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Sure you can find people to have sex with, doesn't mean they like you at all, more like they want to masturbate into you. How flattering? If you are an ugly woman you are invisible in most cases. Also, as an average woman, I have never had men just willing to buy me things lol.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 11:12 PM
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Don't other countries have even higher standards though? I thought some asian cultures are very picky, along with eastern European. They may take on a more "submissive" role, but it comes with a price.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 09:50 PM
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Once you pass like the age of 16-17 the amount of men who hit on you / creep on you greatly decreases
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:17 PM
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Best thing women can do on reddit is turn off their messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:15 PM
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Is it worth the mental exhaustion? I know that you love him, but as other people mentioned - at a certain point people become very set in their ways and only they can change it. This isn't an easy thing to get over, it's differences at your cores that are completely opposite to one another.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 04:45 PM
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It's good you are reflecting and tbh I feel like #7 will be a big one assuming you tell the truth or she finds out. Just like how the majority of men would probably not date a sex worker, many women wouldn't be ok with a guy who has been to sex worker even if it was once. I'm just saying this as a woman who has limited amount of sexual partners, someone more experienced than me may have 0 problem with this.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:39 PM
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As a woman, I've stayed in relationships until the literal wheels have fallen off, but by the time it was done I was already well mentally done that the breakup didn't hurt as much. I think women just reach a certain point that they are mentally exhausted and decide it's not worth moving on to another man after a divorce. The men I know that moved on very quickly did so because their previous wives were staying at home and did all that sort of labour. Once that labour is gone it becomes a huge i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:10 PM
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It's not banned, you can actually access the subreddit rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:48 PM
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Right? You hardly ever see a man date down in looks, and if he does he probably really despises her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:45 PM
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What lol? How is going your own way punishing men, I'm assuming you mean electing not to partner with them/have sex with them? Majority of women are with average men :S.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:41 PM
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This, it's on the same vibe as finding out your partner is paying for some girls OF etc. That all would be a huge no from me.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 04:11 PM
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Unfortunately probably 95% of men are pornsick to some degree, even if mild. I base that even if the guy was relatively normal in other senses he still had some delusion due to porn. Even if guys know porn is often fabricated and not how actual sexual functioning works they will still mimic or behave similarly to what they see. Also, whenever you see stories of men cutting back on their usage one of the first things they mention is how they start to recognize women more as people. This is even f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 11:09 AM
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I did respond and said what I needed to say in my initial post. You keep saying you are done only to just keep returning to comment to say you are done.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 02:35 PM
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Are you sure?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 11:14 PM
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How could you not see it, it's literally right above the comment you read. It's not unrealistic to want to date someone similar in looks and aspirations to you. So sorry you are triggered by that.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 10:45 PM
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I didn't need to dig through posts though xD.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 08:44 PM
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Imagine replying to a post made a year ago.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 06:35 PM
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I feel this sometimes but also loneliness passes. It's more so I get off feeling not much is going on in my life. Being with a man is only a temporary distraction ... I know it because I've felt extreme loneliness even when having a boyfriend and great friends before. I noticed it stemmed from a lack of personal identity. Not saying this is the same issue for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 11:20 PM
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I like giving BJ's but my mindset has shifted and I don't think I'd do it without being taken care of first. If the guy doesn't insist on doing it he probably NEVER will. I don't even like receiving head that much but it's about him taking the time to figure out your pleasure as best as possible. The same thing with men approaching first ... you are better off if this is the way. A woman who gives first and gives it all receives NOTHING in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 04:44 AM
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They don't like it because if women don't pursue them then they literally have 0 chance at a relationship lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:51 AM
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This is extremely true - any man I've pursued when I was young and stupid never was considerate of me at all and simply didn't respect me. The ones who made moves on me first always put more effort and love into the relationship. You can tell when someone adores you or doesn't - men who don't show the initial interest first won't have that for you ever. He'll get with you just to be able to have sex with until he finds his dream girl. It's tough but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:46 AM
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Gosh I would venture to say most men in their 20s aren't even eligible - most eat like shit, do drugs, smoke ciggies, and drink copious amounts - a recipe for damaged sperm ... add in being pornsick and you can't even get it up to get the sperm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:40 AM
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They are absolutely unhinged to stalk you onto other subreddits, but I'm not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:54 AM
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Take away their ability to write here coupled with turning off dm's ... complete meltdowns take place. Says enough that they spam reddit care function as a last resort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:15 AM
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I'm starting to think there are a lot of men that actually have 0 essence for life other than sex .... the range of their mental depth is sex only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:55 PM
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Title should be "man finds out all men including himself are shit". Men are notoriously worse partners 90% of the time. And he blames her for her poor options? That's literally the whole selection out there. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:02 PM
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Gosh, there's nothing more embarrassing than having to propose to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:54 PM
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Absolutely. I feel as though this number is going to just increase with millennial men and younger basically being raised by porn from day 1. Loneliness for a lot of women is mental freedom from knowing many men are perverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:03 AM
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Disgusting, but not surprising at all. This lines up with my own personal experiences with being hit on with men. 13-16 years old was probably the worst of when I received attention from grown men, every year past that it significantly dropped off, became minimal at about 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:00 AM
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This 100% ... I don't creep any of the male-dominated subs the only exception being Ex-RP. I don't watch any of their videos etc on youtube either. Why? Because I wouldn't ever want to be with one of those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:38 AM
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Honestly ... if you asking about someone's career is that much of a trigger then I would suggest not dating that guy. It's fine to want to know what someone does just like it's fine for a man to not want to be duped by a woman on dating apps by her appearance. You clearly have good intentions ... if someone else can't see that then it's just not a good scenario and you will always be fighting an upward battle trying to prove something.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 10:06 PM
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I only see men talk about men's mental health in response to women. They don't do anything about it ... therapy... ? NOPE ... volunteering with local organizations ...? NOPE ... starting their own organization for men's mental health .. ? NOPE ... discussing mental health with their male friends and creating an open environment ...? NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:41 PM
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This is such a crazy post that it sounds like a troll. She's nuts, you got to be a certain kind of special to believe those things ... "Men are more intuitive and sensitive than women, and don't use these abilities for evil like women do" Has she ever heard of war ...? the holocaust???? like???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:57 PM
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I just physically cringed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:00 PM
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Anddddddd this is why you should NEVER date a man who isn't absolutely over the moon for you, and does the bare minimum. Bare minimum = not emotionally invested and mentally distant. He basically told her he only chose her because it was a tolerable situation at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:53 PM
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The thing that disgusts me the most is there are most likely places in the manosphere right now cheering on that she committed suicide. It's a win in their eyes. Just like how when an incel goes on a spree hurting innocent people, a woman hurting herself on her own will to them is the ultimate prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:14 AM
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This. I'd venture to say 99% of HVM are scooped up prior to age 30. They made it a priority to get married and be dedicated to 1 woman. Not talking about if a man got widowed or if he genuinely had a trash partner and got divorced. Talking about single never-married men past 30 are usually always walking red flags. Even if you are 20 y/o going for a guy over 30, 99% chance he is not HV at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:35 PM
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No, it doesn't bother me, they are simply background noise. We know men hold all the audacity, and most stupid ones will try and shoot their shot with someone who is much more successful than them. It's the same audacity old men have. There is no rhyme or reasoning to it, they are just scrotes lol. It's the same guys on online dating or on Reddit who will send their dick pic to any woman ... they are testing the waters because they have 0 else going on ... what do they have to lose?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:28 PM
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So basically just confirming what we all already knew ... never date or give an opportunity to men who use strip clubs. If your fiance requests going to a strip club for a bachelor party = call of the wedding, if his friends suggest it and he doesn't refuse = call off the wedding. No sane man that actually respects women goes to these places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:51 PM
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Men like to prop themselves up with the fairy tale that they will all "make it" and become successful, rich, and swarming in the puss at age 40+. It's a cope for the youth that they so miserably failed at. It's a comforting thought if they convince themselves, women, 30+ have nothing to live for because they honestly believe women are the cause of their problems. Basically, they are admitting they see women as nothing more than a walking fleshlight so when she ages she serves no purpose anymore.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:23 PM
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I remember being at the bar when I was like 21 and a guy approaching me who was 24-25 and even at that point I was honestly like ... what are you doing at the bar still lololol. I felt like even 4 years older than me was so huge of a difference, and tbh it is when you are 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:59 PM
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I have no objections to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:19 AM
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Ok?
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 09:50 PM
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What makes no sense is encouraging men to sow their seed with as many women as possible, but not for women to do it. But the men doing this thereby "taint" women for other men??? It boils down to a very selfish viewpoint, that he doesn't care about the average guy, he cares about the most successful getting theirs and that's it. These guys complain about a lack of virtuous women but want women to be non-virtuous for them. Also, there's seems to be some misconception that women don't care about w…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 08:17 PM
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Gases them up to think they are going to hit the jackpot down the road basically.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 01:11 PM
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Unfortunately, we have to assume that most if not all men now have some kind of addiction to porn. Most men will lie about their consumption if they are trying to seem more favorable. But the main telltale signs are following suggestive content on social media (immediate red flag), asking you to try things that would be seen commonly in porn, insulting women calling them sluts/hoes, etc., has gone to a strip club, hiding his phone/laptop, etc. - could be hiding folders of porn, deleted history c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:21 AM
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Brace yourselves ladies, 10 crossposts INCOMING any moment now!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:09 PM
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Says enough that he says "younger girls" without even changing their wording. Girls imply very young (not mature) instead of young women. They know the difference. Not surprising he's most likely one of these guys obsessed with "teens" who are technically legal (maybe).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:03 PM
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1-3 probably is exaggerated considering he needs her to manage his seizures and literally mentioned they moved in together for that reason. So it's only fair if she's his "medical support" for him to reciprocate in some manner. However, the second image is really crazy behavior and tbh justified in my opinion for people to suggest dumping her over the covid and obnoxious sleep disturbances. It just sounds like a low-value relationship overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:21 PM
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Honestly, women need to be way more selfish when it comes to looks. It's a hard world out there if you are unattractive at a baseline level. And it's so common that dad's genes the majority of the time dominate over the mother even if she is super good-looking. How often I see children looking like their father and not at all like their mother - it can be a disaster, especially for daughters. We should select partners with features that complement our own/balance-out sort of thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:46 AM
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No offense I can't imagine your husband having any wonderful traits, and if he does it's going to be heavily out shadowed by the fact he is straight-up abusive. He sounds narcissistic, and you sound like an empath (perfect victim for a narc). Narc's are abusive, but also can be charming at times to reel you back in. Reconsider leaving, the abuse is going to get worse ... I mean he's already being degrading to you in a sexual way .... like ????
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 05:48 PM
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I was gonna say this as well lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:42 AM
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This is the same with the Gabby Petito scenario that they believe she was the abuser and that Bryan did nothing to her. There's a subreddit supporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:05 PM
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I saw this a while ago, and yeah .. the justification on tik tok was pretty bad. He literally stalked her, and I think put like a tracking device on her after being separated? Now their child will grow up without a mother and a father in prison. 100% guaranteed if a woman stalked her separated husband and shot him in the head she would be viewed as an absolute monster with 99% of women denouncing her actions as disgusting. She would be ripped to shreds by men and women alike. Men have the privil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:02 PM
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I agree completely with at least the part of not living with a man prior to marriage. I adore my own private space and need A LOT of time to recharge by myself. I do see the benefit though of never living together lmao, you'd only be responsible for yourself and not have to do all the housework/meal prep etc. for a man who does less. There will always be an imbalance of house work dependent on the woman even despite if the man is HV and pays for things and does a fair share. They will never know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:53 PM
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LOL that is honestly the biggest load of BS. I'm wanting to go to grad school to set myself up the best I can for my own future even if that includes being single. Like ... why wouldn't I?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:19 PM
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I mean ... just go look through any dating app in rl or dating app stuff on reddit. The majority of the men are honestly ... 4-5/10 even in their 20s. There is a HUGE inequality in looks between men and women. I've started to creep these subs for a good laugh, I almost feel bad for these guys when they've sent out 1000s of yeses to women and only get 20 yeses in response. Even if their stats did improve in their 30s ... what is it going to improve to ... 40 yeses? if they set their age range to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:14 PM
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Lmao, I saw this thread, it was an absolute shitshow. Either men validating their cum brain or women yelling "PICK ME!!! I"M COOL" stating she points out boobies and asses whenever she can to her husband/partner. It's such cringey behavior for both men and women. Honestly, if my partner ever said anything like that to me I would at this point just dump him. I'm not interested in this outright trashy behavior. I don't have the mental capacity for it, you will spiral the drain if this behavior hur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:12 PM
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Men just don't respect us nor think of us as having any good opinion or knowledge on a topic. But honestly I'm glad if men take over this burden of swaying men that porn is bad. It's too much energy for us to waste on trying to solve this problem, may as well spend our time elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:48 AM
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Also the other line I hate is "women care less about how many sexual partners a man has been with".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:24 AM
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I'd avoid OLD as of right now, it's really a needle in a haystack type scenario where 99% of men there are LV especially past a certain age. There's a shit ton of bitter men and they multiply on platforms like reddit and dating apps. If anyone is attacking your lack of children it's probably because they wish they were not tied to children. Wouldn't be surprised if many of those men walked away from their families. Honestly it's really hard to give advice because your situation is a bit differen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:22 AM
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Yes completely! Most women under 25 don't want someone typically over the gap of about 5 years, it happens but it's still really not common at all. This is just what I have experienced amongst my friends which on average any gaps are max 4 years. I only know one girl from high school who married a guy 10 yrs older, and started dating him at like 18 ... I feel bad but she kind of got socially outcasted b/c most people thought it was weird.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 11:02 PM
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Unfortunately I think it is a case of where the man hasn't mentally matured, or feels as though they have nothing to lose by trying to pursue almost teenagers. There's no sense of shame, guilt etc. that some guys have no problem dating a girl who may be his own daughters age. Having a deep connection doesn't matter.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 10:35 PM
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It's an easier pill to swallow to assume women who want someone on par = fat ugly old lazy. It means it's therefore someone he wouldn't want anyways so it's not a loss. The first line of attack is always devaluing a women's appearance b/c honestly that's what a lot of men see women for solely. But again I appreciate your calmness in trying to discuss this matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:42 PM
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You are a saint for trying to talk this out with him, but clearly his mind is made up. Wanting someone on par even if we remove looks from the equation is apparently selfish. It's honestly amazing how many people cannot understand that HV is basically 90% personality/actions of a person. It's not obtuse for a women with a graduate degree to seek a partner with the same, it's not shallow for a 6/10 to seek a 6/10 in looks, it's not absurd to want a partner that follows similar lifestyle habits as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:11 PM
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Honestly, it's just a tactic to prop up their viewer with false hope and ego. You are right ... in reality what they are spewing doesn't even work out. If you have a rotation of women while women are supposed to be a virgin or like 1 partner max ... you thereby "taint" the pool for all other men if following this rule. If you use abusive strategies in a relationship b/c it's supposedly "alpha" you literally ruin her on purpose for the next man, and not to mention just in general ruin her health.…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 06:04 PM
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This is what the incel men WISH would happen in western countries. They want to be disgusting and guaranteed a virgin wife who let's be honest might not even be legal age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:06 AM
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That's how much they don't understand true self-improvement (mental growth) and will never escape their LV nature. They really believe everyone here wants to date famous people ... like no what we are asking for is consideration, respect, love, and someone who has goals/driven. Wanting a partner who has aspirations is not an insane requirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:21 PM
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THIS! I'm pretty sure there has been research done into hiring procedures where both male and female recruiters were more likely to deem the male as more apt for a job even if he didn't have all the qualifications compared to a woman who did have the qualifications. From a young age we are taught that men are always more competent or intelligent etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:57 PM
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I feel like many of our subs found FDS this way ... literally free advertising. We'll probably reach 300k by mid 2022 - which is crazy. Additionally whether it comes from FDS or not, hundreds of thousands of likes I see on FDS type messages on apps like tiktok. This sort of message is spreading regardless of it's origin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:31 PM
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Tbh it's more so hilarious that this sub get's placed on to the same level as murders etc. That's how you know how much men value women's opinions of them at the end of the day. They equate it to literal murder that women want to avoid low effort men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:27 PM
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Always alwaaaaaaays keep a separate alt for these places or they'll ban on sight. It's not your opinion that's wrong ... literally if it was said on an account not tied to here they'd allow it lmao. Also anyone here, dm/chat msg people instead to advise them to come to FDS don't post it. Put them on whitelisted, but otherwise keep your msgs unavailable to outsiders (scrotes).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:09 PM
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It's probably what he considers to be a personality trait lmao But you know what they say .. the more sharpeners the pencil has been in the smaller it gets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:26 AM
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I don't know any tbh except one's I broke up with ... like you mentioned not by choice. Even in the worse circumstances like them having a sick/dying partner they usually 90% have moved on prior to her dying or shortly after her passing. It's usually because they cannot handle managing kids/household, they are looking for a replacement asap to take the burden of his life. A man who looks inward and does work/goes to therapy without any pressuring from others is RARE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:09 PM
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At least male robots would actually be competent and probably would make for better partners in general compared to the real deal. I actually think this would be more beneficial for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:04 PM
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He did her a huge favour since she can't peek behind the love goggles. Dude is pornsick that's evident. But she would have faced the trauma of never being enough for him. Guaranteed even if she was enthusiastically giving oral/anal he'd eventually break up with her. Sounds like the kind of man who gets "bored" anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:17 PM
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The "dick is abundant and low value" ... doesn't mean equating you to your parts. It's a saying used meaning there's a shitton of guys who'd want to f** you if another man doesn't which is honestly the truth. I don't agree with sleeping with whoever, but it is true that you could most likely find some man who'd want to stick it in you no matter if you were old, fat, ugly etc.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:03 PM
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I know a plethora of women who have been divorced post 50 and have remarried or repartnered. It may be true that there are some men who don't find women their age attractive past a certain point ... but it doesn't really matter. There are still a buttload of men who still do. As I'm sure there are women who don't find men their own age attractive.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 10:57 PM
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Imagine openly admitting on an article how much of a porn addict you are lmao, these guys truly have no shame about their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:56 PM
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I don't get why some women willingly date these guys either. He is not dating you because he holds genuine interest. Like ... he is dating you because of his porn preference and because he doesn't need to hold responsibility when dating someone younger. It's pretty much a sign he will resent you as you age and always be looking at the next young girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:11 PM
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Most men are not sane. I'm pretty sure their frontal cortex get's damaged or actually never fully develops so they get stuck in this childish mentally and feel deserving of someone else's youth. It's also bizarre how they feel 0 shame either, or don't understand the concept of being a weirdo/creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:06 AM
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I had to look up his account, claims to be 28?? The comments do not lie. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:53 PM
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Yeah I'm not sure about this "dating down" thing that apparently men are more prone to do. Most men want the top top percent of attractive women - it's more so they will SETTLE with a woman they aren't as attracted to just so that he has a waifu to manage his life and maybe provide sex while he fantasizes and wanks off to his dream woman. They act like it's an absolute prize for women to settle for some guy that doesn't even like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:41 PM
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So gross ... BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:26 PM
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<3 this is sweet, it's just even nice hearing about other people in similar scenario
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:23 AM
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The amount of damage one guy has caused to me is insane ... it wrecked havoc on my nervous system, and as you mentioned and completely impacted my health in every other way. It took me years to mentally recover and I would not say I'm physically recovered. I'm thankful I found courage to walk away as I can only imagine it would have gotten worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:17 PM
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Men: "I want a woman who is not a gold digger and pays all her own bills and goes 50/50 on dates, or better yet pays for me most of the time on top of doing all the house, child, and emotional labour" Women: - get's highest education, good job, and maintains a sense of self worth to provide for herself- Men: "Women aren't interested in MMEEEEE!!! They are TOO much like men nowadays, they should be home having babies and getting married at age 18 - NOT out getting a degree and working." anddddd r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:06 PM
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I mean it's fine if it's the kind of relationship you have with someone. But outright asking like that prior to the date takes the romance out of it. To me that would imply that person meant going as friends. I'm not surprised she said no.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 08:09 PM
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And men will bitch and moan saying that as a young woman this is our prime time for dating and better find a man fast ... what are they talking about ... ? There is no decent men no matter the age bracket lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:28 PM
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It seems like some actual genetic/mental error that many men have ... either wanting to reproduce with barely developed teens and younger, or wanting to reproduce with women/girls blood related to them. And yet you rarely see this defect in women. Like for every 1000 pedo men there is 1 weirdo pedo woman (tbh this is generous I think the gap is larger than this). It's even weirder they will boast about this. Definitely something went wrong with nature here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:24 AM
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This ... I never understood the hype around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:42 PM
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It's so alarming to me that men don't find this weird at all ... like ... knowing someone as a literal child and then f***ing them down the line once finally legal??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:41 PM
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This was exactly what I was going to bring up. Here men in construction earn $25-30/hr. Meanwhile any mentally tasking job that deals with the elderly or children get's minimum wage or barely above. Men actually get compensated for their work/contribution. Women don't get compensated for any of the mental load they take on. And often this mental load doesn't go away, she doesn't get to go home and just "disconnect" from work - oh ... and as a cherry on top she often takes on all of the mental-lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:26 PM
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Huge lesson: DO NOT send nudes. EVER. or racy sexualized pics etc. You can very well assume that in a lot of cases the guy you are talking to will either stash them on his phone for an eternity, share them in the group chat with friends and potentially leak them/use them as threat later on. Just don't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:09 PM
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This is not your fault at all but wow ... I feel so bad for those women. I mean it's a choice that they stay with their partner who does that. But the fact they physically recoil to embrace the oncoming trauma from their lvm is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 03:19 AM
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I love that so many men are so disillusioned that they truly think someone 24 years younger than them is interested. Tbh I'd shame him, it's weird deplorable behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:50 AM
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On top of it they'll shame their wives/girlfriends into thinking how they are acting is completely normal and that they are just insecure/jealous LOL. Tbh it's so laughable and depressing how much men have gotten away with. Women as a whole need to call these men out for what it is ... which is WEIRD, and then block/delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:14 PM
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Honestly ... if it was the other way around and the post was in the sub about no sex relationships the men would be justifying the cheating. Men often justify their own cheating as a "need". Her cheating was probably an emotional need not getting met ... and I think he knows this by the title stating "wife" ... because he knows he should have fucking wifed her 5 years ago and now he's losing her because of his failure to commit for 10 years. I guarantee this is the scenario, he probably treated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:52 PM
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This is the breakdown ... probably 80% of young women below the age of 25 find a 5 year gap too much, 10+ years it's more like 95%. And so on. If you are 40+ hoping to get with an under 25 y/o your chances are slim, and even if you do get with a girl in this age group I can guarantee: Everyone is talking behind your back and find's the relationship gross and is most likely telling her to get out of that scenario And the dynamics of the relationship are either: 1. She's been abused into the scena…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/21 02:09 AM
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Why are men so weird ... like ... ????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:24 AM
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Being abused and having to live/deal with that trauma. I realized how much of what I was focusing on before ... was wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:21 PM
33

