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| 85 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.Yeah. Then you have the "sex positive" guys who will date sex workers but they know damn well they can make these women crawl at their feet. She will believe she is so lucky to have a supportive, feminist ally as her bf. He can keep looking down on her and subtly make her feel like he is her only option, since all those other men don't get how empowering it is to be virtually available to all the degenerate perverts of world (and she definitely does not want to date the perverts that pay her bil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:35 PM |
| 144 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.Some time ago I was reading a thread of a woman who was some type of sex worker, I think it was OF, being a cam girl or some other online stuff. She said she had went to reddit to ask men if they would be okay dating a sex worker and that majority had been supportive and told her they wouldn't mind. She felt good about dating again and was "looking for someone professional and respectful". So now she was back saying that she felt lied to since the guys she had met were not okay with how she made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 81 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFNo, just one of the dating subs. Good riddance! I unsubbed bunch of "female centered" subs a year or so ago. Don't miss the male coddling stupidity. What does it say about "feminist sub" if you can imagine this bs getting posted there lol. Men just don't know better! Women need to tell men to be considerate and respectful! Poor men, feel bad for them! Bleh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:52 AM |
| 202 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFYou're right. She's in denial. They have been having sex for months before becoming exclusive so she's already attached. She wants him to be a good guy, she has decided he's a misguided good guy and she wants this to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:12 AM |
| 105 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFIt's really sad she thinks this is a success... she listened the reddit advice and cOmmUnIcATeD her needs, got laughed at and is happy? The guy managed to have three whole girlfriends and never went down on them. This should be a huge fucking red flag but she learns this only after they have been having sex for months. VET like your (sex) life depends on it, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 07:12 AM |
| 435 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFRight?? Interesting how he can assume that oral sex is pretty much guaranteed and he gets his first but she's being "demanding" when she wants some too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:58 AM |
| 420 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFThis kind of interaction would make me dry as sahara. He's not eager to please her and only goes down on her after she was "assertive" (begging for it) AND insults her on the way down. He gave good head but didn't want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 1412 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds."The Dark World of FDS" is... telling women to avoid relationships that do not benefit them? Wow, so evil. The one thing that's really going to strike a nerve is penis size which isn't honestly discussed that much here since there's not much to talk about. Women are allowed to care about size. Not all women are "size queens" but there's nothing wrong with liking big dicks. That's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 13 | Spotting porn sick guysCall me cynical (that one recent post ruined me for good) but I have hard time imagining that there would be that many guys who don't watch porn but will lie about it to seem "normal", compared to guys who watch and want to hide at least the most depraved parts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:03 AM |
| 14 | Spotting porn sick guysI imagine questioning porn would already out you as sceptical/anti-porn since the vast majority think you're supposed to be okay with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:50 AM |
| 72 | Spotting porn sick guysMy point exactly. They keep talking about the two like they're one and the same thing. Either they are intentionally obtuse or dense as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 119 | Spotting porn sick guysIt's really twisted and manipulative and shows just how low porn sick people are willing to go. "You are against porn? So you don't want me to jerk off like, ever? So controlling and sex negative of you, men need to release sperm or else we get cancer!!" But only addicts NEED porn. None of this would be a problem if men would just be honest even if it means they might not get a chance to date some women and get laid. Redditors prove pretty much every day that you can't trust a man's word when it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:43 AM |
| 63 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantI don't understand why it's not automatically his responsibility. His idea, his guests. He should cook for his guests and not burden his wife. Entitled idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 167 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantHe clearly has never had to do that himself. He has zero understanding of or respect for all the things his poor wife does to keep her family fed and cared for. Food and plates just appear infront of him, it's no big deal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 25 | The described woman seems to be awful, but can we notice that he doesn’t like her YET he still hopes to have sex with her?Quantity over quality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:43 PM |
| 6 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmJust him being ignorant and dumb enough to expose himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:04 PM |
| 24 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmWhat a loser >:( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:36 PM |
| 24 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmwhile they copied their whole personality from HC 😂😂 damn right. Guys seriously take things so seriously that you need to look and act a certain way in order to not be accused of being a fake poser. "YOU like that band? You don't look like you would like that kind of music" Wow congrats you just exposed yourself as typical misogynist and simpleton. Also why so many men were downright offended by Babymetal and Rob Zombie had to come out to defend them from those stuck up man babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:50 PM |
| 9 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmLuckily I didn't get assaulted. I don't think I'll ever have a drink again during a gig. Pretty much all concerts and big happenings at this point. It's a disgrace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 25 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmSome are cute by my standards but it's the attitude that gives me the ick, way too many take themselves too seriously. At concerts and gigs you're lucky if all you get are dirty looks and nasty comments. Creeps use these venues to harass and prey women. Some are not fans and just insert themselves in the crowd so they can get near women. In my time only once no one grabbed my ass during a gig. I stopped going after I got roofied. I do miss going out though, sigh. Thanks for the tracks, they're o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:13 PM |
| 53 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmYour friend sounds awesome lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:02 PM |
| 37 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmThere's sooo many of these memes around so it really isn't uncommon at all. Had to pick just couple good ones for this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 72 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmIt's either negging or putting us on a pedestal, "you're not like those other stupid girls who like bad music like pop" (I like pop) and we still need to keep proving how cool we are, yet we can never enjoy the same respect they have for each other. Guys patting themselves on the back for liking good, manly music and we're outsiders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:00 AM |
| 115 | Visualization of the time breakdown of caring for a newborn. I can’t believe she credits her husband for giving her a mere 3 hours of sleep at a time. The bar for men is so low that roaches can’t fit under it. Mothers - demand more!Better yet, don't have kids with useless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:30 PM |
| 23 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”Yeah, that's the guru/coach type who sees himself as being enlightened and spiritual. They love "teaching" (while having very little or no qualifications) and "helping" (manipulating) women who seek to heal themselves. They use fancy words to make themselves seem smart and worldly. Often they use drugs and psychedelics and push those to the women they date. Sorry to hear you have personal experience with men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:41 PM |
| 79 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”I have been interested in self help methods for as long as I can remember because my mom was into all that and had books. These days social media is filled with texts, posts and infographics about self-awareness, mental growth and such. While checking my instagram feed I thought about the people who make this type of content and those who consume it. I would bet my left tit that men are a tiny minority. Plenty of narc men who love their own voices wish to be gurus and life coaches but how many m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 102 | Did your dad/brother/male figures understand when you were being harassed as a teen?Same thing. Mine seemed proud of it. As if old creeps hitting on his daughter somehow made him look good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:21 PM |
| 109 | Western males are growing less useful for society, so they are lashing out in odd ways. Thoughts?They could be useful but instead choose to be LV or try to keep things as they have always been: maximum male benefit, which has created catastrophic entitlement in the minds of men. They get crushed under the pressure(s) other men create and uphold and then believe women are the reason for the problems men face. Thinking everything would be great if women just realized our role as submissive bang maids (since it doesn't matter what women want, men know better, it's biology you see). See all the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.110% agree. Women are brainwashed to think it's worse to be single than being stuck with a scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:17 PM |
