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I saw this exact video and thought all the same. The lingerie made me gag (almost as much as the women commenting about how it’s their dream), but worse were his responses in the comments to any criticism. Things like: “Oh this is the type of relationship we have”, “the lingerie makes her feel good in her body”… huh? You mean it makes YOU (your PP) feel good. Also yeah, where’s the surprise in making your girlfriend fill out a very obvious “quiz”? I’m sure it was all done to create this video fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 10:27 PM
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I had no clue this was a book, I only knew the film!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:26 AM
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Slightly off-topic, but I’ve seen this a lot on the relationship related subs regarding sex lately. Men will make these long, extremely whiny posts about how their wives or girlfriends don’t want to have sex more than once a week yet admit that that’s how their partners were from the beginning. Like do these men just expect that by being with them their partner will entirely change her personality and behaviors? I agree with what you said that it’s some kind of sick challenge, and it makes me si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:09 PM
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It’s only a real job if they’re doing it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:37 AM
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Doesn’t help that wearing scrubs (at work) essentially tells them that it’s perfectly fine to target you sexually because there’s no repercussions and you have to help them no matter what. My mom has plenty of horror stories working as a nurse, but even working in a small clinic setting I experienced it. You’re supposed to just “brush it off” as a funny, run-of-the-mill part of the job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:12 PM
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So there actually is a book that kind of follows that plot: The Hierarchies by Ros Anderson (female author). The entire plot revolves around a female AI sex doll and her struggles with her position being used. The novel itself isn’t perfect but it was a pretty good read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:54 PM
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If you read “Men Who Hate Women” by Laura Bates she covers this topic pretty in depth as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:47 PM
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Dated a guy ~6ish years ago who idolized Musk. To be fair I don’t think Musk was as well known as he is now, but this ex was AWFUL. Constantly gaslighting, controlling (over very small things), overly critical of my behavior when he couldn’t hold down a job nor go to college. He went out of his way to make me feel awful for liking a certain movie or musician (or whatever else I was interested in), basic negging. He had a massive ego regardless of the fact that he had no real life plans, just a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:19 AM
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Same reason why I never blocked my ex. He only ever messages me on facebook (which I barely use), but I prefer to know whether or not he’s messaging me because he’s shown unhealthy/unsafe obsession in the past. I’d rather have a record of it than not. I dont open the messages, just see the notifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:42 AM
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I’m glad it’s not just me. I see commercials for their jewelry all the time and it looks so tacky. I’m not really a jewelry person in general so I didn’t know if I was just being picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:24 PM
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Yeah, it would be one thing if they shared an interest or hobby but seems like the only thing they have in common is that they’re both single. Usually these types of dates don’t work out. There’s pressure from the “matchmakers” to pretend that you had a good time, and overall the set-up is very awkward and uncomfortable. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with someone saying “oh hey, my friend is interested in x and y, I should introduce you some time!”, but when the objective is clearly to st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:33 PM
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No. I’m not a very social person in general, so the friends I keep are limited anyway. The closest person to a male friend I have is my boyfriends best friend, because sometimes we all go out to dinner together/hang out, but I don’t text him or hangout with him one-on-one. I used to have a few male friends but it turned they were using me, either as a stand-in therapist or as someone they wanted to have sex with. Specifically had a male “friend” who sent me nudes when he knew for a fact I was al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:22 PM
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Did it involve leeks by chance? If so I may have read about it in a specific book about dieting and could dig it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:16 PM
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Oh I’ll definitely be checking this one out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:12 PM
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What’s the book? That sounds interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:54 AM
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My great-grandparents did this way back when and now I have a last name that doesn’t exist outside my family, which is both interesting and terrifying (it being so unique makes me/my family easy to find on lookup websites).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:13 PM
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I also feel like asking that way may lead someone who doesn’t watch it to pretend that they do, because they assume that’s the more “normal” response. Plenty of people have it in their mind that “everyone watches porn” and might feel obligated to lie to fit the status quo (if that makes sense). I mean, them lying that they do watch when they don’t is probably a red flag in itself, but still something to consider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:24 PM
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Just curious, how did you find that out? The new wife would very likely know if the mans students knew, I’d hope (though why she’d be with him I can’t fathom).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:35 PM
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That but also because because so malnourished can seriously disrupt brain function. I haven’t watched her videos in a long time, but you can tell she’s not “all there”, probably because it’s difficult to put together sentences when you haven’t eaten or drank anything in X amount of time. Though I think she does put on a childish voice as well as doing those outfit videos because they get more views (wonder who from, hmmm).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:12 PM