You hit the nail on the head with no matter what pornsick men are just never going to change. They will always look for the next high and the next woman they can jerk off to. You could be the most stunningly beautiful woman and he will still do it. Scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:15 PM
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Honestly I bet if they had to eject a baby out of their wee wee and rip the shaft all the way down .... the tune would change real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:09 PM
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Seen countless times ... wife is in hospital and husband has an affair on the side lined up to swoop in once the wife passes. Often times I assume the other women too is in on it ... which is shameful pickme behaviour. Don't date incompetent men who can't take responsibility over a household/kids. Probably the largest indicator he will leave once times get tough and he has responsibility for once *eyeroll*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:42 PM
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On a side note to this I wonder if there will be a way to bypass menopause one day. Menopause has many detrimental effects to women regarding bone health, skin health etc. It's hard enough time on top of majority of husbands bailing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 10:37 PM
2

Literally what I thought ... he looks like 20 years older than her lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:15 PM
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I looked at the picture first without the text ... and automatically assumed it was a story about a grandpa marrying a child. LOL. I mean ... this does actually happen so I'm not surprised my mind instantly went there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:35 AM
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Hopefully this will be becoming less and less common (in a general sense) just due to the sheer amount of women excelling academically, and career-wise. Most women I know are on par or earning more than their partners. FDS is so important to ensuring women are prepared, walk away when they need to or don't accept the trash in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:24 AM
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Gosh I'm so thankful at times I'm past my "prime" to not deal with this shit anymore. Of course I say this sarcastically about prime but this seems to happen mainly between the ages of 12 - 17. There's so many predators out there, it's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:06 PM
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The irony is he says women are looking for the next best thing but in fact the things he is saying sounds like HE is actually looking for the next best thing. Think about it ... if he was to re-enter the "dating market" he's complaining about money, women not loving men, body count, women peaking while reassuring himself he'll peak in 30-40. Why is he saying this if he is happily in a relationship? He is bringing you down to trap you while looking for a different woman is what it sounds like. He…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 06:43 PM
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This right here. If a man is not enamoured with you then he doesn't really give a shit - you are there out of convenience. You can clearly tell when men actually admire their partners and when they don't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:36 AM
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There's probably men who think we are bullshitting, but most men rn are undateable. It is indeed 1 in 1000 lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:25 AM
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Honestly past 25 it's hard to find a guy with good hair or any hair ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:10 AM
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The irony is they'll soon be displeased with their pregnant wife for not looking like a supermodel anymore. Justify their cheating and then dip for an 18 y/o.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:52 PM
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Honestly I feel like a lot of women live in disbelief, they ignore the red flags. The fear of being alone can be stronger than looking at truth in the face. They probably also feel like they are going crazy and ignore their intuition. You see it all the time when another other women tells the gf/fiance/wife that their partner is cheating on them ... and they choose to ignore/block out the information and continue dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:30 PM
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... that is so depressing but not surprising in the least. I feel like most men don't even like their partner or women in general. They don't view them as unique individuals with personalities. Just an object to masturbate into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:26 PM
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True! There was usually like a year courting period, ofc there's exceptions where people would have sex but it was fairly taboo before marriage. The most that would happen would be maybe some kissing and holding hands. Men didn't have mass amounts of porn at their fingertips/one click away. They don't need to care anymore about pursing when they can look at a different woman every day, multiple times a day who is naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:24 PM
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Just re-inforcing if you are past the age of like ... 24 and are wanting a proposal, do not wait past 2-3 years. If you've discussed things and nothing has happened he is more than likely going to continue putting it off, and before you know it you'll be at the 4, 5, 6, ... 11 year mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:33 PM
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This is seriously psychotic pornsick behaviour, not to mention the age gap in which she is a MINOR. If someone is willing to blow past boundaries like this, they are a predator in some form or another. This guy apparently a predator through and through and needs to be locked up. Who knows what he'll pull next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:23 PM
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Been spit on and stalked for blocks by one young man for literally no reason. He was definitely on something and looked like a street person, not totally sure if homeless but gave those sort of vibes. Came out of my house for a walk only to be cussed at by an older homeless man calling me every single female oriented slur under the sun. I'm sure there's more but honestly they would have happened years ago. Any female homeless person I've come across hasn't really done anything, they more have ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:14 AM
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I never really get commenting on a news article, there really is no discussion. It's just men screaming into the void in most cases with no response. These are the "golden penis syndrome" men that the article is referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:03 PM
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Best bet is to just simply ignore most men. Don't give them the time of day. Problem is a lot of women are accepting not even the bare minimum ... no courting, no dates, no ring ("dating" for 5+ years), pornsick, being "roommates", doing all the mental labour and housekeep/child labour. They are doing all of this from literal CRUMBS of attention which sets the bar continuously in hell. Men won't step up and take accountability, they cannot even make it to therapy to work on their own traumas. 95…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:57 PM
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He was not perfect. If he couldn't ever be bothered to plan a date with you it means it didn't matter to him enough. Even if he hated doing certain things, it's the thought that counts a lot of the time; in this case he wasn't thinking about anything that would make you feel special. He's not making you a priority at all, is that what you would want for life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:37 PM
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LOOOL the men are so mad about this post. Like I'm sorry you can be nice and all but it doesn't mean you put effort into a relationship. It's tiring to be the only person to plan things, let alone baby a man who can't be bothered to remember his own parents bdays. The bar truly is in HELL, men expect BEING NICE is enough. This is the BARE minimum of just being a decent person??? They really don't understand the mental load because they never take any of it on - no wonder they get so upset about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:31 PM
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I know this doesn't make the scenario easier but I'm in my 20s and thinking that it's not realistic to have a relationship. It's the same scenario that most men don't do shit lol. If it was any better still in our 20s majority of us would be paired up, which seems to be less and less the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:45 PM
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I swear most men are narcissistic ... they cannot take accountability for anything lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:40 PM
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Men are literally babied and loved unconditionally ... I see this all the time with grown sons being babied by their mother's. Even in long-term care elderly men often receive more attention because they are seen as helpless whereas female patients are seen as competent. Also, how many women stay with cheaters, whereas if a women ever cheats she is at risk for being killed (and many men justify it). Women are not loved unconditionally, at least not by men. Marriage/relationships are more of a ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:07 PM
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Ahahaha, was just about to post this. Inb4 males coming through crossposting this to their 10k imposter FDS community to claim all the accounts here are men or bots. Honestly even if it was a lot of men it's so hilarious to make an account just to follow here or fake post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:39 PM
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If anything women are so well-prepared because we learn of societies pressure and just the nature of many LVM early on. We see this when we are 13 y/o children who men screech and holler at. We are better able to move forward in life and learn to not base worth off of men's approval. Also it's just the state of the world that I think a lot of us accept there is very few truly HVM. Meanwhile you got RP, incels, MGTOW screaming from the high heavens that once men hit 40 their hairline will be full…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:18 AM
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Lololol. I always love reading these posts ... just to point out... I don't know one person with an age gap greater than 5 years in their relationship. I haven't ever seen the illustrious silver fox in real-life or at this point any man I'm attracted to over the age of 35. No 20 y/o actually wants to date a guy who is 10+ years older - they either are groomed/manipulated/abused into the scenario or are only there because he offered money/desirable lifestyle. To go off the last point ... majority…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:03 AM
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Personally I've used a laser home device on my legs, armpits, bikini line. My legs really took to it and hair is not prickly anymore, grows slowly and some areas have no hair. armspits/pubic hair is a bit different it definitely slows some growth and made growth less consistent. But I think I'd need in office laser to get more permanent removal! To me it's worth it. I don't mind hair in some spaces, and didn't start lasering due to any man. It just helps to cut down on time spent shaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:20 PM
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Absolutely. Women are giving too much free labour to men for 0 in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:42 PM
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I'm so thankful I've always been of the mindset of wanting a nice ring. I want something I can be proud of wearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:39 PM
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Another example of males being more emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:33 PM
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The women who are telling you that you are insecure are in fact the insecure ones. You are right in your assessment where they have to openly convince themselves that this is somehow normal behaviour. There's a difference between finding someone attractive and leaving it at that vs. openly checking someone out in front of your s/o, making comments about the person, or jerking to them in porn etc. If the guy has a wandering eye that much IN FRONT OF YOU best believe he is doing worse things when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:31 AM
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Idk what's more sad ... the wife staying with him or the guy being convinced that the fake scam accounts are still her despite the evidence it's not. Literally this is what porn and the like does to these guy's brain's. Makes them truly delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:18 AM
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I think society is realizing that having a bunch of single and uneducated men is dangerous. The men provide nothing - and I'm not just talking about economic support for a woman to settle down. Men seem to be lacking the ability to form bonds with women. Finally women are deciding they won't be settling for the scraps, deciding early on they are going to be highly educated and go for the most as possible within their own life because men aren't going to provide that at all. Honestly I find a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:33 AM
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You can assume the very worst. I've seen a few tiktoks of women who are strippers talk about their experience with men. Majority of these guys are ofc partnered, and even if they aren't having sex with strippers they are still paying them for "comfort" and often bitch about their wives/partners. I can understand being pulled to a strip club once and regretting it. But I really would consider it a huge red flag if a guy has been there more than that. Also for me, a stripper at a bachelor party wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:25 AM
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Oh boy, the scrotes are mad about this post lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:02 PM
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Tbh if it were me I'd full out call off the wedding. It sounds like they would end up going to a strip club no matter what you say. If they weren't considering it as an idea they wouldn't of brought it up to test the waters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:59 PM
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A big one is men threatening to ruin women's reputations/release their nudes if they don't comply (meaning staying in the relationship). It's disgusting how often this happens with no repercussions. The women comes off as the hoe for ever having a nude shared with someone she cared about. Get's demonized for it while he often walks away problem free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:52 AM
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My textbooks do indeed state that 1/3 of infertility is through men, 1/3 through women, and the other 1/3 is unknown cause. It's equal the amount men cause issues, it's just not talked about and easier to blame the mother. Also it's not surprising male infertility or busted sperm is common. Many of the men I know are alcoholics, don't eat a single fruit or vegetable unless forced, or are addicted to some kind of drug/smoking. Usually these things all go together. Also, there's a reason why sperm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:39 PM
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Basically, they've probably really missed this sub while it was privated lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:08 AM
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Oh no I totally understand that xD. I just was voicing that I doubt there's any actual long term age gaps if the ladies here are in FDS. I've never heard of a large age gap ending well when described on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:22 PM
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The most high value relationship I had was less than 2 year age gap. Also I guarantee all of those 10+ year gap are from random scrotes voting or pickme's trying to justify their relationship. Lol. If he's seeking a 10+ year age gap he's automatically low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:02 PM
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Yes. I think there's just certain things you value and other's you don't so you aren't seeing the "leagues" aspect. But they do exist.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:19 PM
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I'd like a 1.5 - 2.0 carat diamond (lab is fine) but the price of this widely depends who you go with and the characteristics of the diamond. But on average it's probably around 10k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:41 PM
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They pop up because no other woman wants them either so they got to cycle through all their prior options xP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:16 PM
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And his point is .... ? what? I want a good life. Men these days don't provide that, so I'm going to go get it myself then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:20 AM
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This is reddit in general, telling women to: JuSt CoMMun1CATe YOU WERE SNOOPING THROUGH HIS PHONE HOW DARE YOU So WHAT if he fantasizes about incest. He's not harming anyone. BARF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:08 AM
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Honestly ... this is true. Many guys that are single past 30 don't know how to be a bf in a lot of cases, refuse to get married, or dragged a forever gf on for 10 years and then she found her self-worth and dumped him. I'd say majority of the HVM get scooped up in their 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:48 AM
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Tbh now that I think about it a lot of the women in my extended family have married men younger than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:44 AM
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Congrats sis! This is so true lmao, I've mentioned this before but will say it again "if he wanted to he would" is absolutely 100% true. I mean ... my HS bf back years ago would always buy my meals etc. and this was in HS ... he only had CHORE MONEY. So it's definitely not a money constraint, most guys are just lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:28 PM
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Why does she have to announce this? Oh wait, she's only announcing this to be the cool girl and receive "e-props" from men. Funny thing is this is humiliating to both men and women. Imagine a guy making a post about not caring if you have small boobs, "ID raTHERr have SmoL nice b00bed girl than the MEAN big titty girl". Even if you say you don't care .. most women do in fact care about height etc, it's always subconsciously there. Just like how men subconsciously whether they admit it or not loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:21 PM
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Not worried about it, just wouldn't want to deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 01:43 AM
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I don't think this is because of FDS, it just sounds like some of the people you have known are shitty. Trust there are many women who hold FDS type beliefs but just aren't speaking it out loud, and it's becoming more and more common on social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:19 AM
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She stated her boundary and he continues to wants to see her but on her dollar? Also, 10 dates and they haven't discussed being bf/gf? Hope she get's out of this scenario. He's going to be nickel and diming her later if they were to become bf/gf anyways. Newsflash to lurkers, most non-reddit users DO pay for their date's meal (etc.) all the time with the ODD exception. NOT only this but they also enjoy being able to make their partner happy and provide. I have personally never experienced a guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:39 PM
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Oh god this is so cringe and a recipe for disaster. He's gonna force her to play mommy, wreck her car, put her into debt and then probably cheat. If he's not willing to change on his own he definitely is not going to change with you aiding him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:45 AM
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Yeah I don't bother keeping male friends anymore. It's especially hard if you share similar interest/hobbies - many of them will take that as a deep bond and will get pissy at you when you don't see the friendship as romantic. It's pretty unfortunate. I think it'd be beneficial if men and women could be friends w/o men viewing the woman as something to f***. It'd probably widen their perspective if they actually saw us as beings with interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:40 AM
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Can't make it past the first one. You get fuck zoned, friendship ends (never existed). The End. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:45 PM
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I just personally dm women with the link to here, saves the hassle xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:17 AM
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It's not even just the non-working ones, add another 20-30% who don't have any aspiration for themselves and work dead-end job without any care. You don't need an education to do well, but it's the lack of having any drive to do well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:09 AM
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"Thank god he's finally leaving me alone"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:17 PM
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Oh my ... a man potentially (probably) killing his fiancé and then returning home and disappearing like nothing happened *shocked pikachu face* Also very telling that this post getting downvoted by men ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:10 PM
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Damn like ... I know here we joke about what demographic these guys probably are ... but really like ..... IT SAYS RIGHT THERE LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:55 PM
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I get where you are coming from with this. It's almost like what is the point of trying to find love if that love will always be secretly be desiring other women. Unfortunately the best it's going to get is finding a man who doesn't watch porn and truly adores & respects you as a person. Not only this but sees other women as PEOPLE. I think a big indicator as well is how he feels about the legal age. Like ... a decent sane 30 y/o man who respects women would see an under 25 y/o and be disgusted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:11 PM
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I'm in my 20s still but am lucky to have avoided for the most part any comments on being single. If acquaintances ask if I'm seeing anybody they accept my answer of that I'm not looking - they never start spewing "BUT WHAT ABOUT... ???". Maybe my friends/family are just woke in that sense ... they understand life isn't just about relationships, and many of my relatives have found love after divorce, and in their 50's etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:31 PM
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Keep accounts on different browsers is easiest. Also I keep a different account on my phone for general browsing (not posting). You are most likely to get banned from other big political / movement type subreddits. Majority of other's don't really care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:18 PM
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We can't win either way ... it'll either be ... 1. FDS members are old 2. If they are old they never married, never had kids, no relationships 3. If they are young they still don't deserve to have standards 4. If they are 18-25 in FDS they are ugly and fat femcels The funny thing is ... if I choose to be single there is some guy out here being forced to be single. In USA for example things are basically 50/50 gender ratios until about 50 years of age once women start outliving men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:51 PM
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Wow the lurkers really didn't like this post lol. How do they not get it? This is men who target young women specifically to "get off". It's a thing men have been known to do in hospital settings as well where they purposely soil themselves etc. and request a young nurse to clean them up. EVEN MALE NURSES acknowledge this happens, hence they go in to make a point to the male patient that if you soil yourself you could get a male nurse who cleans you up. If you need help you take what help you ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:27 PM
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I never have been physically assaulted by a man nor have I ever hit a man. It's not normal. The men who are saying people just need to talk it out are probably the ones who have committed similar acts glorified in the material they fap to. If a guy ever did this to me during sex w/o consent (I wouldn't allow being slapped in face/spit/choked etc. even with consent) I would promptly stop the session and take it as an assault. I didn't sign up to be abused and it'd be a huge red flag because of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:49 PM
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Men are so fucking gross. He even freaking organized them? Delete all the photos where possible. Contact the exes if possible to let them know this creep is saving their nudes. Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:32 PM
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I don't have any experiences with age gaps (thank goodness), but just LVM in general. I regret it so much giving any LVM a chance in a relationship. Majority of the guys I dated years ago (late teens/early 20s) are still single with no prospects. I know this because they still try to contact me even 5-10 years of no contact on my end. They did nothing with their youth to secure their future and so they still try to contact me to try and rekindle something that doesn't exist anymore. I just conti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:12 PM
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Tbh I'm pretty sure eventually (10-20 yrs) they will have some kind of treatment that can reverse the appearance of aging to a significant degree. I mean something that works from the inside, not surgery or fillers etc. I like to stay optimistic on this, but also it's important not to base our lives around it. Regardless I'm still excited for the possibilities xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:29 AM
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In that case I wonder how many male lurkers trying to pose as women selected "single and looking". Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:15 PM
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Is anyone able to answer to this poll, even lurkers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:06 PM
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Sounds like somebody needs therapy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:46 PM
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Because vast majority see women as objects, plain and simple and have 0 empathy. There are subreddits that are dedicated to posting random pictures of groups of young women and choosing which one you would f*** if you could choose. It'd be very interesting to see the reaction if tables were turned and the opposite subreddit existed. But it probably won't because women aren't creeps. And if it does exist it was definitely created by another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:56 AM
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A lifetime of constant rejection without self-reflection. It's straight up narcissism/selfishness on their part. Men have the privilege to think the world revolves around them in all circumstances. I also think this is why this same group is the people who also happen to be anti-vax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:01 PM
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I think many sperm banks cap at 30 for males which is even more hilarious. So much for a male 40+ prime LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:56 PM
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Men are truly ruined by porn and media. Think about how many movies (most of them) have an average/low attractiveness male bagging a model. Tbh even for women this is true ... regarding like romance films/books etc. Not that men cannot be romantic but 99.9% of them won't ever be that way. Like the expectation that a LVM/ZVM will all of a sudden put forth effort 5 years into the relationship. Women will try their best to fulfill the male fantasy but men won't do their best to try and fulfill the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:51 PM
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Awesome, I remember looking to see if this feature existed before was disappointed it didn't. Glad I can turn it off now :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:42 PM
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Typical old scrote being disgusting as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:15 AM
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Don't you just love it when we get more free foot traffic. Lol. I'm really not sure why this made it to choosing beggars. She didn't say anything to the guy about what she wanted, just chose to ghost him. She isn't begging to him for anything? She's just telling her story to other ladies that wealth does not guarantee effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:28 PM
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I walk every day for exercise ... like why would I do this for a date? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:51 PM
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100%, if he's not asking = you are NOT a priority for the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:11 PM
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I've done this on and off a few times. Just remember not to feel defeated if you don't get a response or something. Some people are very cautious about messages they see or don't even see the message at all! Also, most people who post their relationship woes to reddit are often still in denial, so a subreddit that tells them the truth straight up is probably something they often want to avoid (but may come back to). Either way if it's 1 in every 10 messages that there is some success then that i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:28 PM
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Yea the realistic cake topper would be the groom on a gaming pc littered with his empties and the bride holding a crying baby whilst picking up his mess. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:55 PM
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Literally the wedding cake topper with the bride dragging the groom by the collar to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:44 PM
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Wall as in reproductive capability, ok sure and usually after 35 it starts to get dicey. Men can pump out sperm but ideally they'd be under 30 providing said sperm rather than 40+. That's about it ... they don't have a stop in reproductive capability, but just because you have that capability doesn't mean you should do it. We all age ... all cells accumulate more damage as we age, and men aren't excused from that. And tbh I have yet to see a "silver fox" in real life ...
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 11:16 PM
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It's crazy I still know so many single people, the women are all fine - doing well, succeeding in career etc., still look the same as early 20's. The guys I know who are single don't know how to date, abuse drugs/alcohol, no career, live at parents and have to rely on their male friends who do have success. On top of this they are most likely all porn sick, inducing low self-esteem and 0 drive. It's not going to get better. These guys are hopeless and will not improve without therapy - and many …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:43 PM
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Omg this is hilarious. Tbh wish she would have asked him his age and then proceeded to say "you're too old for me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:32 PM
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The thing that's interesting, I'm sure majority of them wouldn't ever want to be a woman despite them claiming we live on "easy mode".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:47 PM
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Whenever I read posts about FDS and how awful it is the one thing they ALWAYS seem to push is that we advocate for women "stealing" from men. They see women not wanting to be 50/50 on dates as stealing lol. They really think that all of us are out here going on dates, putting up with men, and getting ready just for a fucking dinner? LOL? The actuality of FDS is not dealing with BS men who don't want to contribute or put forth any effort into dates and just want to bang. How he treats you in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:44 PM
