I always check discussions about figuring out if your date watches porn: don't ask if they watch, assume they watch porn and let them think you are into it too by asking what kind of porn they like. Are they into things that have been popularized by porn (usually things that do not add to woman's pleasure one bit). Pay attention to what they consider sexy talk and if it's just all awkward porn cliches. What kind of content are they following on social media. Being glued to your phone and/or computer are all-around bad signs.

So it has become quite clear to me that the average redditor equates masturbation with porn. They can't masturbate/can't imagine masturbating without watching porn. There's a whole lot of talk how only religious "puritans" and "fundies" are against porn. And because those type of groups also condemn masturbation, pre-marital sex etc. as sinful activities, it means you must be against masturbating too if you are anti-porn.

I'm not planning to date a redditor LOL but I figured this could be another way to vet porn addiction. Don't start sex discussion talking about porn, instead bring up self-pleasure first. How does he describe his me time session? Does his mind automatically go to Traffickinghub, reddit and OF? Using only his imagination doesn't even cross his mind?

What do you think?