playing bullshit skeeves me out. This is definitely a guy who’s only interactions with women are made up porn scenes. What a sick fuck! On top of that - the instant feminist insult. Ugh, the scrotation reports never fail to bewilder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:29 PM
3

I hope you’ll consider to go fuck yourself 🤗 you cheap schmuck. Please let this be satire...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:46 PM
1

Unrelated but I love your wooden floors. I just find it disgusting society socializes men to think this behavior is okay. Obviously he has some problems. I’m sorry that this neighbor weirdness is ruining your beautiful safe space!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:41 PM
13

I saw right through that bullshit too. Good catch Phoenix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:46 AM
6

I do love the rare moments when men can be romantic and emotional...without being begged for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:41 AM
1

How to fight the voices in your head? With proper diagnoses and medication, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:38 AM
20

I’ll never understand (well how can we understand a pornrotted brain) why men ever think it’s appropriate to ask ANYONE, certainly not a woman they value to be serious with, about their recent private sexual history. The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:29 PM
2

That’s awesome! I’m a big fan of epic poems and thats a stellar one. Keep up the awesome work 💓 beowulf is a hard read but is my personal fav.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:27 PM
5

His chicken arms, I am DECEASED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:19 AM
9

I smell...DC or Virginia Beach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:18 AM
3

Fuckin spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:17 AM
9

Boston - Lots of male healthcare workers who are rotating lots of women far younger than them and taking them on walk dates regularly. Also, they have no idea how to touch a clitoris but got an A in anatomy? - Lots of young college bros in one of our prestigious uni's who will act like they want something serious, and then suddenly ghost you. Rotating lots of women. Try to get you with a coffee date. Future faking is a big one here, folks. - Blue collar boys with mommy issues and very bad drinki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:14 AM
2

I put on my MAKEUPEE for TWO HOURS-EEE and he doesn't NOTICE-EEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:08 AM
1

Forty. Two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:07 AM
13

So proud of you queen! Tell us more about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:49 AM
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Any question about your sexual history or ESPECIALLY a number of sexual partners. That is absolutely none of their business, and if you tell them they will be arbitrarily judging your 'worth' as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:42 AM
20

This is nightmare fuel. This, right here, is again reminding me to vet like there's no tomorrow and to kick 'em to the curb if there's no intention of marriage after a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:36 AM
15

You know, I also never understood the logic of working backwards in hope of getting a ring and a house. Hell, I won't even move in with a HVM until there is at the very least a ring on my finger, and in all honestly, I'd prefer to be married. I wish your friend the best...have your shoulder ready for her to cry on if this 24 year old dusty is as dusty as you paint him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:34 AM
2

I fear quarantine has given unemployed scrotes far too much time on their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:30 AM
32

So proud of you. You are so valuable, and I hope that your next step is removing him from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:28 AM
10

This honestly should be added to the handbook. I love this. Such great examples of high, low, and no value traits. Great work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:26 AM
6

Unrelated, but might I recommend the facial moisturizer by Lush called Imperialis. Life changing, at least for me. A queen I look up to recommended it to me, smells like Lavender. ​ Never understood why men aren't taught to take care of their skin. They also age, usually worse, than we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:20 AM
37

Oh...sis. There is no way that was the only place open. I am so sorry he wasted your time like that. Don't let that happen again, queen. Don't ever agree to a Burger King date ever again ESPECIALLY AS A FIRST DATE for the rest of your life, you hear? Chin up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:13 AM
24

Brilliant!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:11 AM
10

I might actually walk up and leave as he's halfway through this minilogue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:09 AM
3

Ah, the poster child of a NVM. Big fucking Ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:57 AM
17

Crazy what the porn industry has them believing is 'au naturel'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:51 AM
4

We love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:45 PM
2

thank you so much for this! I so badly want to learn more about this as much as I can. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:05 AM
1

No, fuck yourself ((blocked and deleted)). I love when they word things like this to seem benign. A snake in sheep’s clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:39 PM
8

After he broke his leg a few years ago (Marilyn Manson) in his 50s, he stated in an interview finally ready to “settle down and have kids”. Sickens me. The age gap, the abuse, the horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:45 PM
29

Some guy? *overweight, neck bearded, porn addicted, ED suffering, palate of a 5 year old eating chicken nuggets every day, no career, no desire to move out from moms basement, unable to support or care for a women to successfully create a family, very likely sexist and red pilled, guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:23 PM
4

THANK GOD 💕✨🎊❣️ what a blessing for all of those things. Too excited. Oh, and don’t forget my girl friends who would never hurt me like a man would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:23 PM
3

Imagine being so dramatic you take things on on a Stranger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:20 PM
3

Just sharing my experience: One of the most low value men I’ve ever met in my life flipped houses for a living and tried to rape me on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:35 AM
8

And Xenia’a day just passed.... 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:44 AM
45

He has been used before? Welcome to the club! You’re not woke by ‘vetting’ before you take out to dinner - it just means you can barely afford me or anything I desire! You have no business dating 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:44 AM
1

I’m so lucky I’m seeing someone who asked me to be exclusive after ~3 weeks or so. So attractive when a guy knows what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:38 AM
1

Those joker type tongue movements, dude looks like he has tardive dyskinesia and it’s neither funny nor attractive regarding subject matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:33 PM
2

Anemic milk toast, I’m fucking weeping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:31 PM
25

I think it’s hilarious how they’re reporting us. For what? Telling them that their disgustingly cruel behavior isn’t going to fly anymore! Keep it coming boys!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:33 AM
36

In a pandemic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:06 AM
13

I’m SICK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:27 AM
5

The queen energy is level 100 here 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:22 AM
2

So beautiful i need more pics 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:39 PM
12

Yeah! Far more mature. Currently dating and vetting a 25 year old from overseas who has a masters and is pursuing more school while making 100k - he is the most mature and decisive man I’ve ever met compared to the horrific average US population of men 23-30 I’ve dated. He knew exactly what he wanted (ie, me) and never even suggested causal. Not all men from overseas are like this, some are as bad to be honest, but ones who come from great struggle seem to be less on the “go with the flow” bull …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:50 AM
3

Yes. We love ourselves more than your lame, crummy, existence and idea of a relationship where a woman completely caters to you. Beat it. Now, more than ever, women realize how little we actually need men. You all better be high value sent from the heavens that adds to our life in every way. And even if so - we will still always love ourselves more than YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:30 PM
40

“I’m deliberately ignoring your wants and needs and still tryna lay pipe.” 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:50 AM
3

And those nails sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:41 AM
3

I’m rolling! His legacy? Trying for a BOY? How about just a healthy fucking baby you can afford. Those videos where men cry at gender reveals because they’re not men are insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:10 PM
10

So proud of you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:21 AM
44

The way they blamed the women on the sex of the children is so absolutely hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:41 AM
17

“Nogoodnik” bwahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:40 AM
1

He’s still GARBAGE through and through. That dad is special, however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:17 AM
8

Thank 👏 you 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:16 AM
13

She’s the queen of clap backs I’m convinced!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:15 AM
41

Christ. Sounds a lot like my father who had seven children (one on the way as we speak) with four different women and has abandoned us all save for the last two. What legacy do you really create when you leave beautiful children wondering why they weren’t good enough to stick around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:14 AM
24

MuH $0.00 in SaViNgS and nO 401k!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:20 AM
16

Seriously though...the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:20 AM
26

Agreed. That thinking is truly “bass ackwards”. For what reason would your wife not need assets after she donated her youth, life, body, and wellbeing to make your children? Sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:20 AM
50