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I agree this is also the most noble thing to do if you are no longer interested. Guys should really take note tbh instead of stringing women on for years. If I've broken up with someone I've always made sure to fully do so, block and delete as well. It's not good for one's sanity to keep loose ends (aka looking at his socials or talking to him casually still "as friends"). Also works wonders with guys who are stalkers or won't let you leave the relationship - no contact is the only option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:40 AM
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Let's be honest he's probably one of the guys who actually does find teenagers attractive and hates being called out on it since he conveniently left out what you screenshotted. They are desperately trying to take us down by any means necessary whether it's cherry picking statements, hiding context, or making parody subs to imitate and then post it on other subs for "shock value". If they hate this sub so much then look the other way or block it from appearing (which he claims we make it to the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:46 AM
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They really out here make comparisons to the incel / mgtow Reddits and why we haven't been banned ... Literally members of those subs have openly posted about murdering, enslaving and raping women. Yet FDS deserves to be taken down for what? Calling men scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:33 AM
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The assumption is basically 99% of men watch porn at least once a week. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:08 PM
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Maybe I'm just petty but I definitely would have said the content he follows is disgusting and blocked. He is exactly like the majority of other guys. Trust you did the right thing. The openly following porn accounts/only fans models is a huge red flag. It literally shows he does not give a fuck who sees him objectify women. Could be his partner, his family, his work. He spends so much time with family but is ok with them knowing he consumes this kind of content :S? Ick. Guys like this become di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:34 PM
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That lady who met her partner at 20 and he's 42 ... she knows she rightfully fucked up. A man that old just has no business shooting his shot at under 30 y/o's. He's a weirdo. Most sane men even at age 30 look at a 20 y/o and say that is a child and can see the maturity difference. Also ... I'm pretty sure most users here are like 18 - 30 :S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:11 AM
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Expect a surge in members here soon :). We will be at 200k members within the next few months which is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:08 AM
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Yeah I'm unsure what this poster is talking about. I still see it everywhere except in games that focus more on storylines. Basically every single mmo and mobile game still has only young pretty or sexy female characters whereas the male characters have more variety, age differences, and half aren't stereotypically attractive. And even still most games have mods to change the female characters lol.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 02:49 AM
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The hilarious thing is when pickme's on reddit say "I LOVE going to h00ters, my boyfriend and I of 10 years love gawking at the hot waitresses together." So glad these places are not thriving/exist where I live, anytime I see such an establishment it always looks like a run down piece of shit on it's last leg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:00 PM
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Yep, basically have to operate on the assumption that men aren't safe to be around. This filth is everywhere. Also have to worry about cameras in the ceiling/toilets. I know I check every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:26 PM
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The ... "my girlfriend is so controlling she won't let me spend money on only fans, get's insecure when I watch porn and like naked insta pics".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:26 AM
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It's complete projection when these guys are super jealous it's often because they have porn sickness or cheating on their partner (most likely both). They will absolutely do anything to try and ruin your life. We gotta be selective and careful even when we have vet hard. NEVER send nudes even if you 100% trust him. Even if he would never share, someone could get to his phone and spread your nudes. Also be weary about having sex in a room where a phone/laptop/pc looks like it could be recording.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:52 PM
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Another commenter said that OP met her partner when she was 17 and he was 31. So sad and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:56 PM
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Imagine people condoning his porn sickness where it's evidently affecting his health lmao. At least with FDS and more information online, more women should recognize this as something is severely wrong with the man. Other signs are never being able to cum or losing erection throughout. Even if it's not a sign of pornsickness it often is something wrong regarding their health. If it were to happen now I'd just walk out instead of trying to give CPR to the dang limp sausage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:46 PM
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Feels good not being trapped into a scenario where I will be forced to not only work full time, but care for a total man baby, children, and take care of all the home chores. (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:01 PM
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Honestly, if men on average were more emotionally intelligent, thoughtful and romantic they'd be getting more sex from their partner. BUT women are always seen as the problem lmao so fat chance of change coming from the man. This is why it's so important to vet super hard when getting into a romantic relationships. The vast amount of porn already makes it difficult b/c guys just become lazy and rather goon out to women they'll never actually have sex or any kind of relationship with. You are rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:21 PM
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This is more common than we think. Occurring in my own family with bro over 30. He works a very hard job and works non-stop but still lives at home and basically forces us the rest of us to walk on egg shells due to his grumpiness. Mom does everything "home related" for him. He comes home from work and grumpily asks what's for breakfast/lunch/dinner. He won't make his own food, and if he does it's either a piece of meat, or Kraft dinner. If not this then he's eating out at restaurants/fast food.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:18 PM
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It's more of that women create things that these guys don't see as valid so it's automatically discredited. Even if she has the same passion it'd always been seen as lesser to the guy who believes in red pill. Also weird how they think women have no hobbies except for watching drama filled tv shows, shopping and gossiping. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 03:03 PM
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Yep ... whenever men get upset about this stuff going public it's because they've done something similar. They are just trying to cover their asses even if the video isn't about them. The more knowledge and exposure women have the more likely men are held accountable and punished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:50 PM
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It seems that they get temporarily banned, idk if it's an automatic thing? Probably a bunch of men report the videos so much that it auto flags them. I've noticed with other accounts that they often do come back after several hours where they probably have been cleared. But who knows. Either way it's problematic since these women's stories are being silenced at the height of their potential exposure to the public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:43 PM
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Honestly with how old he is, he's probably close to expiring. She's the ultimate pickme and you gotta be delusional to be in this scenario even if it's for money. But an "eye for an eye" I guess. He's using her for her youth, she may as well take his money. If anything if he's going for women decades younger than him, he should reap what he sows (women using him just for money) No sane woman would put themselves in this scenario xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:35 PM
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As of now her account got banned on tiktok ... I just went to look up to see if there was any other information :/.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:05 AM
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I'd say for the vast majority like 95% of women under 30, a man like 5+ years older than them is not appealing. For the few that do dabble in huge age gap relationships many are abusive relationships where the young woman has experienced some kind of trauma or lack of family support. There may be a SMALL percent of women who are content in like a 10 year age gap relationship, but these situations are rare. I have never known any of my female friends wanting to date men 5+ yrs older than them. Mo…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 05:55 AM
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For sure, almost every man is a porn addict now in one way or another. A harsh reality but many would not be able to give up porn even if they claim to not be addicted lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:49 AM
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Another reminder to NEVER disclose information like this - you could sleep with one guy prior and a new man will be upset by this. Also, maybe he didn't put it together that she could have felt forced to do certain acts before? And has more boundaries now? This guy is acting like if he had sexual freedom when younger that he would be some angel lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:20 PM
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And this is why I have told my family/friends I will NOT be having a child outside of marriage even if that leaves me childless. Also, I will not be going 50/50 - even if that leaves me without a partner. I know I will be absolutely resentful if I'm out here getting a Master's and my partner is an absolute do nothing with no goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:58 PM
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I regret dating so many LVM in my past ... it's so embarrassing. This post is 100% facts, they will come out of the woodwork ... I've had exes that I haven't spoken to in almost 10 yrs try to rekindle communication. I can tell it's not to just "check in", even some ignore when I say I do not wish to speak to them. They take this as a challenge. If you ever give a man who is not your match/on par with you a chance he will forever feel entitled to contact. Gosh I have more to say on this matter, p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:54 PM
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So tldr he is jealous of her success and mad that he's too lazy to go out and get his own success. There is nothing stopping him doing "impulsive" things if he wanted to. He's just mad she's able to be free in who she is and he can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:25 PM
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I can already tell this is going to blow up in his face so hard. Good. Every time men tell us we are going to end up alone ... just remember stories like this. You can do everything in the world to try and make a man happy but at the end of the day if he is a scrote he will never change and be dedicated. And probably 50% of men are like this, only as faithful as the options that come along. Hope his whole family ends up disowning him :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:35 PM
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Even if you have kids you most likely will still die ALONE and not knowing what's going on. A lot of people don't visit their parents in long-term care. Also, by the end of their lives my grandparents had literally 0 idea of who anyone was/is due to dementia nor did they really care lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:04 PM
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Majority of male friends I've had that I've been close to have fallen for me. They can't handle platonic relationships. And it's always out of left field they all of a sudden tell me they're in love with me. You end up realizing they were never actually your friend just a guy who wanted to fuck you since after you say no to the advances they don't want to be friends anymore. So I stopped having any close male friends basically, they are all acquaintances now. Only exception is I do have close ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:06 PM
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Even if they did actually prefer a flashlight we know their ego doesn't prefer it! They'd rather be boasting about how many women they've banged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:06 PM
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I've been stalking lab diamond and moissanite subreddits for a while. Can't wait to drop some coin on a nice ring. Don't want to wait for anyone to buy me something, also they'd most likely get the styling wrong anyways lol. Such a nice feeling to spoil yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:00 PM
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Also other than pleasure, a larger dick is just nicer to look at, and they are more fun to play with. I really doubt any man would get in trouble for saying "big boobs are more fun" or a "large ass in more pleasing to look at".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:51 PM
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It's so weird many men have 0 drive for themselves, like ... fine if you don't want to get a degree that's understandable. But they don't want to do anything else either like start their own business or pursuits that don't require an education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:08 PM
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And this is why we walk away from low/no effort. It's not worth dealing with this headache of trying to get a man to do something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:19 PM
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Another common one is the assumption that women are just stupid, the guy get's to know you "wow I thought you were stupid but you are actually really smart". Is just :S ... he told me he thought that way about me in the first place just because I was an attractive woman. So yeah ... basically you are an object to some men and that's about it.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 03:56 PM
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Slutty men want to be slutty in the first place, they want to stick their dick in everything (no standards basically). Men are only as faithful as the options available to them. So ya, I feel the same way as a woman who has purposely avoided sleeping with men and being very careful. Men complain about a woman being the town bike, but I wouldn't want to be with a guy who is the town "bike rider" so to speak. You aren't more desirable as a man to me if you have more experience ... this is some myt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:21 PM
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Ya there's some myth that all of us women are having a shitton of sex just because it's easier for us to do so? I don't use dating apps for one b/c I believe for the most part it's pretty trash way to find a partner. Secondly, I don't sleep with random men/one night stand etc. only men I'm in a relationship with. There's too much risk involved with sleeping with a random person, and also I don't want the regret.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:47 PM
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Not wanting to have sex with men is a hate crime. Also, you will end up dying alone if you have some basic standards aka human decency and want a man who remembers things about you, is thoughtful, cares about your sexual pleasure and not consumed with fapping to other women. Women are NOT allowed to walk away from men - this is VIOLENCE against men and why feminism is BAD. But uh yeah here's 10 ways to manipulate women (as a middle aged man) into having sex with you on the first date and why not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:16 AM
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Honestly this sort of thing would probably reduce down sexual related crimes lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:48 PM
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There are so many unhinged men in general. I often go out running/walking and do my best to always face traffic, move to people's lawns if there is no sidewalk etc. I do everything to prevent getting hit, and yet ... there are always men who absolutely love to drive as close to the curb as possible in attempts to hit me or make me jump out of the way. They have plenty of space on the road, and no oncoming traffic ... so I can tell it's intentional. Not to mention the added revving they do. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:59 PM
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Would rather masturbate than have sex with a man lol. Says enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:43 PM
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And remember if they do end up shooting up a school or beating their partner etc. it's just because they "had a bad day".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:25 PM
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RIGHT?! She is honestly stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:21 PM
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Yeah I don't even bother clicking to see where certain posts are crossposted to. It's very interesting how so many people take such a committed hatred in FDS. I don't like mgtow/incel etc content so therefore I don't visit their subreddits or take time out of my day to message people posting there. Like why bother visiting here if it's causing you so much torment? If you feel your viewpoint is superior and FDS is immoral then why not be the bigger person and completely ignore this sub? It just b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:07 PM
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This is a very good sign, he didn't fight you when you brought up the issues of porn. He wanted to quit on his own accord. It sounds like he's capable of being able to reflect on his actions and do better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:25 PM
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Yes. There's also calcium fortified foods such as orange juice. Lactose is just the primary sugar in milk products so it's not in supplements at all :). Calcium is just a mineral so it's it quite a few foods, it's just that dairy is typically a good source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:46 AM
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I'd say there's minimal amount who don't watch it off of their own morals. The best I've seen is guys who watch minimal and then stop watching because they actually respect how you feel. This is what we are dealing with. Most men do not think about the repercussions of porn at all on their relationships, on the women (and even potential children) in the industry, and on themselves. I mean most men won't even go to therapy which means that most aren't ever reflecting in the first place. Your best…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:17 AM
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This was such a good episode, I didn't know who Dr. Gail Dines was before but I'm glad I've come across her thanks to the podcast. Definitely an episode that everyone in FDS should listen to if they are going to choose one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:23 PM
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Can't imagine having 3 kids at that age ... not saying this about the kids ... but she really threw her youth away to be abused by a man. She's too young still to understand this. Really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:49 PM
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I'm really glad to hear these things because I've felt the same way transitioning into late 20s. You get into this mindset like ... what's the point of anything if you have no appeal anymore. But priorities shift. Just like how I had different priorities in high school that I couldn't imagine having now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:10 PM
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There'd be so many advancements in hair replacement technology if that were the case xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:05 PM
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I'm not sure if this is correct but I saw from another post (could be the same as this commenter is mentioning) that is on the most popular asking a question to the public subreddits. Actually there's many disturbing things answered on there that basically will say what FDS is saying without actually saying it. Anyways the other day I saw a thread that was asking artists that draw porn what their most fucked up requests were (that they rejected to draw). A lot of stuff with dead characters or ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:29 AM
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Should make a point to ask what video he's watching. Nothing like having him voice out he's watching teen porn, bdsm, or some weird kink like farting or peeing on someone. Maybe it'll put some realization into him ... but let's be honest if he's hiding porn and jerking it in the bathroom he's already a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:25 AM
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Gosh with the amount he's eating his shits probably clog up every toilet in the house and ofc uses every inch of toilet paper so that there is none left for his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:09 AM
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Just send a dm / chat if possible to her! That's what I occasionally do when visiting those subs and seeing horrific stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:51 AM
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It's actually even worse for people in first world nations to have more kids ... because we are such HIGH consumers of goods. We put such a huge burden on the earth compared to those in third world countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:42 PM
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Another reason to not have casual sex with men and to vet HARD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:41 PM
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It's funny they talk about kids so much when I bet they would barely parent their own kids or take care of a household. Also if you want a kid so bad, there are lots that need loving homes through adoption. Really it's just about sex and having a mommy slave who does everything for them not the kids part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:39 PM
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Why does it matter if she chose herself? She didn't continue to stay with him and force him to change, she left the scenario. LOL? Men really cannot handle any analysis of their porn habits and think it's a hate crime when a woman leaves them because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:37 PM
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They literally are complaining about not being able to catcall women? Truth is I guarantee majority of those "women" are actually CHILDREN. I got the worst harassment while I was like 14 y/o from construction workers. Absolutely they deserve to be exposed ... I mean they exposed themselves xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:29 PM
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Exactly. If they are your "friends" then they should respect if it's something you do not want to do. It's amazing that women get vilified for being against these clubs, a place where even prostitution is occurring. But truthfully ... the hvm I know wouldn't go to this place for their party anyways. They don't plan bachelor parties for the strip club/vegas. If you are desperate for a "last hurrah" before being locked down then you shouldn't be getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:22 PM
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Yeah I'd even be a hell no on a one time visit for bachelor party, it'd be a relationship ender. The guys that go to these places are always crusty, old and creepy, or frat boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:52 AM
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For me with height it would be over 6'0 is garlic bread, under 6'0 is just stale bread. (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:55 AM
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Poor woman, I don't know why she'd bother asking this when it's pretty obviously many answers are going to be "no". Should NEVER bring up this stuff with a partner unless absolutely necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:23 PM
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If one thing men can't stand is being ignored. I have had to walk away from many scenarios like abuse. And truly going no contact is the only way to get your sanity/power back. Despite this, I still have exes who I stopped talking/blocked YEARS, even a DECADE ago are.finding ways to reach my friends/family and ask about me (real desperate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:16 PM
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100% once you get that "ick" feeling you become mentally checked out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:12 PM
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Yep, this is why whenever I'm out exercising etc. I NEVER even direct any gaze to men and look probably angry lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:11 PM
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The edit is a perfect example of fabrication of these relationship advice posts by men. Like I hope she just buys herself a big rock and ditches this scenario. She'll be better off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:57 PM
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You think about it, it's also probably a big factor in why men leave their sick partners or quickly move on after their wife has passed away. They are looking for someone to take care of their kids/household because they just can't do it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:46 PM
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When women hate men they try to stay away from them. When men hate women they use physical aggression, stalk, or seek revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:38 PM
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One wedding where I was a bridesmaid I did kind of get annoyed how expensive everything was especially since at the time I was in school. I had 0 say in the bridesmaids dress choice obviously nor the makeup/stylist. Dress $300, Shoes $50, Makeup Artist $75, Hair Styled $75, Jewelry $50, Purse $30 = $580. Meanwhile the groomsmen have to rent a suit (I believe usually under $200), has already a pair of dress shoes and calls it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:43 AM
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In the relationship in which I lost my virginity I remember asking my then bf casually how many partners he's had. He's had many and I obviously had 0. With that in mind I did ask him to get an STD test or ask if he's had one recently. I'm pretty sure he scoffed at the idea, and lied and said he got a test when he didn't. Luckily we always wore a condom so I had some protection and all my tests come up clear. But uh yeah, this is why I won't have sex outside of a relationship. I took his word fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:48 PM
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For a low income woman though that might still be a huge cost. I'm glad you found something that works for you and is affordable! Obviously it's not mandatory for women to have to pay huge amounts of money if they do not want to. And it really depends where you live. Even for me a bottle of sunscreen is $20-30 a month which is a large part of skincare. If you want a Brazilian wax this costs at least $50 a month. Keeping up hair colour etc is a few hundred dollars every few months. Getting nails …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:26 PM
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I do think he meant as a whole, and was trying to be good natured and was just making that statement based on the video he was commenting on. He's questioning these men with the idea like, how does her wanting a provider impact the male (viewer) who wants to be 50/50. It's a common sense thing, like don't go for these women then if you don't want to provide. Someone else will take care of her. The irony is these guys see this idea (being a major provider) as a threat because it reinstates they w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:15 PM
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I've never had a man not pay for dates unless it was me taking him out for his birthday etc. Also ... none of them complained about it. Heck, even my bff her man will also pay for my drinks if we are out at the bar or something. That woman is obviously model level beautiful and could easily get a man to drop money on her. It should be about the general imbalance women have to deal with - upkeep to staying attractive, taking care of a household on top of having a job, being often the main caretak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:31 PM
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Yes! Even if you only use a basic makeup routine the costs of things like shaving, and skincare add up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:08 PM
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THANK GOODNESS <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:08 PM
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Being a woman in general .... is just ... costly, even if you are a minimalist. And you are right enhancements do need up keep ... I mean I know on fillers alone I would probably spend at least $1-1.5k a year. If you get botox, depending on amount that could be $200-500 every 4-6 months depending on how you tolerate it. It's a huge luxury that society is forcing on women to be the standard for them to achieve and it's just not financially feasible for most people. I mean there was a study itself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:58 PM
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Ya a satire post made it to a larger sub and got attention. Obviously people ended up coming to FDS. I just checked and in the past week FDS has grown from 161.8k to 163.8k, 2,000~ new subs in 1 week. Normally we seem to be at a growth of 1k per week. Probably a lot of those are just for hate-reading the sub, but publicity is still publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:43 PM
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Trust and believe it won't feel "ok" when he's 35+ years old liking and posting fire emoji's on 18 - 25 y/o's pics. Even worse imagine having his kids and you are pregnant or post-pregnancy and he's strictly liking pics of women's bodies and not yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:33 PM
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Dude sounds like he'd abuse any partner he could ever get. All women really dodged a bullet with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:27 PM
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It's hilarious the amount of people that didn't even go and look for themselves. I saw this post and for sure realized off the bat it was satire. But many people won't do the research - but as with every "hit piece" we get a slew of more followers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:51 PM
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It's interesting people literally loom over this sub but call us obsessive. I never visit any of the mgtow/redpill/incel subs and just sit there hate reading. Nor have I ever messaged any of the people who participate in those subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:32 PM
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Completely understand this. I've been as well in verbally abusive relationship (not marriage), and it took me 1.5 years or so to leave because I was too scared of the repercussions of leaving but eventually I did get the courage. But same in this scenario people often shift blame to the woman "why wouldn't you leave if it was so toxic". Often they are mentally checked out but the timing is not right yet and the abuser wants to have continued control through the partnership. Get's very difficult …
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 12:13 AM
2

Oh I totally know this would be the result, I'm sort of saying it sarcastically as in not to expect much from them. Tbh I'd just simply state that you don't believe the facts until they are listed/given. It's pretty obvious in many cases people have a set opinion that they aren't willing to be swayed on!
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 12:10 AM
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Why not ask them where the statistics are from? I think it says enough if they cannot provide the source or the source is never given.Also, it's interesting the divorce one. It is in fact true, or mostly true that women initiate more divorce but not necessarily more breakups in non-martial relationships. It's interesting that sources don't talk about WHY the woman initiated divorce. This article goes over some: https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 03:47 PM
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The depravity is real. It's like the pic of the men flirting with a painting of a woman (I think from Facebook) - it's probably easy to find on google. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:19 PM
63

