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| 29 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.No shit, my ex didn't know how to make scrambled eggs. Like, I'm not being picky about how I like them, he straight up didn't know how and asked. Put blue dish soap in my dishwasher. Didn't know how to do coin laundry. This list gets longer... lol. He was 28. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 15 | This is grossPhilanthropist? You mean arms dealer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.That 1/10 interest could also have been put straight on the deed. He would have haaaaaated that, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:43 PM |
| 20 | stop overanalyzing why low effort guys act the way they do... some people just suckAs if he'd fucking go to counselling, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI think the states that have common law marriage in place did so to make inheritance in probate easier. Don't you have to prove you're common law married? I feel like, especially in situations where one of you is sick or (God forbid) dead, it would be a lot easier to just have a marriage license. If you're in it for the long haul anyhow, having that legal protection would make things a lot smoother, in my opinion. There's a reason gay people fought for it for so long. I'm only talking about the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 95 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonablespends $200 on a gaming chair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI'm genuinely curious, why not just get married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsJaboukie Young-White! He's hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 17 | oh my God this had me ROLLING lmfao"I'll get ya next time!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:05 PM |
| 31 | Girlfriend makes me feel bad because she gets mad at me for half-assing chores! Also, I’m 32yo.Yep, love that rule. It's actually the inspiration for an item on my Hard Pass List: 2. Guys with dirty toilets If I can tell your toilet is dirty, it means you don't think that taking 2 minutes once a week to clean your literal shit is worthwhile. What other harder, longer tasks do you think are also a waste of time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 66 | Girlfriend makes me feel bad because she gets mad at me for half-assing chores! Also, I’m 32yo.These types of guys think cleaning is a big chore because they make it one. I just microwaved a breakfast burrito, and in the minute I was waiting for the microwave to ding, I wiped off my stove and a counter. It wasn't that dirty anyway, but now it's clean. If you half ass things and leave them for a week, yeah, cleaning is going to be a big chore. I think the worst thing about this guy is his piss poor attitude... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 51 | Single by choice-know your value and never settle!ONE OF US! ONE OF US! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 65 | Comedy hour: what is the most ridiculous thing a LVM has ever had the audacity to say to you?"Condoms make me come too fast." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:02 AM |
| 7 | #truthI would date someone who actually knew a martial art. I'm sure there are a lot of cool people in that community. However, most people who are into MMA have not trained a day in their lives. I'm talking about the guys who just wear tapout shirts and yell at the tv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 13 | #truthIt's well beyond time, you don't deserve that. Please be safe. You need to end this relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:24 AM |
| 17 | #truthHe is proud. They were in the wrong, so he beat them up. He won. That's what winning looks like to him, not just having the last word, but hurting someone. I don't mean to freak you out or anything... but this mindset has a tendency to show up elsewhere. You know, maybe the wallpaper in the bedroom isn't turning out how he wants, so he angrily lodges a tool into the wall. He would have won in that instance. He sure would have shown that wallpaper who was boss. Maybe you don't act the way he want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 10:53 AM |
| 43 | #truthAlright. Here goes: I don't want to date someone who gets excited over people hurting each other for money. "Oh, it's not that bad," they say. "These guys are athletes, martial arts are just that, art." Why are they in a cage, then? Why aren't they paid better? Why do they pretend to talk shit and hate each other before the fight? Which, by the way, reeks of some Wrestlemania bullshit. I wouldn't be at all surprised if atleast some of it is fake. The blood though? The eyes swollen shut? That's n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 10:26 AM |
| 16 | Getting DMs from angry guys 1 day after joining this sub.I feel like this needs to be pinned somewhere. Everyone who shits on this sub seems to think we have unreasonable and ridiculous expectations. This was a fantastic explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:29 AM |
| 74 | #truthAh, thank you for this. Not for the meme (although, it is quite funny), but for reminding me of something to add to my Hard Pass List: 4. Dudes who are into MMA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:18 AM |
| 34 | What do y’all think? Trying to decide if I’m being pickmeishaIt wasn't a very funny one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:51 AM |
| 58 | What do y’all think? Trying to decide if I’m being pickmeishaImmediately let go of any man that tells you to quit your job to hang out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:50 AM |
| 42 | And PUA think women need to give men tests to work out if they are useless. Life is the test.No joke, I had to teach my ex how to make scrambled eggs. I hardly knew how to verbalize it. He was 28. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 24 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksOh, come on. These dudes don't budget, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:40 AM |