That bloodline ends with his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:17 AM
44

So true sis. One of the many reasons I love FDS because it supports the stopping of NVM gene expression. In truth; who we decide to have children with might be one (not all) of the most important things we contribute to the future of our species. The future for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:16 AM
46

Just reminds me of how helpless women really were that they actually married his ass again and again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:14 AM
115

Literally nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:13 AM
5

I think it’s because women are intensely socialized from day 1 to believe that their wedding day is the mOsT iMpOrTaNt DaY of their lives, right next to the day they procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:57 AM
13

Hi love. If you miss being single - you ought to be single. If this man isn’t adding to your life and is subsequently draining you, I’d call it quits. No need for you to feel this way now and certainly not in the future. No man is worth losing sleep over and misplacing your goals for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:50 AM
58

You know what sickens me the most? The fact that she values some pornsick scrote (unfortunately her husband’s) approval so much that she has lost herself. That she has become depressed from believing there is something wrong with her. When, it is entirely, abso-fucking-lutely, his problem. Anyways, all of our vaginas are beautiful as they have the power to create life. Thank you for coming to my TED talk chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:21 AM
5

HAHA I’ve ended dates over that! Conversation monopolizing is 🚨🚨🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:13 AM
5

Every day!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:08 PM
28

FDS is the reason I’m dating men who are thoughtful and actually plan dates rather than couch dwelling ex frat boys who think “come thru to my place” is acceptable. I can’t believe I once dated a guy with no car and a DUI who eventually cheated on me...for six months. What had society done to me? Conditioned me to think all of that is normal. FDS should be screaming from the top of all social media platforms to help our fellow women. We’re doing an amazing job so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:00 AM
67

Also a Russian American here. The old school ways die hard, and not one phone call passes without baba asking me if I’m married yet. I’m 23. She’s 83 years old, bless her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:56 AM
2

So proud of you dear ❤️ warms my heart to see a sister being loved the right way. All the best to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:41 AM
1

Potentially! Wild they went back in to see your posts and determine whether or not your idealogy is correct for the sun. Honestly though - we do that here, so, they can protect whatever bullshit they want to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:50 PM
1

Of course dear. I completely understand where you’re coming from. We have an age gap as well I’m only 23 - so you’ve seen years more of your friends and others get hurt from objectifying themselves like that. I can’t believe you’ve gotten banned from breaking mom?? For what 😣 I see plenty of women trash others because they’re not suffering as much as a wife to a level that’s not “expected”. Or complaining when they are being treated like shit by their awful husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:24 PM
4

I know. Let’s try hard not to bring other women down for their looks - I only feel sad for her. Sad she’s among those who have been brain washed to believe their entire existence is to make sure men aren’t inconvenienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:24 PM
5

I give it by 25 if she finds this sub 🔆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:24 PM
6

Yes. I think it’s important to acknowledge that so many young women are very brainwashed by society that they need to be as accommodating and non demanding as they can to men for “equal rights”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:09 PM
18

Not a single fucking one!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:14 PM
28

This is so true. The entire western female population doesn’t have to subscribe to this tomfoolery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:14 PM
8

He only put that he’s tall and fit probably just so he would be taken “more seriously”. It’s likely all lies anyways and the fact he considers sex being similar to paying for food/restaurant is hilarious. It’s not the right comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:30 PM
42

Yes! They try to blame it on that. “And that’s on insecurity!!!!” But are they thinking of their man liking other mutual friends pictures....or following hundreds of models with only fans or porn stars? Do they group that behavior the same? Because it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:28 PM
8

“I’ll take one waifu, please.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:42 AM
3

You are correct. Loads of women were fawning over him and “I’d smash that” comments were everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:53 AM
3

I’m living for it. Some very much needed positive change in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:18 AM
2

She’s probably a FDSer in my mind - but she’s got to learn to never accept house dates!! 😜 she learned the hard way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:27 PM
6

This!!! I’d really like to see Gordon Ramsay’s reaction honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:02 PM
6

I’m trying not to be a complete Asshole by attacking his vernacular but dayum is it difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:57 PM
5

I think it’s definitely more of a presentation problem rather than the type of food problem! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:55 PM
20

So glad to bring this back for you!!! Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:48 AM
39

Can confirm I’d rather see a pot of noodles than an ice cream bucket of noodles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:25 AM
36

LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:05 AM
44

I’m weeping STOP lmaoooo the truth is agonizing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:05 AM
33

I can’t imagine the desire to be this low level. Then again I’m not a man. I grew up impoverished but this is just clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:49 AM
16

I have second hand embarrassment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:45 AM
41

I was just thinking that must be like 3 boxes of spaghetti.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:05 AM
30

Ding ding ding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:04 AM
58

The one plate he had got picked for the worst job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:04 AM
15

It is and I’m ROLLING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:59 AM
73

I can’t. I imaging your mother lying in a hospital bed with a giant metal pot on her, trying to eat. How unfortunate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:56 AM
70

Not to be classist, but who doesn’t have plates? Does this guy really think they’ll be lady and tramping it? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:55 AM
3

Men who literally think consuming and cleaning the plate is impressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:53 AM
14

HA oh my God I’m rolling! I had almost forgotten that scene. You know, when I was a little girl I used to get fussy about my peas mixing in my mashed potatoes. My mum would say, exasperated, “Well it’s all going to the same damn party isn’t it??” I think this guy took it a BIT too literally 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:52 AM
32

Wait - you’re telling me you don’t eat sodium overloaded shit out of a used ice cream bucket??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:46 AM
40

I’d be so sick...where are the vegetables??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:41 AM
162

I f*ckin love when you comment on my posts. But the WINGS on the used newspaper 🥱🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:40 AM
102

I get nauseated if I look at the spaghetti bucket too long!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:38 AM
7

This is hilarious, didn’t we just have a poll vote that showed most of the women on here are in our 20s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:47 AM
1

Sometimes I have to remind myself of the important things! Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:31 AM
0

I’m Russian orthodox! He is Coptic tho, there are some differences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:29 AM
2

I peed my pants reading this!! Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:27 AM
6

I dumped that guy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:50 PM
18

Thank you. It is certainly not a high expectation to ask receive a message in the morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:46 PM
20

Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:41 PM
1

“Invasive” what a clown! He should really have an NP or an OP swab done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:37 PM
2

​ Gosh thank you so so much for the support. I'm doing my best to self improve constantly and it definitely proves to be a challenge - but worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:34 AM
1

Thank you so much for commenting! Cool to meet some else on this sub with same career aspirations. Will do xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:32 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/wiki/books Thank you so much for these awesome links! I appreciate the advice very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:31 AM
1

I've taken a look at these subreddits since you've messaged me! Holy shit....the descriptions are uncanny. I'm shaken to be honest. I think it's a good strategy. I could always lie to her to protect myself (ugh). You know, if I was underage she'd act like that. She absolutely would. But I think at this point she'll be glad to remove me from her life PERIOD so she can run away with her boyfriend of one month. Thank you so much for taking the time to write to me ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:28 AM
1

Thank you so very much! ♡ I have to settle boundaries once and for all. It is very clear that my mother has no intention of caring for anyone but herself in the long term. At the end of this, I may visit her during a holiday or two during the year. It was better when I only saw her once every year or two years. She doesn't have the capacity to be a loving mother unfortuantely. This doesn't mean I have to suffer any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:24 AM
1

Thank you so much for your advice. ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:37 AM
1

Means the world to me to hear that. Thank you so much. xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:35 AM
8

ce faci! I made a few romanian friends in university. I have heard some stories!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:58 AM
5