We have no choice but to safe hold sex as a means of protection and entry into a committed relationship a lot of the time. This is why I bet there are so many "situation ships" today - man get's his cookie for doing 0, he's satisfied, and you don't matter because he doesn't see you as a partner ... just a thing for him to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:14 PM
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It says enough if you even look on the front page of reddit and goto subs that ask questions (popular hot topics) that majority of the time it's negative stories about men. Ex. Recently posted question asked about trusting your gut feeling and being right - many involve male stalkers, traffickers, rapists, violence etc as per usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:27 PM
2

This makes me realize how awesome my friends and family are. They have never once said anything regarding dating to me etc. and have prioritized celebrating my accomplishments. I also think though that women aim to have these celebrations and rush into things to feel apart of something. I know so many women that have rushed into relationships/marriages that I can see a mile away will end in divorce 10 years down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:47 PM
21

100% using SW, seeing strippers etc. is low value behaviour, and most likely he is doing other things in front of people with no shame like following 100s of porn stars, checking out other women all the time (basically always looking for an opportunity), etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:40 PM
7

You brought up refusing to get his dog fixed, but also has an obsession with his dog's balls and them being kept. Also, I always found guys only choose a certain breed of dog (dog's specifically that look "tough" and they don't like other breeds/cats).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:13 PM
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It's almost like ... what's the point of marrying in the first place if the guy is just going to not desire you when you are 40+ lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:33 PM
29

This. One guy I dated (nonreligious) I did not lose my v-card until a year into the relationship. If the man is in love with you/very interested he will wait. I've had multiple men chasing me for years or exes that comes back even though I haven't spoken to them in 5+ years. People have chased me that I've never even have had sex with or any physical contact. I'm celibate by choice though I have plenty of options. I'm sure many ladies here could be getting sex no problem, but it's such a power m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:23 PM
2

I wouldn't say it's necessarily seduction lol. But totally agree on the "nope" at first, it's not so much like "no, get away from me" but more like "eh, I'm unsure about this". What happens after is I get to know him, and then my attraction builds when I get to know his personality in depth.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 06:49 PM
30

Also get your HPV vaccine if possible, I got mine later but I think it's probably still worth it even though the typical age group to get it is teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:44 PM
29

On a side note it's so important we vet and stay very picky with who we sleep with. They really believe women are more attracted to the guy whose been the town bike. The guy who will sleep with everyone is a true liability he most likely has 0 standards for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:37 AM
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I think surpassing 10 years get's into weird territory if the woman is young. I would never consider a man past a certain age point, and this is coming from someone in her 20's. Out of my large friend group I don't know any young woman who is dating someone 5+ years older. The one friend I did have who dated someone 10-15 years older was a sketchy situation. He was low tier and would try and force her to do things, also wanted to have kids right away with her despite them only dating a few month…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:35 AM
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A teenager and a full grown old man ... uh ... no. This should be full out illegal lol, an 18 y/o teenager is still a TEEN despite being of legal age. I was a fucking idiot who could still be manipulated up until my mid 20s where I finally gained some common sense. That dude is definitely a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:23 AM
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As a woman though I wouldn't consider partnership with a man whose been a so called "man whore". I'd find it pretty insulting to just be another notch in his belt - no one wants to be considered just a number. So, it'd be a no from me, I wouldn't sleep with him for fun nor want him to be the father of my kids. Basically what I'm saying is this mentality isn't just a red pill man thing. But also I back this shit up and practice what I preach - meaning not sleeping around with any men.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 01:15 AM
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It's honestly so hard to like men and not hate them after reading these things. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:46 PM
1

This is occurring at work :S? I'm not sure how this conversation comes up in the workplace. But I think best bet is to avoid them and only have conversations when necessary. Perhaps they will get the hint that they don't need to bring this shit up wherever they go.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:37 PM
1

So swipe (yes) on people you don't find attractive?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 10:40 PM
1

Idk I don't use dating apps so I can't say I swipe on Chad. How do you know if someone is Chad from a dating app, what are the key indicators?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 10:21 PM
1

It is still difficult for women especially if you are a woman who DOES NOT give casual sex to men since dating apps are basically 95% full of men wanting casual sex. Cool ... someone wants to pump and dump you? Oh my what an honour.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 09:09 PM
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^, Yeah nothing is really set in stone finished until menopause is hit, you could still get pregnant 40+ by chance and have a successful pregnancy. I think over continued evolution, reproductive years will shift (or get longer) since most women anyways are starting to have kids at 25+ and not 18. Even still they come up with new regenerative techniques to get the ovaries to produce new eggs. I wouldn't doubt that in the next 100 years or less that they will have some very successful means of enh…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:30 PM
20

I mean this literally took about 2 minutes to look up ? Lol.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 10:43 PM
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To go along with this, men seem to think they are invincible because they don't have an ending reproductive date at age 50~. But some issues, and I'm sure more will be found overtime as its now recognized that male fertility/vitality impacts has impact on the child: https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/menshealth/conditioninfo/infertility "Overall, one-third of infertility cases are caused by male reproductive issues, one-third by female reproductive issues, and one-third by both male and fem…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 10:20 PM
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This, my health science textbooks states that both male and female fertility decline starts at 35. It also gives many male related sperm motility/decreased sperm count issues that relate to poor lifestyle. Also most sperm banks do not accept sperm past the age of 30 from a man ... It's one of those things where it's like, yes you could still get someone pregnant past 40 but it does not mean you are in your prime "mating" years as if you were from 35 and under.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 10:00 PM
4

Absolutely they are getting botox if anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:37 PM
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Yep they basically admitted men have 0 worth without coin in the dating market with young models especially. They cope with the dream that they could someday make it. Also, I guarantee the women DiCaprio is dating are still banging young studs on the side for actual good sex with someone attractive. Good for them though taking the rich man's coin and still being with men their own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:02 PM
18

Basically in a nutshell build for the life you want b/c at the end of the day "love" doesn't solve majority of problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:41 PM
13

The Groundbreaking Advice: Wipe your butt after doo-doo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:25 PM
12

Most times I see videos that the women look modest but beautifully dressed they often get their clothes from places like Zara or Aritzia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:40 PM
10

You can check on Etsy as well! There are ladies on there who make press-ons/designs for a living. It's more expensive, but at least supports a small business. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:38 PM
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Another I've seen is when you come across scenarios like this is to just look at them and be like "what?" , keep getting them to explain their joke/question even though you heard it the first time. It turns it on them without really putting you in any position. Just act confused and they lose steam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:06 PM
12

My thoughts exactly, there really is no excuse when building muscle for men is way easier. They can make a huge transformation even within a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:09 AM
6

For women, sex is almost never worth it with a random, and is often regrettable. You realize only he came, he had a unsatisfying dick/thrust, and was butt ugly. Or going to the bar/club, being drunk, making out with a guy and realizing later it was a huge mistake and that in fact we did have beer goggles on. Giving men physical attention is always the most risk for the woman. Gives me the ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:06 AM
7

I just turn off my messages/chats. Pretty hilarious that some dude is steaming and can't even write me a pointless message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:13 PM
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This man deserves a medal for his service!!! Ahahahah he's really moving our cause ;).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:06 PM
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Yeah seriously I'm not into the testosterone steroid look but since when did dad bod/beer gut become attractive over a flat stomach on a man? I've never seen this really portrayed in history either as attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:05 PM
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LOL, he really thought he was doing something there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:57 PM
160

Even cats can be trained to use an actual toilet with no issue xD. Meanwhile men still piss on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:44 PM
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Yes LOL, I was going to type some of the more "westernized" European countries are excluded in this as they are basically like North Americans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:40 PM
23

I've noticed that European men are much better off. They treat you nicer, they take care of everything and still attempt to be romantic. I'm not saying they potentially don't have their own host of issues. But from the ones I've had relations with, they have been far superior in terms of fulfilling the typical male role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:13 PM
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I believe this, I do think women get suckered into online platforms out of desperation for a relationship. But majority of men on there are looking for a quick fix. So it just becomes an awful place of one group looking for majority sex and the other not looking for sex lmao. You are going into a war zone with a very unlikely outcome being a relationship. The success stories are like 5% lol.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 04:02 PM
3

People can find some luck on dating apps, but for the most part it's a hell pit for anyone looking for something realistic.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 03:58 PM
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Intelligent women are set up to be alone because there is literally no one who meets the same level of intelligence or very few. As a whole, women are a more cohesive group on the intelligence spectrum, whereas men fall into either genius or idiot tier lol. But women always amaze me, I rarely meet a man who is doing anything that interesting. Most as you say are just coasting, and are content with not doing anything or improving. Meanwhile women are raising 10 kids, going back for their Ph.D and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:56 PM
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I'd be so down to have kids with the RIGHT man, and with financial stability. But most men aren't the right man for the job in which they are an actual father to their kids and do a decent job of providing. If I want a child I'll adopt or be an awesome aunt/godmother. (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:48 PM
10

This sounds like a dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:44 PM
19

And this is why as a woman, I never have nor will use a dating app lmao.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 08:02 PM
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There's something so hilarious about this. Some 2/10 man obsessed over pixels, thinking he is prime mate selection material in the real world because a porn actress "looked" at him. Or he bought attention on a cam girl site/only fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:43 PM
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Regardless if there is a low amount of HVM, we have to keep up our efforts here for future generations of women, and set a good example of self worth and values. So that hopefully the next generation can have the tools to be in a good situation to avoid abuse and low value relationships that force her to settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:33 PM
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Yeah they seem to keep lowering it every year as well LOL. First it was 35, then 30, 25, soon 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:21 PM
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Yep just going to show that these women were still probably offered 100's of options despite their so called "predicaments" :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:17 PM
8

How embarrassing I read this post and didn't realize the first bit about his age, instantly thought he was some pissed off 50 y/o. Thank god he doesn't want any of these women because he sounds like an absolute headache. Also props to Gen Z not wanting these dusties either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:13 PM
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Also, why does a guy care all that much if they wouldn't choose a woman past the age of 25 (etc.) anyways? Why does it bother them so much about a woman being single and potentially lonely - how does it affect them? They realize women are choosing a life without them, literally CHOOSING to be single rather than deal with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:28 PM
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And then they question why they die earlier than woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:21 PM
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It's absolutely unfair to women, 100%. Every day hearing these stories or "men's inherent nature" just gives me more evidence that they are mentally inept compared to women - or less developed. There is also no self-reflection on their part, it's mainly always someone else's fault. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:12 PM
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God it's so fucking frustrating that us women have to be the ones to completely adjust our lives because of men's abuse. So embarrassing for him as well ... he has nothing else going on in his life but stalking this woman or multiple women (who knows?). I wish that she could of had the support to report him or find a method to shame him to his family or something but I completely understand the fear. It seems that shaming is one of the only potential ways men learn since many of them have 0 empa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:09 PM
4

Staying single for life sounds more appealing every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:55 AM
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Honestly and truly I would rather take myself out of this world than be forced into a scenario like this. That's so morbid, but I'd rather be in control of my destiny compared to some man controlling it. Bleh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:03 PM
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I read from another source she was retrieved and physically fine, but her father said that she has suffered mental trauma (obviously).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:54 PM
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The girls referred to as "women" when they themselves were still minors (read from a source the one who fell was 17), but the boys are just teenagers and not "men". What else is new ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:51 PM
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Really hope they will get severe punishment for this but I'm doubtful since apparently the boys are minors. Regardless they knew what they were doing, not only an assault but could have killed that poor girl. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:45 PM
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Kind of sucks for those of us who literally never slept around, but get shooed into this category. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 06:26 PM
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It's the audacity to have access to the top percent of women (attractiveness) but having nothing to offer that would make those women inclined. Also, he could be a 5 and she's a 10 and he feels entitled to her - clearly means all women are golddiggers or shallow when she doesn't feel the same attraction. Idk I'd feel pretty fucking weird me being a maybe 6/10 woman having the audacity to think I can be with a 10/10 in the looks department guy. In media if it's an ugly girl she always has to upgr…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 02:36 AM
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I don't really like sex all that much so I can see where these women are coming from. But in general a large dick is much more fun to play with even if you don't like PIV sex xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:11 AM
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Oh no ... tbh if I was in this situation I probably couldn't help but laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:10 AM
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YES LOL. And the comments for women are "WOW you are 35??? You look 20!!!!", any woman over 30 get's the instant response of that they "look good for their age" or "I would guess you to be so much younger!!!". There is still that notion that women become old and ugly at age 30. It's such an automatic response that both men and women have to unlearn. Women only say it because they've been conditioned to believe the 30 thing is true though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:12 PM
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I've noticed this on other subreddits for um ... working out/weight loss etc. I'm all for people bettering themselves. But I've noticed a common theme that nearly all the women are good looking even in the more mature years, while nearly all the men who post ( even those in their 20's) ... are not attractive at all. I've seen some where I try to "guess the age" the guy will be 25 and looks post 40 (in regards to his face).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:26 PM
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The truth is in most cases if he's past 30 and not in a committed relationship/engaged etc. there's probably a good reason. The only way HVM exist past age 30 is if by some reason they had to focus on their career/education, severe anxiety disorder that prevents them from socializing or they had a divorce/lost their wife. I don't even find it offensive to say that most men post age 35 more likely is the leftover scraps no sane woman wanted. Most/if not all HVM are locked down before 30 and engag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:18 PM
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They are addicted to EVERYTHING. Porn, alcohol, weed, etc. I really cannot believe that many men have no care to better themselves for their own sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:59 PM
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I've seen this video!! Absolutely terrifying! This happens to all women, not just young girls. Men really are depraved and desperate animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:56 PM
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This is why I can't/don't have any close male friends anymore as they end up falling for you, confessing their feelings, and then get mad at you for seeing them as a friend. This occurred in one of my friendships, he took the smallest things and was convinced that I liked him. He even consulted with my other friends and they told him the I don't see him that way. Regardless he didn't take what they said into consideration and sent me a drunk text at 2am confessing his love for me. It was so left…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:47 PM
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Ya'll just a reminder it really is true that if he wanted to he would. When I was 14-15 y/o and had a bf same age (btw unemployed) he would still manage to buy my chicken fingers and get me gifts etc for birthdays/holidays lol. This is a teenager who only had chore income ... and was still doing more than guys who are 30 with a full time job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:12 PM
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Gosh the thought that she slept with him for free w/o any sort of commitment from him. I really hope a member here sent her the link to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:31 PM
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Yikes, if a guy asked me out and asked me to split the bill he'd definitely never be seeing me again. You know it's real bad out here if he's asking to split on a coffee date, and just a peak into your future with him. Probably the same guy who doesn't believe in engagement rings or having a wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:22 PM
6

Yes from your phone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:07 AM
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Lmao since they can't dm me they are now abusing the mental health resources reddit function. Scrotes really so desperate over here to send a message LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:06 AM
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Men just can't live without women; if this were a society in the real world they would find ways to bombard us. Without validation from women and especially without sex their world crumbles. Imagine being so uncivilized you have to resort to rape and violence BeCAUSse mY UrGESsss froM MY PeE PeE too STRONK. So emotional xD. Edit: Also side note, it seems like there's 35 posts or so not visible on here, did they really get THAT upset? Holy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:47 PM
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Do people that are new to the sub get their comments approved before they are visible? It's been a while I've been posting here so I'm unsure how new users are handled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:41 PM
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I'm all for men being smart with their money but this sounds straight up cheap. The type of guy who'd never take you out and considers his van a date in itself. Probably doesn't believe in marriage either. I guarantee most likely is cheap as well with showing time, and affection lol. He probably expects sex in his van, and then you have to go outside and pee in the woods to clear his peen bacteria from your cooch? Nah. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:26 PM
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I get what you are saying and I think it might be dependent on where you live. But the point is, I think many times no one fights back at all so they just assume no consequence and think they are invincible. We gotta try fighting fire with fire which ofc starts with not sending nudes in the first place, not giving sex for low effort, and holding men accountable if possible as a collective. Only speaking from what I've seen of even small small scenarios getting attention on platforms like tiktok,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:50 PM
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The only good thing now is more and more men are being exposed for this BS. Obviously the advice still stands to not send nudes. But if he ever threatens always get recorded or screenshots of the threats, you have equal grounds to cancel him or get him charged in some places. I would send what he said to his family members and job xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:47 AM
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This. Most aren't dedicated to one woman - the depressing thing is he will always be paying attention to other women and masturbating to them etc. He will never give his full attention to 1 woman when his mind is tricked into having options. Any 30+ y/o single man I've met has poor social skills and doesn't invest in any woman or not even himself. They are fine with not improving their lives which is so unattractive. Not to mention a lot of them expect you to do all the childrearing and housewor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:12 AM
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Lmao I made fun of a guy for his fart fetish and he tried to normalize it SO HARD. It's hilarious the lengths these men go to make their behaviour seem like the standard. Like... peeing, pooping, farting on people? Seriously? Weirdos. I truly feel bad for all women, it's brutal out there. Men are so reliant on porn, cam girls, only fans, instagram, reddit porn etc. They are so warped, and many of them do not care that they are warped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:48 PM
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Don't forget daddy issues! In which men will blame the daughter for the dad walking out or his behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:42 PM
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It puts men in this position of "always being right" sort of thing, why look in the mirror at yourself when you can shift the blame to the other gender. It's really easy to insult other people or devalue them. Regardless you have a life worth living with value even if that's without men in the picture.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 04:05 AM
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Does he really think life was better in the 50's when he would be expected to have a good paying job, paid for all of partner's expenses, buy gifts/flowers, woo her etc? Oh also, good chance you'd be going to war as well if times were still like that. I think a lot of incels think this way because they think they would be GUARANTEED a partner. I do feel bad for these individuals though despite the things they say. It's very clear they are very mentally ill and there's a good chance they will not…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 12:38 AM
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Please don't let this shit guide you in anyway. Under 30 is YOUNG. You do realize a lot of those guys are probably 40+ looking to bag a 25 year old and make it seem normal or justified? They are doing exactly what they planned which is whittling down young women's self esteem to accept love from the first man that gives it to them. Regardless someone's life isn't just about LOOKS. How do you think people 40+ fall in love??? Regardless of even if all of this was true, why would any woman young or…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 12:23 AM
4

Lmao him saying that all men do it is to trap you into staying and creating an environment where you just have to "be ok" with the things he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:02 AM
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I don't expect my guy to be ripped, but at least a bit muscular? Yes. Beer gut is so unattractive, and just not natural on a man. Men really have 0 reason to have them except for pure laziness. I mean for fuck sakes their weight loss is completely linear meanwhile ours is an absolute rollercoaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:54 AM
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I'd love to have a husband who would be willing to provide. But they simply are a rarity. But I'd rather not have kids and not get married if it is with a poor man with 0 drive, you end up sewered into a hell hole. Imagine earning more than him AND having to manage a household AND kids. An actual nightmare because we know women end up having to do the majority of unpaid labour. Rather be single, look good, do fun things, have money, and be happy. Or have cohabitation with likeminded women would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:46 AM
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I think a lot of us here wish there was! It would have potentially saved me from a lot of mistakes I made in that age range!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:07 AM
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I wonder if this is a possibility? It sounds like a good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:54 PM
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I understand your thought process with this, but like other's have said these "hit pieces" have benefitted us here. We are making waves, and even if women do not know about the sub in particular the concept of FDS values is spreading like wildfire on social media platforms. All the FDS-like mantra on TikTok for instance has hundreds of thousands of likes, and thousands of shares. I've even seen the sub casually mentioned in the comments, it'd be good for women to be able to do research out of cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:53 PM
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Exactly! People will disagree time to time, but if there's something I don't see eye to eye on in this sub I'll just keep it to myself. We are under no obligation to apply the tips in our own lives if we don't want, so there's really no point people coming here and trying to say "BUT blah blah blah works in my life" to try and dismantle the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:54 PM
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Porn sick or cum brain are my favourites. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:50 PM
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Lmao absolutely. They really feel like they don't have to do anything anymore, because porn makes them feel worshipped. Not only this they can buy affection from online e-honeys and pretend in their mind that some 18 y/o wants their crusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:48 PM
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You do have some options though if you ever wanted to adopt! It's good we have the options available if its really something we feel we want! But your right she is probably miserable if she feels the need to shove things in your face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:07 PM
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Engaging in this behaviour is making their headspace WORSE. What don't they get, they are reliant because they created that reliance. It only get's worse and more severe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:25 PM
40

They are all porn sick, nothing new to see here xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:20 PM
12

Holy fuck I would pissed myself laughing if I was engaged and my fiancé said this. And I mean laughing at him because WTF. Also, she's right to be concerned because who knows what other fetishes he has, he could just be testing the waters to see what she's willing to tolerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:06 PM
12

Let's be honest, there still is a small chance of being murdered even if we cancel because there are guys who will get emotional and therefore violent over this. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:03 PM
83

They threaten us with singledom like its a bad thing. There is nothing worse being tethered to a lvm and lose all sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:49 PM
8

YES to the abuse and finally being FREE. Gosh, my ex tried contacting me for years, weekly and would not let it go. He'd make new accounts just to try and message me. So I ended up changing all my accounts. Best decision I ever made, and I got my mental freedom back. Now I just really don't have the patience to be with a man unless he is high value. If I end up alone, that's fine, because I know how traumatizing it is to be with someone abusive, doesn't put in effort or is addicted to porn. Not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:56 PM
83

Ofc there are stories of female teachers being pedo to teen males which is so freaking disgusting. And then you go and look at news stories that cover it and there’s men praising the boy, saying he’s so lucky and fetishizing it. They don’t give a shit about male rights until female rights are brought up. Otherwise they are often idolizing these awful scenarios.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:12 PM
80

Even a 2 year old could connect all the dots of what is the problem 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:34 PM
122

Yeah from the 5% of stories of women it seems it’s always drug related and more of acting psycho compared to majority of male stories of trying to film or snatch little kids in bathrooms 😶.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:09 PM
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Even worse many are pedo stories 🤮🤮🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:00 PM
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Going to repost !! Sorry !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:56 PM
3

I would have linked directly but was unsure if against the rules!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:33 PM
26