| -14 | Pickmeishas be like:Can you breakdown your reasoning behind why this is pickmeisha behavior? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | I FELT LIKE IT APPLIES TO MEN AS WELL.....Hey, I'm glad it made you feel better. Sometimes we just need a good rant. Just remember: If you lie with dogs, you're gonna get fleas, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:09 AM |
| 8 | I FELT LIKE IT APPLIES TO MEN AS WELL.....Uhh. Check the post history. This a a coke rant, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | This article talks about a woman’s perspective on a lot of things and is 100% trueTucker Max, no less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 15 | What I learned from dating a LVMThis was a great post, thank you so much! I'm really hung up on this though, lol: putting his coat on the café floor. Not on the back of his chair... the floor. Like... what? Huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 54 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!His shower rod is missing the rod part? I feel like there's a joke to be made here. EDIT: Just got a message mansplaining what a towel bar is, because I mistakenly said "shower rod." He included a couple jokes, though. WHAT A NICE GUY lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 15 | And he can't even make his own bed?! Hard Pass.One of my new standards is a clean toilet, and I'm so sad that it's come to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Tips/resources on femininityAlexandra has some fantastic video essays, I cannot recommend them enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 06:59 AM |
| 6 | LVM and Movie DatesDaaamn, your friend's grandma is a fucking savage. My jaw dropped when I read that. Not currently dating, but I'm gonna sit and think on that one for a bit... that's such an amazing statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 06:48 AM |
| 5 | When a guy says "you're lucky you're cute"I don't ride it much anymore, mostly you just end up with gnarly bruises on your shins, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:15 AM |
| 27 | When a guy says "you're lucky you're cute"I have a unicycle AND opinions. They strongly dislike one of those things. And it's never the unicycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:06 AM |
| 59 | When a guy says "you're lucky you're cute"I hate being called "quirky." Go masturbate to Garden State and leave me out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:11 AM |
| 19 | At least he knows he is a LVM.37 and can't even tuck in his tag? Pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:09 PM |
| 9 | Man creates questionnaire website for finding a partnerHe's looking for a woman born between 1950 and 1995. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:23 AM |
| 31 | But I keep being shouted at how men are always the victims of violence and themselves not violent. Hmm...Men: "Why do women spend so much time in the dang bathroom?" Women: "Just locating all the sharp objects in case I have to hide in here later." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:13 AM |
| 41 | "Never apologize for the space you occupy in this world."I'm average height, but one of the sexiest things a shorter guy has said to me: "Wear what you want, I like to climb. ;) " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.I was looking into studies on pheromones, and I found a birth control study, if you're interested! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.I get that there is a scientific basis for liking or disliking someone's scent. I compared this line of thinking to the anti-vax thing because it's a pretty big jump to make, thinking the scent of your partner is an indicator that your child will have autism. This poster's child has autism, specifically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:04 AM |
| -17 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.I'm sorry, but that is some anti-vax level bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 09:18 AM |
| -10 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.Even if it's not. But seriously, is this... something you actually believe? That your body was warning you not to procreate with him by making his body smell bad to you after sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 08:52 AM |
| -11 | Husband suddenly thinks wife’s vagina is ugly. My money’s on porn being the reason.Our child ended up having special needs. Perhaps a coincidence. Hold up. Do you actually believe those things are related? I find that absurd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 08:30 AM |
| 60 | Next up on “Why I treat everyone like shit and make poor life decisions...fatherless men”But but...buuttt courts favor women so I'm not even trying for custody! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 69 | Boyfriend didnt disclose Autism till 2 months in... Conflicted.Oh, this is a good one. I'll share. I dated a guy on the spectrum, who also didn't tell me for a few months. He was scared I'd have the same reaction you did. In retrospect, a lot of things made more sense. But, in some ways, it made him a great partner. He knew he didn't quite see the world through the same lense other people did. He never blamed his autism for that. Instead, he sought to understand. During important conversations, he'd ask for clarification if he wasn't sure he understood. Use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | My first dating experience was a mess but lesson learned...do I have the right to be a lil salty for the time wasted?You just described a grocery store clerk. Those are basic human qualities. I'd recommend working on trying to find female friends, so no lines are blurred on your end. I wish I could help you with the therapy part, but I'm not