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To add to this, a lot of women on these forums/sites are not adults. EDs tend to start pretty young and I’ve seen plenty of minors on these sites who men go after (they usually post about it warning others). More specifically, men messaging them telling them how they can be their “coach”, which to them is obviously some sick controlling stuff. Nowhere is safe for women, not even mental illness-related sites (ESPECIALLY not).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:09 PM
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Do you mind clarifying which subs you mean (I understand fourthwave as I’m subscribed there but can’t figure out the other two)? You can PM me if you don’t want to publicly post!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:15 PM
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Another LVM anthem is Deadbeat by Tiny Meat Gang. Sooo accurate and hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:43 PM
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They are at least finally teaching about Franklin in colleges (in my experience), which tends to evolve into a conversation about other women who have had their work poached. ETA: I mean in general biology courses, not specialized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:22 PM
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I think this is common with a lot of different hobbies that women would find appealing if their partner had them. I constantly see posts where women feel blind sighted because their partner is not the man he claimed to be, and actually hates all her hobbies that he pretended to participate in w/o her. Best way to figure out if he’s faking? Figure out if he does these things with his male friends. If he doesn’t, then it’s probably just a way to meet/attract women. Obviously this isn’t fool proof,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:07 PM
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Am I wrong or are there already spermicides on the market (before this one)? I’ve personally never used them but have heard them talked about at length in health courses. Seems ridiculous to pay $250 for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:20 PM
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What scares me the most is how accepted going w/o any contraception is. I’ve been on the pill since I was 15 because of my truly awful periods, so I’m extremely thankful that it exists and is so easily accessible. However, I’ve known loads of women who rely solely on the pull out method, even with guys they just met. I’ve had way too many conversations with friends in which I was practically begging them to go on the pill or use condoms so they AT LEAST don’t get pregnant and essentially throw t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:17 PM
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That’s why I only shower at night :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:59 PM
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I feel like if I showered twice a day my skin and hair would be awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:36 PM
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I agree with you. I hardly use SM except for reddit and goodreads (but still have accounts on the bigger sites). I mostly quit using the big sites because it was a massive time waster, and I wasn’t getting much out of it. I know plenty of people (men and women) around my age who feel the same way. These people usually have hobbies/a career they prioritize over online use. I don’t necessarily think a lack of SM or not using SM is a red flag at all, in fact I wouldn’t date someone who spends much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:41 PM
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Wearing a mask makes it feel uncomfortable for me, plus I didn’t want to get makeup on the masks because I was wearing them nearly every day during the week (I never stopped going to work physically).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:07 PM
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The Beauty Myth is actually on my TBR. I fully understand all the implications, I only responded because you wanted an analysis as to why it makes women feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:39 PM
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So, I don’t wear makeup much anymore with the pandemic, but I used to wear it a lot specifically “for me”. Reasons being: it’s fun to be artistic on your own face (especially since it’s temporary), I like(d) to match my makeup to my mood/outfit, the “ritual” aspect of it added more routine to my life and would wake me up in the morning, and I enjoyed receiving compliments (mostly received by other women)/having a common ground with other women because I’m not very “feminine” otherwise. I don’t f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:07 PM
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I would recommend it! I found it very interesting and well researched (and angering).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:07 PM
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Did you read the book Men Who Hate Women? Only asking because the author wrote a big section on this phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:53 PM
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While there’s a need for extra money!! “Sorry honey, we can’t afford new clothes for you because I spent it all on a naked stranger through the computer!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:00 AM
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I recently read that book and I think it’s a great book. It seems to veer more into how incel communities/the manosphere permeates mainstream culture rather than individual thinking processes, but it definitely touches upon them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:48 PM
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I completely agree. I come here to get away from dude worship and the oversexualization EVERYWHERE else on the internet and media. It’s just really uncomfortable and makes my skin crawl. There are subs for this type of content elsewhere, but on here it seems incredibly against the original purpose of the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:28 AM
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I always roll my eyes when I see questions like that on relationship subs, but instead of a broken leg it’s “my GF has her period, what do?” like just ask if she needs anything?? They act like every woman is exactly the same and follow some strict formula of tylenol + chocolate = happy. Being on your period does not mean needing to be treated like an infant!! When I’m having a bad time during my cycle I just want to be left alone, not showered in chocolate and pain meds by someone who expects ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:35 PM
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When I dumped my PA ex the amount of relief I felt was insane. No more feeling lied to, constant arguing, seeing nasty shit I shouldn’t be seeing, etc. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than date a guy who watches porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:30 PM