Yeah Im so confused by that ... the podcast literally just aired for the first time 😂. Men rly be like wow this podcast has 0 traffic, 1 second after its posted. I didn’t even realize we had a patreon! Good to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:28 PM
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Guaranteed a portion of his income is going to support other women on only fans 😂🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:40 PM
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I know the trope rp men, incels, + mgtows often push is the older a woman gets the more damaged they are. But really the truth is that it is men that are more damaged and they fail to cope so they end up targeting young women. If I think about my most successful relationship, it was when I was really young in my teen years. I know porn usage is starting earlier and earlier but i think at that point it had not infiltrated my bf from then. The difference in their personality and effort is drastic …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:13 PM
6

Omg didnt know there was going to be a podcast 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:23 AM
4

This also lmao. It probably triggers some people to not be able to send death threats or hitting the wall comments. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:15 PM
8

Why are men so emotional wtf. Imagine not being able to control your tantrums that you have to resort to violence 😂. Clearly the superior gender 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:12 PM
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This. For the most part the advice is on blocking and moving on from scenarios that aren’t good for you or you do not feel good in - in fact its what mgtows would be doing if they were actually going their own way. Which tbh is best for both parties involved. It makes life easier if someone isnt interested, to cut ties instead of dragging someone along. If anything they are trying to get away from some kinds of men, not trying to stay with them and manipulate them.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 05:02 PM
2

Im happy that it works for some women as a means to make their lives better! Just like with plastic surgery etc. Solely coming from a place that means when its in regards of having to do it for men is a nono for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:40 PM
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I refuse to take the pill or get those implanted drugs/devices. Women literally pass out from the pain from the IUD etc. Men already fuck with my hormones enough by the amount of stress and trauma they’ve put me through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:51 AM
9

Honestly this is great they have a dedicated sub to us. More foot-traffic. We’ve seen that most sane people who stop by here get what we are preaching. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:44 AM
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Yep if they want to biological about it “men are made to have sex with many partners and spread their seed, its just BiOloGY!!!” Ok, and its also biology for a woman to select only 1 in every 100 men. She will pick the best possible for her offspring. Oh and also all the men have to put on a show. Many male animals have to fight each other for mates, be the strongest, and also show off for the female (show what he can provide). So yeah you are going to end up with even more single men. Tbh proba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:30 PM
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Rofl a free meal is not worth having to deal with an insufferable man. They really think we are going out just to eat for free? Spend a hour plus getting ready to be in a situation that will be potentially awkward???? Delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:21 PM
13

The world would really turn upside down if all women collectively chose partners like this. But knowing how guys are they’d probably start getting super emotional and violent 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:25 PM
17

The scary thing is how easy it is to get sex and how many men will break. Guaranteed many married and taken men would say yes to a casual fling if had the chance. Also this doesn’t disappear with age, you might be a little less popular. But who are we fking kidding about a wall, there’s a shitton of guys even younger ones who would fk someone 40+. They are desperate, we aren’t. It doesn’t ever end, it just changes a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:09 PM
34

Now I just send direct pm’s to women suggesting FDS rather than posting a comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:07 PM
8

She dodged a bullet with this one. If he’s that pressed over $35 dollars TOTAL means he’s probably cheap in every sense. This includes cheap with his time and affection. It’s like giving someone a gift WILLINGLY and then asking for a refund? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:55 PM
1

Me as a woman who speedwalks 👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:11 PM
38

Yep yet men find big tits and asses pleasing majority of the time, but no one bats an eye at this preference. Women with large breasts get more attention. Imagine if every guys weenie was on visible display. Some would have a full out meltdown. Oh being judged on size? Welcome to being a woman :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:25 AM
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Proving once again men have and will always be the more emotional gender 💁‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:36 AM
12

Just a reminder that barely legal teens and the like are some of the most populated nsfw subreddits. Says enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:31 PM
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It could literally be even nonsexual, I’ve had an ex threaten me with a pic that was in bra + panty but wasn’t posed sexy etc. He said he’d send it to my family and friends 😂, as if they’d care. They are so outright with threats and don’t even try to conceal them, like I can just screenshot the conversation. It’s actually sort of humorous how they don’t even think twice about making threats. They are comfortable with it. Shaming men is the only way to stop this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah I remember being a teen and feeling severely inadequate because there was other girls who were so willing to put everything on display. Those were the girls who got all the attention. So then you start to wonder if you should be doing more etc. Again, not bashing them, as they had their own experiences. But it almost turns into a competition when it shouldn’t be. I felt wrong for not doing enough but then punished for doing “too much”. 🥺
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 10:00 PM
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Oh don’t worry I didn’t take offence to it. I think you are right. Im glad it wasn’t worse but I do notice some of the prior attention seeking behaviours I displayed were in attempts to make me feel better about my low self esteem. Not blaming women or girls into falling into this. I do think we still need to work on self worth that doesn’t involve looks!
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 09:56 PM
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Idk I have low self esteem I never slept (physically) which a bunch of guys but it was easy to sext etc. It was a troubled time, and I can tell I had a lot of identity issues and was slightly toxic. Im glad I never physically slept with any of them. But still I regret even talking to them because almost a decade later some still try contacting me lol. If you are attractive basically any guy is down, which is sort of disturbing but people get hooked on the attention. I wish I would have had the s…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 08:49 PM
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Yep. Women choose to be alone on purpose. It’s better than selecting from the bottom on the barrel. Men are alone because no one wants them lol. This is why they find it offensive. Because a woman can choose to live a fulfilling life alone by choice, for a man it’s way more difficult. They basically need a caregiver to produce them children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:27 PM
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Also even if some of these men stay and support there is still a huge proportion of them that move on QUICK after the wife passes. I knew someone who the mom died and it took only a year for the dad to move on and start living with another woman. They were married probably 20 years+ and he moved on within 1 year. Great example he set for his sons. Men really can’t handle the most basic of tasks nor have empathy. It’s amazing tbh. Women by default are just emotionally and mentally stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:39 PM
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All thats missing is that graph of preferred ages of what men like. Basically 20 and under 😂😂😂. Cough what it really means is 18 and under. Or the MEN AGE LIKE WINE. I died when now even my nutrition textbooks state men’s fertility declines after 35. Instead of placing all fault on women. And it clearly mentions women are getting increased fertility options on the horizon 🥰.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:06 PM
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Honestly don’t even accept ANY gifts ever from them if they display red flags. I dated one guy and luckily NEVER accepted money or gifts from him because I had a feeling he’d use them against me. Sure enough when I ditched him, he instead tried using semi nudes against me and threatened to commit suicide if I left. Guaranteed if I had ever accepted a gift he’d be threatening me to pay him back. Also other red flags was that he didn’t care if I was to hold a job - probably to keep me financially …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:38 AM
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Your life’s worth isn’t based on men’s objectification of you. You are a person outside of all of this. And tbh finding a man isn’t going to immediately wipe away this doubt. You could be past the age of 30 and had gotten married in your 20s and still have your man dump and cheat on you with someone below 30. The point is how you handle yourself in the darkest of times. Life is unpredictable with no guarantees. Also, the mgtower’s are already rejoicing with this post on their subreddit. No matte…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 11:05 PM
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They are stuck in their own echo chamber. The truth is these guys are the ones obsessed with the online world and not real life. They are so absorbed they think every woman acts like an “influencer”. Perhaps a sign they should disconnect from these ig models and maybe lay off the porn. It’s evidently warping their world view. Unfortunately, they’d place these expectations on any woman they meet. Even if she doesn’t use social media heavily, they’d expect her to start looking a certain way etc ba…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 09:44 PM
12

Why do boys get so offended if we stay single? Probably just a reminder that to any guy a woman would never choose him. Women always get chosen and always will despite if many males display incel behaviour. Males want sex, women can easily get sex no questions asked. Yet we make the choice not to 😂, that must be super frustrating for boys since its their only life goal 🤡🤡🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:35 PM
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All the men 25+ going after 18 y/o’s are creepy AF no question about it. I feel bad for the young women who have to put up with it, but at least those of us 25+ expired milk ladies don’t have to deal with em 😂. Being sarcastic ofc, but seriously these guys aren’t fit to be anyones partner. And would 100% be dating under 18 if it was legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:05 AM
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Their version of targeted violence is literally us shaming their porn usage, and telling women to be single? Oof 🤡 Meanwhile women are afraid of being raped, killed etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:40 AM
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Yep! Not surprising though since men die off earlier since Y chromosome seems to be weaker than X, plus they don’t take care of themselves. Both my grandmas are still alive and basically only their daughters visit, their sons hardly ever do on their own free time. Not surprising ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:31 AM
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Can only imagine the typical HURR DURR they spout of reaching the wall and dying alone. Most people nowadays die alone, women are often forgotten anyways once they are in homes despite if they have children or not. The only reason we ever needed men before was for some sperm but now science has evolved where thats not an issue 😂. If I want a kid one day I’ll get a sperm dono of someone qualified, or just adopt 🥰. Men could never LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:09 PM
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Even if it’s not directly from FDS hundreds of thousands of young women are waking up and choosing better. I can see this from tiktok and other media where videos promoting FDS like ideals have over 10k likes, and as I said into the hundreds of thousands. The girls and women have made for the most part a supportive culture of actively dumping men who exhibit any sort of red flag. They are seeing the truth that for many women marriage is a scam, even a lot of male female relationships in general …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:03 PM
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If I’m being honest a lot of the guys I’ve dated were under my “level” in looks if we are being subjective. If I’m a 7 I mean they were maybe a 5 or 6. Besides this quite a few of them had little to no goals or aspirations in life. When I mean goals I mean simple things like barely graduating high school, and having no aspirations at all to be better. I even had other men make fun of my partner and call them ugly etc. And ask me why I dated them to the point where I cried because it was such a s…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/21 03:04 AM
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The audacity from them comes younger and younger. I had a 19 y/o scrote tell me to “hurry up while im still pretty” basically implying that within the next few years of 30 is the death of my beauty of something. I already know its because they deem themselves as worthless essentially even from that age so they may as well attack full grown women instead of focusing on their own self improvement 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:35 PM
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I hate when people say “wow you look good for your age”. Like people are so shocked that past 25 you haven’t crumpled up 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:31 PM
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I really love how they think they are patriots, the delusional is real. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:38 PM
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Lmao. It’s because we have choices to date and they don’t. It says enough that I still have men trying to contact me after I have not spoken to them in 7-8 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:37 AM
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Basically he cannot find puppy love because he probably has ED from too much porn. He can’t admire the beautiful women his own age most likely and therefore fails to form what he feels is like a bond. Loads of people I have seen that are older have had puppy love, but they also weren’t weirdos 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:29 AM
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This this this. 18-22 is still BABY territory imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:50 AM
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Idk im in my 20s and havent had sex in 6 years LOL. Psa am a woman. 😊
/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 01:17 AM
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I hate when dudes say that shit. Tbh if you were a holder of a lock, and someone had a master key, it makes it sound like they are a predator because they can unlock everyone. A master key is only good for someone who wants to steal or break in. xD
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 06:51 AM
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I mean its the same thing as people saying her vajay is loose if she has more partners, but ... if she has sex a bunch of times with one man? Then she doesnt have a loose vajay? Lmao. Which is all false anyways but still just another example.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 12:03 AM
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Oh no the dreaded heart necklace 😂. Unless you are into that. It’s the ultimate cop out gift imo that says the man has no fking idea what you like and think that a heart is cute 🥴.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:38 PM
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There are so many on tik tok I find, whether they actually belong to this reddit or not. The mentality of taking no bs is spreading like wildfire and I’m so here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:36 PM
9

I’ve dated a lot of men who were not conventionally attractive, and I actually had other MEN ask me why I would date an unattractive guy, not women asking. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 04:22 PM
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The only young women I know who were like 20 and dating 35+ honestly sounded like they were manipulated into it. It never is for genuine reasons. Also, she often came from a broken home which is manipulation material for these old guys who cannot date women near their own age.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 04:19 PM
7

Also goes for liking other girls pics is not “nothing”. If it was nothing you wouldn’t be doing it or following them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:46 PM
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Glad my parents always allowed me to be goofy and silly growing up. Though I did get shit on by other people for it, because people therefore think you are “stupid”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:37 PM
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I get tired of starting all my relationships. I will give indicators that are very forward, such as warm physical touch, not sexual but definitely loving. Heck we’ve even kissed. Everything has been started by me and I can tell that they like me, but its up to me as well to ask him out? Idk I’d be thrilled if he just asked. But to me if he can’t ask one simple question then maybe he doesn’t want to or has better things to do and is simply collecting on my affection. So that’s why I don’t propel …
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 03:47 PM
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LOL. Sometimes I wonder can this actually be real. But I wouldn't be surprised. BTW GUISE I had an affair, wonder why wife won't initiate sex ....
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 06:01 PM
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So wait you had a girlfriend who treated you like a king, and helped you out and you still treated her like shit :S? Tbh I'd let her go, realize your mistake, continue to work on yourself and do better in your next relationship. You are right, she deserves someone who would do the same for her w/o these games. If you love someone, you will want to help them and be nice to them despite if they could screw you over. There is uncertainty in all of life, but what you can do is control how you act an…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 05:55 PM
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Tbh any sane woman doesn’t give a fuck if you are a virgin or not. In fact any mature person does not care. Your life worth is NOT based around sex. The longer you stay in the mindset of having to prove yourself the longer you prevent yourself from growing. You need to block everything of your ex and move on. Get into therapy. This isn’t healthy.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 05:44 PM
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You’re better off without. He’ll be sorry 😂. So many boys losing their girlfriends (an actual being) to an online image. Says a lot about them and their priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:00 AM
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Yikes. It’s true when they say always date a man who loves you more than you love him. A woman will more than likely always be thoughtful men won’t be unless they are enamoured with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:54 PM
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Ah yes MGTOW ; is more like Men lying, following, obsessing and harassing women. Oh and killing them or hurting them when they don’t get their way. Only women actually go their own way. Men still find a way to stalk and act like predators. We could move to another planet and leave them alone and they’d still would try and find a way to infiltrate 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:13 PM
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Lemme guess ... he probably complains about the marital system and divorce system and men not having access to their child but actively pushes that women are caretakers and better with children? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:09 PM
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Yep, ignoring is the biggest power move especially when it comes to narcissists. They freak the fuck out 😂. Or completely grey rocking them. Or call them weird. They seem to hate that:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:32 PM
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The audacity of some of these guys ... meanwhile he probably looks like a toe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:54 AM
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Sounds like he was a huge narcissist! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:28 AM
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Trying to be the cool girl when it’s genuinely not how you feel will always make you miserable in the end! I completely agree with what you said, you can think other people are attractive but this doesn’t mean you need to be obnoxious about it. It’s so bizarre to me this age we live in where its glorified behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:48 AM
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Another incidence of women thinking something is wrong with themselves for feeling insecure when their bf follows instagram lewds or describes his fantasy chick and how in love with her he was (probably still is). She doesn’t sound crazy, more of getting so down on herself because society says you have to let you man have a wandering eye and be able to speak his preferences freely. People that respect one another do not mention this shit to their partner, not necessary ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:17 PM
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No. These are people who are abusive. When I was in an abusive relationship (verbal/emotion abuse), the only reason why I stayed for a while is because I was planning my exit at the right time. I was definitely not in love anymore when he started acting really possessive and toxic. I just wanted the right time to leave with the least amount of resistance, which still took 5+ tries. We do not like it. We tolerate it until we have the courage or ability to leave lol. Which often we don’t because s…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 03:49 PM
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Yikes, go to therapy. Such bizarre behaviour from these men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:05 PM
2

K , lemme tell you I have a family member who was married , had a kid, her husband had an affair so they ended up divorcing this was when she was in her young 30s. She continuously has long term relationships since that point, and had her pick of men, and high quality men who were kind etc. She never was without a partner, and found all these partners in real life not dating apps. At around 50 or so she finally found the one (he is 5-6 years younger), and they got married and have been happy eve…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 12:08 AM
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Literally all my relationships I propelled forward not the guy. Meaning I made the moves or showed physical interest. There was no equal setting up of the relationship at all. Majority don’t do anything unless told, and to me that just shows minimal interest or care 🤷‍♀️.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 08:30 PM
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Picky I think more of concerned. I know what I bring to the table in a relationship and I’m very affectionate and thoughtful to a partner. But most guys I come in contact with literally only like you majority of time for looks, they don’t do anything to woo you. I have liked men that are maybe just over minimum wage earners whereas I’m going for my degree. But they literally don’t do anything, I can tell they have attraction for me, but they don’t act on it. Nor do a lot of them seem to know how…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 06:48 PM
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I’m so happy there seems to be a lot more women who are just not willing to settle and are realizing their worth. I’m picky for a reason. I’m smart, cute, funny, consistently want to improve myself, I know how to be empathetic with others (yes ... even men - I do feel for some of them but I’m not willing to try and change them), I’m thoughtful and will remember things about people special to me, good gift giver, and extremely affectionate. Why would I want to be with someone who doesn’t treat me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:07 AM
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Bar so low men don’t even wipe their own ass 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:57 AM
8

Dude when I was in high school my then bf who had like no job and was 15 y/o would still buy me things when he could. Never heard a complaint, would always pay for my chicken tendies 😌.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:28 PM
9

Time for us to start our own colony on mars 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:08 PM
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Literally was arguing with men (obviously it was men) on relationship reddit the other day. The girl was concerned she went on a date with a guy who follows 4000 people on instagram NOTE 90% of the accounts she said were porno/lewd accounts. His family/friends can full out see who he follows and he has no shame obviously. Many of us told her this is a red flag, obviously it is if she brought it up, doesn’t matter if he paid for her meal. If she’s bringing it up it will become a problem. Here com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:52 AM
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This is why men should pay for dates and buy her gifts often. The amount of work women put in they do not realize. I spend $100s of dollars monthly to look good lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:44 PM
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This is on the level of dudes who become obsessed with their dog and his balls, refusing to get them fixed. Always thought it was so weird lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:00 PM
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Ugh I don’t like how she is advocating to hit people. Is trashy. Best policy is to keep your hands to yourself unless it’s matters of self defense. I just don’t believe in lowering yourself to that of men who literally use violence as an emotional stance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:28 PM
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The absolute derangement of some of these posts really think women do nothing and are disgruntled working normal hours like men. My mom worked 30+ years at the same institution, 40 hrs a week, while raising kids - making sure they had homemade breakfast/lunch/dinner, did majority of the housework all while my dad was on business away and missed most of our childhood. She just retired a few years ago ... you’d think she’d be happy to be done? No, she hates retirement lol and wishes she wouldn’t h…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:24 PM
8

Women can easily detach from sex. If you think we are having the time of our lives ... lol .... majority of the time we are not. Its rare for us to have actually satisfying sex lives where there is a romantic/emotional and physical connection that actually gives an orgasm. So ... yeah ... grass isn’t greener.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 04:16 PM
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Some literally have no shame, also doesn’t matter how old or young you are. Its always the same men, seedy, 35+ balding, low paying job or its the idiots that smoke weed all day. I’m a mature young woman, past her prime of age 20 ofc /s. And still get endless amounts of attention from men. Notably most uncomfortable was men doing work on my parents home, they were done for the day and packing up to leave. I was coming home from a walk, mind you Im not wearing anything revealing. As I walk past t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:48 PM
2

Degenerates 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:17 AM
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I can imagine them though leaving their dick pic out in the open though for a female tech employee 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:03 PM
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The bf I had that was the most experienced literally never gave me an orgasm. I’d always take care of him, but whenever it got to my pleasure all of a sudden he’s tired 🥴. Also, probably was in the back of my mind turning me off all the pics he was liking on instagram and the mass collection of porn on his phone. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:57 PM
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Forever tenant and she also is paying him to be his bangmaid 🥴. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:43 PM
5

Id also like to say be catious about being friends with men in general. Guys I have been friends with 4-5 years in my social circle, and I still have to turn them away awkwardly. As long as men have an “opportunity” in their eyes they’ll ask, some are outright delusional. Have also had guys randomly profess their love for me out of no where - they’ll take prolonged eye contact once as the SIGN. It just goes to prove how self absorbed they are, ready to live out their fantasy without any regard f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:38 PM
67

I always found it so weird when people willingly give up their stuff with all their porn on it. It’s concerning when no one has a sense of that being private anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:29 PM
2

What is passively being done ? Talking amongst ourselves? If I don’t like a man I don’t engage with him at all. And if talking amongst ourselves is aggressive then men do both passive and aggressive actions lol... 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 10:42 PM
3

Guaranteed there are way more men sending nasty/violent dms compared to any women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:43 PM
1

No problem being single and successful goes for both genders. Majority of the women are about actually levelling up their life, cutting excess stressors is often a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:40 PM
8

Yep LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:18 PM
20

Some of them even saying like after 21 lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:23 PM
22

If being a firm is being a bitch then Im absolutely okay with that title 😌.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:16 PM
1

In my experience, not true, it more of it turns awkward and you are unaware how to respond. Regardless any sane woman will now refer to that guy as sleazy and let their friends know. The word gets passed around quick.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/20 11:19 PM
1

Its gross regardless even if he’s subjectively attractive. If she isnt remotely attracted to him she will find touching to be sleazy.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/20 11:13 PM
21

The last paragraph 👌. Its something I didn’t think of until after a few years of no contact. Ex was a narcissist, he always was accusing me of cheating, I wasnt allowed to be around other men without him throwing a fit or a conspiracy, constantly would lie to me, he really disliked gay men, and told me he never watches porn lol. Turns out it was probably all projection. I actually don’t care if he was cheating in the sense it rids me of him. I wouldn’t ve surprised if he was attacking me to pote…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:31 PM
11

It’s more of that there is little to no good men after 30 is the issue. Men are more of the leftovers. It’s the ones who didn’t want to settle, sociopaths, incompetent, etc. There are lots of good women not nearly enough good men. Many women end up settling or deciding to stay single. The sociopathic men on the other hand will continue to abuse women and find younger and younger victims. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:58 PM
4