Wow - where are you from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:37 AM
8

So much so... thank you so much for being compassionate. Yes - you've put it perfectly into words. I'll start doing my best to find ways out if everything gets worse. I've never broken a lease before and I'm really concerned about it. I live in a house with two awesome landlords who are great people but I'm struggling breaking it to them about how much of a POS my mom decided to be with her actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:14 AM
17

We are renting two floors in a nice house and the landlord and her husband are superb. They're really good people. I'd definitely contact them if shit hits the fan. Not a problem for me at all. I regularly worked 2-3 jobs during university. I can definitely make this work. I hear you. From your gathering based on the information above, you are right. Another user commented about finding roomates from a local church/parish, or finding some students/med students nearby. If my mom does decide to pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:00 AM
10

Thank you so much, it warms my heart to hear that. I don't hear it ever. Thank you so much for caring to reply. I just wanted to help her get out of her toxic situation I unknowingly walked into. Indeed it was bad. I feel - used, actually. Used as a space between the next man she'll eat alive. You're right, though, I cannot save her. I think it's a great idea. There is a church nearby me - a few churches and I've felt a calling to come back closer to God anyways. I don't feel strong, just so so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:53 AM
24

I really don’t. I’m new to this area. I’d have to shop around for people and advertise I’m looking for a new roommate. Do you think I should start doing that now? Should I contact my landlords about my mother being a flake?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:15 AM
3

Many women. There are millions of us who suffered from generational internalized misogyny. No bullshit, but we must have some compassion and show them the light (if often hurts and is first met with denial), true love for yourself teaches us this. It can take a while to build after so much trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:04 PM
31

Ahhhh!!! I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:04 AM
1

She values herself so little, and then acts so tough and hard by insulting the people who bring up how dangerous she’s acting. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:03 AM
2

The entitlement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:00 AM
2

ROBBED?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:15 AM
1

Porco Rosso sends a huge message about misogyny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:15 AM
27

My mom has a class A CDL, she is in now in upper management for drivers. She is currently in a lawsuit with the human rights council for horrific sexual harassment that happened to her in her male dominated workforce. They’re trying so hard to sound not sexist - but in they don’t know how awful they look in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:13 AM
19

I know so many beautiful, intelligent, and incredible woman. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:10 AM
2

BWW??? Cheap NVM can get fucked. God where is this girl so we can help her???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:02 AM
1

🚨 age gap 🚨 You don’t see it as a big deal because your entire worth was never based on some idiotic sexual construct. you ARE the asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:58 AM
96

Put it more diplomatically. Go fuck yourself. When a guy accidentally goes for the wrong hole (my ass), slaps me, or chokes me without consent maybe HE could have been more diplomatic about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:54 AM
2

I like him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:07 AM
10

Melt downs about what exactly? That it wasn’t attention going to him? LMAO Convince him to buy his I’ll mother flowers. I’m shaken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:10 AM
21

Wow. It takes one to know one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:22 PM
17

Handled so well! Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:23 AM
7

This is a fucking nightmare. Somebody save this woman, someone open her eyes. I’m levitating with anger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:19 AM
3

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:35 AM
10

I’ll never forgot the lucid moment I realized that the 30 year old chasing after me at 17 was a predator. Whe he came back around at 19, when he was 32-33, it was just as disgusting. I am still working on forgiving myself for thinking it was okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:29 AM
1

I can’t believe I’m hearing this. I’m not very savvy about med school in the UK, but I know that an ophthalmologist in the US for their years of surgical training (literally only on the eye) in residency and fellowship is contrasted to...oh, a few weeks of an obgyn rotation in med school. That’s it. Wow. And he actually had to examine you there - wild. No female doctors in the hospital? Almost can guarantee that was a fib. I’m so sorry 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:22 AM
9

Somehow indeed. The only thing I’d fear is that there are seriously so many sickening freaks that would gather on that island they’d eventually rise up and form a coup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:18 AM
8

You’re kidding me. Stay at home dads? I’ve got to research this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:16 AM
19

Yes! How wild is it...that this desensitization to disgusting porn is damaging them. What a case. How incredible the consequence is. Don’t they see that they look like fools?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:16 AM
9

Really! That’s wild! So true. So many people now have platforms to spew horrific shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:14 AM
57

Again proving the fact men mostly treat us kindly because they want to fuck us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:13 AM
3

An ophthalmologist had to examine you in that way? I’m steaming. I’m so sorry to hear about your traumatic experiences with healthcare. What country is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:12 AM
68

I cannot believe there are close to 550,000 people on that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:18 PM
31

Great question honestly, it’s beyond me but apparently women can’t enjoy it without being objectified horrifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:17 PM
39

I just want to show to all their family particularly mothers, bosses, and wives, and children, the things they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:17 PM
63

It’s certainly mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:16 PM
35

I find it so interesting I have 0 attraction to most American males as well. Wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:36 AM
9

Thank you so much, will do for all of us. Much love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:52 AM
17

Big hugs sister. It must be nice indeed. We are together in solidarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:45 AM
1

I got to the second paragraph and I was steaming. Scratch that, on fire. I wish I could take this women away from it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:43 AM
18

Really pleased to see all the discourse this is bringing. Thank you everyone for sharing your stories and further bringing to light how it truly wasn’t that long ago we were treated like animals. And...still are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:20 AM
10

He massaged your head?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:14 AM
10

I’ve read about this history!! I would love to watch something about it. Thank u!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:13 AM
12

I second that. Please share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:47 PM
20

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:05 PM
41

Thank you will look it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:04 PM
35

Can confirm some of the strangest men I’ve ever met in my life were premeds. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:04 PM
26

As someone who is currently in the application cycle for medical school I absolutely see your point. Truly never thought of this before. I just never pondered that banning men after a % certain cap admission might be a consideration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:03 PM
43

This is quite an intense view but I have no complaints. My time in the ER we always made sure one-two nurses were present in the room while male doctors did specific exams. Made sure a woman was present almost always anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:07 PM
33

I remember seeing this! It was a weight loss/plastic surgery case. Terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:06 PM
3

No. We not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:36 PM
57

Fucking sad so many women accept this as a proper relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:15 PM
36

My mother used to tell me, I vividly recall, around 9 years old about how dirty men would pick me up off the streets and try to rape me. Additionally, how to not talk to strangers and look both ways before I crossed the street. At 13 years old my step father fought off a man trying to take pictures up my skirt in a grocery store. At 15 years old, my mother used to make me delete the profile pictures I posted on Facebook she thought were “too beautiful” (of just my FACE) because she thought it wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:04 PM
14

And next she gotta file for that divorce, sis 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:37 PM
34

Not to mention: die. We can die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:46 AM
74

This is hilarious, they really do think we’re idiots. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:10 AM
14

Holy shit! I did not know this - I’m sickened!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:32 AM
4

It’s totally anxiety inducing and that’s a perfectly normal response to it. To this your feelings are completely valid. A little underlying anger - talk about loads. We have to educate each other about the dangers of this would not just so that we don’t become a “pickmeisha”, but that so men don’t literally ruin our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:37 PM
36

I’m sorry, I almost feel a little responsible for making you feel that way because I posted it. I guess, in truth, I posted this as another beware just to be reminded of the cruel reality. There are very dark things in this world and we live in unprecedented times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:08 AM
3

Ugh, just stop teddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:34 AM
6

Shoulda left that one in the drafts, buddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:35 AM
12

The scrotes at my work were talking about the xbox prerelease being $700. Only a 🤡 would spend that much money on a system for a boyfriend only for him to pay less attention to her. Get real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:19 AM
3

