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| 4 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manWouldn't it follow that if it's hard to become someone who earns a high salary, it's even harder to find a man who earns a high salary? It's unlikely that all women can find a man who earns a decent salary and it's just an all around risky business where you depend on the whims and successes of someone else. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manThe best thing I ever did for myself was worry about my career and finances. Work on your beauty too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 28 | Men seek validation from other men, like x1000000 times more than PickMeishas😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 3 | There are worse things than dying alone.Sorry babes...sending you love and I pray your life turns out the exact opposites of hers and you receive in this world all she was unable to ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 46 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsThat's not your friend sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:26 PM |
| 4 | I shoveled my neighbor’s steps today for Valentine’s Day. She’s another single lady with kids and this sub has taught me how important it is to help out other women. Tomorrow I’ll get her sidewalk cleaned off.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ that's right ladies! Let's be there for one another, I love what this sub has become | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Why We Support Investment: The Fallacy of Focusing on Financial InvestmentChants all resources all resources some of these dudes think money makes up for everything else, and unfortunately it does not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why We Support Investment: The Fallacy of Focusing on Financial InvestmentThis is the absolute best post here ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | I wish more men would admit this to themselves.I think there is some truth to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:41 AM |
| 31 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"I had to block the last guy who tried to tell me this exact thing out of the goodness of his heart 😂😂 tho he was 5 years younger than me and I am pretty sure he thought we were the same age. Ok. Fine pal. I am not what men want like you want. That's cool too and life goes on. 🤷🏾♀️ Let me focus on some other shit with the countless million other women like myself. We be aight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 6 | Why is this so accurate? Have men always been like this?😂😂😂 this was so creative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Sexual FitnessFr teach us your wayss 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Sexual FitnessOk sis, where do I find someone like her? I am trying to be light as a feather too 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 16 | Sexual FitnessLet me go on and take my ass to the Yoga forum 😭😭😭 I wanna start doing the splits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 12 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.Wooooooow, looooooooooooooooooool congrats girl I am proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:15 PM |
| 6 | The Beauty Double Standard Between Men & Women |Wow. Very interesting, thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 108 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!Such fascinating creatures truly. Everything is about them, like nothing else exists except how they feel, what they think lool like no other reality is valid... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:57 PM |
| 16 | What are your dealbreakers?For me it's not listening, not hearing me, not trying to understand me etc....I hate being dismissed, disrespect, entitlement, laziness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 89 | Mother-daughter relationships and how patriarchy shapes it"Families that subscribe to the culture of female service expect mothers and daughters to be selfless, sacrificial, self-neglecting caregivers. This belief system does not recognize women as people with needs of their own." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Women who have played by the rules of the patriarchy must always live by the sunk cost fallacy. Misery loves company they say.This sub is doing the lord's work....and It just...it just makes me so proud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOLooooooooooooool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendYeah you need like a whole family network | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Guaranteed Orgasm Every Damn Time.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | So nice to see positive examples of fatherhood!!💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?Keep up the good work baby girl 😚❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Yet another story of how a woman becoming successful ended in divorce... Sickening. Good for Martha! Being single on your 70s shouldn't be a bad thing or the end of the world.“The life that I had is over,” Martha said of the divorce in the 1995 interview. “And what has taken its place is better.” I know that's right!! ♥️🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Broke up with him after months of pain. He didn't earned it. I know my value now.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 9 | How I feel being surrounded by FDS Queens, supporting each other and growing together 👑It's happening fast as hell too, first of all I love gen z they hella woke and give no fucks..., but I am just proud of everyone here tbh.....I was so lonely but now feel validated and excited for a shifting world. All them low value dumpster fires are shit out of luck 😂😂. Women can now easily see through the bs and are leaving at the first sign of disrespect...I love it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 22 | This is grossUnfortunately this is normal, typical, and accepted by many ppl, but at this rate I expect fds to change the norms by this time next year. Of course it takes women. It's like the girl in the viral video at the police station said. "And I am not asking yall for anything because Y'all won't be both my oppressor and my savior" 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 116 | This is grossWhat a time to be alive!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 8 | Women's EnlightenmentI think if you can develop an abundance mindset, then it would be easier. I might not know much but I do know this, everytime I've leveled up internally and did the right emotional work and just let go and didn't care something shifted for me. I find that the world would meet me at a much better place than I ever expected. I have also developed the belief system that I am lucky, and if something happened for me once, it can happen again. Giving up is not a bad place to be honestly, but not if yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:36 AM |