| 5 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.I can understand dating and then ending things as soon as the mind games start. To me it sounds like this girl spent weeks or months trying to prove a point to a man who lacked respect for her. She allowed her dress to be ruined, she ate off of dirty plates... for what. So she could post online and ask strangers if she's an asshole? This was a no win situation for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:32 PM |
| 78 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.That's sad and infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 487 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.Why would she want to stay with someone who thinks she's stupid, someone who doesn't respect her? Why put so much energy and effort in to playing stupid games and teaching him a lesson? How can anyone live like that is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:26 PM |
| 47 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Right?? And this was apparently considered acceptable dating advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 161 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Truth. Redditors hate FDS because the guide lines protect women from being used and abused. They love shaming and guilting women to take all of the actual risks that dating involves so men can benefit. Whining about paying coffee dates and not getting laid is pretty lame compared to being lied to and lead to believe there's romance in the air and serious relationship ahead, then taking the risk of STIs, pregnancy and assault to have mediocre sex at best with someone you think you can trust... on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 367 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...I was browsing around and on a popular dating sub this one guy was proudly telling other men that it's okay to lie to women that you're looking for a relationship so they feel invested and will have sex with you early on. That you need to lie, like he and his friends do when using OLD, otherwise "the average guy will lose out". He bragged that he once got two women home on the same day by assuring them he was looking for an LTR. Then he had the nerve to say he doesn't like lying :((( but he want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 28 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.Cue in the people who will say you're just a rude bitch and there's no such thing as men being intimidated by women. People flat out deny this being a possibility and will accuse women of being bossy, mean, "overly confident" etc. It definitely is a good thing. Confident men don't get intimidated. Insecure men get more insecure, even aggressive, around women they are intimidated by. Insecure and sexist men won't admit this. Doesn't quite fit in with the "dominating alpha male, submissive weak fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:33 AM |
| 29 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likelmao every time men try to comment here and start sending angry PMs and talking shit about the sub and how wrong it is that men aren't allowed to participate... get it in your heads, we don't want you (or want you to want us) or care what you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:04 PM |
| 77 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeThey feel okay posting these comments publicly because they know that no one actually cares what they think. Absolutely no one. No woman cares what they think about our legs, our bodies and faces, or what turns these men on. These men are completely irrelevant to women as a group. Of course they think their thoughts and opinions should matter to us, so they make these pathetic comments online hoping that someone out there would care just a little bit. They might get a kick from making stupid com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Stronger boundaries for every girl and womanThat's a great tip! It is ridiculous that you cared about those kids more than their own father... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:16 PM |
| 19 | Stronger boundaries for every girl and womanNoooo... of course they had to go there. Men are going to keep strangling and slapping women around so might aswell post pretty bs and give their abuse cute names so they can feel better about themselves and said abuse🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Stronger boundaries for every girl and womanI'm so happy that you got out of that relationship and can heal now💛 and that you found this awesome sub where we can help each other! Hopefully this content and discussions here will save women from heart break and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:10 PM |
| 17 | Stronger boundaries for every girl and womanI'm sorry you had to experience that. I don't know a single woman who hasn't been through something like that and it's so disturbing to think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 01:22 PM |
| 29 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsEugh, literally putting their hands on women. I knew some male nurses. Many of them seemed to love being the only guy working with mostly women (they were always congratulated for choosing a female dominated field, being so ~modern~ and being stronger than women). They also dated nursing students and other nurses all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 35 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsYes, I was also thinking musicians, performers and such for that example. People who orbit said performers and artists. Bartenders and other bar/night club staff too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:16 PM |
| 156 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsGood post. I have seen this discussed here a lot. My personal opinion is that it's more important to figure out why a guy is doing the job they do. Why did they choose their profession? Did they just drift around and then got stuck with something? So they're not driven and haven't done the work to understand themselves and what kind of work is a good fit for them. Did they pursue certain profession because they want power over other people, because they want to be admired and looked up to, becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:00 PM |
| 70 | We don't compete against other women & we don't chase menIt's completely normal to feel that way. What counts is that you are aware and how you deal with yourself. Looking from the outside, remember that you can never know the whole story and what happens between two people, how they truly feel about each other etc. Seemingly perfect relationships have their issues too. Many people fake it and care more about their image, especially now that social media is such a big part of our lives. You don't want to get caught on focusing in other peoole and grow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:11 PM |
| 6 | Old but goldNah, older season. Nikki and Mark. No neck Ed is a scrote for sure but he showed his true colors soon enough and fortunately Rose didn't end up marrying him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:27 AM |
| 30 | Old but goldEww... it's ridiculous how scrotes can't take responsibility one bit and instead blame women. Also, let's be real: most men can't fuck around a lot. It's a pipe dream. Deep down he must know he wouldn't have had women dying to fuck him back then and won't want him now. He's just bitter and takes it out on you. But anyway, good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 82 | Old but goldI used to watch 90DF and could go on and on about the disgusting scrotes featured on the show. I wish I could forget that one old idiot who fetched himself a new teenage girl to marry from the very same area he got his first wife (who had kids with him and left, poor kids were raised by a scrote and then had to learn that they were the result of sex tourism). How creepy is that? This man did not treat his new poor girl like a partner, more like a disobedient teenage daughter... no one has heard … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:18 PM |
| 142 | Old but goldLuckily women of all ages see through this bs sooner or later. It's all just pathetic projection and manipulation. Why would a young woman choose a man who thinks this way, since we all will grow old. Why invest in relationship with a guy who feels the need to devalue women like that (while men "age like fine wine" but need to impress women with money to have one stick around a bit longer). I wouldn't wish any woman a man like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 5 | I still need FDS to have my back💛Check out betty_the_earth_girl on instagram! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 73 | I still need FDS to have my back💛Do it! This year's Halloween could be the Halloween of scary FDS skeleton lady. Spook scrotes by telling them that 50/50 is bs, or tell them to stop watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:26 PM |
| 34 | I still need FDS to have my back💛I'm always happy to make people snort😁 Thanks for the award! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 50 | Blurred Lines but the lyrics are changed so it's about consent and respecting boundaries.She is amazing! What a voice😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InI'm not expert of any sort but I would think that your own words sum it up: you should be at least excited about him, and he should be excited about you too. The first months are the honey moon phase. Would continuing the relationship mean you just skip that part or hope that it happens later on? What's the point? Why not just be friends if you don't feel strong romantic connection. Most of us are right there with you. Balancing and figuring out when to compromise and when to trust our gut feeli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Check-InI guess you could stay with him if you are desperate for some type of companionship. I can't figure out a better word for desperate, I don't intend to sound mean! Maybe more like... okay with settling? Not much better and not very FDS. I wouldn't recommend anyone staying with someone you're not excited to be with. Do they know how you feel about them? Don't waste your own time or theirs. Imagine the day either one of you comes across someone they fall for really hard, which usually means someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Or just imaginary women. Porn sick weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:33 AM |