No ma’am. Side note: she has really beautiful fingers. They deserve an equally beautiful ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:17 AM
7

I don’t know where or why or how the fuck you start with communicating to your partner about general hygiene. Get the FUCK out of here you disgusting scrote. Why scrotes like this are getting women to this day is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:08 AM
3

“Like your an old woman or something.” Shoot me. This is all porn’s fault!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:57 PM
2

Engage me up or gtfo 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:48 AM
3

I’m so tired of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:45 AM
3

Whoah. My heart aches for you dear. I am so so sorry to hear that you were treated like that - so sexually traumatizing for sure. Glad he’s out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:11 AM
5

“I’m gonna lose my erection???” Like that’s your fault?? LOL SIS I’m so sorry you went through that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:16 PM
6

They do! They should be embarrassed 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:35 PM
12

I’m so lucky that I’m seeing a guy who is enthusiastic about lube and foreplay and toys. The mental block men have about adding aNyThInG but their god given penis to sex is so juvenile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:33 PM
6

Okay, I’ve totally been there as well! Good for you sister ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:32 PM
39

Finger fail, and selfish asshole. I’ve been there sister. You know the signs. Learn from this and I wish you the best and the most pleasing man come into your life. If not, love yourself. And I love you! 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:39 AM
64

“No I forgot” what a mess! I’m so glad you found FDS sister! You deserve to be pleased and loved every night!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:34 AM
48

Ouch! What a weird concept! Damn scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:30 AM
3

NEVAAAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:15 AM
72

They never could 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:08 AM
4

General hygiene? A break? Give ME a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:34 PM
5

Scheming low value male. And I bet he tried to hit it afterwards with those atrocious cooking skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:41 AM
26

Are we a dog? No we are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:39 AM
114

Or Elon musk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:48 AM
11

We love our polish sisters dearly! We absolutely love and support you from afar anyway we can. That is how all women should be ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:19 PM
5

Thank you so much for the further background knowledge! I greatly appreciate this and it means the world to me you took the time to tell us some more. Stay strong ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:18 PM
7

Isn’t it incredible? Ahhhh, Catholics 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:15 PM
7

You are so welcome! Bless you and please you are welcome to write to me if you need anything. This is of utmost importance. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:14 PM
18

Wow! Russian-American here. I am sick of the tradwife fetishizing, like I’m only capable of making babies and cooking. I have two fucking degrees and another on the way! 😉 In all seriousness, though, the perpetuated stereotype is exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:13 PM
6

YES they are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:10 PM
6

I am weeping laughing, what a concept!!And you know what? Even then they couldn’t fathom what it is to carry a child. The hormonal changes, the change to your body before and after, the way people look at you and change around you. Oh - and then they still won’t have to deal with menstruating for the rest of their life, menopause, and as you get old the specific reproductive cancers that can occur because men carry silent venereal disease. As you know - we are NOT the same. Much love sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:08 PM
80

Happy cake day! Let them eat cake 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:55 AM
15

Agree for sure on arming ourselves. I think those who can excuse themselves from major political issues due to superficial reasons like being judged are truly privileged indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:54 AM
46

No permission needed at all! I’m tired of men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:44 AM
64

Cheers. Take care, fight bravely. We support you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:43 AM
178

I’d be right there with you, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:13 PM
1

Scorpio rising, Venus and Mars in Scorpio 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:33 PM
10

I like how he literally describes a relationship; yet tries to paint it as something casual. Dude the things you are asking for are RELATIONSHIP territory lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:42 PM
22

I’m weeping the evil ice cream is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:38 PM
20

My version is a block and delete in this climate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:37 PM
46

I am SPEECHLESS. Audacity is at an all time high. What a disgusting person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:24 PM
1

This is such an important post! As a young professional starting my career I feel and see this all the time. It is not as openly blatant as, perhaps, our parent's time - but there is still a great deal of this in Western social structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:54 AM
1

Super refreshing. They are out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:46 AM
8

He took the trash out (himself). Cut your 'losses' and drop him - you don't ever want to entertain wishy-washy men like that. Ever! They will only hurt you. He doesn't know what he wants and can't provide. The right man will never confuse you about his intentions and they, in fact, will always be crystal clear if they're honest. Be confused no longer - just block and delete. You don't have the time for that clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:49 AM
1

Is anyone gonna tell her? Should I tell her what that truly is? Can I, oh please can I? Mortifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:46 AM
3

You're an amazing woman, friend, and role model! She is so lucky to have a great friend in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:37 AM
44

Being a chill girl = being a walked all over girl. I remember a period of my life (18-21 years of age) where I tried to be this. I still painfully recollect the lasting emotional trauma and torture that I went to THERAPY for because of how men treated me. Men will do to you whatever you let them. There is nothing to your advantage about being 'chill', except a whole ton of mistreatment. You must, must, must have boundaries to get what you want and how you wanted to be treated in life. Not just w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:35 AM
2

Queen energy 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:05 PM
2

“Wanna come over?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:54 AM
2

I look forward to him never breeding again. Welcome to parenthood, Asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:53 AM
1

Him: writing Me: block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:46 AM
11

I never considered this until recently when I got back into the dating game pre covid! This is huge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:43 AM
7

Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:22 AM
10

A dream. A dream come true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:21 AM
83

A taste of their own medicine: being objectified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:18 AM
2

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:56 AM
24

I am weeping laughing. This comic artist is brilliant lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:08 AM
4

Yes! This is a huge mind shift change I’ve recently had. There is absolutely no benefit to us for giving THEM the benefit of the doubt. Nope. I also don’t engage in their paranoid behavior. Creepy, inappropriate, and controlling. Yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:39 AM
14

Oh for fucks sake! Such a pile of steaming hot bullshit. So proud of you for putting two and two together in the end - that is so disrespectful to you and your time. What a prick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:41 PM
3

That’s amazing! I look for the same in a partner - no video games, god, please, no. But seriously. An entire room?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:47 AM
7

Ditto. Two whole rooms. An office - for HIM. A man cave/gaming room- for HIM. Then willingly made a sexist joke and when it hurt her he dismissed her...I’m so done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:29 AM
78

Men DO ghost us/put us on the back burner all of the time. I’m to the point where if he forgets to message me for a whole day, I FORGET his number. It goes to my block list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:24 AM
2

Sure did! Thanks queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:21 AM
8

That was my post! And I dumped him 💅 he had high value “qualities” until I found out he sucked in bed! Bye 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:00 AM
5

HAHA NEEDED THIS ❤️❤️❤️ love you OP!! Thanks for supporting me on my last post and inspiring this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:23 AM
3

So, I’m dropping him! That last paragraph hit me hard. I heard a few times “you’re hard to make cum” from him and brushed it off but looking back...wow. “No I am not”, I would respond to him immediately without thinking but now that I am actually THINKING...he sucks! Too hard? Too darn demanding. Yeah 👏 right 👏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:01 AM
3

Wow. Thank you so much for sharing. What an interesting story! I appreciate that you wrote to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:19 AM
3

What a fucking eye opener!! Whaaaat! WOW. The bare minimum. Selfish shitheads. So sorry that happened to you but thank you so much for sharing - men will do/say anything for the p 👑ssy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:17 AM
2

That is so true. What a shame he is a dud! Lighting check, music check, massage check...but let’s not get distracted. Hello?! Where is the ORGASM? Actions have always spoken louder than words. Including this! The percentage he is actually going to “learn” how to make me come is probably next to nothing like you said - a damn shame. Thanks again queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:18 AM
3