familiar with healthcare in Italy. Keep going, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 2 | My first dating experience was a mess but lesson learned...do I have the right to be a lil salty for the time wasted?Can you give me five reasons why you believe this guy would have made a good friend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | My first dating experience was a mess but lesson learned...do I have the right to be a lil salty for the time wasted?I am not sure what the fuck happened Here's what happened: I spent 5 months thinking he liked me as a person atleast Of the thousands of people I have met, there are very few that I do not like, just as a person. You need to figure out why you desperately needed validation from some guy you met off reddit. Why you were willing to go from "Oh! Maybe a boyfriend" to "Well... he likes me as... a person? I guess that's fine? I should keep trying." What country are you in? Let's get this therapy thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 07:00 AM |
| 28 | My first dating experience was a mess but lesson learned...do I have the right to be a lil salty for the time wasted?Girl, you need to stop. This was way too long of a post for five months of not seriously dating. Fuck, even if you had dated the dude, it was still too long of a post. So do you have the right to be salty about it? Sure. This whole thing sucked, I remember doing shit like this when I was younger. But now what? You liked him, then you didn't like him, then you went hard seeking validation, but you don't care, but you wrote this whole thing out... GIRL. STOP. You aren't even able to keep your stor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 06:58 AM |
| 8 | New decade queens 👏👑You know what, I think I'm gonna go buy some turtlenecks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 03:23 AM |
| 36 | Can't tell if im over exaggeratingI felt like I was doing great independent Do this instead. I'm dead serious. I checked your post history, and it's Level Up Time. I know this isn't the advice you're looking for, but forget this guy. Regardless of his intentions, or how you feel about him, whatever. Doesn't matter. You need to do some serious self work or dating is not going to go well for you, regardless of who you're with. I've been there, and it sucks. You've got all this love to give, and are desperately trying to give it to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:47 AM |
| 35 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.Generous to assume this guy licks anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | 🥰🥰Meth. That's what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Need help with devising exit strategyI'm so sorry that your dad isn't an ally here, that sucks. I'd keep sending stuff home, but stop giving away clothes and books. Start selling those instead, any bit of cash will help you. How intertwined are your finances with your boyfriend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Pick Me Says What?This post is by The Transformed Wife. Google her if you want a huge fucking laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:45 AM |
| 21 | Potential quality guy wants to fly me out to meetHim coming to you is much safer. You'll meet in a public place in a city you know, you'll have a home to go to that is safe, and friends to call if you need them. Home field advantage, basically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:01 AM |
| 22 | I hate this app :(Why is Wedding Crashers listed twice? Once is enough, dude... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 25 | IT ALL STARTS WITH SELF LOVEI'd love to see a weekly Level Up thread. Somewhere we can all post a win for the week, a hurdle we over came, or just something we're excited about doing for ourselves. I know this is a dating strategy sub, but just a thought. Any takers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 01:04 AM |
| 18 | Why being an asshole worksWow, the end of that post sums up exactly how I feel about the whole concept of "negging." You should post this article if you haven't already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 30 | What in the flappy flip flap ??Oh they're not repulsed by those things at all. They still want them, but without being obligated to do anything in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 10:22 AM |
| 16 | Man wastes 6 years of a woman's life in a "situationship", wants to know how to string her along some more while fucking other women. Daily reminder NOT to waste time in "situationships" and LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO FUCKING SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!!!The One Penis policy post in the polyamory sub had me rolling! Also, he wants to play professional volleyball and be a doctor (with only a bachelor's degree!). What a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 7 | When a man asks for a date and you gotta assess the specific day he asked for 😒Just "hanging out" in someone's car. Sometimes you'll go get food and then... eat it in his car. I guess guys also think this is a good time to ask for blowjobs? Fortunately, I don't know this firsthand, it's just what I've heard from girls in their late teens/early twenties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I need your judgement free help!But his dick is sooo huge! /s Lol, okay. Wtf is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 23 | Leveling upBut but but, maybe he really is a great guy... he's just "not a plaaanner." Maybe he just "doesn't want to talk about it noooow." Maybe he's "sorry you feel that waaay." Yeah, fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 09:11 PM |
| 7 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffFuck, when did I post this? Lol, jk. Now I feel even better about not texting that guy back, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:23 PM |
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