| 114 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Right?? You shouldn't hurt your partner even when they ask for it. Not even to get them off. I don't care how much some people like being choked and spat on. You're a real sack of crap if you are okay doing something like that to someone you claim to care about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 335 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?I noticed a new popular excuse whenever a woman asks advice or shares their experience of men doing something violent like that during sex. Now you can trust that a bunch of men will appear to say that they were actually introduced to slapping/choking/spitting by their girlfriends and that they weren't into it before their gfs wanted them to do that stuff (pffft yeah right). So? Like that would make it okay? As if it makes sense to treat women like we're not individuals who have different likes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:34 PM |
| 8 | He can make more money than you and still be a hobosexualThese kind of men legit hate women and don't see us as equal partners even when they preach 50/50 and how they appreciate modern, independent women (no gold diggers!!1). They enjoy the little ways they think they are getting back at the woman they're with (and women as a group) since they see women like the typical MRA/incel type. They believe women are privileged, inherently evil and inferior and we need to be tricked and controlled. They get off from creating these tactics and thinking they ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:32 PM |
| 36 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.Exactly this. I read the original thread and could not believe how nonchalant OP was being about the whole thing. About how shitty he treated her and then deciding to bind herself to this guy for the rest of her life. As if her keeping the kid of a NVM will not have any kind of affect in her and her child later on. I would be mortified and so embarrassed to even admit that I dated someone like that guy, let alone have his child. Poor kid. Edit. Also, as a kid of an useless father, I hope she kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 08:08 AM |
| 125 | the default should be leaving/independence, not forcing stayingAITA along with relationship and dating subs that are filled with people whining and asking advice for how to make someone fulfill their wants and needs and be the kind of SO they want. People who sound completely unwilling by the OPs own description. "I love them but they treat me like crap and I want strangers online help me to make them understand that they are being crappy." Such people keep making themselves miserable and don't want to let go. I'm so done with all those people moaning "why … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 6 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoAnd he admitted it like it's completely normal and reasonable thing to do. Gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:00 AM |
| 26 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoIt's so incredibly pathetic. They have zero respect for themselves or the people they use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 69 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoUgh, of course that's the only reason they can think of... why else break up if you can save some money and get sex regularly, even if it's with someone you don't love🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:36 AM |
| 61 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoExactly?? Why would I want a guy who goes behind his SOs back to try and secure his next woman? I would always expect him to do that to me too, eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:38 AM |
| 48 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoThis makes me so mad...! How can people like this look in the mirror. Liars, users and cheaters. These people have no spine or a working moral compass. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 9 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoI'm so glad we both found FDS and won't go down that path again. Wishing you all the best! I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you will reach your goals sooner rather than later💛 especially the part about getting a puppy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 40 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoThat is one extremely shitty guy!! I would be so fucking mad :( I make it very clear that if I'm in a relationship, it's not out of convenience. I told this ex to break up with me asap if he loses feelings or wants to be with someone else. Apparently he didn't listen or he was just a big baby. I'll rather be alone than with someone who doesn't feel strongly about me. People who can't deal with being single are such a massive red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:03 AM |
| 101 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoI also got the impression from some people that they believe being single makes them look bad and undesirable. They think that everyone else also thinks something along the lines "no one wants them so why would I?" So they think being taken makes them more attractive to others and they can comfortably wait for something better to come along while enjoying the benefits of a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 140 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoI see this all the time. People being in a relationship and breaking it off only when they have someone else available. I honestly started to really dislike my ex when he admitted that he also knew we were over but just didn't say anything and waited for me to initiate the break up. So he was happy to share his life with me and fuck me while not really feeling it and not seeing us together in the future? And I actually felt really bad for wanting to break up ffs... what a spineless coward. Scree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:12 AM |
| 78 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itAs if abusive men would stop being violent towards women if prostitution is legally recognized. Why would they? Men will still be alone with women who won't be able to stop them if they decide to assault or kill them. "Removing shame" won't suddenly make these men see women and specifically prostitutes as people deserving of respect. They want their prostitutes as things they use and not as people with their own thoughts, opinions and feelings. Also, do they think what it would mean for ALL wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:18 AM |
| 156 | Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game.I hate seeing delusional people talking like prostitution exists because there's "supply first", like women exist to be fucked, and not understanding that the demand was there first. Men have been forcing and raping women for centuries and then they have been creating situations where women are coerced and pressured to sell their bodies to survive. People defending sex work (defending men's right to have access to women sexually, actually) love to forget that johns are not in it to "help" prosti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:17 AM |
| 18 | Small wins!! OF to ban porn.I read a thread about this news on another sub and it was filled with disgusting comments. Calling the women names and saying how they now need to sell sex on the streets and how that's a good thing. There are so many men who simply hate (OF) women and want to see them suffer. They want their porn but hate the women providing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 4 | "Sexual compability"Lesson learned there. I find it funny how women here talk about sticking with a guy despite bad sex because they were emotionally invested but men who talk about sexual incompatibility? He's already out and far away where ever his dick is pointing towards lol. Edit. Not saying anyone should stay if they are unhappy btw, man or woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:44 AM |
| 25 | "Sexual compability"Ugh, so sorry you wasted time on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 26 | "Sexual compability"That is so disappointing. You don't think there was any kind of indication, looking back? Nothing that could have hinted you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:58 AM |
| 16 | Keeping in contact with ExesI tried to fade out but he didn't take the hint at all. Then I moved and am now closer to him again, living in a small town... Cutting him off once and for all looks like the only option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 40 | Keeping in contact with ExesI very much agree. I'm still in contact with an ex and have been wondering... what the hell am I doing. When we broke up and decided to stay friends, I thought "why not, it's not like I have too many friends." I agree that it's been made to be something that measures your "maturity" and in theory it does make sense. But in practice? I don't know, personally it feels like I'm his emotional support person while not really wanting emotional support or anything from him. I'm over it/him but keep con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:00 AM |
| 36 | Some green flags and tips for women looking for childfree HVM - plus some traps to avoidLove this topic! I would stay away from a man who likes to drag single moms and feels that he's better than said moms. I see comments from men like this all over dating subs. "I wouldn't date a single mom, tell me I'm in the right!" It's one thing to not want to date someone who has kids because you want to stay completely childfree etc. But it always turns into talking shit about or implying how single moms are used up, old, inferior and what not. It's even worse when a man tries to compliment … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 37 | 5 tips on how to spot a pick up artistSame! I was extremely turned off by men like this even when I was way more insecure and desperate for male attention/approval/validation. Someone treats me poorly and like I don't matter much to them? They clearly do not like me or are just a not very nice person in general. Women and girls are being brainwashed to believe that chasing men will make men like and respect them more but it only ends up in them being used, getting bumped and dumped at best. So zero benefit for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 07:38 AM |