Thanks babe much appreciated! Decision was definitely made. 🏃‍♂️💨 RUN lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:10 PM
9

Decision made: DUMPED. Thanks ladies! 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:06 PM
3

I am absolutely willing to walk away, no matter how I feel about this person. I hope you can tell I was coming to you all for advice! I’m curious to see what he’s really about and where this is coming from, but I’m no doormat. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:32 PM
4

You’re the best 👑💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:46 PM
25

Thank you! Needed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:51 AM
8

He is high value otherwise except this surprising yikes! This is the one problem I've run into (so far!) we all know how men are... Girl you know I want more for myself! It's like: give up a potential man to invest in...but don't cum? Not worth it. i just wanted to hear it from you all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:44 AM
8

So I feel the same way about forcing or sexual activity must-haves/forcing. Respectfully, he does not expect me to and does not get mad, it is something I enjoy. After going back to the handbook I see that no orgasm should be given without me receiving one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:35 AM
11

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:33 AM
31

Yes - and neither do I because women have just as much a right to deny giving head. That's what this screams, doesn't it, is that he actually doesn't care. However it's not the case - he asks me all the time if I'm ready to cum with slow strokes and I'm like dude...no...I definitely recall telling you what I want. Need more direction, fool? No sex would be about square, wouldn't it? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:32 AM
38

You might be right - what a bummer because I do enjoy him. I'm not willing to compromise on no orgasms. I'm not excited to tell this man I'm letting him go just because we're not sexually compatible... but it is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:22 AM
65

My thoughts exactly. Unfortunately, even my past scrote ex boyfriends with shitty traits and 1000 red flags ate me out - so I'm scratching my head at why this man who passes multiple trials and tests won't. He's not lazy anywhere else. I'm struggling with the compromise at this point. I'm resigning blow jobs until then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:20 AM
3

He turns up only to get dumped and see that I’ve eaten all the dinner and drank all the wine 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:31 AM
4

I’m no expert but maybe the scrote who is making you cry every single day isn’t your soul mate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:29 AM
51

Easier said than done but so absolutely necessary. A must have for queen-dom. 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:28 AM
2

I am weeping at your phonetic replay of how she talks lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:49 AM
2

The fact that she’s brought to tears over paper towels... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:48 AM
8

Black women have every right to be extremely angry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:17 AM
8

I’m 23. You are not too kind for this world my dear. You are what we need. More understanding, empathy, love, and compassion. There is no beauty in feeling nothing, taking from others, and hurting. It is all lies and will be punished. You must learn (and you will) when and how to give it. Who deserves it, and who doesn’t. We have a beautiful life to build for ourselves that is not conditional on whether or not men are in it. If they want to be, they will act right to get it. If not - carry on. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:14 AM
3

After finding this sub 6 months ago, it has completely changed the way I deal with men. The quality of the men I deal with even with decent selection is still mostly trash, but the biggest takeaway for me is: Men’s shit behavior is not my fault, but it is my responsibility in how I react and behave when treated less than desired. The block/delete/move-on strategy has been a life saver. The no-bullshit attitude chased most assholes away. Being upfront about my desires has chased losers and low ef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:46 AM
4

This is my favorite movie of all time! My mom and I drink wine over two hours and cry our eyes out to it. Strong, passionate, intense movie. Such a good one and there is a book too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:07 AM
1

Oh shit thank you! I thought I cropped it out. Appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:04 AM
1

Yes I did! Thank you for the advice sweetie! He acted so differently until I gave him my number because he wanted to "talk more and plan a date"...big fail! Phew, lesson learned. If he's legitimately crazy this is potentially very dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:52 AM
2

Now playing: Scrotes Mad 󐀀󐀀 󐀀 1:05 ━━━━━●────── 2:15 ⇆ㅤ ㅤ◁ㅤㅤ❚❚ㅤㅤ▷ㅤㅤ ㅤ↻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:50 AM
2

“I like your curves” “Just kidding you have a flat ass” Oh ok 😆😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:48 AM
39

THIS THIS THIS. I have had my heart broken by incredibly suave manipulators who say and preach all the right things. For a moment you are convinced the man is all systems go for something serious. And being discarded after that - painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:06 AM
37

Suuuuch a good mantra. I’ve been hurt a few times by men promising me the moon and stars but failing to deliver. The lies and deceit from that has put scars in my heart that are still healing. A lot of what men say is “game” even when it sounds serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:04 AM
5

Nice job curving the hobosexual! On the other hand who tf just invited themselves over like that? If nothing, men have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:56 AM
60

First of all: moving a bf of 4 months into your apartment. WHEW, SIS 🤯 It’s just so sickening how she provides so many excuses for his behavior. He puts his dick in her and has the audacity to be disgusted at her body and natural process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:07 AM
2

I’m so proud of you. You dodged a total fuckboy. This has been happening to me recently and every time it does I’m getting better at throwing. One chance only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:31 PM
5

For sure, it stings badly. I think I will do that <3 spa day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:57 PM
2

Thanks a million. Will do xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:43 PM
3

Ugh! Oh my goodness dear, what a terrible act on his part. I would be raw about that for a good while. How cruel. it seriously is mind blowing - why waste your time and his? For that long? I don't know one woman, personally, that cruel. I've lived in multiple countries. I'm glad to hear that you've moved on, but wow is that deep. Lesson learned. x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:42 PM
5

Thank you so much dear! It means a lot to hear that affirmation. Makes sense when I think on it. I don't understand his sick pleasure with wasting mine and HIS time. Why so cowardly? Why do all of things and then blow it, idiot? Some more examples of the fuckery: Verbally affirming to me that he wanted to take it slow with me, do things right. Telling me that his sister's would get along fantastically with me, and that his mother would like me. Absolutely no sexual pressure, appropriate physical…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:40 PM
3

Omfg the Nintendo switch lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:33 AM
5

You dropped this Your mask 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:57 AM
2

God I loved her in that movie, what a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:08 PM
3

You know how cruel the world is for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:22 AM
22

I’m so nauseated. Men being that cruel to animals...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:19 AM
15

Legend has it the angel is still going Angel:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:13 AM
3

Omg, can you link or quote the verse? That’s amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:02 AM
25

This poor woman. She 🤡’d herself. We are not doing shit for men. Ultimately, this is what they will do. They say one thing and do the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:50 PM
2

Please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:17 AM
14

LMAO so true, that is total sugar baby-ing grooming right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:11 AM
8

He wishes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:54 AM
21

Absolutely spot on. Fair play
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:54 AM
10

You make a very good point! I’ve dealt with this first hand. Absolutely, will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:38 AM
3

Precisely! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:34 AM
12

I think it could potentially be a sign of generosity. Will I go for an air bnb with him this early? Absolutely not. I would let him take me on a date that I am comfortable with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:32 AM
27

Always wise to be very careful indeed. I’m always vetting for a generous man - I might let him take me out, but an overnight air bnb this is early is an absolute no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:31 AM
14

Somebody share what GOOD sex is supposed to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:15 AM
3

He can’t even DRIVE 😴😴😴 Congratulations on your new car, beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:19 AM
10

LAME ASS DUSTY ASS ZERO VALUE MALE bwaaaahahaha what an entertaining conversation! You’re such a queen! He is such a loser conditioned that women should serve him for what? Mediocre peen? He probably doesn’t even eat girls out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:14 PM
28

They don’t care. As much as it hurts to hear: if they wanted to, they WOULD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:55 PM
49