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Or research how to peel an orange.... jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:02 PM
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The bar? Hell, just walk down a busy street. You’ll have a taker in no time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:41 AM
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The honeymoon is where I’d be willing to spend excessive amounts of $$$. I love to travel and go on vacations and I intend to have the best damn honeymoon possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:40 AM
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Completely agree. I’m only really in touch with a small amount of family and have a super small circle of friends. What’s important is that you’re getting the wedding/engagement/honeymoon of YOUR dreams, rather than some nonsense you’re putting up with because your partner is too whiny to compromise or doesn’t care about your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:34 AM
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Havent seen the TV show yet, but I just want to say the show is adapted from a book of the same name that’s very good!! It’s written by Alissa Nutting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:10 PM
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It takes... what? 4 minutes total for both times? 2 minutes for each brushing? I’m just gonna say you definitely should, I neglected my teeth while younger and now I have massive dental problems. It sucks, and it’s expensive. Just do it!! Please!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:50 PM
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There’s a really good chance it was caused by a change of laundry detergent or body wash. I once had BV because I was taking antibiotics after a surgery and it ended up throwing my entire body (esp my vagina) off. Just some possibilities for the cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:18 PM
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It’s come up on this sub a few times. I don’t use TikTok but I’ve seen quite a few accounts posted either here or talked about on youtube. Basically trying to “take back” the word and make it empowering somehow?? It’s backwards nonsense as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:02 AM
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Not to mention the bizarre “bimbo culture” movement/“empowerment” nonsense that’s completely accessible to impressionable teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:57 AM
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You could definitely get it at... like any public place. Walk into a walmart and ask a few guys to come home with you? They probably would. There was a study included in a book I read that essentially said in an experiment done, more than 50% of men on a college campus said yes when approached by a random young woman asking them to come home with her (hinting at sex). For women it was 0%. ETA: the book is titled “This is Your Brain on Birth Control” by Sarah E. Hill. Very informative and interes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:51 AM
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I recently finished a graphic novel titled “Grass” and it delved into the horrors of it all. Very brutal and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:25 PM
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I genuinely wonder how these sexwork positive “feminists” feel about situations in other countries, or just the general history of it. Do these people find WWII “comfort women” to be empowering too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:06 PM
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This makes me so unnecessarily angry. It essentially says: “you can play feminism but only if WE, THE MEN, approve it”. No wonder liberal feminism is such a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:04 PM
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Well then obviously he should be allowed to fulfill those needs and sleep with those kind of women! It’s his god given need! /s (Although there probably are pickmes so brainwashed that they believe that, so...🤢)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:17 AM
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Yes, but I feel like they’re constantly silenced by other men. When me and my BF started dating, we very early on had a candid conversation about porn. I didn’t outright say I was against it or anything, just to see how he’d feel. He said he’s watched it in the past (like as a teen) but generally finds it uncomfortable/disturbing and doesn’t watch. I had a PA ex who caused me serious mental turmoil so this was a huge relief. However, pretty much any time he’s brought it up with other guys, they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:50 AM
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I definitely agree that a lot more people would stop watching if they knew what actually is going on in the industry. I never really watched it myself, but I had no idea the extent of abuse and trafficking within until a few years ago. I think getting the word out to women is extremely important too, because I feel like if anyone will take it seriously, it’s women (would likely cut down on the “i’m a woman and i watch it!” comments/behavior, although who knows with pickmes). Unfortunately it see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:43 AM
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Also the twitter account! FemDatStrat is the @
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:14 AM
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Yup, they don’t care about the effect it’s had on their past partners, or the actresses that are trafficked/abused. It’s all selfishly about their PPs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:02 PM
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That stitch is referred to as a “husband stitch” or a “daddy stitch” if you ever come across the terms. It makes sex incredibly painful for women because you obviously aren’t making the actual vagina tighter, just the entrance. They can rip again during sex and cause more unnecessary surgeries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:53 PM
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I think this applies to a lot of subjects, not just FDS-relevant topics. Too many people over share their viewpoints and it causes SO much unnecessary drama. I’m all for standing up in what you believe in, but I’m not going to spend all day posting about it on facebook or twitter. In general I think it’s overall healthier to keep a low profile and not delve too deep into these things in a casual setting. Conversations between those close to you are usually more productive than trying to discuss …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:56 PM