| 166 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.I just saw a girl lament how difficult it is to be poly because she's no one's "main" person. She said she wants to get married and have someone to go home to but she's in relationships with men who are all married "and stuff" and she is not romantically or sexually involved with any of the women hmmm. The stupidity, I just can't. She was actually upset that it's ultimately unfulfilling to be a side piece to multiple men who don't give a shit about you, who only want their dicks wet and then lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 18 | Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid.I don't want kids and I want my partner to be childfree for the same reasons I am. I also believe that no good father would want to date me. My stance should be a deal breaker for them. No matter what (childfree) people believe or say, I expect parents to never ever entertain the idea (for longer than a short moment) or actually agree that their kid could be a mistake or a regret of theirs. To put this very bluntly, in my eyes you're either a fierce momma/poppa bear or you're trash. Being with s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 06:34 PM |
| 48 | What does FDS think of men who post a lot on social media?I don't see it as a red flag if a guy posts actually interesting content, connects with friends and people in general and has real, respectful discussions. Though a lot of people are simply addicted to social media and I'll never want to date a guy who is always on his phone, scrolling and messaging 24/7. My personal red flag is the kind of guy who has some kinda account (thinking instagram mainly) but almost never posts anything. Makes me think he's there to just pm girls and browse porn accoun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InYou can be proud that you catched yourself before rolling back into being full on pickme! It's not about being always perfect, you learn from mistakes and make progress. Ditching the guy and deleting apps are a great place to start making your life instantly better. You got this! I gotta say, I would not be able to resist my high school crush one bit so I get it. Lately I have also been so horny and almost reached out to an ex... not quite over that temptation tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 21 | SINGLE FATHER REFUSES TO DATE A SINGLE MOTHER! HE FEELS HE'S TOO GOOD FOR A WOMAN WITH KIDS!Pick mes about single fathers: "He has a kid? Oh wow, what a stand-up guy! He's family oriented and surely looking to commit and build together with a similar woman! He must be a great and loving daddy😍😍" Said men about single mothers: "Eww she's used up and no fun. I want a young, fresh girl that will make me the center of her world, can't have her focusing on her child you know. I'm not going to raise some other man's kid🤢🤢" Single fathers get praise for just showing up and doing the bare mini… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:11 AM |
| 4 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realExactly the kind of men we wish to avoid. It's not fun to receive hate but I'm left simply amused when I see where the hate comes from. As if I'd give a rat's ass about the opinions of men who mostly think about gaming and porn, sometimes riling themselves up to hate random women. They are completely and utterly irrelevant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 715 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realGuess what I saw every time I took a peek at the post histories of the guys who whine about FDS? Gaming and porn. I'm laughing my ass off when I see these guys thinking any of us would want them or that we are crazy and unreasonable for not wanting to date guys like them. We'll rather be celibate and die single than waste time on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 34 | LVM like to say we shame them for being men….Lol so true. I recently switched from a female dominated field to male dominated one and so many of the men I've come across have been the biggest gossips and mean guys. Always talking shit about other people's business and wasting work time so they can gossip. It's also ridiculous how quickly they turn on each other once a woman or two enter the room. Embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 126 | LVM like to say we shame them for being men….They keep convincing themselves and other men around them to stay low value. It's easy and there are plenty of other weak men and desperate pick mes around. They are basically saying that all men are LV by nature and can't help it. That they can't do better. All men watch porn, will cheat if given a chance, will go after girls young enough to be their daughters, fuck a jar of goose fat etc. You know, it's just biology! They are collectively making the average guy a LVM. That is how you lower the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 104 | Don’t Date Insecure Men! I LIVE For This Goddess’ Channel.Truuuueeee...! Speaking from experience. They won't be grateful or happy. They get cocky or start resenting you for being the better looking one and will always feel lukewarm about you. It doesn't even matter if you are objectively on the same level appearance wise or not. He will sabotage your relationship and won't grow to really love and care about you if he's insecure and thinks you're out of his league. He will believe that you're going to leave him for someone better sooner or later so he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮That sucks a lot, I'm sorry you had to deal with all that🙁 you lost a year to that asshole but you got through it and came out stronger and wiser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 33 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Another one lmao. Basically the kind of guy who wants to date girls way younger than himself because they are "lively", "full of life" etc., while he's old and tired and wishes a younger woman to make him feel young again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 54 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮😂😂 ain't no amount of downvotes gonna make it any less accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:27 AM |
| 3 | A Case for "Vanilla" SexVery well said, I agree 110%. Looking back I realize we weren't in love. We really wanted to be but that's not how it works. Our sex was more like... performing. I was young and dumb but I'm not going to repeat that mistake. Lesson learned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 162 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮What I'm reminded of when I see men like this. Absolutely no one should be dating these predatory freaks. This is the kind of man who would travel abroad to shop for a bride and target teenage girls living in poverty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:18 AM |
| 25 | A Case for "Vanilla" SexThis is an incoherent rambling about hating porn sex. Men who watch a lot of porn and have been watching since they were kids treat sex like a project. I used to like the idea of "exploring" and finding your kinks (for most it's creating and forcing them, actually) until I realized it will never end for them. Always chasing something more and better. With my most recent ex I was usually left feeling like I didn't do enough, like I wasn't enough. He made a comment years ago right after sex and it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:32 AM |
| 198 | The sad reality behind Only Fans that no one speaks aboutImagine working years to come up ways to entertain depraved men (porn addicts, cheaters, abusers, pedophiles) instead of working on a career that will take you places and that won't disappear once you are "too old" or if you don't want to keep doing more and more extreme shit. Then living rest of your life worrying if someone's going to find out, being made fun of when they do and (porn watching) men looking down on you (yes, even those who say they don't care or mind see sex workers as inferior… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 13 | Climate change doom and women's futures?Very true. I was thinking from the POV of my own country and adopting here, not from abroad. There are so many kids out there who have no one but not many people are willing to take that road. It's heart breaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 16 | Climate change doom and women's futures?Prioritize securing financial independence. Don't have kids (edit. Sorry I mean don't make kids, foster or adopt). Invest in relationships with family and friends, people you trust to have your back no matter what. Physical and mental health are linked so always work on those. Sometimes working out is the only thing that helps when I feel helpless and powerless about things going on in this world. Being physically strong and capable is never a bad thing and you will thank yourself as you get old… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 136 | Best thing about divorce for a scrote? As if he wasn't watching porn during his marriage... Porn sick NVMs see all women around them as things to be usedExactly. He is also clearly feeling her out with the message and trying to see if she'll be his free therapist (or more), listening him complain about his soon to be ex wife etc. "Poor me, but at least I have your nudes now" ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 135 | Best thing about divorce for a scrote? As if he wasn't watching porn during his marriage... Porn sick NVMs see all women around them as things to be usedNever getting rid of creeps who used you in the past, now using you again for just couple of bucks. He got what he wanted in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:36 PM |
| 23 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightSeriously, I see guys like this so often. They always find a way to point out that they are big and tall, they take every chance they get, and it's just cringe. Not impressed. The cocky attitude is the biggest turn off. Usually shorter guys are no better. They say and maybe even believe that they don't care about height but then it's obvious that they feel awkward and self-concsious around women taller than them. It sucks but I'm not wasting any more time waiting for a shorter guy to get truly c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:46 AM |