Thanks babe! I don’t care how he reacted - because I blocked him on everything! 😉 I already had a conversation with him after he left me for 5-6 hours mid conversation to go party with his friend (it was his birthday). He finally gets back to me, high as a kite, and apologized profusely and stated he won’t do it again. All kinds of bells and whistles about how much he adored me. We had plans to FT. Well, he did it again. Once they disrespect you once they WILL do it again. From the handbook: “Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:54 PM
124

I literally just DUMPED a man yesterday who was otherwise fantastic but became terrible with texting and calling me. I could see him active on Instagram all the time - he wasn’t even opening my messages. They know better. I don’t have the time. Bye 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:58 PM
2

Hey! So I’m right there with you. I’m 22, have my degree, and working on getting into medical school. By men - I am completely undesired. I also date up to age 30. So often...they have nothing to offer me. They become intimidated. It’s so weak, so lame. I don’t quite understand where the disconnect is because I TOO am passionate, open, honest, kind and have a raw beating heart. This is not my problem, truly, it is theirs! Men get scared and ghost me, then return months later to tell me about how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:56 PM
4

I'm so proud of you my love! Definitely not the right one - NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:22 AM
8

Lemme BUY this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:18 PM
7

Absolutely! Great head space to be in - you are never obligated to re-interact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:58 PM
33

The inability to self reflect is ASTOUNDING across the board for LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:58 AM
3

Keep it up, beautiful! It’s only up from here. There are thousands of us here to support you. We only want to see you treated like a queen🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:20 AM
2

Twig and berries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:18 AM
2

I’ve been told I’m like sweet floral wine! And I have also tasted - it’s not sad at all. I have had some musty guys ask me to go down on them...eugh please wash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:18 AM
16

If I sniff even dread level ONE I am OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:21 PM
7

‘uwu’ I’m fucking crying lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:20 PM
35

Of course I do. Bwahahah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:17 AM
57

Thank you so much! It’s never my priority to be rude, but of course I do have to observe carefully and be on high alert. I don’t want to give them a chance to pretend to be someone to lure me into a quick lay - or WORSE - a situationship that wastes my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:13 AM
11

Can’t confirm unfortunately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:08 AM
17

Thanks love! 🌸🌸🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:57 AM
17

I remember when I was first studying the handbook how our Queens warned about men doing this. I have been so very aware of this since then! It’s crazy how often they try this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:19 AM
99

You daughter is NOT a pickmeisha! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:08 AM
2

Wow, don’t describe yourself too well there, buddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:01 PM
1

Hi sweetheart ❤️ Our stories are so similar. I’m also 22, and I suffered sexual abuse and moved so so so many times growing up. I had caregivers that were too mentally ill to hold on to jobs. I resonate so much with struggling socially, having no childhood friends and memories, no social structure backbone to rely on. For a lot of my youth, internet friends kept me sane. You’re not alone. Not to mention relying on family friends once I finished HS but always feeling like a burden. It’s the worst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:26 PM
2

I will always upvote Sailor Moon memes ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:39 PM
6

Christ. Those searches: step mom, sister, mom, cheerleader...anal...wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:25 PM
14

Jordan. James. Jayce. Those J names...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:08 AM
6

This is lovely to hear, but easy for anyone to write. Texts don’t make me swoon. Words hardly do. All about actions, love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:04 AM
19

“Chicken wing”? Are you kidding me right now - I’ve gotten the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:16 PM
1

I cannot believe that women do shit like this and are CONDITIONED to do so just so that their man feels better! Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:25 AM
2

This is hilarious - the entitlement is fucking satire, it MUST be!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:56 AM
30

I just wish that women weren’t automatically assigned the role of having to teach men that we are humans. I just wish that saying “no” didn’t mean “oop! Let’s make this a challenge/discussion!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:53 AM
4

Right there with you. My dad checked out of my life before I was 2 years old. He had beautiful daughters before me, and continued to have more children. Just disgusting. One of the hardest things I’ve worked through is thinking this toxic thought: “if the person who created me into existence doesn’t even love me, why would anyone ever love me?” Stings to this day. I’m only 22, but this is something I actively push myself to work through almost every day. You have to be painfully aware of it and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:02 AM
3

Pisces pisces PISCES! Random fact: most serial killer men are Virgos and Cancers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:49 AM
7

Of course sweetie. You’re absolutely correct. Best of luck to you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:37 AM
2

I would love to try that!! The queer pin! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:35 AM
5

Sorry that happened to you, sweetie. The handbook expressly states: NO DRINK DATES!! This is where men use alcohol to make you do things against your better judgement. I’m glad that situation didn’t turn more sour. No one is entitled to your body no matter WHAT - but so many filthy men assume this. I would highly advise against Tinder as well. Be safe ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:34 AM
3

Please keep this energy, I’m right there with you. I love making fools look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:31 AM
1

It is so hard for me to find queer women. I am very bisexual, but I ‘look’ straight. Only men come after me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:29 AM
23

Doctors/surgeons/CEOs. Being in a big city helps! You might have to be more comfortable with older men. I just want to point out - at the end of the day these guys were LVM and I dumped them cold. You cannot be ‘bought’! For some men, money is nothing. What also matters is how they treat you personally, not only monetarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:28 AM
23

and THEY have the audacity to complain about “basic bitches”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:22 AM
33

So funny. I’ve had men fly me out to LA, Las Vegas, Miami, etc. Broke boy can run away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:21 AM
77

Tell me about it. These scrotes are shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:19 AM
14

Wow. Thank you so much for sharing. I cannot imagine the depth of emotion you feel after that. I firstly want to say I am so proud of you for getting out of the relationship and doing the right thing for your well being. If you didn’t make the choices you did, right now you would be in a far worse situation. Secondly, please stop blaming yourself for what HE DID to you. He used you. He gained your trust and manipulated, lied, and pushed you to get what he wanted. It’s not about you letting him d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:30 AM
9

I’m nauseated just hearing that. I’m so, so, sorry sweetie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:57 AM
8

Oh my goodness sweetheart...I’m sad to say that I have heard this story too many times before. The nerve. I hope you are in the process of healing. We are all here for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:56 AM
2

I’m so sorry to hear that dear. I hope you’re healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:56 AM
1

You’d be surprised. Many abuse drugs. I don’t tolerate it. I’m going into the same field and I don’t have that same short patience bs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:31 PM
2

I learned the hard way that just because their career is prestigious doesn’t mean that they are GOOD men. Their career has nothing to do with how they love/respect. I have cut off many surgeons and doctors. I urge you to not be blinded by career!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:27 AM
1

My thoughts went to that very often! I was concerned about my appearance and like “does that mean I need to look a certain way tonight?” used to cross my mind. Yes. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:03 AM
18

I pissed myself laughing reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:51 AM
3

You did exactly the right thing sis! Men cockblock themSELVES lmao. What a creepy, controlling, strange thing to say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:50 AM
1

Don’t knock yourself! You’re brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:49 AM
1

Right! My longest relationship was around 8 months. Before leaving to go about our day he would pull a “sex tonight?” before leaving. I ended up mostly saying no/maybe, and then loathing the thought of it. I think because this indeed felt very transactional rather than romantic or partner like. Such a turn off. I saw your other reply and I completely agree as well! That is what works for me. Should I be expected to communicate that with all men? Ugh, then perhaps they are not high value... Defin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:35 AM
1

YES. The nerve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:18 AM
1

I love that your comment got more upvotes than the post. Queen energy, sis!! Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:12 AM
2

I’m just sayin’. You’ll die without food. You won’t die without sex. Grow up and find a better example you weak excuse for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:11 AM
3