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I have a pretty small friend group, and it’s not uncommon that we discuss FDS-relevant (or just radfem) topics. I’ve never really interacted with someone who has disagreed with these views IRL, but I’m also not going out of my way to talk about it. Generally I feel it’s poor taste to bring up issues non-organically, if that makes sense. Like if it comes up I’ll certainly make my stance known but I’m not going to randomly bring up in conversation about how I’m anti-porn unless it’s with my small …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:53 PM
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Seriously. Unless he lives next to a National Park or something this sounds like the lowest effort date you could think up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:01 PM
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On a former account I got banned on one of the major relationship subs because I commented saying that no, you don’t have to accept porn use in your relationship and that porn is very bad. Banned almost instantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:24 AM
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I think it’s some sort of local news site (Chattanooga TN)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:15 PM
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Not only is this article disgusting, but also laughably untrue. I’ve suffered from an ED for almost half my life now (recovering!!), and if anything it made me hate sex, hate my body, and I certainly did not “flaunt” my appearance or anything like that. I’m still figuring out how to dress cute (not only in baggy clothes 6 sizes too big) without having a freakout session. Also, I’m definitely not wealthy, lmaooooo. Restaurant dates were an absolute no, but any dates would be an absolute no if I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:53 AM
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And completely ignored the aspect of pregnancy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:47 PM
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It genuinely cracks me up (and saddens me) when people say this is a “female incel” sub. ESPECIALLY since plenty of women on here are either married or in serious relationships. They make it seem like this subreddit is designed for single women who are bitter, when that’s far from the case. Hell, my HVM bf will read posts on this sub with me and agree completely. But that doesn’t fit the anti-FDS, anti-women agenda does it? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:12 PM
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Yet they’ll never hesitate if something slightly bothers them to pull the “rEveRsE tHe GeNdEr” card whenever something slightly bothers them and a man is at fault originally. Guess that only works when we’re trying to make women look like evil mean-spirited creatures, eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:58 AM
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I agree. I think it’s important for the person to know fairly early because some people just don’t want kids, it’s a huge incompatibility regardless if they’re a HVM or LVM. It’s not worth it to waste your (or their) time on somebody who this would be a major dealbreaker for. If I was dating ATM I would definitely need to know if the guy has kids, because I never want to be a parent/step parent. If it was hidden from me I would dip so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:54 PM
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Unfortunately I’ve definitely seen in articles/discussions about older men sexually abusing/taking advantage of underage girls people claiming the girl had the power, “seduced him”, or whatever else BS. So people (men) definitely are stupid enough to argue kids have some sort of power over grown ass men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:18 PM
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Oh that’s disgusting. Likely won’t be taken seriously either because of the “boys will be boys” attitude. Not only is the brother watching it to begin with, but watching it while children are in the same room and other kids are right there on the screen? True depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:56 AM
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I just hope that other girls don’t go through the BS I went through as a teen/young adult. Sometimes you only learn the real truth after having experienced it, and without experiencing it there’s a lot of thinking along the lines of “oh well that won’t happen to me”. I also barely consume MSM now, and urge the people close to me to at least reduce their consumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:51 AM
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DEFINITELY don’t share nudes!!! Even if the guy is decent and wonderful, photos can get leaked/seen in other ways. You never know who is going to be using his phone (or if his phone is connected to a laptop/ipad, who’s using that), or if someone is over his shoulder watching. Once something is out there, it’s VERY difficult to get it erased for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:49 AM
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You’re exactly right. I’m in my early(ish) twenties and I feel like growing up it was stressed through media or my peers that you MUST put out or you’ll never land a man. That’s complete BS, and it sucks that girls have to grow up hearing it. My boyfriend was honestly very surprised (and we’ve talked about the first date since then) about how forward I was, and how he never expected anything like that to happen for at LEAST the first few dates. Unfortunately any sort of casual sex/hook ups I’ve …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:43 AM
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Replying to say that I’m in almost the exact situation. Yes, it happened on the first date, but I’m extremely lucky because he turned out to be a HVM, and we’ve been together nearly 2 years. I was not aware of FDS at that time, and was in a horrible mental state in which I desperately craved affection or love in any source. Looking back, it was pathetic and honestly dangerous, and not something I would ever do in the future (if this relationship doesn’t end up working out). I say I’m lucky now, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:06 PM
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Ugh, my ex’s PA made me spiral back into old habits I hadn’t had since high school. He was into very specific “feeder/feedee” content, and after awhile I realized he was trying to make ME into one of those people. I gained over 30 lbs during that relationship because he was always encouraging me to eat more and more, and I barely made the connection until the time right before I broke up with him. After we broke up, I relapsed HARD. I felt absolutely disgusting and used in my body, and felt degr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:25 PM
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I... i think one of those guys is deadass a guy I used to work with. Who invited underage girls to drink beer and liquor in his basement with him... yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:33 PM
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