| 269 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’Sounds like a guy who would assault or has already assaulted someone "to give them a lesson". She sounds like someone who has been mentally beaten to submission and has close to zero survival instinct/sense of self-protection. I'm so deeply sad for this woman. Absolutely no one should consider being with someone so cruel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:46 AM |
| 38 | Men who watch porn are losers.Women too. I can understand getting turned on by watching other people have sex (like in theory I see nothing wrong with pornography, but it will never be ethical or "normal" in this world) but back when I watched porn I was either experiencing second hand embarrassement or got bored. The acting and themes were dumb as hell it was hard to take anything seriously or stay genuinely turned on. It would be boring to just watch, I wanted to be the one having sex lol. So it was easy thing to quit once… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:43 AM |
| 52 | Men who watch porn are losers.It's a cartoon female character, so not an actual person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:22 AM |
| 19 | This lil queen out there telling scrotes off is a beautiful thing👑💛I wish I had been this smart when I was 16 but I do not envy the young girls growing up this day and age. The same old male depravity reaching them online 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:14 PM |
| 202 | This lil queen out there telling scrotes off is a beautiful thing👑💛Or that a girl turning 18 or 20 or 21 suddenly makes it okay for grown men to sexualize and chase them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 208 | This lil queen out there telling scrotes off is a beautiful thing👑💛A lot of teenage girls don't think anything bad could happen or that they might regret it later on. They're kids. Of course girls should be told to protect themselves but men and boys should not be acting this way to begin with. It's not okay or normal to see teen selfies as jerk off material or think it's fine to ask nudes from strangers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:38 AM |
| 18 | Stay freshSome people have incredibly low standards for the people they hang out with. These people are typically so afraid of being on their own and think it's better to have just someone, anyone, around than be single. Tbh I find it sad, somewhat pathetic. They feel sorry for me for being single and I feel sorry for them lol but I'm a proud prude and love my own company. I'll also choose my mom or a sibling over strange dick any day. Like Rihanna said, invest in quality relationships: family and friends… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 26 | Stay freshI'm not entertaining any "nice enough" guys anymore either. It's all fun and games until it's not. Just hooking up will still complicate things and would most likely do more harm than good in the long run. It's time to be pickier than ever! Stay strong girl💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 81 | Not holding men to a high standard while dating them because you're afraid they'll disappoint you is a self fulfilling prophecyUggghh this is so me. It sucks when you meet someone you find attractive and quickly get scared to get to know them more, have the important discussions, because you're afraid to hear what they really think (and get disappointed). It tests you. If you're going to settle or keep your standards high. Sometimes I just want to keep the fantasy and not face reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Say no to "potential"I'm cheering you on, awesome job learning to say!💛👑 I wish it was like flicking a switch off but nah, it's a process. We have been conditioned to think like this and it takes time and effort to unlearn. I'm happy we have this place to come back to if we need a reality check! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:04 AM |
| 15 | Say no to "potential"Okay now I feel dumb as hell because this is so true and I never realized until now?? Men never date women for their potential, it's not a thing. Yeah, this is a huge red flag. Not being willing to stay single for a while because then they would need to take care of themselves. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 26 | Society needs more childfree HVWSammmme, I was on the fence previously and now I see it would be so wrong of me to have a kid. It would have been catastrophic if I got a baby when I was younger. I'm happy you had the opportunity to make the right choice for you and move on💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 49 | Society needs more childfree HVWExactly. There are unpredictable situations but I dislike how so many people think that kids are just something that inevitably will appear. Like there is no choice or personal responsibility, to try and choose the best time to have a kid and pick the best possible partner to parent with etc. so your kid has a good start in life. Instead bringing a kid in already fucked up situation because why not... too common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 64 | Society needs more childfree HVWFertile people with little self-awareness forever making themselves and people around them miserable🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 135 | Society needs more childfree HVWI completely agree. This is something most people don't want to hear and it's almost impossible to discuss about. Just even talking about being childfree, not telling anyone else to skip procreating, will make so many people mad. Unfortunately too often those who are dead set to have kids are the ones who are absolutely not fit to parent and will pass down their worst LV traits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Unfortunately I have a thing for guys shorter than me and I also like em on the medium/chubby side. Most guys just aren't confident enough to date taller women (plus the weight thing is a double whammy since I'm on the thinner side of BMI). Needs to work out, nothing turns me off like a guy who gets winded easily and walks slowly. I care about my muscle mass so he should too. Thick thighs and hairy arms. I like big heads and kind faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Don’t change your last name for a manHear, hear!❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:14 AM |
| 5 | Don’t change your last name for a manSucks that the name options are scarce, coming up with a completely new one sounds indimidating too... but I do think that it doesn't have to be a big deal if you work through things, especially since you have a good therapist to work with! I guess I wanted a quick fix, haha. You will figure this out, with or without name change :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 17 | Don’t change your last name for a manI took my grandma's maiden name and I love it💛 I thought she would be upset with me since she adores my NV father and always defends him but she was actually cool with it, flattered even. She told me she wanted to change back to her maiden name some time after her husband died but at the time it wasn't possible and now she says it doesn't feel important. I didn't know my grandpa and from what I heard he wasn't too great, so that didn't feel right. I think it's amazing to think that some of my ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 28 | Settling because you want kidsThousand times yes to this. It's better to have no dad at all than have the kind who wants a kid because of "his legacy", who goes along with having a baby without giving it much serious thought (and proceeds to be a minimum effort parent and partner and in worst case regrets becoming a parent and starts to resent his offspring) or who wants to make sure they will always have access to the woman they procreate with. My own NV father would have stayed away for good if he could have managed to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 12 | “Lesbian best friend” isn’t a thing because straight men are incapable of viewing women as more than sexual objects.Yup I have an ex who was/is friends with a lesbian. She was the only girl in that friend group. I genuinely doubt she would have been seen as a friend and "one of the guys" if she wasn't an average looking tomboy butch girl these guys didn't want to pursue/fuck. Only a really twisted and porn sick guy will consider any lesbian as a possible "convert". A lot of men will simply be turned off by a woman, straight or gay, who isn't performing femininity or even dresses and acts somehow masculine, so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 159 | Oh, here's a great idea! Cover your drink! Scrotes will be furious, it helps with vetting AND surviving...Another way to vet! Cover your drink and see how he reacts😊 I hate the comments. Women should risk getting roofied because some male feelings might get hurt if we try to protect ourselves? Get bent. You won't feel hurt or attacked by this if you have no ill intentions or if you're not somehow relating to creepy guys and rapists. A decent guy with normal IQ will understand that women have no way to know which guys are rapists and which are not. Always better be safe than sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 34 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditYah, and it's always framed in a way that puts blame on us and completely demonizes women as a group. We lead them on just because we can, we all have all these men dying to please us (in the hopes of getting some pussy, pretending to be our friends but we should know that men are like that but not all men, we still should give them the benefit of doubt and it's our fault if we get fooled because we should know men are like that, not all men though...). Then we're awful deceivers when we reject … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:22 AM |
| 163 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditAnd most got to realize the reality of what happens when women compliment men: they immediately think you are hitting on them and get carried away, ignoring the fact that women are perfectly capable of being friendly and kind without having ulterior motives (she said my glasses are nice which must mean "fuck me, please!!"). Girls learn very quickly to avoid giving any extra kindness/attention to boys because eventually we get blamed for "teasing" those poor boys, we obviously are just so evil th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:46 AM |