Big time. I have definitely found myself in situations where my SO get extremely lazy. Ie lack of foreplay for me to get my body truly ready for sex. It becomes “boner up, stick in” and I’m just not having that bullshit treatment anymore. I am not a fuck doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:09 AM
1

Right on the mark. At the end of the day, this is always what it comes down to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:07 AM
1

I literally was convinced this was the rest of the story, OMG! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:06 AM
2

I am nauseated. WHAT. You do not need sex to live you primordial homo erectus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:06 AM
2

OKAY, THIS. Sis - I have dropped otherwise lovely men because of issues like this. I am abhorred by this behavior. I was dating a surgeon who was high value in many ways until I decided it was safe by the FDS book and had sex with him. He immediately turned into a “if I’m going to be monogamous with you, you need to have sex when I want to at the drop of a hat otherwise what’s the point of us being together”? Excuse me? DISGUSTING. I lost attraction to him immediately. This type of entitlement i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:04 AM
1

This is a great point! Since you’re a disciple I want to ask you a question - do you dislike it when your SO comes up to you like “hey, sex tonight”? Does it ruin the romantic feel to it for you? It definitely does for me. I’m not a robot programmed for sex at a specific time. I understand schedules get busy and it can get hard in the modern world to schedule regular intimate time but...THAT always bothered me. What do you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:58 AM
2

That’s another disgusting point they will try to use to pressure you into sex. “C’mon babe, it’ll just take me a few minutes to get off.” Really. So selfish you’d pressure your SO into being uncomfortable for a few minutes so you can cum. Fucking loathesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:55 AM
2

That’s where I picked this gem (if we can even call it that) up! Why does sex always have to occur if cuddling and intimacy are initiated? Always?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:54 AM
3

You don’t need sex to survive...although some pig headed scrotes will attempt to convince you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:52 AM
2

I’m dying - a very small percentage indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:51 AM
1

Indeed! I never understood why so many men continue pressure their partner to have sex when she’s not in the mood? Then they have the audacity to say women are disinterested during sex? Who wouldn’t be if their man pressured them into it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:51 AM
1

WHAT. This is so fucking sad! Beyond sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:49 AM
2

Seriously, I fail to understand where this entitlement to our bodies comes from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:48 AM
2

I would certainly be like “lol I’m eating this” munch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:23 PM
24

Oooo girl. Keep that energy. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:51 AM
44

Exactly. This is quite horrifying. If only they knew what it was like to be objectified like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:50 AM
57

“In a nightie” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:09 AM
59

Or giving her an orgasm, because I bet he doesn’t know how to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:07 AM
8

Disgusting. No, you cannot set me on your relationship back burner. The audacity for men to be so obvious about this is ASTOUNDING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:17 AM
148

Oh yes. I’ll take things that never happened for 500, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:01 AM
103

You caught that eh??? You’re damn right! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:00 AM
3

Bratz Forever Diamonds was my jam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:52 AM
23

very loud nose exhale and eye roll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:51 AM
2

I don’t know ladies - it’s as if there’s more to life than just sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:09 AM
3

Remember ladies: in August it will be 100 years since we got the right to vote in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:48 AM
12

So creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:15 AM
80

The confirmed suspect, who is AN ATTORNEY, Roy Den Hollander has written a “... more than 1,700-page autobiography uploaded to the Internet Archive on March 22, Hollander revealed a deep-seated anti-woman ideology and expressed a personal grudge against Salas, whom he slandered repeatedly.” “The attorney was well known for his work on self-described “anti-feminist litigation,” particularly cases suing bars for Ladies’ Nights and universities for having women’s studies programs, alleging that the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:29 AM
2

Come here, “Patrick”. I just want to talk. About YOUR obesity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:11 AM
21

This is one of my favorite quotes to describe male depravity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:01 AM
1

At the end of the article he talks about this beautiful woman he is using for sex - she is pursuing a serious relationship with him. He dodges the question, makes her wait, because the bachelor life is “too good to give up”. Fine. For him. However, fuck him for stringing a very good woman along. She probably thinks there is something there and he is too evil to tell her he’ll never commit. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:00 AM
2

That was the most incoherent rambling I’ve ever experienced. What an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:09 AM
2

Good for you queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:02 AM
6

Wow, I’m adopting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:46 AM
11

I know him from a mutual group of friends, we went to Vegas and were getting to know each other better, to which he did a bunch of low value male shit and now I’m letting him go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:14 AM
30

OP here: final response “Hi. We’re done. Thank you so much for the wonderful experiences and your time, I wish you the best.” Thanks ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:30 PM
22

I am ashamed to say I have actually been with a dude like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:42 AM
23

Especially the Viking part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:13 AM
14

Where is the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:11 AM
4

Your username checks out! I love it. Absolutely...what an unfair world for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:28 PM
14

This is why I liked Lilith more... All jokes aside - if Eve ate the apple, why do men have an Adam’s apple? You ever wonder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:58 AM
6

That’s it! Yep. I just googled the “curse of women” I saw a bunch of people talking about, and it resulted in that. An interesting read in the plights of women for sure. I do not support or back this article in any way. Even religious women are aware of the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:29 AM
1

Needed to read this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:54 AM
1

Gooooodbye! Sorry to hear he had other intentions, sister. The trash took itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:53 AM
3

If only they knew how beautiful the women on here are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:20 AM
2

Is this mate guarding instinct? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:15 AM
5

Demanding. Go fuck yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:14 AM
29

Who the fuck is that desperate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:14 AM
17

Holy shit - deserves gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:01 AM
6

Ok, so, I’m currently looking to commission as an officer in the navy for the leadership experience and so they pay for medical school. I am extremely distraught by this as we all should be but I am concerned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:26 AM
8

Okay “professor” what an idiot. I wonder if he accepts this the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:35 AM
10

You’re right, girl. A global fucking resistance. I dated an guy who was russian (if that provides any context) and his father was out drinking and got into a car crash when my boyfriend was born. This shit happens WAY too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:47 AM
2

“Dude, your bed is a car.” “Yeah but it’s a fuckin’ sweet car.” Still preferable to a nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:42 AM
21

Two children? No fucking thank you. I don’t understand why women assume this “mommy gf” subtype - I get that we’re nurturing - but there are far more appropriate ways to be nurturing to your man. What a shame that this behavior is accepted. “He needed something to do.” Are you kidding me? In what world would you not be 100% attentive to your wife who is ruining her body to procreate? I am nauseated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:32 AM
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Who the FUCK plays video games while their wife is sitting in the bed waiting for the child to split her vagina open? You need to be by your wife’s side, attentive, caressing her...I just CANNOT. Unacceptable. What do you think, ladies? Maybe he’ll change one diaper or two in the next 2 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:06 AM
12

Seriously, I have had experiences exactly like this. What the fuck is wrong with them? I’ve dated men 35 and up that do this shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:59 AM
2

The disrespect in the way he texts her is NAUSEATING. Wouldn’t consider making a family with a man who can’t even go grocery shopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:51 AM
3

I can taste the narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:22 AM
13

Wasting your time? How about mine. pfft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:19 AM
21

Well done! Exactly what you should have done. As I’m sure you know, getting sexual far too fast is a HUGE red flag!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:19 AM
7

Please - and this is coming from a natural blonde - do it! You’re no less serious or professional for having blonde hair. Don’t change things about yourself for men! Do it for you. It will not necessarily attract the right man because high and low value men have all sorts of taste in women. No matter what your hair, eye, or skin color; be on guard with men at all times. Do it girl - dye your hair a beautiful blonde!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:20 AM
19