Awesome ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:54 PM
10

25 is still so young, lmao im closer to 30 now and am like damn I wish I would have enjoyed myself more at 24-25 instead of freaking out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:53 PM
9

My one good friend is like this, I love her but damn she needed to chill. I understand how upsetting it is to have plans delayed by covid. But she was so adamant having her wedding this year because SHE MUST get pregnant while still in her 20s. Her and her now husband didn’t have a honeymoon and are just going straight to having kids 🤷‍♀️. I think its because others in her family have kids and she is influenced by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:51 PM
17

Men .... the more sensitive gender 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:22 PM
19

I hope you are doing better now. Reminds of another story I’ve seen like your circumstance the husband wanted to have an open relationship and be able to date/sleep with other people. The wife finally gave into it after a while. It was a COMPLETE failure for him, meanwhile she was getting taken out often lol. He then got upset with her because he wasn’t “connecting” with anyone (meaning getting no matches) but she was. Pretty sure they got divorced after that. Porn makes them delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:21 PM
90

Thats how you truly know you are a shit person if you have to question if your OWN children would attend your funeral. Men would still find some way to blame the mother for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:48 PM
46

.... taking a walk alone is embarrassing ???? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:13 PM
1

No offence justifying and proving that they have had past relationships... it seems real weird. Not only that but his poor current gf who has to deal with this shit. Holding on to pics of ex gfs to prove to the internet your a success? ... Idk lmao. Personally I block and delete everything of my exes to move on.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 03:43 PM
2

I know a lot of women have the want to be dominated. But there are those of us who would not mind being in the leadership role. A guy being a virgin does not bother me. I’d rather date the guy with little experience than the one who has slept with 20 women. The reason being is my beliefs as I myself don’t partake in casual sex by choice. The important thing is the man is wanting to please you, and there is a joy of giving pleasure to each other that is within BOTH of your boundaries. There is ho…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 01:21 AM
20

Cannot love is farthest away thing from the truth. I can love, and I still have hope for some men. I get disappointed though. It just means we aren’t going to chase men or settle now we realize the unhappiness that results from chasing/settling is far far worse than ever being alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:46 PM
62

Or the ball and chain jokes. Like ... 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:23 AM
2

Just tell them you haven’t really dated if asked. It shouldn’t come up on a first date though. Doesn’t bother me if a guy I’m dating has limited experience. I think if anything would bother me it’d be how he handles a relationship, important things that are small like remembering anniversaries/birthdays. Only bringing this up because I’ve met a few men that are inexperienced and they seem not to know how to show love but will be happy to receive it. But the social phobias and those sorts of issu…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 05:01 PM
12

Exactly, and their go to is to shit on women’s fertility as a result. Men be doing this all the time. If they can’t have something, the real disgusting ones will do something to tarnish the woman from having other potential partners (ex. Revenge porn, violence with aim to disfigure, getting her pregnant). Still many of these women go on to have a future partner. Women are always desirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:59 PM
34

The funny thing is, men base value of a lot of things on appearance. Often claiming appearance is the ticket to a good life etc. Which in some part is true for doors opening. But you have a 40+ man now seeking a young partner, when 35+ y/o sperm is more likely to produce a less attractive child. I’m assuming attractiveness being measured by typical appealing male/female qualities and symmetry. I just find the whole thing ironic 😂. Appearance of an attractive mate is #1 but they are disadvantagin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:53 PM
1

It’s like a job interview, you can think it goes great or think the interviewer doesn’t see what you see in yourself etc. Just because you don’t get the job doesn’t mean you stop applying. It hurts the ego I totally get that. But there are people that struggle for ages in order to get somewhere. And this applies to all areas of life. Also sometimes the more expectations we have the more easily disappointed we become. This doesn’t mean treat people like poop. For me it’s just the “don’t expect fo…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 04:08 PM
10

Yeah, under any circumstance do not make contact. The closure thing and the “Give me one last chance to talk to you” is such a ruse to abuse again. Tbh when going no contact with my ex narc he was still contacting me after a year of no contact on my end. He would make new accounts whenever I blocked one. After a while I just got tired of knowing he’s still attempting to contact so I made completely new emails and logged out forever from where he was sending stuff. I wouldn’t doubt 3 years out th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:15 PM
10

^ this is what I meant by my post, many women with standards not so many men with them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:31 AM
2

Porn does this to their ego even on a subconscious level. It makes their brains feel like they have multiple/young partners and are able to sustain that in a real life setting. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:07 AM
17

There is like no options tbh. The truth is majority of men after 25 if they have some kind of issue (their brain is fully developed) and unless they try hard it isn’t going to change. It’s better to cut your losses. And no 18-22 should be dating any 25+ y/o guy either. Majority of good moraled men who put it effort are paired up and married by mid twenties. The bar has been so LOW for men overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:56 PM
20

My fav disney movie is lilo and stitch 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:30 PM
2

Well we all see different things :). I’ve just noticed a lot of men with good family morals who are hard workers get snatched up in relationships by early 20s in uni/college before they even have a career. And are often married by at least 25. The men I know after 30, a lot of them have no social skills with women. And actually no drive to do better. Many men settle and don’t set personal goals past a certain point for themselves to do better. Past 25 your brain is fully developed, men only will…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 05:32 PM
2

Ok lol I’ll take that, as long as there is equal acknowledgement. :)
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 05:13 PM
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Most men past 30 are the leftovers that couldn’t make it into stable relationships for an evident reason. Majority of them I’ve seen has some kind of avoidance problem or addiction. So yeah the prime for men is in their 20s, the good ones get snatched up with people their own age early on.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 04:59 PM
5

I feel like an alpha is someone who looks out for other people whether they are male/female, young/old. This doesn’t mean you get walked over, you have boundaries but you also aren’t rude. Also goal driven and good natured. Don’t think it has to stem from money.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/20 07:04 AM
11

Yeah I know of someone’s dad whose wife was sick from cancer, she passed away. I think it hadn’t been a year since her passing and he already had a new gf living with him. Real good example to his 3 sons 🥴.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:02 AM
3

This is actually such a creative idea 🥺!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:00 AM
12

I had a boyfriend that I didn’t have sex with until over a year lmao. The right guy will wait if he respects you and is in it actually for you. Not that I suggest a year for everyone, this was when I was younger and more apprehensive about who I gave myself to. I do still believe that waiting until there is commitment is the most important thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:58 PM
27

What person gets up at 2:30am to make their partner coffee on both ends this is ridiculous tbh lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:41 PM
4

Literally too stupid to know her interests and likes. Doesn’t make note of anything or remember. Like only 5% of the male population is actually thoughtful. Meanwhile I’d remember his preferred food/drinks, his hobbies, clothing he wears, movies, music, important dates etc. from the very beginning of the relationship. 🥴 Just imagine having to advise/remind your partner for every holiday, birthday etc on how to be a thoughtful partner. It’s not a wonder that women are more unhappy in marriages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:36 PM
157

That is literally the answer whenever the topic of porn comes up. Also have to add in that the woman is insecure! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:18 AM
14

This. If I think about my own life, I’ve never have had a one night stand, and have only slept with one guy. And this has nothing to do with options but my own moral choices. Because I know its risky to sleep with random men and isn’t the path to a relationship. I personally am not seeking the guy who is the town player because of the risk to look like a big 🤡. Also the cocky attitude that comes with that personality is a huge turnoff.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 04:29 PM
10

They are finding ways to rejuvenate the ovaries as well. This would drastically help menopausal women and those struggling with infertility. Also it would be sort of hilarious because it rids of “the wall” cope. I do believe they will come up with advancements to increase longevity and youthfulness in our lifetime. So a win for women 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:29 PM
10

Literally this shit starts at like 12. 🤮
/r/askFDS30/08/20 04:36 AM
3

I don’t watch this category nor enjoy it. I don’t know if thats because of personal preference or how I was raised? I was raised in an extremely loving and supporting home that violence seems really weird? But I have still been in abusive relationships, though I think this is because Im highly empathetic and have dated men that have unmanaged mental issues (narcissism, drug abuse, bipolar). Tbh I always root for people to get better and do their best but this can make me a target for abuse to sp…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 04:49 PM
3

I know lmao, I just wanted to see how far of a stretch we could reach in this conversation. My hip to waist ratio is 0.68 , ideal is 0.7 with anything under 0.8 for a women is considered attractive. At 5’5 I would have to be over 150lbs to be considered overweight by bmi. Its just hard for some men to believe that you can be an attractive woman and still not get approached. Yes I get yelled at by creepy men, or old guys who stare. But these are not people I want as a partner nor should be woman’…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 02:32 AM
1

34-25-37 measurements Does this sound obese? 🥶
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 01:11 AM
6

I am in that age group, and not obese (5’5 125lb). And not a shut in. 🥶 SoOooOoOooo ..........
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 01:08 AM
16

The getting approached thing only applies to certain women though who have the personality and looks that seem approachable; example more men approach blondes. I’ve noticed this over the years my blonde friends will receive more random attention. I don’t think its a matter of looks but perceived openness that being blonde gives. I’d love to see if this is actually true though. I’m getting my hair done soon from dark brown to a more highlighted look. It’d be interesting to see if anything changes…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/20 12:21 AM
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Social isolation. The rise of the internet raised generation and less in real time socialization. People are glued to their phones and take human interaction as creepy/weird. Also I think some men less inclined because they no longer have to work hard for the punani due to hookup culture. I’m not saying its ideal, but men can get their primal satisfaction fulfilled through porn, and all the services attached to it. Some get warped views on what women actually look like; the ones they see online/…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 11:54 PM
4

Idk I can understand its sort of weird but I don’t believe its desperation on their part maybe just loneliness? I think if you are past 40, and haven’t had kids you most likely accept its not going to happen. Also, from what I gather there isn’t a great dating pool past 35 for women. Lots of men who are their age most likely do not want a woman who is their age match. Many seeking into the young 20s. Which is creepy imo. The amount of girls I met mind you they are 18-19 dating 35+ men was astoni…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 11:46 PM
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I wish women would start telling them off, I mean I wish I had the courage to when I was a teen/young 20s. It sucks we have to be the ones to do it, and I understand how nerve racking it can be. It shouldn’t be our responsibility to defend ourselves against these creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:41 PM
3

This is truly sad scenario, its obvious you mean well :/. He will either come out of this or not
/r/ExRedPill21/08/20 01:39 AM
18

He’s long gone then unfortunately. As a women, not trying to be dramatic but I’d be scared of a man like that. I’ve had men abuse me, sexually harass me etc and I still have faith that there are good men. Sometimes I feel hopeless like I never will find anyone, but that does not make me hate men, it just makes me sad if anything :/.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/20 12:45 AM
19

This sounds pretty severe. If I had a girlfriend that spoke this harshly about men I’d probably not be friends with her anymore. Its just cringey behaviour. Even if other people are shit it does not mean you yourself need to act shitty :-/.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 10:01 PM
3

So many guys put in 0 effort, after a certain point no more dates, no flowers, or small surprises to show appreciation. Meanwhile Im willing to give out bjs everyday, backrubs, kisses etc because I love showing physical affection. Some guys I’ve dated reciprocate by rubbing my clit for one minute and claiming they are tired. Is it that surprising I don’t want to have sex anymore if thats what I’m receiving? 😂
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 09:17 PM
9

This, I have never withheld sex from a partner with some kind of purpose. Most likely there is something missing that is making me feel unappreciated and therefore not interested in having sex. Women need to be emotionally invested, whereas men don’t. We can have 100s of matches but they literally dont mean shit. Why would I have sex with a man who doesnt take any interest in me or put in romantic effort?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/20 07:35 PM
2

Im in my late 20s and luckily have been able to maintain friendships since childhood. But still I have always felt disconnected from the majority of people - as if I don’t fit in. It’s very hard making new friends sometimes as a woman. Most women I talk to already have solidified groups or are attached at the hip to their boyfriend etc. Like ... almost none of them are up for random fun activities. It sucks because I’d love to even have more casual friends. I can imagine how lonely it would be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:55 PM
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LOL any man would be lucky to get megan fox, even a 20 y/o. They are so pressed that she is hot into her 30s 😂😂😂. Also they are probably mad she left her prior partner who was what like 10 years older than her? Taste of their own medicine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:36 AM
16

Im fortunate I was raised not to tolerate it as well even though I still have in the past. Im in my later 20s and they still don’t pressure me to find something or settle. My dad always tries to tell me that good things will come and not to accept shit basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:09 PM
6

Ugh I wish this was available to me. Good for you though, and hilarious they backed the fuck off. Amazing, they must’ve had bad intentions if the thought of you protecting yourself scared them. Also I’m lucky that the men around me would tell creeps off and not tell me to appreciate the attention. We need more men doing this. Bringing down creep culture publicly. This is also why we need large supportive groups of girlfriends. Public shaming has ALWAYS been done to women. So I’m glad women are p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:19 PM
19

Stay strong. Save all the messages. It can take years before this calms down :/. Personally it’s been a few years for me, I never got death threats, but got threats in general to ruin my life etc. It’s funny they plan to ruin your reputation but in the meantime heavily destroy their own by acting a fool. I wouldn’t doubt he still tries to contact my one of many ditched email accounts in attempts to reconnect. And everyone wonders why I want to change my name 😂, privacy and peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:23 PM
19

Honestly, I know guns are extremely controversial, I live where I can’t own one. But, I wish I could for my own safety. I’ve had multiple crazy exes. And truthfully a gun evens the playing field for women. I’d rather go down with a chance to survive rather than not survive at all. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:17 PM
5

LOL I mean 😂...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:56 PM
11

Wait this is a joke right ? 🥶 Idk if I am on exredpill anymore
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 03:27 PM
3

I get that people go through phases, but it’s a little but different when people are classifying who they associate with based on certain terms. Yes people can change and there should be hope to change. But regardless it’s still sort of creepy. I’d be personally weird out, yes the journals are from what you said 2007? So 13 years ago, but he was also 30 years old then. He wasn’t 20 years old sorting out some angst. Do you truly know him at his core? Or is that his core and he’s been playing the …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 10:39 PM
16

So you have told her that you feel like she does not show affection anymore? I know its so cliche to bring it up but evidently your love language is touch, and I mean besides sexual touch. I understand how hard this can be as I find my love language is touch, but a lot of men don’t actually touch in romantic ways - simple things like hugging, snuggling, just simple touch gestures that do not have to lead to anything. What do you think her love language is? Verbal? Quality time? Acts of service? …
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 05:52 AM
6

This is men’s version of showing emotions 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:39 AM
9

They are considered in a poor light. There’s a lot of hate surrounding feminism. Most women won’t consider themselves a feminist because it’s turned into a cringe fest due to the online hate. Never have seen a man praise a feminist, ever. Most make fun of them xD. I’d say its pretty equal in the shame both sides get. Also saying you want to kill people is wrong, we don’t need a huge analysis on that. I don’t like some kinds of men but that doesn’t mean they should die because of it. If I had a s…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 11:00 PM
2

Ofc looks matter? Men judge women and other men. Women judge other women and men. There’s no denying it. But the difference is women’s initial attraction is different than men. I don’t initially find many men attractive, however I can deem if I’m definitely not attracted to them in a romantic way, but there’s many guys that I’m like “sure he’s attractive” and it gets left at that. I start to genuinely like him and become super attracted to him after I start to know his demeanour. I’m not complet…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/20 10:46 PM
2

It’s sad in the sense they will more than likely never get help. But otherwise I’d say this person sounds like a threat to society in the way he speaks.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 06:01 PM
3

All I know is if the dude in the ss is considered what is an “alpha” or men who behave like him ... no sane woman wants that as a partner
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 11:11 AM
9

He must’ve gone on a message rampage 😂 he said to me I’m lucky he got banned or else he’d roast me. So unsure if he is or not. But oh what a treat that would have been 🥶.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 10:54 AM
6

Ive dated a narc as well, the issue is often they groom people. They’ll make you feel valuable, once you are hooked and dependant thats when the terror ensues :/. Its so hard if ppl havent been around them before to recognize the signs or avoid those people.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 12:17 AM
21

This is such a painful lesson that needs to keep being reminded to us, daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:01 PM
2

You feel like shit because you are not being your authentic self. Ditch your friends please. Also, your value comes from who you are, not the people you are with. Relying on relationships for value damages both women and men. To me, value is your integrity, work ethic, and how you treat others. I ALWAYS seem to have to preface this on exredpill that looks do matter, but they are not your entire personal value. If this was this case we would probably all off ourselves once reaching mid-life. Your…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 10:52 PM
51

If anything wear lingerie for yourself. I understand if you do not want to wear it for a man. But for many women it’s a sort of underlying sexiness. Nothing wrong with that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:44 PM
8

Yeah or they go straight to hooking up with other people, that doesn’t work out, they feel bad about it and try to come back 🤦‍♀️. Lol
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 09:35 PM
19

From what I’ve read from redpill posts, if the man is redpilled I think he gets caught between delusion and reality. He wants his woman to be a specific way, if she has any one flaw that doesn’t fit the ideology he may eventually dump her. Months roll by, and she moves on as she should, and he finally realizes he ruined a good thing because he expected her to fit some cookie cutter mold of what a red pill women should be. Also a lot of them it seems want to be able to settle down with a woman wi…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 08:30 PM
23

Guys can play mind games regardless if they are redpill are not but I’ve seen from a lot of posts on here men that all of a sudden turn callous and cut out their girlfriend, or start being rude to someone they are seeing. And then all of a sudden they want their partner back. Tbh you should just avoid men in general who ghost you/leave you on read. They aren’t interested. General red flags as the poster above mentioned. He obsesses over your ex bfs/sexual activity prior even if he doesn’t really…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 08:13 PM
21

There’s so many women with this sort of age gap, and in my head I’m just like girl .... a 25 yr old should not be dating a 40 yr old. It’s just 🤮, and 9/10 times she is not happy/stuck with the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:51 PM
3

He doesn’t realize it, and I’m unsure if he ever will which is scary. I don’t mean that as an insult either but we can see how deep TRP roots are. Not only this but it’s concerning on a mental level.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 08:28 PM
12

If you can’t understand why there’s no point asking about women lol. It might just be a good idea not to get married tbh
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 03:29 PM
8

Right because you’d get what you want for the time being. Ijs don’t expect a lot if you are looking for a girl that has self respect, but hopefully if you do meet the right person you are upfront with things.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 03:24 PM
8

Imma just say this a lot of women look for a connection, some women cannot orgasm with a man whom they have 0 mind connection with. Also if you are thinking about what you want in the future it’s probably a good thing to evaluate the choices you are making. It’s sort of funny cause red pill promotes going for women who do not sleep around but yet you are buying sex. Idk just think about what you really want in your future, women who don’t sleep around don’t want men who buy sex, pay for stripper…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 03:21 PM
15

So you see now how much TRP involves so much mental gymnastics. You had her, and then decided to play mental mind games, is it a surprise now after being shot down and ignored that she’s gone? Why should she come back? People that are committed to someone don’t do this. The truth is if a guy does this to a woman he probably does not like her all that much. He would suffer at the fact of being without her. Are you sure you didn’t just have her around in the first place to feed your ego? And now t…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 08:09 PM
1

A guy with a high count bothers me more than a virgin ever would. To me a man who sleeps around a lot has higher potential to be unsatisfied with commitment. A man could see the same way about a woman. It is all personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:02 PM
1

Good sex is ideal to women where there is a connection. It will never be nearly as ever important as it will be to a man though. But yes women are more selective for good reason.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 07:46 PM
1

This is true but it’s because men mainly want sex from women, their first instinct isn’t a loving relationship. So ofc you have demand for sex, and a smaller group of women willing to give sex. The men wanting sex far outweighs the women willing to give random sex, perform in porn or other venues. So when a woman wants sex she can get it no questions asked because that’s what men want. Most women want love and will put out thinking they will get love in return from giving sex. A man has to pursu…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 07:23 PM
7

This is what I mean by narcissistic you cannot leave things, it’s always one last try. You need something to validate her decision for you. This is why she has blocked you, because you probably don’t understand boundaries. Please. Get. Help.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 04:40 PM
9

I’ve been with a guy like you, and he would not leave me alone to the point I had no option but to go no contact to get away. I’m happy you realized your toxicity, but you should maybe try to get into therapy. The traits you are describing of yourself are very narcissistic, it’s not just about falling down TRP path, it seems like you lost basic empathy for her while in the relationship. Not everything can just be blamed on TRP, a lot of it comes down to just common empathy and respect for others…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/20 04:37 PM
40

I had to look it up too, glad the video was a joke. But I’m sure there are boys who feel this way. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:13 PM
34

The r/niceguys syndrome 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:31 AM
2

Yep! I don’t know many due to just being at that stage in life. But if I ever have a daughter you better bet I will encourage her to live HER best life and not rely on men for an identity. They need to know their worth early on 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:30 PM
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THEY NEVER DO!!! If they started doing it in the first place it’s nearly impossible for them to stop. Men struggle with having empathy for women and considering their feelings. I truly hope you are thriving out of this scenario, and just live your best life. These situations can be draining. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:19 PM
6

I’m late to the party, but just wanting to say you did the right thing in multiple aspects. The dudes that follow a bunch of these girls will never unfollow them, and they think it’s their god given right to act disrespectful; if you don’t agree with their behaviour then you are considered “insecure”. Hope he has fun with just his hand going forward 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:23 PM
18

This x 10000000000 I wish I could had learnt this in high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:37 PM
8

This goes both ways as others pointed out, there are men as well who think women are damaged goods if they were raped, and many probably wouldn’t want to deal with her trauma. In fact I see many posts that the partner exasperates their trauma by wanting acts of sex that would mimic the trauma, or watching porn that exhibits the same nature. The ugly truth is that there is a lot of men that’d like to know the details or see the footage from women being raped, including underage. But, in terms of …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/20 04:06 PM
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We already lost faith long before this 😂. It’s pretty obvious a good chunk of them do this shit. As a women you just actually can’t win with men EVER. If you’re single, you have men telling you that you are worthless etc., if you’re in a long term relationship you’re stuck babying a man child and being a forever girlfriend, if you’re pregnant you straight up have 2 kids and as you mentioned have the risk of your partner cheating after they got you pregnant, and if you’re married you run the risk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:07 PM
15