| 204 | This is why sex work is stupid. They don’t want to actually pay for it. Paying for it doesn’t fulfill their desire for power.He's a predator for sure but what made me actually physically cringe was her asking for "a small treat". You're entertaining some old asshole and playing their games for pennies. I would probably blow my brains out if I was desperate enough to interact with a man like that. Reminds me of a thread in one NSFW sub that could be summarized "Reddit is less cool now that more women promote their OF accounts here instead of posting their content for free." Over 1000 upvotes and men lamenting how it us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 49 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENAnother possibility, this reminds me of the "pro tip" some scrote shared: do a shit job whenever your SO asks you to do something so eventually they stop asking. They were talking about house chores but maybe this disgusting monster has applied the same logic. He won't look after his own fucking daughter and keep her safe in hopes of the mother just giving up on him and not asking him to look after that poor child, so he can be on his phone? Whatever it is, she needs to take that kid far away fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | I love being tall. There I said it.It's not very common lol. I'm not sure why I like shorties but I'm not complaining since I'm taller than most men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 8 | I love being tall. There I said it.Works for me since I prefer guys shorter than me haha (as long as they are genuinely okay with the height difference). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:54 PM |
| – | I love being tall. There I said it.use it as a vetting strategy. Exactly this! Insecure men don't know what to do with tall women and it usually shows miles away. Some try to act sly about it but eventually the truth comes out. They can't deal with feeling "emasculated" but that's their problem. My femininity or confidence doesn't fluctuate based on the heights of people around me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 49 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanIf only this was true... I would love it if L/NVMs stopped bugging me as I get older. I don't want them and they don't want me, perfect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 09:52 AM |
| 40 | What should be the dating strategy for child free women?My strategy is that I don't date men who already have kids. They need to feel strongly about not wanting kids (no room for doubt, I have no interest if they feel unsure about wanting biological kids) and also make equal effort with using dependable birth control methods. Ideally they would be more on the side of antinatalism and want a vasectomy at some point. If they are childfree because they hate kids (they show little compassion for children and they make a huge deal about it), or because th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 74 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manHe's looking for his perfect pick me lady. At least no sane woman will waste her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 19 | Seen this a few hours ago and couldn’t resist sharing with you ladiesAlso so many men are just salty that women can hook up easily if they want to (of course they will overlook the risks women need to worry about and call us privileged). They want that, they want to be able to fuck around easily instead of having to act pleasant and trying to appear attractive potential partner to a woman, spending tiny amount of cash on dates knowing it doesn't automatically mean they will get laid, tricking and playing women to get them in the sack... too much effort, women can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:42 AM |
| 337 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menExactly! It doesn't matter what those who dislike FDS think. We don't want them as dates, partners or friends. They are mad because they don't have power over us. We will rather be single than settle so none of them will be able to use us. I'm sad for pick me's and the women who at first praise this sub and then turn around and blame FDS for making them feel hopeless and depressed about men and relationships. Lately I keep seeing these discussions and it's like they are choosing to return to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 80 | Women not being silent and submissive is somehow a threatIf you can't figure out a way to interact with women without women being uncomfortable... then it's truly best for everyone that you don't approach women. But this isn't about that for the most part, actually. It's about painting women as the irrational and emotional sex that will screw men over when given a chance because women are just so mean and unfair and out to ruin the reputations of innocent men. Women can't be trusted when they talk about harassement and abuse. Women are so emotional an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 26 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.My dream. I would love to live in a community for women. I'm never having a male room mate again. The last one was messy and inconsiderate but somehow managed to be the only one bitching when getting the smallest chance. Never had major issues with women. I read about some Danish (?) community where people had kind of like their own neighborhood. The houses were built in a way that everyone had access to a shared living room area where they would hang out together, cook etc. I don't see this hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:47 AM |
| 25 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleI'm so so sorry you came in contact with such pathetic and disgusting men...!! They will keep making themselves miserable while you will keep being awesome⭐ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 34 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumWhat an asshole liar. Wasting your time and energy like that. It's not on you that he's a POS but it's up to you to free yourself. You'll get through this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 30 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleIt's over the second they get some attention from another woman. Doesn't matter who she is or how pretty she is. All it takes is that she makes him feel desirable. They know their gorgeous SO could find a better man and probably has men waiting for her to be single again, they have no control over that, so they crave outside validation from other women. They can't be just happy that a great woman loves them for some unknown reason. They don't trust in their ability to make her happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 16 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleBetter late than never! I'm happy you got rid of him and have men in your life that will uplift you💛 It's scary how many men will keep seeing women they don't even seem to like... like, you can't handle losing some silly game to a girl you date, have sex with...? And are okay making her feel bad because you're just an insecure little man who can't deal with his emotions? Crazy stuff. Loving your user name btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:44 PM |
| 659 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).It's normal and healthy for all men to look at porn but the women providing said porn are evil :))) these fathers are heroes for exposing her after they jerked off to her nudes and had a good laugh with the boys. Porn is empowering and liberating (until it gets your kids expelled and humiliated)! Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 49 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleSpot on. It's ridiculous. Women shouldn't have expectations from men because they can't handle it. You can't even expect a guy to clean his butt ffs. So women keep quiet and take the role of the second mommy who needs to coddle his feelings and make herself smaller as to not make him feel threatened. This is why I hate the idea of the "beautiful girl who doesn't know she's beautiful". If she knew she was beautiful, smart and funny, ALL that, men would hate her. She would get called uppity, shall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:05 PM |
| 60 | The comments are filled with bollocks about how smooth this guy is. Are you actually joking me. Your “joke” is pisspoor.Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:41 AM |
| 40 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.I was thinking about choking. "Breath play" (barf) is now like anal, so normalized that many men expect women to be totally okay with it. They say you can do it in a totally safe but you know the risk of damage and death is still there. Girls really risk it to get their porn sick partners off. Then I think, would they agree to let a man hold a knife on their throat while they have sex? To cut, draw some blood or burn them a bit? Like, it likely won't make permanent damage so why not, how those t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 8 | He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.It's so pathetic. These men deserve to die alone and touch starved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 119 | COSMO wants y’all to know that Armie Hammer’s Cannibalism Fetish isn’t the problem here and people are “distorting” it. Because nothing screams “safe and sane” like Cannibalism Play.Oh blah, blah, blah. Cosmo is full of shit. Young girls and women don't need this kind of media, pandering and normalizing male depravity. You need to get the hell away from a man if he wants to choke, slap, cut, burn etc. you and fantazises about sick shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:22 AM |
| 13 | He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.For real, how is this so difficult for them to understand?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:34 AM |
| 49 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.That's... disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 31 | PSA: You don’t owe anyone analI'm still so mad at myself for not dumping that one guy who tried to finger my butt even though I told him I don't do butt stuff. Only afterwards I figured how fucked up that was. We had the talk, he knew I didn't want it but he tried anyway. Either thinking that I'll suddenly enjoy it after being completely blindsided (because how would I know what I like and don't like, I'm just a girl) or that I would have just went with it, maybe feeling too embarrassed to tell him to stop. Should have told … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:14 AM |