Crack? Is that crack you smoke? Crack? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:09 AM
4

What an absolute fucking lowlife. Scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:06 AM
5

I smell...a block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:55 AM
6

You’ll never speak again? Fantastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:59 AM
1

I love byefelipe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:40 AM
1

Holy shit! I do remember that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:36 AM
2

Seriously!! There are so many fantastic bits on that show that are still very appliable today. And yes I do remember that episode!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:35 AM
2

Yes darling!! I'm glad his dumb ass was late anyways, so you didn't put yourself in even more danger. You recognized you made a mistake initially - but this is okay. Stay strong. He's still so low value he can't even show up on time lmao I hope the ribs were delicious! ...and I love a good caipiroska!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:34 AM
1

You're welcome babe!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:31 AM
2

Had to give him a lil bit of shame because I love telling men when I’m disappointed. Unmatched before he could reply. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:14 AM
5

Right? Queens are unbothered 👸🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:49 AM
9

Trust me babe, I sure did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:22 AM
8

This is so funny. I literally almost pissed my pants. The audacity of scrotes to twist my nip, slap my ass, and try to stick it in so quickly. 1 seckZ pleez!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:02 AM
5

Beautifully put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:57 AM
6

This just melted my heart. I needed this. Sometimes, it feels like there aren’t men like this out there with the shit I have to dive and push through in searching for a man. Bless him and her and everything about his commitment. What a beautiful life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:53 AM
5

Absolutely. The Subs are the bomb - my best friend has the entire series DVD set and we occasionally binge some choice episodes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:28 AM
4

No way! Thank you so much for going out of your way and finding this. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:27 AM
1

I'll bet you $100 that my ex will look like this in 10 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:59 AM
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Girl. This is coming from the bottom of my heart because I want you to be happy, sis. It is time to leave this man already. Poor choices with finances prior to this, and the inability to pay you $100 for the phone be broke - do you really think it's going to get any better after he's married to you? Do you really think he can even afford you the ring and financial stability you deserve? Does he have plans or the means to make more money and move up in the world financially? He is complaining abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:47 AM
1

"fuzzy hair" those are curls you imbecile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:44 AM
1

One of my favorite personal satisfactions. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:40 AM
3

That was so hard to read sis, but I am so glad you are here with us now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:21 AM
4

God bless, wish I had seen this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:08 AM
1

Now THIS...I'm saving this. This is queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:36 AM
1

Imagine being so lame you cry over porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:22 AM
4

This is why I follow Rihanna, and not Kylie. Rihanna has come a long way from her earlier days. I hope Kylie levels up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:14 AM
20

Girl! So I recently found this sub about a month ago and it has changed my life. The LVMs that attempt banter with me are absolutely shocked/bothered/flabbergasted when I tell them to knock their shit off. This includes ripping them a new one when they speak to me inappropriately too soon, suggesting lazy 'house' dates, etc. They are so offended by it and quick to call me a bitch - excellent, the trash took itself out! They /hate/ boundaries. I am a completely different woman. Keep it up girl! A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:00 AM
56

I am so glad that I have found this sub at 22 years old. Mind blowing what I put up with, from tolerating lazy man children to disrespecting myself. No more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:34 AM
34

Roast 👏🏻 his 👏🏻 ass 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:29 AM
1

That is some intense bait. Stay strong my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:32 AM
1

I am deeply bothered that someone going into medicine for surgery specializing neurosurgery treats someone like this. I'm very aware that your career doesn't necessarily mean you're a good person/defines you...but as someone also in that route of the medical field this doubles my disgust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:24 AM
3

I am SO proud of you girl!! I recently had an ex do something similar - refollow me on another social media and send something similar. My only words for him: "You are not welcome back into my life." You did the right thing, beautiful! Keep it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:28 AM
1

This in relation to planned parenthood: "If men could get pregnant, abortion clinics would be on every corner like a Starbucks."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:52 AM
3

Oh my GOD please tell us what he said afterwards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:38 AM
7

With the toilet paper roll on his head - nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:14 AM
6

I needed this now more than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:59 AM
10

Amazing post lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:58 AM
5

control99’s comment is classic LVM behavior when they are presented with facts. “I don’t know if I believe you but interesting point” No, dipshit No one care what you believe. These are the FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:55 AM
44

And a fireman, nonetheless. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:19 PM
5

Disgusting to hear that this happens more than it should. I will never forget the burning fire in my chest when my eyes first read over the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 06:46 PM
24

Myself - Never a side piece by choice. I always figured it out after they would come up with some lie about how they don’t have social media, lie about their last name, etc. I’d find them, find their wives, and destroy their lives (ie let the wife know) and promptly block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:42 PM
3

Ok, my heart was breaking for those women. It just looks and sounds like absolutely hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:43 PM
1

Thanks for the lovely reply. I would say it is certainly a wonderful to screen guys out without even seeing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:17 AM
1

Right on. Same for me right now - it’s nice not to be grilled about being single constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:48 PM
7

That’s an ARGUMENT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:47 PM
1

Bless you for even having the patience to deal with OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:47 PM
3

This is exactly how I feel! Are you in Europe/Asia? I also work in healthcare myself I couldn’t fathom getting someone sick because I’m so selfish to intentionally go out...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:46 PM
1

Thank you! I so agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:45 PM
3

Sometimes not reading the comments is self-care Lmao!! I think that they are so socially stunted, so far removed from modern society with their lack of love life and friends in general, that they all gather together in this dystopian tomfoolery about how a woman’s ‘flower’ is exactly what her worth is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:44 PM
7

Seriously though, what is it about the fucking "glory" days? Why is this so romanticized? Have you really done nothing else with your life in the past 5 years worth recalling in nostalgic bliss? Fuck lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:10 AM
2

"I'd love to have disgusting made up porn-sick sex with you, if you know what I mean."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:56 AM
4

Agreed. It's not even their fault - they just weren't created into the world we have been thrown into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:54 AM
12

I'm at a loss for words. How dare he project his sour experience onto you. How rude. Buh bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:53 AM
14

"Beautiful women have the privilege of more attention from shitty manipulative men telling elaborate lies to be with them as well as letting their insecurity cause them to be abusive." 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:47 AM
16

I also work in the ED. 9.5/10 times the weirdo who decided to place a foreign object in his rectum is male and often >35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:44 AM
28

Bless grannies!! They are always on to something... thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:39 AM
46

I'm sorry, paint him green and all I see is OH DONKEY Porn sick probably limp dick and his anthem?? Maybe he likes to be on the receiving end...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:30 AM
9

Fantastic advice. As a 22 yo I'm glad to confirm I'm going on the right path for me - I need to make sure I know who I am. This does indeed require me to be single while I mold myself into the woman I want to be. It's also a breath of fresh air to see someone recognize how completely different the world is today than what our parents/grandparents grew up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:27 AM
25

This is a good one. So I sat here and thought about it for a bit. In modern society, I would say absolutely because women have different expectations depending on who you talk to. They are changed completely by culture. I would say using the guidelines in this sub it is near-impossible. There are explicit HVM criteria, anything less likely LVM and unworthy to entertain. There might be some minutiae like exact income, expectations between partners, amount of sex, etc but when it comes to LVM bull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:23 AM
23

Spot on. Only bottom of the barrel LVM have the audacity to make someone's assault trivial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:15 AM
36

"reject decent men" right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:14 AM
2

I will never forget when I found r*pe porn on my ex-abuser's computer. Sissssssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:23 AM
2

Stellar final comment there :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:51 AM
11

Ah, the male's pitiful attempts at silencing us again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:58 AM
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