The audacity LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:02 PM
1

We all say we have certain preferences but when you start to fall for someone those things honestly don’t matter. Men without hair can be attractive, I think what it is is that they will try and keep their last ounce of hair instead of buzzing it off. Listen I completely get it, hair is such a sensitive issue for men and women. But its the equivalent of a women with extremely damaged hair that’s broken off getting hair extensions that don’t match up nor look good with her natural hair. Sometimes…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 06:52 PM
8

Again another reason to solidify not having sex with a man you are interested in before he makes an actual commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:23 PM
7

Because all along the truth is that we are more mentally strong and emotionally strong to endure a life of being solo. Women throughout history have endured so much shit-and it’s always shit done to them, they aren’t making the shit pile (ex.wars, violence, rape). Men need us to be emotional caretakers, therapists, cooks, nannies, and sexdolls. They can’t deal with their own brains I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:57 PM
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Do they not realize that some of us just give up? And that we we may have to be single by choice due to the lack of HVM? They think “HAH SEEE no one wants to date these bitches, they’ll die alone with this attitude”. We are defining our happiness without men potentially being in the picture whereas incels/trp define their success in life by the poon they can get and/or tying a woman down to the household. Why should we settle for men that don’t make us feel special, loved and respected? It’s rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:58 AM
2

Try and see if google translate extension in chrome helps !! You can choose to set your default language in spanish and then it will attempt to translate the english. It would at least help to read any of the text that’s been written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:45 AM
6

Yep. I’ve had men with unmedicated mental illnesses stalk me for up to 2 years after the breakup, of even with me going 100% no contact. It’s a nightmare. One threatened to bang on the door of my parents house in the middle of the night until I answered, or they threaten suicide and will ghost to actually make you concerned, threaten to do something to ruin your reputation etc. At least 2 out of my 8 relationships/dating scenarios this happened. Out of those 8 guys I would say only 3 were somewh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:19 PM
13

90% of them keep the nudes and make folders on their phones etc. I’ve been part of gaming servers and had a friend definitely tell me that guys would send him pics of their girlfriends to boast etc. Or girls that have sent them nudes. They share them in a group chat. Even he said it was really fucking weird. But many guys do this. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:10 PM
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Well if it was a man who told you that it’s because he can’t imagine a life for himself without porn 😂🙃. They are that addicted, and would be willing to fight for it to the death most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:51 PM
26

Omg I literally was like whaaat to your comment, until I realized what the /s meant 😂🤦‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:27 PM
9

If there’s no success stories it’s because there is limited HVM. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:23 PM
2

I agree it’s bizarre. Also I find it weird when people do sex in front of their cats/dogs or masturbate with them there in the room. Maybe that’s just me? But I actually do think animals know what the fuck is going on. It’s just bleh, he could of gone to the bathroom to do this if he was desperate and it had nothing to do with you being asleep. But I guarantee it has something to do with you being essentially unconscious and unable to consent. Think about it, if a random man flashes you in publi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:10 PM
5

No, this is not normal, I’ve never had a bf do this, and I know because they always passed out before me. This is some fantasy shit he is trying to do, probably would expand to him trying to stick it in you while you are asleep. This is a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:59 PM
55

Yaaas girl! Funny enough waiting for my mini diamond bomb and lip gloss to come in from Sephora. The new cream products they released appear to be good as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:06 PM
12

LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:24 PM
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He likes photoshopped naked women on instagram! He claims it’s not a big deal! I mean it’s not like these models will ever contact him !!!! I’m a secure woman, he can do what he wants !!! I also found out he’s blowing our money on their onlyfans account, it’s alright though he’s empowering wamen !!!!! One month into our relationship and he’s suggesting FFM threesomes! He HAs sexual needs but refusing to go down on me, I must satisfy him or else he’s going to ChEAT!!! Also reddit told me this is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:20 PM
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I know this is your real life (not to turn this situation into a joke), but I can imagine this as a movie scene, woman ditches loser ex ... *puts on her sunglasses, and one last hair flip before slamming the door and goes on to live her best life without the stress* STANDING OVATION
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:13 PM
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Please please please reach out to women if you are ever on any of the relationship advice subreddits. Just shoot the a message with the FDS reddit. I sent the link out to like 10 people yesterday, not many, but hopefully it will sway at least one of them. I notice this sort of movement for women getting stronger as the weeks go by. Not only on reddit but other social platforms - whether influenced by FDS or not, women are waking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:58 PM
3

Off topic but she is so beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:47 PM
5

Does anyone get a little high off of saying no, sure it's annoying being pestered still consistently. But it's sort of funny watching someone try to plea for your attention, and we just walk away from it. It's probably because it's so off of our normal kind nature to apologize for things we shouldn't apologize for. I'll wear asshole/bitch as a badge of honour tbh if it was earned from ignoring a man who doesn't know the meaning of no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:46 PM
3

Yeah it immediately gets the “omg she is a gold digger/selfish/etc.” If a woman posted a dif. story asking the reddit audience if she is an ass for not liking the style of the ring and wanting a different ring, guaranteed half the responses would say she is wrong and ungrateful for the ring in the first place. And the kicker is half of the voices accusing her of being selfish are most likely other women! I’m so tired of this bs narrative women are spinning that they’d be happy with a chicken nug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:58 PM
2

Oh ... my ... god. I think we’ve all been there where even if they got something specifically for us ... we are like “this is not my style at all”. Something completely left field. It’d be like getting him a cardigan when he hates preppy styles and only wears t-shirts. But of course we always have to be grateful when a man we have been dating for years gets us anything despite it not being our taste (sarcasm)! It’s like he doesn’t notice anything about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:32 PM
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I mean this for a sense of having a life that doesn’t revolve around the opposite sex. What are you doing for yourself that is productive, that doesn’t involve a ploy to get women? Most women have faced abusive scenarios, harassment etc. The point is I’ve been abused by exes, from them threatening suicide, wanting to physically harm me, and threatening with things that should be kept personal. But guess what? Out of the scenario who ended up in therapy? Me. Not them. I talk about my experiences …
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 03:30 PM
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Literally my dad to my mom. She wants a raised garden bed, but they are impossible to find or are extremely small. He decided he's going to go ahead a build a big mobile one for her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:10 PM
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You realize a lot of men lie about the sex they are getting or exaggerate experiences to their bros? You should focus on being a good person first and foremost. What value do you bring to the table besides anything that looks can bring? Do you have any specific goals? I'm honestly not trying to shit on you with these questions. I'm just wondering what sort of goals men have nowadays because on these forums/reddit it seems like they complain about women and the situation with women but don't ever…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/20 01:58 PM
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It's not safe at all, you can get apps that save images/videos without the person being notified. Also, as the others mentioned just using another device to record it. Regardless there's nothing stoping someone from screenshooting directly on snapchat, and just lying to you when they said they wouldn't. There's nothing you can do about it! It's not safe. And not worth the risk. Majority of men will go against your wishes and screen record/snapshot, or if you send it willingly many use it as ammo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:10 AM
6

Ugh, unfortunately they are so bound to the idea of love. I get it completely, I think a lot of us have been there. We refuse to acknowledge the truth, the truth is so bad about the dating scene. There ARE good men, I know because my father is one, but good men are 1 to every 10 women. And I mean men who are thoughtful, respectful and take initiative in the progress of the relationship. They truly are rare. I’m sure it makes me and other women very sad, but also I’m happy for the women that are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:37 AM
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Preach sis. And you know what if no men step up to the plate, well, we move on with our lives and stay single. It’s more terrifying to stay in a relationship where there’s constant disrespect and no effort on his part. It’s just not worth the heartache and stress 👋!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:26 AM
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I would have love to have written exactly what you wrote here but in the tiktok comments. Unfortunately comments are limited heavily! Basically to sum it up “ya’ll be wives/moms for free with no dedication from him”. The forever girlfriend situation is terrifying 🥶.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:19 AM
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Already 1,100 members more in 5 days~ o_o.Yaaaaaaas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:11 AM
7

Exactly! The more I come across these sorts of videos the more proud I am even of past me like when I was 20-21. I was dating a guy and remember telling him I didn't believe in moving in together before getting engaged/married. He obviously was stumped on this and didn't agree, glad our relationship never went further. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:49 PM
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I know probably a lot of people don't have tiktok and might not get the reference title nor see the comments (you have to login or be on the app). But HOLY SHIT the comments on this one specifically... so many poor women stuck in 4+ year long relationships, with kids etc. and no proposal. Some reaching 10 years. I truly feel bad these women they are being a wife and mother without any confirmation on his part. Why would he put a ring on it if he already cashed in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:33 PM
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Clearly in my post I said MY process, that’s obviously not the process every women takes. I said ofc there are people you will just not mesh with. In general, biologically speaking, men value looks above all else. Whereas women place more emphasis on content of character. Looks matter for everyone in this world, thats obvious. Good looking people overall for both genders have an advantage. But men get more of a pass if they are unattractive in both the dating world, and the working world. It’s f…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:38 PM
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Ofc I’m going to defend my position when someone comes in and says it’s not accurate even though that’s how many women feel? As you would do the same lol. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ If that makes me bitter? Oh well? I’m not hurling personal insults at people online and dming them etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:31 PM
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Awesome :D no problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:22 PM
3

It should work on browser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:20 PM
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Right guys want to possibly “shag” you, but what about love? There’s a difference. Most women leave sex unsatisfied and let down. And still men come out on top. Women sacrifice to men’s pleasures often they are f***ed up but don’t feel special and loved in return. You can be with a man and him be completely spaced out jerking it still to other women, paying for models/porn etc. Yeah sounds real great for women who are dedicated. Men have endless visual options which satisfies their needs, women …
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 04:17 PM
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Lmao? Alright so I guess I’m not a woman 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 05:23 AM
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We do. But it's not the all and be all thing women go for. I can tell you my process for being attracted goes like this - > Oh ok he seems nice, get to know him more, know his personality, start to find him physically attractive as well. Of course there will be people you will never mesh with, but I am less harsh to rule a man out for looks. Men's process goes more like this ... smash or pass, if it's a smash he may try to get to know her more, if it's a pass he may still fool around with her, b…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 02:11 AM
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Watch until the end. Take your power back! Enough is enough. Glad to see this is becoming a more public movement, with lots of exposure to young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:50 AM
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Being ugly as a female is hard too. You become the girl/woman that no one wants to be with? Men are more visually stimulated, they start initial attraction based on looks. Imo you are in a worse position than any ugly guy could be in.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/20 01:44 AM
2

Unfortunately I think they have gotten away with being lazy, now that women are liberated in their sexual lives, there are many women putting out for free (and I mean not receiving any sort of effort from the man). I’m really not wanting this to seem like I’m blaming women, because men in general suck. But it usually all circles back to men “daddy issues” and “mommy issues” both stem from men. It’s just a shit stain cycle. So I’m thankful I don’t sleep with randoms. I’m hoping FDS is enlightenin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:39 AM
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I am so sorry this happened to you ... this makes me so angry. It’s vital for us women to stick together, I completely understand where you are coming from when there is just complete lack of faith in men, I often contemplate just staying single for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:33 AM
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Imagine giving their dick 5 licks and calling it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:24 PM
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My warning is when he says “I love really hard” ... means he’s a narc who stalks his exes and will attempt to destroy your life if you leave. True life experience 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:49 PM
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How embarrassing to live a life where you don’t try for anything or don’t bother to even impress the women you are attracted to 🤮. Thankfully women of all ages are waking up to this and are not accepting being treated poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:33 PM
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People that have high levels of delusion or claim they are more attractive and smarter than the rest often are on the low end of the intelligence scale. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:08 PM
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Yep girl by next year they won’t want you anymore 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️. To be frank though I’m sure a lot of them would have chosen 16 or 17 as their target or younger, we are all considered spoiled milk when we turn into legal adults. What a disturbing thought ... not even a quarter way through your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:06 PM
49

Just another confirmation that the majority of them are nasty. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:03 PM
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Yep, and they love bomb you etc.. there is some truth behind if it’s too good to be true then could very well be a toxic scenario. My ex narc when we first met invested so much in me, complimented me all the time, wanted to buy me things, seemed genuinely interested in me, would even do things where he’d say he likes the same kind of music or hobbies. I was so enamoured by having someone pretend to show so much love and interest. As soon as your attached then they start to abuse, slowly by makin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:29 PM
4

I have online schooling currently so that does take up quite a few hours of my week. Otherwise definitely have been upping my exercise, somedays I exercise 1-2 hours a day ... I don't mean consistent high intensity, breaks down into at least a 45 minute walk, and then some form of exercise in the evening whether that's another walk, a workout vid or two, elliptical, attempting to run, stretch videos (I'm trying to get my splits). So working out has kept me busy. It's fun to also try new low cal …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:34 PM
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Just a reminder you can be of average income and not be cheap. Cheap meaning you don't put thought into anything or think about how your partner would feel. It makes me cringe knowing this probably happens often and many men don't think twice about it. You are asking someone to be your partner for LIFE, and you don't think about maybe getting a ring that means something to her. Instead you give her a repurposed hand-me down that was meant for another women, and you never bring it up to her until…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:20 PM
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I’ve just gotten to the point of talking over people in this case. I agree women want to be heard and should be heard regardless of how they speak. But I’ve found it’s highly useful to be assertive from the very start, people’s first impression writes the narrative of how they’ll treat you going forward in a lot of scenarios. It’s beneficial for all women to use the word NO more often. It actually has shocked some people when I have outright just said no, and not given an explanation. We give so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:42 PM
26

Yep! Affection goes both ways. Imagine if men started actually showing more affection that isn’t just sexual? Just holding her from behind, a kiss on the cheek, a simple touch on the back. I bet a lot of these men would find there wouldn’t be as much problems with adding some kind gestures everyday. Its not fucking rocket science 🤦‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:36 AM
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Listen it’s probably fine if you are single, you can do what you want. All I’m trying to say is that there’s no point bringing it into new relationships. Any new relationship is supposed to be that support system for you. You can appreciate how people have molded you, but its not the same dynamic as a mentor or good friend. This is a woman you still had romantic love for and sexual relations. You have history. I don’t get what is so difficult about it? You weren’t married and don’t have kids tog…
/r/askFDS01/05/20 01:32 AM
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Sucks for us types who appreciate physical love, I love showing my affection this way ... but to get nothing in return? Nah ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:54 AM
11

This hit harder than expected 😓 ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:22 PM
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I have no ill will to any of my exes, even the ones who did harsh things to me. I don’t need updates on their lives, after a relationship I always block and unfriend etc. There is no point in keeping an ex around, they will always be your ex. I’d be weary of a man that keeps exes as friends, even if its just to give updates to each other. Why do you need to? What is so important in your life that you need to keep an ex updated on? You should focus on your new life and new partner if you have one…
/r/askFDS29/04/20 09:31 PM
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Do men when they say this shit realize how retarded and embarrassing it is? ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:39 PM
12

Are you occupying your time enough outside of relationships? Tbh this is a problem I had in my young 20s, I got bored in relationships easy. But I think I wasn’t living a satisfying enough life - I wasn’t embracing who I was, was relying on my partner for an identity. You may need to be more mentally stimulated? Adopt new hobbies? And don’t get too comfortable with people quickly, you’re probably getting your “fix” whether thats a quick romance/sex, and then discarding the situation. This is com…
/r/askFDS29/04/20 03:50 PM
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Yep ... idk why they say women have no hobbies ... when men usually have one or two of the following , weed/alcohol/drugs or all along with either sports (mind you my contact with some of these guys literally its like they don’t know how to have a conversation about anything else), netflix, videogames, porn/camgirls/instastalking . Now ... I actually don’t mind video games or sports, I would have no problem supporting my partner at these sorts of events and they can be fun if you get into them. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:50 PM
12

Omg, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:52 PM
7

The only thing I’d want to know about my man is if he is safe and clean. If I knew my guy had a really high count I’d probably feel less inclined to date him, but simply cause I don’t sleep around (by choice). If he’s just slept with a lot of random girls, I’d be really less inclined. That’s personal preference though, I know that really limits down the amount of guys I’d fit with. So hopefully it just doesn’t get brought up for you. If she really wants to know I think its better to be honest an…
/r/askFDS16/04/20 10:41 PM
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I’ve had 2 men threaten to commit suicide if I left. Once when I was 17 and again at 24. The one purposely said it, then went offline for the night (was a ldr, and I mean very far distance). I ended up contacting his brother who had to apologize to me. The ex ended up calling me the next day crying asking me why I contacted his brother. He knew his behaviour was abusive, and then was shamed for it - he wasn’t expecting me to contact his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:20 PM
29

YTA !!! 😂🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:08 PM
28

Or the stories where men buy fake engagement rings and legitimately proposed. I read one story where a woman went to go get her ring sized and the jeweller told her it wasn’t a real diamond probably not even good metal (it was like a cheap ring from walmart or something). She thought it was legit, and was humiliated. He lied to her and told her it was real etc. It amazes me how they cannot fathom the idea of getting a decent ring within their limits and what is discussed between them and will bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:51 PM
31

Makes me think back to an ex, I went no contact with him, and yet he kept making new emails to try and contact me, and I mean frequently even a year after without any response from me. If I would have shown his emails to anyone guaranteed he would have cried and put up a fit over it, despite harassing me. It makes me laugh now, but back when it was happening I was super scared!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:17 PM
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Yep. My narc ex once said to me “I’m just warning you when I get invested I love really hard” Meaning he is abusive and uses “love” as an excuse. He literally prewarned me of his toxic behaviour. Trash always takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:09 PM
3

Omg that went where I wasn’t expecting LOL. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:06 PM
10

I’m sure a lot of them realize this, often it is a last ditch effort to make some sort of understanding out of the chaos or feel validated. As redundant as it sometimes you just need to vent, that’s why having girlfriends is essential, also a good therapist doesn’t hurt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:07 AM
1

Men are just much lazier now. My grandparents didn’t marry are obscene ages. But I notice the difference now between say my father and men around my age range (25-30). They don’t know how to do anything or be handy like how many men used to be. Typical “women’s work” hasn’t changed but being handy is rare amongst my age range it feels like. Also men don’t want to take you out, they don’t ask or put in any effort. But, as much as we can complain about men there are a lot of women that are not hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:18 PM
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I’m actually so surprised that the bff ditched him as well. A lot of times people will choose to ignore this sort of behaviour (especially guys), maybe the friend experienced somehow the abusive nature of the OP as well and the gfs story was the last straw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:23 PM
17

Rejoice !! 😂🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:59 PM
18

I'm pretty sure HVM don't make obvious sexual glances at women that can be easily interpreted as "checking out". I've never have had a boyfriend do this in front of me (thank goodness), but honestly they aren't the type that would think to do it or really bother? I notice a lot of HVM have a lot of things going on in there life, their world doesn't revolve around checking out people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:41 PM
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Noticing this is noticing the vast majority of their own nature. It’s hard pill to swallow that needs swallowing. It’s funny how stats matter until it “concerns” them in a very bad light then those stats are questionable. I’ve seen this countless times when trying to describe to male friends how porn changes the brain, and how on average men are more attracted to 13 year olds in comparison to every other age group (yes even 18-20 y/o’s) - I believe this was a study done asking men to pick faces …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:20 AM
5

Sometimes I just sit here on reddit and think, holy fuck get me off this planet. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:33 PM
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This is not a good sign. I’ve been there. Guy seemingly has friend that is a girl - which ok np if he knew her before I was there. But often there is history. My one ex kept this one girl as a friend, and I turned a blind eye because I didn’t want to be a nag. Turns out they have slept together previously. I was FUMING, because he was still close to her and I had been left in the dark. Eventually he claimed to have stopped talking to her, several months later I find he still has her number, alon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:26 PM
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A glucose guardian 🥰😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:45 PM
10

Some of it is genetics both my dad and brother were bald in their 20s, on both side of my family 75% of the men are bald. Even my hair is thin, dry and not the best-I’ve always hated it. So the hair genetics game does shit on some of us. But many men don’t help their situation; they smoke (this is huge and causes hair loss + acne), have poor diets, don’t properly deal with stress etc. So there are things that can be done to mitigate a bit of loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:21 AM
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Lmao this is literally a combination of situations I have read on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:59 PM
7