| 119 | Time after time there’s articles that prove that women are HAPPIEST when they’re unmarried and have no kids YET scrotes constantly try to shame women who don’t want to fulfill the trad role because deep down they know we’re happier without them and want us to continue serving them.Exactly. Just thinking the women in my life. Single women doing their own thing, enjoying their lives and having fun. I love being around them. Women with their cranky, messy man babies? Always dancing around the fact that those men are pretty useless and have massive character flaws they aren't even trying to fix. Single women are missing out on sooo much fun lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:55 AM |
| 25 | What are your thoughts on Jesse, 24 from 90 days fiance?Complete psycho. Self and image obsessed poser. He, like most people, could see how insecure and desperate for love and romance Darcey is and he knew exactly how to use that against her, to humiliate and to play her. He knew how much she was waiting for a proposal, he took her out, got on one knee and... gave her a promise ring. Absolute mad man. I'm still wondering Jesse's step dad who told Darcey that Jesse is out of her league and raved how hot and desirable Jesse is, while Jesse acted all co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 9 | He made his own bed! Once again me telling it like it is to Reddit men! Maybe it will cause a butterfly effect and word will spread? 🤷🏼♀️Ugh, I hate the tone in his OP. He sounds all pathetic and weepy but like, you did this all to yourself?? AND to her. Now he's acting like he's an innocent victim of his gf and takes no responsibility, just looking for asspats and assurance that she's being unreasonable and evil for no good reason. Only thing wrong on her part is that she didn't dump him already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:46 PM |
| 50 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Some cash and a plain slice of toast. These girls out there acting like you shouldn't expect even the smallest amount of respect and decency from men. Normalizing this shit like it's cute and they are too cool and fun for accepting it. I'll rather die and go to hell than ever let a man hand me a piece of toast as the pay for hooking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 212 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍So basically treating her like a prostitute. Throwing some cash at her afterwards. Sad shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 87 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.Suspicious and angry. They make you feel like you're the ugly one so that you won't leave and because they resent you for being so much better looking, they know that in reality you have much more options (even if you don't realize it) than they have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:51 AM |
| 4 | The bar is so low, that the men dating you for EIGHT YEARS don't even have to acknowledge your literal day of birth, the day you entered the world. And fellow pick-me women tell her it's no big deal. Go ahead pick-me's and settle for less than the bare minimal, see where it gets you.They're too cool to care, their SOs are with them precisely because they are so cool that they don't care about silly things like birthdays. They're not like "other girls" you know. All that matters is that they get picked and get that sweet, sweet male validation from losers. My ex never learned my birthday. Should have left after he got it wrong the second time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:37 AM |
| 48 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕Beautiful boy Nacho💛💛💛 My mom got herself a puppy recently, pretty much right after she got rid of her ex husband (cranky self centered bastard who didn't allow her to get a dog when they were together). This puppy brings more joy to her than her ex ever did lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:00 AM |
| 42 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceThat title is not a joke, really?? The whole subreddit is a joke. "Gender hate" lmao. It's as it has always been: when women get fed up with men and their BS we try our best to just stay away from them. When men are upset with women? They coerce, manipulate and pressure us, they use and abuse us, they force themselves in our lives and demand we act the way they want us to act so they can take advantage of us. Nothing new here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 251 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!Absolutely pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 138 | What are our thoughts on social media?It's a red flag if guy is online all the time. Some can use instagram like a normal person, too many will just scroll through soft core porn accounts and stalk women they know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 99 | If this is even 1% true, how much are you willing to bet that he groomed his daughter?You bet he's there watching her content. His own fucking daughter. I'll go puke now, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 56 | B I G FACTSThat's so sick... what a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 216 | B I G FACTSAnd women are the ones that get accused of trying to trap a man with baby... ladies, it's the other way around and always has been. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 50 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Our worst offence😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 176 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*One time a guy suggested we play something together. I thought okay, I'll give it a try (didn't know better back then). We're at his place and I see only one controller. He starts the game and talks about it. He plays. I watch. What. The. Fuck. It was so fucking boring. After a while he asked if I'd like to try but I was too annoyed and just wanted to leave. Never again, I'll rather die alone than date a gamer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 34 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereIt sounds like he's talking about training a dog. Disgusting man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 58 | I'm speechless 👀I first thought of Rose. She gave Ed a chance (he didn't deserve) and set things straight with him immediatelly after she realized what a piece of shit he is. He really thought he could disrespect her all day and treat her like a dumb kid he wanted to fuck just because she was a poor brown girl. She got through it all with dignity and grace💛👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 58 | The "censorship" defense is already starting.Boohoo coomsters. Just trying to get their rape, revenge and child porn back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Have you guys read this? "Unattractive women need FDS"Oh lord this is priceless. It's obvious this was aimed at insecure women to prevent them from seeing the light. He wants to make women even more insecure by saying that only unattractive women follow FDS. Insecure women and massive pickme's would never want a man implying that they're not hot and fuckable. Being (called and made me feel) unattractive is the worst thing a woman could ever be because then you're worthless to men and we all know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 23 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicYou are awesome, that's amazing. But you know, some soft music could help lifting your spirits... lol. Women can do all these amazing things and scrotes hate it. They are so fragile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 21 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicMark my words, selfish and unfeminine weight lifting women will cause our society to collapse. Good, innocent men like him will die unloved. So unfair :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 37 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicYeah he wants us to put his idiotic opinions before our health. I can not believe he had the balls to post these comments. Just goes to show how incredibly entitled scrotes are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 62 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicThey really do believe that we exist for them and to cater their needs. That women can't possibly have their own wants, needs and aspirations that don't have anything to do with men. LOL sending you feminine vibes. I need to chill too after reading all that gender BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 65 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicAs if this sad sack himself would be "love driven" lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | More women are choosing solitude and peace over bad company!Sorry if I sound like I'm trying to lecture you! Not my intention, I just feel pretty strongly about this all and end up expressing myself in a very blunt/harsh way. It's an interesting topic so no worries⭐ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 25 | Women lose by having one night stands.ONS are dangerous in many ways for women. Risk of sexual abuse and getting killed. Catching an STI (and there's plenty around, many that are not curable). It has also been suggested that women who have lots of different sex partners might have increased odds of developing cancer (this is not about shaming anyone, this is about health). You don't orgasm AND you have higher risk of getting some infection that could lead to cancer? No dick is worth risking your health and safety. Take good care of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 75 | More women are choosing solitude and peace over bad company!It's a rubbish society if it functions only when one group benefits from opressing another group. Men as a group will keep using and abusing women just because they can do it (and so many women will take part, humans in general will become corrupt and sadistic when given power over other people). I'll happily say bye bye to the human race if men won't sort their shit out🤷♀️ not that I'll ever create and bring a kid in this fucked up world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 36 | It's ALWAYS the ones...And you know he likes his porn actresses with full face makeup, perfect hair, fillers and filters... but needs his gf/mommy/madonna to be "innocent" and perfectly beautiful without effort lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:33 AM |