| 58 | If men were written like women:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 not double cheeked up on a TUESDAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:08 AM |
| 14 | Being a pickme doormat doesn’t just harm you, it also harms other womenI'd say aside from the patriarchy these type of women are our biggest enemy. They are anti-themselves and anti-other women. It's extremely hard dealing with them. They cripple men from their potential. It really really irks me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Just sayin'Loool this has happened to all of us, this sub really blatantly made obvious the reality of marriage and what it means for women. After reading countless stories here and elsewhere now I am like 😬😯😯😯. Boy did it rip of the rose colored classes. Now I have very realistic ideas of what marriage and raising children really means and by no means am I rushing into it or thinking it's some fairy tale....yeaahh let me just be happy now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 9 | We need to stop with the myth that dating is sooo hard for all men and that men will treasure you because your attention is rare. 🗣 THEY’RE PLAYING ALL OF US AND THIS IS HOW!If you feel like you don't like someone, don't convince yourself just because they seem nice. Thanks for this, it's very validating. I cannot make myself like anyone I just don't naturally, but now I am not even going to fake it for politeness sake when it comes to men. Fuck all of that, pickmes always talking about ur so picky, but all the stories I've read on here of women settling have turned out to be nightmares. Yeah no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 11:54 AM |
| 1 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️♥️♥️♥️🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Scrotes be like:😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | “If he wanted to, he would”... what matters is he didn’t! Who cares! Keep doing you!!Loved reading this. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 6 | “Don’t You Miss Sex??”Personally can't miss some shit I've never really had .... And what dudes don't understand is that, we not wired the same, for me to even want to have sex I have to be emotionally connected to you, I don't care how handsome some dude is..i have never in my life thought to myself...wow that guy is attractive I want to have sex with him..but men do that shit every minute of every day. Men will have sex with a burger. We are not the same. Sex is a non motherfucking factor and it's too dangerous for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 6 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️I now know the kind of man I'll be praying for, I sincerely did not even know these types of ppl existed. Lord, most supreme, please make my husband a man of this caliber and kindness in a package that I can accept. Ladies pray with me 🙏🏾😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 12:11 AM |
| 23 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️Sis no kids? Get the hell out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:58 PM |
| 4 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️Yooo I'm crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Controversial opinion: it's better to remain childless than to have children with a shitty dudeDamn sis, that's big ol hard to swallow truth pill 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 12 | Just in case you needed to hear it...I have and always will choose myself over and over again. I will always choose me. ME ME ME. I am blessed, loved, and highly favoured and there is not one dusty motherfucker that can make me choose otherwise. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 24 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Loooool keke been on it these days, she's right lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm so tired of being aloneFascinating! Never seen it explained this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:45 AM |
| 12 | Why Some Women Hate Other WomenGreat video!! I gotta few lost souls to send this to lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 38 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.Loool this was fun to read, I be bored and just naturally can pick up so much information on social media. I know whose faking things, what relationships ppl are having, who got surgery, I can gather soo much info so easily lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:50 PM |
| 116 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.He probably mad he got bigger tits than her, always the insecure ones that criticize women's body's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 6 | This belongs here...Looove her! a beacon of light ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 3 | How to go about dating as an avoidant type?Exactly, same, some folks doubled my insecurity and someone calmed it and made me feel secure ♥️ ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 4 | TeaThis will change your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:16 AM |
| 15 | Always listen to your body.Wait so you proceeded to date him anyway? Even after the dream? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 25 | Always listen to your body.Yeah there's some people both men and women my body will reject. Like I will just not fuck with them. It's usually right, and in any case better safe then sorry ya feel me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:11 PM |
| 34 | Random dating advice on the Prepping sub? They know what's up and majority of comments tell the girl to dump her boyfriend!Lol they're so sassy 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:16 AM |
| 15 | HVM love FDSThe type of man offended by FDS is a pathetic weak loooser ,🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 51 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!Lol wtf did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:07 PM |
| 29 | So you WANT her to cry over your dumb ass...okay. Sick emotionally manipulative mf🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 40 | Why you're not insecure for caring about Instagram activity12 years a slave 😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 30 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.Um id rather be healthy and well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 14 | The Attractiveness Gap (Humor)Yes motherfuckers grow a couple inches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 6 | Very true 😂Yeah sometimes they are the absolute worst 😩😩😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else become a pickmeshia even though their parents taught them better?I basically avoided all relationships which saved my soul, I come from a culture where they raise the biggest of "pickmeishas" but girls thought I was weird for not letting bum motherfuckers near me, and dudes thought I was a bitch. Better that than deal with the shyt I knew would come my way intuitively. I am just really grateful when all is said and done, all it took was one dude when I was 16 for me to realize "this ain't it, on God, this ain't it" and I thank God every day. 😩😂🙏🏾 Now I just b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 5 | What would you do?Amen sista | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:07 AM |