I wouldn’t worry that much. Sure they are attracted to the women they see in porn or on insta etc. Majority of people in rl are average at best. But it’s not reality. And I think you can find some comfort in knowing that they are fantasizing about an illusion. Go to r/instagramreality , its now even possible to have filters on videos that give more hourglass shape etc. Everything is doctored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:14 PM
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HVM do not do these things! Good men will even shame it, I don’t mean shaming the women or the people involved but the act. Or they won’t see why other men need to partake in it. Heck, majority of HVM probably don’t even go to strippers/pay for sex etc. even if they were single. They know it’s trashy/waste of time. Unfortunately majority are LVM, hence why it’s normalized. And most women won’t grow a backbone. It’s the same women that would accept a chicken nugget as a wedding ring ... 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:42 PM
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Not that alternative is that much better; the other most common scenario is that the women end up fighting each other when the man is the problem. Ofc I mean that when the women don’t know each other, if you do that to a friend you are literally the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:15 PM
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I think 99% of us would say the answer is still no. There’s nothing to say a guy won’t use them again or pay strippers, use cam models etc. Escorts would be a big hell naw from me. There’s too much potential heartache that could come from this scenario. And frankly it makes me sick.
/r/askFDS20/03/20 11:23 PM
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It’s depressing. But I’d rather be single and not owe emotions to anyone. Rather than getting upset with a guy who can’t quit this bs. It’s just not worth it. Not worth the heartbreak. It makes more sense for women to go their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:19 AM
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I’m pretty sure when that gets thrown around its to mock the men who shit on women for appearance because a lot of the men who do aren’t that great to look at and suffer from tiny (insert feature here) big ego type syndrome. Because women are getting tired constantly getting verbally shit on by men over appearance. It’d be like saying well you can’t be a high value woman unless you have C cup boobs etc. Ofc this is not true. High value depends on how you respect yourself, others, how you spend y…
/r/askFDS20/03/20 05:05 AM
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Luckily I haven’t run into this that much myself. I don’t find gaming hostile to women but it’s more of you become target for gender related insults. I usually stay anonymous or don’t participate in voice-chat/don’t announce I’m female in text chat. So I guess that’s the only good thing is that when people shit talk me it doesn’t relate to anything gender wise just skill level. Gaming though for women despite any harassment can make a lot into pickme’s. And that’s a whooooooole other conversatio…
/r/askFDS19/03/20 12:36 PM
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I don’t personally have a problem, but that’s because it’s a hobby of mine. However, I can see why there’d be detest - the men I have met in the gaming community don’t do anything else but game. Like 90% of the frequent gamers I mean, 3-4+ hours a day, and rarely do any other form of socializing. Or any other hobby; not even going out for a walk, all hobbies completely dependent on screens. So I think it depends on the woman. And how much time is spent towards games. If you two don’t share the h…
/r/askFDS19/03/20 09:02 AM
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Because women are the backbone of the traditional household. The cooking, cleaning, therapy, childrearing, all of the things that are actually mentally taxing. Most men just shut down when they have to multi-task or deal with any sort of complex emotion. I’m lucky my father took care of my mother when she had cancer. But I’ve seen other men that as soon as their partner passes they move on FAST. It’s because a lot of them cannot handle the everyday grind that goes on at home or that is responsib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:54 AM
2

We realize this is already the case though even without the sexbots. Porn already doing so, along with instagram, and cam models. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:41 AM
9

Hot damn 🔥🔥🔥 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:47 AM
8

True. Dated a narc. For one he won’t ever get help because he’s a narcissist but also wouldn’t because of his mentality that men don’t need to get help. It’s a lost cause and better to count your losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:04 PM
1

I would disclose this, I mean from what I gather from the internet average is 4.5-5.5 inches? I know it sounds trivial at the end of the day, which is why the right person will love and look past this. I know this isn’t the same situation but if you had a partner whom didn’t tell you they have say pain with sex or something along the lines which would be a deal breaker for many guys-would you want to know? I mean some kind of “disadvantage” that would potentially inhibit your sexual experience. …
/r/askFDS13/03/20 12:17 PM
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The average is 4-5 inches pretty sure. Not trying to be a pickme ofc in hindsight bigger could potentially be more fun? I guess to play with? But it depends on the woman and her female anatomy. I find I’m just not “built” to be taking 8 inches. I’m built for the average. That doesn’t mean I don’t find a large dong attractive. But is it realistic for me? No. I wouldn’t worry too much about it, I would say size is not a dealbreaker for most women as long as you are giving her the pleasure she desi…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:47 PM
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Oh my god 😂😂😂. Gottem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:43 AM
9

Exactly! There is a difference between leaving toxic scenarios vs. making them to gain control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:13 AM
6

I have never seen anything good come from mgtow, I mean a man that was honourable, that ok has his own intentions of going his own way but not being a dick about it. Going your own way should exactly be that, but it doesn’t need to include tearing down everyone else you know in the process.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/20 07:56 PM
4

This has happened multiple times to me. Also guys giving thumbs up to my ex when I’d kiss him or something similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:50 AM
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Lmao he probably was expecting a lengthly text, even maybe an apology from you if you weren’t interested. I love the straight up shutdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:10 PM
1

All the men I have dated I didn’t necessarily find unattractive but I wasn’t over the moon when I met them. I became attracted to them after I got to know them personally. But most men I’m just not attracted to in general. It’s not to say they are ugly, I’m just not easily swooned by looks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:34 PM
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Literally the “superior” gender is controlled by their own ding dong. 🤦‍♀️😂🙃. Imagine admitting that your own brain doesn’t function 50% of time because of it - but will end up blaming women or anything that resembles a hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:12 AM
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My dad and brother both do this. And normally siblings are hard on each other; if I’m out with him and one of my friends he will 90% of the time cover the bill no questions asked. I don’t hang out with my brother often like this but he doesn’t ever raise it as an issue and always offers to take care of many people. My dad is shitty with gifts, but he will have no problem getting my mom nice things-even though I have to help him pick it out. Again, he usually always pays no questions asked, and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:57 AM
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They get stuck in the echo chamber. Sense of camaraderie etc.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/20 10:49 PM
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100% these guys are projecting. Why else would they have any reason to try and soil any experience you could have with a HVM. If the guy was decent he would probably agree you deserve something good or wouldn’t have anything to say to discourage you. It’s literally them being bitter. Women can do this to other women as well. I’ve had women tell me more often actually to lower my standards. My standards aren’t even that high to begin with xD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:01 AM
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I know of something similar, my ex had his mom die of cancer ... and his dad sold their house and moved in with a new woman when it had only been a year since her death. I don’t necessarily think it was comfort thing, he probably got tired of doing the housework. I feel really bad for his mom that passed :/.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:18 AM
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THIS!!! Holy shit. I have one friend dating this guy and she is pickmeisha over this stuff. I mentioned If I was engaged I’d like a ring that I like and it’d be important to me. She got so offended that I would be so picky over a ring, she claimed she would just be honoured that her bf asked her to marry her even without a ring. Like c’mon really sis? To me that just says he didn’t give a shit and would rather spend his money elsewhere - note most these dudes who complain have a gaming pc rig wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:29 PM
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I’ve never felt bad for guys that have used sob stories. Maybe I’ve just known better, but whenever he calls an ex or whoever crazy in my head I’m sort of like 95% chance she has a reason to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:40 AM
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LOL, she’s so r/notliketheothergirls , her bf gets to have another gf and she’s completely cool with it 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:32 AM
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r/relationship_advice is the worst. I unfollowed that subreddit, it was honestly depressing and very male centric as others have said. Everyone there supports porn filled relationships, bfs paying for their snapchat models, and following copious amounts of questionable accounts on instagram. If you suggest against it you are deemed insecure. It’d be best to just pm women privately and lead them to here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:57 PM
7

The amount of entitlement is off the charts. These people need to be put in their place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:14 PM
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You did the right thing. Also, your “friend” thinks your overreacting because it was a compliment to her. If he said oh btw your flatmate is ugly I’m guessing she’d freak out and not just say “oh well that’s his opinion”. Guy seems like a dunce. You do not say these things to other people especially if you are interested. Makes it feel like he is trying to use you to get to her. You did the right thing 👏👏👏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:30 PM
26

Omg I snorted at this. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:47 AM
14

I think it’s a big red flag if they fail to acknowledge holidays. I once was dating a guy and I knew it was over when he didn’t do anything for me for our 2 year anniversary, meanwhile I still managed to get him a gift. He didn’t even think twice about it. It wasn’t a thought in his mind anymore 🤷‍♀️, I’m pretty sure he didn’t even bring it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:24 PM
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If I fell into this situation I would get a prenup. Whose to say your husband/partner won’t cheat and try to walk away with their perceived half. It’s only right to protect yourself. She should speak to a financial advisor and put this money away so it can grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:24 AM
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This is something Ive been working on. Its true I almost feel like at times I’ve had peter pan syndrome. Not from family trauma, but I was in non stop relationships from my teens to young 20s when I should have been growing as an individual; for my self worth. The past few years have been a struggle and I find I’m picking up the pieces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:21 AM
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The top replies on their thread contain little to no thought at all ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:03 AM
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I play games, but I do see how gaming is a problem or can be. I’m pretty well rounded though in my hobbies, and I won’t avoid going out because of games. That’s the big problem is when people avoid their responsibilities, can’t manage time, and avoid being out in the real life. In a world where depression and anxiety is becoming more pronounced the rise of gaming goes up. I think this is because gaming just shuts off that part of your brain that overthinks, and your reward complex is activated. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:09 AM
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I feel like vday is such a bad day to propose. Restaurants are crowded even the really shitty ones. This is a huge moment in your relationship that is supposed to have deep meaning. Nothing like a guy getting down on one knee with a whole crowd of random people watching while munching on their unlimited salad and garlic bread. Don’t even get me started on guys who don’t give a shit about the ring they give their girl either. And I don’t mean this in a money sense, but something that isn’t her st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:09 AM
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This is a huge dealbreaker for me; he’s paying other women for favours essentially. This isn’t just porn now, it’s actually cheating. He is interacting with naked women, he’s probably paying them for specific requests. It’s wrong on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:33 PM
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I’m glad it sounds like she did her research! :) FDS is about being a HVW and not settling for anything low value in their life (and yes this should even include friendships). We are not here to change men 👏, they need to do so on their own accord. I feel like in the past I would care more about a guy’s life and health than he would, now I don’t got that time for that 👋👋👋.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:36 PM
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When you have these sitting somewhere in a closet from 10 years ago. 😂 Actually though men can sometimes be the worst gift givers. A lot of the time there is 0 thought put into it nor consideration for the women’s style etc. I always used to ensure if I bought clothes (gift) that I knew my partner would wear them. I wouldn’t buy him something so far out in left field from his typical style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:29 AM
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God one of my bfs was so gross. He would constantly fart in his sleep and I mean 24/7. At first it was sort of hilarious but then it got annoying when I realized it wasn’t a one off thing. They smelt rank, and his bedroom was in the basement with no ceiling fan nor not able to really prop open a window. This guy was 21. Imagine years down the road. I think he had some sort of digestive issue he should get looked into but probably never will. I feel bad for whatever woman has to sleep next to him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:12 AM
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Oh my goodness XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:00 AM
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I’m fortunate I was raised well with a loving mother and father. I feel like if I didn’t have this I would have has a real damaged perspective of life. FDS hasn’t changed things drastically for me it’s more of just empowering. But I’ve sort of given up on dating atm since I had an abusive relationship, I went no contact and he was still trying to contact me after 2 years. Ever since that relationship I’ve been worn out. Being on and off of antidepressants, have had countless bouts of being suici…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:32 PM
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The sad thing is the men that are highly “suspect” hide their behaviour. My brother had a lifelong friend before whom I knew since probably age 5. Sure enough once high school rolled around he started getting handsy with me (he was 2 years older than me), he could have a gf and would still grab my ass when he was over at my house. He would still do it even when I had a bf. This continued well into when I was in university. Sometimes he would come up to my room, when I was napping midday and try …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:49 PM
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Good for you 🥰! Sounds like he was bitter. Also, I hear so many ladies being approached all the time. I NEVER get approached, like ever. Maybe people don’t do it as much where I live? Or maybe I just have a cold ass bitch face 😂😓.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:30 AM
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Don’t worry not a dumb question. If you are from USA you can get it through a site called curology. Otherwise you can go to your doctor and ask for a prescription, there’s no harm in trying, tret is known to be used for anti-aging+acne. If you can’t get it from a doctor then you could get it from a derm. But make sure to start at the lowest percent 0.025 , this level is good enough for anti aging benefits. The skin care addicts on reddit have guides how to properly use tret, because it is a proc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:00 AM
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Your collagen decreases no matter what but see if you can get yourself some tretinoin, I don’t know how old you are but starting young really helps you. Tret helps increase collagen production and causes turnover of cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:17 PM
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Yep. And my doctor has basically ignored me or hasn’t done anything about it. My period has also never been the same since the incident. It’s really light, and got this way ever since I had high stress in that relationship. Never went back to a normal amount of flow. I think my brain got stuck in a pattern of thinking (fear) and is now stuck there despite not having the direct problem (my ex) there anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:11 AM
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I got physically sick from being in that relationship and still am dealing with it even though its been 3 years. I blame it on being in constant fear mode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:37 AM
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Very hypocritical, initially wasn’t ever mean to me but said his exes were crazy. Eventually he started being mean to me and would call me names etc. Also he Wasn’t able to take a joke from other people. Very defensive over himself and evidently felt attacked by people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:23 AM
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The most abusive guy I was with came off as really high value in the initial stages. He had his own business, was good looking, protective of me, would pay for everything, and overall seemed very “invested” in me as a person. They hook a lot of women in and then swap between them to get their narcissistic fix. The scary thing is I was so into him for so long, and it took me about 10 or so attempts before I had the courage to leave and go absolute no contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:57 PM
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Yep was gonna say this. If he don’t love you by now he ain’t ever gonna love you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:35 AM
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This is a a red flag to me. It really is true the saying of that if someone is rude to the waiter/waitress then they are probably not that nice of a person. “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” ^ and of course this in the belittling sense, where someone says something about someone out of the blue that is rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:05 AM
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I wouldn’t say all men do, because honestly you would have no time to do anything else. I truly believe its a low to average iq behaviour, in other-words you don’t think much about other things of substance. Majority of low iq people also think they are better than other people and believe themselves to be more attractive. The men that I know who are smart I never hear any crass comments from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:36 PM
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I think this is part of it. I have kissed him though. We haven’t had a conversation about our predicament, I don’t think he knows how to approach it. But it’s not my responsibility to figure it out for him, and I’m just at the point where I can’t be bothered to chase someone. I’ve read here before that even shy guys will eventually make their move even if it’s after a while-I’ve known him quite some time, obviously I don’t mean enough to him for him to want to pursue me 😓. I just hate getting mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:29 PM
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It’s like men throwing acid on women. Particularly as someone else said this happens frequently in the middle east. It’s the mentality “well if I’m not going to be with you, then I’ll make sure no one else can.” It’s the ultimate form of evil disfiguring someone and forcing them to live with it. I truly feel for anyone who has suffered through something like this :/.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:14 PM
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I needed this. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:53 AM
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Omg ahahaha. Wow I can’t believe people like this exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:33 PM
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Mob mentality is so awful, they literally fester in it. I remember when I was younger I was coming back to my dorm at 9pm or so and in the smokers pit right by the dorm (where all the low values hang out), they made fun of my looks from afar, it wasn’t a direct jab but it was basically them pretending to hit on me and then be like “oh ew nvm”. I cried myself to sleep that night, I was just trying to get back to my dorm, I know I looked like shit as most people do when they are studying, but it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:33 AM
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This is so sad :/, imagine the audacity of someone telling you that you need plastic surgery. Ofc if it was on her own accord that’d be a different story. Never base personal happiness on another person’s feelings!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:50 AM
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I mean dates should be treated like how interviews go. You wouldn’t show up to an interview in casual clothes. Doesn’t mean he had to dress extremely formal, but a bit of effort would have show he cared. I’m glad you aren’t settling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:07 AM
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Who is she? She’s super pretty ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:02 AM
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It’s underneath the welcome post below where the discord is linked I believe its on the side bar. I’m on mobile though, and on mobile its on the about tab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 10:21 PM
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I cringed reading this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:08 PM
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It’s on the FDS spotify playlist :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:01 PM
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I feel like when you are single you notice these things more. I’m in this position now, it does suck, but at the same time it’s not worth settling for something that isn’t great. And honestly vday is not that great it’s crowded everywhere, there’s often drama, and many guys probably don’t get their gfs anything lol. When your in this position though it’s the time for you to become the best version of yourself. I wasted time from ages 13 until 24 being consistently in relationships when I should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:57 PM
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I once lived with two guys and my bff. We were all friends no relationships or anything. Anyways the one night we had all been drinking, my one roommate was CONVINCED I was into him becAuse I fell asleep on the couch and had my foot pressed against the side of his leg. He was so convinced this was a sign of me being attracted to him (I wasn’t, this was just where my foot was landing), he went and convened with my other 2 roommates and told them he thinks I like him - they both were like “uhh we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:55 AM
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Some men have really poor cleaning habits as well, whenever I walk into apartments owned by my male friends they are often gross. The toilet looked as though it has never been cleaned, literally there was dust and stains caked on the inside of the bowl. Dishes over piling the sink with probably food accumulating at the bottom for so long that it smells rotten. They didn’t think twice to make their place somewhat presentable before they had friends come over. Hey but “visual creatures” only appli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:57 PM
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I’ve never used tinder but this gives me hope, often I feel like no one would want me 😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:36 PM
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It makes you realize the own small things you do. I was crushing on this guy but he never made a move; and I wasn’t going to do so. But ... I managed to remember things he liked eating, important dates, small things like this, all of this was in the preliminary stage of getting to know someone. He seems to like me but obviously not enough for him to think about what I said or remember anything. It’s kind of heartbreaking, bleh. Sometimes I just have this idea in my head of calling him out in per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:48 PM
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I block out all my exes, every time. It’s good for your own sanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:01 AM
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I actually don’t mind men some men with no hair. But that’s because they shave it off and don’t try to hang on to their last ounce of it. And typically they are manly looking, so it doesn’t hurt them. On side note: Someone in my family who is actually into her 60s now was a single mother at 30 (due to her husband having an affair), she dated all throughout her life (literally one man after another, and long term relationships) until her mid 50s where she met her now husband (mind you is 5 years …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:09 PM
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Men just stare at me and don’t do anything lol. Sometimes its like this O___O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:20 PM
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I think you either are a person who is going to accept the advice or won’t accept it. Many women are on the team of that their man can do no wrong and it’s always the other woman’s fault. I’ve had this happen to me before where I was out, a guy was hitting on me, so we ended up dancing etc at the bar, turns out he had a gf. Guess who got the flack for it? ME. I had 0 idea and didn’t know the gf at all! Needless to say she popped off on me on social media and stayed with her bf. I felt awful but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:05 PM
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Fuck ..... XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:59 AM
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I used to date a guy who was extremely jealous, I could show him a pic of a nice looking dress and he’d instantly get offended by it. Because he knows it would look good. Instead of being happy by being with me, and me being his gf he’s too worried about other men ... Some of these guys can’t appreciate what they have until it’s gone. Many have undiagnosed mental illnesses, which does make me feel bad because they will never get help on their own accord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:15 PM
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Holy F, 14-15 the wall? LOL did they not realize in terms of what they considered the wall the girl probably is only 1-3 years on avg into her period. And let’s be honest from about the start of your period until adulthood it’s still adjusting and all over the place. Those dudes wouldn’t last 1 day in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:12 PM
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There's a 95% chance you will not meet anyone high value at a club/bar xD.Since you live in a major city you should check out meetups or similar sites that host events. Go take up something you have interest in? Lot's of men play co-ed sports, or are in clubs revolving around fitness. It wouldn't hurt to meet other HVW either, the more people you know the greater your chances of meeting HVM through contacts. Otherwise maybe look into volunteering? This may be hit or miss, but I think low value p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:05 AM
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This as well! I'm sure you are lovely at your weight, but there's nothing more empowering than taking care of yourself. Do it for yourself OP, not for your partner. Set yourself up for success. You don't even really need to workout that hardcore, manage your portions, and maybe go for some walks if you don't want to do hard cardio. Also weight lifting for women only benefits you, since we naturally have a lower muscle mass - you can only go upwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:58 AM
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I had this happen to me, well it wasn’t really that he ghosted me, I told him I didn’t want anything with him. 5 years of no contact, he knows 0 of my socials (this is a guy I met online), he remembered where my mom worked and found her through the work database and contacted her email asking about me. Thankfully he didn’t send more than 1 email, but still it was super fucking creepy. Like who does this? MOVE ON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:42 PM
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The holidays make people realize what they don’t have anymore. It’s not surprising that it can be a very miserable time of the year for some people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:39 PM
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Obviously you need to discuss things. Try and have a heart to heart talk with him? Discuss his porn usage and how you are feeling that this may be getting in the way between you two. Or if there is something else bothering him. You have to be clear that you have needs, we know you would accommodate him but he isn’t doing the same for you. I wouldn’t take any brash decisions until you have a few talks. If necessary go to couples therapy. If he seems despondent after trying to help him through thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:36 PM
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I’m sorry this is happening but you sound very naive about this scenario. Trust that it’s never a good sign that your bf/spouse doesn’t want to have sex with you. A man fully invested in you would grab at any chance to have sex/fun time with their partner. I noticed this behaviour in a guy I dated before, some aspects started to change like he’d never want to shower together anymore. He became more private and distant etc. Does he watch a lot of porn? It could be killing his desire. I’d try conf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:58 PM
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People who are secure won’t bring it up - I’ve dated a few men who left it alone. However the ones that are narcissistic will use anything! You could sleep with only 1 person and they’d still be toxic about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:52 PM
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Lol, I’ve had a few scenarios like this - one sticks out in particular. I was 18 and casually “dating” this guy, tried to get more commitment from him and he wasn’t budging. So I basically gave up on it. Started my first year of uni, and met a great guy that I ended up having a ltr with. The other guy kept messaging me on facebook just casually checking in even when I told him we were done and I found someone else. It was so satisfying to see him basically crumple up that he lost his opportunity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:38 PM
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Oh awesome, I was looking for some bad bitch anthems ahaha.Here are some more I know there might be some repeats, also some of these might be corny AF so take whatever you find works :D: Truth Hurts - Lizzo So Yesterday - Hilary Duff Stronger - Britney Spears Good Thing - Kehlani Not 20 Anymore - Bebe Rexha You Can't Stop the Girl - Bebe Rexha Slide Away - Miley Cyrus Sorry Not Sorry - Demi Lovato 7 Rings - Ariana Grande Sue Me - Sabrina Carpenter Warpaint - 88rising, NIKI Irreplaceable - Beyonc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:26 AM
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This. Imagine the entirety of your life being controlled by a screen/something not real and making you desensitized to anything normal. Yikes ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:04 AM
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It's the simple things like this :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:59 AM
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I think what it is a lot of dating advice preaches being more feminine. Which I get to some level, meaning your energy or mannerisms. Obviously there are somethings that don't attract high quality people (whether friendships/relationships etc) such as being really rude or gross. But I have a hard time imagining myself not carrying around masculine energy. I have trouble letting go and walking away from things. It's such a harsh realization, how often we make excuses for men. I'm learning this no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:20 AM
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