| 19 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Oh hell no, this is so sick and twisted. He doesn't deserve to touch a single woman, ever again. Entitled psycho POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 15 | Subtle red flags to watch out forMen who won't compliment you genuinely. This is so fucking common. Like there's only two options for these insecure idiots: to lovebomb you (so they get to feel like a player who tricks women in to caring about them and fucking them) or to downplay everything because they don't want to see you confident and risk losing you (because confident and happy woman doesn't settle for some insecure loser, gotta keep her down). Yeah it's not always easy to open up and express yourself... but if you're dat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 16 | People really think "communication" is going to help herHe doesn't compliment her because he wants her to be insecure and seek his validation. He doesn't want to build her up because he's afraid she will become "too confident" and realize she deserves better (HE knows he can't do better). Insecure guy tactic. No real love, it's about control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rantYeah! Men also complaining how the army isn't for women and that women are ruining things by enlisting lol. Any time women join male dominated activities etc. some men harass and abuse those women, then all these men complain how women ruined things for them... the abuse is not the problem, women talking about it and waaaahhh making men look bad is. Those women shouldn't be there anyway you know :( /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Deciding not to have a child with a manI'm so happy to see this thread! This is true global resistance💛💛💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:38 AM |
| 75 | Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rantExpectations that were created by men... but you know, it's still somehow the fault of women. Same thing always when men complain about mandatory army service. Men created the system and keep it going but this doesn't register with those men who are unhappy with it, they just whine how it's so unfair that women don't have to do army service (and suggest women should be forced to do sex work to compensate). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:47 PM |
| 58 | Man is angry he isn't his wife's special little boy anymoreI feel so bad for that unborn child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 152 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highSame, I have zero interest in these kind of subs. Don't care to even take a peek to see what they say about this sub or women in general. Don't know, don't care. When women here "go their own way" they actually go. Men instead get obsessed and just want to get a reaction from women, like "noooo don't go your own way guys, that's so unfair of you, please pick/fuck me!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:12 AM |
| 23 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crimeRight?? Men need and want women more than women need men/"cock" lol at those quotation marks. These sad little men trying to convince themselves and other people otherwise are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:18 AM |
| 66 | Male Gold Diggers (flip for second image)Never reward them for doing the bare fucking minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:02 AM |
| 18 | A lot of men don’t love their wivesDisgusting😑 they want both women, the wife and the slut, and they want both of them to serve and have no boundaries but just different ways. Can't win with that kind of men, they are literal trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 72 | ladies and gentlemen welcome to the stage...pickmeisha!I'm cackling over here😂😂 that is the way of pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 20 | A lot of men don’t love their wivesExactly. You can be the perfect wife and your average scrote will take you for granted and/or will eventually seek something new and exciting because "that's just how men are by nature!" And women are fooled to think they are lucky to be married and that it's the end goal in life... all the while we know that being married is in general bad for women and good for men lmao. Low expectations mean low effort from low value people. OTOH better see their true nature as soon as possible. I'm not hangi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 80 | A lot of men don’t love their wivesThis is why I'll never strive to be seen as "wife material". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:27 AM |
| 36 | I ain’t never seen a case THIS bad 😭😭Can't imagine being proud to publicly announce that guys fuck you because you're desperate to please and can't afford to have boundaries. Being considered fuckable isn't a compliment or something special, I hope she learns this some day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:25 AM |
| 191 | Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house...What if men started getting angry at other men who sexualize every single thing random women and even little girls do? Nah, it's easier to blame women and call them whores. What an absolute shithead that guy is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:14 AM |
| 1 | /r/tinder is filled with pickme's like this. Who tf wants to have anal as a first "date"?Tragic. I'm sorry you have to witness that situation. I don't know why she has latched herself to him, thinking she can buy his love and respect, but I wish she will figure things out eventually. She needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:29 PM |
| 21 | /r/tinder is filled with pickme's like this. Who tf wants to have anal as a first "date"?It's so cringy. Guys congratulating women who act like they have no standards or boundaries and pickmes begging for their attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 12 | Ok, I thought my last post was bad but this one takes the cake. The whole system facilitates male depravity.Loving that last line. I wish more women would be able and willing to have kids on their own and not be chasing that dream of perfect family or worse, having a kid to "save" their failing relationships. Seriously, why trap yourself like that and risk messing up your child. It's no secret that fathers often enough are attracted to their own daughters even if they don't act on it. Raise your kid knowing that no man will traumatize and disappoint them like only a father can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:57 PM |
| 103 | /r/tinder is filled with pickme's like this. Who tf wants to have anal as a first "date"?The front page is always full of these. "I'm okay with you strangling me while you fuck me in the ass and yell your ex's name, aren't I the coolest girl you have ever met and not like other girls, you're gonna looove stepping all over me!" yuck. So sad so many girls and women think acting like that will make men love them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:39 PM |
| 6 | How many red flags can you count? 🚩🚩🚩Poor woman desperately needs FDSTHANK YOU, that makes me happy. I expected the worst/usual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:02 PM |
| 21 | How many red flags can you count? 🚩🚩🚩Poor woman desperately needs FDSI read the "pregnant with twins" and couldn't keep reading. Fuck I'm so happy I don't want kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:20 PM |
| 462 | This is grossNot cute or romantic at all. Mom setting a poor example and dad being an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:27 AM |
| 68 | I thought this belonged here.She fixed her stomach after she made a huge sacrifice for this dude and he uses it against her while demanding more from her, money and her time and energy. And she dares to work at a gym! Trying to paint a picture of a shallow, self-obsessed woman who needs to show she's a good woman by taking care of a child, being selfless and putting other people before herself... so transparent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:05 PM |
| 112 | I thought this belonged here.Poor kid, his dad is so fucking dumb. "This woman wasted 9 months of her life solely for me because I wanted this kid, I should be able to force her look after the kid she didn't want because I'm tired now." You know this is how it would end with majority of the guys who are so upset when their SO aborts their kid. They think it's going to be so great to be a daddy and when it's not? In the end it's always the woman who needs to deal with it no matter how tired she is. And he's sooo salty about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.Eh, like I said "trust your gut feeling" and do what's best for you in that situation. Personally if I feel okay telling them it's over, I'll do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:52 AM |
| 10 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.I've been subbed to several dating subs and this is a constat topic of discussion. "Be a good, decent person and tell him why you want to break it off, bad people ghost!!" As if women owe it to men to keep them happy and to help them improve their dating game ("you should tell them what he did wrong so he won't do the same mistake with the next one!"). As if men don't get aggressive when you reject them and women have no way to know which men are the ones to get angry and possibly violent and ob… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | She should buy the house, and then kick him out.Yass, I'm so glad you found a guy like that! Congrats :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you ladies feel about a man who won't go down on you?Ikr, there's just so much stupidity in that "article". He has zero self-awareness or genuine confidence OR respect for his partner and has decided to blame women for his own shortcomings. This is a low value man if I've ever seen one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Opinion?I'm so sorry you have to deal with that...! Ridiculous stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:04 AM |
| 9 | Opinion?Uhhhh who in their right mind would oppose this? In my eyes you would just be branded as predatory weirdo who looks for opportunities to violate women by invading all our spaces. No sane man would be offended by one event that they can't attend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you ladies feel about a man who won't go down on you?This is exactly why I won't be dating anyone who isn't excited to go down on me EVER AGAIN. He says he really doesn't want to but implies maybe he could try. Great, right? Some compromising is healthy and mature? NO. Now there's absolutely nothing that would turn me on in this situation where a guy is reluctantly forcing themselves to pleasure me. I feel like crap, and borderline sexually abusive (like I should apologize to him for pressuring him into it or be sooo grateful) and won't get off an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:46 AM |
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