| 4 | "Develop lives outside the male gaze" - really good analysis of how ultimately futile the battle to prove yourself worthwhile in a misogynistic framework that only values women for their youth and beauty isNobody talks about the trauma of it, not worth it at all, it's better to be average and smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:58 PM |
| 13 | "Develop lives outside the male gaze" - really good analysis of how ultimately futile the battle to prove yourself worthwhile in a misogynistic framework that only values women for their youth and beauty isBeauty is a trap. Careful, if you are beautiful it's for other people. Not yourself. A lot of people never learned to harness it's power. You essentially are a target for both men and women. Being beautiful without being intelligent is very dangerous for young women, unless they are extremely lucky, they will be used and abused most times. Most women will never realize this, they think beauty is all there is to attain and offer, but it's fragile. They develope and chase beauty in place of more i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:44 PM |
| 7 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?It's not always about how good their job is, a lot of it has to do with the quality of their upbringing and how their fathers treated their mothers, and what they were taught to believe about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 47 | TRP TACTICS: "Destroy Her Ego." Watch out for these 🚩s! 🗣️😂😂😂😂😂 her ego is attached to her vagina....he said that with a straight face. Men go their own way...women go their own way......biiiiishh......I hate this generation....but that kid was funny tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 20 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?I think wealthier parts of town/cities tend to have more quality people. Not always the case of course, but often enough. when I was living up north I got the random opportunity to be around a lot of random ppl and explore different cities, and I would notice really respectful men, like waiting for me to enter the elevator first/get of first, they always let women do things first and were mindful which I was not used to at all ...but when I was in the hood, I had to avoid all eye contact lool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 28 | In MemoriamR.I.P to a real one 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 15 | Love this blog addressed to men who say they want a strong womanThe only type of person that needs to control someone else is a weak person. You can tell the mark of a weak man with his obsession to control others 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 31 | Love this blog addressed to men who say they want a strong womanWow. Great article. It was very validating but also a bit depressing realizing that women like me have constant targets on our back and will rarely be accepted for who we are. Chances are high some domineering bum will always try to take away what we have worked for as if we aren't allowed to be more than the support to our male counter parts.....sigh In the words of Maya Angelou, ‘Of course I am a feminist. I have been a female for a long time now. It’d be stupid not to be on my own side.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What is your timeline to marriage?Omg I am glad you bolted 🙏🏾 wth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 6 | What is your timeline to marriage?Why do you think the marriage failed after being together for so long, curious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 17 | A FDS-Friendly Dating Approach That Will Get You A Quality, Long-Lasting RelationshipWow we have come a long way as a society and I here for it. Self-esteem, self-respect, and a full life. 🙌🏾 That's it. That's what you need in life, no other human being can complete you, but you can partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 152 | We should all be like this!!!!😂😂😂😂 if it's a weekend and I am bored, I sho will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Heartbroken (again) and feeling worthlessDon't internalize the actions of someone else. His actions have nothing to do with you. You are worthy and valuable always. Probably even more so now, you just have to realize it. I mean what kinda lame shit is that? Who does shit like that? Not a real man. The only reason you feel bad is because you think it's your fault, lol and it's not. It's him, it's all him, lay the fault where it belongs and you won't feel bad not even a second longer. Promise. You need to get angry, cuz that dude played … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 10 | Im fed up of my mom asking me to wear a bra at home!!Lol my family don't give a fuck, that's so weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 45 | Written by a man.Why is all the work on the woman? Like don't guys realize they can have any girl they want to if they also were willing to sell their souls and did whatever it took to get a woman? Boy go to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 9 | Please so not bypass your emotions and instincts. If a man makes you uncomfortable, nauseous, or want to run, just straight up block him/avoid him. Your body is smarter than your mind most of the time. The right man will make you feel safe. Pay attention.Sometimes a man will do all the right things but still you feel uneasy/on edge. Trust your instincts/gut. They are trying to protect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | This is something to bear in mind. The devil doesn’t always come with horns and a pointy tail. Sometimes, he can come in the form of everything you’ve ever wanted.Soooo true, imagine the narcissist thinking he's the victim 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 5 | What will it be, ladies? Equality or oppression?😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 13 | Please do not ask out men. EverLove to hear it sis. Right attitude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 4 | We have to dump them because they will never dump us. They will ruin our lives and self esteem before they let us go. Dump him sis, he wants you to.Lol what? 😂😂😂, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”I feel like because I was so strong willed and refused to throw myself away I was penalized for it and that's caused me some issues. No winning....well until now that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | This is so adorableThis is literally all I want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:48 AM |
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